WEBVTT - Second Date Update: 15 Minutes Of Lame 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.000 Hey, this may be a world record. Welcome to the 0:00:02.040 --> 0:00:05.280 brand new Second Date podcast. Today, we're wrecking Jeffrey. Yeah 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:06.480 for the shortest date we've heard. 0:00:06.680 --> 0:00:11.600 Oh yeah that ten minutes in She's like, take me home. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:12.960 Yeah yeah, we're. 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:15.320 Gonna find out why because the guy doesn't know either. 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:17.599 Coming up here in a second, But first let's start 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:18.200 with comments. 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:21.120 Well, kind of the opposite of a short date. John said, 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:22.480 I once got lost. 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:23.960 On a hike on a date and we were lost 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:27.720 for like three hours, almost got ran over by a horse, 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:30.360 and then went to waffle house. And now we've been 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:33.640 married for five years. 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:35.519 Oh, right after the helicopter came in. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:37.760 Save Yeah, yeah, where does a horse come in? I 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:42.919 don't know? Or the waffle house? Yeah, starting to think 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:45.479 he was just in a field the suburbs somewhere. 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:46.240 Yeah. 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:48.160 All right, Hey, thank you for sharing your story. 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:48.640 I love it. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.480 We got your brand new Second Date episode starting right now, 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:54.800 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date Updates. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:01:00.960 Today, we have a quote unquote returning listener. His name 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:04.319 is Jason quote unquote. He says he's been on the 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:08.080 show before for this very segment, and well, I gotta 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:10.440 be honest. I looked back into the archives and I 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:15.280 can't find his call anywhere. So was he really on 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:18.560 the show? Is he making it up just to sound cool, 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:21.440 because that's totally what I would do. But I guess 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:24.680 we might be forced to believe him. I mean, Jason, 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:26.640 can you at least jog our memory and tell us 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:29.720 what happened the last time that you supposedly were on 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:30.119 with us? 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.000 You guys had me on twice? 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:32.560 Wait? 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:34.720 Wait, oh, you were on more than once. 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:36.520 We did an update update? 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.160 Did we just never Eric? Because it was very funny? 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:39.399 Yeah? 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.640 Are you a boring guy? 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:44.919 Well, I'll star from the beginning that I was dating 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:48.080 this girl, Emily, and she said that she didn't want 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:49.680 to go back out on a date with me because 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:52.240 I had a hard time saying no. She wanted a 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.040 guy that could push back more stand up for his 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:57.600 thoughts and opinions, and that's what you guys were helping 0:01:57.600 --> 0:01:58.040 me out with. 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.440 So you went out with the man who wanted her 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:04.280 boyfriend to say no to her. Does that sound realistical? 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:07.840 I love a. 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:11.000 Man who can make a choice. Decision is one of 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:12.320 the most unsexy traits. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:14.519 Yeah, so you said you were on for an update 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:17.800 update that means you two were together. What happened? 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:21.840 Well, I started being able to stand up for myself 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:24.320 from time to time and we actually did end up 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:26.040 dating for a little bit there. 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:29.359 All right, okay, so why did it end? 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.400 Okay, she broke up with me because she got a 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:37.120 dog and she wanted to name it Spinner and taking 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:40.919 your guys advice. I was like, no, that's a dumb name. 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:46.760 Broke Why would you tell him that a man should 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:49.000 stand up to a woman. That's horrible. 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:53.280 It's got your dog? Yeah, geez, that is kind of 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:54.639 memes so aggressive. 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:56.560 I mean no, I said, you need to name him 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.840 an acute human name like Kevin, because that's like funny, 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:01.760 we love get. 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:02.840 Your own dog named m Kevin. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:07.240 Okay, that's kind of what she said. Well anyway, I 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:10.040 didn't back down, so I was like, no, you're not 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:12.760 naming a dog Spinner, and she ended up breaking up 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:13.000 with me. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:13.800 Oh yow. 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:16.280 I met her and Spinner really happy though, for. 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:20.560 Real, after you gave her exactly what she wanted a 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:23.040 guy that says no, and then she didn't. 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:24.919 Like that to her own life decisions. 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:29.720 Yeah, it's hard to decipher what women really want. 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:32.519 So did you do that again to another girl. Now 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.160 is that yeah? 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:37.760 No, but good guess because I am now dating a 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:40.640 different girl. Her name is Riley, all right? 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:42.080 Is that a stupid name? 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:43.360 Way? 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:45.840 That's a human name. So he's okay with it? 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:50.800 Okay, okay, we like name humans with human names are okay. 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:54.160 Okay, that's a bold stance to take, but good for you. 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:58.120 Okay. So here here's the problem. The date only lasted 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:59.200 about fifteen minutes. 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.040 WHOA, that's not good. 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:03.120 Do you even consider it a date at that point? 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:05.720 Just a run in at that Did you plan on 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:06.640 it being a quick date? 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:10.080 I planned a whole day. So I picked her up 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:12.640 at her place and it just started like a normal date. 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:14.640 You know, how's your day? Where are we going? Like, 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.640 what's going on? Nice to meet you? Other shops and 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.960 then all of the sudden, we're barely ten minutes down 0:04:21.000 --> 0:04:24.480 the road and she just says, I think it's best 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:25.279 if we don't go out. 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:30.080 Actually, before you even get to the destination where you're driving. 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:33.320 To, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, like the ac barely got 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:34.039 the car cool? 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:34.400 Okay? 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:37.680 Did she see like duck tape and a shovel in 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:40.080 the back seat and that's why she wanted to turn around. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:43.640 She had to sEH, I kind of thought. I mean, 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.600 I never tried to catfish everybody. All my pictures are 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:50.000 current online. But I'm like thinking, Okay, she probably got 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:52.440 in the car thought I was ugly? Want to go 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:52.960 back home? 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:57.080 Is that far Alexis? Does that happen a lot? Why 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.760 are you laughing? Why why are you giggling about him? 0:04:59.800 --> 0:04:59.920 Thing? 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:00.760 Thing that he's ugly? 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:02.440 Your first thought? 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:02.719 Man? 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:05.400 Put that aside. I mean, if she didn't think you 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:07.560 were ugly? What else? Like, was anything else happened? 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:09.240 We were shovels? 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:10.120 No? 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.880 I mean I said that where I said, what do 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:14.760 you mean? Like you want to go back right now? 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:17.800 And the only thing she gave me was that it 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:22.960 just wasn't what she expected. Like, I mean, I don't 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.919 know exactly what she meant by that, but she obviously 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:27.000 don't want to talk about it. 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:29.440 Okay, did you use your the lessons that you learned 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:32.080 from before and say no, you're staying in this car 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:33.560 and we are going on this date. 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.040 That's a great idea, Jeff. 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:36.159 I think that's a romantic nod. 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:37.400 I think it's kidnapping. 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:41.600 But yeah, did quite go there? 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:42.159 Yeah? 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:42.560 Good? 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:44.839 But I dropped her off and that that was kind 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:45.159 of it. 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:47.719 So maybe this isn't the best question to ask, but 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:49.760 I need to know. Was there a kiss? 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:52.200 Okay, it would. 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.520 Be funny if they made out passionately and then they 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:55.200 then they left. 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:56.320 He's like, oh, she spent the night. 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:02.159 Oh no, no, no, I brought her, I bought her flowers. 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:04.080 It she just like she just threw him in the 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.520 back seat of the car, got out, left them, really 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:11.839 cocted her afterwards. No response. I guess I'm not shocked, 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:13.680 but like, I just want clarity. 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:16.920 It sounds like even if she did say ugly, you 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:17.520 could take it. 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:19.560 I mean, yeah, you know, I'm. 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:21.240 There. 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:24.200 We go all right, okay, that's not bad. There, we 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:25.119 can work with a six. 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.360 Yeah, you're tracking, that's right. 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:31.160 Look how high Brooks voice is going like, yeah, isn't bad. 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:37.520 He's actually protectives, I believe you. Let's see what Riley 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:39.200 has to say. If we can get her on the phone, 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.640 we'll try and get you your second second date update 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:43.320 on this show. 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:47.520 Oh yeah, memorable guy, super memorable jam. 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:49.560 Right after this hold. 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.920 On man Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:57.760 If you're just joining us, We've got a return caller, 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:01.880 Jason on the phone, who described himself as a solid six. 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:05.800 But is he in New York six or an Idaho 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:09.160 sh Oh? We didn't ask that because there is a difference. 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:12.880 Come on, there's somebody for everybody, even in Idaho. Four 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:14.520 out there, all right, Mary. 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:17.160 But he only brought up his own looks because after 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:21.600 just ten minutes of driving together, Jason's date suddenly changed 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:25.120 her mind and said, actually, this isn't what I was expecting, 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:28.840 and she asked to be taken home. So his thought was, well, 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:31.680 maybe she just didn't think I was attractive enough in person. 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:34.280 Like she finally looked left ten minutes into the drive 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:35.800 and was like, oh my gosh. 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:37.720 What if it's not about him? What if she wasn't 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:38.760 wearing the right outfit? 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:39.480 You know? 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.600 Like he explained what they were gonna do for the date, 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:45.120 and she's like, I don't have tennis shoes. 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:48.360 No, just said, hold on, let me run inside real quick. 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:49.000 I'll be right back. 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:50.920 He's trying to make it not about sad. 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:54.440 Yeah, ugly, it's possible, Jason. Have you considered that Riley 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:55.640 hates herself a little bit? 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:58.000 Wait, that's what you got? 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.760 How she looks. Oh, now I get it. 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.360 I'm considering that I might hate myself a little bit. 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:10.160 Now, Okay, good guy. He never got any specific answer 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.240 on what was such a letdown, So that's what he's 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:14.560 hoping to get today at a bare minimum, and then 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:16.360 maybe we'll see where it goes from there. 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:18.240 And this may be the first time. The hope is 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:19.240 that she thinks he's ugly. 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:23.080 Yeah, because we're two people who both don't find themselves attractive. 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:26.000 Could be meant for each other. That's the optimism that 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:26.800 you wanted, right, Broke. 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.040 I'm just saying she wasn't prepared for whatever he had 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:31.960 planned that day. 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:34.199 Yeah, yeah, Okay, Well we can all hope for different things. 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.239 Okay, she's made he's ugly. 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:37.600 Yeah, could be the perfect guys. 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:38.040 Call it. 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:40.199 Okay, Jason, I'm gonna call her here in a second, 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:42.880 but real quick, how was she looking that night? Your opinion? 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:43.920 Uh? 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:45.800 Better than a six? Pretty good? 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:50.319 Yeah, there you go. I won't quote you directly on that, 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:52.800 but yeah, let's style her number and see what she 0:08:52.840 --> 0:09:01.880 has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:06.840 to speak with Riley, uh speaking right, Hey, Riley, this 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:08.559 is a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:08.959 the Morning. 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:10.880 Welcome morning, Welcome to it. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:14.920 Riley, Hi, Hey, how you doing. 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:17.160 I'm sorry? 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:21.520 Who is this that hurts every time? Yeah, but no, 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:23.800 we're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:25.440 the Morning, and this is a segment that we do 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:26.880 called the second Date Update. 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:30.480 Okay, I know you're not. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:32.240 A woman who likes her time to be wasted, so 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:35.439 I'm going to get right to this. Jeff you went 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:38.640 out with a listener of our show, a guy named Jason, 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:42.200 and he told us the date didn't go how he 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:43.120 thought it was going to go. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:44.839 It didn't really go at all. 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:47.920 Yeah, we didn't really go out. 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:50.480 Yeah, we're sorry about that. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:50.959 That sucks. 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:54.120 Huh uh No, not really right. 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:56.720 We heard it was your idea to not continue the date. 0:09:57.040 --> 0:10:00.080 But Jason is a little bit confused on why you 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:00.760 felt that way. 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:04.720 Yeah. I mean, I don't know how he could be, 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:06.920 but really. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.559 You think it's something that obvious. 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:12.080 Yeah, I mean we were in the car and he 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:15.040 said we're going to this restaurant. I know the restaurant. 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:18.439 I like the restaurant. And then when I'm in the car, 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:22.640 he's like, oh, I didn't make a reservation, and I 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:25.000 was like, you know, it's a busy night, like you 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.760 probably should have made a reservation. He's like, oh, well, 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:31.120 I don't know any other restaurants in the area. Okay, 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:33.120 but we have phones, so just google. 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:34.760 But he's like, you know. 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:37.040 It's fine. We can just stand outside and do like 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:37.800 small talk. 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:42.120 Oh that's an awful backup plan, like when you do adjust. 0:10:42.280 --> 0:10:43.240 You know, he should have. 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:46.280 Just planning before you even get to the restaurant. 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:49.360 Though, what's going through your mind? I'm curious. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:50.400 It sounds like an argument. 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:56.160 You have, like three years into a relationship, so you 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:57.359 didn't make reservations. 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:58.120 Of course you didn't. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:02.000 You never put any effort into these days the car around. 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.640 Yeah, so Brooks saying it sounds like he belonged together. 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:10.200 Oh gosh, we absolutely don't. Okay, I don't want my 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:13.000 time wasted. Like I don't know why you think, like 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:13.560 I can. 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:15.600 Just stand outside for forty five minutes. 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:17.680 It's a Friday night, like I'd rather hang out with 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:18.240 my friends. 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.160 Maybe he just misspoke, you know, maybe he meant like 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:23.280 we'd go to a bar. We'll walk down the street 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:24.880 and see if there's something else while we wait. 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:30.079 I said that and he then clarified. I was like, oh, 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.240 you mean like get you know, a drink inside or 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:33.880 somewhere next door, and he's like, no, we can just 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:35.760 stand outside so we don't miss our name. 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.719 Oh, for thea he. 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:40.800 Sounds like a type of person that arrives five hours 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:41.920 early for a flo Yeah. 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.160 I can understand how that would be a red flag 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:47.560 for Riley where he doesn't plan ahead enough and she's 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.680 feeling like he doesn't value her time. 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:50.560 But that's a fix. 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:52.679 I mean, why wouldn't you make that clear to him 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:55.000 in that point, like, hey, it doesn't feel like you 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:56.720 really care about your time with me. 0:11:57.360 --> 0:11:59.880 Well, I did say, I don't think we're a good fit. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:02.560 Do you mind just dropping me back off? And he 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:05.240 said fine, So I thought it was clear. 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:10.560 Okay, Well, we value your time very much and that's 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:12.560 why we don't want to waste any more of your time. 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:15.640 And letting you know that Jason is listening to this 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.200 phone call right now. He's actually been on it the 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:23.880 entire time and wants to talk to you. What, Yeah, yeah, Jason, 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:24.760 are you there? 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:26.640 Hey? 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:33.880 Riley? Hey, So are you just making all that stuff 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:35.560 up because you think I'm ugly and you're not trying 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:36.400 to hurt my feelings. 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:39.439 Oh, das sticking to his first theory. 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:42.040 Why would you say that, Jason. That's not what she 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:42.679 said at all. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:46.400 I was just is it illegal to ask? 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.080 It sounds like it's someone that's in your head a lot. 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:50.800 Well, yeah, this is good to get it out of 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:54.280 the way. Do you find Jason attractive or not? Riley? 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:57.960 I mean I wouldn't have gone on the date if 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:02.040 I didn't find you a track. I was interested, but 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:05.360 your lack of planning just felt like you didn't care 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.000 and you just thought you could. You know, it seemed 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:08.840 kind of arrogant. 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:12.640 Yeah, she's mad about you not having a full plan. 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.400 It sounds like, no, it's not that I didn't have 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:19.000 a plan. The plan was just called vibes, you know 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:19.600 what I mean. 0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:24.360 Guys, we're adults. 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:25.320 That's not a thing. 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:28.120 You're not going to waste my Friday night with just vibes. 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:35.880 But why didn't you pivot and say, oh, shoot, we 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:37.920 have a forty five minute wait, let's pop by next 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.720 door and discover a new spot. 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:41.840 If we got there and there was like a place 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.560 next door, you know, I wouldn't say that I was 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.040 opposed to that necessarily. I just thought it'd be better 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:48.920 to make sure that our name could we could hear 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:50.680 a name, because what if we missed it all together, 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:51.280 that'd be bad. 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:55.040 At least we got to the core and know exactly 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:58.000 what the issue was that caused the problem on this date. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:01.640 So why don't Riley Jason, you two talk to each other, 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:04.640 see if there's some natural chemistry when you just are 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:07.679 left alone to your own devices. Go ahead, Jason, why 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:08.600 don't you start it off? 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:12.280 Okay, now we got past that little speed bump here, Ridley, 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:15.480 if I've made reservations this time, are you in to 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:17.560 go that? If that was the only thing that was 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:18.160 holding you back? 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:22.840 Oh yeah, I don't know. I think you have a 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:25.400 lot of self esteem issues going on. 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:29.280 No, there's no self esteem issues. I know exactly where 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:30.760 I said. I'm a solid six. 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:33.840 We know this. We've been over there. No, that was you. 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:35.400 But yeah, just. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.840 Because everything didn't go exactly your way, I think we're 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:39.880 already learning how to compromise. I think this is the 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:44.160 start of a beautiful partnership. Wow, I've shown you that 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:47.400 I can take criticism and respond in a favorable manner. 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:51.840 Who doesn't want gross in the relationship to appreciate that. 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:56.320 I do appreciate that. The jumping to conclusions that I 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:59.360 thought you were ugly kind of makes me nervous. 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:08.720 Why, well, no, let him respond to it with Jeff. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:12.880 Jason, Well, like I said before, I feel like I'm 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.840 about a six and I feel like you're probably around 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.000 the same area. Seems like a good fit. 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:24.120 That was like a smooth, smooth delivery. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:25.000 It's a good match. 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:27.480 You know, we're both not classically attractive. 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:31.560 Okay, Jason, we were there. 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:35.160 You did it already, You already turned it around. 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:40.280 Okay, hold on, hold on, Riley, because your heart beating 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:42.120 fast hearing Jason say that to you. 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:45.720 I's definitely the most romantic thing I've ever heard. 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:50.920 Well, I'm going to take that at face value and 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:53.000 ask would you like to go out on another date 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:55.440 with Jason, because we'd pay for it and we'd put 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:56.920 the reservation in for him. 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:58.560 Absolutely not. 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.800 Yeah, Jason, man, I'm sorry that we couldn't get this 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:06.320 to work out between you and Riley, but hey, we 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:09.120 look forward to your third attempt at a second date 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.480 update where we'll definitely remember who you are. 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:12.760 We got to make a note. 0:16:12.640 --> 0:16:15.800 Or something on him Yeah, he's Jason the six perfect 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.960 reoking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:23.120 Something we really didn't get to break down too much 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:27.400 during that is it rude to ditch someone just because 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:30.760 they didn't make reservations before the date and you didn't 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:32.040 find out un till you're in the car. 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:34.960 Yeah, she's a good point. 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:37.800 Or was she justified in telling him to turn around 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:39.600 the car text in seventy eight five nine two? Because 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:40.560 I'm genuinely. 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:43.520 Curious, I gotta say she was a little justified. If 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:46.400 you're on the way really to a nice date and 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:49.040 the person tells you on the way, no, I didn't 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:51.040 make a reservation, and you know you're gonna have to 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:53.760 stand out for two hours, I'd be like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoah. 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:56.280 Yeah, I'm here for the food, not for the company. 0:16:57.520 --> 0:16:59.080 You didn't give him a chance though. 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:02.040 At all, like me, don't stand outside for two. 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:04.879 But I will say, at least you didn't cost him 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:05.399 any money. 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:09.240 Yeah, and don't even take the flowers. 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:15.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah, true, that part it was all out 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:17.160 of control, because I agree you probably should have made 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:19.159 a reservation, But I do think it was harsh to 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:23.000 call everything off just because there was no serious planning. 0:17:23.080 --> 0:17:24.959 Well, it wasn't just that, it was that he wouldn't 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:26.680 even pivot to go get a drink next door. 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:30.760 Yeah, I mean, I mean, let's even go to Denny's something. 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:33.800 Whatever it was, it didn't work out for Jason this 0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:34.520