1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Let's go, y'all, stand up, make some noise? What what's 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: time for the beautiful? 3 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: All right now, y'all don't know how went the fashion week. 4 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 3: Is? 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 4: Are you all ready? 6 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all ready? All right now listen, 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 2: I'm so excited about this next segment. 8 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 4: You know. 9 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: That's what I do for y'all. That's I show out 10 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: for y'all. I'm gonna do my big one for y'all 11 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: every time. 12 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 3: Now. 13 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: So we are bringing the cast of your favorite series. 14 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 2: Am I sail the catch stage? You know them and 15 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 2: you love them, and if you like me, you done 16 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 2: yelled at them. They are the topic of your relationships 17 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: and your group's hats. I'm talking about none other than 18 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 2: My Girls. 19 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 4: Is Dinger. 20 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 5: Come on out here, hey and. 21 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 6: Hey, all right now we'll ride. 22 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: Hey gotta his mind about his binging Zinger sing girl 23 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 2: got this funny tailer? 24 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,199 Speaker 4: Yo yo, yo yo yo. 25 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: I know full fact they're not gonna have met on 26 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: the show. How they lost some mothers? 27 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 4: Where is man? 28 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 2: How are you not. 29 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: Going by Zach to kiss? 30 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 4: What's happening? 31 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 7: What? 32 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 4: Excuse me? Excuse me, excuse me? All right? He had 33 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 4: his tables have turned what's up? 34 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 1: Kiss? 35 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 4: Family? 36 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 1: Can I can I get a little comfortable, get a 37 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: little get a little comfortable. 38 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 6: Okay, short, he's taking us get comfortable. 39 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 4: What is going on? This? Na't is strip? 40 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: I could strip? 41 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 8: I'm right. 42 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 1: All right. 43 00:02:55,160 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 9: My mother is in here, he said, my mother is 44 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 9: in here. 45 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 6: I'm doing an interview like this now, wow, this Sunday? 46 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 4: Come on? All right? Alright? 47 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 6: Can we please give it up for the ladies of Zatima. 48 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 9: So I'm going to be professional, Crystal, Chris, I love 49 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 9: y'all too. 50 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 6: I appreciate y'all. Christal said, I want you to do 51 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 6: this de vow. Do you have questions for us? I said, 52 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 6: of course I do. She said, I'll write you some. 53 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 6: I said, all right, So I have these cards. 54 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: You ain't about to listen even now abouttery, none of 55 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: them cards. 56 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 4: I'm gonna be professional. You can call me Devoprah Winfrey, 57 00:03:58,240 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 4: you me the call me the call. 58 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 1: No, you don't get no cards. You don't get no. 59 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 4: Cards nothing, all right? 60 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 6: No, First and foremost, ladies, look at where you are? 61 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: Look at where you are? Can we get another round 62 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,119 Speaker 1: of a play off for these women? 63 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 9: Please? 64 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 6: Has has this moment been everything you guys thought? 65 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 4: It was gonna be No. God keeps on in. 66 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 10: My mind, like God continues to blow my mind with 67 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 10: this journey. Like every time I think that I've reached 68 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 10: oh I get it, I don't get it. I'm constantly learning. 69 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 10: And if people love our show like they y'all love Satama, 70 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 10: we love y'all. 71 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 4: Yes, So Crystal, do got some questions on here? I'm 72 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 4: not about to answer ask none of these questions. Crystal. Yes, 73 00:04:58,279 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 4: you know you're one of my best friends. 74 00:04:59,720 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 11: Ye. 75 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my dog, y'all. 76 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 4: You from a small town martin Tennessee. 77 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: Now look all of these. 78 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 6: People, from celebrities, people who bought tickets DJ's, they all 79 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 6: here for you. 80 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 4: What does it feel like to build your own empire and. 81 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 2: First giving on it, to guide nothing without him as possible. 82 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 2: I'm blown away and I had to thank you d 83 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 2: because you set the foundation for the podcasting for me. 84 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 2: I saw you doing it. I saw you in Kadeen 85 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 2: killing it, and I remember when I first booked Sisters 86 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: and you and I became a love interest on the show, 87 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 2: and once you got to know me, you were like yo, 88 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: like you need to start speaking more on your Instagram, 89 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: Like nobody really knows who you are and you're really dope, 90 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: and I was like all him, and I remember you 91 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 2: pushing me to myself more out there, and I was 92 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: trying to find that balance because we've had so many 93 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 2: conversations about social media and me taking the comments to 94 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: heart and feelings being hurt, you know, and wanted to 95 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 2: know how much can I open. 96 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 4: Up to people. 97 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: I love y'all too, but thank you, thank you for that. 98 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 2: But to see where I am now and to have 99 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: all these amazing people and this is just a fraction 100 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: of the people that really ride for all of us, 101 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 2: you know, So it's so special for me and important 102 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 2: for me to make sure that I share this one 103 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 2: with you guys as well. And I just I'm. 104 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: I see. 105 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna try but to be like from a 106 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 2: small town where people get stuck because that's all they know, 107 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 2: and for God to put this vision inside me at 108 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: a very young age, for me to see that there's 109 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 2: more to this world than Martin, Tennessee, and where I'm 110 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: from is a beautiful town, but there's so much more. 111 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: I'm just grateful, man. 112 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 4: We love you. 113 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 11: Rising Now I have I have a question because, like 114 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 11: I said, like these are questions. 115 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 6: I really want to ask y'all as being like a 116 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 6: homie to y'all. You've been a part of the fashion 117 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 6: industry for way before people knew you, right, But we 118 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 6: live in a very vain world where beauty is supposed 119 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 6: to look one way? 120 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 4: How do you continue to persevere? 121 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 5: I keep showing up and showing out. No, but truly 122 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 5: I mean that that's one way. But also I have 123 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 5: to say, like crystalis continues to be an example in 124 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 5: so many different ways because there's a lot of times 125 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 5: where people comment things and I'm ready to say something back, 126 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 5: and then I just got to be like, keep a 127 00:07:56,160 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 5: positive Sweetish, you are better than You're better than that, 128 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 5: and so. 129 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 12: You're constantly inspiration and even just how to. 130 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 4: Deal with those situations. 131 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 5: But both of you have said great examples of how 132 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 5: to lead this cast in humility and grace. And I 133 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 5: am so grateful that we got you guys as an 134 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 5: example coming into this because it was a learning experience, 135 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 5: you know, definitely, and we came in with so much 136 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 5: preparation because you guys made sure that we were so 137 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 5: shout out see y'all let it go past it saying. 138 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: So Jesse, hey, Tisa. Damn it, how many times y'all 139 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: have heard that? 140 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 4: Damn Hi Zachi? All right now, so. 141 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 2: Now yo mama is here, list. 142 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 4: Say you too. 143 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 6: I ain't even gonna look at her when I asked 144 00:08:55,000 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 6: this question, I don't see nothing. I just but you know, seriously, 145 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 6: we met originally back in twenty eighteen. 146 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 4: And here's a funny story. We were putting together this whole. 147 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 6: It's a team of cast and Kristall and I were 148 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 6: just talking about people that we knew and the role 149 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 6: of Desia came up and I said, Crystal, what do 150 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 6: you think about watch Jazzy? 151 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 4: And Christal said she's perfect. 152 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: Yes, And. 153 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 4: This is the crazy part. 154 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 6: We thought you were perfect because of Toya turn Up. 155 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 4: Now this is my question. Shout out to Toya turn Up. 156 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 4: Turn Up should bring her back. 157 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 13: Yeah, she's been down for a minute. 158 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 6: Bring her back. And I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna 159 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 6: tell you why I think you should bring her back. 160 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 6: But my question is, you've gone through so many transitions 161 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 6: from twenty eighteen to now now you're a mom. What 162 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 6: is it like to show so many different sides of 163 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:57,319 Speaker 6: yourself on social media? 164 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:01,119 Speaker 12: Oh my gosh, you know what first of all, Hey, Besting, 165 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 12: it's hard. It's hard because it's like you get on 166 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 12: one way and people love you for that thing, and 167 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 12: then you grow and you're like, I'm not that no more. 168 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 5: I'm not experiencing that anymore. 169 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 12: But some people still are, but they still want you 170 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 12: to be there and you're like, okay, well I'm actually. 171 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: I'm doing this now. 172 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 12: And it's hard because not everybody comes with. 173 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 2: You on your journey and on your. 174 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 12: Ride, and you know, a lot of times you'll be like, oh, 175 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 12: you used to do this, you used to. I remember 176 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 12: when you used to used to, And I'm just like, gosh, 177 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 12: like I'm a mom now, it's my my daughter is 178 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 12: my life. I wake up and I'm immediately a slave, 179 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 12: like literally, you know, you know, you wake up and 180 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 12: instantly your servants. 181 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:41,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got four of them. 182 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 4: I don't own my life no more. 183 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 12: I'm so I'm blessed to have gone through so many differents. 184 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 6: Oh God, no, because you made me think God, I 185 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 6: got ship to do when I get home, guys, yeah, 186 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 6: we got hurry up. 187 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 12: I just I'm blessed to have, you know, to have 188 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 12: gone through so many different things, and I've showed so 189 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 12: much of my life on social media, and now I 190 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 12: feel like I'm really enjoying just the privacy that I'm 191 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 12: creating for myself and from my daughter, you know, you know, 192 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 12: just with nobody knowing what she looks like or just anything, 193 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 12: just protecting her, protecting up because people are very weird 194 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 12: and me. 195 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 2: And let me tell you something. 196 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 12: If anybody say anything about my child, if I reposed 197 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 12: my child of people, anything you have to say, you 198 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 12: already know what it's like. 199 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 8: But deep is purposeful because I will purposely picked somebody 200 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 8: else they take right. My mother ain't into mo Where 201 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 8: are you at you? 202 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: My mother? Listen? My mother told me, is the true story? 203 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: Sorry to cut you off. 204 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 11: My mother. 205 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 4: My mother told me one time I came on out 206 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 4: to scratch on my face. 207 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: It was a little girl. Little girl scratched my face right. 208 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 4: My mother said, come in, Oh my god, this. 209 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 6: Is what's this on your face? I was like, you 210 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 6: know this, a little girl hit me. Your name was Tabitha. 211 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 6: But it's okay. My mother said, no, it's not okay. 212 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 4: It's not. Tabitha is not outside of an ass whipping. 213 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: I said, man, she's a girl. She said, I'm a 214 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: girl too. 215 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:22,559 Speaker 4: Right now, shout out, shout out, my mom, I love you, Mama, 216 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 4: my bad. 217 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 12: But yeah, just you know, protecting her privacy and just 218 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 12: really enjoying being a mom and and not trying to 219 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 12: post everything because sometimes like you can post things and 220 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 12: you're like, wow, I'm really not being present. 221 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 4: I'm just trying to get this content. 222 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 13: But when you put your phone down real quick and 223 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 13: you're you're able to really just be in that moment, 224 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 13: you create so many memories that you might not have 225 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 13: on your phone, but you have. 226 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 2: Them in here. 227 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 4: So that's good. 228 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 12: Right now, That's what I'm really focusing on. 229 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 6: I'm glad you you you said that because to your right, 230 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 6: it's another young, younger, young woman. 231 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 4: Yes, who irks my nerves on TV? She ate my nerves. 232 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: But what y'all don't know. 233 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 6: Though, is I love her in real life, Dan Yell, Dan, Yeah, yeah, 234 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 6: that's that's my girl. Like me and her father share birthday. 235 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 6: So if y'all see her on the street, please be 236 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 6: kind to dani Yelle. Alright, fuck, Belinda, be kind and Danielle. 237 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:32,359 Speaker 10: Sorry, ma, I gotta watch my mom. 238 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 6: But Dan Yell, what has it been like for you 239 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 6: being a mom now and being in your actor's face. 240 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 4: I know somebody is a lead. Now when a movie coming. 241 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 10: It's it's crazy having a movie coming out. Darwin comes 242 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,439 Speaker 10: out to AMC Networks and all black. 243 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 4: Martin, Hey, clap that, clap that out. 244 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 10: And I was leading that movie and breastfeeding in between, 245 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 10: I mean, pomping milk and doing this fifty And I 246 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 10: literally have someone come up to me at you know, 247 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 10: one of the pas, and she was like, are. 248 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 4: You documenting this? I'm like, document what. 249 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 10: I gotta get the milk, then I gotta go to 250 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 10: lunch and I gotta do rehearsal. And she's like, you 251 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 10: inspire so many people just by sharing. And sometimes I 252 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 10: don't share enough because I know how much people are struggling. 253 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 10: You know, I'll book a role and I don't share 254 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 10: a media on social media because I'm thinking about somebody 255 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 10: who didn't get a call back this week. And it's like, actually, 256 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 10: you're supposed to share and inspire and be a blessing. 257 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 4: You know. Feel guilty, yeah. 258 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 10: For a favor on your life that can't Nobody do 259 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 10: nothing about that. But what I'm saying is how I feel. 260 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 10: I just I feel like I just keep trying to 261 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 10: prove to God that I can handle more. You know, 262 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 10: every time he gives me something, I feel like I'm 263 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 10: like cause I was a teacher's pet, and that's how 264 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 10: I treat the Lord. I'll be like, God, you see me, 265 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 10: you see me out dam. 266 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 2: With a good attitude. 267 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 10: Like so, I'm just constantly pushing to be able to 268 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 10: handle more, and I feel like being a mother has 269 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 10: just completely stretched my capacity. I had to learn to 270 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 10: have faith for this kid. That was crazy because it's 271 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 10: like me, I don't care, like you know, I've got 272 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 10: all the faith I need. But it was like, wait 273 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 10: a minute, there's a thing outside of you that you 274 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 10: love more than anything in this world, and you have 275 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 10: to learn how to have faith for him. 276 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 2: Right. 277 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 10: So that's what really stretched me because I like to 278 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 10: think about being in the gym building muscles and faith 279 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 10: when it comes to God. So maybe I was on 280 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 10: the bench prey like it was. It was heavy, But 281 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 10: when I went through childbirth, I realized that the enemy 282 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 10: ain't never really threw his best shot at me. 283 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 4: Oh talk about that baby. 284 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 10: I dropped that baby, and you get up that go 285 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 10: to work. 286 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 4: Baby. 287 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 12: You just did something. 288 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 10: Let me tell you you just did something. 289 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 12: Don't let nobody tell you otherwise. 290 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 10: So I just I feel so full of gratitude, and 291 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 10: you know, even I'm doing lead roles in films now, 292 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 10: and that's all because of you got to support and 293 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 10: supporting Belinda and supporting our show and just really allowing 294 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 10: you know, black talent to shine the way the pew. 295 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 10: I feel like we have the ultimate. 296 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 2: Black job, this Danielle working alongside you. You are so incredible, 297 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 2: so talented, and I'm so proud of you. Thank you. 298 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 2: It means so much. 299 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 4: Y'all. 300 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 2: Don't understand. 301 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 4: This woman will give you your. 302 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 10: Flywer she is she will introduce you to the right people. 303 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 10: She's a connect people, and I just I feel like 304 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 10: I wish everybody could get a little peek into your 305 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 10: heart because it is so beautiful when. 306 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: I talk about it. 307 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 6: To be honest, I think a lot of people don't 308 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 6: really know that, Like I haven't everyone I meet in 309 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 6: Atlanta they'd be like, I know, Crystal. 310 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 4: I'm like, how do you? 311 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 6: How could you possibly knows everybody the higher the highest 312 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 6: person in the in the freaking studio or at a network, 313 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 6: to the lowest person that works at the lowest place. 314 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 6: You can think, no, Crystal and have a story of 315 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 6: how Crystal has done something to help push their life forward. 316 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: That is just a fact. That's that's. 317 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 12: That's why you're so blessed. 318 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 6: Me and Da Vinci in it back talking about stuff legacy. 319 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 6: To be honest, this is how things happen in our community. 320 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 6: When good people create a space like this where we 321 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 6: can all get together and meet and learn from each other, 322 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 6: that's how we continue to grow as people. I know 323 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 6: that there's so many people that I've met in the 324 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 6: back recently just knocking like, oh. 325 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 1: You do this, you do that? How come we can't 326 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 1: do this together? And even in the audience, you. 327 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 6: Should look to the person to your left, for to 328 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 6: your right, find out what they're doing and said hello. 329 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: I can't watch you say I can. There's a lot 330 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: of entrepreneurs. This is Atlanta. 331 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 9: This is just make sure if you have a business 332 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 9: customer service. 333 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: It's a paramount importance. 334 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 6: Yes, because I've been in some places in Atlanta and 335 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:47,160 Speaker 6: had some crab legs and places. 336 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 1: How you want crab legs shop? You run out of crawd. 337 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 6: Legs, Chicken wing spot, we don't got no more lemon pepper? 338 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 8: What this is Atlanta? 339 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: Look? You know too right, but no, but seriously. 340 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 6: Crystal, we all appreciate you, y'all like we love you, y'all. 341 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 4: We love you now. 342 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: You stuck with. 343 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 6: All of us because there was supposed to be about 344 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 6: five people back there. There's fifty seven people back there 345 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 6: that ain't supposed to be back there. We all here 346 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 6: just for Crystal. So, y'all, I want to do this 347 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 6: publicly when I know the cast. 348 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 4: We love you, y'all, lovey thank you so much. 349 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 2: He congrat baby you so late, Thank you guys so much. 350 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 4: I love you guys, yes, and. 351 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 2: I love you. 352 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this. I appreciate you. I'm gonna do 353 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 1: this now. 354 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 4: You're gonna get that Steve. 355 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 6: I'm kidding out, but I'm gonna do this one time, right, 356 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 6: do this one time. 357 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: Because y'all see me do it, y'all. 358 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 3: What's the same. 359 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say. 360 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 6: Okay, legs because you know what Herrist comment on these 361 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 6: off on social media. 362 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: But y'all see the. 363 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 8: Last okay, Okay, yes, so much. 364 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 2: I love you, lady. 365 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 6: They tried to not invite Zach hell No, I love y'all. 366 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 4: Y' all. 367 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 2: Right, we are to the end, and my favorite part 368 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 2: of the show. Are you all ready for this? Thank you? 369 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 2: So I asked you all to write in to our 370 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 2: Positive Outcomes listener letter so that you could come on 371 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 2: stage with me. So please welcome to Hear Watson and 372 00:19:55,359 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 2: Jemana Turner. Ladies, you guys are here. Thank you so 373 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 2: much for coming seriously, and thank you for writing in. 374 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 2: I love you guys for your support and I want 375 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 2: to pour into you. 376 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 4: So you have a. 377 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 2: Question for me, and I'll let you go first. 378 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 14: So my question was, how do you deal with wanting 379 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 14: to step out onto your own independence when you feel 380 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 14: like your family depends on you for whatever it may 381 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 14: be as stability in the sense with my family and 382 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 14: per se so the household. I grew up and it's 383 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 14: normal to stay at home until you get married and 384 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 14: then just venture out on your own after that. But 385 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 14: I feel like now it's at the point where a 386 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 14: lot of it is because more so instead of just 387 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 14: being there to support me, but more so trying to 388 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 14: shelter me from things that are in the outside world. 389 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 8: Yeah. 390 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 2: Wow, So you want advice on what you should do? 391 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 2: All right to hear, I would say, and I've dealt 392 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 2: with this, you know, even being where I am now, 393 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 2: and I've always been the risk taker of the family, 394 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 2: you know, and my family I love them, But my 395 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:23,679 Speaker 2: parents played. 396 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 8: It very safe. 397 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 2: They were always that get an education, get a degree, 398 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:29,679 Speaker 2: and get a good job with a four to oh 399 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 2: one k and start a family. So when I was 400 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 2: in college, I knew by twenty five i'd be married, 401 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 2: having kids, and that was what was laid out for me. 402 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 2: But I had so much more that I wanted to do, 403 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 2: and often my parents did not understand that, you know. 404 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: And if I had have listened, because at that point, 405 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 2: you're an adult, you know, So it's not like we're 406 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 2: telling children to not obey and listen to their parents. 407 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 2: When you get to an age where you can make 408 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,959 Speaker 2: your decisions on your own, I feel like you should 409 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,399 Speaker 2: take a sentence and do what's best for you and 410 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,959 Speaker 2: let your family know that you love them and that 411 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 2: you're always going to be for them, because you can't 412 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 2: choose your family. They're stuck with them for life, you know. 413 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 2: But there there comes a time where you have to 414 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 2: really ask yourself, what do I want? What just to 415 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,440 Speaker 2: hear I want and go for that, because you never 416 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 2: want to look back on your life and be like 417 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 2: and be like, what would it have been like if 418 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:26,159 Speaker 2: I had a step out on faith? You know, I 419 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: never want to live my life with regret. And I'm 420 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 2: want to tell you guys a story. This was President 421 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 2: Obama's first campaign. I did everything my parents told me 422 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 2: to do. I got an education, I got the great 423 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,239 Speaker 2: job on Capitol Hill, got a great job four oh 424 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 2: one k all the things, and President Obama's or at 425 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 2: that point he was Senator Obama. His assistant came and said, hey, 426 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 2: we got some paid jobs for the campaign. 427 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 4: Do you want to come do it? 428 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 2: Me being the risk take, I'm ready to quit this 429 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 2: job and go work for this black man. I'm like, hey, yeah, Sam, yup. 430 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 2: My parents are like, no, like why would you do that? 431 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 4: He's not gonna win. 432 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 2: In my mind, because we're coming from from a small time, 433 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 2: remember where I'm from, we don't see that. We even 434 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 2: I think a lot of black people are like, ain't 435 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 2: no way. If we're honest with ourselves, They're like, why 436 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,400 Speaker 2: are you gonna quit this job and go do this 437 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 2: for them? It was more about loyalty, making sure that 438 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 2: you stay with the people that gave you a shot. 439 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,919 Speaker 2: Senator Lamar Alexander, for my State gave me a shot, 440 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 2: but I really wanted to go work on that campaign. 441 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 2: Two years later, we had President Obama, and my parents 442 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 2: at that moment said, we will never tell you what 443 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 2: not to do because you could be working in the 444 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 2: White House right now. So I say to you to hear, 445 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,400 Speaker 2: go for what you want, love your family, respects your family, 446 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 2: but don't live your life with regrets. Okay, all right, 447 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 2: you're welcome. All right. Is it jamna or jamanah jemana jamana? 448 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 2: What is your question for me? 449 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 3: So I'm thirty one, I just turned thirty one in February, 450 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 3: and I'm a virgin. I'm saving myself for marriage. 451 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 2: That's amazing, Yes, give it up for somana wow. 452 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:15,199 Speaker 3: But when it comes to dating, that always throws the 453 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 3: guys off. I was actually just talking to a guy 454 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,160 Speaker 3: and he's like, you're great, like you have your own 455 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 3: but I can't save myself for marriage. And I always 456 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 3: run into this issue and I'm like trying to put 457 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 3: myself out there and I'm kind of getting a little 458 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 3: discouraged because every guy that I meet is like, that's 459 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 3: a no no. And So if you were my big sister, 460 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 3: what advice would you give me. 461 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 2: Well, I am your big sister, and what I would 462 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 2: tell you, I made the mistake of not doing what 463 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:43,919 Speaker 2: God told us to do. 464 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 4: You know. 465 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 2: And I'm finally coming to an understanding of why good 466 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 2: God puts certain principles in place, and that's to protect us. 467 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 4: You know. 468 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 2: You think about it when you're dating someone out of 469 00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:00,719 Speaker 2: wedlock and you're having sex, and the first thing you 470 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,879 Speaker 2: think about is when they cheat on you. It was 471 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 2: like you could have brought me some a disease back. 472 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,919 Speaker 2: That's the first thing you think, like, you put my 473 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 2: life in jeopardy. But if he wasn't having sex, you 474 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 2: would have to worry about that. Okay, you know what 475 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 2: I'm saying. But I think about like that. You think 476 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: about that getting pregnant before you're ready, You think about 477 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: the different stipulations, and even when you think about relationships 478 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,360 Speaker 2: and you have sex. I don't know if you guys 479 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 2: can attest to this prob I'm the only one in 480 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: the room. But as soon as you give yourself away, 481 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 2: things change. 482 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 4: It's like the. 483 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 2: Scales fall from your eyes. You be like, oh, he 484 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 2: ain't even as cute as I thought he was. You'd 485 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 2: be like, oh, you know, it's like you, all these 486 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 2: things come up and it's like the whole honeymoon phase 487 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 2: is over. But if we do things the way God intended, 488 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 2: I feel like there is something beautiful on the other 489 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 2: side of that. So I would tell you to stand 490 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 2: firm on what you believe. Listen, the right man will 491 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 2: come along. I know when I read the letter, you 492 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,439 Speaker 2: said that even Christian men quote unquote Christian man, they 493 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 2: be the honey. 494 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 4: Then one's in the church, bet something else. 495 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 2: Honey may have something else. So you have to stand 496 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,919 Speaker 2: firm on that. And the Bible also says instead of 497 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 2: doing those things, it's also o k to be single. 498 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 2: That's honestly, it says that. So a lot of times 499 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 2: you have to wait until the right man finds you. 500 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 2: And you're thirty one, you're not in a rush. You 501 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 2: still have your whole life ahead of you. I would 502 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 2: focus on your career, your passions, and things that make 503 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 2: you happy and save yourself for the right one. But 504 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, if you don't, you're gonna be picking 505 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 2: yourself up off the floor crying, heartbroken, and it's just 506 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 2: not worth it, y'all. It's really not. So that's what 507 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 2: I would. 508 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:36,880 Speaker 10: Say you to do. 509 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 2: Thank you, You're welcome. Thank you ladies y'all giving up 510 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 2: for these beautiful women. Give me a hug. 511 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,879 Speaker 4: Thank you your goal much. 512 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:57,679 Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all. Weave along together and you know that 513 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,120 Speaker 2: A right am I singing the right song. 514 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 4: All the week. 515 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 8: Come to the. 516 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 2: Don't still like can go It's some natural. I'm be 517 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 2: longs to you. I love you guys so much. Before 518 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 2: we get out of here, I want to give some 519 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 2: thank yous. And first and foremost, let's give a big 520 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 2: shout out to God for getting us all here safely, 521 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 2: because y'all came from everywhere. I want to give a 522 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 2: shout out to my sweeties and my KIP family. Now 523 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,159 Speaker 2: I want to try to yell real loud for our sponsor, 524 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 2: be Et. Y'all better tune in every week to Sisters 525 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 2: and now Satima is on Linear, so y'all make sure 526 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 2: y'all check us out on Wednesdays and Thursdays. Give it 527 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 2: up my girls, Pretty v Beastmone Jazzy Shamia, my favorite 528 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:09,120 Speaker 2: new R and B artists that y'all enjoyed, Levas, Oh, 529 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 2: she's so good Christian R and B. She's amazing. Da 530 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 2: Vinci Daval who just took over the show. And y'all 531 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 2: know we cannot end this without a prayer. So I'm 532 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 2: gonna bring out one of my favorite men of God. 533 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 2: He hates when I call him this, Pastor Todd galberth. 534 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: Ki family. 535 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 7: Can we make some noise for our amazing visionary the 536 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 7: best podcast you can watch anywhere, make some noise for 537 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,080 Speaker 7: yourselves one more time. 538 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 1: I want you to. 539 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 7: Know that I literally I pulled up and I saw 540 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 7: the billboard and I saw sold out, And literally, I 541 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 7: want you to understand that this room is not sold 542 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 7: out because of the character you play on television, but 543 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 7: it's it's sold out because of. 544 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: The character of your heart. 545 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 7: And these women and men and whoever are watching week 546 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 7: to week and who are in this room, like they're 547 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 7: not connected to. 548 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 1: A character like who you are. 549 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 7: It just explodes out, like your heart is what makes 550 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 7: you this incredible person. And like I've just kind of 551 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 7: watched God from the vantage point that I have just 552 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 7: keep elevating you and elevating you. And the thing that's 553 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 7: so dope as you remain this amazing person that you 554 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 7: have this stuff, but this stuff doesn't have you. And 555 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 7: that's why we love you. That's why I did all 556 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 7: these services and came straight here, and. 557 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 1: I just want to speak this over you. 558 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 7: Eyes haven't seen, ears haven't heard, neither has an entity 559 00:29:55,120 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 7: to the heart of man. All that God has prepared 560 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 7: for you. You have not scratched your surface. And I'm 561 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 7: so proud. I'll tell you this all the time. I'm 562 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 7: so proud of you, and I can't wait to see 563 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 7: what God does next. 564 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: Can I pray? I'm gonna pray. Can we stand? Is 565 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: that coreer? 566 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 7: We getting ready to go home? You've been sent down 567 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 7: for a long time. Outside of those of you who 568 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 7: were talking with the DJ, I saw it. But let's pray. 569 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 4: Lord. 570 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 7: I thank you. I thank you for this amazing visionary 571 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 7: thank you for my friend. I thank you for what 572 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 7: you're doing through her. That she has not sacrificed you 573 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 7: for an opportunity. That she tells everybody that if it 574 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 7: had not been for the Lord, I wouldn't be where 575 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 7: I am. And I pray that you continue to protect her, 576 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 7: keep her open doors that no devil can shut. I 577 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 7: thank you that Lord, because of how she serves you, 578 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 7: that she takes you with you on every elevation. So God, 579 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 7: as you promote her that you promote the Kingdom of 580 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 7: God as well. And I thank you, Lord, for every 581 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 7: person in this room and for every person that's gonna 582 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 7: watch this podcast. Lord, let us all leave better and 583 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 7: inspired to grow and become all that you have called 584 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 7: us to be. Keep us safe until we meet again 585 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 7: in Jesus' name. 586 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 2: Amen, hey man, passes Hide, y'all give it up for passes. 587 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 4: Hide. 588 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you so much, guys. I love you 589 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 2: guys so much. I appreciate you all the way to 590 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 2: the balcony. I see you, guys, and I thank you 591 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 2: so much. 592 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 4: Oh, I was like, is that a fire alarm? Y'all 593 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 4: sap my fair hood. No, I really do. 594 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,719 Speaker 2: I love you, guys, and I thank you, and I 595 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 2: pray that you make it home safely. Y'all know what's 596 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 2: to do in the meantime. In between time JZ A 597 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 2: Maris take us away. 598 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Make Chris They y'all Makes'll