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Speaker 1: The s up, Y'all's your girl LEXP and it's your

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor mind where a drunk Mine

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Speaker 1: speaks sober thought. We gotta guess today, We gotta guess sday.

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Speaker 1: So y'all know, I feel like every time a guest

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Speaker 1: comes on, I have a story. Of course, I always

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Speaker 1: am just like so happy because i feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: having my full circle moment a lot. So I'm very

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Speaker 1: very excited to have you on the show today because

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Speaker 1: you may not know this, but I have literally followed

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Speaker 1: your career from like the beginning of time. So to

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Speaker 1: have you here today, I'm like, so whole, the whole. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I go way back, way back. So we got van

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Speaker 1: Light then on the show today.

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Speaker 4: Glad for yourself.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us.

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Speaker 4: The problem Man.

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Speaker 5: I like your podcast. I'm happy to be here.

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Speaker 1: I do you like getting the TDN?

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Speaker 5: Why am I getting the TV?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: You do, because you Missy.

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Speaker 4: I come from a te background, and I also just

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Speaker 4: like to see people doing shit that they're good at.

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Speaker 3: Yright you think, thank you. You know, we trial, we

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Speaker 3: do what we here.

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Speaker 1: So the reason I say that is because like when

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Speaker 1: I was in high school, like I really was like okay,

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Speaker 1: I think I like, you know, doing stuff like on camera,

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Speaker 1: that's when I really started like, okay, maybe I'm a

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Speaker 1: little good at this, a little bit low key. And

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Speaker 1: that's when I started like watching TMZ and stuff. And

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Speaker 1: that's when I like Discovery like you and Nina Parker, Like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm obsessed with Nina Parker. I've been

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Speaker 1: obsessed with both, yes, like I have. Literally, like I

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Cause like it was like E News,

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Speaker 1: but it was like Juliana Rian sick, you know people.

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Speaker 1: So to see y'all on these platforms, I was always

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Speaker 1: So talk about that early journey of like how you

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean Nina's Nina's a little bit different. Her

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Speaker 4: background was in that. Yeah, mine really wasn't. I left

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Speaker 3: I heard booze.

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Speaker 4: And so my ship was kind of like an accident,

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Speaker 1: But I.

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Speaker 4: Was on unemployment. I've been working for for a company

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Speaker 4: I was on unemployment and I fucked up my unemployment.

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Speaker 4: I did how so long story short, because you know,

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Speaker 4: Like, nigga, you stupid as well. Yeah, I got unemployment before, right,

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Speaker 1: Every day because when I saw you, you're so well spoken,

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Speaker 1: Okay, So were you grateful for your experience at TMZ though?

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Speaker 5: So TMZ was nothing.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it launched my career, but I mean obviously

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Speaker 2: Mean, well yeah obviously. And then you know we go

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Speaker 4: Which is what I don't know what you're talking about. You

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Speaker 1: So I know you talk about this a lot, but

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Speaker 3: But we got to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: It's part of your history.

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Speaker 1: Well honestly, but I want to ask you about it

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Speaker 1: of all, you have the read of a housewife.

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Speaker 4: It was the read of a house.

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Speaker 1: You was. That was a nest be real quiet since

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Speaker 1: you did that is the mom you were because you

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Speaker 4: Ain't seen no next twist?

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Speaker 1: Was getting okay? So that was a nasty, nasty read.

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Speaker 1: So in that moment, because I want to talk about

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna let my nuts drop on key? Like what

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Speaker 3: And then with certain people in the industry too.

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Speaker 2: I think, you know, people just don't want to like

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Speaker 5: We talk more directly.

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Speaker 4: We speak more directly, We say what the fun we

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Speaker 5: But I mean, the easy answer.

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Speaker 4: And for me at that point, if you ask me

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Speaker 4: Like said this before, but people don't understand how paralyzing

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Speaker 1: How to say. I said, I call it blind because

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Speaker 1: say nothing because of who they are, and so they think, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Right, And so it's like, also, remember I don't want

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Speaker 4: I get why people might not want to keep it

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Speaker 5: Okay that the Harvey fake cried.

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Speaker 4: Like how far can you go? There? So I'm already

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Speaker 4: Kanye thing, I made a video posting about him, and

437
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 4: I linked him in the video, so people could go

438
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Speaker 4: see somebody who is actually a hero, Like you're not

439
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 4: a hero because you talk some shit to a rapper

440
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 4: just doesn't really matter in a grand scheme of things.

441
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 4: I know how it moves people, but it's not that

442
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 4: big of a deal. This dude is a guy who

443
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:31,120
Speaker 4: every single day devotes his life to making black boys safe,

444
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,440
Speaker 4: to making them whole, to making them feel like men,

445
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,119
Speaker 4: and making them good parts of their community. So I

446
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 4: did that, and I intentionally didn't go the route of

447
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 4: trying to capitalize off the Kanye moment. I had to

448
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 4: get back to being me. I had to be stupid.

449
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 4: I had to talk about porn. I had to do

450
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,199
Speaker 4: all of this stuff. I had to let people I

451
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 4: don't ever want to be the nigga that everybody is like,

452
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,800
Speaker 4: they're surprised when I fall.

453
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Speaker 5: Like this is not for me. It's not like I

454
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 5: don't want to be the person.

455
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 4: That everybody goes, oh shit, we thought Van was one

456
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 4: of the good ones. I'm not one of the good ones, Like, oh,

457
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 4: I know, I'm not one of the good ones. I'm

458
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,359
Speaker 4: I'm a nigga that sometimes you agree with. I'm not

459
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Speaker 4: one of the good ones. I'm not one of the

460
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Speaker 4: holy ones. I'm not one of the ones that you

461
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Speaker 4: want your kids to be like, I'm just not well.

462
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Speaker 2: I feel like you always have to be careful with

463
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 2: viral moments anyways, because it's like if you're known for that,

464
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 2: then what happens when you can't keep recreating.

465
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Speaker 1: One that moment? I don't want to live up And

466
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Speaker 1: I think that's.

467
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Speaker 3: What happens with a lot of people.

468
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Speaker 2: It's like people have a viral moment, but then after that,

469
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 2: it's like they have no career. Well, one thing you've

470
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Speaker 2: really been able to do is like you've still had

471
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Speaker 2: a very successful career even after that.

472
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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you being yourself interesting.

473
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Speaker 1: But I feel like that's because this is one thing

474
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: that's missing from a lot of this content. And we

475
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 1: say this all the time. Lot of y'all just are

476
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Speaker 1: not interesting. And I think you're an interesting person and

477
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 1: you always have things to say that people want to hear.

478
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 1: You know, you don't have to be the smartest person

479
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: in the room, the finest person in the room, whatever,

480
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 1: but when people are tapped into you because you're an

481
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Speaker 1: interesting person outside of that. Because I wanted to touch

482
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Speaker 1: on this because we recently went viral. We need and

483
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 1: we have not addressed this. You know, we had as

484
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Speaker 1: we had a guess and she came and she sat

485
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Speaker 1: on the couch and she said, if you made fifty

486
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year, you do not need to date. Obviously, y'all.

487
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Speaker 1: If y'all are tuned in, y'all seen the clip. It

488
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 1: has been everywhere.

489
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Speaker 3: We literally every everywhere.

490
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Speaker 1: We were on the news station in Washington, d C.

491
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Speaker 1: Sherry Shepherd talked about nation, this nation.

492
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Speaker 4: My mama sent me the clip.

493
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So let me ask you this. When you

494
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Speaker 1: saw that clip, what was your first thought? Yeah, I

495
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 1: felt sad for you felt sad for her.

496
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Speaker 3: Why did you feel.

497
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Speaker 4: Sad for because that's a future ex wife that like,

498
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Speaker 4: I mean, just I feel sad period when I hear

499
00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:59,360
Speaker 4: stuff like that. Let me tell you why.

500
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Speaker 1: Okay, let me let me.

501
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 4: Tell you why. Okay, I'm gonna be a little verbose here,

502
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 4: so give me some latitude.

503
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 5: So, what's the first thing that you learn in life?

504
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 5: If it's if your life is.

505
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,879
Speaker 1: Stable, Well, the first thing I learned. I don't know

506
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: if this is where're getting at, but I learned the

507
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: golden rule. How you want to be treated? That's what

508
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 1: I learned.

509
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 4: You learned a lesson before that. What love?

510
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 5: Okay, it's the first thing that you learn.

511
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 4: Right, So you so, so you're you're a baby, hopefully

512
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 4: for people.

513
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 5: Right, you're a baby.

514
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 4: You're crying, you're screaming, you just dropped on to the earth.

515
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 4: You don't know what's going on. The lights are everywhere,

516
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 4: it's doctors, whatever, whatever. And the first thing that somebody

517
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 4: does to you is goes, it's okay. The first thing

518
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 4: someone goes, it's okay, okay, like like like so someone goes.

519
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 4: If you're lucky, someone goes. If you're lucky. If you're lucky,

520
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 4: someone goes if you're lucky. The way it's supposed to

521
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 4: be the bare rock of society is you're crying. You know,

522
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 4: someone goes, it's okay, pulls you to the thing love

523
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 4: that shoulderience that should be your first experience. That is

524
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 4: telling you right there, like a pro evolutionary trait of

525
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 4: society is that love and care and connection that you

526
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 4: deserve that just by being on earth as a human being,

527
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 4: you deserve love, you deserve care, you deserve connection. It's

528
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 4: not something that you have to qualify for. Is something

529
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 4: that you find everybody. Everybody deserves love. That is like

530
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 4: not a concept. That's a fundamental building block of society

531
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 4: because if you don't have that right, even an animal,

532
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 4: like in order for us to propagate our species, you

533
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 4: have to.

534
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 5: Care for one another. You have to care for people.

535
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 5: So you get to a.

536
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 4: Point, right the whole time you're you're crying, you're if

537
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 4: you come from a loving home, someone is figuring out

538
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 4: how they're going to love on you. Right. Then you

539
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 4: get to a certain point in your life and someone

540
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 4: tells you you don't deserve love. You have to go

541
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 4: earn it, and so and so this is and so

542
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 4: this is my thing. Let's say that we do that, right,

543
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 4: Let's say that we take it that way. No one

544
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 4: deserves love. You have to earn love. The question is,

545
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,239
Speaker 4: and how do you do it? Like what do you

546
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 4: have to do? Because when you put a price tag

547
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 4: on someone's happiness and someone's connection with somebody else, you're

548
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 4: letting capitalism, particularly Western European you're a peeing capitalism deno

549
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 4: whether or not someone can be happy fifty thousand in

550
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 4: white man's dollars, Like in a white man's society, that's

551
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 4: determined by how white people have built this, not how

552
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 4: we look at it, not what we think works for us,

553
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 4: but fifty thousand in goods and services. I see people

554
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 4: all the time, men and women blaa mean and black

555
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 4: women arguing about going to restaurants, going to the cheesecake factory,

556
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 4: going to all of these places. Right, all of these

557
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 4: things are counterintuitive to what people actually need, which is

558
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 4: to feel comfortable, loved and seen and accepted by one another. Now,

559
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that there's no place in order in

560
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 4: terms of security and the things that you need, right,

561
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that there's no place for them. I'm

562
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 4: not saying that patriarchy hasn't made it to a point

563
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 4: to where men do like have a certain standard that

564
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 4: they're being held to. But I'm telling you, any time

565
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 4: you look at someone and you say, if you don't

566
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 4: have this standard of money, if you don't have this

567
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 4: standard of income, of adulation of stature, that you're not

568
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 4: worthy to connect with somebody else.

569
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Speaker 1: But I feel like.

570
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Speaker 2: The only reason we have these conversations is because African

571
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 2: Americans were the only ones who make this a big deal.

572
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 3: It's kind of like with other races, to see your.

573
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 4: Birthright what's your birthright.

574
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Speaker 2: Like as a woman to data men who is going

575
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 2: to take care of you?

576
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 5: Okay, So like if.

577
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 2: You're going to get married, you're gonna get married to

578
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: a man who's gonna take care of you, and that

579
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 2: should be like what it is, or you should not

580
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 2: be with that, nega, because I think with us, we

581
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 2: make it like this bad thing that women want security

582
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 2: and protection, when in other races it's not a bad thing.

583
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 5: It's not a bad thing to want security and protection.

584
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 2: I think too, I think it should have been more

585
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 2: context added to what she said, because because to me,

586
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 2: if you're if you make fifty thousand dollars, you could

587
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: date a girl that make fifty thousand dollars and y'all

588
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,360
Speaker 2: could live like a really comfortable life.

589
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Speaker 5: Probably then let me ask you a question.

590
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Speaker 2: But if you make fifty thousand dollars, no shade, oh lord,

591
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Speaker 2: I probably.

592
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Speaker 3: Ain't gonna date.

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00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: You, okay.

594
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 4: Cool. And by the way, anybody who doesn't want to

595
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 4: date anyone who doesn't make fifty thousand dollars is their

596
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 4: choice this right. So if you date fifty thousand dollars

597
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 4: and then you date the girl that makes fifty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 5: Yes, where does the secure come in a relationship?

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00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: Then what do you mean, where does the security coming in?

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Speaker 4: Well, if everyone is entitled out, well that's my point.

601
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 4: My point is financial security is one aspect of how

602
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 4: somebody makes you feel secure. Because because I know women

603
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 4: right now that are in relationships with guys who are

604
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 4: really rich, and they feel completely insecure because they know

605
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 4: that this guy's fucking a lot of different women. They

606
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 4: know that there's a price for how they feel about that,

607
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 4: and they don't feel secure with how they.

608
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Speaker 5: Look number one.

609
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 4: They don't feel secure with their body like autonomy because

610
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 4: they don't know what's coming back into their body number two.

611
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 4: And they also don't just feel secure in terms of

612
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 4: their family and how they're being looked at from the

613
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Speaker 4: outside world number three. So security is this why thing.

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00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 4: It's a huge spectrum. You have to have financial security

615
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 4: to be an adult, right to be to be an adult,

616
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 4: you need to be able to.

617
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 5: Understand where your next meal is coming from.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna tell anyone man or woman to be

619
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Speaker 4: with somebody that they have to take care of, right,

620
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna tell them to do that, but I

621
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Speaker 4: will say this, like if we start to, particularly for

622
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 4: my sisters, if we start to boil relationships down to

623
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Speaker 4: these very finite things, I feel like women are endeavoring

624
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 4: into a game that they cannot possibly achieve happiness in.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know, I just feel like to go ahead.

655
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, So this is how I felt about

656
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 1: the clip. What got cut out was like I asked

657
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: the question, and if you watch the whole episode, I

658
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: was like, when do we start talking about love? And

659
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: when do we get to such a place where all

660
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 1: we talk about is finances? And I've always been that

661
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: way now, don't get me wrong, but I like people

662
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: who have things. I do a man who can provide.

663
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: I see myself as being with a man who is

664
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: a provider. But I ask, what does dating look like

665
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: for somebody who makes fifty thousand dollars. So this is

666
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: where my problem and my issue came in. And I'll

667
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: say this because one thing about poor minds. We don't

668
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: invite people on this couch to make them feel bad

669
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: for their thoughts, to argue with them. So if this

670
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 1: is how you feel, you know, let she deserves to

671
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: feel that way, because it ain't like she's somebody who's

672
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: not living that lifestyle. She came in here with her man,

673
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: who makes a lot of money and who has supported

674
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: her and you know, upgraded her lifestyle. So this is

675
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: not shade or nothing. But I feel like to say

676
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 1: that people who make fifty thousand dollars a year or

677
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 1: less cannot date. It was crazy to me, and everybody

678
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: in here saw my reaction because I was like, ooh, I.

679
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,479
Speaker 2: Agree with you though, because again I feel like it

680
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 2: needs to be more context added to that statement. But

681
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,479
Speaker 2: my thing is, we're also not gonna sit here and

682
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 2: act like finances don't need to be the most important

683
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: thing in a relationship. But we're not gonna act like

684
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 2: it's not one of the number one reasons why people

685
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: get divorced.

686
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I think it is a reason why

687
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 4: people get divorced. I think stress over finances and finances

688
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 4: people getting divorced with finances can be like for a

689
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 4: lot of different things. For sure, period things. It could

690
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 4: be like it could be debt day income, but it

691
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 4: doesn't even have to be Do you realize, like six,

692
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 4: financial success can ruin a relationship.

693
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 3: Absolutely true.

694
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 4: So like if there was a situation where I was

695
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 4: taking care of everything, or and then this situation where

696
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 4: you're taking care of everything, the stress.

697
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 5: Over what the role in the house is break that.

698
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 4: So your rapport with somebody that you're in a relationship

699
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 4: with is going to have to outlast and be able

700
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 4: to penetrate through a lot of things. Right, It's gonna

701
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 4: be a lot of things that have to do with that.

702
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 4: This is what I don't This is the only thing

703
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:17,760
Speaker 4: that I'm saying. First of all, everybody can date whoever

704
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 4: the fuck they want to date, or whatever the fuck

705
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 4: reasons that they want to date. It don't matter. A

706
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 4: lot of times I would tell my homies this. Remember

707
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 4: I was in college and this girl LSU's coach was

708
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 4: a guy named Nick Saban. Y'all have heard Nick Saban before?

709
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 4: Making sure, Man, I don't know, I don't know what

710
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 4: y'all I don't know what y'all be on. Sometimes they say,

711
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 4: so Nick Saban, right, And we're sitting around, were talking

712
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 4: to these girls and one of the girls goes, she

713
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 4: wants to fuck Nick Saban.

714
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 5: Right. Not Look, let me tell you something.

715
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 4: We sitting down there and were talking to her and

716
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 4: the rest of the guys in the group.

717
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 5: Never forget this man. This girl taught me a lot.

718
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 4: The rest of the guys in the group are lot, Oh,

719
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 4: you want to fuck Nick Saban because she rich? And

720
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 4: she go because he's rich, and she goes, no, She's like,

721
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 4: Nick Saban got something with him, Like he powerful, he's resolute,

722
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 4: he's a leader and all of that. And I thought

723
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 4: about that for a long time. Essentially, there are so

724
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,439
Speaker 4: many traits about a man.

725
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 5: Men are. We're wired so differently.

726
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 4: Like I, you know, I'm you know, I'm at the

727
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 4: Four Seasons earlier, and I see something walking by, I

728
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 4: cannot help, but look, it's just a way, of course,

729
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 4: like and I cannot help, but look, it's just the

730
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 4: way men are.

731
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 5: Like I don't I didn't say, oh wow, what a leader, like.

732
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Like I didn't, you know,

733
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 4: I didn't say what like look how much swag she got.

734
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 5: I didn't.

735
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 7: I didn't.

736
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 4: That's not what it's like. It's like like I'm eating

737
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 4: my salmon. I'm like, oh ship. Then then then I

738
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 4: come back into myself, I go back up to my room,

739
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 4: I call my girl. So so so like it is

740
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 4: it is. It's we're wired differently. When that girl was

741
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 4: talking about the fact that she liked Nick Saban, she

742
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 4: was not lying. She wants to fuck Nick Saban. And

743
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 4: so my point about that is this, I get it.

744
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 4: Having money, having things like things like that are also

745
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 4: genuinely attractive to women.

746
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 5: They're not every woman that says that. It's not like

747
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 5: a goal.

748
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 4: They're genuinely attracted to guys who they feel like offer security.

749
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 4: That's a pro evolutionary trade. When you want to nest,

750
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 4: your nest has to be secure, right. That's what I'm

751
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 4: saying is this is not that I find security attractive.

752
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 4: It's saying you don't qualify for a connection unless you

753
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 4: have this specific thing.

754
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 5: If a man comes on.

755
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 4: This podcast right now and say that if a girl

756
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 4: does not have forty inch hips, she does not deserve

757
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 4: to date, I'm gonna look at him with it in

758
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 4: the same way How can you put an actual stat

759
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 4: on what a woman is able to go out and

760
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 4: find for herself.

761
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 5: If you don't have if you don't have that, ass.

762
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,399
Speaker 4: If you don't have titties, if you don't have this,

763
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 4: if you don't have that, you need to stay your

764
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,919
Speaker 4: ass at home. No, you should go out and try

765
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 4: to find somebody who likes you. That's what being a

766
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 4: human being is like. Go out.

767
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: Niggas do set in them standards. They do, and they're

768
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: wrong the.

769
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 4: World.

770
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: Look, look he said your at.

771
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 4: And this was why I got a punch And that's crazy.

772
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:35,240
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

773
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,800
Speaker 5: And by the way, and this is why, this is why.

774
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 4: This conversation, that is why that is crazy. This is

775
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 4: why out not they probably not yourselves, went through the

776
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Taylor Swift got to punch

777
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 4: old the whole I'm just saying. But like what I'm

778
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 4: saying is we have to be able to call that

779
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 4: out too, because a lot of the brothers, because it's

780
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 4: we know what's expected of us. So a lot of

781
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 4: guys that are in that range probably felt a certain way.

782
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 4: But those same dudes is on Twitter being like, nah, man,

783
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 4: I wouldn't fuck with Zoe Kravitz, she ain't got enough

784
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 4: asks for me, Nigga, you don't have to worry about that,

785
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 4: so like she's not fucking with you, so like chill.

786
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 4: So what I'm saying is this is a conversation not

787
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 4: just to we had both ways. We have to have

788
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 4: a conversation about how we love each other and why

789
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 4: as well.

790
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,959
Speaker 1: But I also think that men need to realize too

791
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: that a lot of women think this way because this

792
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: is a society that men created. Okay, absolutely, for they

793
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: created that. Oh we are providers, you stay home, cook clean.

794
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 2: This is a I don't even think men created this absolutely.

795
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 3: I mean, well no, they did.

796
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: The Bible.

797
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 4: Get us on, we're.

798
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 2: Waiting, I'm saying, So it's not even like men created.

799
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 2: It's like the Bible is telling us God feels this

800
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 2: way like.

801
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: Me and are supposed to be provided. But I mean,

802
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: if we really want to get technical with it, a

803
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 1: man wrote the Bible, so but God gave him so

804
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: he's okay, now I see. Sorry, But anyway, but what

805
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying is I agree with you. But I'm saying though,

806
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 1: like this is a society because according to people God

807
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: is God is a male in the Bible, because it'd

808
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: be saying he with a capital H. So this is

809
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:30,760
Speaker 1: a society that man has created. So a lot of times,

810
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,959
Speaker 1: a lot of men have this negative energy towards women

811
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 1: who feel this way. And I'm not saying I agree

812
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 1: or disagree or whatever, but this is a society that

813
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: man has.

814
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,439
Speaker 4: Created, so I agree. So what we're really talking about

815
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 4: right here is the residual effects of patriarchy, right yes,

816
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 4: And patriarchy which puts men at the top of society

817
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 4: and says that we're supposed to have everything, we're supposed

818
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 4: to do everything, and everything is supposed to revolve around us.

819
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 4: Then that means that we battle amongst each other as

820
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 4: men to see who the strongest one is, and then

821
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 4: the strongest one gets to have the best woman, the

822
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 4: best house, the best car, the best this here's the

823
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 4: thing though, that commodifies women in a very specific way.

824
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 4: If you and we have to talk about this, right

825
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 4: but that that makes a woman ten amount to the house,

826
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 4: to the car, to all of those other things, like

827
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 4: it makes her a pleasure making baby machine and so

828
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 4: and like when you when you look at it that way,

829
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 4: I think the re examination of all of these dynamics

830
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 4: is very necessary. Do you love your girl? Do you

831
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 4: love her? Because let me tell you something quick story.

832
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 4: So back in like ninety nine two thousand, we go

833
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 4: to Galveston. Back we go to Galveston. We go to

834
00:40:58,880 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 4: the Kapa Beach Party.

835
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 5: Way, bab I been on this nasty.

836
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 4: So so we go to the Capita Beach Party. That's

837
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 4: one of that. That's the nastiest week. Hold on, I'll y'all,

838
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 4: I'm older than y'all. The Capita Beach Party, y'all think

839
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 4: that was some nasty as ship. Like we had to

840
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 4: like hid the pictures that we came back with and

841
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 4: how to tape the whole thing is crazy, right, So

842
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 4: we go to the Cappa Beach Party and we were

843
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 4: with these girls and this is when I learned about Atlanta.

844
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 4: Oh lord, because these girls were dancers from Atlanta. This

845
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 4: is what I learned about Atlanta and it was like

846
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 4: a whole new world to me. I remember, I'm talking

847
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 4: to this one girl. It is the first time I

848
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 4: learned that, like niggas will go to the strip club

849
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 4: like on their launch break facts. I remember she was

850
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 4: like I was like, she was like, I work at

851
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 4: the strip club. I worked like twelve to whatever. I

852
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 4: worked to day shift. It was like the day shift

853
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 4: and Van Rus the strip club don't open till six seven. Right,

854
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 4: I worked to day shift. I was like, who come

855
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 4: into the like they come on, they lunch breaks, they

856
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 4: do whatever. Whatever. I remember. She blew my mind. She

857
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 4: was like, yeah, when we're in there, back in the room,

858
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 4: you do whatever you want. She's like, you could like

859
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 4: I'm dancing. You get Jackiet Dick. Just don't get on

860
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 4: none on me. I was like, oh my god, what

861
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 4: is this place called it? Like, I'm like, like, how

862
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 4: do we go there?

863
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 1: Strip club?

864
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 5: I never beat my men and strip club before?

865
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 3: Like he was just like she said.

866
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 5: That you could do that, right.

867
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 4: I didn't know that.

868
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 5: I didn't know that that was a thing now.

869
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 4: So we had this thing because we thought we were

870
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 4: fake ass pimps and players like one the older crew

871
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 4: was called DSP the down South Polos, and then the

872
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,760
Speaker 4: younger crew of us we will play a proof.

873
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 5: That's what we called ourselves. So we was we was we.

874
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 4: Play a proof man. We had a chant in the

875
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 4: club and everything, play a proof. Motherfucker's my dog for show.

876
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 4: I want to hit that bit like so that was

877
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 4: the whole day we was out. No, we didn't have that.

878
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 4: We didn't have that.

879
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 5: And bat Rouge was a dress up spot.

880
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 4: So you go to club Upscale and nightlife, you was

881
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 4: dressing up, you weren't wearing.

882
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 5: I mean, if you went to Bellinoche or some ship.

883
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 4: Like that, But where can you go. I've been to

884
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 4: Bellinoche before. I've been to Belanoche before. Yeah, I've been

885
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 4: to bell Man Dreams, Upscale. Everybody from home right now

886
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 4: going crazy, all of these places across the river, playboys,

887
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 4: all of that ship. But so so we're talking to

888
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:34,800
Speaker 4: these girls and we're having a good time with them.

889
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 4: And one of the girls was just fucking beautiful and

890
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 4: she was smart, she was elegant, she was putting herself

891
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 4: through school, she was dancing, and my boy taste name,

892
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 4: my boy really liked her and he was getting mad.

893
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 5: Because we.

894
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 4: Had us.

895
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 5: So we were young niggas and we had a certain view.

896
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 4: First of all, it was like fuck them, hoh blah

897
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 4: blah blah whatever, like, oh man, we're gonna try to

898
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 4: do this. I remember, I never forget were talking like this.

899
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 4: My nigga goes, hey, bro, I appreciate that ship he

900
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 4: fell in love with and he was he was. I

901
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 4: was like, what he was? Yeah, he was? He was

902
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 4: just like this a bro. I appreciate that ship. I

903
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 4: was like, he goes, hey, man, that's a human.

904
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 5: And we was and we was like.

905
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 4: That, ah, what the fuck are you talking about? Baby?

906
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 5: Like I just you know what I'm saying, because we're having.

907
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 4: Fun with him. She was outside of things. She was

908
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 4: showing the titties the whole. Noah, He's like, that's a human, okay.

909
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 4: Cool fell in love with her. But as the weekend

910
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 4: went on, I kind of understood where he was coming from.

911
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 5: All love with it too. She was she was girl,

912
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 5: she was with him.

913
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,439
Speaker 4: But I started to I started to understand like where

914
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,240
Speaker 4: he was coming from. Like she was cool to be around,

915
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 4: she was fun, she she was smart, she was all

916
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 4: of this. And this is when it crystallizes in my mind.

917
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 4: You never fall in love with titties, an ass, and

918
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 4: a smile. You fall in love with a person. You

919
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 4: fall in love with little weird shit that a person does,

920
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 4: like how they look in the morning, like how they laugh,

921
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 4: like how they smell. You fall in love with a

922
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 4: person and you can't control it, Like you you really

923
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 4: can't control it, like you, like you, like you, you

924
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 4: can't control it.

925
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 5: So what I'm saying is.

926
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 4: What a real connection with a person looks like is

927
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 4: how you penetrate through all the barriers of who they

928
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 4: are to get to what really matters about them. And

929
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 4: what we're doing, because we have so much time and

930
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 4: so much choice, is we're erecting more barriers every single

931
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 4: day that stop you from getting to that, that stop

932
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 4: you from getting to the middle of that, that stop

933
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 4: get that, don't let you get to. All of my niggas,

934
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 4: I don't know any of them that are quite frankly

935
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 4: with the baddest girl I've ever seen them with.

936
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 5: That's just not the way it works.

937
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 4: All of these women are beautiful, but if we're just

938
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 4: talking about physical stuff, most of these guys have done better.

939
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,280
Speaker 5: But they've never done better in spirit.

940
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 4: They've never done better in grace, they've never done better

941
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 4: in elegance, They've never done better in those things that

942
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 4: like don't have a price on them.

943
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: And so I also feel like beauty is subjective too.

944
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:36,919
Speaker 1: So even though like.

945
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 5: All the women are beautiful, well no, I mean.

946
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: Like, because sometimes a person they might not be the

947
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: baddest on paper. But it's like you get to know

948
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,879
Speaker 1: somebody and you break down those barriers and you get

949
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: to what really matters, and this person starts to become

950
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: a superstar to you. You know what, I realize. I

951
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: say this all the time a lot of times women,

952
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: because we go into situations ready. It be most of

953
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 1: the time men you gotta break down. Women, we are

954
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: ready and we are vulnerable. We always be ready to

955
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: fall in love for the most part. I'm not speaking

956
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: for all women, but for the most part. So I

957
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: will say a lot of times, when you get out

958
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: of a relationship, you realize sometimes people really don't be special.

959
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: It's because we highlight them. What made you special was

960
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,879
Speaker 1: because how much I loved you, and then you because

961
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: you're blinded by the love. So I say all that

962
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: to say, when you're dealing with a person, like it

963
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 1: may not be the baddest or the beautiful, but you're

964
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 1: in love with that person, so that person really is

965
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: the baddest.

966
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 5: Well you, That's what I'm basically saying.

967
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, what I'm saying is it's like physical attraction.

968
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 4: All of this stuff, their aspects of who a person is,

969
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 4: right like, and a lot of this choice.

970
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 5: You pick up your phone.

971
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 4: You just you didn't realize that it was this many

972
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 4: flavors of beautiful women. You didn't realize it was this

973
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 4: many different cars. You didn't realize it was this many

974
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 4: places to go in the world. Like I take a

975
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 4: vacation and then I see somebody in the mal thieves

976
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 4: and I'm like, fuck, I should have gone to the

977
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 4: mal thieves, Like you can't. I was in Greece, but like,

978
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 4: I should have gone to the mal thieves. Telling you

979
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 4: another thing is human beings are just not capable of

980
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 4: the amount of choice and information that are going into

981
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 4: their brain.

982
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,320
Speaker 1: That is true. That's true.

983
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 2: So let me ask you to go well, because I

984
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 2: was gonna say I felt like where you was going

985
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 2: with it, because going back to like the fifty thousand

986
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 2: dollars conversation, it's just that, like at the end of

987
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,240
Speaker 2: the day, you fall in love with the small things

988
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 2: about people. So it's like we're losing sight of that.

989
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 2: Does the money really make.

990
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 5: A difference, Well, the money's gonna make a difference.

991
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 4: I'm not.

992
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 3: Look, that's why I though was one.

993
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 5: That is why I'm going so think about it.

994
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 4: Fifty thousand Okay, it's a static unfeeling. It has no heartbeat.

995
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,760
Speaker 4: Fifty thousand at what age? Fifty thousand? For how long

996
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 4: do you make fifty thousand and you're sixty five years old?

997
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 5: The most money you're ever gonna make.

998
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 4: If you're making fifty thousand dollars and you're twenty five,

999
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 4: your money's probably going to go up if you're making it.

1000
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,720
Speaker 4: There's just it's too It takes all.

1001
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 5: The humanity out of it.

1002
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 4: And when you say something like that, it's a bunch

1003
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 4: of niggas that was just getting off at T Mobile

1004
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:13,439
Speaker 4: that was looking at their phone.

1005
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,880
Speaker 1: They were pissed like they were pick.

1006
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 4: Yo, you mean to tell me I can't take somebody

1007
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 4: to the movies, Like we can't go to R and

1008
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 4: B night we be coxing them because you getting too

1009
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 4: So you know what I'm saying, We can't. We can't

1010
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 4: do this because well I'm I'm just starting or there's

1011
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 4: so many different situations and this is what we're doing.

1012
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 4: This is why we're in a spot to where we

1013
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 4: talk about every single thing except how we should be

1014
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 4: loving each other.

1015
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 1: And that's and I guess that's what I was getting

1016
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,799
Speaker 1: at with the viral moment because we were talking about

1017
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 1: that during episode. When are we going to get back

1018
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 1: to love? Because I always say this because she said

1019
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: love can be defined and I was like, okay, that's fair.

1020
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: I don't feel like love can be defined. I feel

1021
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:02,280
Speaker 1: like love is the one thing that's in the universe

1022
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: that it's different for everybody. So maybe it might be

1023
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 1: monetary for some people that's just how you feel, but

1024
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: for me, I feel like it's it's definitely a feeling

1025
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,760
Speaker 1: that I just can't explain. And it's like, it's okay

1026
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,240
Speaker 1: if you want a man that's a provider, that is okay.

1027
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 2: But I feel like to categorize that. I don't think

1028
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 2: love is monetary though. I just think that that more

1029
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,879
Speaker 2: so has but she said tangible. I'm sorry me. Yeah,

1030
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 2: I don't think love is monetary. I think that more

1031
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 2: so has to do with people's like standards are like

1032
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,479
Speaker 2: the quality of life that they feel like they want.

1033
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 1: And I think for some.

1034
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 2: People they feel like, Okay, if this person doesn't make

1035
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 2: X amount of money, like what type of quality of

1036
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 2: life are we gonna have?

1037
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 4: Oh, look, if you're talking we're talking about dating right now, rightah,

1038
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 4: but we're talking about dating So if you have, if

1039
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 4: you have somebody that makes fifty thousand dollars even forty

1040
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 4: thousand dollars, forty five thousands, that guy might be more

1041
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 4: generous and might be more might provide for you better

1042
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 4: than someone that makes fifty million dollars a lot, right, Like,

1043
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 4: I like, if he cares about you, he might You

1044
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 4: might be dealing with someone who thinks the world of

1045
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 4: you to a degree that he's willing to take less

1046
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 4: for himself so that you could have more that he's

1047
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 4: willing to do. So you just look, I get it.

1048
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not coming down on any but I'm

1049
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 4: just like, yo.

1050
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 1: Man, we gotta be a little realistic a little bit.

1051
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 4: Okay, let me ask you this.

1052
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 1: Do you be tricking?

1053
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 4: Like I'm very generous, super generous.

1054
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: What was like, what's the best gift you ever got

1055
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 1: a woman?

1056
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 4: Oh?

1057
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 5: Man, it's the best gift I ever got.

1058
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: Away Like you was like, okay, I'm gonna spend that bag.

1059
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:53,439
Speaker 4: I'm gonna do my big win like and money just.

1060
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: Anything that you felt like was like a thoughtful and

1061
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 1: it was a good.

1062
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,919
Speaker 4: Well, I've bought a lot of great gifts. I've bought

1063
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 4: Tiffany necklaces or diamonds I've bought, Like I bought a

1064
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 4: lot of great gifts I buy. I'm a good gift giver.

1065
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 4: I like to buy. You know, can't be honest with you.

1066
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:13,359
Speaker 4: I'm a bad gift giver. Like I'm a bad gift

1067
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 4: giver because a lot of times when you're giving gifts,

1068
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 4: I look at the price tag of a gift because

1069
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 4: I'm not good at like tailoring a gift to somebody. Okay,

1070
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 4: So so because I'm bad at tailoring a gift to somebody,

1071
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,439
Speaker 4: if I go somewhere, if I buy you a six

1072
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 4: thousand dollar watch, I'm feeling like that's gonna be cool.

1073
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 4: You might not even want that. So I'm a bad

1074
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 4: gift giver in that sense because I bowe money.

1075
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this. So say you were

1076
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 1: dealing with a woman. You bought her, you buying her

1077
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: the Tiffany, you bought her the diamonds, you bought it

1078
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 1: a six thousand dollars bout whatever. So you expect that

1079
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: woman to be finished with dating you who have done

1080
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 1: all this stuff, and be like okay and go back

1081
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 1: to just looking for like just like a connection and

1082
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: being okay with things like that. Okay, once you get

1083
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: used to a certain thing, it's kind of hard to.

1084
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:05,319
Speaker 3: Why would he be worried about?

1085
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: No, I'm talking about in general, Like.

1086
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 4: Let me flip that, so I get it. Maybe you're

1087
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 4: used to it, right, right, there's a flip side to that.

1088
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 4: You meet a girl and you lif and y'all are dated,

1089
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,720
Speaker 4: and she is the craziest dick sucker you ever had before,

1090
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 4: and not a real eater, a real eater, like a

1091
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 4: motherfucking a real eater, best eater, your best eater. Right

1092
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 4: then you break up. The next girl might not be

1093
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 4: as skilled. What are you supposed to do you? It's

1094
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 4: not just about that. It's gonna be about Yeah, she

1095
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,879
Speaker 4: might not be the craziest one that you've ever been,

1096
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 4: but I hope that there's something else that's there that

1097
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 4: makes this relationship viable.

1098
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 5: I get it.

1099
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 4: Not man, I guess it would be very hard too,

1100
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 4: you know, have all of your summers be in Zanzibar

1101
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 4: and Africa and Dubai and then have to do summer

1102
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 4: in Seattle.

1103
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 5: I guess that would be difficult.

1104
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is what's the trade off, is

1105
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 4: a trade off that you feel fully protected that you

1106
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 4: feel fully invested in your relationship, that someone lives and

1107
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 4: dies for you, that someone is working. Let me tell you,

1108
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 4: if you're in a relationship with the right man, if

1109
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:25,919
Speaker 4: you're in a relationship with the right person, he's going

1110
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 4: to want to do better so that he can give

1111
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,280
Speaker 4: you the things that you want.

1112
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 5: But he's gonna want to do if you with the

1113
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 5: right guy.

1114
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:36,919
Speaker 4: Like, if you with the right guy, he is going

1115
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 4: to push himself to be a better, more stable, comprehensive

1116
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 4: man so that you can go on the trip that

1117
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 4: you want. I can have the things that you want,

1118
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 4: so you can get that. That guy, his ambition is

1119
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 4: going to be for himself, but it's going to be

1120
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 4: for himself because he wants you to feel fulfilled and

1121
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 4: safe and all of that.

1122
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,080
Speaker 1: Now I agree with you, because that's literally what I

1123
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,319
Speaker 1: was about to say. I feel like I hate that

1124
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 1: society tries to make women feel like you have to choose,

1125
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 1: like you can only have the nigga that takes you

1126
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:09,760
Speaker 1: to Zenzi Bar, or you can only have the nigga

1127
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: that takes you that you in the summer in Seattle,

1128
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: Like no, I feel like I.

1129
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 3: Can have.

1130
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:17,360
Speaker 1: It is.

1131
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day.

1132
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 2: The point that I was making is I just feel like,

1133
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 2: why do we create this narrative because I feel like

1134
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 2: we do that a lot where it's like, Okay, you

1135
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 2: can have this or that, when in reality, you can

1136
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 2: have all of the things. Because, like you said, if

1137
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,319
Speaker 2: a man really loves you and he really cares about

1138
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,799
Speaker 2: you enough, he will like change itself to like try

1139
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 2: to give her things that you want.

1140
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 3: And I feel like you as.

1141
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: A woman not saying that you shouldn't change yourself, because

1142
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,320
Speaker 1: you will change yourself too, to like be the woman

1143
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: that he wants.

1144
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, what what women bring to this whole

1145
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 4: equation is a much more difficult conversation. And let me

1146
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:55,879
Speaker 4: tell you why.

1147
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: Let's shack.

1148
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 4: What a man is supposed to do is static, is

1149
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:05,720
Speaker 4: never gonna change right what right? Like as in our crew,

1150
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 4: nobody likes, I don't care what the fuck nobody say.

1151
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 4: Everybody listens to my voice. Patriarchy and all of this

1152
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 4: supremacy stuff has informed this too. Nobody likes to do

1153
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,839
Speaker 4: nothing man. Nobody likes to do nothing. Man nobody likes

1154
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 4: to In our crew with my homies, we check on

1155
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 4: each other and how we're doing because we care that

1156
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 4: we are all at a certain.

1157
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 1: Level, right we do, Okay.

1158
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 4: I don't. Not one of my guys. Nobody that fuck

1159
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 4: with is a nigga laing up on somebody college, driving

1160
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 4: this girl car back and forth.

1161
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 5: Okay.

1162
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,399
Speaker 4: I had a father, and my father told me, gave

1163
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 4: me very specific rules on like how to deal and

1164
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 4: be with women. Now, I'm not a perfect guy. I'm

1165
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 4: sure you can find women out there in my past

1166
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 4: that have had bad experiences or relationships with me. I'm

1167
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 4: not saying that at all, but I'm saying that, like

1168
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 4: nobody likes to do nothing man. But I will say, though,

1169
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 4: is what has changed, if we're being fair, is what

1170
00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 4: women have to do. Women don't have to do anything

1171
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 4: because it's because what what men have to do is

1172
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 4: provide and do all of this stuff. Nobody is going

1173
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 4: to tell there used to be a trade off for that.

1174
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 4: The trade off used to be that, Okay, I would

1175
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 4: do all of this stuff, and then you would do

1176
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 4: everything that you have to do to really enhance my life,

1177
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 4: which is take care of my children, keep my house together,

1178
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 4: cook my food, and do all of that stuff. All

1179
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 4: It is like taking somebody's life and reducing it to

1180
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 4: that we've all understood that that's pretty grow tesque. It's

1181
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 4: pretty grow test to have a human being that lives

1182
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 4: to enhance the life of somebody else. That's their job.

1183
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 4: But that's one thing that's changed. For the man's part,

1184
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 4: nothing has changed you. So what you're really getting is

1185
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 4: a lot of guys going, Okay, well, if I make

1186
00:57:56,160 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 4: fifty thousand dollars and there's going to be a specific value,

1187
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 4: or if I have to make a hundred or two

1188
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 4: hundred thousand dollars, there's a specific value put on this

1189
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 4: to me, then what value do I get back in

1190
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 4: the relationship?

1191
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 3: Two hundred thousand dollars?

1192
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no that if she made two hundred thousand dollars,

1193
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 4: then that that obviously is not.

1194
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 1: That's not that's not that's a different dynamic. But I

1195
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: do feel like this the roles changed, not because it

1196
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 1: changed because it had to because.

1197
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 5: It was supposed to.

1198
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, not, it was supposed to. It's because it had

1199
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 1: to because women we were in situations where we were

1200
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 1: having babies, we were getting married, and the man couldn't provide.

1201
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: Black women now are the most one of the most

1202
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 1: educated demographics graduating from college, making a lot of money

1203
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: because it's not because like we wanted to, we have to.

1204
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: We were forced into this role and they get so mad.

1205
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't want no independent all that I n d

1206
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: ep because we had to, because nobody was providing for us.

1207
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: We were coming up in homes without a father, so

1208
00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 1: we didn't see our mother being taken care of. We

1209
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: saw our mother struggling. So instead, well, I'm we saw

1210
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 1: our mothers in these positions that they were struggling to

1211
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I'm not gonna do that.

1212
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: So I saw my mom having two three kids for

1213
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: a man who wasn't shit, I'm not gonna have kids.

1214
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 1: Birthrates are down. We are not even having children no more.

1215
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 3: That's sex.

1216
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: We were not even having our friends. We're not getting married,

1217
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: and they think, oh, because we're undesirable. No we're not.

1218
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 1: Because we had to smarten up and realize what honestly

1219
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 1: sometimes is the benefit of having a man.

1220
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 2: I hear you, I agree, Well, no, I was just

1221
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 2: gonna say, and I mean even with me, like I

1222
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:52,280
Speaker 2: grew up in a two parent household, like I very

1223
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 2: much grew up seeing my dad provide and be a provider.

1224
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 3: But my mom always worked.

1225
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,959
Speaker 2: She always made her own money, but my dad also

1226
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 2: so raised me, which is another reason why I think

1227
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 2: that I have the mentality that I have when it

1228
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 2: comes to dating, because my dad was always like, if

1229
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 2: a man cannot do X, Y and.

1230
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 3: Z, why are you dealing with him? Why are you

1231
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 3: opening your legs him?

1232
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 4: So I went to when I was I was going

1233
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 4: to UH a prom or some date like that, my

1234
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 4: dad gave me a couple hundred dollars. We was going

1235
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 4: to uh the macaroni grill.

1236
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 3: But I know that macaroni grill.

1237
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 5: I thought I was the fucking man.

1238
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: You've been a tricks. It's the beginning of time.

1239
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 4: Let me tell you what, let me tell you what

1240
01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 4: you told me. You say what he told me? He goes, hey, listen, boy, like,

1241
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 4: when the bill come, don't look at the bill.

1242
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 5: I was like, they don't look at the bill. Don't

1243
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 5: look at the bill.

1244
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 4: That looked like, when you look at the bill, it

1245
01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 4: looks like you're asking yourself whether or not.

1246
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 5: You got to go wash the dishes. He was like,

1247
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 5: when the.

1248
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 4: Bill come, put the money in the thing and may

1249
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 4: maintain eye contact with the girl. Dad knows something, and

1250
01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 4: that lets you know, that lets her know that whatever

1251
01:00:57,920 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 4: happens that night, you in control, you say, put them

1252
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 4: some game, right, so he goes. So he just goes, boom,

1253
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 4: take this a couple hundred bucks, the bill come boom,

1254
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 4: put it in there when it come after that, when

1255
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 4: the guy when it gotten paid and you need to

1256
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 4: tip out then and he's like, and tip generously too,

1257
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 4: Like when you want to show somebody that you're generous,

1258
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 4: be generous to other people. So this is all stuff

1259
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 4: that you get when you have a man in your household.

1260
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 4: Why it's important for us to be men, not just

1261
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 4: in our households, but raising mentor other young boys like

1262
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 4: Jason is doing in Detroit. Right, That's what I'll say

1263
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 4: to you. You're right, Okay, you're right. What I'm saying is,

1264
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 4: in addition to women, black women, particularly being in situations

1265
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 4: where they feel like they had to do more, it

1266
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 4: was also a philosophical thing, a philosophical change, an intellectual

1267
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 4: change that had to happen as well. I don't think

1268
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 4: it was until nineteen seventy four that women could even

1269
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 4: have their own bank accounts.

1270
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: That's a fact. And I actually said that somebody in

1271
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: the comments of they I'm like, we couldn't even do that.

1272
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 4: So that's not sustainable because what you can't have is

1273
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 4: the majority of the population and people who are so

1274
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 4: gifted and talented. And look when I say gifted and talented,

1275
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 4: women have an innate sense of multitasking. Women have an

1276
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 4: innate sense of I want to get into too much

1277
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 4: into into gender roles, but I feel like society right

1278
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 4: now is actually suffering because of the minimization of what

1279
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 4: women do well. And what another thing that patriarchy does

1280
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 4: is it gets to define what's important. So sometimes women

1281
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 4: feel like that in order for them to be heard,

1282
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 4: that they have to be like men are because men

1283
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 4: have taken traits that women have and have devalued those traits.

1284
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 4: So in order to be somebody who is a leader,

1285
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 4: you have to be focused, you have to be resolute,

1286
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 4: you have to be aggressive, you have to be all

1287
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:55,439
Speaker 4: of those right, And that's not to say that women

1288
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 4: can't be those things, but in order to be a leader,

1289
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 4: you also need to be able to multitask.

1290
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 5: You need to be able to feel your way through

1291
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 5: a situation.

1292
01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 4: You need to have high emotional intelligence, you need to

1293
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 4: have all of those things that women tend to have.

1294
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 4: The only reason why those things aren't as valued is

1295
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 4: because men make the rules about what's value. And the

1296
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 4: reason why the reason why I'm saying all of this

1297
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 4: is because I'm saying I do agree that, particularly in

1298
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 4: our community, there was a need for women to do

1299
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 4: for self, but also there was a very direct philosophical

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01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 4: and intellectual change about what women should be able to

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01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 4: ask of themselves about their lives. One person's life should

1302
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:42,919
Speaker 4: not be about enhancing another person's life. Your life should

1303
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 4: be about achieving and attaining anything that you wanted to

1304
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 4: be a thing. So you shouldn't have to have a family.

1305
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 4: You should want to have a family. You shouldn't have

1306
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 4: to have a man. You should want to have a man. Now,

1307
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 4: I say something else. What complicates that is your bodies

1308
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 4: are going to tell you, guys that you you want

1309
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 4: to have a family. Your bodies are going to tell

1310
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 4: you you're like your your Your bodies are telling you

1311
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:09,439
Speaker 4: we're all here, like in nature earth, for one role,

1312
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 4: which is to make I had no choice. Yeah, I

1313
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 4: had no choice about my dick getting hard. When I

1314
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 4: when it started getting hard that I had no choice.

1315
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 4: I didn't. I didn't wake up one morning and goo, no,

1316
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 4: I think it's time for my dack to start getting

1317
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:25,920
Speaker 4: One morning, I woke up and that motherfucker was hard

1318
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 4: and that was and that was my body going. One

1319
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 4: morning I was I was so it was crazy.

1320
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 3: I went up to my smiling and.

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01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 4: I went up to my dad. I was like, I

1322
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 4: was like Dad. He was like what I'm like, Yo, Man,

1323
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 4: something's wrong. He was like he was like what I'm like, Yo,

1324
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 4: my ship is stiff. And he went, now, what are

1325
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 4: you saying? I was like, yo, is stiff? And he goes, Ray,

1326
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:53,880
Speaker 4: Ray Craig, my uncles. He's like, come over here real.

1327
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 1: Quick, Craig.

1328
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 4: He's like like, like, Ray Craig, come over here real quick.

1329
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 4: Van got something to say. It's like, my son, tell

1330
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 4: your uncles, like, what's going on with you right now?

1331
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 4: I was like, Yo, my shit is stiff and I'll

1332
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 4: never forget my uncle. Craig goes, boy, that's a problem.

1333
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 4: We're gonna have to figure out why. And like and

1334
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 4: they these guys are playing with me and then they

1335
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 4: explain it it gets hard so you can fuck. And

1336
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh shit, like I can have sex now,

1337
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 4: and they were like, yeah, you ready. You know what

1338
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:27,520
Speaker 4: I'm saying. I'm nine or ten years old, it's like whatever,

1339
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 4: like whatever it is. So what I'm saying is there

1340
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 4: are certain imperatives inside of our body that are the

1341
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 4: way they are. Yeah, And so socialization and society means

1342
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 4: that we're gonna be working against ourselves in a certain way,

1343
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 4: and we have to also, you know, leave room for that.

1344
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 4: But to my original point is what I'm saying is this,

1345
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:49,320
Speaker 4: as these dynamics change and as we ask ourselves for

1346
01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:53,320
Speaker 4: different things, we also have to be realistic about what

1347
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 4: it's fair to expect.

1348
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 5: And that's all that I'm saying. Like, what it's fair

1349
01:05:58,400 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 5: to expect?

1350
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 4: Is it fair to expect somebody to stay up in

1351
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 4: your house, barefoot, look after your kids for eighteen years,

1352
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 4: not have no saying nothing, not want to do nothing,

1353
01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 4: not want anything for herself, not want anything? Is that fair?

1354
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 4: Is that fair for somebody to make their whole life

1355
01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 4: about your life? No? I would also say, is it

1356
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 4: fair to expect every single nigga you fuck with to

1357
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 4: be whole or jeezy or Odell Beckham Junior or any

1358
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 4: of these other guys with fifty thousands to square foot?

1359
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 4: Is it is that?

1360
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 5: Probably?

1361
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 4: Not? So find it in the middle and do your thing,

1362
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 4: but take responsibility for your unhappiness.

1363
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you have.

1364
01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 2: A you eat because I feel like you have to

1365
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 2: date realistically within like your bracket. Everybody can't get come on,

1366
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 2: everybody cannot get or Russell Wilson, Like, everybody's not gonna get.

1367
01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 4: Those type of thing you like Russell. Yeah, if you

1368
01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 4: have to choose between future and Russell, who would you choose?

1369
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: Russell? Every time? I think that argument be so crazy

1370
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 1: to me. He's rich and he's a good man.

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01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 3: He's nice, he.

1372
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 1: Loves her, he looks from what we can see.

1373
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 5: Be honest with y'all. I be honest with y'all.

1374
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:17,960
Speaker 4: A lot of women say it's Russell, but a lot

1375
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 4: of y'all want to go to the studio. I don't like.

1376
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 5: A lot of a lot of a lot of women

1377
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 5: say women. A lot of women. A lot of women

1378
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 5: want y'all want to go to the studio.

1379
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think girls haven't went to the studio. Said exactly, girls,

1380
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 1: you got that's that.

1381
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 4: That whole phase is a But I be honest with you.

1382
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 4: I be honest with you. No disrespect to her. She's

1383
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 4: a woman. Sierra had to go to the studio before

1384
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:46,440
Speaker 4: she decided. Yeah, so but you know, and it's a

1385
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 4: point where you want to go to the studio when.

1386
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 1: You're in your twenty but an ass woman, a grown

1387
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:54,640
Speaker 1: ass woman, every time, it's gonna pick a Russell.

1388
01:07:54,720 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 2: But I also think we're being very dramatic though, because

1389
01:07:56,960 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 2: everybody is not gonna like realistically, she's being the hood

1390
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:03,440
Speaker 2: that any just like future and they're not gonna get

1391
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 2: them a wrestle.

1392
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 1: I mean, but like you know, like Sierra is Sierra

1393
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 1: the day. Yeah, but but I also feel like going

1394
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,200
Speaker 1: back to the point that you were making, like I'm

1395
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:19,720
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I saw this clip the other day

1396
01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:22,600
Speaker 1: and this guy was breaking down on the podcast the percentages,

1397
01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 1: like if you want a black man that's over six foot,

1398
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:30,560
Speaker 1: that makes over one hundred thousand dollars. So he was

1399
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 1: breaking it down. It was like point zero two percent.

1400
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:35,720
Speaker 1: It was funny cause slim Thug posted it. He was like,

1401
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:37,679
Speaker 1: you know how he is, So it was funny.

1402
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm six.

1403
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:46,439
Speaker 1: He's like I'm the cream of love because he is,

1404
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 1: because he is, like he's an anomaly. Like if you

1405
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: don't see that, I mean you are, I don't.

1406
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 4: I don't feel in any way special though, like it's not,

1407
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 4: it's no. But but what I'm saying, what I'm what

1408
01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 4: I'm saying about is I guess all of that makes sense.

1409
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 4: I guess all of that's that's true, but like.

1410
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:06,600
Speaker 5: Like we were counting stats.

1411
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 1: But but what I'm saying is I'm not gonna lie.

1412
01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:11,240
Speaker 1: I was looking at my roster of to day when

1413
01:09:11,280 --> 01:09:15,640
Speaker 1: it was breaking my last four or five niggas that

1414
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 1: I was dating, and I was saying, for over the

1415
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:20,559
Speaker 1: past ten years, all of them over six foot, all

1416
01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 1: of them make over six foot. I run into that

1417
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:25,839
Speaker 1: all the time, but I think it's just what sometimes

1418
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 1: it's what you attract. So going back to the fifty

1419
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 1: thousand dollars conversation, some women can feel that way because

1420
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 1: that's all they be around. Now. I'm not saying I

1421
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: agree with the statement, because I never said I agreed

1422
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:43,679
Speaker 1: with the statement. But I say I'm not going to lie.

1423
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 1: I have not. I can't remember the last time I

1424
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 1: dated a nigga that was under six foot. Bang, I

1425
01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:51,759
Speaker 1: can't remember the last I'm under six foot.

1426
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 3: I mean my man under six fingers.

1427
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 1: But even under six figures, I cannot remember.

1428
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 3: Because I do not dated niggas.

1429
01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: It was under Yeah, but what I'm saying from they

1430
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:04,240
Speaker 1: don't a big beer. Yeah, the tall niggas love me down.

1431
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: I always say this. I know niggas want my eggs

1432
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: so bad. They want them a little white and have

1433
01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 1: a basketball player. They want a little wide receiver. I

1434
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:17,519
Speaker 1: know what I attract. I attract big men. They see

1435
01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: me working that they know they won't got coordination. I

1436
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:22,839
Speaker 1: was an athlete.

1437
01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 3: No the fuck you don't. You're clumsy at.

1438
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:26,360
Speaker 1: Full I'm talking about it.

1439
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 4: So you're gonna get about sports wise.

1440
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 1: Because y'all know.

1441
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:32,559
Speaker 3: Let lying.

1442
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't an athlete.

1443
01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:36,680
Speaker 3: No you're not coordination.

1444
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:41,639
Speaker 1: No, no, we're about athleticism. He said. Coordination. Oh he asked.

1445
01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 4: About said can you I mean, because a nigga might

1446
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:47,760
Speaker 4: make a six foot eight my.

1447
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 1: Kid, No, six foot eight, clumsy nigga is embarrassed.

1448
01:10:58,479 --> 01:10:58,919
Speaker 4: Everything.

1449
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.

1450
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:04,639
Speaker 5: In the back of the plane, like and it was

1451
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 5: I was.

1452
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:08,679
Speaker 1: I was very athletic, I played sports, I did all

1453
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 1: that shit. So what I'm saying is, I feel like

1454
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:14,640
Speaker 1: when you present yourself in a certain way, sometimes you

1455
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 1: attract a certain type of man. And I do I

1456
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 1: do you know what I'm saying. I mean, so I

1457
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:23,080
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes women you may feel like they're delusional,

1458
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 1: but that's Oh I don't think no, because I.

1459
01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 2: Was gonna say, I feel like we should transition into

1460
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:29,800
Speaker 2: another type.

1461
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:30,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, of course.

1462
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:33,639
Speaker 1: I really wanted to talk about blogs and.

1463
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 2: Ethics because I feel like when you were with TMZ,

1464
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 2: and even just TMZ as a whole, I think TMZ

1465
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 2: has a very good reputation for being a reputable blog.

1466
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:50,599
Speaker 2: Like if they post something, people know they did their

1467
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 2: due diligence, they did their research, and this is why

1468
01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 2: they're posting about it. I could trust the information that

1469
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 2: I'm getting. I feel like it's the same thing with

1470
01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 2: like People and and a few other blogs. Like it's

1471
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 2: like you know that they get their research. You know

1472
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:09,639
Speaker 2: you're getting real information. These days, especially in the era

1473
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 2: of social media blogs, I feel like people just want

1474
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:15,560
Speaker 2: to break the story first.

1475
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 4: Or just have the story period.

1476
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:17,920
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, have the.

1477
01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 2: Story period, or break the story first, Like I want

1478
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:21,880
Speaker 2: to be the first one to post it. I didn't

1479
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:23,720
Speaker 2: really do my research, but I just want to be

1480
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:25,840
Speaker 2: the one to say, oh, I posted this first, and

1481
01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 2: I was the one who gave you all the information first.

1482
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:28,919
Speaker 3: But so many.

1483
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 2: Times these days the blogs you having to retrack their

1484
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 2: statements because you didn't post accurate information, you didn't do

1485
01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 2: your research, and now you're looking crazy or a lot

1486
01:12:39,240 --> 01:12:41,680
Speaker 2: of the time, which I'm sure you see these too, clickbait.

1487
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:45,760
Speaker 2: It'll be the taglines, it'll be the headlines, and then

1488
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:47,600
Speaker 2: you click on the post and it has nothing to

1489
01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:49,240
Speaker 2: do with what the actual post is.

1490
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:51,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, you like over exaggerated.

1491
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, I kind of wanted to talk about

1492
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 2: it because I feel like you came out in an

1493
01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 2: era of when people still had integrity.

1494
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean everything everything is clickbait. Everything is clickbait.

1495
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:07,599
Speaker 4: Like there's a way that you you want to click,

1496
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:10,400
Speaker 4: so you have to baby people. So like, if there's

1497
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:14,559
Speaker 4: a way that you could I remember I've talked about

1498
01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 4: this a little bit on Boutlet KVS podcast shout out

1499
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 4: to catch this Ta Bulllet KIV. But there's a way

1500
01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 4: that you cook a headline and make the headline more

1501
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:23,680
Speaker 4: enticing to people, Like this is your iPhone right here?

1502
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:28,760
Speaker 4: If I gave this example on bootlets Kev's show, So like,

1503
01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:30,719
Speaker 4: if I wanted to make a headline about this iPhone

1504
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 4: and I put this iPhone on the table. There's two

1505
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:36,120
Speaker 4: ways to make the headline. One is to say black

1506
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 4: iPhone in case on table. Nobody's going to click that, right.

1507
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 4: The second way to do it is to say device

1508
01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 4: made by child slaves in China on table, and people

1509
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 4: are like, what the fuck do child slaves make? Like?

1510
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:54,240
Speaker 4: What do child slaves in China make? Now, both of

1511
01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 4: those things are true. One of them is more incendiary

1512
01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 4: than the other. One of them injects into a headline

1513
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:03,720
Speaker 4: what a good headline has to have, which is conflict. Right.

1514
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 4: I've wrote a headline one time and somebody told me

1515
01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 4: it's not enough conflict in this headline. Yeah, So everybody

1516
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:11,600
Speaker 4: plays with what the truth is and gives you a

1517
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:14,879
Speaker 4: version of the truth that is more suitable for commerce.

1518
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 4: The difference in what you're talking about is essentially the

1519
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,439
Speaker 4: how kind of put it the stakes of the platform.

1520
01:14:22,520 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 4: Like TMZ was owned when I worked there. They're owned

1521
01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 4: by Think Fox now, but when I was owned by

1522
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:29,559
Speaker 4: when I worked when I was owned by TMZ. When

1523
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,400
Speaker 4: I worked for TMZ, they were owned by Warner Brothers Telepictures.

1524
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 4: So that means that if you have a lawsuit against TMZ, Yeah,

1525
01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 4: you can take your lawsuit all the way up to

1526
01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:44,840
Speaker 4: Warner Brothers, to Telepictures, and then to Warner Brothers.

1527
01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 5: You can take it all the way to the top.

1528
01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:49,640
Speaker 4: So if TMZ fucks up in a way that is

1529
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:53,840
Speaker 4: deemed to be defamatory or intentional, or slanders in any

1530
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:55,559
Speaker 4: other type of way, libel in any other type of way,

1531
01:14:56,040 --> 01:15:00,840
Speaker 4: you're potentially gonna get a lot of fucking money for

1532
01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 4: what you what happens. And that puts a lot of

1533
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:07,719
Speaker 4: people's business interests at heart. So TMZ are a place

1534
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 4: like people in a way, they're almost forced to be

1535
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 4: a little bit more buttoned up and reliable in terms

1536
01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:17,679
Speaker 4: of what it is that they're doing because the stakes

1537
01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:18,320
Speaker 4: are very high.

1538
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 5: I mean, we have seen people be sued, right, tashak

1539
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:21,920
Speaker 5: was sued.

1540
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 1: Yes, was he is currently all the time.

1541
01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 4: But she also but the reality is, and Tasha K

1542
01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:34,000
Speaker 4: says this all the time, that lawsuit costs Cardi B

1543
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:36,800
Speaker 4: a lot of money and a lot of money that

1544
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 4: she's never gonna see. Right, that lawsuit was Cardi B

1545
01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:44,240
Speaker 4: paying one million, two million dollars whatever it was in

1546
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 4: legal fees to make a point, and in winning the

1547
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 4: lawsuit then getting for the four million dollar judgment.

1548
01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 5: It's money that she might never see, but.

1549
01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:56,960
Speaker 1: Which I understand, but I don't want. I'm not in

1550
01:15:57,080 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 1: Tasha k pockets or anything like that. But anybody that's

1551
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: a reputable celebrity she will never get on that platform,

1552
01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:07,000
Speaker 1: that will never get on her platform again. And let

1553
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:10,360
Speaker 1: me not say never to speak on other people's platform,

1554
01:16:10,720 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: but to see what she's done to Kevin Hart, to

1555
01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:17,679
Speaker 1: Will Smith, to these A list celebrities. They're not fucking

1556
01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 1: with that.

1557
01:16:18,120 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 4: Let me say something about that, just on that right there.

1558
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:22,559
Speaker 4: I don't think that most people that go to Tosh

1559
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 4: case platform are going there for the celebrities on there.

1560
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:28,640
Speaker 4: She has a way of communicating and a way of

1561
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 4: talking to the people that follow her. She's talented. No, yeah,

1562
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:34,720
Speaker 4: I'm not so and so like what and so what

1563
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 4: I'm saying is the only reason why I brought that

1564
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 4: situation up is to say that a lot of the

1565
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 4: blogs and the places that you're talking about, there's really

1566
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 4: no stakes in it, for it really doesn't matter. Like

1567
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 4: if you report ten things and nine of them are

1568
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 4: untrue and one of them is true, the one that

1569
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:55,760
Speaker 4: is true does a lot more for you than the

1570
01:16:55,880 --> 01:17:00,120
Speaker 4: nine times that you got it wrong because a the

1571
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:02,880
Speaker 4: fact that you don't have any money almost insulates you

1572
01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 4: from someone really suing you because it's gonna cost them

1573
01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:10,759
Speaker 4: more money than anything else. And then be like, there's

1574
01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 4: really no standard that you're held to. For TMZ, you

1575
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 4: have to be right. Yeah, Now that's not to say

1576
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 4: that they're always right. Nobody is. But what they understand,

1577
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:23,840
Speaker 4: and what places like them understand, is that the long

1578
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:28,120
Speaker 4: term violate viability of your platform is and how often you're.

1579
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:29,679
Speaker 3: Right because you're under a big corporation.

1580
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 4: You're under a big corporation, and in order for people

1581
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 4: to continuously consume your shit, to continuously look at you

1582
01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:40,320
Speaker 4: in a way, this is CNN, in TMZ, Fox, whoever

1583
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:44,680
Speaker 4: you're talking about, the Daily Beast, Slate, political whatever.

1584
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:45,240
Speaker 5: You might get your news.

1585
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:48,000
Speaker 4: They have to be accurate in what they're saying because

1586
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 4: the trust is part of the commerce.

1587
01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 1: But do you feel like the smaller laws that people

1588
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:54,599
Speaker 1: that just report anything because they want to be first.

1589
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:58,680
Speaker 1: Like I said this before, Hollywood unlocked to report one

1590
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 1: time that Queen Elizabeth was and she was very much

1591
01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 1: alive at the time, and it was a whole thing, Like,

1592
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 1: you're a joke not saying that he is a joke,

1593
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:07,880
Speaker 1: but that's why how people felt. So do you feel

1594
01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:11,280
Speaker 1: like that rush to be first has it ruined journalism?

1595
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:13,840
Speaker 1: Because I feel like at one point journalism was like,

1596
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:16,879
Speaker 1: you know, you had the Barbara Walters, the Oprah Winfrey's.

1597
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:19,400
Speaker 1: It was like a you had to be the cream

1598
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 1: of the cross said it were a lot of integrity.

1599
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:24,479
Speaker 4: But all of those people that those two people that

1600
01:18:24,520 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 4: you just named and this is not a disc those

1601
01:18:26,960 --> 01:18:29,280
Speaker 4: two people that you just named would sit you down

1602
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 4: in an interview and ask you some crazy shit to

1603
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:36,840
Speaker 4: make a moment out of him, like yeah, like Oprah

1604
01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 4: would sit down and ask Michael Jackson whether or not

1605
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:41,559
Speaker 4: This is not to dis Oprah, but she asked Michael

1606
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:43,799
Speaker 4: Jackson whether or not he was a fucking virgin.

1607
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,280
Speaker 1: That's why he was singing during that interview. I'm saying it.

1608
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:48,679
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying.

1609
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 1: So she was like, well, Michael, Michael, and he was

1610
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 1: singing his asshole.

1611
01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:54,760
Speaker 4: And if you go back and look at her for

1612
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:57,440
Speaker 4: Barbara Walkle interview.

1613
01:18:57,280 --> 01:19:03,799
Speaker 8: Was love really ignore her because she was like, well, Michael,

1614
01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 8: he was, he was, he was fucking be boxing in

1615
01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:09,960
Speaker 8: the whole nine.

1616
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:13,600
Speaker 5: He was he was uncomfortable and she was trying to

1617
01:19:13,600 --> 01:19:16,560
Speaker 5: ask question he's uncomfortable.

1618
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:19,360
Speaker 1: It is a good point.

1619
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 4: So so what I'm saying is even Barbara Walters, go

1620
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 4: back and look at some of the questions that Barbara

1621
01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 4: Walters would ask people just asking crazy ship to try

1622
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:28,559
Speaker 4: to get to the ship. So what I'm.

1623
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:35,280
Speaker 1: Saying is j Rivers know who is the lady that

1624
01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 1: did the interview with the Houston And she was.

1625
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:42,439
Speaker 4: Like, that was no, that was that was Diane Sawyer.

1626
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:49,599
Speaker 1: Sawyer who that was dying? Yeah, oh yeah, Diane.

1627
01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:51,760
Speaker 3: She was like, crack his wet, crack his sheep.

1628
01:19:51,960 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 4: So so you gotta you gotta do the thing because

1629
01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 4: you at the end, you're selling the news. So all

1630
01:19:57,160 --> 01:19:58,800
Speaker 4: I would say is like, yeah, to a degree in

1631
01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:00,680
Speaker 4: teams has a part of that, like being first and

1632
01:20:00,680 --> 01:20:03,840
Speaker 4: doing all of that stuff. And a lot of times

1633
01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 4: something else is it don't even matter whether it's true

1634
01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:10,200
Speaker 4: or not right now, It don't, Okay, But I can

1635
01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:13,719
Speaker 4: tell you guys about journalistic standards and how sourcing principles

1636
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:16,799
Speaker 4: and what it means for something to be true or untrue,

1637
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:20,000
Speaker 4: but it really doesn't matter. All it matters is whether

1638
01:20:20,080 --> 01:20:22,959
Speaker 4: or not it starts a conversation. If people are retweeting

1639
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:25,240
Speaker 4: your shit, that's all that matters.

1640
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:27,280
Speaker 2: See, and they'll let you know how deep in our

1641
01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,760
Speaker 2: bag when it comes to like reporting set that we are,

1642
01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:33,519
Speaker 2: because I really thought that, like if it doesn't matter,

1643
01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:36,200
Speaker 2: if you don't have any money, they can't garnish your wages.

1644
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 5: What you mean something about in the case of Tasha

1645
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 5: k Yeah.

1646
01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:41,639
Speaker 3: Like what the fuck?

1647
01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 1: Like whatever you make? Like, so did you get that shit?

1648
01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:46,280
Speaker 1: Iut'm taking it until you pay off this.

1649
01:20:46,320 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 5: Four million And you've seen that happen.

1650
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:51,439
Speaker 4: But the problem is, I mean, you can't get blood

1651
01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 4: from a stone, either somebody has or they don't. And

1652
01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:57,679
Speaker 4: the thing is, is it worse for a lot of people?

1653
01:20:57,880 --> 01:20:59,680
Speaker 1: How was your light song that bitch likes? Need to?

1654
01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:03,760
Speaker 4: I don't want to get into the ins and outs

1655
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,760
Speaker 4: of whatever's going on in that situation, but what I

1656
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:09,719
Speaker 4: would say is this is that that's that that's still

1657
01:21:10,320 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 4: a lot of legal and financial burden on the celebrity yields.

1658
01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:19,280
Speaker 4: Lawyers are expensive and a lot of people are just not.

1659
01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:19,639
Speaker 1: Now.

1660
01:21:19,680 --> 01:21:22,280
Speaker 4: They might do it with her now because she is

1661
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:26,639
Speaker 4: seen as kind of an easy target now and she

1662
01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 4: she'll go back to the well, so they might do

1663
01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:30,040
Speaker 4: it with her now just to keep proving a point.

1664
01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:32,879
Speaker 4: But a lot of time it's really not worth people's

1665
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 4: trouble to go through, like a two year legal case

1666
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:37,519
Speaker 4: or a three year legal case.

1667
01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 1: You she's a little toasty.

1668
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:44,599
Speaker 5: Or two or three year legal.

1669
01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:47,320
Speaker 1: Case something like That's but I guess I get it though,

1670
01:21:47,360 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 1: because like if you if you worth a lot of money,

1671
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 1: and you won't people stop playing with you, especially because

1672
01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 1: some of these boggers being certain celebrities, like certain a

1673
01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:58,840
Speaker 1: lot of these boggers, they have one celebrity that they

1674
01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:03,000
Speaker 1: and they pick on them. So anyways, so we're gonna

1675
01:22:03,040 --> 01:22:06,920
Speaker 1: move on. So now it's time to get into the

1676
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:16,000
Speaker 1: b bow bow bow bow bow bow bow. So I

1677
01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:19,280
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about this because I'm just interest. Let

1678
01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:20,640
Speaker 1: me ask you this before we get into it. Are

1679
01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 1: you in a relationship. I am you are in a relationship.

1680
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:35,640
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this. Do you feel like

1681
01:22:35,720 --> 01:22:41,000
Speaker 1: black women are prudes in the bedroom compared to other races? No, Hobby,

1682
01:22:41,040 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 1: why is you laughing?

1683
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:44,439
Speaker 4: Well?

1684
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:48,880
Speaker 2: Because okay, so well, and that's I'm glad, Hoby, like

1685
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:51,160
Speaker 2: I was hoping you had a different response.

1686
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:53,439
Speaker 4: No, I don't think that's true at all I think.

1687
01:22:54,040 --> 01:22:57,120
Speaker 4: I think I think nasty comes in all colors. Baby

1688
01:22:57,200 --> 01:22:59,439
Speaker 4: like it is is, I don't. I really don't think

1689
01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:01,360
Speaker 4: that's true. I think there's I think when people say

1690
01:23:01,360 --> 01:23:03,720
Speaker 4: that this, I think I think when people say that,

1691
01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:04,719
Speaker 4: they're saying something else.

1692
01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 1: What they say they they're.

1693
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:12,479
Speaker 4: Saying they're talking about. They're not talking about actually what

1694
01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:18,200
Speaker 4: somebody will do. They're talking about other cultural things that

1695
01:23:19,200 --> 01:23:20,120
Speaker 4: are do I want.

1696
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:20,559
Speaker 5: To talk about this?

1697
01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:23,559
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, so this is so this one I'm talking about.

1698
01:23:24,040 --> 01:23:28,160
Speaker 4: So you're not talking about who is nastier, who does whatever?

1699
01:23:28,200 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 4: You're not talking about that because if we being honest,

1700
01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:33,599
Speaker 4: we know that that's not true. What you're what you're

1701
01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:38,360
Speaker 4: talking about is I think like black ladies have to

1702
01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 4: protect themselves. All right, we talked about this. Black ladies

1703
01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:44,719
Speaker 4: have to protect themselves. So when you ask a sister

1704
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:48,840
Speaker 4: to do something, she has to first make sure a

1705
01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:51,080
Speaker 4: lot of times not even ask I'm not talking I'm

1706
01:23:51,120 --> 01:23:52,640
Speaker 4: not talking about like sexual stuff because a lot of

1707
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:53,360
Speaker 4: times you don't ask this.

1708
01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:55,160
Speaker 5: So about when you're talking about other things.

1709
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:57,840
Speaker 4: It's very important for black women to make sure that

1710
01:23:57,880 --> 01:23:59,479
Speaker 4: you're not trying to fuck over them or play them

1711
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:03,719
Speaker 4: like it makes It's very important because it's.

1712
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:06,000
Speaker 5: A smaller community, it's whatever it is.

1713
01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:08,640
Speaker 4: They have to make sure that you're not trying to

1714
01:24:09,600 --> 01:24:12,599
Speaker 4: fuck them over or like whatever that you not. They

1715
01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:14,960
Speaker 4: have to feel safe and secure in a way right

1716
01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:20,720
Speaker 4: all right on the other side of things. Everywhere that go,

1717
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:22,840
Speaker 4: safety is there for them.

1718
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:24,439
Speaker 5: They never feel they don't feel that.

1719
01:24:24,479 --> 01:24:27,479
Speaker 4: I mean they feel unsafe around men, I would presumed,

1720
01:24:27,520 --> 01:24:30,080
Speaker 4: but like they're not really told that they're less than

1721
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:33,280
Speaker 4: as much they're not. They don't face the same trouble

1722
01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:35,880
Speaker 4: and challenges that black women feel that black women feel.

1723
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 4: So you could be on the phone and be like, hey, yo,

1724
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:42,320
Speaker 4: one third in the morning, Amen, get your ass over here.

1725
01:24:42,320 --> 01:24:43,960
Speaker 1: Bring that pus you you know what I'm saying.

1726
01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:45,680
Speaker 4: You Like you could, like you could do that, and

1727
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:48,280
Speaker 4: they're not gonna ha, you're so funny and they're jumping

1728
01:24:48,320 --> 01:24:50,519
Speaker 4: the thing and they're gonna come over and they're not.

1729
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:55,560
Speaker 4: It's a different thing to where they're from my experience.

1730
01:24:55,680 --> 01:25:01,439
Speaker 4: They protect themselves less from your perception of them because

1731
01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:02,360
Speaker 4: they don't really care.

1732
01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:03,479
Speaker 1: But I don't care.

1733
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:08,240
Speaker 4: Because because because let's be honest with you, like it's

1734
01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:12,920
Speaker 4: really black women get held to a weird sometimes unachievable

1735
01:25:12,920 --> 01:25:15,960
Speaker 4: and very unfair standard. So like when when you're when

1736
01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 4: you're dealing with sisters in a certain way, like they

1737
01:25:18,920 --> 01:25:21,040
Speaker 4: don't want you to have they don't want you to

1738
01:25:21,120 --> 01:25:26,200
Speaker 4: have misconceptions about them. And so that is why m hmm.

1739
01:25:26,600 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 4: If you if we really wanted our sisters to get

1740
01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:34,000
Speaker 4: as nasty as we as they could for us, we

1741
01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:37,640
Speaker 4: would stop using certain words. We would stop saying ho,

1742
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:42,120
Speaker 4: we will stop saying slut, not this. This is what

1743
01:25:42,160 --> 01:25:46,720
Speaker 4: I'm saying. Though. What I'm saying is the goal is

1744
01:25:46,760 --> 01:25:48,320
Speaker 4: that is what I'm saying. This is what I'm saying.

1745
01:25:48,760 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 4: The goal is, or it should be for anybody out

1746
01:25:51,320 --> 01:25:54,800
Speaker 4: there that's doing their thing, is to make her as

1747
01:25:54,920 --> 01:26:00,519
Speaker 4: comfortable being as nasty with you as possible and saying, hey,

1748
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:04,479
Speaker 4: like you, hey, whatever you do, I'm with it, whatever

1749
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:07,040
Speaker 4: you about, I'm with it. I'm not gonna think not

1750
01:26:07,320 --> 01:26:10,639
Speaker 4: like it's And to like de stigmatize sex.

1751
01:26:11,280 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 5: Now, let every sex is about making secrets. If you

1752
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:17,200
Speaker 5: ain't made no secrets in sex, then you didn't.

1753
01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:22,160
Speaker 3: Have good s. If you embarrassed to tell somebody.

1754
01:26:21,800 --> 01:26:26,280
Speaker 4: Else making secrets. If you haven't made any secrets and sex,

1755
01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:27,160
Speaker 4: you didn't have good.

1756
01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:30,479
Speaker 2: Sex from my experiences, at least having conversations with black men.

1757
01:26:30,960 --> 01:26:33,240
Speaker 2: They say that that is why one of the reasons

1758
01:26:33,240 --> 01:26:36,200
Speaker 2: why they like to venture outside of black women when

1759
01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:39,280
Speaker 2: it comes to their sexual experiences, because women of other

1760
01:26:39,360 --> 01:26:42,919
Speaker 2: races are more freaky, they more open, they more nasty.

1761
01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:46,160
Speaker 3: Black women tend to be like, I ain't doing that.

1762
01:26:46,600 --> 01:26:49,680
Speaker 2: And I got another question I want to ask you,

1763
01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:52,559
Speaker 2: which I feel like, is you know a little shable,

1764
01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:54,120
Speaker 2: I mean table shaker.

1765
01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:57,080
Speaker 1: It's the champaign.

1766
01:26:57,400 --> 01:27:01,640
Speaker 2: But anyways, so, yeah, I just feel like, do you

1767
01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:12,519
Speaker 2: think that mm hmm unattractive women have to be more freaky.

1768
01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:12,719
Speaker 1: Because I feel like that's a table shaker.

1769
01:27:13,320 --> 01:27:14,639
Speaker 5: But can I honest with you?

1770
01:27:14,760 --> 01:27:17,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I want you to be I.

1771
01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:19,519
Speaker 5: Don't know if they have to, but they oftentimes.

1772
01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:22,200
Speaker 4: Are, oh my god, by the way, by the and

1773
01:27:22,280 --> 01:27:24,040
Speaker 4: so and so, let me and so and so, let

1774
01:27:24,120 --> 01:27:26,479
Speaker 4: me let me say, Let me say something real quick.

1775
01:27:27,320 --> 01:27:30,320
Speaker 5: Let me say something. Everybody is beautiful.

1776
01:27:31,240 --> 01:27:33,599
Speaker 4: The first lying they are.

1777
01:27:32,880 --> 01:27:34,960
Speaker 1: You're lying, You're a liar.

1778
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 4: You every yes true? Why anybody aboy that is this?

1779
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:47,200
Speaker 4: It's like, I don't I don't look. I think ugly

1780
01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:49,840
Speaker 4: is the ugliest thing. Ugly is the ugliest word.

1781
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:51,600
Speaker 1: Ugly.

1782
01:27:51,720 --> 01:27:54,840
Speaker 3: Ugly is ugly me and talk about that all the time.

1783
01:27:54,880 --> 01:27:56,799
Speaker 2: I say, in order for me to call somebody ugly,

1784
01:27:57,160 --> 01:27:58,920
Speaker 2: you gotta really be ugly.

1785
01:27:59,080 --> 01:28:01,160
Speaker 5: Or you gotta be a ugly person.

1786
01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:05,880
Speaker 4: Look, so I can find to be honest with you,

1787
01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 4: I can find a beauty and almost just being for

1788
01:28:08,400 --> 01:28:08,880
Speaker 4: real y'all.

1789
01:28:09,200 --> 01:28:13,599
Speaker 1: But do you feel like unattractive women are freaking freaking wrong.

1790
01:28:13,720 --> 01:28:18,439
Speaker 4: I feel like people, I feel like people who some

1791
01:28:18,520 --> 01:28:22,840
Speaker 4: other people might feel like are conventionally unattractive do sometimes

1792
01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 4: feel like they have to go to the degree so.

1793
01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:30,280
Speaker 1: Fine women don't be like that's what we're asking because

1794
01:28:30,439 --> 01:28:32,920
Speaker 1: we were talking about that because I had a com

1795
01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:37,120
Speaker 1: with like, we were having conversations and we felt like

1796
01:28:37,200 --> 01:28:40,400
Speaker 1: they was like, oh, I'd be surprised that certain women

1797
01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:42,160
Speaker 1: that look a certain type of way beyond that type

1798
01:28:42,160 --> 01:28:46,360
Speaker 1: of time, I'll say what it is my men. We

1799
01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:50,240
Speaker 1: were having a conversation recently and he basically was just

1800
01:28:50,360 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 1: like when we first started like talking, I was very

1801
01:28:54,040 --> 01:28:58,280
Speaker 1: surprised how freek you were, he was like, because typically

1802
01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:00,880
Speaker 1: he was like, I really wasn't expect than that because

1803
01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:04,559
Speaker 1: I feel like, typically women that look like you are

1804
01:29:04,680 --> 01:29:07,400
Speaker 1: not that freaky. I feel like they feel like they

1805
01:29:07,400 --> 01:29:09,240
Speaker 1: don't have to do all that, they don't have to

1806
01:29:09,280 --> 01:29:10,920
Speaker 1: go to these links, they don't have to go to

1807
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:13,639
Speaker 1: these extremes. So I was very surprised to find out

1808
01:29:13,960 --> 01:29:17,400
Speaker 1: that you just really enjoy doing certain things that just

1809
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:19,240
Speaker 1: hasn't been my experience in the past.

1810
01:29:19,360 --> 01:29:23,000
Speaker 4: I remember, I come from a different era, right I do.

1811
01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:24,639
Speaker 4: I come from an era where.

1812
01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:25,519
Speaker 3: Where you come from?

1813
01:29:25,640 --> 01:29:26,599
Speaker 5: Well, I mean I remember.

1814
01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:30,679
Speaker 4: I remember I was a revolutionary amongst my crew because

1815
01:29:30,720 --> 01:29:31,599
Speaker 4: I was the first one.

1816
01:29:31,880 --> 01:29:33,200
Speaker 1: I was fighting the power.

1817
01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:36,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, man, I remember everybody was sitting I remember these

1818
01:29:36,920 --> 01:29:37,960
Speaker 4: conversations so vividly.

1819
01:29:38,439 --> 01:29:40,240
Speaker 5: Nigga, I don't eat no pussy, I don't need no pussy.

1820
01:29:40,320 --> 01:29:42,000
Speaker 3: I was like same, and that's what my boyfriend.

1821
01:29:42,120 --> 01:29:44,599
Speaker 4: I remember like. I was like, I was like, yeah,

1822
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:46,120
Speaker 4: nig do it.

1823
01:29:46,120 --> 01:29:48,320
Speaker 1: And I like, I know that's right.

1824
01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:50,800
Speaker 5: And they was like you like it.

1825
01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 4: I remember, bruh. I feel like I changed them.

1826
01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:57,960
Speaker 3: It's the nasty time because.

1827
01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:02,479
Speaker 4: It really it literally was literally it literally was, and

1828
01:30:02,520 --> 01:30:05,040
Speaker 4: these niggas notice they laughing their ass off. It literally

1829
01:30:05,080 --> 01:30:08,160
Speaker 4: was like a year later that everybody was like, oh shit, nigga,

1830
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:11,240
Speaker 4: I'll be eating that stuff. Like that like that. So

1831
01:30:11,240 --> 01:30:14,120
Speaker 4: what I'm saying is the sexual repression and how things

1832
01:30:14,120 --> 01:30:17,240
Speaker 4: have changed in like the last x amount.

1833
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:19,200
Speaker 5: It's just different. Now it's different.

1834
01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:23,000
Speaker 4: Now everybody has like all of this shit is is different.

1835
01:30:23,040 --> 01:30:24,680
Speaker 4: It used to people you were a little bit more

1836
01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:27,719
Speaker 4: repressed to me, and now it's different.

1837
01:30:27,760 --> 01:30:30,040
Speaker 5: I feel like now they're different expectations.

1838
01:30:30,040 --> 01:30:32,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Well Lol Wayne dropped pussy Monster.

1839
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 1: That changed a lot.

1840
01:30:33,560 --> 01:30:36,760
Speaker 4: Wayne. Lil Wayne is the single most important advocate of

1841
01:30:36,840 --> 01:30:37,720
Speaker 4: pussy eating ever.

1842
01:30:37,920 --> 01:30:39,520
Speaker 5: Literally, like Lou Wayne.

1843
01:30:39,360 --> 01:30:43,000
Speaker 4: Is like right now, half of Little Wayne's lyrics are

1844
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:43,840
Speaker 4: about gangster shit.

1845
01:30:44,280 --> 01:30:45,559
Speaker 5: It's literally fifty to fifty.

1846
01:30:45,760 --> 01:30:48,559
Speaker 4: Lil Wayne raps about two things, gangster shit and eating

1847
01:30:48,560 --> 01:30:49,560
Speaker 4: pussy facts.

1848
01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:55,160
Speaker 1: So Lou Wayne red Bones, even.

1849
01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:57,479
Speaker 4: The pussy of Red Bones, He's not just rapping about

1850
01:30:57,479 --> 01:30:59,479
Speaker 4: the Red Bulls's rapped out. So Lou Wayne is very

1851
01:30:59,479 --> 01:31:02,519
Speaker 4: important and hip hop in terms of the demystifying of

1852
01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:05,360
Speaker 4: the eating pussy situation. But what I'm saying is that,

1853
01:31:05,439 --> 01:31:08,200
Speaker 4: like now I feel like everybody is a little bit

1854
01:31:08,240 --> 01:31:10,759
Speaker 4: more nasty, if not a little bit more nasty.

1855
01:31:11,360 --> 01:31:13,120
Speaker 5: We can talk about it a little bit.

1856
01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:15,600
Speaker 1: Okay, because I do think it's like so crazy that

1857
01:31:15,640 --> 01:31:17,680
Speaker 1: people are like, oh, these all they want to talk

1858
01:31:17,680 --> 01:31:19,960
Speaker 1: about it sex, But I feel like sex is normal.

1859
01:31:20,040 --> 01:31:24,240
Speaker 1: Sex is it's human nature, Like this is what we do.

1860
01:31:24,280 --> 01:31:26,519
Speaker 1: Why is it so bad to talk about it? But

1861
01:31:27,120 --> 01:31:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I do feel like sometimes that

1862
01:31:32,880 --> 01:31:37,000
Speaker 1: people do overdo it with their horniness, okay, And I

1863
01:31:37,040 --> 01:31:41,679
Speaker 1: think I think if you're talking about fucking all day

1864
01:31:41,720 --> 01:31:43,800
Speaker 1: on like Twitter and your tweet, you like to be

1865
01:31:43,880 --> 01:31:46,400
Speaker 1: fucked and bent over? You waking up in the corner

1866
01:31:46,400 --> 01:31:49,519
Speaker 1: of life. Who ready to get the deck sloped? I

1867
01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:51,960
Speaker 1: like to put balls on my forehead. It's eight o'clock

1868
01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,560
Speaker 1: in the morning, baby. I think sometimes.

1869
01:31:54,240 --> 01:31:55,879
Speaker 3: People do on your forehead.

1870
01:31:57,080 --> 01:32:00,320
Speaker 1: I do, but I'm not about to tweet about it.

1871
01:32:00,360 --> 01:32:01,160
Speaker 5: So it's okay, it's.

1872
01:32:01,080 --> 01:32:02,759
Speaker 3: Not I think that it's Yeah.

1873
01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:05,080
Speaker 4: So there was this we talked about this one thing

1874
01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:09,240
Speaker 4: on Higher Learning podcast. Talk about this one thing on

1875
01:32:09,280 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 4: Higher Learning and it was this this this teacher is

1876
01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:15,960
Speaker 4: a substitute teacher, and she said, I can't wait to

1877
01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:17,200
Speaker 4: get some heavy dick this.

1878
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:21,160
Speaker 3: Week on his heavy dick but mood, but why.

1879
01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:23,560
Speaker 4: Are you and they fired good.

1880
01:32:24,240 --> 01:32:26,240
Speaker 1: No, she said it to her students.

1881
01:32:26,640 --> 01:32:30,120
Speaker 5: Nigga, that'd have been all over it. Can you imagine?

1882
01:32:30,320 --> 01:32:30,599
Speaker 1: Yes?

1883
01:32:30,720 --> 01:32:32,519
Speaker 5: That's like can you can you imagine?

1884
01:32:32,560 --> 01:32:32,640
Speaker 4: No?

1885
01:32:32,720 --> 01:32:33,759
Speaker 5: She said it on Twitter.

1886
01:32:33,920 --> 01:32:36,680
Speaker 4: Oh oh if they if she was said, if she'd

1887
01:32:36,720 --> 01:32:39,080
Speaker 4: have looked at a bunch of fucking twelve year olds

1888
01:32:39,080 --> 01:32:41,240
Speaker 4: have been like, what you guys doing this weekend? I

1889
01:32:41,320 --> 01:32:45,400
Speaker 4: played soccer basketball? Well, you're miss Watson is getting some

1890
01:32:45,439 --> 01:32:46,800
Speaker 4: heavy dick and I can't wait.

1891
01:32:47,040 --> 01:32:48,080
Speaker 5: That would have been too much.

1892
01:32:48,400 --> 01:32:50,519
Speaker 1: Well, I'm just saying people be weird. I don't know,

1893
01:32:50,520 --> 01:32:54,439
Speaker 1: I like, but I.

1894
01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:57,640
Speaker 4: Mean heavy heavy. And so she tweeted and they fired her.

1895
01:32:57,840 --> 01:33:00,920
Speaker 4: And my whole thing is she a woman and she

1896
01:33:01,000 --> 01:33:03,479
Speaker 4: got a Twitter. What's the point of her? Y'all should

1897
01:33:03,479 --> 01:33:05,360
Speaker 4: have her on here because she she just she did

1898
01:33:05,400 --> 01:33:09,680
Speaker 4: horrible decisions. Her name is miss Watson, like like Christina X,

1899
01:33:09,840 --> 01:33:10,840
Speaker 4: y'all shoul have her on here, Like.

1900
01:33:10,840 --> 01:33:13,120
Speaker 1: Okay, she does she do poor now or something?

1901
01:33:13,160 --> 01:33:14,400
Speaker 5: No, she doesn't do poor.

1902
01:33:15,600 --> 01:33:18,160
Speaker 1: She was on horrible decisions. It's a sex podcast, So

1903
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:20,799
Speaker 1: that's why I thought, miss Watson.

1904
01:33:21,120 --> 01:33:22,639
Speaker 5: Have y'all got horrible decisions?

1905
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:25,679
Speaker 1: Yeah? Me and Wheezy are like, well that's her dog, right,

1906
01:33:25,840 --> 01:33:29,120
Speaker 1: y'all don't do poor? No, But we talk about sex

1907
01:33:29,160 --> 01:33:31,479
Speaker 1: and we're opening there. I just thought, how do you

1908
01:33:31,479 --> 01:33:35,000
Speaker 1: go from a substitute teacher to being on a sex podcast?

1909
01:33:35,040 --> 01:33:37,160
Speaker 3: Because she was FORRNY she got.

1910
01:33:37,040 --> 01:33:40,479
Speaker 4: Kicked off her job, and so now she's on the

1911
01:33:40,640 --> 01:33:42,200
Speaker 4: she's doing she's embraced.

1912
01:33:42,320 --> 01:33:42,920
Speaker 5: That's not the point.

1913
01:33:43,400 --> 01:33:46,720
Speaker 4: The point. The point is this. The point is talk

1914
01:33:46,760 --> 01:33:48,880
Speaker 4: about sex. I mean, you could talk about anything too much,

1915
01:33:49,439 --> 01:33:51,840
Speaker 4: Like is I follow a lot of people that all

1916
01:33:51,840 --> 01:33:54,160
Speaker 4: they talk about is the NBA, And I'll be asking them, like, nigga,

1917
01:33:54,200 --> 01:33:56,800
Speaker 4: you don't you ever go to the movies? You know

1918
01:33:56,840 --> 01:33:59,360
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like, like like every single thing is

1919
01:33:59,400 --> 01:34:02,960
Speaker 4: like I thought, hate sga And he fucking gets to

1920
01:34:02,960 --> 01:34:03,400
Speaker 4: the line.

1921
01:34:03,439 --> 01:34:05,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, bro, fucking you talking about.

1922
01:34:05,200 --> 01:34:07,440
Speaker 1: Ron sexuals and all that stuff.

1923
01:34:07,120 --> 01:34:09,000
Speaker 5: All of that stuff. You can talk about anything too much.

1924
01:34:09,000 --> 01:34:11,759
Speaker 4: But I just I do think that for some reason,

1925
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 4: we look at sex in this real specific way.

1926
01:34:14,600 --> 01:34:17,400
Speaker 2: Oh you don't think black women are prudes in the bedroom.

1927
01:34:17,439 --> 01:34:20,720
Speaker 2: But she's not had a very interesting TAKEE what what

1928
01:34:23,200 --> 01:34:25,200
Speaker 2: let show me takes niches that you've seen?

1929
01:34:26,320 --> 01:34:26,960
Speaker 4: What did I say?

1930
01:34:27,720 --> 01:34:30,640
Speaker 1: You said that if a woman doesn't do aintal, she

1931
01:34:30,680 --> 01:34:32,360
Speaker 1: doesn't deserve to go on days.

1932
01:34:32,479 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 5: Hold on, so let me tell you it was a joke.

1933
01:34:34,760 --> 01:34:37,719
Speaker 4: You guys. Wait a second, hold on, see this, Wait

1934
01:34:38,120 --> 01:34:41,719
Speaker 4: they are TMZ. Let me tell you why poor Mines

1935
01:34:41,800 --> 01:34:46,400
Speaker 4: is TMZ. Hopefully I was making fun. I was making

1936
01:34:46,479 --> 01:34:47,760
Speaker 4: fun of the girl.

1937
01:34:47,680 --> 01:34:52,799
Speaker 1: Who's women that don't do anal should it don't deserve today.

1938
01:34:52,840 --> 01:34:53,960
Speaker 5: Okay, this is the thing.

1939
01:34:54,040 --> 01:34:56,760
Speaker 4: Though, for a second, let.

1940
01:34:56,680 --> 01:34:59,200
Speaker 3: Me say something. When you sent it, though, I was

1941
01:34:59,280 --> 01:34:59,880
Speaker 3: kind of like, I.

1942
01:34:59,840 --> 01:35:04,919
Speaker 5: Mean, look, let me give you guys some context.

1943
01:35:05,320 --> 01:35:07,800
Speaker 4: I know that I'm coming on the podcast and the

1944
01:35:07,880 --> 01:35:10,960
Speaker 4: girl that said the fifty thousand dollar thing is going viral,

1945
01:35:11,439 --> 01:35:13,320
Speaker 4: so I'm like, I'm gonna say some crazy ship to

1946
01:35:13,360 --> 01:35:15,439
Speaker 4: go viral. So what I said was, I'm gonna say,

1947
01:35:15,520 --> 01:35:19,120
Speaker 4: women that don't have do anal don't deserve to date.

1948
01:35:19,360 --> 01:35:20,640
Speaker 5: It's a joke.

1949
01:35:20,479 --> 01:35:23,840
Speaker 3: About stop man, you like, but.

1950
01:35:28,280 --> 01:35:29,000
Speaker 1: About that at all.

1951
01:35:29,760 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 5: I was trying to think of some crazy ship to

1952
01:35:31,439 --> 01:35:32,360
Speaker 5: say to go viral.

1953
01:35:32,760 --> 01:35:33,200
Speaker 1: Y'all.

1954
01:35:33,280 --> 01:35:38,960
Speaker 4: Y'all just so fucked up, Like, you know, that was.

1955
01:35:40,880 --> 01:35:47,640
Speaker 1: So do you like?

1956
01:35:44,840 --> 01:35:49,760
Speaker 5: But I'm not an expert in that. I haven't had

1957
01:35:49,800 --> 01:35:50,400
Speaker 5: that like talk.

1958
01:35:50,520 --> 01:35:51,160
Speaker 3: You never did it.

1959
01:35:51,760 --> 01:35:54,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it wasn't like a I feel like I

1960
01:35:54,840 --> 01:35:57,280
Speaker 4: feel like, first of all, it's been a long time

1961
01:35:57,320 --> 01:36:00,320
Speaker 4: and then secondly, it was also like, that's not something

1962
01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:03,000
Speaker 4: that I around the time, and I was really out

1963
01:36:03,000 --> 01:36:05,400
Speaker 4: there that wasn't something.

1964
01:36:04,040 --> 01:36:07,559
Speaker 1: That Yeah, I know that's right. One thing about you,

1965
01:36:07,560 --> 01:36:09,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna get deep about a topic.

1966
01:36:09,720 --> 01:36:14,320
Speaker 4: Because you know the way. And honestly, I'm just saying

1967
01:36:14,439 --> 01:36:16,800
Speaker 4: at the peripheral, no, I'm just being for real, like

1968
01:36:17,360 --> 01:36:18,280
Speaker 4: the you know ain'tal.

1969
01:36:19,040 --> 01:36:20,439
Speaker 5: A lot of things opened up in.

1970
01:36:20,439 --> 01:36:24,200
Speaker 1: The last no pun intended.

1971
01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:28,680
Speaker 4: Saying, and the asshole was one of them. But look,

1972
01:36:28,720 --> 01:36:31,080
Speaker 4: I've been seeing videos with people walking around. Have you

1973
01:36:31,240 --> 01:36:33,320
Speaker 4: seen the videos with girls walking around and they got

1974
01:36:33,320 --> 01:36:35,640
Speaker 4: the h and the light up?

1975
01:36:36,280 --> 01:36:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love a good light up, but we got one.

1976
01:36:39,040 --> 01:36:40,400
Speaker 5: That wasn't in my era.

1977
01:36:40,640 --> 01:36:42,880
Speaker 1: Okay, I seen the video on Twitter that I have

1978
01:36:43,160 --> 01:36:45,400
Speaker 1: a stripper. She was at the club and she was

1979
01:36:46,200 --> 01:36:48,240
Speaker 1: and he put the girl walked up and put a

1980
01:36:48,240 --> 01:36:51,760
Speaker 1: park in her booty hole. I did see that girl

1981
01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:53,960
Speaker 1: put that in and it was like they was so

1982
01:36:54,000 --> 01:36:55,960
Speaker 1: mad at the girl, and I said, that looks like

1983
01:36:56,000 --> 01:36:56,519
Speaker 1: a good time.

1984
01:36:56,720 --> 01:36:57,599
Speaker 5: That's been happy.

1985
01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:00,840
Speaker 1: Poems about that.

1986
01:37:00,960 --> 01:37:03,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, you take the it was the jigger, you know

1987
01:37:03,240 --> 01:37:05,240
Speaker 4: what it's saying, put in the bullhelch.

1988
01:37:07,720 --> 01:37:11,280
Speaker 1: Don't get me stuck all right, so now it's time to.

1989
01:37:11,320 --> 01:37:17,920
Speaker 2: Get into the bye the bye bow Bow Bow Bow

1990
01:37:18,160 --> 01:37:19,000
Speaker 2: bow bow.

1991
01:37:19,120 --> 01:37:21,120
Speaker 1: Okay, so we don't get into the bop of the

1992
01:37:21,120 --> 01:37:23,479
Speaker 1: week this week, so I'm not gonna lie. One thing

1993
01:37:23,520 --> 01:37:25,680
Speaker 1: I love is I love how music changes, and I

1994
01:37:25,720 --> 01:37:29,120
Speaker 1: love how music evolves. I love how everything changes and evolves.

1995
01:37:29,240 --> 01:37:31,360
Speaker 1: But one thing I will say, I love how music,

1996
01:37:32,360 --> 01:37:35,800
Speaker 1: just like fashion, sometimes we go back, and I feel

1997
01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:38,400
Speaker 1: like the girls, the young girls right now, they're getting it,

1998
01:37:38,439 --> 01:37:42,439
Speaker 1: they're understanding, and they're going back. I feel like I

1999
01:37:42,479 --> 01:37:45,640
Speaker 1: heard such a good pop song. So, y'all, remember we

2000
01:37:45,640 --> 01:37:48,200
Speaker 1: had good pop music when it was like the Britney Spears,

2001
01:37:48,320 --> 01:37:52,479
Speaker 1: the Lady Got Guys, the Mandy Mooores. I heard a

2002
01:37:52,560 --> 01:37:54,640
Speaker 1: really good pop song the other day. It's like a

2003
01:37:54,640 --> 01:37:57,960
Speaker 1: pop R and B song and they sampled. Y'all remember

2004
01:37:58,520 --> 01:38:03,360
Speaker 1: Genuine when he had Pony and it was like yup, yeah, yeah,

2005
01:38:03,400 --> 01:38:07,479
Speaker 1: So she sampled the little yell thing. But it's such

2006
01:38:07,560 --> 01:38:09,360
Speaker 1: a good song because it's like it goes fast, it

2007
01:38:09,400 --> 01:38:12,360
Speaker 1: goes so. But anyways, the girl's name is lay Banks

2008
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:15,640
Speaker 1: and she's like a TikToker. She's really popular. She's a

2009
01:38:15,640 --> 01:38:18,240
Speaker 1: young girl. She'd be doing the little TikTok dances and stuff.

2010
01:38:18,520 --> 01:38:21,479
Speaker 1: So she has a song called tell Your Girlfriend, and

2011
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:24,320
Speaker 1: it's simple as the little genuine thing. She probably don't

2012
01:38:24,320 --> 01:38:26,639
Speaker 1: even know who genuine is, that's what's so funny about it.

2013
01:38:26,920 --> 01:38:28,760
Speaker 1: But it was such when I heard it, I was like,

2014
01:38:28,840 --> 01:38:31,840
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is a good like. I like,

2015
01:38:32,160 --> 01:38:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm a hater. I tell y'all this every week. I'm

2016
01:38:34,160 --> 01:38:36,920
Speaker 1: a hater. The song is like, tell your girlfriend that

2017
01:38:37,000 --> 01:38:41,800
Speaker 1: I'm your girlfriend. I like negative hating, dirty mac and

2018
01:38:41,960 --> 01:38:44,720
Speaker 1: ass and music. I want to hear you hate on

2019
01:38:44,760 --> 01:38:46,840
Speaker 1: that bitch, hate on that bitch to get your man.

2020
01:38:47,280 --> 01:38:49,639
Speaker 1: I want to fight for you, fight for your love.

2021
01:38:50,200 --> 01:38:52,000
Speaker 1: And that's what we're getting back to it. She's like

2022
01:38:52,040 --> 01:38:53,920
Speaker 1: in her twenties. She doin't not even be in her

2023
01:38:53,920 --> 01:38:56,080
Speaker 1: twenties yet. But yeah, my bop of the week is

2024
01:38:56,200 --> 01:38:59,680
Speaker 1: lay Banks Tell your Girlfriend. It's a bob And I

2025
01:38:59,680 --> 01:39:01,800
Speaker 1: feel like the girls they're getting it. The girls are

2026
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:04,320
Speaker 1: starting to make good music again. I think we're about

2027
01:39:04,360 --> 01:39:05,880
Speaker 1: to get into it. We're about to go on a

2028
01:39:05,960 --> 01:39:11,000
Speaker 1: run with good music. We're getting back. We're getting back

2029
01:39:11,040 --> 01:39:14,400
Speaker 1: to good music. Nikki and Meghan was beefing. It got ugly.

2030
01:39:14,840 --> 01:39:19,360
Speaker 1: Let's bring out negative energy, bring back to negative energy.

2031
01:39:21,280 --> 01:39:22,120
Speaker 1: But you got Drell.

2032
01:39:22,720 --> 01:39:25,360
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like this week for me, it's given no,

2033
01:39:25,800 --> 01:39:28,040
Speaker 2: Like I think I have to go back to something old.

2034
01:39:28,200 --> 01:39:29,760
Speaker 1: Go ahead, because I'm just not.

2035
01:39:29,760 --> 01:39:31,880
Speaker 2: Really feeling the vibes with like the new music. I

2036
01:39:31,880 --> 01:39:34,920
Speaker 2: feel like it be hit her music. So I was

2037
01:39:34,960 --> 01:39:37,519
Speaker 2: talking to my mom the other day and I was

2038
01:39:37,560 --> 01:39:38,640
Speaker 2: on the phone with her, and she was in the

2039
01:39:38,720 --> 01:39:40,960
Speaker 2: choir and she was listening to fact Frankie Beverly in May.

2040
01:39:41,240 --> 01:39:45,559
Speaker 1: No want mom.

2041
01:39:45,880 --> 01:39:48,800
Speaker 4: To the beach Why the beach boys, Like, I don't know,

2042
01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:50,840
Speaker 4: I don't know.

2043
01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:52,479
Speaker 1: That was just the first thing that came to mind.

2044
01:39:52,560 --> 01:39:55,479
Speaker 1: But you know he going on a tour a farewell tool.

2045
01:39:55,560 --> 01:39:56,200
Speaker 3: You want to go to that?

2046
01:39:56,600 --> 01:40:00,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Frankie bab thought she was talking the beach boy.

2047
01:40:00,360 --> 01:40:04,480
Speaker 1: I'll go to that too, Frankie. You said she was listening.

2048
01:40:04,200 --> 01:40:07,080
Speaker 2: To uh, yeah, she was listening to Frankie Beverly in

2049
01:40:07,160 --> 01:40:09,280
Speaker 2: May and she was listening to happy Feelings And I'm like,

2050
01:40:09,360 --> 01:40:12,479
Speaker 2: that is such a good that's such a black people

2051
01:40:12,600 --> 01:40:15,639
Speaker 2: feel good, Like it don't matter what type of mold

2052
01:40:15,720 --> 01:40:17,720
Speaker 2: you in. And when I was on the phone with her,

2053
01:40:17,760 --> 01:40:19,640
Speaker 2: like two days ago, she was listening today and then

2054
01:40:19,680 --> 01:40:21,920
Speaker 2: today when I was getting ready to come up here,

2055
01:40:22,680 --> 01:40:23,840
Speaker 2: I was listening to it while I.

2056
01:40:23,800 --> 01:40:24,639
Speaker 4: Was on my makeup.

2057
01:40:25,200 --> 01:40:27,679
Speaker 3: I was just like, you know what, I'm feeling happy

2058
01:40:27,760 --> 01:40:29,800
Speaker 3: feelings in their.

2059
01:40:30,080 --> 01:40:34,320
Speaker 1: Fair world everywhere or every year. They are on the

2060
01:40:34,400 --> 01:40:37,719
Speaker 1: road all the time, so like I felt the happy. Yeah,

2061
01:40:38,439 --> 01:40:40,719
Speaker 1: and he's going on his fare world tour and everybody

2062
01:40:40,840 --> 01:40:42,920
Speaker 1: is really upset right now, where are you going his

2063
01:40:43,080 --> 01:40:46,120
Speaker 1: farewell tour? Not sick?

2064
01:40:46,560 --> 01:40:50,519
Speaker 4: He's not sick, you say the upper room Jesus.

2065
01:40:51,240 --> 01:40:53,519
Speaker 1: No, I don't mean no, Jesus is the right.

2066
01:40:55,240 --> 01:41:07,760
Speaker 7: No, stop it, man, pray for fresh stop.

2067
01:41:07,600 --> 01:41:10,280
Speaker 1: It, okay, because we love him. Oh that's what I'm saying.

2068
01:41:10,439 --> 01:41:12,160
Speaker 1: He is going on the pharaweh. But honestly, I don't

2069
01:41:12,160 --> 01:41:13,760
Speaker 1: think it's that. I really think he probably just wants

2070
01:41:13,760 --> 01:41:19,840
Speaker 1: to relax this for man.

2071
01:41:19,600 --> 01:41:25,080
Speaker 5: I don't think he's about to die.

2072
01:41:25,280 --> 01:41:25,320
Speaker 8: No.

2073
01:41:26,960 --> 01:41:30,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, last he's been on tour for forty eight years. Yeah,

2074
01:41:31,400 --> 01:41:33,960
Speaker 1: this nigga has been on tour since I was in I.

2075
01:41:34,000 --> 01:41:34,439
Speaker 4: Was a kid.

2076
01:41:34,960 --> 01:41:36,400
Speaker 5: I only know it's so funny.

2077
01:41:36,680 --> 01:41:39,519
Speaker 4: I only know the old version of them, Like I'm

2078
01:41:39,520 --> 01:41:41,760
Speaker 4: sure they had a young version, Yeah they did.

2079
01:41:42,240 --> 01:41:44,200
Speaker 1: They was old That's what I'm saying. So I think

2080
01:41:44,200 --> 01:41:46,800
Speaker 1: he's retiring because he's probably like, you know what, I

2081
01:41:46,880 --> 01:41:49,920
Speaker 1: want to relax now. I got great great grandkids that

2082
01:41:50,000 --> 01:41:50,360
Speaker 1: need me.

2083
01:41:50,840 --> 01:41:52,639
Speaker 5: The question is do we keep the song?

2084
01:41:52,720 --> 01:41:54,519
Speaker 4: We keep doing the song after they can't do it

2085
01:41:54,520 --> 01:41:55,800
Speaker 4: no more because they come to do a song at

2086
01:41:55,880 --> 01:41:56,800
Speaker 4: Essence Fest every year?

2087
01:41:57,479 --> 01:41:58,760
Speaker 5: Do we have somebody else come do that?

2088
01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:03,880
Speaker 1: Beyonce is the only version that's acceptable. So if we

2089
01:42:03,920 --> 01:42:05,960
Speaker 1: do have somebody that does that, it's got to be

2090
01:42:06,000 --> 01:42:08,200
Speaker 1: the Beyonce version because that's the only one that's susceptible

2091
01:42:08,400 --> 01:42:09,320
Speaker 1: because she did that.

2092
01:42:10,080 --> 01:42:10,840
Speaker 5: Do I get a biple?

2093
01:42:10,880 --> 01:42:12,479
Speaker 1: The Week's waiting on you?

2094
01:42:13,320 --> 01:42:18,000
Speaker 5: What's the song that with Kanye? Kanye and I'm doing it?

2095
01:42:18,040 --> 01:42:18,200
Speaker 4: Bro?

2096
01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:18,960
Speaker 1: You are?

2097
01:42:19,200 --> 01:42:22,639
Speaker 4: So it's Kanye and Tie Dollars sign and Freddy Gibbs.

2098
01:42:22,640 --> 01:42:23,480
Speaker 4: What's that record?

2099
01:42:24,040 --> 01:42:24,880
Speaker 1: Off the new album?

2100
01:42:25,000 --> 01:42:27,320
Speaker 5: Off the new album? It's all Vultures? What's that? What's

2101
01:42:27,360 --> 01:42:27,799
Speaker 5: that record?

2102
01:42:29,680 --> 01:42:31,559
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna liet me tell you something, man, it's

2103
01:42:31,560 --> 01:42:33,439
Speaker 4: because of Freddy. Freddy is a beast.

2104
01:42:33,760 --> 01:42:37,400
Speaker 1: Okay, I do funk with Freddy, but honestly, I'm not

2105
01:42:37,400 --> 01:42:41,200
Speaker 1: gonna lie. When I logged on a Twitter on Valentine's

2106
01:42:41,240 --> 01:42:42,920
Speaker 1: d I saw his bootyhole, so I've.

2107
01:42:42,760 --> 01:42:45,639
Speaker 3: Seen his booty hole too, and but it was a nice.

2108
01:42:45,439 --> 01:42:49,160
Speaker 1: Boot was a beautiful that's a beautiful brown star feed.

2109
01:42:49,280 --> 01:42:53,040
Speaker 1: So she thought that she ate that, she thought that

2110
01:42:53,120 --> 01:42:54,160
Speaker 1: she was like embarrassing him.

2111
01:42:54,200 --> 01:42:56,400
Speaker 3: No, she did eat that, but she didn't eat that.

2112
01:42:56,479 --> 01:43:01,040
Speaker 1: But you're not embarrass him, no, because he was. I'm

2113
01:43:01,080 --> 01:43:06,240
Speaker 1: sorry towards her. If you're in a relationship with somebody

2114
01:43:06,240 --> 01:43:08,280
Speaker 1: and whatever y'all do sexually.

2115
01:43:08,439 --> 01:43:10,479
Speaker 4: That bitch lane, why is that not revenge?

2116
01:43:10,520 --> 01:43:13,080
Speaker 1: For it is and she needs and he needs to

2117
01:43:13,120 --> 01:43:13,519
Speaker 1: sue her.

2118
01:43:14,320 --> 01:43:17,680
Speaker 2: And the crazy thing is his booty hall is beautiful

2119
01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:18,559
Speaker 2: to sell it now?

2120
01:43:20,800 --> 01:43:23,880
Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, She's like, she's like, that's back to me,

2121
01:43:24,240 --> 01:43:26,519
Speaker 1: back to back to back to me period.

2122
01:43:26,840 --> 01:43:31,120
Speaker 4: That's the that's the bob back to bed being Freddy,

2123
01:43:32,120 --> 01:43:34,080
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I didn't go that way.

2124
01:43:34,160 --> 01:43:37,160
Speaker 1: No, But honestly, I will say this, Freddy Gibbs is

2125
01:43:37,200 --> 01:43:41,320
Speaker 1: a phenomenal rapper. And I think sometimes the shenanigans that

2126
01:43:41,320 --> 01:43:43,439
Speaker 1: he gets involved with, you know, kind of shadow it.

2127
01:43:43,479 --> 01:43:46,599
Speaker 1: But he he can rap really well. High Dollar Time

2128
01:43:47,240 --> 01:43:49,840
Speaker 1: is one of the most talented people that I have

2129
01:43:49,960 --> 01:43:52,240
Speaker 1: ever listened to in my life. Horses in The Stable

2130
01:43:52,320 --> 01:43:56,000
Speaker 1: is a classic record, And I feel like sometimes people

2131
01:43:56,040 --> 01:43:57,920
Speaker 1: get in the studio and they make things that people

2132
01:43:57,920 --> 01:43:58,960
Speaker 1: don't even understand.

2133
01:43:59,760 --> 01:44:00,559
Speaker 5: That's your favorite.

2134
01:44:01,960 --> 01:44:03,840
Speaker 2: I had this song back in the day that was

2135
01:44:03,840 --> 01:44:06,000
Speaker 2: on one of his mixtapes called get It How I Live.

2136
01:44:06,400 --> 01:44:10,000
Speaker 2: But this is like deep deep deep inside.

2137
01:44:10,240 --> 01:44:12,800
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I know, like you wouldn't know unless.

2138
01:44:12,640 --> 01:44:15,080
Speaker 1: You know the mixtape, his mixtape Errors.

2139
01:44:15,160 --> 01:44:16,679
Speaker 3: Yes, it was so good.

2140
01:44:17,160 --> 01:44:19,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love him too. Man makes great music.

2141
01:44:20,600 --> 01:44:22,600
Speaker 1: He does R and B and he can get in

2142
01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:23,920
Speaker 1: that little hip hop.

2143
01:44:24,400 --> 01:44:27,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, hip hop R and B idiom zone.

2144
01:44:28,200 --> 01:44:28,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2145
01:44:28,640 --> 01:44:30,439
Speaker 4: My favorite joint was Dropped Top and the Ring.

2146
01:44:31,479 --> 01:44:35,559
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's a good okay one.

2147
01:44:36,160 --> 01:44:39,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the girls beking you because you got you

2148
01:44:39,920 --> 01:44:41,839
Speaker 2: low key kind of got light eyes.

2149
01:44:41,960 --> 01:44:47,160
Speaker 1: I mean, let me see yeah like brown, you mean

2150
01:44:47,479 --> 01:44:48,840
Speaker 1: looking at the girls and singing them.

2151
01:44:49,360 --> 01:44:53,759
Speaker 4: Kanye West, I have no musical talent whatsoever.

2152
01:44:53,800 --> 01:44:56,360
Speaker 1: Okay, So what made you so you still listen to

2153
01:44:56,400 --> 01:44:57,240
Speaker 1: Kanye's music.

2154
01:44:58,160 --> 01:45:01,360
Speaker 4: I listened to this last project just out of curiosity.

2155
01:45:01,600 --> 01:45:03,759
Speaker 4: You know what I'm really you know what, I'm starting

2156
01:45:03,760 --> 01:45:06,680
Speaker 4: to realize. Man's why I start to realize, Man, I

2157
01:45:06,680 --> 01:45:10,400
Speaker 4: ain't ship what you mean. It's like I want to

2158
01:45:10,439 --> 01:45:13,920
Speaker 4: be able to not do things that are like toxic,

2159
01:45:14,720 --> 01:45:17,840
Speaker 4: but I do them, you know, Like it's like I

2160
01:45:17,880 --> 01:45:19,840
Speaker 4: want to be able to be I'm never gonna listen

2161
01:45:19,920 --> 01:45:20,759
Speaker 4: to Kanye again.

2162
01:45:21,160 --> 01:45:22,280
Speaker 5: I'm gonna listen to it.

2163
01:45:22,280 --> 01:45:23,639
Speaker 1: But you know what, let me say something.

2164
01:45:23,840 --> 01:45:26,320
Speaker 4: Let me I can't listen. There's two people who I

2165
01:45:26,360 --> 01:45:30,400
Speaker 4: can't listen to. I can't listen to R Kelly. I

2166
01:45:30,479 --> 01:45:34,519
Speaker 4: just can't. It's just like I remember I was riding

2167
01:45:34,520 --> 01:45:36,120
Speaker 4: in the call one time and I had, you know,

2168
01:45:36,200 --> 01:45:38,799
Speaker 4: I put on Miguel in some kind of way. Title

2169
01:45:38,920 --> 01:45:42,240
Speaker 4: was fucking with me. Title was testing me. Miguel went off,

2170
01:45:42,280 --> 01:45:43,840
Speaker 4: and then R Kelly came on, and I was like,

2171
01:45:44,760 --> 01:45:45,479
Speaker 4: what do I do?

2172
01:45:46,080 --> 01:45:48,040
Speaker 5: But I'm I turn it off.

2173
01:45:48,160 --> 01:45:49,920
Speaker 4: I don't want nobody to ride by and be like, yeah,

2174
01:45:49,920 --> 01:45:51,840
Speaker 4: I saw a nigga and straight up listening to that

2175
01:45:51,880 --> 01:45:54,400
Speaker 4: TPT dot com. Now I turn that ship off and

2176
01:45:54,439 --> 01:45:56,719
Speaker 4: so and so I can't listen to it. It's visceral.

2177
01:45:56,800 --> 01:45:58,479
Speaker 4: But all of the other stuff that you're not supposed

2178
01:45:58,520 --> 01:45:58,720
Speaker 4: to do.

2179
01:45:59,240 --> 01:46:00,240
Speaker 5: May I be doing that shit?

2180
01:46:00,720 --> 01:46:04,880
Speaker 1: Let me say something that I'm gonna say this or

2181
01:46:06,240 --> 01:46:08,519
Speaker 1: I don't let let okay, But since I be out

2182
01:46:08,600 --> 01:46:09,080
Speaker 1: by Tory.

2183
01:46:09,280 --> 01:46:10,519
Speaker 3: I was never a Tory fan.

2184
01:46:11,840 --> 01:46:14,000
Speaker 1: This is what I'm gonna say. I'm not. I'm gonna

2185
01:46:14,000 --> 01:46:18,240
Speaker 1: be one hundred percent honest right now. I was a

2186
01:46:18,320 --> 01:46:22,479
Speaker 1: Kanye fan, staying I will say when the when the

2187
01:46:22,479 --> 01:46:24,240
Speaker 1: thing happened with you. That's why I was glad we

2188
01:46:24,280 --> 01:46:26,439
Speaker 1: talked about it today when he said slavery was a choice.

2189
01:46:26,439 --> 01:46:28,320
Speaker 1: That was the last time I listened to Kanye West.

2190
01:46:28,320 --> 01:46:30,720
Speaker 1: I haven't listened to Kanye West since then. And that

2191
01:46:30,840 --> 01:46:33,280
Speaker 1: is the honest to god truth. But I don't feel

2192
01:46:33,280 --> 01:46:35,880
Speaker 1: the need to blast that because that was a personal choice.

2193
01:46:36,320 --> 01:46:38,960
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna ever be like, don't listen to Kanye.

2194
01:46:39,000 --> 01:46:40,600
Speaker 1: Do what y'all want to do. I don't care what

2195
01:46:40,680 --> 01:46:43,360
Speaker 1: affects y'all's life, but I know the type of things

2196
01:46:43,400 --> 01:46:46,479
Speaker 1: that I want to consume. And on top of that,

2197
01:46:46,600 --> 01:46:48,920
Speaker 1: with Toy, I was never, you know, a huge fan

2198
01:46:48,960 --> 01:46:51,439
Speaker 1: of Tori. It wasn't a thing for me to let

2199
01:46:51,479 --> 01:46:53,479
Speaker 1: him go. But I feel like I like to consume

2200
01:46:53,600 --> 01:46:57,800
Speaker 1: people that you know that I kind of like you

2201
01:46:57,840 --> 01:46:59,960
Speaker 1: a little bit and you're not doing no weird shit.

2202
01:47:00,439 --> 01:47:03,559
Speaker 1: But I would never tell people not to listen to Kanye.

2203
01:47:03,680 --> 01:47:06,479
Speaker 4: Listen to you. Personal choice I don't this.

2204
01:47:06,800 --> 01:47:09,080
Speaker 1: Black people publicly, Yeah, I don't give.

2205
01:47:08,920 --> 01:47:10,840
Speaker 3: A fuck about that. I don't this black people.

2206
01:47:10,880 --> 01:47:12,920
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I definitely like,

2207
01:47:13,439 --> 01:47:16,800
Speaker 2: if you choose to keep supporting certain people though publicly

2208
01:47:16,960 --> 01:47:19,400
Speaker 2: after you know the things that they did, I'll be

2209
01:47:19,520 --> 01:47:21,880
Speaker 2: side on you because I don't like that, because I

2210
01:47:21,920 --> 01:47:25,200
Speaker 2: feel like, why don't you care? Real, even if it

2211
01:47:25,240 --> 01:47:28,040
Speaker 2: doesn't affect you personally, why don't you care?

2212
01:47:29,160 --> 01:47:29,840
Speaker 1: Why don't you.

2213
01:47:29,760 --> 01:47:32,200
Speaker 5: Give a to not get right?

2214
01:47:32,280 --> 01:47:34,160
Speaker 3: And so going back to like what you just said

2215
01:47:34,160 --> 01:47:35,000
Speaker 3: about R Kelly.

2216
01:47:35,840 --> 01:47:40,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes, yeah, sometimes I be sad on people because it's

2217
01:47:40,240 --> 01:47:41,920
Speaker 1: like when they be like, oh, I don't give a

2218
01:47:41,960 --> 01:47:43,519
Speaker 1: fucking and they just be posting stuff.

2219
01:47:43,560 --> 01:47:44,560
Speaker 4: It's like, but.

2220
01:47:44,320 --> 01:47:45,599
Speaker 3: Why don't you care?

2221
01:47:48,040 --> 01:47:50,000
Speaker 1: What if it was your daughter, what if it was

2222
01:47:50,000 --> 01:47:51,639
Speaker 1: your niece, what if it was your cousin?

2223
01:47:51,840 --> 01:47:53,639
Speaker 3: Like, I don't like this.

2224
01:47:53,600 --> 01:47:55,400
Speaker 5: Shit the most disappointed thing.

2225
01:47:55,479 --> 01:47:57,640
Speaker 4: So they're too disappointed that the toy thing is just

2226
01:47:57,680 --> 01:47:59,240
Speaker 4: like we also got to make a point with that,

2227
01:47:59,280 --> 01:48:01,040
Speaker 4: and let me tell you why. You know, sure all

2228
01:48:01,080 --> 01:48:02,960
Speaker 4: of his family want to do well whatever it was fine,

2229
01:48:03,680 --> 01:48:06,960
Speaker 4: but that is like it has to be a cautionary

2230
01:48:07,000 --> 01:48:11,200
Speaker 4: tale because all right, everybody's drinking shit went too far,

2231
01:48:12,200 --> 01:48:15,320
Speaker 4: I doubt in a sense. I don't even want to

2232
01:48:15,360 --> 01:48:17,280
Speaker 4: say that. You pick up a gun, you point the gun,

2233
01:48:17,280 --> 01:48:21,040
Speaker 4: you shoot the gun, whatever happens, but like the you're

2234
01:48:22,600 --> 01:48:26,280
Speaker 4: you are responsible for that. But really, to me, the

2235
01:48:26,360 --> 01:48:29,080
Speaker 4: real thing is his first mind was to hit up

2236
01:48:29,120 --> 01:48:32,720
Speaker 4: and apologize this. His first mind. His first mind is

2237
01:48:32,720 --> 01:48:35,240
Speaker 4: to say yo, I'm sorry for this on the phone.

2238
01:48:37,080 --> 01:48:39,719
Speaker 4: His first mind is to be like, I apologize, I'm sorry,

2239
01:48:39,760 --> 01:48:42,479
Speaker 4: I did something wrong. And then as soon as the

2240
01:48:42,479 --> 01:48:45,760
Speaker 4: battery gets in his back, he got to try to

2241
01:48:45,800 --> 01:48:51,479
Speaker 4: make her look bad. And that is or just hey

2242
01:48:51,600 --> 01:48:53,400
Speaker 4: you guys, I mean you going to jail. You shot

2243
01:48:53,400 --> 01:48:55,800
Speaker 4: a gun at it. But the thing is, hey, look man,

2244
01:48:56,479 --> 01:48:59,439
Speaker 4: I was drunk. I was this, I was that. I

2245
01:48:59,479 --> 01:49:02,760
Speaker 4: am so sorry. I will I'll do this. I'll do

2246
01:49:02,840 --> 01:49:07,120
Speaker 4: that the whole nine. By minimizing her and making her

2247
01:49:07,280 --> 01:49:11,519
Speaker 4: into what he did and like continuously harassing by like

2248
01:49:11,600 --> 01:49:13,479
Speaker 4: all of that stuff just made it worse.

2249
01:49:13,520 --> 01:49:16,160
Speaker 5: And that is what we have to prove cannot happen.

2250
01:49:16,520 --> 01:49:19,439
Speaker 1: And this is what I'll say. And I hate to

2251
01:49:19,479 --> 01:49:21,400
Speaker 1: say it this harsh, but it's the honest of God

2252
01:49:21,520 --> 01:49:24,919
Speaker 1: truth in order for sometimes for black women, to get sympathy,

2253
01:49:25,080 --> 01:49:31,280
Speaker 1: we have to die, damn Seriously, if that gun could

2254
01:49:31,280 --> 01:49:34,280
Speaker 1: have ricocheted, the bullet could have hit her and she

2255
01:49:34,400 --> 01:49:39,680
Speaker 1: got in her anywhere, that she could have died. And

2256
01:49:39,800 --> 01:49:43,000
Speaker 1: people don't realize that a gun was shot and that

2257
01:49:43,080 --> 01:49:44,800
Speaker 1: girl could have lost her life. And I don't want it.

2258
01:49:44,800 --> 01:49:46,960
Speaker 1: We're not about to expand on that, but that goes

2259
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:50,200
Speaker 1: into the even the R Kelly situation, because nobody died,

2260
01:49:50,280 --> 01:49:55,320
Speaker 1: nobody cared. We have to lose our lives for people

2261
01:49:55,640 --> 01:49:58,360
Speaker 1: to care. But that only happens to black women.

2262
01:49:58,760 --> 01:50:00,760
Speaker 3: I'll stopped being cool over at R Kelly.

2263
01:50:00,840 --> 01:50:03,760
Speaker 2: She because people polls be weird, like even people be

2264
01:50:03,880 --> 01:50:05,679
Speaker 2: like I don't give a fuck, Like I've even seen

2265
01:50:05,720 --> 01:50:09,080
Speaker 2: people posts and I've unfollowed them, like posted a post

2266
01:50:09,120 --> 01:50:14,519
Speaker 2: where it said, yeah, R Kelly said, but his music

2267
01:50:14,560 --> 01:50:19,360
Speaker 2: still be here and you are weird, you know how? Yeah,

2268
01:50:19,400 --> 01:50:23,400
Speaker 2: because why don't you care? That's weird as fuck to me,

2269
01:50:23,439 --> 01:50:24,080
Speaker 2: and that lets me.

2270
01:50:24,120 --> 01:50:25,280
Speaker 3: Know you don't.

2271
01:50:25,320 --> 01:50:27,160
Speaker 2: You're the type of bitch you don't care about anything,

2272
01:50:27,200 --> 01:50:31,760
Speaker 2: the list of the fake and then because then when

2273
01:50:31,800 --> 01:50:34,280
Speaker 2: it happens to you, you want everybody to have sympathy though,

2274
01:50:34,680 --> 01:50:36,240
Speaker 2: but you don't give a fuck about when it happened

2275
01:50:36,240 --> 01:50:36,880
Speaker 2: to nobody else.

2276
01:50:36,920 --> 01:50:38,120
Speaker 1: And that's why I said, at the end of the day,

2277
01:50:38,120 --> 01:50:39,960
Speaker 1: people be like, oh, Megan lie this and that other

2278
01:50:40,160 --> 01:50:42,200
Speaker 1: and think that a gun was shot and she was injured.

2279
01:50:42,560 --> 01:50:45,760
Speaker 1: We've seen her foot, we've seen the blood. Did y'all

2280
01:50:45,760 --> 01:50:47,680
Speaker 1: want that? That's what she and the fact that she

2281
01:50:47,760 --> 01:50:49,519
Speaker 1: said that she was like, damn, did I wish I

2282
01:50:49,600 --> 01:50:52,280
Speaker 1: would have died? She really said that because the backlash

2283
01:50:52,439 --> 01:50:56,000
Speaker 1: was so harsh. But that is the truth. How she

2284
01:50:56,080 --> 01:50:59,400
Speaker 1: felt on that moment was like, damn black women. In

2285
01:50:59,520 --> 01:51:01,679
Speaker 1: order for people to care, that's what has to happen

2286
01:51:01,960 --> 01:51:04,800
Speaker 1: for us to get sympathy. It has to be that bad.

2287
01:51:04,880 --> 01:51:12,240
Speaker 1: You know why, Because we're bigger, we're taller, we're more aggressive. No, no, no,

2288
01:51:12,439 --> 01:51:14,400
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, and that's what they were saying

2289
01:51:14,400 --> 01:51:22,439
Speaker 1: that Megan and Megan's they do. That's what I'm saying.

2290
01:51:23,160 --> 01:51:26,160
Speaker 1: Go to, Hey, I'm not I'm not fighting.

2291
01:51:26,720 --> 01:51:27,799
Speaker 4: Can I ask y'all questions?

2292
01:51:27,800 --> 01:51:28,479
Speaker 1: I'm not fighting.

2293
01:51:29,840 --> 01:51:34,640
Speaker 4: That's a question of help us, Powski, I'm not. What

2294
01:51:34,680 --> 01:51:37,000
Speaker 4: do y'all think about? This is one question I have

2295
01:51:37,080 --> 01:51:40,960
Speaker 4: for y'all. What do y'all think about young niggas. With

2296
01:51:41,920 --> 01:51:43,559
Speaker 4: the more veteran ladies that we've.

2297
01:51:43,400 --> 01:51:48,360
Speaker 1: Been seeing, we've talked about this. You know, let me

2298
01:51:48,360 --> 01:51:49,360
Speaker 1: make let me say veteran.

2299
01:51:49,920 --> 01:51:51,720
Speaker 4: You know these are these are still young women that

2300
01:51:51,800 --> 01:51:52,640
Speaker 4: look beautiful.

2301
01:51:53,439 --> 01:51:55,040
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna make I'm gonna let you make your

2302
01:51:55,040 --> 01:51:59,680
Speaker 1: point and then I'm this real quick. When we used

2303
01:51:59,680 --> 01:52:01,240
Speaker 1: to sell on this podcast, we used to be like,

2304
01:52:01,320 --> 01:52:03,080
Speaker 1: get you a nigga with money, get you do and

2305
01:52:03,120 --> 01:52:05,360
Speaker 1: do this, get you a BDB. If you watch this

2306
01:52:05,400 --> 01:52:07,280
Speaker 1: show and you've been listener since the being time, we

2307
01:52:07,320 --> 01:52:09,920
Speaker 1: don't a big dig babiller a man that's gonna take

2308
01:52:09,920 --> 01:52:11,519
Speaker 1: care of you and do that. And don't get me wrong,

2309
01:52:12,240 --> 01:52:15,840
Speaker 1: still very much love a BDB. But I got my own.

2310
01:52:16,720 --> 01:52:20,719
Speaker 1: My lifestyle is sustainable because of me. I always worked,

2311
01:52:20,800 --> 01:52:23,200
Speaker 1: always had a job. And I say this because that

2312
01:52:23,360 --> 01:52:27,320
Speaker 1: lifestyle of doing nothing and being a quote unquote bad

2313
01:52:27,360 --> 01:52:31,439
Speaker 1: bitch is not sustainable. That's why you see a lot

2314
01:52:31,479 --> 01:52:34,120
Speaker 1: of women and I'm not saying nobody names, but that's

2315
01:52:34,160 --> 01:52:37,439
Speaker 1: why you see these forty year old women dating twenty

2316
01:52:37,479 --> 01:52:40,080
Speaker 1: twenty one year olds. That's why you see in some cases,

2317
01:52:40,320 --> 01:52:44,040
Speaker 1: fifty year old women dating these twenty eight year old

2318
01:52:44,080 --> 01:52:48,960
Speaker 1: men because they have to bim and that's the truth.

2319
01:52:49,240 --> 01:52:52,439
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that. I'm but look, that ain't

2320
01:52:52,439 --> 01:52:55,000
Speaker 1: gonna be lex P. Now, that ain't gonna be me.

2321
01:52:56,120 --> 01:52:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I don't have a conversation. I'm

2322
01:52:58,960 --> 01:53:01,679
Speaker 1: thirty four. I don't have a conversation for a twenty

2323
01:53:01,720 --> 01:53:02,320
Speaker 1: one year old.

2324
01:53:02,439 --> 01:53:02,840
Speaker 4: I don't.

2325
01:53:03,400 --> 01:53:06,280
Speaker 1: And it happens constantly because these young niggas, they love

2326
01:53:06,280 --> 01:53:08,759
Speaker 1: it down. They being my dms constantly.

2327
01:53:08,760 --> 01:53:11,960
Speaker 4: I be honest with you, if you've grown up jacking

2328
01:53:12,000 --> 01:53:16,080
Speaker 4: off to somebody, it's going once you have the opportunity,

2329
01:53:16,160 --> 01:53:17,519
Speaker 4: you're going to shake the table.

2330
01:53:17,800 --> 01:53:19,880
Speaker 1: Cool continue because you're not getting me.

2331
01:53:20,439 --> 01:53:20,960
Speaker 5: I mean, you're going.

2332
01:53:20,960 --> 01:53:22,880
Speaker 4: I mean, and by the way, like it's just the

2333
01:53:23,000 --> 01:53:25,680
Speaker 4: nice people, like the ladies might be.

2334
01:53:25,720 --> 01:53:26,400
Speaker 5: Nice people, don't.

2335
01:53:26,400 --> 01:53:29,440
Speaker 4: I don't know. I think that the conversation around it

2336
01:53:29,080 --> 01:53:33,040
Speaker 4: is interesting to me because you know, it seems like

2337
01:53:33,120 --> 01:53:35,479
Speaker 4: if you're a forty year old guy and you're with

2338
01:53:35,600 --> 01:53:37,360
Speaker 4: a twenty three year old woman, it's not that big

2339
01:53:37,400 --> 01:53:37,680
Speaker 4: of a gin.

2340
01:53:37,840 --> 01:53:39,840
Speaker 1: Yes it is. It's embarrassing, and it's just I think

2341
01:53:39,840 --> 01:53:43,479
Speaker 1: it's I think it's disgusting either way. But I know

2342
01:53:43,720 --> 01:53:45,080
Speaker 1: it's disgusting.

2343
01:53:44,560 --> 01:53:47,240
Speaker 2: And I say this as a woman because as I

2344
01:53:47,280 --> 01:53:51,040
Speaker 2: get older. Obviously now i'm thirty two years old, But

2345
01:53:51,120 --> 01:53:54,840
Speaker 2: when I look back to being like twenty four, twenty five,

2346
01:53:55,000 --> 01:53:59,880
Speaker 2: and I was dating me that were thirty nine forty like,

2347
01:54:00,160 --> 01:54:03,519
Speaker 2: you niggas, was weird for real, Like y'all was trying

2348
01:54:03,520 --> 01:54:04,120
Speaker 2: to groom me.

2349
01:54:04,439 --> 01:54:06,519
Speaker 3: Hello, y'all wanted to deal with me.

2350
01:54:06,920 --> 01:54:07,599
Speaker 5: I never did it.

2351
01:54:07,840 --> 01:54:08,880
Speaker 1: No, no, not you.

2352
01:54:09,240 --> 01:54:10,479
Speaker 3: I'm saying the niggas.

2353
01:54:10,520 --> 01:54:13,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm saying what I was because.

2354
01:54:12,880 --> 01:54:13,840
Speaker 3: I'm thirty two now.

2355
01:54:13,880 --> 01:54:16,559
Speaker 2: When I was twenty four, when I was twenty five,

2356
01:54:16,640 --> 01:54:19,280
Speaker 2: when I was twenty three, and I was dating men

2357
01:54:19,439 --> 01:54:24,479
Speaker 2: that were thirty eight, thirty nine forty two, you niggas

2358
01:54:24,520 --> 01:54:25,320
Speaker 2: were trying to.

2359
01:54:25,520 --> 01:54:26,240
Speaker 3: Like groom me.

2360
01:54:26,360 --> 01:54:28,320
Speaker 2: Y'all wanted to date me because I was young, I

2361
01:54:28,439 --> 01:54:29,280
Speaker 2: was impressionable.

2362
01:54:29,560 --> 01:54:32,040
Speaker 3: You felt like you could mold me. That's why you

2363
01:54:32,080 --> 01:54:32,760
Speaker 3: wanted to date me.

2364
01:54:32,880 --> 01:54:35,720
Speaker 2: Let's be fucking for real, because if we're talking about

2365
01:54:35,760 --> 01:54:38,320
Speaker 2: beauty standards, I'm thirty two right now.

2366
01:54:38,400 --> 01:54:40,959
Speaker 1: Still fine, still fine, still pautiful.

2367
01:54:41,160 --> 01:54:43,160
Speaker 3: So it's not like you couldn't have dated somebody that

2368
01:54:43,320 --> 01:54:46,000
Speaker 3: was thirty two. It's not like even with me being.

2369
01:54:45,840 --> 01:54:50,400
Speaker 2: Thirty two, women that are forty forty three, they're still beautiful.

2370
01:54:50,720 --> 01:54:54,520
Speaker 2: You could date somebody that's your age and still have

2371
01:54:54,600 --> 01:54:56,120
Speaker 2: the esthetic that you're looking for.

2372
01:54:56,400 --> 01:54:57,919
Speaker 3: But you don't care about the aesthetic.

2373
01:54:57,960 --> 01:55:00,280
Speaker 2: You worried about the mentality because you want some you

2374
01:55:00,400 --> 01:55:02,960
Speaker 2: has not experienced that much in life, and.

2375
01:55:02,880 --> 01:55:06,400
Speaker 1: It's easy to manipulate. It's easy to manipulate, it's easy

2376
01:55:06,400 --> 01:55:08,560
Speaker 1: to mold them. So, going back to your initial question

2377
01:55:08,800 --> 01:55:11,320
Speaker 1: about the women that to doing it right now.

2378
01:55:11,520 --> 01:55:12,560
Speaker 3: I think it's the same thing.

2379
01:55:13,280 --> 01:55:18,160
Speaker 2: I think those women want to date younger men because

2380
01:55:18,240 --> 01:55:19,480
Speaker 2: they're easy to manipulate.

2381
01:55:19,520 --> 01:55:21,400
Speaker 1: It's easy to FORNI they're gon.

2382
01:55:22,400 --> 01:55:25,320
Speaker 2: And niggas in those niggas like you said you are,

2383
01:55:25,800 --> 01:55:29,240
Speaker 2: and they looked at them like you was probably sixteen

2384
01:55:29,480 --> 01:55:32,480
Speaker 2: fifteen being like, damn, this is a bad bitch. Now

2385
01:55:32,520 --> 01:55:35,000
Speaker 2: that you're legal and you can date them, you're like, oh,

2386
01:55:35,040 --> 01:55:37,760
Speaker 2: I finally got this woman, and like she's looking at

2387
01:55:37,760 --> 01:55:39,480
Speaker 2: you like a come up because you just you about

2388
01:55:39,480 --> 01:55:41,200
Speaker 2: to sign the twenty million dollar.

2389
01:55:41,040 --> 01:55:43,440
Speaker 1: Country so and let me say this point too, and

2390
01:55:43,440 --> 01:55:46,280
Speaker 1: then we're gonna move on. Sorry. I watched Real Housewives

2391
01:55:46,320 --> 01:55:49,000
Speaker 1: in Miami. It's such it's really good.

2392
01:55:49,080 --> 01:55:50,120
Speaker 4: They have it in Miami.

2393
01:55:50,240 --> 01:55:53,600
Speaker 1: Yo, it's and you know what's crazy wor in Miami. Uh,

2394
01:55:53,760 --> 01:55:54,960
Speaker 1: it's Larsa Pippin.

2395
01:55:57,560 --> 01:55:59,880
Speaker 5: That's the goal right there, that's the mother.

2396
01:56:00,080 --> 01:56:02,520
Speaker 1: But you know what, you know what's crazy. It ain't

2397
01:56:02,520 --> 01:56:04,320
Speaker 1: even Larsa that's the problem on there because even though

2398
01:56:04,360 --> 01:56:08,000
Speaker 1: her man is younger. So there's yeah, they broke up now,

2399
01:56:08,040 --> 01:56:10,120
Speaker 1: but during the season I'm watching now they're still together.

2400
01:56:10,800 --> 01:56:14,360
Speaker 1: So there's a character. Her name is Lisa. Lisa has

2401
01:56:14,400 --> 01:56:17,640
Speaker 1: been married since she was twenty six years old. Lisa

2402
01:56:17,720 --> 01:56:20,320
Speaker 1: is in her forties now, her and her man are

2403
01:56:20,360 --> 01:56:22,800
Speaker 1: going through that's a lady. No, no, no, this is

2404
01:56:22,840 --> 01:56:27,000
Speaker 1: not the black lady Lisa. She's white. Oh okay. Lisa

2405
01:56:27,280 --> 01:56:30,560
Speaker 1: is married to a plastic surgeon. Okay, his name is Lenny.

2406
01:56:31,200 --> 01:56:35,960
Speaker 1: Lenny is literally he's one of those different plastic surgeons.

2407
01:56:35,960 --> 01:56:36,200
Speaker 3: Okay.

2408
01:56:36,240 --> 01:56:39,720
Speaker 1: He's worth like ninety million dollars because he's came up

2409
01:56:39,760 --> 01:56:42,280
Speaker 1: on some medicine and things like that. You know, he's

2410
01:56:42,320 --> 01:56:46,920
Speaker 1: one of them in the medicine world. Lenny has divorced Lisa,

2411
01:56:48,040 --> 01:56:50,160
Speaker 1: and not only is giving her a hard time with

2412
01:56:50,400 --> 01:56:52,120
Speaker 1: making sure she can take care of the children in

2413
01:56:52,120 --> 01:56:55,640
Speaker 1: her house, Lenny was recently engaged to someone who is

2414
01:56:55,680 --> 01:56:59,000
Speaker 1: twenty five. Lenny is fifty and he's engaged to a

2415
01:56:59,040 --> 01:57:01,840
Speaker 1: twenty five year Why are we not talking about this?

2416
01:57:03,040 --> 01:57:05,360
Speaker 1: And that's and I think that's why people get angry

2417
01:57:05,400 --> 01:57:08,880
Speaker 1: and they be like, I keep that same energy for everybody. Nigga,

2418
01:57:08,880 --> 01:57:10,600
Speaker 1: you're nasty and you were weird though, but.

2419
01:57:10,600 --> 01:57:12,920
Speaker 2: Why would we talk about it? Because to be fair,

2420
01:57:13,560 --> 01:57:18,680
Speaker 2: I think that now with like the social media aide

2421
01:57:19,040 --> 01:57:22,480
Speaker 2: and everything that's going on right now, we have more information,

2422
01:57:22,600 --> 01:57:26,760
Speaker 2: we have more access to information. This has been going

2423
01:57:26,840 --> 01:57:30,000
Speaker 2: on since the beginning of time. Like older niggas have

2424
01:57:30,080 --> 01:57:32,160
Speaker 2: been dating younger women since the beginning.

2425
01:57:31,800 --> 01:57:33,280
Speaker 5: Of time almost past.

2426
01:57:33,440 --> 01:57:35,840
Speaker 2: I mean, even look back to our grandparents. I know,

2427
01:57:35,960 --> 01:57:41,040
Speaker 2: I can talk about my grandparents. My grandmother was eighteen

2428
01:57:41,480 --> 01:57:44,000
Speaker 2: when she got with my grandfather and he was twenty two.

2429
01:57:44,160 --> 01:57:48,040
Speaker 4: There are some people that, oh, no, they were it

2430
01:57:48,200 --> 01:57:51,560
Speaker 4: was way different. I mean my grandmother, Yeah, my grandmother

2431
01:57:51,680 --> 01:57:56,640
Speaker 4: was second wife of my great grad and it was

2432
01:57:57,000 --> 01:57:57,960
Speaker 4: he was much older.

2433
01:57:58,160 --> 01:57:59,160
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.

2434
01:57:59,200 --> 01:58:02,200
Speaker 2: And so even we're going down to like our generation,

2435
01:58:02,360 --> 01:58:05,839
Speaker 2: because we are the generation right now. If you're looking

2436
01:58:05,880 --> 01:58:09,120
Speaker 2: back to like older people in your family, that was

2437
01:58:09,160 --> 01:58:12,000
Speaker 2: the norm, like it was always older me and dating

2438
01:58:12,080 --> 01:58:15,440
Speaker 2: younger women. It was always like some type of grooming

2439
01:58:15,520 --> 01:58:17,600
Speaker 2: going on. And I think even when I look back

2440
01:58:17,640 --> 01:58:19,800
Speaker 2: to my younger self dating men when I was in

2441
01:58:19,800 --> 01:58:21,800
Speaker 2: my twenties, that's why I didn't see anything wrong with

2442
01:58:21,920 --> 01:58:25,520
Speaker 2: me being twenty four dating somebody that was thirty eight,

2443
01:58:26,040 --> 01:58:29,840
Speaker 2: because like, what's wrong with that? That's normal, Like that's

2444
01:58:29,880 --> 01:58:31,840
Speaker 2: what everybody be doing. But at the end of the day,

2445
01:58:31,880 --> 01:58:34,240
Speaker 2: that shit is not normal. And I think we are

2446
01:58:34,320 --> 01:58:36,920
Speaker 2: finally at a point where it's like we're like saying

2447
01:58:36,960 --> 01:58:39,840
Speaker 2: something about it, like this is not normal for women

2448
01:58:39,960 --> 01:58:40,320
Speaker 2: or men.

2449
01:58:40,720 --> 01:58:44,000
Speaker 1: Women men are trying to groom somebody.

2450
01:58:44,000 --> 01:58:46,120
Speaker 2: Why do you want to date someone who is significantly

2451
01:58:46,160 --> 01:58:49,040
Speaker 2: younger than you? Why can't you get somebody that's your

2452
01:58:49,080 --> 01:58:51,560
Speaker 2: age or within your your same age group.

2453
01:58:51,880 --> 01:58:54,640
Speaker 1: And I'll say this before we move on. This is

2454
01:58:55,240 --> 01:58:58,280
Speaker 1: for the women men. We already know niggas be nasty,

2455
01:58:58,520 --> 01:59:01,520
Speaker 1: we know that. But for the women that's their younger men,

2456
01:59:01,920 --> 01:59:03,640
Speaker 1: it's because you're really not that girl like you think

2457
01:59:03,640 --> 01:59:05,080
Speaker 1: you are. Because if it was really that girl, you

2458
01:59:05,120 --> 01:59:06,920
Speaker 1: would get somebody your age that would do the things

2459
01:59:06,920 --> 01:59:07,560
Speaker 1: that you That's.

2460
01:59:07,400 --> 01:59:09,080
Speaker 2: What I was gonna ask you, do you think that

2461
01:59:09,280 --> 01:59:13,600
Speaker 2: when women or men they people that are significantly younger

2462
01:59:13,600 --> 01:59:17,160
Speaker 2: than them. Do you think it's because they lack certain

2463
01:59:17,720 --> 01:59:19,720
Speaker 2: qualities intellectually?

2464
01:59:20,600 --> 01:59:21,520
Speaker 3: Because that's what I think.

2465
01:59:21,640 --> 01:59:25,160
Speaker 4: I think. I really don't know. I think it's interesting

2466
01:59:25,160 --> 01:59:27,800
Speaker 4: to talk about it because I didn't realize that people

2467
01:59:27,800 --> 01:59:30,400
Speaker 4: would have this much of an issue with it. I know,

2468
01:59:30,440 --> 01:59:33,280
Speaker 4: people talk about other people. It just it kind of happens.

2469
01:59:33,320 --> 01:59:37,680
Speaker 4: And I think the backlash too. Obviously we're talking about

2470
01:59:37,960 --> 01:59:45,880
Speaker 4: Dre and Jalen Green Amber and c J. Stroud people, Okay, cool. So,

2471
01:59:45,960 --> 01:59:48,120
Speaker 4: like what I'm saying is like people made a much

2472
01:59:48,160 --> 01:59:50,200
Speaker 4: bigger deal about it than I thought that they would,

2473
01:59:50,680 --> 01:59:52,480
Speaker 4: and I was surprised about it. You know what I mean.

2474
01:59:52,720 --> 01:59:56,760
Speaker 5: I don't know, I expect. What I do know is

2475
01:59:56,800 --> 01:59:57,760
Speaker 5: I expect.

2476
01:59:57,360 --> 02:00:01,440
Speaker 4: The young niggas to go after trophies, you know what

2477
02:00:01,480 --> 02:00:03,560
Speaker 4: I'm saying, Like, I expect the young niggas to go

2478
02:00:03,600 --> 02:00:04,200
Speaker 4: out and I.

2479
02:00:04,080 --> 02:00:06,200
Speaker 1: Get that, I agree, but I guess I expect the

2480
02:00:06,240 --> 02:00:09,120
Speaker 1: older women to be a little more wiser and smarter.

2481
02:00:09,240 --> 02:00:11,640
Speaker 1: And because like I said, that happens to me a lot.

2482
02:00:12,440 --> 02:00:14,840
Speaker 1: I get hit on by young men a lot. I'm

2483
02:00:14,840 --> 02:00:18,160
Speaker 1: talking about the niggas that you'd be like, what, No,

2484
02:00:18,440 --> 02:00:21,320
Speaker 1: he's twenty he's twenty one, he's twenty five.

2485
02:00:21,560 --> 02:00:23,400
Speaker 4: The contract, don't age mother a little bit.

2486
02:00:23,520 --> 02:00:24,520
Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna tell you.

2487
02:00:24,560 --> 02:00:26,880
Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you the contract word for like four

2488
02:00:27,000 --> 02:00:28,800
Speaker 4: years I've got.

2489
02:00:29,080 --> 02:00:31,320
Speaker 5: I've got thirty three hundred million dollar contract.

2490
02:00:31,360 --> 02:00:33,480
Speaker 1: Then I'm not money.

2491
02:00:33,720 --> 02:00:34,200
Speaker 3: I'm not day.

2492
02:00:34,360 --> 02:00:38,560
Speaker 2: Nobody younger than twenty nine and I'm and even twenty

2493
02:00:38,640 --> 02:00:40,200
Speaker 2: nine to me is pushing you back.

2494
02:00:40,240 --> 02:00:42,240
Speaker 4: So you wouldn't date Anon.

2495
02:00:42,520 --> 02:00:44,600
Speaker 5: You wouldn't date a Jason Tatum.

2496
02:00:45,200 --> 02:00:48,240
Speaker 1: That is, I know who Jason Tatum is. Cute guy.

2497
02:00:48,440 --> 02:00:50,640
Speaker 1: He don't got nothing for me. Because guess when when

2498
02:00:50,640 --> 02:00:54,120
Speaker 1: we sit down and start talking and I'm not talking

2499
02:00:54,120 --> 02:00:57,960
Speaker 1: about him specifically, but because I don't know him, but

2500
02:00:59,320 --> 02:01:02,200
Speaker 1: nine times I tend the conversation is gonna turn me off.

2501
02:01:02,480 --> 02:01:04,360
Speaker 4: I mean, well, it depends. Like what if you're sitting

2502
02:01:04,400 --> 02:01:07,120
Speaker 4: down with Jason Tatum and he he teaches you how

2503
02:01:07,560 --> 02:01:10,400
Speaker 4: to be the two three zone, like he knows how

2504
02:01:10,400 --> 02:01:12,120
Speaker 4: to do that, right, Like Jayson Tate is gonna tell

2505
02:01:12,160 --> 02:01:14,600
Speaker 4: you to come up through the ball to the sideline. No,

2506
02:01:15,160 --> 02:01:17,480
Speaker 4: I don't want No, I'm not look at that. I'm

2507
02:01:17,640 --> 02:01:18,480
Speaker 4: trying to play off the p.

2508
02:01:19,040 --> 02:01:23,360
Speaker 1: And I look for it.

2509
02:01:23,400 --> 02:01:25,760
Speaker 4: I mean that would be dope. Right, So you sit down,

2510
02:01:25,840 --> 02:01:27,960
Speaker 4: you go to steak, you goa sit down where y'all go.

2511
02:01:27,960 --> 02:01:31,720
Speaker 1: To eat out here, little Allie.

2512
02:01:31,200 --> 02:01:35,440
Speaker 4: Little Alley Ken. Okay, so well you could go in

2513
02:01:35,440 --> 02:01:39,320
Speaker 4: there just like a beautiful black woman, but you could

2514
02:01:39,360 --> 02:01:42,040
Speaker 4: come out like a fucking basketball expert.

2515
02:01:42,880 --> 02:01:45,120
Speaker 1: Why do I need to be there unless sound like

2516
02:01:45,120 --> 02:01:48,320
Speaker 1: a Taylor Rooks. That would make Taylor Rooks. That makes

2517
02:01:48,320 --> 02:01:48,920
Speaker 1: sense for her.

2518
02:01:49,040 --> 02:01:52,080
Speaker 4: I'm saying, but you never know, do you like basketball?

2519
02:01:53,360 --> 02:01:54,480
Speaker 4: You don't you like basketball?

2520
02:01:54,560 --> 02:01:54,800
Speaker 8: No?

2521
02:01:55,320 --> 02:01:57,040
Speaker 5: You ever heard of the triangle offense before?

2522
02:01:57,280 --> 02:02:00,480
Speaker 1: No, that's not gonna benefit me on poor minds and

2523
02:02:00,480 --> 02:02:03,840
Speaker 1: what That's what I'm saying, Well, what like, why are

2524
02:02:03,840 --> 02:02:04,520
Speaker 1: you looking like that?

2525
02:02:04,760 --> 02:02:05,760
Speaker 3: Is that like a big thing?

2526
02:02:06,240 --> 02:02:13,040
Speaker 1: No, I'm trying what look you seeing me up like this?

2527
02:02:13,240 --> 02:02:15,040
Speaker 5: It's like, why are you looking like that? Be denied?

2528
02:02:15,360 --> 02:02:17,760
Speaker 1: That's there's something I should know about.

2529
02:02:17,880 --> 02:02:21,600
Speaker 4: Nig It's thefic that Michael Jordans and Shack and Kobe ran.

2530
02:02:21,960 --> 02:02:22,080
Speaker 1: Now.

2531
02:02:22,160 --> 02:02:25,000
Speaker 4: I'm just saying because I think it's just interesting to me,

2532
02:02:25,160 --> 02:02:27,880
Speaker 4: because people starting to get old. Leonardo DiCaprio too, Because

2533
02:02:27,960 --> 02:02:30,000
Speaker 4: Leonardo DiCaprio was forty years.

2534
02:02:29,880 --> 02:02:33,880
Speaker 5: Old with twenty two. You don't give a fuck, I mean.

2535
02:02:33,760 --> 02:02:38,640
Speaker 1: But like you also, what was your your girlfriend? She's

2536
02:02:38,720 --> 02:02:41,920
Speaker 1: forty two, married man and brother. You got you a

2537
02:02:42,000 --> 02:02:43,800
Speaker 1: nice little season.

2538
02:02:44,280 --> 02:02:46,040
Speaker 3: But would you date someone that's twenty two?

2539
02:02:46,360 --> 02:02:51,080
Speaker 1: No, he wouldn't. He got his words to be shut up,

2540
02:02:51,160 --> 02:02:51,720
Speaker 1: man like.

2541
02:02:53,800 --> 02:02:58,120
Speaker 4: But also, but also you get to a you get

2542
02:02:58,160 --> 02:03:01,600
Speaker 4: to a certain age and and you really do I mean,

2543
02:03:01,640 --> 02:03:05,480
Speaker 4: people are attractive no matter what right people look physically

2544
02:03:06,000 --> 02:03:11,160
Speaker 4: they're not people look physically good. They don't look physically.

2545
02:03:10,720 --> 02:03:18,960
Speaker 1: Goodlier and uglier. But what I'm saying, cut this body up.

2546
02:03:19,160 --> 02:03:22,120
Speaker 4: So what I'm saying is that is.

2547
02:03:22,080 --> 02:03:24,280
Speaker 5: What I mean people look like.

2548
02:03:24,600 --> 02:03:28,600
Speaker 4: For example, I'll give you an example, like like Chloe Bailey, Right,

2549
02:03:29,400 --> 02:03:30,960
Speaker 4: she looks physically good, right.

2550
02:03:30,880 --> 02:03:32,960
Speaker 3: And she's saying it's a kid.

2551
02:03:33,520 --> 02:03:34,600
Speaker 4: She looks like a kid.

2552
02:03:35,240 --> 02:03:35,720
Speaker 5: I'm old.

2553
02:03:35,760 --> 02:03:41,680
Speaker 4: Like she looks like Ice, Spice looks like she's a

2554
02:03:42,000 --> 02:03:43,440
Speaker 4: she looks I'm old.

2555
02:03:43,480 --> 02:03:44,440
Speaker 5: I'm running what I.

2556
02:03:44,360 --> 02:03:46,880
Speaker 1: Said about that dude, that Boston Richie nigga that's dating

2557
02:03:46,880 --> 02:03:49,400
Speaker 1: that young girl. I'm like, that's crazy because she looks

2558
02:03:49,440 --> 02:03:51,440
Speaker 1: like a baby. If you really look at that girl

2559
02:03:51,440 --> 02:03:53,360
Speaker 1: outside of the makeup and the hair and the outfits.

2560
02:03:53,600 --> 02:03:55,440
Speaker 1: You can look at that girl and tell she's a baby.

2561
02:03:55,480 --> 02:03:58,440
Speaker 4: And that's a thing that I'm not making a determination

2562
02:03:58,480 --> 02:04:01,160
Speaker 4: about anybody else. But you you to a certain age,

2563
02:04:01,280 --> 02:04:03,520
Speaker 4: and it's like, I mean, maybe when you were in

2564
02:04:03,600 --> 02:04:05,640
Speaker 4: your thirties and stuff, it's different, but you you when

2565
02:04:05,640 --> 02:04:07,320
Speaker 4: you get to my age, I'm forty three years old,

2566
02:04:07,400 --> 02:04:09,400
Speaker 4: that looks like a look that looks like I get it.

2567
02:04:09,440 --> 02:04:12,360
Speaker 4: And you can look and you can objectively be like, okay,

2568
02:04:12,680 --> 02:04:16,080
Speaker 4: small ways, big ass pretty girl. That's attractive, But are

2569
02:04:16,080 --> 02:04:18,080
Speaker 4: you attracted to it?

2570
02:04:18,080 --> 02:04:18,640
Speaker 5: It's different.

2571
02:04:18,880 --> 02:04:22,080
Speaker 4: I need me an unk. Yeah, I like an unk.

2572
02:04:22,160 --> 02:04:24,640
Speaker 1: I like an I love me a little, a little nigga.

2573
02:04:24,760 --> 02:04:26,800
Speaker 1: What happened man? How you doing?

2574
02:04:27,760 --> 02:04:31,800
Speaker 2: My man five years older than means energy you give?

2575
02:04:32,920 --> 02:04:35,520
Speaker 1: We gotta have my nigga. My nigga's actually younger than me.

2576
02:04:35,600 --> 02:04:36,600
Speaker 4: What's unk energy?

2577
02:04:36,800 --> 02:04:39,960
Speaker 1: My man is thirty two and I'm thirty four and

2578
02:04:40,040 --> 02:04:42,400
Speaker 1: he gives he got an old saul. When I wake

2579
02:04:42,440 --> 02:04:45,480
Speaker 1: up in the morning, that nigga is fucking playing Marvin Gaye,

2580
02:04:45,520 --> 02:04:50,600
Speaker 1: he he like, you know how to handle me? Yeah,

2581
02:04:50,800 --> 02:04:54,960
Speaker 1: he's a a main I got a I'm feeling a main.

2582
02:04:55,440 --> 02:04:58,600
Speaker 1: That's how a main A young nigga. I don't care

2583
02:04:58,640 --> 02:05:00,520
Speaker 1: if you if you got three in the mill in

2584
02:05:00,560 --> 02:05:03,480
Speaker 1: the bank, you don't know how to have that man energy.

2585
02:05:03,520 --> 02:05:05,240
Speaker 3: That's what I think my thing is.

2586
02:05:05,360 --> 02:05:10,320
Speaker 2: I don't like young actings like I want a grown man,

2587
02:05:10,480 --> 02:05:12,160
Speaker 2: like I want somebody to make me feel like he

2588
02:05:12,240 --> 02:05:14,000
Speaker 2: don't you done been through?

2589
02:05:14,160 --> 02:05:14,440
Speaker 1: Come on?

2590
02:05:16,640 --> 02:05:17,720
Speaker 3: You know by something?

2591
02:05:18,120 --> 02:05:24,160
Speaker 1: Your your grandma was on the underground railroad. Now that's why?

2592
02:05:24,440 --> 02:05:27,240
Speaker 1: All right, So now we're gonna get that, like, pour

2593
02:05:27,360 --> 02:05:28,280
Speaker 1: your heart out?

2594
02:05:29,120 --> 02:05:32,760
Speaker 3: Was your mama? Was your mama stipping from a colored fountain?

2595
02:05:36,360 --> 02:05:36,600
Speaker 7: Oh?

2596
02:05:36,680 --> 02:05:37,600
Speaker 4: My god?

2597
02:05:38,320 --> 02:05:43,000
Speaker 2: Them the type of niggas I like, why y'all shake

2598
02:05:50,160 --> 02:05:53,200
Speaker 2: and you know what, while we have that's why we season.

2599
02:05:53,560 --> 02:05:56,080
Speaker 1: If you want your answer on the show, make sure

2600
02:05:56,080 --> 02:06:12,640
Speaker 1: you email us at ask for Minds at gmail dot com. Drea,

2601
02:06:12,680 --> 02:06:19,840
Speaker 1: you got question number one. Let's get to it. I

2602
02:06:19,840 --> 02:06:21,200
Speaker 1: don't know, go ahead, Drea.

2603
02:06:22,040 --> 02:06:25,160
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, I'm ready to start letting my money make money.

2604
02:06:25,640 --> 02:06:27,600
Speaker 2: I work for the state that I live in, so

2605
02:06:27,640 --> 02:06:30,840
Speaker 2: the benefits are good, but the pay isn't great. I

2606
02:06:30,920 --> 02:06:33,360
Speaker 2: remember how both of y'all had corporate jobs at one

2607
02:06:33,440 --> 02:06:36,160
Speaker 2: point in time. If y'all could give y'all younger self

2608
02:06:36,240 --> 02:06:39,200
Speaker 2: some advice during those times about how to make more money.

2609
02:06:39,440 --> 02:06:40,600
Speaker 3: What advice would you give?

2610
02:06:40,880 --> 02:06:43,600
Speaker 2: Would y'all recommend buying stocks and investing early.

2611
02:06:43,760 --> 02:06:47,280
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four, by the way, Honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

2612
02:06:47,360 --> 02:06:52,640
Speaker 1: Like everything that I've invested in to this point, like

2613
02:06:52,960 --> 02:06:55,000
Speaker 1: it's made me a little money, but not enough money

2614
02:06:55,000 --> 02:06:56,440
Speaker 1: so that I could be like, oh my god, this

2615
02:06:56,560 --> 02:06:58,360
Speaker 1: is what you need to do. I'm not no expert

2616
02:06:58,360 --> 02:07:00,840
Speaker 1: on this shit. Now. I do invest now, but I'm

2617
02:07:00,840 --> 02:07:03,960
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I don't I do them stocks. That's

2618
02:07:04,000 --> 02:07:07,880
Speaker 1: a long game. Like invest in stocks. I do believe

2619
02:07:07,880 --> 02:07:09,640
Speaker 1: in that, but you gotta really do your research and

2620
02:07:09,680 --> 02:07:12,800
Speaker 1: really educate yourself. But that's not something like, oh, if

2621
02:07:12,800 --> 02:07:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four and I'm investing in stocks by the

2622
02:07:14,680 --> 02:07:17,480
Speaker 1: time I'm twenty eight, I'm gonna be able to cash out. No,

2623
02:07:17,640 --> 02:07:20,120
Speaker 1: this is a very very long game. So I will

2624
02:07:20,160 --> 02:07:23,520
Speaker 1: say with this for me, what worked for me was

2625
02:07:23,600 --> 02:07:26,400
Speaker 1: really budgeting myself and making a way I was like, Okay,

2626
02:07:26,480 --> 02:07:28,960
Speaker 1: I can't afford the editor. I gotta edit my own shit.

2627
02:07:29,240 --> 02:07:30,840
Speaker 1: I gotta sit down and do this with dre. I

2628
02:07:30,840 --> 02:07:35,080
Speaker 1: gotta learn this. Okay, so now I know how to

2629
02:07:35,240 --> 02:07:38,200
Speaker 1: edit this, but I can afford a little X y Z. Okay,

2630
02:07:38,240 --> 02:07:40,360
Speaker 1: how can we move? Let me tell you something. Your

2631
02:07:40,360 --> 02:07:44,320
Speaker 1: mouthpiece is your currency. And I always say this because

2632
02:07:44,360 --> 02:07:47,200
Speaker 1: my relationship I had with Carlos is literally while we're

2633
02:07:47,200 --> 02:07:50,440
Speaker 1: here today, because I kept that rapport with him and

2634
02:07:50,480 --> 02:07:52,880
Speaker 1: we was cool, and he was like, and he's a businessman,

2635
02:07:53,400 --> 02:07:55,760
Speaker 1: So you gotta connect yourself with people who really bout

2636
02:07:55,760 --> 02:07:58,440
Speaker 1: they bread and really sometimes you're gonna get lost in

2637
02:07:58,440 --> 02:07:59,840
Speaker 1: the sauce and youre gonna meet a nigga who don't

2638
02:07:59,840 --> 02:08:02,560
Speaker 1: want want to really see you further yourself, but he

2639
02:08:02,640 --> 02:08:04,600
Speaker 1: just wanna. But Carlos was like, you know what, Hey,

2640
02:08:04,640 --> 02:08:05,880
Speaker 1: they doing something?

2641
02:08:05,920 --> 02:08:05,960
Speaker 8: No?

2642
02:08:06,120 --> 02:08:08,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, same, because I feel like Carlos was following us

2643
02:08:08,680 --> 02:08:10,560
Speaker 2: on social media and then he d M to me

2644
02:08:10,600 --> 02:08:14,360
Speaker 2: that day and he was like watching us. He was like,

2645
02:08:14,360 --> 02:08:16,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna record with y'all and I was like, for real,

2646
02:08:16,200 --> 02:08:18,120
Speaker 2: you're gonna pull up, Yeah, That's what I'm saying.

2647
02:08:18,920 --> 02:08:20,080
Speaker 3: He ended up pulling up.

2648
02:08:20,240 --> 02:08:25,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. And that's why I said, like I before, like

2649
02:08:26,440 --> 02:08:28,440
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times, like I said, relationships

2650
02:08:28,440 --> 02:08:30,040
Speaker 1: that you have with people you never know where they

2651
02:08:30,040 --> 02:08:33,360
Speaker 1: could lead, even with me with Mandy from Horrible Decision.

2652
02:08:33,360 --> 02:08:35,200
Speaker 1: I had a friendship with Mandy for a long time,

2653
02:08:35,200 --> 02:08:37,320
Speaker 1: and she was the one who even said, Hey, y'all

2654
02:08:37,360 --> 02:08:39,200
Speaker 1: need to turn wine down. Our show used to be

2655
02:08:39,200 --> 02:08:41,120
Speaker 1: called wind Down Wednesday. She was like, y'all need to

2656
02:08:41,160 --> 02:08:43,560
Speaker 1: make this a podcast. I didn't even know what a

2657
02:08:43,600 --> 02:08:45,880
Speaker 1: podcast was. I was like, what are you talking about.

2658
02:08:46,320 --> 02:08:48,080
Speaker 1: So I feel like a lot of times it's not

2659
02:08:48,120 --> 02:08:50,480
Speaker 1: necessarily the money that you can invest if you don't

2660
02:08:50,480 --> 02:08:53,920
Speaker 1: have a lot of money. It's like a finesse game

2661
02:08:54,000 --> 02:08:55,640
Speaker 1: can really get you a little bit further if you

2662
02:08:55,640 --> 02:08:58,040
Speaker 1: don't necessarily have a lot of money to invest, because

2663
02:08:58,040 --> 02:09:00,040
Speaker 1: it really takes money to make me.

2664
02:09:01,680 --> 02:09:01,840
Speaker 4: Well.

2665
02:09:01,880 --> 02:09:05,040
Speaker 2: I'll say this, I just really believe in believing in yourself.

2666
02:09:05,080 --> 02:09:07,960
Speaker 2: I don't really give a fuck about connections. I feel

2667
02:09:08,000 --> 02:09:10,040
Speaker 2: like if you believe in yourself and you grind hard

2668
02:09:10,120 --> 02:09:14,160
Speaker 2: enough and you keep working, people gonna see you like

2669
02:09:14,480 --> 02:09:16,560
Speaker 2: and you can put yourself out there and people are

2670
02:09:16,560 --> 02:09:19,120
Speaker 2: gonna be like, Damn, she good or he good, or

2671
02:09:19,160 --> 02:09:21,440
Speaker 2: there's something I need to pay attention to. I just

2672
02:09:21,480 --> 02:09:23,640
Speaker 2: feel like you have to have enough confidence in yourself.

2673
02:09:23,680 --> 02:09:25,160
Speaker 2: I think a lot of The problem with a lot

2674
02:09:25,200 --> 02:09:27,760
Speaker 2: of people is like they'll think they have a good idea,

2675
02:09:28,080 --> 02:09:30,240
Speaker 2: but they be scared if people gonna catch onto it,

2676
02:09:30,360 --> 02:09:31,920
Speaker 2: or if people are gonna watch it, or if they're

2677
02:09:31,920 --> 02:09:34,240
Speaker 2: gonna look lame. So it's like, Okay, I don't really

2678
02:09:34,240 --> 02:09:36,000
Speaker 2: want to do it because I think that people are

2679
02:09:36,040 --> 02:09:38,400
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna think I look crazy.

2680
02:09:39,600 --> 02:09:40,120
Speaker 1: Just do it.

2681
02:09:40,880 --> 02:09:44,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean if you obviously there's talent involved, right,

2682
02:09:44,200 --> 02:09:45,880
Speaker 4: so you have to see what the holes in the

2683
02:09:45,880 --> 02:09:48,440
Speaker 4: marketplace are. But if you care about if you care

2684
02:09:48,480 --> 02:09:50,200
Speaker 4: too much about what other people think, you're never gonna

2685
02:09:50,200 --> 02:09:50,480
Speaker 4: be rich.

2686
02:09:50,640 --> 02:09:54,120
Speaker 1: Exactly. You're never going to get there.

2687
02:09:54,240 --> 02:09:56,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, because like even because you might have to do

2688
02:09:56,280 --> 02:09:59,080
Speaker 4: some vile shit, you might have to do some shit

2689
02:09:59,120 --> 02:09:59,960
Speaker 4: that goes against the grain.

2690
02:10:00,040 --> 02:10:01,520
Speaker 5: And if you care too much about what other people think,

2691
02:10:01,520 --> 02:10:02,240
Speaker 5: you never gonna be rich.

2692
02:10:02,360 --> 02:10:04,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to do nothing.

2693
02:10:05,360 --> 02:10:07,640
Speaker 2: But I mean I fuck with men though, because I

2694
02:10:07,680 --> 02:10:09,960
Speaker 2: feel the same way. I think people just care too

2695
02:10:10,040 --> 02:10:12,760
Speaker 2: much about what other people are gonna think about their opinions,

2696
02:10:13,080 --> 02:10:16,200
Speaker 2: about their takes on things. It's like I fuck with

2697
02:10:16,240 --> 02:10:18,720
Speaker 2: people who stand on business like, look this is how

2698
02:10:18,760 --> 02:10:22,680
Speaker 2: I feel. I said what I said, and either you're

2699
02:10:22,680 --> 02:10:23,960
Speaker 2: gonna fuck with it or you don't.

2700
02:10:24,360 --> 02:10:27,600
Speaker 3: But you don't gotta fuck with it. But if you do,

2701
02:10:27,800 --> 02:10:28,640
Speaker 3: then cool.

2702
02:10:28,840 --> 02:10:29,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2703
02:10:29,080 --> 02:10:30,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'm not gonna lie. I got a lot

2704
02:10:30,600 --> 02:10:32,400
Speaker 1: of I got a lot of money that's like put

2705
02:10:32,440 --> 02:10:34,720
Speaker 1: to the side, and I invest all the time and

2706
02:10:34,760 --> 02:10:36,800
Speaker 1: it's made me a little something, but not nothing that

2707
02:10:36,840 --> 02:10:37,640
Speaker 1: I feel like.

2708
02:10:38,440 --> 02:10:41,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's you know, you could always invest

2709
02:10:41,360 --> 02:10:42,920
Speaker 4: in the S and P five hundred and your money's

2710
02:10:42,920 --> 02:10:45,120
Speaker 4: gonna go up, not gonna make you know, it's like

2711
02:10:46,080 --> 02:10:48,960
Speaker 4: you gotta be diverse in the stuff that you're invested in.

2712
02:10:49,000 --> 02:10:50,400
Speaker 4: But there's so many better people to talk to that

2713
02:10:50,440 --> 02:10:53,200
Speaker 4: about earn your leisure, Wall Street trapper, all of those guys,

2714
02:10:53,200 --> 02:10:53,960
Speaker 4: they do a good job.

2715
02:10:54,000 --> 02:10:54,400
Speaker 5: Explained.

2716
02:10:54,720 --> 02:10:59,440
Speaker 1: Look, I started E F T S and stuff.

2717
02:10:59,560 --> 02:11:03,480
Speaker 2: It's like way better than just investing in like individual stock.

2718
02:11:04,040 --> 02:11:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the medical field, y'all. Yeah, made little one

2719
02:11:09,880 --> 02:11:11,840
Speaker 1: two Okay question on the wing.

2720
02:11:12,040 --> 02:11:14,680
Speaker 3: We can't give y'all some Yeah, Hey.

2721
02:11:14,560 --> 02:11:17,080
Speaker 1: Ladies, I'm thirty one years old and recently ended a

2722
02:11:17,120 --> 02:11:20,000
Speaker 1: situation with a guy who was ten years younger than me,

2723
02:11:20,320 --> 02:11:24,800
Speaker 1: so very mature for his age, had a business own cars,

2724
02:11:25,000 --> 02:11:29,360
Speaker 1: crib et cetera, which I never date younger than my age.

2725
02:11:29,520 --> 02:11:32,440
Speaker 1: We were kicking it for about eight months, not exclusive,

2726
02:11:32,520 --> 02:11:35,800
Speaker 1: but we were locked in. We recently spent Christmas together,

2727
02:11:36,120 --> 02:11:39,000
Speaker 1: received some nice ass gifts in addition to giving some

2728
02:11:39,200 --> 02:11:41,880
Speaker 1: as well. A couple of weeks ago, I saw a

2729
02:11:41,960 --> 02:11:44,720
Speaker 1: condom in his car. Mind you, we hadn't used the

2730
02:11:44,760 --> 02:11:48,240
Speaker 1: condom for well over a few months. I didn't overreact

2731
02:11:48,320 --> 02:11:50,560
Speaker 1: or bring it up initially, but I did text him

2732
02:11:50,600 --> 02:11:54,120
Speaker 1: later about it. Never accused, just gave him the opportunity

2733
02:11:54,160 --> 02:11:57,040
Speaker 1: to be honest. A few days later, after lying about it,

2734
02:11:57,080 --> 02:11:59,640
Speaker 1: he came clean that he had been with someone else.

2735
02:12:00,280 --> 02:12:03,320
Speaker 1: After another few days of avoiding me, I hit him

2736
02:12:03,400 --> 02:12:06,360
Speaker 1: up for some type of closure or explanation, in which

2737
02:12:06,680 --> 02:12:09,080
Speaker 1: he hit me up saying we should just go our

2738
02:12:09,120 --> 02:12:11,760
Speaker 1: separate ways, and he wants to pursue the girl he

2739
02:12:11,840 --> 02:12:14,480
Speaker 1: was messing with on the side to say I'm not

2740
02:12:14,560 --> 02:12:17,000
Speaker 1: hurt would be lying. But do I let this shit

2741
02:12:17,040 --> 02:12:20,280
Speaker 1: slide or do I get my lick back? Side note?

2742
02:12:20,320 --> 02:12:22,640
Speaker 1: I hate feeling played, so this shit making me feel

2743
02:12:22,640 --> 02:12:24,560
Speaker 1: like I need to want up a nigga. What is

2744
02:12:24,640 --> 02:12:28,800
Speaker 1: y'all's opinion? Talk me out of doing something crazy girl.

2745
02:12:28,840 --> 02:12:30,560
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. There's nothing you can

2746
02:12:30,560 --> 02:12:32,520
Speaker 1: do to make him mad because he doesn't care about you.

2747
02:12:33,440 --> 02:12:36,480
Speaker 1: And I know that's the harsh truth, but he didn't

2748
02:12:36,560 --> 02:12:40,360
Speaker 1: choose you. So I think a lot of times, getting

2749
02:12:40,360 --> 02:12:43,960
Speaker 1: your lick back is just like you gotta get to

2750
02:12:44,040 --> 02:12:46,080
Speaker 1: a place where you have to just not care. Getting

2751
02:12:46,120 --> 02:12:48,280
Speaker 1: your lick back is really just moving on and being

2752
02:12:48,360 --> 02:12:51,440
Speaker 1: happy because there's nothing that you can do to affect him.

2753
02:12:51,800 --> 02:12:54,440
Speaker 1: Sometimes you might be the girl that got away, but

2754
02:12:55,160 --> 02:12:57,160
Speaker 1: I feel like for him to straight up look you

2755
02:12:57,200 --> 02:12:59,560
Speaker 1: in your face and tell you, hey, I want to

2756
02:12:59,600 --> 02:13:02,040
Speaker 1: pursue her. He doesn't really care.

2757
02:13:04,120 --> 02:13:04,400
Speaker 5: You know what.

2758
02:13:04,400 --> 02:13:11,400
Speaker 4: The opposite of love is hate. I understand what indifference? Okay,

2759
02:13:11,760 --> 02:13:15,040
Speaker 4: So like the opposite of love is not hate, like

2760
02:13:15,320 --> 02:13:20,120
Speaker 4: hate is. This is love and anger turned inward. Like

2761
02:13:20,200 --> 02:13:24,880
Speaker 4: that's still very emotional. Yeah, the opposite of love is indifference,

2762
02:13:25,520 --> 02:13:28,040
Speaker 4: like if I don't give a fuck about you, like

2763
02:13:28,080 --> 02:13:32,120
Speaker 4: I don't fuck And that's what he's showing. He's already there. Yeah,

2764
02:13:32,160 --> 02:13:35,040
Speaker 4: so like you, if you.

2765
02:13:34,680 --> 02:13:36,000
Speaker 5: Whatever you want to do, well, First of I don't

2766
02:13:36,000 --> 02:13:36,720
Speaker 5: know what getting.

2767
02:13:36,440 --> 02:13:37,760
Speaker 4: Her look back will be. She's gonna suck one of

2768
02:13:37,800 --> 02:13:38,760
Speaker 4: his homeboys or something like that.

2769
02:13:38,760 --> 02:13:40,360
Speaker 1: He's not gonna care a fuck.

2770
02:13:40,840 --> 02:13:42,520
Speaker 4: He's not gonna give a fuck. They're gonna play madd

2771
02:13:42,520 --> 02:13:44,640
Speaker 4: and then they're gonna laugh literally, you know what I mean.

2772
02:13:44,680 --> 02:13:46,960
Speaker 2: I think the thing about niggas that girls were having

2773
02:13:46,960 --> 02:13:49,280
Speaker 2: to understand is like once they don't care, they don't care.

2774
02:13:49,360 --> 02:13:51,880
Speaker 2: It's really nothing you can do to Like, if a

2775
02:13:51,960 --> 02:13:54,520
Speaker 2: nigga don't care about you, it's nothing you could do

2776
02:13:54,640 --> 02:13:57,080
Speaker 2: to make him feel some type of way. You can

2777
02:13:57,120 --> 02:13:58,760
Speaker 2: only make a nigga feel some type of way if

2778
02:13:58,800 --> 02:13:59,760
Speaker 2: he wants, really.

2779
02:13:59,600 --> 02:14:04,480
Speaker 1: Gave, and he showed you that. There's that do with

2780
02:14:04,480 --> 02:14:05,480
Speaker 1: the information what you will?

2781
02:14:05,560 --> 02:14:08,880
Speaker 4: Wait a second, though, didn't she say that they weren't exclusive?

2782
02:14:09,240 --> 02:14:10,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, she said that they weren't exclusive.

2783
02:14:11,680 --> 02:14:15,240
Speaker 4: The Funck's she mad about that? What?

2784
02:14:15,360 --> 02:14:15,440
Speaker 1: Like?

2785
02:14:15,480 --> 02:14:15,640
Speaker 4: What?

2786
02:14:15,720 --> 02:14:15,800
Speaker 1: Like?

2787
02:14:15,840 --> 02:14:18,040
Speaker 4: What she if they're not exclusively?

2788
02:14:18,080 --> 02:14:18,800
Speaker 5: What she mad about?

2789
02:14:19,040 --> 02:14:21,040
Speaker 2: I agree with you, But I think women are just

2790
02:14:21,240 --> 02:14:22,720
Speaker 2: like illogical like that.

2791
02:14:24,760 --> 02:14:26,200
Speaker 1: Ollusion. I think that.

2792
02:14:27,760 --> 02:14:30,320
Speaker 2: Women can know that y'all aren't in a relationship, But

2793
02:14:30,320 --> 02:14:32,560
Speaker 2: if you're doing everything like y'all in a relationship, then

2794
02:14:32,600 --> 02:14:34,120
Speaker 2: a woman is gonna start to feel like y'all.

2795
02:14:34,360 --> 02:14:36,680
Speaker 1: I mean, you're sucking a woman raw and not being exclusive.

2796
02:14:36,680 --> 02:14:37,240
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

2797
02:14:37,760 --> 02:14:39,000
Speaker 5: I mean niggas do that though.

2798
02:14:39,520 --> 02:14:45,440
Speaker 1: Anyways, we man where because that's not good enough.

2799
02:14:46,200 --> 02:14:47,800
Speaker 4: First of all, I'm not trying to excuse what he

2800
02:14:47,880 --> 02:14:50,920
Speaker 4: was doing because it I mean, well, actually, yeah I am.

2801
02:14:51,000 --> 02:14:53,800
Speaker 4: Because it's like if if if they weren't in, if

2802
02:14:53,800 --> 02:14:56,520
Speaker 4: they were, if they weren't exclusive, then I guess.

2803
02:14:57,040 --> 02:15:02,160
Speaker 1: You shouldn't be fucking nobody wrong. You're not exclusively, I agree. Okay, okay, okay, man,

2804
02:15:02,280 --> 02:15:04,680
Speaker 1: let us know where they can find you. The Higher

2805
02:15:04,720 --> 02:15:07,080
Speaker 1: Learning podcast when does it drop all that good stuff?

2806
02:15:07,120 --> 02:15:09,400
Speaker 4: High Learning Podcasts Tuesdays and Fridays on the Ring of

2807
02:15:09,400 --> 02:15:10,520
Speaker 4: podcast network Spotify.

2808
02:15:10,560 --> 02:15:12,280
Speaker 5: Shout out to Rachel Lindsay, y'all know Rachel.

2809
02:15:12,440 --> 02:15:16,120
Speaker 1: Yes, I love a good smart he comes sit on

2810
02:15:16,120 --> 02:15:16,800
Speaker 1: the couch with us.

2811
02:15:16,840 --> 02:15:17,800
Speaker 5: Oh, she would love.

2812
02:15:17,640 --> 02:15:21,720
Speaker 1: This so like I love people who are just like,

2813
02:15:22,640 --> 02:15:25,560
Speaker 1: she gets down with the good She gets down with

2814
02:15:25,560 --> 02:15:27,280
Speaker 1: the get out. But I think like what people like

2815
02:15:27,360 --> 02:15:30,840
Speaker 1: perceive her ass they would think that she wouldn't she

2816
02:15:30,920 --> 02:15:31,560
Speaker 1: gets down.

2817
02:15:31,760 --> 02:15:35,880
Speaker 4: That's yeah, that's why we get along. Yeah, that's a nigga.

2818
02:15:36,400 --> 02:15:40,120
Speaker 4: We two niggas that people don't think are niggas. Yay podcasts,

2819
02:15:40,120 --> 02:15:40,800
Speaker 4: And they'd be like.

2820
02:15:40,920 --> 02:15:42,480
Speaker 1: That's why When I was like when I was like,

2821
02:15:42,520 --> 02:15:45,680
Speaker 1: oh my god, Van is coming on this motherfucking show,

2822
02:15:46,120 --> 02:15:47,840
Speaker 1: and this has been everything I thought it was. You

2823
02:15:47,920 --> 02:15:50,320
Speaker 1: was using your big words. Done wrote my word.

2824
02:15:51,240 --> 02:15:52,160
Speaker 3: I had a good time.

2825
02:15:54,840 --> 02:15:55,800
Speaker 1: So where can they find you?

2826
02:15:55,840 --> 02:15:59,320
Speaker 4: At a higher learning the ring verse ring versus Like,

2827
02:15:59,360 --> 02:16:01,320
Speaker 4: I do a podcast that's about Marvel movies, so you

2828
02:16:01,360 --> 02:16:06,160
Speaker 4: guys go listen to and then yeah, and then our movie,

2829
02:16:06,240 --> 02:16:08,959
Speaker 4: once again, for the very first time, is in festivals

2830
02:16:09,040 --> 02:16:11,240
Speaker 4: right now, directed by boys your King, the same guy

2831
02:16:11,240 --> 02:16:12,640
Speaker 4: who directed Remember the Titans.

2832
02:16:12,720 --> 02:16:17,240
Speaker 1: Okay, put me in a little movie.

2833
02:16:17,360 --> 02:16:20,400
Speaker 5: Y'all can ask what that's That's the whole thing.

2834
02:16:20,800 --> 02:16:23,120
Speaker 4: You know what. I'm gonna tell you something. This place

2835
02:16:23,200 --> 02:16:25,880
Speaker 4: right here, though, I'll be honest with you. This place

2836
02:16:25,960 --> 02:16:28,600
Speaker 4: right here, what place where we at? What's the name

2837
02:16:28,640 --> 02:16:32,960
Speaker 4: of the production space we're right now? Eighty five South Studios.

2838
02:16:33,640 --> 02:16:38,640
Speaker 4: I predict right now that in the next ten to

2839
02:16:38,640 --> 02:16:44,200
Speaker 4: fifteen years, eighty five South Studios is going to be

2840
02:16:44,640 --> 02:16:47,959
Speaker 4: one of the premier television and movie makers in this

2841
02:16:48,200 --> 02:16:52,320
Speaker 4: entire industry. The talent is there, the infrastructure is there.

2842
02:16:52,440 --> 02:16:55,360
Speaker 4: I've talked to so many people with the way these

2843
02:16:55,360 --> 02:16:58,680
Speaker 4: guys are moving, and y'all got no weak links on

2844
02:16:58,720 --> 02:17:02,080
Speaker 4: the team. Y'all got the right mix of people. It's

2845
02:17:02,160 --> 02:17:04,480
Speaker 4: really something special going on. So y'all gonna make your

2846
02:17:04,640 --> 02:17:08,080
Speaker 4: own movies. That's the next thing for those guys. The

2847
02:17:08,120 --> 02:17:10,720
Speaker 4: sky is the fucking limit. I can see. Everybody could

2848
02:17:11,040 --> 02:17:14,280
Speaker 4: see it. Yeah, everybody could see. This is gonna be

2849
02:17:14,280 --> 02:17:15,879
Speaker 4: the center of the whole ship right here, right now.

2850
02:17:15,920 --> 02:17:18,120
Speaker 1: People love it here like next here, they have a

2851
02:17:18,120 --> 02:17:20,400
Speaker 1: good time. They record eighty five and they come over

2852
02:17:20,400 --> 02:17:23,240
Speaker 1: here and do poor minds like everybody has a.

2853
02:17:23,320 --> 02:17:26,440
Speaker 5: What's the what's the host of the Broken? Did Broken play?

2854
02:17:27,040 --> 02:17:27,240
Speaker 1: No?

2855
02:17:27,520 --> 02:17:30,160
Speaker 4: This is the This is literally this nigga had me dying.

2856
02:17:30,200 --> 02:17:31,920
Speaker 4: This is one of the funniest.

2857
02:17:31,400 --> 02:17:37,040
Speaker 1: Guys never I say this, follow the funniest nigga on

2858
02:17:37,080 --> 02:17:38,560
Speaker 1: this planet. And I cannot wait.

2859
02:17:38,640 --> 02:17:39,440
Speaker 5: I have such a good.

2860
02:17:41,000 --> 02:17:44,240
Speaker 1: There's nobody funnier than AV. So I'm glad you had

2861
02:17:44,280 --> 02:17:47,680
Speaker 1: a good time. Yeah in our space, y'all, y'all know

2862
02:17:47,720 --> 02:17:51,560
Speaker 1: we're gonna get it's a karaoke per usual. Shout out

2863
02:17:51,600 --> 02:17:53,200
Speaker 1: to vand for pulling up with us, and we'll see

2864
02:17:53,240 --> 02:17:53,879
Speaker 1: y'all next week.

2865
02:17:54,000 --> 02:18:01,359
Speaker 4: By y'all, wrong, Rember.

2866
02:18:02,000 --> 02:18:05,480
Speaker 2: Maybe you're aain't nothing more that I can say you

2867
02:18:05,560 --> 02:18:08,240
Speaker 2: know by now I wanted more than anything.

2868
02:18:08,879 --> 02:18:11,920
Speaker 1: If I walk away and just let you leave, you

2869
02:18:12,120 --> 02:18:14,160
Speaker 1: be stuck in my hair like like fantasy.

2870
02:18:15,360 --> 02:18:19,160
Speaker 4: I know you want it. Yeah, I hesitate. You must

2871
02:18:19,240 --> 02:18:22,880
Speaker 4: be crazy. You gotta lady, I know it.

2872
02:18:23,680 --> 02:18:27,640
Speaker 9: So this one be something special. You could be anywhere

2873
02:18:27,800 --> 02:18:30,640
Speaker 9: you want it. You decided to be here with me.

2874
02:18:31,320 --> 02:18:34,160
Speaker 9: Hell coincidence it was meant to be.

2875
02:18:35,080 --> 02:18:36,600
Speaker 4: Don't bed.

2876
02:18:38,400 --> 02:18:39,920
Speaker 1: So you can tell all.

2877
02:18:39,680 --> 02:18:43,800
Speaker 9: Of your friends you was on a Remits like it's

2878
02:18:43,879 --> 02:18:46,000
Speaker 9: club in this club?

2879
02:18:50,040 --> 02:18:54,320
Speaker 1: What club? They keep watching?

2880
02:18:54,400 --> 02:18:56,640
Speaker 4: I stopping, baby, I don't get up.

2881
02:18:57,560 --> 02:18:59,680
Speaker 1: Club club?

2882
02:19:02,560 --> 02:19:06,520
Speaker 4: They say this close, in this close?

2883
02:19:08,480 --> 02:19:13,879
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, lobby down, but we have all these

2884
02:19:13,879 --> 02:19:18,680
Speaker 1: people around. My hear is only my eyes.

2885
02:19:19,959 --> 02:19:21,920
Speaker 4: But you getting carried away.

2886
02:19:22,160 --> 02:19:28,680
Speaker 1: We can do it well away. Touching me, make you

2887
02:19:28,879 --> 02:19:34,440
Speaker 1: the same, trying to make me. I'm gonna be down

2888
02:19:34,520 --> 02:19:35,720
Speaker 1: and give you what you wanted.

2889
02:19:35,840 --> 02:19:44,080
Speaker 2: If you keep it up, trow me, not the sling, the.

2890
02:19:47,200 --> 02:19:53,760
Speaker 1: No one yes to be here with me?

2891
02:19:54,520 --> 02:20:00,120
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, thank you.

2892
02:20:00,160 --> 02:20:01,840
Speaker 4: See you can see it a little bit.

2893
02:20:01,920 --> 02:20:03,400
Speaker 3: I can't do y'all.

2894
02:20:03,640 --> 02:20:06,880
Speaker 4: Y'all. She was hitting and she ain't gonna let her go.

2895
02:20:07,520 --> 02:20:11,840
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't give.

2896
02:20:21,440 --> 02:20:24,280
Speaker 4: Wallo. Bye, y'all