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Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin

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Speaker 1: to Grab and I heard radio podcast. Hey everybody, what's up.

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Speaker 1: It's Gavin to Grow. We're here for another episode of

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Speaker 1: How Men Think. That's the first time I've ever said that,

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Speaker 1: actually because usually our co host brooks Like is here,

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Speaker 1: but he is climbing Kilmunjaro. It's not bullshit, that's actually real.

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Speaker 1: Uh So, anyway, it's just the few of us amigos,

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Speaker 1: and uh one of us is wearing aspedoes because from

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Speaker 1: where I'm kidding, all I see is he looks naked

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Speaker 1: so many things for one item. Are you uncomfortable? No,

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Speaker 1: only if you turned towards me, I'll be pretty uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Were you want of the impression we were gonna do

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Speaker 1: the same thing in the pool or no? Well, so, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're up in Taho right now. So I'm thrilled to

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Speaker 1: be here. And you know the reason we're here. One

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Speaker 1: of the reasons I'm here is to we're swimming doing

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Speaker 1: a relay race. I'm here with all my teammates we're

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Speaker 1: excited about. So I'm just mentally preparing for the race,

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Speaker 1: which is tomorrow morning. So I thought, as we did

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Speaker 1: the podcast we should you know, get in race mode.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Well, I don't know goggles because then

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to see you didn't know this,

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Speaker 1: but I am too wearing speedos today. Yes, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: just thinking with you. So anyways, um, so when you

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Speaker 1: swim tomorrow tomorrow, what is your stroke gonna be? I

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Speaker 1: mean swimming stroke? Freestyle? It's all freestyle. Twelve mile relay

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Speaker 1: race with six people that's not very far and the

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Speaker 1: water is freezing. The water is yeah, low sixties right now,

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Speaker 1: so it's gonna gon shrink that it already is sitting

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Speaker 1: here talking to you. It's very good, very good. Can

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Speaker 1: I tell you tomorrow? It's since it's freestyle, I'm much

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Speaker 1: more looking forward to that view than the one I'm

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Speaker 1: looking at right now. I can see the front a

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Speaker 1: little bit. It's making me uncomfortable. Well I can go.

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Speaker 1: I can swim backstroke tomorrow. Oh no, let's jump in here.

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Speaker 1: So so, Dmitri's here, Rick's here, Brooks is not here?

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Speaker 1: Who else is not here? Ryan's not here? Is he

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Speaker 1: in protest mode right now? His contractors? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Very competitive with Brooks? So while Brooks's climbing kilimanjar is

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Speaker 1: on a baby moon with his wife, really, so that's

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Speaker 1: when you know, he and his wife go away before

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Speaker 1: their their baby comes to have like one last hurrah,

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Speaker 1: which which is pretty much reality, right, it's one last hurrah.

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Speaker 1: But he already has a kid, so it's not like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know how many he already knows

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Speaker 1: that with him on the baby moon or no, the baby,

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Speaker 1: the other kids can't stayed home. Okay, the kid and

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Speaker 1: his son, which obviously he's wearing Daryl Darryl's son. So

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Speaker 1: let's let's see who else is here in the house.

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Speaker 1: We have Ashley Perfect and you have your own podcast,

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Speaker 1: don't you now? You you were on The Bachelor. You

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Speaker 1: were on during the Chris soul Stays right and beyond

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Speaker 1: and beyond after that and since then you've branched out

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Speaker 1: and I talk about The Bachelor now on the almost

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Speaker 1: famous podcast commentator The Cupid Commentator, right, and you're here

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Speaker 1: with a bit like ironically, we just happened to be

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Speaker 1: here accidentally. We knew that the women from the Batchlor

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Speaker 1: we totally weren't planning on that. I mean, how nice

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Speaker 1: to bumping you guys in the same house. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: like to use the same I heart radio mix. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I mean what are the chances? So you said you've

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Speaker 1: had some conversations, conversations with these amazing ladies and they

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Speaker 1: had some questions that they wanted to ask us. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think all the Bachelor girls are going to come

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Speaker 1: on and ask you guys a question Before I ask mine,

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Speaker 1: I have to ask two unrelated questions. To wear this

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Speaker 1: do We're going to do yourself to two miles? Right?

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Speaker 1: a twelve mile race with six people. How do you

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Speaker 1: of you know, bathing suit. Why do you choose speedo

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Speaker 1: because it's the most streamline so you can go the fast?

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Speaker 1: Do you really believe in that? Like do you like shave? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Oh I could I could do that. There a satellite

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Speaker 1: Is there a later virgin? Can you guess swim later?

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Speaker 1: would you manscape and shave if it weren't for your

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Speaker 1: swimming habits? Yeah, of course I like it. It feels good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would shave pretty much everything. But really, yeah, so

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Speaker 1: with razor burn. No, you don't want razor burn. So

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Speaker 1: I clip and clip my chest, clip my under arms.

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Speaker 1: The most appealing to women or to yourself? To myself, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: He has like a really great natural pattern of chest hair.

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Speaker 1: He chest hair's nice. Wow. What about the back hair?

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Speaker 1: do all girls love dogs? Because their animals? Okay, do

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Speaker 1: you guys do Dmitri? Gavin? Do you man escape at all? No? Sorry? No,

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Speaker 1: Ever seen it? That's wacky? Isn't that weird? I don't

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Speaker 1: You still get the checks for every much? Do you

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Speaker 1: get the checks? Checks? Soap opera dot? I like getting checks,

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Speaker 1: What I mean? I don't know what it is. It

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Speaker 1: sell them to me, and I said why not? He said,

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Speaker 1: the I Heart radio podcast Help I Second Dating the

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Speaker 1: topic of being in relationships and poop came up. One

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Speaker 1: of the hosts, Vanessa Grimaldi, is very open with pooping. Well,

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Speaker 1: I just don't like poop the word. I don't like

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Speaker 1: then I think of the actual piece of poop plopping

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Speaker 1: because I thought it was so controversial. Yeah, and now

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Speaker 1: we can get more into like the nuances, but let's

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Speaker 1: So I think go in there and close it there,

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Speaker 1: So I think it's a private thing. On the show,

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Speaker 1: talked about his marble bags. He's rocking now. Right now,

421
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Speaker 1: we have some ladies in the house. We are in

422
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Speaker 1: Tahoe and we have some of the girls from The Bachelor.

423
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: Next victim in line is Crystal Nielsen. She was on

424
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Speaker 1: during the season of The Bachelor with a Now, did

425
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: you end up marrying our I did not. That's why

426
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Speaker 1: I so so uh we're gonna learn about what happened

427
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 1: to you. But what happened to Ari? Ari found his

428
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: twin flame? He did. He found a man that looked

429
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: just like a lady who was hot like him? Was

430
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,360
Speaker 1: he hot? He's even hotter? So you didn't find him

431
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 1: to be hot? You know? I thought I kissed him?

432
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: What was it? Like, I'm kidding, I'm I'm I'm just playing.

433
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 1: I'm just playing. I'm just I'm just playing. So we're happy.

434
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,479
Speaker 1: He came on here, We're gonna We're gonna let you

435
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: control the questions right now because we've had all these

436
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: wonderful relation in the bathroom on the show, and we

437
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: want you to step out and ask us what are

438
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: the types of questions that you've always wondered and want

439
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: to ask a couple of idiots like us to say,

440
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: so that we can lie to you at least and

441
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: give you an answer. Okay, Well, I hope you because

442
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 1: it is as honest as possible. And I was gonna

443
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 1: go a little more towards, you know, the members side

444
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 1: of men, but analyst really covered that topic. So I

445
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 1: feel like I can mind the questions that were pending

446
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: but answered, I answered, so I would like to know, Yes,

447
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: what are guys most insecure about? And why? Man? Everything? Oh? Sorry, guys,

448
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 1: I that was my that was my my ego. Sorry,

449
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: as my insides, We're not insecure about anything. Do you

450
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: have any other questions for us? We are totally in

451
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: control of the situation, is what I mean. I'm not

452
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: believing that. Do you mean? Do you do you mean

453
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: specifically one thing that all men share? Now? I mean,

454
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 1: as use three individual men, what are you most insecure

455
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: about well, there was about a split second that when

456
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: I walked out with my speedo, I was a little

457
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: bit insecure about which part is just being shirtless pretty

458
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 1: much pretty much naked beside it takes balls to wear

459
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: that because we can see them, so we know. But

460
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: I mean, going back to the other the previous question is,

461
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 1: you know, I think there are some things that you know,

462
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: men may be insecure about, and maybe Penis could be

463
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: one of them, or maybe their looks or maybe they're

464
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: you know, their job or what you know, so you know,

465
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: Dmitri has an answer over here, you know what. To

466
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: be honest, I'm insecure. I don't want to be seen

467
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: as somebody that's like rude or not not, Like, I

468
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 1: don't want to be seen as a douche bag. Like

469
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: I use sarcasm a lot and I joke around a lot,

470
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: but I don't want anybody to ever think that I'm

471
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: like I'm a douchebag and like I don't care about

472
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: other people's feelings and stuff like that that I think

473
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: would bother me. I think what you're saying is just

474
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: because I hurt them, doesn't mean I don't care about

475
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: your feelings. Yeah, right, for sure, so for all these

476
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: speed old things. I know Rick, I know he's not

477
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: gonna be upset about it. What yeah, whatever, whatever, Scot awkward.

478
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 1: So insecurities about Bonnie and penis, insecurities about perception, perception.

479
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 1: I think we have all of the insecurities any insecurity

480
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: women could have other than her physical parts. We have

481
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: them in the in our field. We have the physical fears,

482
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: we have the emotional fears, we have the the the

483
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: tool insecurities that everybody else has. Do you get fears?

484
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: Can I ask? Do you get fears in regards to relationships?

485
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 1: Because I know for women particularly like I'm thirty one

486
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: and there's that that ticking time bomb of well I'm

487
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: married now and I'll be a geriatric pregnancy in three

488
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: and a half years. So I feel that sense of

489
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: urgency of I need to get moving, but yeah, I

490
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: still feel so young. So do you guys? You don't

491
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 1: have that limitation on how long you can have children. No,

492
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: not physically like that, but I think we do have

493
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: the the feeling of I don't want to be seventy

494
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: five and chasing around a toddler like we want to

495
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: be able to you know me there for the kids,

496
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: and be active in their lives. So in that respect,

497
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: we do have that, But obviously it's not a physical

498
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: thing because we don't actually carry and deliver the babies.

499
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: That's true. But but I think you're right there. There

500
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: is a physical element to it. It's not necessarily the

501
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: delivery of the of the birth right, but it truly is,

502
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: I think, in essence, being able to be fundamentally at

503
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: least at like in the history of being a man,

504
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 1: of being able to be the protector. You know, you

505
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,959
Speaker 1: understand protect the house right. So there's a very fundamental

506
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: male function tribally speaking, And if you read any Joseph Campbell,

507
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: you see he references it over and over and over again.

508
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: There's certain fundamental, fundamental tribal functions that men provide. One

509
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: of them is protections. So of course, if you're very old, dad,

510
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: you won't necessarily feel the ability to perform your function,

511
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: your primal physical male function. That is true. But we're

512
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: in such a day and age where there are men

513
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: who are stay at home dads, and they're taking on

514
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: more of a feminine role and the mom is, you know,

515
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: out there hustling doing her thing like a boss asked

516
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: woman and like, that's definitely having a cultural shift. So

517
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: it is like in an a characteristic but culturally it's

518
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: actually becoming more acceptable for men to be more feminine

519
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: in that nurturing aspect until somebody breaks in the house

520
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: and how feminine? How feminine would you want him to

521
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: be at definitely? Know you know what I mean, no disrespect,

522
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: but there's certain functions that men are expected to perform,

523
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: period or whatever. But men will feel the inadequacy if

524
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: they don't perform that function. So would you're saying you'd

525
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: feel inadequate if you were a provider family? No, No,

526
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: I'd feel inadequate if I felt like I was enabled

527
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 1: unable to protect the family physics definitely. But as far

528
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: as be a provider, would you feel inadequate? Not at

529
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: all at all. So you're looking for sugar Mama's No not.

530
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: Hopefully this podcast is not successful and then yeah, not

531
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: not sugar Mama is. Actually I think a lot of

532
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: men want a total alpha female. So I think a

533
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: lot of them are looking for a woman who can

534
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,959
Speaker 1: who can take care of a lot of things on

535
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 1: her own that are outside of the house. I think

536
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: that's healthy, So I don't think it's it's men feeling

537
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: like they can't be at the house if the woman

538
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: say a higher earner. Right, So let's say you have

539
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: a job and I have a job, but you're making

540
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: twice the money. I'm not going to say, you know what, honey,

541
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: stay at the house with the kids. I would say, financially,

542
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 1: speaking personally, for me, I would say, it's it's just

543
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: a smarter business move and as a and as a family,

544
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: as a couple for me to stay home at that

545
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: point because you're making you're making a better living, would

546
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: primal instincts to be a provider. Though, interfere with that

547
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: logic because I know for a lot of us there's

548
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: a sense of ego and these expectations and I mean

549
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: appearents of how men should be. No, like, I have

550
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: a career and I and I work on my own,

551
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: but my wife went to business school and she she's

552
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: the CEO. She runs businesses as well, And that doesn't

553
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: like that's fantastic, It doesn't. I never feel, you know,

554
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: whether I go and I write jokes or I you know,

555
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 1: write scripts or whatever, I never feel like, oh I'm inadequate,

556
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this, or that. We also have four kids.

557
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,719
Speaker 1: So in l A, I think you have to have

558
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: multiple jobs. Um, but no, I don't. I don't ever

559
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, she's she's a brilliant person and

560
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: so I've never felt like inferior because she may have,

561
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: you know, can can be seen as a more intelligent job.

562
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, and I was going to say that I

563
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: feel like those people are those men that allow that

564
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: to get in the way, Those are the douche bags.

565
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: Those are the guys. Those are the guys that are

566
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: have you know, they think they're too cool or they

567
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: need to run this particular way of their life with

568
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: their wife or their partner, and and that's the and

569
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: it's usually the reason. The reason they feel in secure

570
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: about it is because they can't do that. So it's

571
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: that whole take someone else down. Yeah, there's something they're

572
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: being outdone by somebody, and they hate the fact that

573
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: it's a female. So that's a real issue, which is

574
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: crazy when it's here when it's your significant other, because

575
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 1: it's like it's the relationships where you can't feel completely

576
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: happy for your significant other when something happens that's great

577
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: for them, when you feel jealous. That's not a good mixture.

578
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: Of a relationship and the other thing, yeah, sorry interrupted.

579
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: The other thing I was going to say about fear

580
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: in general is, you know, like I, the older we get.

581
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not near my death, but I start

582
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: thinking about death, like and how am I gonna go?

583
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: And and am I gonna have a heart attack tomorrow?

584
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: Swimming you know in the lake razy is jumping in

585
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: the coldest deepest If you do, can we bury you

586
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: in your speedo? Actually? If you die, can I have

587
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: your stuff? You get? Have my speed up? Hey, I

588
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: have a question. It's pretty small. Do you think it

589
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: would still shrinking in the dry if I toted? Uh? No,

590
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: I mean I was just gonna say, the older we get,

591
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: like I you know, I do you know, it does

592
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: creep into my mind about death and like how am

593
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: I going to die? And you know, my kids and

594
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: you know, how is that going to react? And you know,

595
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: how are they going to react and how are they

596
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: gonna feel? And just I start I think it's mainly

597
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: because my dad's getting older and that's starting to creep

598
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 1: in I think his mind, and it's also creeping into

599
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: my mind, um and watching him go through that, and

600
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: so it's a very interesting fear to have um, and

601
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 1: you know, being thirty one, you probably don't think about

602
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: that at all. You're like, let's go, let's go hop

603
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: on a plane, let's go there, let's get in the thing.

604
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 1: And for me, I'm like, oh, I'm going to Hong

605
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 1: Kong on aift flight, Like I wonder what's going to happen. No,

606
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: I definitely do. My cousin when he was twenty one,

607
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: died of an enlarged heart, had a heart attack, and

608
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 1: I went and had uh an X ray genn and

609
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: found that I also have an enlarged like in the

610
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 1: front frontal facement of my heart, so that for a

611
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:21,959
Speaker 1: long time I definitely was afraid that I wouldn't have

612
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: like this longevity of life. So that has been like

613
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: a huge wickup call. So I really truly look at

614
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: every year is such a such an honor to get older.

615
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 1: But I still get photox every now and then. I

616
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: can't tell it's got a little touch up wettle baby.

617
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you so much for having me,

618
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: and thank you, yeah, thank you for thank you for

619
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: giving me such a perspective. And I think it's so

620
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: awesome to see men just really empower women and you know,

621
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 1: not feel you know, confined in these expectations that our

622
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 1: fathers and grandfather is hot because times are shifting, so

623
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: it's important just to be open and support what's best

624
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,720
Speaker 1: for everyone. It's true, and I think it's important that

625
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: that men are able to have a conversation with women

626
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 1: to express our our vulnerabilities as well. You know, for

627
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,439
Speaker 1: a long time we were told to essentially suppress all

628
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: versions of of every weakness we had. You know, no,

629
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 1: I don't need to go to the doctor. No I

630
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: don't have a fever. No I don't need addville. No

631
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: I don't you know what I mean? So, so great question.

632
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on this show. You're great.

633
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. That's okay, I think he did great anyway. Okay,

634
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: so so Crystal Christal was going to leave, but she

635
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 1: had a really fiery question and uh we told her

636
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: not to ask it. So here it is. What is question?

637
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,240
Speaker 1: You know? I just want to say to my husband,

638
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 1: I am so happy and satisfied. But for all my

639
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: sisters out there, yes, asking for a friend. I just

640
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 1: I am curious to know and how can multiple orgasms

641
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: occur from your male partner? Is there a particular a

642
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: roma or smell or like a special pair of socks

643
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: that you wear, because definitely you were a speedo. She

644
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: wears the speedo though. Um boy, so wow, how do

645
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: you get men to multiple times in a row? Okay,

646
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: what's in a row for you? And then how much time?

647
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: Within how much time? I would say, within seconds? M

648
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: do you have a video of that? Asking for a friend? Uh? So?

649
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 1: Oh boy? So are you asking this uh for your

650
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:06,959
Speaker 1: other people? Because you've been so lucky, but you want

651
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: them to be as lucky as exactly. I just want

652
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: to help out, help the sisters out right, So I'm

653
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: curious to know actually the men on this panel want

654
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: to help the sisters out too. I think you're trying

655
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: to figure this out. We all just come together and

656
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: like pull up the white board and together you can

657
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: forget about There's a lot of curious, confused places over here.

658
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: So it seems that no one actually knows. It's like,

659
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: no one knows how women like all cycle together, and

660
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: clearly multiples are threw us with the socks thing. And

661
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: I think that was a kind of jab in the

662
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: face because I think we're trying to figure out and

663
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: you mentioned socks, and I was like, now I'm thinking

664
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: about what Like, I know Gavin, he's he's particularly with

665
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,400
Speaker 1: tup socks when he has I love a tupesock, certainly

666
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 1: a pair of tustack man with the little colored bands

667
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: at the top, the tall ones, you know what I mean.

668
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: And a headband. I use those two so good together combo. Yes,

669
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: for sure, Absolutely eighties basketball players what I go for.

670
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: That's what I do. I rocked the short shorts just

671
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: like about a foot and a half above the knee,

672
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: just below the speeder line. Can multiply? Oh can I are?

673
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 1: You're asking me a personal question. Well, I'm just saying

674
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 1: if it's all inspired, I think when you're with I

675
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: think when you're with the right person, that shouldn't be

676
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: an issue. So uh and so um, I don't know.

677
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: I just think there's a certain there's a chemistry thing

678
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: right with people. I don't know if you call it

679
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: love or you call it whatever you want, but when

680
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: there's a lot there's a severe amount of chemistry, and

681
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: you just I feel like the intimacy thing should be

682
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: at least ideally speaking to people who just can't take

683
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 1: their hands off each other. Right, Um, And I don't

684
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: I don't see it being necessarily an issue, but but

685
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 1: it is for some people. Yeah, yeah, it's not Lucky Socks. Now,

686
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: it's passion. It's passion driven, it's passion. I think it's passion.

687
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: I think it has to be. I think you're absolutely.

688
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: I think it has to be because it's not. There's

689
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: there's not a formula. It's not a Lucky Socks. It's

690
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: not a I'm gonna do this move, I'm do that

691
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 1: move and then this is gonna I think it really

692
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: has to do with what you said, Gavin, the connection

693
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 1: between the two and and while it's happening, it's just

694
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:25,919
Speaker 1: that that build up, you know, between the two of them.

695
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: And so I don't think there's like there's a certain

696
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 1: formula that you can follow that's like, all right, you

697
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,479
Speaker 1: know what I'm because otherwise, why wouldn't it just happen?

698
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: Wh wouldn't we just do it all the time? Hm?

699
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 1: If it was that easy, if it was the Lucky Socks,

700
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:38,839
Speaker 1: it was the I'm gonna do this move where I'm

701
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: gonna line up, then I think it would be. So

702
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 1: I really think it matters. Like Gavin said that the

703
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: chemistry between the two people, is it because is it

704
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: because the people you you have conversations with, they've been

705
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 1: with lovers who that that was sort of something that

706
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: was part of the relationship, and of course they move

707
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: on from that, and then it's the sex just is

708
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: no good or it's just it's good, but it's only

709
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 1: like one time. But I think the um as women,

710
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: it definitely takes us longer to reach, you know, a

711
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: claimactic moment, and I know for men and actually is

712
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 1: much shorter and so the first one and so there's

713
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 1: definitely and I learned about this in college. But like

714
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: the men, it's literally, I think within five minutes a peak,

715
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:27,760
Speaker 1: but women it takes twenty minutes to reach a climactic moment.

716
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: And that's why the issues of like four play is

717
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 1: such so important. So how can we have the men

718
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: meet the women so that they just ride those waves together. Yeah,

719
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 1: I was just curious to know, you know, I got

720
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: to help them as sisters out there. You got a

721
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: comment on this one night. I mean, I was going

722
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 1: to go back to sort of, but I was going

723
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: back to Dmitri was saying, is like, I think it

724
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 1: has to do with the intimacy and the connection that's

725
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: going on at that time, you know. And I think,

726
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: you know, there's a time during that you know, intercourse

727
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: or whatever that you're trying to hold off because of

728
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: that timing. UM, and that's you know, you gotta figure

729
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: out ways to do that. And I think a couple

730
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: a couple of UM. A little while ago, we had UM,

731
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: what was it? We had the intimacy show, UM with

732
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 1: the intimacy expert Lila, and she you know it was

733
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: it was she refused, she got angry when we called

734
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: it fur play. But I think a lot of that

735
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: has to do with the build up to things and

736
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: not rushing to necessarily the penetration and then this and

737
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 1: this and that, And I think a lot of it

738
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: has to do with how you go about it and

739
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: what you do, and that the build up of the

740
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: chemistry that we've been talking about. I think once you

741
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: get you know, you get into that, then I think

742
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: that can that can move the timelines a little bit sooner.

743
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 1: I think once the penetration is there, I think you're

744
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: a lot closer to that five minutes for the guy.

745
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: But if there's some some um. Again, she didn't forgot

746
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: what she wanted us to call it. Besides four play.

747
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:57,919
Speaker 1: But when there's that, then I think core play duty. Yeah,

748
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: I think then you're moving those times in lines a

749
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: little close together, and I think then you have a

750
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: better shot at multiple Thank you very much. I will

751
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 1: let my Is that a good enough answer, though? I

752
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: would there be an answer. I think the answer is this.

753
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: It's like you know you're together the guy. It's the

754
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: guy's turn, and then the guy does core play until

755
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: it's the girl's turn, and then at that point maybe

756
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: they just take like get a little sprint, ser like

757
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,479
Speaker 1: a little drink water, and then they both come back

758
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: and right, I think just that's how it would go.

759
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 1: So during the spritzer is at the commercial break where

760
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: we bring in our sponsors proteinterest, Okay, but I still

761
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: feel like you're a little disappointed. I think there's a

762
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: version of this, I guess because I know that I

763
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: know that like passion is there, but I'm like, I

764
00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: just I thought there would be like because I thought

765
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: there would just be a little more like well, like

766
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: I can't be touched for like ten minutes and then

767
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 1: I have to start thinking sexy thoughts or like when

768
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 1: someone kisses my ear and puts me back in the

769
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: mood or like grubs the back, or like tickles my hair,

770
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: like that puts me back in like in a place.

771
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: And I thought I was curious to see if there

772
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,800
Speaker 1: was an actual like physical thing or an emotional or

773
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: a mental that got you back in the game. Interesting

774
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: because you know what it is. It's just connectedness, like

775
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 1: with your partner, and it's such a beautiful, amazing experience

776
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:35,320
Speaker 1: and we always want more of it. So asking for

777
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: a friend, since you're asking for a friend, a friend

778
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 1: would another friend I know probably who would have said, uh,

779
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 1: just completely stay in the zone and keep going until

780
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: they see how deep you are into the zone that

781
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: they're enticed to be back in there with you. That

782
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 1: would be my gift. Thank you. That's a fantastic ancer

783
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: you taking an invistit about behind the microphone. That was

784
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: a great question, by the way to to Fiery Ones.

785
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Crystal, Crystal Nielsen, thank you for

786
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 1: coming on the show. You were amazing and spicy coming

787
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 1: back with how men Think. All right, Hey, everybody, it's

788
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: Gavin DeGraw missing Brooks like right now. Unfortunately he's away.

789
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: He's on a vacation climbing a mountain. I don't know why.

790
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 1: It sounds like painful foot time. But I'm out here

791
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: right now with how men think, with the boys, with Dmitri,

792
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 1: with Rick, who's going to be swimming tomorrow in Lake Tahoe.

793
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: Here we are surrounded by beautiful women from the Bachelor.

794
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: Got a few of the ladies right here, and they

795
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: have questions for us to be continued. And our next

796
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: victim is Kaylin Miller, recently moved to southern California dating

797
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: somebody right now, but she wants to know how men think.

798
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 1: So what do you got for us? Um? Okay, So

799
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: I want to know why you guys date women that

800
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: look like your mom? What we do? I don't think that.

801
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 1: I didn't realize we did. Let me check. Wait a second,

802
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: let me see a picture of the guy you're dating.

803
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: Experience No, no, no, no no. But many men like

804
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: if you look at marriages, their wives look very similar

805
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: to their mother's look or look, or have personality similar qualities. Well,

806
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: there's a Freudian reason for that. But I but I

807
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: disagree with some of that because I don't think I've

808
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: ever dated woman that looked like my mom. No, I

809
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: mean either, Yeah, I don't think I have either. In fact,

810
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 1: I would know if I had my mom's my mom's

811
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 1: blonde and all I if I can go back, I

812
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: have dated Brunette's the whole entire time. I look more

813
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: like my mom. So if I dated someone looked like

814
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: my mom, it would be like I was dating my

815
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 1: mom and I was my mom. But that happens to

816
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 1: That happens to like sometimes we look like our significant others.

817
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: Is it that? Or do you try and look like

818
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: the guy's mom because you want him to that's feel

819
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: comfortable with you. You want him to walk in with

820
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 1: the same dress on that honey? Are they are those

821
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: your cut off jean shorts? Wait? Have you have you

822
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,839
Speaker 1: had this personal experience where somebody introduced you to their

823
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: mom and you're like, mom, I mean, this didn't come

824
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 1: out of nowhere, So no, I've observed it. It's never

825
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: I don't think it's ever happened to me specifically, but

826
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: I've observed it with many people. Are you sure you

827
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 1: just weren't looking at guys who are standing next to

828
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: their sisters with their mom right there. And and it's

829
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 1: a little bit off topic, but I see people that

830
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: look like their dogs. Dogs look like that, Rick, Do

831
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: I look like you're giving me a bunch of crap

832
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 1: for my speedo, but look like my dog Rick. No,

833
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know yet, give me a little

834
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: more time. Maybe you'll have to see us next to

835
00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: each other. But it's like you look like your significant

836
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 1: other or you look like your significant other's mom, right

837
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: correct or sometimes reverse? So like I'll date someone who

838
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 1: looks like my dad. I never have, but that happens

839
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: with that's more common than the mom thing. Yeah, the

840
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: mom thing. Are you really looking like them? Or are

841
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: you going to Bloomingdale's and getting makeovers next to them

842
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: with them by the same makeup artists and think, oh

843
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: my god, we look so much like That's what it

844
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: is that could be it. I have a feeling that

845
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 1: the women date men that look like their dad's I

846
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 1: think that's more common. That's I'm sure that's got to

847
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 1: be more common. But I'm the only one that I'm

848
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: but date men that look like they're dad. If the

849
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:48,240
Speaker 1: thing is that they marry their father's personality personality wise

850
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: though more so, No, because I gotta be honest this whole.

851
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: Because if it's the body thing, that's great because I

852
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 1: don't have to exercise. Then like, who, I look like

853
00:47:56,360 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 1: you're dead, right, I'm gonna make come on, Billy, you

854
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 1: look like you're am I there yet all I'm doing

855
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 1: this for you. Oh, this is the whole. This is weird.

856
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 1: I think question, but I think it's weird. It's weird.

857
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 1: But you guys have never experienced that, Like you've never

858
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: seen it. The other thing I have not the other thing.

859
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: I've seen not like that, though, Like I have, like

860
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 1: my wife has. I feel like I have fairly small

861
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 1: face structure, you know, like eyes, ears, knows, whatever, and

862
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: she has kind of the same thing. Whereas, like I

863
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: don't see very often where like there's a male or

864
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,360
Speaker 1: a man that has small face features or body or whatever,

865
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: and he's got a wife that's got just like a

866
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 1: huge noggin, you know, just a massive head, you know,

867
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 1: I don't see that. I see them normally going towards

868
00:48:54,280 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: people that have like physical physical things. I don't know.

869
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 1: I think a dog. I think I am turning red.

870
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: He's like, have you ever noticed how vegetables sometimes look

871
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 1: like celebrities. It's, you know, like a carrot when it's

872
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: got the extra spat on it, and it looks like

873
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: the guy's hair, and he's like he loves carrots. I

874
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 1: once had a grilled cheese looked like Elvis. Is this

875
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: is what we're talking about? Do you have any other

876
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 1: questions for us? Is there one that you were afraid

877
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: to ask us? I mean there's like looks scared to me. No,

878
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: I'm kidding. But if you were to ask us a

879
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 1: question that you'd be scared to ask us, what would

880
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,240
Speaker 1: it be? I mean there's like a lot of questions.

881
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 1: Why do you guys take so long in the bathroom? Why?

882
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: Why are your hands always in your pants? Which part

883
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 1: of our pants? She doesn't mean now just because I

884
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: know you guys can't see us. She doesn't mean our

885
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: hands on our pants. Wow. Like I feel like the

886
00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 1: penis talked before. It's like it's a little buddy or

887
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: a big buddy, or you know, it's the other side

888
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: of that. It's like it's warm, like it keeps. It's

889
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: just warm and it's comforting. Have you noticed that sometimes

890
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 1: guys like them they called I think those are called kids.

891
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: So good? So ask us another one? I like that?

892
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: What else? What else? I don't know? Yes, you do,

893
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: you're hiding something. I want to know what you got

894
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: a question in there you don't want to ask in public.

895
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 1: Tell it to me in my ear, them say it

896
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 1: in the microphone. I'm trying to think. I mean, yesterday

897
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 1: I had a male friend of mine tell me that

898
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 1: I looked. He's kind of appalled when I came down

899
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: with makeup on. How do y'all feel about makeup? That's

900
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: a great question because something else a little bit was

901
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: he referring to the fact that maybe you had two

902
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: little or two lasser It was like, just different too much. Well,

903
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: I think it just doesn't like makeup, period. I love

904
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: this question. Okay, can you ask I'm just kidding. No,

905
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: I actually like this because I actually find that I

906
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: tend to like I tend to prefer no makeup or

907
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 1: less makeup on on a woman. Um, just because I well,

908
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: it's kind of like this. See, the lighting in the

909
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 1: bathroom is different than the lighting once you step outside,

910
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,320
Speaker 1: different than the lighting when you step into the restaurant,

911
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: different than the lighting in the car. Wherever it is

912
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: where you're putting the makeup on, you you're you're putting

913
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,439
Speaker 1: the makeup on according to the room you're in, right,

914
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: So if you got a light out in there or

915
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: the lights on one side of the room, Like someone

916
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: will come out, and someone will come out all made up,

917
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: and you'll see like they got more makeup on one

918
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: side than the other side, and like that must look

919
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: really good in that room, but out here it's actually

920
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: doing you a disservice because I personally, I want to

921
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 1: see fundamentally, I want to see what the person really

922
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: looks like, you know, And so I think it's important

923
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: for us to get an honest view of what the

924
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 1: person looks like. For for me, you know, I like it.

925
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: I tend to prefer it with with less. I tend

926
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:25,320
Speaker 1: to for less makeups. Going through your day, it's starting

927
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 1: to drip, it gets sweaty, the clogs get the pores

928
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 1: get clogged, and put more makeup on to cover up

929
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: the stuff that's happening from the makeup. And you know,

930
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: I like a natural I prefer a natural look on

931
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: the skin on the face. You know who, where is

932
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 1: the amount of makeup? My mom? Kidding, But I think

933
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: it's true. I feel like if you're using it to you,

934
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:53,439
Speaker 1: you're using makeup to make yourself look prettier or or

935
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: adding to your prettiness already. If you're using it to

936
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: cover up something that is attractive. So like, it's okay

937
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: to have a pimple, it's okay to have a scar,

938
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: it's okay to have one. So let that part go,

939
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: but makeup on it a little bit. But like if

940
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,479
Speaker 1: you if it's noticeable that you're kicking on the whole

941
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:16,760
Speaker 1: entire whatever the things called the little circular thing where

942
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 1: the rose or what is it called it? Sure, beauty blender,

943
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: how are you talking about? And I don't know whatever

944
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: it is to cover seal, to seal a pimple or

945
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: a scar. I know my makeup. And also what Rick saying,

946
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: I totally understand what he's saying is if you have

947
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: a pimple on the left side of your face, just

948
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: walk sideways that day wherever you're going, everybody gets the

949
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 1: right side of your face, you know, So, which I

950
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: think is smart. And I think the other thing is

951
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: you should bite back to whoever that friend or maybe

952
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 1: that person was and be like, hey, so what's why,

953
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: Like why are you giving me that attitude? Why are

954
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: you why are you back down on me like that?

955
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: That's not cool. I don't think that's cool. He should

956
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 1: make you feel bad, Yeah, like, you know what you're doing.

957
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: I don't think that. I think he was like, you're

958
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: more beautiful without It's that's that's nice. Way. What would

959
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 1: he think of me without it? I think he would

960
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 1: love it. He would never say, bro, way to go

961
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: not make today. You're not vin You're naturally beautiful. I

962
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: feel pretty. He tries hard. I'm doing this. Guys, are

963
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 1: really a lot of prepper working in this today. Big time.

964
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 1: You know what I did today. I even put on

965
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 1: deodorant before I walk into the room. Awesome, thank you

966
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: so much for you were great. You look great with

967
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 1: or without makeup. Thank you you look fabulous. Thanks, thank

968
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: you for coming on another episode of How Men Think.

969
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 1: We're coming right back after this commercial break from our sponsor. Okay,

970
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 1: so we're coming at a commercial break. What's up, guys?

971
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:55,720
Speaker 1: This is How Men Think. I'm your host, Gavin DeGraw

972
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: co hosting with my friends right here. Brooks like isn't

973
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: here today, unfortunately, But we got Rick, we got Dmitri.

974
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 1: We're missing Ryan ye Amy Sugarman in the house making

975
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:12,800
Speaker 1: plays and pulling the plug if she needs to. But anyway,

976
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: we just had we just had one of the girls

977
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,319
Speaker 1: from the Bachelor on here Kayleen Miller, and she asked

978
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,280
Speaker 1: an interesting question about makeup, wearing makeup, not wearing makeup,

979
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 1: and we all had opinions on that. All the guys

980
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:26,719
Speaker 1: here seem to think in general and natural look is appealing.

981
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 1: I have to say, though, I forgot to touch on this.

982
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 1: I have to touch on this and then I'm going

983
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: to introduce our next gift because I saw that look

984
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: at the corner of your eyebrow. I forgot to mention

985
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 1: that we're dealing with two realities now in modern society.

986
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,279
Speaker 1: We're dealing with our absolute reality, real life, and we're

987
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 1: dealing with the reality of the Internet, of our social profile. Okay,

988
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 1: our Instagram accounts are our snapchats or whatever whatever people

989
00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: are using. And it tends to be that people just

990
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: they know how to put their makeup on to look

991
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: better on their social media accounts, and they're going about

992
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 1: their day applying makeup, knowing that they're going to have

993
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 1: pictures taken of them, and so their absolute public life

994
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: is different from their private life in that regard. Perhaps

995
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: throughout the day they wouldn't want to put on a

996
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 1: much makeup, but they know what makes them look best

997
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,879
Speaker 1: in pictures and on videos, and weirdly enough, I think

998
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: some people would rather look better on their social media

999
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: than they would in their every day because it's more

1000
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: people who are going to see exactly right. So that's

1001
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: something that hadn't crossed my mind but before before Kaitlin left.

1002
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:35,839
Speaker 1: So so I think we need to touch on this

1003
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 1: with our next amazing person in the house, who we

1004
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: will potentially give a hard time too, because we like

1005
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: to do that to our guests. Tasha Adams is here now.

1006
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 1: She just finished filming Bachelor in Paradise. How did you

1007
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 1: like that experience? By the way you did because you

1008
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,840
Speaker 1: wanted out of there. I mean maybe they were like

1009
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: tears of joy and tears of like what the hell

1010
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: am I doing here? But yeah, it was your happiest

1011
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 1: moment on the show. Oh you'll just have to wait

1012
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: and see. Oh yeah, was it when you found out

1013
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna be coming? It was found you're going to

1014
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 1: be coming on our show. We're like, oh god, this morning, Yes,

1015
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 1: did you reapply the makeup after you? You know what?

1016
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:31,160
Speaker 1: I went into the bathroom and I checked my makeup. Yes,

1017
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,439
Speaker 1: I was like, did I wear too much? It looks great?

1018
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: Thank you? Thanks, you look wonderful. Thank you as always.

1019
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: Now do you have an important question for the boys today? Well? Yes,

1020
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: since you guys were talking about beauty, I want to

1021
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 1: know what guys think about girls with like filler, botox,

1022
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: slip injections. Do you guys notice? Definitely definitely noticed, We

1023
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: totally noticed. And I actually do you guys want me

1024
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 1: to take the lead on this, because no, you're not allowed. Rick,

1025
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. There is a cue, Darnet, get in

1026
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: there man first kind of like yeah, first guy that like,

1027
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: thanks Dmitri. No, I was just gonna say, I think

1028
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 1: botox from my perspective, I don't mind it. I think

1029
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: it's okay, Like, yeah, it kind of. I mean I

1030
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: look at that as sort of like a man or

1031
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 1: somebody working out, like you're trying to lose weight or

1032
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: you're trying to maintenance. But how about bro talks, bro talks,

1033
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 1: I've never heard of that up just now take my

1034
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: bro off. But I think what really bothers me are

1035
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: the lip injections where you look like Daffy Duck and

1036
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 1: it's like totally obvious, totally obvious, and it's like it's

1037
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: just to me, it's kind of goes it's not natural looking,

1038
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: um like like a makeup or whatever, and so it's

1039
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 1: just to me it's kind of a turn off. And

1040
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 1: I don't understand why women want that. Look are they

1041
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: trying that? Are they there they trying to get something

1042
00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:05,200
Speaker 1: else out of that large lips or a sign of fertility? What? Okay,

1043
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:07,919
Speaker 1: go ahead? No, Well, I think girls just I think

1044
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 1: the look of like having just full lips and I

1045
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 1: don't know, you just feel I don't know, but they

1046
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 1: know that they look like daffy duck and not like

1047
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: having a nice, beautiful like At that point, it's kind

1048
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: of like you don't know, Yeah, what do we what

1049
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: do we do? But just keep going. Yeah, that's the

1050
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: problem once you start to the problem I think with

1051
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: botox and stuff like that is people do it. Maybe

1052
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 1: they're a little maybe they want a little something fixed

1053
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: or fluffed out or whatever. But then it's like, once

1054
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: you do that, are you gonna keep doing? And then

1055
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 1: it's a slippery slope. Then they it just keeps going

1056
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 1: and going, and then it gets out. You've seen older

1057
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: people at some point where they don't you can't tell

1058
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: what they used to look like because they are just

1059
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: so there's so many injections and they keep it up

1060
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 1: and it's like, now I don't even know what we're

1061
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: doing ay more. Now the face is smooth and well.

1062
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 1: And that's the thing is I feel like, if it's

1063
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: a maintenance thing, that's okay. But yeah, like on your eye,

1064
00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: you know, on the side of your eyes where you

1065
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 1: have the I think they're spider or whatever, crow's feet,

1066
01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 1: thank you. Um, you know. I think that type of

1067
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: maintenance is okay. But I feel like if you get

1068
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 1: to an extent where you're actually trying, maybe they're not

1069
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 1: trying to but changing the look of themselves, like be happy,

1070
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 1: be comfortable, be confident with how your lips or how

1071
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 1: you are. You know, like if you're at a bar

1072
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:20,920
Speaker 1: and like you see a girl and you can completely

1073
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: tell she has like a lot of filler and whatnot,

1074
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: does that like turn you off to the point where

1075
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 1: you're not going to hit on her? Yeah? I don't

1076
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: love it. Yeah, Yeah, I don't like really, I don't

1077
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 1: like it. It's it's she's uh, it's like you're trying

1078
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 1: too hard. Like I would probably if she was attractive

1079
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: in my eyes, I would and didn't have that. I

1080
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: would have more likelihood to go and try to pick

1081
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: up on her at that point in time. But if

1082
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: she shows up with after the duck lips, then I

1083
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: don't know. That's not I don't like that. It's not hot. Okay, Okay,

1084
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 1: I have an opinion on this is it is maintenance

1085
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: for a lot of people, right, it's maintenance. Some people, though,

1086
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 1: get better or worse work done, so they don't necessarily

1087
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 1: have that many options just for is where they're going,

1088
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 1: who's doing it, how often they can do it. They

1089
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: may overdo it thinking well, it'll last longer if I,

1090
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: you know, get this done right now. So but I

1091
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 1: do agree with you personally, Like I said, I like

1092
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: a more natural look, right, less less makeup. Um, So yeah,

1093
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 1: you're not looking for that weird that weird version of

1094
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 1: having having maintenance done, right. I think that's really what

1095
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:28,439
Speaker 1: you're saying to write. Okay, changing your look is not

1096
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 1: right becoming a new person, I need a new place

1097
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 1: that by the way, that translates, that means you probably

1098
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: have an insecure personality. You're not happy with who you are,

1099
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 1: and that's a difficult thing for a guy to see

1100
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: and want to go up to and be like, oh,

1101
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 1: this person isn't happy and they want their doing physical

1102
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: things to change themselves. And it's like, so now that

1103
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 1: that's a tough thing to to Like Rick had to

1104
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 1: walk across the bar and be like, oh, hey, you know,

1105
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 1: like getting attention but also like needing attention in a

1106
01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: way in some ways if it's over the top, right,

1107
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: But but can I apply that to something else? Can

1108
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,520
Speaker 1: I ask you a question? Can I you can't apply

1109
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: to something else? Yes? Can I? Is there a correlation

1110
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: between having too much work done as far as aesthetic,

1111
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 1: lip injections, filler, etcetera, and also having like a ton

1112
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: of tattoos, like when someone's got the neck tattoo and

1113
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: tattoottoos and it's all over them. Yeah? Is that? Would that?

1114
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 1: Would that fall into the same category of somebody who's

1115
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 1: trying to essentially reinvent themselves. I mean, I feel like

1116
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 1: girls getting worked into their faces more so about insecurity,

1117
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 1: like how you're talking about bothers them, so they want

1118
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 1: to improve that. I can't see you get it in

1119
01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 1: red tattoo because you're insecure about your neck, you know

1120
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: what I mean? But it would it? Would it be?

1121
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: But could it be an exercise of I want people

1122
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: to look at me. I want him to see I'm hardcore.

1123
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 1: I want him to see a version of it. So

1124
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: guys get the tattoos a lot of times, right, I

1125
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 1: have not a tattoo on my body. Yeah, personally I'm not.

1126
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: I just think real scars are free. So you know,

1127
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: I just have a different personality, a different perspective on

1128
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: those things. I'm not anti tattoo, but I noticed a

1129
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:10,919
Speaker 1: lot of people they get these tattoos put on. They

1130
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 1: look almost to look scary, you know what I mean.

1131
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: I don't understand the appeal of looking like you're gonna

1132
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: cut somebody up. Um, you know what I mean. Like

1133
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 1: some of it's just so crazy, you know, And to me,

1134
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: I I think they're I almost see a little bit

1135
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 1: of a correlation in that, that reinvention of self, of

1136
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 1: the whole body covered in Tat's the same way people

1137
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 1: are getting this worked under their body, that worked under

1138
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,479
Speaker 1: their body, this worked under their face, that worked under

1139
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:43,480
Speaker 1: their face. What about boobs versus I have them? I mean,

1140
01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: I'm so proud yet them like puppies. I mean again,

1141
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: if but I mean if you guys, if it's not

1142
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 1: done in moderation, like I don't. Yeah, if if it's

1143
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 1: something walking like crying, I look at those things, like

1144
01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 1: if it's the thing that everybody notices when they walk

1145
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: in a room, then yeah, like for what, like why

1146
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 1: do you have to? Why do you have to? It's

1147
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 1: it's too much. I think it can be too much.

1148
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: I think it goes along the same lines. If it's

1149
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: something that makes you feel good. Great, when they're the

1150
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: ridiculous ones and they're you know, and you can't even

1151
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: keep them contained in a shirt or in a bathing suit,

1152
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 1: then it's like that. But but but then again, I

1153
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: have to see these this from all sides. Okay, we

1154
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 1: have when they were that big, you can so good.

1155
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 1: But I do think they're okay, Devil's at pikten. Me

1156
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: has to see this from all sides. So it's a

1157
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:40,959
Speaker 1: competitive world, right, We're all out here in this world.

1158
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 1: It is a competitive world. We're all building careers. We

1159
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 1: have careers. We're looking for, you know, other other ways

1160
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 1: to to to evolve, right, other ways to to to

1161
01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: win as often as we can. Right, So people need

1162
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: in general, everybody is looking for a way to weaponize themselves,

1163
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 1: have the best advantage, the biggest advantage. Some people may

1164
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: deem that advantage aesthetically, right, the advantage is aesthetic. It

1165
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: could be hit in the gym, it could be getting

1166
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 1: work done, it could be getting tattoos, whatever circle they

1167
01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 1: see that as being most beneficial for their victory. I

1168
01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 1: see it as as them kind of taking their best

1169
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 1: stab at that thing. Right. In some poor countries, the

1170
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 1: whole family will pull their money just to have plastic

1171
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 1: surgery done for the girls, hoping they'll marry up. You see,

1172
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: they're trying to they're trying to to get their children

1173
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 1: in a position to marry up, right, So they're trying

1174
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: to create a version of that person that gains attention immediately. Right.

1175
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 1: So so I'm not saying it's good or bad. I'm

1176
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: just saying that I do understand some of the reasoning

1177
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 1: for it, and just Devil's advocate here, there are reasons

1178
01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: for it that people have. But yes, and that's what

1179
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 1: I was saying. But that's why I was saying. But

1180
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 1: you don't win the race by having the biggest boobs,

1181
01:05:57,320 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 1: certainly not if you're swimming. So I agree with what

1182
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 1: you're saying, and I think that was my That's what

1183
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 1: I was saying is that. Yes, if that's something that

1184
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 1: you want to do or that, that's great. But when

1185
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 1: it's it's the moderation thing. It's the same thing with

1186
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,080
Speaker 1: the botox and the lips and the thing. Yeah, do

1187
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 1: it if that's what you want to do, do it.

1188
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: But when you overdo it, yes, guy's notice and from

1189
01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: from my opinion, and I think that's what you guys

1190
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 1: said to then it does become a bit of a

1191
01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 1: turn off. And I feel like tattoos or is more

1192
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 1: of an art. That's that you're you're doing something your body,

1193
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 1: probably to increase your self esteem, but also as an art,

1194
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:33,040
Speaker 1: you know. And people are very arty arts and they

1195
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 1: like that, and I could give you a tattoo, would

1196
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: not like very arts. I've seen something. Have you seen

1197
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:44,040
Speaker 1: me draw? But yeah, I don't compare that to like

1198
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 1: the botox or already of that other But I don't

1199
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 1: look at that as like an art per se. That's

1200
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 1: more of like you're trying to change your physical self

1201
01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 1: to keep going. And I'm not opposed to to fake breast,

1202
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,959
Speaker 1: you know. I you're like kind of to Dmitri's point

1203
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 1: is it's like in moderation, you know, like, um, I

1204
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: like that because if that makes that individual feel good

1205
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 1: about themselves, that's totally fine. That's totally fine, you know.

1206
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 1: And whether it's you know, triple D s great, if

1207
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 1: you feel good about that, go for it, like that's awesome. Yeah,

1208
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 1: but like some people are like born with that. There's

1209
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 1: not a flash D by the way, just saying yes,

1210
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: that's awkward, you know, like yeah, no, what I'm just saying,

1211
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be like flaunting, but I'm just like,

1212
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: it's my body. So like what dom I do? No? What?

1213
01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: First of all, we're what we're saying is we're advocates

1214
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:48,440
Speaker 1: of of if people are getting work done. We understand

1215
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: some people want to get work done. Yeah, we also

1216
01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 1: still want to know the person that's in there. We

1217
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: don't want that person to disappear for the sake of

1218
01:07:56,680 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: their augmentations. Right. So so I think that's fun manally

1219
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:04,400
Speaker 1: where we're at opinion opinion wise, And if you're naturally

1220
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 1: born with certain features that are that are that are

1221
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 1: part of your body, right and interestingly, if that is

1222
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 1: your case, then it's something you should be proud of

1223
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 1: because there are women paying a lot of money to

1224
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 1: try to get to where you are, and that's okay

1225
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: to celebrate that. You understand. Yeah, no, I understand, true,

1226
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 1: But I also feel like if you play on the

1227
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 1: other side of it, say you aren't comfortable with what

1228
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 1: you have and you want to get a reduction, and

1229
01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: and you feel better about that afterwards, Like I've seen

1230
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 1: I have friends that have done both increase and decrease

1231
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 1: and it's changed their lives, like and they feel so

1232
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 1: good about themselves. They would a woman would have never

1233
01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 1: have gotten into like a bathing suit or worn a

1234
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: dress that she wanted to you know for a second

1235
01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:48,560
Speaker 1: and um, and I and once she did that, it

1236
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 1: totally changed you. Guys can ask Anna lies about she

1237
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: got a reduction. So I had a breast production when

1238
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 1: I was seventeen years old, and it's actually a thing

1239
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:59,200
Speaker 1: that I'm quite self conscious about, especially when I'm dating

1240
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,519
Speaker 1: somebody new and when they see my breast for the

1241
01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:06,640
Speaker 1: first time. It's definitely I guess I would have a

1242
01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 1: question about Um. I mean, you can ask me whatever,

1243
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 1: but UM, I always feel like I need to announce it,

1244
01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 1: like and I know that's probably it probably makes me

1245
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 1: seem like I'm more insecure about it, where I'm totally fine,

1246
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 1: but it's like, I feel like I have to explain

1247
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:27,479
Speaker 1: feel better now that you have done that. Yeah, I mean,

1248
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be thirty five in October, and I had

1249
01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 1: it down when I was seventeen, so I've lived with

1250
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 1: it my entire adult life. I'm happy that I did

1251
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:36,879
Speaker 1: it because I think my attention from men was always

1252
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 1: in my head anyways. It was always because of my body,

1253
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 1: and I wanted people to like me for me and

1254
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:46,439
Speaker 1: not because of my you know, my body, And so

1255
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:49,639
Speaker 1: I'm very happy that I did it. But I there's

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Speaker 1: always a bit of an insecurity. Once I'm like dating

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Speaker 1: somebody for a while, I forget about that, but the

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Speaker 1: initial thing is always just like I have to explain myself.

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Speaker 1: Why do feel that you need to explain it? Like,

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Speaker 1: and just because my scars and I and I've had

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Speaker 1: I think some insensitive reactions, and so I get insecure about, um,

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Speaker 1: how men might react to it because they're not in

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Speaker 1: my mind, they're not a perfect breath, like, they're not

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Speaker 1: the picture of what I would like them to be

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Speaker 1: because I have scars. But at the same time I

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Speaker 1: realized that men are men, and if they probably could

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Speaker 1: care less, I think the right man won't have you know,

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Speaker 1: like I think you're nervous about that guy having problems

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Speaker 1: or you having to explain it before, right, and so

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Speaker 1: I think the right man won't have problems with that,

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Speaker 1: you know, like you know, like if you get to

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Speaker 1: that point, you're not always with the right man. No,

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Speaker 1: but if you're trying to but that, but that's part

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Speaker 1: of your screening process there is like if you're if

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Speaker 1: you're out trying to find the guy that wants the

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Speaker 1: airbrushed perfect look, then that's the guy you're gonna get.

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Speaker 1: And if you're and if you're looking for a genuine

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Speaker 1: guy who isn't going to care about that, then you're

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Speaker 1: going to find that guy but you and that will

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Speaker 1: probably take off the pressure of feeling like I have

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Speaker 1: to explain this, like I mean, yeah, every time before

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Speaker 1: we have sex or what you know, it's like you'll

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Speaker 1: know that probably or something. I'm like, by the way,

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Speaker 1: like I have scars because I had a breast production.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like I only because I've had guys

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Speaker 1: go why are your boobs bruised? Or like stupid things

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01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: like that where I'm like, uh, yeah, exactly. I mean

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Speaker 1: that's where it's like my longer relationships. Yes, of course

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Speaker 1: I'm like fully, I'm a very naked person in my

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Speaker 1: own life. So if if I'm with somebody that I'm

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Speaker 1: comfortable with, like, I have no problem with them seeing it.

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Speaker 1: But that initial part of me is always I get

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Speaker 1: insecure about it. So here's another question. So you had

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Speaker 1: this done at seventeen years old, right, and immediately upon

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Speaker 1: having it done, where you where you freaked out from

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Speaker 1: from the surgery? Was it free king about or was

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Speaker 1: it all sort of bliss that you had removed this

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Speaker 1: weight from your body, that you were sort of decent

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Speaker 1: in your opinions, sort of de sexualizing your your physique

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Speaker 1: right socially? Was was there was there a sort of

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Speaker 1: a honeymoon phase of that or how long did that

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Speaker 1: phase last for you? Well? I went to college and

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01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 1: I put on a lot of weight and I went

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Speaker 1: right back to my boobs. So the honeymoon phase was short.

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Speaker 1: But I did love it, and I'm very happy that

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Speaker 1: I did it. I have no regrets about doing it. Um,

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Speaker 1: I did feel like other than your self conscious now

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Speaker 1: when you when you become intimate with someone for the

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Speaker 1: first time exactly, Um, I did feel like when I

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Speaker 1: would get to know people, they got to know me

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Speaker 1: a lot more than just being like this is like

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Speaker 1: the blonde girl with the big boobs. That's what I

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Speaker 1: always was. So there was more to me all of

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Speaker 1: a sudden, and I was like, oh, I like this,

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Speaker 1: and people got to know me. I understand. Yeah, that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: It's it's amazing to me how how I think. I

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Speaker 1: guess I don't feel it. I don't know if it's

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Speaker 1: as a guy, I don't feel it, or because like

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Speaker 1: I'm a guy who doesn't exercise, I don't feel it.

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Speaker 1: So you know. Um, So it's amazing to me that

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Speaker 1: that as a female, you felt so in a in essence,

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Speaker 1: so over sexualized socially, Like in fifth grade, I was

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Speaker 1: already like a sea cup. So that was all I

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Speaker 1: knew was being that girl who was sexualized always, and

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Speaker 1: I was always Yeah, I always was like a tease

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Speaker 1: or the slut or the girl who was stuck up

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01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 1: because I was pretty. And I was like, there's so

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01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 1: much more to me that people are putting me in

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01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:37,800
Speaker 1: a box because they are not taking the time to

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Speaker 1: actually get to know me. Meanwhile, the girls who were

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01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:42,160
Speaker 1: teasing you at that time have all had boob jobs

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Speaker 1: done since go go wrap your head around that one.

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Speaker 1: So the thing is, let's be real, the thing that

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Speaker 1: made you uncomfortable, you fixed to not feel uncomfortable about it,

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01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 1: but in turn, you're still you're still worried about it.

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Speaker 1: Now you're worried about it in a different version exactly,

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01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,400
Speaker 1: and so you're insecure about it. And I think what

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Speaker 1: we're what we're saying here is I think you just

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01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:04,439
Speaker 1: gotta forget about that. Find find the person that's not good,

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01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:06,760
Speaker 1: like you don't have to explain that to you know what,

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01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:08,960
Speaker 1: you know what I really love though I'm sorry and

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Speaker 1: I cut you off, but I feel like um with

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Speaker 1: social media, with the platform of being on the Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: one thing that is so freeing is being able to

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Speaker 1: like talk about things like this. I feel like now

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Speaker 1: that it's in the public, I've done like post about

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Speaker 1: my breast production. I've had so many people reach out

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Speaker 1: to me and and really relate, and it's made me

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Speaker 1: feel less self conscious about it because i know that

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Speaker 1: I'm not alone and I'm very open about it now.

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Speaker 1: I talked the same way about having my biceps shrunking

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Speaker 1: and my chest muscles, my giant last because I was

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01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: so hunky every time I would walk into a room

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01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:47,040
Speaker 1: and I would hear girls themselves like they're in Baptist church.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think, you know, I've got to get

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Speaker 1: this working on because I'm getting a little bit too

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Speaker 1: much attention, you know, plus with the dog Lady Killer,

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Speaker 1: so I had to get this everything kind of miniaturized. Um.

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01:14:59,800 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: And when when Rick jumps right now, when Rick jumps

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Speaker 1: in the lake tomorrow, he's going to have a testical production.

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Speaker 1: Those things are gonna shrink up right in front of

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Speaker 1: all of us. By the way, speaking of can we

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Speaker 1: get what I don't know what time it doesn't how

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Speaker 1: can we get to how men think tattoo on your

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Speaker 1: back for when you're swimming tomorrow? Yes, so we turn

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01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 1: that around and just put it right on the shoulder,

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Speaker 1: on the side, right here. Perfect. I like that. That's

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Speaker 1: a good idea. I love it. You know what, you

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01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 1: can see all of your greatness. So first of all,

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Speaker 1: I have to thank you for coming on onto the

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Speaker 1: show and and talking about any any types of insecurities,

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Speaker 1: any types of concerns, particularly dealing with the opposite sex.

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Speaker 1: I think that this is this is part of the

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Speaker 1: the sort of like these conversations that never really happened

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01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:48,000
Speaker 1: often enough socially because we've all sort of segregated ourselves

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01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 1: in the gender way, you know, the girls talk about

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01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 1: the girls stuff, the boys talk about the boys stuff.

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01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:54,880
Speaker 1: We don't have enough of these sort of round table

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01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 1: combos where we're kind of bouncing these ideas back and

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01:15:58,080 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 1: forth and revealing to each other that we're just as

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01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:04,920
Speaker 1: insecure as you are about about certain things, you know

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01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:08,719
Speaker 1: what I mean, and and and but also the fact

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01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,240
Speaker 1: that there are things you can do about your insecurities,

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01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 1: you know. And in the beautiful age of modern science,

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01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 1: if something's bothering us, we could be like I could

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01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:20,160
Speaker 1: probably get this work done right now, Like right now,

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01:16:20,200 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 1: there's a place I'm going to do a go to

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01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 1: a walking clinic to fix my nose, you know, and

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Speaker 1: it's a bad one, but it'll be some version of fixed.

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Speaker 1: Or my teeth my crooked teeth, you know, get these

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Speaker 1: things whitened. Uh But anyway, Oh, by the way, you know,

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Speaker 1: I've read this incredible story and I think it was

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01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 1: in Japan. It said, um that there were dentists who

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Speaker 1: or dentist orthodontists who are actually uh doing dental dental

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Speaker 1: work to create more crooked teeth rather than more perfect teeth,

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Speaker 1: because people were tired of looking like everybody else, you see.

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Speaker 1: So I think that there's there is almost no there's

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Speaker 1: no end to the amount of things we can be

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Speaker 1: self conscious about. And I think that kind of is

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Speaker 1: a social lesson, which is everybody has issues. Some people

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01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:09,679
Speaker 1: have issues of actually looking too perfect, and some people

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01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:13,160
Speaker 1: have issues of not looking perfect enough. And I think this,

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Speaker 1: this is a fundamental social issue, would exists in every

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Speaker 1: single culture. You know, if there's another planet somewhere, it's

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01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 1: happening there too. Yeah, he lasered those things off, you know,

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Speaker 1: and they'll grow him back. Well. Anyway, this has been

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Speaker 1: a great Thank you Tasia as well for coming on

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Speaker 1: the show. Tasha Adams, Crystal Nielsen, Kaylyn Miller, Analyst Puccini,

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Speaker 1: Ashley Connetti, Connettie Believe. Anyway, it's been awesome having you

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Speaker 1: guys on How men think. I'm gavin to graw and

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Speaker 1: we'll see you next time with Dmitri, with Rick, not

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Speaker 1: with Brian, not with Brooks, with Amy pulling the plug

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Speaker 1: on me when I say dumb it. See you later, Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: It's Brooks and one last thing before we let you go.

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Speaker 1: If you like today's episode, we would love to get

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