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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO with our Chief

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Speaker 1: Love Officer Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Keela from Saint Paul says, my husband lies when the

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Speaker 1: truth will do. He is not a convincing liar, so

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Speaker 1: all I have to do is keep questioning him and

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Speaker 1: he ends up telling the truth. Why do most men

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Speaker 1: think their wives can't handle the truth? I believe in

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Speaker 1: being honest at all times. But you got.

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Speaker 2: Well fix this. I believe I can fly. Thanks, you

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: But I ain't jumped. Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I mean cool, Now, I got what you're saying. Now

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Speaker 3: listen to me, Oh you do? Why do most me

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Speaker 3: and live? First of all, let's understand something. Let's get

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Speaker 3: this cleared up. Women lie too, That's true, so it's

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Speaker 3: not no. Why do all me and lie real me

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Speaker 3: and lie for protection purposes, to protect your emotions from

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Speaker 3: what we think will create a bad feeling in you?

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Speaker 2: Now feel I can handle the truth?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, you may be able to handle the truth,

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Speaker 3: and most women can handle the truth, But in getting

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Speaker 3: to the point of handling it, there is a there

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Speaker 3: is a period in there where the reaction to the

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Speaker 3: truth is what we don't want.

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Speaker 2: That's what you don't like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, See, it ain't the fact that we don't think

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Speaker 3: you can handle the truth.

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Speaker 2: It's just we just think that your reaction.

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Speaker 3: To the truth is gonna put us in a position

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Speaker 3: that we don't really want to be in.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. Yeah, they don't want to call it.

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Speaker 2: That's all it is.

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Speaker 3: It's protection a lot of times too. This is for you.

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Speaker 3: The understand that part right there lies for you.

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Speaker 1: It's for you.

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, okay, all right, all right, all right, let

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Speaker 3: me be fair. It depends on what the lie is.

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Speaker 1: Some lives, it's got conditions to.

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Speaker 3: Some lives are necessary, some lives are not necessary.

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Speaker 2: I'll give you a necessary lie. Okay, your wife, get

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Speaker 2: dressed and come out and say what you think.

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Speaker 3: M That ain't the time for the truth, and it's

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Speaker 3: necessary in the time for What you got to do

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Speaker 3: is compliment that outfit. So y'all can get out of

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Speaker 3: this house and go where y'all going, because if you don't,

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Speaker 3: she can't go back in there. We're already late. That

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Speaker 3: becomes a necessary lie. Second necessary lie, I'm going over here,

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Speaker 3: but you don't go over there. You go somewhere else.

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Speaker 3: Then you come home and the wife said where you

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Speaker 3: being and then you tell her what you told her

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Speaker 3: you was going. But she done find out different. And

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Speaker 3: now here she come. You wasn't at Ernie's house because

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Speaker 3: Ernie came over here looking for you.

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Speaker 2: Ernie, come over here, Finn. Now we got life three sixty.

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Speaker 2: We could track it now, So yeah, you come up

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Speaker 2: with something else with that. You and Ernie. Now you

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Speaker 2: got to come up with the lie because I see

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Speaker 2: your phone. I did say I was going over ernie house,

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Speaker 2: but that's not what this absence you are. So I

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Speaker 2: went down to the pool hall. I can see where

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Speaker 2: you went. Okay, well that's what I went. I just

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Speaker 2: wanted to go down there and chill.

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Speaker 3: Well, I thought about going to ernie house, but then

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Speaker 3: I ain't want to be bothered with Ernie. But that's why.

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Speaker 3: So Ernie came over here. That's where Ernie came over

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Speaker 3: here looking for me.

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Speaker 2: Fix it, fix it.

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Speaker 1: Question, Hirley frustrated, Ernie, ain't your boy more?

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Speaker 2: Ernie just gonna go over to the house, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Tererika and Huntsville, Terreka says, my daughter

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Speaker 1: woke up and chose violence. She threw a shoe at

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Speaker 1: me when I told her to stop hitting our dogs.

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Speaker 1: I pointed my finger at her and yelled at no,

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Speaker 1: she's only three, but she told her daddy on me.

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Speaker 1: He went, He said, I went too far? Was I

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Speaker 1: too rough on her?

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Speaker 2: Three years old?

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Speaker 3: You had this baby, yes, right, yes, the one you

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Speaker 3: made Carrie for note.

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Speaker 2: Chose violence and threw a shoe at you.

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Speaker 3: Do you know how much you I would have had

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Speaker 3: to tell my daddy.

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Speaker 2: When he got home. One of the main things is

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Speaker 2: my daddy would want to know where the shoe is.

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Speaker 3: And then that's why I would require medical attention so

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Speaker 3: we can go get this shoe out, because that one

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Speaker 3: would have happened to me. I chose violence and my mama.

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Speaker 3: But see y'all new now, So y'all doing this new

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Speaker 3: form of reason. You're letting your chief children decide, and

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Speaker 3: you're letting you and yeah, and when it got to

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Speaker 3: the point where children are deciding.

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Speaker 2: Too much stuff, Yeah, we got some of us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So no, I ain't no, and and and your

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Speaker 3: husband in here talking about siding with her and all

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Speaker 3: that help.

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Speaker 2: I'll fixate you. But you're the woman at the house.

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Speaker 2: You could fix all that.

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Speaker 3: She won't tell nothing else, and your husband ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: question you about nothing else.

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Speaker 2: Handle it like you posed to you the queen of

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Speaker 2: the castle. Come on, we got our ass whipped at three?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: At three? What you mean she chose by right? No? No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: no three, We chose by right right?

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Veronica and Calu met, Veronica writes, my

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Speaker 1: husband and I have sex in a car on our

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Speaker 1: lunch break for fun. My boss whose females said that

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Speaker 1: my hair was mashed up in the back and my

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Speaker 1: clothes were wrinkled.

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Speaker 2: Today when I went back in the office.

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Speaker 1: Is she on to me?

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Speaker 2: Or was she hated?

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Speaker 1: Hayden, Yeah she was because.

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Speaker 3: Your boss told you your hair messed up and your

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Speaker 3: clothes wrinkled in the back. That it could be both, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but but it sounded like I hate get your act

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Speaker 3: together suggestion.

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Speaker 2: To me least your husband.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm cool, but you do know your hair messed

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Speaker 3: up and your clothes is wrinkled in the back.

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Speaker 2: Now, your boss ain't the only one see.

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Speaker 1: That good point?

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Speaker 2: So is she on to you or is she hating?

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Speaker 3: Could it be she trying to help you out because

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Speaker 3: she didn't say nothing to you. Just say, hey, you

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Speaker 3: know your hair messed up in the back and your

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Speaker 3: clothes is ring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, get all that together. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're a damn food Yeah at your black job.

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Speaker 2: But now here she is. Is she owned to me?

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Speaker 2: Or is she hate? Yeah, she doesn't get it. A

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Speaker 2: lady tied dog. It's ignorant.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, come on, get it together.

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Speaker 3: Messed up they cleaning up in that par i. Ain't

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Speaker 3: gonna clean it up, but they may.

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Speaker 1: They ain't got a cleaning all right, coming up at

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Speaker 1: the top

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Speaker 2: Of this, mister jeremerphobic, understand that you feel of