WEBVTT - Body Confessions! Jada Tells All At The Table

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, fam I'm Jada Pinkett Smith and this is the

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<v Speaker 1>on Apple podcasts. So what was it the Dead said

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<v Speaker 1>to you? He said, dudes look at the mind of

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<v Speaker 1>a skinny girl before they look at their body. Today

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<v Speaker 1>we are talking about body confessions. Sometimes you do hit

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<v Speaker 1>that Instagram photo and you're like, damn, she got such

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful body. Then you think to yourself, what if

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<v Speaker 1>I had that body? And then you're like, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't a lot of people have been asking about why

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<v Speaker 1>I've been wearing turbans. Well, I haven't talked about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not easy to talk about but I am going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about it. I just talk to something, your

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<v Speaker 1>broashop your that's fine, whatever you need to do, it's fine, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you might? Okay again, let's do this and clear's up.

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<v Speaker 1>So we are here at the Red Table, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought we could talk about the things about ourselves that

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<v Speaker 1>we might not like that we have to accept. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care how beautiful of a woman. We all have

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that we something like we're unhappy exactly. For older women,

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<v Speaker 1>youth is everything. So everything that you see on television,

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<v Speaker 1>everything that you see everywhere, is everything about staying young,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it really becomes challenging as you become older

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<v Speaker 1>to try to not get obsessed with we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>stay because sometimes I look at myself in the mirror

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't like I say, the worst part of

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<v Speaker 1>my body for me are my legs, you know, my thighs.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm thin and people think it's ridiculous, but I

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<v Speaker 1>have mad cellulite and I hate it. So I hate

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<v Speaker 1>my legs and all that stuff about well muscle will

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<v Speaker 1>take it over. That's a bunch of crap. And I

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<v Speaker 1>love that you've gain weight. I love so that, Rodney,

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<v Speaker 1>But I put on some extra pounds. But in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind I feel fat. I know that that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm not fat, but I certainly am bigger

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<v Speaker 1>than I used to be. But that's not a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>But it feels like myself a certain way. The rest

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<v Speaker 1>of me looks pretty good. Look, let me tell you

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<v Speaker 1>give me putting me to shame on the beach, So

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<v Speaker 1>give me that. Yeah, straight up, honestly, what's one part

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<v Speaker 1>of your that you disliked the most. Well, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you what. I've been getting a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>questions about why I've been wearing this turk bent. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been having issues with hair loss. And I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell you it was terrifying when it when it first started.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's in the shower one day and then

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<v Speaker 1>just handfuls of hair just in my hands and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, oh my god, am I going bald.

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<v Speaker 1>It was one of those times in my life where

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<v Speaker 1>I was literally shaking with fear. That's a really scary experience. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I cut my hair and why I continue

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<v Speaker 1>to cut, just to keep it. Like I just had

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<v Speaker 1>like another like okay, I think we're gonna do another

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<v Speaker 1>layer of cutting, you know, And my hair has been

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<v Speaker 1>a big part of me. Taking care of my hair

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<v Speaker 1>has been a beautiful ritual, you know, and having the

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<v Speaker 1>choice to have hair or not, and then one day

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, oh my god, I might not have

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<v Speaker 1>that children anymore because you had a lot of a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of hair, really thick, beautiful hair, to the point

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<v Speaker 1>that people always thought I had weaves. They're like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not her hair. I'm like, yes, it is right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I've gotten every kind of test there is to have. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So they don't really they don't know why. People said stress.

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<v Speaker 1>People say, oh you got you have you know you

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<v Speaker 1>do have alopecia. Even in my terror and even in

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<v Speaker 1>my fear and in the moment of just going oh

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<v Speaker 1>my God, like why are you so terrified that you

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<v Speaker 1>might lose your hair? Right? I really had to put

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<v Speaker 1>it on a spiritual perspective of like, the Higher Power

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<v Speaker 1>takes so much from people. People are out here who

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<v Speaker 1>have cancer, people who have sick children. I watch the

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<v Speaker 1>Higher Power take things every day, and by golly, if

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<v Speaker 1>the Higher Power wants to take your hair, that's it. God,

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<v Speaker 1>you want my hair. When I looked at it from

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<v Speaker 1>that perspective, it it really didn't settle me. Yeah, Like

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<v Speaker 1>because if when I had to think about, well, what

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<v Speaker 1>else would you what else would you lose? What else

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<v Speaker 1>would you put on the table for God to take

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<v Speaker 1>take the hair? You know, take it. When my hair

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<v Speaker 1>is wrapped, I feel like a queen. And I love

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<v Speaker 1>having a wrapped head. You can teach me a thing

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<v Speaker 1>or two, because I don't know how to rap determine

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<v Speaker 1>at all, this is one of my favorites. Then not

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<v Speaker 1>it looks so tight. Did you get a headache? You

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<v Speaker 1>have to be really careful not to do it too tight. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that right front, and I always look so

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<v Speaker 1>cheek to me. I really love it. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>can do this one. Yeah, this is the one I

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<v Speaker 1>usually know how to do. I just like sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>just have it hang so I can pretend like I

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<v Speaker 1>have hair, my pretend hair that looks amazing with locks.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh yeah, now that's cute because it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a little butt. Yeah, so there you go. That's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>give a little these three different ways. If you have

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<v Speaker 1>the bad hair, right, I love it too. Coming up?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you always get on me from my underarm hair?

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<v Speaker 1>Gammy always like want me to trim it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>We could braid it. No, it's getting a lot. It's

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<v Speaker 1>getting a lot. Hey, Jen, can we get glammed down

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<v Speaker 1>for gam last looks? Come in your way. We're rolling,

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<v Speaker 1>we're fitting. I in my own life struggled with curve

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<v Speaker 1>your women and curve your girls have always gotten more

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<v Speaker 1>attention from the boys that I've liked and have ended

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<v Speaker 1>up dating the boys that I've liked and that constantly

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<v Speaker 1>happening in me, you know, being their friend, but not

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<v Speaker 1>really like seeing them look at me in a certain way.

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<v Speaker 1>They always see you as like the little sister exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>They did the same to me, And then you start

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<v Speaker 1>to wonder like, dang, like am I just not desirable?

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<v Speaker 1>Like is my body just like not what society like?

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<v Speaker 1>So it does just get really hard for for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of girls. Yeah, I said will all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>She's beautiful, like all the time. But you always get

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<v Speaker 1>on me from my under arm hair. Yeah, yah, me

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<v Speaker 1>always like what me to trim it for you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that you can trim me because at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, No, it's getting too much. We could braid it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's getting a lot. It's getting a lot. Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting a lot. When you put pictures and your stuff

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<v Speaker 1>on your Instagram with your arm hair, how do people feel?

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<v Speaker 1>I used to look through my comments and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, everyone's saying I'm a lesbian, And now

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<v Speaker 1>you've learned to just ignore that. So why did you

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<v Speaker 1>make the decision and not to shave? Yeah? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really make the decision not to shave. I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of didn't shave. It takes too much time.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to get in the shower and then

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<v Speaker 1>get out of the shower. I get it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>so the upkeep is just see you gave me over here,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like squinted up my face and not understanding

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<v Speaker 1>at all any of this. I'm gonna be like my

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<v Speaker 1>ancestors and just do what I need to do. And

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<v Speaker 1>my whole thing is she had the choice. It's her body.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. But you know, there's some people that are

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<v Speaker 1>going to be accepting open and some people that are honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>and at the end of the day, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be comfortable in your own skin. That's why I always

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<v Speaker 1>tell people. I'm like, we all experience self hatred to

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<v Speaker 1>a certain degree. And I told Willow I've had every

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<v Speaker 1>shape of body there is to have, from being super

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<v Speaker 1>muscular to being thin but curby thin and straight up

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<v Speaker 1>and down, like I've done it all, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>she asked me, she was like, mom, will you work

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<v Speaker 1>me out? And you're an amazing trainer, Thank you, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>And she was getting her little booty. Yeah, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still doing it. I remember you having a conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>Dad that I think really stuck with you in regards

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<v Speaker 1>to your body. What did what did he spoke was

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<v Speaker 1>that conversation? What did he say to you? He was

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that he was so happy that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't curvy because guys look at girls, guys objectify

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<v Speaker 1>women so much. So he was glad that you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have a curverybody because he was like, guys will look

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<v Speaker 1>at your brain more if you're not curvyer. And that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just solidified all of my experiences. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just so funny that you would be dest because

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many people who would die for that body,

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<v Speaker 1>for that body. But you know, I had the same struggle.

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<v Speaker 1>We yeah, because weird little people. Little people. And when

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<v Speaker 1>we were both of us, when we were really young,

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<v Speaker 1>we were like streaming. Yeah, when I was young with

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<v Speaker 1>this thing about wearing two pairs of socks. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>go through that so your legs legs look Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>was that was the stupid Yeah we did. We were

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<v Speaker 1>two pairs of those thick socks. Well, I used to

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<v Speaker 1>hate wearing shorts. I used to think my legs were

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<v Speaker 1>so skinny. I remember you going, Jayda, you have beautiful legs.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I seem. I hear myself telling will are

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. Will you've got beautiful legs? I hear

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my friends that are curvy, they are telling

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<v Speaker 1>me it's so great that you can just like wear

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<v Speaker 1>some shorts on the tank top and not feel like

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<v Speaker 1>overexposed or feel like people are looking at you differently,

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<v Speaker 1>or feel like people are looking at you in a

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<v Speaker 1>sexual man exactly even more than they usually would. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone wants what they don't have. Yeah, we want what

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have. Absolutely that if that will ever change though,

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't. I don't know if they has always

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<v Speaker 1>been like that. Well, we've got some Facebook questions for

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<v Speaker 1>my Facebook family. Everybody picked a question. No, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no. Why are girls so mean about looks because

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<v Speaker 1>they wish they had what the other person has or something?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, and it's all about envy? Envy? Honestly, whenever

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<v Speaker 1>another girl tells you something about your body or your looks,

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<v Speaker 1>like she's really just talking to herself. I remember a

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<v Speaker 1>girl telling me if you ain't have them light eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't be Wow. Yeah damn. When that young lady

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<v Speaker 1>said that to me, I was like, man, is she right?

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<v Speaker 1>Because people only ever talk about my eyes. Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The next question, sexiest part of a woman's body, but

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<v Speaker 1>the curve between the waist and the hip is Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the sexiest part. God, I think the whole body

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<v Speaker 1>of a woman is just Yes, it's just gorgeous. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if there's like one part. What was your question?

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<v Speaker 1>Gam name three things you love about the way you look?

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<v Speaker 1>Run it. I would start out with my hair, because

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<v Speaker 1>my hair can be long, short, down, they're bald, any color,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've worn it all those different ways. I like

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<v Speaker 1>experimenting with my hair, with my hair color. Can other

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<v Speaker 1>people add things? Yeah? I love your lips. You love

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<v Speaker 1>my lips, Yeah, it's pretty lips. And I also love

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<v Speaker 1>you have a really nice bottom. Yeah. I like your

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<v Speaker 1>shape yeah yeah. And it's interesting they ask what are

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<v Speaker 1>the three things that you can say you love about yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it was much easier for me to name three

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<v Speaker 1>things that I didn't like like about myself. Yeah that's sad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because they came to mind like that. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>really really think to think about what do I love?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? Maybe we should do that

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<v Speaker 1>as a ritual. You wake up in the morning and

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<v Speaker 1>then you give yourself three things that you love about yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You look in the mirror first thing to start your

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<v Speaker 1>day off, and you know, do it for a week

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<v Speaker 1>and see if there's a change, you know, like oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that mold extra pounds, or you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I love this car on your forehead. I remember how

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<v Speaker 1>it happened, and I almost passed out when it did.

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<v Speaker 1>When Willow was about three or four years old, she

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<v Speaker 1>was going off to karate and she ran into the

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom to give will a hug, and then she cracked

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<v Speaker 1>her head and I remember literally fall into my knees.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't and will was like, Jada, She's like I

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<v Speaker 1>need for you. Come on, we gotta take it to

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital. And I remember having Willow in the back

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<v Speaker 1>seat with me and she looked up at me and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, Mommy, can you fix me. I'll never forget that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just like it was terrifying, Like even

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<v Speaker 1>to this day to think about it, it was terrifying.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that scar is h has history history. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and why don't you can't deny there's too much emphasis

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<v Speaker 1>put on looks. But you've grown into that, Willow, because

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<v Speaker 1>when you were little, you didn't feel that way. We

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<v Speaker 1>were constantly. It's particularly about your hair. You really went

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<v Speaker 1>where you're like, welcome, Jaden, Yeah, Jazz, that hair and

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<v Speaker 1>I was always you wanted and you wanted your hair

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<v Speaker 1>to be long, you wanted you you have beautiful hair,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful hair. It just wasn't like my hair. But you

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<v Speaker 1>went through such a time and embracing that. That was.

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<v Speaker 1>That was ru Yeah, that was and it's painful. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you learning to embrace your cute little body? I mean slowly,

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<v Speaker 1>but surely. It's a process. But more so I'm learning

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<v Speaker 1>to just appreciate myself as a whole. That's a process.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a constant process. It's a constant process. Wow, this

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<v Speaker 1>we're out there? You go? Thank you, Hi, thank you? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you sweet everybody. Yes, for seventeen years we have

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<v Speaker 1>not really spoken. You don't even know what you meant

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<v Speaker 1>about we're gonna walk on over here to the Red Table.

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<v Speaker 1>You were walking up and there was that moment of like,

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<v Speaker 1>do I hate hugger? There's some girlfriends who wants to

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<v Speaker 1>squash you to watch you be miserable. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>just apologize and just thinking to myself, Damn, Jada, that

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<v Speaker 1>was petiot. I want to try to do something on mine.

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<v Speaker 1>When we try to do a turpin on me, Nick

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<v Speaker 1>material this is like a soft cotton. You don't want

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<v Speaker 1>any material that's gonna pull your hair exactly. Oh what

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<v Speaker 1>mc light new stuff that's a fast wrap it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wrapped her head. I did. I showed them

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<v Speaker 1>how many different little raps out and it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>takes the pressure off. I'm so happy I showed Willow

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<v Speaker 1>how to wrap her hair. Today she looks so great

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope it makes her feel like a queen

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