1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Chrisa did that all the time with me, just listen, 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: give the support. Half the time, she probably didn't even 3 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: know the right thing to say, but just the fact 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: she listened and always encouraged me was the perfect thing 5 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: to say. Calm Down with Erin and Crissa is a 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio. Welcome to the Pregame, Everybody. I just 7 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: I was so broke, and we'll see if we're gonna 8 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: use this. 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: I don't know. I was drinking to use this. 10 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: So you're gonna Vita powa And now came deep like 11 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: that was it? My dad actually gave me, much to 12 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: my mother's disdain. 13 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: My mom. 14 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: My dad would give me a score between one and 15 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: ten about how good my burp was and still to 16 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: this day if I do it like from the other room, 17 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: my mom. 18 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 2: But I don't know if we're gonna keep No, we 19 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 2: can't keep that. Let me see where you go with this. 20 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 2: What do you mean you didn't? 21 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: It was like, oh my god, Okay, Debbie twelve favorite 22 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: mindless show to relax you mine is Real Housewife Friends. 23 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: Friends is a favorite. I had it on late last night. 24 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 2: Oh I always tell you something. 25 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 1: Why I started watching Friends? I used to watch like 26 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: episode here and there. I was on the plane where 27 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: was I was coming back from New York and I'm 28 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: just over the movies that are currently on rotation. So 29 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to Aaron Love Friends. I 30 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: came home and then continue to watch seasons. 31 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 2: It is ver funny. 32 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: That's a very that's a nice compliment. I'll take that. 33 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: It is so funny. I didn't even realize how good 34 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: it is, but that that is my new bitch. 35 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 2: I gotta tell you. Step go like this. 36 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: He's like, what are we watching tonight? Murder? 37 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 2: Date Great Crime? 38 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: Because every night I like watching Dateline? You do. I 39 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: love Dateline because I feel like by watching all of 40 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: these horrible things that have happened out there, then I 41 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: can like arm myself with ways to not have them 42 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: happened to me. Where it's like, Okay, that's not mindless, 43 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 1: it is it is. I'm very relaxed when I watch 44 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: it because I'm thinking to myself, Okay, just be grateful, 45 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: this isn't your life, and you can avoid the pitfalls 46 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: of some of these terrible things that have happened by 47 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:09,239 Speaker 1: just focusing on your surroundings and not do not walk 48 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: in the street by yourself at four am there igplore that. Okay, 49 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: ask from fifteen how to best support a friend going 50 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: through IVF infertility struggles? 51 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 2: You had to Andrews, No, you had to do that. 52 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: You have the best way to support you, Oh my god. 53 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: I just think that reassuring you that everything you're doing 54 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: is a step closer, and that even if it feels 55 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: like you have all of these setbacks, your tenacity about it, 56 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: your determination, your you wouldn't take no for an answer, 57 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: and you were relentless about making sure no matter how 58 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: bad it hurt. In all you know, all the different 59 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 1: times that you had disappointment happened, You're like, we're just 60 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: going to do it again. 61 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: We're going to do it again. 62 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: And I think the best way to support that is 63 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: just to highlight your friends or family member's dedication to it. 64 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: And I think that you cannot be overstated how amazing 65 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: it is to now see Math here because he would 66 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: have never been here if it wasn't for the kind 67 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: of person that you are that refused to take no 68 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: for an answer. So I would say, just continue to 69 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: support the person's determination, Just listen to your friend. Chursa 70 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: did that all the time with me and just listen, 71 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: give the support. 72 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: She's dead on. 73 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: That's the best way to support a person going through 74 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: those struggles. It's not easy, and honestly, half the time 75 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: she probably didn't even know the right thing to say, 76 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: but just the fact she listened and always encouraged me 77 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: was the perfect thing to say. Lowesome' anonymous. We love 78 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: being If I just had a close friend nonchalantly mentioned 79 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: she's not coming to my wedding during a group convo 80 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: and she had never previously said anything about it before 81 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: literally broke my heart. Do I need to calm down 82 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: and talk it out or should I stop putting effort 83 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: into this friendship? No, I would talk about it, don't 84 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: ignore it. Especially you need to tell a person that 85 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: bothers you that they didn't tell you they weren't coming. 86 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: Chain. 87 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: I think that's bizarre to put that in a text 88 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: chain like right, Yeah, I. 89 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 2: Think group convo. I don't know if it was like a. 90 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: Whatever, whatever the situation was, should have been like a 91 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: one on one situation. I had something happened where I 92 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 1: was really excited to go to I'll say it Casey 93 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: McDonald now Hosmer's wedding. She and I couldn't go at 94 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: the last minute because I was going through something horrible, 95 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: and she I just got to say this about her. 96 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: This wedding was. I mean, I can only imagine how 97 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: much the place setting was that I was, you know, 98 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: not able to have and for her in the last second. 99 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it was like two days before the wedding 100 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: and I had to cancel and I felt terrible. 101 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: She was so so kind about it. 102 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: She was like, I totally understand, it's okay, don't worry 103 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: about it. 104 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 2: I felt awful. 105 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: I just made this all about me. 106 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: A shocker. 107 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: But what I would say is, if this friend's just 108 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: nonchalantly mentioning it in a convo, I think I might 109 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: want to readdress and like, Casey and I were perfelly friends, 110 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: but like we weren't really good friends. And I felt 111 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: awful not going to her wedding and having to tell 112 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: her last second. So if this friend is a close friend, 113 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: as you've demonstrated here in your description, I'm going to 114 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: start to question how close of a friend that is. 115 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,119 Speaker 2: And it hurt, It broke your heart. That's sad. 116 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: So I don't think you should calm down. I think 117 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: that if it really bothers. You you should text her 118 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: on the side and be like hey, in an effort 119 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: to not, you know, stifle my emotions here, Like I 120 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 1: want to say that that really hurt my feelings that 121 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 1: you mentioned it so passively in a group text, and 122 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: you mean a lot to me, And it would have 123 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: meant a lot that you were going to be at 124 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: the wedding. I understand if you can't go for X, 125 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: Y or Z reasons, but I would have loved to 126 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: get that text from you in a separate message. At 127 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: this point in my life, I'm just all about, like 128 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: put it out. Don't like then suppress your feelings towards her, 129 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: because you're just as bad as she is. I'd be like, 130 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: go right to it. 131 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 2: I agree, I agree, I agree. You got this one. 132 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 2: I got this one? 133 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 1: Uh B twelve B thirty one. Which Olympic sport would 134 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: you challenge? The other two? 135 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 2: Which Olympic sport would you challenge the other two? 136 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what you mean, Like, would I challenge 137 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: you to like do a like pull vault or oh okay, 138 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: like got it. 139 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,799 Speaker 2: Or routine? I would. 140 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: I just have the utmost respect for gymnasts, Like when 141 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: I see those floor routines or that vault or that 142 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: balance beam. I try to like walk in a straight 143 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: line to see like if I can even like walk 144 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: in a straight line. No, I like, oh my god, 145 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: no diving or the synchronized crumming diving. Oh my, I 146 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: said the same thing, like you have to, I mean god. 147 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: I worked with Greg Luganis on a show called Splash 148 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: and like to this day, like when he hit his 149 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: head on that platform, like I. 150 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 2: Thought the same name. How do you practice that? And 151 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 2: you get so close to. 152 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 1: The diving board and how they don't hurt themselves? 153 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 2: It is insane to me? 154 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: So tight and then how about all of a sudden 155 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: we become like so critical. I'm like that Splash is 156 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: too big like this, like what, like who do you 157 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: think you are? It has to be literally like a 158 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: little drop in the pool for it to be perfect. 159 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: I don't know the discipline and synchronized swimming to have 160 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: to be upside down in the ab water polo another 161 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: one and wading. You were in the pool today with 162 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: mac It's hard to tread water. 163 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 2: It was chilli. 164 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: Okay, Anonymous? How difficult was it for Choris said to 165 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: get her tattoo wedding ring removed almost twenty years, married, 166 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: three children and considering separating. First of all, that's so sad. 167 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,119 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I am sorry. 168 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: I would say, I don't know who you are because 169 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: you're anonymous, but I'd love to help you through a 170 00:07:53,880 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: difficult time. It was eleven removals for two I had 171 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: two black like lines here and there was eleven removals. 172 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: It was very difficult, which is why I have not 173 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: removed some of my other ridiculous tattoos that had to 174 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: do with men, because they're harder. I just covered up 175 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: with them up with something else. So but I would say, 176 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: especially on the wedding ring, if you do end up splitting, 177 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: which if you do, I hope it's for the right 178 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 1: reasons and something that will make you invitable, inevitably happy. 179 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's it's a tough one to get rid of. 180 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: But no one needs to see that if you don't 181 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: want to see it anymore. Do you do a numbing 182 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: cream at all when you try to get it removed, 183 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: You know, when you laser like, you laser like your 184 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: legs or whatever. Yeah, it's a numbing cream. But I 185 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 1: was shocked how long it takes to. 186 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 2: Remove these bad boys. 187 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: But see, you. 188 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 2: Never want to be. 189 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: Chmzy Bockers. It's so sad. Our adult friendship so hard. 190 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: I never feel like I have the core group of friends. Okay, 191 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to speak about Kathy Thompson here because Kathy 192 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: Thompson has said this before. 193 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: My mother who. 194 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: Had a child at eighteen, my sister, and she never 195 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: went to college, and she never got any of those 196 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: like experiences in life where you maybe meet some of 197 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: your really great core group of girlfriends, because she jumped 198 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: right into doing daycare and taking care of us, and 199 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: like you know, she has said that she misses having 200 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: like a lot of girlfriends, but then at the same 201 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: time she's grateful for the very like close ones that 202 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: she does have. So I would say this, and I 203 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: really feel like this as I've gotten older, I used 204 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: to have a lot more friends, but now I have 205 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: really good friends, and I there's some that are gonna 206 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: get cut off the roster here soon because I just 207 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: I'm all about trimming it down. Less is more, because 208 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: I want to give the best of myself to the 209 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: friends that I have in my life. And I don't 210 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: want to be I don't want to be fake I 211 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: don't want to be phony, and I don't want to 212 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: just give you a little bit of me. 213 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: I want to give you all of me. 214 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 1: And if I can't do that, then it's okay to 215 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: have had different chapters with different friends. So I'm sad 216 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 1: that you feel that way, but I would say, don't 217 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: think of it as like you've got to have so 218 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: many friends. 219 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: Just have like a couple good ones. 220 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: And if you're having a hard time meeting those people, 221 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 1: I would say, put yourself in situations where go get involved. 222 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: Like I went to a yoga class this morning, where 223 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 1: it's like, if there's a couple people you keep seeing 224 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: in that nine thirty sculpt class, like maybe you can 225 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: create like a community of like, oh, Cindy, are you 226 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: showing up for class tomorrow? Like just maybe sort of 227 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: like minded people that are doing things that you also 228 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: like to do, and maybe there's some natural friendships that 229 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 1: can spawn from those things. I love that I also 230 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 1: you and I have discussed this a lot recently. If 231 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 1: it's too hard, it's not worth it. I don't have 232 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: a lot of time, but for the people that I 233 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: want to make time for and the people that it's 234 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: easy to jump right back in if I haven't talked 235 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: to you in forever. 236 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 2: By the way, I just haven't. 237 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: It is like three days, but that feels like a 238 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: long time. 239 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I read it. Yeah, we've had an event after event. 240 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: You've been busy, you have a lot going on, but 241 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: it's always so easy to pick back up. And I 242 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: just find those are the people you want to have 243 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 1: in your life instead of like the twenty random friends 244 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: that what are you wearing? 245 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: What are you know? I just want to I'm good 246 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 2: And with that, you don't have a bart for me. 247 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: I could have such a good one if you give 248 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: me more time. Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is 249 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: a production of iHeartRadio. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit 250 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio apps, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.