WEBVTT - Before You Could Remember, Part 1

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Stuff to Blow Your Mind, the production of iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey are you welcome to Stuff to Blow your Mind?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Robert Lamb, and I'm Joe McCormick, and

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<v Speaker 1>today we're going to be talking about that hole in

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<v Speaker 1>your memory before the earliest one you can produce, also

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<v Speaker 1>known as infantile amnesia. And hey, listeners, you were promised

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<v Speaker 1>you would be getting some baby looked at Me topics

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<v Speaker 1>this year. My wife and I had a baby this

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<v Speaker 1>past October, and I think many of you have been

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<v Speaker 1>practically daring me to embark on indulgent dad topics. But

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<v Speaker 1>here we've arrived at one because so I think the

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<v Speaker 1>way I got here was recently we have started spending

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time trying to make a five month

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<v Speaker 1>old baby laugh. Rob, I don't know how much experience

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<v Speaker 1>you have with this, like the parent comedian routine. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of hours clocked on that particular stand up gig. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>sometime recently Rachel figured out what our baby's favorite genre

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<v Speaker 1>of comedy was, at least for that day, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a textile gravity comedy. It was the act was

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<v Speaker 1>you hold a cloth up in the air and then

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<v Speaker 1>you drop the cloth on the baby, and when the

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<v Speaker 1>cloth falls down and hits the baby, this is hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>It was creating these storms of laughter from another dimension,

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<v Speaker 1>truly riveting experience, at least for us. But I started

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<v Speaker 1>to wonder, like, why is this funny? And of course

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to ask her, but she's a five month

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<v Speaker 1>old baby, not talking yet. She can't explain why it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I was thinking, one day, will I

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<v Speaker 1>be able to ask her, you remember when we were

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<v Speaker 1>dropping the cloth on you and you thought this was

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<v Speaker 1>so funny? Why was it funny? What was going through

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<v Speaker 1>your mind? But I just know that's probably never a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that's going to go anywhere, because is she really

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<v Speaker 1>going to even remember this by the time she can

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it? Because I certainly don't have any memories

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<v Speaker 1>that I can bring up now from being five months old,

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<v Speaker 1>or even from being one year old, or even from

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<v Speaker 1>being two years old. I'm not sure, honestly what my

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<v Speaker 1>earliest memory is. But I know I don't have any

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<v Speaker 1>memories I feel confident about from the first several years

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<v Speaker 1>of my life. And it turns out this is not

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<v Speaker 1>unique to me. This is pretty common most people feel

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<v Speaker 1>this way, that they don't have any really solid memories

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<v Speaker 1>from the first several years of their lives, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I just got really interested in the question of why

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<v Speaker 1>that is. Yeah, I mean, unless you are biological mother

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<v Speaker 1>partook of the waters of life, she was pregnant, you're

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<v Speaker 1>probably not preborn like that. You're you're not gonna You're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna remember these things. And we'll get into some

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<v Speaker 1>There is a certain amount of subjectiveness to all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll get into some of that, And certainly we'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to hear from any listeners out there who are

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<v Speaker 1>firm on this or feel firm on this and are like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I do remember being under the age of two, that

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<v Speaker 1>sort of thing. But most of the research seems to

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<v Speaker 1>point in a different direction that most It seems like

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<v Speaker 1>most of what we remember is after a certain point

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<v Speaker 1>in our development, and that certainly your daughter has not

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<v Speaker 1>quite reached that point. Which is not to say that

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<v Speaker 1>she is not capable of memory, because I mean several

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<v Speaker 1>things I can notice. She recognizes faces, and she is

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<v Speaker 1>forming associations and routines. There's learning going on at this

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<v Speaker 1>point in a baby's development, and learning is to some

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<v Speaker 1>extent based on memory. So it's not that the brain

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<v Speaker 1>is not capable of any type of memory at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>but it seems that most people's brains at this point

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<v Speaker 1>are not producing episodic or autobiographical memories. Episodic memories meaning

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<v Speaker 1>memories of specific events or experiences, not producing sort of

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<v Speaker 1>narrative memories of that type that can be retrieved later

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<v Speaker 1>in life. I guess it's a question whether memories of

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<v Speaker 1>that type are formed at all. And so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have any memories like that from infancy. Most people report

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<v Speaker 1>the same, and I cannot, honestly, from my memory, tell

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<v Speaker 1>you a story about anything that happened before I was

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<v Speaker 1>probably like four or five or so. You do bring

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<v Speaker 1>up the idea that there are a small number of

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<v Speaker 1>people who claim they can remember like being born or

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<v Speaker 1>being a baby. But even in those cases, while you can't,

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<v Speaker 1>you say, well, you're just wrong, you don't remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's reasonable to be skeptical about whether those

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<v Speaker 1>are real memories or just later confabulations. Yeah. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>I on this note, I think it's important to remind

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<v Speaker 1>listeners that fabricated memories are by no means necessarily intentional.

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<v Speaker 1>They're numerous ways that we've discussed in the show before,

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<v Speaker 1>numerous ways that false memories may be encoded. There are

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<v Speaker 1>plenty of examples of cases where attested early childhood memories

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<v Speaker 1>can ultimately be attributed to stories one is told about

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<v Speaker 1>one's younger years and or something formed out of say

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<v Speaker 1>longing or desire for a certain framework. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that out there. And again we've touched on

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<v Speaker 1>many times before, like we alter memories every time we

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<v Speaker 1>draw them out, every time we get them out of

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<v Speaker 1>the storage, we get our fingerprints all over them, and

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<v Speaker 1>we change them. And then ultimately, the memories that are

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<v Speaker 1>most dear to us, the ones that we pull out

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<v Speaker 1>the most are the ones that are potentially the most altered,

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<v Speaker 1>right because the form in which they are stored in

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<v Speaker 1>memory is ultimately the form in which you rehearse them.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's not a videotape. It is a it's

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<v Speaker 1>a constant sort of like rewriting over the same document. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And to your point, though, it is kind of ironic

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<v Speaker 1>that when you have a young child in the house

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<v Speaker 1>like this, for for parents, this is or even you know,

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<v Speaker 1>other people in that uh, that infant's life, these are

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<v Speaker 1>some of the dearest moments. You know, you're experiencing these

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<v Speaker 1>moments and you're like, this, this is you can feel

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<v Speaker 1>it embedding, you can you know this is something you're

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<v Speaker 1>never going to forget. And then on the other hand,

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<v Speaker 1>you have at least a very strong suspicion that the

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<v Speaker 1>child is not going to remember it the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you remember it. Uh and uh, and it's a it's

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<v Speaker 1>so it's something that I know that we my wife

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<v Speaker 1>and I talked a lot about with our son when

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<v Speaker 1>he when he was much younger. And sometimes my son

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<v Speaker 1>will comment on this because when your child gets over,

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<v Speaker 1>you're always like, well do you remember this? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember that? Or I remember when this happened, but I

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<v Speaker 1>know you don't remember it. And so there are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of conversations like that. And then sometimes we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>on a trip and our son, at this point, who's

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<v Speaker 1>almost eleven, he'll comment like, oh, well, that baby's not

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<v Speaker 1>even going to remember that vacation. Uh, seeing like a

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<v Speaker 1>you know, another couple with an infant on a trip,

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<v Speaker 1>but it might as well not even take it. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that's that's kind of the joke, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>just go ahead and put your baby in a closet

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<v Speaker 1>for a few years because they're not going to remember

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<v Speaker 1>these expensive trips. But of course you can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how it works. You have to have these

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<v Speaker 1>moments in these trips. And and just because the baby's

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<v Speaker 1>not recalling it the way an adult recalls something later

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that it's not quote unquote remembered. Right, those

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<v Speaker 1>I mean those instead of say having autobiographical memories that

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<v Speaker 1>can later be retrieved in narrative form. Instead, the effect

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<v Speaker 1>of those experiences might be, say, structural impacts on the

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<v Speaker 1>development of the brain. Right. There's a great quote that

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<v Speaker 1>came up in a paper I'm going to source here

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<v Speaker 1>in a bet where they said something that you know

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<v Speaker 1>is quite simple. But I think is important to keep

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<v Speaker 1>in mind in this context and in memory context in general.

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<v Speaker 1>The brain remembers what it needs to remember, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and and the memory demands on say a five month

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<v Speaker 1>old baby or a one year old child one and

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<v Speaker 1>a half year child are different. And therefore again it's

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<v Speaker 1>not there's nothing bad about not having not being able

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<v Speaker 1>to recall when you are two or three, or four

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<v Speaker 1>or five. It's just it's just what your brain needed

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<v Speaker 1>to do. And as we'll get into there are different

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<v Speaker 1>reasons for this. Yeah, so that's what we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be exploring in this series. Questions like why don't most

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<v Speaker 1>people have specific autobiographical memories of being a baby? Do

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<v Speaker 1>we have episodic memories of infancy which get like erased

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<v Speaker 1>from the brain for some reason, or do we never

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<v Speaker 1>form episodic memories of baby life in the first place.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously there's some kind of memory going on in very

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<v Speaker 1>young childhood and infancy, but maybe it just like it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have an episodic memory component. Maybe it can remember

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<v Speaker 1>associations and images, but maybe not like sequences of events.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe is there some weird third option, like we

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<v Speaker 1>do form memories and they're not exactly erased later, but

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<v Speaker 1>they're sort of fun or hard to retrieve for some reason.

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<v Speaker 1>That that's what got me really interested in this exploration today.

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<v Speaker 1>But of course I also got very interested in the

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<v Speaker 1>question of before people could do experiments on this, they

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<v Speaker 1>must have observed childhood development firsthand and had all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of questions of this sort and probably come up with

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<v Speaker 1>answers whether or not those answers were accurate. Yeah, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get in a little bit into just sort of

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<v Speaker 1>some of the history of this, some of some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of pre modern infant opinions, and also a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of cultural variation. I think one of the things to

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<v Speaker 1>keep in mind about pre modern and pre scientific beliefs

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<v Speaker 1>about infant memory is that a lot of it is

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<v Speaker 1>going to come down to older beliefs about what human

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<v Speaker 1>infants are and what they are not, And so this

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<v Speaker 1>is all a mixture of things based on cultural tradition,

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<v Speaker 1>but also based on observation. I think it goes without

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<v Speaker 1>saying that that no matter what may have been ultimately

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<v Speaker 1>recorded in literature ancient people, you know, they would have

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<v Speaker 1>applied different insights and different ideas to the experience of babies,

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<v Speaker 1>but some things were obviously going to be the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Babies evoke strong emotions in us. That's just part of

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<v Speaker 1>the way we're hardwired. Babies require a great deal of care.

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<v Speaker 1>Babies cry baby is inherently can't communicate precisely. And also

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<v Speaker 1>human memories of early childhood or the lack thereof, would

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<v Speaker 1>have been identical more or less to what we have now,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least any differences are not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>based merely on say the the timeline, and we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>into some of that in a bit. Right. For example,

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<v Speaker 1>I would really not say that the current characteristics of

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<v Speaker 1>infantile amnesia or memory formation and very young children are say,

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<v Speaker 1>a result of the Internet or some other kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like technological context, especially because we know people have been

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<v Speaker 1>in the more modern era doing research on this going

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<v Speaker 1>back more than a hundred years, so before a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the the sort of like communications and technology context

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<v Speaker 1>we live in today, people were asking hey, when are

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<v Speaker 1>people's first memories and what do they remember about childhood?

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<v Speaker 1>And the answers were largely the same as what we

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<v Speaker 1>get when we asked that today. Yeah. Yeah, So it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't seem like there's any expectation that there's been significant

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<v Speaker 1>variation in this, aside from variation that occurs for cultural

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<v Speaker 1>reasons and so forth. But again, a lot of this

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<v Speaker 1>is going to come down to how we think about babies,

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<v Speaker 1>and again it's it's it's interesting because on one hand, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we have this inherent draw towards our own young and

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<v Speaker 1>to the young of our community, but at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you often hear people talk about older kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and you'll hear them say, well, you remember what it

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<v Speaker 1>was like when you were that age. You know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a certain relatability in that. But generally they're not saying

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<v Speaker 1>this about infants or very young toddlers because by and

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<v Speaker 1>large we don't remember what it was it was like

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<v Speaker 1>to be that age. We only remember the stories of

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<v Speaker 1>what we were like at that age and so forth. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>examining how people in ancient times, for example, thought about babies,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about pre modern and prescientific thinking into all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>you also have to take into account infant mortality rates,

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<v Speaker 1>which were often high in ancient times. And I realized

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<v Speaker 1>that infant mortality is not exactly a fun topic. But

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<v Speaker 1>some of the attitudes of the ancient world surrounding the

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<v Speaker 1>nature of infants is more sharply expressed over the subject,

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<v Speaker 1>or so it seems. So we are going to touch

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<v Speaker 1>on it a little bit, at least in passing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of unavoidable for most of human history, for

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<v Speaker 1>most people, just a major fact of life. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at a few different sources about the understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of infants in ancient Greek and ancient Rome. In Childbirth

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<v Speaker 1>and infancy in Greek and Roman antiquity from twenty eleven

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<v Speaker 1>author Varneck Dason points out a number of interesting things

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<v Speaker 1>about how these ancient people seem to seem to have

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<v Speaker 1>considered young children based on the evidence we have to

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<v Speaker 1>go on today, and so I want to outline some

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<v Speaker 1>interesting points that they bring up. First of all, most

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<v Speaker 1>of what we know relates to elite children rather than

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<v Speaker 1>the lives of those born into lower classes or two

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<v Speaker 1>enslaved people. Also, we have to think about the terminology here.

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<v Speaker 1>This is fascinating, so you know, basically the infant toddler

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<v Speaker 1>dynamic and duality. It's it's interesting and potentially telling in

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<v Speaker 1>that changes in terminology may indicate changes in cultural understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of young children. So you know, certainly there's a difference

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<v Speaker 1>between an infant and a toddler, and we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>sort of we tend to mark that transition point. But

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<v Speaker 1>to what extent is that transition point born out in

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<v Speaker 1>a people's language, and at what point does the language

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<v Speaker 1>potentially shift, etc. Basically just sort of a larger background

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<v Speaker 1>topic to keep in mind. But the big point here

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<v Speaker 1>is that it's most helpful to think of childhood as

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<v Speaker 1>a journey, one that hits different milestones, goes through different stages,

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<v Speaker 1>and that and this in turn alters the way that

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<v Speaker 1>adults view the child and the degree to which they

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<v Speaker 1>can be integrated into society. Also, Dawson points out to quote,

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<v Speaker 1>in times of high infant mortality, these stages represented steps

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<v Speaker 1>for hope of survival and increasing parental bonding. We'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back to exactly what is meant by that, but basically

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<v Speaker 1>it comes down to, like, how does a culture deal

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<v Speaker 1>with the fact that there is a high infant mortality rate.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there more of a sort of pushing away of

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like a ultimately a stoic reaction, sort of

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<v Speaker 1>distancing of the infant from the society who are making

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a marginal state, or is there indeed still

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of bonding going on and so forth. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>with the Greek and Roman viewpoints, specifically, what we think

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<v Speaker 1>of as infancy would have probably ended at age two

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<v Speaker 1>or three, with you full weaning, increased ability to speak,

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<v Speaker 1>and at age three integration into practiced religion at least

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<v Speaker 1>at some degree. Now, medically speaking, it was previously supposed

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<v Speaker 1>that there was next to nothing in the literature of

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<v Speaker 1>ancient Greek ancient Rome to suggest that physicians were concerned

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<v Speaker 1>with babies, except in exceptional circumstances, it was thought that

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<v Speaker 1>babies in general were left to the midwives and the mothers. However,

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<v Speaker 1>Dawson stresses that this is no longer really a correct viewpoint,

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<v Speaker 1>based on numerous examples of writings that have come up

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<v Speaker 1>about say, essential diet and hygiene for babies. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's interesting representing there like a shift in our

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<v Speaker 1>modern understanding about ancient views on infants that they were

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<v Speaker 1>actually sometimes a more relevant object of what was considered medicine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's sort of this, and we'll get into it more

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<v Speaker 1>than just a second here, But there was this understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of the ancient world based on somethingificant evidence that basically

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<v Speaker 1>the ruling male elite we're saying, like babies that not

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<v Speaker 1>even worth your time, not worth my time anyway, call

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<v Speaker 1>me when it is old enough for me to care

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<v Speaker 1>about it, or if there's if it's exploding, then yes,

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<v Speaker 1>a physician may come and check out the child. That

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<v Speaker 1>sort of thing, because without a doubt, there seemed to

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<v Speaker 1>have been far less of a view of baby superiority

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<v Speaker 1>in ancient Greek and ancient Rome. Dawson writes the following

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<v Speaker 1>this is great quote from Hippocrates to late antiquity, babies

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<v Speaker 1>and toddlers are defined as a category of beings with

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<v Speaker 1>a special morphology and physiology. These characteristics are on the

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<v Speaker 1>whole negative. Newborn babies are generally described as imperfect, weak,

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<v Speaker 1>and ugly. Wow perfect yes, Oh no, this reminds me

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<v Speaker 1>of the story you've shared many times of your son

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<v Speaker 1>calling the cat a stupid baby or just a baby

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<v Speaker 1>maybe when it was just baby like baby is an adjective,

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<v Speaker 1>bemoji and just a solid burn. As a toddler, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like peak insult, imperfect, weak, and ugly. Yeah. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>toddlers get it, and so did the grown learned men

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<v Speaker 1>of ancient Greece. So Dawson points a few specific authors

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<v Speaker 1>to underline these views. So m. Aristotle wrote that babies

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<v Speaker 1>quote are born in a more imperfect condition than any

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<v Speaker 1>other perfected animal, and also that they have poor eyesight.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, it depends on what Aristotle means by that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure the full context, But if he's making

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<v Speaker 1>a distinction between human beings and other animals, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's a fair observation that human babies are more helpless

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<v Speaker 1>than the newborns of most other animal species. Yeah, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think that's what he's going for here.

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<v Speaker 1>There is there's another work on colors that is sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>attributed to Aristotle, and in this it's pointed out that

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<v Speaker 1>babies are ugly because or well it's much it's as ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>but it points out that there's essentially they're ugly because

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<v Speaker 1>they have red faces and little hair. Do you ever

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<v Speaker 1>get the feeling that like Aristotle might have been writing

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<v Speaker 1>about human babies the same way he was writing about

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<v Speaker 1>like sting rays. It's just like this is something he's

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<v Speaker 1>observed a couple of times and made a few notes about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've seen some pretty hairy little babies before,

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean they think it varies, yeah, but yes,

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<v Speaker 1>on the whole, they tend not die us half of

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<v Speaker 1>like a full head of hair or certainly a proper beard. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Galen was one of numerous physicians to comment on the

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<v Speaker 1>seeming wax like malleability and weakness of the baby. Weakness

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<v Speaker 1>of the baby. Babies are so weak. They're they're weak,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're they're basically made out of wax. Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't handle them too much or you will change

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<v Speaker 1>their form completely. They do tend to be Doughey, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. But also Galen, I can just tell this

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<v Speaker 1>guy did not spend much time holding a baby because,

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<v Speaker 1>like especially Galen probably had a beard. I've a beard.

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<v Speaker 1>When you feel the baby grabbed the beard and just

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<v Speaker 1>not leg this is the handle for the adult, and

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<v Speaker 1>it will pull until it has a fistful of beard hair.

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<v Speaker 1>You do not walk away with the impression of how

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<v Speaker 1>weak babies are. Aristotle also recorded that many babies die

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<v Speaker 1>within the first week and are therefore not named before

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<v Speaker 1>this period passes. And this is a kind of approach

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<v Speaker 1>to the first week or so of a child's life

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<v Speaker 1>that you see reflected in various cultures in various times. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>Plutarch just wonders if babies are in fact animals, because

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<v Speaker 1>they're more like vegetables. They're more like a plant. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>plants cry at midnight, plants poop where they want to.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what a plant is. Dason adds this line

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<v Speaker 1>here quote a mineral metaphor substitutes for the vegetable one.

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<v Speaker 1>And Chronosis myth who ate his children as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>they were born and thought a stone to be a

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<v Speaker 1>swaddled nursling. So you know, is it a baby? Is

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<v Speaker 1>it a stone? Like anyone can tell the difference, I guess. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that supposed to be a comment on how like

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<v Speaker 1>how featureless and uninteresting babies are? Or is that myth's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be a like a joke about Chronos being stupid? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I always I mean, granted I was as a modern

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<v Speaker 1>English speaking human. I'm not the the intended audience, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess for the myth, But I always interpreted it as

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<v Speaker 1>being like, he's just so consumed with this this need

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<v Speaker 1>to destroy his young. You know that he's just like

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<v Speaker 1>just gobbles him up without really tasting them, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's more like down he's more machine now than man,

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<v Speaker 1>almost like a he's a baby eating machine. He barely

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<v Speaker 1>notices or or or has cognizance of what's going in

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<v Speaker 1>his mouth. Yeah. So, after expressing some of these again

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<v Speaker 1>aristocratic male opinions on babies recorded in the literature, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a good time to distress something that another

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<v Speaker 1>author drives home as well. And this is from the

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<v Speaker 1>work of Marine Carrol in Infant Death and Burial in

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<v Speaker 1>Roman Italy from twenty fifteen. She points out that we

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<v Speaker 1>base a lot of our understanding of this topic on

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<v Speaker 1>the writings of Stoic male aristocratic literary elite, and also

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<v Speaker 1>the arguments that the remains in Roman cemeteries seem to

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<v Speaker 1>bear this out. The I think quote unquote invisibility of

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<v Speaker 1>the young child in Roman cemeteries. Yeah, and unfortunately this

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<v Speaker 1>is true about a lot of things in the ancient world.

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<v Speaker 1>When you have to consult literary texts to get a

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<v Speaker 1>flavor of ancient life, that's necessarily going to be leaving

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of stuff out because of the sexism of

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<v Speaker 1>like who could receive literary education and who was writing

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<v Speaker 1>texts and stuff at the time. You're you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get a lot of aristocratic male perspective. Yeah, and and

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<v Speaker 1>certainly manufactory in Stoicism. And then also the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe some of them did not know how much hair

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<v Speaker 1>baby had on average. You know, it's a it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's well worth taking into account. But on the other hand,

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<v Speaker 1>you do have this this argument that lines up with

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<v Speaker 1>things with the writings of say Plutarch, who said that

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<v Speaker 1>infants quote have no part in earth or earthly things,

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<v Speaker 1>and therefore they don't require any of the rights normally

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<v Speaker 1>performed for the dead, So you know, there's just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of this um push and pull over, like what is

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<v Speaker 1>the status of the of the infant? And we can

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<v Speaker 1>understand like this like stoic approach that's like, look, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a chance that things aren't going to go well, and

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<v Speaker 1>then therefore one should be prepared for that by not

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<v Speaker 1>fully integrating them into into life essentially. But Carroll points

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<v Speaker 1>out that these views do not necessarily represent those of

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<v Speaker 1>of course other classes or certainly mothers during the time period.

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<v Speaker 1>So the seeming invisibility of young children in Italian cemeteries

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<v Speaker 1>of the time period is something that requires like further

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<v Speaker 1>examination and perhaps a little more understanding, as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>just like well, they weren't considered real things. Also of note,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at a paper from twenty twelve child

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<v Speaker 1>Exposure in the Roman Empire by W. V. Harris, published

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<v Speaker 1>in the Journal of Roman Studies, pointing out that child

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<v Speaker 1>exposure like the leaving of a child, you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>the wild or out in the open, away from from humans,

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<v Speaker 1>that this was widely practiced in the Roman Empire, often

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<v Speaker 1>when quote physical viability and legitimacy were in doubt, but

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<v Speaker 1>that not everyone agreed with the practice Stoics in particular

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<v Speaker 1>tended to believe that infants should live at the very

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<v Speaker 1>least if they're healthy and legitimate. And certainly there's plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of room for hypocrisy and something like that. But I

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<v Speaker 1>also wondered to what extent it backs up or counters

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<v Speaker 1>the idea that babies in general were considered only halfway real.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's another great chunk going back from from Dawson, going

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<v Speaker 1>back to her paper. Quote for Aristotle, infants were defined

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<v Speaker 1>as a lower category of beings physically weak, mentally and

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<v Speaker 1>morally inept, with unco controlled appetites. Physical disproportions associate them

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<v Speaker 1>with animals. A heavy upper part explains why children move

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<v Speaker 1>like quadrupeds, says Aristotle. Quote. That is why infants cannot

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<v Speaker 1>walk but crawl about, and at the very beginning cannot

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<v Speaker 1>even crawl, but remain where they are, but remain where

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<v Speaker 1>they are. This paper from Dustin doesn't really get into

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<v Speaker 1>memory all that much. A lot of it's again we're

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<v Speaker 1>dealing more sort of the overarching views of young children

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<v Speaker 1>and infants. But Dustin does such a memory as well.

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<v Speaker 1>In this part. Quote disproportions also explain mental incapacities. The

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<v Speaker 1>heaviness of a large head impairs the impulses of thoughts,

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<v Speaker 1>and the infant's memory is bad. Children are further associated

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<v Speaker 1>with inferior categories of human beings, such as old people

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<v Speaker 1>physically weaker, with a poorer memory and less hair, with

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<v Speaker 1>the insane and the drunk with a similar e fable

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<v Speaker 1>temperament and a disorderly behavior, with women irrational, changeable and weak,

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<v Speaker 1>and even with dwarfs. So you ask, what did ancient

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<v Speaker 1>Greek philosophers think about babies? And it's the answer is

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<v Speaker 1>just a conglomeration of offensive opinions. Well, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>that is what seems to remain in the literature. But

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<v Speaker 1>Deson also stresses that while a lot of this may

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<v Speaker 1>just sound like, you know, babies are gross and the worst,

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<v Speaker 1>there's also plenty of evidence that the seeming deficiencies of

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<v Speaker 1>babies were also very much enjoyed. That it wasn't just like, oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>this baby's like an old man. It's more like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this baby's like an old man, and the bonding still

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<v Speaker 1>occurred even in times of high mortality. Their smiles and

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<v Speaker 1>their skin were written about as being irresistible. And also,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought this was Nate quote, myths of baby heroes

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<v Speaker 1>transcend children's deaths, and this is something perhaps worth thinking about.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, we might get into this in the

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<v Speaker 1>second episode. We might come back at a later time.

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<v Speaker 1>But you do have a lot of baby heroes and

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<v Speaker 1>child gods and godlings and various myth and folklore traditions

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<v Speaker 1>from the likes of baby Krishna to the Christ Child.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyways, sticking on the topic of memories of a

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<v Speaker 1>lack thereof and small children infants, it would seem that

0:26:18.080 --> 0:26:20.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, of course, the lack of memories from one's

0:26:20.720 --> 0:26:24.000
<v Speaker 1>own infancy was very much a known factor, and that

0:26:24.160 --> 0:26:26.719
<v Speaker 1>it would make sense within a viewpoint that babies are

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:29.879
<v Speaker 1>unfinished and imperfect. They have yet to cross through all

0:26:29.920 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 1>the stages of becoming truly human, becoming you know, truly

0:26:33.280 --> 0:26:37.480
<v Speaker 1>a part of family unit, truly a part of society,

0:26:38.000 --> 0:26:41.120
<v Speaker 1>even if they still amuse us and we still have

0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:53.800
<v Speaker 1>a lot of emotions about them. Now, we mentioned earlier

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:59.280
<v Speaker 1>cultural differences that could impact just how early one remembers

0:26:59.359 --> 0:27:02.119
<v Speaker 1>one's lie what are what one's earliest memories happen to be?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was looking at an article titled the culture

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<v Speaker 1>of Memory by Leo Winnerman published by the American Psychological

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 1>Society back in two thousand and five. The author here

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<v Speaker 1>points to research that shows that quote, the average age

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:20.639
<v Speaker 1>of first memories varies up to two years between different cultures,

0:27:20.880 --> 0:27:22.960
<v Speaker 1>and it seems to come down to the weight and

0:27:23.160 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 1>importance of memory within a specific cultural system. According to

0:27:27.720 --> 0:27:32.160
<v Speaker 1>Michelle Leichmann, PhD, cited in the article quote, people who

0:27:32.200 --> 0:27:35.800
<v Speaker 1>grow up in societies that focus on individual personal history

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:39.600
<v Speaker 1>like the United States, or ones that focus on personal

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:43.720
<v Speaker 1>family history like the Maori will have different and often

0:27:43.760 --> 0:27:47.040
<v Speaker 1>earlier childhood memories than people who grow up in cultures that,

0:27:47.359 --> 0:27:51.840
<v Speaker 1>like many Asian cultures, value interdependence rather than personal autonomy.

0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:55.760
<v Speaker 1>So a key nineteen ninety four study from psychologist Mary Mullen,

0:27:55.840 --> 0:27:59.000
<v Speaker 1>published in the journal Cognition as more than seven hundred

0:27:59.000 --> 0:28:02.200
<v Speaker 1>Caucasian and Asian or Asian American undergrads to describe their

0:28:02.200 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 1>earliest memory on average Asian and Asian American student memories

0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:10.399
<v Speaker 1>happened six months later a subsequent study, and we should

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:15.200
<v Speaker 1>know there were many subsequent studies that examined different slices

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 1>of all this from In this case from Mullen, though,

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:22.960
<v Speaker 1>found a sixteen month gap between Caucasian Americans and Native Koreans.

0:28:23.480 --> 0:28:26.080
<v Speaker 1>These studies led to a host of others, and it

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:30.160
<v Speaker 1>seems to follow the basic social interaction model. Quote. According

0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:34.640
<v Speaker 1>to this model, our autobiographical memories don't develop in a vacuum. Instead,

0:28:34.720 --> 0:28:37.800
<v Speaker 1>as children, we encode our memories of events as we

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 1>talk over those events with the adults in our life.

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:43.960
<v Speaker 1>The more those adults encourage us to spin an elaborate

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 1>narrative tale, the more likely we are to remember details

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:51.479
<v Speaker 1>about the event later. This absolutely dovetails with much of

0:28:51.480 --> 0:28:54.960
<v Speaker 1>what I've been reading that like sort of an interactive

0:28:55.640 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 1>rehearsal of memories helps make those memories stronger, but sort

0:29:00.440 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 1>of the paradox of memory. And this is true not

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:04.560
<v Speaker 1>just of childhood. I think this is true of adult

0:29:04.600 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 1>memory as well. Is that while that produces a stronger

0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:13.680
<v Speaker 1>memory consolidation and you you are better able to retrieve

0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:16.880
<v Speaker 1>that memory later, it also makes the memory more subject

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:21.240
<v Speaker 1>to contamination by whatever input you're getting from the person

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:25.320
<v Speaker 1>you're rehearsing it with, or even from outside sources such

0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 1>as advertising. UM. I don't know if this is still

0:29:28.480 --> 0:29:30.480
<v Speaker 1>the case, but many years ago I went to the

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Coca Cola Museum here in Atlanta with my mother, and

0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:37.120
<v Speaker 1>there was some bit of advertising. I'm not sure if

0:29:37.120 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 1>it was current advertising or past advertising, but the gist

0:29:39.840 --> 0:29:43.560
<v Speaker 1>of it was Coca Cola. We've always been there, like

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:46.400
<v Speaker 1>we were a part of your essentially saying we were

0:29:46.400 --> 0:29:48.440
<v Speaker 1>a part of all those memories that you hold dear

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>and and I often think think of that when I'm

0:29:52.440 --> 0:29:55.840
<v Speaker 1>encounter branding from this company, because I'm because it's good,

0:29:55.920 --> 0:30:00.280
<v Speaker 1>it's really infectious. Yeah, it does a great job. It

0:30:00.640 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>is kind of like trying to worm its way in there,

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 1>like do you remember that that great memory from your childhood?

0:30:05.080 --> 0:30:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I bet there was a Coca Cola on the table.

0:30:07.120 --> 0:30:10.080
<v Speaker 1>And even if there wasn't, Bam, there is now. Well

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:12.800
<v Speaker 1>you could say it's genius, maybe even insidious, the way

0:30:12.800 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 1>that they insinuate their branding into inherently nostalgic imagery. So

0:30:17.160 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 1>like the Santa clause with the Coca Cola, Yeah, I

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:22.239
<v Speaker 1>think that's not an accident. That's like to try to

0:30:22.320 --> 0:30:27.080
<v Speaker 1>integrate the brand with your earliest and best feelings from childhood.

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:30.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh boy, Christmas is coming, here's Santa. And what Santa

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:32.880
<v Speaker 1>got in his hand a coke? Of course, that's just

0:30:33.000 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 1>part of the Santa lore. Yeah, yeah, so so yeah,

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 1>there's a you could really get into advertising and so

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>forth and all of this as well. But but yeah,

0:30:44.880 --> 0:30:46.680
<v Speaker 1>so even within a given culture, and they're going to

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:50.120
<v Speaker 1>have this sort of different cultural leanings based on what

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:54.640
<v Speaker 1>sort of emphasis you place on an individual experience. But

0:30:54.880 --> 0:30:57.000
<v Speaker 1>also there's gonna be there're gonna be differences even within

0:30:57.080 --> 0:31:01.560
<v Speaker 1>a culture based on high elaborative and low elaborative mothers.

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 1>And I take this to mean you could basically mean

0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:07.360
<v Speaker 1>any person in an individual's life, but they're using mothers

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>the main example. So basically, the question is is a

0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 1>child routinely ask for detailed stories about their daily life

0:31:13.880 --> 0:31:18.080
<v Speaker 1>or they ask mostly closed questions. And this is interesting

0:31:18.080 --> 0:31:19.880
<v Speaker 1>to think about, like, yeah, is the is the child

0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>asked to it like fully explain their day or is

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:24.320
<v Speaker 1>it just like did you eat lunch today? Yes? Did

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 1>you eat your snack? Yes? That sort of thing. And

0:31:26.920 --> 0:31:30.000
<v Speaker 1>not to say either approach is better than the other.

0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Life is busy and sometimes you just got to make

0:31:33.160 --> 0:31:35.440
<v Speaker 1>sure that your child ate a snack and you don't

0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:38.240
<v Speaker 1>need the full story, but it is interesting to think about,

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 1>like perhaps the necessity for that balance, you know, to

0:31:42.200 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>get a full account of what the day was like

0:31:44.760 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 1>as opposed to just like did you do the things

0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:50.080
<v Speaker 1>that were acquired? Well, this also connects to some things

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:53.479
<v Speaker 1>I was reading about how very young children can in

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 1>fact answer questions about things that happen to them recently,

0:31:58.080 --> 0:32:00.800
<v Speaker 1>or at least they typically can. The has been studied,

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:04.320
<v Speaker 1>But one thing I was reading was that how well, say,

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you know, a two and a half

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:09.440
<v Speaker 1>year old can describe a memory of a recent event

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 1>depends very much on how you elicit the memory from them.

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:17.760
<v Speaker 1>And you might have seen parents doing this. I'm you know,

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:20.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not at that stage yet in parenting, but I've

0:32:20.160 --> 0:32:22.239
<v Speaker 1>seen other parents doing this kind of thing. It's like

0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 1>what did we do on your birthday? You know, did

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 1>we go somewhere? Where did we go? And so you

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 1>can kind of like talk the child through the memory

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:34.960
<v Speaker 1>in a way that it seems like the child may

0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 1>not be able to produce the details and connect them spontaneously.

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:41.480
<v Speaker 1>Did that make sense? It was that yeah, yeah, no, no.

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 1>It makes me think of other memory exercises where like

0:32:45.080 --> 0:32:47.960
<v Speaker 1>if one is having like the tip of the tongue scenario,

0:32:48.080 --> 0:32:53.080
<v Speaker 1>where if someone is having if you're having difficulty remembering

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:56.000
<v Speaker 1>a particular name or whatever, like it's better for your

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:58.360
<v Speaker 1>memory for you to keep trying to guess, or for

0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 1>the other person on the other end of the conversation

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 1>to encourage you to guess and not to just give

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:05.880
<v Speaker 1>it to you. That sort of thing, like like making

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:09.520
<v Speaker 1>the brain work for those details. That's true. That was

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:11.760
<v Speaker 1>a finding at that episode we did, wasn't it that, Like,

0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:15.520
<v Speaker 1>you're more likely to remember the detail you're searching for

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:18.280
<v Speaker 1>next time if somebody like gives you a hint and

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you make the connection yourself versus if you just look

0:33:21.000 --> 0:33:24.000
<v Speaker 1>up the answer. Yeah. Absolutely. Anyway, in all this, I

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:26.840
<v Speaker 1>think it is important to mention something that Michelle Likeman

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 1>points out here, and that is again that there's not

0:33:30.480 --> 0:33:33.600
<v Speaker 1>a wrong direction in any of this. The brain remembers

0:33:33.680 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 1>what we what it needs to remember. We remember what

0:33:35.720 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 1>we need to remember. Social pressure contributes to this, but

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:42.520
<v Speaker 1>it is what it is now. One question I thought

0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:46.000
<v Speaker 1>we should look at before we wrap things up today

0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 1>is like, Okay, we keep talking in you know, more

0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:52.800
<v Speaker 1>general terms about like, well, there's an earlier period where

0:33:52.840 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 1>most people can't really produce any memories from that period

0:33:56.200 --> 0:33:58.360
<v Speaker 1>of their lives, and then a later period where they can,

0:33:58.640 --> 0:34:00.720
<v Speaker 1>But what are the actual numbers, like when does that

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:04.600
<v Speaker 1>kick in? This is something that has been studied extensively.

0:34:05.680 --> 0:34:07.920
<v Speaker 1>There are certainly different methods, and I think we might

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:11.399
<v Speaker 1>be able to add some nuance to this answer later on,

0:34:11.520 --> 0:34:15.120
<v Speaker 1>But it seems to me like the sort of magic

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:18.799
<v Speaker 1>age is like three to four years or about three

0:34:19.080 --> 0:34:23.200
<v Speaker 1>and a half years, is what most studies have converged on.

0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:26.440
<v Speaker 1>And to be clear, also, when we talk about childhood

0:34:26.480 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 1>amnesia in the scientific literature, it seems often to refer

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 1>to two different things that are related. One is the

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:37.200
<v Speaker 1>loss of all memories as far as we can tell,

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:41.359
<v Speaker 1>from before the earliest memory we can produce. And then

0:34:41.400 --> 0:34:46.320
<v Speaker 1>the second thing is the relative scarcity of memories from

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:50.680
<v Speaker 1>the early years of childhood compared to equivalent spans of

0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:54.319
<v Speaker 1>time from later in life. So, for example, even though

0:34:54.719 --> 0:34:59.960
<v Speaker 1>you have some autobiographical memories from ages six to seve

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:02.839
<v Speaker 1>even if you are like most people, you will have

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:06.760
<v Speaker 1>a fewer number of spontaneous memories that you can recall

0:35:06.840 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 1>from that period than from say sixteen to seventeen. And

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:14.239
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was also interesting to just look at

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:16.759
<v Speaker 1>the different experimental methods for trying to find out what

0:35:16.840 --> 0:35:21.399
<v Speaker 1>people's earliest memories are. There are a number of ways

0:35:21.400 --> 0:35:24.320
<v Speaker 1>to approach this. Sometimes it's done by, say, just asking

0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:27.360
<v Speaker 1>people to describe their earliest memory and estimate at what

0:35:27.480 --> 0:35:30.320
<v Speaker 1>age it took place. That is, of course a perfectly

0:35:30.360 --> 0:35:32.879
<v Speaker 1>good place to start, but putting aside for a moment

0:35:32.920 --> 0:35:35.920
<v Speaker 1>the question of like the accuracy of these memories, you

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 1>could imagine reasons why just asking somebody what is your

0:35:39.640 --> 0:35:43.440
<v Speaker 1>earliest memory might not actually produce their earliest memory. For

0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:47.799
<v Speaker 1>one thing, most people don't keep their memories indexed in

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:50.400
<v Speaker 1>a sortable form. You know, it's not an Excel sheet

0:35:50.480 --> 0:35:54.000
<v Speaker 1>that has a sort by column for date. And so

0:35:54.160 --> 0:35:56.319
<v Speaker 1>you may have a memory that occurs to you in

0:35:56.400 --> 0:35:59.080
<v Speaker 1>one moment as the earliest you can remember, But how

0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:01.600
<v Speaker 1>do you know in another circumstance you wouldn't think of

0:36:01.640 --> 0:36:03.600
<v Speaker 1>an earlier one that just didn't occur to you at

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:07.279
<v Speaker 1>that time. Yeah. Plus, I guess it's worth considering that

0:36:07.360 --> 0:36:11.239
<v Speaker 1>in many, but certainly not all cases, you have you

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:15.759
<v Speaker 1>have sort of a stability to early childhood. Certainly that

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:20.880
<v Speaker 1>is desired that that there there would be sort of

0:36:20.880 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 1>a sameness to a lot of the early memories. You know,

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:26.600
<v Speaker 1>it's like, uh, you know one or both parents are there. Um,

0:36:26.920 --> 0:36:32.120
<v Speaker 1>perhaps the immediate physical surroundings are the same. Uh So,

0:36:32.320 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 1>like what is going to be president in a memory?

0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:37.360
<v Speaker 1>To distinguish it and set it apart in the timeline

0:36:37.560 --> 0:36:40.239
<v Speaker 1>again unless you go back later and then you you

0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:43.160
<v Speaker 1>have encoded it and then you identify it, maybe falsely,

0:36:43.480 --> 0:36:45.319
<v Speaker 1>and say, oh, well, this is a memory of say

0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:47.279
<v Speaker 1>when we lived at this house or when we lived

0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 1>in this town. Yeah, And that raises important questions about

0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:55.480
<v Speaker 1>like the characteristics of what counts as a memory, Like

0:36:55.520 --> 0:36:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I wonder if there's a sort of boundary being established

0:36:57.960 --> 0:37:00.960
<v Speaker 1>by the terms of the demand for reak call. For example,

0:37:01.280 --> 0:37:04.479
<v Speaker 1>an autobiographical memory needs to be something you can put

0:37:04.520 --> 0:37:08.320
<v Speaker 1>into words and explain to somebody else. But do you

0:37:08.320 --> 0:37:12.399
<v Speaker 1>ever get that feeling that you're experiencing nostalgia But it's

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:16.319
<v Speaker 1>not for a thing in the outside world, Maybe not

0:37:16.360 --> 0:37:19.839
<v Speaker 1>for an image or an event, but something that isn't

0:37:19.880 --> 0:37:22.839
<v Speaker 1>really something you can put into words. It's like nostalgia

0:37:23.000 --> 0:37:26.920
<v Speaker 1>for an internal state or a feeling, this kind of

0:37:27.000 --> 0:37:30.960
<v Speaker 1>strange thing. I sometimes have that sensation. Of course, when

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:34.799
<v Speaker 1>I have that feeling, it's totally possible the memory component

0:37:34.960 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 1>of the sensation of nostalgia could be illusory, but sometimes

0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I wonder if maybe feelings like that could be based

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:45.520
<v Speaker 1>in really old memories that can't be put into words

0:37:45.640 --> 0:37:51.240
<v Speaker 1>or something. Yeah, I'm having trouble remembering a specific example

0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 1>of this, but I think some of my early memories

0:37:54.960 --> 0:37:57.480
<v Speaker 1>definitely have this component to them. Even if I do

0:37:57.560 --> 0:38:00.799
<v Speaker 1>remember like a basic setting or event around them, there

0:38:00.920 --> 0:38:03.320
<v Speaker 1>is like a there's there is at least as strong

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:06.320
<v Speaker 1>the feeling of what it meant like. There's one particular

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:09.160
<v Speaker 1>early memory I have of like running around in circles

0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 1>in a living room, around like a dinner, like a

0:38:11.320 --> 0:38:14.359
<v Speaker 1>dining room table in a living room, or a dining

0:38:14.440 --> 0:38:16.759
<v Speaker 1>room that just seemed enormous, you know, like a cathedral.

0:38:17.280 --> 0:38:20.600
<v Speaker 1>And so part of it is like these vague memories

0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:25.040
<v Speaker 1>of what this space looked like, but it's also equally

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:28.040
<v Speaker 1>met by the exhilaration that is remembered of just kind

0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:30.799
<v Speaker 1>of like this, you know, this running around And it

0:38:30.880 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 1>is hard to really explain, like give what that means,

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:34.839
<v Speaker 1>because if I were to run around in circles right now,

0:38:34.880 --> 0:38:37.359
<v Speaker 1>it would certainly not be the same feeling. You know,

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:41.759
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't relate to other memories of physical exertion from

0:38:41.760 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 1>other points in my life. Oh but then to come

0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:47.399
<v Speaker 1>back to other methods to study early memories. Another one

0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:50.400
<v Speaker 1>that seems to be used fairly often is the word

0:38:50.560 --> 0:38:54.480
<v Speaker 1>que test. So this one's pretty interesting. I say a

0:38:54.520 --> 0:38:56.959
<v Speaker 1>word to you, and then I ask you to tell

0:38:57.000 --> 0:39:00.280
<v Speaker 1>me a memory associated with this word, just anyway memory.

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<v Speaker 1>We could try it right now, rob do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do it, chair, let's do it. Okay, tell me

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<v Speaker 1>a memory associated with the word jar. Oh, well, that's easy.

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<v Speaker 1>I have an early memory of trying to get a

0:39:13.560 --> 0:39:16.720
<v Speaker 1>jar of Marischino cherries out of the refrigerator by myself,

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<v Speaker 1>and I dropped it and broke it or spilled it.

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if I broke it or spelled it,

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<v Speaker 1>but that is a strong early memory of mine, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then from here in the experiment, I might ask

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<v Speaker 1>you for some subsequent details, like you know, who was there,

0:39:30.000 --> 0:39:33.600
<v Speaker 1>did anybody else witness this memory? Etcetera, etcetera. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I would also ask you estimate what age you were

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<v Speaker 1>when this memory happened. But what age do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it was? Who? I would say maybe maybe three, But

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 1>that's just a real that's a huge guess, and I

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:51.240
<v Speaker 1>think I've actually asked my mother about this memory before.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, this is the kind of thing where

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<v Speaker 1>like kids have things like this happened all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't necessarily. If not necessarily, something apparent is going

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<v Speaker 1>to specifically remember. It makes more of an impact on

0:40:02.160 --> 0:40:04.960
<v Speaker 1>the child and the parent. So I have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>exactly when this occurred. Okay, but this is a good answer.

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:10.640
<v Speaker 1>Jar of cherries on the floor, maybe spilled, maybe broken.

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<v Speaker 1>You think you were around three, So I keep doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>I do this for a big list of words, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>with a big sample of people, and then you can

0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:21.640
<v Speaker 1>sort of cross reference all of the answers. You get

0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:25.360
<v Speaker 1>to look at what ages the memories tend to come from.

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:28.840
<v Speaker 1>And you could see by this method that of just

0:40:28.920 --> 0:40:32.759
<v Speaker 1>making up random numbers here, but say by randomly associating

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>memories with words, we end up with people telling us

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<v Speaker 1>about twenty percent more memories from ages sixteen to twenty

0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:42.960
<v Speaker 1>than from ages six to ten or something. So I

0:40:43.000 --> 0:40:45.560
<v Speaker 1>think that's a pretty clever method. But anyway, what this

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<v Speaker 1>research tends to converge on is that a really important

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<v Speaker 1>time is roughly the age three to four, or like

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<v Speaker 1>three and a half. Generally, the earliest memories that adults

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<v Speaker 1>can produce are around the ages of three to four,

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<v Speaker 1>and there is not much or nothing from before that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after that there is a gradual increase in

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<v Speaker 1>the quantity of autobiographical memories from each year of age

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:15.880
<v Speaker 1>up until maybe like seven or eight, when the autobiographical

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:18.359
<v Speaker 1>memory store starts to look more like that of the

0:41:18.400 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 1>rest of adulthood. So for most people looking backwards, memories

0:41:22.400 --> 0:41:24.960
<v Speaker 1>tend to start around three or four, and then you

0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:27.799
<v Speaker 1>get more of them at five, more of them at six,

0:41:27.960 --> 0:41:30.439
<v Speaker 1>more of them at seven, more of them at eight,

0:41:30.520 --> 0:41:33.440
<v Speaker 1>and then you start to reach a more kind of

0:41:33.480 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>complete adult memory set. Now, this doesn't necessarily mean that

0:41:38.080 --> 0:41:41.279
<v Speaker 1>children before the age of three or four produce no

0:41:41.440 --> 0:41:45.120
<v Speaker 1>autobiographical memories. Instead, it seems like there may be a

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:48.480
<v Speaker 1>sort of period of forgetting. And I thought this was

0:41:48.640 --> 0:41:52.800
<v Speaker 1>very interesting. Just one study I wanted to mention quickly

0:41:52.880 --> 0:41:55.680
<v Speaker 1>that gets at this. It was published in the journal

0:41:55.680 --> 0:41:58.879
<v Speaker 1>Memory in two thousand and five by Dana Van Abama

0:41:58.920 --> 0:42:03.640
<v Speaker 1>and Patricia Hour and it's called Autobiographical Memory in Middle

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<v Speaker 1>Childhood Recollections of the Recent and Distant Past. Now I

0:42:07.520 --> 0:42:09.160
<v Speaker 1>was looking for the full text of the study, and

0:42:09.200 --> 0:42:11.719
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't find it before we recorded today, but I

0:42:11.719 --> 0:42:15.920
<v Speaker 1>did find a summary of the findings in a Psychology

0:42:15.960 --> 0:42:20.520
<v Speaker 1>Today article by an author named Vitelli, And basically what

0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:24.720
<v Speaker 1>happened in the study is that children were interviewed about

0:42:24.760 --> 0:42:28.840
<v Speaker 1>autobiographical events along with their mothers at the age of three,

0:42:28.920 --> 0:42:32.359
<v Speaker 1>and they produced details about those events. Is something they did,

0:42:33.000 --> 0:42:35.880
<v Speaker 1>a trip out to do something, and they could recall

0:42:36.040 --> 0:42:39.080
<v Speaker 1>things about their own past, so they had some form

0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:42.320
<v Speaker 1>of episodic memory. They could be prompted to retrieve details

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 1>about these episodic memories. But those same children were brought

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:50.760
<v Speaker 1>back years later at ages seven, eight, and nine, exactly

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:53.960
<v Speaker 1>the range at which there seems to be a profound

0:42:54.200 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 1>forgetting of early childhood memories. So from vitelli summary here,

0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:03.239
<v Speaker 1>the seven year olds could recall sixty percent of the

0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:07.279
<v Speaker 1>same autobiographical events they recalled at three, but the eight

0:43:07.320 --> 0:43:10.239
<v Speaker 1>and nine year olds could only recall thirty six and

0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:14.160
<v Speaker 1>thirty eight percent of events. So there seems to be

0:43:14.239 --> 0:43:18.760
<v Speaker 1>a major drop off of memories from this earliest period

0:43:19.239 --> 0:43:22.520
<v Speaker 1>around the ages of seven, eight and nine. Yeah, I

0:43:22.560 --> 0:43:25.000
<v Speaker 1>think this kind of matches up with some stuff I've

0:43:25.000 --> 0:43:29.080
<v Speaker 1>observed with my own son, mostly when in talking about

0:43:29.080 --> 0:43:31.719
<v Speaker 1>things that we watched together when he was in like

0:43:31.840 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 1>one age group versus another. So, and it varies, I

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:38.160
<v Speaker 1>think from picture to picture, Like there's some movies that

0:43:38.239 --> 0:43:41.480
<v Speaker 1>maybe we've we've talked about more we've that have become

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:44.799
<v Speaker 1>more like a sort of a regular part of one's life.

0:43:44.800 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 1>And then there are other movies where you like watch it,

0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:48.920
<v Speaker 1>forget it, and then maybe truly forget it and then

0:43:49.000 --> 0:43:52.719
<v Speaker 1>come back and experience it again. Now, why patterns like

0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:54.799
<v Speaker 1>this emerge is something I think we'll have to get

0:43:54.840 --> 0:43:57.360
<v Speaker 1>into more when we come back in subsequent parts of

0:43:57.360 --> 0:43:58.840
<v Speaker 1>the series. I'm not sure how many we're going to

0:43:58.920 --> 0:44:00.759
<v Speaker 1>go to. We'll have at least one more part, maybe

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:02.960
<v Speaker 1>maybe a couple more. Yeah, there's certainly going to be

0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:06.040
<v Speaker 1>a plenty to get into for a part two, possibly

0:44:06.040 --> 0:44:08.799
<v Speaker 1>a part three. But as we often have pointed out,

0:44:08.840 --> 0:44:11.920
<v Speaker 1>we're we're hesitant to say this will definitely go to

0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:15.120
<v Speaker 1>a certain number of episodes because we're often just a

0:44:15.120 --> 0:44:17.839
<v Speaker 1>little unsure where we're going to cut it off. Well,

0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:20.480
<v Speaker 1>how about you, Joe's we close out this episode, what's

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<v Speaker 1>what comes to mind is your earliest Jar related memory?

0:44:23.880 --> 0:44:27.600
<v Speaker 1>Jars only please, and if it, even if it's from

0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 1>the last five years, that's cool too well to bore

0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:33.239
<v Speaker 1>you with dreadful cliche. I think catching fireflies in a jar,

0:44:34.080 --> 0:44:36.480
<v Speaker 1>that that is very early. We did that a lot

0:44:36.520 --> 0:44:38.040
<v Speaker 1>when I was a kid in our front yard. We

0:44:38.040 --> 0:44:43.880
<v Speaker 1>had lots of them. I think I also have very

0:44:44.080 --> 0:44:48.960
<v Speaker 1>early memories of pickle jars, because I recall from early

0:44:49.040 --> 0:44:52.960
<v Speaker 1>childhood being really into pickles pickled cucumbers, like a like

0:44:53.000 --> 0:44:57.239
<v Speaker 1>a Classon's pickle jar. Oh oh, yeah, that's interesting. Yeah,

0:44:57.280 --> 0:44:59.080
<v Speaker 1>clearly I had more of I guess the sweet tooth

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:02.480
<v Speaker 1>as a child, But my son has always been super

0:45:02.480 --> 0:45:06.879
<v Speaker 1>into pickles of all different varieties, from the little cornishans

0:45:06.960 --> 0:45:10.840
<v Speaker 1>to the big dill pickles, to the big bread and

0:45:10.880 --> 0:45:14.160
<v Speaker 1>butter pickles, to the slices, all of it. Though with

0:45:14.400 --> 0:45:16.040
<v Speaker 1>both of those, I guess those are just sort of

0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:20.960
<v Speaker 1>like ambiguous, continuous states of childhood. Catching fireflies in jars,

0:45:21.000 --> 0:45:23.520
<v Speaker 1>it's just something that happened often. I don't remember a

0:45:23.680 --> 0:45:27.440
<v Speaker 1>particular instance of it, saying with admiring the pickle jar

0:45:27.520 --> 0:45:31.759
<v Speaker 1>and wanting its contents if I had to produce it more.

0:45:32.640 --> 0:45:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know a direct autobiographical, specific memory you'd probably

0:45:36.080 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 1>be a more recent one. I don't remember if I

0:45:38.560 --> 0:45:40.520
<v Speaker 1>think you asked me for my earliest but if I

0:45:40.560 --> 0:45:43.480
<v Speaker 1>were just doing the word que test, i'd probably say, oh,

0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:47.680
<v Speaker 1>from when I was thirty five and I made and

0:45:47.719 --> 0:45:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I made kimchi in a large jar on my table,

0:45:50.280 --> 0:45:54.640
<v Speaker 1>and I remember how it smelled and all that. Oh nice. Well,

0:45:54.680 --> 0:45:57.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, I think it's it's worth telling everyone, like,

0:45:58.200 --> 0:46:01.080
<v Speaker 1>go out now and create some positive jar based memories

0:46:01.080 --> 0:46:05.799
<v Speaker 1>with your children, even if they're grown now. It's never

0:46:05.840 --> 0:46:08.680
<v Speaker 1>too late to create a jar based memory. All right. Well,

0:46:08.680 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 1>on that note, we're going to go and close up

0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:12.840
<v Speaker 1>this episode, but we'll be back with more on this topic,

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:15.920
<v Speaker 1>and in the meantime, certainly write in with your thoughts

0:46:15.960 --> 0:46:17.759
<v Speaker 1>on all of this, and yeah, if you want to

0:46:17.800 --> 0:46:20.920
<v Speaker 1>share some of your earliest memories with us and sort

0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:25.960
<v Speaker 1>of attempt to define when these memories occurred, and if

0:46:26.000 --> 0:46:28.480
<v Speaker 1>you have any, if you've been able to dig around

0:46:28.760 --> 0:46:31.400
<v Speaker 1>and to ask other people to sort of prove them

0:46:31.440 --> 0:46:34.360
<v Speaker 1>out to see if they are in fact largely authentic

0:46:34.440 --> 0:46:37.200
<v Speaker 1>or if they've been augmented in any way. Yeah, we'd

0:46:37.239 --> 0:46:40.480
<v Speaker 1>love to hear from everyone throughout these episodes. But this

0:46:40.520 --> 0:46:42.680
<v Speaker 1>is going to produce a skewed sample because we're gonna

0:46:42.719 --> 0:46:45.279
<v Speaker 1>hear from everybody who's like, I can remember being one,

0:46:45.400 --> 0:46:47.120
<v Speaker 1>But people aren't going to write in to tell us

0:46:47.160 --> 0:46:50.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember being one. No, right, you can write

0:46:50.080 --> 0:46:52.400
<v Speaker 1>in with that if you're like, my earliest memory is

0:46:52.520 --> 0:46:56.319
<v Speaker 1>being you know, five or older, whatever, right in. Like

0:46:56.360 --> 0:46:58.840
<v Speaker 1>we said, there is no wrong answer here. The people

0:46:58.880 --> 0:47:02.520
<v Speaker 1>who claim to member being born, it doesn't mean their

0:47:02.520 --> 0:47:07.480
<v Speaker 1>brain is better, their memory is better than another individual. Again,

0:47:07.520 --> 0:47:10.879
<v Speaker 1>where you're going to continue to discuss this as as

0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:14.919
<v Speaker 1>we explore this topic. No wrong answers. All right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we close it out. We'll just remind you that

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<v Speaker 1>just talk about a weird film. And this week, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's going to be a pretty fun one that

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<v Speaker 1>will tie in with early childhood memories for many people,

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:39.200
<v Speaker 1>because I think we do form a lot of early

0:47:39.239 --> 0:47:43.040
<v Speaker 1>childhood memories based on movies we're exposed to, so perhaps

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