WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Spy in Training

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. We get emails from time

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<v Speaker 1>to time from people who want to do second date updates,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're scared to use their name. For whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 1>they want to remain anonymous. Like the guy on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for today's second Date update won't even tell me

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<v Speaker 1>what his name is. I said, fine, we'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>an alias. How about Farkeley's the name? And he said no,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he didn't like the name Farkeley. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>he sounds like a golden retriever. But we can call

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<v Speaker 1>him Dennis. So quote Dennis is on the phone. End

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<v Speaker 1>quote what's up, Dennis Hiler? Guys? How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Good man? First of all, why the alias? Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to use your real name? Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just prefer not to have that information out there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's a public form here on the radio,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just prefer to keep it secretly. Dennis, Can

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<v Speaker 1>I just ask you right off the bat, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>married or anything? Right? No? No, I'm not. I'm willing

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<v Speaker 1>to say that I'm not not married. Okay, you're not married?

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<v Speaker 1>So why don't you tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that you want to call today? What's her name.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Cathy? Is that her real name or

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<v Speaker 1>a fake name? I'd prefer not to say that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>the name I'm giving it. Well, I'm going to have

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<v Speaker 1>to call her, so I'm hoping that's her real name.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, Kathy's not here right now. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to help you. Well, she'll respond to Kathy. Okay, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, where did you meet Kathy? Or can we

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<v Speaker 1>know that? So? Well? I met? I met her? Where

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<v Speaker 1>she works? Okay? And where does she work? Um? It's

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<v Speaker 1>a store in downtown Erie. Okay. And do you do

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<v Speaker 1>you work at said store as well? Dennis? Um? I

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<v Speaker 1>would rather not say. What are you going to answer

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<v Speaker 1>for us? Then? We would like to get a little

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<v Speaker 1>information from you. So far, you've told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>met a girl whose name could possibly be Kathy. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't know your name, and you won't tell us where

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<v Speaker 1>the store is or what you do there? Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I I understand, you know, just too much

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<v Speaker 1>information might compromise myself or or Kathy. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I will do my best to answer as much as

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<v Speaker 1>I can. Okay, We're gonna try to get to the

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<v Speaker 1>bottom of how your date went. At least. So did

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<v Speaker 1>you strike up a conversation at the store and then

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<v Speaker 1>ask for her phone number? Or is that asking too much? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll say this, I'll say this much that I did

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<v Speaker 1>meet her. I did, I did speak with her, and

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<v Speaker 1>I uh, I found her to be attractive certainly and

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<v Speaker 1>also very very unassuming. You know, I felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like she wasn't a spread, she wasn't at that.

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<v Speaker 1>To be cautious, that's all. It's just, you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>be cautious. Okay, So what did you guys do for

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<v Speaker 1>your day? I know, I think probably know the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>But what did you guys do when you went out? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we went, uh, we went to a place

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<v Speaker 1>and um, you know, I had a conversation. Can I

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<v Speaker 1>ask what type of place it was? Um? I will,

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<v Speaker 1>I will, I will tell you it was, um an

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<v Speaker 1>eatery of some sort either food. Are you able to

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<v Speaker 1>open up to Kathy and just not us, like, at

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<v Speaker 1>least on the date you had real conversation? Ah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean honestly, I uh, I'd rather not get into

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<v Speaker 1>the specifics of that. I will say that we we

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<v Speaker 1>had a conversation and I found it to be engaging. Say, so,

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<v Speaker 1>did you have a good time? I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>can tell us that without too much information. I will,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that much we did. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was I thought we had a good time. We figured

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<v Speaker 1>out something. So you went out with a girl that

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<v Speaker 1>you met somewhere, and you went somewhere, maybe had food,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you enjoyed yourself. Yes, that's all correct. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you think quit wrong? And you're very

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<v Speaker 1>vague date I will, I will say that I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>notice anything in particular that might have gone wrong. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>at the end, we did go back to her place

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<v Speaker 1>and I did try to kiss her, okay, but she

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<v Speaker 1>she said to me she she didn't want to kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember she said specifically, let's save it for

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<v Speaker 1>next time, and I made I'm sure that's what she's said,

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<v Speaker 1>because I made sure to write it down. At it

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<v Speaker 1>you wrote it down like in your diary or what? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote it down when I got back to my car.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a notepad, um in my car. I wrote

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<v Speaker 1>it down. Okay, she said let's save the kiss for

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<v Speaker 1>next time, meaning she probably was hoping for another date

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Yeah, well that's what I thought. Yes, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you writing down what people say. Well, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>good tool for remembering conversations. You know, you never know

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<v Speaker 1>when you're gonna have to recall what happened, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I try to keep a good record, right. You never

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<v Speaker 1>know when you're gonna be calling into a radio station

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update, but not giving them

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<v Speaker 1>any information other than what the girl said to you

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the date. I'm sorry, guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>know it sounds ridiculous that I can't say very much,

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<v Speaker 1>but um but look, I listen to you guys faithfully

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<v Speaker 1>every day. You know. I know you guys are very

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<v Speaker 1>funny and and find you very helpful, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was hoping. Granted, I know I'm cautious, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>hoping you can help because you know, honestly, you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>basically the only ones that we can trust. We meaning

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<v Speaker 1>like the Royal We like you are calling yourself we

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<v Speaker 1>or you and her. Yeah, I'd rather not get into that,

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<v Speaker 1>but um but I will say, you guys have no

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<v Speaker 1>motivation to put us in harm's way, So that's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel, I feel, I think not at all. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get you a second date. I'm just hoping

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<v Speaker 1>this works out because I have no information, Dennis, Are

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<v Speaker 1>you concerned at all because you've heard these second date

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<v Speaker 1>updates that when we call the other person, Kathy could

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<v Speaker 1>tell us all sorts of things about you. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that's possible. She doesn't know enough about me

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<v Speaker 1>to compromise me in a significant way. And slightly, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also very concerned about her safety. You're concerned about

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<v Speaker 1>her safety? Yes, Well, I've tried to contact her since

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<v Speaker 1>our date each day and she hasn't responded, So I'm growing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, concerned. You don't think that maybe she just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to go out with you again based on

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<v Speaker 1>the what I wrote down, Let's save it for next time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm doubtful, Okay, could wait? What could be the

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<v Speaker 1>worst case scenario here, like she's kidnapped? Well, again, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>rather not go into the specifics of that, but I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just say it could be bad, and I'm hoping that

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<v Speaker 1>you will be able to get her on the phone. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song come back, and then we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second date update. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, Okay, don't go anywhere brooking jubil in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning update. If you missed the first part of today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, it's one that's shrouded in mystery. Dennis

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone. That's not even his real name.

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<v Speaker 1>He asked to go buy a different name because he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want his real identity out there. He didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>tell us much about how he met the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to call, or about the date at all.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't really tell us much of anything other than

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<v Speaker 1>he had a good time and he dropped her off

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the night, tried to get a kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, But what did she say, Dennis? What

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<v Speaker 1>were her words? She said, let's save it for next time.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's save it for next time, which means that she

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<v Speaker 1>was probably planning on another date. But now she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>called him back, and he's wondering why. And we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and hopefully maybe she'll give

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<v Speaker 1>us a little more information about your date. Dennis. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see. I mean, there's really not that much more

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<v Speaker 1>that she could tell you than what I've already revealed. Cool,

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<v Speaker 1>so just no details at all. You tell stories like

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<v Speaker 1>I do. No one are My friends don't like hearing

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<v Speaker 1>stories from me. It's like, how was your day? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>It was all right? Not not much happens. Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial her number and see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and find out what happened. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks very much, guys. I really appreciate this, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you're able to get her. Yeah, let's see, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dollar number right now. Hello, Hi, May I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Kathy? Please? Is she? Oh? That is your name? Cool?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Kathy? How are you? My name is Jewbill

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning. Oh Um, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Who says this is Jewel from brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh um? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I help you with something? Yeah you can. We

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<v Speaker 1>actually got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is going to be hard for me to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you who it is because I don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>much about him or what you guys did together. But

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<v Speaker 1>apparently you went on a date with somebody who listens

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<v Speaker 1>to our show. Okay, and now you're not calling them

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<v Speaker 1>back for another date. Okay? Who was it? Well, he

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't tell us his real name. But he's going by

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<v Speaker 1>the name of Dennis. So did you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date recently with like more than one person? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and you don't have any other information than that.

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<v Speaker 1>He No, I just know his name is Dennis. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what he'll let us call him. He said that he

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<v Speaker 1>met you downtown and that you guys went to eat somewhere,

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<v Speaker 1>and that he tried to kiss you at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day. The only details that I have is

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<v Speaker 1>that he tried to kiss you at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the date. You said to him, let's save that for

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<v Speaker 1>next time. Oh okay, all right, So you're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>you would give too much information right off the top. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know anybody named Dennis that I

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<v Speaker 1>do know somebody that sounds familiar or what you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>that The guy told me his name was not Dennis.

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<v Speaker 1>He was so frustrating to talk to. He wouldn't give

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<v Speaker 1>us any information and acted like everything was some secret

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<v Speaker 1>about his life, right, Yeah, exactly. So, Yeah, it could

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<v Speaker 1>be Dennis, it could be anything. I have absolutely no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't I don't really know the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that well, and I didn't really know him much better

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<v Speaker 1>after the date, so I have no idea. Okay, can

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us a little bit about your date because

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't give us any details? Oh um, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I guess I can. It's one of the weirdest states,

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<v Speaker 1>if not the weirdest state I've ever been on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we were gonna go out to eat, and he

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<v Speaker 1>came and kicked me up, and he seemed really normal,

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<v Speaker 1>like just talking to him, except for like these weird

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<v Speaker 1>little things about what happened. Like when we actually got

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant, he has the hostess if we could

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<v Speaker 1>sit at a table in the back of the restaurant, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, further back from everything else. Okay, And he

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<v Speaker 1>asked for that, like really specifically with the hostess. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like thinking to myself, this guy has got

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<v Speaker 1>to be married or have a girlfriend or something, being

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<v Speaker 1>so secretive about it, right right, I mean, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's a little picky about where he wants to sit

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<v Speaker 1>in the restaurant. That's not like the worst thing in

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<v Speaker 1>the world, is it. Oh my god, I didn't I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even tell you, guys. The best part there's more

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<v Speaker 1>to it. Yes, So we're sitting at the table and

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<v Speaker 1>he looks at me seriously and he says, would you

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<v Speaker 1>mind if we go secure? What like? Yeah, exactly? What

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean? What do you mean? Sure? And he

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<v Speaker 1>takes out this like magnetic looking thing. It looks like

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<v Speaker 1>a pen, and he asked me if he could wipe

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<v Speaker 1>my cell phone? What do you mean a clean white Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess I get I asked him. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, what do you mean. He's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna hear the information from your cell phone

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<v Speaker 1>and then you can turn it off. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can just turn it off. No, you can't wipe myself. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I need the information on my cell phone. Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, I asked him. I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your keel? Are you married? Do you have a girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there some reason that you're being so secretive about this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know? And he started laughing really loud, like uncomfortably

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<v Speaker 1>loud in the restaurant and people were staring at us.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, no, of course not. It's just the

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<v Speaker 1>line of work that I'm in. And I was like, well,

0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:46.360
<v Speaker 1>what kind of what kind of work do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>What line of work are you in? And he said

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<v Speaker 1>if things go, well, then he'll disclose more information to

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<v Speaker 1>me later. Oh my god, that would make me go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second day to Loan just because I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>dying to know. I know, it was. It was totally intriguing.

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to know more about him. I really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know, like, what is this guy hiding? Did

0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:11.520
<v Speaker 1>you ever get an answer on that? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I did not. I mean, it was the weirdest date

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever had and I was just over it, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't going to call him back. Well, it's unfortunate

0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:21.800
<v Speaker 1>that you weren't going to call him back, because I

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<v Speaker 1>have to let you know that he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to this conversation and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him. What. Yeah, Dennis, are you there? Yes, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Uh, Hi, Hi Cassy. I'm first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm I'm very happy to hear that you're doing

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Um. I was. I was worried about you

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<v Speaker 1>because I wasn't able to get in touch. Um. But

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<v Speaker 1>but look, I have to say, I uh, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds bad when when when you recount it that way,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, it sounds like I was I was

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<v Speaker 1>being strange and and and uh, you know. But but

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<v Speaker 1>I always can say, is that if you knew more,

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<v Speaker 1>you would know that I do have my reasons for

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<v Speaker 1>what I was doing. And it really is best for

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<v Speaker 1>all of us that, um that I you know, don't

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<v Speaker 1>just close too much information. I mean, is this is

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<v Speaker 1>this really happening right now? You're trying to justify what happens. Look, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand, I understand where you're coming from, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just have to repeat. I mean, the more the more

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the worst the worst it is, the worst

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<v Speaker 1>it could be. So that why would she want to

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<v Speaker 1>date you if if more goes? Look, I will say this,

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<v Speaker 1>I did really like you, and I wonder you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I tell you a little bit more, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>would you consider going on a second date? Probably not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just just give me, just give me a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to tell you. I can tell you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more and maybe maybe you can decide after you

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<v Speaker 1>no more. I would love to hear a little bit more. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>me too, I don't know if I do. Dennis, Can

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<v Speaker 1>you please tell us a little bit more, give us

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<v Speaker 1>some information about yourself, please? Okay? Um? So so Kathy,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, they're um I mean, I really shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I really shouldn't be so. So there are certain um

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<v Speaker 1>government agencies you know, are involved in covert operations. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm God, I want are you a spy or something? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say I will say this, No I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not cluently involved in any of those government agencies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not currently involved, but I'm very passionate about that

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<v Speaker 1>line of work, and i would like to be a

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<v Speaker 1>part of it someday. Oh God, you're do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a spy? Would I would? Well, I will

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<v Speaker 1>say I would like to be a part of these

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<v Speaker 1>elite government agencies. Okay, that's not the way you do

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<v Speaker 1>it by pretending like you're a spy right now, You like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, join the armed forces and go through

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<v Speaker 1>training and go to college. Okay. Feeling, Why do I

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<v Speaker 1>have a feeling? He's living in his mom's basement. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like some internet hacker. I've done a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>research and it involves a good deal of self control

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<v Speaker 1>and a certain style of you know, of living. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just sort of preparing myself for that now to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that I'm ready. Dennis, have you have you

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<v Speaker 1>had any interviews with any of these government agencies that

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<v Speaker 1>you're hoping to again, I really can't. I can't. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't reveal that. I mean, yes, you can, actually, Dennis,

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<v Speaker 1>you can reveal all of it because nobody cares if

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<v Speaker 1>you really beal that information, not even the government. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you can. You can think what you want

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<v Speaker 1>on that matter. But you know that's why I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in training for this and you're not. All right. Well, Dennis,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to ask the question to Kathy to see

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<v Speaker 1>if she'll give me an answer. Kathy, would you be

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<v Speaker 1>interested in going out with Dennis again? A second date

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<v Speaker 1>with a spy in training? Maybe you can learn a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more about him. We'll pay for a second date. Um, No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay, I think so. But think about how you

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<v Speaker 1>can brag to your friends about how you're dating to

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<v Speaker 1>pretend spy. You know, I hear you guys laughing, and

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<v Speaker 1>I understand. Uh, you know, you might not understand what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm what I'm dealing with, but I am confident that

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<v Speaker 1>someday I'm going to have the job that I want.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, and Cathy, you know, I'm glad to hear

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<v Speaker 1>that you're okay, first of all, um, but I I

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<v Speaker 1>also you know, I'm disappointed that you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do another date, but you know that it's it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It is part of the life that I've accepted what

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<v Speaker 1>you sign up for. When your name is maybe Dennis

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<v Speaker 1>and you're taking girls out on dates. It's not very easy.

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't It's true, it's it is a hard life,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've chosen to accept it. Broken jewel in the morning,