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Speaker 2: Y'all know what's y'all don't know y'all at all, So.

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Speaker 3: Don't given them.

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Speaker 1: A million bus boy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to show, I don't joy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, joy, you.

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Speaker 4: Love.

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Speaker 5: You gotta turn.

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Speaker 3: To turn the mouth turn you probably got to turn

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Speaker 3: mouth the word of the mony jump look me come

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Speaker 3: come on, you think that?

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Speaker 6: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening

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Speaker 6: to the voice, Come on dig me now for that.

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Speaker 6: Only Steve Harvey got a radio show man instead of

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Speaker 6: trying to be about the business. To y'all, I'm doing

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Speaker 6: all I can. But you know what's crazy in the

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Speaker 6: efforts that I make. I can do more. And my

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Speaker 6: father used to tell me something when I was growing up.

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Speaker 6: He says, son, when you've done your best, and you've

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Speaker 6: done all you can, sit still for a second and

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Speaker 6: just do a little bit more. Always remember that, he said.

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Speaker 6: When you've done the best you can and you can

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Speaker 6: done all you can think of, he say, sit still

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Speaker 6: for a minute and do some more. And you know

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Speaker 6: what I've discovered in my life, always have a little more.

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Speaker 6: I ain't ever just out out out completely. I can't

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Speaker 6: Just take a rest for a minute, man, and then

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Speaker 6: just do a little bit more. And I can't tell

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Speaker 6: you how many times that's helped me get over the top.

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Speaker 6: You know, I was watching a documentary about people climbing

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Speaker 6: on Mount Everest and how difficult climbing Mount Everest was,

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Speaker 6: and how they have on the hill something called like

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Speaker 6: of people run out of oxygen and they have to

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Speaker 6: turn back. Well, what's crazy is it's right in view

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Speaker 6: of the summit. You can actually see the top of

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Speaker 6: Mount Everest from there, but it's that little bit that's

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Speaker 6: reasons why they said most people don't make it from there,

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Speaker 6: and more people have lost their lives in that area.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what it is, but the people that

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Speaker 6: but they had a little bit more that allowed them

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Speaker 6: not even really sure if Mount Everest analogy is a

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Speaker 6: good one. But let's just break it down a little

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Speaker 6: bit more. Let's just talk about life. There's a poem

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Speaker 6: I learned back when I host pledging. It's called don't Quit.

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Speaker 6: It goes like this, If I make a mistake, I'm

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Speaker 6: It says, when things go wrong, as they sometimes will,

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Speaker 6: when the roads you're trudging seems all uphill, when your

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Speaker 6: want to smile, but you have to side when cares

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Speaker 6: don't quit, for life is queer with his twisting turns,

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Speaker 6: as every one of us must sometimes learn. And many

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Speaker 6: Often the gold is nearer than it seems to a

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Speaker 6: So stick to the fight when your hardest hits, when

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Speaker 6: because I had a special method of helping you remember

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Speaker 6: right there has kept me. You know, we often talk

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Speaker 6: somebody has a writing. God puts a writing on somebody's

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Speaker 6: I use every motivational tool that I possibly can to

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Speaker 6: done a lot of changing over the years, and so

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Speaker 6: have you. But change is necessary in order to grow.

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Speaker 6: If you don't make changes, folks, you can't grow. I

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Speaker 6: was a young man on my set. I kept looking

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Speaker 6: he kept talking to me, and he kept talking to

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Speaker 6: to me, and I said, hey, man, you know you

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Speaker 6: do your a huge self a favor in the business

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Speaker 6: you're in. If you got a haircut, you would do

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Speaker 6: yourself a huge favor. I said, your image is everything. Man,

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Speaker 6: I said, you keep stopping me in the hallway to

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Speaker 6: try to tell me what you're doing, what you are,

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Speaker 6: but all I see is your hair. Now, I keep

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Speaker 6: trying to figure out what you're doing with all that hair. Man,

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Speaker 6: Now you can feel how you want to feel. But

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Speaker 6: I'm like an employer. I employed people. So when I'm

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Speaker 6: walking through the hallway and I try to think of

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Speaker 6: sitting there talking business with me. And so, just like

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Speaker 6: other employers are, I'm just having a real story with you.

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Speaker 6: So I said, man, you ought to consider cutting your hair.

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Speaker 6: He said, Man, mister Harve, I've been growing his hair

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Speaker 6: soide as a little boy. I said, how old are

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Speaker 6: you now? He said twenty eight? I said, well, how

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Speaker 6: started growing your hair when you're a teenager. I mean,

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Speaker 6: help you understand something. Let me let me ask you something.

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Speaker 6: What does it do for you? He said, Man, it's

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Speaker 6: just who I am. It's I said, so you your hair?

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Speaker 6: He said, no, no, but it's a part of me.

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Speaker 6: I said, that part of you that you're hanging on to.

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Speaker 6: What does it do for you? I just like it? Well, dog,

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Speaker 6: I like ice cream, but I feed that. But if

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Speaker 6: every single day, my body gonna reflect that. What is

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Speaker 6: it that you hanging on to that you don't want

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Speaker 6: all you can be? See, it's hard to be what

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Speaker 6: all you was? Don't that make sense to you? So

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Speaker 6: I can't tell you how many times I've had to change.

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Speaker 6: Change is necessary to grow. You can't be all you

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Speaker 6: all you was. That don't make no sense. How do

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 6: I got right here is comfortable. I got right here

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Speaker 6: is safe. But over there's where the shade is. Over

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Speaker 6: There's where the fruit is. Over there is where the

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Speaker 6: opportunity is. Over there is where the mountain of goal is.

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Speaker 6: So why you stuck on here? You got to leave

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Speaker 6: you was. Change is growth is necessary. All let's go.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Ladies.

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Speaker 6: And gentlemin You know what. Another day, another president of

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Speaker 6: another gift, another opportunity to another shot who I've been

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Speaker 6: up all night, didn't get no sleep last night. But

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Speaker 6: lot of time talking to God after I woke up,

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Speaker 6: and they had some conversations and some revelations and some

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Speaker 6: worth it. Sometimes you get awakened and you gotta realize

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Speaker 6: what it is. One of his angels could be talking

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Speaker 6: shared Richie, So it's all good, Seve, Harv mona show show,

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Speaker 6: the Strawberry Collin frailm Mississippi Monica Junior and the Legend

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Speaker 6: of Nephew Tommy Junior, Junior, Junior Junior. Today is different?

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Speaker 6: What's going on? Yeah, uncle, let me talk to you. Man.

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Speaker 8: I heard something immediate thought about you, man, and they said,

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Speaker 8: the more people don't like you, the more.

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Speaker 1: Of a show you put on.

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Speaker 8: If that ain't you, Steve, the more people don't you

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Speaker 8: putting on a show? Thought on a full fledged show clowning.

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Speaker 6: Is it anything you.

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Speaker 8: Would like to say to the people that don't like you?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, continue as you may feel how you want to feel.

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Speaker 6: I'm fine, you don't know me. I'd also like to

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Speaker 6: say thank you. Haters make you greater. Thank you, and

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Speaker 6: also shows that I'm on track because they're not gonna

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Speaker 6: even with that, you know the good part about it is,

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Speaker 6: like I always say, hate is louder than love, but

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Speaker 6: it trumps that hate in droves. It's just quiet. It's

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Speaker 6: it's they just it's a waste of time because no

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Speaker 6: matter what they say. Man, God got a plan for me,

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Speaker 6: and nothing you can do can stop his playing from

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Speaker 6: manifesting hisself. So I'm like really comfortable now. You know.

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Speaker 6: He used to bother me to be honest, but you know,

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Speaker 6: I don't care nothing about haters, man. They doing their job.

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Speaker 6: They hate a full time job.

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Speaker 1: Already.

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Speaker 7: Haters don't even get along with other haters. Man, they

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Speaker 7: can't even come together. And here's a good one.

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Speaker 6: Have you ever had a hater that was doing better

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 6: So yeah, just go ahead, man, enjoy yourself, knock yourself out,

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Speaker 6: do you and when you show back up with some

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Speaker 6: more hate. If you look at them, they're in the

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Speaker 6: same place they was in before. Heloe. All right, keep

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Speaker 6: driving that hate car.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you guys.

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Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 10: hear from the nephew, who is not a hater right

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Speaker 10: after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 6: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your

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Speaker 6: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck

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Speaker 6: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping

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Speaker 6: up beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features

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Speaker 10: All right, guys, it is time now to run that

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Speaker 7: Right here, sirl your check bounce, we don't do that

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Speaker 7: If you would Hello Hello, I'm trying to reach a

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Speaker 7: Monica system.

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Speaker 1: Monica, Please, OHO's calling.

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Speaker 6: This is brother Deshaun.

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Speaker 7: I'm calling Actually I'm a member a Greater Missionary Baptist Church.

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Speaker 11: How can I help you?

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Speaker 6: Calling you actually about the offering? Now? Did you I

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Speaker 6: know you paid your ties?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, every Sunday?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Now you paid a love offering as well? Right?

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Speaker 11: Yes, I do?

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Speaker 7: Okay, Now this past Sunday. I'm looking at a check

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Speaker 11: Left us with the bank, right, right, I sure did.

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Speaker 11: I wrote a check Sunday.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 7: Now the check, ma'am was two hundred and fifty dollars.

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Speaker 6: Am I correct?

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Speaker 11: Right?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 11: I wrote two checks for my ties and the love offer. Right,

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Speaker 11: I wrote one for two fifty for the love offer?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 11: Now what is this called regarding? Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 7: Well, what I wanted to tell you is that I

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Speaker 7: your check that you wrote for two fifty actually has bounced.

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Speaker 11: And wait a minute, you said my check bounce for

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Speaker 11: two hundred and fifty dollars.

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Speaker 6: Your check bounce.

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Speaker 7: So what I'm doing is calling you about recouping the

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Speaker 7: two fifty as well as you know you you cost

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Speaker 7: us thirty dollars in.

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Speaker 6: Bank fees back.

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Speaker 11: Wait a minute. Now, I wrote two checks. I wrote

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Speaker 11: a check for one hundred dollars. Did that one bounce?

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Speaker 7: I don't see to it that that that one bounce.

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Speaker 7: All I know is the one that the love offering

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Speaker 11: What did you put me in at the same time?

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Speaker 11: Because I wrote them at the same time.

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Speaker 7: They all go in on Monday, ma'am. Now, I didn't

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Speaker 7: put them in at the same time. I've been putting

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Speaker 7: why would people write there, what is your name, brother Deshaun?

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Speaker 11: And you was at it Sunday?

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Speaker 7: I was. I don't think it matters when I was there, ma'am.

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Speaker 7: The problem is that I don't put these checks in.

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Speaker 7: And I don't understand why y'all write these checks to the.

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Speaker 11: Checks knowing that they're gonna buy these checks.

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Speaker 6: There's a lot of people righte good, well not.

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Speaker 11: Write bad check? One clear? Why the other one didn't clear?

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Speaker 6: Maybe you didn't have enough money for both of them

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Speaker 5: What did you just say?

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Speaker 7: Maybe you didn't have enough money in the bank for

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Speaker 7: both of them to clear. And I don't understand why

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Speaker 7: people write.

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Speaker 11: These plenty money in the bank and all my checks clear.

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Speaker 11: I don't write no rubber checks.

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Speaker 7: Well, you wrote one on Sunday, and that's the problem.

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Speaker 7: How you're gonna try to give a look?

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Speaker 11: Wait a minute, I think you got me confused with

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Speaker 11: somebody else. I don't write no bad checks. You done

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Speaker 11: wrote that to be nice to you.

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Speaker 6: I'm trying to be nice to you. Win. Can we

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Speaker 6: expect the two fifty plus the thirty dollars.

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Speaker 11: With wait, thirty dollars, that's.

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Speaker 6: The bank fees, ma'am for the dollg go on check bouncing?

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Speaker 11: My check don't bounced. I'm gonna check my bank and

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Speaker 11: if my check clear, you're gonna pay me thirty dollars

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Speaker 11: for calling me harassing me about a two hundred and

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Speaker 11: fifty dollars check bounce.

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Speaker 1: I don't write no Why would you write check?

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Speaker 7: You want to sit up in the church and write

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Speaker 11: What did you say?

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Speaker 7: I said, why would you write these checks when the

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Speaker 7: money ain't in Now.

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Speaker 11: Let me tell you one thing. I don't write no

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Speaker 11: bad check. And you got a loters calling me telling

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Speaker 11: me my check bounce.

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Speaker 7: Your check is the one that has bounced and you

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Speaker 7: tell you what you do.

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Speaker 11: Since my check bounce, you paid them, since you got

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Speaker 11: all the money, and don't call me with this again.

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Speaker 7: Hello, don't you hang up on me no more? When

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Speaker 7: are we gonna get this two fifty and this thirty dollars?

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Speaker 11: Somebody from the church to my eye, rode a bad check?

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Speaker 11: I don't write No, you didn't write a bad check.

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Speaker 11: I didn't write no bad Yes a minute, why are

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Speaker 11: you calling me? Why the treasure? Don't call me at church?

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Speaker 6: The treasure is a bus.

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Speaker 11: I ain't ever know the deacon call nobody by no

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Speaker 11: bad check? Yo is full of thank you? You got

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Speaker 11: the money?

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Speaker 1: I ain't got Who in.

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Speaker 6: The hell is that in the background?

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Speaker 3: Who is that?

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Speaker 11: Never mind who it is? We both go to the

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Speaker 11: same church, and you gonna call me? To my I

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Speaker 11: rode a bad check? You don't you call me no more?

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Speaker 11: And if the check bad, you paid? Okay?

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Speaker 6: You pastor know you talking like this?

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Speaker 11: You pastor know you calling me?

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Speaker 4: Can you ask for that?

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Speaker 1: Look?

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Speaker 7: When are we gonna get this two hundred and eighty dollars?

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Speaker 7: Is what we're looking for from you?

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Speaker 11: I wrote a check for two fifty and way not

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Speaker 11: get to eighty you put the thirty dollars with.

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Speaker 6: It, you put two fifty in there. It bounds thirty

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Speaker 6: dollars cost us on bank fees. That's too eighty. Where

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Speaker 6: can the church expect they money?

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Speaker 11: Never not no to eighty. You will never get to eighty.

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Speaker 12: You're gonna make me come by your and my check.

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Speaker 11: Then I'm gonna do what.

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Speaker 6: You're gonna make me come by your house and get

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Speaker 6: this money.

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Speaker 11: Bring it on, bring it, bring it?

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Speaker 6: What is the address on this check?

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Speaker 11: Check?

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Speaker 6: I got it off the check.

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Speaker 11: I bet you you'll be lipping.

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Speaker 6: Back and I'm watching you.

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Speaker 7: You better not be spending no money nowhere. You better

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Speaker 7: not spend nothing until I get this to fifty.

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Speaker 11: Plus thirty whatever. I want to know, you know what

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Speaker 11: I am. And you don't call me no more with

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Speaker 11: this because my check did not bounce. I don't see

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Speaker 11: how one check went through and the other bounce.

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Speaker 7: Let me say this to you, we cannot accept you

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Speaker 7: back into the House of the Lord no more until

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Speaker 7: you are not don't you come in Sunday.

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Speaker 11: Until weekends coming up and there Sunday and I'm gonna

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Speaker 11: make sure I find you because you the person I want.

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Speaker 1: To see you and you know what.

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Speaker 11: I'm gonna call the pastor right now and ask him

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Speaker 11: because I don't believe my check bounce you fuller.

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Speaker 6: Let me say this before you call pastor.

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Speaker 11: I got no, I'm a call pastor. No, you should

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Speaker 11: have talked with pastor before you call me with this information.

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Speaker 6: I got one more thing I need to say that.

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Speaker 11: You ain't got nothing to say to me. You're an

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Speaker 11: upset me with this talking about I bounced a check.

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Speaker 11: You should have went to the pastor before you called

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Speaker 11: me with it.

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Speaker 7: I tak pastor one I get, but I got one

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Speaker 7: more thing to say before I leave.

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Speaker 6: But you listening?

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Speaker 11: What do you have to say to me? What do

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Speaker 11: you have to say now that you're gonna pay the check?

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Speaker 1: This is Nephew.

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Speaker 7: Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

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Speaker 7: pranked by your girlfriend?

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Speaker 11: What did you say?

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Speaker 6: Baby? This is.

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Speaker 11: What did you say?

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Speaker 6: I say?

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Speaker 7: This is Nephew till me, baby, from the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 7: Morning Till your girlfriend has pranked you.

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Speaker 11: I'm gonna beat that. He just left here flying out

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Speaker 11: the door in her She didn't.

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Speaker 12: I'm gonna.

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Speaker 7: Let me ask you one more thing, though, baby, What

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Speaker 7: is the baddest radio show in the.

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Speaker 11: Land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Who come on here, Come on up in here, y'all

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Speaker 7: hear that voice coming back.

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Speaker 6: Because I'm on my way to bray Braill. Baby.

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Speaker 7: That is just coming Sunday, one night only, one show only,

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Speaker 7: real comedy club. Nephew Tommy coming man, y'all come hang.

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Speaker 6: Out with you.

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Speaker 1: Boy.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I can't feel the beat no more. Remember me,

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Speaker 7: biscuit booty brunh. That dude right there, remember me?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 1: No, thank you? Coming up next?

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Speaker 10: That is ask the COLO are Chief Love Officer Steve

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Speaker 10: Harvey in the building right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, get a

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Speaker 10: load of this. In entertainment news, Stephen A. Smith is

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Speaker 10: considering a twenty twenty eight presidential run.

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Speaker 1: He's considering it.

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Speaker 10: New Edition member Ricky Bell and his wife are expecting

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Speaker 10: their first child together. Also in trending headline news, prayers

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Speaker 10: going up for victims of the horrific nightclub roof collapse

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Speaker 10: in the Dominican Republic. We'll talk about all of these

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Speaker 10: stories at the top of the hour, but right now

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Speaker 10: it is time to ask the colo. This is from

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Speaker 10: Kinetra in Macon. Kenetra writes, I'm dealing with a man

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Speaker 10: that has been married three times, and all he talks

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Speaker 10: about is getting it right the fourth time by marrying me.

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Speaker 10: I would love to talk to his ex wives before

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Speaker 10: I get into deep with him. So should I ask

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Speaker 6: Lady, you talking to his ex wives? It's probably one

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Speaker 6: of the more ignorant things you can do, because what

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Speaker 6: do you think they're going to tell you what is it?

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Speaker 6: Do you think they're going to? Have you ever heard

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Speaker 6: a woman say, ever, you know what, I ain't nothing,

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Speaker 6: I ain't a good woman. I was tripping. I just

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Speaker 6: wasn't a good woman. Have you ever heard a woman

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Speaker 6: say that? I haven't Every woman I've ever talked to

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Speaker 6: the reason they relationship ain't work. It's called some man

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Speaker 6: somewhere was dog or some man somewhere treated her wrong.

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Speaker 6: I have never ever heard a woman say it was her.

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Speaker 6: In all my life, I've never heard one.

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Speaker 10: So you don't think she should ask the ex wives

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Speaker 10: about why they broke up or why they divorced?

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Speaker 6: This? What what could you possibly gain from that? Except

451
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Speaker 6: why not to marry him? If you don't want to

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Speaker 6: marry the man, don't marry the man because not now

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Speaker 6: one of them is going to tell you go ahead

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Speaker 6: and do it, Not one of them. And how does

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Speaker 6: she know all of them? Anyway? They all go to

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Speaker 6: say in church? Would she she might not know?

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Speaker 1: You can reach out on faithbook. She needs some intel.

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Speaker 6: She should get her intail from herself. You all have

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Speaker 6: this wonderful thing called intuition. If you think you got

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Speaker 6: to check with all the people. It's already something wrong,

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Speaker 6: all right.

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Speaker 10: Moving on to Henry and Braydenson, Henry says, I charted

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Speaker 10: a boat for me and my wife and she had

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Speaker 10: really bad motion sickness on the boat. We went back

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Speaker 10: to the dock and she went home. She's mad because

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Speaker 10: I called our son to come sail with me. Was

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Speaker 10: I wrong for getting my money's worth?

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Speaker 1: What? Yeah?

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Speaker 10: Bro?

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Speaker 6: What you can't be no more dumber? Oh you should

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Speaker 6: have took care of your wife, got her home, make

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Speaker 6: sure she was good. Now, next time you get a boat,

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Speaker 6: just get the boat with your son.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 6: You let her go home by herself, used to.

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Speaker 1: We went, we went back to the doc. She went home.

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Speaker 1: Then he called, all right.

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Speaker 6: Bro, bro, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: He just wanted his money's worth, that's what he said.

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Speaker 6: Don't your wife, dude, your wife. I'm sorry, bro, bro,

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Speaker 6: some stuff is a loss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's right off.

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Speaker 6: Just to write off though. Yeah, you won't get you

484
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Speaker 6: see your money's worth. It's not it's not worth it. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: because look you're not getting your money back regardless, right,

486
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Speaker 6: exactly right. So that's it. Now you're out there with

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Speaker 6: your son. Now you've got to go home and deal

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Speaker 6: with the ramifications of your decision, and it's not fit

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Speaker 6: to be a good one.

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Speaker 10: But Steve, what happened when she started getting motion sickness

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Speaker 10: on the boat?

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Speaker 1: Did he get mad at her?

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Speaker 6: He probably said, maybe not much I paid for this boat.

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Speaker 1: Exactly what is you vomiting for?

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Speaker 6: Maybe just look at the horizon, Look at the horizon, focus,

496
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Speaker 6: get yourself together though.

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Speaker 1: And you think drama. Mean, Oh now.

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Speaker 6: We got to go back. I'm gonna put you in

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Speaker 6: this uber. I'm gonna call my sol. We gonna go back.

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Speaker 7: Man, I've been sick on the boat before. Man, that's

501
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Speaker 7: that's a terrible feeling.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Kyla and Grambling,

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Speaker 10: Kyla writes, I'm graduating next month and moving back home.

504
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Speaker 10: My boyfriend back home wants me to move in with him,

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Speaker 10: but I'm dating a new guy on campus and I

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Speaker 10: really don't want to leave him alone. He's a senior,

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Speaker 10: but he has a year of eligibility left on the

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Speaker 10: basketball team. Will he forget about me after I moved

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Speaker 10: back home?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? On the bath, din't you say he's on basketball team?

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Speaker 1: She said it.

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Speaker 6: You ain't the only one watching run them down? The

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Speaker 6: floor now, and when you move back home, your boyfriend

514
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Speaker 6: back home want you to move in. Here's another one

515
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Speaker 6: of them unnormal letters, just typing some stuff like it's cool. Uh,

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Speaker 6: I don't want to move back in because I'm dating

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Speaker 6: the dude on the team that's got one more year

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Speaker 6: of eligibility, and I don't want him forget me when

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Speaker 6: I go back home. But if I go back home,

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Speaker 6: I move in with this other dude.

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Speaker 7: You don't.

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Speaker 6: You don't see nothing.

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Speaker 1: Wrong, Warren. She's young, she's torn.

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Speaker 6: No Carlo, no what.

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Speaker 1: He is college days.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but here's an opportunity for a woman to say, look, okay,

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Speaker 6: right now, I ain't sugar honey, ice tea. Oh goodness, she's.

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Speaker 12: Well.

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Speaker 6: Well, ain't no woman gonna say that. But here's a

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Speaker 6: good time to say it, because if this was a man, Hey, look,

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Speaker 6: I'm dating this girl in college, but my girl back

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Speaker 6: home want to move in when I got home. But

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Speaker 6: I don't want the girl back here in college to

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Speaker 6: forget about me. You think if I go home moving

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Speaker 6: with this girl, she'll forget about me. What would y'all

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Speaker 6: say to that? Yeah, make up your mind, tell somebody

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Speaker 6: the truths. Yeah, that's what y'all would be doing so

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Speaker 6: same thing to this little girl right here. No, I

539
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Speaker 6: can't help you. Oh, you got to make a decision.

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Speaker 6: You got to go back home and sleep. I don't

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Speaker 6: care if she I don't care if she's eighteen. Listen

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Speaker 6: to me, you, this, this ain't the way the game go.

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00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 6: This is not the way the game go. I'm so sorry. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: hard to be a player when you ain't a.

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Speaker 10: Lot of work, learn right, a lot of work. So

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Speaker 10: will he forget about me after I moved back home?

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Speaker 6: Yes? Girl, out of sight, out of mind.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you. Colo.

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Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 10: some entertainment news for you.

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Speaker 1: Right after this.

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Speaker 10: Haitus is John Legend and you listen to the Steve

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Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Well, guys.

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Speaker 10: According to the Black Information Network ESPN, personality stephen A.

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Speaker 10: Smith says he's now open to running for president after

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Speaker 10: previously dismissing the idea. Stephen A took to x that's

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Speaker 10: formerly Twitter, of course, to share that he's weighing a

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Speaker 10: twenty twenty eight presidential bid. He says, quote, it is

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Speaker 10: time to stop messing around life is great, especially at

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Speaker 10: ESPN slash Disney. Hate the thought of being a politician,

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Speaker 10: but sick of this mess, so I'm officially leaving all

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Speaker 10: doors open.

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Speaker 1: End quote.

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Speaker 10: In addition, during a recent interview at the NAB Show

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Speaker 10: in Las Vegas, stephen A said, quote, I've been approached

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Speaker 10: by people on Capitol Hill. I've been approached by people

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Speaker 10: who are elected officials in office, whether it's governors or

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Speaker 10: mayors or what have you. People have legitimately seriously asked

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Speaker 10: me about it. And while he is reluctant to quote

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Speaker 10: be a politician, stephen A said, if the country remains

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Speaker 10: an absolute mess after the twenty twenty six midterms, he

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Speaker 10: will consider running period.

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Speaker 6: All right. First of all, let me help you understand

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Speaker 6: a couple of things. The country is going to be

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Speaker 6: a mess after the twenty twenty six midterms. Are the

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Speaker 6: country's in a complete mess right now? Number two is

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Speaker 6: asking you to be president? Next? Next? Next? Do you

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Speaker 6: have any idea what it is to raise money for

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Speaker 6: a campaign? Thirdly, you do know you will have to

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Speaker 6: give up your lucrative contract at ESPN at Disney. You

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Speaker 6: do know that, don't you. Number four who is voting

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Speaker 6: for you? Lebron.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't vote for Lebron.

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Speaker 6: Number five, number five, Brice. Here's here's another thing. You

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Speaker 6: have to be careful when you're dealing with politics, because

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Speaker 6: super PACs is smart. They will send somebody to talk

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Speaker 6: to you, acting like his interest, just to draw you

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Speaker 6: in as a distraction and to take away from votes

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Speaker 6: from a real candidate. That happens all the time. They

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Speaker 6: backed people all the time. That's why they put herschel

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Speaker 6: Walker up. Let me just give you a primateself. No,

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Speaker 6: they dug him up just to put him in there

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Speaker 6: to run against somebody, to be a distraction. It's crazy, man.

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Speaker 6: And I just look Stephen a and ire cool.

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Speaker 13: Bro.

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Speaker 10: You wouldn't vote for him, Steve.

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Speaker 6: I mean, look, I would vote for him over over Advance.

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Speaker 6: I would vote for him over Ted Crews. Of course,

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Speaker 6: I'm not fit to be his VP.

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Speaker 1: Steve. Yeah, Steve, Steve, Steve and Steve.

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Speaker 7: Wow, I didn't know. I didn't know Stephen ain't like

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Speaker 7: politics like that. I didn't don't know what I did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Well he's reluctant.

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Speaker 10: He says to be a politician, but he feels the

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Speaker 10: country's in a mess and he can help I mean,

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Speaker 10: you know sometimes you're well, if.

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Speaker 6: You're reluctant, then why help me?

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Speaker 10: Well, he feels like he can contribute something, obviously. You

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Speaker 10: know he wants to serve his country.

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Speaker 1: Obviously.

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Speaker 10: You know.

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Speaker 1: He's stephen A all right. And you you think about

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Speaker 1: the vice presidency, you think, yeah, yeah, stephen A and

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Speaker 1: Steven I love it.

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Speaker 6: They couldn't even put the camera on me while he

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Speaker 6: was talking because my faith would be going. No, that

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Speaker 6: is not what I told you to say.

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Speaker 1: Musslow boy when he was talking to Trump, what are

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Speaker 1: you doing?

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Speaker 6: Ah? Hell no, because you know he says something, he

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Speaker 6: says some stuff. I don't know, man, you know, I

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Speaker 6: don't know.

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Speaker 10: Well, he's considering it, though, we need to consider the

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Speaker 10: possibility as well. And other entertainment news, Finding.

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Speaker 6: Your Roots Democrats is in some pull the shape until.

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Speaker 1: That that Now that's a factor they need to cut together.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yes they do.

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Speaker 10: And other entertainment news. Finding Your Roots is a show

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Speaker 10: on PBS. It's hosted by Henry Lewis Gates Junior.

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 10: This is a show where celebrities learn more about their ancestry,

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Speaker 10: and on the latest episode, actor Cheryl Lee Ralph just

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Speaker 10: found out that She is related to actor Samuel L.

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Speaker 1: Jackson.

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Speaker 10: They are distant cousins. Show reacted to the new Yeah,

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Speaker 10: that is so cool to have Samuel.

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Speaker 1: L as your cousin.

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Speaker 10: And Cheryl Lee Ralph chery Lee reacted to the news

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Speaker 10: and said, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: I like him so much as we all do. Cheryl.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Now, here's a question.

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Speaker 10: If you had an option, Steve, which celebrity would you

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Speaker 10: choose to be your cousin?

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Speaker 1: And why?

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Speaker 12: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I mean if you could pick someone?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, al L cool jh ok.

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Speaker 6: A cool J I like, so you were wanting to

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Speaker 6: be your cousin. I mean, you know, he cool, he hard?

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Speaker 6: You know, okay what he stand for?

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Speaker 10: Michael Jordan's Michael George Jordan's Okay, okay, first.

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Speaker 7: We like that.

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Speaker 6: Well, you sure didn't get no hight.

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Speaker 1: From him, nephew. Would you choose your.

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Speaker 6: You know what? Anthony Helmton? Okay? R and B Singer.

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Speaker 6: There you go. That's that's believable, both, y'all.

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Speaker 10: Shore send me up at twenty minutes after the hours

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Speaker 10: silent cheating.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard about it? We'll talk about it right

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Speaker 1: after this.

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Speaker 6: Are they doing that?

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Speaker 1: You're listening? Steve Harvey Morning show.

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Speaker 10: There's a trend on social media that people are seeking

675
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 10: advice about. It's called silent chet eating, silent cheating, or

676
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 10: some people call it emotional cheating. We've heard that term,

677
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 10: of course. It's when your partner isn't doing any physical cheating. No,

678
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 10: nothing physical going on, but at the same time they're

679
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 10: not being totally honest about their behavior. So here's a

680
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 10: question for you, guys. Here's some signs to look for

681
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 10: to see if you agree. So they might keep their

682
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 10: options open without actually cheating. For example, they may stay

683
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 10: in close touch.

684
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 6: With an X not I ain't got worry about that

685
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 6: with me.

686
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: You all a new.

687
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 6: Exit that's going back.

688
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: All right.

689
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 10: Here's here's another example or a sign. The person you're

690
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 10: silent cheating with is constantly on your mind. No coming,

691
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:57,959
Speaker 10: I'm talking about silent cheating.

692
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 13: You always own my Okay, that's a form.

693
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 10: Here's another one, Yeah, making somebody all the always all right,

694
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 10: here's another one. Unfair comparisons. They start comparing you to them,

695
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 10: and your partner starts criticizing you a lot.

696
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: Oh that's a dead giveaway.

697
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 7: Man.

698
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: Hell no, that's.

699
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 6: You know, baby, You don't look nothing like she did.

700
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, the wrong. Plenty of them out here, plenty of

701
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: fools out here.

702
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 6: All right, Why won't you do your hair like she did?

703
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 1: Because, oh yeah, you won't? Dead giveaways? All right. They

704
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 1: actus vicious with their phone.

705
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 10: They turn the screen away when they're texting, or quickly

706
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 10: close a messaging app when you walk by.

707
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 6: That is so me sleeping with my phone in my

708
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 6: drawls that that is that a sign that.

709
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Speaker 10: You're an emotional you're a silent cheater. You act suspicious

710
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 10: with your phone, you're gonna change your behavior app. And

711
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 10: here's another sign. You get defensive when your when your

712
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 10: partner brings it up, and then they flip it on you.

713
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 10: Saying you're being paranoid, you know that gas lighting thing,

714
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 10: because if they have to hide it, uh, they very

715
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 10: well might be gaslighting you.

716
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 7: This is such a extensive, Uh, this is so touchy

717
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 7: right here, it's all on me, Junior, Steve.

718
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 6: It's all right here on us. That's all. What are

719
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 6: you'all gonna ask? Y'allselves?

720
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: I'll provide the funny for the show, all right.

721
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 6: God, hell, Shirley, Oh my god, this is funny.

722
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour. We'll

723
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 10: check your voicemail Steve eight seven seven nine, Steve. Right

724
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 10: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

725
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: It is time now to.

726
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 10: Check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve.

727
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 10: Call leave us a message. You might just hear your

728
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 10: call on the air. You ready, mister Harveday, Sure, am,

729
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 10: all right, let's go. This is from Ms Bonnie in Charlotte.

730
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Speaker 6: Good marnin scene.

731
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Speaker 14: I just want to say thank you for lettingu's borr

732
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Speaker 14: nephew Tommy this weekend in Charlotte, No Carolina. He did

733
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Speaker 14: a wonderful job. I didn't know what to expect, but

734
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Speaker 14: he did a terrific job and want him to come

735
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Speaker 14: back there. So again, thank you for Mittan's borron nephew Tommy.

736
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Speaker 6: Have a good day show well, miss Bonnie. Part of

737
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 6: the reason why you said you didn't know what to

738
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 6: expect is because of the ignorance that spewed out of

739
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 6: his mouth on the radio. Fact, and after you spend

740
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 6: your money live, you're not really sure if that ignorance translate.

741
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 6: But he has masterly learned how to translate his radio

742
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 6: ignance into stage ignance, which is where he started it at. Anyway,

743
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 6: So you're welcome. It's Bonnie, you can have many times.

744
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 6: Just just called and asked for it.

745
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: That's a nice compliment, Uncle, Yeah, that's nice. Yeah, all right.

746
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 10: This is from a man, Steve, who left a message

747
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 10: about Neo's polyamorous relationship.

748
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 12: Hey Steve, this is the answer to your question.

749
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 15: What is it for those women THEO girlfriends? Well, it

750
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 15: ain't his looks. It's his money.

751
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: Those some beautiful women.

752
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 15: You think they give enough to and putting up with

753
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 15: each other having sex for one man for free, No, sir,

754
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 15: is his money.

755
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 12: He's paying those girls.

756
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 9: Man trusts me, bruh.

757
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 12: I'm a sugar daddy and I got two stream women

758
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 12: that I'm paying. Ain't no women giving up, no to

759
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 12: no celebrity for free. And he's not even all that

760
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 12: just looking.

761
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 15: I just want to put that out there.

762
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know where to start.

763
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, at the beginning, so much I'm back. Do you

764
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: think he was daddy?

765
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Speaker 6: I don't know how much y'all think neo make uh huh.

766
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 6: I'm sure the brother's doing well.

767
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Speaker 3: You got here.

768
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 6: You ain't doing faux women with women too, You're not

769
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 6: doing fu women. Well, listen, at one time. No, it's

770
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 6: hard enough building a life with one woman to have something.

771
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 6: You know that if it is money, whatever it is,

772
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 6: look neo tied of people knocking it. But once you

773
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 6: put it out there publicly, and now you're talking about

774
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Speaker 6: we add the fourth and all this here, and you

775
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 6: open yourself to public scrutiny, I'm just saying. I'm just saying,

776
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 6: as a father who's an with daughters, what are you doing?

777
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 6: What does this say about you? Look, I don't care

778
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 6: what term you want to attach to it. Polyannorus, happy living,

779
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 6: freedom of choice, I mean, oh, whatever you want to

780
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 6: call it. You pick a pronoun, put on it whatever

781
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 6: you want to put on it. What does this do

782
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 6: for you in the long run. What's gonna happen to

783
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,879
Speaker 6: you when you decide, you know what, I don't want

784
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 6: to be third, I don't want to be second. I

785
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 6: want to be number one. Well, what's gonna happen to

786
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,280
Speaker 6: you when you decide you want to have a family,

787
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 6: when you get tired of fooling round with this ignorant

788
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 6: mess right here? What see? Because here's what you don't

789
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 6: understand is you can't make a series of bad decisions

790
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 6: and the fact that to be and expect there to

791
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 6: be no consequences in the long wood. So, young ladies,

792
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 6: I got whatever y'all want to do with NEO. That's fine,

793
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 6: that's your business. But when you do change your mind

794
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 6: and you get ready to correct it, do you do

795
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 6: you know you have to pay for that. There's a

796
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 6: penalty phase from behind every decision you make. Trust me,

797
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 6: I know I sure wanted you to get to that

798
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 6: sugar daddy here His voice didn't really say sugar daddy.

799
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 6: He don't sound like that. Look listen, listen, listen. There

800
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 6: ain't no celebrity getting no due for no money, need money.

801
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 7: Man.

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00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 1: I know I'm a street I'm a sugar daddy, I

803
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: got too what I don't know what that means? What

804
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: are we talking about here?

805
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 6: All right?

806
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 10: Thank you Steve. Coming up next, it is the nephew

807
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 10: and the prank phone call for today. Right after this,

808
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 10: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up

809
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 10: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,

810
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 10: it's my strawberry letter for today. And the subject is

811
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 10: he puts it down, but he's broke, not a.

812
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 6: Good you got a goody got a good quality?

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00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 10: Nope, that's the title of today's strawberry letter. We'll get

814
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 10: into it and just with you, because right now the

815
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 10: nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

816
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: Nephew, what you got for us?

817
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 6: All right?

818
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 7: This right here is uh, your house is my house?

819
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 7: Your house is my house? Okay, all right, we'll see

820
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 7: how this works out. Let's go get your house is

821
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 7: my house?

822
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 6: Mi cassa? How you say it?

823
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: Call Mi casassa?

824
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 6: That right there? That right. We live in Texas. We're

825
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 6: supposed to know our languages. Me, I'm lingual. Ask me

826
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 6: something else, Papa, those Let's go get.

827
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:26,479
Speaker 10: Hello.

828
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 6: Hello, I'm trying to reach Russell.

829
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 12: Yeah, this is Russell.

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00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 7: Hi Russell. I'm Isaiah. I'm a a relative real eshaate

831
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 7: and I'm trying to do some schematics. I'm thinking, I'm

832
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 7: I'm calling the right house. I'm not quite sure. Are

833
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:43,919
Speaker 7: you West Dixie Road?

834
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 5: Uh?

835
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 16: Yeah, that's right.

836
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Speaker 6: Okay. How many square feet is your house? If you

837
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 6: don't mind me asking?

838
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 12: Uh, it's about thirty five hundred square feet.

839
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 7: I don't know this is the right house or not.

840
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 7: Is this you have a deck out in the back

841
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 7: of all weather type of deck out in the back?

842
00:47:59,560 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 11: Uh?

843
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 16: Yeah, I do what do you?

844
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 7: What do you? What do you?

845
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 12: What's this about?

846
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 6: Okay? If you don't mind me, how long have you

847
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 6: lived there?

848
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 12: Yeah? My man, I've already asked you twice, and you're

849
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 12: asking me for, like, per some information on my crib

850
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 12: just a reference to Okay.

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Speaker 7: Well, like I said, I'm a realator and I'm trying

852
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 7: to get ahead of some things that's going on, and.

853
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 6: You're well, it's been.

854
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 7: Brought to my attention that your house is going to

855
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 7: be is going into foreclosure and it's going to be

856
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 7: on the on the market in the next two to

857
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 7: three weeks. So I wanted to make sure I was

858
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 7: getting the right house, and I wanted to make sure,

859
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 7: and you've got.

860
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Speaker 12: The wrong house. My house is not going in foreclosure.

861
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 12: I'm up to date.

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00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: I'm good.

863
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:43,919
Speaker 16: So we got the wrong house.

864
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Speaker 7: Okay, hang on, So what's Dixie Road? And like you said,

865
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 7: thirty five hundred square feet, this is a two car garage.

866
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Speaker 12: Right, I don't know. I don't know what information you're getting.

867
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 12: But when it comes to my name in my crib

868
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 12: and what's going on with my bills and all that,

869
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 12: I'm up to.

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Speaker 16: Date and I'm fine.

871
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 12: So you got the wrong information, you got the wrong

872
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 12: the wrong person, or the wrong information on the right house,

873
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 12: whatever it is. But this is not My house is

874
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 12: definitely not going in the foreclosure. This my bills, like

875
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 12: it's my woman, you get me? So I So my

876
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 12: whole thing is is I don't even know why you're calling.

877
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 12: My house is definitely not for sale.

878
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 16: It is now not going to foreclosure.

879
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 12: I'm not behind on my bills.

880
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 7: Well, sir, I'm telling you what my books say, and

881
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 7: this is our I'm looking at legitimate legal paper money.

882
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 16: Yeah.

883
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Speaker 12: What I'm trying to tell you is this, I don't

884
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Speaker 12: care about your books. Read what I'm read read what

885
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 12: I'm writing to you. I'm up to date on my mortgage.

886
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 12: You're just the realtor. So my whole thing is, you're

887
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 12: not nobody's selling my house.

888
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 7: My house is now Okay, no, let's let's back up.

889
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:48,919
Speaker 7: Let's go back to just the real. You're not gonna

890
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 7: talk to me like that.

891
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 6: Now.

892
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 7: I'm a realtor and I'm a person. That's that's that's

893
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 7: on top of my game. Your house is going in

894
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 7: the foreclosure.

895
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 6: Now. You can be in denial if you want to be.

896
00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 6: But I'm just trying to get.

897
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 7: On top of everything and get you know, try to

898
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 7: sell the house as soon as it hits the market.

899
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 6: So I know what I'm not.

900
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 12: You don't, man, Look, there's not going to the foreclosure

901
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 12: do so.

902
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 10: So.

903
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 7: So if I'm looking at paperwork here, why am I

904
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 7: looking at paperwork that has your address on it?

905
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 6: Sir?

906
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 12: That sounds like a personal problem. I obviously you now

907
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 12: on top of your well, you know.

908
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 7: The personal problem is going to be yours when they

909
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:23,439
Speaker 7: when they come put you out your house.

910
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 6: This has foreclosure, that's your address. Yo.

911
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 12: Look, I'm trying to tell you, man, don't knock on

912
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 12: my door, don't call my don't call none of that.

913
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 12: Nobody's coming to my house knocking on the door, trying

914
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 12: to put me on my house, and on top of that,

915
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:39,479
Speaker 12: a foreclosing. It takes a long time.

916
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 7: Well, that's what I mean. This is, this is, this is,

917
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 7: this has been in there a long time. It's coming

918
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 7: up in the next couple of weeks. That's what I'm

919
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 7: telling you.

920
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 12: What what paperwork do you have?

921
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 6: I am looking at what bank?

922
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 12: What do you even even know what banked? Is it

923
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 12: selling the house or trying to put me in forecloses?

924
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 10: You?

925
00:50:58,560 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: Are you with you?

926
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 6: Are you you with First Fidelity?

927
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:03,760
Speaker 9: That's not your concern.

928
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 6: Okay, Well you just.

929
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 1: Asked me, sir.

930
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 6: You just asked me that's what's on this paperwork.

931
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 12: In the foreclosure. You got the wrong paper work when

932
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 12: you at the wrong hand dress at task to somebody else's.

933
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 6: Okay, this is your address, It is the right square footage.

934
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: It is the right hand, sir.

935
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 12: Entertaining you right now, man, I'm telling you I'm not

936
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 12: going in the foreclosure.

937
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 6: Okay, you know what.

938
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 7: You're getting angry with me, But really, if you'd have

939
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,760
Speaker 7: paid your bills, you wouldn't be in this situation.

940
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 6: You know what I mean.

941
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 7: I'm paying my bills, but you're not paying yours because

942
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 7: you're on your way in the foreclosure. And now you're

943
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 7: getting upset with me when I'm just a realtor calling

944
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 7: trying to trying.

945
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 12: To catch It's funny to me.

946
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:46,399
Speaker 9: This is funny candle in my business barbecue right now, Dude,

947
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 9: I'm not this general let's general fear of me going

948
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 9: in the foreclosure.

949
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 6: The attitude is not necessary. Matter of fact, this is probably.

950
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:57,800
Speaker 9: This bulls.

951
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 6: This is probably your la barbecue on the deck, So

952
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 6: enjoy that.

953
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 12: Look you come over here and you call me again,

954
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 12: you'll be on the pH B.

955
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 15: You got me.

956
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 6: All I'm telling you is this right here?

957
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 7: Bro? They coming to close your house out in two weeks.

958
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 7: All I wanted was the schematics on your house. That's

959
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 7: all I wanted.

960
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 12: Well, obviously you have all the information you need. You

961
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 12: already know more about what's going on with my personal

962
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 12: fans than I do. So I'm gonna tell you it's

963
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 12: gonna be a problem to come knocks.

964
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 16: To my door.

965
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:25,880
Speaker 6: Okay, Well I need to come up and take a

966
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 6: look at my house.

967
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 12: I need to get foreclosed on that. That's not how

968
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 12: it works, all right.

969
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 6: I need to come over and take some pictures of

970
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 6: the house.

971
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,800
Speaker 12: So is that gonna be Get off to the internet,

972
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 12: Get off the internet.

973
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 6: But I need to come in. I need to come inside,

974
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 6: sir and see the condition of the house.

975
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 5: Yeah right, I'm not.

976
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:47,919
Speaker 16: Going in the foreclosure.

977
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 12: I'm up to date with all my You're not coming

978
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 12: to my house. You're not getting inside the house. You

979
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 12: don't know what you're talking about.

980
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 7: Well, I'll tell you what your coworker, Mikayla, she thinks.

981
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 7: She seems think different, Michayla. Don't you work with Michayla?

982
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 13: Uh yeah.

983
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 12: What's Michaela got to do with this?

984
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 7: Michayla got me to call you baby. This nephew told

985
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 7: me from the Steve.

986
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:14,280
Speaker 6: Harby Morning Show, Russell, you better prank baby, you bet? Baby?

987
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 16: Oh my god, oh my, oh my god. Oh that's crazy.

988
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 16: I'm like, man, I got up to date. Man, I'm

989
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 16: up to date.

990
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 12: Man.

991
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 6: You up to date? Baby, You're still up to date.

992
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,319
Speaker 16: I'm up to mother date.

993
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 12: Man.

994
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 6: Man, tell me this. What's the baddest and I mean

995
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 6: the baddest radio show.

996
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,439
Speaker 12: In the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show.

997
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 6: Baby you up to date? Baby?

998
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: You up to date.

999
00:53:53,520 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 6: You got that right, and there you have it? What

1000
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 6: you think?

1001
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, play much every day.

1002
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 6: As long as jack. Thank you so kindly.

1003
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:14,320
Speaker 7: I'm the King of stupid and I'm gonna be in

1004
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 7: Braill Baby Breer Counedy Club. That is Sunday night. I'm

1005
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:21,359
Speaker 7: gonna say it again, Sunday night. The nephew is coming

1006
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 7: to town. All right, catch me Sunday. You probably won't

1007
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 7: catch me in Monday morth. Catch me Sunday night at Brill.

1008
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:33,320
Speaker 7: You probably won't catch me Monday morning. Okay, but you

1009
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:37,320
Speaker 7: can't catch me the follow on Saturday in Jacksonville, Florida.

1010
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 6: That's dude, all that's Easter weekend, y'all. It's already east.

1011
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 6: Oh my god.

1012
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 7: April nineteen, Saturday night, Jacksonville, Florida. Nephew tell me friends

1013
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,919
Speaker 7: an evening with nephew Timmy in Jacksonville.

1014
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 6: The nephew is coming to town. Tickets on sale, Ritt.

1015
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: Now you telling us that you're not coming in? Yeah,

1016
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: he's outlight.

1017
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 6: Yeah. So basically that's a noteification, Ain't that what?

1018
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 8: That is?

1019
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 6: A notification?

1020
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: We already know anyway.

1021
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 10: You know it?

1022
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 7: Oh my god, you know your nerves? This this is

1023
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 7: basically me putting in a notice. That's all it is.

1024
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 6: Wow, you get to do it like that? Yeah? So

1025
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,800
Speaker 6: this is my uncle show cal what what what we family?

1026
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 7: I mean?

1027
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:24,840
Speaker 1: What follow the rules?

1028
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 6: You still have to follow them? I follow my uncle.

1029
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 6: He break all the rules. I break them with him.

1030
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 10: What whoa thank you nephew coming twenty years breaking rules?

1031
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 10: What it is my strawberry letter? The subject is he

1032
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 10: puts it down, but he's broke. We'll get into it

1033
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 10: right after.

1034
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 6: I'm a good man.

1035
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 4: Uh hey, it's Carla Farrell. Kick that old mop and

1036
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,280
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1037
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1039
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1040
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1041
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1042
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1043
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1044
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

1045
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:25,359
Speaker 10: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, dating, sex,

1046
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 10: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to STEVEARVFM

1047
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 10: dot com and click submit Strawberry letter. We could be

1048
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 10: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

1049
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 10: going to read this one right here, right now, and

1050
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 10: you never know, it could be yours.

1051
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:41,919
Speaker 6: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type

1052
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:45,280
Speaker 6: he guide it for you. Here it is Strawberry.

1053
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 10: Letter, thanking nephew subjects. He puts it down, but he's broke.

1054
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 10: Dear Stephen Shirley, my man and I were friends for years,

1055
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 10: and he's always been down on his luck. I called

1056
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,720
Speaker 10: him bad Loveberry because he couldn't ever catch a break.

1057
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 10: Over the years, grew fond of each other and we

1058
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 10: slowly became more than friends. One day, he admitted that

1059
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 10: he's always loved me, and that's why he has taken

1060
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 10: such good care of me for twenty five years. I

1061
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 10: could not remember one time he took care of me,

1062
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 10: but then I had flashbacks of the small but sweet

1063
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 10: things he's done for me, things like coming over in

1064
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 10: the middle of the night when my dishwasher was leaking,

1065
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 10: and painting my bedroom and helping me rake leaves one

1066
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 10: Sunday afternoon. I then remembered how I had to pick

1067
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 10: him up and take him back to his brother's house

1068
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 10: after he helped me. Despite all of that, I fell

1069
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 10: for him after we made love for the first time.

1070
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 10: He went from bad luck Berry to Boss Daddy because

1071
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 10: he put it down. That's his nickname now. And my

1072
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 10: friends laugh at me because my man is not the

1073
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 10: boss of anything. He has a dead end job and

1074
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 10: he shares a car with his brother. I drive everywhere

1075
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 10: we go, and I slide my credit card to him

1076
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 10: when we go out to eat so that he can

1077
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 10: pretend to pay for our meals. Look, I get it.

1078
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 10: Everyone is struggling or has struggled in the past, but

1079
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 10: the people around me are ambitious and hard working people.

1080
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 10: I'm afraid that my man is too comfortable with his circumstances.

1081
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 10: He's fifty two and I'm fifty. So should I stick

1082
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 10: with him and encourage him to get a better job

1083
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 10: and maybe help him buy a car. Or should we

1084
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 10: go back to being friends and I let him come

1085
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 10: over often for great sex. That is the question. Well,

1086
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 10: of course, it depends on what you want. You haven't

1087
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 10: figured that out yet, it seems do you want a

1088
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:39,880
Speaker 10: man that can provide for you take care of you

1089
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 10: and love you, or do you want a man that

1090
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 10: can offer you great sex but pretty much nothing else.

1091
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 10: There's nothing wrong with encouraging him to get a better job,

1092
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 10: but you would think at fifty two that he should

1093
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 10: be able to encourage and motivate himself to be better.

1094
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 10: By now he should have something to show for it.

1095
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 1: He doesn't.

1096
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 10: He doesn't even have a car of his own. Okay,

1097
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 10: all these years twenty five did you say all these years?

1098
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 10: He's been around that long.

1099
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: What has he been doing?

1100
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 10: Does he want to be better? Does he want to

1101
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 10: do better? Or is he just okay with where he is?

1102
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 10: And if that's the case, he's not stepping up, then

1103
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 10: if you get with him in a real relationship, it

1104
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 10: won't work because you will you will be footing all

1105
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 10: the bills and you will start to resent him. You're

1106
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 10: already complaining that you have to drive everywhere and slide

1107
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 10: him your credit card to pay for dinner when you

1108
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 10: go out. You're already doing that, Steve.

1109
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 6: This letter is about something that's wrong with two people,

1110
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 6: him and her, because he's fifty two and she fifty.

1111
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 6: This letter don't even sound right of a fifty two

1112
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 6: year old man, and it don't sound right over a

1113
00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 6: fifty year old woman. Uh, we were friends for years.

1114
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 6: He's always been down on his luck. Wait a minute, wait,

1115
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 6: always always been down on his luck. No, no, no, no, no,

1116
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 6: He's always made poor decisions. This is what this is

1117
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 6: the same about. No luck. See, every time somebody gets

1118
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 6: successful and envious, people go, he's so lucky. No, but

1119
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,919
Speaker 6: do you know what the definition is of luck? Luck?

1120
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 6: It's with hard work bumps up into opportunity. That's how

1121
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 6: people describe other people's success. Now you say he'd been

1122
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 6: bad that, I call him bad look berry, because he

1123
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 6: couldn't he couldn't ever catch a break. Over the years,

1124
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 6: we grew fond of each other. We slowly became more

1125
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 6: than friends. Here we go again with that old we

1126
01:00:55,760 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 6: friends and untold y'all and told yall, Oh, don't know, body,

1127
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 6: listen to uncle Steve. Here it is again. One day

1128
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 6: he admitted that he's always loved me. Shut up, shut up,

1129
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 6: you are lying. He did, girl, I'm so surprised. And

1130
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:19,880
Speaker 6: then he telled me that's why he's always taken good

1131
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 6: care of me for twenty five years. Now, I want

1132
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 6: you to pay pay close attention to that I couldn't

1133
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 6: remember one time he took care of me, But then

1134
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 6: I had flashbacks of the small but sweet things he's

1135
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,439
Speaker 6: done for me, things like coming over in the middle

1136
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 6: of the night when my dishwalker dishwasher was leaking, and

1137
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 6: painted my bedroom and helped me rake the leaves one

1138
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,439
Speaker 6: Sunday afternoon. But then I remember I had to pick

1139
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 6: him up and take him back to his brother's house

1140
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 6: after he helped me. So you had to go get

1141
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 6: him so he'd come fix the dishwashing. Then you had

1142
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 6: to go get him to rake the leaves. Then you

1143
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 6: had to go get him to paint your bedroom. But

1144
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 6: you had to take him back every time. Despite all that,

1145
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 6: I failed for him. What despite all of that, I

1146
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:18,080
Speaker 6: fail for him? And after we made love for the

1147
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 6: first time, he went from bad luck Bury to boss

1148
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 6: Daddy because he put it down, well, y'allant to be

1149
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 6: able to do something, he got time. He got time.

1150
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 6: He ain't making no money. He ain't worry. He got

1151
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 6: to be able do something. God to be able to

1152
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 6: do something. He got time to focus. He ain't got

1153
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 6: to stop. He ain't ay big. I gotta get up

1154
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 6: out of here. I gotta go to work. He ain't

1155
01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 6: got to do that. That's his nickname. Now, my friend's

1156
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 6: laughing at me because my man is not the boss

1157
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 6: of anything. So you have told your friends about it,

1158
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 6: and you call me boss daddy. He got a dead

1159
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 6: enn job and he shares a car with his brother.

1160
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 6: What he fifty two and he shared a car with

1161
01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 6: his brother.

1162
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 10: All right, Steve, all right, we'll have part two of

1163
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 10: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

1164
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: Subject.

1165
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 10: He puts it down, but he's broke right after this,

1166
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,919
Speaker 10: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1167
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 6: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your

1168
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 6: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that trunk

1169
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 6: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping

1170
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 6: up beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features

1171
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 6: that can alert you to potential dangers around you.

1172
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 7: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the

1173
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 7: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have won over one

1174
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 7: hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety awards from two thousand

1175
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 7: and six to twenty twenty four as of December twenty

1176
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 7: twenty four.

1177
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 10: All Right, see, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. He puts

1178
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 10: it down, but he's broke.

1179
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 6: Here's a lady that has been friends with this guy

1180
01:03:57,920 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 6: for years, and I've told you all about the friendship.

1181
01:03:59,920 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 6: He admitted that he loved her always has and told

1182
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 6: her that's why I've been taking care of you for

1183
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 6: twenty five years. You couldn't think of what he's ever

1184
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 6: done for you to twenty five years. Then you started

1185
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 6: looking back on all the small things. He came over

1186
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 6: to your house and fixed your dish washing when he

1187
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 6: leaked in the middle of the night. He helped you

1188
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 6: paint your bedroom. He came over on Sunday and help

1189
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 6: you rake leaves. But then you remembered you had to

1190
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 6: go pick him up so he can come do all

1191
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 6: this stuff. Then he had to take it back to

1192
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 6: his brother's house. And why you have taken back to

1193
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 6: his brother's house because him and his brother share a car.

1194
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 6: How you share a car with somebody y'all ever had

1195
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 6: that before? That's a hard thing to share a man

1196
01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 6: a car. Anyway, Then they finally made love and he

1197
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 6: went from bad luck Berry to bouce Daddy because he

1198
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 6: put it down, Well, that's good. He got to be

1199
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 6: he'all to be able to do something. Hell, come on,

1200
01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 6: but he and the friend's lad because he ain't the

1201
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 6: boss of anything because he has a dead end job.

1202
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 6: And he shares a car with his brother. Now Here

1203
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 6: we go, I drive everywhere we go. I slide my

1204
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:12,919
Speaker 6: credit card to him when we go out to eat

1205
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 6: so he can pretend to pay for our meal. Then

1206
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 6: she said this, look, I get it. Everyone is struggling

1207
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 6: or has struggled in the past. Well, yeah, lady, that's true.

1208
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:29,840
Speaker 6: Everybody has struggle, and everybody has a struggle. But you

1209
01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 6: can't make this struggle your struggle. He fifty two. He

1210
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:39,640
Speaker 6: shared a car with his brother, which means he lived

1211
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 6: with his brother. You got to pull your credit card out,

1212
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 6: which means he don't have one. You got to drive

1213
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:53,320
Speaker 6: everywhere because y'all can't go everywhere because his brother got

1214
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 6: the car. And I'm not really sure that they sharing

1215
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 6: a car because you still ain't mentioned of him ever

1216
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 6: driving anywhere. So I think it's his brother's car. And

1217
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 6: he done told you he shared a car. I think

1218
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 6: it's his brother's car because you have yet to hear

1219
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 6: you got to drive everywhere, So when he's sharing the car.

1220
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 6: He don't pick you up. That's because he don't share

1221
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 6: a car. You're not listening. It's his brother's car and

1222
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 6: it's his brother's house. He in worse shape than you think. Now.

1223
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 6: The people around me are ambitious and hard working people.

1224
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 6: I'm afraid that my man is too comfortable with his circumstance.

1225
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 6: He's fifty two and I'm fifty. Should I stick with

1226
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 6: him and encourage him to get a better job and

1227
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,040
Speaker 6: maybe help him buy a car? Should we go back

1228
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,440
Speaker 6: to being friends? I just let him come over more

1229
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:44,480
Speaker 6: often for great sakes. Wow, lady, your options ain't great.

1230
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 6: Should I do this or that? I mean, you're not

1231
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 6: giving me a great option to look at him? Junior,

1232
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 6: Your mustache looks really thick on the zoom call today. Congratulations,

1233
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 6: just thought I throw that out there. Yeah, I just

1234
01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 6: want to compliment anymore now. I've never seen this must

1235
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 6: ask with that thick before he's maturing anyway. Yeah, we

1236
01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 6: all might as well stop because this that ain't going nowhere,

1237
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 6: because I don't know what options you have, because your

1238
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 6: option is to leave him because he's too comfortable. He's comfortable.

1239
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 6: He's been this, he's fifty two, he lived with his brother.

1240
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 6: And he say he share a car, but he don't

1241
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:29,600
Speaker 6: really share the car his brother's car. And should you

1242
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 6: help him get a better job, why he don't want

1243
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 6: a better job, and maybe help him buy a car. No,

1244
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,480
Speaker 6: you're gonna have to buy the car. He ain't got

1245
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:42,440
Speaker 6: money for food. Where you see money for a car?

1246
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 6: Or should we go back to being friends? Now? How

1247
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 6: do you do that? And I let him come over

1248
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 6: often for great sakes, So all you're gonna do then

1249
01:07:57,360 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 6: is enable him because he gonna sign a He gonna

1250
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 6: sign that contract tomorrow because that's a good offer. So listen,

1251
01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 6: I can get with this woman, come over our house,

1252
01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 6: have great sex, and I ain't got to buy a car.

1253
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 6: I ain't got to move out of my brother house,

1254
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 6: and I ain't got to get a better Job's Jack Foughton.

1255
01:08:20,080 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 6: So your idea of going back to just being friends

1256
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:27,160
Speaker 6: mean now you only have to drive him everywhere, but

1257
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:30,960
Speaker 6: you're gonna have to go pick him up for this

1258
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 6: great sex and then drive him home. So I don't

1259
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 6: understand the upside for you in this at all. As

1260
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:44,760
Speaker 6: a woman of fifty, you with the man who has

1261
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 6: no upsidning. Now, look, can you build a man up, Yeah,

1262
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 6: who has ambition. Can you build a man up, yes,

1263
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 6: who has a plan? Yes? But if your man ain't

1264
01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 6: got no plan, and your man i ain't got no future,

1265
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 6: what are you finna help him do?

1266
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 1: And does he want this? It doesn't even seem like

1267
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 1: he wants this man.

1268
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:15,800
Speaker 6: This dude is comfortable. Man, he is comfortable. But that's

1269
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 6: what I tell people all the time. Everything you really

1270
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:21,720
Speaker 6: want in life is on the other side of comfortable.

1271
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 6: You've got to go through discomfort to get to it,

1272
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:29,840
Speaker 6: and a lot of people are not willing. It's a

1273
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 6: prime example of a fifty two year old man who'd

1274
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 6: decided I'm living with my brother. I'm gonna tell this

1275
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 6: girl I share the car. It's his brother's car. He

1276
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 6: don't share nothing, because not one line in this letter

1277
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 6: has he ever picked him up?

1278
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 1: Right?

1279
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 6: I just don't see it later. So yeah, and you

1280
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 6: can let him come over and do what he want

1281
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 6: to do to you. But all right.

1282
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 10: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve BARBFM

1283
01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 10: on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter

1284
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 10: podcast down the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded So Good.

1285
01:10:03,520 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 1: You can download it today now.

1286
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:07,720
Speaker 10: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we

1287
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:10,400
Speaker 10: got Junior and sports talk right after this.

1288
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1289
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 6: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your

1290
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 6: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck

1291
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:27,160
Speaker 6: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping

1292
01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 6: up beside you. Fortunately, every Hunday offers advanced safety features

1293
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 6: that can alert you to potential dangers around.

1294
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 7: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the

1295
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 7: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have won over one

1296
01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:43,719
Speaker 7: hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety Awards from two thousand

1297
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 7: and six to twenty twenty four.

1298
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 6: As of December twenty twenty four.

1299
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,520
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, take it away, introduce.

1300
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:53,320
Speaker 6: Them, ladies and gentlemen, into now time for sports. As

1301
01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 6: you can tell by sports, most people in media that

1302
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 6: do sports don't have good mustaches. Steven A. Smith don't

1303
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 6: have a good one. But on this show, our sportscaster

1304
01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 6: is growing a mustache. Ladies and gentlemen, the grown man

1305
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 6: himself shooting you.

1306
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:17,680
Speaker 8: Thank you, appreciated man, Feel good about the mus dad appreciated.

1307
01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:19,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna give you some tips on how to

1308
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 6: ticket it.

1309
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 1: Okay, we're talking about that.

1310
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 6: Let's get to it.

1311
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:24,360
Speaker 13: Man.

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01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:26,840
Speaker 6: First of all, congratulations to Cleveland. They wrapped up the

1313
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:30,240
Speaker 6: number one seed in the East. Cleveland Calves. I want

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01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 6: to celebrate. I'm so good though.

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Speaker 1: Man, they real good.

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01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 6: They're real good and Lord help?

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01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 14: Yeah.

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01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:36,840
Speaker 7: Fuck?

1319
01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:38,559
Speaker 6: Have you seen this before?

1320
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:39,599
Speaker 1: This has happened before?

1321
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:44,479
Speaker 6: Uh uh no, they ain't ever happened before.

1322
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 1: Now y'all got the number one seeds?

1323
01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 6: Man, congratulations.

1324
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:49,880
Speaker 1: Also, did y'all see this?

1325
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 7: Man?

1326
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,800
Speaker 6: What happened that the dinner Nuggets fire? They head coach

1327
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:53,599
Speaker 6: Michael Malone?

1328
01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 5: What why.

1329
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,639
Speaker 6: He just won a championship two years ago?

1330
01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 1: They didn't find you know, the players, well he said,

1331
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 1: the players are full of crap. Oh that's what he

1332
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,719
Speaker 1: said after he got fi Because you're trying.

1333
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 6: To figure out, like they fifth in the fifth in

1334
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 6: the West. They got a record of forty seven and

1335
01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 6: thirty two.

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01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 1: They in the playoffs.

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Speaker 6: It's like you, why would you go, Junior? We really

1338
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 6: don't care what happened in Denver. We really don't. We

1339
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 6: care about Houston years. We don't They find jokes that

1340
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,639
Speaker 6: they want you all night. We don't really care.

1341
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:36,519
Speaker 1: Not your guy playing, he means him Junior, he means him.

1342
01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:41,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, here we go. Also, man, let's talk about this coach.

1343
01:12:41,840 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 8: Prime feels like Sador Sanders and Travis Hunter should go

1344
01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 8: one and two. But another issue is some of them,

1345
01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 8: some of these teams feel like Prime is too much

1346
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 8: in the process. Do we have a problem with Prime

1347
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 8: want his son the best for his son? No, because

1348
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 8: that's so crazy to sit up here and say that.

1349
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 8: You know, he's too much in the process of his

1350
01:12:58,200 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 8: son getting raped.

1351
01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:02,800
Speaker 6: Hey, when the Peyton was going through this, Peyton Manning

1352
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:06,120
Speaker 6: and all them, ain't nobody say nothing. No man, no,

1353
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 6: you get involved. You they father Archie man and played

1354
01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 6: the game. He told Eli he wasn't going over there

1355
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:14,080
Speaker 6: because they was gonna just beat him up. He didn't

1356
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 6: go over there, and he worked out something else. Prime.

1357
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,680
Speaker 6: Prime hadn't been in the game. You ain't gonna take

1358
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 6: your son and mess up eight years of his career.

1359
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 6: That's what happens. Every time we do something for our kids.

1360
01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:27,719
Speaker 6: It's a problem the Prime do something. Jered Buss's daughter

1361
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 6: run the Lakers. What you know about basketball? Jerry Jones

1362
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:35,080
Speaker 6: kids in charge of the Dallas Cowboys down't even draft

1363
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 6: free agent. What they know.

1364
01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 1: Man stopped in the moment.

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01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:40,600
Speaker 6: We do something with our kids. It's a problem that

1366
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:43,879
Speaker 6: part prime doing what he supposed to do. He parented.

1367
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 10: Thank you, Junior. Now that we notice a new mustache,

1368
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 10: we like it all right. Coming up at the top

1369
01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:52,799
Speaker 10: of the hour, young man on social media needs some advice.

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01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 6: Tommy is a head up.

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01:13:58,760 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 9: Up.

1372
01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

1373
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 10: This is from Marva on Reddit. Marva says, at the

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01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:12,560
Speaker 10: very beginning of our relationship, before things were serious, I

1375
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 10: cheated on my boyfriend with my ex. We've been together

1376
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,759
Speaker 10: for five years and now we're talking about getting married,

1377
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:23,720
Speaker 10: but I still carry the guilt like it happened yesterday.

1378
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 10: He has no idea, and part of me wants to

1379
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 10: come clean before we take that next step, but I'm

1380
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:35,439
Speaker 10: terrified it'll destroy everything. Is honesty still the right thing?

1381
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:38,720
Speaker 10: This far down the line? Is it selfish of me

1382
01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 10: to want to clear my conscience at the cost of

1383
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:43,560
Speaker 10: our relationship?

1384
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 6: Who are you? Asked? She asking me, Yeah, go ahead,

1385
01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 6: She give me the quote she said.

1386
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:55,960
Speaker 1: It is honesty still the right thing this far the line. Yeah,

1387
01:15:02,720 --> 01:15:03,240
Speaker 1: little girl.

1388
01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:06,680
Speaker 6: Tell me the lines she said again about clearing my

1389
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 6: conscience because I want.

1390
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 10: To help he is it selfish of me to want

1391
01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 10: to clear my conscience at the cost of our relationship.

1392
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:16,240
Speaker 1: No, listen, he wants to get it off her.

1393
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 6: Listen to me. Clear your conscience with God.

1394
01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 1: Thank you.

1395
01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 6: Go to God. God has grace. All of us make mistakes.

1396
01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 6: If you make a mistake and God don't bust you

1397
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 6: on that mistake, that's because He's given you an opportunity

1398
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 6: to learn something, ask God forgiveness and move on. Don't

1399
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 6: take this in here to this man. He not gonna

1400
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:47,679
Speaker 6: marry you. Do not take this in here to this man.

1401
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:51,719
Speaker 6: He not gonna marry you. And stop all this guilt stuff,

1402
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 6: y'all trip it. Take this to God. Tell God. Listen

1403
01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:59,640
Speaker 6: to me. All of us have done something and go

1404
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 6: away with it. To the person, we did it too,

1405
01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 6: But you paid in another way. See it is. It

1406
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 6: don't always work tit for tat. That ain't how it work.

1407
01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,679
Speaker 6: But you gonna pay. There's a price for doing wrong,

1408
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 6: but it's not always tit for tat. It's just like blessings.

1409
01:16:27,640 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 6: Blessings come in a different form. You may help somebody

1410
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:33,160
Speaker 6: You may stop on the side of the road help

1411
01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 6: or help a lady with her call. But the blessing

1412
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,439
Speaker 6: you get may not be somebody stopping on the side

1413
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 6: of road helping you with your car. Maybe your car

1414
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 6: don't break down. Maybe the blessing comes in form off,

1415
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 6: you get a break with your health, something like that.

1416
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 6: That's how it works. Ask God for forgiveness, tell God

1417
01:16:49,840 --> 01:16:51,599
Speaker 6: to work it out, and work it out with him,

1418
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 6: and then don't do it again.

1419
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 7: You made the mistake, and tell your conscience to shut up.

1420
01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:59,480
Speaker 7: If you've a children, real.

1421
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:09,559
Speaker 6: Conscious that guilt. I don't even let my consci they

1422
01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 6: got nothing to do with you. Yeah for real, Yeah you.

1423
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:18,160
Speaker 1: Know you're real that that guilt thing. Yeah, you're right.

1424
01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 6: We'll not married. He not gonna marry you later. Keep

1425
01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:25,719
Speaker 6: your mouth closed. Take that to your grave. You learned

1426
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 6: a lesson. It's called grace. God didn't let you get busted.

1427
01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 6: That's called grace.

1428
01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:33,040
Speaker 1: Take that, Take advantage of them, and give yourself some grace.

1429
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 6: Everybody make mistakes. I bet your boyfriend had done something

1430
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 6: you don't know nothing about.

1431
01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:44,760
Speaker 1: Oh nothing, You go right there, that's hard, that's it, right.

1432
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,200
Speaker 1: We have time for another one. See this is from Tierra.

1433
01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:49,960
Speaker 1: On Steve Harvey f M.

1434
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:52,000
Speaker 10: She says, most of my friends are guys, and while

1435
01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 10: I'm genuinely, while I genuinely enjoy your company, it's become

1436
01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 10: painfully obvious that nearly all of them.

1437
01:17:58,400 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: Are hoping for more.

1438
01:17:59,600 --> 01:18:02,639
Speaker 10: I've try if i'd setting boundaries, but the flirting never

1439
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:07,400
Speaker 10: really stops. And honestly, sometimes I like the attention even

1440
01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:10,720
Speaker 10: though I don't want anything to happen, but they still

1441
01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:13,080
Speaker 10: stick around. If I told them the door is closed

1442
01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 10: for good? Or have I been lying to myself about

1443
01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 10: what these friendships really are?

1444
01:18:19,800 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 6: What did you think about us that make us really

1445
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:26,799
Speaker 6: want to be your friend? Gotta be kidding me. Stop,

1446
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:28,439
Speaker 6: I'm not answering this question.

1447
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:33,320
Speaker 17: No mode, no Steve. Everybody has heard the way you feel. Yeah,

1448
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:38,720
Speaker 17: help he she knowed, I answer, Okay, all right?

1449
01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:40,920
Speaker 10: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

1450
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:42,960
Speaker 10: more of the Steve Harvey Morny shows.

1451
01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:45,200
Speaker 1: Is the Angry Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1452
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 10: Right after this a tough crowd. You're listening to the

1453
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 10: Steve Harvey Morning Show. More weird animal news. Police in

1454
01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 10: Nevada rated a home near Las Vegas on Wednesday. They

1455
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:05,240
Speaker 10: sees seven tigers. Seven tigers that the homeowner claimed were

1456
01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 10: this is the part right here.

1457
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:11,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, they seize them. They came and took them.

1458
01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:15,800
Speaker 10: The homeowner claimed though, that they were emotional support cat.

1459
01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:19,160
Speaker 10: His name is Carl Mitchell. He said that six of

1460
01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:22,000
Speaker 10: the tigers were given to him by Joe Exotic. Remember

1461
01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 10: Joe Exotic, the star of Tiger King.

1462
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:24,920
Speaker 13: Yeah.

1463
01:19:25,400 --> 01:19:28,000
Speaker 10: He claims he wasn't required to have a special permit

1464
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 10: because he was allowed to keep them as emotional support pets.

1465
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:35,560
Speaker 10: Neighbors told police they would sometimes see him out on

1466
01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 10: walks with the large cats and they would be not

1467
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:41,639
Speaker 10: on a leash. Police had the tigers transported to an.

1468
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 1: Police had.

1469
01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:47,920
Speaker 6: This is a white you know it is.

1470
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 10: Police had the tigers transported to an out of state

1471
01:19:51,760 --> 01:19:52,880
Speaker 10: animal sanctuary.

1472
01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:55,519
Speaker 6: If I go to work that day as a police

1473
01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:59,840
Speaker 6: and they say, hey, man, we got a call. Yeah,

1474
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 6: some animals at the house. And when I get to

1475
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:07,519
Speaker 6: the house, I discover it's a time. If I look

1476
01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:10,560
Speaker 6: through the window, I go right back and get in

1477
01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 6: my car. I'm calling swat atl Dea and anybody else

1478
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 6: would have bree Jays with writing on it. Yeah, I'm

1479
01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 6: calling everybody. But we ain't finna do. Officer Harvey not

1480
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 6: going in to seize no tigers.

1481
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:32,719
Speaker 10: Their emotional support pets. We'll have more of the Steve

1482
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:34,640
Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show and we'll play around. I would you

1483
01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 10: rather right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey

1484
01:20:38,080 --> 01:20:45,080
Speaker 10: Morning Show. Hey, it's Carla Farroh. Kick that old mop

1485
01:20:45,120 --> 01:20:47,600
Speaker 10: and bucket aside? Are you ready for a mop and

1486
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:49,280
Speaker 10: bucket clean? And half the time?

1487
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Speaker 4: dirt and grind like magic. With hundreds of scrubbing strips

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Speaker 4: it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning.

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Speaker 4: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swipper Power Mop.

1493
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Speaker 10: It is time now for a round it would you rather?

1494
01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 10: Would you rather have bunny ears or bunny teeth? You

1495
01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 10: know a lot of people with bunny teeth.

1496
01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:21,559
Speaker 6: But well let's let Junior ask that because Jr. One

1497
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:23,360
Speaker 6: with the new mush dash, what you want to.

1498
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:26,960
Speaker 1: You want bunny ears?

1499
01:21:27,680 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1500
01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:30,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I ain't gonna be no bunny.

1501
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:33,560
Speaker 6: Choose one part.

1502
01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:37,360
Speaker 1: Ears more than bunny teeth.

1503
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:39,639
Speaker 6: What's wrong with bunny. I'm gonna get them bunny teeth

1504
01:21:39,720 --> 01:21:41,679
Speaker 6: and then and then get the rest of them capped

1505
01:21:41,720 --> 01:21:43,559
Speaker 6: to match. You just have a mouth full of.

1506
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:46,800
Speaker 1: Steve got a oba.

1507
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 10: Bite across bight, Tommy, bunny ears or bunny teeth, I'm.

1508
01:21:55,400 --> 01:21:56,280
Speaker 6: Going with the ears.

1509
01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:58,559
Speaker 7: That's a lot of teeth hanging out your row. I'm

1510
01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:00,880
Speaker 7: going with the ear, all right.

1511
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:04,080
Speaker 10: Would you rather be responsible for decorating the Easter eggs

1512
01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:06,439
Speaker 10: or hiding the Easter eggs for the hunt?

1513
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:09,080
Speaker 6: I really had them because I'm just gonna blow him

1514
01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 6: in the woods. Well I really have I ain't gonna

1515
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:15,720
Speaker 6: sit there and painting the wig. I did it one

1516
01:22:16,320 --> 01:22:19,320
Speaker 6: for the church. Him in my car?

1517
01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:22,519
Speaker 1: Well, you left egg the eggs?

1518
01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just left him in the car because I

1519
01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:25,599
Speaker 6: want you feel like hiding.

1520
01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:28,080
Speaker 3: Hit him.

1521
01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:29,640
Speaker 1: These kids can't find it.

1522
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:31,280
Speaker 6: He ain't finding me.

1523
01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 3: They're in your car.

1524
01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 6: I ain't feel like hiding. I just left him in

1525
01:22:37,120 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 6: the car.

1526
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:40,840
Speaker 1: Oh man, son of babies. One looking for the eggs

1527
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:42,240
Speaker 1: and you had him in your car.

1528
01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:44,000
Speaker 6: Now that's a good hunt.

1529
01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:49,599
Speaker 1: Because they'll never find them because I put some monia.

1530
01:22:51,080 --> 01:22:51,759
Speaker 6: That's terrible.

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Speaker 10: Would you rather stay in the job you have now?

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01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:58,400
Speaker 10: Or would you rather change careers every three years?

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01:22:58,720 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 1: That's a good one.

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01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:02,160
Speaker 6: No staying in this job right here?

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01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:08,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, change careers every three years, something different. There can't

1536
01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:09,839
Speaker 1: be no plumber man.

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01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:09,880
Speaker 10: No.

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01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 6: Electrician. I'm electricians.

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01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:23,960
Speaker 1: I kick you. They make money though, Yeah, plumbers too well, Steve, Steve,

1540
01:23:24,520 --> 01:23:25,640
Speaker 1: I'm nothing to be none of that.

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01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 6: I've been there. I worked it for a mother company.

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01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:36,160
Speaker 6: Made good money too, uh huh. It wasn't his money though.

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01:23:36,400 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 1: So they're going to send the job you have now? Okay,

1544
01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:42,000
Speaker 1: I can't go back.

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01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:43,200
Speaker 6: Okay.

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01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 10: Would you rather win three million dollars tomorrow or would

1547
01:23:47,840 --> 01:23:51,280
Speaker 10: you rather win two hundred million dollars in ten years?

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01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 1: Yeah?

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01:23:56,560 --> 01:23:56,760
Speaker 6: Three?

1550
01:23:57,240 --> 01:23:59,280
Speaker 1: Three million tomorrow tomorrow?

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01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 10: Three Steve, two eight years, two hundred and ten years

1552
01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:07,080
Speaker 10: or three tomorrow?

1553
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:07,680
Speaker 1: Which one?

1554
01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 6: I'm gonna wait on that. Two hundred.

1555
01:24:11,680 --> 01:24:12,439
Speaker 1: Seventy eight.

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01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:15,840
Speaker 6: You're sixty eight now. I'm planning on being here anyway.

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01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:18,960
Speaker 6: It's gonna be nice. I'm looking at that as my

1558
01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:20,160
Speaker 6: retirement money.

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01:24:20,320 --> 01:24:22,200
Speaker 1: So yes, today's round.

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01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:24,000
Speaker 6: The lord.

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01:24:24,040 --> 01:24:27,439
Speaker 1: If I'm making Oh, thank you, we'll close out the

1562
01:24:27,520 --> 01:24:30,639
Speaker 1: show for the very rich. Seve, y'all, don't blow that three.

1563
01:24:30,760 --> 01:24:34,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that right now, you're listening to

1564
01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:36,400
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1565
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:43,320
Speaker 6: Look, you can't let the urge to sing your favorite

1566
01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:46,960
Speaker 6: songs while you're driving distract you from that truck drifting

1567
01:24:47,080 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 6: toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping up

1568
01:24:51,040 --> 01:24:55,439
Speaker 6: beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features that

1569
01:24:55,520 --> 01:24:58,000
Speaker 6: can alert you to potential dangers around you.

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01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:00,720
Speaker 7: That's right, because Hyndai is always working to ensure the

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01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:03,519
Speaker 7: road doesn't get you. HONDEI vehicles have one over one

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01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 7: thousand and six to twenty twenty four as of December

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01:25:10,360 --> 01:25:11,240
Speaker 7: twenty twenty four.

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01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:14,120
Speaker 10: All right, guys, here we are last break of the

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01:25:14,240 --> 01:25:17,320
Speaker 10: day on this Thursday. And Steve, before we get out

1577
01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:19,960
Speaker 10: of here, we had another phone call for you. It's

1578
01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 10: from Lennee out of North Carolina. She left a message

1579
01:25:22,960 --> 01:25:24,040
Speaker 10: about raising daughters.

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01:25:24,520 --> 01:25:29,520
Speaker 16: Hello, Steve, my name is Linee and I'm in North Carolina.

1581
01:25:30,160 --> 01:25:32,679
Speaker 14: I want to say that I thank you for being.

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01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:34,880
Speaker 12: The father that you are for your girl. When I

1583
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:38,280
Speaker 12: listen to you say tell. The advice that you give

1584
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:42,639
Speaker 12: your goals and motivates me, especially as a single mother.

1585
01:25:43,479 --> 01:25:48,400
Speaker 12: Trying to take care of my daughter by myself. It

1586
01:25:48,479 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 12: gets really hard, especially with her dad.

1587
01:25:51,040 --> 01:25:52,840
Speaker 1: Being only ten minutes.

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01:25:52,520 --> 01:25:53,960
Speaker 11: Away, and don't do anything.

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01:25:54,439 --> 01:25:56,000
Speaker 1: But I just want to thank you for.

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01:25:56,160 --> 01:25:58,800
Speaker 12: The advice that you give your girls, because when you

1591
01:25:59,040 --> 01:25:59,600
Speaker 12: speak on the.

1592
01:25:59,760 --> 01:26:03,240
Speaker 11: Vice is actually helping myself and I'm.

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01:26:03,160 --> 01:26:05,000
Speaker 1: Sure other females as well.

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01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:08,000
Speaker 6: Thank you and you have a good day.

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01:26:08,400 --> 01:26:10,479
Speaker 16: God bless you well.

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01:26:10,600 --> 01:26:12,599
Speaker 6: I would like to say, first of all, to single

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01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:17,560
Speaker 6: mothers who have daughters, I don't think anybody can do

1598
01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:21,120
Speaker 6: a better job of raising those girls that a woman can,

1599
01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:27,160
Speaker 6: because women know all the intricacies of being female. So

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01:26:29,280 --> 01:26:33,360
Speaker 6: being a father of daughters is very helpful, and that

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01:26:33,520 --> 01:26:37,280
Speaker 6: I can teach my daughters the male viewpoint so that

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01:26:37,400 --> 01:26:40,960
Speaker 6: they are aware of how men think. But I in

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01:26:41,200 --> 01:26:45,799
Speaker 6: no way am better at it than their mother, because

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01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:49,760
Speaker 6: their mother can advise them on every level of being

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01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:52,800
Speaker 6: a woman and a girl and I can't. So I

1606
01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 6: appreciate what you're saying, but I have their ability to

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01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:01,400
Speaker 6: teach my daughters the male view which I try to

1608
01:27:01,520 --> 01:27:04,519
Speaker 6: get now, listen to me. They have to do it

1609
01:27:04,600 --> 01:27:07,200
Speaker 6: on their own and they have to learn from their mistakes.

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01:27:07,720 --> 01:27:10,960
Speaker 6: Your children are not gonna be mistake free. You can

1611
01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:14,439
Speaker 6: tell them all you want. At one point in time,

1612
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:18,479
Speaker 6: they're gonna do something so counter to everything you've ever

1613
01:27:18,600 --> 01:27:21,360
Speaker 6: taught them, because that's what they're going to do. That's

1614
01:27:21,439 --> 01:27:25,519
Speaker 6: what I did. I made mistake after mistake after mistake,

1615
01:27:25,880 --> 01:27:29,479
Speaker 6: even after my father told me, because that's the only

1616
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:32,400
Speaker 6: way you learn. You learn through trial and error, and

1617
01:27:32,520 --> 01:27:36,240
Speaker 6: you're gonna make mistakes. So single mothers out there, please

1618
01:27:36,280 --> 01:27:39,559
Speaker 6: don't beat yourself up because you're doing a wonderful job.

1619
01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:42,160
Speaker 6: You are doing a wonderful job, and there are single

1620
01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:44,960
Speaker 6: mothers out there as such a thankless job of being

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01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:48,160
Speaker 6: a single parent because you don't get the real benefit

1622
01:27:48,240 --> 01:27:51,280
Speaker 6: until they're grown. You know, every now and then your

1623
01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:54,439
Speaker 6: child will say thank you for something. But the sad

1624
01:27:54,520 --> 01:27:58,120
Speaker 6: thing about being a parent is they really not gonna

1625
01:27:58,160 --> 01:28:00,280
Speaker 6: get the true real value of who you are and

1626
01:28:00,400 --> 01:28:03,919
Speaker 6: what you did until they're full grown. Like it's rewarding

1627
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:07,120
Speaker 6: for me now to hear my son say stuff that

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01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 6: I talked to them about. You know, I'll be listening

1629
01:28:10,439 --> 01:28:13,240
Speaker 6: to him talk to each other, and I like, one

1630
01:28:13,280 --> 01:28:14,920
Speaker 6: time I was listening to my boys talk to each

1631
01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:16,320
Speaker 6: other and they say, hey, man, hold on, hold on,

1632
01:28:16,920 --> 01:28:20,200
Speaker 6: remember what Dad told us now, and I'll be sitting

1633
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:24,280
Speaker 6: there going wild. It clicked. My son went and texted

1634
01:28:24,320 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 6: me the other day he said, Dad, I just won't

1635
01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:29,120
Speaker 6: say thanks man. Thanks. My son, my oldest son told

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01:28:29,160 --> 01:28:32,040
Speaker 6: me just yesterday we were on the job because he

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01:28:32,120 --> 01:28:34,080
Speaker 6: works for me. We were on the job and this

1638
01:28:34,240 --> 01:28:40,240
Speaker 6: other guy constantly does stuff that's just uh, you could

1639
01:28:40,240 --> 01:28:43,160
Speaker 6: see he was raised different. Let's just say that. And

1640
01:28:43,360 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 6: it was another incident that happened and he had a

1641
01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:51,160
Speaker 6: reaction to it that I would not have had. And

1642
01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:53,800
Speaker 6: me and my son was getting on the elevator to

1643
01:28:53,920 --> 01:28:56,080
Speaker 6: go down and he say, hey, Dad, I just won't

1644
01:28:56,120 --> 01:28:59,439
Speaker 6: say thanks man. I said, what's up, son? He said, no, man,

1645
01:28:59,600 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 6: just think for raising me the way you raise me,

1646
01:29:03,280 --> 01:29:05,320
Speaker 6: because I see what happens when you don't have that

1647
01:29:05,439 --> 01:29:09,200
Speaker 6: in your life. And so it's rewarding of that. But

1648
01:29:09,360 --> 01:29:13,000
Speaker 6: for you single parents out there, understand this. You're not

1649
01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:15,479
Speaker 6: gonna get full credit until they get good and grown,

1650
01:29:15,840 --> 01:29:20,439
Speaker 6: until sometimes till they get their own Sometimes you gotta

1651
01:29:20,479 --> 01:29:23,000
Speaker 6: have children to really get what your parents were saying

1652
01:29:23,080 --> 01:29:26,240
Speaker 6: to you. But you're gonna get it though, So hanging down,

1653
01:29:26,320 --> 01:29:28,800
Speaker 6: single parents, you're doing a wonderful job. I know it's

1654
01:29:28,840 --> 01:29:32,160
Speaker 6: thankless sometimes, but you're doing a wonderful job. It's like

1655
01:29:32,200 --> 01:29:33,920
Speaker 6: I have to talk to the mothers who bring their

1656
01:29:33,960 --> 01:29:37,519
Speaker 6: boys to my camp, because my campus for young boys

1657
01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:41,719
Speaker 6: from homes headed up by women. And it's so hard

1658
01:29:41,840 --> 01:29:45,000
Speaker 6: because these boys miss their father. And we have a

1659
01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:47,200
Speaker 6: moment at the ranch where we write down on a

1660
01:29:47,200 --> 01:29:50,280
Speaker 6: piece of paper how you feel about your father. And

1661
01:29:50,360 --> 01:29:53,000
Speaker 6: it's so much negative stuff that these kids is feeling

1662
01:29:53,360 --> 01:29:56,479
Speaker 6: because this man is been absent. Thedn't come see them

1663
01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:59,240
Speaker 6: at the game, don't send them nothing for Christmas, don't

1664
01:29:59,280 --> 01:30:02,320
Speaker 6: wish them happy birthday. Man, these boys, it's just like wow,

1665
01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:05,720
Speaker 6: you know, parents stay at school, he don't show up,

1666
01:30:06,600 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 6: you know all of this stuff, man, And I just

1667
01:30:09,200 --> 01:30:13,040
Speaker 6: feel so bad for these boys. And the mothers cry

1668
01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:16,280
Speaker 6: like this. One lady told me, she says, Steve, I

1669
01:30:16,479 --> 01:30:21,120
Speaker 6: just cry all the time because I picked his father

1670
01:30:22,280 --> 01:30:24,160
Speaker 6: and he turned out not to be nothing. I tell

1671
01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:27,439
Speaker 6: these women, that's not your fault. That's not your fault.

1672
01:30:28,640 --> 01:30:30,960
Speaker 6: Everybody make mistakes, but you can't make a man be

1673
01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:35,280
Speaker 6: a man. You that's you know, we all get duped

1674
01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:38,479
Speaker 6: at one point in time or another. So it as

1675
01:30:38,680 --> 01:30:42,320
Speaker 6: as it's it's so many Oh what am I trying

1676
01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:46,520
Speaker 6: to say? It's so many variables. It's so many variables

1677
01:30:46,640 --> 01:30:52,200
Speaker 6: in this thing called parenting. Understand that stay focused, stay

1678
01:30:52,280 --> 01:30:55,080
Speaker 6: true to the course, because you have no idea who

1679
01:30:55,160 --> 01:30:59,000
Speaker 6: you gave birth to. I'm pretty sure Barack Obama's mama

1680
01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:02,840
Speaker 6: has some regrets, that's about meeting her husband. But little

1681
01:31:02,880 --> 01:31:06,880
Speaker 6: did they know that one day, this child, through this union,

1682
01:31:07,720 --> 01:31:10,479
Speaker 6: had given birth to the first African American to become

1683
01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:12,960
Speaker 6: President of the United States. And you don't know who

1684
01:31:13,000 --> 01:31:16,080
Speaker 6: you're giving birth to. And I'm not saying I'm all that,

1685
01:31:16,200 --> 01:31:18,080
Speaker 6: but my mom and daddy had me late in life.

1686
01:31:18,160 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 6: My mama had me when she was forty two years old,

1687
01:31:21,200 --> 01:31:23,040
Speaker 6: and my father used to tell me all the time,

1688
01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:24,960
Speaker 6: I don't know why you standing here talking to me.

1689
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:28,479
Speaker 6: You ain't even supposed to be here. And that was

1690
01:31:28,520 --> 01:31:30,679
Speaker 6: our little running gag all the way till he died.

1691
01:31:31,120 --> 01:31:33,120
Speaker 6: But you know what they was ended up being proud

1692
01:31:33,560 --> 01:31:36,120
Speaker 6: because they didn't know that the youngest of five was

1693
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:38,400
Speaker 6: gonna turn out to be who I was. And I'm

1694
01:31:38,439 --> 01:31:40,240
Speaker 6: not saying that in a bragging way, but you just

1695
01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:43,400
Speaker 6: don't know who you've given birth to, So keep your

1696
01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:46,240
Speaker 6: head up. You gonna be just fine. Y'all. Have a

1697
01:31:46,280 --> 01:31:48,760
Speaker 6: great one today. Talk to God today. He would absolutely

1698
01:31:48,840 --> 01:31:49,720
Speaker 6: love to hear from you.

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