WEBVTT - I Do Part 2 In The Wild

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<v Speaker 1>It's I Do Part two.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Kelly Bensimone, one of your celebrity mentors here on

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We're here at iHeart Verbo podcast House with.

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<v Speaker 2>My new friend Pamelin, and we're absolutely loving this Italian

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<v Speaker 2>inspired villa.

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<v Speaker 1>Pamelin, what's your favorite part of the villa?

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<v Speaker 3>The view?

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<v Speaker 2>The view is fabulous, the view, the pool, the tennis,

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<v Speaker 2>the exercise room, all the bedrooms, all the space. Incredible, incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>We had so much fun, it's like stepping into a dream.

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<v Speaker 2>last time the listener's heard from us and we talked

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<v Speaker 2>all about the kind of things each of us are

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<v Speaker 2>looking for as a partner and what we don't want

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<v Speaker 2>and what we do want. Then we headed out to

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<v Speaker 2>Bottle Rock Show and we kind of had some goals

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<v Speaker 2>in mind. So let's recap, all right, did we find

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<v Speaker 2>anyone that was attractive? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Did we have fun? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>But let's like bring it back. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>mean to say no so bluntly. I think it was

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<v Speaker 3>just a unique environment, right, Like we're there to like

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<v Speaker 3>enjoy this concert, and you know, Benson Boone and justin Timberlake,

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<v Speaker 3>and so when your focus is on something else and

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<v Speaker 3>you don't truly have the experience of being at Bottle Rock,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was a little bit kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like trying to you know, like do one thing but

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<v Speaker 3>still experience another thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was so great.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like the music was unbelievable, the food was finale.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we tried absolutely everything now.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the wine people were like sitting there with

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<v Speaker 2>their crafts of like the most beautiful wine, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Just the vibe was so it was it was just great.

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<v Speaker 1>It was sophisticated. Everyone looked great.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just so I wasn't looking at men because

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<v Speaker 3>I was looking at all of these women just in

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<v Speaker 3>the moment of amazing outfits and so creative and yeah stylish.

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<v Speaker 3>So I really love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to situate us right near like the food

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<v Speaker 2>court area, where like there was people had to go

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<v Speaker 2>to the bar and get the food, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>there was a lot of traffic for people.

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<v Speaker 1>You get a for effort. I tried, you guys, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>We had a lot of fun. We had a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of fun. So do you think there was any flirting

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<v Speaker 2>or no? No, okay, did you did you have to

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<v Speaker 2>use Do we have to use.

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<v Speaker 1>Any code words?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, we did not have to use Yes, we did

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<v Speaker 2>not have to use any code words. It was funny

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<v Speaker 2>because there was one guy that was like, oh, he's

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<v Speaker 2>really good looking. You're like no, So I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's fine. So I remember the one that was the

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<v Speaker 2>Spanish guy. He was very good looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember that one.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy when you were getting the sushi and he

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, don't leave now, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's my Spanish accent. And he was like he was like,

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<v Speaker 2>don't leave. I was like don't okay, and we were like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not looking at each other and We're like, we're

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<v Speaker 2>not leaving. We're in the line to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get sushi, Like yeah he was yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I like, there were, you know, a bunch

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<v Speaker 3>of just like attractive people in general. I think that

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<v Speaker 3>that was you know what. I there was a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of couples.

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<v Speaker 1>There were a lot of couples.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, there was that the two guys that made but

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<v Speaker 2>not have been marketing their T shirt line, which I

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<v Speaker 2>was not aware of.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought there.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really going in because I was like, remember

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<v Speaker 2>in the one of the things was like okay with

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<v Speaker 2>to get them to buy our drinks, and so I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, these are the guys who are going to

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<v Speaker 2>buy the drinks, even though I wasn't drinking alcohol that

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<v Speaker 2>the rest were doing alcohol, but your drink, your lemonade

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<v Speaker 2>kind of looked like it was like some kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like Cosmo Vibe. I was drinking and liquid death. But

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god, they're going to definitely

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<v Speaker 2>ask us crickets.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it was crickets.

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<v Speaker 2>They were like just trying to promote their T shirts

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<v Speaker 2>and I didn't understand. I was like, because I really

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't paying attention to the T shirts, not to lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I was more interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>The last people that would be buying us drink. They

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<v Speaker 3>came to bought a rock to wear the T shirts

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<v Speaker 3>that they're making to promote themselves, like they that's their promotion,

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<v Speaker 3>that's their marketing budget.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually thought they don't have money. To buy us.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually thought the one woman that was wearing the

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<v Speaker 2>rose gold ray bands and then her friend that had

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<v Speaker 2>those really cool hands on, they would have been like,

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<v Speaker 2>what kind of wine do you want? Yeah, let's hang out,

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<v Speaker 2>let's you know, just chill out and listen to music.

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<v Speaker 3>Better chance of women buying us a drink. And those

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<v Speaker 3>two men, for sure, did we get a phone number?

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<v Speaker 1>No, we faiund We found miserably we had fail. We

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<v Speaker 1>would have just everything we were just like we weren't

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<v Speaker 1>good enough. We failed.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitive you know, just wasn't good enough means there's possibility

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<v Speaker 2>for growth.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, I this like reminds me so much

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<v Speaker 3>of just going out with my friends in my twenties

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<v Speaker 3>and we would you know, go out dancing and we

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<v Speaker 3>would come home and have the most amazing stories about

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<v Speaker 3>that night. But it was all about us enjoying each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Like we wouldn't remember one other person that was actually

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<v Speaker 3>at the club. It was about us having fun. And

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<v Speaker 3>so that's like the same thing that always happens to me,

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<v Speaker 3>is I don't like purposely look you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>And so it was like we were trying a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit to like do it because it was fun and

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<v Speaker 3>that's what we said, you know, we were going to do,

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<v Speaker 3>which was sweet. But I think in real life, at

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<v Speaker 3>places like that, it just doesn't work like that, like

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<v Speaker 3>when you're forcing something or when you're like looking too hard.

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<v Speaker 2>What I think was good is that, like because we

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<v Speaker 2>kind of had this like fun plans, that it like

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<v Speaker 2>set us up for success with our own vibe and

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<v Speaker 2>for just to like have fun. And people were coming

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<v Speaker 2>towards us and talking to us because we were having

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<v Speaker 2>so much fun. Sure, I mean the two guys with

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<v Speaker 2>the weird T shirts. I remember when I said I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to have you dance. I did pull out some

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<v Speaker 2>of my dance books. I don't know if you saw that.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to, like I tried to like wave at

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<v Speaker 2>you to see if you were but I think you

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<v Speaker 2>were turned around anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably we danced. I mean I did the whole night.

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<v Speaker 1>We dance. We would a man, but I did the

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<v Speaker 1>whole night. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I took you into the pit or like walking through

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<v Speaker 2>don't even I'm really good at navigating.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're just like this just tall, just wonder

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<v Speaker 3>like walking through this crowd and they just like split

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<v Speaker 3>open for you to walk through, and I'm just a

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<v Speaker 3>short little I just follow. I'm like right behind, and

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<v Speaker 3>it was the most clear path ever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, let's go this way, let's go that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I was very it was warm in there too. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like it was very It was really we needed

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<v Speaker 1>body heating, body.

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<v Speaker 2>Heat, we needed big sweatshirts. But you know what, we

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<v Speaker 2>had so much fun. I literally loved it. So you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we we really you know, we talked before that we're

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<v Speaker 2>not really attracted to the same kind of guys and

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<v Speaker 2>like you were like, I like suits, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not a place for any suits. I think

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<v Speaker 2>one guy in tennis shorts on. They were bougie tennis shorts,

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<v Speaker 2>but I did not see one suit.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was like, it was definitely not the and

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<v Speaker 3>our suits, Like, you know, where do people even wear

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<v Speaker 3>them anymore?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I love a guy too, Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>in New York City. I may I may or may.

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<v Speaker 2>Not have enlisted Tamara with some advice as to what

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<v Speaker 2>I should do to create more buzz around getting guys.

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<v Speaker 1>To She was like, what are you talking about about

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<v Speaker 1>getting guys for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Just in general, Like I'm just trying to get guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that was I had a mission. I was

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<v Speaker 2>on a mission and I wanted to like bring people

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<v Speaker 2>and just see what was going on. She was making

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<v Speaker 2>me laugh so hard. She was like telling it, no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not how it works. She's like, I'm like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I was dancing. She's like, no, no, don't dance.

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<v Speaker 3>What does she want you to do?

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<v Speaker 1>She did, She did say she didn't give me advice.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just like, don't dance. I was like, should

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<v Speaker 1>I dance? She's like no, no, no, don't dance. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not cool.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>She's in this gorgeous had this gorgeous dress and like

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<v Speaker 2>her beautiful husband and two of them were like this

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<v Speaker 2>picturesque couple.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, what do you think we should do?

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, not what you're doing. I was glad, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>It's you know, fun when you try too hard sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>like to get and just be yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, and I think we're naturally organic.

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<v Speaker 2>And we were in the car with the girls for vaccination,

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<v Speaker 2>like it was just because I was really like, I

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<v Speaker 2>just loved this morning when you were talking about like

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<v Speaker 2>how happy you are in your life and like I

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<v Speaker 2>really and I say this all the time, but the

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<v Speaker 2>kinetic energy and just like when you say things like

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<v Speaker 2>how happy.

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<v Speaker 1>You are just makes people feel good. Yeah. So like

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<v Speaker 1>when you're like, so what tonight? What made you feel happy?

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<v Speaker 3>Music makes me feel so happy, especially you know, music

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<v Speaker 3>that takes you back to like certain times. So Justin

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<v Speaker 3>Timberlake does that for I think so many people, especially

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<v Speaker 3>you know, in our like era. Yeah, so it was nostalgic,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that's like eye blast music all day long.

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<v Speaker 3>It's my therapy. It's like anywhere from you know, Whitney

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<v Speaker 3>Houston to Teddy Swims, like all day long.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It takes your mind to a different place.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>So which one was your favorite? Did you like Justin

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<v Speaker 2>or did you like Benson better? Justin Timberlake or Benson Boone.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw Benson Boone already, like his full concert.

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<v Speaker 1>I took the girls. Oh so that was so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to Nashville and.

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<v Speaker 3>I never saw Justin Timberlake perform until tonight, so I was, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I was excited to see to see him probably more.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he's just like iconic, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw at Berkeley's and it was first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>Barkley's is just a beautiful, beautiful arena. But he was phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, he's just an amazing dancer, singer. Like I love,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the Tennessee's. I love the whole thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>just like the vibe is really good. Yeah, his presence

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<v Speaker 2>and I really one thing I really really like about

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<v Speaker 2>him or even tonight was when the woman gave showed

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<v Speaker 2>him the jacket that she had embroidered and he was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to sign this, and he was just really

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<v Speaker 2>he's very like engaging with his fans, which I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Is so cool. I mean, twenty five thirty years he's

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<v Speaker 1>been doing this.

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<v Speaker 3>You could tell he just really still wanted to be

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<v Speaker 3>there and he loves it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he loves it.

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<v Speaker 3>Just to have a tour, right, yeah, twenty five years

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<v Speaker 3>later to have such a big tour.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, Benson Moon is over the top. He's

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<v Speaker 2>a smoke show. You're going to hear it right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to tell you he's going to be the

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<v Speaker 2>next Calvin Kliinet. He is.

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<v Speaker 1>His vibe is very Calvin Klein. That's what he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to do. That's what I'm forecasting that. Did you hear that? Benson?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for it. He is just he's an adult baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just adore him and his new song about

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<v Speaker 1>the mother. I was like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I was like, okay, late on the

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<v Speaker 2>timing a great song. Yeah, I'm like Mother's Day pass.

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<v Speaker 2>So we were like that would have been a really

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<v Speaker 2>good song for me but to listen to. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, oh my gosh, I think I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Like tearing up.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he's his flips. I could just watch him do

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<v Speaker 3>those slips all day long.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, who could do that?

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<v Speaker 3>You just he just stands and then flips.

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<v Speaker 1>But Benson, do not think that Pamelin thinks you're her type,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're not. She likes guys and suits. I could

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<v Speaker 1>be his mother easily. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>So just to kind of wrap things up, what are

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<v Speaker 2>your feelings in love and like, what do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to tell the listeners about going through it?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow? That is just very layered question. Kelly Welly, what

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<v Speaker 3>are my thoughts on love and divorce or what are

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<v Speaker 3>my thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>On just like after today, Like we've been talking about

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<v Speaker 2>relationships with a lot of different people, of all different ages.

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<v Speaker 2>And we saw a lot of people tonight that were

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<v Speaker 2>like really in love all these you know, different couples,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just wanted to.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to like, you know, what's your takeaway

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<v Speaker 1>from today, and like how do you how do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel about love?

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<v Speaker 3>I think what really hit me was I was talking

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<v Speaker 3>to all of those young bachelor and bachelorette girls and

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<v Speaker 3>they were the sweetest and they came up to me

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<v Speaker 3>and they were just like, we love you. We want

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<v Speaker 3>to be like you when we are old, when we're older,

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<v Speaker 3>and you, you know, like how you take care of

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<v Speaker 3>yourself and how happy you are and your personality and

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<v Speaker 3>how you were explaining things to us about like health

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<v Speaker 3>and wellness and what we should do, you know, to

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<v Speaker 3>to like not have to worry so much, you know

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<v Speaker 3>when when they get to my age. And it just

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<v Speaker 3>made me no matter like what has happened like in

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the past, with like getting divorced and all

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<v Speaker 3>of this, if you don't love who you are, like

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<v Speaker 3>you're never going to be successful, you know, finding another

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<v Speaker 3>love or having you know exactly kind of like what

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<v Speaker 3>you want. And so at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 3>like that's just what I focus on I love treating myself,

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<v Speaker 3>loving myself like really truly like I and I know

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<v Speaker 3>people say that and it's always overused in this whole

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<v Speaker 3>self love and are people really doing it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>And like what does that mean to two people? And

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<v Speaker 3>it can mean a number of different things, but just

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<v Speaker 3>hearing like almost like somebody other people saying that that's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like what I project and that I'm showing

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<v Speaker 3>that and then I'm showing that to my girls and

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm showing that to my clients and like all

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<v Speaker 3>these people that I care about. That's what I have

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<v Speaker 3>control over. I don't have ca control over the next stages.

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<v Speaker 3>And will there be, you know, this new amazing love

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<v Speaker 3>like I have hope and I truly believe that it will.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think the first step is, you know, loving

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<v Speaker 3>yourself and really just like focusing on that and not

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<v Speaker 3>stopping what you want to do in life just because

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<v Speaker 3>you don't have a partner, right, I mean, that's I

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<v Speaker 3>think that the biggest takeaway too. It's like love being

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<v Speaker 3>by yourself, travel by yourself, do all of these things

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<v Speaker 3>by yourself, because once you realize how amazing you are,

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<v Speaker 3>I always want to be But like I choose.

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<v Speaker 1>Me right, you know that.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's also like, you know, it's like you don't

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<v Speaker 2>always get what you want, but you get what you need.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's so true because you know, if you are

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<v Speaker 2>taking care of yourself and you do have respect for yourself, right,

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<v Speaker 2>those people are going to there's You're that's that person

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<v Speaker 2>that you really want to be attracted to or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>be attracted to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that he's going to be there because he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be your mirror image. Yeah, and I totally believe

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<v Speaker 1>that one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 2>And No, it just was like refreshing to hear, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>another contemporary talk about just being genuinely happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's there's I'm around so.

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<v Speaker 2>Many people who are just like blaming and shaming other

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<v Speaker 2>people all day long, and it's just so nice to

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<v Speaker 2>be around someone who is just like, I'm excited about

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<v Speaker 2>my future. I love my kids, and I'm just so

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<v Speaker 2>excited to hear about your journey, your love journey.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's going to be great. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>Well same, And I just learned.

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<v Speaker 1>So much from you too, I mean just about health

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<v Speaker 1>and wellness.

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<v Speaker 2>And I heard with you you on the phone with

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<v Speaker 2>your daughters, and they're so cute and so excited and

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<v Speaker 2>they have such amazing energy, and you know, it's just

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<v Speaker 2>such a special time with them, and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, there's so much to look forward to. There is,

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<v Speaker 1>there really is.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's interesting because it was like serendipitous to be

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<v Speaker 2>at a place like Bottle Rock and to see all

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<v Speaker 2>these people that were just like really enjoying themselves, like

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<v Speaker 2>naturally and inherently enjoying themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>It just made it. It was just like it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a very warm it was like a hug there.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, oh my god, this is amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>I love napp Well, just like the energy with you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a man or a girlfriend, that was that energy that

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<v Speaker 3>I felt when I walked in there. It was like

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<v Speaker 3>that homey, comfy, cozy feeling that like any of that

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<v Speaker 3>would resonate with me, whether it's a friend or a

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<v Speaker 3>you know, a lover or whatever it is, and that's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like you just felt really homey in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just regret not getting the Lula Lemon sweatshirt.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's a side note.

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<v Speaker 3>They weren't sold out.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything was sold out. I was like, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get a sweatshirt.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'll take the double xx out there, Like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just so old. We don't have any Nobody was prepared.

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<v Speaker 3>And we were walking in and I'm like, these girls,

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<v Speaker 3>the Bachelor girls, they didn't have coats and they had

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<v Speaker 3>on spaghetti strap dresses and they're gonna be They're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be really cold. They all had to buy the sweatshirts.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was so fun. It was so fun. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. We need to hear more from Pamelin.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to tell you guys again like some

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<v Speaker 2>of your tricks of the trade, but you have to

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<v Speaker 2>listen to the podcast with Jana and hear some of

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<v Speaker 2>the banter back and forth because it's amazing. I was

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<v Speaker 2>listening to it last night. I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>these guys are unbelievable. I love, I love we're all

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<v Speaker 2>just together of oz.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I would love to hear like you know what's

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<v Speaker 2>happening in Tennessee. So yay, thank you so so much

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<v Speaker 2>for joining us at Bottle Rock and in Nappa.

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<v Speaker 1>We had so much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, you for having me, yay.

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<v Speaker 2>Having a Wingwoman has been so much fun. Are you

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<v Speaker 2>ready to date again, not having the best luck, tired

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<v Speaker 2>of being single?

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<v Speaker 1>We can help.

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