Speaker 1: Hi, guys, and welcome to a very special episode of
Speaker 1: Cheeky's and Chill. Today we're bringing you an episode we
Speaker 1: recorded live at the iHeartRadio Theater in Burbank. I answered
Speaker 1: a ton of questions in front of a live audience,
Speaker 1: and I had a really, really great time celebrating two
Speaker 1: years of the Michael Dura Podcast Network. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much to everyone who came out and spent the evening
Speaker 1: with me. I had so much fun hanging out with
Speaker 1: you guys in person. Alrighty, let's get into this episode.
Speaker 1: This is Cheeky's and Chill.
Speaker 2: What up, guys? Hi for guess Hi? What's up? Come on?
Speaker 2: You know I had to bring my bulling cup too.
Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Come on then, all right,
Speaker 2: let's do this.
Speaker 1: Okay, Hi, Oh my god, I see some familiar faces.
Speaker 2: Stop it right now. I'm so excited. I don't know
Speaker 2: if you guys listen to Cheekys and Chill. Dear cheekis
Speaker 2: you better? Okay, Well, let's start. Let's do this.
Speaker 1: You guys ready? All right, here we go. Question number
Speaker 1: one this is from Destiny. I love your podcast.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Destiny. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: So you're not super fan grass. Yes for representing us.
Speaker 1: My question, when you're not working, what's your favorite way
Speaker 1: to unwind? Ooh, when I'm not working. I don't know
Speaker 1: why this is harder to do right now for me
Speaker 1: to think maybe because you guys are here. But when
Speaker 1: I'm not working, what I like to do is really chill,
Speaker 1: is stay at home. I like to wash clothes. Believe
Speaker 1: it or not, I'm not lying. When I'm not working,
Speaker 1: I like to do normal things, wash my clothes, go
Speaker 1: grocery shopping, clean the house, all that stuff ful feels
Speaker 1: me so much like I need a to like that
Speaker 1: at least once a week where I could just tend
Speaker 1: to my household and it just sets the tone for
Speaker 1: the rest of the week. So that's honestly what I do.
Speaker 1: I like to go now to the beach. Now that
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie that I've lost a little bit
Speaker 1: of weight, I feel a little bit better.
Speaker 2: I like the sun now.
Speaker 1: And because I was like, oh, you know, I was
Speaker 1: covered up and stuff. Now I'm like, what's up? So
Speaker 1: I like doing that now, taking little walks and hiking.
Speaker 1: I love to hike. So that's what I do when
Speaker 1: I don't work. Thank you destiny for your question.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: Okay, is it hotter or am I just nervous? I'm nervous?
Speaker 1: Are you cold?
Speaker 2: Baby? You guys are so pretty? Everyone? Hi, okay from Jessica.
Speaker 1: All right, I've noticed you're always rooting for your friends
Speaker 1: and family. How do you manage to always be happy
Speaker 1: when your brothers and sisters succeed without feeling a little jealous?
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not a jealous person, especially with
Speaker 1: my siblings.
Speaker 2: They're like my kids, you guys, I raise them. I'm happy.
Speaker 1: I feel like Il Bartolos, the sun is big enough
Speaker 1: to shine for all of us, yes or no. So
Speaker 1: I just feel like I know what I bring to
Speaker 1: the world and my mission here, and I know what
Speaker 1: other people do, and I embrace people and I celebrate
Speaker 1: them like jealousy is not gonna get me anywhere, especially
Speaker 1: with my siblings. When I see my sister doing her thing,
Speaker 1: Jackie now she's the CEO of Jenny Rivera Enterprises, shout
Speaker 1: out to her. I see him like, I'm such a
Speaker 1: proud sister, Like I'm just like, she's amazing, She's doing
Speaker 1: a great job. Jennica's thriving, she has over comfort, she
Speaker 1: has her podcast now on Mike Gula you guys, and
Speaker 1: I'm so happy and Johnny, you know, the little one
Speaker 1: Mikey has a new business. I'm just like, I don't
Speaker 1: feel jealous. If anything, I feel proud because I know
Speaker 1: that I had something to do with that. You know.
Speaker 1: I was like, Mama, we did good, we did good.
Speaker 1: So yeah, thank you Jessica. Are you guys enjoying this
Speaker 1: so far?
Speaker 2: What's up? I don't know, never mind, I was not
Speaker 2: gonna say.
Speaker 1: Kellogg's I love you all right from Tony with an
Speaker 1: eye and I with a hy. Okay, what's your favorite
Speaker 1: meal to cook for a Melio on.
Speaker 2: Date night at home? Huh?
Speaker 1: He loves pasta, so I like to cook fettuccini alfredo
Speaker 1: and I make fettuccini the sauce from scratch. Okay, not
Speaker 1: the pasta yet, I don't know how to make the pasta.
Speaker 1: So that's what I cook for him, with chicken, grilled chicken,
Speaker 1: and some wine. So that's what I like to cook.
Speaker 1: Tony with an eye, thank you so much. I wonder
Speaker 1: if it's a girl or a boy, Tony, but either way,
Speaker 1: thank you Tony for your question. Okay, what's up, guys,
Speaker 1: up there, Hi, and up there too.
Speaker 2: I love you too.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, dude, I think I'm going way too
Speaker 1: fast here, twenty minutes here, okay, so I'm gonna slow down. Cindy,
Speaker 1: do you believe a woman can really have it all?
Speaker 1: Or do some parts of your life suffer when you're
Speaker 1: trying to achieve too much? Ooh is a good question,
Speaker 1: and I've been guilty of it because I think from
Speaker 1: losing my mom. When I lost my mom, I wanted
Speaker 1: to just focus on work so that I didn't focus
Speaker 1: so much on the pain, and I wasn't taking care
Speaker 1: of my heart and taking care of my health and
Speaker 1: taking care of what I think truly matters. Obviously, work
Speaker 1: is important, because money's important because we've got to buy
Speaker 1: ourselves things because we have to pay our mortgage or
Speaker 1: our rent or whatever our food, you know, But you
Speaker 1: can't forget what's important. I think balance is huge. You
Speaker 1: have to find time for yourself, whatever that means, whatever
Speaker 1: it is that makes you happy. You can definitely have
Speaker 1: it all. It's just really realizing. Okay, let me set
Speaker 1: some time aside for me to go get a massage,
Speaker 1: to read a book, to work out whatever it is.
Speaker 1: It's gonna make your soul feel better. And now I
Speaker 1: still struggle. I'm not gonna lie. I still struggle with
Speaker 1: finding the balance. Sometimes I feel like, Okay, I'm working
Speaker 1: too much or I'm having too much fun. These past
Speaker 1: few months, I've been having way too much fun and
Speaker 1: I feel it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to be home.
Speaker 1: I need to work a little more because since June
Speaker 1: medi buelo and I'm like, okay, no, I need a chill.
Speaker 1: So it's really a balance on both ends. So you
Speaker 1: can definitely have it all. It's just having your heart
Speaker 1: in the right place first and foremost. Know what's important
Speaker 1: to you, that is the most important thing, like your values.
Speaker 1: Do not lose your values in trying to chase money.
Speaker 1: Signs you, guys, please please, Because people say money is
Speaker 1: the root of all evil, That's not true. The love
Speaker 1: for money is the root of all evil. When you
Speaker 1: love money more than your morals and your values, your
Speaker 1: priorities aren't straight. That's all I'm saying, yes or no.
Speaker 1: Can I get an Applaus for that? Y'all better start clapping. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you. Let me drink some waters. I wa I
Speaker 1: promise I had a little bit earlier, and this is
Speaker 1: so ye.
Speaker 2: See, like my chicks are a little like rosy.
Speaker 1: It's because I feel happy.
Speaker 2: But I'm good.
Speaker 1: I'm good. Okay, it's his water. Just sell, I promise
Speaker 1: that is you know. You guys know yourself. I don't
Speaker 1: know where she's at, but where hija Sell. And it's
Speaker 1: Richard Bull, my manager over there.
Speaker 2: What's up? Where's Pablo? Is that Pablo? That's okay? So
Speaker 2: Pablo is the producer.
Speaker 1: One of the producers of Cheekies and Chill and der
Speaker 1: Cheekis And I just met him for the first time.
Speaker 1: Oh and Brianna too, Hi, Brianna, I just met them
Speaker 1: for the first time. But I let keepo for my
Speaker 1: wonderful team over there. Okay, Am I doing good? Everything's
Speaker 1: kosher right awesome? Okay?
Speaker 2: So Brian, Oh, Brian b r y a n oh,
Speaker 2: I love. I love to see how names are spelled.
Speaker 2: It's just like different, you know. Okay.
Speaker 1: I'm an aspiring singer based in LA and I'm looking
Speaker 1: for a manager or management team. But I don't know
Speaker 1: where to start. What should I look for in a
Speaker 1: good manager? Oh?
Speaker 2: Talking about my manager.
Speaker 1: To be honest, it's hard to find a good manager.
Speaker 1: I've I'm just gonna be honest, I've been I've had
Speaker 1: a few, and it's not just because he's here. I
Speaker 1: call him my dadager, So if you guys follow me
Speaker 1: on social media, he's like my dadager. I think the
Speaker 1: most important thing is finding someone that is excited and
Speaker 1: passionate about your project, about what it is.
Speaker 2: That you're doing.
Speaker 1: Because if they're just there for the money, it's maybe, yeah,
Speaker 1: they're gonna get you a lot of money, but is
Speaker 1: that how far.
Speaker 2: Does that go? How long does that go?
Speaker 1: So I someone that's really passionate and is like your
Speaker 1: biggest cheerleader. So I've been very blessed to find that.
Speaker 1: But I had to go and kiss a few frogs
Speaker 1: in order to get to that. But not that my
Speaker 1: other managers were bad, because I still love them.
Speaker 2: Just saying that, okay, because.
Speaker 1: But Dane, they're wonderful. It's just we It just wasn't
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It didn't you know, But
Speaker 1: it's okay. You have to go through that in order
Speaker 1: to learn about yourself. I also said, okay, cut on
Speaker 1: a hat, like you have to be more chill, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like it's not just them I
Speaker 1: also had to learn and mature and say, okay, well,
Speaker 1: I gotta listen too, because it's not just what I say.
Speaker 1: You have to be also open to what they suggest
Speaker 1: and they know more than you. And you have to
Speaker 1: trust your manager. And I learned that I did, right,
Speaker 1: I'm better now. Thank you, Yeah, thank you, mister boll
Speaker 1: because you well, the thing is is like there's a
Speaker 1: difference between being a boss and being a leader. People
Speaker 1: are like, oh, boss, it you got to tell them
Speaker 1: what to do and point the fingers. And it's not
Speaker 1: about that. It's about leading by example. And sometimes like
Speaker 1: he's kind of like my boss. Don't tell him I
Speaker 1: said that, but he's kind of like my boss. So
Speaker 1: I have to also just say, okay, whatever you think, Richard,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna follow you. I'm gonna trust you. You
Speaker 1: have to trust your team. Without a team, they're your foundation.
Speaker 1: Without them, you fall, So you have to trust uh, Brian, Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I should have one of you guys pick
Speaker 1: a question from here.
Speaker 2: No, don't you think? Okay, who should I pick?
Speaker 1: I'm my jackiey oh, come here, mama, pick one for me.
Speaker 1: I want to see what I gotta do here? Can
Speaker 1: you read it for me too? Oh that's a long one,
Speaker 1: y'all read it?
Speaker 2: Sure? Okay?
Speaker 3: It says it's from Ricardo. My girlfriend is constantly going
Speaker 3: through my cell phone. I've never given her a reason
Speaker 3: not to trust me, so I'm not sure why she
Speaker 3: acts like this. This has been an issue for us
Speaker 3: for the last year. We've been together for two years,
Speaker 3: and I'm not sure how much more I can take.
Speaker 3: Whenever I ask her why she does it, she always
Speaker 3: says it's her cell phone too, and it turns into
Speaker 3: a big argument. Should I change my password? What should
Speaker 3: I do?
Speaker 2: Very nice reading, Mama, I love that. Okay, let's sit
Speaker 2: and talk about this. Because I used to be a
Speaker 2: toxica Okay, let me tell you. I learned.
Speaker 1: If you push a guy too far, you're gonna push
Speaker 1: him to do something that he probably wasn't even thinking
Speaker 1: of doing. There has to be trust in a relationship,
Speaker 1: whether it be like I just said, a work relationship
Speaker 1: or a romantic relationship. I feel that you're man should
Speaker 1: be okay with you looking through his phone.
Speaker 2: Not all the time.
Speaker 1: I think that's successive if you're doing it a lot.
Speaker 1: Mamacita Ricardo's girl that's.
Speaker 2: Too much baby.
Speaker 1: If you're doing it every day, lo, he's gonna get tired.
Speaker 1: But for me personally, it's a red flag if a
Speaker 1: guy gets real nervous or always has his phone like
Speaker 1: face down and if you're like, hey, can I borrow
Speaker 1: your phone real quick? And he's like why, what do
Speaker 1: you want and it's kind of like, okay, well you
Speaker 1: have something to hide it. A guy should just be like, here,
Speaker 1: you don't have to have his password, but it's like, here,
Speaker 1: go ahead, do you I use my phone? But if
Speaker 1: he's hovering and worried, there's something going on.
Speaker 2: That's my opinion.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you guys think, right, but doing
Speaker 1: it excessively, that's that's not good either, because that means
Speaker 1: you don't trust him. If you don't trust the person
Speaker 1: you're with, then that's also a red flag on your side,
Speaker 1: Like you can't have a relationship where you don't trust them.
Speaker 1: And you have to also trust the universe and trust
Speaker 1: God whatever it is that you believe in that if
Speaker 1: there's anything you need to know, you will find out.
Speaker 1: A woman's intuition is strong, so you're gonna know you
Speaker 1: feel me and you gotta trust that and your partner
Speaker 1: has to be okay with it. So Ricardo, I think
Speaker 1: you should have a solid conversation with her and say, hey,
Speaker 1: this is making me feel uncomfortable and I'm not hiding anything,
Speaker 1: and I've never given you a reason pro testas pasando,
Speaker 1: and hopefully she understands, and hopefully she lets you look
Speaker 1: through her phone too.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: And I just found this trick not so long.
Speaker 1: Ago on the phone where you can see if they'd
Speaker 1: be raised messages. I wish I could show you, guys,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna give up my trick. But ahem,
Speaker 1: be careful too. You also have to be okay with
Speaker 1: finding something on the phone, and ask yourself if I
Speaker 1: find something, what am I gonna do? Don't just try
Speaker 1: to find something, start a fight and then just stay
Speaker 1: there too. You gotta really think about it. So Ricardo's girl,
Speaker 1: I think you need to chill a little bit.
Speaker 4: MoMA.
Speaker 2: Do it once a month, don't.
Speaker 1: Do it every day, not every day. Once a month
Speaker 1: is fine, I'm telling you, because be starting problems, yes
Speaker 1: or no, thank you, Richard. I'm gonna tell Jennifer, his wife,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell her how to how to look at
Speaker 1: your messages. You know, I'm a hawk on his on
Speaker 1: his butt.
Speaker 2: Two. I caught myself.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go, So Lucy, we have a question
Speaker 1: from Lucy. Okay, my sister and I are so different.
Speaker 2: It's good.
Speaker 1: I try to talk to her, but she always thinks
Speaker 1: I'm attacking her. What are some ways I can create
Speaker 1: a sisterly hood. I'm a little lost.
Speaker 2: Hmm.
Speaker 1: Okay, my sister and I well both, Yeah, we're very different,
Speaker 1: all of us. I think it's just learning to is
Speaker 1: it's important to know people's love language. You guys know
Speaker 1: about the five love languages. If you don't, Yeah, if
Speaker 1: you guys don't, I really suggest.
Speaker 2: That you read the book and that you If.
Speaker 1: You guys haven't read it, I suggest that you do
Speaker 1: because it's going to help you in your life, especially
Speaker 1: with like your family members is knowing how they like
Speaker 1: to be loved. And I always say this on my
Speaker 1: podcast all the time. I feel like I say way
Speaker 1: too much, but it's the truth. You can tell anyone
Speaker 1: anything that's on your mind and what you feel. It's
Speaker 1: how you deliver your message. It's how you tell the person.
Speaker 2: I don't like this.
Speaker 1: This really hurts my feelings and I've learned this with therapy.
Speaker 1: I'm a huge advocate for therapy. I love therapy, you guys,
Speaker 1: It's helped me, like just survive. So it's how you
Speaker 1: tell them, hey, this is hurting my feelings. This is
Speaker 1: what I feel when you attack someone and you're like
Speaker 1: you did this?
Speaker 2: No, it's hey, did you do this?
Speaker 1: Asking a question instead of assuming and attacking changes everything.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. It's a little different for me
Speaker 1: because I'm the eldest. So I'm very like motherly with
Speaker 1: my siblings and I've learned not to be because they
Speaker 1: want me to be less of a mom and more
Speaker 1: of a sister. So that's been a little bit of
Speaker 1: a challenge for me. But it's more of like I
Speaker 1: always hey, how are you feeling, how's your day? How
Speaker 1: can I help you? How can I make your day better?
Speaker 1: Like I think it's just little by little learning how
Speaker 1: your sister Lucy right, yes, Lucy, How your sister likes
Speaker 1: to be loved, and how she likes to be talked to.
Speaker 1: If speaking face to face doesn't work, I always suggest this,
Speaker 1: write a letter sometimes text messaging. Gotta be careful with that.
Speaker 1: I love voice notes. I love voice notes.
Speaker 2: You, guys. I am the voice note queen.
Speaker 1: Because I want people to hear my intention behind what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say, because sometimes when I write, it
Speaker 1: could sound a little like to direct but write a
Speaker 1: love letter, Lucy, tell your sister you know what, hey,
Speaker 1: I want us to have a better relationship.
Speaker 2: How can we do this?
Speaker 1: What can I do better to make you feel more
Speaker 1: safe to speak to me? So that is my suggestion.
Speaker 1: Was that some good advice or no?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, because yeah, it's like you got.
Speaker 1: To learn all of us like to be loved differently.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm words of affirmation. I need you to
Speaker 1: tell me every day that you love me.
Speaker 2: I know, and I'm not a toxica you guys anymore.
Speaker 2: You could say it, but I can't. But I love you.
Speaker 2: I love you so much. Okay, cool, all right, let's
Speaker 2: go to the next one. Let's do it. Martinez back there?
Speaker 2: How am I doing? Okay? Thank you so much? Thank you.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: All right, Christian, what's your favorite memory of recording The
Speaker 1: Rivera's reality show? Would you do a reality show again?
Speaker 1: I miss you boy, honestly. Okay, we've been offered reality
Speaker 1: shows quite a bit since we stopped, and the reason
Speaker 1: because I was an executive producer on the reality show.
Speaker 1: The reason I decided for us not to continue was
Speaker 1: because I felt like it was starting issues with my siblings,
Speaker 1: and I made my mom and I made myself a
Speaker 1: promise that I was going to try my very best
Speaker 1: to keep my siblings and I united, because that was
Speaker 1: like her biggest thing.
Speaker 2: Would say it all the time.
Speaker 1: So I said, no amount of money, no amount of fame,
Speaker 1: no amount of is gonna get between my siblings and I.
Speaker 1: And they were frustrated, and it had been ten years
Speaker 1: of reality you guys.
Speaker 2: But my favorite part of doing the.
Speaker 1: Reality show was precisely that spending time with my siblings,
Speaker 1: like seeing them all the time doing fun things that
Speaker 1: we normally wouldn't do. And thanks to the reality show,
Speaker 1: we were able to do so many things. I'm so grateful,
Speaker 1: like it's something that changed our life. I have those
Speaker 1: clips with I Love Jenny to go back and hear
Speaker 1: my mom's voice, you know, and relive, and I think
Speaker 1: it's such a blessing. So I can't knock reality. That's
Speaker 1: how I basically started, you know, I started with cheeks
Speaker 1: and roxy and that's how I kind of developed my career.
Speaker 1: I've thought about it, but for sure, i'd have to
Speaker 1: be still an executive producer on it because I gotta
Speaker 1: have some control of the content. You feel me to
Speaker 1: make sure that there's no issues. But that was my
Speaker 1: favorite memory and I missed that. I mean because everyone's
Speaker 1: so busy. My siblings are so busy now. Everyone's doing
Speaker 1: their things. They're all grown. They think they're so grown.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, whatever, you don't have time for me.
Speaker 1: So that's really hard for me, you guys, As a
Speaker 1: big sister, I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, oh yes, but they do.
Speaker 1: Like Jackie and and Mike Johnny are out in Mexico
Speaker 1: City doing all kinds of promo and I'm watching them
Speaker 1: on TikTok and everything. It's like, those are my babies,
Speaker 1: but they're not babies anymore. I'm being good on this.
Speaker 1: So Christian, thank you for your question. Now you make
Speaker 1: me all emotional. I'm so emotional today, you guys, I
Speaker 1: don't know is there a full moon? Because I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm always like Yoslovia nothin'. I'm a cancer. So I
Speaker 1: was like, I was about to say I'm a Christian
Speaker 1: because her his name, but I'm a cancer. So I'm
Speaker 1: just like, oh my god, is the moon? What's going
Speaker 1: on with the moon? Is it like the retrograde?
Speaker 2: I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: But if I cry today, you guys just just understand. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's see, Emily. So, my best friend is getting married,
Speaker 1: and even though I'm happy for her, I'm a little jealous.
Speaker 1: Thank you for being honest. I'm forty five and I'm
Speaker 1: still single. I think I'm gonna cry. Hold on, I
Speaker 1: can't help but think I'll never find my husband. Do
Speaker 1: you have any advice on how I can deal with this?
Speaker 2: My heart?
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, it's not just me, mama. It doesn't matter
Speaker 1: how old you are, forty five, fifty twenty five. The
Speaker 1: person that is meant to come into your life is
Speaker 1: going to come into your life.
Speaker 2: At whatever age. I think what you should do. My
Speaker 2: suggestion to you.
Speaker 1: Emily is I think you have to pray. I'm a
Speaker 1: praying type of person. If that's not your thing, then meditate,
Speaker 1: you know, just something where you're kind of like, let
Speaker 1: me release these feelings of jealousy, because that's going to
Speaker 1: block you from the universe giving you in attracting what
Speaker 1: you want. So I would suggest that you write a
Speaker 1: letter and just say I forgive myself for feeling jealous.
Speaker 1: I'm happy for my friend. Everything that you feel, all
Speaker 1: those feelings, they're all valid and we understand them, but
Speaker 1: you got to release them. You either got to burn
Speaker 1: the paper or you know, bury it or throw it
Speaker 1: in the ocean. But we don't want to pollute the ocean,
Speaker 1: so maybe not that. So yeah, scratch that, but bury
Speaker 1: it or something and and release it. Once you do that,
Speaker 1: then you write another letter and say, Okay, Dear God,
Speaker 1: universepe san Huda's whoever you pray to, and you just say,
Speaker 1: I would love for you to send me a man
Speaker 1: like this, whatever it is, no kids or kids or
Speaker 1: married or whatever kind of man. Don't even if you
Speaker 1: say I want it, soles anything, anything, And you write
Speaker 1: it and you just really concentrate on that letter and
Speaker 1: have faith that you you will find a man that's
Speaker 1: gonna love you for you. I think the most important
Speaker 1: thing in that letter is a person that's going to
Speaker 1: love me and value me for who I am, and
Speaker 1: it is going to be faithful to me, and it's
Speaker 1: gonna love me very much and unconditionally. I think all
Speaker 1: that is very important. I stop saying, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I want a tall guy and I want him to
Speaker 1: have this and that. Now I'm like, I just want
Speaker 1: someone that's gonna treat me right. As you get older,
Speaker 1: I just feel like you start realizing what's really important,
Speaker 1: like like all that, it'll come.
Speaker 2: You guys can figure it.
Speaker 1: Out as long as he loves you, Emily, Okay. So
Speaker 1: that's my suggestion and it's worked for me, and that's
Speaker 1: where we're gonna leave it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So also, oh wait, very important thing you, guys. In
Speaker 1: order for you to attract the person that you want,
Speaker 1: you should also try becoming not trying work every day
Speaker 1: towards becoming that person and that you want to attract.
Speaker 1: You can't just be asking for a person that's faithful
Speaker 1: and this and this and that and then you're not.
Speaker 1: You have to also be like, Okay, well I want
Speaker 1: to be a reflection of what I'm looking for. That's
Speaker 1: also very important. Work on yourself and make sure that
Speaker 1: you're also ready internally and mentally emotionally healthy to receive
Speaker 1: what God's going to send you with the universe is
Speaker 1: going to send you. That's that's another thing. And I
Speaker 1: had to learn that the hard way because I thought
Speaker 1: it was perfect and then I realized that I wasn't
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh okay, I still have a
Speaker 1: lot to learn. And that's why I'm telling you guys.
Speaker 1: You guys before it was like you gave me reasons
Speaker 1: to be Toxica, and I was like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to be like that anymore. So I'm gonna change my
Speaker 1: ways and I'm just going to be confident in who
Speaker 1: I am and what I have to bring to the
Speaker 1: table because I have a whole lot to bring to
Speaker 1: the table. And you're gonna be sorry if you ever
Speaker 1: do anything wrong to me. And then you're just like,
Speaker 1: you know what, whatever, If you're going to do some
Speaker 1: dumb things, you're gonna regret it.
Speaker 2: Yes or no? Okay? Pieriad it? Okay? Can I have
Speaker 2: someone else read me a question? Or no? Okay? Hi Jessica, Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, let's see.
Speaker 4: Yes, you gotta put a long one, Paola, Olah. You
Speaker 4: have such great skin, and I want to level up
Speaker 4: my skincare. Where do you recommend I start? Is there
Speaker 4: a morning and nighttime routine that I should follow? Right now,
Speaker 4: I just wash my face and call it a day,
Speaker 4: but I want to glow.
Speaker 2: Love that for us.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Mama, Sita, Oh, thank you baby.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's start off by saying, go to beeflows
Speaker 1: dot com.
Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying now. I've had my skincare for
Speaker 2: a lot of years. Seven years, I think it is.
Speaker 1: And I've loved skincare since I was sixteen years old,
Speaker 1: So that's where my passion comes from.
Speaker 2: No one taught me that. It's just something that I love.
Speaker 1: And I think the biggest advice that I can give you, ladies, please,
Speaker 1: even guys that were makeup, take off your makeup every night,
Speaker 1: even if you're drunk, even if it's four in the morning.
Speaker 1: Please take off your makeup, even if you're half a sleep.
Speaker 1: That's how you gonna makeup, mas Kita, take it off.
Speaker 1: I heard once that when we sleep with our makeup on,
Speaker 1: we age twenty nine days in a night, twenty nine days.
Speaker 1: I don't know about you, guys, but I'm trying to
Speaker 1: age as gracefully as possible, and I do botox and
Speaker 1: everything I love. I'm I'm not gonna even lie. I
Speaker 1: love both talks. I love fillers, that's my thing. But
Speaker 1: I do it cute, not like crazy, but I like it.
Speaker 1: And I love skincare, but is them obviously. Drink water
Speaker 1: and use good skincare. Okay, Washing your face morning and
Speaker 1: night anywhere from thirty to sixty seconds is very important.
Speaker 2: Use a toner.
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't use a tooner. Make sure
Speaker 1: that it's alcohol free. Mine is alcohol free. Okay, revitalizing toner.
Speaker 1: And use SPF. That is the biggest advice men and women.
Speaker 1: Use SPF.
Speaker 2: Please.
Speaker 1: It's the biggest thing for your body and for your
Speaker 1: face is especially and as Latinos we tend to get
Speaker 1: a lot more sunspots and hyperbigmentation. So I would highly
Speaker 1: suggest a very good SPF and I have an amazing
Speaker 1: one at Beitholiskin dot com. It's called I have a
Speaker 1: tinted one and I have a regular one and it's
Speaker 1: called Go and Protect thirty SPF thirty and I if.
Speaker 2: You want, it's a great one.
Speaker 1: Has vitamin C in there, so it's gonna help with
Speaker 1: all that. But that's my suggestion to you. Babe Baola, thank.
Speaker 2: You for pulling that question. I didn't even do it.
Speaker 2: It was it was the Lord.
Speaker 1: So let's speak a few We have a few more minutes.
Speaker 1: You guys to talk and shit chat here and no, okay, good.
Speaker 1: I don't want you guys to be born.
Speaker 2: No sure, I love you dude, Il Agustina and Naki
Speaker 2: holy I, Lagustine Richard, none.
Speaker 1: Of the gad I wo see as a paparazzi. You
Speaker 1: guys just putting it out there. I got a long one, Okay,
Speaker 1: I guess I'm gonna read it, Alejandro Cheeky's I need
Speaker 1: your advice. My girlfriend loves to dance, and whenever we're
Speaker 1: at party, she wants to hit the dance floor.
Speaker 2: But I'm not a good dancer. I get so nervous.
Speaker 1: I can see how disappointed she gets when I say, no, help,
Speaker 1: What should I do? I'm considering dancing lessons, but I'm embarrassed.
Speaker 1: Alejandro Baba. The fact that you're asking this means that
Speaker 1: you care, and I think that you should definitely do
Speaker 1: it and do not let embarrassment stop you. Okay, do
Speaker 1: it with fear, do it with embarrassment. If you want
Speaker 1: to learn for your girl, I think you should because
Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend once.
Speaker 2: That didn't dance.
Speaker 1: He didn't even try, And honestly, I love to dance.
Speaker 1: I love to hit the dance floor like your girl,
Speaker 1: And it was really difficult to find someone that's not
Speaker 1: even willing to like dance. And then if you went
Speaker 1: to go dance without him, he to get upset. So, Alejandro,
Speaker 1: take those dancing lessons. Go on YouTube that me in.
Speaker 1: I'm sure they can teach you the cha cha and
Speaker 1: then just do the you know, do the two step
Speaker 1: at least, you know, like dance like a chollo something right.
Speaker 1: I'll go put on way with it and go out
Speaker 1: there with your girl if that's what she likes to do.
Speaker 2: If not, let her be. But you know that was cute.
Speaker 2: That was so cute. That was so cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks guys.
Speaker 2: You guys are so sweet. Also a long one.
Speaker 1: Here read it for me, Rna where you want to
Speaker 1: read it? Okay, sorry, Mura'm gonna give you working out princess. Okay,
Speaker 1: here read it for me, Mama.
Speaker 5: I've been trying to become a morning person so I
Speaker 5: can make the most of my days. I feel like
Speaker 5: people are so much more productive in the mornings, and
Speaker 5: so I've been trying to wake up at five am
Speaker 5: so that I can start my day with a workout
Speaker 5: and take care of myself before I have to start working.
Speaker 5: It's been super challenging and I'm and so I'm wondering
Speaker 5: if you have any tips on staying motivated or disciplined.
Speaker 1: Thank you good Okay, thank you for reading that for me. Okay, So,
Speaker 1: have you guys heard of the book called The Five
Speaker 1: Am Club by any chance?
Speaker 2: Okay? I tried it. Let me tell you. It's tough.
Speaker 1: So, Lulu, I think the fact that you I think
Speaker 1: you just have to be patient. You have to be
Speaker 1: patient with yourself. Maybe start off slow, tell yourself, okay,
Speaker 1: out of the week, I'm gonna wake up twice a
Speaker 1: week at five am and ease your way into it.
Speaker 1: Because if you do it, I see it, you know,
Speaker 1: like the repenthe I wanted to say another word, but
Speaker 1: I see the repente. You're going to tie. It's gonna
Speaker 1: be You're gonna get tired. So I would suggest just
Speaker 1: kind of easing your way into getting up at five
Speaker 1: in the morning. But I will tell you my mom
Speaker 1: was that woman that would wake up at five in
Speaker 1: the morning, even if she fell asleep at two. And
Speaker 1: I don't know how she did it, but this was
Speaker 1: her in the morning.
Speaker 2: Come mom, wake up and I'm like, how is she?
Speaker 2: Why is she ups? I'm like, she just fell asleep.
Speaker 1: So it's just like, you do get more out of
Speaker 1: your day waking up early, getting your workout in. I
Speaker 1: am a huge again advocate for working out and making
Speaker 1: yourself feel good. But ease your way into it. There's
Speaker 1: no reason to run. You could just take baby steps,
Speaker 1: little by little. And I think that's like my biggest
Speaker 1: advice because I tried it, and I will tell you
Speaker 1: around seven o'clock, I was yawning and I can't, like,
Speaker 1: I just Richard has me doing all kinds of things,
Speaker 1: like he wants me to do videos and he wants
Speaker 1: me to do this, and he wants me to do interviews,
Speaker 1: and it's just like, you know, where is he? I
Speaker 1: don't know. He probably left because he's like I'm embarrassing him.
Speaker 1: But you know, I think it's awesome to wake up
Speaker 1: that early, bittless, you know. So you just got to
Speaker 1: take it easy, little by little, and then you know,
Speaker 1: you work your way up. Okay, ooh little one. Okay, Angelica,
Speaker 1: what's your favorite song to perform live? Okay, so my
Speaker 1: favorite song to perform live would have to be ooh,
Speaker 1: I have.
Speaker 2: So many of you guys.
Speaker 1: Just one, okay, honestly, that's like my favorite right now.
Speaker 2: And thank you, guys, Thank you so much. It's the yes.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for being here. Thank you
Speaker 1: for taking the time to listen to us, to be
Speaker 1: fans of Michael Tura, because if you're here, you're fans
Speaker 1: of Michael Dura.
Speaker 2: Thank you to.
Speaker 1: My Michael Tura team, to Kellogg's, to the Super Secret
Speaker 1: Bestie Club. Honestly, I'm so happy to be here and
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful, and this is the end of my time,
Speaker 1: but I want to say thank you so much.
Speaker 2: Oh you have there're those for me.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. I don't have flowers, guys. You
Speaker 1: know I love flowers. Thank you, my love, thank you.
Speaker 1: I appreciate give me a kiss, thank you. I mean
Speaker 1: it doesn't stand with Floris you guys, guys, I'm a
Speaker 1: sucker for flowers. I love love, so you know you guys,
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I love you guys. A round
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Speaker 4: Thank you.
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