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Speaker 1: The Charlie Kirk Show starts now.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Welcome to The Charlie Kirk Show. We have a

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Speaker 2: special Christmas episode here and we wanted to mark the

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Speaker 2: holiday with something very important. I'm here with Danny in

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Speaker 2: the studio, and I believe we also have Mikey from

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Speaker 2: his secret base to the North.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to both of you there.

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Speaker 1: Charlie Kirk. Northern Studio.

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Speaker 3: Excellent, excellent.

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Speaker 2: I've never seen the mythical Northern Studio, but perhaps one day.

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Speaker 2: And so today's episode what we wanted to do. It's

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Speaker 2: our first it's our first Christmas without Charlie. We all

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Speaker 2: miss him terribly and we were thinking what should we do.

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Speaker 2: We're actually we're pretaping this ahead of Christmas, and we

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Speaker 2: chance for everyone on the team who wants to to

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Speaker 2: share their favorite stories about Charlie, how funny stuff, how

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Speaker 2: we impacted their lives. So it's not just gonna be Mikey,

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Speaker 2: Danny me. It's where we asked Bryden, we asked Kylie,

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Speaker 2: we asked Brian, we asked a lot of people you've

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Speaker 2: on because they are in fact working the cameras right

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Speaker 2: now and can't leave them. But what will still give

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Speaker 2: them their due? But I guess we have three minutes

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Speaker 2: in this cold open segment. So Danny, how about we

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Speaker 2: go with you first? It's your favorite Charlie tap.

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Speaker 4: So I have two pretty funny ones. The first one

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Speaker 4: is like, I'm a bag o highest State fan. And

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Speaker 4: so Charlie and I highest date played Oregon twice last year,

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Speaker 4: and the first time Charlie was actually at the game

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Speaker 4: and Oregon won on like this last second play and

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Speaker 4: so so immediately as soon as the game ends, my

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Speaker 4: trash talking of just insane, like oh what happened in

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Speaker 4: this game?

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Speaker 3: Like all this crazy stuff.

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Speaker 4: So then when they ended up playing later in the season.

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Speaker 3: Thirty two thirty one, that must have been an amazing game. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And so then they played later in the season in

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Speaker 4: Ohio State one and so then I was giving it

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Speaker 4: back to him and after the game, this like sweatshirt

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Speaker 4: at OSU campus they were selling. It was like the

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Speaker 4: Brutus mascot of Ohio state with a shotgun like shooting

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Speaker 4: And so I bought one and I shipped it to

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Speaker 4: so Mikey wore that to the office in front of

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Speaker 4: Charlie as just my get back because I was still

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Speaker 3: That's amazing.

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Speaker 2: People would always ask why Charlio was in that game,

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Speaker 2: and yeah, got a lot actually that his family all

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Speaker 1: To become a Ducks fan.

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Speaker 2: But that game was also the game where everybody was

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Speaker 2: making fun of Charlie for having ear plugs in because

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Speaker 3: He got so much and I was I was always

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Speaker 2: I said, you should wear earplugs at games, like you

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Speaker 2: don't need to get hearing damage to prove you're a

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Speaker 2: real Also Van, I have to admit something live right now,

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Speaker 2: this is going to be uh, this is gonna shock Danny. Really, Danny,

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Speaker 2: I never wore that sweatshirt in front of Charlie.

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Speaker 1: No, how could you make you feel betrayal.

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Speaker 3: That is a betrayal.

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Speaker 4: That's treacherous Charlie about it.

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Speaker 3: You have to wear it on the show sometime, now, Mikey,

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Speaker 3: that's what you have to do.

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Speaker 6: I'll wear mine now.

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Speaker 2: I would never wear that trash But let me say this.

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Speaker 1: I have a picture of Mike State.

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Speaker 2: It's very likely that Ohio State in Oregon will play again.

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Speaker 2: And so the question is, Danny, who will your lead

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Speaker 2: and sp two Charlie's favorite team or this trashy team

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Speaker 2: We got forty five seconds here. Do you have anything

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Speaker 2: fun Mikey you want to share? Well, we were just

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Speaker 1: How funny of a tourist Charlie was.

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Speaker 2: We're walking through the streets of Tokyo and instead of

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Speaker 2: traps are Charlie sold an outback steakhouse.

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Speaker 7: And he was like Blake, Mikey, it's an outback steakhouse

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Speaker 2: I'm sure we're sharing Christmas. We're sharing stories about Charlie

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Speaker 2: for Christmas.

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Speaker 3: We'll be right back.

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Speaker 8: Every day is a battle for your mind, raging information

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Speaker 8: coming from every angle, with the will to deceive.

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Speaker 6: Fear not.

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Speaker 8: You found the place for truth, the voice of a

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Speaker 8: generation that still has the will to believe in the

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Speaker 8: greatest country in the history of the world.

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Speaker 6: This is the Charlie Kirk Show. Buck a lot, here

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Speaker 6: we go.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the Charlie Kirk Show.

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Speaker 2: I'm here with Danny in the studio and we have

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Speaker 2: Mikey out at the Northern Base. We are marking the

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Speaker 2: Christmas holiday by remembering our friend, our boss, our mentor are.

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Speaker 3: The great man of Turning Point, Charlie.

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Speaker 2: We're telling our favorite stories about him, what we remember

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Speaker 2: him best for, and we're saying farewell again in a way.

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Speaker 2: But he also will never leave us. And in the opening,

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Speaker 2: in the cold open segment, we were telling a fun

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Speaker 2: story from Mikey about Charlie. He was so excited to

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Speaker 2: go to Asia, where Daisy is sending us his messages

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Speaker 2: from March of this year. F Yi, in September, I'm

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Speaker 2: do a podcast from there, just FYI. I really want

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Speaker 2: to speak in Asia. I'm so excited. And he was

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Speaker 3: And we have that photo that is the japan outback.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure it's the tastiest outback you've ever been to.

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Speaker 3: I kind of want to go.

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Speaker 2: There, and now I know, like Japan Japanese food is good,

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Speaker 3: But we're going to get story.

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Speaker 1: Let's be real.

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Speaker 2: Charlie would not have stopped to eat food. We were

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no. He he was a really energetic guy.

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Speaker 2: He just had to drop us at a south end

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Speaker 3: We were in no Shibuya.

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Speaker 2: But Danny, you had another very funny story and it

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, so okay, let's preface with there's not a

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Speaker 4: earlier this year, we were in Maine and Charlie's on

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Speaker 1: Like many times by the way, Yeah, into this.

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Speaker 4: Go pee on him? And I was like, what is happening?

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Speaker 3: And so that did not happen. That did not happen.

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, wait, bettering out a part of

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Speaker 2: Okay, I a little girl an Ohio State fight song.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it might have been better if I heard that

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Speaker 3: I suppose that is. That's a really funny one, Mike.

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Speaker 2: Do you have any other ones that you want to

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Speaker 3: Yeah. The The other thing is Charlie.

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Speaker 2: Was just notoriously generous. It was something that a lot

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Speaker 2: of year. He would see something and he'd want it fixed,

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Speaker 2: and he would go above and beyond to show that

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Speaker 2: generosity to so many different people, especially at Christmas time,

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Speaker 2: to random groups too that they're like, is this the

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Speaker 2: Charlie Kirk donating to us? And it was oftentimes that

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Speaker 2: I mean I remember he asked what I was doing

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Speaker 3: A bit big birthday guys.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I don't have much of a plan,

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Speaker 2: and he just said, all right, Danny, you and Nate.

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Speaker 3: It was you and Nate.

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Speaker 2: He's like, you and Nate, just let's go go to

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Speaker 1: You know, you never even talked about how you.

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Speaker 2: We picked it out. I'm an expert. I just got

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Speaker 3: All fifty states. We will be right back. Welcome back

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Speaker 3: to the Charlie Kirk Show.

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Speaker 2: We are marking Christmas by sharing our staff's favorite memories

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Speaker 2: of Charlie Kirk, the man, the friend, the mentor, the boss,

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Speaker 3: So we've got some of our team members.

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Speaker 3: So let's dive into it. We've got Brian.

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Speaker 2: He is one of the vast Farnsworth clan that we

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Speaker 2: I saw Charlie pull out his iPad and he put

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Speaker 3: Guess what the movie is, Danny?

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Speaker 4: Well, I know the story.

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Speaker 3: I was there. What you can ask Mikey, Mikey, you remember.

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Speaker 3: If you don't remember, can you guess what movie Charlie

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Speaker 1: I was with him when he watched Harry Potter on

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Speaker 3: All right, that's what it was.

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Speaker 2: It was Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone on his iPad.

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Speaker 2: And Brian adds, Charlie was such an innocent soul and

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Speaker 2: I think that was the only time, the only movies

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Speaker 3: I think that really gets at Charlie's character.

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Speaker 2: Like some people, they really love all deep moral complexities

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Speaker 2: He loved The Equalizer, I believe, and he would just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he loved Great Blazer.

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Speaker 3: He's this good guy.

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Speaker 3: It gets out a lot of what made him so great.

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Speaker 2: We have a story from Kylie, another of our studio crew.

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Speaker 2: If these don't have to be Christmas related, My favorite

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Speaker 2: we have it, Michael made this.

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Speaker 3: And Charlie just thought it was AI and but it wasn't.

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Speaker 2: It was made by our own team member and it

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Speaker 3: That was really good.

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Speaker 2: Also, Kylie says she loved every time much that he

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Speaker 2: printed it out. Yes he did, printed it out and

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Speaker 2: Yes he did, Yes he did. And Kylie also says

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Speaker 3: Racist? Did I get it right?

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Speaker 1: Racist?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Something like that got a role.

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Speaker 2: They are a little more Mikey, Yeah that's better.

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Speaker 3: That's better.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't think anybody can do it as good as

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Speaker 2: My favorite is when he reacted to my artwork of

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Speaker 3: And also he would guess.

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Speaker 2: The music that he was picking to play on the show.

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Speaker 2: He loved playing American Girl by Tom Petty and he

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Speaker 2: I can't remember how that sounds, so you should. Well,

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Speaker 2: I can't ask that for the outro. We're doing Christmas

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Speaker 2: music today, but play it for me later, Michael. I

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Speaker 2: that the South Park episode is definitely one of my

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Speaker 2: enduring memories for Charlie. He was so excited to get

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Speaker 2: on it, and it had to be such a trip

445
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Speaker 2: that he grew up watching the show and seen episodes

446
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Speaker 2: of it, and it lasts long enough you never imagine, oh,

447
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Speaker 2: I might be in one of those episodes.

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Speaker 4: Well, Mike and I were actually with him when he

449
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Speaker 4: found out that he was going to be on South

450
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Speaker 4: Park because they didn't say anything. They just released like

451
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Speaker 4: that trailer I believe for that yeah episode he was on,

452
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Speaker 4: So it was going viral on Twitter, and he came

453
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Speaker 4: to Mikey and I was like just asking all these questions,

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Speaker 4: like how big of a deal is this?

455
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Speaker 3: Is this good for a culture a war? Like that's

456
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Speaker 3: pretty sweet, that's amazing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yes, it's big, It's big, Charlie. And then we're

458
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Speaker 2: in Colorado Springs when it came out and he had

459
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Speaker 2: this meeting with the Air Force Academy team.

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Speaker 3: Uh because he said he sat on.

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Speaker 2: The board there and he was like, I don't want

462
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Speaker 2: to watch it, just tell me how it is.

463
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Speaker 1: And then he comes out.

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Speaker 2: I was like, it was hilarious, it was great, and

465
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Speaker 2: I was showing him clips and he's like, oh, I

466
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Speaker 2: wish I watched it live.

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Speaker 3: Like you said you didn't want to, but yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was incredible. We have three seconds.

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Speaker 2: Andrew couldn't join us right now, but he said, my

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Speaker 2: favorite memory of Charlie is the comp of all the

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Speaker 2: hard fought wins. We faced a ton of set backs

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Speaker 2: over the years. It made the wins more meaningful, and

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Speaker 2: Charlie would always, without fail say something along the lines

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Speaker 2: of God is good, he has his hand on this,

475
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Speaker 2: Stay humble, stay close to Jesus. Let's work harder. That

476
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Speaker 2: was always the chief dimension of Charlie. It's why he

477
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Speaker 2: was such a great man. We're telling stories. We'll be

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Speaker 2: right back.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to the Charlie Kirk Show.

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Speaker 2: We are marking Christmas by sharing from all of the

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Speaker 2: staff members on and off camera, our favorite memories of Charlie.

482
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Speaker 2: And we have rotated in Emma, Emma, Kate, and Daisy.

483
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Speaker 3: You've seen them on here from time to time.

484
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Speaker 2: Daisy loves to ask me questions about things, and occasionally

485
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Speaker 2: I ask her questions about things.

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Speaker 11: My questions for like, are much more important world topics?

487
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Speaker 3: They are?

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Speaker 9: They are.

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Speaker 2: It's because she's a more serious person than I am.

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Speaker 2: She really wants to understand the world, and she's great at.

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Speaker 12: That, exactly.

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Speaker 11: I don't think anyone's described me as more serious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you you worked with Charlie a quite long time.

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Speaker 10: Right, Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, since December of twenty twenty one.

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Speaker 2: All right, yeah, longer than me for sure. And what's

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Speaker 2: your favorite Charlie story?

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Speaker 12: I have so many?

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Speaker 11: But also what a lot of us were talking about

500
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Speaker 11: in our green room except before we started, was that

501
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Speaker 11: so many of our memories are like just us being

502
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Speaker 11: with Charlie every day.

503
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Speaker 12: Like it's not like we.

504
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Speaker 11: Have huge, fun, amazing memories that we can look back on,

505
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Speaker 11: but it's also so fun to just be like, oh,

506
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Speaker 11: I remember when he would walk in wearing his compression

507
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Speaker 11: sacks every day, Like that's also funny.

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Speaker 3: Ready, sports fans, yes, eat all the.

509
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Speaker 11: Cubs games on on the TVs, so so many of

510
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 11: it is so fun. But when we were talking about

511
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Speaker 11: some of our favorite memories, I know this is shared

512
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Speaker 11: by everyone as a hallmark Charlie memory. I know Dallan

513
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Speaker 11: said that this one was one of his favorites too.

514
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Speaker 11: When we've all we've spoken about Rio several times.

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Speaker 12: We love him.

516
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Speaker 11: He has become a friend of the show, someone that

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Speaker 11: Charlie met, that flew all the way from Asia to

518
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Speaker 11: come to America Fest. And Charlie met him in America Fest.

519
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 11: They got along super well, that he loved him, and

520
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 11: he was like, what are you doing for Christmas? And

521
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Speaker 11: Rio was like, Oh, I don't know, I don't really

522
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Speaker 11: have any plans. I'm in America, And Charlie's like, come

523
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Speaker 11: over comes, spend Christmas with me and just had Christmas

524
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Speaker 11: with their family and then was just at our office

525
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 11: every day just hung out.

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Speaker 3: It's awesome. And then he showed us around Japan. He

527
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Speaker 3: was such a great guy.

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Speaker 11: It ended up being such a full circle moment for everyone.

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Speaker 11: But we that was something that we talk about quite often.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, we love Rio and that relationship was just so

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Speaker 13: like so hallmarked Charlie of just like really taking somebody

532
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Speaker 13: in and like making them part of the team and

533
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Speaker 13: part of the family, just because, like Charlie was really

534
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Speaker 13: good at seeing like good people and picking them out,

535
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Speaker 13: and Rio is a prime example of that.

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Speaker 11: And so good at remembering names like I mean the

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Speaker 11: amount of conferences and we just finished amphis and there

538
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Speaker 11: are people whose names I know just because Charlie would

539
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Speaker 11: remember emailing with them or meeting them at a meeting.

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Speaker 11: Great that are just he will never forget your name.

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Speaker 13: One of my favorite things about Charlie was when I

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Speaker 13: was going through tabling footage. Sometimes he would get like

543
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Speaker 13: repeat people coming to the mic and he would remember

544
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Speaker 13: exactly what they said, exactly what school they were at,

545
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Speaker 13: and he would say, oh, this is what you asked

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Speaker 13: me last time. There was one time this kid was

547
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Speaker 13: messing with him and was like, no, that wasn't me.

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Speaker 13: I don't know what you're talking about. And then at

549
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Speaker 13: the end of the interaction the kid was like, yeah,

550
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Speaker 13: it was me.

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Speaker 10: You were totally right. I don't know how you remembered that.

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Speaker 12: His astonishing.

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Speaker 6: Yes.

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Speaker 2: We have Braydon another member of our team. He was

555
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Speaker 2: very notably. He was a guy we sent on assignment

556
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Speaker 2: to d C. He helped with the transition and he says,

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Speaker 2: My favorite memory is from when I was working in DC.

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Speaker 2: We had a particularly hectic day, a lot of those

559
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Speaker 2: in DC, and all of a sudden, Charlie comes speed

560
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Speaker 2: walking in from around the corner with a massive smile

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Speaker 2: on his face, which immediately raised the morale of the

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Speaker 2: entire office. He always made the effort to see his

563
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Speaker 2: people whenever he made the trip to DC, and it

564
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Speaker 2: never failed to raise everyone's spirits. We've heard about that

565
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Speaker 2: from people who were in the White House too, like

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Speaker 2: him whizzing around the West Wing, and he just always

567
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Speaker 2: had that energy, that presence that let's go.

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Speaker 11: Let's go, which I even feel like it says a

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Speaker 11: lot for those of us that were with him every day,

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Speaker 11: Like there was not a day that Charlie came in

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Speaker 11: that made the day worse. Like every morning he was

572
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Speaker 11: excited to do this show, yes, and to get to work,

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Speaker 11: like there was never there was you know, you see

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Speaker 11: some people's time.

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Speaker 3: Ever, Oh no, it's going to be bad.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, always excited to work, which made everyone else excited.

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Speaker 14: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, just to brag on Braiden and Charlie, I mean

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Speaker 2: it was New Year's Eve last year that we flew

580
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Speaker 2: straight to Palm Beach missed the New Year's We spent

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Speaker 2: New Year's Day in our hotel room at the Hilton

582
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Speaker 2: Palm Beach just kind of watching the ball drop on

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Speaker 2: the TV. But Charlie wanted to make sure the transition

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Speaker 2: went well. And so part of the reason Brayden was

585
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Speaker 2: in the White House is he was kind of like

586
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Speaker 2: Charlie's guy, and they're helping oversee a lot of stuff.

587
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Speaker 2: And actually, to Brayden's credit, like he went through a

588
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Speaker 2: lot of hardship in the White House. And that story

589
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 2: is really awesome because Charlie would always go to DC

590
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Speaker 2: and he'd be seen all the time. And I remember

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Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago, we were meeting with Linda

592
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Speaker 2: McMahon and she shared that story with Erica. She was like,

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Speaker 2: you know, it was crazy because at first we were like,

594
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Speaker 2: why is Charlie here? And then we started to say

595
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Speaker 2: to ourselves, man, we really like it that Charlie's around here.

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Speaker 2: And he was like the one outside of the administration

597
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Speaker 2: that was just always seen walking around the halls, the

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Speaker 2: West Wing, the one helping with their transition. He played

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Speaker 2: such a pivotal role in that, and yet he didn't

600
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Speaker 2: even have a seat in the administration. He just kind

601
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 2: of helped select everybody in there, and he was just

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Speaker 2: he was consistent and present both in and out of

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Speaker 2: the White House. Yeah, and we've heard from so many

604
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 2: people who there express thanks to me to Andrew where

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00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 2: I'm here because Charlie advocated for me so hard, and

606
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Speaker 2: I'd never met him before.

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Speaker 3: He was just so impressed.

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Speaker 2: He was that endless motor, that endless energy. It's such

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Speaker 2: a positive feeling. It's why he lit up so many

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Speaker 2: people's lives.

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Speaker 11: I also just really quickly on that note, Mike, you

612
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Speaker 11: want to say that, I think we all remember when

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Speaker 11: y'all picked up and we're like, we're gonna We're gonna

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Speaker 11: go help, and then the rest of us were like, okay,

615
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Speaker 11: but we're still going to do the show every day, right,

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Speaker 11: And we still made it work.

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Speaker 12: But it was a very complicated couple of months.

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Speaker 3: Very very complicated. It was supposed to be a week.

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Speaker 12: It just kept getting longer and longer.

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Speaker 2: Really, is Charlie ever coming back? And we were a

621
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Speaker 2: little worried about it.

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Speaker 12: So do we all have to move?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: What's the plan?

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Speaker 2: It was funny we have a Catherine sent in a

626
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Speaker 2: story She says her favorite story was she was in

627
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Speaker 2: Sedona and Charlie was in full dad mode watching college

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Speaker 2: football with his parents.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what that looks like, but I can

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Speaker 3: kind of.

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Speaker 11: I just it was how so many people's memories are

632
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Speaker 11: Charlie in college football.

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Speaker 3: It is mine. Matter was a little different.

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Speaker 2: I remember when the US was in the World Cup

635
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Speaker 2: and we were doing the show. I don't even think

636
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Speaker 2: I lived here yet. I think I only remember this

637
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 2: via telegram. But Charlie was super distracted from the show

638
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: because he had his iPad and was just watching the

639
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Speaker 2: World Cup games.

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Speaker 3: That America was in in the middle of the show.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I just he'd do a five second question to

642
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Speaker 2: the guests and then just look.

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Speaker 11: With the Olympics with March Madness, we would have an

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Speaker 11: iPad set up there.

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Speaker 12: I remember March Madness.

646
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Speaker 11: He wanted all of his brackets printed out so it

647
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 11: would look like he's having like notes for the show.

648
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Speaker 11: They're just as March Madness brackets. It's like filling them

649
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Speaker 11: out as as who got marked off if he's how

650
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Speaker 11: long is He made a couple of different brackets every

651
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 11: year it was, but he bounced it all.

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00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 12: Yeah, somehow was still a good show every day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He was just such a good dad too, Like Catherine

655
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 2: talks about him in dad mode, like, Blake, do you

656
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 2: remember when we were in Tokyo when we went into

657
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,719
Speaker 2: don Quixote. Yeah, and he just wanted to get all

658
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: the spot for his kids. Yeah, and he wanted that

659
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Speaker 2: it was so much, Yes, Oh, it was a ton.

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Speaker 2: He got a ton of stuff. I remember he wanted

661
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Speaker 2: that Curious George clock. And I feel like maybe we

662
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 2: should send Rio off to find that clock. I think

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Speaker 2: that would be a fun get if we can, if

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Speaker 2: we can track it down.

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Speaker 11: I mikey, I really want. I don't remember who all

666
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 11: was around then, but when Charlie and Erica had their

667
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Speaker 11: first child, and before then, Charlie was he's he's always

668
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 11: been excited to work, always been very focused on work.

669
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 11: But it was very much work, work, work, work, work,

670
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 11: work work. And then she was born and Mike and

671
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 11: I were like, okay, so are we still work all

672
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 11: the time or what's the deal? And he like when

673
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 11: he's working, he's working. As soon as he saw his kids,

674
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 11: instantly would get melted. And it's just like he became

675
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 11: so mode, so full on dad mode as soon as

676
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 11: she was born.

677
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 12: It was so amazing to watch.

678
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. Speaking of we got so Ryan and Riley on

679
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 3: our team.

680
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: They are married, they had a baby about a year ago,

681
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 2: and their favorite memory.

682
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 3: I got this from Riley.

683
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: She says she remembers Charlie non stop texting Ryan for

684
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 2: anything we needed while in the hospital when I was

685
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 2: giving birth, and how excited he was that our baby

686
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 2: ended up being born on his birthday.

687
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 3: I forgot about that.

688
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, he sent us Chargers clothes and food and instantly

689
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 2: connected us with a very Maha pediatrician.

690
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 12: Yeah, that is so Charlie.

691
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 3: That's great.

692
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I know he was very excited for your baby, Daisy.

693
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 11: In thinking about the favorite man raced to my kid.

694
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 11: Don't know if you remember this, but when I facetimed

695
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 11: him in Erica and you were all together when we

696
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 11: found out it was a girl, and Charlie had said

697
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 11: from day one that he thought it was a girl.

698
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 12: He was so sorry.

699
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 11: And his only reaction on the phone, he goes, I

700
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 11: already knew it, like I we had the cake, like

701
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 11: the He was like, yeah, we didn't have.

702
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 3: I already announced him.

703
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 2: No, he was Daisy, tell them what he wanted to

704
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 2: name what he wanted.

705
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 12: To name, Charlie.

706
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 11: Multiple We had this conversation multiple times, and he was like,

707
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 11: I know that it's weird, but I do think you

708
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 11: should consider naming her Daisy.

709
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 12: I was like, Charlie, this is already my name.

710
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 11: Like I, I can't just reuse my own name.

711
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 12: It's already being used.

712
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 11: He was like, I know it's a little it's a

713
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 11: little different, but it's just is such a good name

714
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 11: that I think someone else should use it again. Great,

715
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 11: maybe I'll consider that for the next one.

716
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 12: But her name was.

717
00:33:59,120 --> 00:33:59,479
Speaker 3: Reaction.

718
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 12: It was so far.

719
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 11: Erica asked me that morning if I was pregnant, and

720
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 11: I was like, no.

721
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 12: No, no, because I wanted to tell them together.

722
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,359
Speaker 11: I also knew that as soon as I told one

723
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 11: of them, both of them were going to as soon as.

724
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 12: I told their kids, then the whole office was going to.

725
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 3: So I missed it.

726
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 2: I was out and I walk in and I just

727
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: got Daisy walks up, She's like, I'm pregnant.

728
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 3: By the way.

729
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 11: Well, even the other day, speaking of Charlie caring so

730
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 11: much about what her name was. Charlie's kids were with

731
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 11: this the other day, and his daughter suggested a new

732
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 11: name that I haven't considered yet, but she really wants

733
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 11: me to name my daughter Grinch, so that is now

734
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:37,760
Speaker 11: on the table.

735
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 3: Rynch Okay, Yeah, she.

736
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 11: Was really inspired by people take names from movies. Yeah,

737
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 11: Grinch wasn't wasn't on my list of options, but now

738
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 11: I'm considering con tender.

739
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, Rynch Phelps.

740
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 11: Yeah, it's it doesn't flow, but that I would do

741
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,439
Speaker 11: anything to make her happy at this point, So maybe

742
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 11: I'll consider.

743
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 3: Oh Man, anything else from you.

744
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 10: I'm a kay I.

745
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 13: When I was thinking about, like, one of my favorite

746
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 13: Charlie stories was before he went to Washington State University

747
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 13: this spring. He had only previously been there once. It's

748
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 13: where I'm from, really close to that area, and he'd

749
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 13: been there once and he went in January, where if

750
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 13: you know anything about eastern Washington, it's ugly, it's horrible

751
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 13: in January, and so Charlie just thought that's what all

752
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 13: of eastern Washington was like. So he said on air,

753
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,919
Speaker 13: he was like, it's so such a barren land.

754
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 10: I don't like it up there.

755
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 13: I'm messaging him defending my homeland in the chat. And

756
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 13: then he went there and it was spring, so it

757
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,959
Speaker 13: was wonderful and beautiful. And he came back that next

758
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 13: Monday and he was like, I have to say sorry

759
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 13: to Emma Kate. It was beautiful. I was wrong and

760
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 13: it was just really funny that he corrected it on.

761
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 11: Air, and anytime anyone mentioned Eastern Washington from that point on,

762
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 11: Emma Kate's homeland.

763
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 10: The land is Ama.

764
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 12: That's where Mackay comes from.

765
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure we got this. Noah was

766
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 2: a very new member of our team. He truthfully was

767
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 2: here just a few days before what happened, but he's

768
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 2: he wanted to mention that he had a nice clip

769
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 2: that went up just in that first time he was here,

770
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 2: and he mentioned that Charlie went out of his way

771
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 2: to give him a pat on the back for that

772
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 2: to say, good job, Noah, welcome to the team, and.

773
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 12: Call me Charlie.

774
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, Charlie, Charlie, call him Charlie, and that's who he

775
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 3: is to all of us. He's Charlie.

776
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 6: We'll be right back, Charlie Kirkshaw, Where Talk meet Action.

777
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 3: Welcome back. We're here in the studio.

778
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: We're sharing some of our favorite stories about Charlie from

779
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: different members of the team. Did you get anything other

780
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: else from Dallen before we went in, or is he

781
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: just he's a taciturn one down.

782
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 13: He just has so many stories of like being on

783
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 13: campus with Charlie, especially in the early days, Like there

784
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 13: are a multiple multitude of stories I've heard of him

785
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 13: being on campus with Charlie and just spending so much

786
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 13: time with him in the first days of tabling that

787
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 13: I think those are just some really unique stories that

788
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 13: not the rest of us have, Like it just really

789
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 13: being part of like the early point of three people,

790
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 13: Charlie b Kaine, when there are.

791
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 3: More people on the team than who actually came up

792
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 3: to ask how it's so funny. That's the real og

793
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:29,720
Speaker 3: Charlie team.

794
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 2: That's an important thing that you both you guys just said, right.

795
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 2: So Charlie was a super loyal person, but it was

796
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 2: kind of a two way street for him, and so

797
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 2: a lot of the team that's around him has been

798
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 2: there for a really long time. In Dallen's one of

799
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: those back when, like what Blake said, there was literally

800
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 2: more people working the table than their work coming up

801
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 2: to the table. Charlie used to beg, beg for students

802
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 2: to come up and debate him. Way back in the

803
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 2: day and then towards the end, we didn't even have

804
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 2: space to fit all the students. And through the entire process,

805
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 2: people like Dollan, the Farnsworths, all.

806
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 3: Of us were just there to be able.

807
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 2: It speaks to him that there were so many people

808
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 2: who were there for so long, who were started when

809
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 2: it when there really was no necessarily proof that it

810
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 2: would go become as big as it did, but they

811
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 2: stuck around. We have one last member of our team

812
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 2: whose story we want to tell. It's Heidi, and we

813
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 2: picked her last for a reason. She says, one of

814
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 2: my favorite memories is when he saw the Rush was

815
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 2: right shirt for the first time. Unfortunately, you can't get

816
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 2: that now it's a sold out one.

817
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 12: But we'll try and bring up. Maybe we will. Yeah,

818
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 12: I might have a heart attack hearing massage.

819
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 10: I love that.

820
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: Charlie was a huge Rush Limbaugh fan. He modeled his

821
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: whole on air persona after Rush. He thought he was

822
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 2: the best there ever was. Heidi says she was shocked

823
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 2: he loved it so much. She shouldn't have been. So

824
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 2: we're going to close this show. In our next segment,

825
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 2: we're going to revisit one of Charlie's favorite Rush clips,

826
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 2: one of the best clips Rush ever did. It's his

827
00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:00,240
Speaker 2: final Christmas message to his viewers. Will be right back

828
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 2: with that.

829
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 5: It reminds me how much I love all of you,

830
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 5: how much I so appreciate everything you've meant to me

831
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 5: and my family. You don't have any idea how I

832
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 5: know so many people think this program has changed their

833
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 5: lives for the better.

834
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 6: You have no idea what you all have meant to me.

835
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 5: And my family. The day is going to come, folks,

836
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,359
Speaker 5: where I'm not going to be able to do this.

837
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 5: I don't know when that is. I want to be

838
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 5: able to do it for as long as I want

839
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 5: to do it.

840
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 3: I want to, but.

841
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 5: The day will come where I'm not going to be

842
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 5: able to. And I want you to understand that even

843
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 5: when the day comes, I'd like to be here.

844
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 6: Rush Limbaugh loved Christmas.

845
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 9: He loved Christmas, and this Christmas we always dedicate the

846
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 9: last segment that we do live to the great and

847
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 9: legendary Rush Limba, and we do that in a way

848
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 9: with that clip as the start, and then Rush's favorite

849
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:33,399
Speaker 9: Christmas song as we look back at this last year.

850
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 9: Time to be grateful, to be filled with gratitude.

851
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: That was Charlie we heard from Rush. We don't know

852
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: he didn't know how long he would do it. None

853
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: of us know how long will be here. None of

854
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 2: us expected to lose Charlie as soon as we did.

855
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: But Charlie always wanted to remember Rush, and we will

856
00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 2: always want everyone to remember Charlie, and all of us

857
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 2: will be doing that for the rest of our lives.

858
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 3: I expect.

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00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 11: It's crazy like every year we watch we have that

860
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 11: same clip, the same last segment, and I just didn't expect.

861
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 2: It hits very differently this time. But we're going to

862
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 2: continue to end the show right before Christmas the way

863
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: Charlie loved to, the way he would want us to.

864
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 2: We're going to remember both great Rush Limbaugh and the

865
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 2: immortal Charlie Kirk with their favorite Christmas song, the Carol

866
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 2: of the Bells.

867
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 3: Merry Christmas to all of you, and we'll see you soon.

868
00:42:06,600 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 14: And did us long.

869
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 9: Thank you everybody. How great is Erica, by the way,

870
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 9: that's not easy to do. I'll tell you what, it's amazing.

871
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 9: She's a incredible mom and doing We're working on Bible

872
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 9: in three sixty five and proclaimed streetwear and then she

873
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 9: gives an amazing address like that, and so so many

874
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 9: friends here. You know, this is our tenth annual Young

875
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 9: Women's Leadership somemit. We've been doing this for ten years

876
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 9: real women only, because there's only such thing as real women.

877
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 9: I want to say a special thank you to our

878
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 9: friend here, Karen Duddleston from the Dudlson Foundation. They've been

879
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 9: so generously supporting us for years, So thank you about you,

880
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 9: none of this would be possible. And so we're just

881
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 9: gonna chat for a second here, and then we want

882
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 9: to open it up for questions for you. Which is

883
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 9: the most fun but no political question. I'll be here back,

884
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 9: I'll be back comparing tomorrow. We do that if you

885
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 9: want to talk about all that fun stuff. Literally, just

886
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 9: want questions for both of us about relationships and raising

887
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 9: kids and getting married and all that stuff that you

888
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 9: might have questions about. That's what we want to focus

889
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 9: this Q and A on. So Eric, a great job again.

890
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 9: I love you.

891
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 10: I love you too.

892
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 9: And so a lot of these young ladies have competing

893
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:31,399
Speaker 9: pressures right now. Some might even have parents that are like, hey,

894
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 9: you got to get a job, you got to build

895
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 9: your career. You got to build money. Marriage can come later.

896
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 9: Marriage can come later. However, some ladies might be getting

897
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:43,919
Speaker 9: different advice from this conference or from even inside. They say, boy,

898
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,439
Speaker 9: I might want to get married sooner rather than later.

899
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 9: How do they balance that in a godly and biblical way.

900
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 15: That's hard because usually those voices are coming from your parents.

901
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,439
Speaker 15: I mean they were for me, and so it's hard

902
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 15: because you're in that in between of honoring your parents

903
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 15: but also so knowing that there's a conviction in your

904
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 15: heart to.

905
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:07,280
Speaker 10: Have a family. If you want, you can.

906
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 15: Literally write down what your career, what you want that

907
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 15: to look like, on a piece of paper, put in

908
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 15: an envelope, go.

909
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 10: Pursue if you find the right guy.

910
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 15: That's ninety percent of the problem is find it the

911
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 15: right finding the right person first, then building your life.

912
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 15: And once you do find the right person and your

913
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 15: family loves them, your parents are going to be way

914
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 15: more understanding it into the fact of you having a family.

915
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 10: I think that's ninety percent of this.

916
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 9: So let me ask you raise your hand. If you

917
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 9: had to choose between amazing career amazing family, you have

918
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 9: to choose who here would choose amazing career, raiser that's fine.

919
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 10: If you do, please, like seriously, please raise your hand.

920
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 9: There's a couple of hands, amazing family. Although the hands

921
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 9: got it, okay. So for everyone that rowse at the

922
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 9: hand of amazing family, how many of you every single

923
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 9: day it's your purpose for being as finding a husband,

924
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 9: then every hand should then go up. But I thought

925
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 9: you said you want an amazing family. You have to

926
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 9: prioritize and aim at what you want the most. I

927
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 9: might be the only speaker that says this in these

928
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 9: next couple of days.

929
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 10: You just have to make sure that you find the

930
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 10: right you know.

931
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 9: I know, but you have to prioritize it.

932
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 16: I know.

933
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 10: But you can't be like you can't.

934
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 15: Be like a heat seeking missile where you're like you

935
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 15: see a guy in the back room and you're like, hi,

936
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 15: Like you can't you there's like some new Once I

937
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 15: get what you're saying, I understand his sentiment.

938
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 9: If you are if you're not married by the age

939
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 9: of thirty, you only have a fifty percent chance of

940
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 9: getting married, And if you don't have kids by the

941
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 9: age of thirty, you have a fifty percent chance of

942
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 9: not having kids. You should know that, And now I'm

943
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 9: not telling you anything that is that provocative. It's just

944
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 9: the data, right, Having children our gift from the Lord,

945
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 9: and unfortunately our culture deemphasizes it. And again, you get

946
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 9: what you aim at, you get what you proies. And

947
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 9: so yeah, I just it's interesting because every hand accept

948
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 9: a couple. And that's what I'm not even saying which

949
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,760
Speaker 9: answer is right or wrong. It's just if that matters

950
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 9: more for you, then everything you do on a daily

951
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 9: basis should point towards that.

952
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 15: To add on to that for the women who are

953
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 15: getting married after thirty, that's okay. I'm trying to bridge

954
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 15: the gap here because it is okay. It's not ideal,

955
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 15: it's not probably the best statistical odd position for you,

956
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 15: but it's but God is.

957
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 9: Good and nothing, there's nothing wrong with it. Right, it's right,

958
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 9: I find.

959
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:45,479
Speaker 10: No, it's good.

960
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 3: This is good.

961
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 9: If you just want happy talk that that's fine. It's good.

962
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 10: God is good. You'll find your human I found mine

963
00:49:58,640 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 10: and he's amazing.

964
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 9: So how do you tell young ladies to navigate the

965
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 9: pressures of hookup culture on a college campus where they

966
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 9: feel pressured that if they don't get into let's just say,

967
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 9: sexual situations with a male counterpart then they will not

968
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 9: be able to find a boyfriend or a husband.

969
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 10: He's not meant to be with you like honor. He

970
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 10: needs to honor your purity. Save it for your husband.

971
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,280
Speaker 10: That's simple. Save it to your husband.

972
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 9: Talk more about how they should go about doing that,

973
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 9: because the pressures are so enormous, from free contraceptives to

974
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 9: the podcast they listen to. How many of you feel

975
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 9: as if it's very difficult to maintain your purity on

976
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 9: a college campus. Raise your hand, Okay, not Actually it's

977
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 9: less than I thought, so it's easy. Good, No, I

978
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 9: guess it's fine. How many How many people would you

979
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 9: what percentage of young ladies by the time they graduate

980
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 9: college do you think still are virgins? Less than twenty

981
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:09,800
Speaker 9: five percent? So it's not that easy. Okay, that's interesting. No,

982
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,280
Speaker 9: I just think I'm just trying to process it because

983
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 9: I don't think the church talks enough about purity, right.

984
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:20,240
Speaker 9: I think it's it's incredibly important, and we should tell

985
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 9: young men and young ladies to save themselves from marriage.

986
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 9: It's a beautiful thing, right.

987
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 15: No, I agree, because a lot of people will say, well,

988
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:32,720
Speaker 15: how do I know that I'm compatible with that person

989
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 15: unless I test drive the car before I buy it.

990
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 10: That's not a real thing.

991
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 15: Don't listen to that lie, because when you make that

992
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 15: covenant with the Lord on that altar, don't let that

993
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 15: fire burn out from the altar.

994
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 10: That love is so special and so powerful.

995
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 15: You will have natural chemistry within that marriage. It's not

996
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 15: like your marriage a robot like you're You married your soulmate.

997
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 15: You married the person who God made for you.

998
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 10: You're going to be compatible. You can you should know that.

999
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 9: So then the question that a lot of young ladies have,

1000
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 9: but how do you know? How do you know this

1001
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 9: person is right? And second question, if these young ladies

1002
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 9: have a liberal boyfriend, should should?

1003
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:26,800
Speaker 15: Should?

1004
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:28,399
Speaker 9: Should they dump him?

1005
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 10: How many of you have a liberal boyfriend?

1006
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 9: You have a liberal boyfriend, don't bow her, pray for her.

1007
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 9: I'm going to tell you can't change them.

1008
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 10: That's all right now, you can't change No.

1009
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 9: You're great. But so how how does a young lady know?

1010
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 9: And is it ever too early to get married? If

1011
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,399
Speaker 9: they're twenty two and they feel as if they found

1012
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:00,959
Speaker 9: the right guy, is that too early?

1013
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 15: I well, if you're either way, whether you're younger, whatever

1014
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 15: age you are, I think going through I know it

1015
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 15: has a stigma.

1016
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 10: But premarital is amazing. You get to.

1017
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 15: Learn so much about the person you're with, and I

1018
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 15: have seen it prevent marriages that should not be happening

1019
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 15: because they are so young and naive with things, and

1020
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:24,439
Speaker 15: they're so lustful because they haven't gone down the road

1021
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 15: of having you know, they're saving themselves, so they're just

1022
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 15: like salivating. Go to pre marital you'll learn a lot

1023
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 15: when you know he's the one. Here's an example when

1024
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 15: Charlie sat across Ormani said, I want to date you.

1025
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 15: You want to be with someone who has every intention

1026
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 15: to not mess with your heart.

1027
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 10: You're going to know.

1028
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 15: I know it sounds cliche, but you will know he's

1029
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 15: not gonna He's not going to treat you.

1030
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 10: Like an option.

1031
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 9: How what advice would you give to young ladies where

1032
00:53:55,760 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 9: they are much more more motivated than their boyfriend. How

1033
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 9: many of you have this problem? Raise your hands, Oh

1034
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,839
Speaker 9: that's tough. It's a big I think it's a big problem.

1035
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 10: Yeah.

1036
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 9: Now I think that they you should both be motivated.

1037
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 9: But if the if the woman is much more motivated

1038
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 9: than the man, would you agree that ends up causing

1039
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 9: structurally right?

1040
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:18,279
Speaker 15: Because that because the man then ends up leaving his

1041
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 15: pants on the ground and the woman has to put

1042
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,920
Speaker 15: them on, and so then she becomes the bread winner

1043
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 15: because then the husband's just chill and is like, I'm

1044
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 15: fine with, you know, not going any further than the

1045
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 15: level that I'm at, while the woman is aspiring to

1046
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 15: be more and more and more. So then you become

1047
00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 15: uneven and unequally yoked in your relationship chip or marriage.

1048
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 15: And that's just a recipe for me.

1049
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 9: It becomes disordered. And there wasn't a ton of hands,

1050
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 9: but there were enough where it's a noticeable issue. And

1051
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 9: I find it from the young male perspective that there's

1052
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 9: a whole longer speech I could give about the problems

1053
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 9: with male masculinity. How many of you think that the

1054
00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:28,359
Speaker 9: current dating pool of young men is not great? Raise

1055
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 9: your hand? Okay, so no, no, this is very important.

1056
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 9: Every hand went up. This is very important. What if

1057
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 9: I told you if every hand of young men think

1058
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 9: that the dating pool of young women is not great?

1059
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 9: So who's right? Oh? You guys are right?

1060
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 17: Okay, Okay, I encourage you all to have a little

1061
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 17: more humility about them.

1062
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 9: What is one thing young women can do better to

1063
00:55:57,440 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 9: make themselves more appealing to men who say that the

1064
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 9: current dating pool of young women is lackluster. I ask

1065
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 9: good questions. You Yes, I do this for a lot.

1066
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 15: That's why he has such a good podcast and radio show,

1067
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 15: The Charlie.

1068
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:18,480
Speaker 9: Kirkshak You guys liking these questions.

1069
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 10: You know, this might be.

1070
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:27,240
Speaker 15: So simple, but people pick up on the way you speak.

1071
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 15: I'm not talking about you know, if you sound smart

1072
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 15: or whatever I'm saying.

1073
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 10: They will pick up.

1074
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 15: If you curse, they will pick up if you're speaking

1075
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 15: life over someone. Men hate when women are gossiping. Literally,

1076
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 15: the fire behind your lips is so powerful. And if

1077
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 15: you can find a way to harness your tongue in

1078
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 15: a way that's biblical, and you dress appropriately, you don't

1079
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:56,439
Speaker 15: have everything hanging out, you will attract a different type

1080
00:56:56,440 --> 00:57:00,200
Speaker 15: of guy. Now, if you're going to the club or

1081
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 15: wherever you're going and you're trying to appease a guy

1082
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,479
Speaker 15: that is, are you going to bring him to your mom?

1083
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 15: Are you going to bring them to your grandparents?

1084
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 16: Like?

1085
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 15: Really, just be the type of woman, the godly woman

1086
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 15: that God needs you to be to attract the man

1087
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 15: that He made for you.

1088
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 10: That's what you need to be.

1089
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 9: What young young men have serious problems. We're working on

1090
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 9: fixing that right. And it's easy to laugh, but you

1091
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 9: need you need young men. You do and understand that

1092
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 9: young men are in a far sicker position right now

1093
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,919
Speaker 9: than young ladies are. They're committing suicide more, they're checking

1094
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 9: out a society, they are on more anti they're on

1095
00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 9: a lot of there's a lot of issues, and it's

1096
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 9: easy to kind of make fun of young men, but

1097
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 9: a society needs strong men, and we need husbands, and

1098
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 9: we need fathers, and everyone in this room should be

1099
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 9: part of that project of making men strong against everyone.

1100
00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:15,919
Speaker 9: And so let me first say what young young men

1101
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 9: need to embrace. How many of you would agree that

1102
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 9: self control is an attractive quality that's hard to find

1103
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 9: in men. Every man, every hand goes up great. I totally.

1104
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 9: I say this to young men all the time, that

1105
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Speaker 9: a young lady cares more that if you can control

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Speaker 9: your impulses and control your desires, because that is a

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00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 9: signal of what maturity, not of infancy. Self control is

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00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 9: a signal of maturity. And a young lady, whether she

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00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 9: can articulate it or not, when she sees maturity in

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Speaker 9: a man, she knows that when there's chaos, that man

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00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 9: will be able to navigate the family, the relationship through

1112
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Speaker 9: that kind of environment. Young ladies need to be willing

1113
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 9: to submit to a godly man when you meet one,

1114
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 9: and if you're not willing to do that, then you've

1115
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 9: got to pray about that. Because a lot of young

1116
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 9: men in the dating pool say, I don't want to

1117
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 9: be bossed around all the time. I'm just telling you

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Speaker 9: what I hear from men all the time. The hyper

1119
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 9: toxic feminism is very, very off putting to young men.

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Speaker 9: And I know this is contrary to what a lot

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Speaker 9: of people here on college campuses. You know, you have

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Speaker 9: to assert your dominance, you have to kind of call

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00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 9: your shot. That's fine. However, an attitude in the dating

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00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 9: pool is that it can be very off putting to

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Speaker 9: young men that are already put down so much in

1126
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 9: our society. They're called toxically masculine, they're called you know,

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00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 9: who needs men, the patriarchy, and so then they just

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Speaker 9: largely disengage, or they do even a worse thing, which

1129
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 9: is they get involved, like I'm just going to sleep

1130
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Speaker 9: with a bunch of women. We're not going to marry them. Right.

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Speaker 9: The problem is on both sides in my personal opinion,

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00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 9: and again I think that Erica hit it perfectly. Last

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Speaker 9: thing I'll say and then we'll do some questions, is

1134
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 9: men want what they cannot have. Men will do anything

1135
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 9: to solve the problem of scarcity anything. And if men

1136
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 9: can get you quite easily, that is not an attractive

1137
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 9: quality to be able to have a man go on

1138
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Speaker 9: a journey with you. I'm just being very very honest

1139
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Speaker 9: with you. And there is one thing that men want

1140
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 9: more than anything else, and it's not bitcoin. You know

1141
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 9: what it is. And as women have not been saving

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Speaker 9: themselves for marriage, and men too, in the last thirty

1143
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Speaker 9: or forty years, we've seen marriage rates collapse, there is

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Speaker 9: a one to one correlation on those two things.

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Speaker 13: And so.

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Speaker 9: All that to say that, young late everybody in this room,

1147
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 9: you have more power than I think you could ever imagine.

1148
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 9: If everybody in this room collectively said that we are

1149
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 9: only going to save ourselves for our future husbands, men

1150
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 9: will grow up in a way that you would never imagine.

1151
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 9: You can't believe because all of a sudden they be like,

1152
01:00:58,920 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 9: because you understand, hookup culture has given men everything they've

1153
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 9: always wanted. They don't have to work for sex. They

1154
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 9: don't have to grow up, they don't have to do anything,

1155
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 9: and then women will just throw themselves at them and

1156
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:11,080
Speaker 9: they could stay as grown infants for the rest of

1157
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Speaker 9: their life. And unfortunately, it does a lot of damage

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Speaker 9: to young ladies a lot. It does a lot of

1159
01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 9: psychological damage and a lot of spiritual damage. So if

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Speaker 9: everyone here basically said nope, we're gonna combine our power

1161
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 9: and be pure and trust in Jesus and in God

1162
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 9: for our future husband, you would be shocked at how

1163
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Speaker 9: much the dating pool improves. Okay, I want to tell

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Speaker 9: you about one thing and then we'll do a question line.

1165
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Speaker 9: We have a special who would love to meet Erica

1166
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 9: Riley Gains and get a picture of me? I'm sure

1167
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 9: that that would be a lot of fun, right all right,

1168
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Speaker 9: So we have a special giveaway. If you guys follow

1169
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 9: the QR codes on our screen, subscribe to the podcast,

1170
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 9: and then email at Freedom at Charliekirk dot com. We'll

1171
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 9: pick ten winners, but you have to follow the QR

1172
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 9: code in the next couple minutes. So follow that QR code,

1173
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 9: subscribe and email us proof of subscription Freedom at Charliekirk

1174
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 9: dot com. You know it's awesome. Women are much better

1175
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 9: rule followers than men, so I know that all of

1176
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 9: you are going to get that right. No, it's true men.

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Speaker 9: If you guys, one of the most important things that

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Speaker 9: I can leave you with before we go to questions.

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Speaker 9: If you want to find your future soulmate, you must

1180
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Speaker 9: desire to humbly know male nature. How many people here

1181
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 9: think you know male nature? Anybody? Only? If you are married?

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Speaker 9: Can you raise your hand? Yeah? Okay. Male nature is

1183
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 9: easier to make fun of, but a lot deeper than

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Speaker 9: you realize. Raise your hand. Do you think that men

1185
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 9: are better at let me put it this way, raise

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Speaker 9: your hand. If you think that men are better at

1187
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 9: micro tech tasks than women details anybody? Okay, a couple hands?

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Speaker 9: Raise your hand. If you think that men are better

1189
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 9: at macro tasks than women, raise your hand. You're right,

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Speaker 9: it's not even close, okay, macro. If two people are

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Speaker 9: talking on a college campus, and I told you they

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01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 9: were talking about sports, they were talking about the stock

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Speaker 9: market or politics, is it more likely to be a

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Speaker 9: man two men or two women two men. If I

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Speaker 9: tell you that two people on a college campus are

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Speaker 9: talking about their relationships, the conversations they had earlier in

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Speaker 9: the day and what fellow classmates were wearing. Is it

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Speaker 9: two men or two women micro versus macro. You must

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Speaker 9: understand that a man might forget to shower for three

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Speaker 9: days because he's too worried that we're going to go

1201
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 9: to a nuclear warthroon. Men are obsessed with the macro,

1202
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 9: and they often forget the micro. This is why corporations

1203
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 9: want to hire you so badly. Understand this because you

1204
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 9: are incredibly good at micro tasks. That is why young

1205
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 9: women have been so well paid in the corporate environment,

1206
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 9: because when it comes to getting details done, women are

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Speaker 9: much better than men. No male nature, and you'll be

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01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 9: in a much better chance to find your future husband. Okay,

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Speaker 9: we'll start right there. Is that? Okay, Hi, what's your name?

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Speaker 18: My name is Carisa, Charlie and Erica. Thank you for

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01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 18: saying yes and being obedient to what God has for you,

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Speaker 18: and it's really shaped my life and everyone else here.

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Speaker 18: I would love to know your thoughts on Sabbath and

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01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 18: how practically your family practices this and applies it.

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Speaker 10: I will let him.

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Speaker 15: As the wife, I will say I have seen it

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01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 15: transform I already. I love my husband and he's amazing

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01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 15: and an intentional father and husband, but him honoring the Sabbath.

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Speaker 15: I have seen it transform him in a way that

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01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 15: is so powerful that when he turns his phone off

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01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 15: and it goes in that drawer and he and I

1222
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:24,600
Speaker 15: know that it's you know, he's all on for the family.

1223
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 15: There is no distractions, and he finally gets to reset

1224
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 15: his brain. He finally gets to breathe. And as a wife,

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01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 15: there is nothing more precious than my husband's sanity when

1226
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 15: it comes to the echo chamber and everything that he's

1227
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Speaker 15: dealing with in his world. So I have seen it

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Speaker 15: change him and impact our family in one of the

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Speaker 15: most beautiful ways.

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Speaker 9: But I want him to well, thank you, char And

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01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 9: we're very serious Sabbath keepers. This would be an exception

1232
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Speaker 9: because we're here with all of you, but we'll do

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Speaker 9: it on Sunday. We actually take the traditional Jewish Sabbath.

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Speaker 9: If you don't want to do that, I'm not here

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Speaker 9: to debate you on it. It's fine. If you want

1236
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 9: to do a private I'll beat you. But that's a

1237
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 9: whole separate issue. But it's fine. It doesn't it actually

1238
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 9: doesn't matter that much. What does matter is I think

1239
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 9: that to our own detriment and to our own failure,

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Speaker 9: we as Christians have decided to cast away, resting on

1241
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Speaker 9: one of the seven days. God rests that after creation,

1242
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Speaker 9: that comes before the Hebrews, it comes even before the

1243
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Speaker 9: creation of the of the of the modern world and

1244
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Speaker 9: civilization as we know it. And so we honor the Sabbath.

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Speaker 9: We are very serious about it. We get to spend

1246
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:30,600
Speaker 9: more time with our family. We do no news, we

1247
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 9: do no work. And it says very very clearly in

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Speaker 9: the scriptures, for six days you shall work, and the

1249
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Speaker 9: seventh day you shall rest. If you are feeling overrun

1250
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 9: by society, you might be feeling depressed or anxious, here's

1251
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,240
Speaker 9: this one way that you might be able to improve.

1252
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 9: Turn your phone off for one day, no contact, no

1253
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:53,000
Speaker 9: social media, no work. Your mental health will improve dramatically.

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01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 9: You can you can hang out with friends, you can

1255
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 9: go for a walk, but don't work for one day.

1256
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Speaker 9: That is a day for worship. That is a day

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Speaker 9: for the Lord. That is a day to go be

1258
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 9: with God. That is a day to read your Bible

1259
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,919
Speaker 9: and be out of the busyness and the hurried nous

1260
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 9: and the just the anger and the noise of this world.

1261
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 9: Go back to God's natural rhythm, and it's made our

1262
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 9: family much tighter knit. And I could be traveling for

1263
01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 9: five or six days, but if I at least get

1264
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 9: one good sab with my family, it charges all back up.

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Speaker 9: So God bless you. Thank you so much, and Shabat

1266
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Speaker 9: shalam tonight.

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Speaker 19: Hi Charlie and Erica. My name is Savannah. This is

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Speaker 19: Lilah Esther and we have another one on the way

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Speaker 19: in January. So I did find my godly man and

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Speaker 19: we are making more babies. My question for you is,

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Speaker 19: we want to have a lot of kids, and I'm

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Speaker 19: wondering what your best advice is for young couples with

1273
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Speaker 19: small children on how to prioritize and nurture their marriage

1274
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Speaker 19: amiss the busy day to day life of kids.

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Speaker 15: That's a very good question because your marriage came first,

1276
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 15: and your husband is very important. Because your kids, you're

1277
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 15: raising them to fly, You're raising them to leave the nest.

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Speaker 10: They'll always come back and once they do.

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Speaker 15: I think that's why people get empty nest syndrome, because

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Speaker 15: they look at their husband in an empty living room

1281
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 15: and they're like, who are you?

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Speaker 10: I have to relearn you. You want to grow with

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Speaker 10: your husband.

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Speaker 15: That is going to be very acrobatic at times, even

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01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 15: if that means locking yourself in a closet with your

1286
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 15: husband for just an hour to say, can I breathe

1287
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Speaker 15: with you?

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Speaker 10: Can I just five minutes? Can I just have a

1289
01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:35,640
Speaker 10: second to look at you.

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Speaker 15: Something that Charlie does that's really sweet that I love

1291
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:42,919
Speaker 15: is that sometimes, especially when he's traveling, we don't obviously

1292
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:45,600
Speaker 15: we figure out the dynamic of at least having a

1293
01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 15: date night at least once a month at least, but

1294
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Speaker 15: there will be moments where he's literally about to rush

1295
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 15: out the door and I won't see him for several days.

1296
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Speaker 15: Kids are wreaking havoc in the kitchen, pulling things out

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Speaker 15: all over, and he just grabs me and he's like

1298
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Speaker 15: one minute, and we just literally really stare at each

1299
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Speaker 15: other for a minute and say like, I love you,

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Speaker 15: whatever you need to say, but you just we have

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Speaker 15: that one minute together to reset our hearts. And honestly,

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01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:12,280
Speaker 15: that is something that that helps recharge the bucket until

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01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 15: you get that date night. So just being really intentional

1304
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 15: about little moments that will build into a greater good

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Speaker 15: for the relationship.

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Speaker 9: But I know you I agree with all that just prioritize. Obviously,

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01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 9: your marriage actually comes before your kids. I know that's

1308
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Speaker 9: a provocative thing to say, but it's true. Your relationship

1309
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 9: with your kids is important, yes, but it's not covenantal right.

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Speaker 9: It's your marriage is a covenant. Your relationship with your

1311
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Speaker 9: kids is an outgrowth of a covenant. They're under your stewardship.

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Speaker 9: But covenantal relationships are ones that we saw with Abraham

1313
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Speaker 9: and David and Israel and of course Jesus. That idea

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Speaker 9: of marriage being a covenant is a big, big deal.

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Speaker 9: In fact, only marriage in the Bible is compared to

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01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 9: Christ's relationship with the Church. To always prioritize your marriage.

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Speaker 9: Thank you.

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Speaker 20: Hi.

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Speaker 21: My name is Lindsay Cameron. I'm eighteen years old and

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01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 21: I was homeschool and I just graduated high school. And

1321
01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:16,400
Speaker 21: with graduating high school comes the question of so what

1322
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 21: are you going to do? Yeah, And to be honest,

1323
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 21: in my career, like, I want to be a mom

1324
01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:22,360
Speaker 21: and I want to have kids, and I want to

1325
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 21: homeschool them and I want to stay at home with them,

1326
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 21: and that's just not a really acceptable answer. And I'm

1327
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 21: struggling to really know what I want to do in

1328
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:31,439
Speaker 21: the meantime while I'm waiting to get married and have

1329
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 21: kids because I'm not dating and I don't see anybody

1330
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 21: that I really want to date, and so I'm just

1331
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:40,880
Speaker 21: I have a lot of friends who are in the

1332
01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:43,679
Speaker 21: same position too of being in this weird waiting period

1333
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 21: where I don't want to go to college and I

1334
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 21: don't want to commit to a career that I know

1335
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 21: that I'm going to abandon once.

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Speaker 10: I have kids.

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Speaker 21: So I was just wondering if y'all had any advice

1338
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 21: for that, and if you had any advice with dealing

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01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:57,599
Speaker 21: with criticism, because I'm having some from an extended family.

1340
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 15: I know we talked about don't follow your don't follow

1341
01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 15: your heart and all that.

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01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 9: Don't follow your heart. It's a bad idea. I don't

1343
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:08,679
Speaker 9: do that. You laugh, But the Bible is very clear

1344
01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 9: the heart is wicked. Yeah, do not follow your heart.

1345
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:15,120
Speaker 9: Your talents, right, Yes, that's correct. Yeah, I mean, so look,

1346
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 9: what are you good at?

1347
01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:19,000
Speaker 10: What are you talented at? I love people.

1348
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 21: I love talking to people all the time, and honestly,

1349
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 21: turning point USA like Alex Clark has really shaped my life.

1350
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 21: I got really into culture of Popcario. It has kind

1351
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 21: of changed my life, and I mean, I would love

1352
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 21: to get involved in health and wellness, but I feel

1353
01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:33,839
Speaker 21: like there's not a really clear path for a career

1354
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 21: in that. I feel like most people just kind of

1355
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 21: happen to fall into it because of life circumstances. And

1356
01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:40,640
Speaker 21: I don't really know where to start for that.

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01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:42,360
Speaker 9: You'd be surprised. I mean, like, so I could give

1358
01:11:42,360 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 9: you a million ideas, but the first thing is you're

1359
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 9: already thinking about this correctly, which is your aim. You

1360
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 9: got your aim right, which is important. And by the way,

1361
01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:52,599
Speaker 9: if your aim is career, I'm not saying that's bad.

1362
01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 9: At least you are clear. Don't confuse yourself of your aim.

1363
01:11:57,280 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 9: We are aiming creatures. We need something to pot I mean, look,

1364
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 9: there's a million things you could do. You could work

1365
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 9: at a mobile IVY clinic right as an administrator, Like,

1366
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:07,400
Speaker 9: there's a lot of stuff you could do in that

1367
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 9: kind of MAHA space. I would are you from Texas,

1368
01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:13,719
Speaker 9: I'm guessing yeah from here? Okay, yeah, great? And Dallas

1369
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 9: actually has a huge infrastructure of like new Maha small businesses.

1370
01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 9: You could work at those kind of around that kind

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01:12:20,120 --> 01:12:24,639
Speaker 9: of genre and that outreach. I will say though, that don't.

1372
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 9: If you find your future husband and he is godly

1373
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 9: and it passes premarital counseling, which Eric is exactly right,

1374
01:12:32,520 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 9: do not appease extended family. You only really have one

1375
01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 9: thing to worry about, which is the fear of the Lord.

1376
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 9: Right now, let me just can we riff on premarital

1377
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 9: counseling for a second. It's very, very important and it

1378
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 9: shouldn't get a bad taboo. If you are anybody currently

1379
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:50,599
Speaker 9: engaged right now, I'm sure there's some Okay, awesome, praise

1380
01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 9: the Lord. It's amazing. Aren't you from Canada or something? Yeah,

1381
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:57,439
Speaker 9: I remember you you found a husband. We'll talk in

1382
01:12:57,479 --> 01:13:01,479
Speaker 9: a second. We'll talk in a second. I remember. That's great.

1383
01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 9: I hope you did not find your partner here at

1384
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 9: y WLS. I hope you. I'm kidding. So no, I'm kidding.

1385
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:15,000
Speaker 9: I'm kidding. I'm kidding. So at SaaS right, So primaral counseling.

1386
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 9: Who's going to control the finances? Who's going to wake

1387
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 9: up in the middle of the night if the kid

1388
01:13:20,800 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 9: has an issue? Are you gonna have kids? How many

1389
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:24,879
Speaker 9: kids are you going to raise? The kids Protestant or Catholic?

1390
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 9: Are you going to read the Bible? Are you here's

1391
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:30,639
Speaker 9: a good question in premarital counseling that most won't ask,

1392
01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:32,879
Speaker 9: and you got this will save you a lot of problems.

1393
01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 9: Are you a open or closed house who here grew

1394
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 9: up in an open house where all the kids would

1395
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,519
Speaker 9: come by in the neighborhood. You know what I'm talking about, right?

1396
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:46,000
Speaker 9: How many of you was raised in a closed house

1397
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:50,120
Speaker 9: where your parents? Okay, that's important though, has anyone ever

1398
01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:51,719
Speaker 9: told you when you look in a spouse to ask

1399
01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:54,000
Speaker 9: that question, were you raised in an open or closed house?

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01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 9: It's incredibly important because all of a sudden, if you raise,

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01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,200
Speaker 9: if you if you marry an open house person. This

1402
01:14:01,360 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 9: was not an issue for us, thankfully at all, but

1403
01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 9: I've seen it destroy marriages, and they've recovered some not

1404
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:09,479
Speaker 9: an open house person marries a closed house person. They

1405
01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:12,240
Speaker 9: get married, they're inviting all their friends over all the time,

1406
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:15,680
Speaker 9: barbecue open up lit. The closed house person is like,

1407
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:19,719
Speaker 9: this is crazy. I wasn't raised like this, And none

1408
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:23,080
Speaker 9: of that gets filtered in the engagement. That's one of

1409
01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 9: like a hundred questions that that would be a good book.

1410
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:28,200
Speaker 9: We could write one hundred questions you should ask before

1411
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 9: you get married, right, that would be a good book.

1412
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 10: Fine, go ahead, No, no, no, I was just saying

1413
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 10: the home is sacred.

1414
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:39,280
Speaker 9: I could go on, but that's like you just have

1415
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 9: to What premarital counseling should do, which it does a

1416
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 9: bad job of in most churches, is you must really

1417
01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 9: know the nature of your spouse introvert extrovert? What is

1418
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 9: their love language? Right? Do they need time alone? Do

1419
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 9: they get filled up when you spend time with them,

1420
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 9: or when they come home and they're beat down and

1421
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:58,960
Speaker 9: they need time alone. Here's a good one that almost

1422
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 9: no pastor will ever tell you. What is a vice

1423
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 9: that your spouse struggles with and what is an acceptable

1424
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 9: vice and an unacceptable vice. So, for example, an acceptable

1425
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 9: device might be that you'll allow alcohol. We don't drink, right,

1426
01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 9: so that for us. I'm not saying you have to

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01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 9: do that, but for us, that's what works. So it's

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01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,680
Speaker 9: not even a question. Some men like cigars. I think

1429
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:22,560
Speaker 9: they smell like, you know, dead raccoons, But that's fine.

1430
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 9: Are you willing to smell a cigar? Have you ever

1431
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 9: smelled a cigar? Will your house be able to withstand

1432
01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:33,040
Speaker 9: cigar smoke? Inside? You're laughing this is the stuff that

1433
01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 9: breaks apart marriages. This is the stuff that creates isolation,

1434
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,759
Speaker 9: and it must be flushed out in the engagement period,

1435
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 9: not in the honeymoon period or two years in and

1436
01:15:43,520 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 9: so other vices, which is like, you know, we're not

1437
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:49,080
Speaker 9: gonna watch R rated movies or we're not gonna swear.

1438
01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 9: You'd be amazed at how many marriages all of a sudden,

1439
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:56,600
Speaker 9: you know, the husband's just drop an f bombs. She's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, Like,

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01:15:56,640 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 9: we don't do that around here. You see this, who's

1441
01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:00,120
Speaker 9: gonna cook?

1442
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:00,360
Speaker 4: Right?

1443
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:03,120
Speaker 9: What does it mean to take time off? Here's another one.

1444
01:16:03,120 --> 01:16:05,680
Speaker 9: What type of vacations are you guys going to take?

1445
01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:29,040
Speaker 9: This is very important, right, what I should write the book?

1446
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1447
01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:33,800
Speaker 9: Right, no, but think about it because Erica grew up

1448
01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:34,680
Speaker 9: in a camping.

1449
01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:36,720
Speaker 10: Family, right, yes, we get how many of you.

1450
01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:37,759
Speaker 9: Guys are camping families?

1451
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 16: Yes?

1452
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,240
Speaker 9: Yeah, how many of you guys think camping is like

1453
01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:45,599
Speaker 9: for Neanderthals? Raise your hands. I'm an eagle scout. If

1454
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 9: it's a necessity for survival, I'll go camping. Okay.

1455
01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:50,679
Speaker 10: His camping is like the Foreseas, Yeah.

1456
01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:54,799
Speaker 9: Exactly, Okay, No, I have no shame in that. Okay,

1457
01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 9: I have a busy life. I get like three days

1458
01:16:57,560 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 9: off a year. I'm not going to like hang my

1459
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 9: food by a tree for the three days off I

1460
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:09,519
Speaker 9: have a year. Okay, that dog's not gonna hunt for

1461
01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:12,639
Speaker 9: other families. They think it's like invigorating and exhilarating, right

1462
01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 9: to like run from the wolves at night or something

1463
01:17:15,400 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 9: I don't know you got, or like, hey, we're gonna

1464
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:22,519
Speaker 9: go do a road trip. Road trip? Really in an RV?

1465
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 9: Oh sounds interesting.

1466
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:30,000
Speaker 15: That's like Charlie's Worth nightmare, to be stuck in a

1467
01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:32,479
Speaker 15: moving vehicle at multiple for multiple hours.

1468
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 9: I had to go into a trailer that's an RV

1469
01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 9: and they said, isn't this nice? So yeah, I'd rather

1470
01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 9: go to Alcatraz then he's stuck in this thing. It's

1471
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:42,599
Speaker 9: just it's just everything.

1472
01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:44,400
Speaker 15: He went on a cruise once and that was the

1473
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:46,280
Speaker 15: last time we'd ever go on to go. It's it's

1474
01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:48,599
Speaker 15: just terrible, which I mean, I guess.

1475
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 9: Is important because you might think you know your spouse

1476
01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:52,559
Speaker 9: and all of a sudden you book like a seven

1477
01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:57,200
Speaker 9: day cruise in the Caribbean and it's non refundable and

1478
01:17:57,280 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 9: he has the head.

1479
01:17:57,960 --> 01:17:59,599
Speaker 15: I didn't do this, by the way, I just tried,

1480
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 15: but he Charlie had.

1481
01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:02,479
Speaker 9: The head band I.

1482
01:18:05,520 --> 01:18:05,840
Speaker 3: Was doing.

1483
01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 9: I get totally sea sick. It's terrible. It's you have

1484
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 9: to know the nature right and unfortunately, and we can

1485
01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:16,080
Speaker 9: kind of We say we want to get married early,

1486
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:18,400
Speaker 9: but that does not mean you should get married in

1487
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:22,839
Speaker 9: a rushed way. So two different things. Early and rushing

1488
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:25,559
Speaker 9: are not synonyms. Thank you. I hope that was someone

1489
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,040
Speaker 9: helpful that we took a lot of detours there.

1490
01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:30,439
Speaker 20: Oh, I'm going to hold it.

1491
01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 9: Hey, so you're getting married, yes, amazing.

1492
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:57,240
Speaker 20: So, speaking of which, I have a wedding planning question.

1493
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:01,800
Speaker 20: I know that this sounds a bit weird. So essentially

1494
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:07,040
Speaker 20: I am facing visa visa delays. How do I deal

1495
01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:13,599
Speaker 20: with the disappointment and the feeling of status of having

1496
01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:16,679
Speaker 20: to plan for a peak winter wedding in the state

1497
01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:17,400
Speaker 20: of Wisconsin.

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01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:22,519
Speaker 9: Wait, so, okay, is it a visa question or is it?

1499
01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 20: It's so basically because of the visa delays, which is

1500
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 20: beyond anyone's beyond pretty much anyone's control, how do I

1501
01:19:33,160 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 20: plan for? Okay, I am going to have a wedding

1502
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 20: in the peak winter when there's no outside, when when

1503
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:44,920
Speaker 20: it's really really cold, like and I'm feeling disappointed and

1504
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:45,639
Speaker 20: sad about it.

1505
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 10: You shouldn't. The winter is actually really beautiful.

1506
01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 15: There's something really I know. It's cold, you can figure

1507
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 15: out the outfit. You can wear a really beautiful shawl

1508
01:19:55,560 --> 01:20:00,760
Speaker 15: over yourself. There's way more options for winter attire then.

1509
01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:02,680
Speaker 10: The typical think of it.

1510
01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:05,639
Speaker 15: This way, your wedding is going to be amazing because

1511
01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:07,559
Speaker 15: you're not having to have the.

1512
01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:09,320
Speaker 9: Florals and the save a bunch of money.

1513
01:20:09,400 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 15: You'll save a ton of money. Yes, you'll get a

1514
01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:17,880
Speaker 15: killer deal. But there's something special about the winter season.

1515
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:19,439
Speaker 10: There really is.

1516
01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:24,599
Speaker 15: And because what comes after winter spring metaphorically you are

1517
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:26,639
Speaker 15: springing into a new season of life.

1518
01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:31,919
Speaker 10: You're springing into a beautiful marriage. Embrace the snow, Embrace

1519
01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 10: the beauty of it.

1520
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:36,200
Speaker 15: It might not be ideally what you want, and that's

1521
01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 15: that's okay, because God's challenging you to release that. The

1522
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:43,040
Speaker 15: wedding day is a wedding day. It's really not for you.

1523
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,760
Speaker 15: It's for your family. It's important in the altar that

1524
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 15: is for you. But I'm talking about the party.

1525
01:20:49,240 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 10: It's really not for you. It's to entertain everyone else.

1526
01:20:52,560 --> 01:20:55,679
Speaker 15: So just hold true to the fact that what matters

1527
01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 15: the most, regardless of the season, is the man and

1528
01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 15: the woman standing at the and that covenant you're making.

1529
01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:04,519
Speaker 15: It could be raining, it could be snowing, it could

1530
01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:07,080
Speaker 15: be one hundred and some degrees like our wedding, that

1531
01:21:07,160 --> 01:21:11,479
Speaker 15: didn't stop us. What's so important is is that marriage

1532
01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 15: and that because when you guys get married, that's your family.

1533
01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:19,760
Speaker 15: Your husband's your family, everyone else's relatives, that's your husband.

1534
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:22,559
Speaker 9: Congratulations, And I want to use you as an example.

1535
01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 9: What's your name again, Vicki? And that was last year

1536
01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:27,559
Speaker 9: when you gave the question two years ago, so.

1537
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:30,080
Speaker 20: That was in twenty twenty four, so that was last year.

1538
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:32,320
Speaker 9: So Vicky came up last year and said, how do

1539
01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 9: I meet a husband? And she made her priority and

1540
01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:39,920
Speaker 9: a year later she's engaged. How awesome. Thank you very much,

1541
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:41,599
Speaker 9: we got thank you. Thank you.

1542
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:45,640
Speaker 16: Next question, Yes, hi, Erica, Charlie. I'm Melissa, and my

1543
01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 16: question is I'm twenty and I'm single and I want

1544
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:51,000
Speaker 16: to get married young. However, every almost every woman in

1545
01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:53,479
Speaker 16: my life is telling me that I'm not missing out anything.

1546
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:54,639
Speaker 16: Do you have any response to that?

1547
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 15: The women that are married, Yes, well, that's so so sad.

1548
01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 10: That's really sad.

1549
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 9: What what I mean as far as like having kids

1550
01:22:06,240 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 9: or the relationship or.

1551
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 16: Just like getting married young because when I tell people

1552
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:12,120
Speaker 16: like my parents are really supportive about it, but when

1553
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:14,720
Speaker 16: I tell other people like in church, like outside of church,

1554
01:22:14,720 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 16: I won't getting young, they look down on me. Like

1555
01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 16: why they like they tell me to, you know, get

1556
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 16: go to college and get a career. So like, what

1557
01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:25,439
Speaker 16: is like a good response to that? And like what

1558
01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:27,519
Speaker 16: should I be doing? Because I don't. I don't feel

1559
01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:29,600
Speaker 16: like I'm missing out, but I'm not sure, Like what

1560
01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:30,439
Speaker 16: I should be doing?

1561
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:34,679
Speaker 9: What church do you go to? I must have missed

1562
01:22:34,680 --> 01:22:37,640
Speaker 9: it in Matthew, which is go forth and become a

1563
01:22:37,640 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 9: CEO of a shoe company. It'd be fruitful and multiply.

1564
01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:44,519
Speaker 9: Like I mean, first of all, you are hitting a

1565
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 9: very fundamental and precious point. I've said for a long time,

1566
01:22:48,200 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 9: we as Christians have done a crappy job of glorifying

1567
01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:56,040
Speaker 9: and celebrating marriage. It. In fact, when we first got married,

1568
01:22:56,040 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 9: I heard almost more negatives than positives, like oh, you're

1569
01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:01,720
Speaker 9: going to be have your handcuffs or oh, marriage is

1570
01:23:01,720 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 9: the most awesome thing ever everybody, It's amazing, And.

1571
01:23:08,640 --> 01:23:11,680
Speaker 15: I think it's because they didn't have good examples to

1572
01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:13,120
Speaker 15: look towards themselves.

1573
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 10: So they either settled.

1574
01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 15: Or they're not happy because either something in their life

1575
01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 15: they didn't settle and get fixed prior to getting marriage.

1576
01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 10: They're unequally yoked.

1577
01:23:23,160 --> 01:23:27,600
Speaker 15: It's sad, but honestly, I feel like it's like I

1578
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:29,760
Speaker 15: talked about, that's a form of spiritual warfare. Like the

1579
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:34,200
Speaker 15: enemies will use anybody to keep you from where God

1580
01:23:34,280 --> 01:23:38,560
Speaker 15: needs you to be. So smile and wave. Just feel like,

1581
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:40,360
Speaker 15: I'm so sorry that happened to you. It's not gonna

1582
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:43,439
Speaker 15: happen to me. And you just you say I'll be

1583
01:23:43,479 --> 01:23:46,439
Speaker 15: praying for you. I mean, marriage is beautiful, don't let

1584
01:23:46,520 --> 01:23:50,120
Speaker 15: that deter you. It's another thing too. I'd like motherhood's

1585
01:23:50,160 --> 01:23:52,880
Speaker 15: the same thing. There are so many Christian moms who

1586
01:23:52,920 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 15: will get on social media and they'll say I'm so tired,

1587
01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:57,320
Speaker 15: I need wine.

1588
01:23:57,920 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 10: My child's driving me nuts.

1589
01:23:59,840 --> 01:24:07,240
Speaker 15: Like no, no, motherhood is beautiful. It's exhausting, but it's beautiful,

1590
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 15: and it's not gonna be those sleepless nights. Yeah, one day,

1591
01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:15,160
Speaker 15: your kid's probably not gonna go home until midnight. So

1592
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 15: the sleepless nights gets like a little bit construed, but

1593
01:24:18,360 --> 01:24:21,679
Speaker 15: you will sleep again, you will have you know your

1594
01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:22,639
Speaker 15: time again