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Speaker 1: push through all of it. He said that when you

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Speaker 1: He told this story that's in the Bible that I've

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Speaker 1: But you've got to hang in there. You've got to

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Speaker 1: my day. I like starting my day with gratitude. If

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Speaker 1: Juniors better known as kill Spake, but more known as

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Speaker 1: If you tell me, Lord Junior, what's on your mind today? Okay? Man,

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Speaker 1: who is this? Hey? This this K dub Man. My auntie,

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Speaker 1: Miss Tendsley, she lived on. Now my auntie say you

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Speaker 1: Who is this? Who is K? I don't know? No,

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Speaker 1: Ka dub this is this is Ka dub man. My auntie,

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Speaker 1: First of all, I don't even know no damn miss Tenderly.

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Speaker 1: And second, I don't steal your your auntie, Miss Tinsley,

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Speaker 1: one more thing. What is the baddest and I mean

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Speaker 1: What's the prize for picking the winner? And there picking

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Speaker 1: because these young people need help. This young girl, Zoe

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Speaker 1: and Kansas says, my boyfriend and I are twenty six

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Speaker 1: I'm not ready for sex. And he keeps saying he's

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Speaker 1: Is he trying to trick me into sex by threatening me?

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Speaker 1: Is this normal guy behavior? Or is he playing games

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Speaker 1: with my head and my heart? What should I do?

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Speaker 1: It's all? That's all. That's all above is what you

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Speaker 1: can see the game. Is he playing games? He's trying

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Speaker 1: to trick you out of sex? Yes, you told him

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Speaker 1: you y'all been together six months? He's gonna cheat on you?

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Speaker 1: He just joking. He got he already, little girl, Little girl,

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Speaker 1: I don't really know these dudes doing it like this.

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Speaker 1: So yes, it's all of the above, young lady. He's

422
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: trying to play with your head. Tricky. He ain't playing

423
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 1: with your heart. He trying to get in your head.

424
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 1: He ready for sex. It's been six months. I can't

425
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: even you can stand Joe Grime. But now is he

426
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: playing these games? Is he trying to get you to

427
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: change your mind? Yes? Is he trying to convince you otherwise? Yes?

428
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 1: Did he drop a little hit eye cheat? And maybe

429
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: that Maybe that'll a get off of stands? All the

430
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: above is true and you have to go from that.

431
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: I don't know this guy, but I know he is

432
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: a guy. Yes. Is he trying to trick me into

433
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 1: sex by threatening me? Now? I don't know these young

434
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: dudes out here. This is holding off with no sex

435
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: for six months? I don't know. Hey, all right, he

436
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: six days here. All right, thank you, Cilo. Great advice.

437
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Speaker 1: Coming up at the time of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening

439
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: to show. Neo joined us here, we remember on the

440
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: show last week to promote his new album. But over

441
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 1: the weekend we were satined and quite stunned to hear

442
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: about cheating rumors after its wife, Crystal Renee, blasted him

443
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: on social media. In a long post, Crystal wrote, eight

444
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: years of life and deception. Eight years of unknowingly sharing

445
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: my life and husband with numerous women who sell their

446
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: bodies to him, unprotected, every last one of them. To

447
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: say I'm heartbroken and disgusted is an understatement this That

448
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: was only a snippet of what she wrote, and she

449
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: ended it by calling Neo a narcissist. Neo then posted

450
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: Neil by the way like that post he her posts.

451
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: Then he posted a response to the cheating allegations on Twitter, saying,

452
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: for the sake of our children, my family, UH and

453
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: I will work through the challenges behind closed doors. Personal

454
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: matters are not meant to be addressed and dissected in

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00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: public forums. I simply ask that you please respect me

456
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 1: and my family's privacy at this time. Thanks you say,

457
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: you gotta called cheat they are going through. I feel

458
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: for you because I really do like Neo and he

459
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: said he had wrote that song to his wife. Yeah

460
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: and everything. I feel bad for the cat. I feel bad, yeah,

461
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: for their you know, yeah, for their marriage. Yeah. I mean,

462
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: we hate to see families break up like this. And

463
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: and quite frankly, it should be handled privately, don't you think. No,

464
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: it doesn't work on social media. It doesn't work because

465
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: these young people, now, this generation of We're gonna share

466
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: all our stuff. Now it's hard to heal on line. Yeah.

467
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: Now the comments you a fool girl. You need to

468
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: leave him. I saw him here and here and here.

469
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: It ain't no help because now this is the demise

470
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: of something. And when it comes to the demise of something,

471
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: that's the internet specialty. Yeah. Well, moving on to New Orleans,

472
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: a New Orleans based rapper Mystical, whose real name is

473
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: Michael Tyler, was arrested for the third time for alleged

474
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: sex crimes, and he has been charged with first degree rape,

475
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: false imprisonment, simple robbery, domestic abuse, and criminal property damage.

476
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: Mystical spent six years in prison after two thousand and

477
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: four arrest for sexually assaulting his hairstylist, and he had

478
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: to register as a sex offender upon his release. Then,

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00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: back in twenty seventeen, Mystical was detained again for an

480
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: alleged sexual assault against a female in a Shreveport casino,

481
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: but those charges were eventually dismissed. Wow, oh again, huh yeah,

482
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: this is yeah, yeah, it really really is. Yeah. I

483
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: thought it was an old post when I first saw it.

484
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: I thought, yeah, I thought it was an old post. Yeah.

485
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: Again and again and again. Yeah, some old sounded like

486
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: r Kelly stuff. Yeah yeah, pattern, uh huh pattern. Yeah.

487
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: This is horrible. Yeah, horrible for the victims. Absolutely absolutely,

488
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: um okay, So moving on to Florida A and M.

489
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 1: Terrika Williams, the recent Florida A M University graduate, went

490
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: viral this week after she posted a fully nude picture

491
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 1: of herself in front of fam use esteemed rat her statue.

492
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: She captioned the picture with the message about body positivity

493
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: and how she was frowned upon for dressing provocatively while

494
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: she was pursuing her career. She ended her caption with,

495
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: as I'm standing here with my master's degree at the

496
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: tender age of twenty four. I am the living proof

497
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: that clothes do not define you. I encourage everyone to

498
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: embrace their bodies and step aside, a step outside social

499
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: normspam Use Administration issued a statement that the university is

500
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: aware of the picture and the incident is currently under investigation.

501
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: Did you guys see the picture? Yes? Yes, yeah, A

502
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: beautiful girl, beautiful body, and I mean it's under investigation

503
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: for what what there ever? That's the snake, the famous Brattler. Yeah,

504
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: that's statue. Yeah, she posted it. You know. The sad

505
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: thing about this is for this young lady is whatever

506
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: her master's boring is. You know, you're gonna have to

507
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: go out now and earn a living now unless you're

508
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: gonna be in the new photo business. Uh, if you're

509
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 1: trying to do get a corporate job, they're gonna go

510
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: to your social media page. And I think this may

511
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: be damaging in the long run, or somebody's gonna use

512
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:26,479
Speaker 1: it to their advantage. I wish my daughter would yeah,

513
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: would you say, I wish she'd have thought this over

514
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: me too. Yeah. Her point was she's living proof that

515
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: closed do not define you. Shouldn't make that point in

516
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: another way exactly exactly. Now if she was being criticized,

517
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: she claims for being dressing uh provocatively. So now I'm

518
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: gonna take all of them off. But where are we

519
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: going with the point? Yeah? Close? Fine? But nu did

520
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 1: you do? Though? I'm gonna tell you this, little little sister.

521
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: Clothes might that might not define you, but nudity damn

522
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: showd But we are women of color. It doesn't work

523
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: out the same for us as it does other women.

524
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: Pail built a career off of it. Kim Kardash it

525
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: a career off of it. You look at the girl

526
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: that was with uh, Hugh Grant, and her career went down. Here,

527
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just tell you something. I love Halle Berry,

528
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: but ever since she did Monster Ball and just showed

529
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: her breast, it ain't been the same for her. Wow, yeah,

530
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: we need to think, all right. I forgave her. I mean,

531
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: I mean what she did wasn't that bad. But many

532
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, the nephew

533
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: has a question for you, Steve, right after this you're listening,

534
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 1: all right, So temmy, Uh, what's going on? You want

535
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: to ask your uncle a question? Man? Now, listen, my

536
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: wife hold up. My friend's wife. My friend's wife is

537
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: the worst and I want to say the worst driver,

538
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: but just drives too damn fast every time we get

539
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: I mean every time they together. Okay, drive him too

540
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 1: damn fast. And it's at the point now where I

541
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 1: want he wants to go to church in a separate car.

542
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: When it's time to go to dinner, he want to go,

543
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: you know, in a separate car. It's just it's just

544
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: gotten out of control because it's just too damn fast.

545
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: How do we fix this issue? Issue is the way

546
00:36:56,680 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: to resolve it. But that's that's been his takeaway. I'm

547
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: just gonna drop. I mean, he just gonna drive himself

548
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 1: way he wanted. Yea asking for a friend, right, asking

549
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: for Yeah, I really should have rehearsed that first of all,

550
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 1: use a damn food for just the way you phrase

551
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: this whole thing, because it is quite obvious who this

552
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: this free game is. You are starts next. I don't

553
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: know how you're gonna be able to fix this because

554
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: you've gone public with it. Oftentime suggested to people that

555
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: you keep your relationship business all social media, and even

556
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 1: though this isn't on social media, what you just said,

557
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: you are over free international airwaves. Everything we say is

558
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: recorded and reserved and placed up in the archives of cyberspace.

559
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: So there for I don't understand the point now to

560
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: answer your question, it was really not a damn thing

561
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: you could do. You're sitting in ride like that or what? Man?

562
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: Ask your question? Your question? How is the complayon working out?

563
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: Because when we make them mad, they go faster, faster

564
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: they have you noticed that, So it's better just gonna

565
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: take the speed that they was gonna do it at

566
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: because pissed off speed is always fast. Explained forty miles

567
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: an hour and looking in the back seat at one

568
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: of them kids, and take full second for you turn

569
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: back around, explain Marjorie has driven and I thought it

570
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 1: was too fast. Now before I say something to make

571
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: her mad, and she stepped on the gas faster. I

572
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: just sit there and what I do is I look down.

573
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,879
Speaker 1: I don't even watch the houses and telephone poles going.

574
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: All right, coming up next, we got to talk to

575
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: sister Odell at thirty four minutes after the out right

576
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening, stay morning show, All right, ladies

577
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. She is here. She doesn't come by as often,

578
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: but we're so happy when she does because she sets

579
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 1: everything straight. She has an opinion. Ladies and gentlemen, please

580
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: welcome sister Odell, I said, wait, oh, well, well well

581
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:52,760
Speaker 1: well well well well well well wait, well well where

582
00:39:54,880 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 1: we yeah? All right, well, good mornings every wall morning, glad,

583
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: I haven't me in here. Hey callie, hey, sister out there.

584
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: How are you doing? Silly his you today? I am well,

585
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: thank you, sister Till. I'm well. Oh the country girl Mississippi.

586
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: She stepped away, waving U Junior. Good mornings though dead,

587
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: Hi boy and Thomas, Yes, ma'am good many good? What's

588
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: going on today? Oh? How are you? Sister? Tell? Well,

589
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good. You know, had a little so hip

590
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: because of the wedding, you know when it rained my hip? Yeah, yes, yes,

591
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 1: the rain you know. Okay, Well, sister Till, we have

592
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: someone that may need your prayers. Um, you heard about

593
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: the preacher that got robbed in New York at guns

594
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: and his wife? Yeah you heard about it? Uh your thoughts?

595
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: Well you know did you know him? Now? I don't

596
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: go to churches like that. What do you like? What?

597
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 1: What do you mean? I don't like flashy preachers? You know,

598
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: standing on duke in all this hit, didn't you see

599
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: the one way put it out on the all on

600
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: the internet where he got on the up. He showed

601
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: a prayer closet, yeam was none? Who's in the prayer for?

602
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: Who's praying for? All the designers? You're supposed to be

603
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: praying for your flock? Here? That just pointing the stuff

604
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: offended lou Louis, Louis them Louis who was all the

605
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 1: other people? Don't chick gandam all and U blee up

606
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: Blenso I don't let's see I people. You know, what

607
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: is he do? He? What is he showing his closet

608
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: fat and in violing the large name, talking about it

609
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 1: a praying cloud? What is you praying for? What? I

610
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: ain't see the in that praying for nothing? Exactly? All

611
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 1: them logos and everything everywhere? Do you wear anything? Just

612
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:18,439
Speaker 1: got briglar colors on? See when you see people that's

613
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: got to have a name on everything? Yes, all right,

614
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 1: every ninety and you know the nice going to do

615
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: one of them are VL purses and stuff like that.

616
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,760
Speaker 1: It is not me to have because you said VL

617
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: where you know, sometimes this dyslection kicks but you have

618
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: dresses and designer stuff all the time, you know, and

619
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: ste like you won't do Steve go to work every day.

620
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: He passed around collection plate. You know he do what

621
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: he wanted to do. When you pass around collection plate,

622
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 1: you need to look like you needs something. You need

623
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,320
Speaker 1: to looking like you to took something. You need to

624
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: start looking you need something. I ain't to do all

625
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: that ste gonna work every day, sting or the clothes

626
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:10,720
Speaker 1: that he Well, yes, colleague, do you have any designer

627
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: bags handbags? Girl? Yes, girl, I bought this bag? Oh

628
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: cousile bag? What cousill? Who see it? We don't know,

629
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: we're not familiar with that designer. Gee you see Gouci Gucci,

630
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Speaker 1: Guci Gucci bags. I got one of them. I found

631
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Speaker 1: that down at the swap meet. Get you, girl, I

632
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta do what you mean? Real? He's real

633
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: to me. Hey, sister will tell we gotta get out

634
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: of here with thank you for joining us. All right,

635
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 1: Well then, you know, since that's all I'm in here for.

636
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: You know this church news, ladies and Gentlemen's coming up

637
00:43:56,120 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: nexts uh Caffe's baby born nephew, Tommy. He's gonna do

638
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: another prank, you know. He I'm just a prised he

639
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: got it. You're listening show coming up at about four

640
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry letter for it

641
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: today and the subject is fight or flight, right, Yeah,

642
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: we'll get into that in a minute. Fight on the flight,

643
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: what's one is? Let's hope not. We'll get into it

644
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,240
Speaker 1: in a few minutes to find out what that's all about,

645
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: because right now it is time for the nephew and

646
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: today's Frank phone call. What you got for us today? Next? Well, Charlotte,

647
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: that comes to time when a child is not doing

648
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: well in school and you have to repeat a particular grade.

649
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: You understand, you know, been held back as they would

650
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: stay back in the day. You know they held you back.

651
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: You got to repeat. And it's sometimes it happens early.

652
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes it will happen in pre k. You understand what

653
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, pre k. You know. So this

654
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: right here is your son going back to pre k,

655
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: going back to pre k and some things that he's

656
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 1: not doing well and we want to work on it.

657
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 1: But your son, I hate to say it, is going

658
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: back to pre k, cat dog if you would, however, yes,

659
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm time to reach miss Thomas. Please, my name is

660
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: mister Stapleton. I'm actually the principal over at elementary school.

661
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 1: You're I'm looking at my records indicating that your son,

662
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: Thomas is going to be starting his first grade. Ready, right, listen,

663
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: missus Thomas. Um, I've been going through actually all of

664
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: the children's records that will be starting school, and I'm

665
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: looking at your son's grades from his kindergarten. Well, no,

666
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: not exactly. I mean there's been a few. Uh. I

667
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: actually spoke with the teacher who he was under in kindergarten,

668
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 1: and it seems like he just really wasn't up to

669
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 1: par as the rest of the children. Mm. Now his conduct, now,

670
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: he talked, but he gets his work. So what else

671
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: is she saying on that that ain't right? Well, what's

672
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: what it seems to be, ma'am, is that his grades

673
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:17,760
Speaker 1: weren't up to par as the rest of the other children.

674
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: She did tell me he was a disobedient child. No,

675
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: he disobedient and talking two different things. Come on. Okay, well, man, listen,

676
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 1: what we've decided here is we're gonna let a little

677
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: actually do another year of kindergarten. No, y'all, ain't gonna

678
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: let him do another year of kindergarten. No, sir man,

679
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 1: that's that's the only choice I have. No. We got

680
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 1: our letter in the mail with our report card the

681
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 1: week after school started, and it said on the back promoted.

682
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 1: And if I got to get about this couch and

683
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: go get it, I'm gonna be because I'm telling you

684
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 1: right now we will be in the first grade. Kindergarten

685
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 1: won't that hard. I'm not sure what they told you

686
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: about him, but it must be the wrong. Well, I

687
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: understanding he's he doesn't color as well as arrested kids.

688
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: He's all out of the he's out of the lines

689
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: when he color. He doesn't know his numbers completely. And

690
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: that's kind of what we need when you first come

691
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: into into the first grad when I can show you

692
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: on this paper he did satisfactory all the way through.

693
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: Now you about to me off, and I'm already sick

694
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: calling me with some about my son blank and kinder garden.

695
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: He ain't that kind of He does not color. Well, man, listen,

696
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 1: color ain't gonna do with the dad guard kindergarden. He

697
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: is going to the first grade, and I'll be down

698
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: there on August twenty four. No, I will not be

699
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: able to allow you to get into school at mister,

700
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and let me get Let's tell you what.

701
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: Let me go on and get my pencil pen because

702
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: I don't live that far from this school. And if

703
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: y'all aren't ready down there causing some comfort, I need

704
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 1: to get up and go down there, because I'm not

705
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: telling my baby when he come home to day that

706
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: he ain't going to the dad gun first man. I

707
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 1: hate to say it, but I'm gonna have to refuse

708
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: education from him on August twenty four. You know what,

709
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: I just went back and put him in publish fool.

710
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: I know that was a stake in the first place.

711
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: Food which you're talking about some coloring. Give me your

712
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 1: name again, sir Stapleton man, And what's that number down there?

713
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 1: The number here is actually area code women. I got

714
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: the number. Now, mind, I pulled up this report card.

715
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 1: I got the number in your name on the back

716
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: of this paper. I'll tell you what I was towing to.

717
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: Fourth will be coming in there going to school, and

718
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 1: I might make a trip around that this evening when

719
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: I come from the document. The bottom line is, I'm

720
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: not going to hear that. Colin ain't got nothing to

721
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 1: do with nothing else. It's not only color, he's a

722
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: rithmetickets back. No, are you working with him at home?

723
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: Are you doing anything at home every day? What you're

724
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: trying to say, I'm an incompetent parent. I'm just asking,

725
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 1: as a parent, are you working with your child? Working

726
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 1: with my child every day? He can read better than you. Probably, No,

727
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: he can't read. I'm the prince. I can't read better

728
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: than you, because honestly, you read that role on that

729
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: paper that he's supposed to be going back to kindergarten.

730
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: When I know the paper say from it going to

731
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: the first grade. And I'm not listening to no more

732
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: this about him going backwards. Now, if you got a

733
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 1: problem with your paper, word, maybe you need to go

734
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 1: talk to your secretary of somebody in there that wrote

735
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 1: my baby name down? Well, your name, your son's name,

736
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: Thomas Man. No, it ain't him, baby, I know it

737
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 1: ain't him. You're not gonna sit up and tell me

738
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: my son is flocking kindergarden. He is not going back

739
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 1: to that kindergarten. Don't bring your son down here, August,

740
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: I tell you once be ready to up me and

741
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:26,800
Speaker 1: my husband. But we will be down there August force backpack, shoes,

742
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 1: uniform everything. You hear me, I will not be able

743
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: to allow him and education and that right now. I

744
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: will come down there right now and make that correction

745
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 1: on that paper for your baby is not going back

746
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: to no kindergarten for no coloring? Can you bring him

747
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: down him and let him color for me? So I

748
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: can't you tell my color in the rimon taking out

749
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: theselfs No, uh no, I'm sorry. We will be down

750
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: there August the twenty four. I would have this poor

751
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: card in my head that says you have been promoted

752
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: to the first brother. He's gonna have a mole on

753
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: his face, and so are you. I got one more

754
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: thing I need to tell you. Are you listening to me?

755
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm listening. You ain't saying nothing. Yeah, you better say

756
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 1: something that sounds like the first grade, because I'm not playing.

757
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: I would go down to this day on the administrative

758
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: office and I had fine because my son would be

759
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: in that first grade. Who are you raising your voice?

760
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: Who are you raising your voice? You talking crasid to me?

761
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 1: I'm talking cresident him what. I'm a grown woman. I

762
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,399
Speaker 1: don't need the best friend to you. Why I'm trying

763
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:26,240
Speaker 1: to Did you graduate? Honey? I am a college degree person.

764
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: I have a great job, my husband and not do

765
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:30,839
Speaker 1: well for ourselves and for our children. And that's why

766
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: we're not. You're not You're not even at work right now, man,

767
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 1: I said, I'm shack phone. I told you that when

768
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: you call him writing on the doctor to call me

769
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: now a partner missing my phone call? Can you color

770
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 1: because your son can't color? Why? God questions that? Ask me?

771
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 1: Can I color? Why don't you white? And black? Y?

772
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: Ask missie dressed me? I'm my color. No, I ask

773
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: you can you color like some racist lines and that

774
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: can you color? No? I'm my color and me be color.

775
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing to do with none of this. It's

776
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: just a race thing. No, you're trying to make sure

777
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: you send him back. No, I'm not trying to send

778
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: him back. I want to send him back to color

779
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: to get his coloring together. You what that ain't got

780
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: nothing to do with nothing. And if you're the head

781
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,319
Speaker 1: person down there now, you aren't competent and you aren't

782
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 1: in a literate Call me and tell me that my

783
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: son has to go back to the first grad. I

784
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: got one more thing I don't want mixed up. I'll

785
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: tell you what I'm through with. This guy comes through

786
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 1: with this guy. I'm gonna say one more thing and

787
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be out here. Are you listening, I'm listening.

788
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: That's his nephew, Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

789
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:34,399
Speaker 1: You just got prank by your girlfriend, Felicia. I'm gonna

790
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: be Felicia's. I am gonna be hot. You're about to

791
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 1: get to out the plant. I mean, I'm rite nomas

792
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: and everything. Thing now, I'm gonna everything. I'm gonna beat

793
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: her because you know I don't play when it comes

794
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: to back. That's all right, all right, but one more question. Now,

795
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 1: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio

796
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: show in the land. That's Steve Harvey Morning. Y'all, baby,

797
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 1: you gotta know how to color. You know what I'm saying.

798
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,720
Speaker 1: If you don't know how to color inside their lines,

799
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: if you can't keep that that little crayon inside the line,

800
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: that lets me know that you are not ready for kindergarten. Okay,

801
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 1: you got you got to go back to the free k.

802
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,879
Speaker 1: But she wasn't having that at all. So at all

803
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: make sense. You don't know how therapeutic it is when

804
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,879
Speaker 1: somebody just cussed me out on the phone. You don't

805
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: know what it feels like it and ever, let you

806
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 1: know you did a good job. I know I'm doing

807
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: my job. I know I'm on the point because the

808
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: cussing is the payoff. It's okay, you know it's been

809
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: a feud. I couldn't play for y'all. This's like when

810
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: I see your Timmy that she asked, I got it.

811
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 1: I got But when you really gonna see me, yeah,

812
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: see me. Yeah. But if they do, though, when you're

813
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 1: gonna see you, you're gonna tell them coming to a kid,

814
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 1: and then you you won't. I'm just saying, man, let

815
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: it go. It's just a prank, baby, and I prank.

816
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: I prank in a nice way. Okay, I'm not malicious.

817
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 1: But when I get you, I get you. Just laugh

818
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 1: at all. That's all it is. But all this when

819
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 1: I see you, Timmy, that show as you know, be

820
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 1: ye ready, okay, all right, all right, But until we

821
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 1: got a good prank out of you, thank you. You're welcome,

822
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 1: all right, nephew. Coming up next Today's Strawberry Letter, The

823
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,800
Speaker 1: subject fight or Flight. We'll get into it right after this.

824
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show. It is time now for

825
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter, And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,

826
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:40,280
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

827
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: dot com by clicking submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

828
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

829
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you

830
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. Yeah you heard, I

831
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 1: just said it could be yours. Buckle up, a hold

832
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you. Here. It is

833
00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, all right, thinking nephew, subject fight or flight,

834
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: Fight or flight. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty year

835
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 1: old flight attendant and I'm married to a forty four

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00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 1: year old professor. I met him when I was in

837
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 1: grad school and we started dating after I got my degree.

838
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: He was going through a divorce and we kept our

839
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:20,880
Speaker 1: relationship private until it was finalized. He has a seventeen

840
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: year old daughter that found out on social media and

841
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 1: she started a lot of chaos in our lives. She

842
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: didn't show up at our wedding and did devastated my

843
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: husband he was upset that his ex wife allowed her

844
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 1: to skip the wedding. I was over her by that time,

845
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 1: so I didn't care. Now, she's about to turn eighteen

846
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 1: and asked if she can come live with us in

847
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: Florida and attend a fashion school. I never answered my husband,

848
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 1: and he eventually flipped out on me and made the

849
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: executive decision to allow her to come. I fixed up

850
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: our home office for her, and I moved my desk

851
00:54:55,640 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 1: on to our sun porch. I was so irritated. He

852
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: has been here four months and she has done exactly

853
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 1: what I knew she was going to do. Now, when

854
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: she's got an attitude, I leave and go to work.

855
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 1: I take any flight available so I can get away

856
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: from this girl. My husband and I argue because he

857
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: says I'm not a positive role model for her. She's

858
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: a grown woman to me, and she's got parents that

859
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: failed her and allowed her to disrespect grown people. I

860
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: told my husband that if she pops off at the

861
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: mouth one more time, I'm going to pop her. He

862
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:29,959
Speaker 1: says I need to learn how to be a parent,

863
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: and I told him I will as soon as he

864
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: makes me one. I would rather work and deal with

865
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 1: the plane full of needy passengers instead of dealing with

866
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,879
Speaker 1: a grown child. My husband told me that my fight

867
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: or flight mentality is ruining us. He can't see that

868
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 1: his child is defusive and honoring. Am I wrong or

869
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 1: does he need to put her out? Absolutely? Yes, I

870
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 1: think you're wrong. I do think you're wrong on so

871
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: many levels. Here tell you why. It's simple. You are

872
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 1: the adult. You keep calling her a grown woman. You

873
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: keep saying she's grown, but she's really still a child.

874
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: You're grown when you can pay your own way and

875
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 1: when you can take care of yourself, and she's not

876
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: doing that right now. She's in your home, she's living

877
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 1: off you, guys, she's living with you. Guys. You're also

878
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: grown when you can face your problems head on. But

879
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 1: what do you do? You run and jump on a

880
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 1: flight and, as you say, deal with a plane full

881
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: of needy passengers rather than trying to fix a problem

882
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:33,840
Speaker 1: at the house. And yes, it is a problem because

883
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: it's causing you and your husband to argue. Now, why

884
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: would you let that happen? You two should present a

885
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 1: united front to his daughter, making it impossible for her

886
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: to come between you guys, because that is what's happening,

887
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: that situation you all are allowing to let it come

888
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:53,279
Speaker 1: between you. Stay home in the midst of all this

889
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: and handle your situation. No more jumping on planes when

890
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: you can't deal with it anymore. I say, first you

891
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 1: and your husband talk, agree on some basic house rules.

892
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: Then a family meeting should be called to let the

893
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: daughter know about the new changes. And again, remember you

894
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:10,800
Speaker 1: and your husband are on the same team, and you

895
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: guys are the adults. I mean, she needs to see

896
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 1: that you guys are together. He's her dad, but he's

897
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: your husband, which means that's your house and your rules.

898
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 1: So as you know, she's welcome as long as she

899
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: abides by the house rules. I mean that means no attitudes,

900
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: no popping off at the mouth, no disrespect of any kind.

901
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 1: And let me say this, if she pops off at

902
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 1: the mouth one more time, you're gonna pop her. Don't

903
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: don't pop her. That's not what this is all about.

904
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: Don't do that. I mean, you know she's angry, she's

905
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: she's trying you and all of that trying to come

906
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 1: between her. But you don't have to take it there.

907
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: You can be the bigger person here. You can invite

908
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: her to lunch. You can do something fun with her,

909
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,440
Speaker 1: you know, and try to make peace with her, and

910
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 1: like your husband said, be a role model for her.

911
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: I think you should try that before you give up

912
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: on this situation and start, you know, popping her and

913
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 1: all that altogether. Steve, Wow, this is gonna have a

914
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 1: couple of twisting turns in it. I agree with what

915
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: Shirley's saying about the letter. The problem The real problem

916
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: here is in the letter writer. That seems to be

917
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: the real problem. Now you're thirty year old flight attendant

918
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 1: and you're married to a forty four year old professor. Now, see,

919
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 1: I want you to understand something. The news got out

920
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 1: some kind of way because this story got told because

921
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: somebody knows he was your professor at school. I met

922
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 1: him when I was a grad school and we started

923
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: dating after I got my degree. He was going through

924
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: a divorce and we kept our relationship private until it

925
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: was finalized. He has a seventeen year old daughter that

926
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 1: found out on social media and she started a lot

927
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 1: of chaos in our lives. Well, the daughter found out

928
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 1: what on social media that you all were dating or

929
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: you all had gotten married. I think she found out

930
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 1: y'all was dating, so quite naturally, her and the mother

931
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: are now blaming you as the cause of the divorce.

932
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: That's how it always works, ain't it. Yes, So now

933
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: after they found out on social media, she started a

934
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 1: lot of chaos in our lives. She didn't show up

935
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 1: at our wedding, and it devastated my husband. He was

936
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 1: upset that his ex wife allowed her to skip the wedding.

937
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: You mean his ex wife didn't make her go to

938
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:49,439
Speaker 1: the wed His ex wife wasn't now, so the ex

939
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 1: wife didn't make the daughter go to the wedding. What

940
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: you mean allow her to skip it. She's seventeen. She

941
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 1: didn't want to go down there because she figured you

942
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: the reason her mom and daddy ain't together. And her

943
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: mama then co signed that, because as soon as you

944
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 1: started dating somebody, they're going, oh here she is right here,

945
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: You the reason, and you was dating, and you younger

946
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: and you young Hang on, Steve, Part two of your

947
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: responses coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

948
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject fight or Flight will get back

949
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening show, all right,

950
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter the subject

951
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 1: fight or Flight. Thirty ye old flight attendant is married

952
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 1: to a forty four year old professor. She met the

953
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 1: professor in grad school and they started dating after she

954
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 1: got the degree. That's what she says. He was going

955
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: through a divorce and we kept our relationship private until

956
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: it was finalized. He got a seventeen year old daughter

957
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 1: that found out on social media and she started a

958
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: lot of chaos in her life. She was seventeen then, right, well,

959
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: now listen to this. She didn't show up at our wedding,

960
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 1: and it devastated my hut because he was upset that

961
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: his ex wife allowed her to skip the wed Now,

962
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: his ex wife didn't make her go down there because

963
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 1: the ex wife and the daughter then came to the

964
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: conclusion that this young girl you married is the reason

965
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 1: why y'all got the divorce anyway, And that's exactly how

966
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 1: it looked. And then when they found out about y'all's

967
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: relationship on social media, that validated because it was only

968
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 1: telling one's story. Then you said, I was overheard by

969
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 1: that time, so I didn't care. So now you didn't

970
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 1: care if she come to the wind because you overheard

971
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: by that time. It was a year of chaos and

972
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: you was through with your girl. Now she's about to

973
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: turn eighteen. Oh so it wasn't even a whole year,

974
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: because now you say it was about to turn into

975
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:51,240
Speaker 1: you see how fast this is moving. But you left

976
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:57,959
Speaker 1: that out the letter. Baby, Maybe we left that. After

977
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: she finds out, then next thing she know, y'all getting

978
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 1: married and there's a fourteen year age difference. And you

979
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: were his student while he was a professor, and y'all

980
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: were seeing each other while they still were married and

981
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 1: not getting boys because y'all kept it a See see

982
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 1: how this worked. You see how this works? Now she

983
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: want to come live with y'all in Florida and attend

984
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 1: the fashion school. I never answered my husband. He eventually

985
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: flipped out on me and made an executive decision to

986
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: allow her to come. It's his daughter. She want to

987
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: come down and stay with her daddy, go to fashion school.

988
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: What you want him to say, except yes, I fixed

989
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: up our home office for her. I moved my desk

990
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 1: into our s port. I was so irritated you did

991
01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 1: all this begrudgingly. She has been there four months and

992
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: she's done exactly what I knew. She was gonna do.

993
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 1: Now she's got an attitude. Now when she's got a

994
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: n attitude, I leave and go to work. See you're

995
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 1: not explaining this. You're not explaining She did exactly what

996
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 1: you want. You don't give us no information. I take

997
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: a flight whenever available, anything to get away from this girl.

998
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: My husband, I argue because he says I'm not a

999
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 1: positive role model for her. She's a grown woman. To me,

1000
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 1: Shirley's right, she's not a grown woman. She's eighteen. She's

1001
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: just not turning eighteen. She's a child. She don't get it. Now,

1002
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 1: you're an a dog. You know what happened? You know

1003
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: why this girl mad. She's got parents that failed her

1004
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: and allowed her to disrespect grown people. Wait a minute,

1005
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 1: respect on social media? You dating her daddy, that's divorcing

1006
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: her mama? Wow they still married that You kept it

1007
01:03:55,240 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: a secret. That's what you said. Respect. See you want

1008
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 1: something you wasn't willing to give. See, little sister, that's

1009
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 1: how this game work now, just a growing folk game.

1010
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 1: I'm just giving it to you straight, I told my husband.

1011
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: And she pops off at the mouth one more time.

1012
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pop up and then and then what because

1013
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:22,560
Speaker 1: she talking that you're gonna hit her in the mouth,

1014
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: so you're gonna resort to violence. Carroll Parroll stopped. He says,

1015
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,000
Speaker 1: I need to learn how to be a parent. I

1016
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: told him as soon as I will, as soon as

1017
01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 1: he makes me one. Wait a minute, excuse me, Pard Parry.

1018
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 1: You're twelve years older than this girl. Yet best you

1019
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: can be her big sister, But parent she has too

1020
01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: parroent you not, she's nothing to call you mama. Ain't

1021
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 1: none of this is fitting to work. I'm gonna have

1022
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 1: a suggestion for you to say. I told him, as

1023
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 1: soon as he makes me well, I would rather work

1024
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,960
Speaker 1: and deal with a playful the needy passengers instead of

1025
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 1: dealing with a grown child. You keep saying grown. But

1026
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: she a child, She's not grown. My husband told me

1027
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 1: that my fighter fighter flight mentality is ruining us. He

1028
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: can't see that his child is devisive and honoring. Am

1029
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 1: I wrong? Or does he need to put her out?

1030
01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:20,920
Speaker 1: First of all, he can't put his daughter out. Were

1031
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: you asking a man to not be a man. You're

1032
01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 1: asking a father to not be a father. You're asking

1033
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 1: a man to show his daughter an example of man

1034
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:34,439
Speaker 1: that he's hoping that one day she would be able

1035
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 1: to find put her out? Are you kidding me? She's

1036
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 1: the worst? And you for asking that, what's wrong with

1037
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 1: your maturity level? No, he can't ask his daughter to leave,

1038
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 1: and no he can't put her out. I'm gonna tell

1039
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: you right here, y'all. You never failed to mention in

1040
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 1: this letter that you all have ever had to sit

1041
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:57,440
Speaker 1: down to discuss this, to work through it, because you

1042
01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: know what your corner decided. You don't like her. You

1043
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:03,280
Speaker 1: were through both. She came to your house and now

1044
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 1: you're reaping what you sow. You remember how you got

1045
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 1: your man? Definitely right? All right, Steve, thank you. Please

1046
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 1: leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at

1047
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

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Speaker 1: on demand. Coming up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: it is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior,

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Speaker 1: what you got? Well, the biggest sports store that's going on.

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Speaker 1: It's Tommy Cleveland, Brown's quarterback to Seann Watson has been

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Speaker 1: suspended for six games after over twenty women accused him

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Speaker 1: of being sexually inappropriate with him. The ruler was handed

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Speaker 1: down on Monday and stated that Watson did violate the

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Speaker 1: NFL's personal conduct possibly. Both the NFL and the NFL

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Speaker 1: Players Association will have the opportunity to appeal watch the suspension,

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Speaker 1: but the players Association said they will not. They will

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Speaker 1: not appeal it. Un do you think six games it's

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Speaker 1: too late? How was the suspension? Be he mad about

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Speaker 1: the six? Well, I don't think the six is too light.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why because I know for

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Speaker 1: a fact that this lawyer, it was hired to bring

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Speaker 1: down Deshaun Watson by the owner of the Texas who

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Speaker 1: he lives right next door to. After Deshaun Watson said

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Speaker 1: he didn't want to play. Noway, did he sexually assault anybody?

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Speaker 1: Not according to any of the charges and not according

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Speaker 1: to any of the evidence, and nobody's saying he But

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Speaker 1: he did inappropriate behavior that I would agree to. So

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Speaker 1: no violent But in your window, Hey you wanna hold me,

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Speaker 1: you want to touch me? You know how many people

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Speaker 1: have done that? Yeah? Now, but that is a violation

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Speaker 1: of the NFL policy because it makes the shield look bad.

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Speaker 1: But two grand juries file nothing, no charge, wadges of

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Speaker 1: any kind, and then the key women said they wasn't

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Speaker 1: testifying to that. For whatever the reason, it's over. As

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Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. If he has a punishment to take,

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Speaker 1: it's a sick game suspension, that's what it is. Let

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Speaker 1: me tell y'all something. If they could do more to

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Speaker 1: this man, they would, They would have done a point.

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Speaker 1: If they had more to do, they would, but they

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Speaker 1: knew they had to do something. So you know, as

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Speaker 1: far as I see, it's do we need a statement

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Speaker 1: from him, then say nothing. You don't need to say nothing.

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Speaker 1: You got to sex game suspension. Don't mouth man. He's

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Speaker 1: been making statements all along. You know, some believe that

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Speaker 1: the NFL has failed women again with the six game suspension.

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Speaker 1: A lot of female journalists are writing that and they're

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Speaker 1: saying that the NFL has once again, you know, just

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Speaker 1: gave him a slap on the wrist with the well

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Speaker 1: fail had hired an outside judge to handle this, a

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Speaker 1: female to do whatever the judge wanted to do. So

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Speaker 1: it was from an outside council. Everybody agreed to this,

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Speaker 1: but you know, we're in the council culture, so everybody, now,

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Speaker 1: this whole man career got to be gone. Man, all right,

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Speaker 1: we see what keep you posted on this story? Junior,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: here's a question, what's the weirdest place you've ever had

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Speaker 1: SCS sex? Sex? Right after this, you're listening to show.

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Speaker 1: A military museum in Poland is becoming popular, but popular

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Speaker 1: for the wrong reason. Visitors go there to have sex

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Speaker 1: behind the exhibition. The museum upgrade at their entire camera

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Speaker 1: system and found that for some odd reason, people love

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Speaker 1: having sex behind the o work. So now there is signage.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, Now there is signage up asking visitors to

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Speaker 1: stop having sex on the property. And what do you

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Speaker 1: think it is that gets them so turned on? In

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Speaker 1: a military museum? And what is that about? That's a

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Speaker 1: pretty weird place to have sex. Uniform? Why you gotta

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Speaker 1: put us I'm saying, don't you because it's it's out

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Speaker 1: of hand, it's just too much. It's popular. But is

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Speaker 1: it something about a military museum that turns people on? No,

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Speaker 1: I like my house myself. Yeah, I know where everything

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Speaker 1: at m you know? But what okay, so can we

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Speaker 1: can we ask you? Yeah? What is go ahead? Can

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Speaker 1: we ask? Can we ask y'all? That's all we can,

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Speaker 1: we ask you can, we ask you can We have comedians.

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Speaker 1: That's why, y'all all the real people question. What is

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Speaker 1: the weirdest place? Yes, what is the weirdest place? You've

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Speaker 1: ever done it? Huh? I mean I do. But that's

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Speaker 1: just take it too long. He's taking too long. We'll

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Speaker 1: save We'll save Steve for last. What you Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I check in the hood in the back room with

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Speaker 1: roaches everywhere. Oh god, did nobody move? They just look

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Speaker 1: at you an tennis baby. Roaches. I'll tell Rose what

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Speaker 1: am I doing? It? Him? But was it good? Though? No,

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Speaker 1: not nothing. I got to go all right, nephew, come on,

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Speaker 1: we're saving Steve for last. The yard line Texas A

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Speaker 1: and r there babyever on to the game again on

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Speaker 1: the turf, baby again. Sneak out, Kyle, feel all right,

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Speaker 1: mister Harbor, you're up, go eggs beach under the bleaches.

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Speaker 1: This is too much. List at an ice skating rink.

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Speaker 1: One that's ice skating rink with ice skates on. No, no, no, ladies.

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Speaker 1: Coach down on the ice and putting my foot up

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Speaker 1: against the board and pushed off and slip across the ice.

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Speaker 1: But once I slid out there. It was messed up

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Speaker 1: trying to get backwards all Manuka crack through the bond,

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Speaker 1: the barn, the barn, the bond. Why do you have

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Speaker 1: you in the country? You you live in the country

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Speaker 1: and you don't have sex in the barn where you

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Speaker 1: been having it? Ain't a hotel. Ain't no hotels in

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Speaker 1: the country. The bond is the hotel this, Hay. But

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Speaker 1: let's take something about that. Hay, though, you really need

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Speaker 1: a blanket with that, Hay straight, Hay straight, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: made that mistake. That ain't good. You think that sand

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Speaker 1: is rough? Ral is hal It's been a long run

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Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, I'm purely housed. Now house the hotel

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Speaker 1: any more. Out They got cameras everywhere now elevated party.

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Speaker 1: Wait what restauranright, come ahead, thank you guys. This can

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Speaker 1: go on and on. Sounds like coming up in twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Seave

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to show,

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Speaker 1: all right? So, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt's daughter, Zahara

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Speaker 1: Jolie Pitt will be a freshman at where Spellman College

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Speaker 1: in Atlanta this fall. Over the weekend, Angelina Jolie congratulated

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Speaker 1: Zahara and the rest of her new class of Spellman

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Speaker 1: Nights on Instagram, and then in another post, Angelina is

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Speaker 1: trying to learn how to do the electric slide at

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Speaker 1: the spell House send off party in La. She did,

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Speaker 1: she did, she did. U congratulations to the horror which

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Speaker 1: one didn't know how to do the electric fly Angelina Jolie, Oh, yeah, that,

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Speaker 1: but but at least she tried. You know, her daughter's

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Speaker 1: going there, so you know she Yeah, that ain't a

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Speaker 1: hard day to learn. If you struggle, not pretty much.

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Speaker 1: You can give up on the dug in the name name. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you do all that, just go. You can't do electric slide.

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Speaker 1: My uncle could do the electric slide. And here middle

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Speaker 1: sheet ready struggled with the cup of shuffle and slide

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Speaker 1: all of that. But congratulations HBC. You Yeah. I remember

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Speaker 1: when she was a little girl and everybody was talking

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Speaker 1: about the fact that they had adopted this black baby,

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Speaker 1: you know that because they were one of the first

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Speaker 1: ones to do it. And now she's college age. Yeah, yep.

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Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour we'll play around.

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Speaker 1: I would you rather right after this you're listening to show?

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Speaker 1: It is time? Guys. Would you rather take five toddlers

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Speaker 1: to the beach or would you rather take them to

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Speaker 1: six slags beach? Beach? The beach? Yeah, yeah, not to

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Speaker 1: ride off than people. No, all them games and different

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Speaker 1: food boosts. No bathroom. No, we're all going the bathroom

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Speaker 1: at the same time. Let's walk out in the water, baby,

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Speaker 1: let's walk on back. Don't worry about it. Now, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna take them five dollars to the beach, the float on,

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Speaker 1: come on, come on for to go to this park though,

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Speaker 1: whole hands. Watch people, which would you rather wear a

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Speaker 1: linen suit without underwear or would you rather wear dress suits,

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Speaker 1: dress shoes with tube socks? Lenen suits, no underwear, dress shoes,

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Speaker 1: tube socks. Give me the linen suit, linen and no draws.

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Speaker 1: Man to put you damn tube socks on you? Right?

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01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:37,759
Speaker 1: Why lenen? Uh huh lenen? Yeah? It gets ripple fast.

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Speaker 1: Ain't thick enough, ain't enough support you know? Hell all right?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather your face turns red fire red when

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01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:56,200
Speaker 1: you're aroused or would you rather your eyes blink real

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Speaker 1: fast when you're a mine, blink fast anyway immediately when

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Speaker 1: I'm a ride. You think I'm trying to give you

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Speaker 1: a signal? Yeah? What about you, Junior? Yeah, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go with blink real fast. I don't want to be real.

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Speaker 1: I can't. It's hard to get rid of my code.

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Speaker 1: I can't. Steve, I just gonna take the red face.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be significant. Everyone don't know. You don't

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Speaker 1: think I got to ride? All right? All right? Would

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Speaker 1: you rather make love for hours? Make love for hours

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Speaker 1: once a week or a quickie twice a week? Make

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Speaker 1: love for hours just once a week, or have a

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Speaker 1: quickie two times a week? Yeah? Come on, You're not

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Speaker 1: a robot. I do that one hour once a week? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: some pressure, Yeah, you can do moves, you try things,

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01:18:57,120 --> 01:19:00,120
Speaker 1: you know you you know you take a drink, you

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01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:08,400
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Give some water for hours? Two

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Speaker 1: quirkies now him? All right, we gotta go. That's today's

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Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Coming up next at forty

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Speaker 1: nine minutes after it's our last break of the day,

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Speaker 1: and we'll have some closing remarks from the one and

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Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening show, all right,

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Speaker 1: here we are guys, our last break of the day,

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Speaker 1: and Steve, before we get to your closing remarks, we

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Speaker 1: want to send our prayers out to the many, many

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Speaker 1: families that have been affected by the severe weather and

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Speaker 1: the flash flooding going on in Kentucky. Kentucky Governor Andy

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Speaker 1: Basher has established the Team Eastern Kentucky Flood Relief Fund

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Speaker 1: to assist those impacted by all the flooding. Older nations

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Speaker 1: are tax deductible. You can visit ky dot gov. That's

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Speaker 1: ky dot gov to help out the residence of Kentucky

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Speaker 1: that we're in acted by the flooding. Prayers going up

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Speaker 1: for sure. Well all in closing, I'd like to remind

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Speaker 1: people as kind of something we had kind of touched

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Speaker 1: on in the opening of the show, Junior said that

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Speaker 1: he heard a quote. Junior, do you remember what the

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Speaker 1: quote was that you said, Yes, sir. It says, if

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Speaker 1: you think the cost of success is high, wait till

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Speaker 1: you get the bill from regret. One more time, if

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Speaker 1: you think the cost of success is high, wait until

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Speaker 1: you get the bill from Regret. We had talked about

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Speaker 1: this this morning. If you think the cost of success

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Speaker 1: is high, wait till you get the bill for regret.

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Speaker 1: I've been in that decision before. And everyone gets to

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Speaker 1: those moments in life where you have to turn right

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Speaker 1: or you turn and left. And I'm not saying turn

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Speaker 1: right as in the right way or left is the

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Speaker 1: wrong way. I'm just saying everybody gets to a cross

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01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 1: road in life where you have to go this way

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Speaker 1: or that way. What I found in life is that

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Speaker 1: the way that you should go is always the harder.

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Speaker 1: The harder route it usually always is. It looks the

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Speaker 1: least amount of fun. It doesn't show right away what

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Speaker 1: all the upside is. It just looks hard. Then that's

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Speaker 1: an easy way you could take. You can strike out

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Speaker 1: and set your boundaries as difficult and high and hard,

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Speaker 1: or you can take the easier route and go I

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna do nothing. I ain't doing that today. That

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Speaker 1: just looked too hard. I've made the decision before in

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Speaker 1: my life not to take the hard way and boil, boil, boiled, boy,

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Speaker 1: I had nothing but regret. So what I've learned in

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Speaker 1: my travel and in my life experiences, it is I

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Speaker 1: now understand that success is a process, and it is

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Speaker 1: a difficult process. It is simply hard. But that's my

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Speaker 1: only decision from here on out. And I've been making

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Speaker 1: those decisions since I was nearly forty. I don't take

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Speaker 1: no easy way. I expect it to be difficult. I

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Speaker 1: expected to be challenging. I know that it's gonna be hard.

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Speaker 1: I know it's gonna be froth with disappointment. I know

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Speaker 1: it's going to be most challenging. But I also know

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be very, very rewarding. But I will not

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Speaker 1: do It's take the nothing route, the easy route, the

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Speaker 1: settle forward route that I ain't gonna do this because

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Speaker 1: this right here, man, I just ain't doing that today.

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Speaker 1: Because buddy, let me tell you something, when you get

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Speaker 1: that bill for regret, when you look back on what

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Speaker 1: it should have could have man if I only had

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Speaker 1: went on and faced it, that's a hard when to

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Speaker 1: live with. Man, that's a life of regret. And all

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Speaker 1: of us know somebody somewhere who is living in a

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Speaker 1: life of regret and man quitting. Quitting is the biggest

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Speaker 1: sponsor of regret because when you quit, you never know

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Speaker 1: what the end could have been. See. Often the struggler

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Speaker 1: has given up when he might have captured the victor's cup,

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Speaker 1: and he learns too late, when the night came down,

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Speaker 1: how close he was to the golden crown. See that

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Speaker 1: standsa in that poem, don't quit. It's a very effective one.

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Speaker 1: Often the struggler has given up when he might have

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Speaker 1: captured the victor's cup, and he learns too late, when

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Speaker 1: the night came down, how close he was to the

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Speaker 1: golden crown. That's regret, man, when you give up, just

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Speaker 1: in the nick of time, Because giving up assoes you

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Speaker 1: one thing, and one thing only, that you will not win,

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Speaker 1: that there is no way you can see victory. That's

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Speaker 1: what giving up guarantees. Now, I ain't no guarantee if

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Speaker 1: you stay with it, but the possibility remains that you

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Speaker 1: will succeed and you will become a victor. But see

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Speaker 1: so to those of you that look at things so

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Speaker 1: wrong all the time. Yeah, but see Steve, you just said,

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Speaker 1: even if you stick with it, it ain't no guarantee.

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Speaker 1: Ain't no guarantees in life. But if you stick with it,

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Speaker 1: the possibility remains. Why would you destroy the possibility? Why

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Speaker 1: would you remove all hope? That don't make no sense

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Speaker 1: to me. And even if you fail, if you're going

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Speaker 1: a little bit further up the road, you get a

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Speaker 1: little bit more experienced, you get a little bit more learning,

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Speaker 1: you get a little bit more knowledge, so the next

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Speaker 1: time that may be the experience and the knowledge you

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Speaker 1: need to win. Don't ever give up, don't ever quit,

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Speaker 1: don't ever succumb to regret. Stay with it. You never

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Speaker 1: know when God is gonna flip the switch, and he

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Speaker 1: ain't never been too late. Those are my closing remarks. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: do yourself a favor. Talk to God today. He would

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Speaker 1: absolutely love to hear from you. And it don't matter

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Speaker 1: if you ain't talk to him in a while. He's

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Speaker 1: a forgiving God. He's forgiving me thousands of times. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna probably use up a few hundred more for our

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Speaker 1: leader world. I'm gonna try to cut it down to

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Speaker 1: just a few hundred and not do the thousands. After

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