1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Look mare, oh, I see you my own mind. Look 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: over there is that culture. 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 2: Yes, goodness, Lost. 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:14,079 Speaker 1: Culture ding dong. Lost culture is calling. We're off to 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: the races here today we eat some pret British culture. 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: British culture. More to com I will say, I'm a 7 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: little upset about how much almond milk is in this. 8 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 2: Okay, if the cameras are picking this up listeners at home, 9 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 2: we can't see this. This is Duncan Donuts level chicanery. 10 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: It's pure. It's milk with a little bit of ice coffee. 11 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: I was going to use the word chicanery too for 12 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: the record, And I just want to say I wouldn't 13 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: even want to walk down the street and people think 14 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: that I have to coffee like this. Like if this 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: is just more almond milk than anything, I can I 16 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: get an amen up. 17 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 2: And here, in the words of RuPaul. 18 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: This is just that. 19 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 2: There's also like a weird, pallid color to it. It 20 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 2: doesn't have what I would call a healthy looking color. 21 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: And you guys all feel me out there. You want coffee, 22 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: not milk, Thank you, Becca. It looks like chocolate milk. 23 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 2: I was gonna say, next quick Rabbit, random month, lest 24 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,639 Speaker 2: I checked. I wasn't eight years old in my basement 25 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: where I would drink Chopol milk on the regular. What's 26 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 2: your merch story, Matt, just with like an artist that 27 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 2: you love. My merch story. 28 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm wearing merch, Yeah, scaring merchant. But Bowen is in 29 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: Charlie Merchant. By the way, it's very cute merch, which 30 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 1: I say is a comment to you the wearer and 31 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: you the seller. My merch story is I'm also currently 32 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: wearing merch for driving. This is Focus Features. Send us 33 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: this merch and I said, that's cute and I will 34 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: wear it on the thing. I didn't know they were 35 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: going to do this. They said it to us, And 36 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: after seeing the movie Challengers, I thought threesome cultures sort 37 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: of in I do think that the threesome of MMF 38 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: of MMF threesome. 39 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: And so I'm just sort of encouraging that. 40 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, here on the podcast, I hope you received who 41 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: knows what happens today during the episode, I don't think 42 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: it will be an MMF threesome, but. 43 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: We've got MMF here. 44 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: Now. 45 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: I would you say that like if between between let's 46 00:01:56,560 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: say like MMF two dicks one vas, let's just go 47 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: in with that parameter. Yeah, I might get so like 48 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 2: Dick confused that I'm like, yeah, of course there's a 49 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 2: vagina in the mix. 50 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: Listen all I know, it's not shocked. You can't think 51 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: about it too hard. I think when it comes to 52 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: three simes, you have to just take it moment by moment. Yeah, 53 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: I've had two in my life. Uh huh, and getting 54 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: out of my way was important. 55 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 2: No, I've had three. 56 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: So the first one I was very in my own 57 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: way the entire time, and I was like, I am 58 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: doing this with more than one person, and. 59 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: It's a little bit of a brain teaser. And then 60 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 2: the second you just let that go and you have 61 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 2: a wonderful time. You know what happened to me the 62 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 2: first time? What I was facing forward, facing someone great, 63 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: true North, and it was true and then jump scare 64 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 2: behind me, literally like oh, like I want someone to 65 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 2: stick it in. They didn't stick it in. They just 66 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: kind of kind of nestled behind me, and I was like, oh, 67 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 2: I forgot. 68 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:57,679 Speaker 1: The crazy thing is when you're facing true North and 69 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: sort of giving that a one where you're a giving partner, 70 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden you feel the third 71 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: kind of really come through the back and you're like, 72 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: I'm not in that zone right now. 73 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: I need to know. 74 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: So let's just all communicate and take a moment by 75 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: moment everyone, And that's sort of our creative challengers. 76 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 2: If you want a little educational video. But again, you 77 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 2: never see any three sex challengers. You don't see any 78 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 2: penetration anyway. 79 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: What's penetrated me is the new album. 80 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 2: It's a really penetrative album. 81 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:30,839 Speaker 1: Emotionally penetrative, obviously sonically and physically penetrative in the best way, 82 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: in a way that I invite. 83 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: And I'm open wide for angels. If you're listening, this 84 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 2: might be offensive to the guests if you mourn XDX 85 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 2: world the way that some of us out here do. 86 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: This album is gonna give you everything you want and more. 87 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: You're about to party about We're about to party, but 88 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 2: you're also about to feel. And this is what I 89 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,839 Speaker 2: love about our guest and like it's just so sort 90 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 2: of singular and iconic. Is like what I love is like, 91 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: you know, like emotional pop music, and you always get 92 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 2: our our guests perspective of her POV. It's always interesting 93 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 2: and specific no matter what it is. I was telling Bowen, 94 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 2: like when we were just at Prada Mange. But we 95 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 2: have all of our good conversations. I'm a huge fan 96 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: of our guest ballads. You're a ballad like. 97 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: I'm a ballad girl, and like you give that And 98 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: I'm just so excited. The new album, Bratt is coming 99 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 1: out June seventh and seventh. She's doing the Brat Tour 100 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: and then she's going to the Sweat Tour with the 101 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 1: Choice and yeah, so she's doing Brat, Sweat, Brat. Why 102 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: are you laughing? 103 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 3: It's just so funny that I'm just sign you're I'm like, 104 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 3: I'm not. 105 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 2: Don't two three tries? 106 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 4: Yes, that was so fun to you guys gab away. 107 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: The same thing about what you gab and saying about 108 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 1: on your records. We're having fun too, Oh good. You 109 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: are the most fun. You do truly intrinsically understand how 110 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: to make us have fun. 111 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 4: That's so nice. 112 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 2: We're having fun on the way. You've get a big day, 113 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 2: big day recording this. We're gonna release it closer to 114 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: the album release. But you're going on SETH with Troy. Yeah, 115 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 2: and then watch it happens life also with Troy. Are 116 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 2: you on with a housewife. 117 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: Do you know. 118 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 4: No, I'm so sad about that you're just on solo. No, 119 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 4: it's another man. 120 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 2: Okay. 121 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you who it is exactly, and I 122 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: love that we will find out later who it is. 123 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 2: When the episode I'll be like, oh, that's true, and I'll. 124 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 4: Be like it's I love. 125 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: Vineyards, I love exactly. 126 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 4: No, I don't know. 127 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 5: I think his name is Joe Joe, And honestly, he's 128 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 5: gonna ask you to be I'm going to really burn 129 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 5: it out. 130 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were talking here about last time you were 131 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: you were on you were not as versed in the 132 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 2: Bravo verse, and now you are all in one exactly so, 133 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 2: and you asked us a really important question, which would 134 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: you want to ask us again? Yeah? 135 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 3: My question for you both is are you pro Monica 136 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 3: or the Auntie Monica I'm tie. 137 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 2: Sorry, no, no, no, that's okay. We and the way 138 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 2: we answered was Auntie Monica, Auntie, We're Auntie Monica. We 139 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 2: we were don't make fun of our guests, no, I say, 140 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: I say Auntie as well. We were, so what my 141 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: answer was in the beginning when it all went down, 142 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 2: we were very anti we were like, get her off 143 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 2: like like none of the women want to film with her, 144 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 2: like she is not allowed anywhere near them. And then 145 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 2: now that they announced that she is no longer there, 146 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: we're like, oh, it's gonna miss something. 147 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 4: The travesty. 148 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 1: My thing is like I just want to watch a 149 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: show where everyone speaks to each other, because it gets 150 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: boring when you have a cast that's like, I'm not 151 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: talking to her. You'll see when like once you branch 152 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: out to other franchises, it's like when a cast is 153 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: like not operating as a group, it's bad. And they 154 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 1: were also scorched earth with Monica at the end, like 155 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: unwilling to speak to her. Can you give thoughts on 156 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: Mary Cosby from your Charlie perspective? 157 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 2: I mean, this woman is just She's on the album, 158 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 2: she's gonna be on. 159 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 4: The full remix record. 160 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 2: Is just her. 161 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 3: She is. I mean, I don't even know where you begin. 162 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 3: It's like I love her and I hate her. 163 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: Do you love her in your hare? No, that's totally fair. 164 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: My friend saw her at Sounds her tower, oh wow, 165 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 3: and apparently she was really rude to her. She was 166 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 3: like my friend was like, oh can I sit here 167 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 3: at the bar, and she was like no, and then 168 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 3: my friend was like, do you have someone coming? And 169 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 3: she was like yeah, and then obviously no one came 170 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 3: and it was just for her bag. 171 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 172 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 3: And then at the same time, I'm like, that's married 173 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 3: legend in bread comment. 174 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say, and then she called your 175 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 2: friend in brad yeah yeah yeah. 176 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 3: But the inbred comment followed up with Heather asking her 177 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 3: did you really call me inbred? And she goes, I did, yeah, 178 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 3: you dumb bitch, I did I do? 179 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: I do? 180 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: And then when they like went through it at the 181 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: reunion to it was so bizarre because there was kind 182 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: of just like threw up her hands and was like, listen, 183 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: I respect that she said it. 184 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: She speaks her truth. 185 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: It's like, can't you please sist? Do we all agree? 186 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 2: Though they talked to her like she's five years old, 187 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 2: either she's a mental patient, which she might be, and 188 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 2: like she's a fy're afraid of her. 189 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 4: They're afraid. I mean she gets a lot of free passes. 190 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, because. 191 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: Well that was funny. 192 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: When she was on Wadro Thatppans Live, like, they asked 193 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: her a question like why'd you come back and she 194 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: fully just goes to help you guys out. I mean yeah, 195 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: because you want to know why there's like not a 196 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: thirsty bone in her body or like a bothered bone nobody, 197 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: because you can tell she doesn't really get it right. 198 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: So she's just like gonna show up and say whatever 199 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: the fuck it is. The rumor is now that she 200 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: called Lisa Barlow's youngest son the R word. That is 201 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: the rumor that's happening for next season. 202 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 2: Thoughts on that, I. 203 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 3: See, I see, I see, I can imagine it happening. 204 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I imagine it happening. 205 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 3: I'm fascinated by her wardrobe, yes, and the choices. 206 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 2: And the choices, many colors, many. 207 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 3: It's actually got dressed in the dark five times in 208 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 3: a run, and then she just went out with all 209 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 3: of it. 210 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: And isn't it funny that she's like the fashion she's 211 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 1: the fashion guy. 212 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 4: I mean. 213 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 3: The thing is, she's gonna come for us. So are 214 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 3: you ready? Like she hears this, She's coming for us. 215 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: I wandered she cares. I don't think she cares what 216 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 2: we think. 217 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:37,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe maybe. 218 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: Feud for you though, Mary m Cosby. 219 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: That's that's why no one would ever. 220 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 4: See it would be so good. It would be so good. 221 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 4: I'm pro Monica. 222 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 2: That's great. 223 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 4: I just want to pivot back to that. 224 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 2: I'm pro Monica and you said to us, you know, 225 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,239 Speaker 2: what she did wasn't really that bad, and we agree 226 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 2: that it would be like if Troy ran a patrol 227 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 2: account for like an anti Charlie Troy, like, everyone leave 228 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: after my set. 229 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 3: But but was she Okay, here's the thing. I'm pretty 230 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 3: like Flag in the Sand on like, I'm Promnica, but 231 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:16,839 Speaker 3: I haven't actually done much research into reality vontee, so 232 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 3: I'm basing that on nothing. But I've heard from friends 233 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 3: who I trust dearly that she wasn't really like talking 234 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:28,239 Speaker 3: shit about the women. 235 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 2: So she was it was really more of a and. 236 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,719 Speaker 3: Obviously that was her narrative on the show, which I 237 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 3: was a little bit like, but you know, God love her. 238 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 3: But I was like, surely she's using that a little bit. 239 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 3: But my reliable friends say that that was the case, 240 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 3: that she wasn't really talking about the women. 241 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 2: I believe you're reliable friends. 242 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 3: So then I'm just like, also, I'm like, guys, you're 243 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: on Housewife. 244 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: I know what it was? 245 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 1: She black, She ran out of steam when it came 246 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: to defending herself and explo like I felt like she 247 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: sort of like threw up the white flag as it were. 248 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 1: When it was go time, it was like, okay, this 249 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 1: is the reunion, explain what it was and what exonerates 250 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 1: you about this, and it felt like she kind of 251 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: just took it because she got confused and started to 252 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 1: lean into the villain narrative, right, thinking that's what people 253 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: would want, when it was like, no, what you want 254 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: is to stay on the show and they won't film. 255 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 2: With you unless you can explain you get them on board. 256 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 2: And then I think she was like gearing up to 257 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 2: bring out that burn book prop like she was like 258 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 2: prop was rough and a half. 259 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 4: The bum book didn't mean that all went a bit 260 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 4: a ride. 261 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 2: So, yeah, you got you gotta Mean Girls track on 262 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 2: your album. 263 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: I love this song thank you because it really is 264 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 1: for that girl thank you, and for days that are 265 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: trying to be that girl that day. Yeah. 266 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 3: You know what's interesting about that song is I'm going 267 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 3: to tell you off to have mom non't okay? 268 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 4: Excellent. 269 00:11:57,080 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 3: So the thing is about the Mean Girl's song on 270 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 3: my album is that it's kind of like. 271 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 2: A fascination with women like that in the culture. 272 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh you know what, I was actually totally in 273 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 3: my brain talking about a different song. 274 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 4: No, I know, I remember talking about mean girls. Yep. 275 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 3: Sorry, No, that really is just about like being a 276 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 3: bit yeah, which we love. 277 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: What song were you thinking of? 278 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 4: Sorry? 279 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 3: I was thinking, sorry, I was thinking about where we 280 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 3: feel so confusing. 281 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: Questions about this and okay, you don't wonder. 282 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 2: I think you've already and look, we're not entitled to 283 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:44,839 Speaker 2: any information. Okay, who's just about No, I, Miriam Cosby. 284 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 4: Totally no, you know, I haven't. This is early, like. 285 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 3: This is the first time I've spoken about the song. 286 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 3: You guys are the first people to ask me. So 287 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 3: I haven't quite decided whether I'm revealing. When I wrote it, 288 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm revealing, But now you know, now 289 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 3: the time is here, I'm like, do you think I 290 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 3: should reveal? 291 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 4: I think not for your benefits, just in general. 292 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: I think that whatever it is going to I feel 293 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 1: like at some point, yeah, in thirty years, My thing. 294 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 4: Is people are going to guess. 295 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 296 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 3: I probably both have an accurate guess, and I'm not 297 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 3: going to ask you to say it out loud because 298 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 3: you'll tell why my face. Yeah, yeah, but after that person, Yeah, 299 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 3: well you know what hate Yeah. 300 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 4: Like say it with your eyes. 301 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: I think it's yeah, okay, okay, now I think I have. 302 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 3: So the thing is, it's like I think we live 303 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 3: in this like world of pop music right now, where 304 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 3: like women are like I support. 305 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:47,959 Speaker 4: Other women, I love women. 306 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 3: I'm a feminist and that's great, like love that, But 307 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 3: there's artifice to its, absolutely absolutely, And I don't think 308 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: that you become a bad feminist if you maybe don't 309 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 3: see eye to eye with everything. That's just like not 310 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 3: the nature of human beings. You know, there is a 311 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 3: competitiveness between us. There is envy, there is camaraderie, there 312 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 3: is you know, all of these different like dynamics, and 313 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 3: I mean I feel that working in entertainment, there is 314 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 3: this kind of dance that we all do with each other, 315 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 3: whether you're in music. 316 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 4: Whether in your you're in your world, Like. 317 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 3: No matter how you identify, there is this dance that 318 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 3: everybody's everybody's watching each other. 319 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 4: Everybody's like posing in the picture, like hey this is 320 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 4: he and my collaborator and good friends. 321 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, but then you're also like I want what they have, 322 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 3: and then the next day you're like they suck I 323 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 3: killed it today, and this happens, but no one really 324 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 3: is like willing to discuss it. But we've we all 325 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 3: probably have our person, yes, or maybe a few different people, 326 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 3: and I'm sure we are that person for other people. 327 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 3: And I just find that there is this like strange, 328 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 3: like unspoken thing that often happens, particularly with women, because 329 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 3: there is such a narrative of pitting women against each 330 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 3: other within music, and sometimes that's not totally like fabricated. 331 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 4: Do you know what I'm saying. 332 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 3: Sometimes there is like what's the phrase smoke where the 333 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 3: smoke far Like I do feel like that sometimes does happen, 334 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 3: And sometimes. 335 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 4: It's like I don't know, everybody's just doing this little like. 336 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 2: Square Darnce totally well, like this idea of like, oh, 337 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 2: women are pitted against each other. That shouldn't make you 338 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: feel any worse or more complicated about the fact that, 339 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 2: like it happens. It's not Why is it this red 340 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 2: line all of a sudden you're not supposed to get 341 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 2: into any other conflict with any other. 342 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's unrealistic. It's unrealistic. 343 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: And you're not saying fuck her, You're saying it's confusing. 344 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: When I feel like we got a lot of people 345 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 1: saying that we do great stuff together. It feels like 346 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: the vibe is good, and then I'm confused. It's like, 347 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: am I okay with who the art audience might fill 348 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 1: in this spot? Yeah? 349 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 4: Well that's the other thing about it. 350 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 3: It's like, for me, this is like my favorite part 351 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 3: of the high artness of music and the low artness 352 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 3: of like pop star. 353 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 4: Like I like the marriage of the two, and I 354 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 4: like that. 355 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 3: Maybe people were getting it wrong, but they're like having 356 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: fun playing the game because I think that that brings 357 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 3: like kind of this three dimensional world two songs. 358 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 4: You know, outside of just like the song's really good. 359 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 3: It's like it's nice to plant like theories and ideas 360 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 3: and let people like live their kind of Paris Lindsay 361 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 3: fantasy with it. 362 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 4: So it's fun. 363 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 3: But I also think it does this thing of like 364 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 3: with the whole record, I'm kind of like doing that 365 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 3: in ways. It's like holding a mirror to this kind 366 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 3: of culture that we're in right now, where everybody is 367 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 3: really I feel like everybody is like their moral compass 368 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 3: has to be so in check all the time, right, 369 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 3: But it's like sometimes it's just like fun of it's 370 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 3: not and everybody the listeners, like your moral compass isn't 371 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 3: always like bang on. 372 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 4: Like everybody's a little fucked. Everybody's like little like shady. 373 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 3: Everybody has like thoughts of all these different things, Like 374 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 3: everyone's kind of a bitch sometimes and that's okay, Like 375 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 3: it doesn't make you a bad person. 376 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 4: It makes you a flawed human being person. 377 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 1: And we want artists to put that into work too, 378 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: because like I mean, I can't stand the morality thing 379 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 1: as it applies, Like. 380 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 2: But when did pop stars and let's just include in 381 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,640 Speaker 2: lump in like actors and shit, like when did they 382 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 2: become like moral haragons because like actually from my mom, 383 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 2: like in the seventies, there would be signs up that 384 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,439 Speaker 2: said no actors. It's like we were like like we 385 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 2: like they were like the rowdy, fucking, like chaotic people 386 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 2: and that's what everyone understood them to be. And it's 387 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 2: like these are not good people. Keep them out, you 388 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: know what I mean? And like maybe that's okay. 389 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:03,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I won so, Like it's interesting this celebrity culture, 390 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 3: especially over the past like ten maybe fifteen years, has 391 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 3: really like changed a lot in that I think niceness 392 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 3: became a commodity whereas before niceness wasn't cool, right, you know, 393 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 3: it wasn't like cool to be nice. Yeah, and then 394 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 3: like suddenly it really was. It was like, oh well, 395 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 3: if you're not nice, like you're dead, you know. But 396 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 3: it actually just used to be like really cool to 397 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 3: be like county and a bitch. And I feel like 398 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 3: we're slowly edging back there. But I still think we're 399 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 3: in our nice year. I still feel like we're in 400 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,880 Speaker 3: our life. Everybody has to be so nice all the time, 401 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: and that's like cool if you're like really actually just 402 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 3: like chill and nice. 403 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 4: But sometimes I'm like I see through. 404 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: Through it, and we all do. I think everything is 405 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: too sensitive now that actually who you are, like you 406 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like the media, it's like if 407 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:56,439 Speaker 1: people are watching, they're watching so closely so that you 408 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: can't really get away with like putting on a persona anymore. 409 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 1: It's like really different from where you are because we 410 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 1: see so much of it and we're inundated in the 411 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: discourse and et cetera. 412 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 2: That like we're ahead of the game that you're. 413 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 4: Playing, right, and you're playing like really well. 414 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, really good team to cover shit up. But I 415 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 2: feel like and I mean this on such a complimentary level. 416 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 2: You I feel like you've stuck to your countiness the 417 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 2: whole the whole way through. 418 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 4: Thank you. Yeah, well, I appreciate that. It's funny. 419 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:31,640 Speaker 3: It's like, I think I can be bitchy. I don't 420 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 3: know that I'm. 421 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: A bitch, right, That is a big distinction. 422 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 3: You know, like I'm never going to be horrible to someone. Yeah, 423 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:43,639 Speaker 3: for the sake of it, because it's actually I personally 424 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 3: find it a lot harder to be like deliberately like 425 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,919 Speaker 3: emotionally dismissive or mean or whatever, you know what I mean. Like, 426 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 3: And don't get me wrong, I'm sure I have my 427 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:54,120 Speaker 3: bad days. Like I'm not saying I'm a saint, but. 428 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 4: I'll also just like tell it how it is. 429 00:19:56,560 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 3: And I think that gets misconstrued as being mean, but 430 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 3: it's actually just I'm just being real because I don't 431 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 3: think that it's that interesting to have this sort of 432 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 3: like facade of like twist yourself not and what would 433 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 3: really you're all gonna die and I'm just like just 434 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 3: like have fun. 435 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 2: I mean, I think this album is kind of like 436 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 2: on this front line where a lot of a lot 437 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,400 Speaker 2: of artists are doing this now where it is like transparency, 438 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 2: I'm bringing the fourth wall, Like you're singing about a 439 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 2: G and Sophie and like like for the first time, 440 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 2: probably right little way, and like you're being very real 441 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 2: about ships, like you're singing I don't want to spoil 442 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 2: the rest of the album, but like you were singing 443 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 2: about things that like are very surprising, and I'm like, oh, 444 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 2: I didn't think she would be she would have a 445 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 2: song about what I think. I think about it all 446 00:20:51,440 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 2: the time. Yeah, yes, yeah, I remember, because what analogy. 447 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 1: It goes into the last track, and I love the 448 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: two together because it's such a psych out like it's 449 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: like you're talking about like really weighing things in your 450 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: in the way where you are in life, like now 451 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 1: is the time when I should maybe really think about 452 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: a family, if that's what I want, Like is it 453 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: okay with you that I think about this? Like yeah, 454 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: this occupies a lot of space. And then the next 455 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: song is keys, Yeah, and I was like, and I 456 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,199 Speaker 1: was like, is this her answering it or is this 457 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 1: her having fun? 458 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 2: Or is it both? 459 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 3: Like it's it's not the answer, because I definitely I 460 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 3: don't think I have an answer. 461 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you have baby fever do cocaine? Is what 462 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 2: you're saying. 463 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 3: Old brand Dale's gone, that's cool, But no, I don't 464 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 3: have an answer, But I think it's an interesting question 465 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 3: to muse over because I mean, do you guys have 466 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 3: many friends who have kids? 467 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 1: Our female friends are really starting. I mean, like even 468 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: in the past six to eight months, like four or 469 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 1: five of my friends I've had their Yeah, like one 470 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 1: of my third kid wow yeah, wow, Wow is this 471 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: your friend? 472 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 3: I don't have loads of friends who have kids, yeah, 473 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 3: but I had kind of one, like major friend in 474 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 3: my life who's a songwriter who had a baby. She 475 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 3: was kind of the inspiration for this song because I 476 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 3: went to her house to visit her in Stockholm with 477 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 3: her partner. They've been together for years, but they never 478 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 3: really were like we're having kids. It just kind of 479 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 3: happened for them, you know. And then it was just 480 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,400 Speaker 3: so crazy going over to their apartment writing songs with them. 481 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 3: She's wearing the same clothes she always wore, the apartments 482 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 3: the same, they're exactly the same. 483 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 4: We're writing songs, but. 484 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 3: It's just like everything is different because she has the 485 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 3: key to this door that like, I'm not even in 486 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 3: the same room as yet do you know what I like? 487 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 2: It's almost like they now know something you don't know. 488 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: And it's that wanting that like is driving the question 489 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 1: in you exactly really interesting. 490 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 3: Exactly and it's like you don't not to say that 491 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 3: you can't you know, get the same sort of level 492 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 3: of person. I'm not saying that, but I just I think, 493 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 3: particularly like with her, for me, I was just like, wow, 494 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 3: like we used to be so similar, and now your worldview, 495 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 3: even though you're saying all the same things and you're 496 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 3: the same person, you're also just like completely different because 497 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 3: you have this new perspective that I can't even really 498 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 3: begin to understand. 499 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, and it's just strange. 500 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 2: But does it not give you some comfort that like 501 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 2: she she is wearing the same clothes, nothing about her. 502 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 3: Absolutely no, No, it's totally comforting. But then it's at 503 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 3: the same time it's just like, I mean missing out, 504 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 3: like and I think for me, it drives me to 505 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 3: this place of like, do I want kids? Will I 506 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:53,159 Speaker 3: feel this new lease of life and this whole new 507 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: world open up if I have kids? Will I feel 508 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 3: resentment towards the kid? Will I seamlessly be able to 509 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 3: do both thing, Yeah, exactly the way that I want 510 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 3: to know, Probably not unless I like kind of disregard. 511 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: The kid, like you want to do an amazing job 512 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: at both, And so I would also if I were 513 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 1: in that position. I don't I'll ever have children, but 514 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 1: if I were, really, if it was something that was 515 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: on my mind, I would worry that it would like harm. 516 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 2: My passion and like what I know I'm supposed. 517 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: To do, you know what I mean, Like, is it 518 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: going to change the way that I relate to myself 519 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,880 Speaker 1: as like this person who like in your cases, out 520 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: there creating and like being this like pop idol And 521 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 1: then I don't know, like it would it would change 522 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 1: a lot, Like you don't know that you're going to 523 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: be exactly like your friend wearing the same ship talking 524 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: about the same ship. For some people it really changes time. 525 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 2: But I feel like you have already been through a 526 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 2: situation where everything was taken from you in some sense 527 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 2: with lockdown, Like your response to that was like I'm 528 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 2: feeling now. I feel like like in a big life 529 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 2: change situation like that, you already kind of I'm not 530 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 2: saying what happened exactly that way, but you already know 531 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 2: that like your response would be to like keep making true. 532 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's pretty interesting. I never thought of it like that. 533 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, connecting dots. Last time I saw you was at 534 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 2: SNL and at the Good Nights You were like what's 535 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 2: going on after? And I was like, there's a horse 536 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 2: meat disco? 537 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: And then I almost did you go? 538 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 2: I went after you didn't miss much? That was that 539 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 2: we love horse meat, you know. 540 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 3: I mean you know this because you do it. But 541 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 3: it's it's a lot of it, it's a lot of energy. 542 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,160 Speaker 3: It's late. 543 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 2: Is it's late, but like the boiler room set looks 544 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 2: fucking that's late. 545 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 4: But it's I mean, this is like, because when do 546 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 4: you end one? 547 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 1: One? 548 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 4: And then and then you go to the funny Mexican restaurant? 549 00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 2: Where was it Rose in Mexico? 550 00:25:59,600 --> 00:25:59,959 Speaker 1: Mexico? 551 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:01,959 Speaker 4: What is okay? 552 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 2: We rotate, We rotate restaurants. 553 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 4: Why isn't it okay the same place? Why isn't it 554 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 4: just a better place? 555 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 2: You know what? You really roll the dice and you can't. 556 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 1: But like sometimes I'm like, where are were going? And 557 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: it's either a fuck yes or a calm on? 558 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 4: But has it it has been a yeah? And they 559 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 4: would I went Rose Mexicans. 560 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 2: Mexicano was oscar Isaac. 561 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 4: And I mean I had fun, but I had fun. 562 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 2: You had a margarita, but it was funny and you 563 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 2: described it as a funny restaurant, and it is a 564 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 2: very funny restaurant. It's hilarious. And we love Rose Mexicanos 565 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 2: so much. We love them, we love them, but we 566 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 2: want a table tonight. Randel's gone. My brand deal with 567 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 2: was Mexicanos gone. But I like Charlie famous, but. 568 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 4: Surely it's not a budget thing. 569 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 2: It kind of like it's getting all the slash. I know, 570 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 2: budget you need to come back when the party is 571 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 2: at loving you at Sacks, It's it's chic, there's there's 572 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 2: room to walk around. But Harley famously was the musical 573 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 2: guest during the Omicron episode. 574 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: Where everyone was fun right, well. 575 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 2: Can I say can I reveal? Like on the monitors 576 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 2: on Thursday, like all the writers were fucking screaming because 577 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,199 Speaker 2: it was like, oh my god, it's like Caroline politics here, 578 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,679 Speaker 2: Christine's here, they're doing new shapes and then like we 579 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 2: the world missed out on like the three of you 580 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,640 Speaker 2: being on the same stage on TV. 581 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 4: Doing it was that was crazy. 582 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 2: Gradually. 583 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 4: That was crazy. 584 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 3: Also because yeah, I guess we never did that performance 585 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 3: that was we had. 586 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,720 Speaker 4: We were on a did you see a sound check? 587 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 3: We're on a spinning platform, so cool and like I 588 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 3: love Caroline and Christine, but my gosh, that it was crazy, 589 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 3: like because guys go crazy on it. It was like 590 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 3: Caroline wanted the platform to spin one way, one speed, 591 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 3: Christine wanted to spin. 592 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 4: The other way. I was like, I don't care what 593 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 4: platform COVID. It was just like so stressful. Yea, it 594 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 4: was just like a lot. And then we finally figured out. 595 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 3: We were so feeling so good about it, were like 596 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,120 Speaker 3: dancing on the platform. 597 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 4: And falling over. 598 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 3: We like we fucking killed it. And then we're literally 599 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,959 Speaker 3: we were in like we were getting ready like and 600 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 3: then on that Saturday, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I was 601 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:13,159 Speaker 3: in gum and then Caroline was like, it's not happening. 602 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:14,399 Speaker 4: I was like, what do you mean You're not coming 603 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,120 Speaker 4: and she was like no, it's like it's. 604 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 2: They pulled the plug on it. 605 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that happened entirely. 606 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 4: Well not my meatball sketch, thank god. 607 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,199 Speaker 2: Played a meatball. But that was that was show was it? 608 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:27,679 Speaker 2: That was That was the second show. That was the 609 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 2: time you came back. 610 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,360 Speaker 3: Oh, I got a chicken, chicken, I was. I did 611 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 3: some pre take sketch you were you were you were 612 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 3: a chicken. 613 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 2: To repair it, you were a parrot. You were a parrot. 614 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I was kind of like, oh, well, at 615 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 3: least I kept that. 616 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 4: It was like me and me and Paul. 617 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 1: It was Paul. 618 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 619 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 1: Wow, that's a good one though, to play chicken with Paul. 620 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: That's so SNL called it. 621 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. 622 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 2: It's like I went on the sketch comedy. Yeah, I was, Ah, 623 00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 2: I was chicken in the meatball. 624 00:28:58,800 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: But then you were. 625 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 2: But then this can show you did baby, and then 626 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 2: what did you did? 627 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 4: Beg for you? 628 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh my god. Rena wasn't there. 629 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 4: For Rena was not there. 630 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 2: But speaking of Santas holds a very special place in 631 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 2: my heart because that was where I was when Crash 632 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 2: came out, the whole album, and I like, it was 633 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 2: just me in a room listening to that whole album. 634 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 2: Went to the Tory were fantastic, and I still say 635 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 2: that that is the most well behaved audience because it's 636 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 2: these lovely boys and girls just jump up and down. 637 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 2: No one's like throwing elbows in the pit, you know 638 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 2: what I mean, everyone like watches their and the sod. 639 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 4: They're polite. The angels are polite. 640 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 2: But with this, do you want them to get a 641 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 2: little a little bit more came. 642 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 3: I always want them to get chaotic, like whenever they 643 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 3: You know, I'm lucky because whenever I bump into like 644 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 3: a mass group of angels, they're very like sweet, you know, 645 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 3: they like wait in line and they like have the 646 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 3: lids off their sharpie like organized. 647 00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love it. Yeah. 648 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 4: It's never like like a ship show. 649 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 650 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I saw this TikTok of Paris. 651 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 3: Hilton had done like a signing, yeah, and it had 652 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 3: got a little hectic and someone had like drawn on 653 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 3: her like chanel. 654 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 4: Bag, and I was just like that. I mean, I'm. 655 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: Sure there's like not in your class. 656 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 3: There's lots more where it came from, but that is 657 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 3: really like, that's such a bummer. 658 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 4: That would never happen with the angel. 659 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 2: Not on your blue. 660 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 3: Bana in it always I always travel. I brought a 661 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,240 Speaker 3: banana here, left it on the plane. 662 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 2: You did you have my favorite? What's my bag? Because 663 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 2: you have the banana, you have the line and you 664 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 2: have the barrito. Is it the true emotion? No? No, no, No, 665 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 2: that's that's no. What is it? I just mixed emotion. 666 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 2: You and I have the same fragrance. 667 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm wearing lat too Leap today. It's a new 668 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 4: I haven't done it before, a. 669 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: Thing like I've switched and it's just like, what are 670 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: you on? I am on Delos dose from by Radio. 671 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 4: Okay, I have that. 672 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 2: I will say. 673 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: Bow and Yang really tried to get me into Sunday 674 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: cologne and that was not for me. 675 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 2: It's called as well. It's called Sunday. 676 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 3: Yes, Sunday something rainy Sunday. No, that's much I think 677 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 3: about Sunday. It's just called Sunday Sunday. 678 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 2: I found Santos and I actually was wearing It. 679 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: Had its debut at Coachella on me, and I felt 680 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 1: very good by the way. You didn't You didn't say me, 681 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: but I saw you. 682 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 2: Last year that went off. 683 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: People were getting people were getting fun, roudy, it was fun. 684 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 4: How was Coachella this year? 685 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: I tell this was fucking great. But makes an appearance 686 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: in the Mean Girls song. 687 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 3: Yes she does because because hot girls listen. 688 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: To me, girls listen to true It's true. 689 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 3: I feel like any cool, like genuinely cool girl not 690 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 3: only like likes Solanad, but like understands like the law 691 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 3: like Lana. 692 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 4: Yes, in a really deep way. 693 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's totally real. She really is something symbolic for something. Yeah. Yes. 694 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: When I was hearing that song, I was like, I 695 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: see this girl. Yeah, yeah, you see her. 696 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, she like smoke skinny cigarette and being being she's 697 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 3: a little le Yes, she's a little bit like she's. 698 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 4: Got a vocal, fry vocal. 699 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,440 Speaker 2: But it doesn't feel dated. It feels very good on her. 700 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 1: Dating and I will say being at Coachella around seventy 701 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 1: five thousand of those girls was a good vibe cool. 702 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 1: And I wasn't sure about her doing the Friday night 703 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: because I felt like that should be a party. Like 704 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 1: in my head, I was like switch Dojah and Lana, 705 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: put Lana on Sunday night, Dojah will get everything started. 706 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: And then now having seen it, I'm like, everything was 707 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:48,160 Speaker 1: exactly everything. 708 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, did you go? 709 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 2: I didn't go. He's never been, never been what people 710 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 2: do with your music, though, I think like, if we're 711 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 2: gonna compare Laana heads to like Angels and people like 712 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 2: really like love you I feel like you get people 713 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 2: to like do the digging of like oh my god, 714 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 2: like it's this there's this whole album that you know, 715 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 2: like they really start to like dig through the crate. 716 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 2: And I think people love to like take your stuff, 717 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 2: all the stems, whatever and then just like re arrange 718 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 2: it and like they have fun with the building blocks 719 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 2: that you're giving. 720 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I think my music is like 721 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 4: intrinsically like for the night. 722 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 2: Yes, you know. 723 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 3: I mean you can listen to it in the day, 724 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 3: you can it in the car like whatever, but generally 725 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 3: it's like the best night time. 726 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: I remember, like I saw you at the will Turn 727 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: a few years ago, and just what was happening on 728 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: stage was so great and one of my favorite songs 729 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: of yours is I Don't Want to Know, and like 730 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: I just like you had this like really cool purple 731 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: light just like I don't know, just like you're not 732 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 1: like synesthetic, are you? 733 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 4: I am? 734 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 2: I could tell Yeah, So someone like got into your 735 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 2: face was like you're not actually no, no, I. 736 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 3: Just it's like one of those things where you know, 737 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 3: like when you do your first interviews and it's like 738 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 3: one of the first things you've ever said and then I. 739 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 1: Like it's because people are like she's synesthetic, test her, 740 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: but you actually do experience. 741 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, And for me it's like really helpful with writing. Yeah, 742 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 3: when I'm writing, I'm like, this song is purple like, 743 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 3: and then I'll be like, hey, gee, you make the 744 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:16,760 Speaker 3: purple stuff. 745 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,080 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you this question about like, when 746 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 1: you sit down to write a song, is it like 747 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:24,319 Speaker 1: because it feels like equal parts important and obviously it is, 748 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 1: but I guess my question is is it the sound 749 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 1: and like where you're going silically that dictates what something 750 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 1: is going to be about, or do you come in 751 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 1: with an emotion that you need to get up? 752 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 3: With this record, it's been very much that I came 753 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 3: in with what I wanted to say, whereas on previous 754 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 3: records it's not actually really been like this. 755 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 4: With this record, it's been so lyrically. 756 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 3: Led, Like I've been like I want to write a 757 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 3: song about my kind of sticky relationship with my mom 758 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 3: and dad, which is apple, or like I want to 759 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,839 Speaker 3: write the song about not being sure if I want 760 00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 3: to have kids, or you know, like it's been very 761 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:04,359 Speaker 3: very like it's there, it's in my head, like mean 762 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,439 Speaker 3: girls kind of like piecing that around like a few 763 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 3: different girls I know, and thinking about like qualities that 764 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,839 Speaker 3: they have and putting that in a song three sixty. 765 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:19,800 Speaker 1: Look and your book NDS are there, It's thanks. Yeah. 766 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 3: And with that it was very like, Okay, I want 767 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:23,760 Speaker 3: to talk about me like being the like a sonic 768 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:28,840 Speaker 3: reference for people, but through the like lens of Julia 769 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 3: kind of being the like New York like it girl, 770 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 3: street fashion girl that everybody's referencing, you. 771 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 1: Know, Julia Fox mean yes, yeah, yeah, yeah. 772 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 3: So it was like very specific and then kind of 773 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 3: fun to build out these like pop songs that hopefully 774 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 3: like a lot of people can relate to, but they're 775 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,800 Speaker 3: coming from like quite a specific idea right in place. 776 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 2: And why do you think it didn't happen with the 777 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 2: other albums. It just like wasn't the way it was. 778 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 3: I think I was writing very much like the way 779 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 3: I would write on previous records. We would build a 780 00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 3: track and then I would get on the microphone and 781 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 3: literally be. 782 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 2: Like and then figure out and then I would. 783 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 3: Figure out the lyrics that fit the vowel sounds I 784 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 3: was kind of making. So there was already this sort 785 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,279 Speaker 3: of like map of sound that you know, I was 786 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 3: trying to fit words. 787 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 2: To you're saying, this is lyrically. 788 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 4: Where lyrically left, and not really focusing too much. 789 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,400 Speaker 3: On rhyme or worrying about like what fits within a 790 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 3: stanza or anything like that. You know. So actually, just 791 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 3: I was really able to kind of just write lyrics 792 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 3: that I would actually say in a conversation rather than 793 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 3: crafting them into this sort of like song version of 794 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 3: what I would. 795 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,360 Speaker 1: Say, and even like melodically in the way that like 796 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,320 Speaker 1: the song forms around as like even with girls so confusing, 797 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,399 Speaker 1: it's girl, you know what I mean, Like there's something 798 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 1: there that's the melody, like the way you really sound 799 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 1: like I want to do this, you know what I mean? 800 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: Like you know, it's just like it feels like it's 801 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: born out of something you want to say this time, 802 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 1: and to hear that you say that is. 803 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, it works back on this thing of like I 804 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 2: think this is like extremely transparent in the way and 805 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 2: it is like holding up this mirror because like the 806 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,320 Speaker 2: Warshack test of this album is the cover and everyone 807 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,399 Speaker 2: having all these opinions about like the right and it's 808 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 2: in your and I think you kind of threw a 809 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 2: back of people in a nice way where you're like, no, 810 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 2: this is actually like this completely reveals what you think 811 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 2: like pop really should appear and how they should put 812 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 2: out their work and stuff like that, which I think 813 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,959 Speaker 2: is great. But I think with the content of the album, 814 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,360 Speaker 2: it's more about like guys, like I think about like 815 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 2: crazy dark shit about like my career. I'm not putting 816 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:34,440 Speaker 2: words in your mouth, but it's like, I think it 817 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 2: is your most vulnerable album because you are being very 818 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 2: honest about like how you regard yourself in a way 819 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 2: that would have never occurred to me, you know what 820 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,880 Speaker 2: I mean. Like there are allusions to like your career 821 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 2: being in this in between and I'm like, oh, like 822 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,880 Speaker 2: six albums in like you feel that way, yeah, totally. 823 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 3: Well, I just it's I think there aren't many people 824 00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 3: who have a path that I have that there are, 825 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 3: Robin being one, and I think that's why there's a 826 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,680 Speaker 3: lot of like synergy between the two of us. But 827 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 3: you know, somebody who had speaking about Robin now huge 828 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 3: commercial success right at the beginning of her career and 829 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:23,200 Speaker 3: then kind of had to like rebrand and then became 830 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 3: this kind of gay icon, kind of. 831 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 4: Like Girl of the Night. 832 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,479 Speaker 1: No that sounds wrong, but you know, like. 833 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 3: Nighttime music like club like always no matter what she does, 834 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:37,879 Speaker 3: is always going to be kind of like looked upon 835 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 3: as like a really important artist who's kind of like 836 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 3: treading new ground and you know, kind of like timeless. 837 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 3: And I think, you know, we share similarities in that, 838 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 3: you know, not my first music, but music for my 839 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 3: second record was globally like commercially successful. 840 00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,439 Speaker 4: But at that point of time, for. 841 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 3: Me, I didn't really have my artistry kind of totally 842 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 3: figured out in the way that I feel that I 843 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,359 Speaker 3: do have now. I mean, there were definitely like good 844 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 3: through threads, but when I look at for example, like 845 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 3: sour Olivia Rodriguez, I'm like, oh, I wish i'd done 846 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,839 Speaker 3: succer kind of like that, like because I think there 847 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:25,839 Speaker 3: are parallels within those universes. But I think she just 848 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 3: did it better because I think she I don't know, 849 00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 3: I don't think I knew myself that well at that 850 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,040 Speaker 3: point in time when I was doing that record, and 851 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 3: I look at some of the decisions she made and 852 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:41,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh wow, it's like still really like pop 853 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 3: and kind of like touching on this like live like 854 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 3: punkish stuff. Yeah, but it's done in a way that 855 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 3: to me is still very cool. Whereas I feel like 856 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 3: when I look back on Soccer there are elements of 857 00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 3: it there. 858 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,360 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, that's just a bit annoying shing, you 859 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 4: know what I mean. 860 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:59,240 Speaker 2: I've told you though, that like True Romance is still 861 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 2: the perfect I don't know how you feel about that album, 862 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 2: but it's like I feel like that is still for Charlie. 863 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,879 Speaker 2: That is still like that's the through throughout, that's the yeah, 864 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,400 Speaker 2: And like I still listen to So Far Away and 865 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is fundamentally the same stuff she's putting it, 866 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 2: she's put out through her whole career, and like that 867 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 2: is like music of the Night where it's like the 868 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 2: beginnings of like bedroom pop, this whole thing now that 869 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 2: has this whole you know, life and culture around it. 870 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 2: Like I think you really broke ground in that way 871 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,319 Speaker 2: with it, Like yeah, Sucker is its own thing, and 872 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,759 Speaker 2: that must have been so strange and so complicated, but 873 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,120 Speaker 2: it's still a great record, the True Romance. I think 874 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,759 Speaker 2: it's still like you you can always always fall back 875 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 2: on that first record is like. 876 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I love that record. 877 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:41,520 Speaker 1: I love that record. 878 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:46,960 Speaker 4: But yeah, anyways, I think it's like, it's just interesting. 879 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:50,759 Speaker 3: My career hasn't been like a to be it's been 880 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 3: like kind of it's like a weird jp qat and 881 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:05,280 Speaker 3: it's like stradla this like commercial thing, also being a songwriter, 882 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 3: also being linked to the underground, disregarding that and coming 883 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:12,279 Speaker 3: back and. 884 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 4: It's a mess. 885 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 2: It's not a mess. It's that I think. 886 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,160 Speaker 4: I'm sure you nice way Yeah, yeah, yeah. 887 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 2: People don't have that trajector anymore because we're so afree 888 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,160 Speaker 2: to take the risk, whether from the label or from 889 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 2: the artists themselves. Like I think you have been so 890 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 2: good about using whatever the apparatus is, whatever you have 891 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,480 Speaker 2: within you to just like make it. Like that's like 892 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,040 Speaker 2: that's how I'm feeling now. Is to me, it's like, yeah, 893 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 2: you just fucking made it, you know what I mean? 894 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: You have had these like when you describe it as 895 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,239 Speaker 1: a mess. It is interesting because it's like there's these 896 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 1: spikes of like these mainstream moments, like going back to 897 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,440 Speaker 1: like boom Clap like that, being in like love Simon. 898 00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:04,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, like that was like but I guess that's what 899 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 5: it's like. 900 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,280 Speaker 2: That kind of was our faulty. 901 00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:14,920 Speaker 1: They were still gay though, but like that, and then 902 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,400 Speaker 1: I remember it was a few years ago now, but 903 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,359 Speaker 1: we were in the Fire Island movie and when we 904 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 1: found out that the Boys remix was going to be 905 00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,799 Speaker 1: in our trailer, yeah, so cool. I was like, thank god, 906 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,239 Speaker 1: because this is going to get across like the fun 907 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,279 Speaker 1: of this. It's going to make it seem even more 908 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 1: fun than it is. Like and also just like there 909 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,239 Speaker 1: was something about doesn't that song also start promising young women? 910 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:40,800 Speaker 1: Like so it's just like there are these like moments 911 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:45,160 Speaker 1: in like big mainstream that like you're right there, and 912 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 1: so I wonder how do you feel when something is 913 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,600 Speaker 1: perceived on that level? Is that like an exciting thing 914 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 1: or it is a little bit like. 915 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 4: No, no, I feel good about it. 916 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 3: It's like, Okay, I think because there are some things 917 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,439 Speaker 3: you mentioned that so like Fire Island promising young women, 918 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 3: those things feel really exciting to me and inspiring and 919 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,359 Speaker 3: happy to be involved in them. But I think it's 920 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 3: like what I've learned, like going back and forth between 921 00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:13,719 Speaker 3: this kind of like more commercial version of myself to 922 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,880 Speaker 3: this kind of more I'm really just leading with like 923 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:20,319 Speaker 3: what's in my brain and my you know, instinct. I've 924 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 3: just learned now from doing it so long. I can't 925 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:28,239 Speaker 3: like fake. I just can't like fake pushing the commercial 926 00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 3: button like I. 927 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: Cock a Cole. 928 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,319 Speaker 2: I can't do it. 929 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 3: I can't like And that's no disrespect to the people 930 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 3: who do. Some people are just like made to like 931 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 3: live in that world and like they want to make 932 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,400 Speaker 3: the music that it's going to like really succeed in 933 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 3: that world. 934 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,200 Speaker 4: And it's really hard to succeed in that world. 935 00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 3: Like I'm not taking that away from anyone, but like, 936 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,080 Speaker 3: I just can't do it because when I've written those 937 00:43:56,120 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 3: songs and I put them out, it's like they only 938 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 3: go so far because I think there's a block that 939 00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 3: the fans see as well. 940 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,400 Speaker 4: They're just like, she's not that girl. Like that's not 941 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 4: who she is. She's not that girl. 942 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,880 Speaker 3: Like some of them can, like maybe a less hardcore 943 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 3: fan can get down with it, but it's like, you know, 944 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 3: it's just like when you smell a rat or whatever. 945 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:23,520 Speaker 3: It's like, I have to just be yourself myself. 946 00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,160 Speaker 1: Something in the milk ain't clean. Yes, when you're not 947 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:31,160 Speaker 1: being yourself, and I can't fucking nor should you have to. 948 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 4: I can't do because it makes me miserable. 949 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 2: You have to sing that music every night. 950 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,840 Speaker 1: I think it was Dua who said we were just 951 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 1: talking to her about her album and she we were 952 00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,480 Speaker 1: talking about this like theme that she has of like positivity, 953 00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:46,720 Speaker 1: and the messages that she has are usually like up 954 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 1: and she's like, well, I have to sing it every 955 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,799 Speaker 1: fucking night, So if it's gonna be something that's in 956 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 1: my mouth every single night, it better tastes good, like 957 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 958 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,360 Speaker 4: Like it's so funny because I'm the opposite. 959 00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,560 Speaker 2: Of Yeah, really, if I had to sing. 960 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 3: Really overly positives like boom clap is a good example. Obviously, 961 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:07,400 Speaker 3: it's so different from like radical optimism, like completely different 962 00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,600 Speaker 3: sounding records, et cetera. But like that's funny that she 963 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 3: says that, and that makes sense for her because she 964 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,000 Speaker 3: is I think she is always really kind of like 965 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:18,719 Speaker 3: seizing like the positivity in life. 966 00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 4: I kind of like to dwell in the kind of 967 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:23,320 Speaker 4: like sit in the ship. 968 00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: And externalize that because that is also a valid emotion 969 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 1: that people out there. 970 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 4: I have to do it, I could. Yeah, that's so 971 00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 4: that's really interesting. 972 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but like I feel that this is like 973 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 2: just like like. 974 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:42,680 Speaker 3: It's kind like a vision of like me performing radical optimism. 975 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 3: And doing brat like three six. 976 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:51,319 Speaker 4: Five Putty Girl and then me doing and like both 977 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 4: of us. 978 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,319 Speaker 3: Like being on our like the versions of what those 979 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 3: tours are. 980 00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 2: And I want to see that how is that? 981 00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:58,400 Speaker 4: How is how's it going down? 982 00:45:58,520 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 1: This is? 983 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 2: But this is how you know that? Like you're doing 984 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 2: the right thing? 985 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:01,960 Speaker 1: Is that? 986 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,720 Speaker 2: Like you like we love Dua. It would be crazy 987 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 2: if she did three sixty and it would be kind 988 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 2: of crazy if you did Radical Optimists. It's like you 989 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,319 Speaker 2: are doing the thing you were meant to do. It 990 00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,359 Speaker 2: is purely externalized from whatever your inner life is. And 991 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:17,279 Speaker 2: I feel like you're what you're saying is maybe the 992 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 2: pendulum stops swinging, like you've landed in this nice space 993 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,839 Speaker 2: of like I'm in between or I'm more of this 994 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 2: one thing than I am this thing, And like I 995 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,160 Speaker 2: feel like reflective surfaces are a big part of this album. 996 00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 2: That you look at the mirror, you see me like 997 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,319 Speaker 2: and you're holding up a mirror to society? Am I being? 998 00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 1: So you went the reflective surface motif, but like use it. 999 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,799 Speaker 2: Use it like a mirror, like a mirror. We gotta 1000 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 2: ask Charlie the question, Yes we do. So this is 1001 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,600 Speaker 2: the central question of lost culture. It's what was the 1002 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,360 Speaker 2: culture that made you say culture is for you. You 1003 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 2: can look back and be like, I am largely. 1004 00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 1: Me because of this thing I experienced. 1005 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 3: I think think it was and maybe this is not. 1006 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 3: It was very surprising, but I think it was like 1007 00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:12,839 Speaker 3: the London rave scene and that like culture of like 1008 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 3: London warehouse parties that I kind of came up through 1009 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,680 Speaker 3: because that sort of in turn put me very onto 1010 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:22,240 Speaker 3: kind of. 1011 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,360 Speaker 4: Like club kids stuff. 1012 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,720 Speaker 3: When I was younger and when I was in art school, 1013 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 3: I was always kind of like in this sort of 1014 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 3: like Lee Bowery like inspired like Michael allc kind of 1015 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 3: still there's a core scene. Yeah, like those parties like 1016 00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,879 Speaker 3: that level of yes, totally and that level of kind 1017 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 3: of like DIY aesthetic with clothes and music and yeah. 1018 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:50,279 Speaker 4: I think that really formed who I am. 1019 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:51,799 Speaker 2: You find it. 1020 00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,120 Speaker 3: I think it was from starting going to these parties 1021 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,279 Speaker 3: because when the must have been like two thousand and 1022 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 3: seven and eight, when I was going in London, I 1023 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 3: was young. 1024 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 4: I would go with my parents, Oh wow, which was 1025 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:06,760 Speaker 4: not cool. 1026 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,920 Speaker 2: Were you guys like in Essex going to Yeah? 1027 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, they would drive me. 1028 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 3: I would get asked ahead of my space and I 1029 00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,320 Speaker 3: knew this like promoter who was like come and play 1030 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,759 Speaker 3: and we would like drive into London and I would 1031 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 3: play at like three am. 1032 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 2: You being booked for these yeah. 1033 00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:22,600 Speaker 4: It was being booked. Yeah. 1034 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:26,800 Speaker 3: And that was kind of my first like look into 1035 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:30,240 Speaker 3: kind of night life and like party culture. 1036 00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 4: And at that point in time, I guess it was 1037 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 4: like our version of Indie Sleeves was it was New Rave, which. 1038 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,640 Speaker 2: Was like you know for sure. 1039 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:43,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, And so that was sort of like a kind 1040 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:47,320 Speaker 3: of regurgitation of you know, all the prior like first 1041 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,719 Speaker 3: second wave of club kids that were coming before. So 1042 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 3: I kind of just got sort of like sucked in 1043 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:53,759 Speaker 3: through that way. 1044 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,520 Speaker 2: But and then you learned about the prior wave that 1045 00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 2: felt like education. There was some like rooting for this. 1046 00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,440 Speaker 2: It wasn't like it just kind of came about of nowhere, 1047 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,759 Speaker 2: like you had a history to like, yeah, I had to. 1048 00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:06,080 Speaker 3: I had to soak in the history because I wanted 1049 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:10,360 Speaker 3: to understand like what Michael Atlck was doing and what 1050 00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 3: like that original like club scene and like those club 1051 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 3: kids were doing back here in New York and those 1052 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,359 Speaker 3: levels of like crazy parties they would throw like they 1053 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 3: threw one on a bridge where all they like shut 1054 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 3: both ends of the bridge and like you know, just 1055 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:32,040 Speaker 3: this like lore of like partying and how that kind 1056 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,879 Speaker 3: of like spawned into music and then began to kind 1057 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,840 Speaker 3: of create like new sounds of music. 1058 00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:41,360 Speaker 4: I think that it's like such a rich thing for me. 1059 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:45,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, like like you like at the Limelight would have 1060 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:46,600 Speaker 2: been so fucking kind. 1061 00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,239 Speaker 4: Imagine, yea wild imagine. 1062 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:50,799 Speaker 1: But that's where do you live now? 1063 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:51,919 Speaker 2: Do you? Do you still like. 1064 00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,800 Speaker 4: I'm half in LA and half in London? 1065 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and forth back and forth La. Or do you 1066 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:57,440 Speaker 2: like it? 1067 00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 3: I am beginning to maybe be over it. 1068 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:03,480 Speaker 4: I've been there for ten years. 1069 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,360 Speaker 1: That feels like that feels like double yeah, the amount 1070 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:07,240 Speaker 1: of time it would take. 1071 00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 2: Ye over it? 1072 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:09,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm thinking about New York. 1073 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 1: Actually, I think New York. 1074 00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:11,759 Speaker 4: I lived here. 1075 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,280 Speaker 1: I think I think New York is New York and London. 1076 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:16,920 Speaker 1: Like I guess, like if you were someone who wanted 1077 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 1: two different experiences in the two places you live, Like 1078 00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,719 Speaker 1: I'm here because I want to rest, meaning LA, and 1079 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,959 Speaker 1: I'm here because I want to be included in what's 1080 00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,480 Speaker 1: going on in like the culture that's London, but like 1081 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 1: New York is New York. 1082 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do love rest in New York. I do 1083 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,520 Speaker 2: love London too. Did you love performing at Coachella? 1084 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,800 Speaker 4: I was, honestly so scarce. 1085 00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 1: Was it scary, yeah, because. 1086 00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:39,920 Speaker 4: You know with. 1087 00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:44,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, and everyone was like it's all about the live stream. 1088 00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:48,719 Speaker 3: Everyone's like about the live strain. So that made me 1089 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:49,960 Speaker 3: kind of treat them on like TV. 1090 00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:52,280 Speaker 2: Oh got hopeful. 1091 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 1: Now. 1092 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 3: Well, I was happy with how it looked and how 1093 00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,920 Speaker 3: I sounded because I was thinking so much about the 1094 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 3: all cars. 1095 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,360 Speaker 4: But it definitely like was just stressful. 1096 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,360 Speaker 2: That was a major It was a major change. 1097 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 1: So I remember we saw Chapel in the Gobi tent 1098 00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,760 Speaker 1: and then right after that we walked over to Saprina 1099 00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 1: Carpenter on the Coachella stage, and I remember it felt 1100 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,799 Speaker 1: like the energy was lower. But then I was like, oh, 1101 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,080 Speaker 1: but on this stage they're thinking about the live stream, 1102 00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 1: whereas in like the Golby and Sahara tents, they're just 1103 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,920 Speaker 1: giving a live show and it feels like that. Like, 1104 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 1: so the live experience does feel I would imagine, like 1105 00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,680 Speaker 1: more alive there and maybe as the performer, it feels 1106 00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 1: more connected, whereas like on the Coachella stage where you were, 1107 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,120 Speaker 1: it is a lot about like they're watching at home. 1108 00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was scary. 1109 00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:44,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's okay. I mean. 1110 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 1: I was having the best. 1111 00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,320 Speaker 2: You used to do these like videos, these little short 1112 00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 2: films of him like teaching you how to like have tea. 1113 00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 2: Like he was just so adorable people don't talk about 1114 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,920 Speaker 2: with Lee. Barry is like, yeah, it's like the looks 1115 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:05,839 Speaker 2: and all these things, but it's like at his heart, 1116 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:10,959 Speaker 2: he was just like sensitive Australian, right, Australian, Australian. I'm 1117 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 2: confused it as a bread but you know, maybe maybe 1118 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:12,920 Speaker 2: you're right. 1119 00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:14,120 Speaker 4: Maybe you're right. 1120 00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,399 Speaker 2: Now we can't look it up. I hope you're both. 1121 00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 2: I hope you're both wrong. But like, did it take you? 1122 00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,719 Speaker 2: Like was there a developmental thing for you to like 1123 00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 2: grow up in that and then be like I'm gonna 1124 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,479 Speaker 2: like do you like, I'm gonna make this like part 1125 00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:27,719 Speaker 2: of me. 1126 00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,719 Speaker 4: I don't think it was a choice, you know. 1127 00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 3: I think it's like it just I gravitated so hard 1128 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:41,239 Speaker 3: towards it. I think it was like I saw elements 1129 00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:46,080 Speaker 3: of myself in what was being created in the worlds 1130 00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 3: that I was looking into. 1131 00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:48,799 Speaker 4: There was there was like. 1132 00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:55,319 Speaker 3: A punkness and like a kind of freeeness, and it 1133 00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,640 Speaker 3: felt that there was like a possibility to be a 1134 00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,479 Speaker 3: little messy and not perfect and not look a certain 1135 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 3: type of a way to still be able to express 1136 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:09,160 Speaker 3: yourself and feel really like validated or something. And I 1137 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,520 Speaker 3: think I was searching for that a lot when I 1138 00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 3: was growing. 1139 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,400 Speaker 1: Up, and that that could be a version of success 1140 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,840 Speaker 1: is just going there and participating and being in the 1141 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:19,080 Speaker 1: culture and being around people that make you feel good 1142 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,200 Speaker 1: and not this like more calculated metric of like, well 1143 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: did this happen? Did you look like this right? 1144 00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,280 Speaker 4: And be rewarded for being a freak? 1145 00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 3: I think that was I think that was something that 1146 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,640 Speaker 3: really like made me like gravitate towards that world, because 1147 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:35,080 Speaker 3: that was what was like celebrated, like if you were 1148 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,640 Speaker 3: like really like wearing something. 1149 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,360 Speaker 4: Like weird or like you know what I mean. 1150 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,239 Speaker 2: Or like you got attention, you got like. 1151 00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, right, I was like, Oh, that's cool. 1152 00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,840 Speaker 3: Like you don't have to be this kind of traditional 1153 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:51,600 Speaker 3: version of beauty or talent or like whatever it is. 1154 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:55,960 Speaker 3: It's that you can kind of make a fantasy and 1155 00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,400 Speaker 3: it be valid even if it's like a little fucked 1156 00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,000 Speaker 3: and ugly, you know, or whatever. 1157 00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 2: That's your route though, Like that's why it's like you 1158 00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,840 Speaker 2: don't have to worry about being like the moral model 1159 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,799 Speaker 2: for anything. It's like just like let that ship go 1160 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,040 Speaker 2: because you started out in this like environment where like 1161 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:15,399 Speaker 2: it didn't really matter. Like nightlife culture is about like 1162 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 2: unrepressed everything. It's it's just like humanity revealing itself and 1163 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 2: being so like. 1164 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:23,480 Speaker 1: I love it, you know what I mean? 1165 00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:24,960 Speaker 4: I love it. It's so interesting. 1166 00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:26,440 Speaker 2: Have you done Mighty Hooplo? 1167 00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 1: Have been to Mighty Hoop? 1168 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:28,160 Speaker 4: I don't don't know that. 1169 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:30,279 Speaker 2: Something's like big queer, Like. 1170 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 1: It's like a queer that idline four times? What's that? 1171 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:42,640 Speaker 3: There's a park that's like Victoria, I haven't done it. 1172 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:46,200 Speaker 2: You haven't done it, no problem, but it's like it's 1173 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,719 Speaker 2: like a teeny tiny coach but in London with all 1174 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:53,760 Speaker 2: queer like Jason's. That's so. 1175 00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,560 Speaker 1: It's fucked in a crazy way. 1176 00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,240 Speaker 2: Excited for to I am. 1177 00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 1: Have you guys been wanting to tour together? It feels 1178 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:03,760 Speaker 1: like such a natural. 1179 00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we have the same manager. Our manager 1180 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,800 Speaker 3: has been trying to get us to talk together for years, 1181 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:14,200 Speaker 3: and every time we're like, yeah, like obviously we love 1182 00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,880 Speaker 3: each other, but I think the music has never quite 1183 00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:19,200 Speaker 3: lined up. 1184 00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,120 Speaker 4: And now it's like so lining up. 1185 00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:25,239 Speaker 3: You know. So this time when our manager like for 1186 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:26,920 Speaker 3: like literally the fifth time, was like, do you guys 1187 00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:28,439 Speaker 3: want to talk together? We were like, yeah, we do 1188 00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:31,480 Speaker 3: because it really made sense and we could see how 1189 00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:33,400 Speaker 3: it would really like flow and work together. 1190 00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so sung together. 1191 00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:36,879 Speaker 4: I think. 1192 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 3: So we're to be honest, we're still putting it together, 1193 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:40,040 Speaker 3: but I think. 1194 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,239 Speaker 4: That, yes, it's what people eat. 1195 00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:44,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't think it's going to be 1196 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:49,360 Speaker 3: like a full Medley situation, but there's definitely going to 1197 00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:52,280 Speaker 3: be a few moments you go together. 1198 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:58,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, I did see you guys. I think it was 1199 00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:00,680 Speaker 1: also at the World Turn like ys ago, you guys 1200 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:01,600 Speaker 1: were on the same shows that. 1201 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:02,760 Speaker 2: I did it artists. 1202 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:06,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a festival that I think we both 1203 00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:07,480 Speaker 3: did together. 1204 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I remember just thinking and I forget. 1205 00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 3: Festival that maybe was Troy's invention, but maybe it was also. 1206 00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:17,680 Speaker 4: Mind but I don't remember. 1207 00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:22,040 Speaker 1: He totally did Peers every year he did. 1208 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, well it's gonna be it's gonna be. 1209 00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:29,360 Speaker 1: Wait, people were freaking out, yes, situation, which. 1210 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 2: Is always a good feeling when it's like together, I know. 1211 00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,160 Speaker 3: So yeah, we're so happy, We're really happy. It's gonna 1212 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:35,560 Speaker 3: be fun. 1213 00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:37,240 Speaker 4: It's like pretty quick. 1214 00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,000 Speaker 2: Huh, I don't It's like a couple of months, right, 1215 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:40,600 Speaker 2: It's like. 1216 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:44,200 Speaker 4: Not even is it like five weeks? 1217 00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 2: Okay, where is it in New York? Is that ms 1218 00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:47,680 Speaker 2: G y M? 1219 00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 4: Obviously would It's gonna be really fun. 1220 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,839 Speaker 2: And you know I paid top dollar for you, like 1221 00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 2: I don't think anymore. 1222 00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh fine, I'll take it. 1223 00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:03,400 Speaker 2: I'll take it. 1224 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,080 Speaker 1: I did hear a story one time of I won't 1225 00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: say any details until after, but there was an artist 1226 00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,720 Speaker 1: who was in a big feud with this other famous person, 1227 00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,640 Speaker 1: and the famous person reached out like years after to 1228 00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,000 Speaker 1: like get tickets to a show, and the person just 1229 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:19,800 Speaker 1: sent back a ticket link and said buy one. 1230 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:21,920 Speaker 4: I love. 1231 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:32,240 Speaker 2: All right, So it's time. 1232 00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:36,120 Speaker 4: For I don't think so okay you're doing and. 1233 00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:37,720 Speaker 2: I just know you're gonna pop the off. 1234 00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,480 Speaker 1: So this is this is our sixty second segment where 1235 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:42,640 Speaker 1: we drag name cultural item. 1236 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:42,959 Speaker 2: Here. 1237 00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:47,880 Speaker 1: I walked into this myself today. Uh it's my own fault, 1238 00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:49,200 Speaker 1: but I am gonna okay. Here we are. 1239 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 2: There's some self accountability. Yes it is Matt Rogers. I 1240 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:52,600 Speaker 2: don't think so some of these time starts, I don't think so. 1241 00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,560 Speaker 1: Honey wearing a graphic tea on the subway, because here's 1242 00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,240 Speaker 1: the thing. People are gonna read it, and then they 1243 00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:59,080 Speaker 1: were gonna engage with it, and then you're trapped with 1244 00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:02,200 Speaker 1: them for what could be as much as a half hour. 1245 00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:04,480 Speaker 1: So today I have a shirt on that says, is 1246 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,240 Speaker 1: it gonna be a threesome? I'm challengers coded my whole 1247 00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,640 Speaker 1: life right now. This is merch from Focused Features, Thank 1248 00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:12,320 Speaker 1: you again, Driveway Dolls and for Driveaway Dolls. I haven't 1249 00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,520 Speaker 1: seen it yet, but Wade's sister, I just know that 1250 00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:17,440 Speaker 1: I was on the subway today with a gentleman who 1251 00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 1: could read the shirt and did out loud, and so 1252 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 1: then he was engaging with it. He caused everyone to 1253 00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,280 Speaker 1: turn and I said, you know what, maybe if I 1254 00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,720 Speaker 1: hadn't worn a shirt with words on it that could 1255 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:29,919 Speaker 1: be read, I wouldn't be having a conversation at all, 1256 00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 1: least of all about threesomes. And this person was not 1257 00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:36,360 Speaker 1: necessarily someone I wanted to engage with about threesomes. If 1258 00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,320 Speaker 1: you know, if you see me wearing this and you 1259 00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,400 Speaker 1: think we would vibe, I don't know, maybe I will 1260 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:43,080 Speaker 1: be wearing it the whole rest of today. This episode 1261 00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,480 Speaker 1: comes out in like three weeks, but I'll wear it again. Actually, yes, 1262 00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:48,760 Speaker 1: the day this episode is released, I'm gonna be walking 1263 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 1: the streets and you're wearing it. Say hi, but not 1264 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:52,400 Speaker 1: if you're like a crazy person on the subway. 1265 00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:54,680 Speaker 2: And that's one minute. So that's my ole thing on today. 1266 00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,600 Speaker 4: That is so good. Thank you. 1267 00:58:59,120 --> 00:58:59,959 Speaker 2: You're gonna be so good. 1268 00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:03,520 Speaker 1: We all we all know you talk super fast? Do 1269 00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:07,400 Speaker 1: I recording media? You you go, So let me tell 1270 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:08,200 Speaker 1: you something. 1271 00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,600 Speaker 4: Like in a way now, I'm like, do you know 1272 00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:14,640 Speaker 4: it's like, oh, you mean in song? 1273 00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,440 Speaker 1: I'm just saying your we know you can get on, 1274 00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:18,080 Speaker 1: you can hit. 1275 00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:19,600 Speaker 2: You can rip. You know what I mean? 1276 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,920 Speaker 4: In that way? Is that like a problems? 1277 00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. Everyone everyone's saying about Charlie's They're like, yeah, she 1278 00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:30,400 Speaker 2: just talks too fast, and I just wish it wasn't 1279 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:31,640 Speaker 2: so fast. I'm just kidding. 1280 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,640 Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying, like, I've heard the album and 1281 00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:35,600 Speaker 1: I know that I know that you can keep up 1282 00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:36,160 Speaker 1: the tempo. 1283 00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:37,160 Speaker 4: I understand. 1284 00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:41,960 Speaker 1: Speaking of tempo, you're ready to fucking do this? Yeah, okay, 1285 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:43,760 Speaker 1: so this is villain yangs. I don't think so, honey. 1286 00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 1: As time starts now, I. 1287 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:48,120 Speaker 2: Don't think so, honey, pubic hair. Why is it looking 1288 00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,720 Speaker 2: different down there than up here? I look like miss 1289 00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:56,240 Speaker 2: Frizzle got ade job. I'm curly, curly, curly, and I 1290 00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,160 Speaker 2: wish I could get a perm up here and make 1291 00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:02,000 Speaker 2: my give my if a little swoop. My pubic hair 1292 01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:03,919 Speaker 2: is so tightly coiled down there, and when you see 1293 01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 2: it on the bathroom floor, you go, oh, I'm that 1294 01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:09,160 Speaker 2: is not something I want to see. And it's if 1295 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,960 Speaker 2: you're living alone like me, it's just you. I don't 1296 01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:15,080 Speaker 2: like how I don't like it. I don't like what 1297 01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,160 Speaker 2: it says about me. I think pubic hair like either 1298 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,880 Speaker 2: when you have it, it's like, oh, let's let's shear it, 1299 01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:23,320 Speaker 2: and then when you don't have it, it's like sheer, Well, 1300 01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:26,560 Speaker 2: now you look like a fucking mole. Rap, there's no 1301 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,240 Speaker 2: in between. Second, why can't we just stay there? And 1302 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,760 Speaker 2: I'm as sure as helling laser removing it, because it's 1303 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 2: like because like I said, if it's gone, it looks 1304 01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:37,120 Speaker 2: even crazier than if it is. A five seconds so 1305 01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:40,920 Speaker 2: it's a jungle and I have a really crazy situation. 1306 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 2: I don't know why it's different down there. It's in 1307 01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:44,480 Speaker 2: body hair all supposed to be the same. And that's 1308 01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:44,959 Speaker 2: one minute. 1309 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:48,400 Speaker 1: You're the only person I believe in history to say 1310 01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:52,080 Speaker 1: you wish what was down there, You wish your pubic 1311 01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:53,240 Speaker 1: hair was on your head. 1312 01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:55,920 Speaker 2: I just wanted to go both ways. If my hair 1313 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:58,240 Speaker 2: on my head looked pubic, I'd be like, well, at 1314 01:00:58,320 --> 01:00:59,680 Speaker 2: least it's consistent. 1315 01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:03,720 Speaker 1: This is so shocking, first of all, laser hair removal 1316 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:07,240 Speaker 1: on your pubic area and asshole, maybe. 1317 01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:07,720 Speaker 2: Some people do it. 1318 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 1: The guys I've been hooking up with lately don't seem 1319 01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,760 Speaker 1: to care at all about maintaining it down there, or 1320 01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:15,320 Speaker 1: maybe they just think they don't care what I think. Yeah, 1321 01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:17,360 Speaker 1: I think it has been so wild and free as 1322 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:19,880 Speaker 1: I no matter your gender, it's like there is not 1323 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:22,320 Speaker 1: a great way to manage it, like period. Well maybe 1324 01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:24,280 Speaker 1: it's also because I'm hooking up with like men that 1325 01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:26,240 Speaker 1: are my age in their thirties and not like just 1326 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,400 Speaker 1: giving up. This isn't like when you're in fresh in 1327 01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,080 Speaker 1: your twenties and everyone thinks like, oh, I should like 1328 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,840 Speaker 1: manscape or whatever, or like really keep it clean down there. 1329 01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:36,600 Speaker 1: It's like give it a rest, girl, Like we're all 1330 01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 1: just trying to live life. 1331 01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,160 Speaker 2: When no one cares that you're a hairy one. No 1332 01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:40,680 Speaker 2: one cares. 1333 01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:42,680 Speaker 1: But I bet your pubic hair is thrilling. 1334 01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:43,960 Speaker 2: It's freshly shorn. 1335 01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,280 Speaker 1: Oh, why you have plans later? 1336 01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,440 Speaker 2: No, I just it was getting out of hand and 1337 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,760 Speaker 2: I am in that liminal space now where I'm like, 1338 01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:56,400 Speaker 2: this sucks. Okay. No, I'm actually okay, I'm moisturizing. 1339 01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:59,120 Speaker 4: Cool down there. 1340 01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:01,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I guess I should use I should try 1341 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:12,240 Speaker 1: my purple shampoo from my blonde Yeah, get blonde. 1342 01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:15,280 Speaker 4: Don My heart just skipped me. 1343 01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:17,280 Speaker 1: Something. 1344 01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:20,560 Speaker 2: You're just speak the truth. This is Charlie Xx's I 1345 01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,040 Speaker 2: don't think that one of your time starts now. 1346 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:23,760 Speaker 4: Okay, I don't think so, honey. 1347 01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:27,720 Speaker 3: I'm actually coming for a group of people, these people 1348 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:33,040 Speaker 3: who have this stuck up I roll the attitude towards 1349 01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:34,320 Speaker 3: reality TV. 1350 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,560 Speaker 4: You know what I mean. Back to the beginning of 1351 01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:39,880 Speaker 4: our conversation, what is not to love? 1352 01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:44,760 Speaker 3: I feel like there is such a high low conundrum 1353 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:47,000 Speaker 3: to reality TV that just makes me want to sink 1354 01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 3: my teeth in. Whether it be our favorite Housewives for 1355 01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:55,600 Speaker 3: Salt Lake City, Potomac also Miami also heard it's pretty good, 1356 01:02:55,920 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 3: but also what about some other amazing shows below? Down 1357 01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:06,400 Speaker 3: under below Decks Sailing Yard, below Mediterranean Love Island, Australia. 1358 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 3: British heard the US wasn't that good. But anyway, I 1359 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:13,480 Speaker 3: just think that there is such a psychology, such a wonderful, 1360 01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,800 Speaker 3: amazing world to delve into. In reality TV. It's like 1361 01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:20,160 Speaker 3: the factory. It's absolutely fabulous. Just keep it coming and 1362 01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:20,960 Speaker 3: don't judge. 1363 01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:25,000 Speaker 1: It and and you I don't think so, honey. 1364 01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:28,480 Speaker 2: The world there reality TV is not trash. 1365 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:34,560 Speaker 4: It's not trash. It's usual. Sweat during that, Oh my god, 1366 01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:35,760 Speaker 4: I was like sweated. 1367 01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:36,800 Speaker 2: And look, but that's like a good sign like we have. 1368 01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:43,920 Speaker 2: I'm just like we had a clear void come in recently. 1369 01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:46,400 Speaker 2: And he when he sweats, he means it's the spirit movie. 1370 01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,480 Speaker 2: It's like energy is moving through. That's what's happened. 1371 01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:48,960 Speaker 4: Amazing. 1372 01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:53,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you should watch Couple's Therapy. Oh so good with. 1373 01:03:58,520 --> 01:03:59,880 Speaker 4: She is the sex. 1374 01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,920 Speaker 2: She's so sexy, isn't do you just want. 1375 01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 3: To be here? 1376 01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:06,680 Speaker 2: And what just happened here? I love just the tiny 1377 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:10,680 Speaker 2: little what and what's and what was? She's like talk 1378 01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:13,240 Speaker 2: about this, She's amazing. I'm so glad you watched her. 1379 01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:15,880 Speaker 4: I love her. I think her fashion is incredible. 1380 01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:19,440 Speaker 3: It just thinks she's cheat her apartment's really cool. 1381 01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:22,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, have you gotten to the lockdown stuff yet where 1382 01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:24,800 Speaker 2: they bring the cameras into her apartment because she's doing 1383 01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:26,800 Speaker 2: all of it through like her so that you see 1384 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:28,440 Speaker 2: her apartment and it's like kind of messy in a 1385 01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:31,000 Speaker 2: very charming way. She's got all he kids running around. 1386 01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:34,160 Speaker 4: She how many kisses does she happen to? I think 1387 01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 4: she's so fast. 1388 01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:37,440 Speaker 2: What I love is when she speaks to her therapist 1389 01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:47,200 Speaker 2: a real yeah, Virginia, Virginia, she's fr she's she's a 1390 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 2: real super sar. But you finished it all the way through, 1391 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,000 Speaker 2: there's like, I mean, whatever, we want to talk about it. 1392 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:54,960 Speaker 2: There's a really Palestinian queer couple that's amazing. And then 1393 01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:56,840 Speaker 2: like and then Orner's like when she finds out that 1394 01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,240 Speaker 2: one of them is Palestini and she goes, you know, 1395 01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,160 Speaker 2: I'm from Israel, right, and then like or like blest 1396 01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:05,440 Speaker 2: like is like on socials being like this is crazy. 1397 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 2: Yeah wait, but you should watch it all the way through. 1398 01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:10,680 Speaker 3: You would fucking love it. 1399 01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:12,880 Speaker 2: But that's between like that's not quite reality. It's not 1400 01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:15,040 Speaker 2: quite documentary. Right. It's like they know they're being filmed, 1401 01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:15,960 Speaker 2: but they can't see the cameras. 1402 01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:18,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think they've done that shut by the way. 1403 01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:19,880 Speaker 3: I have no idea how long we have left, but 1404 01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:22,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, please, we could do a whole episode on this. 1405 01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 4: I feel like they've shot that show. 1406 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:29,840 Speaker 3: In a retasteful way, yes, and I hope it never changes. 1407 01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:31,200 Speaker 1: You know what, you want to know what it is. 1408 01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:34,240 Speaker 1: It's like you can tell that well, obviously it's all 1409 01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:36,600 Speaker 1: hit and that's like part of it, but it's still 1410 01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 1: really elevated the way they shoot it. And I just 1411 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,400 Speaker 1: what I love is that they seem to catch micro 1412 01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 1: emotions like it's really like intentionally edited, and I believe 1413 01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:49,920 Speaker 1: it's like really smartly done through her lens. Yeah, because 1414 01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 1: we're making a joke about like what was that? But 1415 01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:55,000 Speaker 1: we saw it too, yea, you know what I mean. 1416 01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:58,080 Speaker 1: And also it has to be so crazy, like to 1417 01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:00,600 Speaker 1: be in those sessions and then watch it after because 1418 01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:04,400 Speaker 1: it's also an edited version of that session. You think 1419 01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,160 Speaker 1: that would also maybe give you a little bit of 1420 01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 1: a complex like why am I being edited this way 1421 01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:11,520 Speaker 1: and not that way? Like I can't understand saying yes 1422 01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:14,160 Speaker 1: to that, but I'm so thrilled that people do me too. 1423 01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:18,440 Speaker 4: Do you have a favorite couple or most like. 1424 01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 1: The young Queer couple, Like they were really young and 1425 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,360 Speaker 1: they had been in a relationship for like three years 1426 01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,840 Speaker 1: sort of formatively, and one of them wanted to be 1427 01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:28,920 Speaker 1: in an open relationship and the other did not or 1428 01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:32,000 Speaker 1: was adjusting to that. And I think ultimately what they 1429 01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 1: had to really figure out and admit to each other 1430 01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:34,960 Speaker 1: was that they were. 1431 01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:35,720 Speaker 2: Not right for each other. 1432 01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 1: And watching that play out was heartbreaking, and I just 1433 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:42,400 Speaker 1: hope that they could still figure it out to be 1434 01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,360 Speaker 1: in each other's lives, because that's I think the hardest 1435 01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:46,720 Speaker 1: thing about when a relationship ends is it's like I 1436 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:48,840 Speaker 1: don't want to lose you as the person. 1437 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 2: You know, like that. 1438 01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:52,400 Speaker 1: And I thought that was just like a beautiful illustration 1439 01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:56,240 Speaker 1: and like you know, examination of that kind of thing, 1440 01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,480 Speaker 1: like I love you more than anything. 1441 01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:01,520 Speaker 2: This is not right. Yeah, do you have a favorite? 1442 01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:06,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? Mine? Also season one, it was the kind of 1443 01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:12,120 Speaker 4: like very sort of set in his ways, quite sexy 1444 01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:13,680 Speaker 4: you're talking about. 1445 01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:16,920 Speaker 3: Man and the woman who was sort of willing to 1446 01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:20,840 Speaker 3: try anything, and he was just he would like get 1447 01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:24,080 Speaker 3: up during the session and walk around and he was 1448 01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:26,760 Speaker 3: just like being like very controlling. 1449 01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:30,520 Speaker 2: But history is his story was so wild, like like 1450 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:32,640 Speaker 2: that woman like fucked him when he was like fourteen, 1451 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:33,520 Speaker 2: tied into a. 1452 01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:35,919 Speaker 4: Bed and yeah, so the way it came out again 1453 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:37,280 Speaker 4: could be the edit. We don't know. 1454 01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:39,240 Speaker 3: It was just sort of like they'd done like four 1455 01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:42,280 Speaker 3: or five sessions. Yeah, nothing was really like going anywhere. 1456 01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:43,560 Speaker 3: And then one day he's. 1457 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:45,920 Speaker 4: Just like, well, you know there was that time where 1458 01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:49,320 Speaker 4: I got tied to a bed. I like all, I 1459 01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:55,440 Speaker 4: was like what really, Yeah, it's just like he just 1460 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:57,160 Speaker 4: like throws it in out of nowhere. 1461 01:07:57,320 --> 01:08:00,520 Speaker 2: Yeah that's real though, that's the real therapy. Shit. Yeah, 1462 01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:03,080 Speaker 2: there's no like easing into it. Sometimes it just kind 1463 01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:03,720 Speaker 2: of drop it. 1464 01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,920 Speaker 1: Well, you get the sense that he either was just 1465 01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:11,000 Speaker 1: as stubborn controlling with like releasing that information as he 1466 01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,320 Speaker 1: is in the immediate thing, or I think some guys 1467 01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:16,360 Speaker 1: that are like that just don't understand that it has 1468 01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:17,320 Speaker 1: affected them in that way. 1469 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,719 Speaker 3: I mean, who knows, But I was under the impression 1470 01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:21,519 Speaker 3: that maybe he just. 1471 01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:24,040 Speaker 1: Like wasn't there. Yeah. 1472 01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:26,080 Speaker 3: But then the thing that was really interesting about them 1473 01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:31,240 Speaker 3: was then Awna would go and speak to her therapist 1474 01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:35,599 Speaker 3: about how she was getting very triggered specifically by him, 1475 01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:40,960 Speaker 3: and that was like at this extra dynamic that was 1476 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,519 Speaker 3: really interesting, and she was kind of talking about how 1477 01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:46,400 Speaker 3: she needed to make sure she was providing like fair 1478 01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:49,719 Speaker 3: and equal counsel, but she was like so annoyed by him. 1479 01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:54,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is interesting. I think there's multiple people like this, 1480 01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:55,600 Speaker 2: Like he's one of the people who says her, I 1481 01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:58,320 Speaker 2: could do your job. Yeah, I really I couldn't believe 1482 01:08:58,360 --> 01:09:01,040 Speaker 2: that that was Can you mentioned the gall Do you 1483 01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:04,320 Speaker 2: have a favorite couple? I I like, there's a couple 1484 01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:07,439 Speaker 2: of season two that's really great. It's two men. One 1485 01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:09,240 Speaker 2: of them is a ballet dancer. One of them, Oh, 1486 01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:10,880 Speaker 2: they were great. They were great, and then one of 1487 01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,920 Speaker 2: them like had a really harroring journey with like sobriety, 1488 01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,719 Speaker 2: and then then the pandemic happened. Then the pandemic happened. 1489 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,080 Speaker 2: And then there's this one couple. There's a problem couple 1490 01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,720 Speaker 2: of season three, and she order talks to Virginia and 1491 01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:23,160 Speaker 2: she talks to a peer group of other therapists and 1492 01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,759 Speaker 2: all of them like help her crack this one couple 1493 01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 2: because it's she had to watches like I don't know 1494 01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:30,360 Speaker 2: because the guy was stone walling, and there's there's such 1495 01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,240 Speaker 2: a sensational clip of her, like they play at the 1496 01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:33,800 Speaker 2: beginning of the season where she she just like yep, 1497 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,040 Speaker 2: they're screaming and she goes mastop. You guys, right now, 1498 01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:38,640 Speaker 2: I'm not the right therapist for you. And then you're like, 1499 01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:40,760 Speaker 2: you're like, how does it get there? How does it 1500 01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:42,680 Speaker 2: get there? And watch you watch it and. 1501 01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:46,280 Speaker 1: Great, there was a great couple that was she was 1502 01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:49,479 Speaker 1: a dancer in The Lion King, yes, and and it's 1503 01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:52,519 Speaker 1: like she was like she was always busy at night, 1504 01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:54,479 Speaker 1: and so she could never have dinner with the family 1505 01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:55,840 Speaker 1: and her kids, and like it was like a thing. 1506 01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:57,439 Speaker 1: He's like, well, you're never home for dinner. It's like, 1507 01:09:57,479 --> 01:09:59,639 Speaker 1: I'm in the Lion King. And you knew this when 1508 01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:05,519 Speaker 1: you marry me, because she went the Lion King for 1509 01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:12,600 Speaker 1: as long as the earth has been I know, security, 1510 01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:15,840 Speaker 1: are you a therapy icon? Who are you a therapy icon? 1511 01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:17,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1512 01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:19,360 Speaker 4: I meant the Lion King being what a job. 1513 01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:25,880 Speaker 1: But honestly, I can't believe I was never not in it. 1514 01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 1: I can't believe I was ever No, I can't believe 1515 01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:31,240 Speaker 1: I was ever not in it because. 1516 01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:35,400 Speaker 3: I love it being therapy Again, the King, I was like, lying. 1517 01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:37,240 Speaker 1: I don't think there's many roles for me in the 1518 01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:39,639 Speaker 1: Lion King on Broadway. But I would love to help 1519 01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:43,920 Speaker 1: out you ushering, but no, therapy is great. 1520 01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,840 Speaker 2: Therapy is great, speaking of great, speaking of great, the 1521 01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:51,080 Speaker 2: album is fucking sublime. Yeah, good for you, and I'm 1522 01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:53,000 Speaker 2: glad you responded. Seems like you responded positively when I 1523 01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:54,559 Speaker 2: when I made a comparison the XX world. 1524 01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:56,160 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, totally. 1525 01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:02,200 Speaker 3: Of course you're right, and I'm I think, yeah, you 1526 01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:03,320 Speaker 3: nailed it, youmailed it. 1527 01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:06,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, fucking good. We love you, Charlie. 1528 01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:07,240 Speaker 4: I love you. 1529 01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:11,400 Speaker 1: But everything you do. Course it's pretty fun. 1530 01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,720 Speaker 2: What the end every episode with the. 1531 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:15,400 Speaker 1: Song I'm Breaking? 1532 01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:15,880 Speaker 3: Ever? 1533 01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:21,160 Speaker 1: Wait, why do I love all your bells? You know 1534 01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:21,559 Speaker 1: what I love? 1535 01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:22,120 Speaker 2: Official? 1536 01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,600 Speaker 4: Official? 1537 01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:29,960 Speaker 1: Official Official reminds me of Jared's first He was my boyfriend, 1538 01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:32,240 Speaker 1: he's my best friend. We figured it out in the 1539 01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,439 Speaker 1: way that I hope that couple therapy couple did. 1540 01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:37,599 Speaker 2: But official was like, that was the song WHOA. 1541 01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:39,200 Speaker 1: Like the little things are happening that makes me 1542 01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:44,040 Speaker 2: Writing the things that go to make us Official