1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 4: Don't given them. 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 5: A million bus bush Yeah, listening to. 6 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 3: Show up. 7 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:38,959 Speaker 6: I don't. 8 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 7: Joy Yeah, Joy, you know you. 9 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 8: Love. 10 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 3: You know. 11 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 7: You gotta turn. We got to turn the mouth turn. 12 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 4: You probably got to turn mouth. 13 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: Turn, turn the water of the money. 14 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 7: Looking me come come out? 15 00:01:59,080 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: You think that. 16 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 8: I sure will? Good morning everybody. You are listening to 17 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 8: the voice, Come on, dig me now one and only 18 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 8: Seve Harvey got a radio show, Yeah man, got one. 19 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 2: Hey. 20 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 8: You know, I thought I think of my life in 21 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 8: terms of blessings. You know, I take mostly a positive 22 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 8: approach and a positive spin to my life. I hardly 23 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 8: ever dwell on you know, the what's well. I can't 24 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:31,959 Speaker 8: say that I don't think about the what's wrong in 25 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 8: it because I have to, because I have to address 26 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 8: problems as they arise. But I try not to let 27 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 8: them consume me. I let the consumption part be about 28 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 8: the blessings, the positive things that has occurred in my life, 29 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 8: the good things that God has done for me, the 30 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 8: power that He's displayed in my life, the protection He's 31 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 8: given me over the years, to being tucked under his wings. 32 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 8: I focus on the things that he promises me. I 33 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 8: think of all the goodness that I perceive to come 34 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 8: my way. I think that has a lot to do 35 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 8: with me learning more and more about the law of 36 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 8: attraction in terms of you know, what you think and 37 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 8: what you put out in the space, and what you 38 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 8: pray about is what you receive. You know, and so 39 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 8: I've become better and better at that. It's not to 40 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 8: say that I'm not human and I don't have moments 41 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 8: where I think a little bit too long about what's 42 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 8: going wrong and what enemy is about to attack and 43 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 8: what they're going to do and say and and all 44 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 8: of is his. That's not to say that I'm not 45 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 8: concerned about it. But I try to dwell mostly on 46 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 8: the positive. And one of the things that I learned, 47 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 8: you can have an incredible life, all of us. We 48 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 8: can have incredible lives if we just let God drive. 49 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 2: See. The problem that I had years ago was I 50 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 2: was the driver of my life, and. 51 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 8: I was taking myself in the directions that I thought 52 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 8: would be best for me, and I aimed at things 53 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 8: that I thought I could accomplish, and I set goals 54 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 8: that I saw myself being able to attain I was 55 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,799 Speaker 8: driving when I gave up and I let God drive. 56 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 8: I then opened up my mind and my spirit to 57 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 8: what God had for me, for what God could see 58 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 8: for me, for what God could do in my life. Well, 59 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 8: for what God wanted for me. Now he wanted for me, 60 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 8: and he wanted of me. See, that's the connection that 61 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 8: you got to try to make. Well, not try, that's 62 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 8: the connection that you got to make to really get it. Now, 63 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 8: listen to me. 64 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: What I don't want you to do is do like me. 65 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 8: Don't be afraid of the what for of the what 66 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 8: he wants you to do part see, because that ain't 67 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 8: gonna be nearly as demanding an and as offsetting as 68 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 8: you think it's gonna be. 69 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 2: See. 70 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 8: I thought that if I did God's will, that if 71 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 8: I let God tell me what to do, that it 72 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 8: would cause me to not to be able to do 73 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 8: a certain some things I wanted to do well, which 74 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 8: is true. But the stuff I wanted to do was 75 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 8: all detrimental to my well being and my future and 76 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 8: my growth and development as a man. I was stopping 77 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 8: my own growth as a man because see, I was 78 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 8: doing what I thought I should do as a man. 79 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 8: But when you give it over to God, so God 80 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 8: has a much better plan for you than you can 81 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 8: ever have for yourself. And God knows a better way, 82 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 8: far better than the one you know. I want you 83 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 8: to believe that. Man, You got to understand that part 84 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 8: of it. And that's the part that I finally got 85 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 8: through my head to let God do it his way 86 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 8: and to show me a better way, and to teach 87 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 8: me a better way and expose to me a better way. 88 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 8: And when I opened up my mind to what God 89 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 8: was talking about, I began to see things totally differently. 90 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 8: Things started coming to me totally differently. If you've been 91 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 8: a friend of mine or a fan of mine over 92 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 8: the years, I mean, you've had to see it, the change. 93 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 8: You've had to see the difference. I mean, and I 94 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 8: acknowledge that every chance I get, because I promise God 95 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 8: I would, and I hope that I'm not falling short 96 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 8: in that category. But then again, if I told it 97 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 8: all day long, woul He's done for me, I still 98 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 8: wouldn't have enough time to really explain thoroughly what He's 99 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 8: done for me, because it's such a continuous growth in me. 100 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 8: But now that's not to say that I'm finished or 101 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 8: I'm done or I'm complete, because I'm still shock. 102 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 2: You can't be him. 103 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 8: You can strive for perfection. I hear people saying it 104 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 8: all the time. I applaud you for saying you want 105 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 8: to be perfect, but you ain't and you can't. So 106 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 8: you quit saying it. You quit saying it to me, 107 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 8: quit saying it to other people. I'm seeking a life 108 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 8: of perfection, but it's something that you cannot have because 109 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 8: he said you can't do it. 110 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: But that's what he'd have for. 111 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 8: He'd have for the moments when you stumble and you fall, 112 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 8: and you go stumble and fall. See, you got to 113 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 8: get that part right, man, The stumbling falling part is coming. 114 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 8: But see, you get God in your life and it 115 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 8: helps you so that you don't stumble, fall, wallow, roll, 116 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 8: over lay their languish. 117 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: That's what God is for. So when you stumbling, fall, 118 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: you get back up. 119 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 8: Because you're going to make mistakes, You're going to get 120 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 8: it wrong, You're going to come under attack, You're going 121 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 8: to be lied about, you are going to be falsely accused. 122 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: That's going to happen to you. 123 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 8: The moment you make a decision to do better the 124 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 8: moment you try to be more. The devil got to 125 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 8: send his attackers man, and he controls certain people. He 126 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 8: just got people that's on his side twenty four seven. 127 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 2: You know him too. 128 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 8: You've all met one or two of the men in 129 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 8: your life. They just busy with the business of nothingness. 130 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 8: It's busy about about the destruction of others. You said, 131 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 8: I know them, you know them. They coming. But here's 132 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 8: what you gotta hold fast too. They can't take away 133 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 8: nothing from you that God gave you. They didn't make you. See, 134 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 8: people who claim to have made you, if they so 135 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 8: in to make you business, why don't they make theyself? 136 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 2: Or if they ain't with you no more? 137 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 8: And they so busy in them I made you business, 138 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 8: why don't they make somebody else? Since you want to 139 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 8: get credit for making somebody make yourself. If you're responsible 140 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 8: for someone else's success, then you should easily be able 141 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 8: to take claim and be responsible for your own success. See, 142 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 8: be careful of that, and don't change your course because 143 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 8: somebody is attacking you with that. 144 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,559 Speaker 2: I just hope man, that I'm giving it to God 145 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 2: the way I said I. 146 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 8: Would give it to him, that I would unload every 147 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 8: chance I got that I was supposed to without. 148 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 2: Being, you know, or here he come again? 149 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 9: You know. 150 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 8: I try not to be that, but man, I don't 151 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 8: know what else to be for the first twelve minutes 152 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 8: of my show? What else you want me to say? 153 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 8: I got four hours? I can't give God twelve twelve minutes, man, 154 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 8: I mean, for real, Steve, come on, man, I mean, 155 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 8: let's look at this right here. If you've given honor 156 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 8: to God just twelve minutes out the day, dog, he 157 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 8: gave you twenty four hours of luxury and life and 158 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 8: breath and hope and promise that you ain't got twelve 159 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 8: minutes to give him out the day. 160 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 2: That don't make no sense. What in exchange? 161 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 8: What a wonderful life God has given me in exchange 162 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 8: for so small of effort that I put forth. Don't 163 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 8: let the effort you got to put forth to God 164 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 8: seems so dawning that you don't attempt to do it, 165 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,199 Speaker 8: because man, it seems like a lot. 166 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 2: It ain't nothing to compare to what He be giving 167 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 2: us for real. 168 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 8: So if you want a real life, you want a 169 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 8: real shot at what you can be, what you can have, 170 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 8: what you can own, what you can become who you 171 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 8: really are. 172 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 9: Go to God. 173 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 2: Let him fix you. 174 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 7: Man. 175 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: That's all you're listening harymore show. 176 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, playoffs. Everybody, let me have your attention. 177 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 8: Today is not gonna be another one of them days. 178 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 2: Today is a new day, new day, new day? 179 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 6: What day? Is it? 180 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: A new days? 181 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 4: Gonna be a new day? 182 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 9: That a. 183 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: Something says a song? Oh yes, murder brings reality. I 184 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 2: want to say, why is it? 185 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 9: Yeah? 186 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:41,199 Speaker 7: Is that a song? 187 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 4: But it's gonna be that? 188 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: And tell me I heard you say nude day. 189 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:49,839 Speaker 2: I heard a little nicked and put a little nicked 190 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 2: in your day. 191 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 4: Naked? Okay, we just got here. 192 00:10:58,000 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: We just put our clothes on. 193 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 4: It's gonna crack if you naked. 194 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little chili out. 195 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 4: To warm up, as the old people say, warm up? 196 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: How how you feel up? 197 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 5: Stevie know I'm talking about right, it's blown in there 198 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,959 Speaker 5: warm more, won't warm up. It's in the kitchen on 199 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 5: top of it, and just warm it up and eat it. 200 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 2: None. Old people had a house hot no matter what time. 201 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 3: Of the year. 202 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:32,559 Speaker 4: I can't see what. 203 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,559 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. A couple of years ago, 204 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 2: A couple of years ago, we did. 205 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 8: Uh took my family out on Thanksgiving that we delivered meals, 206 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 8: meals on wheels, and we delivered all day, you know, 207 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 8: to families in need. 208 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 2: We went into this old lady's house. Come on, hey man, 209 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 2: it was so I didn't know. And as soon as 210 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 2: I the Lord Jesus, what not you? What is you 211 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: doing down here? Baby? What did it? 212 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 7: TV? 213 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 2: People know you downhill? She went to her window and 214 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 2: looked out the color. Ain't no police with you? I said, no, ma'am. 215 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 8: Oh lord, you want me to call my nephews, I said, 216 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 8: for what so they can watch over you? 217 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 2: I said, ma'am, I'm from here. 218 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 7: I heard you was, but you don't. 219 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 2: It's Look what time is it? 220 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 8: I said, it's twelve thirty. Oh you got a little time? 221 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 8: Want you to be gone? You're gonna stay till this dog? 222 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 8: I said, nah, here, I got to do a lot 223 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 8: of other house. Oh I thought you were gonna stay 224 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 8: awhile I said, no, don't just drop this off. I 225 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 8: got some more houses to take care of. I said 226 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 8: all that to say, it was the hottest house I've 227 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:04,439 Speaker 8: ever been in in my tide life. And that conversation 228 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 8: we had was taken two damn longs. 229 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 4: I had reached that age, that hot stage. 230 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 5: Yeah man, it's gotta behind really yeah, I room, my 231 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 5: kids will even come see me. It's too hot over there, Dad. 232 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 2: And oh that's the reason you made it. 233 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 9: All right? 234 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 1: Coming up next more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 235 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:34,359 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning. 236 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 2: Show, and listen up this man, Steve Harvey, right here, 237 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 2: I got some big news for y'all. 238 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,679 Speaker 8: You all already know how my new Elevate You Vitality 239 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 8: Daily Greens are changing lives. 240 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: Well, guess what. 241 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 8: You can now get my Greens at Walmart. And if 242 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 8: you want to do more for your health than just 243 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 8: drink your Greens. 244 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 7: I got you. 245 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 8: We got all of that nutrition packed into three different gummies. 246 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 8: One for digestive health, that's for your immunity, and there's 247 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 8: one for your metabolism. 248 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 2: Head over to your. 249 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 8: Nearest Walmart now to get yourself some Elevate You. 250 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 2: You better go get your. 251 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 7: Some right now. 252 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 10: The nephew is here to run that prank back what 253 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 10: you got for his nef repole man, repole man. 254 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 2: We got to get that car. Let's go. 255 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 11: Hello, I'm trying to reach age please this here. Sorry, 256 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 11: my name is Robert. I'm with the collection agency. You 257 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 11: do own a Sierra GMC truck? Am I correct? 258 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 9: Yep? 259 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 11: Okay, we don't show that we've had any payments within 260 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 11: the last I guess about three close to four months now, 261 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 11: and we want to try and stop having to come 262 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 11: in and repossess it. Maybe we give you a chance 263 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 11: to bring your payment in, but we haven't had a 264 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 11: payment from you in about four. 265 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 2: Months, sir. 266 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 6: No financial with the other another thing, I don't know 267 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 6: what's mo. Yeah, I've been paying all the time. It's 268 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 6: directed party from Cory. 269 00:14:58,440 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 9: About that. 270 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: Well, I'm they've they've turned you over to us. 271 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 11: I'm with uh collection agency and we haven't gotten anything 272 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 11: from I don't. 273 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 2: I don't show any uh any paperwork. 274 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 11: Here on the computer at all that we've had any 275 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 11: payments made within the last four months. 276 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 2: So that's why they have. 277 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 6: It over to y'all without my permission. They can't never 278 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 6: tell my truck over to y'all. Ap Yo. 279 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 2: Well, I understand that, sir. 280 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 11: What happens is if you haven't paid it in a 281 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 11: certain amount of time, it actually comes over to the 282 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 11: collection agency. 283 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 2: And that's what they've done. They've actually sent it over 284 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 2: to us. 285 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 9: Uh. 286 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 11: They've given us uh pretty much all the information on you. 287 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 11: I guess it's uh goldish type of color, uh seer 288 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 11: two thousand and three GMC truck from our understanding, Am 289 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 11: I correct? 290 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 2: Okay? 291 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 11: Uh, Now, what I'm gonna need from you today, Jeremy, 292 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 11: is for you to come in uh and make a 293 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 11: payment to us this evening for four months so we 294 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 11: can see so we don't have to come in and 295 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 11: repossess your truck. And I don't want to have to 296 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 11: do that. But if I have to send a record 297 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 11: out there to you, I have your address. 298 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 2: On file as well. I don't want to have to 299 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 2: send anybody have to pick it up. 300 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 6: Y'all not come and get my truck. And I'm not 301 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 6: paying y'all for for no full month. I'm not paying 302 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 6: my truck no all the time, every month. That's a 303 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 6: done deal, sir. 304 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 11: I don't want to get in a back and forth 305 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 11: with you, but I'm telling you exactly how it's gonna go. 306 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 9: Now. 307 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 2: I come out there and repossess it myself. But I'm telling. 308 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 9: Up it's no. 309 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 6: Look, that's not that's not even all where we gotta 310 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 6: go with that. Don't be you don't need to be 311 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 6: screaming and fussing and chaotic. Can come get it yourself 312 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 6: and all that suffy so much? Truck, my truck, that's 313 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 6: gonna be that? 314 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 11: What hang on, let's back up, because I'm a man 315 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 11: just like your man. What do you mean it's gonna 316 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 11: that's gonna be that? What are you saying? 317 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 2: What are you? What do you what are you saying 318 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 2: to me? Son? 319 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 6: I'm telling you, sir. Look, I'm telling you that I'm 320 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 6: paying my truck note and and that's the final I 321 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 6: don't know. 322 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 11: Let's get I've already stated to you before. I'm with 323 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 11: an agency. And let's get one thing straight. You don't 324 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 11: tell me I tell you now, Hey. 325 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 6: Hey, calm down on the phone. It don't make no 326 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 6: sense to me, you know, over the phone and whatnot. 327 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 6: You can come, you can come get the truck, my truck. Yeah, 328 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 6: I work, I'm ready. You can come. You can come 329 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 6: try to get my truck. You come on there. 330 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 11: Sure, I'm already aware of where you work in the 331 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 11: whole nine yards. Now I don't I'm trying to be 332 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:11,919 Speaker 11: as uh cardial with you as I can. 333 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 2: Now you can. 334 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 6: Come and get my truckle I'll tell you I'll be 335 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 6: paying much. So you know you should have dropped down 336 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 6: and being like, all right, I'm gonna check with somebody else, 337 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 6: check with somebody else and make sure I'm right, and 338 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 6: then call me back. 339 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 11: I'm telling you you haven't paid anything. That's what I'm 340 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 11: telling you. I've got it listed on the computer. You've 341 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 11: been turned over an agency and you haven't done it. 342 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 11: You haven't done it thing. 343 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 6: What you used to you. You you're raising your press, 344 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,120 Speaker 6: screaming and hollo over the phone like that they ain't 345 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 6: gonna do me up. 346 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 9: You no good. 347 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 6: But you ain't getting no money from me. Then you 348 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 6: ain't coming my truck. Well, a matter of fact, you 349 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 6: could come to my truck. I'm I'm gonna be at 350 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 6: my truck and I'm gonna wait on you, ana be. 351 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 2: It doesn't make any difference, sir. You gotta get repossessed tonight. 352 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 11: If I don't get four months payment bruck, definitely, if 353 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:59,120 Speaker 11: I don't get four months payment brought into me collection agency, 354 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 11: your truck will be taking care of. 355 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 6: Hold on, listen, man, hold on, you kind of kind 356 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 6: of serious heart, you quick cursing at me. 357 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 7: That's what's wrong? 358 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 12: You got me? 359 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 6: Trust, Look right outside, you can come over here and 360 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 6: get it. I'll be sitting on that way for you. 361 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 2: Look, you know what. I'm at the point I don't 362 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,880 Speaker 2: give it about this job. I'm ready to come kick 363 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 2: your That's what I'm ready to do. Call him back. 364 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 2: I don't need a little scared hanging up the phone. 365 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 2: You're standing here like a man, and you handle your problems. 366 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 6: Hey, hold on, I'm I can't be dealing with that. 367 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 9: I make it. 368 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 6: Wa, bro, stop calling. 369 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 11: I'm at work to doing my job the same way. 370 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 2: You're doing yours. 371 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 6: You don't want to get truck. 372 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 2: I got one more thing I want to say to 373 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 2: you before you go. And you're listening. This is Nephew 374 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 2: timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 375 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 9: You just got pray, you got you. 376 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 6: Got all, my teacher, You are all right, man, I'm 377 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 6: gonna talk to this roof man. I'm talking about cool 378 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 6: you talking about. 379 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 9: She told me? 380 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 2: She told me, man, she said that boy love that truck. 381 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 6: Yeah. That's my choice, man, my only trasportation. Man, that's choice. Yeah, yeah, 382 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 6: you got it? 383 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 11: You got Hey, I gotta I gotta ask you, man, 384 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 11: Tell me brother, what is the baddest. I'm talking about 385 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 11: the baddest radio show in the late Steve sho Now 386 00:19:52,320 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 11: you're having ladies and gentlemen repo man, Yeah, somebody gotta 387 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 11: do it. 388 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 2: You've been repold before. 389 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know anyone who hasn't been. 390 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 8: Actually, Oh well I thought you got said, you don't 391 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:11,959 Speaker 8: know nobody who manak ain't never had a car, repot, 392 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 8: never had no hell No, ain't never had a car. 393 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 2: Tom ain't never had a repose, Carl I ain't never 394 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 2: had no car. 395 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:19,880 Speaker 9: No, I ain't. 396 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 3: You guys When my daddy had a repo and he 397 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 3: told he told me he got stolen, my mom said, 398 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 3: who told you that? 399 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 9: Hey? 400 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 8: Man, they had a deal in Cleveland when I was 401 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 8: about twenty four. You mean when Mopegs was hot. They 402 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 8: had a special deal. You can come down and get 403 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 8: one and then pay on it for three months. They 404 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 8: had to come get that. 405 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 2: You got a moped repo? 406 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 8: Well, I said, a bike. Well let me put you 407 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 8: They tried to come get that. You think I can 408 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:52,640 Speaker 8: hide a car good? 409 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 7: You know? 410 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 2: No, I hit the mopeed in my backyard for three weeks. 411 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 8: Oh, naden say in the backyard, I rake les one 412 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 8: time and hit it. 413 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 2: One time. I put put in that big ass garbage 414 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: cad to put the top on it. 415 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 1: Looking now you're listening Hardy Morning Show. 416 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 10: It is time to get some great advice from the 417 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 10: CLO that stands for Chief Love Officer. 418 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 1: We call him the Close Steve Harvey. 419 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 10: Shateria in Memphis writes, I have been dating a younger 420 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,880 Speaker 10: man for four months, and he's been using my car 421 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 10: to go to work because I work from home. 422 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:35,439 Speaker 7: Now. 423 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 10: I had a doctor's appointment yesterday, so I told him 424 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 10: to call his mama for a ride. His mama called 425 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:43,919 Speaker 10: me and said, I'm only four years younger than her, 426 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 10: So I'm his mama now and I need to take 427 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 10: care of his knees. 428 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: Would I be out of line to curse her out? 429 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 9: What? 430 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:52,160 Speaker 7: Well? 431 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 8: First of all, let's talk about a couple of things 432 00:21:55,000 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 8: that I noticed, Shateria. This man you Dayton, got to 433 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 8: be young because your name is Shaterria, and I don't 434 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 8: know nobody named Shatiria that was born in the seventies, 435 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:17,679 Speaker 8: So I'm assuming that you are a young mother yourself. 436 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,679 Speaker 2: Now, you the one in here and rob this crackling. 437 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 8: You're dating this little damn baby that just now got 438 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 8: off his bicycle, so he ain't even got a car. 439 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: Now you letting him use your car. 440 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 8: You told him you got to go to the doctor 441 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 8: because you got some medical complications. He can't do that, 442 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:37,360 Speaker 8: and then you told him using mama's car his mama's car. 443 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 8: Would I be wrong for cussing out or kicking hotel? 444 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 8: What are you doing? 445 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 2: This is your fault. 446 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 8: The fact that his mama can call you, the fact 447 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 8: that you had him call his mama says you're in 448 00:22:55,119 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 8: the wrong relationship. Shateria that rhymes with cafeteria henry. Yes, 449 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 8: where we have the problem at right there? Your name, 450 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:09,439 Speaker 8: your age, and this damn baby you done picked up 451 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 8: and moved around in here to your house that don't 452 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:16,120 Speaker 8: have a car. Bad selection. It ain't his mama, it's 453 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 8: the boy you selected to be your man. Yeah, bad's 454 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 8: your problem. Next question, all. 455 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: Right, Moving on to Tay in Ohio. 456 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 10: Tay says, I'm a twenty two year old student and 457 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 10: I'm dating a black guy that is giving me grief 458 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 10: because he's very friendly. He feels like he has to 459 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 10: show the black girls on campus a lot of attention 460 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 10: or they'll hate him for dating outside of his race. 461 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 10: One of the girls can't stand me, and she's always 462 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 10: talking slick to me. 463 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: Should I pull her aside to see what the problem is? 464 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: Or do I keep ignoring her? Like he said to. 465 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 2: Well, let me let me give you, Let me let 466 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 2: me say something to you. Now when you pull her 467 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 2: to the side. Hey, I just want you. 468 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:02,359 Speaker 8: To understand that ain't the end of it. Let me 469 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 8: live culturally. Once you pull them to the side and 470 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 8: start addressing it, you finna get way molding. 471 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,679 Speaker 2: You bargain for. 472 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 9: Now. 473 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 8: The dude has told you to ignore it. You could 474 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 8: ignore it, but I understand the position he's in. He 475 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 8: gives them extra attention so they don't hate him. Look, 476 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 8: are you enjoying this relationship, lady? It don't sound like 477 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 8: she is to me. It's very much with this. You 478 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 8: don't like the pressure, you don't like what come with it. 479 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 8: And he's not coping with it real good either, because 480 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 8: he feels in some kind of way. But now, let 481 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,880 Speaker 8: me explain something to you. Don't pull that black girl 482 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 8: to the side. 483 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: Don't do that. Don't do that. 484 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 8: System beg a girl. Listen to me, Listen to Uncle Steve. 485 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 8: Don't pull that black girl to the side, because it 486 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 8: ain't gonna go nothing like you think you're not gonna 487 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 8: believe her damn reaction. First of all, if you literally 488 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,959 Speaker 8: tap her on the elbow and say, come over here 489 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 8: for a minute, let me talk to you, not just 490 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 8: don't do that, don't you First, it's gonna be a 491 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 8: pause and hesitation, the disbelief that you're addressing her. But 492 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 8: if all the black women you done point, you're gonna 493 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,719 Speaker 8: picked out her is the one you gonna check her. 494 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 8: I can't even tell you how this is fit to 495 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 8: go now. I don't know if you're a cheerleader. I 496 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 8: don't know if he an athlete, I don't know if 497 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 8: you're on a debate team. 498 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 2: I don't know what you own. But do not grab 499 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 2: Shiteria Junior and pull her to the side. 500 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 7: This is not him. 501 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, do not do that. It's not going to go. 502 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 13: Thank you. 503 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 10: Cela Monique and Tyler Town said. My husband and I 504 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 10: had a card party over the weekend and his best 505 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 10: buddy got drunk and slept on our floor all night. 506 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 10: He also urinated on himself, and he had on dark jeans, 507 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 10: so my carpet is ruined in that spot. My husband 508 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 10: didn't want to make a big deal out of it 509 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 10: and embarrass him. So we have to pay to have 510 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 10: our carpet replaced. Shouldn't he make his buddy pay for this? 511 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,119 Speaker 2: You just so drunk you. 512 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 8: Done fell asleep on the floor and pede on yourself. 513 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 8: I mean he could go to him and say, hey, man, 514 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 8: look here's a problem. And he was at the house. 515 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 8: You got drunk. I know you couldn't help it, but 516 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 8: you laid the floor and you peed on yourself, and 517 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 8: my wife got to replace the carpet. Man, can you 518 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 8: give us a little something on it? You know you 519 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 8: should offer at that point, Well he not, Yeah, because 520 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 8: he gonna swear him down. 521 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,439 Speaker 2: He gonna swear him down. He ain't peede on himself. 522 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,119 Speaker 2: Well who you know? 523 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 8: If in the volunteer and that that wasn't he dark 524 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 8: ain't pee on a little flow? Yeah that was a bill. 525 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,360 Speaker 8: Think I peed on myself. 526 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 2: Now that's beer. I laid it in the beer. I 527 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 2: saw the beer. I might knock the cup over. I 528 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 2: can give you a couple of honey. 529 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 8: Hell no, hell no, hell no, it ain't nowhere. And 530 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 8: he ain't laying that any You can't prove he pre no, no, no, no, no. 531 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 8: Hold on, bro, so you're gonna come to me with that? 532 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, we got picture? Hold on? Did you see me pete? 533 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 12: No on my phone? 534 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 535 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: Now hold on? 536 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:31,680 Speaker 9: On? 537 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:33,679 Speaker 2: Who phone mine? 538 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 7: Hold on? 539 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 8: So your girl taking picture of me peeingna get turned? 540 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 9: Yeah? You got? 541 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,120 Speaker 8: I mean he could mention it to him, but it's 542 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 8: the the dude gonna deny it and stop him. Card 543 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 8: party and stop letting people sleep on your floor overnight. 544 00:27:55,840 --> 00:28:00,120 Speaker 8: Stop doing that, all right? Send his ass home pee. 545 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:00,880 Speaker 2: On his own floor. 546 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 1: Oh with the smell in that house? 547 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 2: All right? 548 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 10: Moving on to Stephanie in La Stephanie says, I'm in 549 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 10: my mid forties and I can't function without having sex 550 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 10: at least four times a week. I work long days, 551 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 10: so it's hard for me to meet a good man, 552 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 10: to meet good men, and I end up tensed up 553 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 10: all night and can't fall asleep. My neighbor has always 554 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 10: been an option, but I don't want to be intimate 555 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 10: with someone in my building. What's the worst that could happen? 556 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 10: Should I go ahead and invite him over? 557 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 2: I don't feel I don't care what you do. I 558 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 2: really don't. 559 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 8: Just ain't a love question, just a lost question. You're thirsty. 560 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 8: You in your forties, you gotta have sex full times 561 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 8: a week. Yeah you know what got's two You in 562 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 8: your forties and you had to have sex full times 563 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 8: a week. 564 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll go ahead and have it. 565 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 2: No, no, if you have to go ahead, what you 566 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 2: want me to tell you? 567 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 9: Now? 568 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 8: Your neighbor, you don't want to sleep with him because 569 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 8: he who've been doing the full times a week for 570 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 8: you up to now? Well that part see what I 571 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 8: think is you got to have sex four times a week. 572 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 8: Your problem is you can't find nobody want to have 573 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 8: sex with. 574 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 2: You full times a week. That's your real problem. That's 575 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 2: what she said. 576 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 10: Yeah, all right, coming up next more of the Steve 577 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. 578 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: Right after this. 579 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, Jay 580 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 10: and Junior are here with some pointers for people. Okay, 581 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 10: So no matter what you're into, whether it's drinking alcohol 582 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 10: or smoking legally, now this is how you know when 583 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 10: you've had enough and it's time to what put and 584 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 10: put it down down? 585 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's time to put it down, all right, Jay, 586 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 4: go ahead. 587 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 5: When you got your light on your phone and you're 588 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 5: looking for your phone, it's time to put it down. 589 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's absolutely true. It's in your hand. 590 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 14: Yeah, and all mine is real. And I don't care 591 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 14: if he is listening this morning, but this is what 592 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 14: he gonna stop. Nick here if you said it drinking 593 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 14: O eat. But every time you hear a police sign, 594 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 14: you grabbed me. Put the old eat down. You don't 595 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 14: need to drink this no more. I'm tired to tear 596 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 14: my clothes off and police go. But I'm not gonna 597 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 14: sity here with do this with ya Jay. 598 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 7: He knows where he is. 599 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 1: That's put it down. 600 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 5: Okay, all right, it's three o'clock in the morning. You 601 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 5: throwing out a drinking to make Thanksgiving dinner and it 602 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 5: ain't even Thanksgiving. It's time to put it down. 603 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 4: Time, it's just going. 604 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just too. 605 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 6: Thick. 606 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 14: Another if you say what h huh in the conversation 607 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 14: MORETI five times what it's time to put it down? 608 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right for about who. 609 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 7: That one? 610 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 9: Here we go. 611 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 2: I'm good. 612 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 4: If you like what you're smoking on both ends. 613 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 2: It's trying to put it down on both ends. 614 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, cook, you got one of. 615 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 2: Okay, tell you something. 616 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 14: If I come over your house and I walked on 617 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 14: stairs and you playing PlayStation and you got the headphones off. 618 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 2: Dog, whatever you is, you do what it's time to 619 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 2: put that down. 620 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 7: You see that. 621 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 14: You're talking to a handst so what a place that 622 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 14: you control in your hand as you smoking? 623 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 7: I know what you're. 624 00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 8: This happened with a friendom mind if you drive it? Yeah, 625 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 8: and we just set at this light and it have 626 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 8: changed greens three times. Yeah we still now, but staring 627 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 8: at the witch. 628 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,480 Speaker 1: You you get time, you. 629 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 5: Put it down down, It's time, it's time put it down. Well, 630 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 5: you you decide to make a cake and you waiting 631 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 5: for the cake to be done. You got all the 632 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 5: ingredients in the pan, but what you did was you 633 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 5: stuck it in the dish washing and you waiting. 634 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 7: Yeah. 635 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: Times put it down. 636 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 6: There. 637 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got one. 638 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 8: If you done got hungry and you done decided you 639 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 8: want some pinto beans and you soaking them and you 640 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 8: just get a spoon and sit down and start eating. 641 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 2: You've got to you got. 642 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 10: Right coming up next, more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 643 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 10: Right after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show. We 644 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 10: here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Love food all 645 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 10: of us, but there are a lot of foods we 646 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 10: think are from other countries that are actually invented in 647 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 10: a good old USA, And those are some of the 648 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 10: most famous ones. 649 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: Like Fortune cookies invented right here. 650 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 10: Yeah, it was actually invented in San Francisco by a 651 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 10: Japanese American baker. 652 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 7: Did you'll know that? Did you notice, Steve? 653 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 2: I did Fortune? They don't taste good. 654 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 10: I like them with chocolate, white chocolate on them, and 655 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 10: they don't shy. 656 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 2: Surely excuse me. Chocolate is the worst thing you could 657 00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 2: put in your body. 658 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,160 Speaker 1: I absolutely know that, But it tastes real good. That's 659 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 1: all I'm saying. 660 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You're a very wonderful health reason and you 661 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,800 Speaker 2: just destroyed it. I know that, any damn. 662 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't eat it now, but yeah I used to, 663 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 10: and it's delicious. Orange chicken. How about that one? 664 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 2: That's good? Yeah? 665 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:24,319 Speaker 10: It was created in Hawaii in nineteen eighty seven by 666 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 10: Panda Express chef Andy Koe or Kyle ok. 667 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 1: I didn't know that, Wow, I know. 668 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 2: Who came up with them. It was the Crustation who 669 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 2: came up with them. They do, they do copy it. 670 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,920 Speaker 1: German chocolate cake came my. 671 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 8: Mama, Yeah, my mama it has I don't know who 672 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,760 Speaker 8: made it, befolk. I don't know who made it, befolk. 673 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 8: Ain't nobody make it? Like huddle ear lost via Hobby 674 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 8: greatest piece of German chocolate cake? 675 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,359 Speaker 2: Hold the wow? 676 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 10: I have to I heard German chocolate. But anyway, it 677 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,399 Speaker 10: has nothing to do with Germany. It's because of its name, 678 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 10: Samuel German that it's called German blad. 679 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 2: People, they're perfected it. 680 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: Oh yes, hello, that coconut. 681 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've had a lot taken from us. So hey, 682 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:32,919 Speaker 2: the right of that we took. We took the cake. 683 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we love German cake, all right. 684 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 10: English muffins, English muffins from England, from England. They were 685 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,160 Speaker 10: actually invented in New York City in nineteen eighty four 686 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 10: by English immigrants Samuel Bass Thomas. 687 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 2: They were rich, they were really nothing. Let me give 688 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 2: you some real dishes that was created right here in America. Okay, 689 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 2: come on, what you got hit it? Yes, work it out, boy, 690 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 2: Whether they want to be a not fried sprayl yes, 691 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 2: hot dogs. 692 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:20,800 Speaker 1: And beans, yeah, American dish. All right, there you have it. 693 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: You're listening morning show. 694 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:25,359 Speaker 9: All right. 695 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 10: Sometimes we all find ourselves in a conversation, okay, be 696 00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 10: it political, scientific, educational, financial, even hip hop pop culture 697 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 10: based conversations where. 698 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 1: We just have no clue, I mean clueless. 699 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 2: To what the person is talking about. Okay, So so 700 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 2: guess what sure to do with sports? 701 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:48,280 Speaker 1: Busted? 702 00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 10: So do you guys chime in and ask people to 703 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 10: to get you up to speed or do you just 704 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:55,719 Speaker 10: not in agreement? 705 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 2: Like you know, you know, like I actually get into conversations. 706 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:00,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to start with you. 707 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:05,400 Speaker 8: Yes, get in the concert, like bring up a subject 708 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 8: where you know I ain't got nothing now I don't 709 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 8: know nothing about it. 710 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:14,280 Speaker 1: Engineering making a bridge, Oh. 711 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 8: Man, you know when me and my father man used 712 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,960 Speaker 8: to work construction. You know, I used to work on bridge. 713 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,440 Speaker 8: We used to pad of cracks in the bridge. So 714 00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 8: I knew all about the structural design of a bridge, 715 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 8: what called the fracture spaces in it? 716 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 2: And I just did like that. 717 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you or your father go to engineering school? 718 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:33,920 Speaker 1: I mean take engineering? 719 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 2: And I never did. 720 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 1: A construction company. 721 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 8: Or no, no, no, no, Now we work for this company, 722 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,200 Speaker 8: Frank Buddy, Brank buddy contract. 723 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:46,600 Speaker 1: Have you ever driven over a bridge? 724 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:46,920 Speaker 9: Oh? 725 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 2: Hell yeah, I been a lot of That's how we 726 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 2: knew how they cracked. 727 00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 8: You know, the structural engineering position is what we would 728 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 8: take hold was the uprooted problem that diverted the situation 729 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 8: into a crack in the first place. 730 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 2: We sound good, What are you talking about? 731 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:02,799 Speaker 7: There's like a. 732 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,959 Speaker 2: Board game like this, Go ahead ahead. 733 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 3: I was gonna ask him, though, Shirley, So how would 734 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 3: you what would you recommend to. 735 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:11,840 Speaker 1: Update a bridge? 736 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,920 Speaker 2: Well, I think up is a very bridge. 737 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:19,760 Speaker 8: The Golden Gray Bridge has been needed update and repairing. 738 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 8: You know, been several earthquakes as we reaking the foundation. 739 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 8: But I think what we're gonna have to do is 740 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 8: we're gonna have to do a section out of time. 741 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 8: I think we're gonna have to break that bridge and half. 742 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 8: So we had this one way traffic going one way, 743 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,480 Speaker 8: and then once you get the one one lane locked off, 744 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 8: and then you can do the restructure work on the 745 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 8: other side, and then you reinforce it up under with 746 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 8: welding beams and now to join them back together. 747 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 2: That way they'll fixed that. Whole time you. 748 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 10: Mentioned earthquakes, I was wondering. You know, we're out here 749 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,040 Speaker 10: in l A. What you know a lot of seismatologists 750 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 10: have been on the news lately. Saying there is a 751 00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:57,440 Speaker 10: possibility that there could be an earthquakes coming soon. 752 00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 1: You agree with that? 753 00:38:59,160 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 2: Four point seven? 754 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,200 Speaker 1: A four point seven? What are you basing that on? 755 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:06,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, because last was four pointed. 756 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 1: You predict Are you a seismatologist, Finny Chance or you 757 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,320 Speaker 1: had you know anybody that is? 758 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 2: No, I'm a quake atologist. 759 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 7: After show, so far, so good? Yeah, go ahead. 760 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 2: Ahead, anything just anything I couldn't I can get right 761 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:33,160 Speaker 2: with it. 762 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: And house you're not allowed about. 763 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 8: How Yeah, I grew up in a housing projectist. 764 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 1: I meant seismologist, said seismatologist. 765 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 2: That's why I said, you said quake, because I knew 766 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 2: you ain't know what. Okay, go ahead, you know you 767 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 2: know anything about design and airplane? Are absolutely? Absolutely? 768 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,919 Speaker 1: You mean like the engines and stuff for inside, which, 769 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: well let's. 770 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 2: Go be Yeah. 771 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:10,320 Speaker 8: Rose Royce is number one engine manufacturer of jet planes 772 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 8: in the world. 773 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,880 Speaker 1: Right now now that I believe, No, that's from you, 774 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: that I believe. 775 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 8: Rose Ross is number one jet manufactured engine parts and 776 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 8: motors in the world today. 777 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 2: And so whatever I'm picking out a plane, always go 778 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:26,240 Speaker 2: Rose RoCE engine. 779 00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 10: Okay, what's the best feat to get up with altitude? 780 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 8: Well, you want to fly at least thirty three thousand, 781 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 8: but if you're in the whole war substantial plane, you 782 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 8: can get up to forty nine thousand, which then at 783 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 8: that point you can see the curvature of the Earth. 784 00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I cannot argue it. 785 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,360 Speaker 1: I guess you're up there in heaven on my. 786 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,640 Speaker 8: Afe forty nine thousand feet in the G five you 787 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 8: can see the curvature of. 788 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:54,280 Speaker 2: The Earth ahead. 789 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 1: Wow, the planet, so. 790 00:40:56,120 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 2: You can see that the world is around Wow. No, 791 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 2: and that's a fact it is. 792 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,640 Speaker 1: I can't argue with you because I have a new 793 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:09,480 Speaker 1: idea all about the thirty three thousand altitude. All right, Steve, 794 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 1: thank you. 795 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 10: Up next, it is a nephew switching gears with a 796 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,760 Speaker 10: prank phone call for today. 797 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:21,359 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening morning show coming up at 798 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after. 799 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,320 Speaker 10: It is my strawberry letter for today's subject. He wants 800 00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:31,400 Speaker 10: me but not the children. Right now, it is the 801 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 10: nephew's turn with today's prank phone call. What you got, 802 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:34,720 Speaker 10: King of Pranks? 803 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,840 Speaker 11: I got a prank for y'all, Linda. I want to 804 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 11: ask y'all some y'all tell me if I'm in the roll. Okay, 805 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,839 Speaker 11: all right, So my wife is a little love sick, 806 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 11: all right, the love sick, and I didn't think nothing 807 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,400 Speaker 11: of it. Yeah, I'm gonna take you, y'all. Just let 808 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 11: me know if I if I'm in the roll? Okay, Yeah, 809 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 11: we go out, we go out to dinner. We go 810 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 11: out to dinner, and we bump into some we both 811 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,320 Speaker 11: do some people that I know, and uh so, I 812 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 11: you know, I'm playing now I'm playing, But I introduced 813 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,320 Speaker 11: her is my ex girlfriend? 814 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,320 Speaker 2: Now, ain't she really my ex girlfriend? You know what 815 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 2: I'm saying? Yeah, that's right. Ain't she really? You're my wife? 816 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 6: Not? 817 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 2: But you're my ex girlfriend. 818 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 11: I said that, this is my ex girlfriend, Jackie right here. 819 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,360 Speaker 2: She looked at me like, what did you just you 820 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:26,760 Speaker 2: are my ex girlfriend? 821 00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 7: Ain't you? 822 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 2: What are you upset about? 823 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 9: Yes? 824 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 2: So am I wrong? 825 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:31,359 Speaker 7: Yes? 826 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:32,319 Speaker 9: Yes? 827 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,320 Speaker 1: Yeah I knew you were before you. 828 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:43,640 Speaker 8: I think that really, dog, that's really got sex? 829 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:45,839 Speaker 2: Really? 830 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 13: You know? 831 00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 9: Yeah? 832 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:47,319 Speaker 2: Yeah? 833 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:48,520 Speaker 9: Damn? 834 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 12: That was wrong? 835 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 1: Was well real stupid? 836 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 2: Well okay, if we go back to being the girlfriend, 837 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 2: why is that? 838 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 9: And what. 839 00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:03,920 Speaker 7: Here? 840 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:09,359 Speaker 2: You y'all ex girlfriend? I don't see this didn't gain 841 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 2: you a promotion? You don't see that. 842 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 1: Stop trying to flip it. 843 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 11: Come on now here it is. Come on, cat dog, 844 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 11: let's go. The name of this is uh quarterback, sneak, 845 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 11: quarterback sneak. Let's go cat dog. 846 00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 9: Hello that streak the cans she cares. This is Tony. 847 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:37,760 Speaker 9: Are you mama? 848 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 12: Excuse me? 849 00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:40,640 Speaker 9: You are you mama? 850 00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 12: Yeah? I am Why Who are you? 851 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 9: My name is Tony. I'm Deandre's daddy. DeAndre. They played 852 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,440 Speaker 9: on this past season. They played on the football tea, 853 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,760 Speaker 9: they played on the on the Seahawks together. 854 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 12: Okay, okay, but like, why are you calling me? 855 00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 9: Okay, I'm calling you for a particular reason. Let me 856 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 9: tell you what's going on this whole past football season. 857 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,160 Speaker 9: Your son Isaiah, he was a starting quarterback, right. 858 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 12: Yeah, he's Yeah, he's a certain quarterback. He works real hard. 859 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 9: Like that's that said physical. Let me let me go 860 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 9: say it. I already know that my son DeAndre is 861 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 9: way better than your son Isaiah. I already know that 862 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,400 Speaker 9: all right. Now, I ain't get to excuse you. No, 863 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 9: I ain't gonna excuse me. I'm not gonna chuse myself 864 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 9: about this. I've been wanting to get you on the 865 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,440 Speaker 9: phone so I can tell you exactly what's going on. 866 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 9: Let me tell you something when when the season come 867 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 9: back around, when they getting ready to play again, I'm 868 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 9: telling you right now, my son DeAndre gonna be starting. 869 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 9: Please know that. Trust me. I swear to you. I 870 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,879 Speaker 9: know what you did for your Excuse me, sir. 871 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 12: Excuse me you you who do you think you are 872 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 12: calling me telling me that your son is gonna take 873 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 12: my son's position on the team. How do you even 874 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:47,840 Speaker 12: have my number? 875 00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 9: I got? I got your number from a reliable sort. 876 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 9: What are the payers gave me your number? 877 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 12: But what's like, what kind of mental problems you got 878 00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,800 Speaker 12: calling my house telling me about how your son is. 879 00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 12: So your son is like not barely even on the team, 880 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 12: he's not even starting. 881 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 9: Okay, now my son ain't start. Okay, Well he's gonna 882 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,160 Speaker 9: be starting next year. Okay, But I know what you 883 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,520 Speaker 9: did it for your son to be started. Trust me. 884 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:10,880 Speaker 9: I know what you did, Kansas. 885 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 12: I didn't do anything. My son earn't his positions. So 886 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 12: I mean, I don't I don't really get what you're 887 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:18,080 Speaker 12: saying here. You're talking about talking to some big game 888 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 12: about your son taking my son's position. 889 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:20,960 Speaker 9: Life. 890 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 12: First of all, I don't even know who you are. 891 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,440 Speaker 12: I don't know how you got my number. Like these 892 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 12: these are kids, it's not it's really not that serious. 893 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,040 Speaker 12: Like their kids out there having a good time, trying 894 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,360 Speaker 12: to play a game. It's like, I haven't seen you 895 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 12: at a game. 896 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:33,920 Speaker 9: I don't know. 897 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:38,040 Speaker 12: I don't know what you think. You are stepping up 898 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 12: being like my son is gonna take your son's position? 899 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,320 Speaker 12: Like what kind of crazy are you? You're calling me 900 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,360 Speaker 12: out of nowhere, out of that, You're calling me nowhere, 901 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,040 Speaker 12: out of the clear blue. I'm just minding my business. 902 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,440 Speaker 12: My son is playing his game. Who the are you 903 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:51,440 Speaker 12: and why are you calling me? 904 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 9: Like what? I ain't been to no games, but I'm 905 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 9: gonna be there on next season. I'll be there, Okay, Okay, 906 00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 9: I mean. 907 00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,920 Speaker 12: You could try, You could try. You might not want 908 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 12: that come cause your son still ain't certain. 909 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 9: But let's come on and get to the reason why. Carl, 910 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,879 Speaker 9: you I already know why your son starting, because he's 911 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,840 Speaker 9: going on. They're going what what? 912 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:11,960 Speaker 12: No, my son is starting because he earned his position. 913 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:12,960 Speaker 12: He's the best on the team. 914 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,879 Speaker 9: You're saying that, Cannons, But are you sure your son 915 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,320 Speaker 9: ain't starting? Because maybe you maybe you slept. Maybe you 916 00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:22,399 Speaker 9: slept with coach Brian. 917 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 12: What wait, excuse you look like, did you did you? 918 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,279 Speaker 9: Did you sleep with coach Brian so your son can 919 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:30,640 Speaker 9: get that position? Did you do that? 920 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,799 Speaker 12: Your mama slept with coach be coach Brian with her 921 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 12: dry that's why your son ain't playing. 922 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,319 Speaker 6: Who do you think you are accusing me of. 923 00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:41,320 Speaker 9: Sleeping with a coach? Hey, hey, I'm just I'm just 924 00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:41,920 Speaker 9: letting you know. 925 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 12: I know what you did for your You don't know, 926 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 12: you don't know, you don't know, okay, So. 927 00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 9: So so you you singing you ain't self with coach Briant, 928 00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,919 Speaker 9: that's what you're saying. So Isa, they are starting because 929 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,560 Speaker 9: he just because because he they just picked him the start. 930 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 12: You are crazy. First of all, you're gonna have to 931 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 12: talk to my husband because these accusations are ridiculous and 932 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 12: out of control. But I don't know who the do 933 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,880 Speaker 12: you think you are in the house excusing me of 934 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,800 Speaker 12: sleeping with the coach my son earned his positions on 935 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 12: the teams. He's like, what the do you think you are? 936 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:15,719 Speaker 12: You are straight? 937 00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 2: Brother? 938 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 9: Who is your hook? Who is that? 939 00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,120 Speaker 12: My husband is Curtiss, So you don't know because you 940 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 12: ain't never showed up for your own damn son. 941 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,400 Speaker 9: Okay, Curtis, you'll you'll hold nint Curtis. Okay, okay, So 942 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 9: I tell you I need I need to talk to Curtis. Seat, 943 00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:28,440 Speaker 9: That's what I need to do. 944 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:30,839 Speaker 12: Oh you're gonna more than talk to Curtis. You're gonna 945 00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 12: catch some same hands from Curtis with that mouse. 946 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 9: Okay, all good? So so so let me answer this this. 947 00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:42,240 Speaker 6: You saw him like Curtis that drive trucks, that Curtis I'm. 948 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 12: Talking about, Curtis, my husband in my house. You don't 949 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,840 Speaker 12: know who we are because you ain't never showed up. 950 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:50,279 Speaker 12: You ain't nobody. Your kid is nobody, his host and 951 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 12: phone call, his book. And you need to crawl back 952 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 12: into whatever the hole you came out of because I 953 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:56,360 Speaker 12: am not here for this. 954 00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,440 Speaker 9: Curtis is a truck driver, right, Yeah. 955 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,239 Speaker 12: You're lucky here? Am I your over yet? 956 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 7: Oh? 957 00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:05,600 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, you found my Curtis non Now? Can I 958 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,160 Speaker 9: tell you something else I don't find out by Curtis? 959 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 9: Can I tell you that I don't? 960 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,320 Speaker 12: I don't, I don't. I kind of don't want to 961 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,279 Speaker 12: hear anything that comes out of your mouth at this point, 962 00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 12: I'll tell you this. 963 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 9: The last thing I'm gonna say my mouth. Can I 964 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 9: just tell you what I know? 965 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,200 Speaker 12: By Curtis, you better make it quick. 966 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 9: I'm gonna make it quick. Curtis got me the plank 967 00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:26,440 Speaker 9: phone called you. This is nephew Tommy. Can this from 968 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 9: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by 969 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:30,240 Speaker 9: your husband? Curtis? 970 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:32,920 Speaker 12: Are you killing me? 971 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:40,000 Speaker 9: We're in the radio right now. You alt right now, 972 00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:41,920 Speaker 9: but you're gonna be on in the morning though. 973 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 12: Oh my goodness, like my heart is racing right now. 974 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:51,759 Speaker 12: The component tear off your throat. You're killing me. My 975 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 12: husband put you up to this show. 976 00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 9: Your husband got me to call you, baby. He said, 977 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 9: y'all Son is amazing quarterback. I said, cool, We're gonna do. 978 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 12: This, yo. You don't understand. My chest feels like a 979 00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 12: vice right now. 980 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:10,560 Speaker 9: I want to throw all I can't say. You got 981 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 9: to tell me one thing. What's the baddest and I 982 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 9: mean the baddest radio show in the last Steve Harvey 983 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:17,400 Speaker 9: in the Morning. 984 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,359 Speaker 6: Oh my gum sweating yo. 985 00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 2: Sweat it out, baby, sweat it out. This is what 986 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:27,279 Speaker 2: we do. Break it down, Break it down, coach. 987 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:39,879 Speaker 8: That's why Yeah, my mama slept with the coach. Now 988 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:45,279 Speaker 8: you assaulted that sister, she was done. Yeah, because you 989 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,759 Speaker 8: say anything, you say any of this. 990 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:48,840 Speaker 2: The curtis. 991 00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,880 Speaker 11: Get ready to get ready, Greenville, South Carolina at the 992 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 11: Convention Center. 993 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,560 Speaker 2: The nephew is coming to town. Did you hear what 994 00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:57,000 Speaker 2: I said? 995 00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 11: Greenville, South Carolina, Saturday, August the nineteenth. The Nephew will 996 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 11: be in the building. That's Nephew, Tommy and Friends, and 997 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,799 Speaker 11: you don't want to miss it. We all own a roll, 998 00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,440 Speaker 11: Baby and laying in the cut at the Howard Theater, Washington, 999 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:14,720 Speaker 11: d C. 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Right now. 1009 00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,160 Speaker 1: It is time for today's Strawberry Letter. 1010 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,840 Speaker 10: If you need some advice on relationships, on work, on sex, 1011 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:49,280 Speaker 10: on dating, on parenting and more. Please submit your strawberry 1012 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:53,680 Speaker 10: letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry letter, 1013 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,320 Speaker 10: Right Steve, tell them take. 1014 00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:58,360 Speaker 8: This absolutely correctly. You really don't have many options because 1015 00:50:58,480 --> 00:50:59,800 Speaker 8: miss Abbey has passed. 1016 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,320 Speaker 1: Oh you mean like dear Abby, Dear that used to 1017 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,560 Speaker 1: have the column in the wo. 1018 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,920 Speaker 2: So it's just a to get the paper. 1019 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:14,080 Speaker 10: Yeah, all right, Well we could be reading your letter 1020 00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 10: live on the air, like we're going to read this 1021 00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:16,280 Speaker 10: one today. 1022 00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,879 Speaker 2: Come on you buckle up, hold on tight. We got 1023 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 2: it for you. Here. 1024 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 10: It is the strong, very letter subject. He wants me 1025 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,400 Speaker 10: but not the children. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a 1026 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 10: forty nine year old female married to a forty nine 1027 00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:34,320 Speaker 10: year old man. We have five children and five grandchildren. 1028 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:38,320 Speaker 10: Here is the problem my current husband, he says, I have. 1029 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 10: I have five children and five grandchildren. Okay, not we 1030 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,880 Speaker 10: Oh okay, here is the problem. My current husband is 1031 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:51,200 Speaker 10: not the father of my children. I married this man 1032 00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,839 Speaker 10: when my children were young, so he's been in their 1033 00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,440 Speaker 10: lives for a very long time. My youngest son just 1034 00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:00,400 Speaker 10: graduated from high school and we'll be going away for college. 1035 00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 10: So now my husband thinks that we are done raising children, 1036 00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,080 Speaker 10: and from now on it will be just the two 1037 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,279 Speaker 10: of us. He has said that we don't have to 1038 00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,760 Speaker 10: worry about the kids anymore because they are all grown 1039 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,720 Speaker 10: and have their own lives. So am I not supposed 1040 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,000 Speaker 10: to So am I not supposed to be involved with 1041 00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 10: my children since they are no longer living at home. 1042 00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,399 Speaker 10: My children range from ages thirty two to eighteen years old, 1043 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 10: and all five of them live in different states. I 1044 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,600 Speaker 10: want to see them and my grandkids as often as 1045 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,880 Speaker 10: I can. In fact, I'd like to move closer to them. 1046 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:36,480 Speaker 10: My husband does not want anything to do with them period. 1047 00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:39,000 Speaker 10: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want 1048 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,319 Speaker 10: them to visit us. He said that they don't need to. 1049 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:43,640 Speaker 1: Come for the holidays. 1050 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:49,360 Speaker 10: What the hell he really thinks that, because they are adults, 1051 00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,640 Speaker 10: I am supposed to forget that they exist. I understand 1052 00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:54,880 Speaker 10: that these are our golden years and we should be 1053 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,880 Speaker 10: enjoying quality time together and traveling the world. But our 1054 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:02,680 Speaker 10: travels should also include trips to see my children. If 1055 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,320 Speaker 10: he's really serious, I may have to spend my golden 1056 00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:07,920 Speaker 10: years alone. Stephen Shirley, can you please help me? 1057 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:09,279 Speaker 2: Well? 1058 00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,360 Speaker 10: Your letters started off nicely so I'll put it like this. 1059 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,600 Speaker 10: Your husband, I'm sure, feels like he's done his job 1060 00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:18,319 Speaker 10: and it's over. These were not his kids. He raised 1061 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 10: them anyway. He's been in their lives since they were 1062 00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:25,759 Speaker 10: really young. So he's done and not being their biological debt. 1063 00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,200 Speaker 10: Like I said, the ties are cut. He has no 1064 00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:32,719 Speaker 10: connection really to them. It seems he cut them off 1065 00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 10: and his concentration is now on you and you guys' 1066 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 10: future together. He wants to live, he wants to live 1067 00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 10: his life, you know, and do all of those things. 1068 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,000 Speaker 10: But now I think that he's being very unrealistic when 1069 00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:47,200 Speaker 10: he says the children he doesn't want the kids to 1070 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:49,040 Speaker 10: come and see you, or he doesn't want you to 1071 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:49,920 Speaker 10: go see the kids. 1072 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:50,719 Speaker 7: How is that? 1073 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:55,640 Speaker 10: I mean, really, that's a bit unrealistic, especially if it 1074 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,840 Speaker 10: makes you happy to see your kids. 1075 00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:58,600 Speaker 1: You're his wife. 1076 00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 10: He should want to see you happy and do those 1077 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,440 Speaker 10: things that make you happy. I mean, it's very unrealistic 1078 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,200 Speaker 10: to say that. He really thinks that because they're adults, 1079 00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:10,400 Speaker 10: you're supposed to forget that they exist. No, that's not 1080 00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 10: the issue, and he knows that's not the issue. They 1081 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,759 Speaker 10: are grown and they are living their own lives. That 1082 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,759 Speaker 10: part is definitely true. But you guys got to come 1083 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:23,560 Speaker 10: to some kind of compromise in terms of when you 1084 00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:25,359 Speaker 10: see the kids and when you go see the kids. 1085 00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,560 Speaker 1: Even if you just go by yourself, you have to 1086 00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:30,319 Speaker 1: see your kids. These are your kids, Steve. 1087 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:39,920 Speaker 8: You're a parent. Now he wants me, but not the children. Okay, 1088 00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 8: that I can relate to. I don't want mine either though. 1089 00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and on any day between the seven of them, 1090 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:49,960 Speaker 2: you can come get four just like that. 1091 00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:55,960 Speaker 8: But we are parents. You're forty nine, man's forty nine. 1092 00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,840 Speaker 8: You got five children and five grandkids. He's not the 1093 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,960 Speaker 8: father of the kids. Your youngest son just graduated high 1094 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,239 Speaker 8: school going away to college. So now your husband think 1095 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,120 Speaker 8: that we done raising children and from now on it 1096 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,279 Speaker 8: it just be the two of us. He has says 1097 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:11,960 Speaker 8: that we don't have to worry about the kids no 1098 00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:16,440 Speaker 8: more because they're all grown and have their own lives. Okay, 1099 00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:20,040 Speaker 8: are you kidding me? You really think that's how it goes? 1100 00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 8: Do you know that you are a parent for life. 1101 00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,839 Speaker 8: You may not be a husband or a wife for life, 1102 00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 8: but once you become a parent, you're a parent for life. Now, 1103 00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:32,600 Speaker 8: there are some good ones out there, and there are 1104 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,480 Speaker 8: some bad ones out there. I got it, you, sir, 1105 00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,960 Speaker 8: are about to turn into a bad one because you 1106 00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,560 Speaker 8: don't get it. You are in your golden years. You 1107 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,520 Speaker 8: said that later in the letter. Your kids are from 1108 00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,440 Speaker 8: thirty two to eighteen. All of them live in different states, 1109 00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,120 Speaker 8: and you want to see your kids and your grandkids. 1110 00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,239 Speaker 8: Matter of fact, you want to move closer to her. 1111 00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 8: Your husband don't want nothing to do with them, period. 1112 00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:59,000 Speaker 8: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want 1113 00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:00,239 Speaker 8: them to visit us. 1114 00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,440 Speaker 2: He says, they don't need to come for the holiday. 1115 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 7: What the hell? 1116 00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,360 Speaker 2: That's what the lady type don't need to come for 1117 00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:10,959 Speaker 2: the holidays. What the hell? 1118 00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,719 Speaker 8: What the hell is right? Come on, man, are you 1119 00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 8: for real? Bruh, you're gonna just act like you never 1120 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:22,360 Speaker 8: met these people. He gotta come home. He's not ready 1121 00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,160 Speaker 8: to live on his own, and I got that. The 1122 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 8: kids range from thirty two to eighteen. Man, Do you 1123 00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,359 Speaker 8: know how much advice they need? So how much help 1124 00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 8: they need? Financial support they need? Come on, man, that 1125 00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:36,200 Speaker 8: ain't hot his work? 1126 00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:38,800 Speaker 2: Man? You crazy? And he don't want them indivent. He 1127 00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,680 Speaker 2: don't want him to come for the holidays. 1128 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:44,080 Speaker 8: What the hell he thinks that because they are adults, 1129 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,120 Speaker 8: I'm supposed to forget the day exists. That's the craziest 1130 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:50,919 Speaker 8: part of it. You gotta be nuts. It doesn't work 1131 00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:54,560 Speaker 8: there way. Come on, man, I understand that these are 1132 00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 8: our golden years. You ain't be forty nine hell golden. 1133 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 8: But if that's how you want to look at it, okay, cool. 1134 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,560 Speaker 8: And if we should be enjoying quality time together and 1135 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:09,760 Speaker 8: traveling the world, players should also include trips see my trip. 1136 00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 2: If he's really serious, I may have to spend my 1137 00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,840 Speaker 2: golden years alone. And we will be back when I 1138 00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:15,359 Speaker 2: was a kid. 1139 00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:20,960 Speaker 15: What you say, Steve, I said, William back, all right, 1140 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,200 Speaker 15: we will be back at twenty three after with part 1141 00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:28,400 Speaker 15: two of Steve's response, too, he wants me but not 1142 00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:29,440 Speaker 15: the children? 1143 00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 1: Right after this. 1144 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:35,560 Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, here 1145 00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:39,080 Speaker 10: we are part two of today's Strawberry letter. The subject 1146 00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 10: he wants me but not the children. 1147 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 2: Wow, well, there's youngest one that graduated. 1148 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,960 Speaker 8: The boy is five kids, none of them he is 1149 00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 8: now he going while they graduated, they gone, we threw 1150 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:56,200 Speaker 8: it then they out. He's saying, no, they have their 1151 00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,320 Speaker 8: own lives, their adults. They should be able to make 1152 00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 8: it on their own. I see my grandkids as off 1153 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,320 Speaker 8: as I can. It's what the woman says. In fact, 1154 00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,760 Speaker 8: I want to move closer to him. My husband don't 1155 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:07,720 Speaker 8: want anything to do with them, period. He don't want 1156 00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 8: to visit them. He don't want them to visit us. 1157 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,320 Speaker 8: He said, they don't need to come for the holiday. 1158 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:18,840 Speaker 8: What the hell, lady said, what to hell? No, we 1159 00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,080 Speaker 8: don't come for the holidays. What is Christmas about? 1160 00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:22,640 Speaker 1: Exactly? 1161 00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 8: He really thinks that because the adults, I'm supposed to 1162 00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:28,960 Speaker 8: forget they exist. I understand that these are golden years 1163 00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,280 Speaker 8: that we should been enjoyed, follow the time together and 1164 00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:33,840 Speaker 8: traveling the world. But I travel plans and the called 1165 00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:36,560 Speaker 8: trips to see my children. He's really serious. I may 1166 00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:39,280 Speaker 8: have spent my golden years alone. Steven Shirley, can you 1167 00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 8: please help me? He wants to check out. In essence, 1168 00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:46,600 Speaker 8: he wants to check out. He wants to say that 1169 00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 8: I've done my duty. I raised these kids to the 1170 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:54,280 Speaker 8: best of my ability. I've contributed, and now they gone, 1171 00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:59,000 Speaker 8: that's it. I'm chilling. I wish that was the case. 1172 00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,440 Speaker 1: But honey, why don't you want to see the kids? 1173 00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:05,600 Speaker 1: I mean that something. 1174 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,080 Speaker 2: Happened already seen the kids, Well, yeah. 1175 00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 10: You've seen him since they were young, I mean, and 1176 00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:12,200 Speaker 10: they live their own lives now. 1177 00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,840 Speaker 2: I saw all I needed to see when they was here. 1178 00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:15,840 Speaker 2: I'm tired. 1179 00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:19,080 Speaker 8: I've been working, paying bill, put keep to college and 1180 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:22,720 Speaker 8: were covering up dream about that boy and coffee machine all. 1181 00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:26,800 Speaker 10: That and honey, we appreciate it so much, but these 1182 00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 10: are my kids. I have to see them on the holidays. 1183 00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:31,440 Speaker 1: That's what the holidays are for. 1184 00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:36,040 Speaker 10: Family holidays, Yes, family like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, get free 1185 00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:38,640 Speaker 10: like Thanksgiving like Christmas. 1186 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 2: We ain't going down there. 1187 00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,440 Speaker 1: I've already made arrangements for them to come here. 1188 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 2: They finish cork, were here to the house. 1189 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,520 Speaker 1: I'm you know, getting the big Christmas tree and everything. 1190 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:51,840 Speaker 1: They're gon. 1191 00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:53,600 Speaker 2: We just got ready to We just got rid of 1192 00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:55,240 Speaker 2: the damn boy. And what the hell are you inviting 1193 00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 2: them back for? They don't think we want them. 1194 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:58,840 Speaker 10: Well, he has to have somewhere to go when he's 1195 00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,240 Speaker 10: out of school for Christmas break school. 1196 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:04,360 Speaker 2: Don't wait, he ain't done at one Am International School. 1197 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:09,520 Speaker 1: But I want him to come home. I missed them. 1198 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:11,160 Speaker 1: I carried them for nine months. 1199 01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:15,120 Speaker 2: This is my blood, so you raising me kid to 1200 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,800 Speaker 2: be none. But rumps, that was wrong right here. 1201 01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:21,280 Speaker 1: He's a great kid. He's in college now, he great. 1202 01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:24,560 Speaker 2: He will let him fear for herself, go and make it. 1203 01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:26,479 Speaker 2: You know, he ain't got nowhere to get a job. 1204 01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,280 Speaker 1: Wow, I don't understand. 1205 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,000 Speaker 10: I mean, you were so good with them when they 1206 01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:32,240 Speaker 10: were young and helping me raise them. Now all of 1207 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,120 Speaker 10: a sudden, it's like, who are you? They are. 1208 01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:37,160 Speaker 1: I don't know you. 1209 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:39,720 Speaker 2: I was just counting the day. 1210 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:41,760 Speaker 1: What do you mean you were counting the day until 1211 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:45,200 Speaker 1: they got out this house. But you were so good. 1212 01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 1: They call you daddy. You're not even there, Vio. 1213 01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,480 Speaker 2: She never call me daddy cause they can't find that. 1214 01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:00,200 Speaker 10: Well, you know, I just wanted to let you know 1215 01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:02,720 Speaker 10: that I really appreciate that you were there for me, 1216 01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:03,640 Speaker 10: there for my kids. 1217 01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:05,439 Speaker 2: I know you do, baby, I appreciate. Now I want 1218 01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:06,120 Speaker 2: you to be here for me. 1219 01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:10,080 Speaker 1: Well, I am here for you, but I'm also you. 1220 01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:12,960 Speaker 2: All the time, all that the mom day's over with. 1221 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:15,400 Speaker 1: No, the mom days are never over with. 1222 01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:17,160 Speaker 2: Gone. 1223 01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 9: No, they're not. 1224 01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,960 Speaker 2: They no, they not cause you keep inviting them back. 1225 01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:22,680 Speaker 9: Leave more. 1226 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:26,880 Speaker 10: They act girl, these are my kids and this is 1227 01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:30,320 Speaker 10: my house too. They're coming home for the holidays. Okay, 1228 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,400 Speaker 10: I put my foot down. 1229 01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:36,280 Speaker 2: That's waiting to get the hell out. Never invite them 1230 01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:37,400 Speaker 2: back over for the holidays. 1231 01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,320 Speaker 7: It's just be in here. 1232 01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 2: We ain't got no. We ain't gonna be able to 1233 01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:41,600 Speaker 2: put a tree up. 1234 01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:44,520 Speaker 1: We're gonna put a tree up right over there. 1235 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:45,400 Speaker 7: But when. 1236 01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:48,120 Speaker 2: If you put a tree up. 1237 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 8: Over there and then all these people come in the house, 1238 01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:51,920 Speaker 8: we ain't gonna be decorated. 1239 01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:55,800 Speaker 1: It's just five kids and five grandkids and there's about 1240 01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:56,479 Speaker 1: ten people. 1241 01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:57,439 Speaker 2: Look at the living mood. 1242 01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:00,920 Speaker 10: Well, then maybe we need a big house because I'm 1243 01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:02,160 Speaker 10: not getting rid of my kids. 1244 01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:03,919 Speaker 2: A bigger house. 1245 01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:05,400 Speaker 1: Yes, it's a bigger house. 1246 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:11,919 Speaker 2: Girls, that girl, we can find out all them people 1247 01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:13,640 Speaker 2: out of here only here. We need a bigger house. 1248 01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,080 Speaker 1: It's just for a few days during the holidays. 1249 01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:16,400 Speaker 2: Honey. 1250 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:18,600 Speaker 1: You don't want to say Christmas caro. 1251 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:21,640 Speaker 8: Yeah, no, matter of fact, I want this house stage 1252 01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 8: saying sid so they can they already outgrowing. 1253 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,120 Speaker 1: And who's gonna we need a bigger house. Who's gonna 1254 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:27,680 Speaker 1: help me cook? 1255 01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:30,080 Speaker 10: That's what we love doing, that, me and the girls 1256 01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:33,920 Speaker 10: cooking together, paring Christmas dinner and Thanksgiving dinner. 1257 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 2: You ain't no We're gonna stop this damn joke the 1258 01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:46,800 Speaker 2: woman in the letter. If you're gonna try to slide 1259 01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:48,840 Speaker 2: in and you can cook, we're gonna end the damn 1260 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:52,960 Speaker 2: troup the letter can cook, We've got to try to 1261 01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:53,640 Speaker 2: slide into. 1262 01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,000 Speaker 8: We're gonna help you cook that. We've been trying to 1263 01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:59,560 Speaker 8: find out two thousands. I don't know what the little 1264 01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 8: Mexican to. 1265 01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 1: His name is there? 1266 01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 2: Neston not. 1267 01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:09,320 Speaker 7: Sorry you, Steve? 1268 01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,160 Speaker 1: Are you still the man in the letter? Make up 1269 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 1: your mind? 1270 01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:13,280 Speaker 2: I'm man in the letter. 1271 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:15,200 Speaker 8: But what you try to slide in with a cooking 1272 01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:17,160 Speaker 8: complimend by yourself and I ain't FeelA. 1273 01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:22,760 Speaker 2: Let you do it now? Surely you can't cook? Will 1274 01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:24,640 Speaker 2: help me cook? Anybody? 1275 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:27,960 Speaker 1: I'm speaking as the woman in the letter. All Right, 1276 01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:29,720 Speaker 1: we gotta go, We gotta get out of here. 1277 01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:33,440 Speaker 10: Email us or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's every 1278 01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:35,600 Speaker 10: letter at Steve Harvey f M. Or you can go 1279 01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:38,440 Speaker 10: to my girl Shirley. All right, coming up next more 1280 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:41,560 Speaker 10: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're. 1281 01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:46,080 Speaker 1: Listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, time to play 1282 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:51,600 Speaker 1: comedy roulette. Let's go Bertie. Yeah, you want to explain it? 1283 01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:54,800 Speaker 4: Quickly, Jay, we dig four subjects. Put him on the wheel, 1284 01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 4: spun the wheel. We stop, We'll do the damn dame. 1285 01:03:59,080 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. 1286 01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:05,040 Speaker 10: Things people say who don't watch television, things that know 1287 01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,560 Speaker 10: it all will say stuff you say when you break 1288 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 10: something that doesn't. 1289 01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:09,440 Speaker 1: Belong to you. 1290 01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:16,520 Speaker 13: And movie rolls, Tommy could definitely play spin the wheel. 1291 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:25,640 Speaker 2: Well, we know where to hit it, but we know 1292 01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:26,360 Speaker 2: where it's going. 1293 01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:35,040 Speaker 13: What happened by mistakes? Promise you movie rolls, Tommy definitely could. 1294 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:36,840 Speaker 6: Let's go. 1295 01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:41,000 Speaker 2: Jay oh Man, Tommy, come on. 1296 01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 4: He could play the Hulk when he was a boy, 1297 01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:49,520 Speaker 4: The Hope all grown up, The Hope. 1298 01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,120 Speaker 2: Jesus movie, Roles Nephew. 1299 01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,560 Speaker 14: Tommy could play Thing one or Thing two in a 1300 01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:55,800 Speaker 14: Doctor SEUs movie. 1301 01:04:58,040 --> 01:04:58,720 Speaker 2: I could play Phi. 1302 01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:03,000 Speaker 8: You, Harvey, I can play I'll tell you what you 1303 01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:06,280 Speaker 8: could play better though, for the Gary Coleman story. 1304 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:11,160 Speaker 4: What you talking about the story of the Jolly Green Giant? 1305 01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:17,000 Speaker 2: Keep me tall, Jake me tall j who he's gonna 1306 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:21,920 Speaker 2: be one of the shoes. Let me see who I 1307 01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:22,360 Speaker 2: could play. 1308 01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:27,640 Speaker 11: I could play Kareem abdul Jabbar oh in the Kaream 1309 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:28,800 Speaker 11: of Dude the bo movie. 1310 01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:30,479 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're. 1311 01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:34,720 Speaker 8: Gonna be his socks. You're getting up there, you ahead? 1312 01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:39,120 Speaker 8: Emanuel Lewis the Beginning. 1313 01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:46,560 Speaker 4: Webster. Yeah, all right, come on, what's the story of 1314 01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:47,960 Speaker 4: the fifty foot Man? 1315 01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:53,240 Speaker 2: Come on, Jake, that's all right. Remember Chucky the movie? 1316 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:54,040 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1317 01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:58,640 Speaker 14: Yeah, Tim, he gonna play the Bio Pig documentary of Chucky. 1318 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:00,960 Speaker 2: He's gonna bust out of. 1319 01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:09,520 Speaker 7: A box and everything. Ju tom your turn. 1320 01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:13,760 Speaker 11: I could play, because you know I know him Shaquille 1321 01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:15,120 Speaker 11: O'Neal life Store. 1322 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:15,919 Speaker 4: Yes you can't. 1323 01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, yeah, you're ready for what? You really 1324 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:26,640 Speaker 2: gonna play it over bubbles my years with Michael he was. 1325 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:31,480 Speaker 1: These are movie roles that Tommy definitely could play. 1326 01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:35,960 Speaker 10: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 1327 01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:37,880 Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. 1328 01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:44,280 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here's 1329 01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:46,000 Speaker 1: something we saw on Facebook. 1330 01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:49,200 Speaker 10: Now, there was a boss who asked five coworkers who 1331 01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 10: were in a meeting if they had any spare change. 1332 01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:55,120 Speaker 10: So this guy said, my friend was about to reach 1333 01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:57,840 Speaker 10: into his pocket, and a coworker grabbed his hand. 1334 01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:01,400 Speaker 1: To quickly start to quietly stop him from offering change. 1335 01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:05,240 Speaker 10: A different coworker who was eager to kiss, but said, hey, 1336 01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:09,040 Speaker 10: I have eighty cents. The boss said, great, I heard 1337 01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:12,320 Speaker 10: your change jingling throughout the meeting. Please don't bring any 1338 01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:14,920 Speaker 10: change into the meetings anymore. 1339 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:16,720 Speaker 2: Set up. 1340 01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:21,160 Speaker 10: Yes, yes, yes, so Steve, I got to ask you. 1341 01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,680 Speaker 10: I know you have a crazy horrible boss story. 1342 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:24,400 Speaker 2: I know you do. 1343 01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:28,120 Speaker 8: Please yes, I mean, you know, just in my life, 1344 01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:31,480 Speaker 8: I thought all my bosses was horrible because first of all, 1345 01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,720 Speaker 8: my problem as every yeah, every last one of them. 1346 01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,600 Speaker 8: I never none of my boss because I didn't I 1347 01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:39,640 Speaker 8: didn't think none of them should be in charge of me. 1348 01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:43,400 Speaker 2: That was my whole damn Yeah. So I had this 1349 01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:46,040 Speaker 2: I had. I had a boss named Bob Cook and 1350 01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 2: Cleveland at Jenny Metric uh huh. And he was. 1351 01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:52,720 Speaker 8: He was chastising me one time because he didn't like 1352 01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:55,360 Speaker 8: the way I had unloaded this truck with the tomoil. 1353 01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:57,440 Speaker 8: So he pulls me in the office to talk to me. 1354 01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 8: Little fat, little dude, real big asstmach. He leaned back, 1355 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,040 Speaker 8: had his foot up on the desk. He said to me, 1356 01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:06,120 Speaker 8: you know something, Harvey, if you could just change your 1357 01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:10,600 Speaker 8: work habits. I've been at this company thirty years. If 1358 01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:15,600 Speaker 8: you following my footsteps, you could be me. One day, WHOA, 1359 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:20,320 Speaker 8: I got up and was walking out that door. He said, 1360 01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:22,720 Speaker 8: where are you going? I said, man, I don't want 1361 01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:26,080 Speaker 8: to be you and walked out that door and shut 1362 01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:32,439 Speaker 8: that door. Two weeks later, I was gone, okay, yeah 1363 01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:36,800 Speaker 8: that cost me right there, and walk out moment shut 1364 01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:38,719 Speaker 8: the door. I said, man, I don't want. 1365 01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:38,920 Speaker 9: To be you. 1366 01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:45,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm agreeing with Steve. 1367 01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:49,519 Speaker 5: Quitting takes a toll on your life, and it only 1368 01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:52,800 Speaker 5: hits you when you're sitting in that car. I mean, 1369 01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:56,680 Speaker 5: you quit inside, you got your outside, and you have 1370 01:08:56,840 --> 01:09:01,559 Speaker 5: already quitted. I'm saying inside, I'm not well, the hell 1371 01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:01,960 Speaker 5: with it. 1372 01:09:02,360 --> 01:09:02,720 Speaker 7: Damn it. 1373 01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:05,000 Speaker 5: You take your job and you know what you can 1374 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,599 Speaker 5: do with it. Okay, I'm out this, and you add 1375 01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,120 Speaker 5: and then you walk out. Now you in the car, 1376 01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:13,200 Speaker 5: and then that's that's when it all hits you. 1377 01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:15,240 Speaker 1: Hit you, right, What did I just do? 1378 01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:16,519 Speaker 9: What? 1379 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:19,960 Speaker 16: Jay? 1380 01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:23,479 Speaker 2: Jay? When you realize they finished sending you your last check? 1381 01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, ain't too many people with a job got enough 1382 01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:31,320 Speaker 8: savings and last man, you know. 1383 01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:31,720 Speaker 2: What I mean? 1384 01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:32,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1385 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:36,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah six months. Very few people got six months 1386 01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:37,920 Speaker 2: of savings set up? 1387 01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:38,960 Speaker 9: Yeah. 1388 01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:39,479 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1389 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:44,120 Speaker 5: When you realize that you're off when you realize that 1390 01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:48,040 Speaker 5: you're off from work that day real early. I mean 1391 01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:52,120 Speaker 5: you off real early, like whoa, I'm off, like like 1392 01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:53,360 Speaker 5: eleven thirty A. M. 1393 01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:54,080 Speaker 2: You off. 1394 01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:56,599 Speaker 9: Back? 1395 01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:00,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you ain't even making lunch. You off, and they 1396 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:06,200 Speaker 2: don't call nobody because everybody else is at Yeah. 1397 01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:08,840 Speaker 5: And then when you called back, they all of a 1398 01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,679 Speaker 5: sudden whispering to you, and you not even now they whispering. 1399 01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:16,000 Speaker 2: Man, I heard you, I heard you left. I can't 1400 01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:18,639 Speaker 2: I gotta go. I mean, like what we were just funny? 1401 01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:19,639 Speaker 2: What the hell happened? 1402 01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:20,040 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1403 01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:28,960 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, I got into I worked. I worked at 1404 01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:31,639 Speaker 11: the gap. I worked at the gap, and I'm aneath. 1405 01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:34,080 Speaker 11: I'm a neath fanatic, y'all know that. So my job 1406 01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,599 Speaker 11: was sure, baby gap. 1407 01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:42,960 Speaker 2: I worked at the gap. I'm over the sweat wall. 1408 01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:45,160 Speaker 11: I got the sweat wall immaculate, and I mean everything 1409 01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:47,800 Speaker 11: folded just it's picture purpose. And I got into it 1410 01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:50,040 Speaker 11: with a customer that just started pulling stuff out the 1411 01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:52,160 Speaker 11: sweat while trying to try and stuff and just yanking 1412 01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:54,840 Speaker 11: stuff out. And the manager came up saying, hey, you 1413 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:57,519 Speaker 11: just do what you're supposed to do. You you fix 1414 01:10:57,600 --> 01:10:58,680 Speaker 11: it and you put it back. I said, what the 1415 01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:01,840 Speaker 11: hell you talking to I had this wall perfect over here, 1416 01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:03,400 Speaker 11: But what are you gonna do? 1417 01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:05,479 Speaker 2: Man, I'm gonna go down here. I went down into 1418 01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:07,960 Speaker 2: windows and got me a burger camera hands. I just 1419 01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:08,560 Speaker 2: couldn't take it. 1420 01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:15,880 Speaker 1: A perfect wall, really, Tommy. 1421 01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:20,240 Speaker 2: For him to get all them sweats up that hound 1422 01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:20,719 Speaker 2: that wall. 1423 01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:26,400 Speaker 10: Today's trending stories coming up in twenty minutes after. Right 1424 01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:33,160 Speaker 10: after this, you're listening Hardy Morning Show. All right, Carla, 1425 01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:37,439 Speaker 10: me and just some you know, just some random girls 1426 01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:43,000 Speaker 10: were talking. This question came up. It's like, because you know, 1427 01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:44,800 Speaker 10: we were taught to make up the bed when we 1428 01:11:44,920 --> 01:11:46,679 Speaker 10: get out, make up the bed. No what it wants 1429 01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:49,960 Speaker 10: to come home to an unmade bed. But in our 1430 01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:53,240 Speaker 10: house it's whoever is last, whoever gets up last. If 1431 01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:55,519 Speaker 10: I get up first, then you know Nesto has to 1432 01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:57,599 Speaker 10: make up the bed and he makes it up really well. 1433 01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:00,320 Speaker 1: I must say all about really well. 1434 01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:05,000 Speaker 3: Next Stone needs to call my husband Ash because he 1435 01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 3: ain't making up the bed like that. He will get now, 1436 01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:10,360 Speaker 3: you know, because we have to be to work so early. 1437 01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,920 Speaker 3: Of course we I get up first, but he gets 1438 01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:15,960 Speaker 3: up early too. He'll go to the gym and all 1439 01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:18,800 Speaker 3: that to make sure I'm up and but nah, child, 1440 01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:21,000 Speaker 3: I got to come right back in there and make 1441 01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:21,599 Speaker 3: up the bed. 1442 01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:23,360 Speaker 1: Just sad, just sad. 1443 01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:27,639 Speaker 10: But let me let me I'm fussed and nagged enough. Okay, 1444 01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:32,519 Speaker 10: you've gotten it just right, all right, hey, listen, follow us, yes, 1445 01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:33,920 Speaker 10: follow us on social media. 1446 01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:37,120 Speaker 3: I'm on the Gram at my Girl Shirley and I'm 1447 01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:40,880 Speaker 3: at Lips by Carla. Don't worry, we'll post our bedrooms. 1448 01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:41,840 Speaker 1: I'll post the. 1449 01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:44,160 Speaker 7: Bed Yeah, all. 1450 01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:48,880 Speaker 10: Right, all right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 1451 01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:52,639 Speaker 10: Morning Show make Up your Bed coming up in thirty 1452 01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:56,120 Speaker 10: three minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening 1453 01:12:56,840 --> 01:13:00,200 Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show. We here at the Steve Every 1454 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:02,680 Speaker 10: Morning Show. Love food, all of us. But there are 1455 01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:04,719 Speaker 10: a lot of foods we think are from other countries 1456 01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:07,960 Speaker 10: that are actually invented in a good old USA. And 1457 01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:11,280 Speaker 10: those are some of the most famous ones. Like fortune 1458 01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:15,120 Speaker 10: cookies invented right here. Yeah, it was actually invented in 1459 01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:18,200 Speaker 10: San Francisco by a Japanese American baker. 1460 01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:21,200 Speaker 7: Did y'all know that? Did you notice? 1461 01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:22,960 Speaker 1: See I didn't. 1462 01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,760 Speaker 2: Fortune cook They don't taste good. 1463 01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:30,960 Speaker 1: I like them with chocolate, white chocolate them, then they're good. 1464 01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:38,280 Speaker 2: Surely excuse me. Chocolate is the worst thing you could 1465 01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:39,040 Speaker 2: put in your body. 1466 01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:42,200 Speaker 1: I absolutely know that. But it tastes real good. That's 1467 01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:42,880 Speaker 1: all I'm saying. 1468 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:48,360 Speaker 2: I'm sorry you a very wonderful health reason. 1469 01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:49,200 Speaker 9: And you just it. 1470 01:13:49,520 --> 01:13:49,960 Speaker 6: I know that. 1471 01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:55,519 Speaker 1: I don't eat it now, but yeah I used to, 1472 01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:58,680 Speaker 1: and it's delicious. Orange chicken. How about that one? 1473 01:13:59,040 --> 01:13:59,679 Speaker 7: That's good? 1474 01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1475 01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 10: It was created in Hawaii in nineteen eighty seven by 1476 01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:07,839 Speaker 10: Panda Express chef Andy Kao or Kyle. 1477 01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:10,240 Speaker 9: Wow. 1478 01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:17,960 Speaker 2: Know who came up with the crush station? Who came 1479 01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:22,880 Speaker 2: up with them? They did? They do a copy? 1480 01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:27,759 Speaker 1: German chocolate cake came German? 1481 01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:33,000 Speaker 8: My mama, yeah, mama, it is. I don't know who 1482 01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:35,799 Speaker 8: made it. Befoult, I don't know who made it, befolt. 1483 01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:39,160 Speaker 8: Ain't nobody make it? Like huddle ear lost Verra Hobby 1484 01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:41,559 Speaker 8: greatest piece of German chocolate cake? 1485 01:14:41,800 --> 01:14:47,880 Speaker 10: Hold up, wow, have heard German chocolate. But anyway, it 1486 01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:51,439 Speaker 10: has nothing to do with Germany. It's because of its name, 1487 01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:54,280 Speaker 10: Samuel German that is called German. 1488 01:14:54,520 --> 01:15:01,719 Speaker 17: Glad people they're perfected it. Oh yes, hello, that coconut. Yeah, 1489 01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:06,080 Speaker 17: we've had a lot taken from us. 1490 01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:07,559 Speaker 9: Hey, the right that. 1491 01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:16,120 Speaker 2: We took we took the cake. Okay, okay, love we 1492 01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:18,080 Speaker 2: love German cake, all right. 1493 01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:21,799 Speaker 1: English muffins, English muffins from England. 1494 01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:22,479 Speaker 3: From England. 1495 01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:26,759 Speaker 10: They were actually invented in New York City in nineteen 1496 01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:30,599 Speaker 10: eighty four by English immigrant Samuel Bass Thomas. 1497 01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:33,800 Speaker 1: They were rich, they were really nothing. 1498 01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:37,000 Speaker 2: Let me give you some real dishes that was created 1499 01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:38,240 Speaker 2: right here in America. 1500 01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:43,000 Speaker 16: Okay, come on, what you got shit lits, yes, work 1501 01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 16: it out, boy, whether they want to be or not, 1502 01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:53,160 Speaker 16: fried sprail yes, hot dogs and pork and beans. 1503 01:15:54,240 --> 01:16:01,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, American dish. All right, there you have it. You're 1504 01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:04,000 Speaker 1: listening Harvey Morning Show. 1505 01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:06,600 Speaker 10: All right, guys, this is our last break of the 1506 01:16:06,680 --> 01:16:10,559 Speaker 10: day and it is time for some closing remarks from 1507 01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:12,519 Speaker 10: the one and only Steve Harvey. 1508 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:15,960 Speaker 8: Well, it's been a good day. Let me ask you, 1509 01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:19,439 Speaker 8: guys a question, just off the top of your head. 1510 01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:22,760 Speaker 8: What do you all and anybody can answer this question. 1511 01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:27,639 Speaker 8: What do you think is probably the number one cause 1512 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:33,040 Speaker 8: that gets in the way of people moving forward or 1513 01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:35,360 Speaker 8: what has gotten in the way of you over the 1514 01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:39,600 Speaker 8: years from moving forward, Because I mean it happens to 1515 01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:42,800 Speaker 8: all of us, myself included. I'm just asking a question 1516 01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:43,360 Speaker 8: to the crew. 1517 01:16:45,680 --> 01:16:49,800 Speaker 1: Fear of failure, failure, fear of success. 1518 01:16:52,200 --> 01:17:00,280 Speaker 8: Sometimes trying to fix the past, wow, and lack of faith. Well, okay, 1519 01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:04,599 Speaker 8: let me address three things. This is a jo I'm 1520 01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:07,599 Speaker 8: gonna try to do this quickly. Let's talk about fixing 1521 01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:12,120 Speaker 8: the past. Let's talk briefly about fear, and let's talk 1522 01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:16,080 Speaker 8: about the fear of being successful. Let's start with the 1523 01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:21,120 Speaker 8: fear of being successful. A lot of people have a 1524 01:17:21,280 --> 01:17:26,120 Speaker 8: fear of becoming successful because they're not sure of the 1525 01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:33,080 Speaker 8: requirements that will be placed on them once they become successful. 1526 01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:39,439 Speaker 8: Some people think that they won't be able to handle 1527 01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:46,920 Speaker 8: the regiment of being successful, and that right there is 1528 01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:52,360 Speaker 8: you're not understanding how God works. God never puts you 1529 01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:57,800 Speaker 8: someplace He doesn't prepare you to be. Do you understand 1530 01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,960 Speaker 8: that as you become successful that you going to be tested, 1531 01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:05,240 Speaker 8: You're going to be challenged, You're going to be faced 1532 01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:08,960 Speaker 8: with all types of situations that will better you, equip you, 1533 01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:12,040 Speaker 8: and make you the experienced person that you need to 1534 01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:13,120 Speaker 8: be to be. 1535 01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:16,040 Speaker 2: In the place that you're going to finally wind up 1536 01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:16,360 Speaker 2: in it. 1537 01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:20,560 Speaker 8: Stop being afraid of success and understand that God is 1538 01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:22,240 Speaker 8: not going to put you in a room that you're 1539 01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:26,360 Speaker 8: not qualified or equipped to be in. That's for starters. Now, 1540 01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:32,599 Speaker 8: let's talk about fixing the past. You ready, you can't, 1541 01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:39,400 Speaker 8: you can't. You get no do overs in life. The 1542 01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:42,519 Speaker 8: problem that people have when they try to fix the 1543 01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:45,439 Speaker 8: past is because they are surrounded by people who are 1544 01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:48,720 Speaker 8: constantly reminding them of the past and telling them you're 1545 01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:50,880 Speaker 8: not this, and you're not that, and you can't do 1546 01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:53,000 Speaker 8: this because you did that and I remember when you 1547 01:18:53,120 --> 01:18:56,639 Speaker 8: did that. When you remove those people from your life 1548 01:18:56,880 --> 01:19:00,000 Speaker 8: who are constantly trying to remind you of your pass 1549 01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:01,120 Speaker 8: you will. 1550 01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:04,960 Speaker 2: Then lose the need to have to fix it. 1551 01:19:06,240 --> 01:19:08,880 Speaker 8: See, but you have to fix it when there are 1552 01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:12,759 Speaker 8: people in your life and including you, who keep bringing 1553 01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:16,120 Speaker 8: the past to the forefront to put it in your presence. 1554 01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:20,400 Speaker 8: That's why the Lord's prayer is simple, give us this 1555 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:22,960 Speaker 8: day our daily bread. 1556 01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,040 Speaker 2: The Bible very rarely. 1557 01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:31,519 Speaker 8: Talks to you about your past, because it's been forgiven, 1558 01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:36,560 Speaker 8: it's done. I haven't read a whole lot of scriptures 1559 01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:41,679 Speaker 8: to help me with my past. I read a lot 1560 01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:48,519 Speaker 8: of scriptures that talk about Now. I read a lot 1561 01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:52,479 Speaker 8: of scriptures that talks about faith, the belief in things 1562 01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:56,760 Speaker 8: that you cannot see, trusting in his word, holding on 1563 01:19:56,960 --> 01:20:01,479 Speaker 8: to his unchanging hand, realizing that all things are possible 1564 01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:04,560 Speaker 8: through him. I read a lot of scriptures about that, 1565 01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:09,439 Speaker 8: but nothing is more prevalent in our life today than 1566 01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:12,720 Speaker 8: the Lord's prayer, which clearly says, give us this day 1567 01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:19,000 Speaker 8: our daily bread, because tomorrow you have no control over Now. 1568 01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:21,599 Speaker 8: You can have hopes for tomorrow, you can have plans 1569 01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:24,879 Speaker 8: for tomorrow, you can have visions and aspirations for tomorrow. 1570 01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:29,400 Speaker 8: But everything about tomorrow, which I have finally learned, should, 1571 01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:33,599 Speaker 8: should be tempered with the remark if it's God's will 1572 01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:39,240 Speaker 8: and in God's timing. That way, it releases me from 1573 01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:42,400 Speaker 8: having to be worried about the timing of an event, 1574 01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:47,600 Speaker 8: because just because it's been denied, just because it's been delayed, 1575 01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:50,640 Speaker 8: does not mean that it's been denied. 1576 01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:56,120 Speaker 2: I had to learn that. So fixing your past can't 1577 01:20:56,200 --> 01:20:58,000 Speaker 2: be done. What's done is done. 1578 01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:01,080 Speaker 8: First thing you want to do about fixing the past, 1579 01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:03,800 Speaker 8: remove people from your life who are constantly reminding you 1580 01:21:03,920 --> 01:21:08,439 Speaker 8: of your past. And then, secondly, forgive yourself, just as 1581 01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:11,759 Speaker 8: God has done. I used to do it to myself 1582 01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:15,720 Speaker 8: all the time. Even at my daughter's wedding, I made 1583 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:19,519 Speaker 8: the statement I said, I've spent all of my adult 1584 01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:22,760 Speaker 8: life trying to fix the mistakes I made as a 1585 01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:25,240 Speaker 8: young man. You know what Bishop Jakes told me, who 1586 01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:27,439 Speaker 8: was at my daughter's when he said you're too hard 1587 01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:31,280 Speaker 8: on yourself. He said, you're too hard on yourself. You 1588 01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,280 Speaker 8: need to stop doing that to yourself, Steve, And he 1589 01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:38,000 Speaker 8: was right because I keep trying to do that and 1590 01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:41,760 Speaker 8: I had to stop. And last, but not least, let's 1591 01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:46,640 Speaker 8: just talk about fear itself. The majority of us have 1592 01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:51,839 Speaker 8: a fear of success and a fear of failure because 1593 01:21:51,920 --> 01:21:57,680 Speaker 8: we don't have a strong enough relationship with God. I'm 1594 01:21:57,760 --> 01:22:01,120 Speaker 8: telling you, man, God e raises fear. God puts you 1595 01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:04,320 Speaker 8: in a comfort zone. I mean, if you think about 1596 01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:08,080 Speaker 8: it just for a second. Everybody, everything that you've ever 1597 01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:09,920 Speaker 8: gone through, and I've said this, I can't tell you 1598 01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 8: how many times on the show. 1599 01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:14,479 Speaker 2: Everything you've gone through, every challenge you've. 1600 01:22:14,400 --> 01:22:19,240 Speaker 8: Ever had, every setback, every hardship, you've managed somehow to 1601 01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:22,800 Speaker 8: this point to get past all of them. Your track 1602 01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:26,880 Speaker 8: record for surviving rough days and challenges is one hundred percent. 1603 01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:29,600 Speaker 8: Why would God not continue to do that for you. 1604 01:22:30,280 --> 01:22:35,360 Speaker 8: Lose your fear because God is near. Lose your fear 1605 01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:39,800 Speaker 8: because God is near. Those are the three things I 1606 01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:42,559 Speaker 8: wanted to address. Thank you for giving me those closing remarks, 1607 01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:43,360 Speaker 8: I have a great day. 1608 01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:45,360 Speaker 2: Talk to God. He'd love to hear from you. See 1609 01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:45,960 Speaker 2: you tomorrow. 1610 01:22:46,200 --> 01:22:46,400 Speaker 9: Bye. 1611 01:22:56,640 --> 01:22:59,920 Speaker 10: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void wear prohibit. 1612 01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:03,639 Speaker 10: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1613 01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:08,639 Speaker 10: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. 1614 01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:11,719 Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.