1 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. 2 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey, Matt, how you doing, Hey 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 2: guys doing? Okay, how you doing? 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: We're great, Welcome to the show. So what's going on 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: with this woman, Shenie? How did you meet? 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 2: Tell us about any dates that you've been on and 7 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: kind of where things are now? 8 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 3: Absolutely, so, yeah, Nie and I we met on the apps, 9 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 3: and yeah, I was really excited to take her out. 10 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 2: We jailed immediately. 11 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 3: So I invited her out to this new restaurant in 12 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 3: my neighborhood, and I mean, I gotta say when she 13 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 3: showed up, she was even more gorgeous in person, like wow, 14 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 3: And we had a blast, like we were chatting for 15 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 3: several hours, and I couldn't wait to go in the 16 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 3: next one next day. 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 2: But Mike, I don't know. Ever since we. 18 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 3: Finished that date, I've been trying to contact here and 19 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 3: I've been getting radio silenced and I do not know why. 20 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: Okay, so this was a great date in your estimation, 21 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: but she's got seen you since then. And obviously you 22 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: were excited about it because you're describing, you know, how 23 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: much better looking she was than you were anticipating and 24 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: all these things. So you were really hoping to hear 25 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: from her again, and you, I would imagine it's sort 26 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: of weigh on you, like, why is this person not 27 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: calling me back? 28 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if it's something I did or 29 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: maybe like something happened to her. I don't know. I 30 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 3: just I want to check in. I want to make sure. 31 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 3: I want to try and get the second date. 32 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: You know, yah, yeah, no, I get it. So we're 33 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: gonna call this woman Shehanise. You'll be on the phone 34 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: at some point. You're welcome to jump in after we 35 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: get you some info and you know, hopefully we can 36 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: straighten this out and then get you guys going on 37 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: another date that we pay for. 38 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 2: Sound good? 39 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 3: Hey, that sounds great, Thank you guys. 40 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: We're gonna find out what's going on next. Part to 41 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: you of waiting by the phoney in two minutes after 42 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: post belone Frend Show Ease odd to stay here? 43 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: Good morning everyone. 44 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: The Frend Show is on the radio on the iHeartRadio 45 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: app as well. 46 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 2: So glad you're here. Hey, Matt, how you doing? 47 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 3: Hey doing okay? 48 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: How you doing great? All right, let's call this woman Sheanie. 49 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: You guys, you went on a date you really were 50 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: happy with all aspect said the date with her, he 51 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: thought he was hot, all these things, except you have 52 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: not heard from her since that date, and you want 53 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: to know why. 54 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 2: Yes, that's all correct, a fact, all right, man, let's 55 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 2: call her now. Good luck, Matt, thank you. 56 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: Hello. Hei's a Shenise, Hi, Shanize, good morning. My name 57 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: is Fredam called for the Fred's Show, the other radio show, 58 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 59 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission 60 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: to continue with the calls. That okay if we chat 61 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 1: for a second, Yes, thank you very much. We're calling 62 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: on behalf of a guy who reached out to us. 63 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: His name is Matt. I guess you recently went on 64 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: a first date with him. Do you remember him? 65 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I remember? 66 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: Oh, oh yeah, Oh you remember this guy. So he 67 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: told us that he thought you were really pretty and 68 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: he had a great time on the date and was 69 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: hoping to see you again. And he says he's reached 70 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 1: out since then but has not been able to get 71 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: ahold of you. So what's going on? Are you ghosting 72 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: this guy? I assume what's the deal? 73 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 3: I did not intend to. I don't know if he 74 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 3: told you this. 75 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: But that vegan. He's vegan. Okay, No, he didn't. He 76 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: didn't share that with us. 77 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 3: No, And it's not it's not like okay, just happens 78 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 3: to be vegan or guys, like the whole time you 79 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:20,559 Speaker 3: talked about it judged. 80 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: Me and what I or need those articles gap about 81 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: what I was eating as bad? 82 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 2: Oh no while you were eating yes, yeah, see. 83 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: It's one thing if you want to be vegetarian, vegan, uh, 84 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: whatever it is, you know, pescatarian, all these different versions, 85 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: that's one thing for you. But as soon as you 86 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: start preaching, and especially if you start judging and like 87 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: pointing out things that people are doing wrong in real time, 88 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: like why would I want to spend time with that? 89 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like what I mean. 90 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: It's one thing if you want to try to influence 91 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: me in a in a over the course of a relationship, 92 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: maybe to be a little more healthy or whatever things 93 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: that you found work, but I don't. I'm not trying 94 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: to eat my stake. And the whole time you're like, oh, 95 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: well you know that's no fun. 96 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, thank you. It's not like I was trying 97 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: to like encourage them to eat meat. 98 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, let me bring I got to bring up 99 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: madd In because I forgot to mention that mattis here. 100 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm extremely forgetful, Matt. What's the deal? Why why are 101 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: you writing her on your choices? 102 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,679 Speaker 2: Hey guys, Yeah, Hey, hey your niece. 103 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I honestly just want to say that I simply 104 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 3: care about you, and I want the best for you, 105 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 3: and I'm just trying to help. 106 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: That's all, okay. I mean I like what you think. Yeah, 107 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 2: it's best for you, right, yeah, And like I mean, 108 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 2: didn't ask for help. 109 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 3: It is also best for the environment and best for 110 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 3: your health and you know all those other things. But 111 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 3: it's it's nothing, nothing personal, you know, it's just an 112 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 3: active service. 113 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: I think people's dietary choices are personal, and the reasons 114 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: why they eat what they eat, I think that is personal, 115 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: and nobody wants to judged. And again, if it works 116 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: for you, that doesn't necessarily mean it works for somebody else. 117 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: And you also got to remember this is a first impression. 118 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: I mean, it's the first time she's ever met you, 119 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: So what's she supposed to do? 120 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 2: What's you going to expect that? 121 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna look her up and down, check out her 122 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: outfit and then then judge everything she ever orders when 123 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: you guys go out to eat. 124 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 2: That's no fun. No, no, no, no. 125 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 3: It is nothing like that. It's and you're right, it 126 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 3: is a little personal because we are all you know, 127 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 3: people here on this earth or you know, we want 128 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: to make sure that they we're not contributing to downfall stuff. 129 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 3: You know, there are all these articles that haven't written. 130 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 2: Look them up on listen. 131 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 1: I love that journey for you, but you know, no 132 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: one wants to go on a date and be judged 133 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: by what they're eating. I don't eat beef, but I 134 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 1: would never tell someone across the table not to order 135 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: a steak like that's my choice. 136 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, well sounds like both of you want to die young. 137 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 2: Dah okay, not extreme at all. Yeah, I don't know 138 00:05:54,320 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 2: the statement. Yeah, very happy on the bone. I choke 139 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 2: on it. What happened? I mean? Where was I Was 140 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 2: it a Goods teak house? I hope? So, I mean 141 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 2: we're talking about like this. 142 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: It's I understand it's for you, but it doesn't necessarily 143 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: mean it's for me or that that's going to happen. 144 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 2: But you out here telling me I'm gonna die, Well, 145 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: you know. 146 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 3: What you can't feel motions when you're dead, so enjoy 147 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 3: your happiness while you happen. 148 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, all right, yeah, enjoy your heart attack. 149 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 3: Okay, we see here. 150 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 2: We go get this guy's a blast to go on 151 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 2: a day with that. I can't wait. 152 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure nie Is just was just you know, 153 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: when she was so excited to call you, she forgot. 154 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: Do I even have to I'm gonna ask anyways, you 155 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: want to go out with this guy Matt again? For 156 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 1: that's to know for you, Doug, all right, mad look man, 157 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: good luck to you on your journey. 158 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 2: I might be a little less judgment. 159 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: Or how about just go find somebody who's a vegan 160 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: then you won't have any trouble. 161 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks guys, thanks for all your help.