Speaker 1: Brook and Jubils second date up to day. Remember, if
Speaker 1: you want a second date up date, all you have
Speaker 1: to do is email the show Broke and Jubile at
Speaker 1: Moving nine two five dot com. We will call it
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back. Alexandra is on
Speaker 1: the phone with us right now. She wants to call
Speaker 1: a dude named Sean. Alexandra, how are you? I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you doing? Not too bad? Thank you for
Speaker 1: your email? Do you want us to call a guy
Speaker 1: named Sean today? How did you meet him? We met
Speaker 1: two friends. Okay, they thought you'd be perfect together. And yes,
Speaker 1: he and I have a mutual friend who thought we would,
Speaker 1: you know, hit it off. Your email didn't say that
Speaker 1: there was anything crazy that happened. Why do you think
Speaker 1: he's not calling you back? Well, I don't know if
Speaker 1: I'm you know, reading him do it too much? But
Speaker 1: we went out, we had a great time, and afterward
Speaker 1: I invited him back to my apartment. But not like
Speaker 1: the way that you would think. I genuinely just wanted
Speaker 1: to hang out with him. I had a roommate, so
Speaker 1: maybe get her opinion on him. Did he understand that
Speaker 1: it was like a just to hang out and not
Speaker 1: like indication. Yeah, like I kind of need to clear
Speaker 1: that my roommate was home. You didn't like wink at
Speaker 1: him ago you want to come back to my place,
Speaker 1: big boy? So you got back to your place. Where'd
Speaker 1: you guys go? First of all, we went out to dinner,
Speaker 1: to dinner, okay, and all that was normal. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was great. We had a really nice time. Like
Speaker 1: we had dinner, we had a few drinks, we talked,
Speaker 1: we laughed. I just felt like we were really hitting
Speaker 1: it off, which is why I kind of wanted to
Speaker 1: get my roommates opinions. So you took him back to
Speaker 1: your place so you could get your roommate's opinion on
Speaker 1: if you should go out with them again. And did
Speaker 1: you guys do anything there? Well? No, know what I mean?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You know? Do you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Alexandra, Yes, I know what you mean. No. Um,
Speaker 1: We we got back and being mad, I introduced him
Speaker 1: to my roommates and I went into the other room
Speaker 1: to like get drinks together and everything. And when I
Speaker 1: came back into our living room, um that two of
Speaker 1: them were kind of laughing about something and stopped when
Speaker 1: I got in the room awkward and like kind of
Speaker 1: wouldn't tell me what they were laughing about. Was it
Speaker 1: one of those situations where you feel like they were
Speaker 1: laughing about you. Well, I don't know about something that
Speaker 1: they didn't want me to be in on, that's for sure,
Speaker 1: But at least I felt like it. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of not sure if I'm just getting into thinking.
Speaker 1: I hate those situations because it's it's so awkward when
Speaker 1: that happens. You walk in on a conversation not to hear,
Speaker 1: and then they just stop. Everybody in the room knows
Speaker 1: that you just heard it, but nobody ever says anything.
Speaker 1: It's always just like, Okay, that's weird. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 1: good enough friend that you wanted her opinion on this guy,
Speaker 1: but she won't tell you what they were talking about.
Speaker 1: Even still, yeah, well that's what's weird about it. It's
Speaker 1: because that's not our relationship like mine in my roommate,
Speaker 1: we are really close, have you and you've asked her
Speaker 1: since then what you guys are laughing about, and she
Speaker 1: won't tell you anything, or she just does. She just
Speaker 1: keeps blowing it off. She's like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: don't even know like it's nothing, like, you know, kind
Speaker 1: of like I'm being weird. So what happened after that
Speaker 1: awkward moment? Then, well, she kind of abruptly had to
Speaker 1: go after I got back into the room. She's like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm actually going to need a friend for drinks now,
Speaker 1: so I can't stay, which I kind of didn't want to.
Speaker 1: I wanted her to get to know him a little bit.
Speaker 1: So she failed and me and Sean were together at none.
Speaker 1: Well that's probably good, right, I mean, you still got
Speaker 1: some alone time with him. Yeah, I guess I kind
Speaker 1: of wanted her to stay there to beat that buffer
Speaker 1: because I didn't want to, you know, sleep with him
Speaker 1: on the first date. So we like we just hang out.
Speaker 1: We watched a movie, and then like fifteen minutes into it,
Speaker 1: he's like, oh my god, it's eleven o'clock. Like you
Speaker 1: believe how late it is. Whenever somebody starts dropping that,
Speaker 1: it means they want to go. Yeah, was it a
Speaker 1: week night at least? So maybe you know it was late.
Speaker 1: It was Friday night, you know, Like I said that,
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's you know, it's Friday night, and he's like,
Speaker 1: I have something early in the morning, you know, so
Speaker 1: the usual stuff that a guy would say to kind
Speaker 1: of get out of there. Yeah, so you feel like
Speaker 1: he was blowing you off at that point kind of.
Speaker 1: But then we gave each other a hug to buy
Speaker 1: and he's like, you know, before he left, he's like,
Speaker 1: text me okay, and and then that was it. Have
Speaker 1: you texted him? I tried texting him a few times,
Speaker 1: but I didn't just because I didn't want to seem
Speaker 1: like a soffer. Yeah, and you really felt like the
Speaker 1: whole date was really good up until the meeting of
Speaker 1: the roommate back at your place. Then it all went south. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like it was a total switch. I mean, we really
Speaker 1: had a great time. Like, it wasn't like he was
Speaker 1: hesitating about coming over to hang out with me. He
Speaker 1: didn't see you have anything to do or anything. So
Speaker 1: I kind of like, did he go meet my roommate?
Speaker 1: Oh you think maybe? Oh yeah that like they were
Speaker 1: laughing about like let's meet up, and then she left
Speaker 1: and then he left shortly after. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: want it. I'm hoping that I'm just being paranoid, but
Speaker 1: that's I think kind of what I'm wondering. All Right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, brooking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning date. If you missed the first part
Speaker 1: of the second date update. Alexandra is on the phone
Speaker 1: right now. She wants us to call Sean. This morning.
Speaker 1: They had a lovely date, went to dinner, ended up
Speaker 1: going back to her place so that he could meet
Speaker 1: her roommate because she wanted her roommate's opinion on him.
Speaker 1: She left the room. At some point, it came back
Speaker 1: and they were laughing about something. Then her roommate left.
Speaker 1: They sat on the couch to watch a movie for
Speaker 1: a little while, then he left. Her theory is that
Speaker 1: maybe they had a deal to hook up somewhere else
Speaker 1: and they went to go meet each other. Alexandra, if
Speaker 1: your theory is correct and we find that out right now,
Speaker 1: what are you going to do? Well? I mean, that
Speaker 1: will really suck because I will have lost a friend.
Speaker 1: I mean I consider her a really close friend of mine.
Speaker 1: And if that's true and now they're like cooking up,
Speaker 1: then I mean I can't really live with her anymore.
Speaker 1: So you'd be mad at that. You'd be mad if
Speaker 1: that happened. Yeah, I hope you're wrong too. That would suck.
Speaker 1: You'd have to find a new living situation just because
Speaker 1: of a date. Has she ever flirted with a guy
Speaker 1: before that you've been into? Never like this is. That's
Speaker 1: why I just think maybe I'm I'm hoping that I'm
Speaker 1: paranoid because this has never happened. Okay, all right, well
Speaker 1: I'm gonna colum right now. See you. We can get
Speaker 1: him on the phone and find out why he isn't
Speaker 1: getting back to you. Okay, Okay, here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is Sean there? Yeah, this is Sean. Hey Sean,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. What this is Jewel from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning the radio show. All right, we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show. It's called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. And what that is is if you go
Speaker 1: out on a date with somebody and then blow them off,
Speaker 1: they email us and ask us to call you and
Speaker 1: find out why. So you recently went out on a
Speaker 1: date with one of our listeners. Her name is Alexandra. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you remember Alexandra? Yeah, yeah, I remember Alexandra. Did
Speaker 1: you like her? Yeah? She was really sweaked up? Okay,
Speaker 1: do you want to go out with her again? Because
Speaker 1: she says she's tried to text you and you haven't responded.
Speaker 1: It's nothing personal, it's just you know, So there is
Speaker 1: a reason that you don't want to go out with
Speaker 1: her again other than just not liking her. Yeah, I'd
Speaker 1: rather not get into it, you know, Sean, I'll get
Speaker 1: you off the phone real quick. I know that you
Speaker 1: know you probably have stuff that you need to do,
Speaker 1: but can you answer just one question for us? All right? Okay.
Speaker 1: Alexandra says that you were sitting there with her roommate.
Speaker 1: She came back into the room, and you guys kind
Speaker 1: of stopped talking about whatever you were talking about, and
Speaker 1: then her roommate left to go somewhere, and then you
Speaker 1: left shortly after. Did you go meet her roommate? That's
Speaker 1: what Yeah, that's that's what she said. I did not
Speaker 1: go on a date with the roommate, all right, because
Speaker 1: that's what she thought had happened. She thought that you
Speaker 1: guys maybe had planned to go meet up somewhere else,
Speaker 1: not that sort of guy. So, okay, is the reason
Speaker 1: that you don't want to go out with her? Worse
Speaker 1: than that? I don't think so Okay, nothing bad. If
Speaker 1: she was already thinking that, then she was thinking something horrible.
Speaker 1: So if what you actually have to say is not
Speaker 1: that bad, then why not just tell us she wants
Speaker 1: to know. Well, I mean, you know, I had a
Speaker 1: conversation with the roommate. She told me what the real
Speaker 1: deal was? The real deal? What's the real deal? She
Speaker 1: just sustained things like, you know, you better treat her
Speaker 1: right after this. I hope you're a guys for it.
Speaker 1: You seem nice, you know that sort of thing. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Okay, I get really annoyed when
Speaker 1: that happens. Are you that type of dude? Too? Like
Speaker 1: when I go over and meet someone's new friend, though, like,
Speaker 1: you better treat my friend right, I'm like, shut up? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it really bugs me. Yeah. So did that just to
Speaker 1: turn you off right there? And you're like, all right,
Speaker 1: she's got one of those friends and you didn't want
Speaker 1: to call her again. It was a little bit more
Speaker 1: than that, you know, I mean, she she said she'd
Speaker 1: never been with a man before. What what that I
Speaker 1: should treat her nice because it was gonna be her
Speaker 1: first time? What So her roommate told you that you
Speaker 1: was a virgin What is she doing? Yeah, she said
Speaker 1: she was a virtue? Is that man? Yeah? That sucks,
Speaker 1: but I do kind of see your point, Sean. That's
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure and a lot of bad sex. Yes,
Speaker 1: m Alexandra is actually on the phone right now and
Speaker 1: heard what you just said, Sean. Are you kidding me? No?
Speaker 1: I'm not. Are you kidding me right now? That? Are you?
Speaker 1: Is this for real? Alexandra? I am so sorry. I
Speaker 1: can't believe she said that to you. I mean I
Speaker 1: was a little shocked too. I can't believe that this
Speaker 1: is happening right now. Is that true, Alexandra, you've never
Speaker 1: been with a man in the biblical sense before? Well
Speaker 1: you know what, Yeah, but I didn't need that to
Speaker 1: be broadcast, And I can't. I just I can't believe
Speaker 1: she would like betray me like that. That's I can't
Speaker 1: believe this unless she's been telling all the guys that
Speaker 1: you've been going on dates with and you just are
Speaker 1: now finding out about it. She has lost Virginia exactly.
Speaker 1: That's why dudes keep leaving. I mean, Alexander, there's going
Speaker 1: to be a special guy, you know, going to be
Speaker 1: able to treat your right to all these things. It's
Speaker 1: just a little bit too special, you know for me.
Speaker 1: I think, you know, how are you cheating me? Like
Speaker 1: I thought guys like that? No, Nope, most of us stuff.
Speaker 1: I feel like girls can sometimes, you know, after and
Speaker 1: can get a little clean the first time. That is,
Speaker 1: I was just about to ask you what your reasoning is, Sean.
Speaker 1: Is it because you don't want to her to get
Speaker 1: too attached and you're not looking for that kind of relationship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's such a high pressure situation. The girls, you know,
Speaker 1: they take it really seriously. They remember, like the detail
Speaker 1: about the first time, Sean, you're making a big assumption
Speaker 1: that she was ever even going to sleep with you. Dude,
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say that, how do you know
Speaker 1: that I even wanted to sleep with you? But you know,
Speaker 1: we've been on a couple more dates down to happen eventually, Alexander,
Speaker 1: you met Sean. I've met him now on the phone
Speaker 1: for a few minutes, and I don't think anybody can
Speaker 1: resist him. Yeah, you pants already off, you don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, Sean, how about this, because think about it,
Speaker 1: If you guys actually got to know each other, maybe
Speaker 1: you would be like I want to be that guy.
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Yeah, you gotta understand it's
Speaker 1: just a lot of pressure for a guy to be
Speaker 1: somebody's first. I think sometimes might be into that. I
Speaker 1: think there's definitely somebody out there for you. It's just
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure for me. I was looking for
Speaker 1: something maybe a little bit more. It's easy going, at
Speaker 1: least at first. Yea a little easier of a conquest.
Speaker 1: I think, Sean, would you like to go out on
Speaker 1: a second date with Alexandra? We will pay for it,
Speaker 1: give it another shot. Who knows, maybe maybe you'll want
Speaker 1: to take a rigidity. That's a weird I know that's
Speaker 1: a weird thing to say. But whether or not he
Speaker 1: should go out a date with her? Do you want
Speaker 1: to go out on a second day? Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: You know I'm gonna have to say no on this one. Alexandra,
Speaker 1: do you have anything to say to him? I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to sleep with you if it was something that
Speaker 1: you like didn't want to do either, like I would,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it wouldn't even get
Speaker 1: that far. But you kind of just abandoned it right
Speaker 1: away without even speaking to me about it, and assuming
Speaker 1: that I was going to just cling to you like
Speaker 1: some stalker or something when you just didn't even let it.
Speaker 1: You didn't even give it anything a chance. Alexandra, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry you didn't get a second date. Yeah, it's fine,
Speaker 1: good luck in the future. If you're worried about getting
Speaker 1: that vcar taken, don't worry. We've got tons of texts
Speaker 1: in right now. It's seven eight, a lot of willing
Speaker 1: people out there. A broken jubil in the morning,