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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, and welcome to a very special episode of

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Speaker 1: Cheeky's and Chill. Today we're bringing you an episode we

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Speaker 1: recorded live at the iHeartRadio Theater in Burbank. I answered

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Speaker 1: a ton of questions in front of a live audience,

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Speaker 1: and I had a really, really great time celebrating two

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Speaker 1: years of the Michael Dura Podcast Network. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much to everyone who came out and spent the evening

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Speaker 1: with me. I had so much fun hanging out with

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Speaker 1: you guys in person. Alrighty, let's get into this episode.

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Speaker 1: This is Cheeky's and Chill.

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Speaker 2: What up, guys? Hi for guess Hi? What's up?

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Speaker 1: Come on?

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Speaker 2: You know I had to bring my bulling cup too.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Come on then, all right,

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Speaker 2: let's do this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hi, Oh my god, I see some familiar faces.

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Speaker 2: Stop it right now. I'm so excited. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you guys listen to Cheekys and Chill. Dear cheekis

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Speaker 2: you better? Okay, Well, let's start. Let's do this.

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Speaker 1: You guys ready? All right, here we go. Question number

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Speaker 1: one this is from Destiny. I love your podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Destiny. I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: So you're not super fan grass yas for representing us.

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Speaker 1: My question, when you're not working, what's your favorite way

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Speaker 1: to unwind? Ooh, when I'm not working. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why this is harder to do right now for me

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Speaker 1: to think, maybe because you guys are here. But when

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Speaker 1: I'm not working, what I like to do is really chill,

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Speaker 1: is stay at home. I like to wash clothes. Believe

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Speaker 1: it or not, I'm not lying. When I'm not working,

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Speaker 1: I like to do normal things, wash my clothes, go

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Speaker 1: grocery shopping, clean the house, all that stuff. Ful feels

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Speaker 1: me so much like I need a to like that

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Speaker 1: at least once a week, where I could just tend

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Speaker 1: the rest of the week. So that's honestly what I do.

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Speaker 1: I like to go now to the beach. Now that

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie that I've lost a little bit

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Speaker 2: I like the sun now.

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Speaker 1: And because I was like, oh, you know, I was

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Speaker 1: covered up and stuff. Now I'm like, what's up? So

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Speaker 1: I like doing that now, taking little walks and hiking.

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Speaker 1: I love to hike. So that's what I do when

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Speaker 1: I don't work. Thank you Destiny for your question. Girl. Okay,

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Speaker 1: is it hotter or am I just nervous? I'm nervous?

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Speaker 1: Are you cold?

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Speaker 2: Baby? You guys are so pretty? Everyone Hi, okay from Jessica.

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Speaker 1: All right, I've noticed you're always rooting for your friends

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Speaker 1: and family. How do you manage to always be happy

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Speaker 1: when your brothers and sisters succeed without feeling a little jealous?

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not a jealous person, especially with

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Speaker 1: my siblings.

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Speaker 2: They're like my kids, you guys, I raise them. I'm happy.

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Speaker 1: I feel like Il Bartolos, the sun is big enough

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Speaker 1: to shine for all of us, yes or no. So

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Speaker 1: I just feel like I know what I bring to

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Speaker 1: other people do, and I embrace people and I celebrate

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Speaker 1: them like jealousy is not gonna get me anywhere, especially

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Speaker 1: with my siblings. When I see my sister doing her thing,

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Speaker 1: Jackie now she's the CEO of Jenny Rivera Enterprises, shout.

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Speaker 2: Out to her.

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Speaker 1: I see him, like, I'm such a proud sister, Like

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Speaker 1: Jennica's thriving, she has over comfort, she has her podcast

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Speaker 1: now on Mike Gula you guys, and I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: I feel proud because I know that I had something

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Speaker 1: Are you guys enjoying this so far?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, never mind, I was not gonna say

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Speaker 1: Kellogg's I love you all right from Tony with an

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Speaker 2: On date night at home? Huh?

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Speaker 1: He loves pasta, so I like to cook fettuccini alfredo

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Speaker 1: and I make fettuccini the sauce from scratch. Okay, not

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Speaker 1: Tony with an eye, thank you so much. I wonder

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, dude, I think I'm going way too

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Speaker 1: fast here, twenty minutes here, Okay, so I'm gonna slow down. Cindy,

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Speaker 1: do you believe a woman can really have it all?

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Speaker 1: Or do some parts of your life suffer when you're

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Speaker 1: trying to achieve too much? Ooh is a good question,

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Speaker 1: taking care of what I think truly matters. Obviously, work

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Speaker 1: is important, because money's important because we've got to buy

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Speaker 1: can't forget what's important. I think balance is huge. You

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Speaker 1: have to find time for yourself, whatever that means, whatever

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Speaker 1: it is that makes you happy. You can definitely have

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Speaker 1: it all. It's just really realizing. Okay, let me set

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Speaker 1: to read a book, to work out whatever, it is.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna make your soul feel better. And now I

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Speaker 1: still struggle. I'm not gonna lie. I still struggle with

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Speaker 1: finding the balance. Sometimes I feel like, Okay, I'm working

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Speaker 1: too much or I'm having too much fun. These past

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I need to be home.

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Speaker 1: I need to work a little more because since June

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Speaker 1: So it's really a balance on both ends. So you

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Speaker 1: can definitely have it all. It's just having your heart

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Speaker 1: in the right place first and foremost. Know what's important

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Speaker 1: to you. That is the most important thing, like your values.

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Speaker 1: Do not lose your values in trying to chase money.

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Speaker 1: Signs you, guys, please please, Because people say money is

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Speaker 1: the root of all evil, That's not true. The love

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Speaker 1: love money more than your morals and your values, your

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Speaker 1: priorities aren't straight. That's all I'm saying, yes or no.

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Speaker 1: Can I get an Applaus for that? Y'all better start clapping. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Let me drink some waters. I wa I

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Speaker 2: See, like my chicks are a little like rosy.

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Speaker 1: It's because I feel happy.

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Speaker 2: But I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'm good. Okay, it's his water. Just sell, I promise

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Speaker 1: that is you know. You guys know yourself. I don't

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Speaker 1: know where she's at, but where Hija Sell? And it's

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Speaker 1: Richard Bull, my manager over there.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Where's Pablo? Is that Pablo? That's okay? So

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Speaker 2: Pablo is the producer.

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Speaker 1: One of the producers of Cheekies and Chill and der

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Speaker 1: Cheekis And I just met him for the first time.

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Speaker 1: Oh and Brianna too, Hi, Brianna, I just met them

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Speaker 1: for the first time. But I let keepo for my

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Speaker 1: wonderful team over there. Okay, Am I doing good? Everything's

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Speaker 2: So Brian, Oh, Brian b r y a n oh,

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Speaker 2: It's just like different, you know. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm an aspiring singer based in LA and I'm looking

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Speaker 1: for a manager or management team.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Where to start. What should I look for in a

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Speaker 2: Talking about my manager.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, it's hard to find a good manager.

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Speaker 1: I've I'm just gonna be honest, I've been I've had

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Speaker 2: And it's not just because he's here.

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Speaker 1: I call him my Dadager, So if you guys follow

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Speaker 1: me on social media, he's like my dadager. I think

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Speaker 1: the most important thing is finding someone that is excited

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Speaker 1: Because if they're just there for the money, it's maybe, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna get you a lot of money, but is

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Speaker 1: So I someone that's really passionate and is like your

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Speaker 1: But I had to go and kiss a few frogs

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Speaker 1: in order to get to that. But not that my

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Speaker 1: But Dane, they're wonderful. It's just we it just wasn't

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It didn't you know, But

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Speaker 2: Like it's not just them.

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Speaker 1: I also had to learn and mature and say, okay, well,

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Speaker 1: You have to be also open to what they suggest

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Speaker 1: and they know more than you. And you have to

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Speaker 1: trust your manager. And I learned that I did, right,

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Speaker 1: I'm better now. Thank you, Yeah, thank you, mister boll

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Speaker 1: because you well, the thing is is like there's a

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Speaker 1: are like, oh, boss, it you got to tell them

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Speaker 1: what to do and point the fingers. And it's not

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Speaker 1: he's kind of like my boss. Don't tell him I

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Speaker 1: said that, but he's kind of like my boss. So

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Speaker 1: I have to also just say, okay, whatever you think, Richard,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna follow you. I'm gonna trust you. You

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Speaker 1: have to trust your team. Without a team, they're your foundation.

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Speaker 1: Without them, you fall, So you have to trust uh, Brian, Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, I should have one of you guys pick

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Speaker 2: No, don't you think? Okay, who should I pick? I'm

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Speaker 2: my jackie.

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Speaker 1: Ye oh, come here, mama, pick one for me. I

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Speaker 1: want to see what I gotta do here? Can you

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Speaker 1: read it for me too?

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Speaker 2: Oh? That's a long one, y'all read it?

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Speaker 1: Sure?

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Speaker 3: Okay, it says it's from Ricardo. My girlfriend is constantly

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Speaker 3: going through my cell phone. I've never given her a

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Speaker 3: reason not to trust me, so I'm not sure why

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Speaker 3: she acts like this. This has been an issue for

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Speaker 3: us for the last year. We've been together for two years,

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Speaker 1: So it's how you tell them, hey, this is hurting

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Speaker 1: All right, Christian, what's your favorite memory of recording The

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Speaker 1: gonna love me very much and unconditionally. I think all

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Speaker 1: that is very important. I stop saying, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I want a tall guy and I want him to

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Speaker 1: have this and that. Now I'm like, I just want

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Speaker 1: someone that's gonna treat me right. As you get older,

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Speaker 1: I just feel like you start realizing what's really important,

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Speaker 1: like like all.

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Speaker 2: That, it'll come.

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Speaker 1: You guys can figure it out as long as he

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Speaker 1: loves you, Emily, Okay. So that's my suggestion and it's

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Speaker 1: worked for me, and that's where we're gonna leave it.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So also, oh wait, very important thing you, guys. In

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Speaker 1: order for you to attract the person that you want,

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Speaker 1: you should also try becoming not trying work every day

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Speaker 1: towards becoming that person and that you want to attract.

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Speaker 1: You can't just be asking for a person that's faithful

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Speaker 1: and this and this and that and then you're not.

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Speaker 1: You have to also be like, Okay, well I want

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Speaker 1: to be a reflection of what I'm looking for. That's

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Speaker 1: also very important. Work on yourself and make sure that

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Speaker 1: you're also ready internally and mentally emotionally healthy to receive

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Speaker 1: what God's going to send you with the universe is

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Speaker 1: going to send you. That's that's another thing. And I

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Speaker 1: had to learn that the hard way because I thought

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Speaker 1: it was perfect and then I realized that I wasn't

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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh okay, I still have a

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Speaker 1: lot to learn. And that's why I'm telling you guys.

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Speaker 1: You guys before it was like you gave me reasons

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Speaker 1: to be Toxica, and I was like, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to be like that anymore. So I'm gonna change my

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Speaker 1: I am and what I have to bring to the table,

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Speaker 1: because I have a whole lot to bring to the table.

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Speaker 1: And you're gonna be sorry if you ever do anything

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Speaker 1: wrong to me. And then you're just like, you know what, whatever,

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Speaker 1: If you're going to do some dumb things, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: regret it.

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Speaker 2: Yes or no? Okay? Pieriad it? Okay? Can I have

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Speaker 2: someone else read me a question?

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Speaker 3: Or no?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Hi Jessica, Okay, all right, let's see.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you gotta put a long one, Paola, Olah. You

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Speaker 4: have such great skin, and I want to level up

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Speaker 4: my skincare. Where do you recommend I start? Is there

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Speaker 4: a morning and nighttime routine that I should follow? Right now?

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Speaker 4: I just wash my face and call it a day,

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Speaker 4: but I want to glow.

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Speaker 2: Love that for us.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Mama, Sita, Oh, thank you baby.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's start off by saying, go to beeflows

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying.

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Speaker 1: Now, I've had my skincare for a lot of years,

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Speaker 1: seven years, I think it is. And I've loved skincare

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Speaker 1: since I was sixteen years old, So that's where my

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Speaker 1: passion comes from.

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Speaker 2: No one taught me that. It's just something that I love.

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Speaker 1: And I think the biggest advice that I can give you, ladies, Please,

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Speaker 1: even guys that were makeup, take off your makeup every night,

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Speaker 1: even if you're drunk, even if it's four in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Please take off your makeup, even if you're half a sleep.

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Speaker 1: That's how you gonna makeup, mas Kita, take it off.

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Speaker 1: I heard once that when we sleep with our makeup on,

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Speaker 1: we age twenty nine days in a night, twenty nine days.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about you, guys, but I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: age as gracefully as possible, and I do botox and

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Speaker 1: everything I love. I'm I'm not gonna even lie. I

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Speaker 1: love both talks. I love fillers. That's my thing. But

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Speaker 1: I do it cute, not like crazy, but I like it.

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Speaker 1: And I love skincare, but is them obviously. Drink water

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Speaker 1: and use good skincare.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Washing your face morning and night anywhere from thirty to

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Speaker 1: sixty seconds is very important.

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Speaker 2: Use a toner.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people don't use a tooner. Make sure

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Speaker 1: that it's alcohol free. Mine is alcohol free. Okay, revitalizing toner.

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Speaker 1: And use SPF. That is the biggest advice men and women.

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Speaker 1: Use SPF please. It's the biggest thing for your body

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Speaker 1: and for your face is especially and as Latinos we

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Speaker 1: tend to get a lot more sunspots and hyperbigmentation. So

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Speaker 1: I would highly suggest a very good.

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Speaker 2: SPF.

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Speaker 1: And I have an amazing one at Beitholiskin dot com.

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Speaker 1: It's called I have a tinted one and I have

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Speaker 1: a regular one and it's called Go and Protect thirty

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Speaker 1: SPF thirty and I if.

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Speaker 2: You want, it's a great one.

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Speaker 1: Has vitamin C in there, so it's gonna help with

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Speaker 1: all that. But that's my suggestion to you, Babe Baola, thank.

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Speaker 2: You for pulling that question.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even do it. It was it was the

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Speaker 1: Lord so let's speak a few We have a few

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Speaker 1: more minutes. You guys to talk and shit chat here

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Speaker 1: and no, okay, good. I don't want you guys to

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Speaker 1: be born.

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Speaker 2: No, sure, I love you dude, Il Agustina and.

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Speaker 1: Laki holy I, Lagustine Richard, none of the gad I

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Speaker 1: wo see as a paparazzi. You guys just putting it

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Speaker 1: out there. I got a long one, Okay, I guess

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna read it. Alejandro Cheeky's I need your advice.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend loves to dance, and whenever we're at party,

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Speaker 1: she wants to hit the dance floor.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not a good dancer. I get so nervous.

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Speaker 1: I can see how disappointed she gets when I say, no, help,

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Speaker 1: what should I do? I'm considering dancing lessons, but I'm embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: Alejandro Baba. The fact that you're asking this means that

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Speaker 1: you care, and I think that you should definitely do

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Speaker 1: it and do not let embarrassment stop you. Okay, do

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Speaker 1: it with fear, do it with embarrassment. If you want

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Speaker 1: to learn for your girl, I think you should because

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Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend once.

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Speaker 2: That didn't dance.

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Speaker 1: He didn't even try and honestly, I love to dance.

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Speaker 1: I love to hit the dance floor like your girl.

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Speaker 1: And it was really difficult to find someone that's not

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Speaker 1: even willing to like dance, and then if you went

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Speaker 1: to go dance without him, he to get upset. So Alejandro,

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Speaker 1: take those dancing lessons. Go on YouTube that me in.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure they can teach you the cha cha and

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Speaker 1: then just do the you know, do the two step

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Speaker 1: at least, you know, like dance like a chollo something right,

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Speaker 1: I'll go put on way with it and go out

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Speaker 1: there with your girl if that's what she likes to do.

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Speaker 1: If not, let her be. But you know that was cute.

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Speaker 1: That was so cute. That was so cute. Yeah, thanks guys.

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Speaker 2: You guys are so sweet. Also, long one.

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Speaker 1: Here read it for me, Rna where you want to

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Speaker 1: read it? Okay, sorry, Mura'm gonna give you working out princess. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here read it for me, Mama.

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Speaker 5: I've been trying to become a morning person so I

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Speaker 5: can make the most of my days. I feel like

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Speaker 5: people are so much more productive in the mornings, and

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Speaker 5: so I've been trying to wake up at five am

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Speaker 5: so that i can start my day with a workout

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Speaker 5: and take care of myself before I have to start working.

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Speaker 5: It's been super challenging and I'm and so I'm wondering

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Speaker 5: if you have any tips on staying motivated or disciplined.

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Speaker 1: Thank you good Okay, thank you for reading that for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So have you guys heard of the book called The

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Speaker 1: Five Am Club by any chance?

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Speaker 2: Okay? I tried it. Let me tell you. It's tough.

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Speaker 1: So, Lulu, I think the fact that you I think

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Speaker 1: you just have to be patient. You have to be

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Speaker 1: patient with yourself. Maybe start off slow, tell yourself, okay,

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Speaker 1: out of the week, I'm gonna wake up twice a

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Speaker 1: week at five am and ease your way into it.

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Speaker 1: Because if you do it, I see it, you know,

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Speaker 1: like the repenthe I wanted to say another word, but

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Speaker 1: I see the repente. You're going to tie. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: be You're gonna get tired. So I would suggest just

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Speaker 1: kind of easing your way into getting up at five

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Speaker 1: in the morning. But I will tell you my mom

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Speaker 1: was that woman that would wake up at five in

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Speaker 1: the morning, even if she fell asleep at two. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know how she did it, but this was

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Speaker 1: her in the morning, come mom, wake up, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: how is she?

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Speaker 2: Why is she ups? I'm like, she just fell asleep.

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Speaker 1: So it's just like, you do get more out of

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Speaker 1: your day waking up early, getting your workout in. I

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Speaker 1: am a huge again advocate for working out and making

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Speaker 1: yourself feel good. But ease your way into it. There's

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Speaker 1: no reason to run. You could just take baby steps,

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Speaker 1: little by little, And I think that's like my biggest

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Speaker 1: advice because I tried it, and I will tell you

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Speaker 1: around seven o'clock, I was yawning and I can't, like

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Speaker 1: I just Richard has me doing all kinds of things,

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Speaker 1: like he wants me to do videos and he wants

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Speaker 1: me to do this, and he wants me to do interviews,

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Speaker 1: and it's just like, you know, where is he?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: He probably left because he's like I'm embarrassing him. But

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Speaker 1: you know, I think it's awesome to wake up that early,

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Speaker 1: bitt sis. You know, so you just got to take

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Speaker 1: it easy, little by little, and then you know you

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Speaker 1: work your way up. Okay, ooh little one. Okay, Angelica,

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Speaker 1: what's your favorite song to perform live? Okay, so, my

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Speaker 1: favorite song to perform live would have to be ooh,

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Speaker 1: I have so many of you guys, just one okay, honestly,

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Speaker 1: that's like my favorite right now. And thank you, guys,

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: It's the yes.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for being here. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for taking the time to listen to us, to be

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Speaker 1: fans of Michael Tura, because if you're here, you're fans

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Speaker 1: of Michael Dura.

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Speaker 1: My Michael Tura team, to Kellogg's, to the Super Secret

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Speaker 1: Bestie Club. Honestly, I'm so happy to be here and

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Speaker 1: I'm so grateful and this is the end of my time,

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Speaker 1: but I want to say thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Oh you have there're those for me. Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I don't have flowers, guys. You know I love flowers.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, my love, thank you. I appreciate give me

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Speaker 2: a kiss, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I mean it doesn't stand with Floris you guys, guys,

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Speaker 1: I'm a sucker for flowers. I love love, so you

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Speaker 1: know you guys, Thank you so much. I love you guys.

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