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Speaker 1: They listen to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 1: of Rotten Karen or hot.

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Speaker 2: Hey.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to another episode of The Black Guy Who Tells podcast.

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Speaker 4: I'm your host Rod, joined us always by my.

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Speaker 3: Coh his host He and we're live on a Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: Ready to do some podcasts and find us where you

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Speaker 3: find podcasts search The Black Ou Tips Live. Tickets are

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Speaker 3: still on sale for our live show coming up September

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Speaker 3: to ninth, three pm. Virtual tickets, in person tickets gonna

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Speaker 3: get you some. We'd love to see you there. It's

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Speaker 3: gonna be a nice intimate occasion and we appreciate the

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Speaker 3: support and the love. You know, we're gonna have like

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Speaker 3: a photographer. Now I pay for the photographer, so y'all

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Speaker 3: got to show up.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell you, y'all better come get these

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Speaker 2: pictures taken.

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Speaker 3: This isn't just like a cousin with an iPhone like

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Speaker 3: this is a real professional person.

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Speaker 4: That's they.

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Speaker 3: They gonna bring out them lenses, showing up and giving

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Speaker 3: us two hours a day. Time along we were like

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Speaker 3: out of uh you know, come out and help us

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Speaker 3: look good. Uh, so we can have promotional pics and

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Speaker 3: people be like, oh, they always be lit when they

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Speaker 3: do stuff. I'm gonna be at the next one. You know,

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Speaker 3: we gotta want to be pictures of us. Yeah, we

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Speaker 3: gotta have At a matter of fact, I might make

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Speaker 3: him take pictures of us. Maybe that's what we'll do too.

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Speaker 3: We'll get some head shots. We're gonna make them do

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Speaker 3: all the work. Okay, they charging, they charging, I don't

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Speaker 3: know if they're taxing now. I don't know if y'all

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Speaker 3: paving on photographer them.

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Speaker 5: Race ain't no jokes, especially the professional was this ain't

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Speaker 5: your cousin?

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Speaker 2: You can you can a cheap meal to and be like,

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Speaker 2: all right, I got your homie, all right.

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Speaker 3: So we're gonna do that. Also, we're gonna get into

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Speaker 3: some podcasts and stuff. The official weapon of the show

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Speaker 3: is chairing chair and the unofficial and we know we

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Speaker 3: heard the silence and the unofficial sport. What about a

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Speaker 3: bullet ball?

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Speaker 4: Extreme extreme extreme?

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Speaker 3: And we'll get into our sponsor, because I believe today's

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Speaker 3: show is actually sponsored. So we'll get into our sponsor

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Speaker 3: later in the show. That's called a tease. That's that's

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Speaker 3: how we do it over here at the Professional Podcast Okay,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what you'll be doing at you'll other

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Speaker 3: little shows, but we don't do that here. Okay, but yeah,

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Speaker 3: we do have plenty of stuff to talk about. Why

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Speaker 3: should we start our guess start with just some just

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Speaker 3: some news. You can just start with some regular ass

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Speaker 3: everyday news.

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Speaker 6: Look, Bumble knows you're exhausted by dating, although must not

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Speaker 6: take yourself too seriously and six to one some stuft matters,

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Speaker 6: and what do I even say other than hey, Well,

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Speaker 6: that's why they're introducing an all new Bumble with exciting

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Speaker 6: features to make compatibility easier, starting the chat better, and

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Speaker 6: dating safer. They've changed so you don't have to download

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Speaker 6: the new Bumble now, little.

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Speaker 3: Little damn, I lete play a little too long. I

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Speaker 3: was bobbing.

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Speaker 4: All right, let's get to the news. Someone asked what

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Speaker 4: be a meet and greet?

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Speaker 3: Not officially like the last time we did it, where

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Speaker 3: we charged extra and then we signed posters and took

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Speaker 4: No, this is time, they asked us.

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Speaker 3: So we didn't hire an event planner and all the

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Speaker 3: stuff and the people that it takes to do all that,

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Speaker 3: but after the show, we might step outside and just

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Speaker 3: thank everybody for showing up, and if y'all want to

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Speaker 3: get a selfie or something, we can do it then,

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Speaker 3: you know. But yeah, we're thinking about y'all. You know,

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Speaker 3: we appreciate y'all. This will mean a lot, does.

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Speaker 4: The people that make it out to this one, y'all

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Speaker 3: I know the tickets and MVPs, the tickets ain't that expensive,

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Speaker 3: I know people be having plans and stuff, so it

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Speaker 3: means a lot to us that you would even come out. Yes,

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Speaker 3: Billy McFarland, do you know that name? Karen saying who

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Speaker 3: I know what if I remember? The five Fast fire

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Speaker 3: Fest is back. Billy McFarland, ready to do Firefest too?

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Speaker 3: Tickets already on sales. Sit what.

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Speaker 4: Yep? Trying to go?

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Speaker 2: Is job rule involved again?

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Speaker 3: They don't say, They don't say, but the new fire Festival, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Ready to get a slice of bread and a Karen stick.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't appear to have the big influencers and celebrity

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Speaker 3: seems that he's the only one promoting the concert as

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Speaker 3: of right now, it's scheduled for December sixth, twenty four,

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Speaker 3: so you got over a year. I will allegedly include

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Speaker 3: the main show, fire pop ups and the fire Crew community.

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Speaker 4: They're still a community. How you still got a community is?

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Speaker 5: I guess everybody got a hive apparently, no matter what

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Speaker 2: To make a hive apparently the fuck with.

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Speaker 3: I guess there's some people just out there right now,

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Speaker 3: you know, signing up for.

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Speaker 2: This bullshit and who out of access going for.

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Speaker 3: Somebody? Somebody said that when they're singing the prices. So yeah,

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Speaker 3: while the ticketing website doesn't provide many details, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: of course not this motherfucker better not of sol one

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Speaker 3: ticket because it's not legit. I mean, after what you

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Speaker 3: did the first time, bro, I need all the details.

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Speaker 5: They made the two three different companies made fucking documentaries

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Speaker 1: I need the details, like what you gonna eat that morning?

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Speaker 1: Like not not what I'm gonna eat like my meal.

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Speaker 3: Of course I want those details, but I want extra details,

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Speaker 3: like you know what kind of two paste do you

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Speaker 3: use Billy McFarland every morning. I need to know, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I need to know intimate things about you that I've

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Speaker 3: never asked anybody else because I don't trust you.

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Speaker 5: And shout out the bills deep. This is when you

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Speaker 5: asked the questions just to ask.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to know. I want to run your credit.

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Speaker 3: I don't want I can't just believe this's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: The tickets are now, say how much do you think

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Speaker 4: Fifteen fifteen hundred?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Karen, I see you still think you got

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Speaker 3: some credibility four hundred ninety nine dollars for the first

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Speaker 4: Then it's gonna go up to uh.

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Speaker 3: The next four hundred will be priced at eight hundred dollars,

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Speaker 3: and then for the fire starters.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying bys and telling y'all, Kenny, y'all might

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Speaker 3: want to holler, y'all might want to hailer a lawsuit,

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Speaker 3: but for the fire starters package, so they got the

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Speaker 3: fire four hundred not.

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Speaker 2: The five four hundred. We got degrees to the.

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Speaker 3: Fire, the fire hundred right juvenile might won't get on

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Speaker 3: this fire for one hundred will be uh seven ninety nine.

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Speaker 3: Fire starters will be eleven hundred and ninety nine dollars,

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Speaker 3: and the most costly access will be eight thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: for last chance tickets.

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Speaker 4: Yep. The website did not list which artists are performing.

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Speaker 2: Chack is Ain't nobody gonna be there.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be the band from Chuck E Cheese Chat.

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Speaker 2: Come out all robotic as shit.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be Chat.

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Speaker 2: Y'all gonna get some holograms. An't nobody gonna be there.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be that band Jabbajaw is in y'all. It's

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Speaker 3: gonna yes, jab Jow. It's gonna be a bunch of

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Speaker 4: Come on, child, It's not gonna be no real band.

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Speaker 3: Gonna be the background music for Scooby Doo gym in

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Speaker 3: the Holograms gonna be there, yes, y'all, Cold Slithera Open

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Speaker 3: It Misfit's gonna be theren right, I know what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: Ain't no, ain't no real band about to do this

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Speaker 3: shit because they that's the other thing, he didn't pay

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Speaker 3: the ax either, So the axs, like, why would the

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Speaker 4: They need their money.

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Speaker 3: That was like a big part of why people didn't

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Speaker 3: show up. It's like, uh, we still ain't got our money.

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Speaker 3: You got a schedule for this event. Fuck it, We're

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Speaker 3: not showing up, sorry, fans. This motherfucker is shady. We

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Speaker 3: don't perform for free.

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Speaker 2: We do not perform for free.

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Speaker 3: That's mother y'all gonna be staying in FEMA tints and

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Speaker 3: shit because you remember last time you had people staying

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Speaker 3: on rafts and shit like this is okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: the man, I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what though,

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Speaker 3: you know that makes me think about what makes me

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Speaker 6: With the red white man, we can do anything, Yes,

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Speaker 6: you can.

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Speaker 3: The right white man, you can literally do anything, because

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Speaker 3: what else is making you sign up for this if

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Speaker 3: it's not I just I believe in him because he's white.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because don't note else, make no sense. There's nothing

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Speaker 5: Has done to make you think that it's going to

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Speaker 5: be legit, that it's actually gonna happen that you're going

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Speaker 5: to get your money's worth.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand why.

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Speaker 3: Would billy a lot of us? Again again, speaking of

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Speaker 3: white nonsense, a high air balloon pilot with cocaine in

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Speaker 3: the system made a mistake that caused a fatal crash.

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Speaker 3: I say the mistake was doing the cocaine. They're trying

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Speaker 3: to pile the balloon. But maybe it's just right. Okay,

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Speaker 3: this happened in twenty twenty one in New Mexico. It

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Speaker 3: killed all five people on board. Okay, yeah, uh. He

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Speaker 3: hit power lines and crashed into a busy intersection. They

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Speaker 3: found no evidence in mechanical malfunctions of failures.

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Speaker 5: What I mean you unto the crowd that mean cast

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Speaker 5: some shit was flying around, know what they was going down?

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Speaker 3: The maunter cocaine and marijuana founding the system suggested recent

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Speaker 3: use that would have likely had impairing effects that contributed

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Speaker 3: to the crash. Yeah when this is also told investigators

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Speaker 3: the balloons envelope separated from the basket at the hitting

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Speaker 3: the power lines and floated away. It was found south

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Speaker 3: of the crash site. Goddamn, this sounds like a horrible

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Speaker 3: way to die.

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Speaker 4: Yes, like, just, oh, my goodness.

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Speaker 2: When you're doing important shit, don't do drugs.

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Speaker 3: The balloon crash was the deadlist in New Mexico's history,

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Speaker 3: the second dailist in the US since twenty sixteen. Now,

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Speaker 3: I got to say, uh, that seemed like a very

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Speaker 3: specific death toll to be counting.

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Speaker 2: I about to say, what this shit? What was the

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Speaker 2: record breaker in?

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Speaker 5: I mean, like damn, I mean since twenty sixteenth, so

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Speaker 5: that means back in the day people were dropping like flyings.

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Speaker 2: Apparently.

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Speaker 3: I just assumed that the number one is the Hendenburg,

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Speaker 3: which was not a hot not a balloon, but like

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Speaker 3: a we call those.

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Speaker 3: how deadly can a hot air balloon crash be unless

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Speaker 5: I mean, I mean, are you counting up people on

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Speaker 2: Like you hit traffic.

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Speaker 5: So if I'm driving and a balloon falls in front

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Speaker 3: People are losing more money than scammers than ever before.

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Speaker 5: The way they wor stuff, people are more apt to

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Speaker 5: I you know, tech Savy all that stuff, Dave. The

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Speaker 5: But too many motherfuckers getting scammed for everybody to be

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Speaker 3: Well, I think it's kind of two things happening at once.

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Speaker 5: That don't sound right. That didn't that wasn't right because

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Speaker 4: But it just it does. Until it's happening, you don't

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Speaker 5: And also the thing about scamming, a lot of scamming

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Speaker 2: Why did I click on that?

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Speaker 5: And I do understand it's a lot.

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Speaker 2: Of shame that comes from being scammed.

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Speaker 5: So a lot of people are being scammed left and

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Speaker 2: Well, then it's hard to get down to the root

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Speaker 5: When everybody thinks that they're so super special and calling

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Speaker 2: Okay, well then nothing gets solved.

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Speaker 5: And did these people just walk off with the money

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Speaker 3: And they have a new thing now where they take

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Speaker 3: that stuff. In twenty twenty two, reported consumer losses to

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Speaker 3: fried total eight point eight billion dollars, which is a

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Speaker 2: That is, that's a lot.

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Speaker 5: And like I said, the thing is the stigma associate

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Speaker 5: oh your stupid.

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Speaker 2: I was like with too many people I follow for

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Speaker 5: Trick for it to be so simple, you know, Like,

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Speaker 5: the person sometimes the people are getting something out of it.

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Speaker 2: But even with that. I still I look at.

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Speaker 5: That the same. I know a lot of people just

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Speaker 5: People need to talk about it.

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Speaker 2: People need this.

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Speaker 5: It don't matter your degree, it don't matter your education,

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Speaker 5: it don't matter none of that shit. You can still

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Speaker 5: They just you know, and then there's no there's no repercussions.

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Speaker 5: The laws are slow behind it. How do you get

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Speaker 5: It just so happened at us. Happened to be with

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Speaker 5: the bank, and the bank was like, hey, y'all, we

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Speaker 5: know they're doing this, but what happened If you hit

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 3: I agree. Also, uh, the biggest losses were investment scams

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Speaker 3: and cryptocurrency schemes, another thing that boom during the pandemic.

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Speaker 4: Once again, very unscrupulous people.

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Speaker 3: Even cryptocurrency as it's supposed to work, can be unregulated

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 3: I think scammers get ahold of this. They know it's

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Speaker 3: very new technology, new ideas. The people people who never

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Speaker 3: People with you know, every commercial was encouraging you.

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Speaker 4: Your fucking coward. If you don't put your money in

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Speaker 3: You know, it's Matt Damon colling you a pussy on

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Speaker 3: the Super Bowl commercial and you're like, what the fuck

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Speaker 3: and now it's fucking gone because you don't know what

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Speaker 3: you understand much that more? That's a that to me,

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Speaker 3: that makes you since during the pandemic investment scams, everyone

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Speaker 3: I know some of your niggas don't think of a

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Speaker 5: It right, and it's you know, And for me, it's

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Speaker 5: Anytime the technology increases, the scimmeras get better because before,

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Speaker 5: like for me, it's sad. But if you call me

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Speaker 5: you straight divorce me. Fuck that, you know, And I

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Speaker 2: Better not pick it up my phone.

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Speaker 5: I don't know who that is, so what was happening

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Speaker 5: And my thing is I fought the federal government for

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Speaker 5: then they started doing cell phones. The federal government shit

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Speaker 5: but they didn't, and so now you have people like

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Speaker 3: You don't pick up the phone because you're black and

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Speaker 4: It's been.

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Speaker 3: We don't pick up the phone if you call our

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Speaker 3: that must be a mistake. It's full thirty, you know.

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Speaker 3: So you're trying to you're trying to get a little

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Speaker 3: I know you know. I'm not trying to take it

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Speaker 5: But I mean, I know I'm own and black, but

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Speaker 5: I'm not the only person that's Black.

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Speaker 3: People here don't pick up the phone too, right, Black people,

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Speaker 3: But before before the before the scamming stuff even started, you.

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Speaker 4: Weren't picking up the phone for people I know.

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Speaker 3: is loose. I'm extra not picking up the phone. You

440
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 3: can only not pick up the phone. You can't not

441
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 3: extra not pick, can't pick yeah, you can't not pick

442
00:21:56,119 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 3: it up twice. Subway, it's sell subway. They're selling the business.

443
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 3: Somebody's buying it.

444
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 5: Yes, after that, don't spit all that money to get

445
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 5: the dinner slices like Jersey MIC's.

446
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 3: They are well, maybe that's why they bought them. I

447
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 3: don't know, but they are being bought. Who's buying them,

448
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 3: karenh it's.

449
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: Big arbists buying them, big arbists. A drug we got

450
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: the beats and not the subs.

451
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 4: A drug linder, all right there? Wait, get that.

452
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:32,920
Speaker 2: That's hilarious.

453
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 3: A drug liner organization would have money like that. I've

454
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 3: never seen a line for arbis. I've seen lines for subway.

455
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 3: I've been in the subway before and being like, it's

456
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 3: too many people in here, I'm leaving. I'm not waiting

457
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 3: for subway. That's ridiculous. It's not even good. But I

458
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 3: have seen people eat subway. I've eaten it myself alone.

459
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 3: Many many of people have hit that lunch and came

460
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 3: back with that meatball sub you know, and they just

461
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 3: made it her. I've been in the target and a

462
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 3: subway was in the target and people was eating the

463
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 3: subway and the target never been seen the armies inside

464
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 3: the target in the wildmart never seen that in a kmark.

465
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:10,160
Speaker 7: Nah.

466
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 2: Most obviously a standalone.

467
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 3: Stand alone and you'll be standing alone in line because

468
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 3: ain't nobody buying that ship? Where are they getting the

469
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 3: fucking money from? They don'e bout buffalo wild wings. They

470
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 3: just buying every goddamn thing. What is happening over there?

471
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 3: I think we all know what's what's happening over there

472
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 3: is what you gonna do today? What are what you

473
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 3: gonna do tomorrow?

474
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 8: This guy, this guy's just fishing, pitching's fishing on you.

475
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 2: What's it taste like? She you know what it tastes like?

476
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 8: Piss to me?

477
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,200
Speaker 4: You know how much they buying them for? You want

478
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 4: to guess already say uh.

479
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 3: Close to Billy clost to a billion nine point six billion.

480
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 3: Where are they getting this fucking money? Nine point six

481
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:13,880
Speaker 3: Where are theyre getting where? Where are they getting this

482
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 3: fucking money?

483
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 2: At the beats?

484
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 5: I told you that's what they get their money from,

485
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 5: the meats and the sheiks, I can't wait for the

486
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 5: court shaking them down.

487
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 3: I can't wait for this court case. Ain't getting the

488
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 3: money for no meats and no shakes i'body. First of all,

489
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 3: that doesn't even make sense to say they get the

490
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 3: money from selling food. They're selling you waggle beef for

491
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 3: three dollars wagoo beef is that's a loss. Every time

492
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 3: they sell one of those burgers is at a loss.

493
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 3: So how the fuck are they making money? It doesn't

494
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 3: make sense. Can't wait for the court case.

495
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 9: Guilty, You're the one who's guilty. Lawmakers, the politicians, the

496
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 9: Colombian drug lords, all you hu lobby against making drugs legal,

497
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 9: just like you did.

498
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 2: With alcohol, doing the provision.

499
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 9: You're the one who's guilty. I mean, come on, let's

500
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 9: kick the But listen to here. Ain't no Ouzzi's made

501
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 9: in Harlem. I mean, not one of us in here.

502
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 3: Oo's a poppy feet.

503
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 9: This thing is bigger than it on brown.

504
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 3: This is big business. That's what they're gonna be saying

505
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 3: this is big business during the class action lawsuit for

506
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 3: the fact that these motherfuckers are When when when the

507
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 3: Merrick Garland comes down on them after you get done

508
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 3: with Trump. That's what we're gonna be dealing with that

509
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 3: that casse.

510
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 2: That that's crazy.

511
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 5: They're doing something because a lot of times I see

512
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 5: like the celebrities and oh, if you're paying me, I'm

513
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 5: taking your money too. But for someway, you know, they

514
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 5: have like a lot of celebrities do the subway commercials.

515
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 5: So I'm like, y'all almost be doing five. They was like, nah,

516
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 5: we said, we got.

517
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 3: To sell nine point six billion dollars to buy I

518
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 3: guess the only good news is if they spend that

519
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 3: nine point six billion dollars to buy subway, at least

520
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 3: it won't go to ninety six percent tile rate to

521
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 3: Republicans the way that they donate their money, you know,

522
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 3: so maybe in that way we won't have to worry

523
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: about that's a that's a couple dollars round the Santis

524
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 3: don't get and we get a couple extra days of

525
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 3: critical race there in Florida till they overturn that shit.

526
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 4: Uh, let's see what else is happening.

527
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 3: iPhone owners will soon be getting payments for Apple devices

528
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 3: slowing because Apple slowed down devices in the past.

529
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, they were slowed down on.

530
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 3: Purposes millions of Apple users with older iPhones can relate

531
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 3: to having their phones come to a crawl or overheat

532
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 3: when the new iOS update count comes along. A lengthy

533
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 3: court battle has concluded that Apple purposely slowed down devices

534
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 3: with older batteries to prevent shutdowns. Unfortunately, most iPhone users

535
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 3: will unaware this process. Only customers with the iPhone six,

536
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 3: six plus, six AS six S plus or se device

537
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 3: were eligible if they ran the iOS ten point two

538
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 3: one software or later version before December twenty first, twenty seventeen.

539
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 3: The same goals for people who had the iPhone seven

540
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 3: or seven plus and download the iOS eleven point two

541
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 3: or later before December twenty first, twenty seventeen. They'll dish

542
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 3: out between three hundred and ten million dollars and five

543
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 3: hundred million dollars to settle nearly three million claims. I mean,

544
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 3: that's a lot of claims. Multiple outlets have reported payments

545
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 3: ranging from sixty five to ninety dollars for those who

546
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 3: own pre twenty eighteen devices. Of course, the deadline has

547
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 3: already passed That closed October twenty twenty, so anyone unaware

548
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 3: of the suit until now will not be compensated.

549
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's also you know, one of those things

550
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 5: where people used to complain about that, and a lot

551
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 5: of times, for most people, they would just get an

552
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 5: upgrade because they was like, well, fucking my phone acting up.

553
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 5: But the thing about the iPhones, for a lot of people,

554
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 5: when they I am, like a lot of apple products,

555
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 5: they last a while. So a lot of people go,

556
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 5: ain't nothing fucking wrong with my phone? Like, why the

557
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 5: fuck would I get rid of it? I'll just hold

558
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 5: on to it because we've done that before. We we'll skip,

559
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 5: like you know, two or three generations to come out,

560
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 5: and we'll still have our same foe and it'll be

561
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 5: functioning just fine.

562
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 2: It'll be slow, but it'll be functioning just fine.

563
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 5: And the thing is, because of the time and the age,

564
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 5: for a lot of people who would probably qualify for

565
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 5: it no longer qualify for because they no longer own

566
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 5: these phones they upgraded and all types of things.

567
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: You know.

568
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,360
Speaker 5: Truthfully, I think this pool probably would have been bigger,

569
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,719
Speaker 5: you know, at one period of time, But a lot

570
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 5: of people like goll yeah, I know, I've kind of

571
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 5: I'm outside of those phone ranges now.

572
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 3: I think also just I haven't experienced this too much

573
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 3: because I normally upgrade my phone, but also if I

574
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 3: have experienced it, it's probably wasn't for long because it's

575
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 3: annoying enough to make me upgrade my phone, which is

576
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 3: right to me. Is the real point now they're saying.

577
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 3: Apple's argument is we slowed down your phones because us

578
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 3: with your like processing power, if we just allowed it

579
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 3: to continue to process at the right speed, your phone

580
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 3: would run out of battery and overheat very quickly because

581
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 3: the new iOS is demanding more. So that's their consumer

582
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 3: argument of like, look, we weren't doing this to like

583
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 3: fuck you. We were actually doing this so that and

584
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 3: I mean to some extent, I've noticed that too after

585
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: they stopped doing this, if you have an older phone

586
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 3: and you updated to the new firm where and all

587
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 3: this shit, the battery be gone. The battery just be

588
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 3: out because it's like, Okay, you can do some new

589
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 3: shit that you couldn't do before, but your shit is old.

590
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 3: You wasn't designed to do all this, so yo, shit

591
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 3: ain't gonna last long. But yeah, I mean it makes sense,

592
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 3: and I'm glad that you know, people are gonna get

593
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 3: a little check from it. But yeah, if people are

594
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 3: like me, they probably just upgraded their phones, and they'll

595
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 3: never really get that check y work. Right.

596
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 5: The whole purpose was to you know, kind of force

597
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 5: you to kind of upgrade because yeah, like you said,

598
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 5: they don't do that anymore, that they don't slow it

599
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 5: down anymore. So yeah, you know, if you have a

600
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 5: certain level of phone with you know, maybe not the

601
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 5: first and second or thirder, but eventually you'll be like, well, god, damn,

602
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 5: I just turned this bitch on the halfway through the day.

603
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 2: Why am I at fifty percent?

604
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 5: But that's that's why, because they're like, we're not slowing

605
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,719
Speaker 5: up the down no more, and we just gonna let

606
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 5: it eat your shit up right.

607
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: But uh, yeah, one quarter of adult children are strange

608
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 3: from a parent.

609
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 2: That's a big number.

610
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, man, what out every four of us.

611
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 3: More than one quarter of young adults are strange from

612
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 3: one or both parents or have been, a finding that

613
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 3: suggests a societal shift away from traditional bonds of family.

614
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 3: Several recent studies, articles, and hot selling books have hinted

615
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 3: that young America's rejecting the biblical adage haunter th mother

616
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 3: and father, along with the attendant concept of compulsory kinship. Instead,

617
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 3: young adults are picking who will populate their families.

618
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 2: Okay, I guess, I guess I have a question.

619
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 5: When you mean a strange do you mean like the

620
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 5: child decided I'm not fucking with.

621
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 2: Y'all no more.

622
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah.

623
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 2: And to an extent, I can I can see that.

624
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 5: I can definitely see that, because you know, there was

625
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 5: a period of time where I was kind of like that.

626
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 5: Because you get frustrated, you get irritated, you get aggravated,

627
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 5: you don't feel like you're heard, you feel like, I understand, parents'

628
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 5: job is to raise you to be an adult, but

629
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 5: it's very hard for a lot of parents and not

630
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 5: understand two parents always look at that child as a child,

631
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 5: no other age, and that becomes a problem once that child,

632
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 5: which is a certain age and becomes an adult. You know,

633
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 5: and for a lot of parents, it's not You'll never

634
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 5: be quote unquote equal.

635
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 2: And so for a lot of people.

636
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 5: That's very irritating because they was like, well, bitch, I

637
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 5: pay my own bills, I got my own kids.

638
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: Now I demand respect.

639
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 5: And you have a lot of parents they just will

640
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 5: not give their children the respect that they It don't

641
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 5: matter if they earned it or not.

642
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: They're an adult.

643
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 5: So you, as a parent, you've got to give them

644
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 5: that respect, and you also have to let them go.

645
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: And let them make choices of their own and things

646
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 2: like that.

647
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 5: And you know, for a lot of parents, the very

648
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 5: parents can be manipulators, and people with good parents don't

649
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 5: understand that piece of it. You know, they always feel

650
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 5: like something is wrong with you if you don't have

651
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 5: this loving, caring bonding.

652
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 4: Let me stop you right there.

653
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 3: I have good parents, and I can understand how somebody

654
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 3: can have fucked up relationships with their parents, and parents

655
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 3: can be fucked up, Like, I don't think it's a

656
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 3: I have good parents, so you don't know what you're

657
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 3: talking about. I think what I think that that what

658
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 3: I think a lot of that comes from is also

659
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 3: people that got fucked up parents in denial about their

660
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 3: parents and their relationship, being like, well, I deal with

661
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 3: my parents being fucked up. Why can't you?

662
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 2: You know?

663
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 3: So I don't. I don't think that's a like it's

664
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 3: it varies per individual, but I don't think it's as

665
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 3: simple as like, well, you had a good upbringing, so

666
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 3: you just completely are like fuck it. A lot of

667
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 3: times I think my stuff people's like fucked up parents

668
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 3: stuff sits out to me harder because I'd be like,

669
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 3: oh no, like I can't imagine my parents doing that

670
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 3: shit to me, and honestly I wouldn't fucking deal with it.

671
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 3: The other thing, too, is like parents don't really control

672
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 3: their children. We always discussed this as if the children

673
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 3: are all great, but some of these children is fucked

674
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 3: up too, and it's like, you know, the parenting that

675
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,959
Speaker 3: is a strange because because the kid is fucked up,

676
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 3: and it's like I so it's not it's not like

677
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 3: a I think we like to discuss it as a

678
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 3: power down there, but that becomes like an age because

679
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 3: we're talking about young adults, not we're not talking about

680
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 3: like thirteen year olds of shit. Right, that becomes an

681
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: age where it's like maybe the kid or maybe the

682
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 3: adult your kid grew up to be is not the

683
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 3: one that you thought they would be, and it's really

684
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 3: not shit you can do about it. And parents deal

685
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 3: with that guilt a lot, sometimes putting themselves in some

686
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 3: very like bad situations to try to like make up

687
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 3: like no, I'm not a bad parent, I love you,

688
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 3: but you can have a kid. That's a social path.

689
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 3: You have a kid that's manipulative. You can have a

690
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 3: kid that has all kinds of issues. So I think

691
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 3: it's not just I don't think it's simple, but I

692
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 3: do understand the way we frame it typically is the

693
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 3: kid is right, something's wrong with the parents, and the

694
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 3: kid has done what they needed.

695
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 2: To do, agreed.

696
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, And that could be other scenarios too, you know,

697
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 5: because you know, like like you know, with me, you know,

698
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 5: it was one of those things where I made decisions

699
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 5: like when we first got married, I didn't talk to

700
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 5: my family for like a year and a half almost two.

701
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 5: I had no forms of communications with them, niggas whatsoever.

702
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,479
Speaker 5: And I love them every dearly, but I was going

703
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 5: through my own thing and I just did not want

704
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:14,280
Speaker 5: to be bothered.

705
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 2: I had to process stuff, I had to go through things.

706
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 2: I had to.

707
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 5: Learn how to view the world with my own eyes

708
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 5: and not view the world through what they wanted me

709
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 5: to be. Because and for me, if you know, if

710
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 5: we want to quote unquote get deeper about it, this

711
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 5: is why I think it's very very me personally. That's

712
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 5: somebody with no children. Me personally, I think it's very

713
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 5: strange how people can have unconditional love for children but

714
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 5: that same love sometimes does not extend to their significant other.

715
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 5: It does not extend to their mates and their partners.

716
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 2: Like other people.

717
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 5: They feel like, you're supposed to have this unconditional love

718
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 5: for a child, but you know what, children grow up

719
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 5: and children become adults, and guess what, adults are assholes,

720
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 5: and so people failed to realize that they let you down,

721
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 5: they disappoint you, and so your children can do these

722
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 5: same thing. And so that's why I think it's very

723
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 5: strange when it comes to this unconditional love can undergo

724
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 5: towards children, but it can't go I think towards another adult.

725
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 3: I think that, Yeah, that's a bit of a tangent,

726
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 3: but I think all of is conditional, even parents and kids,

727
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 3: like it's all conditional, we just don't call it that shit.

728
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 3: And there's a lot of trauma that happens between parents

729
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 3: and kids because we're that's the closest relationship most people

730
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 3: are ever going to have until hopeful probably ever Honestly,

731
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 3: even if you get like a romantic relationship at some point,

732
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 3: it's you know, hopefully you know it's close like that,

733
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 3: But it's quite possible your parents will be the closest

734
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 3: relationship just by happenstance, not because you want it to be,

735
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 3: but because it's necessity, Like you have to suck my

736
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: teddy for milk. Is nothing you can do about it,

737
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 3: you know, like it's so there's some bonding there. But

738
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 3: I think a lot of One of a couple things

739
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 3: I wanted to bring up one, I think the Internet

740
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 3: and social media has changed a lot of stuff because

741
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 3: before it used to be you were relegated to the

742
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,280
Speaker 3: people you knew in town, the people so your chosen

743
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 3: family is not it's like a smaller pool to choose from.

744
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 3: And so what happens if you're a kid that's gay

745
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 3: and your parents are super religious, You got to move

746
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 3: to a whole nother city.

747
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 4: You gotta go to Atlanta to even find a family.

748
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 3: And how many of those kids don't ever do that,

749
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 3: don't make it out, don't leave home, or just find

750
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 3: a way to be miserable where they are or whatever.

751
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 3: Now people got options, So that's another reason you could

752
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 3: become estranged and not want to deal with that shit

753
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 3: because you're like, hey, man, I don't have to anymore.

754
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 3: Even if you do stay home, you can find a

755
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 3: social circle through the internet, so you can find that

756
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 3: like chosen family and stuff. I mean, there's obviously pitfalls

757
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 3: to being hyper online and making your digital connections like

758
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 3: there can be some pitfalls of that, but at the

759
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 3: same time, it's better than dealing with a parent that

760
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 3: hates you for some shit that you don't you can't

761
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 3: control it, don't want to deal with. So I can

762
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 3: understand that as well. I think a lot of times, uh,

763
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 3: And of course you know the typical case that you

764
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 3: brought up of just I'm this person's abusive, it I

765
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 3: don't want to have contact with them, obviously, that's that's

766
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 3: that's always going to be a factor as well. It's

767
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 3: not that I didn't want to I'm not dismissing it

768
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 3: out of hand, but just people have more options now

769
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 3: and I think we're seeing it displayed. But at the

770
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 3: same time, we have an epidemic of loneliness, yes, meaning

771
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 3: that people are still more isolated than ever. And I

772
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 3: wonder about how much we're encouraged to cut people off

773
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 3: without conflict resolution and to be hashtag team Petty and

774
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 3: the and to be you know, my way or the highway,

775
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 3: and I wonder how much that plays into this as well.

776
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 3: Not to say it's a major factor or just but

777
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 3: I can't help but wonder if it is a factor,

778
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 3: because I feel like the message that we get so

779
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 3: loudly now is one fuck up and you're fucking done.

780
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 3: One misunderstanding and you're out of here and you can

781
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 3: never get right. Oh you apologize. I don't give a

782
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 3: fuck if you apologize. I ain't mad. And everyone on

783
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 3: the Internet is telling me to stay mad, and everyone

784
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 3: on social media is like, fuck them people. And I

785
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,439
Speaker 3: do wonder if, like there's a cultural shift as well.

786
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 2: I can see that.

787
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 5: And also it's one of those things where you kind

788
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 5: of have a generations all over the place.

789
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,240
Speaker 2: You have generations that were brought.

790
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 5: Up hey we got to talk on the phone or

791
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 5: I got to you face to face, like like, let's

792
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 5: hash this out, versus a generation who's from the time

793
00:39:55,840 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 5: they were born, things were already in place where they

794
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 5: didn't have to have the social communications and the interaction

795
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 5: with people like another generation would. So for them, the

796
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 5: internet is everything. And that's why it's hard for people

797
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 5: who was not wrapped up in the Internet like that,

798
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 5: for people that are older than Google, that are older

799
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 5: than Amazon and Facebook, it's hard for that generation to

800
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,959
Speaker 5: understand the generation that's raised where everything from your cell

801
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 5: phone to your computer, everything is designed in this box

802
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 5: of isolation. Everything is I look at the screen, this

803
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 5: is my world. Everybody has a cell phone, everybody is

804
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 5: connected to the internet, everybody's online. You have a generation

805
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 5: that grew up on Instagram, they grew up on TikTok.

806
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 2: They're growing up on.

807
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 5: These things, and so to them, the Internet is a

808
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 5: heavy and fluit because think of you being a child

809
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 5: and how you emotionally going through these things.

810
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 2: Your mind isn't fully developed.

811
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 5: You're experiencing all these intense things when you're young. Everything

812
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 5: is fucking intense because you're experiencing them for the first time.

813
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 5: So you have to have somebody there to help navigate

814
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 5: you through this and help guide you through these emotions,

815
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 5: so you don't, you know, go to the extreme one

816
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 5: way or the other. But when these mechanisms are in

817
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 5: place and your child just has access to this free

818
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 5: range of things that they truly might not understand the

819
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,720
Speaker 5: consequences of the repercussions of how these things and truthfully,

820
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 5: adults don't know because we don't have enough studies on them.

821
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 3: One of the things I think I've been saying about

822
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,879
Speaker 3: social media for a long time is if you think

823
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 3: about it, the tools to be good at social media

824
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 3: are the same tools that we ascribe to the to

825
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 3: a narcissist. And I mean that clinically, not like the

826
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 3: you're an asshole, I'm gonna call you a narcist. I

827
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 3: mean like the ability to block people, the ability to

828
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 3: get flying monkeys and gang up on people, the ability

829
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 3: to vilainize people, to ostracize them, to form our own

830
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 3: narratives in our head about stuff without really you know,

831
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 3: to avoid conflict resolution, and to integrate people to harass them.

832
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 3: Like a lot of that stuff is how you get

833
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 3: good at social media. You look at some of the

834
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 3: most popular people on social media, they a lot of

835
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 3: them at one point at least can contributed to that

836
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: kind of behavior. So I could see how people could

837
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 3: reflect that in their real life relationships too, where it's like, hey,

838
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,360
Speaker 3: I block everybody on social media that I don't agree with.

839
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 4: I'm blocking you, uncle or whatever.

840
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 3: And so that's one part of but let's talk about

841
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 3: the positives of it, because like, I don't want to

842
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 3: turn into a completely negative thing. Part of this is

843
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 3: also people seeking healthy relationships, yes, and saying and putting

844
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 3: up standards and boundaries, saying I'm not tolerating anything that's

845
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 3: an an unhealthy relationship. Right, So maybe for them and

846
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 3: their peace of mind, they're like, I don't want that

847
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 3: uncle who's homophobic or racist or whatever. I don't want that.

848
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 3: You know. I think there's a reason that in this study,

849
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 3: twenty six percent of people who are strange from their

850
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 3: fathers only six percent from their mothers.

851
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, that speaks a lot to men, Like

852
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 5: Allo said that, like that, that speaks violuing to men

853
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 5: because for a lot of not all, but for a

854
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 5: lot of women, they have a tendency to be more

855
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 5: apt to want to fix and repair things and be like, Okay,

856
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 5: I fucked up, you know, let's talk about it, and

857
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 5: things like that when men, just the way particularly Cis

858
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 5: had straight men emotions child boo, And it's one of

859
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 5: those things where unless they're willing to and raise their

860
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 5: sons to actually tap into real emotions outside of anger

861
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 5: and laughter like that, that's kind of the two emotions

862
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 5: you get. And sometimes not even fucking laugh, just anger,

863
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 5: you know, And so where shit go? Ron The parents

864
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 5: don't have reslute they don't have the skills, so they

865
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 5: can't teach the child the skills. And you know I

866
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 5: was raised up in the household, well, I didn't have

867
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 5: those skills. I learned a lot of these skills as

868
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 5: I got older and for and also I think for

869
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 5: a lot of people like me, you did not realize.

870
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 5: If you're raising certain households, you think the shit is normal.

871
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 5: And once you go off to college, once you get

872
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 5: out the house, once you start experiencing things and people

873
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 5: around your go something.

874
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,439
Speaker 3: So that's the part that I think goes with something

875
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,760
Speaker 3: you said earlier. Now with social media, you can experience

876
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 3: that without leaving the house. True, you can see other

877
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 3: people's families and how they resolve things. Once again, if

878
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 3: you're interested in that, right, because you can. Also because

879
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 3: like I said, I think two things are working at once,

880
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 3: and we're having two thoughts that are to me both

881
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 3: true but not true for everyone in these groups. One

882
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:52,240
Speaker 3: of them is a lot of stuff is Instagram influencers

883
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 3: and like TikTok therapist telling you cut your parents off,

884
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,800
Speaker 3: you don't know anybody anything, fuck them, blah blah blah.

885
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 3: And I can see how that could go dangerously wrong,

886
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 3: as well, you know a lot of times, especially with

887
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:09,439
Speaker 3: the debt ceiling, like the debts that we have now,

888
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 3: where kids are on their parents' insurance until the twenty

889
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 3: six where you're you're a fucking adupe man, you're on

890
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 3: your parents' insurance, you're living in their house because you

891
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 3: can't afford the house and all that stuff. So I

892
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 3: can see how parents may feel like treating them like

893
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 3: you're the enemy, you don't support every fucking thing I do,

894
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 3: or you what fuck you? I'm out. I can see

895
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 3: how that would make a parent be like dog, what

896
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 3: what the fuck?

897
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 4: Like I don't have any say, like you're living under

898
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 4: my roof.

899
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 3: Now, this isn't like before when everyone got twenty one

900
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 3: and just move the fuck out because you could afford

901
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 3: rent even on a like eye hop job. That shit

902
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 3: ain't happening it no more. Motherfuckers have full forty hours

903
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 3: a week job salary jobs, and they still might have

904
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 3: to stay home because the student loans and how much

905
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 3: the rent is and all this type of shit. So

906
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 3: I think some of these dynamics have changed societally that

907
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 3: I can see how it wouldn't be as simple as

908
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 3: just my parents don't support everything. I do. Fuck them,

909
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 3: you know, and of course the Internet's gonna tell you

910
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 3: that fuck them, fuck your parents. But also I can

911
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 3: see how people are going the old ways are fucking

912
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 3: dead just because I came out of your vagina. If

913
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 3: you're fucking telling me every day, I ain't shit, manipulating me,

914
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 3: fucking up my self esteem, hating every choice I make.

915
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 4: I don't have to be here or talk to you

916
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 4: or see you.

917
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 3: You want to know how I'm doing, log in a

918
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 3: Facebook and look at my pictures like everybody the fuck else,

919
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 3: because this ain't working for me. So I can see

920
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 3: both things happening at the same time without it, and

921
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 3: I think that's the crux of this conversation is both

922
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 3: things couldn't happen.

923
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 5: And it could literally be a combination of both because

924
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 5: as somebody who has went through rinted through a lot

925
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 5: of these different scenarios, you know, and went through a

926
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 5: lot of these situations, be it a parent that does

927
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 5: not have good communication skills, a parent that does not

928
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 5: understand nor is willing to learn or change when it

929
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 5: comes to certain things. You know, because I talked to

930
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 5: my mama to day and she just and she she

931
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 5: literally looks at me like I'm crazy, but I know

932
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 5: what I'm saying is true, and I know what I'm

933
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 5: saying is right.

934
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 2: But you could because that's how of my convictions, you know.

935
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,280
Speaker 5: But for her, it's very strange and it's very odd.

936
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 5: And you know, she's of the generation and that day

937
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 5: our people her age that are own the Internet and

938
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 5: things like that. But you're talking to a woman who

939
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 5: doesn't have internet, Wi Fi anything got her house. So

940
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 5: you know, when when I left, it was literally that's it,

941
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 5: you know, with no seeing me.

942
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 2: On Facebook, with no none of that shit. You know

943
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

944
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 5: And the thing is she barely has a cell phone,

945
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 5: just got a cell phone within the last Maybe yeah.

946
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 3: I'm not, but you also were raised by your aunt

947
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 3: who's old, like older than just like a parent normally

948
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 3: would be. So like like say, the difference between most

949
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 3: people and their parents, say it's like twenty to twenty

950
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 3: five years or so, Okay, you talk like that's why

951
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 3: she doesn't have any of that technology. Like if she

952
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 3: was like sixty, she probably would have that stuff because

953
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,760
Speaker 3: she would have been like forty when that stuff was invented.

954
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 4: It wouldn't have sounded crazy at all.

955
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 3: But if you're like sixty when the cell phone is invented,

956
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 3: it's like, fuck that shit, I made it this far.

957
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like almost ninety, so guess that's a big difference.

958
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 3: I'm a tough this one out.

959
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 5: You know, the fuck I need a cell phone for.

960
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 5: We had to explain her, you can't happen. I'm gonna

961
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 5: go to the payph Mama, ain't no payphoons Like it

962
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 5: was a hassle. But someone says she might be entitled

963
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 5: to a check called Apple. Yeah she might be shit,

964
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 5: Yeah she might have the iPhone six Now I don't know,

965
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,839
Speaker 5: but yeah, it's I just think it's interesting because it's

966
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 5: such a it's such an all encompassing topic, because every

967
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 5: single case is different, right, and individually it's gonna be

968
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 5: different for everybody. But collectively, a fourth of adult children

969
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 5: are not talking to their parents, and like in a purposeful,

970
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:17,439
Speaker 5: estranged way.

971
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 4: That says a lot, you know.

972
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,879
Speaker 3: I also wonder how much it has the polarization we've

973
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 3: experienced politically, because it used to be a time where like, yeah,

974
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 3: your parents are older than you, so they're a bit

975
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 3: more conservative than you are, and you're more liberal than

976
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 3: they are. And as you get older, you become more

977
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 3: conservative normally, and your children are the ones that are

978
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 3: like disappointed in your ass and they and the cycle

979
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 3: goes forever, especially for white people, but the cycle goes

980
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:46,439
Speaker 3: for the cycle goes forever. But I wonder if what

981
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 3: conservatism is turned into has made a lot of people

982
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 3: be like, man, fuck that, Like like this used to

983
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:57,719
Speaker 3: be okay when I thought when the most liberal progressive

984
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 3: talking point for marriage, for a marriage was like, oh,

985
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 3: you can get a certificate, and you're like, yeah, okay,

986
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 3: get a certificate. It's basically the same as a marriage,

987
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 3: and that was like the most liberal mainstream position, and

988
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 3: so the difference between that and like your conservative parents

989
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,479
Speaker 3: might have been like, well, long as they can't get

990
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 3: married married, I guess how fucking that's fine if that's

991
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 3: what they want to do, and you might find some

992
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 3: middle ground in there where you're like, fucking, man, I

993
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 3: mean shit, it's not even like the president is saying it.

994
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 3: But once you get like Trump, everything is like a

995
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 3: conservative parent of Fox News watch, your parent is living

996
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 3: in a different reality than their kid if their kid

997
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 3: isn't on that shit too. So once again, I think

998
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 3: there's just a lot of fast turned into like a

999
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 3: very nebulous conversation. It's not very streamlined. There's a lot

1000
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 3: of things to say and not say. But it was

1001
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 3: a good thought exercise of just all the different factors.

1002
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 3: I think that that contribute to so much estrangement happening.

1003
00:50:58,360 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1004
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, And and there are a lot of different things.

1005
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 5: Like you say, it could be things on the parents' side,

1006
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,479
Speaker 5: it could be things on the child's side, and truth

1007
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 5: be told. A lot of times it's a little bit

1008
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 5: of both, you know. But people don't want to meet

1009
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 5: in the middle. But sometimes things are so egregious that

1010
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 5: I you know, on either side that I understand.

1011
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, nah, it's not I think that gender thing is right,

1012
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 3: Like you said, even in here, they're talking about people

1013
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,439
Speaker 3: don't know that really know their fathers. Your father's normally

1014
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 3: the stoic, quiet one and don't talk to you. He's

1015
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,240
Speaker 3: not the one that calls you out the blue often.

1016
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 3: And you know, they're the ones that you sit and

1017
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 3: drink a beer and watch the game. But you know,

1018
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,839
Speaker 3: don't normally talk to people about life. I'm not I'm

1019
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 3: lucked out. My dad's not really like that. But I

1020
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 3: know a lot of people whose daddies are like that.

1021
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 3: You know, it's like a brooding presence that you're just

1022
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 3: afraid of when they come in to the house. You're like, oh,

1023
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 3: don't he's mad, he's been working and.

1024
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, and also all the side as somebody who never

1025
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 5: really had a male presence, like you know, like that.

1026
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:03,240
Speaker 5: It's one of those things when you start getting those

1027
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 5: male particularly me as as a quote unquote, I'm I'm

1028
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 5: I'm one of them free birds. People look at Roger

1029
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 5: like like you let her do that. But it's one

1030
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 5: of the things where I'm kind of one of them

1031
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 5: free birds where sometimes I be forgetting uh, when these

1032
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 5: grown men be talking and saying ship, sometimes they be

1033
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 5: putting basing their voice and ship, and I be I'd

1034
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 5: be looking but like, oh, you ain't talking to me,

1035
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 5: and I just gone by my business.

1036
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 3: Because I have no idea what you're referring to right

1037
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 3: now what happened. Yeah, because you just have to do

1038
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 3: with the fathers and the.

1039
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 5: Thing because I'm talking about like like you're talking about

1040
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 5: that Meley presence and how and how that Meley pressing

1041
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 5: yeah type type of thing, and how you can be

1042
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 5: afraid people.

1043
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 4: Are putting basing talking to you, what's happened?

1044
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 2: No, no, this happened years ago. But but like you

1045
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: would be like and like I'd be like.

1046
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 5: A Femily member's house and like somebody would say something

1047
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 5: and you.

1048
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 2: Could tell that he's.

1049
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 4: In that houseff yeah yeah and.

1050
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:02,280
Speaker 5: So and so for me, it would make me respond

1051
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,319
Speaker 5: a certain way. But then I had to remember, oh,

1052
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 5: I don't live in your household, and so I was like, okay,

1053
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:08,839
Speaker 5: and I do going by my way.

1054
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wasn't joking. I just I was like, who

1055
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 4: the fuck was talking to you?

1056
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 3: No?

1057
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no no.

1058
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 3: It's like I'm gonna have to fuck somebody else? What

1059
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:18,280
Speaker 3: what just happened?

1060
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 8: No?

1061
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 5: No, no, just just as soon years ago when I

1062
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 5: was a lot younger, and so I get and so

1063
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 5: I but and even and like today, like the person

1064
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 5: I am, uh today, it would it would be that

1065
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 5: scenario would have been completely different.

1066
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean honestly, if I'm yeah, like I feel you.

1067
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 3: I think there's a lot of men that do that.

1068
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, they purposely and I've seen it, I see that

1069
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 2: in action.

1070
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 5: But they purposely flex their muscles, they purposely raised their voice,

1071
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 5: they purposely demand ship and it's like dog, everybody here

1072
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 5: got good is and we could hear you like like like,

1073
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 5: you don't have to show us how strong you are.

1074
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 3: That a lot of people to find masculinity in that way,

1075
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 3: and a lot of people want because we're all fucking

1076
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,839
Speaker 3: influenced by people think that's what they want from a

1077
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:07,319
Speaker 3: man too, you know, that kind of.

1078
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 4: A little bit toxic, you know whatever.

1079
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 3: But and I mean, and once again, I don't want

1080
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 3: to I don't want to vilified. I know men that

1081
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 3: are like that that are great, you know, like they

1082
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,240
Speaker 3: have that grupphic stereo, but you know, you ever need anything,

1083
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 3: they're fucking it's getting done, you know, motherfucker being in

1084
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 3: the driveway changing your oil and shit and you be like, yeah,

1085
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 3: he don't really communicate well, but the nigga, the oil

1086
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 3: has changed because more fucking grass is cut. Like that's

1087
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 3: how he communicate, because the bills are paid. And I mean,

1088
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 3: if that's what you're into, hey, more power to you.

1089
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:44,359
Speaker 3: But I think that is also why there's a higher

1090
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 3: percentage of people a strange from their kids because their kids,

1091
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 3: Like I didn't really know my dad when I was

1092
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 3: in the house. I'm grown and out the house.

1093
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,359
Speaker 5: What do we have to talk about And a lot

1094
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,399
Speaker 5: of times, you know what this estrangement means. They don't

1095
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 5: get to talk to their grandkids they like like like that. Actually,

1096
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 5: when that child leaves, you actually lose a generation and

1097
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 5: then the generation is moving forward.

1098
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 2: Mom, there's just no communication.

1099
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 3: The moms, on the other hand, often have long simmering

1100
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 3: feuds over values, conflicting religious beliefs, or questionable life choices.

1101
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 2: I can see that.

1102
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 3: So the mom thing seems to be when you get

1103
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 3: a strange from a mom, it's a long process that

1104
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 3: doesn't have one big blowout fight it becomes it's just

1105
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,760
Speaker 3: a long process. And I know a lot of times

1106
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 3: girl children and their moms, you know.

1107
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 2: There's a relationship.

1108
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:39,880
Speaker 3: There's a love hate type of relationship there, and a

1109
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 3: lot of times it can really go to hate for

1110
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:45,879
Speaker 3: a while, especially as you get older and stuff. So yeah,

1111
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 3: I do Anyway, this is a great study, Yes it is.

1112
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 5: And I think that sometimes a lot of people do

1113
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 5: not understand the mother daughter relationship. That is a very

1114
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,879
Speaker 5: unique and a very different relationship. And when you talk

1115
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 5: to the boys in the house, their relationship with their

1116
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 5: mom is completely different and a lot of time it's

1117
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:10,240
Speaker 5: because women do things differently than men. Men have a tendency,

1118
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 5: like I said before, volturiers and loud and intimidation and

1119
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 5: shit like that. Women's slice with words, women's slice with conduct,

1120
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:18,760
Speaker 5: women's slice in other ways.

1121
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 2: And it's one of those things that.

1122
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 5: It could be very very as somebody who went through that,

1123
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:32,359
Speaker 5: it could be very very frustrated, very irritating. And it's

1124
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 5: one of those things where studies have shown, you know,

1125
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 5: who leaves the house fors girls. Girls will packed their

1126
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 5: shit up and leave and the boy. You know, it's

1127
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,280
Speaker 5: been situations where where boys have stayed a lot longer.

1128
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 3: And of course we're being very sense or normal, you know,

1129
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,799
Speaker 3: just y'all understand. Yeah, but a lot of that, I

1130
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 3: think what the girl children is because girls are condition

1131
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 3: and train and tied at an early age to be

1132
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 3: this support system and go be this support system for

1133
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 3: a man or somebody like your goal is to get

1134
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 3: out of the house and get into baby making positions

1135
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 3: as fast as possible. And at the same time, women

1136
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 3: have experienced an explosion of autonomy and money and careers

1137
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 3: and equality in quotes, and so now they have different

1138
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 3: lanes of opportunities that open to them. So they're using

1139
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 3: those skills on themselves and being like, man, I'm just

1140
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 3: getting the fuck out of here taking care of myself,

1141
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 3: and I don't need y'all to be nagging me all

1142
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 3: the time. You know, I'd rather not be talking to

1143
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 3: y'all than to be feeling shitty about myself all the time.

1144
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 3: I think also because of social media and the ubiquity

1145
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:54,479
Speaker 3: to this ubiquitous, ubiquitous in this, I think that's right.

1146
00:57:54,920 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 3: Because of how much we proliferated our society with trauma, violence,

1147
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 3: emotional abuse, people now either have words to express what

1148
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 3: they felt, or they have words to turn misunderstandings into

1149
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 3: like damning attacks, yes, and escalate the harm. So I

1150
00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 3: don't know, like it's different for different people. It's obviously

1151
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 3: individual and each I can see how a parent would

1152
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:31,919
Speaker 3: feel like really gas lit or speaking of words that

1153
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 3: people use too much. But I can see but I

1154
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 3: can but I mean it in the technical I can

1155
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 3: see our parent would feel like whoa, whoa, whoa.

1156
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 4: I was there for those experiences too.

1157
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 3: You know, you were doing this, this and this, and

1158
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 3: my response was this, this and this, and it was

1159
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 3: the help and it was with the best intention for

1160
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 3: you and now you're telling me that this shit that

1161
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 3: I did, that's like what I learned and what I

1162
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 3: improved upon from my parents. You're telling me it's not

1163
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 3: good enough. And I think until this, the generation that

1164
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 3: is upset becomes parents of their own and their children

1165
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 3: get old and then they experience it. I feel like

1166
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 3: that's why you always see a coming together at a

1167
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 3: certain age of like parents and grandparents. But it's kind

1168
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 3: of like a you know, oh, I get it now,

1169
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 3: I get it.

1170
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1171
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 5: And also it's one of the things too, like you say,

1172
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 5: they come together, and also.

1173
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 2: Parents and children have these.

1174
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 5: Idealistic expectations of each party. You have parents who put

1175
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 5: their hopes and dreams and aspirations on their children regardless

1176
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 5: of if their children asks for these or not, and

1177
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 5: when they don't live up to them, it becomes a

1178
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 5: disappointment all these other things. And you have parents that

1179
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 5: always look at their child as a child.

1180
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 3: Then you have.

1181
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 5: Children who look at their parents as these superheroes and

1182
00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 5: then are very sad and disappointed and hurt, and which

1183
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 5: is valid, but you have to realize that just human

1184
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 5: being is in people, and parents have to realize once

1185
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 5: a child gets a certain age they're just their own person, right,

1186
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 5: So until both parties realized that everybody is a human

1187
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 5: being and and and everybody if they yeah and so,

1188
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 5: And I think that's why a lot of these conflicts

1189
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 5: come in because that's something that I had to go

1190
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 5: through on my own right and had to have understanding.

1191
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 5: And just because you have empathy, just because you have understanding,

1192
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 5: just because you have compassion, it just not excuse behavior.

1193
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 5: But at the same time, you can have a better

1194
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 5: understanding of your parents as a totality, as a human being.

1195
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's one gift hopefully everybody gets. So

1196
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 3: you try to you get older, and then when you

1197
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 3: get a certain age, you think about who your parents

1198
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 3: were at that age and what they their responsibility.

1199
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 4: Was to you.

1200
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 3: And a lot of times it's like, oh, I see,

1201
01:00:57,480 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 3: like you were just flying. You were making the point

1202
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 3: that you were flying it you didn't there's no instruction book.

1203
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 4: You don't fucking know. And you know, I've done.

1204
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 3: Way worse shit at twenty five that you know that

1205
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 3: was completely irresponsible. That luckily I didn't have any kids

1206
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 3: at the time, and a lot of people the reason

1207
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 3: we didn't have kids is not even trauma related. It's

1208
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 3: literally just economics have changed so much in our lifetimes

1209
01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:23,320
Speaker 3: that by the time I'm twenty five, it's a different

1210
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 3: twenty five year old environment than the ones my parents

1211
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 3: might have experienced at twenty five.

1212
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 4: Because the promises of America.

1213
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 3: Are are are not ever really fulfilled. So you got

1214
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 3: more people living alone than ever, got people waiting longer

1215
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 3: to get married than ever if they marry at all,

1216
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 3: and birth rates are down. So right there, those are

1217
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 3: three things that you know are not really a parent's fault.

1218
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 3: That's a societal issue. So but it also is changing

1219
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 3: the way people interact between family because if you're living alone,

1220
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 3: waiting longer than me if at all, and not having kids,

1221
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 3: the way you judge connections and family are gonna change.

1222
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 3: Family is now who I choose. Connections are what I

1223
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 3: make them, So I can see all that stuff. Agreed,

1224
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 3: All right, that was a fun conversation. I think got

1225
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 3: a little deep in philosophical I think, and uh, you know,

1226
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 3: I think it's time to move on out of there.

1227
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 3: Let's move on down to the reggae section and try, uh,

1228
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 3: let's do a different segment. Let's see, maybe we'll do

1229
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 3: some fucking with black people all right, it's been a

1230
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 3: it's a staple of the show. You know you love it.

1231
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 3: Let's do the uh, it's the song.

1232
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 4: There we go.

1233
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:44,080
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1235
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1236
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1237
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1240
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1243
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1248
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Speaker 8: Boo Boo Hoo fucking with the people because they fucking

1249
01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 8: with because they back fucking with THEO, because fucking fucking we.

1250
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 3: Let's see how they're fucking with us today, Arkansas schools

1251
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 3: standing against state Department of Education will continue to offer

1252
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 3: AP African American studies despite threats of defunding and discrediting.

1253
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 2: Right the fuck is this?

1254
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 7: Uh?

1255
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 3: Some schools in Little Rock, North Little Rock, and Jonesboro

1256
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 3: are calling Arkansas Department of Education's bluff, saying they will

1257
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 3: continue to offer AP African American studies despite the threat

1258
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 3: that they will be defunded and discredited. Now I can

1259
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 3: say this, I can't think. I wouldn't put nothing past

1260
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 3: Republicans and conseratis. I think they absolutely will follow through

1261
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 3: on these threats to defund these schools because that's what

1262
01:04:59,240 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 3: they do.

1263
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 4: But I want to say how.

1264
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 3: Appreciative I am of these schools taking a fucking stand

1265
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 3: and putting something on the line, because honestly, that's a

1266
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 3: lesson those kids really will remember for the rest of

1267
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 3: their lives, regardless of what the Republicans end up doing,

1268
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 3: because it's out of goddamn controlling. I'm tired of them

1269
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 3: being the only people that break the rules. Right, Sometimes

1270
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 3: you just gotta be like, I don't give a fuck

1271
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 3: what the like.

1272
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 4: It's wrong.

1273
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:25,400
Speaker 3: It's just a wrong thing to do, and we're not

1274
01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 3: going to tolerate that shit. So uh fuck y'all go

1275
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:32,240
Speaker 3: get the National Guard and get you twelve white folks

1276
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 3: and take this shit to trial.

1277
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 2: Right, that don't make sense.

1278
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 5: It's like dog like, there hasn't been a problem this

1279
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 5: shit is. We've been touching this shit forever and you're

1280
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 5: gonna come in here, but like, no, don't be teuching

1281
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 5: no nigga shit. That's basically what you're saying. And it

1282
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:45,959
Speaker 5: don't what's it? What's it goes there?

1283
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:49,400
Speaker 2: You gonna be like, don't teach no, no, no ap

1284
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 2: uh a class for this, don't teach no ap class

1285
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 2: for that. Like it's it.

1286
01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 5: Don't stop there, and you start attacking other shit with

1287
01:05:58,040 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 5: other cultures.

1288
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 3: Here's what I wander about. I don't live there, but

1289
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 3: the schools are Little Rock School District, Central High School,

1290
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 3: North Little Rock High School, Jacksonville High and acad Academies

1291
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:13,440
Speaker 3: at Jonesboro, as well as charter schools North Little Rock

1292
01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 3: Center for Excellence and Esteem High School have all confirmed

1293
01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 3: they will offer the course and calculate grades on the

1294
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 3: same elevated five point GPA scale's other advast placement classes. Okay,

1295
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 3: here's what I work wonder that don't sound like every

1296
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 3: school in the state of Arkansas. I bet you those

1297
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 3: are where the black kids attend. Yes, And in that way,

1298
01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 3: I feel even more fucked with because I guarantee you

1299
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 3: a lot of these white schools turn their motherfucking books

1300
01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 3: in and said, we ain't teaching that shit rather than

1301
01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 3: take a stand because white kids need to learn about

1302
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 3: the shit too. Black kids that go to majority white

1303
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 3: schools need to learn about it too. It's not just

1304
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:55,880
Speaker 3: it's if it's a history, it's history. If it's it's

1305
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 3: American history, it's not it's African American history. But a

1306
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 3: mayor in history is the real part of it. And

1307
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 3: they don't teach it in American history. They don't teach

1308
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 3: it in your civic class the way they should. So

1309
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 3: I bet you there's a ton of schools where they

1310
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 3: just been over and said fuck it, we not, we

1311
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 3: been in the knee, go ahead and take it shit.

1312
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 3: We might even agree we don't want.

1313
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 4: To teach the shit.

1314
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 3: And I think that's what makes me feel the most

1315
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 3: fucked with Now I don't live there, so I can't

1316
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 3: be sure that, but if it feel like that, yeah, yeah.

1317
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, it feels like that, they're going to know and

1318
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,840
Speaker 5: one of these things go why should we strip this

1319
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 5: away from our student population, you know? And these are

1320
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 5: AP classes, not all, but a lot of them. We'll

1321
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 5: go on to college and shit like that. So you know,

1322
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 5: it's one of those things where you're going, No.

1323
01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like someone said in the chat, I bet you

1324
01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 3: some schools didn't even sign up to teach it. But yeah.

1325
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 3: Arkansas teachers who trained over the something to qualify to

1326
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 3: teach the course receive phone calls Friday from an Education

1327
01:07:57,800 --> 01:08:00,440
Speaker 3: Department official letting them know it is to decision that

1328
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:02,200
Speaker 3: only provided a statement that said in part of the

1329
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 3: classes based on opinions or indoctrination, and said teaching it

1330
01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 3: may even violate state law. Arkansas Education Secretary Jacob Oliva

1331
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 3: also through out other reasons for the decision to not

1332
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 3: honor AP academic AP African American studies, but those were slammed.

1333
01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:22,760
Speaker 3: Oliva left a job in the Centus Florida Department of

1334
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 3: Education to come to Arkansas, so yeah, it all makes sense.

1335
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:32,640
Speaker 3: He's also police policy rewrights on locker rooms, pronouns, and

1336
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:36,760
Speaker 3: other LGBTQ issues as acquired by Florida's don't Say gay

1337
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 3: law for cards.

1338
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 2: For me, oh, it's the same. It's very frustrating.

1339
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 5: To see this because the whole purpose is they want

1340
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 5: the popular stupid, They want the populist not to know.

1341
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:56,719
Speaker 5: They want everybody, particularly when it comes to two white children,

1342
01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 5: they want them to believe the bullshit the slaves were

1343
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 5: happy and all the stuff. And a lot of times,

1344
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 5: I having history just ends up repeating itself and so

1345
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:05,640
Speaker 5: not trying to me funny. This is how you have

1346
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 5: a generation where shit happened. Our generation be going the

1347
01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 5: fuck you, why don't y'all know this gonna happen? And

1348
01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:13,960
Speaker 5: you have a whole generation like literally looking shocked and

1349
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 5: surprised because they don't know.

1350
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 3: And I'm just more, I don't understand why you would

1351
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:21,880
Speaker 3: want to take away this knowledge from white kids either.

1352
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, white kids can also grow up

1353
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 3: to be white people that believe this.

1354
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:32,639
Speaker 7: I'm sorry. I'm sorry if people think that a white

1355
01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 7: man can't enjoy black history. I'm sorry.

1356
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:38,599
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I really am.

1357
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:43,679
Speaker 7: I'm sorry if people think that a white man can't

1358
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 7: love Martin Luther King.

1359
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:54,040
Speaker 3: Right, But uh, yeah, I think I took AP classes

1360
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:59,440
Speaker 3: and when I was in school, and honestly I appreciated them.

1361
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 3: It was accelerated from the normal classes that I had,

1362
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:05,800
Speaker 3: you know, because I took a combination of both at

1363
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 3: some point, and then by my senior year, I was

1364
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 3: in like almost all AP classes. But you know, my

1365
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 3: other kids don't know like I want. Other people in

1366
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:20,800
Speaker 3: my same school didn't learn stuff. So even the fact

1367
01:10:20,840 --> 01:10:23,759
Speaker 3: that this is an AP African American Studies, it's already

1368
01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 3: a very small group of kids, right, Like, you're not

1369
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:29,000
Speaker 3: talking about every kid in the school learning about African

1370
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:33,080
Speaker 3: American studies. You're talking about a handful of academically gifted,

1371
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:36,640
Speaker 3: talented kids learning African So you are So this is

1372
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 3: a fucking joke, you know, But yeah, your cards to

1373
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 3: this bullshit. New FDA approved pre clampsy of blood test

1374
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 3: could reduce Black maternal deaths.

1375
01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:47,759
Speaker 2: What's pre clampsy.

1376
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 3: It's a daily form of high blood pressure that could

1377
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:52,480
Speaker 3: be fatal if left untreated.

1378
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 5: Is it one of them things not your fund that

1379
01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 5: it only affects pregnant people.

1380
01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 3: I don't know if it only pregnant people, but it

1381
01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:05,640
Speaker 3: impacts approximately one in every twenty five pregnancies annually in

1382
01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 3: the US. Black black birthing people, however, are disproportionately at risk,

1383
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 3: considering a staggering sixty percent of preclamsy of related deaths

1384
01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:17,680
Speaker 3: are deemed to be preventable. This blood test is a

1385
01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:23,040
Speaker 3: welcome and necessary development. Doctorate prepared, board certified nurse midwife,

1386
01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:30,760
Speaker 3: doctor Chanell Songle Enjoya enjoy I believe that's right, explains

1387
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 3: that preclamsya is characterized by high blood pressure that may

1388
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:36,719
Speaker 3: result in multi organ damage. Most commonly, deliver and kidneys

1389
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:40,400
Speaker 3: are impacted. It usually occurs about after twenty weeks of pregnancy,

1390
01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:42,559
Speaker 3: but can also begin in postpartum period.

1391
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:44,799
Speaker 4: It could be fatal if not properly managed.

1392
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 3: Similar to high blood pressure in non pregnant person, preclamsia

1393
01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:49,479
Speaker 3: can be a silent condition.

1394
01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:55,720
Speaker 4: The earlier is diagnosed, the better. Zero for me.

1395
01:11:56,439 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 5: I love this, thank you, Yeah, wow, yeah. And what's

1396
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 5: so sad? As some of this shit should have already

1397
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 5: been in place, you know, but it took. It took

1398
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:10,559
Speaker 5: a trying fun. It wouldn't be surprised that all black

1399
01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 5: and brown doctors and shit and ogb. Wayne's fighting for this,

1400
01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 5: like they don't make these rules. Like somebody probably been

1401
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 5: putting up a fucking fuss for decades, been doing fucking studies.

1402
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:24,160
Speaker 2: Over and over and over and over and over again

1403
01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:26,920
Speaker 2: before they was like, well fuck it.

1404
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:30,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the shit that almost I think this almost

1405
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 3: killed Serena Williams.

1406
01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 4: You know, I remember her first pregnancy. Oh, shout out

1407
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:36,160
Speaker 4: to her.

1408
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:40,599
Speaker 3: She had her second baby today, Yeah, hear and alections

1409
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:42,640
Speaker 3: or she had the baby like a few days ago,

1410
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:44,719
Speaker 3: but they announced it on like Instagram and stuff today,

1411
01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 3: So congrats to her. And then you know, with Beyonce,

1412
01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:51,640
Speaker 3: I still remember like all the celeb gossip being this,

1413
01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 3: like they she didn't even really have them babies. They

1414
01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:57,559
Speaker 3: just rented out a whole way and go the hospital

1415
01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:00,719
Speaker 3: for no reason. It's like, if I'm a black woman

1416
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 3: with unlimited resources, I'm having a child. I'm not trusting

1417
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:05,880
Speaker 3: none of you regular motherfuckers.

1418
01:13:05,920 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I picked her own doctness and everything.

1419
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:11,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, none of you motherfuckers because too many of us

1420
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 3: are dying in fucking childbirth and I'm not fucking taking

1421
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 3: the risk. If I can affect, if I can change it,

1422
01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 3: y'all just now came out with the fucking blood pressure test.

1423
01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 3: Sixty percent of the deaths are black women or black

1424
01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:29,479
Speaker 3: birthing people, and here we go with this bullshit. We're

1425
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:33,599
Speaker 3: just now getting it, you know. So yeah, anyway, I

1426
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 3: love this. I love this. Obviously the history of it

1427
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 3: fucks with me, but not enough for me to say

1428
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 3: that this fucks with me. Zero. Shout out to whoever

1429
01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 3: worked on this. Probably black people, Chad.

1430
01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 5: That's what right, like, because we're gonna be the older

1431
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 5: ones that's gonna car and push this shit like kind

1432
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 5: of been pushing it for decades and it kept being

1433
01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:56,360
Speaker 5: not y'all funny, denied by insurance company, denied by this,

1434
01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:57,120
Speaker 5: denied by that.

1435
01:13:57,160 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 2: It was like, look, y'all start covering this bullshit.

1436
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:04,880
Speaker 4: Right, So yeah, there you go. Did you say your score?

1437
01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 2: Zero?

1438
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 3: Okay, we both gave zeros. All right, let me look

1439
01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:12,720
Speaker 3: at this time. You know what, Let's do some fucking one.

1440
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:16,040
Speaker 4: Let's do some guests the race. Uh, it might as

1441
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 4: well we we we've.

1442
01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:20,360
Speaker 3: Been making some good time but having a good time. Uh,

1443
01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 3: party people in the place to be. It's time for

1444
01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 3: some guess the race. We'll find some guests the race music.

1445
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:32,519
Speaker 7: Time.

1446
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 3: It's time to guess the race. It's time to gest

1447
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,719
Speaker 3: the race. It's time to catch the race.

1448
01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 2: It's time to the race.

1449
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 4: All right, guess the race.

1450
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:47,800
Speaker 3: Go around to go find different articles, guess the race

1451
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:49,759
Speaker 3: of people involved, you know the drill.

1452
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:54,519
Speaker 4: A woman lord a man into Wait, can I play

1453
01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:57,240
Speaker 4: this article? Alway? It's only twenty seven seconds? Is that real?

1454
01:14:57,680 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 4: How fuck?

1455
01:14:58,120 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 8: They?

1456
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:00,000
Speaker 4: All right?

1457
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 3: It's like an ad is playing first. I guess I

1458
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:06,840
Speaker 3: can try to play this. A woman lured a man

1459
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:11,479
Speaker 3: into a fake uber on strip to rob him.

1460
01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,320
Speaker 4: The strip, of course, being Las Vegas.

1461
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 2: Okay, like the road.

1462
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, not like she.

1463
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 3: Made him strip, although people do make you strip sometimes

1464
01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 3: when they rob you. You know, just make sure you ain't

1465
01:15:22,120 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 3: gotten nothing else on you. But let me see if

1466
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 3: I could play this for y'all.

1467
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 10: A woman facing felony charges after allegedly luring an intoxicated

1468
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:33,880
Speaker 10: man to a motel where he was robbed. The man

1469
01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 10: left horseshoe Las Vegas and what he thought was an

1470
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:39,679
Speaker 10: uber ride. A red sdan drove up to the pickup area,

1471
01:15:39,760 --> 01:15:42,679
Speaker 10: and twenty year old raise Jane Jones ushered the man

1472
01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 10: into the vehicle. He was taken to a motel where

1473
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 10: two men pistol whipped him and stole his cell phone.

1474
01:15:48,439 --> 01:15:51,559
Speaker 10: Jones was arrested at a Starbucks and her preliminary hearing

1475
01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 10: is scheduled for January twenty ninth.

1476
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,679
Speaker 4: Man, people love to pistol whip you, all right, Karen,

1477
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 4: guess the rice.

1478
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 2: Black and yeah, pistol pistol whipping ain't no joke. Guns hurt.

1479
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:04,559
Speaker 2: The butter of guns is heavy as shit.

1480
01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 3: You've been pistolhipped a few times or something?

1481
01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 4: No?

1482
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 2: Wow, No, I've just her sounded like you had some experience.

1483
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,680
Speaker 3: Also, you did some pistol whipping. Okay, listen, listen. I'm

1484
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 3: still learning new stuff about you every day.

1485
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:16,840
Speaker 2: Baby.

1486
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:21,240
Speaker 5: I have not pistol whipped anybody, but just from what

1487
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:23,439
Speaker 5: people tell me, that shit sound like it hurt.

1488
01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:25,679
Speaker 4: You kind of give off a pistol whipping vibe.

1489
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:29,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes I don't own guns. Why?

1490
01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:29,760
Speaker 5: Uh?

1491
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 4: Tray says black CARDI b protege a black to B

1492
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:33,799
Speaker 4: star black?

1493
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 2: Uh?

1494
01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:37,640
Speaker 3: Is that similar to movie star to B star? Is

1495
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:40,920
Speaker 3: that what we're calling them? Beats a bet on black?

1496
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,879
Speaker 3: I'm so black, I'll say b et on black. That's

1497
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:46,000
Speaker 3: they didn't even spell it with all caps. I just

1498
01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:54,360
Speaker 3: my black black. She's as black as her triple espresso

1499
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:58,240
Speaker 3: in her glock. Dang, she had pre clamsia with her

1500
01:16:58,280 --> 01:16:59,200
Speaker 3: first baby. Black.

1501
01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:02,960
Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't correct, don't recognize.

1502
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 3: The name Nigga black, pats her weave with the pistol black,

1503
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 3: the correct dancers black?

1504
01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:11,760
Speaker 4: Oh like, that's the wrong one. Sorry here you though?

1505
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 2: Did they catch the other assailants?

1506
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:26,120
Speaker 3: I don't know. They just this is the only raisier name,

1507
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:31,040
Speaker 3: is the only picture they have, so you know, I

1508
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:31,960
Speaker 3: she uh?

1509
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:35,320
Speaker 4: I wonder she rolled up and stuff out? Did they

1510
01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:37,120
Speaker 4: did she roll or pick them up with her hair?

1511
01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 3: Like that was hopping the ober and doubt it. I

1512
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:43,559
Speaker 3: don't know she was on the strip. So nah, okay, well,

1513
01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:45,960
Speaker 3: good luck. You know, I'm glad they they brought somebody

1514
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:46,960
Speaker 3: to justice and stuff.

1515
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:47,599
Speaker 4: That's good.

1516
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 3: A Ri's go to the next one. Cop arrested after

1517
01:17:50,640 --> 01:17:53,639
Speaker 3: allegedly throwing McDonald's cheeseburger at wife.

1518
01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 2: Oh no, is this gonna turn to a minimum rage?

1519
01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 3: I guess he said, we got McDonald's at home, yes,

1520
01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:05,000
Speaker 3: and I'm throwing.

1521
01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:05,080
Speaker 4: It at you?

1522
01:18:06,240 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 2: Uh you.

1523
01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 3: The latest McDonald's cheeseburger attack comes from South Florida, where

1524
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 3: a cop has been accused of throwing fast food of

1525
01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:17,559
Speaker 3: his wife doing a violent confrontation at their homes. I

1526
01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:21,519
Speaker 3: will say this, Uh, I had no idea until we

1527
01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:24,919
Speaker 3: started doing this show. In this segment, how much.

1528
01:18:24,760 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 4: People are throwing food at people in their.

1529
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 3: House and then someone calls the cops and it is

1530
01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:35,720
Speaker 3: reported as domestic violence because it's actually technically assault. I'm

1531
01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 3: not I'm not saying that because I am down playing

1532
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:42,600
Speaker 3: the significance of it. It's just all of everything I

1533
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 3: just said never crossed my mind because none of it's

1534
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 3: ever happened to me. Right, Like, I've never been like

1535
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 3: having an argument and then like someone threw some food

1536
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 3: at me and then I went, I got to.

1537
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:54,120
Speaker 4: Get the cops involved.

1538
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:57,560
Speaker 3: And this shit, I'm not saying any of it is unreasonable.

1539
01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:00,360
Speaker 2: Never had angrily food throwing at me.

1540
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe that's why I'm so big. I'm like, I'm

1541
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:03,560
Speaker 4: not throwing.

1542
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:05,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, why I'll be wasting food.

1543
01:19:05,479 --> 01:19:09,439
Speaker 3: I hit you with delicious food. You don't deserve that anything.

1544
01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:10,600
Speaker 3: I'm mad, And so to.

1545
01:19:10,600 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 2: The food, what's happened to hell?

1546
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:13,920
Speaker 1: Not a lot of not a lot of articles about

1547
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:17,479
Speaker 1: people throwing like a plate or a cup that makes

1548
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:18,400
Speaker 1: more sense than the food.

1549
01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 4: But that's just me. I digress.

1550
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 3: His name.

1551
01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:23,519
Speaker 4: He's okay.

1552
01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:29,519
Speaker 3: Investigators alleged at an irate andres Perez thirty four and

1553
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:33,679
Speaker 3: his spouse had been arguing about financial and infidelity issues. Okay,

1554
01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:34,879
Speaker 3: pick a lane.

1555
01:19:36,160 --> 01:19:37,559
Speaker 2: We can't be both now.

1556
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:41,160
Speaker 3: Pick a struggle. Okay, if you're gonna be out here, no,

1557
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:44,000
Speaker 3: if you're gonna be out here broke, don't be cheating.

1558
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:47,759
Speaker 3: And if you're gonna be out here cheating, don't be broke. Right,

1559
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:51,400
Speaker 3: pick a struggle, sir. When the lawman is throwing into

1560
01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 3: the kitchen in his wife's direction, throwing a McDonald's cheeseburger

1561
01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:55,920
Speaker 3: at her, that's why she was mad. She's like, we

1562
01:19:55,960 --> 01:20:00,000
Speaker 3: eat McDonald's cheeseburgers. How much money are you spending on

1563
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:04,760
Speaker 3: these other holes? I bet you them, I bet you

1564
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:07,560
Speaker 3: them holes. Got didn't get no McDonald's. I'm supposed to

1565
01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:10,679
Speaker 3: be getting the file at men young, and they're supposed

1566
01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 3: to be getting the number five.

1567
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:14,160
Speaker 2: Come on, you giving me.

1568
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 3: You're doing this all backwards player.

1569
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:18,479
Speaker 2: They're supposed to be getting the two for five.

1570
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:18,600
Speaker 7: Not me.

1571
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 3: I'm getting yah like they supposed to be like, oh,

1572
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:23,760
Speaker 3: he's splurged for extra cheese because he loved me.

1573
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:27,519
Speaker 4: Every February fifteenth we going to date.

1574
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 3: You know, that's how she's supposed to be. I'm the

1575
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:33,839
Speaker 3: one getting the McDonald's. The victim te.

1576
01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:36,880
Speaker 2: She's the one that supposed to be geting thirty percent upgrade.

1577
01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 3: The victim told police that Perez then struck her with

1578
01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 3: a closed fist. Okay, that's not funny to the right

1579
01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:45,240
Speaker 3: side of the head behind the air during the incident.

1580
01:20:45,439 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 4: You know, cops do be abusive. You know what that

1581
01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:50,200
Speaker 4: that's a lot of domestic violence, you.

1582
01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:53,879
Speaker 5: Know what they said Statistically, they said cops and they

1583
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:56,760
Speaker 5: said that's one reason why. And I kind of believe them.

1584
01:20:56,800 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 5: They was like, one reason why they won't pass some

1585
01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:03,800
Speaker 5: heavier something tis domestic viole laws doing it right, right,

1586
01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 5: And they was like there was like too many cops

1587
01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:07,439
Speaker 5: would like lose their jobs and shit like that.

1588
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:09,120
Speaker 3: And if they do it to the ones they love,

1589
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:11,040
Speaker 3: what you think they're doing to the rest of us?

1590
01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 1: Right?

1591
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:13,600
Speaker 4: Okay, wake up America.

1592
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:14,560
Speaker 5: Message.

1593
01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:17,799
Speaker 3: Uh. Perez and the one man been a relationship about

1594
01:21:17,800 --> 01:21:20,840
Speaker 3: eight years. Uh, they've been married for three years. Told

1595
01:21:20,880 --> 01:21:25,120
Speaker 3: oh they do share kids in common. Chargers were misdemeanor battery.

1596
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:26,720
Speaker 3: He was booked in county jail.

1597
01:21:27,120 --> 01:21:27,240
Speaker 5: Uh.

1598
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 3: He bonded out and as an officer with the Miami

1599
01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:32,799
Speaker 3: Dade Police Department, which is, how can.

1600
01:21:32,680 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 4: You how do you get to come back to work?

1601
01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:41,559
Speaker 3: That's weird? Like you you supposed to serve and protect.

1602
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:44,519
Speaker 3: You beat somebody up and threw a cheeseburg at him.

1603
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:47,360
Speaker 3: You just come to work on Monday like crazy weekend.

1604
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:51,840
Speaker 3: What you know? They don't let the motherfuckers that get

1605
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:55,799
Speaker 3: caught sneaking into the movie theaters work at the movie theaters.

1606
01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

1607
01:21:57,120 --> 01:21:58,240
Speaker 2: Like right now, don't make sense.

1608
01:21:58,280 --> 01:21:59,759
Speaker 3: There's no other job like this.

1609
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:01,960
Speaker 4: No other All right, guess the race.

1610
01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:04,400
Speaker 2: Well I'm assuming white.

1611
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:08,840
Speaker 3: Okay, you assume Andres Perez.

1612
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:10,679
Speaker 2: Oh Latino Mexican?

1613
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:12,800
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, there we goes check chat room, see

1614
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 4: what they believe.

1615
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:20,040
Speaker 3: Angry little Mexican McDonald's rage, McDonald's ray, spicy Latino, his

1616
01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 3: ass didn't even buy a quarter pounder, broke ass Hispanic Jesus.

1617
01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:32,520
Speaker 3: I asked for a tacos Maria. Asked for tacos Maria Hispanic? Okay, Uh,

1618
01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 3: the correct is Lautenix. Some of the answers came in late. Well,

1619
01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:54,320
Speaker 3: someone said, officer mcbitches, that's hilarious.

1620
01:22:55,000 --> 01:23:00,080
Speaker 1: That's you got the McDonald's in there. You got the

1621
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:03,600
Speaker 1: that's that's ten out of ten. That's that's great. No,

1622
01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:06,479
Speaker 1: we can't make that the title the show. Can That's

1623
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:16,559
Speaker 1: my second apple, except that put your opinion down, that's

1624
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 1: a great title.

1625
01:23:17,680 --> 01:23:23,920
Speaker 3: Maria cop offer some make abuse on the job. That's

1626
01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:25,960
Speaker 3: a stretch, but I liked it. Hallopeno on the burger,

1627
01:23:26,040 --> 01:23:31,519
Speaker 3: Latino the wife, Latino, Maxie shocked. Y okay, Oh my god,

1628
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 3: that's good stuff.

1629
01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:32,880
Speaker 4: Y'all.

1630
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:36,640
Speaker 3: Y'all are bringing the racism today. Let's go to the

1631
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 3: final round. Karen's two for two.

1632
01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:39,360
Speaker 4: Yay.

1633
01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:48,320
Speaker 5: Why how can I be racist about anybody or any

1634
01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 5: in my life?

1635
01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:52,599
Speaker 3: How can I call them niggas?

1636
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:56,080
Speaker 9: Just call them niggas this time?

1637
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:07,080
Speaker 3: Each monkey boon, big, high jumping, spirit chucking, three hundred

1638
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:09,680
Speaker 3: and sixteenth degreed. I think they're gonna let think they're

1639
01:24:09,680 --> 01:24:12,439
Speaker 3: gonna let us play this in a night theater live,

1640
01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:15,360
Speaker 3: because I don't think we had this last time, and

1641
01:24:15,840 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 3: I'm looking forward to a theater full of people that

1642
01:24:19,280 --> 01:24:22,040
Speaker 3: may not have even heard of our show, just going.

1643
01:24:22,800 --> 01:24:27,000
Speaker 5: The pitcher was white I just going, what the hell

1644
01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 5: did I sign up for when I volunteered this night?

1645
01:24:30,400 --> 01:24:33,240
Speaker 4: Just call them niggas. They'll be like I, they won't

1646
01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:34,240
Speaker 4: be coming back next year.

1647
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:39,439
Speaker 3: Burger King gave candy to a worker who never called

1648
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 3: in sick like Halloween candy, and then the internet gave

1649
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:50,240
Speaker 3: that person four hundred thousand dollars. Burger King cook and

1650
01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:53,240
Speaker 3: cashier Kevin Ford was happy to receive a small goodie

1651
01:24:53,280 --> 01:24:56,280
Speaker 3: bag from management as a reward for never calling in sick,

1652
01:24:56,320 --> 01:24:58,679
Speaker 3: but people on the internet were less thrilled. They believe

1653
01:24:58,720 --> 01:25:03,559
Speaker 3: fod deserved more over four hundred thousand dollars more. Last

1654
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:07,280
Speaker 3: may Ford was given a coffee cup, a movie ticket,

1655
01:25:07,800 --> 01:25:10,920
Speaker 3: some candy, and a few other small items for working

1656
01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:13,880
Speaker 3: over twenty years at Burger King without ever using a

1657
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 3: sick day.

1658
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 2: Nigga, do't ain't get a plaque.

1659
01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:19,960
Speaker 3: I was happy to get this because I know not

1660
01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 3: everyone gets something, said four who works at the Burger

1661
01:25:23,520 --> 01:25:26,040
Speaker 3: King and Harry Reid and National Airport in Las Vegas.

1662
01:25:26,360 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 3: He's a big believer in appreciating small gestures in life.

1663
01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:31,559
Speaker 3: He showed off the goodie bag on TikTok. The video

1664
01:25:31,600 --> 01:25:36,280
Speaker 3: went viral partially because people were outraged.

1665
01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:39,000
Speaker 2: Write twenty that's a low time.

1666
01:25:40,720 --> 01:25:43,320
Speaker 3: Many people respected his work, ethic and positive attitude. The

1667
01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:45,719
Speaker 3: Dautsa are arguing he deserved more than a bag of trees.

1668
01:25:46,040 --> 01:25:50,759
Speaker 3: That led to his daughter Serena, to start a GoFundMe

1669
01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:53,360
Speaker 3: campaign last June and hopes of raising some money for

1670
01:25:53,360 --> 01:25:55,560
Speaker 3: a father to visit his grandchildren in Texas.

1671
01:25:55,800 --> 01:25:58,160
Speaker 4: She set a goal of two hundred dollars.

1672
01:25:58,720 --> 01:26:01,040
Speaker 3: Over the next year, the campaign a mass over four

1673
01:26:01,120 --> 01:26:04,799
Speaker 3: hundred thousand dollars in donations, while people flooded his inbox

1674
01:26:04,840 --> 01:26:08,320
Speaker 3: with messages about how he reminded them of their own father, brother,

1675
01:26:08,479 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 3: or friend. I think they just wanted to show my

1676
01:26:11,320 --> 01:26:15,160
Speaker 3: employer and other CEOs that deserve people deserve to be congratulated, awarded,

1677
01:26:15,560 --> 01:26:17,680
Speaker 3: even just acknowledged for their hard work and dedication.

1678
01:26:19,760 --> 01:26:22,320
Speaker 4: And of course, you know you don't get paid for

1679
01:26:22,360 --> 01:26:23,040
Speaker 4: sickly when.

1680
01:26:22,920 --> 01:26:26,639
Speaker 5: You work in most restaurants, you don't even get about

1681
01:26:26,640 --> 01:26:28,880
Speaker 5: saying do you even get an insurance through that?

1682
01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:29,479
Speaker 4: Right?

1683
01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you don't get paid sick leave, You just

1684
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:35,360
Speaker 3: get you cannot work because they don't want you to

1685
01:26:35,400 --> 01:26:41,800
Speaker 3: necessarily work when you're sick, just because people will get sick. Yeah,

1686
01:26:42,080 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 3: so me. Workers typically do not get paid for missing

1687
01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:47,200
Speaker 3: work due to the illness unless they dip into their

1688
01:26:47,200 --> 01:26:51,120
Speaker 3: pay vacation time. Ford said he only ever missed worked

1689
01:26:51,160 --> 01:26:53,920
Speaker 3: for medical reasons twice in his Birdking career, once for

1690
01:26:54,040 --> 01:26:56,919
Speaker 3: surgery related to sleep apnea, another for a spine procedure.

1691
01:26:56,920 --> 01:26:58,360
Speaker 3: Calls by working long hours on.

1692
01:26:58,320 --> 01:27:02,840
Speaker 4: His feet, he uses vacation days to take the time off.

1693
01:27:03,960 --> 01:27:06,920
Speaker 2: Sho, And you won't give me some motherfucking candy.

1694
01:27:07,439 --> 01:27:09,840
Speaker 3: I'd be laying down in front of the friars because

1695
01:27:09,880 --> 01:27:11,479
Speaker 3: I was in so much pain that people would tell

1696
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:12,000
Speaker 3: me to go home.

1697
01:27:12,040 --> 01:27:13,479
Speaker 4: But I was thinking about the power bill or the

1698
01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 4: water bill.

1699
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:14,720
Speaker 8: Love.

1700
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:16,599
Speaker 1: I love that he's not like I was thinking about

1701
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 1: mister Burger king getting them miss.

1702
01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:19,920
Speaker 3: He's like, man, this is what I have to do

1703
01:27:19,960 --> 01:27:25,440
Speaker 3: to survive. And then people wonder why over the pandemic.

1704
01:27:25,560 --> 01:27:27,879
Speaker 4: Motherfuckers. Was like, I'm tired, I'm out.

1705
01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:32,040
Speaker 2: And me Roger was talking about this.

1706
01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:34,439
Speaker 5: It was Sunday about how like a lot of your

1707
01:27:34,479 --> 01:27:37,840
Speaker 5: favorite places be shutting down early now, Like it's to

1708
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:40,200
Speaker 5: the point now, you know, before you can walk into somewhere,

1709
01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:42,160
Speaker 5: like fifteen minutes before they clothes. They was more than

1710
01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:44,680
Speaker 5: happy to take you now thirty minutes. Shit, some of

1711
01:27:44,720 --> 01:27:46,679
Speaker 5: them are I wait for their clothes. They started shutting

1712
01:27:46,680 --> 01:27:49,599
Speaker 5: them door dash apps down, they started closing the kitchen.

1713
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:52,439
Speaker 5: They'll be like, no, we are not open. We're ready

1714
01:27:52,439 --> 01:27:53,559
Speaker 5: to get the fuck up out of here.

1715
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:54,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1716
01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:57,719
Speaker 3: And I think a lot of this stuff has changed

1717
01:27:57,800 --> 01:28:01,639
Speaker 3: is people realize how transaction went was. People are worse

1718
01:28:01,760 --> 01:28:05,640
Speaker 3: to wait on after the pandemic. Are the restaurants are

1719
01:28:05,680 --> 01:28:11,000
Speaker 3: less staffed of people were able to find all kinds

1720
01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:12,840
Speaker 3: of different work. And of course a lot of people

1721
01:28:12,880 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 3: are just dead or have long COVID Like there's a

1722
01:28:15,160 --> 01:28:19,000
Speaker 3: bunch of reasons for this. Ford had deep regrets about

1723
01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:22,000
Speaker 3: how often he worked, despite the overwhelming support. He said

1724
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:24,960
Speaker 3: he went on his new platform to warn people don't

1725
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:28,479
Speaker 3: be like me. His job was not worth the heavy

1726
01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:30,719
Speaker 3: told on his body and mentally mental health. He said

1727
01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:33,559
Speaker 3: it was also difficult for his four daughters, who often

1728
01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:36,240
Speaker 3: saw him come home for work after ten pm. He

1729
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:39,920
Speaker 3: said he learned that lesson the hard way. Before he

1730
01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:41,800
Speaker 3: went viral on social media, He said he was at

1731
01:28:41,840 --> 01:28:43,960
Speaker 3: the lowest point of his life. He was dealing with

1732
01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:46,240
Speaker 3: a divorce, the death of his parents, and the departure

1733
01:28:46,240 --> 01:28:47,280
Speaker 3: of his children.

1734
01:28:47,080 --> 01:28:48,679
Speaker 4: Who had grown up and moved away.

1735
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:52,440
Speaker 3: After work for it, would drive for hours around his neighborhood,

1736
01:28:52,439 --> 01:28:55,759
Speaker 3: reflecting on his life and what he would have done differently.

1737
01:28:56,240 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 3: There was nothing but work in my life. Looking back,

1738
01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 3: what was it all for? Was I not missing days

1739
01:29:01,160 --> 01:29:03,080
Speaker 3: I could have spent with my kids and my wife.

1740
01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:06,240
Speaker 3: That's why I thought, Man, this is I'm not saying

1741
01:29:06,240 --> 01:29:09,040
Speaker 3: we're the greatest podcasters in the world, but this coming

1742
01:29:09,080 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 3: forward circle with their strange father parent thing is it's

1743
01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:16,760
Speaker 3: like I planned it. I didn't, but damn uh. That's

1744
01:29:16,760 --> 01:29:19,679
Speaker 3: why four had described the fundraiser as a second chance.

1745
01:29:20,120 --> 01:29:22,080
Speaker 3: Not only does he have enough money for his retirement

1746
01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:24,640
Speaker 3: to help pay for his grandchildren's college educations, but he

1747
01:29:24,640 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 3: can also afford to take days off work and make

1748
01:29:27,479 --> 01:29:29,960
Speaker 3: up for lost time with his children. He plans to

1749
01:29:30,040 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 3: keep working at Burger King larger because he likes his coworkers.

1750
01:29:33,280 --> 01:29:35,720
Speaker 3: That's also my family. There were fun and funny, and

1751
01:29:35,760 --> 01:29:37,960
Speaker 3: when it's not like that, then I guess I'll retire.

1752
01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:42,160
Speaker 3: All right, Wow, I know one thing, So I'll be

1753
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:44,719
Speaker 3: acting different with that four hundred K and my pocketed

1754
01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 3: Burger King. You know what I mean. I'm gonna be

1755
01:29:48,560 --> 01:29:49,320
Speaker 3: a little late.

1756
01:29:51,600 --> 01:29:53,600
Speaker 1: I know y'all said I need to give foe, but

1757
01:29:53,640 --> 01:29:55,799
Speaker 1: I felt like I come in about five fifteen.

1758
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 3: I'm in what y'all gonna do, you know, and I'm

1759
01:29:59,120 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 3: having it in my way.

1760
01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:05,479
Speaker 2: Bitch, Burger king, I'm the king.

1761
01:30:05,720 --> 01:30:08,120
Speaker 1: I'm the Burger King up and I'll be wearing that crown.

1762
01:30:08,160 --> 01:30:09,679
Speaker 1: They give a birthday party. This shit.

1763
01:30:09,880 --> 01:30:11,080
Speaker 2: Haven't out slender this ship.

1764
01:30:11,200 --> 01:30:14,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, go ahead, care I was.

1765
01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:20,920
Speaker 5: I was about to say people because it's fast food,

1766
01:30:21,000 --> 01:30:23,240
Speaker 5: A lot of people have a lot of compassion, but

1767
01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:27,000
Speaker 5: just American workers across the board have this has his

1768
01:30:27,120 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 5: same mentality, just in a different way. Just that's that's

1769
01:30:31,240 --> 01:30:34,120
Speaker 5: that ship is really like dog. You done worked all

1770
01:30:34,160 --> 01:30:36,880
Speaker 5: this time and and a lot of times people do

1771
01:30:36,960 --> 01:30:39,479
Speaker 5: lose spouses because spouse I didn't marry for a job.

1772
01:30:39,560 --> 01:30:42,120
Speaker 3: I married you first had a reputation of being lazy

1773
01:30:42,160 --> 01:30:45,160
Speaker 3: and shit, we're probably one of the most overworked societies

1774
01:30:45,479 --> 01:30:48,600
Speaker 3: in periods. Yes, most capitalism is running up, and you

1775
01:30:48,680 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 3: look at so many other first world I hate that term,

1776
01:30:52,240 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 3: but you know what I mean. You look at so

1777
01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:55,960
Speaker 3: many other of these countries out here, and they look

1778
01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:58,400
Speaker 3: at us like are y'all fucking stupid, Like right, what

1779
01:30:58,479 --> 01:31:00,759
Speaker 3: you mean y'all ain't getting like a week of vacation

1780
01:31:00,880 --> 01:31:03,600
Speaker 3: every month? What you mean, y'all, y'all don't get siestas?

1781
01:31:04,000 --> 01:31:06,760
Speaker 3: What you mean y'all? Y'all, y'all, y'all got y'all have

1782
01:31:06,760 --> 01:31:09,320
Speaker 3: no work life balance? Why are you working forty hours

1783
01:31:09,320 --> 01:31:10,679
Speaker 3: a week? Wait? Five days?

1784
01:31:10,760 --> 01:31:10,880
Speaker 8: Like?

1785
01:31:10,920 --> 01:31:12,920
Speaker 3: It's a bunch of countries that don't do it like us.

1786
01:31:13,080 --> 01:31:15,760
Speaker 3: But let's get to the race. Care and guess the race.

1787
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:17,759
Speaker 2: I'm going black?

1788
01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:18,200
Speaker 4: All right?

1789
01:31:18,280 --> 01:31:21,679
Speaker 3: Check the chat room. He got a favorite Negro spiritual

1790
01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:22,639
Speaker 3: and rotation black.

1791
01:31:23,560 --> 01:31:23,680
Speaker 5: Uh.

1792
01:31:23,720 --> 01:31:25,960
Speaker 4: The manager was white, the worker was black.

1793
01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:28,479
Speaker 3: Thinking about the power bill he had to say he had,

1794
01:31:28,520 --> 01:31:33,320
Speaker 3: he said, light build, I would be more sure Black

1795
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:35,400
Speaker 3: people do love saying like the lights.

1796
01:31:36,800 --> 01:31:38,120
Speaker 2: That's what they are, all the lights.

1797
01:31:38,240 --> 01:31:40,080
Speaker 4: Now it's the air conditioning. There's a bunch of shit

1798
01:31:40,120 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 4: in this house. I need to work.

1799
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:42,879
Speaker 3: But it'd be like you ain't paid.

1800
01:31:42,680 --> 01:31:45,720
Speaker 2: The light bill, like the lights, and that's all encompassing

1801
01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:46,200
Speaker 2: of everything.

1802
01:31:46,479 --> 01:31:50,240
Speaker 3: Right, No, no, no, the TV build the fan bild

1803
01:31:53,160 --> 01:31:56,519
Speaker 3: let's see, uh snickers for two decades of perfect attendance.

1804
01:31:56,560 --> 01:31:57,240
Speaker 4: This is America.

1805
01:31:57,320 --> 01:32:01,839
Speaker 3: Black who Black train to be responsible, even to his detriment.

1806
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:04,000
Speaker 3: As long as you got tested in er hell, you

1807
01:32:04,040 --> 01:32:05,520
Speaker 3: don't need no sick days.

1808
01:32:05,200 --> 01:32:07,760
Speaker 2: Blown no and some crackers.

1809
01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:11,200
Speaker 3: The abuse that the abused, that man's they abused, that

1810
01:32:11,240 --> 01:32:17,040
Speaker 3: man's kindness. Black black, black and a Burger Kang black

1811
01:32:17,479 --> 01:32:20,519
Speaker 3: too strong not to be black, all right, The correct

1812
01:32:20,520 --> 01:32:23,840
Speaker 3: answer is he was John Henry Black.

1813
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:37,599
Speaker 4: Honestly.

1814
01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:40,960
Speaker 3: The most emotional and cool part of that is the

1815
01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:44,559
Speaker 3: idea of having a second chance to be more present

1816
01:32:44,600 --> 01:32:48,720
Speaker 3: in his kids' lives. H I was honestly rooting for

1817
01:32:48,760 --> 01:32:50,160
Speaker 3: the end of this article to be like he quit

1818
01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:51,479
Speaker 3: Burger Kings has suck my dick.

1819
01:32:51,760 --> 01:32:53,800
Speaker 1: But you know that's what I was looking for to

1820
01:32:53,920 --> 01:32:57,160
Speaker 1: to But I'm not gonna lie, man, Like I when

1821
01:32:57,200 --> 01:33:02,599
Speaker 1: I worked in restaurants, as much as there were low times,

1822
01:33:02,880 --> 01:33:07,160
Speaker 1: it was also one of the most rewarding jobs because

1823
01:33:07,160 --> 01:33:09,800
Speaker 1: you get instant feedback on it if you did good

1824
01:33:09,800 --> 01:33:10,280
Speaker 1: and bad.

1825
01:33:11,520 --> 01:33:16,800
Speaker 3: You meet people, you talk to them. You know your

1826
01:33:17,920 --> 01:33:20,280
Speaker 3: co workers are normally in that environment, some of the

1827
01:33:20,400 --> 01:33:22,960
Speaker 3: like cooler people to work with, because y'all all are

1828
01:33:23,000 --> 01:33:26,759
Speaker 3: kind of in the same like, you know, mentality or whatever.

1829
01:33:27,040 --> 01:33:29,080
Speaker 3: Just you know, it's not like a desk job where

1830
01:33:29,080 --> 01:33:32,080
Speaker 3: everything's like button up and super professional. You know, we

1831
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:34,439
Speaker 3: weren't eating pussy bananas, but we had some good times,

1832
01:33:35,280 --> 01:33:39,599
Speaker 3: you know. But yeah, that was something about that job,

1833
01:33:39,920 --> 01:33:42,719
Speaker 3: that kind of job that if there was a world

1834
01:33:42,720 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 3: where you could literally get paid what you were worth

1835
01:33:44,880 --> 01:33:46,880
Speaker 3: in that field, I bet a lot of people would

1836
01:33:46,880 --> 01:33:49,200
Speaker 3: do that job. You know, if there was a if

1837
01:33:49,240 --> 01:33:51,840
Speaker 3: it was like, actually, we are gonna pay you, We're

1838
01:33:51,880 --> 01:33:54,920
Speaker 3: gonna give you vacation, and like treat you like a

1839
01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:57,000
Speaker 3: real person of respect, there'd be a lot of people

1840
01:33:57,000 --> 01:33:59,080
Speaker 3: in the food industry. But they don't do that right.

1841
01:33:58,920 --> 01:34:00,920
Speaker 5: And get rid of tipping it all that shit, you

1842
01:34:00,960 --> 01:34:03,000
Speaker 5: know a lot. I know a lot of times, even

1843
01:34:03,040 --> 01:34:05,479
Speaker 5: a lot of the servers are gets getting rid of tip.

1844
01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:07,080
Speaker 5: And I was like, no, just pay you what you

1845
01:34:07,240 --> 01:34:08,160
Speaker 5: Other than game.

1846
01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:10,519
Speaker 3: Theory, I've never had a job with better coworkers than

1847
01:34:10,880 --> 01:34:17,200
Speaker 3: restaurants because it's always just you know, it's they just

1848
01:34:17,560 --> 01:34:21,160
Speaker 3: is it's more casual and honestly a more fun environment,

1849
01:34:22,000 --> 01:34:24,439
Speaker 3: you know. And I'm not saying, yeah, it can get

1850
01:34:24,439 --> 01:34:27,479
Speaker 3: fucked up as in you know, like any job, but

1851
01:34:28,360 --> 01:34:32,200
Speaker 3: in general I prefer those people to a lot of

1852
01:34:32,200 --> 01:34:36,400
Speaker 3: corporate buttoned up shit all right, sore ratching this time,

1853
01:34:36,479 --> 01:34:37,240
Speaker 3: wrap it up.

1854
01:34:58,120 --> 01:35:00,799
Speaker 4: Longest twenty three seconds in the pot cast every.

1855
01:35:00,640 --> 01:35:03,280
Speaker 3: Time, ain't it though? A fifty eight year old man

1856
01:35:03,320 --> 01:35:06,760
Speaker 3: who police say suffers from a vision problem entered the

1857
01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:10,799
Speaker 3: wrong apartment in Olympia and was hit by sword.

1858
01:35:11,360 --> 01:35:15,640
Speaker 4: Oh shit, this why you wear glasses, y'all out here?

1859
01:35:15,760 --> 01:35:17,280
Speaker 4: Just ah, I can see fine.

1860
01:35:17,360 --> 01:35:20,439
Speaker 3: I don't even know they made me look funny, walk

1861
01:35:20,479 --> 01:35:23,600
Speaker 3: into the wrong apartment. Next thing you know, you on

1862
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:29,080
Speaker 3: the hibachi me and you. No one is in custody.

1863
01:35:29,600 --> 01:35:32,720
Speaker 2: How's nobody in custody? Don't you know who lived there?

1864
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:36,000
Speaker 3: But possible charges of first degree saw have been referred

1865
01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:38,960
Speaker 3: to the prosecutor's office for review. Yeah, because they gonna

1866
01:35:38,960 --> 01:35:42,200
Speaker 3: say a self defense. You walked into my apartment, I

1867
01:35:42,280 --> 01:35:43,960
Speaker 3: pulled out sword to protect myself.

1868
01:35:44,720 --> 01:35:46,559
Speaker 4: Uh, and we don't take soord seriously.

1869
01:35:47,760 --> 01:35:52,599
Speaker 3: Uh. Police were dispatched to a second floor apartment at

1870
01:35:52,600 --> 01:35:54,559
Speaker 3: the report of a burglary. The NW One College said

1871
01:35:54,560 --> 01:35:56,559
Speaker 3: a man entered their apartment and was screaming at them.

1872
01:35:56,640 --> 01:35:57,439
Speaker 3: They shot it back.

1873
01:35:57,960 --> 01:36:00,479
Speaker 4: I can't imagine that, mister McGoo ass fight that was

1874
01:36:00,800 --> 01:36:01,360
Speaker 4: you can't.

1875
01:36:03,080 --> 01:36:05,800
Speaker 1: I wasn't that like mister magoogle. Yeah, he was like,

1876
01:36:06,160 --> 01:36:08,599
Speaker 1: just why are you in my apartments? Like this, ain't

1877
01:36:08,640 --> 01:36:09,240
Speaker 1: your apartment?

1878
01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:12,360
Speaker 3: Police letter determined the apartment was occupied by three adults

1879
01:36:12,360 --> 01:36:14,680
Speaker 3: and two children that watched TV. The man suddenly entered

1880
01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:18,000
Speaker 3: the unit. I'm assuming white. They didn't lock the door.

1881
01:36:18,800 --> 01:36:20,920
Speaker 3: Fearing for their children. The adults grabbed one of the

1882
01:36:20,960 --> 01:36:23,280
Speaker 3: decorative swords from the wall and apartment and one of

1883
01:36:23,320 --> 01:36:25,400
Speaker 3: them hit the man in the arm with it. Well cool,

1884
01:36:25,439 --> 01:36:27,960
Speaker 3: that won't fuck those kids up. Ever, the man left

1885
01:36:28,000 --> 01:36:30,560
Speaker 3: the apartment was found nearby with a large amount of

1886
01:36:30,640 --> 01:36:34,240
Speaker 3: blood coming from his arm. The injury requires stitches. After

1887
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:36,720
Speaker 3: talking to the man, they learned he suffers from glaucoma,

1888
01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:39,960
Speaker 3: and they found a plastic bag attached to his help

1889
01:36:40,080 --> 01:36:43,719
Speaker 3: that contained magnifying glasses. And they learned that he lives

1890
01:36:43,720 --> 01:36:45,679
Speaker 3: in the apartment on the same street, in a building

1891
01:36:45,720 --> 01:36:48,599
Speaker 3: with a similar appearance in the apartment on the second floor.

1892
01:36:49,120 --> 01:36:51,080
Speaker 4: The swords were booked in the evidence.

1893
01:36:52,640 --> 01:36:56,720
Speaker 2: What what you say with your glasses? He didn't have

1894
01:36:56,840 --> 01:36:59,479
Speaker 2: his glasses on. He'd been in the right spot at

1895
01:36:59,520 --> 01:37:00,360
Speaker 2: the right time.

1896
01:37:02,800 --> 01:37:05,760
Speaker 3: There you go, All right, y'all, don't forget to come

1897
01:37:05,800 --> 01:37:06,479
Speaker 3: to our live show.

1898
01:37:06,960 --> 01:37:07,160
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1899
01:37:07,880 --> 01:37:08,920
Speaker 3: And don't forget.

1900
01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:10,559
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1901
01:37:11,320 --> 01:37:11,560
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1902
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Speaker 3: link in the show notes to support. All Right, y'all,

1924
01:38:34,000 --> 01:38:38,679
Speaker 3: that's it. We'll be back maybe tomorrow. If not, see

1925
01:38:38,720 --> 01:38:43,000
Speaker 3: your Saturday. Ballzy Sports is supposed to be Thursday. NERD

1926
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Speaker 3: Office Fridays, which is why I might take tomorrow off

1927
01:38:45,680 --> 01:38:49,160
Speaker 3: because daddy gotta have a life too. Okay, all right, y'all,

1928
01:38:49,200 --> 01:38:50,360
Speaker 3: will talk to you later.

1929
01:38:50,520 --> 01:38:52,200
Speaker 4: Until then, I love you, I you too.

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Speaker 5: H