1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Buggal up. Hold on tight Here it is the Strawberry 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 1: letter Thank you, subject Sexy seventies. Dear Stephen Shirley. My 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: husband is seventy one years old and he loves to 4 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 1: watch porn. I sometimes watch it with him, just to 5 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: please him. Recently, things have gotten out of hand. I 6 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: came home one day and logged into our computer and 7 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: a website popped up that has naked women on it 8 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: that you can talk to right then and there. I 9 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: was furious. I've been with this man for thirty eight years, 10 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: and although we have not had the best marriage, I 11 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: stayed with him. When we first got married, he had 12 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: an affair with a nineteen year old girl he was 13 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 1: thirty one. I forgave him for that, but over the 14 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: years he has had several other affairs. I am a 15 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: nice looking sixty nine year old woman, and I am 16 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: tired of his indiscretions. I have not had any affairs, 17 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: although I've thought about it. We are supposed to be 18 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,839 Speaker 1: truthful to one another. I am tired of being made 19 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: a fool of If is this just a phase he's 20 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: going through. What should I do to make him see 21 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: that this is hurting me? Please help well? No, I 22 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: don't think it's a phase. I'll start right there, because 23 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: he's been doing it for quite some time, and you 24 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: were doing it with him. Don't forget you said just 25 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: to please him. But I say, if you're really tired 26 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: of it, you will have to do something about it. 27 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: And at seventy one, same age as the president, Uh, 28 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: he's probably not going to change. Okay. I don't know 29 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: why you think you should still take this after thirty 30 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: eight years. You guys have been married thirty eight years. Uh. 31 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: He did it the first time when he was thirty one, 32 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: what forty something years ago, and uh, you forgave him 33 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: and took him back then. And since then he has 34 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: cheated on you. Affair after affair, you say, and you 35 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: keep taking him back. I mean after his affairs. You've 36 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: allowed him to, you know, given him permission more or 37 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: less to cheat. Uh, probably lie to because you know, 38 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 1: cheating and lying they go together. Okay, they do go together. 39 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: And you've allowed him to do whatever he wanted to do. 40 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: He can disrespect you, he can disrespect the marriage, all 41 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: of that, and you'll take him back. That's what he's 42 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: seen over these thirty eight years that you guys have 43 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: been married. So, like I said, if you're really tired 44 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: and you're sixty nine, you said, and you're nice looking, Uh, 45 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: you need to decide if you're going to stay with 46 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: him and continue to allow him to cheat on you. 47 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: Your decision, your move. Now, what are you gonna do, Steve? Well, 48 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: here's a deal, ma'am. I hate to tell you this, 49 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: and I don't need two parts to tell you this. 50 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: I just can't get this all done on this section 51 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: and we can go onto some jokes after this. You've 52 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: you've tolerated all of this, all of this, you've not 53 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: only tolerated it, you've participated. You got that since you 54 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: can't beat him, join them mentality now started off a 55 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: long time ago when he had the fair with the 56 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: nineteen year old. You forgave it, but then he had 57 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: several affairs after that, and you stayed with him. So 58 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 1: now at seventy one and you're sixty nine and a 59 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: nice looking lady, you sit up and you watch poorn 60 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: with him to please him. You've tolerated everything and participated, 61 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: You've resigned yourself to that. If you can't beat them, 62 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: join them. Now you're sitting up watching poorn with him. 63 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: Now you then came home one day, looked on the computer. 64 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: Now you see some nick and women pop up that 65 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 1: you can talk right to. What's the surprise, m He's 66 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: had several affairs, you stayed with him through all. At 67 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: least this affair is just on the computer. Now, if 68 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: you took all the rest of the fans, now you've 69 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: got a problem with this one. You've allowed all of 70 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: this to happen. Now he's seventy one. I'm sixty one. 71 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to imagine ten years from now, me sitting 72 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: up with a computer talking to some naked women. Owner. 73 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: I don't I don't see that, not at this house, 74 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 1: this little crazy green out here. For I'm married too. 75 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 1: It'd be a damn problem up in health. Wouldn't it 76 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 1: be a problem at your bug out house? Yeah? Caller? 77 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: How many people would get killed at your house? How 78 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: many people see all? This is a problem. You're tired 79 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: of being made a fool of, you said in your 80 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: line in your letter, we're supposed to he truthful. He 81 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: ain't ever, and at seventy one he not fitting to start. 82 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: See the reason he's okay we're doing this at seventy 83 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 1: one because he got away with this at thirty one, 84 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: probably one, and you steal that with your nice looking self, 85 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 1: and you've always said it's not been a good marriage. 86 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: Now he'd have found a website with neked women on 87 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: it that you can talk to. We want to look 88 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: at this site? What send us dot dot dot? What 89 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: the book? Are you crazy? Right now? I'm gonna have 90 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: Jay Anthony tested. He's already on it. He's awfully quiet 91 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: right now. What am I supposed to test again? Over 92 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: in the corner? What you say your name? They can 93 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: hear you. So, ma'am. I don't know what to tell 94 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: you except you, yeah, have tolerated this and you've made 95 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: no move about it. Now, what am I gonna tell you? Y'all? 96 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: Sixty nine is seventy one years old? You older? Didn't 97 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: me number? What you want me to tell you? To 98 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: leave him? You ain't been wanting to go nowhere? All right, 99 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: here's my suggestion. Then let's end the letter. Throw the 100 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: computer away, take it, take it outside, unplug it, throw 101 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: it in the trash. And every time he buy computer, 102 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: throw it away. That's all I got for you. That's 103 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 1: a lot of money. There's a lot of money. She's 104 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: not going nowhere. It's a lot of She's not going 105 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: anywhere at nine, This lady ain't going nowhere. That's a 106 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: lot of naked. Why are we talking about Netflix? Not naked? 107 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: All right? Listen, Uh Steve doesn't want to do a 108 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 1: part two. I think you know, Uh, yeah, I don't 109 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: need a part is you're listening to the Steve Harvey 110 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: Morning Show.