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Speaker 1: I don't live under a rock, although I do. You know,

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Speaker 1: I always say I don't really watch like trash reality stuff.

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Speaker 1: I speak for yourself trash. I mean I don't watch like,

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Speaker 1: don't never watched The Bachelor. I don't watch Um, I

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Speaker 1: don't want rave about but I think it's partly because

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Speaker 1: I can't get sucked into that ship. I mean it's

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Speaker 1: very time consuming. I swear I feel like The Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, God, you guys are asking so much of me.

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Speaker 1: Every week They're like in this two hour special and

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Speaker 1: then I do, like sometimes they'll do like a Monday

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Speaker 1: Like so yeah, I mean I don't. I don't watch

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Speaker 1: those or any of the Housewives stuff or Coronasians. But

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Speaker 1: like now I kind of get why people get sucked

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Speaker 1: into these things because the casting is brilliant. It's all

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Speaker 1: about these characters that these people are. They're not some

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Speaker 1: I always say this. I say this about the Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: and this is sort of how I feel about love

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Speaker 1: I was so sucked into it, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: than like watching a trainer sort of makes me feel

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Speaker 1: better about my life right right, well, honestly, like when

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Speaker 1: I first saw the preview for it, the concept blew

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Speaker 1: get as reality trashy. That's a tongue twister, trashy as

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Speaker 1: But like the pods stuff. If you all haven't watched it,

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Speaker 1: they they're not even allowed to describe each other. They're

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Speaker 1: And it is whether or not they can fall in

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Speaker 1: love and get engaged. Right, So the premise of the

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Speaker 1: so insane. It's literally after like four dates, these people

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Speaker 1: and so I haven't watched the reunion yet. It's only one.

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Speaker 1: So I think there's like, yes, it takes a long

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Speaker 1: I'm not you need to jump in bed with them

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Speaker 1: let's see if the physical comes about. Yes, I would,

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Speaker 1: And I think we did see that with with two

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Speaker 1: we see what's going on. You don't feel it. You're

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Speaker 1: Do you just don't have the thing right? You know?

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Speaker 1: I can't help you love? Yeah. Getting those pods, I

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Speaker 1: wonder how many um because there were some people that

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Speaker 1: you guys check out Love is Blind. It's on Netflix. Right,

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