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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Frend Show. Hey Caitlyn, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you good morning?

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Speaker 2: I'm okay, how.

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Speaker 1: Are you doing great? Trying to help you out though

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Speaker 1: with this guy Derek. So this is someone you met

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Speaker 1: in a bar a few weeks ago and then what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we hung out like the whole night when

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Speaker 2: we met in the bar. We even ended up back

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Speaker 2: at his place, and I don't know, like I really

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Speaker 2: don't know what happened. Like I thought we would have

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Speaker 2: been like dating by now, planning our wedding and our

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Speaker 2: future kids.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh wow, So it was like that, like you

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Speaker 1: you went on this date and you could envision the future.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a great night. We spent the whole

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Speaker 2: entire night together.

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Speaker 1: But you didn't tell him that, did you on the date?

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Speaker 1: Like I envisioned my entire future with you, Like you

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Speaker 1: didn't talk about the kids you're going to have and

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Speaker 1: stuff on the first date. Okay, all right, So you

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Speaker 1: went on this great date and you liked him obviously,

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Speaker 1: and you were hoping to see him again and see

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Speaker 1: where things went. But you haven't heard from him since

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Speaker 1: the date, and I have you reached out to him?

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Speaker 1: Have you texted or called him at all?

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Speaker 2: I tried to, but like he's not responding, and I

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Speaker 2: just feel like it's really odd, like I don't know

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Speaker 2: what happened.

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Speaker 1: Well, as Tolina would say on waiting by the phone,

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Speaker 1: it's the tail so old as time, because you know,

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Speaker 1: you go out with somebody. Dating is tough. Everyone who's

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Speaker 1: dating right now knows that. And then you finally connect

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Speaker 1: with somebody and you're thinking, this is great, finally we finally,

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Speaker 1: you know, all my hard work is paid off, and

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Speaker 1: all the bad dates I've been on, and then and

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Speaker 1: then you go out with someone you like and they

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Speaker 1: don't call you back. So let's let's call this guy Derek.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time. We'll

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Speaker 1: ask some questions and hopefully we can figure out what's

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Speaker 1: going on and set you guys up on another date

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Speaker 1: that we pay for. Sound good, sounds great? Hey? Cayln Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And by the way, she spells a K A y

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Speaker 1: l y n n, which is one of the many

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Speaker 1: spellings of Caylin that I've seen over the past what

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Speaker 1: seven eight years. Caylen yes. In addition to Caitlin and

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Speaker 1: Courtney and Steve and Bob and everything else. They call you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they call me Bob. I was going to ask,

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Speaker 3: so thank you for asking. How she's spelled to Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: she's Caitlin. Is a k A E l I N

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Speaker 3: for ree, but then k y l y n it anyway.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to specify because you don't see that

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Speaker 3: name every day. But let's call this guy Derek. You

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Speaker 3: met at a bar, you went out, you had a

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Speaker 3: great time. You were hoping to see him again. Except

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Speaker 3: he's ghosted you, it appears, and you want to know why, right.

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Speaker 1: Kaitln, Yes, I need to know why. All right, let's

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Speaker 1: call him now? Good luck? Hello, Hi is this Derek?

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Speaker 1: Hey Derek, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I

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Speaker 1: do have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 1: radio right now, and I would need your permission to

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Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can we chat for just a

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Speaker 1: second on the show? Would you mind? It's just like

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Speaker 1: a gotcha thing or something. I don't I wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: that necessarily doesn't have to be I got youa thing,

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Speaker 1: but I'm gonna take that as a yes. So we're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of someone named Kaylin, who I guess

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Speaker 1: you met recently. He went on a date. Do you

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Speaker 1: remember her? Yeah? Yeah, yeah. And by the way, you

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Speaker 1: you can hang up any time. If you're uncomfortable, you

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Speaker 1: can hang up any time. But so she called us

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Speaker 1: and told us about you. I had a lot of

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Speaker 1: nice things to say about you and the date. It

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Speaker 1: was really optimistic about the future. Except for whatever reason,

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Speaker 1: she says, you're not calling her back, So what's up

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Speaker 1: with that? Yeah, she's just gross. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: It was just a really bad night and I don't

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Speaker 4: know what she said, but she Lets just say she

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Speaker 4: got really drunk, really sloppy, and she threw up all

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Speaker 4: just it was a mess, and.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I had to pay for it.

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Speaker 4: She didn't even she didn't even offer to pay for it.

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Speaker 1: She was too drunk for that. I sent her home

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Speaker 4: I was just like, yeah, yeah, I'll talk to you later,

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Speaker 4: but I wasn't planning to ever hear talk or see

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Speaker 4: her again. So she needs to learn how to use

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Speaker 1: The floor fum oh oh, Kaylen, Kaylen, Derek, there's the

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Speaker 1: got chi part. Sorry about that. I just get into

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Speaker 1: these stories. I forget. I have two things. First of all, Derek,

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Speaker 1: about twenty minutes ago, you said, let's just say, and

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Speaker 1: then you told the whole story. Normally people would let's

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Speaker 1: just let's just say, they abbreviate, but I'm glad you

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Speaker 1: told us everything. And the second thing is I've been there.

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Speaker 1: I've had someone throw up in my home and then

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Speaker 1: feel good and it's really grows and it's really discussing

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Speaker 1: to have to clean up somebody else's we'll call it

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Speaker 1: excrement or you know, like whatever it comes out of

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Speaker 1: their body. It's gross if you know the person in

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Speaker 1: love them. It's especially gross if you don't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was turned off like from that right there.

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Speaker 4: I was just like, I'll never I never want to.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to kiss you. She tried to kiss me,

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Speaker 4: and I'm just like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's smooth. And the whole thing is, it's very hard.

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Speaker 1: It's very hard to klen what happened. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: obviously you got too drunk, but like, why didn't How

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Speaker 1: were you not able to make it to the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: Why are we trying to kiss him afterwards? Like what

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Speaker 2: You know, like it happened. It wasn't on purpose, like

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Speaker 2: nobody wants to get sick, and like I helped clean

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Speaker 2: it up.

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Speaker 1: You did not knew.

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Speaker 4: You thought you did, but you're too drunk to remember.

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Speaker 4: I sent you home. You tried to clean it up

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Speaker 4: by taking out a tissue in your pursing. Dang, let

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Speaker 4: me clean this up.

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Speaker 1: See, this is what you needed to do. What you

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Speaker 1: needed to do is attempt to clean it up as

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Speaker 1: best you can all by yourself. And that well, what

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Speaker 1: you needed to do is get to the bathroom. But

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Speaker 1: that's okay, so you didn't, So then you got to

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Speaker 1: clean it up. And that what you got to do

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Speaker 1: is the next day you got to send somebody over

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Speaker 1: there to clean it you know what I mean, Like

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Speaker 1: you got to if you really like this guy, and

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Speaker 1: that happens, and you know, unfortunate things happen. You got

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Speaker 1: it sounds like you just kind of did it and

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Speaker 1: then eh, and then last and then one wonder why

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Speaker 1: he and then tried to kiss him, and then wondered

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Speaker 1: why he didn't call you, like you got to fix it.

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Speaker 2: I remember the tissue. I remember being on my hands

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Speaker 2: and knees like I would clean it up.

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Speaker 1: I think something. You think I had somebody to throw

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Speaker 1: up in my bed once? That was a gross nice

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Speaker 1: It's fairness to that woman. She cleaned everything like she

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Speaker 1: she said, get out of the bed, and then she

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Speaker 1: like took all the sheets and she'd like found my

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Speaker 1: dryer and wash and dryer and she cleaned it. And

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Speaker 1: then she offered to have somebody come over, and then

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Speaker 1: she sent me a bunch of cleaning supplies and a

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Speaker 1: cookie basket. Did you ever see her again? Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but not in that capacity, so yeah no. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: I mean what I'm saying is I felt bad for

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Speaker 1: her the way that I would feel bad for Kaylin

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Speaker 1: and obviously for Derek. But like she went over the

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Speaker 1: top to make it right, like in a very cute

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Speaker 1: way because she felt bad. And that's the part that

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Speaker 1: I think you needed to do here, Kaylen, if you

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Speaker 1: really like this guy.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like I tried my best.

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Speaker 1: For what I had at the moment, Like next day, now, okay,

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Speaker 1: there you go, So how about that? How about that

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Speaker 1: next date? No drinks? Would you give her another chance?

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Speaker 1: Because it sounded like everything was going well, I mean

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Speaker 1: she did wind up back at your place in fairness, no,

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Speaker 1: of course not.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Galen, but there's a no go.

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Speaker 1: You know there's a no go.

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Speaker 2: Okay, gag, I tried.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you did. I don't think you tried

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Speaker 1: hard enough for a guy that you really really wanted

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Speaker 1: to see again. But anyway, and now he's left with

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Speaker 1: this bad taste in his mouth, no pun intended, and

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Speaker 1: he's not going to forget it. So I feel bad

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Speaker 1: for you, but it's not going to work out. Guys,

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Speaker 1: Thank you both for your time. Best of luck out there.

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Speaker 2: Thanks guys,