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Speaker 1: Second date up dated the way that trends go.

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Speaker 2: It's interesting because I'd say, lately, with the calls that

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Speaker 2: way more than they used to just a couple of

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Speaker 3: You mean, from like a relationship or from a first

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Speaker 2: We can't seeing people stay single waiting to find the

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Speaker 2: right match because the options just aren't good enough.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Like it wasn't magic the first time you met someone.

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Speaker 2: They want to be impressed right away or they're not

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Speaker 2: even going to waste their time, okay. And that's why

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Speaker 2: our listener today, Ena says she only goes out with

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Speaker 2: high value men.

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Speaker 3: What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: We'll find out in a second Ino, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Actually it is, oh it sorry, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: High value. I mean the first thing I think that

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Speaker 3: that what you mean?

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Speaker 4: I mean, like not necessarily all about money, but I

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Speaker 4: want to go with a guy that knows.

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Speaker 5: How to cheat a woman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and knows how to pronounce your name properly in

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Speaker 2: the first five minutes.

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Speaker 1: Like if this was a first date, you already would

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Speaker 3: He you better have asked for the check, because yes.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm high value and I would never let I know.

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Speaker 2: We're all learning lessons here, but let's learn more about

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Speaker 2: the guy that you went out with.

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Speaker 1: What's his name?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 3: What was high value about Corey from his I'm guessing

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm at her online and like I thought,

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Speaker 4: we can act it. He looked the part totally, like

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Speaker 1: This is a little bit superficial. I know.

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Speaker 3: I'm starting to think high value is less about how

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Speaker 5: I see how you think that.

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Speaker 4: But like he also had pictures of him traveling, you

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Speaker 4: know what I mean. And Okay, his life is okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: lifestyle money is needed.

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Speaker 6: First, there's guys post him like drinking with their friends

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's looking for someone who has interest.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he also does skiing and golf, so he's like

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Speaker 1: And also those are very rich hobbies.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, but whatever he's we're not going to money

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Speaker 2: And that's what's the most important. So did you end

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So we were out for drinks first, and I

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Speaker 4: told him like, if.

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Speaker 5: Drinks went while, we could go on to dinner, but

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Speaker 5: if not, we can just be friends. And I'm just there.

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Speaker 3: Wait, you told him that. What did he say to you?

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Speaker 4: Honestly?

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Speaker 5: She was fine with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe he was the same, Okay, I mean that's

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Speaker 3: a good point of lexis, Like maybe he didn't want

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Speaker 2: Have you ever gone out with a guy and after

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Speaker 2: the first like thirty minutes of drinks you gave them

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh really it sounds like it's happened more

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Speaker 2: But you don't feel guilty about turning these guys away?

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Speaker 3: No, why when I honestly, that is a great attitude

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Speaker 3: to have in one that I do not have three hours.

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Speaker 3: I'm a total pleaser.

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Speaker 1: What happened in the first thirty minutes of drinks with Corey?

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Speaker 4: But basically we went to speak easy you know, like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, where the cocktails are always like thirty.

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Speaker 1: Two dollars high value cocktail.

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Speaker 3: You can't find the door, but we'll charge you more.

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Speaker 1: But I gives a circle so that sounds kind of nice.

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Speaker 4: So we had like drinks and after thirty mine it's

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Speaker 5: Mumps up saying let's go to dinner, you know, because

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Speaker 1: All right, he passed the first test.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I felt like he liked me.

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Speaker 5: So we went to a French restaurant for dinner after that.

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Speaker 3: You are chancy. Okay, what were you connecting over?

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Speaker 4: Honestly?

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Speaker 5: Just like how fancy everything was?

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Speaker 3: Oh that's what you connected over.

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Speaker 6: That?

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Speaker 2: Okay, what about connecting with Corey himself as a person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's where I'm met Jess.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like he has a good photographer. He's give

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Speaker 2: Oh, I will admit I'm a terrible photographer, So Corey

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was cool taking photos of you. Like, what

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Speaker 4: No, he was he was cool because it was a

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Speaker 5: Plant and like the lighting was perfect, amazing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, can I ask you did we go on a date?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm mister, take a picture of the food, use

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Speaker 1: me for my money, let's do all this And I

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Speaker 1: don't know I just feel.

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Speaker 3: Like, are you hitting on her? I can't tell you.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is not an issue at all.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is a great date for you.

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Speaker 1: Your jose is perfect.

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Speaker 2: Woman jo already calling sound But let's this is probably

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Speaker 2: rude to ask here, I know, but I just want

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I didn't see for it, but like

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Speaker 1: Who wow, are you, Jeff?

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Speaker 3: Are you theorizing that he just can't afford to take

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Speaker 2: No, he can't afford it in maybe two years when

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm looking for a high value man.

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Speaker 5: So if you can't keep up, I'd like to know

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Speaker 1: We'll get to the bottom of it. How did the

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Speaker 4: So at the end he walked me to my car.

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Speaker 4: I told him I had a nice time, and I

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Speaker 5: A lady does not do that.

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Speaker 2: Answerry, So did you go for the kiss and you

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Speaker 1: Did that come up?

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Speaker 4: He was lingering, But I told him that's my rule.

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Speaker 4: I'm a high value woman and she needs to know

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Speaker 4: that that's a value of mine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that message came across pretty clearly the

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Speaker 1: We all value you already, all of us. Now, what's

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Speaker 1: happened since that date happened? How long is it been?

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Speaker 1: Have you stayed in contact?

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Speaker 5: He hasn't answered me. He ghosted me completely.

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Speaker 3: Has that happened to you before?

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Speaker 6: Not?

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Speaker 4: Really?

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Speaker 1: This is why she's calling back.

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Speaker 2: You know what, You're lucky AA that you reached out

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Speaker 2: to a high value radio show.

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Does she contact someone before us?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So sorry, you have to settle for our show, But

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Speaker 2: we're gonna do our best for you.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna come back. We'll call Corey and try and

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Speaker 1: get you a second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Hold on second date update. You know what I love

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Speaker 2: about this show? What I learned new things every single.

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Speaker 3: Day, really like about how people live and date.

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Speaker 2: Totally, Like in part one of the Second Date, I

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Speaker 2: learned a high value man doesn't necessarily mean he has

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Speaker 2: a lot of money.

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Speaker 1: It just means he has fancy clothes, expensive hobbies, travels

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Speaker 1: the world regularly, and drops up words of four hundred

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Speaker 3: That's right, Josh, you can hitchhike all that. That is

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Speaker 3: not superficial.

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Speaker 2: No, you might as well be a starving artist for

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Speaker 1: To a on the date first class auditions.

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Speaker 3: We're joking.

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Speaker 2: That's what we learned about Corey, and now we're going

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Speaker 2: to learn why he's not calling Aina back.

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Speaker 1: How you doing? Are you comfortable over there? Can we

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Speaker 1: get you anything? A perier with lime, perhaps sparkling or flat.

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Speaker 4: We have that if you're offering, okay.

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Speaker 3: Brook, of course only Jeff would be able to drop out.

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Speaker 2: Brook's gonna put the order in on Amazon, so that

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Speaker 1: So sorry to be basic with the limes. We should

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Speaker 4: Okay, you better.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to learn how to be high value.

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Speaker 3: I gave up on that a long time, but I

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Speaker 1: Let's hope that Corey feels the same way. And it's

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Speaker 6: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, we're looking for Corey.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is Corey who's calling.

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Speaker 2: We are a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Did you say all like you're like let down?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like I don't know if I'm the guy you

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Speaker 6: want on the radio guys?

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Speaker 1: Well, no, are you offensive?

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Speaker 2: We We got a specific request from somebody to reach

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Speaker 2: this person the other night and they had a really

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Speaker 2: good time with you.

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Speaker 1: Her name's Aina.

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Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I know Ana?

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Speaker 1: Did you just you did? You made the same exact

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Speaker 3: Us.

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Speaker 6: I don't get calls from radio stations every day. I

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Speaker 6: got stuff to do. I mean, I'm sure you guys

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Speaker 6: they're all cool. That's no.

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Speaker 1: What I meant was, why did you make that sound

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Speaker 1: when we mentioned her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm just like a little bit confused.

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Speaker 1: Yeah understand, Okay, you're getting a random call. Well what

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Speaker 1: if I told you that she really really wants to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she doesn't want to go out with me again.

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Speaker 3: It's so weird. It feels like you even started the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you to help us understand what you're

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Speaker 6: All right, that's nice to hear, But.

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Speaker 1: You don't seem honored real talk.

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Speaker 1: We know? We know you can you can don't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys are so weird. Okay, what what about

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Speaker 6: She's that, but I could tell that she was like

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Speaker 3: She told us that you took a really good picture

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Speaker 2: Welcome to being in a relationship with a woman. That's

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Speaker 3: I never let my husband take pictures. She's horrible at it,

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Speaker 2: I like how you took that opportunity to put your

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Speaker 3: He's it's it's not a personality flaw.

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Speaker 1: It's just the true. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, what do you feel You feelt like she was

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Speaker 6: Yeah, man, I mean it's like she's this influencer or something.

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Speaker 6: I mean I was taking pictures of her by the statue,

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Speaker 3: So how many pictures do you think you took in

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it doesn't well, she told us, she

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Speaker 3: She didn't say that she took that many.

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Speaker 1: Well, we didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, if you would have been bad at

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's on you, I mean maybe.

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Speaker 6: I mean the place was cool, the drink place was cool,

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Speaker 6: was was cool. But it was a lot of money,

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Speaker 3: What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Even it out? Like you had her take photos of

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Speaker 6: Nah, not really, man. I saw how deep I was

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Speaker 6: getting into this date, and so when she left me

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Speaker 6: why she went away to the ladies room, I opened

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Speaker 6: her Venmo and took what I thought was a fair

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Speaker 1: Never heard of girls doing this.

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Speaker 6: Even it out. I wasn't feeling any night.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you hear that other voice.

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Speaker 2: Oh my's on the other line right now listening to this.

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Speaker 6: Oh come on, yeah, Like, are you for real? Are

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Speaker 6: you for real? Why am I talking to you? Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I'm defending it. It's not like she was gonna split

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Speaker 6: It turned from a date into a job.

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Speaker 2: Admit though it's a high value job, one that she

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I didn't apply for this job. I mean it

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Speaker 3: You're getting into it, I'm mean, she seems like what

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Speaker 3: you see is what you get with her? Am I right?

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Speaker 3: I know, like you sound like you were clear on

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Speaker 4: Yes, I was, and honestly like, there are a lot

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Speaker 4: of guys that want to go out with me exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody asked wants to.

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Speaker 2: Take picture, wants to spend money on We thought you

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Speaker 3: Even she didn't even notice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you.

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Speaker 4: Heard that right, Yeah, I heard it. I just opened

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Speaker 4: that Venmo and I thought, right now, how much?

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Speaker 3: Really, how much did he venmo to himself?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, he took one hundred and fifty dollars

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Speaker 4: for me.

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Speaker 1: That's a pretty penny.

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Speaker 3: I mean, private photo shoot costs. It's kind of I

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Speaker 3: just can't believe you don't feel guilty at all, Cory,

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Speaker 1: A problem with that?

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Speaker 6: Why not cut it off? Like even it out? Like

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Speaker 6: I said, I mean, if we ended up going out

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Speaker 3: Okay, if you're such like a if you're such a

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Speaker 6: Fine, if we were in that situation and I asked

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Speaker 5: Now there we go.

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Speaker 1: Take that Brook, such a high value answer. He knows

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Speaker 1: what he's worth. Two.

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Speaker 3: In the end, these two high value people end up

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Speaker 2: Seriously, Look, this is what happens. You go for a

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Speaker 1: More by taking the money right out of your venmo

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Speaker 1: and he stands up for himself. That is wise.

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Speaker 2: And I would be remiss if I didn't offer to

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Speaker 2: send you guys out on another.

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Speaker 1: Date with this undoing everything.

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Speaker 3: If you ask them to go, yeah, because we'll pay

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the time we're going to cover the bill. What

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Speaker 1: do you think, Corey? You're the one I'm supposed to

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Speaker 1: ask you want to go out with Dinah one more time?

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Speaker 6: If she wants to show me who she really is

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Speaker 6: and that spend the whole life I freaking take his

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Speaker 1: Sure, Okay, I get it. She's really hot, So I

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Speaker 1: know he said yes. Really, he just sounded like it

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Speaker 1: to me. I know, are you up for it?

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Speaker 3: It's insane?

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Speaker 4: Well, he's sole money from me, but like it sounds

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: At this point, I feel like you two deserve each

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Speaker 1: Is this actually happening.

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Speaker 4: I'll do drinks again and if that goes well, then

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Speaker 4: we can see about moving the.

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Speaker 2: Day location two Firefest Island.

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Speaker 6: Hey, I don't have the cash for Firefest Island, but

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Speaker 6: i'll take your kids card.

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Speaker 2: Successful second date update perriers with lines for everybody.

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Speaker 3: As long as your panje I got it.

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Speaker 1: It's lurking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: How much you guys want to bet that she's going

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Speaker 2: to hand over her phone again and completely forget that

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Speaker 3: I know he's just gonna be the cycle where she

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Speaker 3: and he's just gonna he gets it back.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna be constantly trying to look at her phone.

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Speaker 2: Like any type of cute purple lighting shows up anywhere,

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Speaker 2: It's like, hey, come over here, like we should catch let.

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Speaker 3: The whole thing. They really do, honestly feel made for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really hoping that they make it for an

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Speaker 3: He's hoping that his bank account makes it for an

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Speaker 1: I think away kind of cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah sure, you could be the next cute couple that

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Speaker 2: we put together.

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Speaker 1: On this show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah deep, next deep cute couple.

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Speaker 1: All you gotta do is email the show. We'll call

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Speaker 1: that person whiz and calling you back.

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Speaker 2: We have all of our second date updates ready for

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Speaker 2: you to listen to on our podcast wherever you get

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Speaker 2: yours at Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,