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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 1: She cleaned, cared for her children and the man of

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Speaker 1: the house, and of course she didn't talk back. She

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Speaker 1: was both obedient and soft by nature. She was a

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Speaker 1: good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: Shared that shit off, we're good Mom's bad choices. Who's

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Speaker 2: single mom?

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Speaker 3: Who said?

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Speaker 2: But the patriarchy shared all their bad choices?

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Speaker 3: Sound out they were so bad after all, we're experts.

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Speaker 2: Overchairs and your new vesties.

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Speaker 4: Sit back and enjoy the ride, can bat Hello and

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Speaker 4: welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 4: I'm Mila, and it's Wednesday, bitches, what did it do?

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Speaker 4: Happy Hemp Day, Happy hump Day. Today, you guys, we

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Speaker 4: have a very special episode. You know, we signed to

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Speaker 4: Black Effects a year ago. That's almost our year anniversary,

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Speaker 4: and I don't think we've ever collabed with anyone on

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Speaker 4: the network yet.

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Speaker 3: So this episode, have we no right?

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Speaker 2: I guess not. You know half of decisions decisions that

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Speaker 2: we had Mandy on. But this is the first this

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Speaker 2: is the first time finale.

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Speaker 4: And this has been a long time in the making,

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Speaker 4: so I'm really really excited to welcome to the show

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Speaker 4: AJ and Tammy of We Talk Back podcast and our

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Speaker 4: fellow Black Effect network cousins, You're a Girl.

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Speaker 2: It makes sense that we would we would start our

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Speaker 2: debut of linking up with our Black Effect cousins with

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Speaker 2: another female led bessie podcast like Buttter. What better podcasts

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Speaker 2: should we collab with? Makes perfect cuiche for sure.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm excited.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So ladies, how long ago did y'all start your show?

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Speaker 6: How did fruition our anniversary is along with the network? Yeah, essentially, Yeah, we.

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Speaker 5: Launched with the network. Yeah, so five years ago, me

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Speaker 5: and AJ, but we we had already started like talking

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Speaker 5: about being podcasters and getting the things together to start

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Speaker 5: our podcast before the network. And then AJ got with

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Speaker 5: Charlamagne and we got on the network. So we I

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Speaker 5: think we were one of the only shows that started

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Speaker 5: with the network, right, a brand.

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Speaker 3: New show, origin and original show.

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, it was then we we think, Yeah, we've

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Speaker 6: been called babies, so we own that.

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Speaker 5: Yes, the show before we named our show, we Talked Back,

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Speaker 5: it was what was it a j oh pod?

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Speaker 7: Power over Dick.

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Speaker 3: Not power over jd and like, oh so a play

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Speaker 3: on the word pod.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yes, and so I used tammy stomach and created

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Speaker 6: like you know, like a tupac tattoo.

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Speaker 3: You're like, m B, wait, y'all have this photo because

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Speaker 3: I need the photo. Where's the photo?

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Speaker 5: Like we had to send it to you because it

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Speaker 5: was hilarious.

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Speaker 2: But what happened with black fact? They're like, no, let's

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Speaker 2: let's not launch the pod.

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Speaker 6: Ratchet ass loved that name and I was told I

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Speaker 6: was just like, what dick in the name?

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Speaker 5: I don't what dick in the name? Like, I was just.

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Speaker 2: It was po d It was an abbreviation of Dick.

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Speaker 5: Right. Imagine like going around and saying power.

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Speaker 4: Over I mean that's going to be a long that's

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Speaker 4: going to be a long life of saying that over

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Speaker 4: and over and over.

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Speaker 3: You gotta really be committed.

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Speaker 2: I mean there's some power in saying power over Dick weekly,

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Speaker 2: weekly and weekly, no rights basically like these niggas right, No,

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Speaker 2: I mean we're talking about like the power like pussy power,

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Speaker 2: just like the power to not succumb to the dick.

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Speaker 3: Like what is the what was this power? All the

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Speaker 3: power everything, all the thing?

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Speaker 2: What made yeah, what made you guys wanted to call

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Speaker 2: it power over Dick? What was what does that mean, you.

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Speaker 6: Know a lot a lot of times it's just like,

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Speaker 6: you know, how you write me shit on Facebook and

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Speaker 6: then like five six years later you go back and

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Speaker 6: reread that. She's like, dish, what the fuck was I

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Speaker 6: talking about? That's basically I don't know what I was

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Speaker 7: It's always pod though. Okay, wait, I speaking of Facebook.

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Speaker 4: I recently went way back in my Facebook, like way

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Speaker 4: like original Facebook, and why was I making like and

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Speaker 4: this was the thing I remember, like a lot of

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Speaker 4: people were doing this. You would lead long ass video

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Speaker 4: like twenty minute videos of me talking to my gay bestie.

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Speaker 4: He's not even involved, it's just me. And I was

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Speaker 4: like excited to be a podcaster. Yeah, I just left

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what the fuck? I don't remember.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, girl, maybe it was just me shit, I

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Speaker 4: don't know, but I was like, what, why was I

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Speaker 4: leaving these long telegrams on this niggas page for everyone

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Speaker 2: I did not recall those videos either.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you just go back because Facebook has evolved. Okay,

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Speaker 3: because I remember, I can remember.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how old y'all are, but I remember

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Speaker 4: when I couldn't even get on Facebook. You had to

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Speaker 4: have like a college email address, and I couldn't.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, basically you were older than y'all. Okay, because he

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Speaker 6: definitely had college email addresses to start Facebook. Well, I

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Speaker 6: mean Facebook started here freshman year.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So Facebook came out like my senior year of high school.

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Speaker 4: So you know, then I couldn't wait to graduate because

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Speaker 4: everyone was talking about the Facebook. And I was like,

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Speaker 4: oh my bitch, once I get this e dot eedu,

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Speaker 4: bitch is over with.

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Speaker 3: And apparently did you.

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Speaker 4: I was just leaving long voicemails. I did have Black Planet,

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Speaker 4: I did barely use it.

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Speaker 2: But do you guys remember the party line?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the party Remember press nine?

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Speaker 2: If you want to.

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Speaker 4: Check the voicemails you had your and then you and

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Speaker 4: then you go back and check your voicemail and be

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Speaker 4: like random but like, hey, I'm so cute. I'm in

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Speaker 4: Englewood and like like that's.

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Speaker 2: Problematic as fuck. Why are we just listening to niggas voices?

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Speaker 2: And like that's how you know you're a horny, Like

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Speaker 2: a horny hormonal teenager.

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Speaker 3: Because I was like twelve or thirteen. Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: my daughter's ten. What the fuck Jesus your Christ.

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Speaker 7: You know when you're ready to.

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Speaker 2: Jump her, if you're gonna be a hell, you gotta

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Speaker 2: get jumped in like a real point. But you know

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Speaker 2: what I feel like, oh okay, like beat her up.

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Speaker 2: I feel the kids are not as hormonal, Like I

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Speaker 2: know they're exposed to more, but I feel like the

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Speaker 2: can exactly make out for their brain, their brain dew.

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Speaker 2: They're not even thinking about other people. They're just thinking

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Speaker 2: about playing with people online. Like they're just like that's

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Speaker 7: Perfect watching people play online.

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Speaker 6: I'll never understand, like watching people play video games on

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Speaker 2: Of playing all right, yeah, like wrap it out, it's

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Speaker 3: Why should people open gifts that are not yours? Like

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Speaker 3: what the fuck Globo?

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Speaker 5: Or that ship where they wear the hoodies in a

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Speaker 5: hundred degree weather, Like I don't understand what is that about?

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Speaker 2: Like I remember doing that though I remember like I'm hot,

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Speaker 2: but I'm not going to take off my sweatshirt, like

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Speaker 2: I literally remember it so vivid.

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Speaker 4: Body odor was too aggressive for me to be sweat

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Speaker 4: through this goddamn sweat okay, bitch, like the hormones were hormoning.

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Speaker 3: I could not risk it all that way.

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Speaker 2: I really can do some scientific research on this, because

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Speaker 2: I really specifically, I don't know if it's about like

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Speaker 2: body confidence or comfortability. I feel like it's like a

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Speaker 2: comfort item. That's what I think it is, something like

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Speaker 2: psychologically your sweatshirt is you're covered up because I'm drived

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Speaker 2: by the junior high now and I see kids and

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Speaker 2: doing that hot shit that I just don't I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: have to do more scientific research.

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Speaker 5: I really need to have to be some science to that,

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Speaker 5: because it seems very mismo. Is it?

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Speaker 2: Email stage? Yeah, there's unavoidable things as a as a

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Speaker 2: like a teenager, like you're gonna go email, You're gonna

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Speaker 2: maybe be hot, but keep your sweatshirt on.

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Speaker 3: Wait where did y'all grow up?

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Speaker 5: South Carolina? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Carols, and when did you? When did you guys become friends.

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Speaker 7: So we met in college, was like, okay, we didn't.

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Speaker 6: We didn't really start hanging out, hanging out till like

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Speaker 7: Of us are living in Charlotte, North Carolina.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but don't college and don't Yeah, we was one

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Speaker 2: What college did you guys go to?

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Speaker 3: Not one of them?

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Speaker 5: Benedict College and gonna be side.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I went to HBC too. How did you guys

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Speaker 2: reconnect after not being friends in college but being at

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Speaker 5: We weren't not not friends, we were friends. We just

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Speaker 5: we were living in different places, you know, because you

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Speaker 5: went to Saint Louis after college, right, and then came back.

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Speaker 6: I went to Atlanta Saint Lewis and then back. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Were in the same Charlotte. Yeah, we just happened to

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Speaker 5: rekindled our friendship.

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Speaker 2: And then we killed your friendship. And then he said,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna do power over Decks next.

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Speaker 5: So we would just be on the phone, like yeah,

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Speaker 5: we would be on the phone like just for hours,

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Speaker 5: just laughing and joking. And then AJ was like, we

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Speaker 7: That's really wast content.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's really how it happened. And in power y'all.

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Speaker 7: Talk on the phone now, Like do y'all talk on

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Speaker 7: the phone often?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 2: Now that you say that, it has to be like

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Speaker 2: something very important that we needed to convey verse, like

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Speaker 2: because usually whether we be in person or text messaging.

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Speaker 2: But like I feel like it's very rare. That was

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Speaker 2: like a voice call, like, hey, this is important, I

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Speaker 2: got breaking news.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I think we're to use your content on

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Speaker 6: the phone, is what I write.

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Speaker 2: Don't because we got to record on Wednesday.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes we'll be on the phone. I feel like we'd

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Speaker 5: be like, damn, we should have saved that ship for

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Speaker 5: the episode because it was just too good. But you

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Speaker 5: can't do as well.

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Speaker 4: Just you got need to just hit the record button

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Speaker 4: on your computer or just let it run while y'all

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Speaker 4: it's a call AJ real quick.

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Speaker 3: I know some shit's gonna pop up from here.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: I feel you.

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Speaker 4: I feel like like talking on the phone, Like I

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Speaker 4: Though you always say this, you always Tad literally would

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Speaker 2: The fuck Orlando.

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Speaker 4: And for her.

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Speaker 3: Not making this up, I did not pull this out

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Speaker 4: This is a fact back fact. No, no, just said

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be home in two hours. We lived together

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Speaker 7: Real, if we live together, I'm not talking to you

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Speaker 6: Get home. Like, literally, I don't give a fuck. Don't

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you something I talk about. I FaceTime everybody.

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Speaker 5: I don't call anyone.

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Speaker 3: Well you're one of those.

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Speaker 5: Oh you're one of them girl, everybody I don't call.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, weird?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I need you to book an appointment, bitch, Like, what.

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Speaker 3: Are you talking about? Hold on, I don't know where

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Speaker 4: But if we don't talk very often and I pop

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Speaker 3: What's happening?

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Speaker 5: What's that's?

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Speaker 3: Where? Is there an emergency?

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Speaker 5: Like I wouldn't just like when we were setting up

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Speaker 3: You want to FaceTime me, Tammy?

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Speaker 2: What are you doing over there? Taking so long?

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Speaker 7: What is going on?

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Speaker 2: Show? Show me the setup? Let me let me see

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Speaker 6: That's why it took me so long to even get

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's a while to get an iPhone.

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Speaker 5: Anytime a man who doesn't have an iPhone, he's a cheater.

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Speaker 2: No, have you seen the new technology on the iPhone

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Speaker 2: where if I FaceTime, if I FaceTime Erica, she if

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Speaker 2: she screens shares, there's an option for me to control

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Speaker 2: literally go to her DMS, I can go to Instagram,

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Speaker 2: I can go through it, Like what I am controlling

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Speaker 2: the phone, bitch with my finger from here?

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Speaker 3: Why would they do that? They're trying to get purpose.

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Speaker 2: Get niggas caught up, Like that's the only That's all

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Speaker 2: I could think of, was like, if I had a

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Speaker 2: GMS and if you don't know you're cheating, fuck you.

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Speaker 2: That's my practic side. Well, I can't imagine that.

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Speaker 7: I like surprises. I'm not looking for ship.

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Speaker 4: I don't like surprises. I'll wait, I'll wait to find

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Speaker 2: I'm not like a dumb bitch. So I hope that

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Speaker 2: you are allowing me to do so, Okay, don't make me.

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Speaker 4: Jamila's the one who's forced me to go through people's phones.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you a j I'd be like, it's going,

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Speaker 4: But then I'm like, I'm like, God, this could have

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of Mila bashing. Okay, you saved my life.

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Speaker 3: Thank god they made me go through that niggas phone.

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Speaker 2: I told you because I know the signs. I was like,

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Speaker 2: to do it. I was like, who's your phone? And

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Speaker 2: he didn't find shit. Then he found some ship that

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Speaker 2: made it some ship that it wasn't, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I told her, Like okay, I don't

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Speaker 2: know if anyone else needs to hear this. Maybe you

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Speaker 2: but I'm here to give you the tips and tricks. Okay,

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Speaker 3: To go niggas phoned with Mila step A.

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Speaker 2: If you have to go through these tips and trips,

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Speaker 2: go out, have a great time, get him drunk, be drinking,

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Speaker 2: and then you have your homegirl, okay, or somebody else

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Speaker 2: my phone's not working. Can I use your phone real quick?

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Speaker 2: And you can either have them go in the bathroom

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Speaker 2: your homegirl's gonna go through it for you, screenshot everything,

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Speaker 2: air drop them, or like I told Erica, you can

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Speaker 2: what's your code. I'm gonna play this song. That's what

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Speaker 2: I did, totally not thinking about anything. I'm just going

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Speaker 2: your fucking laser memory. Even if you'd to write it

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Speaker 2: down in your notes really quickly, because if you smoke

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Speaker 2: get into it, and then you make sure you process

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Speaker 2: him up out of his drunken slumber and say wake

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Speaker 2: and he's all like disarrayed and drunk and confused, and

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Speaker 2: you had a couple of flaps in there, just a

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Speaker 2: extra extra get it off real quick, and then so

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Speaker 2: Ha's frown out of him and say, fuck you.

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Speaker 6: It has a man ever woken y'all up? After going

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is this happened with this person. He woke

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Speaker 4: was like, you knew what, nigga away, what did you know?

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Speaker 4: There was nothing. He was making it up. And that's

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Speaker 4: when Mila was like, these are the steps, bitch. Unfortunately

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Speaker 4: I did it on vacation at my one of my

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Speaker 3: We were stuck in another country together.

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Speaker 2: I didn't tell her what to do after she's found

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Speaker 2: the evidence and get that.

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Speaker 4: Well, then I made him call Jamila and tell her

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Speaker 4: that he ain't ship. I said, call my friend and

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Speaker 4: tell her you ain't shit. Tell her what you did,

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Speaker 4: and he did it. I wish we could have recorded

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Speaker 4: that phone, but what with who?

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Speaker 2: What the fuck are you talking about? You're disgusting and

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Speaker 2: you're fucking.

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Speaker 5: First of all, you never ruined a vacation though.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Now we carried on after that, we we we we

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Speaker 4: just was like, listen, we're just gonna fucking act like

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Speaker 4: this trip was over, this was over. And I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: And then we extended it like two days.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, you're cheating on me. I know, it's

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Speaker 2: make a longer, let's say, and hibernation longer. Perfect I did.

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Speaker 3: I made him get a better room and everything. I mean,

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Speaker 3: it was devastating. I felt like I was gonna throw

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Speaker 4: But but then the moment he left, like yeah, I

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Speaker 4: was like, oh my god, that's when I broke down.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh yeah, I can't believe it.

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Speaker 4: And then we broke up, and then we got back together

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Speaker 4: like six months later, and then we broke up again,

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Speaker 4: and then that was done.

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Speaker 2: And that is what we call dictimatization, ladies, that's digimization.

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Speaker 2: He digmatized by that dick.

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Speaker 3: Power over Dick.

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Speaker 4: See if I only if I had, if only I

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Speaker 4: had some power over that over the dick.

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Speaker 6: Of course, some political thinking political we need, we need.

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Speaker 2: Like a skit like you know how like you know

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Speaker 2: how Dave Chappelle had that skit white power every time

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Speaker 2: every time one of your homegrows has children, Just.

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Speaker 3: Dick, it was a bad choice. It was bad choices.

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Speaker 4: Speaking of bad choices, we have a segment on our

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Speaker 4: show called bad Choice of the Week.

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Speaker 3: Do any of you ladies have any bad choices you've

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Speaker 3: made this week?

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Speaker 5: Bad mom? Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

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Speaker 5: So good. I'm lising I do. And I'm gonna be

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Speaker 5: fully transparent with you guys about come on, going on.

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Speaker 5: So I've been dealing with this whyan.

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Speaker 2: We have a question before we proceed, what ages Whyan?

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Speaker 2: Is it like thirty and under?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 7: I think thirty thirty? Yeah, I think like thirty two

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Speaker 7: and under?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Or is it or is it just like amount of

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Speaker 4: you're like sixty, is a y n like a forty

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Speaker 4: year old?

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Speaker 3: Like you know what I'm saying, Like, does it it

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Speaker 3: just based on how old you are?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 2: I think it's under thirty?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: God, God nothing young?

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Speaker 2: They young?

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Speaker 3: If you sixty, they young?

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00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:34,119
Speaker 4: Shitam okay, Tam, tell us you're a bad choice.

444
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 5: They younger than you, but not for the earth. You know,

445
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:44,359
Speaker 5: they just younger than you. So this like, I've been

446
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 5: lying to me this whole time, all right. So he

447
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 5: said he was going on a family vacation this week, right,

448
00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 5: his mom and his dad and his sister, and all

449
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 5: week he just was like, oh, Jamaica, I ain't got

450
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 5: no certain servis. He couldn't talk to me on the

451
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,679
Speaker 5: phone at all, you guys, right, no.

452
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:08,200
Speaker 2: Service in Jamaica, nigga, you're not in Iceland exactly.

453
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,199
Speaker 5: This is the first time out of the country, let

454
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 5: me just say that.

455
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 7: So he's making his first time out of the country.

456
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:22,159
Speaker 5: He's making yes, so he's making rookie mistakes. So when

457
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 5: he gets back, he's texting me. I started ignoring his

458
00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 5: text because boy, who you playing with? Right, So then

459
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 5: he comes home and he's like, oh, I miss you,

460
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,200
Speaker 5: and I ignore him and then he's like, I made

461
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 5: it back, not that you care. Ignore him again. So

462
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 5: then later on I'm like, who the fuck you was with?

463
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,640
Speaker 5: And he was like what do you mean? He was like,

464
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 5: I was like, who the fuck were you with? You

465
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,159
Speaker 5: told me you were with your parents and your sister,

466
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 5: but who were you really with? He was like, I

467
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:54,200
Speaker 5: was just with family. I'm like, send me a picture

468
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 5: of you and your family in Jamaica. Send me a picture.

469
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 5: If you can send me a picture, I'll apologize.

470
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: So y'all he said this betigue and you ai Sorah

471
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 2: dot Bom.

472
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 5: So the doctor gotten for a while, right, a picture

473
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 5: comes through and it's him. No, it's not him, it's

474
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 5: his family. And they're on a plane, like you know,

475
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 5: like we're happy, They're about to take off somewhere. I

476
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 5: was like, you think I'm fucking stupid. And I didn't

477
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 5: even have no evidence of this being a lie like this.

478
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 7: Yes, this intuition you had.

479
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,479
Speaker 3: All the evidence was he was he in the photo

480
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 3: with this family, know.

481
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 5: It was he was taking the picture, but it was

482
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 5: his whole family on this plane. But you know, like

483
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 5: with iPhone, if you save a picture that someone.

484
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 3: Sends you, you can see the date everything.

485
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 5: So it did not drop down to the bottom of

486
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 5: So clearly this did not happen this week. This happened

487
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 5: some other times. So then I went to my recently

488
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 5: added photos and I scrolled up so I could see

489
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 5: the time stamp. October fifth, twenty twenty three. Boy, who

490
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 5: the fuck is you playing with? Who is you playing

491
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 5: with you here.

492
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 2: And you and you even got a lie to me, nigga,

493
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.

494
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 5: Why are you lying? Why are you lying? I've said

495
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 5: to this man so many times, you can tell the truth.

496
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 5: Is still have your way. I've told him that, like,

497
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 5: you don't have to lie. There's no reason.

498
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 2: You'll have more of a way if you're telling the truth.

499
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 2: I respect the real nigga more.

500
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 5: Exactly. So, this nigga is trying to send me old

501
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,360
Speaker 5: pictures from twenty twenty three? Make it? First of all,

502
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 5: does screenshot it? Then send it? Dummy? You don't send

503
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 5: it straight FW.

504
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 4: But even that's going to be suspicious because now it's

505
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 4: time stamp for today, touche.

506
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 6: You can set whatever date you want. You can set

507
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,199
Speaker 6: whatever date you want that day.

508
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 4: Aj.

509
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 3: We don't need anybody knowing this information.

510
00:23:53,760 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 5: Okay, change yah, you can do it. But so here's

511
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 5: the dumb part, because I'm probably go fuck with him again.

512
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 5: I ain't.

513
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 2: So damn the dick is that? Good?

514
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 5: Girl?

515
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 3: We need to exert this power, baby?

516
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 2: Where's the power?

517
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 3: Baby?

518
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 5: Bitch ice for some time. I don't put him on

519
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 5: ice for some time, but I'm probably going back.

520
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,360
Speaker 3: It must be good it must be good, it must

521
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 3: be real good.

522
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 5: It's good. But mhmm, like we were watching binge watching

523
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 5: Stranger Things and there's a new season about to come out.

524
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 3: Bitch, I'm something done with you.

525
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 4: I'm so done not did need a Stranger Things buddy

526
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 4: watching person.

527
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 2: Girl FaceTime?

528
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 4: I'll watch Stranger Things with you. So do you care

529
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 4: who he was with? Do you have questions? Do you

530
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 4: need updates to or is it just.

531
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 5: I know exactly who he was with, so bem was.

532
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 3: Hey or like a former girlfriend or what baby mama?

533
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 2: Does he live with her?

534
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:08,360
Speaker 5: No?

535
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 2: Okay, he's trying to get his family back tam damn.

536
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 5: And I'm trying to see what happens to eleven okay.

537
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 2: So okay, well I hope it comes back before November.

538
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 3: What happens to eleven two? Okay?

539
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 4: I'm invested in Stranger Things also, Okay, So if it

540
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 4: doesn't work out, bitch, you can FaceTime me, we can

541
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 4: watch it together.

542
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 5: Okay.

543
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 2: I mean honest, honestly, I feel like if you're aware

544
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: of your like stupid bitchness, Like if you're making an aware,

545
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,439
Speaker 2: this informed decision, you're not like he's gonna be my

546
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: husband and he's gonna leave his baby mama and we're

547
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 2: gonna run off and have a twenty nine year old baby. Like,

548
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 2: it don't really matters. So as long as like the

549
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 2: bad choice is conscious and you're not like hurting yourself

550
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 2: in the process. I feel like, if you want to

551
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 2: go get the dick and also say tell him you're stupid,

552
00:25:59,000 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: I still have the upper hand.

553
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 5: I do it, perious, Perioeah, well that's not bad for

554
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 5: this week. You got one agent. Don't leave me out

555
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 5: here by.

556
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 7: I don't like, I don't have a bad I mean

557
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 7: you can't.

558
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 4: That's a really hard one to to outdo.

559
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 2: I hope his baby mama. I hope his baby mama

560
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 2: doesn't listen to these podcasts because she's gonna be She's

561
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 2: gonna know the other side of the story.

562
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 7: Now right right, we were just in Jamaica.

563
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 2: I'm just in Jamain love Stranger Things, right?

564
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 7: You talking to me about this Stranger Thing?

565
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 2: Shit? You've been watching it lately, haven't you? What a

566
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 2: geek bitch A bitch named Tam.

567
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 5: Not a geek bitch. AJ.

568
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 7: I like Stranger Things too?

569
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,199
Speaker 2: AJ. Are you dating? Like I do you have a boyfriend?

570
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 2: What your love life?

571
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 5: Like I do.

572
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 6: Look, and this is why I said Whyians are thirty

573
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 6: two and under, because this nigga is thirty three.

574
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 4: Their own ass man. Okay, he's in his Jesus year. Okay,

575
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 4: he doesn't exactly delivered. Okay, the year the Lord.

576
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 6: Okay, it's a good number. So yeah, I'm in a relationship, Chab,

577
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 6: I'd be in and out.

578
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 7: Sticking and moving.

579
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 5: So I got out on one.

580
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: Yes, how long have you guys been together?

581
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 4: Because she seems kind of surprised, I know, not your

582
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 4: best friend, not having the update hold on, seems.

583
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 2: Like this is her first time she's heard this, this news.

584
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 5: But let me let me just before she answers, I listen.

585
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 5: I admire AJ so much for how she This girl

586
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 5: is gonna have a man. Okay, she is gonna have

587
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 5: I've been like single, single for almost ten years. She's

588
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 5: had she will have her a man. That's my man,

589
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 5: My man, my man. I'm like, damn, it's a man.

590
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: Well, this is how long do your relationships usually last? AJ?

591
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 7: Okay, so the last and the last ten years?

592
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,239
Speaker 2: Right?

593
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 6: I have had two serious relationships, one engaged and then

594
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 6: the other one has been a relationship since I was eighteen.

595
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 6: Basically that I ended this year. The guy who I'm

596
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 6: dating now, we just started dating in July and our

597
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 6: first date was in Puerto Rico, Like we met up

598
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 6: in Puerto Rico. That was my first time seeing him.

599
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 4: So yeah, it was like it was like through just

600
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 4: like Instagram or social media or something like that.

601
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, he had been in my DM since like twenty

602
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 6: twenty one. So sorry to the exes who was listening

603
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 6: to this. Yes, I do be fratenizing, get a little bit.

604
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 8: Okay, So yeah, just in the case, just a little

605
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 8: bit working on that, right because I know that me

606
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 8: fratenizing has always been like a problem in relationships.

607
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 4: But I feel like everybody do it. I'm just on

608
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 4: you begetting a girl. Don't be putting off all of

609
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 4: this category bitch.

610
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 6: So is initiate to fratenizing, but I'll participate, Okay, Like

611
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 6: I don't initiate, but I will participate. Right, So somebody

612
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 6: like hit me up, maybe not tech like damn ship, Like, yeah,

613
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 6: I'm gonna flirt back a little bit.

614
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 7: Might leave you on red for a little.

615
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 3: Bit, but yeah, I like to are you gonna pick

616
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 3: up the phone and make a phone call?

617
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 7: I really know or if I even if I know

618
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 7: I have, like I have had.

619
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 6: A couple of people in over the years that I

620
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 6: will act like I'm gonna do some ship and it

621
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 6: just I just never smoke through. I just like to

622
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 6: talk about it.

623
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 2: But you're like a fake ho. That's what I call it.

624
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 2: Fake ho. Like you might like pretend like you're gonna

625
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 2: do it like a girl and then you'll never act

626
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: on it.

627
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 5: Just practicing.

628
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 7: I see if I still got it a little bit,

629
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 7: you stille. No, I've been working on and off for

630
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 7: I have not been fratnizing.

631
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I have not been your podcast. Yes, you do

632
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 6: listen to the podcast.

633
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 2: Have you guys ever dated a man who didn't listen

634
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 2: to the podcast that knows you have a podcast?

635
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 3: Souse?

636
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: I feel like it's like leaving a fucking cake on

637
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 2: a table and a baby next to it, like, okay,

638
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: here's all my business. Don't push play man we first

639
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 2: started back.

640
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 5: I don't feel like you guys listen to this soil.

641
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 2: So a j Where is your You're not why?

642
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 6: I am from Jersey, chah okay.

643
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 2: But you're in North Carolina or South Carolina.

644
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 7: South Carolina, Charleston, South Carolina.

645
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 2: How would you say dating, Like, how is your experience

646
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 2: in dating down south? I feel like down south there's

647
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 2: like more gentlemen Like that sounds like there's gonna be

648
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: a wholesome men ready to be husbands and like in

649
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: South Carolina.

650
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:31,959
Speaker 6: I mean most of the people who I have been

651
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 6: in relationships with have been from the South, and it'd

652
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 6: be some bullshit for real, you know what I'm saying.

653
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 6: They might they might take care of you, but they

654
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 6: definitely still be on some bullshit.

655
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 4: I think you're negotiables, Like what are you? Non negotiables

656
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 4: and relationships both y'all.

657
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:52,959
Speaker 5: Are non negotiable.

658
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 7: Mus should be changing.

659
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: That's you cannot.

660
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 7: It depends like you cannot.

661
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 6: Like what I realized because of my last relationship is

662
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 6: that in order to cohabitate with somebody like, y'all really

663
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 6: have to be aligned when it comes to like cleanliness

664
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 6: right and cleaning up behind yourself. Because I feel like

665
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 6: I'm trying to figure out, like how niggas keep their

666
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 6: ship when they bodyself you know. Well, but I've been

667
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 6: to some men some men's house and it was like neat,

668
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 6: nice whatever. But it's almost like when they live with you,

669
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 6: they expect you to clean up after them, like when

670
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 6: y'all live together, well, it's last lived with somebody.

671
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 7: Oh this year, oh this year.

672
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, so yeah, like you gotta be evenly yoked when

673
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 6: it comes.

674
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 3: To like they.

675
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 2: Moved out and they've moved on. He has a new

676
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: she has a new book. Nigga. I want to I

677
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 2: want to say strongly as strong I strongly agree because

678
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: I just recently went out of town for like six days.

679
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 2: And when I say, Orlando did not, it was it

680
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 2: was almost a test, like you know, you're rushing and

681
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: you're leaving out the door, like I had like dropped

682
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: a jacket, like at a scarf on the floor. When

683
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 2: I say, I came back and the scarf and the

684
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: bag were in the middle of the floor, like it

685
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 2: would take more effort to step over than to pick

686
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 2: it up. I was like, yo, my nigga, like you

687
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 2: don't see my jacket, Like, oh, it's yours and it's

688
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 2: your house.

689
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 7: Right, and how often do I clean up after you?

690
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 2: It looked almost identical. It looked like I had just

691
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: left the house to the airport. I was I couldn't

692
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 2: believe that he had been living here for six days

693
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 2: and just totally oblivious of the shit. And he's like,

694
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 2: you know, I'll working at a job and you can't

695
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: tell him shit, you know, not work at twelve hour day.

696
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 2: I said, Nigga, that doesn't mean shit. You still have

697
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: to put shit away. And then I had like an

698
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 2: organizer come today and he messaged me. He's like, I

699
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,239
Speaker 2: think having help with the organization and cleaning is going

700
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 2: to save our marriage. And I said absolutely, because I

701
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 2: literally was thinking about, like maybe I didn't get my

702
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 2: own apartment because what the fucker you're talking about for

703
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: six days? You stepped over the same goddamn jacket. So yes,

704
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 2: I totally understand.

705
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 6: I think, yeah, I'm for like even like when I

706
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 6: buy a home and I'm living with my husband or

707
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 6: whoever whatever, I need my own room and I need

708
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 6: my own fucking bathroom, Like yeah, that shit is oval.

709
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 7: I need my own space in order for the shit

710
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 7: to work.

711
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 2: Good.

712
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 7: This nia live out of town, But yeah, what about you, Tom?

713
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 5: So honestly, I'm struggling. I'm working on setting because I

714
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 5: set firm boundaries, right, but then when I like somebody

715
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 5: or I love them, I start living outside of those

716
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 5: boundaries to coexist with this person. So in my next relationship.

717
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 5: I'm going to try to stay in that box and

718
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 5: not fold for whoever I'm So that's why I say

719
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 5: it depends because that's something I that's not my strong suit.

720
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 5: I'm a cancer, and I just feel like we just

721
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:13,399
Speaker 5: turn into a mush when we love somebody. So that's

722
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,280
Speaker 5: my honest answer.

723
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 3: What's your sign?

724
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 7: A j Gemini? Oh?

725
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:19,240
Speaker 3: Jemini?

726
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 2: On your birthdays?

727
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 7: June eighth, in July sixteenth?

728
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 5: Okay, what about y'all?

729
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 7: What's y'all you cancer?

730
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:28,720
Speaker 2: I'm a cancer.

731
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 3: I'm a scorpio.

732
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 5: What what's your birthday is?

733
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 3: October twenty fifth?

734
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 5: Oh, you got a birthday coming up in a few minutes.

735
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 4: I do, I do. I'm getting that plan wiser. That's

736
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 4: what I'm gonna sart to say. I'm not getting older,

737
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 4: I'm getting wiser. I'm going at the bay as of now,

738
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 4: I'm going to the Bay and I'm gonna go to

739
00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 4: the forest and chill for like two days. My man

740
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 4: and family. There's a wedding in the family on my birthday,

741
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 4: which I was like, I've been going back and forth

742
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 4: about because I.

743
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 3: Get weird on my birthday.

744
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 4: I don't know if y'all relate to this, but I've

745
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 4: always like my around my birthday, I get like kind

746
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 4: of depressed. I get like anxious, I like I want

747
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 4: to do stuff, but I also want to be left alone.

748
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 4: But then like as it nears, I get annoyed that

749
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 4: like no one has thought of me and planned anything

750
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 4: for me. But then also like I don't want to

751
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 4: see any of you bitches, And then I'm like, wait,

752
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 4: I love you please.

753
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 2: So confusing at all?

754
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 3: I just said it was confusing.

755
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 4: And so last year I've shared on the podcast, I

756
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 4: went and went into a hole an Oregon, like a literal,

757
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 4: actual hole in the ground.

758
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 3: I went on a darkness retreat.

759
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 7: I saw your posts.

760
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:44,359
Speaker 4: On that, and so I was rebirthed last year out

761
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 4: of the womb of the earth. And so I'm having

762
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 4: a different relationship with my birthday and actually putting less

763
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 4: emphasis I think on the birthday day. So that's why

764
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 4: I was like, maybe I should just I'm me, just

765
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:58,240
Speaker 4: go to this wedding on my birthday.

766
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 3: It's fine, but then part of me is do, like I.

767
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 4: Really want to go to someone that's fucking wording on

768
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 4: my motherfucking birthday, my motherfucking like Erica. Hey, there's other

769
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 4: days there's other birthdays after that. So my man, his

770
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 4: birthday is three days after mine, so we're gonna be together.

771
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 3: So we're gonna do something after that.

772
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 4: As of now, I'm still contemplating because I am quick

773
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 4: to switch it up last minute, So we'll see where

774
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 4: I land.

775
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 2: Oh, you got about you got about ten days to

776
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 2: switch it up.

777
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 5: I know, well, technically you too. You were reborn last year,

778
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 5: so technically you're turning too. Bitch. You're very youthful, exactly.

779
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 3: Remember I'm actually younger than you, Jamala. Now I'm two.

780
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 3: Jamila is twenty four, so I'm two.

781
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 2: Ye got it? Damn right.

782
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 5: What's your birthday? Me?

783
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 2: I'm June twenty second. I'm like the first day of

784
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 2: cancers about Yeah, answer, I'm a gemn answer, But I

785
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: feel like I have more cancer traits, but only the

786
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 2: good Gemini traits.

787
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 6: I mean, what the fuck does that mean? All the

788
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:13,919
Speaker 6: Gemini traits are good?

789
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 2: Well, well, you know that's arguable. You know, you guys

790
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 2: have some thing, you know.

791
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 6: I don't know why we get so much hate like y'all,

792
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 6: Like you know, Gemini are the only humans.

793
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 7: Of the zodiac.

794
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 6: The rest of y'all bitches is like animals and signs

795
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 6: and symbols and shit.

796
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 2: And humans can't be trusted. History has proven that humans

797
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 2: really can't be trusted. That's the problem, or two of them,

798
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 2: so what the fuck?

799
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 6: Very confusing, no mutable. See that's the difference. People like,

800
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 6: we aren't too faced and none of that shit. We

801
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 6: just on what you want. That's okay. That's why I

802
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 6: way to look at it. I actually be working on

803
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 6: not being on with other people on and not allowing

804
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 6: other people to change my energy.

805
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 7: I really weren't really, really really hot.

806
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,439
Speaker 2: I need to do better at that. That is something

807
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 2: I am working on this year because I think as

808
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 2: a cancer I can take on other people's energy really easily.

809
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 2: Just as an EmPATH, I can literally be at a

810
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: concert and I see like a bitch that I don't

811
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 2: know across the fucking walkway crying and I'm like, are

812
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 2: you okay? Like you don't even know her, leave her alone.

813
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 2: You're having a good time, okay, bro. That's why I understand.

814
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 5: That you cannot watch Gray's Anatomy, because I carry that

815
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,919
Speaker 5: ship with me all day. They'd be like, what's going

816
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 5: to like? Somebody dras Anatomy? Like I really so? I

817
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 5: won't watch that Extreme Home makeover. Forget about it. I'm

818
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:38,919
Speaker 5: not watching that ship.

819
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 2: Have you Home Bankover?

820
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 4: I cannot that that will make that will make me.

821
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 3: That's a sad. That's sad. It's beautiful.

822
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 4: It's beautiful at the end because these people really needed

823
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 4: those homes.

824
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,240
Speaker 3: Girl, I know, I felieve you. I cry.

825
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 5: I lost it after watching that ship.

826
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 2: Yo, what kind of transformation on when they're homeless?

827
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 7: Like, what do you mean they have like the most

828
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 7: worst story.

829
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 5: It'll be like the sad story, like my grandma lost

830
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 5: her eye trying to help me bake a cake and

831
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 5: now she can't see she got one, like just all

832
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 5: the worst story and then they just get this beautiful home.

833
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 5: Grandma get a new eye, and you just being there.

834
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 7: Like not you go on ag TV trauma bonding.

835
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, with some shit.

836
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 3: I'd be crying.

837
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 4: I'd be crying for like for like chef kids, Okay,

838
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 4: those kids making them food.

839
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 3: They'd be making me so proud. Girl, I'm not it's shambles.

840
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 7: Watched too much TV?

841
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 2: Yes, because what are you talking about?

842
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,359
Speaker 3: I don't watch them anymore. I had to stop because

843
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 3: I'd be crying. I was just on the Internet.

844
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 4: Yesterday I opened up a post without any sort of context,

845
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 4: and it made me cry. I was like, what the

846
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 4: Internet in general is just very like it's just violating,

847
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 4: Like they don't even do trigger warnings no more. Okay,

848
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 4: Like I really have to stop watching Amanda Steals' content

849
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 4: because I'm like, bitch, like tell me before you fucking

850
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 4: about to post this shit?

851
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:06,439
Speaker 5: Girl?

852
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 6: Are you not love the black woman getting beat up

853
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 6: in Jacksonville, Florida by the police.

854
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 4: That I saw, Yes, that one, Yes, actually that was

855
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 4: the one that made me cry. And then the same

856
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 4: day I saw another one about this.

857
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 3: Little girl who these little these two little.

858
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 4: Boys like tempted her out of her out of her

859
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 4: house and was like maybe like five or five or

860
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 4: six and ripped her hair out in the field and

861
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 4: did a whole.

862
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 3: Bunch of other horrible shit. I don't even want to

863
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 3: stay here.

864
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 4: But like I guess the city was like trying to

865
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 4: be like, oh, they're kids, we're not going to prosecute them.

866
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 4: And they did horrible things to this baby. And it

867
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 4: took like so, I mean, I guess it took social

868
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 4: media for it to get any attention. And now things

869
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 4: are happening. But like before they were just gonna like

870
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 4: wrap it up and be like she's she's she lived.

871
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 7: Pardon it was completely did.

872
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 6: A lot of bad things eight and nine years old, though,

873
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 6: But just imagine the things that these kids are being

874
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 6: exposed to online that are shaping or psyche.

875
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 7: We'll talk about social media.

876
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 3: As adults.

877
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 6: You get on social media, you see some happy shit,

878
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 6: the next lives and slack.

879
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:06,240
Speaker 7: It's nice.

880
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 3: It's on purpose.

881
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 4: It's on purpose to numb you so that everything is like, yeah,

882
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 4: you're watching murder and then you're watching a tutorial, and

883
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 4: then you're watching a dance, and then you're watching another

884
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 4: murder and then you you know, it's like it's it's insane.

885
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 3: My daughter the other day, I'm driving.

886
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 4: And she's like, Mommy, you're so lucky that you're born

887
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 4: in the nineteen hundreds. And I was like, okay, yeah, I'm.

888
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 5: Slavery life.

889
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 4: Okay, slight shade, but whatevs. And she was like no,

890
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 4: because like you got to experience like the two thousands,

891
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 4: like the early two thousands, and you know, like I'll

892
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,879
Speaker 4: never be able to experience that. I'll never be able

893
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 4: to like experience that time in life. And just like

894
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 4: I'm a kid, You'll never be able to experience this time.

895
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 4: But I kind of wish that I could have experienced

896
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 4: that time because not everybody was on their phone all

897
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 4: the time.

898
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god. I was like, yeah,

899
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:58,720
Speaker 3: it's true.

900
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 4: I mean, my daughter she'd be she has a phone,

901
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 4: and she'd be on it, not as much as like

902
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 4: some like some like some kids I see, but but

903
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 4: still she's she's plugged in. But just the fact that

904
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 4: she even had that clarity, I was like, damn, you're right,

905
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,439
Speaker 4: And I said, yeah, you're I was like, I didn't

906
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 4: even have social media until I was I mean I

907
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 4: had MySpace, and I guess I had Facebook, but.

908
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 2: Not a lot from like a like a landline.

909
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 3: Not to capacity.

910
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, like there was my Space on my phone. Like

911
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 4: I had to go on my Dell.

912
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 2: P dial up and then no one could use the phone.

913
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:34,800
Speaker 2: It was like you had to schedule that shit. Remember,

914
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 2: like you had two lines.

915
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 6: And kids now think that when they're born they automatically

916
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 6: get a cell phone. Like my niece one of my

917
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 6: oldest seasons twenty seven, and she was fist that my

918
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 6: sister was making her pay her own cell phone bill.

919
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 6: Now I'm like, bitch, you're twenty seven.

920
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 7: I was paying.

921
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 6: I bought you a cell phone as a teenager. I'm

922
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 6: twenty paying in this little girl's cell phone bill. Like

923
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 6: you've never had to pay a cell phone bill. It

924
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 6: doesn't come with birth, bitch.

925
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 2: This is my birth certificate, my plan, my plan, because

926
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 2: my birth.

927
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 7: Certificate exactly like Girl used.

928
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 2: To wait till she finds out about health insurance, Girl pinion.

929
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 2: And I know we're lucky to have. Like it's such

930
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: interesting that, like, yeah, like we're probably the last of

931
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 2: the Mohicans who got to experience the full range because

932
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:30,760
Speaker 2: we're pretty indoctrinated in social media. But just in general,

933
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: like dating is different. Like, you know, I was listening

934
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 2: to one of guys' podcasts and you were talking about

935
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 2: you were talking about, uh Cam Newton's baby mom, Jasmine

936
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 2: Brown or whatever being a pigmy and like how she

937
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 2: used to do like a lot of her content was

938
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 2: about being against pigmies and just like even how that

939
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 2: part of womanhood has shaped because we were exposed to

940
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 2: like Kevin Samuels and sucking all the fucking fucks on

941
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 2: the internet. You know, Like it's just interesting. Dating is

942
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 2: even different and influenced by fucking losers on social media.

943
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 2: And there's some time I was I would be responding

944
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 2: to losers and then I'm like, bitch, you're a loser.

945
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 2: If your respond to these.

946
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 7: I just block them.

947
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 6: Anytime somebody says some extra rue shit to me, I

948
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 6: just block them.

949
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 7: I own and say shit.

950
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 5: Sometimes I engage because it's fun, the verbal sparn but

951
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 5: I just want to, you know, have.

952
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 3: A little practicing. See if you still got it.

953
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was a Friday. I got time on Friday, got.

954
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: It, got a little wine in my cap.

955
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 3: I don't do back and forth on a Wednesday. Lack

956
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 3: me on fridayday?

957
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 5: Right, oh god, oh my god. Just fun like to

958
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 5: go to their page and see what's going on and

959
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 5: then come back.

960
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 2: There's always nothing. And then then I feel like a

961
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 2: fucking loser. I'm like, you fucking ugly, smut bucket looking.

962
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 5: Face the animal you need?

963
00:44:57,640 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yeah it's true. I'd be like you

964
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 2: got your fucking cock eyed bitch ass.

965
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 5: She asked me your comments under their pictures, like, oh.

966
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 2: Wait, and then if I have a if I have

967
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 2: a really good comeback, I'm not going to block you,

968
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 2: because then it's going to erase our whole conversation, and

969
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 2: I want people to see how how I got your app.

970
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 4: I'd be going on I'd be going on posts, and

971
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 4: I'd be seeing NILA's comments, like on random posts like

972
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 4: the Shade Room.

973
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 3: I'd be like, Oh, she already did it. Thank thanks girl,

974
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 3: she did it for me.

975
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 2: Fuck you. Fuck you, You're stupid.

976
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,479
Speaker 3: Everybody needs a meal on her on their team.

977
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: Okay, So somethings are so ridiculous. That's why I had

978
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 2: to really stop engaging, because I'm like, it's actually ridiculously stupid.

979
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 3: Girls.

980
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 2: Fuck them people, fuck them people like you know what,

981
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: this is a statistic that I made up, but I'm

982
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 2: strongly I think like ninety eight percent if the population

983
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 2: are losers.

984
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 3: You see losers.

985
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 5: Okay.

986
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 3: I don't know why the word loser. I just automatically

987
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 3: associate with Donald Trump.

988
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 2: You black people. I love black people.

989
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 6: No, I always be saying that, like if we actually

990
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,879
Speaker 6: were like how animals are. In a while, a lot

991
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 6: of these niggas will die having procreative okay, because all

992
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,240
Speaker 6: of them are not supposed to have access to pussy.

993
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,359
Speaker 6: Thus the in cell community, right, they just so mad

994
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,439
Speaker 6: they can't fuck who they think they should be able

995
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 6: to fuck, but a lot of them should just die

996
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 6: without ever procreating, without ever having had sex with women.

997
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 6: Really exercise like discipline in a real way.

998
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 3: We have power over dick. That's a good episode.

999
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 2: Running down and it all comes.

1000
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 3: Back to power over dick. Yes, dick and power.

1001
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 5: Snippet of this episode. Niggas is gonna be mad, like

1002
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 5: I think you should die. I think you all should

1003
00:46:58,880 --> 00:46:59,760
Speaker 5: die without pussy.

1004
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 3: It's women like you, it's women like you.

1005
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 2: But that's a real statement.

1006
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 3: This is why you're this is why you're single. This

1007
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 3: is why your baby mama.

1008
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:12,320
Speaker 2: Don't procreate with these fucking rea like they're slow. A

1009
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 2: lot of these niggas are slow, like they literally don't

1010
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 2: have the enzymes, and so if you give them fucking

1011
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,720
Speaker 2: egg like, it's just it's it's it's really it's keeping

1012
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 2: our popular like, it's keeping like the world intelligence low

1013
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 2: on a long term scale.

1014
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 6: And it's a different fact that the man really plays

1015
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 6: a bigger part in how the baby is going to

1016
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 6: be then the woman, like that's you. Like they talk

1017
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 6: about gay people like y'all the ones with this gay

1018
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 6: ass firm.

1019
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what you know.

1020
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 6: They always say, like black women, like we'd be bigging

1021
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 6: up the gay community, bigging up the gay men, like yes,

1022
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 6: because we're nurturing naturally, like like we are everybody come

1023
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 6: as you are, right, But this gay firm that is

1024
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 6: now an adult male came out of your ass, nigga, Like,

1025
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 6: what are we talking about?

1026
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 5: Your I don't gay spurn.

1027
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:04,959
Speaker 7: Gay people will tell you it's from birth.

1028
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 6: They've been that way their whole lives, right, So yeah,

1029
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,359
Speaker 6: I believe it is some ship because fucking why, ain't

1030
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:11,439
Speaker 6: nothing but a broken eggs?

1031
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,399
Speaker 2: Have you guys heard of ghost Face Killer's son?

1032
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 7: Yes?

1033
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 2: What?

1034
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 5: Yes?

1035
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 2: Ghost Face Killer has a son who's very gay and

1036
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,919
Speaker 2: he's also inherited his talent now, but he's distracking him.

1037
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 3: He's distracking his dad.

1038
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 2: It's so good, actually really good.

1039
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 7: That's forever infinite.

1040
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 5: That's not sad to y'all.

1041
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 2: Reach out to him. Maybe maybe he'll come to the

1042
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 2: podcast and talk about his daddy. I don't think it's sad.

1043
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 2: I think it's a rebellious act. And I think it's

1044
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 2: I think when you have a parent like that that

1045
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 2: hasn't claimed you for who you are, and you have

1046
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 2: the audacity and the courage to talk back and use

1047
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 2: his own talent against him. I think, yeah, better than

1048
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 2: that than to heart like harbor and feel saddened. What

1049
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 2: his name? Daddy wasn't there fuck daddy and put it

1050
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 2: on the track.

1051
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 5: I think he just wants his daddy's love. That's a

1052
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 5: cry for help.

1053
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 6: Absolutely at the same time as fuck him. He might not,

1054
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:15,399
Speaker 6: he might never get it.

1055
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 3: He might as well make a bag on it. Period.

1056
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 4: Anyway, ladies, do you all have a horror story that

1057
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 4: you can share for our audience.

1058
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 3: Stories?

1059
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 6: Oh, I kind of, I kind of got one. I

1060
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,799
Speaker 6: know Halloween is coming up, right, Yeah.

1061
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 2: We love Halloween over here.

1062
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 3: So I think like.

1063
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 6: A nigga's dead cousin, like watched us have sex one?

1064
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 3: Why the cousin? How you know was the cousin? Like specifically?

1065
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,879
Speaker 6: Okay, so me and Mina's guy, we are still really

1066
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:01,720
Speaker 6: really good friends.

1067
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 2: Right.

1068
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 6: This is a long ass time ago, but this shit

1069
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 6: happened in real time, in real fucking life. His cousin

1070
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 6: committed suicide, all right. I know that it's kind of dark,

1071
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 6: right quick, right? His cousin committed suicide, like within the

1072
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 6: same year I met him and we were having some

1073
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 6: super nasty sex one night and like you know, carpet

1074
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 6: doors are not supposed to swing on carpet.

1075
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 2: Carpet's high enough.

1076
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 7: The fucking door just opened while we were having sex.

1077
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,320
Speaker 7: Nobody else in the house.

1078
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 3: Did the cousin live in this house?

1079
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 6: No, but they were like, you know, best friend cousins,

1080
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 6: first best friends. Yeah, and he passed away, Like he

1081
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 6: didn't just pass away, He actually committed suicide.

1082
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 2: Did I say that? Yes?

1083
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, he committed suicide.

1084
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,240
Speaker 6: And you know, usually when they say people commit suicide,

1085
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 6: they have like some maybe some unfinished shit. They might

1086
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 6: still be around. I don't know, but he definitely was

1087
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 6: watching me suck that dick. Okay, because I.

1088
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 7: Died, this door open like that?

1089
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:06,839
Speaker 3: Did y'all?

1090
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 6: Absolutely, I'm not afraid of ghost Like, just touch me,

1091
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 6: Mike could have given me some platorial stimulation while I'm

1092
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:17,839
Speaker 6: sucking the dick.

1093
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 2: Now, Now you had a Now you had a fucking mms.

1094
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 2: The ghost cousins once once one was a ghost, but

1095
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 2: it was still too I felt it a j I

1096
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 2: just want to know how you knew it could have

1097
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 2: been any ghost, but why specifically had to be the cousin.

1098
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 2: He was there and I kept second the dick.

1099
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just feel like I just feel like that's

1100
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,720
Speaker 6: who it was, because who else, Like there was nobody

1101
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 6: else like that was close to him.

1102
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:50,320
Speaker 5: That his grandma, the baby.

1103
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, you gotta like boa, you guys are faking silly.

1104
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 3: Okay, not aj picking whichever dead relative she thinks it is.

1105
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 2: They all been.

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00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 7: A nigga and not his grandma. Like, I don't want

1107
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 7: nobody grandma watching me get fucked.

1108
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 2: It would be a nigga. It would be your cousin

1109
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,240
Speaker 2: trying to peep in the door and see what's popping,

1110
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 2: you know, And also, you know, sexy sex energy I

1111
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 2: think makes the veil thin. I feel like you go

1112
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 2: in between, you go in between dimensions when you're having

1113
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 2: sex because you're going somewhere else so that you know what,

1114
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 2: that's the best Halloween horry we've had thus far. Okay,

1115
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 2: no I have I think I have one, or like.

1116
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:43,720
Speaker 5: You have one, I do. I don't know if it's

1117
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 5: all all right. It was scary for me. I was

1118
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 5: having sex with my partner at the time in the mirror, right,

1119
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 5: and we were staring at each other in the mirror,

1120
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 5: and it was dark, right, but we could still see

1121
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 5: each other's face in the mirror, and I swear it

1122
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 5: just felt like something else joined us for he felt it,

1123
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 5: and he felt it too. He felt it and it

1124
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 5: just felt like dark you know, like a darkness joined

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00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 5: us for a second while we were staring at each

1126
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 5: other in this mirror.

1127
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,240
Speaker 7: It was that Nigga did his face change.

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00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 5: I don't, I don't know. It didn't seem like his

1129
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:31,320
Speaker 5: face changed, but he was smiling and like the grin

1130
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 5: just seemed it just felt like and he felt it.

1131
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 5: I was like, did you feel that? And He's like

1132
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 5: I did, like and we stopped and then went out

1133
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:42,839
Speaker 5: there into the room.

1134
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 2: He didn't even stop when the ghost cousin came in.

1135
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 2: You knew it was bad when you stopped in the

1136
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 2: middle of this race.

1137
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 6: So when I think about marror, I think about scribes

1138
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 6: and stuff like that like that, because you know, when

1139
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 6: you do marror work, that's that's what it's about, Like

1140
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 6: you trying to you could see things.

1141
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 3: So that ship you put.

1142
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 5: A scribe is like a crystal ball.

1143
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 6: Or like people use like glass bowls and look into

1144
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:10,240
Speaker 6: the water like you're looking, Yeah.

1145
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 2: You're looking into like portals.

1146
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 7: Mm hmm. Girl, Oh, Mara and mirrors are portals. Girl.

1147
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you have your careful facing. That's so funny.

1148
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 3: That was the last night my daughter I noticed her mirror.

1149
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 3: She had moved it and was facing her bed, and

1150
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 3: before I went out of her room, I.

1151
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 2: Was like, let me just move this. Yeah, I have

1152
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 2: a mirror in front of my bed. And sometimes I'm

1153
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 2: having like really freaky sacks. I'm like, maybe we need

1154
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 2: to cover this. I don't want nothing. I don't know

1155
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 2: what's coming through here with these we're dirty talk, but

1156
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 2: we did. I put I put a symbol on it,

1157
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 2: but I hate erase it because I was cleaning the

1158
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 2: mirror and I'm like, we're going to put that ship

1159
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: back on it. It go cuks go cook.

1160
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 3: Oh, oh my god, weird dark. Well on that note,

1161
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 3: I think it's time.

1162
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 2: Do better. Oh my god. That casts where the friendly ghost?

1163
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:16,760
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.

1164
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 3: What are the tarot cards saying?

1165
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, when I was shuffling, the seven of Pentacles

1166
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 2: came out. So the seven of seven of Pentacles. The

1167
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 2: seven Pentacles shows you understand the value of putting in

1168
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 2: time and energy now for longer term rewards, and have

1169
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 2: a strong desire to invest in sustainable results. You're not

1170
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 2: looking for quick wins. You also want to make sure

1171
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 2: you're putting your attention on the right areas instead of

1172
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 2: wasting time and effort on tasks that will no longer

1173
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 2: that will not deliver any value. When this card happens

1174
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 2: appears in the Tara reading, see it as an to

1175
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: step back from the day to day operations and look

1176
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 2: at the bigger picture. Celebrate what you have created and

1177
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 2: assess your progress so far. Are you on track? Are

1178
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 2: you focused on the right task for your goal? And

1179
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 2: if you're planning for your future? Of the Seven of

1180
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,719
Speaker 2: Pentacles encourages you to take a long term view and

1181
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 2: assess where you can best invest your time and energy

1182
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 2: for the maximum output. You do not want to keep

1183
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 2: putting your heart and soul into something if you won't

1184
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 2: reap the rewards for your work. And you have an

1185
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 2: unconditional scene that most some areas in your life are

1186
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 2: just energy.

1187
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 3: Sappers receive that message interesting, we want long term success.

1188
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 2: You do not want to keep putting your heart and

1189
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 2: soul into something if you won't reap the rewards for

1190
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 2: your work. And you have undoubtedly seen that some areas

1191
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,720
Speaker 2: in your life are just energy sappers.

1192
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's crazy.

1193
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 3: Should work.

1194
00:56:58,840 --> 00:56:59,879
Speaker 5: I hate We're real, man.

1195
00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 2: Thank you guys for joining us. This is really fun.

1196
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 2: This was fun.

1197
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 3: Way before you leave. Do you have an affirmation that

1198
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:08,399
Speaker 3: you can share?

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Speaker 6: My favorite daily affirmation. From the time I wake up

1200
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 6: and my feet hit the floor, I start saying thank you.

1201
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:15,799
Speaker 6: So I probably say thank you bout one hundred times

1202
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 6: a day. But health, happiness, love, success, posterity, and money.

1203
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 6: I meditate on that even when I'm fucking like just always.

1204
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 6: That's my affirmation.

1205
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 5: So I have everything?

1206
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 3: Okay, all right?

1207
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 5: It's my blackness is sacred, powerful and worthy of celebration.

1208
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 5: I honor my roots and the legacy of those who

1209
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 5: came before me. I released the need to shrink. My

1210
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 5: presence is a gift.

1211
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 2: What are the girls doing?

1212
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 3: Clockt?

1213
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 2: Is that how you call it? Clock it? Clock it?

1214
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 3: That's what my daughter does.

1215
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 2: Whatever.

1216
00:57:58,600 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 7: Oh they'd be doing like this too.

1217
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, does that mean the same thing. Whatever. Thank

1218
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 2: you guys for joining us, Cousins our sister podcast, and

1219
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 2: we talk back. Tell the people where they can find you.

1220
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 6: What's up, Y'allish your girl AJ Holiday two point zero

1221
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Speaker 6: on Instagram.

1222
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 7: Follow me down if you won't get on.

1223
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 6: Also, you can catch us on We Talk Back podcast

1224
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 6: on Instagram as well. Same thing on TikTok YouTube is

1225
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 6: we talk Back TV.

1226
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 5: And I'm official Tambama on Instagram.

1227
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 4: Y'all follow me there, yes, and make sure you just

1228
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 4: follow with Black Effect. Follow the Black Effect Network. Follow

1229
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 4: all the amazing shows that are on that network, all

1230
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 4: the blackest fuck shows on that network. It's a beautiful, beautiful,

1231
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 4: it's a beautiful network that we're on.

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00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 3: I'm really proud of it.

1233
00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 4: When we went to the five year anniversary last week,

1234
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 4: it was really special to see just to get to

1235
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 4: see everybody, not everybody, but more people in one room

1236
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 4: kind of as I felt a little bit like I don't.

1237
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 3: Know who who's who and who's what, But what.

1238
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 4: Charlemagne has created is really special and really unique, and

1239
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 4: our voices matter.

1240
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 3: Black voices matter as fuck, especially in these times. So

1241
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 3: make sure you check out.

1242
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 4: Yes, so make sure you check out all the podcasts

1243
00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 4: on the Black Effect Network. Make for sure you leave

1244
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 4: a review for us Good Mom's Bad Choices on Apple Podcasts.

1245
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 3: Subscribe to our YouTube channel, and make sure you follow

1246
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 3: the Good Vibe Retreat. We have announced our twenty twenty

1247
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 3: six retreats, not all of them, but there are some

1248
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 3: out specifically Jamaica.

1249
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 2: Bitch Jamaica, Jamaica.

1250
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 4: We're going back to Jamaica for four twenty. We did

1251
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 4: it last year, or we did it this year, We're

1252
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 4: doing it again in twenty twenty six. We're running that

1253
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 4: bitch back because it was a vibe.

1254
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 3: Buh. Okay, it's ocean front. I was telling I was

1255
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 3: telling Aj and Tam they need to bring their ass.

1256
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 2: It is that shit is here bomb.

1257
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 4: When I tell you, like I'm coming here, I'm proud

1258
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 4: of us, I was like, we did this. Okay, it's

1259
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 4: ocean front. All the rooms are ocean front. The food

1260
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 4: is bomb and if you like to smoke cannabis, let

1261
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:12,479
Speaker 4: me tell you, I've never been higher in my life.

1262
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 2: It's a lot of cannabis. It was very care free

1263
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 2: with a very care free four twenty Jamaican time, made

1264
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 2: a really good time and the property makes you feel

1265
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 2: like you're on like a dating show on a love island,

1266
01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 2: but like it's no niggas. It's just healthy women frolicking.

1267
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 2: But the house looks like there should be a cameras

1268
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 2: well that we do.

1269
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 4: We do have male greeters. We always have male greets

1270
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:37,919
Speaker 4: at our retreats. And let me the niggas that showed

1271
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 4: up for the Jamaica retreat greets. You might have seen

1272
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 4: the niggas in Costa Rica. Okay, they're fine. Jamaica fine, fine.

1273
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 4: The ones at Jamaica they are whoa. The Jamaicans are

1274
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 4: doing it different. Okay, they're ready. They are doing body

1275
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 4: rolls and all types of sheep. So if you don't

1276
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 4: want to come for us, at least come for that.

1277
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 2: We might need to insert the body roll.

1278
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 3: I'm I'm actually knowing Orlando. Run the clip right here.

1279
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 4: Gift to go on on YouTube to see it because

1280
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 4: it's worth it. But anyway, we love you and we'll

1281
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 4: see you next week.

1282
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 3: By Banks.

1283
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm living so good. Can't you tell? I went

1284
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 5: through a drought. That's until I found out well may

1285
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 5: might have been known urch.

1286
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:23,480
Speaker 9: I used to be broken till now I got the blues,

1287
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 9: dancing like Beyonce Jazell throat shot from pop and it's

1288
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 9: power in our voice. Just patriarchy kept it in the

1289
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 9: box to explore this. Women put the pee in power,

1290
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 9: so it's pointless. They want me to be good, so

1291
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 9: I make bad choices.

1292
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 5: Bab mom not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

1293
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:41,479
Speaker 9: Gitter's in on for cannabus in their bath, bomb washed

1294
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 9: in Boston's capting. I blewis cat boss hot dog. Now

1295
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 9: I'm a mute to the cat calls being no. Waisted

1296
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 9: straight to it like a dollar sign, Mother, Ren the lover,

1297
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 9: when so what? It's like a water sign where you're Ren.

1298
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 9: The winter resentual will win the summer sign.

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01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 5: I do what all ain't no one. I need to

1300
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 5: run it by