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Speaker 1: Thanks for your email? You want us to get ahold

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Speaker 1: of a guy named Kevin that you met at church? Right? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: second date update. All right, Hello, this is is Kevin. Hey Kevin,

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Speaker 1: Jebil from Brooke and Jebil in the Morning on the

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Speaker 1: heard of us? Now? I have awesome we'll start. We

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Speaker 1: be I'll be totally honest here. I'm trying to save myself.

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Speaker 1: Okay a minute. So you're saving yourself a marriage. Nothing

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Speaker 1: will go out on another date. Wrong choice story. All right, Stacy, Well, congratulations,

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