1 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 1: What's up? Its sauce on the side. Welcome back from vacation, Diamond, Oh, 2 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: thank you? Did you go anywhere and do anything fun? 3 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 2: No you going? No, no, no, no. 4 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 1: I missed you. I missed you too. You know how 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: you can tell if I miss you because I reach 6 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: out to you. And because when I saw Scotty, because 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: Scotti brought his daughter to Ohio to look at Ohio, 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: the Ohio State University, so I got to show her around. 9 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: We were standing outside a Donados where there was karaoke. 10 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: It's a pizza place, it's a chain pizza place, and 11 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: I could not believe there was karaoke. Was the worst 12 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard, and I thought of you, so 13 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: we FaceTime you. I was like, these are things Dumbe 14 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: would love. Pizza and horrible karaoke my favorite. It's the best. 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: I wish you would have been there. 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 3: Do you know I hate when people are good at karaoke, 17 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 3: like they can sing, Like, what's the point go fucking 18 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 3: get a record deal or something like that. 19 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 2: Right here, we want horrible singers. 20 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,639 Speaker 1: Okay, I mean you would have loved this one. It 21 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: was so bad, was so bad I can't even do 22 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: an impression of it. It was just so bad, and I 23 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: was like, why are they a pizza place where? 24 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: Okay, cool, cool, this is great, a good time. 25 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: But wait, you're not a bad karaoke person, but you 26 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: love karaoke, So how do you fit into that? 27 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 2: What do you mean? I rap songs or I do? Like, 28 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: are you not a good rapper? 29 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 3: Sure, as long as you know the words right, But 30 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 3: like I'm talking about people who can actually sing. 31 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, who get up there and they're like this is 32 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: my moment. 33 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, like fuck them. 34 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 3: And there was this girl on a boat I'll never 35 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: forget it. It's on a cruise and I did like 36 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 3: tutsi roll and won an award, and then she came 37 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 3: up right after me. Thankfully she was after me, and 38 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 3: she did alone. How can I get killed it? 39 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 4: Wow? 40 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: Killed it? 41 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 3: And like a part of me was like, wow, that's 42 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 3: really cool, but then the other half of me was like, 43 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 3: fuck you you can sing? 44 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: Go get a record deal, oh, because it's just that easy. 45 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: Well, like, girl, go join a choir. 46 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: I always think too when there's somebody up there like 47 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: doing terribly and then their friends clap for them like yeah, girl, 48 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: you killed it. Oh my god. I'm like That's how 49 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: American idol, terrible auditions happen. It is that right there. 50 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: I'm might encourage your friend, but like, holy t. 51 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,239 Speaker 2: If you did karaoke, I'd be like, yes, how dare you? 52 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: I would be amazing. I would not. I would not. 53 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,119 Speaker 2: Well, you can carry a tune. You and Danielle can't 54 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 2: do karaoke. 55 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: Then there's carrying a tune, and then there's being a 56 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: good singer. Those are like wildly different things. You know, 57 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: who can't carry a tune? It makes me chuckle. 58 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: Oh coasor boy Josh, oh god. 59 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: He like he does all of our imaging, which, by 60 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 1: the way, if you don't know what that is, it's 61 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: the sound effects and the image of our show. He 62 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: puts all that together, so he's obviously musically inclined in 63 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: some way. Well, that man cannot sing to save his 64 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: damn life. He comes in like a key and a 65 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: half off every time. That's but damn it if he 66 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: doesn't give it us all anyway, All right, this podcast's 67 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: been holding on to for a minute because I recorded 68 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: it with my dad. I'm a little nervous because I 69 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: do think that there are going to be things in 70 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: this that you'll probably try to cancel him over, but 71 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: I would like everyone to know he is uncancellable. He's retired, 72 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: and he gives no fucks. He doesn't care if this 73 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: is my father. He is an immigrant. He does not 74 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: care about political correctness. So some of the things that 75 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 1: you're going to hear, specifically, like one word in particular, 76 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: might bother you. So I'm warning you in advance. You 77 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: can yell all you want about it. This is what 78 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: my dad had to say when people ask him about 79 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: me us. Is that fair? 80 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it's fair. 81 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: My dad really liked you, by the way. 82 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 83 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 5: Him. 84 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 3: I wanted to hug him, but I was like, I 85 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 3: don't know if I should be hugging somebody's dad like this. 86 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: You can huld my dad people hugs. He's actually like 87 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 1: very cudly. Really Yeah, his cheeks are so soft. I 88 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: love giving him kisses anyway. Okay, so here comes my dad. 89 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: Best of Look, you've been warned. I don't want to 90 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: hear it. Hello Dad, Hello, how are you good? Okay? 91 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: So you have been probably the most requested person that 92 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: people want me to have on my podcast. 93 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 4: Because they want somebody to laugh at and make their day. 94 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: Yes, that is it. That's what they want. So I said, okay, 95 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my dad come into the podcast. I 96 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: wanted you to be part of the show this morning, 97 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: but traffic we got a little late, so you couldn't 98 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: be on the show. But you're still doing my podcast. 99 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: So people have sent questions that they want to ask 100 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: you about me, about you, about family, all kinds of stuff. 101 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 4: I will do my best to answer them. 102 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: Okay, the first question. First of all, Dad, thanks for 103 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: joining me. I would say that to anybody who was 104 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: coming in and doing the podcast with me. 105 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 4: I am delighted to be here. Thank you. 106 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: What made you come visit? 107 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 4: I've not seen you in a long time, and I 108 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 4: decided I want to see New York and see if 109 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 4: you're really living here. 110 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: Somewhere else and what have you determined? 111 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 4: At least you're not living under a bridge, Dad. Nice apartment, Okay, 112 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 4: beautiful apartment. 113 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm glad you like it. 114 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 4: I'm very very jealous of that apartment. 115 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: Plea. You have a nice house in Florida. Yeah, with 116 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 1: a big pond, an alligators. 117 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 4: Beautiful lights out there at night. It looks so beautiful. 118 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, we could trade anytime. 119 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 4: And like I told you. I always love to see 120 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 4: the clouds below the apart. 121 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: That's nice, all right. So the questions they ranged from 122 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: all over the place. First of all, is there anything 123 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,679 Speaker 1: you would like to say? Would you like to introduce yourself? 124 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,239 Speaker 1: I mean, this is my dad. His name's per Deep. 125 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: He's one of my favorite people in the whole wide world. 126 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: That's how I would introduce you. How would you introduce yourself? 127 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 4: Well, as you already announced my name, I don't need 128 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 4: to announce it again. No, but I came here to 129 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 4: New York because I love visiting it as a tourist. Also, 130 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 4: uh huh, and I wanted to see how things look 131 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 4: from the apartment of Meda, which is a beautiful, beautiful apartment. 132 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: Okay, we have a guest. It's Elvish. 133 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 6: God, this is amazing. 134 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: We were podcasting. He did this actually this attitude? Yeah nothing, 135 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: do you want? You want to be part of the podcast? 136 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 4: No? Go do you thing? There? 137 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: You are? 138 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 6: Hello, Welcome to New York Dad, Why, thank you so much? 139 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. 140 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 6: Now what were you guys talking about? What did I 141 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 6: miss out on? 142 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: This is we actually just started it. And this works 143 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: out even better because now you can ask questions that 144 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: you want to have answered if you want. But my 145 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: dad was just introducing himself and saying why he came 146 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: to New York. He said he loved it as a 147 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: tourist when he was a kid. 148 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 4: Actually, Elvis gave me a very good opening. Yeah, by 149 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,799 Speaker 4: calling me father, Now I can say I'm the father 150 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 4: of New York compared to my grandfather was father of 151 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 4: the nation. 152 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 6: A lot of fathers in this film lot. 153 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: You know, he's the godfather of radio. 154 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 4: Well, let me say something about Elvis. Yes, we got 155 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 4: a new financial investment advisor a few weeks ago. She 156 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 4: and her daughter are running the business, and she was 157 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: taking all the details from us, and she said, Mayda Gandhi, 158 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 4: is that the lady on the Elvis Durancho. I said, yes. 159 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 4: She goes, I love Elvis. I was born and brought 160 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 4: up in Jersey City, and I moved to Tampa a 161 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 4: few years ago, and I still listened to the radio 162 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 4: show every morning. See, so I said, that is surprising. 163 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 4: She goes, You've been here for a long time. 164 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 6: Very long. 165 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 7: I'm very I'm older than you. You're laughing, and I 166 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 7: hear not in look not at all. See it's kind 167 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 7: of wild. 168 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 6: Yeah. 169 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 7: I've been doing this in at this radio station in 170 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 7: New York since nineteen eighty eight. 171 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 5: Yeah. 172 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, so a lot of people fly, They fly out 173 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 7: of the nest and go to Tampa. Yeah, and now 174 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 7: she's driving you into bankruptcy. 175 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 4: Off my chair. Her name is Lisa Green. 176 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 6: Lisa Green from Jersey City. I remember Lisa Green. 177 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 4: I don't know how she connected everything. That was amazing. 178 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 6: Well, there's not many Gandhi's around. 179 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 4: That's true. But then the other incident, and I don't 180 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 4: know if may I shared this with you. My brother 181 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 4: lives in a different part of Florida and it's called 182 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 4: the Villages. 183 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, we're the old people hook up with other 184 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 7: old people, leave their leave their dentures in people's beds 185 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 7: and things. 186 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, that's the one. 187 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 4: So they had gone to the Barnes and Noble in 188 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 4: the Villages and when he was at the register paying, 189 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:17,559 Speaker 4: the lady saw the name Shanti Gandhi and he said, 190 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 4: are you related to the famous Gandhi? And he said, what, 191 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 4: Mama Gandhi. No, no, no, I'm talking to. 192 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 6: Look at that. 193 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 7: Finally, finally, hey, quickly they forgot how quickly they forget 194 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 7: what Gandhi did and now you're the famous Ghandi. 195 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 4: Tension is the right word? Made them? 196 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 6: Maybe not to riotriting, notieting. 197 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 7: So I missed out of the conversation. You said you 198 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 7: came to New York when you were younger, Like what 199 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 7: what years did that? 200 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 4: Spad once? The first time I came here was when 201 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 4: I came with my parents in nineteen seventy two. 202 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 7: What was New York City like in nineteen seventy two? 203 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 7: A whole different city. 204 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 4: It doesn't seem much different, which was already so developed 205 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 4: by then that I can't tell the difference. New York 206 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 4: has been always a haven for tourists, and we had 207 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 4: heard so much about New York in Mumbai, all the 208 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 4: pictures we had seen of New York, especially the one 209 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 4: where the guys are building the Empire State Building. 210 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:16,719 Speaker 6: Oh yeah up in the. 211 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 4: So for us when we come here, it's like, yeah, 212 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 4: I've seen this in pictures before. Whereas many other cities 213 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 4: you can tell, oh, it wasn't this way. It was 214 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 4: a rural town and now look at it. So New 215 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 4: York was developed so far back that one is very 216 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 4: hard for me to tell the difference. 217 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 6: Do you remember what you ate oh here, Yeah, what 218 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 6: did you eat? 219 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 4: Well, I have to say that I was exposed in 220 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 4: front of my dad. We were vegetarians in India. Mm hmm. Well, 221 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,359 Speaker 4: when I came here, I took to all the sandwiches 222 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 4: and everything, and my dad got suspicious and he said, 223 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 4: have you been eating meat in India? I just say, yeah, 224 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 4: I did eat whoops? 225 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 2: He said. 226 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: He would take his pocket money and run out to 227 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: street vendors and get meat and eat meat. 228 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 7: Just meat, no bread, no vegetables, just meat. You would 229 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 7: eat live livestock, eat a live You would eat a 230 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 7: chicken as it walked by. 231 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 6: God, what are they doing Mumbai? You need to eat 232 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 6: some meat. Well, that's that's fascinating. 233 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 7: Nineteen seventy two in New York City because my mom 234 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 7: and dad would be here as well during those years. 235 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 7: I would never come. I came as a child. I 236 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 7: was in in the nineteen seventies, but I don't remember 237 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 7: it that much. But they said New York City to 238 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 7: them was a whole different place than it is now. 239 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 7: The way they describe New York City in nineteen seventy two, 240 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 7: when you were here was just a wonderful, positive place. 241 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 7: So I went online and googled street scenes nineteen seventy 242 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 7: two New York City. There's cars on fire, there's so 243 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 7: you got. 244 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty four. 245 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 6: You got to sort of like this year. 246 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 7: You got to see some obviously the better parts of 247 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 7: the city. 248 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 4: But the things that stick out today that I can 249 00:10:56,920 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 4: remember is not so much of New York City. But 250 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 4: my brother took us all on a trip from Detroit 251 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 4: to San Francisco by car. Wow. He was studying to 252 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 4: be a cardiac cardiologist, so he had a conference there 253 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 4: while he was working in Detroit. So we all went 254 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 4: with him, and he did a neat thing. He attached 255 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 4: the movie camera to the driver's side reary mirror, so 256 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 4: as he drove, it took the movie. 257 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 6: All along the original GoPro that's hot. 258 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. So we went past Las Vegas and everything today 259 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 4: and I see Las Vegas. I can tell, oh, yeah, 260 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 4: look at this. 261 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 7: This is so different it's at now Las Vegas has 262 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 7: gone through quite the transformation. 263 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 4: New York looked like it was New York from eighteen nineties. 264 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 7: It was a lot of New York is still here 265 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 7: as a matter of fact. Down in the village where 266 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 7: they have the rosen rows of Old Town homes built 267 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 7: in the eighteen hundreds. When it snows, the snow seems 268 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 7: to cover up everything that's modern day. And you just 269 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 7: see what you see left over are these old town 270 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 7: homes and you can imagine those exactly. 271 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 6: That's exactly what the streets look like back in those days. Beeping. 272 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm glad you asked that question. So my dad 273 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: has a pump, has a diabetic pump for his insulince. 274 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,319 Speaker 6: Oh my god, do you need to call that? Nine 275 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 6: one one is letting him know you look good. 276 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 1: The beep is letting him know his sugar's high. And 277 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: I know why his sugar's high, because I think he 278 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: snuck off to Krispy Krean before he came here. 279 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 6: Oh my god, did you or did you not? Yes? 280 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 7: For you, Thank god you didn't have that hooked up 281 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 7: to you back in the day and it detected meat 282 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,199 Speaker 7: in your system. Can you guysually have a meat a meatometer? 283 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 7: Your son's been eating meat again? What do we do 284 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 7: with this boy? 285 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 4: But actually, my mom was a meat eater and my 286 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 4: father was a vegetarian, and so it was always a 287 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 4: conflict at home, and he had forbidden my mother from 288 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,679 Speaker 4: making any meat or any fish. She loved fish more 289 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 4: than me, right, so one day she just couldn't handle it. 290 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 1: Get closer to that microphone if you're yes. 291 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 4: So when he was out of town, she had some 292 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 4: shrimp brought into the house, cooked everything, and she was 293 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 4: an excellent chef, but it leaves an odor. Unfortunately, he 294 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 4: decided to come home early and while she was cooking 295 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 4: all this, he was on. 296 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 6: His way while it was in the pan, almost. 297 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 4: Cooked, and she had me rushing around with all these 298 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 4: deodorant smells and everything like that. My dad came, what 299 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 4: the hell is all this deodren going on smelling something funny? 300 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 4: I said, that's all you're smelling, right, Yeah, okay, no problem. 301 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 6: And still, I mean never found out. 302 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 4: I think he suspected, but he was too hesitant to ask. 303 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: Well, outside of all things podcasting, I really just wanted 304 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: you guys to say hi, I meet each other because 305 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: my dad, my big brother. 306 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 7: It's an honor to meet you, and thank you for 307 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 7: the gift of Mayda because we're having way too much fun. 308 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 6: How long have we worked together now? 309 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: Six years? 310 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 6: Six years. 311 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: I have been here for six years, dad, Yeah, that's crazy. 312 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 4: I feeling like yesterday I came to see you in Boston. 313 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 7: And it was like just yesterday she arrived here as well. 314 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 7: That's the magic of your daughter. 315 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:06,319 Speaker 1: Time warp. 316 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 7: There's no concept of time or space. 317 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 4: No, I didn't realize. 318 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it's crazy, right, Okay, Well I do 319 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: have to run, But I have a question. 320 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:16,679 Speaker 6: But I have a question. I have so many questions 321 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 6: for you. 322 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 7: My favorite one is are you proud of where she's 323 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 7: living and what she's doing right now? 324 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 4: We are very proud, especially because our contribution as parents 325 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 4: has been very minimal. And the reason I say that 326 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 4: we are not from the entertainment industry, so we know 327 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 4: nothing about it. For this kid to have bucked the trends, 328 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 4: taken on all those challenges, the only credit we would 329 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 4: claim is we didn't stop her from doing anything, and that, 330 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 4: to me, is entirely her credit. I knew she was 331 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 4: cut out for something. I don't know what, because when 332 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 4: I was coming home from work one day and she 333 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 4: was about twelve years old maybe, and when we pulled 334 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 4: into our development, there's a little area there with a 335 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 4: concrete wall, and she was sitting on that wall grave 336 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 4: and as I was going to stop and say hi, 337 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 4: she just waved me on, so I went home. Then 338 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 4: she came back. I said, what the heck were you 339 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 4: doing there? That's my thinking spot, your thinking spot. 340 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: I had a thinking spot. 341 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 6: Do you have a thinking spot today? 342 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: I do now, it's more like the couch in the 343 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: bathroom hid my own space. But when you're a little kid, 344 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: you just need to get out of the house and 345 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: get away from everybody and think. And that was my 346 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: thinking spot. He thinks. That's so funny, man. 347 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 7: That brings up a lot of what it's like living 348 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 7: with parents who have expectations for your education and your 349 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 7: education foundation of education, and of course the different plateaus 350 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 7: of excellence and success. And she always wonders if you 351 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 7: guys really truly are proud of where she is. 352 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 6: And what she's accomplishing. Oh yes, so he told you 353 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 6: clear as day. 354 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I think that. 355 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 4: I think she doesn't realize that. It's understandable. Parents from 356 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 4: India and countries out there, they don't normally boast about 357 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 4: their kids and family because it's considered a bad taste. 358 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 4: So we grew up that way and to adjust to 359 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 4: this new culture. It's tough for people, you know, so 360 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 4: we just say, Okay, she's doing fine, no big deal. 361 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 4: But she has done a great job. And even though 362 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 4: I don't like comparisons, just to give an idea when 363 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 4: she was when she was first born, I truly thought 364 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 4: she was retarded. 365 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 6: Yes, because at that age, how can you detect? 366 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 4: Our older daughter was moving along very very well. This 367 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 4: one came along and she was well behind in all 368 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 4: the developmental phases from our first daughter. I do not 369 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 4: remember in orders my wife remember her ever standing up 370 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 4: and learning to walk. She was crawling at the age 371 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 4: when our older daughter was walking. And now even when 372 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 4: we took her to the daycare center, I told the 373 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 4: lady there, I said, please keep an eye on her. 374 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 4: I think she's retarded. 375 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: He thought I was joking. 376 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 6: Okay, how that worked out? 377 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 4: He developed in quantumly. There's no incremental things. One day 378 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 4: she's crawling, the next day she's walking. There's no learning 379 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 4: stage there of falling and all that same thing. In school. 380 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 4: I said, man, this kid's gonna be retarded. But then 381 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 4: I started testing her and she goes way ahead of 382 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 4: the crowd. There you go, I said, I want to 383 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 4: leave her to her face. 384 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yes, he tells everybody this. By the way, 385 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 1: in that exact same phrasing, and he says he never 386 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 1: remembers me saying a first word. I said nothing until 387 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: it was way late, and he thought I was elementally challenged. 388 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: And then I said a full sentence. It was I 389 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 1: would like some milk so. 390 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 7: Rather than I would like some milk please, so rather 391 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 7: rather than her first word. 392 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 6: It was her first thesis. 393 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 4: Center one day and the lady said, mister Gandhi, you 394 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 4: kept thinking your daughter was retarded. She was discussing Einstein's 395 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 4: theory of relatives. 396 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 7: Wow, your daughter is a theory on the marine montressory 397 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 7: theory of precognitive learning. 398 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 4: Exactly what. 399 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 7: She's the opposite of developmentallystion is mainly to leave them alone. 400 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 6: Good good thinking, please. But also I would think. 401 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 7: That you know, Meida is more in line of this 402 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 7: creative thinking side of the brain and content for a show. 403 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 7: And your other, your sibil, your your sister, maybe she's 404 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 7: more book smart more. 405 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,919 Speaker 4: No, they are very practice And I've got to say this, 406 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 4: I was going to say that earlier. I look at 407 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 4: both our kids and they're very different. Yes, our older daughter, 408 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 4: before she takes a step, will analyze every possibility, m 409 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:15,959 Speaker 4: rolls and cons and then she moves this one, jumps 410 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 4: in with both feet without thinking, and if it doesn't 411 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 4: work out, declares victory and walks away. 412 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 7: So maybe there's water in that pool, maybe not dive in. 413 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 7: I must leave you now. 414 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 1: It's the moment. 415 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,160 Speaker 6: It's a pleasure meeting you. Oh my god. I could 416 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 6: go on and on for hours with. 417 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 1: You, you and your daughter. 418 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,719 Speaker 4: She tells us you are a blessing too. 419 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 420 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 6: Absolutely, she's candy coating that, sugarcoating. 421 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 4: That that's one thing you won't get to there. 422 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 6: This is true. I love you. I love you even 423 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 6: more than element. 424 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 1: Thanks for stopping. 425 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 7: There's more podcast to go, more podcast. 426 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 4: Thank you very much, take care by. 427 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 1: Later. So okay, so these no, you're okay. These are 428 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,199 Speaker 1: actually some of the questions that people wanted to ask you. 429 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: You know, what was it like growing up with me 430 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: or what was it like raising me as a child. 431 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 1: You've kind of answered that the best question. And I 432 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 1: want to start here, what do you think I do 433 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 1: for a living? 434 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 4: You have exercise? First thing is you have known from 435 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 4: childhood what you were, who you were, what your attributes 436 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 4: are with ninety percent of humanity does not know. 437 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: Oh that's nice. 438 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 4: That led you into the profession of your choice, and 439 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 4: when you use your talents into the right profession, your 440 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 4: contributions are magnificent. Most people, i'm sorry to say, don't 441 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 4: know that, myself included, and it's at a later age 442 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 4: that we find out, ooh, I needed to go here. Luckily, 443 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 4: in my case things worked out fine where I made 444 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 4: the choices and moved on. But that early recognition of 445 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 4: who you are has set the stage for where you are, 446 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 4: and because of that, your contributions turn out to be outstanding. 447 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 4: If only all of us knew that, we'd be fine. 448 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: Well, that's very nice of you, thanks Dad. 449 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 4: And I have to say that even with Priya, she 450 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 4: was very decisive after graduating in journalism for her to 451 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 4: completely change course do it all on her own. The 452 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 4: first time I came to know she had changed her 453 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 4: career was when she almost graduated from me. Yes, and 454 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 4: that requires a lot of courage, and for her to 455 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 4: take up a profession in which blood is the major 456 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 4: factor and she hated. The sight of blood tells you 457 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 4: how well she thinks. Two thinks, though, so we feel 458 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 4: very fortunate to have two wonderful. 459 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate that, but no, my question was, what 460 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: do you think I do? What do you think my 461 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 1: job is? What do you think I do for a living? 462 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 4: I would say your job is number one to entertain 463 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 4: the public at times of stress, okay, and number two 464 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,919 Speaker 4: to educate them through that process, okay, without coming across 465 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 4: as if you're lecturing them. 466 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: So if somebody were to ask you what is your 467 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 1: daughter's job, what is your answer? 468 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 4: I said, my daughter's job is to inform the people 469 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 4: and make them laugh okay, and they are ready to cry. 470 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: So you wouldn't say she's a co host of a 471 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 1: radio show. 472 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 4: I would not even I would assume they knew that. 473 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 1: Okay. 474 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,679 Speaker 4: That's why, because the people asking me would be very 475 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 4: much the ones who know you're on a show. 476 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 1: Well, Prayer and I were talking the other day and 477 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 1: we said, you know, I don't know if somebody asked 478 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 1: mom and dad what do both of us do, if 479 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: they would be able to say it in one sentence, 480 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: what either of us do? 481 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 4: But see, if I tell everybody you're a co host 482 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 4: of a radio show, it is not as impressive, okay 483 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 4: as telling them what you actually do. 484 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: But you know I'm a co host of a radio show. Yes, okay, Yes, 485 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: and what would you say, I'm bringing that. 486 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 4: Kind of I would say inhibits. Like I told Elvis earlier, 487 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 4: Indian parents is they don't like to boast about it. No, no, no, no, 488 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 4: to boast about them, So it can be easily construed 489 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 4: by people as if we're boasting. So careful about how 490 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 4: we come across. 491 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 1: I totally get that. And I actually don't think you know. 492 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: I told you I don't want you guys to talk 493 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: about my job. I just want you to talk about 494 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: us as people whomever we are. Lot no, no, no, no, no, 495 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 1: I would rather you not do it. We were just 496 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: wondering if both of you, if you and mom actually 497 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: knew what we did. 498 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, absolutely. Mom actually thinks she is the co 499 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 4: host with you on Elvis Durantro. 500 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 1: Did she figure out how to get the iHeartRadio app 501 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: back on her phone? 502 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 4: I don't know if she's figured out how that phone works. 503 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 4: Did you? 504 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: You don't have it on your phone either. 505 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 3: Do you? 506 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:47,959 Speaker 5: Uh? 507 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 4: No, I don't have that app? 508 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 1: No, because you just got a new iPhone, right okay, and. 509 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 4: I'm still trying to master Remember this is my first smartphone. 510 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 1: I know you had a flip phone until a few 511 00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: weeks ago, a flip phone. That is nuts. Do you know? 512 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 4: I do not like the iPhone because to me, the 513 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 4: purpose of a phone is communications. That's it. Okay, my 514 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 4: flip phone, I could do everything I wanted except text messages. 515 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: And now you're texting like a champion. 516 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that did not connect people too. 517 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay. 518 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 4: It's a matter of time. 519 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll figure it out. 520 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 4: And don't get me wrong. I love the technology. It 521 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 4: is the misuse to which it can be put so 522 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 4: that bothers me. Okay, so that's why the flip phone. 523 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 4: You could not misuse it that way. 524 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 1: Dad. I was so mad when you broke the first 525 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 1: flip phone and you went to the store to get 526 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,360 Speaker 1: it fixed. I thought you were going to come out 527 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: with a smartphone because I didn't know they had flip phones. 528 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,959 Speaker 1: And when you came home with a second flip phone, correct, 529 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to have that guy's ass. You said. He 530 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: walked back in the back, found a box and was like, oh, 531 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 1: we have another flip phone for you. 532 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 4: I would have had a third flip phone had they 533 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 4: not said that we don't repay these phones anymore. 534 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god, thank god, because it's a relic. It 535 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 1: might as well be on the Titan. 536 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:02,880 Speaker 4: Yes, so am I kind of relic too, Okay, I'm 537 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:03,400 Speaker 4: proud of it. 538 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:03,880 Speaker 2: All right. 539 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: Other questions that were submitted by listeners of our podcast. 540 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 4: So I need to do the names. Who these listeners are? 541 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 4: I don't. 542 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: We don't have names I have. 543 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 4: I'm just kidding. 544 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: I have Instagram handles, and I know you don't like 545 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: Instagram and all that stuff either. 546 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 4: The only gramm I know is telegram. 547 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 1: Wait you know telegram? 548 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 4: I mean sending a telegram. 549 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: Oh, like the instant telegram, because you know Telegram is. 550 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 4: An app now too, Oh I didn't know. 551 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's it's like another social platform where you 552 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 1: can talk to people and communicate. 553 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, why do you need so many platforms 554 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,880 Speaker 4: when there are already so many there? 555 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,159 Speaker 1: Well, a lot of people don't like certain censorship on 556 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: certain platforms, so then they'll go somewhere else where they 557 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: think they have more free speech. 558 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 4: Some people don't like that choice. So you get to 559 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 4: talk to everybody whatever you want, you. 560 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 1: Like calling them? Yeah, okay, all right? 561 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 5: What wait? 562 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 4: Wait wait, I got to say something about what calling 563 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 4: versus texting? Yeah, I have seen you and Priya sitting 564 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 4: in the car are as my passengers and people from 565 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 4: other cars looking inside to see what these monkeys are doing. 566 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 4: You look like crazed, insane people banging away at the iPhone. 567 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:11,159 Speaker 1: Now, welcome. 568 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 4: You would not have had that problem with the flip phone. 569 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 1: Welcome to the club. Now you're going to do the 570 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: same thing. 571 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 4: Use it. I just use it for a couple of 572 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:24,360 Speaker 4: things communications meaning contacts and text. That's it. I yet 573 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 4: to look at any of the apps. I asked the 574 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 4: Apple guy, can you delete all these apps from the phone? 575 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 4: And he looked at me like I was insane. He said, so, 576 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 4: why are you buying an iPhone? Yes? I said, only 577 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 4: for this. 578 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: And you also put a case on your phone that 579 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: protects it. But you can't use the camera. 580 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 2: You have to take. 581 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 6: The case off. 582 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: You have to take the case off to use the camera. 583 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 4: No, I don't need to do a case off. 584 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:47,199 Speaker 5: No. 585 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 4: What I do is it's for those who are in 586 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,919 Speaker 4: the know. I have an outer box case and the 587 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,640 Speaker 4: auto box case comes as a case with a holster 588 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 4: feathers that it protect the camera. Yeah cover when you 589 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 4: want to take a picture, all you do is take 590 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 4: the whole stout. 591 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,640 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You're going to take the case off. 592 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: You have to take it out of that thing to 593 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: take a picture. 594 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't take the case out of the phone. 595 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 4: What I don't take the case off the phone. 596 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 1: Oh you're saying, just the just the whole thing that 597 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 1: clips on. But still you have to take it off 598 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: to take a picture. 599 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 4: And I don't want to take picture. 600 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: Have you even taken a picture? Have you taken one? 601 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 4: No? Okay, no? 602 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 2: Cool? 603 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 4: But I want to remind you of what George Carlin said. 604 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 2: Yes. Please. 605 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 4: For those who don't know, George Carlin was a great 606 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 4: comedian okay in the nineties, and in one of his episodes, 607 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 4: he said, what is this thing with the one hour 608 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 4: development of photographs? You just saw the damn thing. Why 609 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 4: do you have to take a picture of it? Now? 610 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 4: That's how I outrate. 611 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 1: That is not true. You love photos. You love looking 612 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 1: at a picture, a baby picture of Pria and I 613 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 1: or Pria's wedding pictures. You always want to see pictures, 614 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 1: you say, send me photos. Whenever I take a trip, 615 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 1: send me photos. You want to see them? 616 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, because now I don't travel anymore. Okay, try not 617 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,200 Speaker 4: to travel, so I get all my vacations for from 618 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 4: watching videos. Okay, normally I watched those videos on the computer. 619 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 4: So if you send me the photographs, I watch it 620 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 4: on my computer so I can see. Okay, may I 621 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 4: went to Mexico, and this is how Mexico looks. Okay. 622 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 4: When I was traveling a lot, it didn't matter to me. 623 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 4: I could go and see it for myself. 624 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:16,639 Speaker 2: Okay. 625 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 4: But now because I'm not traveling, I've had so many 626 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 4: vacations sitting at home. Okay, I've seen the entire Russian countryside. 627 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 4: I've traveled the Trans Siberian Railway. Now I wants to 628 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 4: travel in person, I don't. I've seen it all. 629 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,160 Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough. 630 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:32,719 Speaker 4: I can give advice to people who want to go. 631 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: Next listener submitted question, I don't think we've even gotten 632 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: really any yet. What are you least proud of? When 633 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 1: it comes to me, least least proud of. 634 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 4: That I cut your hair and made you look like 635 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 4: a boy. 636 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: That's true. That was so bad. Do you remember how 637 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 1: often people used to ask me if I was a 638 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: boy or a girl. 639 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 4: Wasn't I preparing you for today's world? 640 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 5: Then? 641 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 6: Oh? 642 00:28:56,120 --> 00:29:00,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks, that's why now I want to have so 643 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 1: much hair and all the hair all the time because 644 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: you made me look like a little mushroom. Like every 645 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: Indian kid, by the way, gets these horrible haircuts. So 646 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: thanks a lot, but. 647 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 4: Sorry, that's the one thing I'm not proud of it. 648 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: But that's something that you're not proud of about you? 649 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: What about me? What about me? Are you least proud of? 650 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 1: And you're not gonna hurt my feelings. 651 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 4: About you that I'm least proud of about me? I 652 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 4: really cannot think of anything, okay nothing. I would probably 653 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 4: say I'm most proud of you about many things, but 654 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 4: I don't think anything i'm least proud of you. The 655 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 4: most proud of you I am is you can associate 656 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 4: with its comebacks, You can associate with wonderful people and 657 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 4: not lose even the slightest knowledge of who you are. 658 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you really didn't like some of my friends growing up. 659 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, and time proved it to be true. 660 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you're right. 661 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,680 Speaker 4: So that to me, I cannot think of a single 662 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 4: thing that I'm not proud of about you in Priya. 663 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 1: Wow, really, what a nice thing to say. Thanks Dad? 664 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 4: Okay, And I would tell you right now. 665 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: I know you would, I have no doubt. So I 666 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: tell stories about you a mom on the air all 667 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: the time, and people don't believe them. They think there's 668 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 1: no way that that happened. And some of them make 669 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 1: me laugh all the time. You guys make me laugh 670 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: all the time. But specifically, you know, we live in 671 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 1: this age where parents are just clapping for their kids 672 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: all the time. You're amazing. Everything you do is the 673 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 1: best thing that's ever been done. And people don't believe 674 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: me that you showed up to our school to tell 675 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: the teachers that they gave us too good of a grade. 676 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 4: Yes, we did, absolutely we did. And you can see 677 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 4: today what's happening in education. Ye right, to get a 678 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 4: report card on your English language writing which was full 679 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 4: of spelling errors, full of grammatical errors, and then to 680 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 4: read that you got a bee is an insult to us. 681 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 1: So you came to the school to tell the teacher 682 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: that it is an insult that she gave a bee. Yea, 683 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: and in fact that paper deserved a lower grade. Right, 684 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 1: very shocking for that teacher. 685 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 4: Nope, she was actually actually she was afraid when she 686 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 4: met us. She said, what's the matter? Should have given 687 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 4: them an A. And that really made Mangola and me 688 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 4: live it. 689 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: That's my mom. 690 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, and we said, what are you talking about? This 691 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 4: paper deserves an F. And she was breathing such a 692 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 4: sigh of relief. She said, mister Gandhi, you have no 693 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 4: idea how much grief I tolerate because parents come here 694 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 4: demanding that their kids get an A. Yeah, and today 695 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 4: we are seeing the result of that poor grading process everywhere. 696 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 1: I bet, and now we are. I'm actually really glad 697 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 1: that you guys did that. I say all the time, 698 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 1: I am very happy almost everything that you and mom 699 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: told me when I was younger, you will thank me 700 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: for this when you grow up. You're right about I 701 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:45,719 Speaker 1: actually can't think of the things that you were not 702 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 1: right about. So I'm just going to say you guys 703 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 1: were right about a lot of it. And I'm glad 704 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 1: that you guys were hard on us. And I'm glad 705 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: that you guys didn't just clap all the time and 706 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 1: you were honest with us, and that you made us 707 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 1: do our own work. I'm very happy about that. 708 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 4: I'm not proud of saying that you will thank us 709 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 4: for it. I'm proud that you understood and appreciated it 710 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 4: and took full advantage of it. That's what I'm proud about. 711 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys made us very self reliant and independent, 712 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: and we figured out how to, you know, get around 713 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: a lot of things. 714 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 4: I was actually simply carrying on a tradition of my parents. Yeah, 715 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 4: because when I was in school in India, I remember 716 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,680 Speaker 4: my father coming to school and berating the teacher for 717 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 4: giving me a higher grade than I deserved. 718 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 1: Oh, so you were just paying it forward. 719 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, great. 720 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: Are you having fun doing this? 721 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 4: Enjoying it? 722 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 723 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 4: I'm also amazed by the technology. Amazing of the studio incredibly. 724 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty cool. It's fun. It's a fun. Oh 725 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: you want to see something cool? Hold on, So we 726 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: have these screens in here and we can change them 727 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 1: to be Oh, there's. 728 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 4: Me baby, hot sauce. 729 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: That's me sauce on the side. That's the name of 730 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 1: the podcast, by the way, did you know that? 731 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, the name of this podcasting you do. 732 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: I banned you and mom, Mom do you? Mom told 733 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 1: me you guys listen sometimes together. 734 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 3: You know. 735 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 4: What I find out is what she tells me. Yeah, 736 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 4: you said, and not by watching. 737 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: So the only reason I banned you guys, and by 738 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 1: ban no, no, but this is you have to This 739 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: is my reasoning. So everybody knows. I think Indian kids, 740 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 1: first generation Indian kids, we all have double lives. We 741 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: have our regular life and then we have the lives 742 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 1: our parents think we lead. I think I've blurred those 743 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 1: lines a lot more than most Indian kids have, because 744 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: most of them just have completely double lives. Separate, you know. 745 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: I mean again, we have the life that we live, 746 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: and then we have the life our parents think we live. No, 747 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: not at all. Okay, either way. The only reason I 748 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 1: don't want you a mom to listen is because mom 749 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: just has a lot of critiques. She likes to tell 750 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: me the things I should and shouldn't say. 751 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 4: Then I said, those are like that. 752 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 2: I guess so. 753 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: But I always say, Mom, I got this far doing 754 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 1: it the way that I'm doing it. I'm not going 755 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,320 Speaker 1: to change it now she thinks I make fun of myself. 756 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:10,280 Speaker 4: Are off the podcast? 757 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: No, No, we're recording. 758 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 4: I mean we're recording. 759 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: Why what were you going to say, Mom? 760 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 4: Go ahead, No, I don't want to be killed. 761 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 5: So. 762 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:26,240 Speaker 1: Fair enough. Yeah, okay, So back to the questions from listeners. 763 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,359 Speaker 1: Things that they want to know what was or are 764 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,400 Speaker 1: some of your favorite childhood memories of me of you? 765 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, there are quite a few. One of my earliest, 766 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:44,799 Speaker 4: not earliest, but most poignant memories was when Wiley came 767 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,760 Speaker 4: to the house for a party and he's a big guy. Yeah, 768 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 4: and I told him, you know, maya could fit into 769 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 4: your shoe. And he started roaring with laughter and he said, 770 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,479 Speaker 4: keim running to I don't know what your dad said. 771 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,319 Speaker 1: Let me tell you. Dad. If I we had a 772 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 1: dollar for the amount of times people said do you 773 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: know what your dad said? I would be so rich. 774 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: I have no doubt that. After Elvis walked out of 775 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 1: this room, he went and told everybody out there about 776 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 1: our conversation. Old everybody. 777 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,879 Speaker 4: But the other other memory I have is when we're 778 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 4: staying in that apartment. 779 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 1: We're in South Florida in North. 780 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,959 Speaker 4: North Northtown apartments in Columbus, Ohio. Yeah. Yeah, you came 781 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 4: one day and you were kind of crying, and you 782 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,240 Speaker 4: were you had come running home and I had looked 783 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 4: out and you were running home yelling at some kids, 784 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 4: saying wait till I grow up, I'll kill you. Oh, 785 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 4: and then you came home. He had kind of been 786 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,120 Speaker 4: rough with you. He was word three times a side. 787 00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like twelve, and I think I was 788 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: like five or six. 789 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 4: If you looked like he was twenty one. Okay, But anyway, 790 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 4: you came home and you asked me a question, not 791 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 4: that day, but the next day. I think, so, Dad, 792 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 4: what happens if someone if you throw a banana peel 793 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,799 Speaker 4: in front of somebody? And I said, boy, they'll slip 794 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 4: and fall. Well, a few days went by and I 795 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 4: was pulling in home from work and a whole bunch 796 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,359 Speaker 4: of your friends came running up to my car and said, 797 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,120 Speaker 4: mister Gandhi, mister Ghandhi, you know what made that is? 798 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 4: And I said, no, she threw a banana peel in 799 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 4: front of that bum and he slipped and hit his 800 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 4: head on the concrete. And may that told him next 801 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 4: time you'll be dead. Yeah, and the guy never fooled 802 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:25,920 Speaker 4: with you again. I said, I was proud you were 803 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 4: not a Mahatma Gandhi descendant. You. 804 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 1: I'm a descendant, not a disciple. 805 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 2: Exactly right, exactly, So. 806 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 1: That is actually another question. First of all, I think 807 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 1: if I would have told that story and told people 808 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 1: I threw a banana peel at someone and made him 809 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: fall and crack his head. Nobody would have believed it. 810 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,799 Speaker 1: So I'm glad that you relate the stories. Yes, absolutely, 811 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 1: because I think a lot of things just seem unbelievable, 812 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 1: but if you hear them from another person, maybe more believable. 813 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: So one of the other questions was what do you 814 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 1: think Gandhi g would think of both of us, of 815 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: you and of me. That's a tough one. I never 816 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 1: know what to say because I didn't. 817 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,879 Speaker 4: Know what he would think. But I know one thing 818 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:11,280 Speaker 4: he would appreciate that we are both following what we want, 819 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 4: not trying to be blind disciples of him like many 820 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,760 Speaker 4: of his other relatives are. I don't believe in derived glory. 821 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 4: The glory has to be ours. We have to earn 822 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 4: our own way. Just because I'm born as his grandson 823 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 4: doesn't mean that or great grandson. It doesn't mean that 824 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,720 Speaker 4: I have to follow everything he says. Sure, like you said, 825 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 4: we are his descendants, not his disciples. We are to 826 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 4: think for ourselves because what was right for him may 827 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 4: not be right today. But one of the things I 828 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:46,759 Speaker 4: disagree with him the most is his obsessive policy of 829 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 4: non violence. Had he been under hitler, he would have 830 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 4: been killed and not even heard from again. Okay, Okay, 831 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,160 Speaker 4: so that's one of the pink things. You have followed 832 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 4: your own rules. You followed your own principles in life 833 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 4: right from a young age, and I'm very proud of that. 834 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 4: That's why I say, if we had very little to 835 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 4: do with yours and Pria's advancement in their careers, but 836 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 4: we are proud that you are our kids. 837 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 1: I don't agree with that at all. I think, even 838 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,320 Speaker 1: though you will always say you raised us with benign 839 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,400 Speaker 1: neglect and that's why we turned out the way that 840 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:22,439 Speaker 1: we did, I think you guys played such a key 841 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: integral role in the way that we are in taking 842 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 1: personal accountability for things and following through with things and 843 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 1: not quitting. You guys didn't let us watch TV forever, 844 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 1: and I'm really happy at this point in my life. 845 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 1: I'm happy that you didn't. 846 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 4: I'm thankful that you think that way. But you know, 847 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:47,560 Speaker 4: to expand a little bit, Bill Gates and Steve Jobs 848 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 4: both banned their kids from being near any screen device 849 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 4: until they were twelve years old. That included television, that 850 00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,239 Speaker 4: included iPads, that included anything that had a screen. They 851 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 4: were smart enough to know what it can do to children. Yeah, 852 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 4: a child learns best by doing, not by sitting on 853 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 4: a sofa and playing with a machine that has nothing 854 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 4: to do with the real world very little. And you're 855 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 4: seeing the results there today. Sure, where kids can't write, 856 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 4: they can't read, it's unfortunate. 857 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,879 Speaker 1: Sure, But I'm glad that you guys did those things. 858 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,319 Speaker 1: I really am. And I'm glad that you made us, 859 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,280 Speaker 1: even though I hated it at the time. You always 860 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: made us do extra homework, especially in summertime. You didn't 861 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 1: like that school just stopped for that amount of time, 862 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 1: so you gave us your own homework and we had 863 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 1: to write two to four essays every single day before 864 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,879 Speaker 1: we could go out and do anything. And I'll tell 865 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,480 Speaker 1: you what, Dad, I'm pretty good at Jeopardy now because 866 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,120 Speaker 1: of that. Because of that. 867 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 4: And on the homework side and all. I have to 868 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,439 Speaker 4: give mom the credit because she did a lot more 869 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 4: of that than I did. And when I think of 870 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,839 Speaker 4: how much time she spent with you guys, taking your 871 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:02,040 Speaker 4: gymnastics and all these things while not becoming a soccer 872 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:06,360 Speaker 4: mom speaks well for her too. Yeah, you have to 873 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 4: give the devil the credit. 874 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 1: Yes, you call him on the devil. 875 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:11,960 Speaker 4: Yes, because I'm senior DEVI. 876 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 1: Okay, yes, the two of you together a pair of Satans. 877 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,400 Speaker 1: One of the things I also really appreciate that you 878 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:32,360 Speaker 1: guys did for us was instill And I've said this 879 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 1: on the show so many times and they say it too. 880 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,840 Speaker 1: Your lack of planning is not my emergency. 881 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,239 Speaker 4: That I believe in one I know. 882 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:43,799 Speaker 1: But let me tell you, as a little kid, that's 883 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 1: a pain in the ass, because how many kids are 884 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,240 Speaker 1: really planning? Kids don't plan their kids. 885 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 4: However, you planned very well how to make our lives miserable? Oh? 886 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 4: Did I very well? Plant out? 887 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 1: Oh you're miserable. This is you being miserable. Yes, yeah, right, 888 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 1: you look so tortured. Oh my god, I hope you get. 889 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,719 Speaker 4: Just telling me that you're surprised that I look like 890 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 4: a ninety year old guy. Yeah, I'm only seventies. 891 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, Dad, you don't have one wrinkle. 892 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 1: I don't know how it's possible. There's not a wrinkle 893 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,320 Speaker 1: on that damn head. But you've given everyone else wrinkles, 894 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:16,800 Speaker 1: and I need to know how it happened. 895 00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,280 Speaker 4: The wrinkles I gave you guys made you look better. 896 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: How do you not have wrinkles? You laugh all day long, 897 00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 1: you laugh all the time, you have a good time. 898 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 1: Not a wrinkle. I'm looking at you right now, no one. 899 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 4: Well, that's because they're not looking well now. 900 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 1: I can see. 901 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,279 Speaker 4: Please, I've got a wrinkled head. 902 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:34,919 Speaker 1: Please. Anyway, what is something that always makes you think 903 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 1: of me? 904 00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,359 Speaker 4: Think of you? Yeah? I have to keep coming back 905 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,640 Speaker 4: to the fact that, because it is a very very 906 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 4: important thing that from the youngest days of your life 907 00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 4: you thought differently from most people. What I thought of 908 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 4: you as being retarded was actually you being very different, Okay, 909 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,359 Speaker 4: And that difference today is blossomed into who you are. 910 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:04,799 Speaker 4: And I remember in school, wherever you went, you're a 911 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 4: swarm of kids behind you, like mosquitoes after a guy 912 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 4: who was sweating, And I found that amazing. You were 913 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:16,200 Speaker 4: not the epitome of a perfect kid at school, yet 914 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 4: to have this huge crowd behind you was amazing to me. 915 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 4: Prior took a brunt of our learning experience, as every 916 00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,520 Speaker 4: older kid will tell you, Yeah, they're the brunt of 917 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:30,240 Speaker 4: their parents' learning experiences. And in spite of that brunt, 918 00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 4: even she turned out beautifully. Yeah, We're very proud of 919 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 4: both of you. 920 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: She's awesome. I will say I would like to apologize 921 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 1: to you, a mom, because, as you said in a 922 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,880 Speaker 1: very nice way, I was not necessarily the perfect kid 923 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:42,920 Speaker 1: when it came to school. You guys spent a lot 924 00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:47,480 Speaker 1: of times coming in and talking to principals or teachers 925 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 1: or whomever because I was a little naughty, which is 926 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 1: actually one of the other questions. What were some of 927 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,320 Speaker 1: the mischievous or naughty things that you can remember about 928 00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,879 Speaker 1: me growing up? 929 00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 4: Mischievous things? Uh, you know it's funny. Mom and I 930 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 4: were talking a few weeks ago about you guys and 931 00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 4: how kids were getting into all this kind of trouble. 932 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:24,400 Speaker 4: We know people whose kids got into trouble of a 933 00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:31,720 Speaker 4: very terrible kind, like what drugs, alcohol? Some of them 934 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 4: are into prostitution. 935 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 1: What you guys have friends who have hookers for kids? 936 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,480 Speaker 4: Not when they were young. At that age, we didn't 937 00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 4: think they were prostitutes. But I should say lose people 938 00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,200 Speaker 4: and I won't name any names. 939 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 2: Hello, you get beep talking. 940 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,280 Speaker 1: I invited Diamond and in case she had one question 941 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 1: for you, Oh yeah, yeah, but no, no, no, finish what 942 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,640 Speaker 1: you're saying. So you mom, were talking. 943 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I can remember some of the unfortunate things, 944 00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 4: especially when we moved Florida and you told me you 945 00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 4: wanted some money from your savings account that you had 946 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:09,359 Speaker 4: built up very well to help out two guys who 947 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:13,560 Speaker 4: had been unfortunately arrested, and to give them the bail money. Yep. 948 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 4: And I remember telling you may that get ready to 949 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,880 Speaker 4: lose your money and your friends yep. And you said no, no, no, no, 950 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,880 Speaker 4: that will never happen. And it showed yep. But what's 951 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,440 Speaker 4: more important is not that you defied me, but that 952 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 4: you learned from it. That's what life's sold. 953 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:29,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 954 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,000 Speaker 1: I'll never build anyone out of jail again. Want and done. 955 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, just kidding at you. To bail people out 956 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,400 Speaker 4: of jail, you need to revise your friends. 957 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,200 Speaker 1: Happens that it happened. 958 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:38,000 Speaker 3: So. 959 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:43,319 Speaker 4: That I remember. There were unfortunate incidences, but nothing that 960 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 4: I could say made us regret. 961 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,440 Speaker 1: You have no regrets, none for you guys. Let me 962 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 1: tell you this. I've said this to Diamond before too. 963 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 1: Most of the people that I know now who have kids, 964 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:59,080 Speaker 1: including my friends, they're like all of my kids, and 965 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 1: they're cool. But if I could do it again, I 966 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,440 Speaker 1: wouldn't no. 967 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 4: No, no. If the only regret I have is the 968 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 4: way I was and I would do things differently today, 969 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,840 Speaker 4: what would I do differently? I was tough with you guys, tyrant, 970 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 4: but in some ways I was brutal. Yes, now, in 971 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,759 Speaker 4: India that would not have been considered out of the 972 00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 4: way at all. 973 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 1: I tell them all the time, Indian parents are crazy breed. 974 00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 4: I believe the love is very different. And I'm sorry 975 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 4: to say, I don't intend to offend any Americans, but 976 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,319 Speaker 4: to just put a little placard out there saying we 977 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 4: love our kids drove slowly doesn't cut it. If you 978 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,399 Speaker 4: really love your kids, you should be involved in them 979 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,799 Speaker 4: all the time, involved with them in every aspect of 980 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 4: their lives, without trying to dictate. I never saw that 981 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 4: in many American parents, and that's why we today have 982 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 4: the problem. And I'm sorry. I don't mean to be 983 00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,400 Speaker 4: a lecturing person. Okay, okay, we can worry for this country. 984 00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 4: I worry about the future of the youngsters. And you 985 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:05,759 Speaker 4: cannot produce youngsters if you don't teach them adversity. And 986 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,799 Speaker 4: the whole attempt prize right now is to avoid adversity 987 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:12,800 Speaker 4: with the kids. The way I grew up. The best 988 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 4: friend you could have was someone who told you what 989 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,080 Speaker 4: you needed to know, not what you wanted to hear. 990 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,160 Speaker 4: The best friend you can have is an honest critic. 991 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,680 Speaker 4: And unfortunately, in our country today, we can't handle criticism 992 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:27,760 Speaker 4: and that's why we have so many problems. 993 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,720 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sure we'll get some criticism on this podcast. 994 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:35,439 Speaker 1: I can't wait, Diamond, I asked you earlier. So, Diamond, Dad, Diamond, Diamond, Dad, 995 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 1: you met her downstairs. 996 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:37,279 Speaker 2: She walked you up. 997 00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,080 Speaker 1: I don't know how I would do a lot of 998 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 1: things without her, specifically this podcast. That beeping, Diamond just 999 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 1: wondered what it was. It's a blood monitor for sugar. Yes, 1000 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,239 Speaker 1: someone went to krispy Kreme. 1001 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 2: You went to Krispy Kreme. Yes, yes, okay. 1002 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 4: There are times my legs are not under my control, 1003 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 4: just like my car is not. 1004 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:56,560 Speaker 1: Oh that's true. 1005 00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 4: Driving by a Krispy Kream. The steering will suddenly turns. 1006 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 4: Cannot control it. 1007 00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,839 Speaker 1: That, you know what, Dad, That also happens when you're 1008 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,280 Speaker 1: not driving by Krispy Kreme and you just hit curbs 1009 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:11,840 Speaker 1: only He said, okay, so I feel like you'll appreciate 1010 00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 1: this time, and then you can ask your question or 1011 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,160 Speaker 1: if you have a question. So my dad, my sister 1012 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 1: and I tell my mom and dad all the time, 1013 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,200 Speaker 1: like we just want to hire you guys a driver, Like, 1014 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: let's just get you guys a driver. Because he says, 1015 00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:23,440 Speaker 1: he says this, I don't say this. I've been in 1016 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 1: the car and I experienced it. He says, he drives 1017 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,759 Speaker 1: by sound. He doesn't wear his hearing aids half the 1018 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 1: time because he thinks that people are going to tap 1019 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,719 Speaker 1: into them, so he doesn't want to wear them. So 1020 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: he doesn't have great vision. And he says he drives 1021 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 1: my sound, but he won't wear his hearing aids. So 1022 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,520 Speaker 1: that's the type of driver we're dealing with over here. 1023 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:41,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just go by the sound. But I hear 1024 00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:51,960 Speaker 4: somebody going, ah, somebody, Okay. 1025 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 2: This is my father. 1026 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 1: A couple curves have met their maker from things hit. 1027 00:47:58,120 --> 00:47:59,520 Speaker 4: The cars have kept going, and. 1028 00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 1: That is the important part. Yeah, I won't bring up 1029 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 1: all of the things. But Diamond, did you have any 1030 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:06,399 Speaker 1: questions for my dad? 1031 00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,080 Speaker 2: I just want to know what she was like as 1032 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 2: a child. Oh, there you go. 1033 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:10,800 Speaker 4: She was like as a child. 1034 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, what was she like as a child? 1035 00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 4: Well, if you look closely. There are two stubs of 1036 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:17,200 Speaker 4: horns on her head. 1037 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, one two. 1038 00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,920 Speaker 4: Stubs of horns, and I had to chop them off. 1039 00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:26,280 Speaker 4: Luckily they've stopped growing again. 1040 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:30,239 Speaker 1: And you're saying I was a Satanic child. Satanic Satanic 1041 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:31,880 Speaker 1: child as. 1042 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,839 Speaker 4: A child, she was truly, Seriously, I was just telling 1043 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,200 Speaker 4: her that earlier, and I'm afraid I'm repeating myself here. 1044 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:43,279 Speaker 4: She was a cut from a different cloth. She had 1045 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,319 Speaker 4: a different view. People would look at something, she would 1046 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 4: look at it and have a completely different perspective on it. 1047 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,960 Speaker 4: So after a while I realized it's best to leave 1048 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:57,760 Speaker 4: her alone because that perspective will grow into a nice person. 1049 00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:59,040 Speaker 4: At the end of it all. 1050 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 2: You think she's a nice person, she's a competent person. 1051 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:09,080 Speaker 1: Wow, dad, Well an honest critic, we have one here. 1052 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,839 Speaker 4: Now. We know we love her that I will say, you. 1053 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 1: Know, I never doubt that you love me. 1054 00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 4: I will tell you that we butt heads on many things. 1055 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, we go at it. 1056 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:25,760 Speaker 4: But that's what it's all about. Yeah, if two people 1057 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 4: think the same way all the time, only one is 1058 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:32,440 Speaker 4: doing the thinking. Okay, it's an old problem. So we 1059 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,840 Speaker 4: seldom agree on manythings. So she was always a different 1060 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 4: kid from the beginning. And you will notice that people 1061 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:45,440 Speaker 4: who tend to think differently are not cut out for 1062 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:51,920 Speaker 4: school because school school regiments you. H Okay, and I 1063 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 4: don't mean to put Mesa in the same class because 1064 00:49:55,640 --> 00:50:00,359 Speaker 4: I think she does belong there. But Albert Einstein kicked 1065 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,720 Speaker 4: out of school. It was totally never amount to anything. 1066 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:09,600 Speaker 4: Thomas Edison, Steve Jobs in most recent times. 1067 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 1: Okay, you can put me in that class. 1068 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:17,560 Speaker 4: I'm go on, that's a parent who did it, but 1069 00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:21,319 Speaker 4: I do. Steve Jobs, if you want, go back and 1070 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 4: watch his his commencement speech. I think it was the 1071 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:31,680 Speaker 4: University of San Diego somewhere. He talks precisely about that originality. See, 1072 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:37,799 Speaker 4: a creative person sees possibilities where others cannot. So you 1073 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:41,080 Speaker 4: and I might see, see this little technology piece and 1074 00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:44,800 Speaker 4: sow the buttons here, This switch is there, wonderful. Steve 1075 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,120 Speaker 4: Jobs would look at it and say, how can I 1076 00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 4: make it smaller? So that's why creativity is so important. Now, 1077 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 4: where creativity has a liability is many creative people cannot 1078 00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 4: determine which creative idea is really workable and which is not. 1079 00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,400 Speaker 4: That's where you need us ordinary people us, meaning me, 1080 00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 4: not you. 1081 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,440 Speaker 2: No, I think we're ordinary. 1082 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 4: That's why we need to tell them, Hey, there's bullshit. 1083 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 4: There's not going to work. If a creative person doesn't 1084 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 4: have that kind of person with them, they often end 1085 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,560 Speaker 4: up going way off the rails. 1086 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 1: Oh thank god I had all of you. 1087 00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:26,120 Speaker 4: That you need. 1088 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:30,399 Speaker 3: I have two questions. I don't know which one you did. 1089 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 3: You did kind of the first one. Did you give 1090 00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:34,759 Speaker 3: her spankings as a child? 1091 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:35,319 Speaker 4: Yes? 1092 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,600 Speaker 3: Absolutely, see, this is what I'm talking about. Did you 1093 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:41,200 Speaker 3: put her over the lap and spank her? Or did 1094 00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 3: you grab the hand and let her try to run 1095 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:48,400 Speaker 3: away and spank? Which one combinations? She seems like a 1096 00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,399 Speaker 3: kid who needed and asked. I'm just saying, oh, I'm 1097 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,319 Speaker 3: so sorry to somebody's dad. 1098 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,399 Speaker 2: I just thought about that. Oh my god. 1099 00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,719 Speaker 1: Did you even hear what she said? Did you even 1100 00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:02,400 Speaker 1: hear what she said? Yeah, that's okay, you're okay, okay, 1101 00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 1: speaking of that. 1102 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,640 Speaker 2: What's your favorite curse word? 1103 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,400 Speaker 4: My favorite? Yeah? I don't even think. 1104 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 1: Of Let me tell you what. This is a plot 1105 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 1: to us, because I will say this, I don't ever 1106 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,520 Speaker 1: really hear my dad cursing. He they grew up speaking 1107 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,960 Speaker 1: like the English that they learned is kind of British English. 1108 00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,320 Speaker 1: So he says bloody, like that's the worst thing that 1109 00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,759 Speaker 1: I've heard him say, is like this bloody idiot. You know, 1110 00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:29,920 Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't really hear you curse that 1111 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:34,879 Speaker 1: often publicly. I don't hear you curse privately. You curse 1112 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:35,399 Speaker 1: in your head. 1113 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:36,719 Speaker 4: No, I don't say that. 1114 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:41,600 Speaker 1: You don't say that. Okay, use it on. There's some 1115 00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,279 Speaker 1: interesting stuff about you. He really doesn't curse. He'll say, 1116 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:47,160 Speaker 1: he'll say things that are like it should have been 1117 00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:53,120 Speaker 1: a curse word, but instead like George Carlin, Yes, he 1118 00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:58,200 Speaker 1: loves a good comedy show. I never really saw him 1119 00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:02,480 Speaker 1: like fawning over women or even acting like, you know, 1120 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 1: like I do. I always say he looks at food 1121 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:09,000 Speaker 1: the way I think most men look at women, like 1122 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,600 Speaker 1: like if a nice dosa walks by, he's like, what 1123 00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:12,040 Speaker 1: was that? 1124 00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,120 Speaker 4: You know. Muslims they believe in going to heaven and 1125 00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:20,440 Speaker 4: they get seventy two virgins. Yes, that's their philosophy. I 1126 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,640 Speaker 4: formerly believe when I go to heaven, I have seventy 1127 00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 4: two waitress waitress coming. It's all. 1128 00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,160 Speaker 1: He wants it all. He cares about the only two 1129 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,239 Speaker 1: people I ever even heard him say, were pretty? Were 1130 00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 1: Aliyah and Whitney Houston? You would if I showed you 1131 00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,279 Speaker 1: her picture, you recognize her. She was a singer. She 1132 00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 1: died in like the very early two thousands. But you 1133 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:44,799 Speaker 1: were walking by one day and you saw her in 1134 00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: a music video and you said, huh was she might 1135 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,799 Speaker 1: have been on a horse at some point. I don't know. 1136 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,400 Speaker 1: It was a music video. It was the Rock the 1137 00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 1: Boat music video. 1138 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 4: It was the Rock the Boat. I know. 1139 00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,760 Speaker 1: You just never say it. He doesn't care about anything. 1140 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,319 Speaker 4: It's like because you know, no, No, that's not why 1141 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:06,120 Speaker 4: I think looks are fleeting. You know, so many of 1142 00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,880 Speaker 4: I have seen so many times the most beautiful women 1143 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:15,799 Speaker 4: ending up looking the ugliest old women. At the other 1144 00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:19,200 Speaker 4: way around too. I have seen in my school in 1145 00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:26,839 Speaker 4: Indiana really good looking guys whose parents were ugliest. Sin. 1146 00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,280 Speaker 4: That's how mother nature works. Nobody knows how it works, 1147 00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:37,480 Speaker 4: you know. So to me, looks are a passing glory. 1148 00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,400 Speaker 4: You know. See, if I'm to marry somebody and I 1149 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,040 Speaker 4: marry them just for the looks and nothing else matches, 1150 00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 4: imagine how miserable they're going to be. You know. 1151 00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 1: Okay, I have one last question, but you have to 1152 00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 1: speak into the microphone. 1153 00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:52,239 Speaker 4: Okay, can you hear me? Now? 1154 00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:53,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can. I can hear you the whole time, 1155 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: but it's not yeah yeah, all right. So everybody here 1156 00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 1: knows I don't want to get married. They would like 1157 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:00,520 Speaker 1: to know how you feel about that. 1158 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,720 Speaker 4: Well, I've passed your word on to a lot of people, 1159 00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:06,360 Speaker 4: have you, and they've adopted your philosophy that marriage is 1160 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,800 Speaker 4: a scam by the government to take your money, but 1161 00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,360 Speaker 4: the other person and them are non lunatic asylum. 1162 00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:18,279 Speaker 1: So how do you feel about it? By the way, 1163 00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:21,880 Speaker 1: the Diamond calls me allatic all the time. 1164 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,480 Speaker 2: I think she's a lunatic for sure. 1165 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,560 Speaker 1: Excellent. How do you feel about that? 1166 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 4: The choice is yours and we have I certainly have 1167 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:31,799 Speaker 4: no problem with. 1168 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:32,880 Speaker 2: It, all right. 1169 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,279 Speaker 1: I feel like that's a good note to end on. 1170 00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,360 Speaker 1: Is there anything you wanted to say you wanted to add? 1171 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 4: The only thing I want to add is I hope 1172 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,400 Speaker 4: those who are viewing this podcast view it with the 1173 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:46,480 Speaker 4: same sense of bluntness and honesty that we've both engaged in. 1174 00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,880 Speaker 4: And if you don't, my apologies, but I hope you 1175 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 4: had a good time. 1176 00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,840 Speaker 1: That was nice. Thanks Dad for joining me. I appreciate it. 1177 00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:57,640 Speaker 4: Thank you for having me on any time, Diamond for 1178 00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 4: your questions. 1179 00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 5: All right, by, goodbye, and there we go. 1180 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 1: That is my father, Ladies and gentlemen. When they say 1181 00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:18,920 Speaker 1: the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, I beg 1182 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,960 Speaker 1: to differ. I think I rolled down a hill. But 1183 00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:24,399 Speaker 1: other people are like, oh my god, you guys are 1184 00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:26,760 Speaker 1: just alike. No, I wouldn't use these words. 1185 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:27,239 Speaker 3: No. 1186 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,200 Speaker 2: I think you guys are just to like, oh my god, 1187 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:29,799 Speaker 2: we look alike. 1188 00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,520 Speaker 1: That's terrifying. Let me tell you rules. 1189 00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:34,040 Speaker 2: Stop. I just want to cuddle the both of you. 1190 00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:38,040 Speaker 1: Oh, you got a meetings and you want Let's see, 1191 00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:41,440 Speaker 1: we are way past the limit of episodes that I 1192 00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:43,880 Speaker 1: thought we were ever gonna do for like this year. 1193 00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,560 Speaker 1: I think I'm supposed to do thirty maybe or thirty 1194 00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:48,439 Speaker 1: five or something like that, and we're like, way, way 1195 00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,799 Speaker 1: way past it. So should I just stop? Should keep going? 1196 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,279 Speaker 1: Do I go out on a high note or a 1197 00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:54,719 Speaker 1: low note with this podcast? 1198 00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:59,320 Speaker 2: I think you should keep going? Oh okay, yeah, keep rolling. 1199 00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,680 Speaker 1: I think I've told before our highest rated episodes are 1200 00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,440 Speaker 1: when we just kind of shoot the shit together, either 1201 00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,600 Speaker 1: you and me, you me and Andrew, You me Andrew and Josh, 1202 00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,760 Speaker 1: those are the ones that people seem to like the best. 1203 00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,360 Speaker 1: And I think maybe for the next episode we'll do 1204 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:15,000 Speaker 1: something like that. 1205 00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:17,040 Speaker 2: Oh wow, I love it. 1206 00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:20,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, Okay, if people want to find you, where 1207 00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:20,600 Speaker 1: do they find you? 1208 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,920 Speaker 2: Diamond at Diamond Sincere on Instagram and I am at. 1209 00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 1: Baby Hot Sauce on Instagram. And if you're trying to 1210 00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,440 Speaker 1: find my dad, you never will because he doesn't subscribe 1211 00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:31,280 Speaker 1: to any type of social media because he thinks the 1212 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 1: government's watching him. I'm not kidding real quick. He he. 1213 00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:39,240 Speaker 4: Did. 1214 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 1: He stay in thatdicone. He won't use his hearing aids 1215 00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:45,480 Speaker 1: even though he can't hear shit, because he thinks that 1216 00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:48,240 Speaker 1: the government's going to tap into his hearing aids and 1217 00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 1: like safing. 1218 00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 1219 00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,439 Speaker 1: Meanwhile, I'm like, it's better than you hear nothing. Yeah, 1220 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 1: oh love of God. 1221 00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:56,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god. I love this man. 1222 00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:59,040 Speaker 1: He's great. Love him too. He's just a bit of 1223 00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:04,840 Speaker 1: a liability alright, until next time, say bye bye. 1224 00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 3: Mm hmm.