1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: This is from Jazz in Chicago. Jazz says, I'm a 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: divorced mom with one grown daughter. My daughter is married 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: and they have a two year old. Her husband has 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: a six year old by his first wife, and he 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: has custody. They've asked me to keep the children while 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: they go on an anniversary trip. I think I should 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,439 Speaker 1: be the last person they ask, after they've asked all 8 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: of their friends. I told them that it's selfish to 9 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,479 Speaker 1: expect someone to keep two small children, so they should 10 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: rethink the trip. I also don't feel comfortable keeping a 11 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: child that's not related to me. Your thoughts, am I 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: obligated to keep them? What do you think? 13 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 2: You don't at all? Not at all. 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 3: If you're uncomfortable keeping some a child that doesn't relate 15 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 3: it to you, didn't you have to stay? 16 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: Tell your son now. But I'm trying to figure out 17 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: how to baby related to her. 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: Though, because it's her her son in law's child from 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: a previous relationship. 20 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: Oh ohess, ain't her son her son in last job? Yeah? 21 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: She just says, one daughter. 22 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, she don't want, she don't want. Over the door. 23 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 2: What they can't they can't go this year? Shure, that's all, 24 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: they can't go. 25 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: Okay, they want to go to d isn't it you know? 26 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 2: Hey? Yeah? 27 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,559 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so she's not obligated to keep them. 28 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one. This is 29 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: from Mickey and Hampton. Mickey writes, after work the other day, 30 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: I went to meet a guy that I met online. 31 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: I told my sister where I was going and what 32 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: I was doing. She was barely paying attention, but she 33 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: assured me that she had my back if my husband 34 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: called her. Turns out my husband didn't notice. I got 35 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: home late. My silly sister brought it up the next 36 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: day in front of my husband and asked me, how 37 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: was the new bar I went to. She had forgotten 38 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: that I was on a date. I was able to 39 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: play it off with my husband, but it was a 40 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: close call. Did my sister do that on purpose? This 41 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: is all kinds of wrong everything, and this is just wrong. 42 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: She's married and a date. 43 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, you mad at you? 44 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: Why did you look? 45 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 3: You can't when you cheat, you can't loop people in. No, 46 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 3: you have to limit your liabilities. Lord, have mercy. 47 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: And her sister wasn't even paying attention when she told 48 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: her about it, so she got everything wrong. 49 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is crazy, she said. 50 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: My silly sister brought it up the next day in 51 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: front of my husband. Club. 52 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: You want to how was it her husband's like what 53 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 2: we called it? 54 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, she says he didn't and she had to play 55 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: it off. 56 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 2: What's her lives, Steve, Well, she got out of it. 57 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, she got out of it. 58 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 2: She just wants to know. 59 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: Did her sister do it? Do it to her on purpose? 60 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 2: I think so? 61 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: You think her sister after telling her she had her back? 62 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, she did. 63 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: Sisters do that to each other. 64 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 3: You know, y'all are I think he shouldn't know. I 65 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 3: would want to know. That's your famless. 66 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: Line, not blood though. You know y'all ain't saying that. Yeah, 67 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: not blood relationship. 68 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 3: It depends on the No one. 69 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: I would tell my friend because friend shouldn't. 70 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: Know Fred, not sister. That's a different type of relationship. 71 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: Well maybe she friends with the husband hussel. Oh, he 72 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: doesn't say that and it. 73 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: She said. The sister was. 74 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 3: I was. 75 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: She was barely paying attention, but she assured me that 76 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: she had my back if my husband called her. Now 77 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: her sister assured her she had her back. Yeah, she said. 78 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: It turns out her husband didn't even notice that she 79 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 1: got home late. She said, My silly sister brought it 80 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: up the next day in front of my husband and 81 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: time exactly her sister portrayal you pulled up. Yeah, that's 82 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: what she wants to know. Did her sister do it 83 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 1: on purpose? 84 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? All right? 85 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 1: All right, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, 86 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 87 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.