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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at adcusa dot com.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, she's back for another first date follow up,

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Speaker 2: Sally Sell.

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Speaker 1: What's up? How are you hi?

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Speaker 3: This is the last day, Hey, Sally Falls, So we.

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Speaker 1: Have you on again for you're getting ghosted again? Huh?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's crazy out there, okay, Like you guys

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Speaker 3: need to dust off these.

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Speaker 4: Like scrubs, Like I am not having it.

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Speaker 3: Like emerged They're back on the scene and I'm not

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Speaker 3: feeling it like I deserve my jay z like I am,

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Speaker 3: you know, I am the Beyonce of today and like

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Speaker 3: a young, up and coming Beyonce.

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Speaker 1: I love that self proclaimed.

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Speaker 2: So last last time you were on, the guy was

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Speaker 2: ghosting you because you made out with another guy in

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Speaker 2: the club but you thought you were kissing him.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god whatever, like he totally secured and like

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Speaker 4: I it was it was dark, there were like strobe

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Speaker 4: lights and I had glitter in my eyes like like

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Speaker 4: barely even see and like I.

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Speaker 3: Know they kind of smelled the same.

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Speaker 4: And then he called me like he's upset, but like

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Speaker 4: he left me, Like what was I supposed to do?

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Speaker 3: Like just be alone? And like not enjoying myself, right,

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Speaker 3: Like what do you want me to do?

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Speaker 1: And now you want us to call a guy named Brandon?

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Speaker 3: Yes please? Okay. So we went to this amazing food

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Speaker 3: festival and it was perfect, like every boy.

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Speaker 4: It was flirtatious, you know, like just yeah, like like

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Speaker 4: central you know. It was like like dumplings, you know,

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Speaker 4: and like hot chicken. I was super slow, you know,

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Speaker 4: and then they had this like big stupid boor and

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Speaker 4: they eat like a caveman, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: And it was just like it was hot. It was

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Speaker 4: like messy but hot, you know, like terror chemistry.

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Speaker 3: And I mean he was a gentleman.

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Speaker 4: I was so get back, you know, Like he even

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Speaker 4: offered me a napkin for my corn because like the

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Speaker 4: juice got all over my face. Kid, and it's like

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Speaker 4: low key gross. And he was a total suntlement and

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Speaker 4: like kind of dabs the corn.

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Speaker 3: In the house of it.

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Speaker 4: And he yeah, he was sweet and he was looking

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Speaker 4: out and you know, he just had like a quiet.

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Speaker 3: Confidence and he gives off this guy like a.

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Speaker 4: Journal and I take care of my cuticles, you know,

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Speaker 4: like that kind of energy. Yeah, so I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 4: keep it, keeps his hands clean. You know, that's actually

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Speaker 4: important in the bedroom, like girls might understand that, like

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Speaker 4: wash your hands. So I like that, and you know,

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Speaker 4: I just like I really needed that that night.

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Speaker 3: So he just like brought that calming, soothing, you know,

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Speaker 3: sanitized energy that I kind of need to.

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Speaker 1: Little sanitized energy. So what could have gone wrong? It

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Speaker 1: sounds like you guys are having a great time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well I'm my who got a little carried away.

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Speaker 3: You know. It's like opposites attract kind of thing.

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Speaker 4: Like like he so he was kind of he was

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Speaker 4: being able to like shy and reserved, and I took

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Speaker 4: that as like, you know, maybe like come hither, you know,

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Speaker 4: And my vibe was more like flirty and I'm a

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Speaker 4: toucher like I touch, you know.

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Speaker 3: That's one of my love languages, like I love hishstal touch.

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Speaker 4: And they were sitting in line for amtonadas and I

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Speaker 4: kind of grabbed his butt like I was just being playful,

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Speaker 4: and it was more like it was like two handed.

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Speaker 3: Affirmation of interest. And then I went in for a kiss,

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Speaker 3: and you know, then we have.

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Speaker 4: This like public makeout sash and I mean it wasn't crazy,

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Speaker 3: Like passion with turo dust.

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Speaker 4: You know, there was like you know, it's just like

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Speaker 4: it was beautiful, it was magical, and I just I

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Speaker 4: don't know. I guess I'm honestly confused because I thought

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Speaker 4: things were amazing and like fun and it's been like

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Speaker 4: two weeks, so I mean, I apologize for being so gravvy, but.

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Speaker 3: I was just so excited, you know, And I guess.

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Speaker 4: Maybe, like I don't know, you wanted to take it slow.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I want to take it slow.

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Speaker 3: I'll take it.

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Speaker 2: Slow, Okay, Okay, And that's why you think he might

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Speaker 2: be ghosting us, because he got a little gravy.

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Speaker 5: Maybe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, maybe too much hands on affection.

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Speaker 1: There's the double hands. Maybe he needed just like one hand.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like we needed a safe word. Okay, Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: mean I felt like he was okay with what was happening.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we'll play a song come back, and

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Speaker 2: then call him and see if the hands were the

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Speaker 2: reason that you're getting ghosted in just a second, right, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: we'll get your first day follow up next right in

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Speaker 2: the middle of your first date follow up and if

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Speaker 2: you're just joined it repeat Customers on the phone, her

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Speaker 2: name is Celeste, but she calls herself Seally cell and

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Speaker 2: she was on the show before for a first day followed,

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Speaker 2: but now she's getting ghosted by a guy named Brandon.

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Speaker 2: So we're going to see if we can figure out

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Speaker 2: why he's ghostinger in just a second. But first, Sally sall,

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Speaker 2: why don't you tell us about your dat again real quick?

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Speaker 1: And why you think you're not getting called back?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, guys, it's Sally Saw.

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Speaker 4: I went to this food fast with this like super adorable, cute,

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Speaker 4: clean cut kind of guy, and like, I just think

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Speaker 4: maybe my.

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Speaker 3: PDA might have been too much for her.

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Speaker 4: But like he was giving the vibes that he was

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Speaker 4: totally okay with it on the date and then I

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Speaker 4: kind of like squeezed this but and.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that was too much. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I need to like keep my hands to myself, but

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Speaker 4: it's been two weeks and I apologize, but I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I was just a little too handsy.

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Speaker 1: I feel like some guys like that. So that's kind

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Speaker 1: of we'll see, right Yeah, yeah, law yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: somebody I was into somebody, I wouldn't mind.

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Speaker 3: It, you know, let me know, let me know how

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Speaker 3: you all right.

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Speaker 1: Let's try to figure it out for you. Okay, you

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Speaker 1: ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, let's do it all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man,

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Speaker 6: speak to Brandon please uh speaking?

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Speaker 3: Who is this?

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Speaker 1: Hey Brandon? How are you? This is the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Hi Brandon. I'm Nina and my

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Speaker 1: name is Jebel. What's up? How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing I'm doing well?

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Speaker 7: But what is this?

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Speaker 3: What? What shows us?

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jewbil Show. It's a radio show. Okay,

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Speaker 2: And we do a segment on a show it's called

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Speaker 2: the First Date follow Up. That is where if you

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Speaker 2: ghost somebody, the person that you ghosted can email us

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Speaker 2: asking to call.

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Speaker 1: You to see if you'll tell us.

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Speaker 2: Why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you. Okay,

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Speaker 2: do you have any idea who would email us?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I got who?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yes it is Celest emailed us.

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Speaker 2: We talked to her a little bit about your date,

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Speaker 2: but she says you're a ghostinger and she doesn't understand why.

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Speaker 2: So would you mind telling us why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I mean the day was going great and then she

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Speaker 7: insulted me while I was eating corn on the cob

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Speaker 7: and then she tried to seduce me with her hands

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Speaker 7: down my pants in.

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Speaker 3: It like in broad daylight, like right in front of

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Speaker 3: the pickle truck.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of that kind of works out.

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Speaker 2: Nor she insulted you while you're eating corn on the cob.

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Speaker 8: She did, and uh I she laughed at like how

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Speaker 8: I eat corn? Like she called me dainty, and then

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Speaker 8: like tried to apologize by like getting very handsy and

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Speaker 8: I asked her to stop, and she like giggled like

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Speaker 8: it was a game.

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Speaker 3: And then like think she like.

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Speaker 1: Chased me, chase you around the festival. Yeah, like how like.

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Speaker 7: Trying to get away from her because she kept on

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Speaker 7: putting her hands down my pants and I was just

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Speaker 7: like get away from me, like and it was getting

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Speaker 7: awkward because I was like stop and she just kept

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Speaker 7: on doing it, kept on following me like with that

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Speaker 7: and so yeah.

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Speaker 1: And that's why you're ghostinger.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I mean it was it was just

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Speaker 7: it was really awkward.

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Speaker 1: It was super awkward.

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Speaker 5: It sounds like it was Brandon that was not cheating

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Speaker 5: like rude, that was fortitious pursuit like it was, and

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Speaker 5: you were into it, like hello, have you ever played

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Speaker 5: tag before?

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Speaker 3: Like this is just like.

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Speaker 2: Adult tag Brandon, that's the least she's actually on the

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Speaker 2: phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here. I heard. I heard it all rude screaming.

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Speaker 1: Wait what did she do? Brandon?

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Speaker 7: You tackled me next to a funnel cake stand and

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Speaker 7: people were like screaming.

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Speaker 3: I was playing with you, like you were running and

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Speaker 3: like having fun with it, Like that's not rejection, that's

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Speaker 3: for play.

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Speaker 4: I was like cheating in You were like huh, like laughing,

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Speaker 4: and it was like an invitation for me to like

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Speaker 4: got closer and like chase you spot Like what, like

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Speaker 4: why are you leading me on?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 3: Like why were you playing into it? I was looking

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Speaker 3: back to see if I needed to dup Celesti.

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Speaker 7: You tried to stick your hands and my geens been

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Speaker 7: line beyond a family of four and we're screaming.

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Speaker 3: So I gave my quote, Selley cell is gonna get you.

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Speaker 4: I go by my stage name often that's not unusual,

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Speaker 4: like this is Sally Sell.

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Speaker 3: And you acted like that wasn't the most exciting thing

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Speaker 3: that happened to you all year, like it was the

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Speaker 3: most that much. Wow. Well listen with with Sally Sauce.

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Speaker 3: There's always excitement. Okay, so get ready and I Brandon, honestly,

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Speaker 3: please don't walk away from us. Please because if you,

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Speaker 3: if you are looking for a good.

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Speaker 4: Time, like Sally, sel will bring it and I am

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Speaker 4: not afraid to bring the party.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So if you can't.

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Speaker 4: Handle it, then you know you don't deserve us.

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Speaker 7: Sellie sell whatever your fun. Okay you are, you're definitely yea,

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Speaker 7: but I am not built for your brand of whatever

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Speaker 7: the hell that wants. So thank you, but no thanks.

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Speaker 1: Well, hold on, Brandon, would you like another day with less?

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it?

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Speaker 3: Well that is tempting.

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Speaker 7: I I like my meals and my dates, calm and

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Speaker 7: fully clothed.

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Speaker 3: Call me crazy, That's just me.

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Speaker 7: And honestly, I do not get the Selle cell is

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Speaker 7: going to get you out of my head is just

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Speaker 7: haunting me and I just can't.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Wow, I can't wait to want you in

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Speaker 3: your dreams.

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Speaker 4: So just know that you missed out on a lifetime

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Speaker 4: of spontaneous spice.

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Speaker 3: And I mean, I guess questionable public behavior.

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Speaker 4: But like that's up to you to determine your fate

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Speaker 4: has been determined.

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Speaker 7: Now I feel very much at peace with this decision, okay.

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Speaker 4: Whatever, you know what, there is a line of men

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Speaker 4: waiting for me who can handle this whole snack and

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Speaker 4: us back in the same time.

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Speaker 1: So all right, less, I'm sorry it didn't work out.

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Speaker 1: But another one. Yeah, you're going to be all right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess another whatever. Jule's first Date follow up