Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio.
Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast.
Speaker 1: Today's tip is to aim for that line in the
Speaker 1: song White Christmas. May your days be merry and bright.
Speaker 1: It is easy to succumb to the stress of the
Speaker 1: holiday season, particularly if you are the one in charge
Speaker 1: of your family's schedule and celebrations, but being in a
Speaker 1: good mood is one of the best presents you can
Speaker 1: give your loved ones and yourself. This episode is first
Speaker 1: airing in mid December, right in the middle of the
Speaker 1: holiday business. Those of us with kids at home have
Speaker 1: all the usual activities plus the special holiday ones like
Speaker 1: concerts and parties. We want to make memories with trips
Speaker 1: to see lights or Santa. People in all family situations
Speaker 1: want to think through gifts and procure ones that will
Speaker 1: make everyone we love delighted. Meanwhile, we may be trying
Speaker 1: to wrap up the year's business at work, possibly hitting
Speaker 1: certain numbers, and getting budgets and plans in place for
Speaker 1: next year. All of it is wonderful. It is a
Speaker 1: blessing to have people who want to make holiday memories
Speaker 1: with you, and to have a high demand for your
Speaker 1: time at work. It can also be a lot. When
Speaker 1: we are stressed, even holiday fun can feel like one
Speaker 1: more thing on the to do list. The people in
Speaker 1: our lives can pick up on that stress. It can
Speaker 1: cast a dark shadow over the whole holiday experience. Now,
Speaker 1: I am not saying we can simply eliminate stress. I
Speaker 1: also think that a lot of the advice out there
Speaker 1: simply saying do less doesn't quite get it right. Someone
Speaker 1: needs to shop for my five kids presence and go
Speaker 1: to their holiday concerts and the like. Even the bare
Speaker 1: minimum would be a lot, and hence doing more than
Speaker 1: the bare minimum, with its promise of making memories, isn't
Speaker 1: an order of magnitude different. The stress is there regardless,
Speaker 1: But what those of us who are managing complex Christmas
Speaker 1: is can do is to put being merry and bright
Speaker 1: on the list like everything else, aim to find the
Speaker 1: fun in whatever is on the list for each day.
Speaker 1: There are many things we can do to add genuinely enjoyable,
Speaker 1: relaxing aspects to any holiday activity. Treat yourself to a
Speaker 1: festive cup of coffee while shopping, or meet a friend
Speaker 1: for lunch and then wend your way through target together.
Speaker 1: I once took a late afternoon to go to a
Speaker 1: light display all by myself so I could look at
Speaker 1: what I wanted to look at for the amount of
Speaker 1: time I wanted to without pushing a stroller around everywhere.
Speaker 1: Put on your favorite music while wrapping presents. During stressful times,
Speaker 1: good habits become even more critical. In my recent book
Speaker 1: Tranquility by Tuesday, I list three foundational time management habits
Speaker 1: that I think have the biggest payoff. First, give yourself
Speaker 1: a bedtime. Staying up late to do some online holiday
Speaker 1: shopping isn't going to make the holidays go more smoothly.
Speaker 1: It will just put you in a bad mood in
Speaker 1: the morning. The second rule is to plan on Fridays.
Speaker 1: Carve out time each week to think through the upcoming
Speaker 1: week so you know what you need to do, and
Speaker 1: also so you can make sure to plan in things
Speaker 1: that are fun for you too. The third rule is
Speaker 1: to move by three pm. Physical activity is a known
Speaker 1: mood booster, particularly for those of us in places where
Speaker 1: the days are getting very short. Getting outside to walk
Speaker 1: for ten minutes in the middle of the day can
Speaker 1: give the day a reset button. I always return in
Speaker 1: a much better frame of mind. Ideally, everyone a on
Speaker 1: us will also aim to be merry and bright. Unfortunately
Speaker 1: that doesn't always happen, but moods are contagious. Being merry
Speaker 1: and bright is a gift to those around us as
Speaker 1: much as anything else we might give them. If you've
Speaker 1: got a lot on your plate, it can be a
Speaker 1: more challenging gift than buying a toy, but it is
Speaker 1: a worthwhile one nonetheless. In the meantime, this is Laura.
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, and here's to making the most of
Speaker 1: our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear from you.
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