WEBVTT - Chiquis Answers Your Questions LIVE!

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, guys, and welcome to a very special episode of

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<v Speaker 1>Cheeky's and Chill. Today we're bringing you an episode we

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<v Speaker 1>recorded live at the iHeartRadio Theater in Burbank. I answered

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<v Speaker 1>a ton of questions in front of a live audience,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had a really, really great time celebrating two

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<v Speaker 1>years of the Michael Dura Podcast Network. Thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much to everyone who came out and spent the evening

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<v Speaker 1>with me. I had so much fun hanging out with

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<v Speaker 1>you guys in person. Alrighty, let's get into this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Cheeky's and Chill.

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<v Speaker 2>What up, guys? Hi for guess Hi? What's up? Come on?

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<v Speaker 2>You know I had to bring my bulling cup too.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, here we go. Come on then, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Hi, Oh my god, I see some familiar faces.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop it right now. I'm so excited. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if you guys listen to Cheekys and Chill. Dear cheekis

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<v Speaker 2>you better? Okay, Well, let's start. Let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys ready? All right, here we go. Question number

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<v Speaker 1>one this is from Destiny. I love your podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much, Destiny. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're not super fan grass. Yes for representing us.

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<v Speaker 1>My question, when you're not working, what's your favorite way

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<v Speaker 1>to unwind? Ooh, when I'm not working. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why this is harder to do right now for me

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<v Speaker 1>to think maybe because you guys are here. But when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not working, what I like to do is really chill,

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<v Speaker 1>is stay at home. I like to wash clothes. Believe

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<v Speaker 1>it or not, I'm not lying. When I'm not working,

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<v Speaker 1>I like to do normal things, wash my clothes, go

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<v Speaker 1>grocery shopping, clean the house, all that stuff ful feels

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<v Speaker 1>me so much like I need a to like that

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<v Speaker 1>at least once a week where I could just tend

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<v Speaker 1>to my household and it just sets the tone for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the week. So that's honestly what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to go now to the beach. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie that I've lost a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of weight, I feel a little bit better.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the sun now.

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<v Speaker 1>And because I was like, oh, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>covered up and stuff. Now I'm like, what's up? So

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<v Speaker 1>I like doing that now, taking little walks and hiking.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to hike. So that's what I do when

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<v Speaker 1>I don't work. Thank you destiny for your question.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, is it hotter or am I just nervous? I'm nervous?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you cold?

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<v Speaker 2>Baby? You guys are so pretty? Everyone? Hi, okay from Jessica.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I've noticed you're always rooting for your friends

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<v Speaker 1>and family. How do you manage to always be happy

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<v Speaker 1>when your brothers and sisters succeed without feeling a little jealous?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I'm not a jealous person, especially with

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<v Speaker 1>my siblings.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like my kids, you guys, I raise them. I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like Il Bartolos, the sun is big enough

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<v Speaker 1>to shine for all of us, yes or no. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like I know what I bring to

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<v Speaker 1>the world and my mission here, and I know what

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<v Speaker 1>other people do, and I embrace people and I celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>them like jealousy is not gonna get me anywhere, especially

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<v Speaker 1>with my siblings. When I see my sister doing her thing,

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<v Speaker 1>Jackie now she's the CEO of Jenny Rivera Enterprises, shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to her. I see him like, I'm such a

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<v Speaker 1>proud sister, Like I'm just like, she's amazing, She's doing

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<v Speaker 1>a great job. Jennica's thriving, she has over comfort, she

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<v Speaker 1>has her podcast now on Mike Gula you guys, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy and Johnny, you know, the little one

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<v Speaker 1>Mikey has a new business. I'm just like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel jealous. If anything, I feel proud because I know

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<v Speaker 1>that I had something to do with that. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Mama, we did good, we did good.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, thank you Jessica. Are you guys enjoying this

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<v Speaker 1>so far?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? I don't know, never mind, I was not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>Kellogg's I love you all right from Tony with an

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<v Speaker 1>eye and I with a hy. Okay, what's your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>meal to cook for a Melio on.

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<v Speaker 2>Date night at home? Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>He loves pasta, so I like to cook fettuccini alfredo

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<v Speaker 1>and I make fettuccini the sauce from scratch. Okay, not

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<v Speaker 1>the pasta yet, I don't know how to make the pasta.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what I cook for him, with chicken, grilled chicken,

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<v Speaker 1>and some wine. So that's what I like to cook.

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<v Speaker 1>Tony with an eye, thank you so much. I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>if it's a girl or a boy, Tony, but either way,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you Tony for your question. Okay, what's up, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>up there, Hi, and up there too.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you too.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, dude, I think I'm going way too

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<v Speaker 1>fast here, twenty minutes here, okay, so I'm gonna slow down. Cindy,

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<v Speaker 1>do you believe a woman can really have it all?

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<v Speaker 1>Or do some parts of your life suffer when you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to achieve too much? Ooh is a good question,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been guilty of it because I think from

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<v Speaker 1>losing my mom. When I lost my mom, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to just focus on work so that I didn't focus

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<v Speaker 1>so much on the pain, and I wasn't taking care

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<v Speaker 1>of my heart and taking care of my health and

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<v Speaker 1>taking care of what I think truly matters. Obviously, work

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<v Speaker 1>is important, because money's important because we've got to buy

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves things because we have to pay our mortgage or

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<v Speaker 1>our rent or whatever our food, you know, But you

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<v Speaker 1>can't forget what's important. I think balance is huge. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to find time for yourself, whatever that means, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is that makes you happy. You can definitely have

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<v Speaker 1>it all. It's just really realizing. Okay, let me set

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<v Speaker 1>some time aside for me to go get a massage,

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<v Speaker 1>to read a book, to work out whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna make your soul feel better. And now I

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<v Speaker 1>still struggle. I'm not gonna lie. I still struggle with

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<v Speaker 1>finding the balance. Sometimes I feel like, Okay, I'm working

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<v Speaker 1>too much or I'm having too much fun. These past

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<v Speaker 1>few months, I've been having way too much fun and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I need to be home.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to work a little more because since June

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<v Speaker 1>medi buelo and I'm like, okay, no, I need a chill.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's really a balance on both ends. So you

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<v Speaker 1>can definitely have it all. It's just having your heart

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<v Speaker 1>in the right place first and foremost. Know what's important

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<v Speaker 1>to you, that is the most important thing, like your values.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not lose your values in trying to chase money.

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<v Speaker 1>Signs you, guys, please please, Because people say money is

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<v Speaker 1>the root of all evil, That's not true. The love

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<v Speaker 1>for money is the root of all evil. When you

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<v Speaker 1>love money more than your morals and your values, your

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<v Speaker 1>priorities aren't straight. That's all I'm saying, yes or no.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I get an Applaus for that? Y'all better start clapping. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Let me drink some waters. I wa I

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<v Speaker 1>promise I had a little bit earlier, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>so ye.

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<v Speaker 2>See, like my chicks are a little like rosy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because I feel happy.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. Okay, it's his water. Just sell, I promise

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<v Speaker 1>that is you know. You guys know yourself. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where she's at, but where hija Sell. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>Richard Bull, my manager over there.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? Where's Pablo? Is that Pablo? That's okay? So

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<v Speaker 2>Pablo is the producer.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the producers of Cheekies and Chill and der

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<v Speaker 1>Cheekis And I just met him for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and Brianna too, Hi, Brianna, I just met them

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time. But I let keepo for my

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful team over there. Okay, Am I doing good? Everything's

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<v Speaker 1>kosher right awesome? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So Brian, Oh, Brian b r y a n oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I love. I love to see how names are spelled.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like different, you know. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an aspiring singer based in LA and I'm looking

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<v Speaker 1>for a manager or management team. But I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>where to start. What should I look for in a

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<v Speaker 1>good manager? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about my manager.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, it's hard to find a good manager.

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<v Speaker 1>I've I'm just gonna be honest, I've been I've had

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<v Speaker 1>a few, and it's not just because he's here. I

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<v Speaker 1>call him my dadager, So if you guys follow me

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<v Speaker 1>on social media, he's like my dadager. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>most important thing is finding someone that is excited and

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<v Speaker 1>passionate about your project, about what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>That you're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if they're just there for the money, it's maybe, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna get you a lot of money, but is

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<v Speaker 1>that how far.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that go? How long does that go?

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<v Speaker 1>So I someone that's really passionate and is like your

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<v Speaker 1>biggest cheerleader. So I've been very blessed to find that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had to go and kiss a few frogs

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<v Speaker 1>in order to get to that. But not that my

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<v Speaker 1>other managers were bad, because I still love them.

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<v Speaker 2>Just saying that, okay, because.

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<v Speaker 1>But Dane, they're wonderful. It's just we It just wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, It didn't you know, But

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. You have to go through that in order

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<v Speaker 1>to learn about yourself. I also said, okay, cut on

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<v Speaker 1>a hat, like you have to be more chill, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. Like it's not just them I

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<v Speaker 1>also had to learn and mature and say, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta listen too, because it's not just what I say.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be also open to what they suggest

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<v Speaker 1>and they know more than you. And you have to

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<v Speaker 1>trust your manager. And I learned that I did, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm better now. Thank you, Yeah, thank you, mister boll

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<v Speaker 1>because you well, the thing is is like there's a

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<v Speaker 1>difference between being a boss and being a leader. People

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<v Speaker 1>are like, oh, boss, it you got to tell them

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<v Speaker 1>what to do and point the fingers. And it's not

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<v Speaker 1>about that. It's about leading by example. And sometimes like

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of like my boss. Don't tell him I

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<v Speaker 1>said that, but he's kind of like my boss. So

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<v Speaker 1>I have to also just say, okay, whatever you think, Richard,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna follow you. I'm gonna trust you. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to trust your team. Without a team, they're your foundation.

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<v Speaker 1>Without them, you fall, So you have to trust uh, Brian, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I should have one of you guys pick

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<v Speaker 1>a question from here.

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<v Speaker 2>No, don't you think? Okay, who should I pick?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm my jackiey oh, come here, mama, pick one for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see what I gotta do here? Can

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<v Speaker 1>you read it for me too? Oh that's a long one,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all read it?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>It says it's from Ricardo. My girlfriend is constantly going

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<v Speaker 3>through my cell phone. I've never given her a reason

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<v Speaker 3>not to trust me, so I'm not sure why she

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<v Speaker 3>acts like this. This has been an issue for us

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<v Speaker 3>for the last year. We've been together for two years,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm not sure how much more I can take.

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<v Speaker 3>Whenever I ask her why she does it, she always

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<v Speaker 3>says it's her cell phone too, and it turns into

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<v Speaker 3>a big argument. Should I change my password? What should

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<v Speaker 3>I do?

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<v Speaker 2>Very nice reading, Mama, I love that. Okay, let's sit

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<v Speaker 2>and talk about this. Because I used to be a

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<v Speaker 2>toxica Okay, let me tell you. I learned.

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<v Speaker 1>If you push a guy too far, you're gonna push

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<v Speaker 1>him to do something that he probably wasn't even thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of doing. There has to be trust in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it be like I just said, a work relationship

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<v Speaker 1>or a romantic relationship. I feel that you're man should

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<v Speaker 1>be okay with you looking through his phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Not all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's successive if you're doing it a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Mamacita Ricardo's girl that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Too much baby.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're doing it every day, lo, he's gonna get tired.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me personally, it's a red flag if a

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<v Speaker 1>guy gets real nervous or always has his phone like

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<v Speaker 1>face down and if you're like, hey, can I borrow

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<v Speaker 1>your phone real quick? And he's like why, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you want and it's kind of like, okay, well you

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<v Speaker 1>have something to hide it. A guy should just be like, here,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to have his password, but it's like, here,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, do you I use my phone? But if

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<v Speaker 1>he's hovering and worried, there's something going on.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you guys think, right, but doing

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<v Speaker 1>it excessively, that's that's not good either, because that means

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<v Speaker 1>you don't trust him. If you don't trust the person

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<v Speaker 1>you're with, then that's also a red flag on your side,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you can't have a relationship where you don't trust them.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have to also trust the universe and trust

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<v Speaker 1>God whatever it is that you believe in that if

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything you need to know, you will find out.

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<v Speaker 1>A woman's intuition is strong, so you're gonna know you

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<v Speaker 1>feel me and you gotta trust that and your partner

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<v Speaker 1>has to be okay with it. So Ricardo, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you should have a solid conversation with her and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is making me feel uncomfortable and I'm not hiding anything,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've never given you a reason pro testas pasando,

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<v Speaker 1>and hopefully she understands, and hopefully she lets you look

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<v Speaker 1>through her phone too.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just found this trick not so long.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago on the phone where you can see if they'd

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<v Speaker 1>be raised messages. I wish I could show you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not gonna give up my trick. But ahem,

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<v Speaker 1>be careful too. You also have to be okay with

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<v Speaker 1>finding something on the phone, and ask yourself if I

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<v Speaker 1>find something, what am I gonna do? Don't just try

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<v Speaker 1>to find something, start a fight and then just stay

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<v Speaker 1>there too. You gotta really think about it. So Ricardo's girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you need to chill a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>MoMA.

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<v Speaker 2>Do it once a month, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it every day, not every day. Once a month

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<v Speaker 1>is fine, I'm telling you, because be starting problems, yes

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<v Speaker 1>or no, thank you, Richard. I'm gonna tell Jennifer, his wife,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell her how to how to look at

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<v Speaker 1>your messages. You know, I'm a hawk on his on

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<v Speaker 1>his butt.

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<v Speaker 2>Two. I caught myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here we go, So Lucy, we have a question

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<v Speaker 1>from Lucy. Okay, my sister and I are so different.

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<v Speaker 2>It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I try to talk to her, but she always thinks

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<v Speaker 1>I'm attacking her. What are some ways I can create

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<v Speaker 1>a sisterly hood. I'm a little lost.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, my sister and I well both, Yeah, we're very different,

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<v Speaker 1>all of us. I think it's just learning to is

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<v Speaker 1>it's important to know people's love language. You guys know

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<v Speaker 1>about the five love languages. If you don't, Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys don't, I really suggest.

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<v Speaker 2>That you read the book and that you If.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys haven't read it, I suggest that you do

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<v Speaker 1>because it's going to help you in your life, especially

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<v Speaker 1>with like your family members is knowing how they like

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<v Speaker 1>to be loved. And I always say this on my

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<v Speaker 1>podcast all the time. I feel like I say way

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<v Speaker 1>too much, but it's the truth. You can tell anyone

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<v Speaker 1>anything that's on your mind and what you feel. It's

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<v Speaker 1>how you deliver your message. It's how you tell the person.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like this.

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<v Speaker 1>This really hurts my feelings and I've learned this with therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a huge advocate for therapy. I love therapy, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>It's helped me, like just survive. So it's how you

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<v Speaker 1>tell them, hey, this is hurting my feelings. This is

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<v Speaker 1>what I feel when you attack someone and you're like

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<v Speaker 1>you did this?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's hey, did you do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Asking a question instead of assuming and attacking changes everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. It's a little different for me

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm the eldest. So I'm very like motherly with

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<v Speaker 1>my siblings and I've learned not to be because they

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<v Speaker 1>want me to be less of a mom and more

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<v Speaker 1>of a sister. So that's been a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a challenge for me. But it's more of like I

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<v Speaker 1>always hey, how are you feeling, how's your day? How

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<v Speaker 1>can I help you? How can I make your day better?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think it's just little by little learning how

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<v Speaker 1>your sister Lucy right, yes, Lucy, How your sister likes

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<v Speaker 1>to be loved, and how she likes to be talked to.

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<v Speaker 1>If speaking face to face doesn't work, I always suggest this,

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<v Speaker 1>write a letter sometimes text messaging. Gotta be careful with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love voice notes. I love voice notes.

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<v Speaker 2>You, guys. I am the voice note queen.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I want people to hear my intention behind what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to say, because sometimes when I write, it

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<v Speaker 1>could sound a little like to direct but write a

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<v Speaker 1>love letter, Lucy, tell your sister you know what, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want us to have a better relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>How can we do this?

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<v Speaker 1>What can I do better to make you feel more

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<v Speaker 1>safe to speak to me? So that is my suggestion.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that some good advice or no?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Okay, because yeah, it's like you got.

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<v Speaker 1>To learn all of us like to be loved differently.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm words of affirmation. I need you to

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<v Speaker 1>tell me every day that you love me.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and I'm not a toxica you guys anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>You could say it, but I can't. But I love you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you so much. Okay, cool, all right, let's

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<v Speaker 2>go to the next one. Let's do it. Martinez back there?

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<v Speaker 2>How am I doing? Okay? Thank you so much? Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Christian, what's your favorite memory of recording The

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<v Speaker 1>Rivera's reality show? Would you do a reality show again?

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<v Speaker 1>I miss you boy, honestly. Okay, we've been offered reality

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<v Speaker 1>shows quite a bit since we stopped, and the reason

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<v Speaker 1>because I was an executive producer on the reality show.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason I decided for us not to continue was

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<v Speaker 1>because I felt like it was starting issues with my siblings,

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<v Speaker 1>and I made my mom and I made myself a

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<v Speaker 1>promise that I was going to try my very best

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<v Speaker 1>to keep my siblings and I united, because that was

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<v Speaker 1>like her biggest thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Would say it all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said, no amount of money, no amount of fame,

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<v Speaker 1>no amount of is gonna get between my siblings and I.

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<v Speaker 1>And they were frustrated, and it had been ten years

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<v Speaker 1>of reality you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>But my favorite part of doing the.

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<v Speaker 1>Reality show was precisely that spending time with my siblings,

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<v Speaker 1>like seeing them all the time doing fun things that

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<v Speaker 1>we normally wouldn't do. And thanks to the reality show,

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<v Speaker 1>we were able to do so many things. I'm so grateful,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's something that changed our life. I have those

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<v Speaker 1>clips with I Love Jenny to go back and hear

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<v Speaker 1>my mom's voice, you know, and relive, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's such a blessing. So I can't knock reality. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how I basically started, you know, I started with cheeks

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<v Speaker 1>and roxy and that's how I kind of developed my career.

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<v Speaker 1>I've thought about it, but for sure, i'd have to

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<v Speaker 1>be still an executive producer on it because I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>have some control of the content. You feel me to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that there's no issues. But that was my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite memory and I missed that. I mean because everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>so busy. My siblings are so busy now. Everyone's doing

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<v Speaker 1>their things. They're all grown. They think they're so grown.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, okay, whatever, you don't have time for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's really hard for me, you guys, As a

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<v Speaker 1>big sister, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh yes, but they do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Jackie and and Mike Johnny are out in Mexico

0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:32.920
<v Speaker 1>City doing all kinds of promo and I'm watching them

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<v Speaker 1>on TikTok and everything. It's like, those are my babies,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're not babies anymore. I'm being good on this.

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<v Speaker 1>So Christian, thank you for your question. Now you make

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<v Speaker 1>me all emotional. I'm so emotional today, you guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know is there a full moon? Because I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always like Yoslovia nothin'. I'm a cancer. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I was about to say I'm a Christian

0:19:51.560 --> 0:19:54.600
<v Speaker 1>because her his name, but I'm a cancer. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, oh my god, is the moon? What's going

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<v Speaker 1>on with the moon? Is it like the retrograde?

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<v Speaker 2>I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I cry today, you guys just just understand. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see, Emily. So, my best friend is getting married,

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<v Speaker 1>and even though I'm happy for her, I'm a little jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for being honest. I'm forty five and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still single. I think I'm gonna cry. Hold on, I

0:20:19.840 --> 0:20:23.399
<v Speaker 1>can't help but think I'll never find my husband. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have any advice on how I can deal with this?

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<v Speaker 2>My heart?

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, it's not just me, mama. It doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>how old you are, forty five, fifty twenty five. The

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<v Speaker 1>person that is meant to come into your life is

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<v Speaker 1>going to come into your life.

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<v Speaker 2>At whatever age. I think what you should do. My

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<v Speaker 2>suggestion to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Emily is I think you have to pray. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>praying type of person. If that's not your thing, then meditate,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just something where you're kind of like, let

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<v Speaker 1>me release these feelings of jealousy, because that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>block you from the universe giving you in attracting what

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<v Speaker 1>you want. So I would suggest that you write a

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<v Speaker 1>letter and just say I forgive myself for feeling jealous.

0:21:07.920 --> 0:21:10.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm happy for my friend. Everything that you feel, all

0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:13.920
<v Speaker 1>those feelings, they're all valid and we understand them, but

0:21:13.960 --> 0:21:15.440
<v Speaker 1>you got to release them. You either got to burn

0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:17.760
<v Speaker 1>the paper or you know, bury it or throw it

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<v Speaker 1>in the ocean. But we don't want to pollute the ocean,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe not that. So yeah, scratch that, but bury

0:21:25.359 --> 0:21:29.800
<v Speaker 1>it or something and and release it. Once you do that,

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<v Speaker 1>then you write another letter and say, Okay, Dear God,

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<v Speaker 1>universepe san Huda's whoever you pray to, and you just say,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love for you to send me a man

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<v Speaker 1>like this, whatever it is, no kids or kids or

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<v Speaker 1>married or whatever kind of man. Don't even if you

0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:53.280
<v Speaker 1>say I want it, soles anything, anything, And you write

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<v Speaker 1>it and you just really concentrate on that letter and

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<v Speaker 1>have faith that you you will find a man that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna love you for you. I think the most important

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:05.600
<v Speaker 1>thing in that letter is a person that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>love me and value me for who I am, and

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<v Speaker 1>it is going to be faithful to me, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna love me very much and unconditionally. I think all

0:22:16.560 --> 0:22:18.680
<v Speaker 1>that is very important. I stop saying, oh my god,

0:22:18.720 --> 0:22:21.159
<v Speaker 1>I want a tall guy and I want him to

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<v Speaker 1>have this and that. Now I'm like, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>someone that's gonna treat me right. As you get older,

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like you start realizing what's really important,

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<v Speaker 1>like like all that, it'll come.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys can figure it.

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<v Speaker 1>Out as long as he loves you, Emily, Okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's my suggestion and it's worked for me, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>where we're gonna leave it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So also, oh wait, very important thing you, guys. In

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<v Speaker 1>order for you to attract the person that you want,

0:22:55.640 --> 0:22:58.760
<v Speaker 1>you should also try becoming not trying work every day

0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:01.000
<v Speaker 1>towards becoming that person and that you want to attract.

0:23:01.119 --> 0:23:03.840
<v Speaker 1>You can't just be asking for a person that's faithful

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<v Speaker 1>and this and this and that and then you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to also be like, Okay, well I want

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to be a reflection of what I'm looking for. That's

0:23:10.520 --> 0:23:12.240
<v Speaker 1>also very important. Work on yourself and make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you're also ready internally and mentally emotionally healthy to receive

0:23:18.119 --> 0:23:19.680
<v Speaker 1>what God's going to send you with the universe is

0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:21.600
<v Speaker 1>going to send you. That's that's another thing. And I

0:23:21.600 --> 0:23:23.880
<v Speaker 1>had to learn that the hard way because I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was perfect and then I realized that I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh okay, I still have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot to learn. And that's why I'm telling you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys before it was like you gave me reasons

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<v Speaker 1>to be Toxica, and I was like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be like that anymore. So I'm gonna change my

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<v Speaker 1>ways and I'm just going to be confident in who

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<v Speaker 1>I am and what I have to bring to the

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<v Speaker 1>table because I have a whole lot to bring to

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<v Speaker 1>the table. And you're gonna be sorry if you ever

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<v Speaker 1>do anything wrong to me. And then you're just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, whatever, If you're going to do some

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<v Speaker 1>dumb things, you're gonna regret it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes or no? Okay? Pieriad it? Okay? Can I have

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<v Speaker 2>someone else read me a question? Or no? Okay? Hi Jessica, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, let's see.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you gotta put a long one, Paola, Olah. You

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<v Speaker 4>have such great skin, and I want to level up

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<v Speaker 4>my skincare. Where do you recommend I start? Is there

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<v Speaker 4>a morning and nighttime routine that I should follow? Right now,

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<v Speaker 4>I just wash my face and call it a day,

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<v Speaker 4>but I want to glow.

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<v Speaker 2>Love that for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Mama, Sita, Oh, thank you baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, let's start off by saying, go to beeflows

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<v Speaker 1>dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm just saying now. I've had my skincare for

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of years. Seven years, I think it is.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've loved skincare since I was sixteen years old,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's where my passion comes from.

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<v Speaker 2>No one taught me that. It's just something that I love.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think the biggest advice that I can give you, ladies, please,

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<v Speaker 1>even guys that were makeup, take off your makeup every night,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you're drunk, even if it's four in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Please take off your makeup, even if you're half a sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you gonna makeup, mas Kita, take it off.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard once that when we sleep with our makeup on,

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<v Speaker 1>we age twenty nine days in a night, twenty nine days.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about you, guys, but I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>age as gracefully as possible, and I do botox and

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<v Speaker 1>everything I love. I'm I'm not gonna even lie. I

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<v Speaker 1>love both talks. I love fillers, that's my thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>I do it cute, not like crazy, but I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love skincare, but is them obviously. Drink water

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<v Speaker 1>and use good skincare. Okay, Washing your face morning and

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<v Speaker 1>night anywhere from thirty to sixty seconds is very important.

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<v Speaker 2>Use a toner.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people don't use a tooner. Make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that it's alcohol free. Mine is alcohol free. Okay, revitalizing toner.

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<v Speaker 1>And use SPF. That is the biggest advice men and women.

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<v Speaker 1>Use SPF.

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<v Speaker 2>Please.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the biggest thing for your body and for your

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<v Speaker 1>face is especially and as Latinos we tend to get

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more sunspots and hyperbigmentation. So I would highly

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<v Speaker 1>suggest a very good SPF and I have an amazing

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<v Speaker 1>one at Beitholiskin dot com. It's called I have a

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<v Speaker 1>tinted one and I have a regular one and it's

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<v Speaker 1>called Go and Protect thirty SPF thirty and I if.

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<v Speaker 2>You want, it's a great one.

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<v Speaker 1>Has vitamin C in there, so it's gonna help with

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<v Speaker 1>all that. But that's my suggestion to you. Babe Baola, thank.

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<v Speaker 2>You for pulling that question. I didn't even do it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was the Lord.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's speak a few We have a few more minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys to talk and shit chat here and no, okay, good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you guys to be born.

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<v Speaker 2>No sure, I love you dude, Il Agustina and Naki

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<v Speaker 2>holy I, Lagustine Richard, none.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the gad I wo see as a paparazzi. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys just putting it out there. I got a long one, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm gonna read it, Alejandro Cheeky's I need

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<v Speaker 1>your advice. My girlfriend loves to dance, and whenever we're

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<v Speaker 1>at party, she wants to hit the dance floor.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not a good dancer. I get so nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see how disappointed she gets when I say, no, help,

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<v Speaker 1>What should I do? I'm considering dancing lessons, but I'm embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>Alejandro Baba. The fact that you're asking this means that

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<v Speaker 1>you care, and I think that you should definitely do

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<v Speaker 1>it and do not let embarrassment stop you. Okay, do

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<v Speaker 1>it with fear, do it with embarrassment. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>to learn for your girl, I think you should because

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<v Speaker 1>I had a boyfriend once.

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<v Speaker 2>That didn't dance.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't even try, And honestly, I love to dance.

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<v Speaker 1>I love to hit the dance floor like your girl,

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<v Speaker 1>And it was really difficult to find someone that's not

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<v Speaker 1>even willing to like dance. And then if you went

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<v Speaker 1>to go dance without him, he to get upset. So, Alejandro,

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<v Speaker 1>take those dancing lessons. Go on YouTube that me in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they can teach you the cha cha and

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<v Speaker 1>then just do the you know, do the two step

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<v Speaker 1>at least, you know, like dance like a chollo something right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go put on way with it and go out

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<v Speaker 1>there with your girl if that's what she likes to do.

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<v Speaker 2>If not, let her be. But you know that was cute.

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<v Speaker 2>That was so cute. That was so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are so sweet. Also a long one.

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<v Speaker 1>Here read it for me, Rna where you want to

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<v Speaker 1>read it? Okay, sorry, Mura'm gonna give you working out princess. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here read it for me, Mama.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been trying to become a morning person so I

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<v Speaker 5>can make the most of my days. I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>people are so much more productive in the mornings, and

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<v Speaker 5>so I've been trying to wake up at five am

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<v Speaker 5>so that I can start my day with a workout

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<v Speaker 5>and take care of myself before I have to start working.

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<v Speaker 5>It's been super challenging and I'm and so I'm wondering

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<v Speaker 5>if you have any tips on staying motivated or disciplined.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you good Okay, thank you for reading that for me. Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 1>have you guys heard of the book called The Five

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<v Speaker 1>Am Club by any chance?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? I tried it. Let me tell you. It's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Lulu, I think the fact that you I think

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<v Speaker 1>you just have to be patient. You have to be

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<v Speaker 1>patient with yourself. Maybe start off slow, tell yourself, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>out of the week, I'm gonna wake up twice a

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<v Speaker 1>week at five am and ease your way into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you do it, I see it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like the repenthe I wanted to say another word, but

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<v Speaker 1>I see the repente. You're going to tie. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be You're gonna get tired. So I would suggest just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of easing your way into getting up at five

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. But I will tell you my mom

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<v Speaker 1>was that woman that would wake up at five in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, even if she fell asleep at two. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how she did it, but this was

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<v Speaker 1>her in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Come mom, wake up and I'm like, how is she?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is she ups? I'm like, she just fell asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just like, you do get more out of

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<v Speaker 1>your day waking up early, getting your workout in. I

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<v Speaker 1>am a huge again advocate for working out and making

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<v Speaker 1>yourself feel good. But ease your way into it. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no reason to run. You could just take baby steps,

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<v Speaker 1>little by little. And I think that's like my biggest

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<v Speaker 1>advice because I tried it, and I will tell you

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<v Speaker 1>around seven o'clock, I was yawning and I can't, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just Richard has me doing all kinds of things,

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<v Speaker 1>like he wants me to do videos and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>me to do this, and he wants me to do interviews,

0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:34.800
<v Speaker 1>and it's just like, you know, where is he? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. He probably left because he's like I'm embarrassing him.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I think it's awesome to wake up

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<v Speaker 1>that early, bittless, you know. So you just got to

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<v Speaker 1>take it easy, little by little, and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you work your way up. Okay, ooh little one. Okay, Angelica,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your favorite song to perform live? Okay, so my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite song to perform live would have to be ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have.

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<v Speaker 2>So many of you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Just one, okay, honestly, that's like my favorite right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And thank you, guys, Thank you so much. It's the yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys so much for being here. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for taking the time to listen to us, to be

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<v Speaker 1>fans of Michael Tura, because if you're here, you're fans

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<v Speaker 1>of Michael Dura.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you to.

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<v Speaker 1>My Michael Tura team, to Kellogg's, to the Super Secret

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<v Speaker 1>Bestie Club. Honestly, I'm so happy to be here and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so grateful, and this is the end of my time,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want to say thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you have there're those for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you. I don't have flowers, guys. You

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<v Speaker 1>know I love flowers. Thank you, my love, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate give me a kiss, thank you. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't stand with Floris you guys, guys, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>sucker for flowers. I love love, so you know you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. I love you guys. A round

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<v Speaker 1>of applause for you, guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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