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Speaker 1: with it. You know, you already are crossing so many

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Speaker 2: How dare you wear underwear in your own house?

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Speaker 1: It's it's just so crazy to me, like you can

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Speaker 1: crossed a thousand boundaries for.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like it's like those people that there's like that,

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Speaker 2: like that there's a legit story. I think this is

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Speaker 2: and then falling through the skylight, breaking a bone inside

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Speaker 2: the house, right, and then suing the person that they

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Speaker 2: broke into right, Like it's like suing them for endangerment

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Speaker 2: and not having their house up to code.

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Speaker 3: This is exactly that.

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Speaker 2: And that's fricking America for you.

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Speaker 3: That's America even more, that's Florida. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: The most American exact state is that it's it's the

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Speaker 3: I feel like.

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Speaker 2: Florida feels like what Europe thinks America is like this

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Speaker 2: lawless land, yes, where Danny Duncan runs wild through the streets.

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Speaker 1: You that is the perfect description. Florida is what Europe

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Speaker 1: thinks America is. Yeah, that's the perfect description.

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Speaker 2: Because there's all it's also like like hamburgers and fat

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Speaker 2: people in Florida too, right of course, yeah, those everywhere.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, but I mean you got a lot of that.

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Speaker 1: You got a lot of like old people, like the

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Speaker 3: Just like you know, cargo shorts like.

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Speaker 2: America any any like ten gallon hats over there? Is

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah you got spots, you got some some

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Speaker 1: the quintessential like stereotypical American, like fat American, A fat

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Speaker 1: America is the best America. Yeah, this is a bizarre

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Speaker 2: Please a bear with me. I will ah, that's me bearing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, bear girls over here. I was in the desert

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Speaker 2: Yeah, about a week ago, I was home and own

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Speaker 3: A ban practice. Yeah, they're gonna hate that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why don't want me to do They're how much.

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Speaker 3: They love it.

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Speaker 2: I was also smoking weed. Do you ever feel like

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Speaker 1: I feel like when I blow a fat oh that's

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Speaker 3: I'm a merchant.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why sleep with women? When I make love to

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Speaker 3: Is how you kiss a lady? Right? I learned that

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Speaker 1: Yeahs my favorite sub, favorite sub.

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Speaker 3: Even though I think of myself as a dumb that's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not an alpha male

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Speaker 3: I'm a D mail.

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Speaker 1: I'm a dom saw male email dmail extra male, extra

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not wearing bras. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have two dogs, two dogs, Sam song guy with

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm double D.

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Speaker 3: Yeah three cents.

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Speaker 2: Weed is decriminalized, I believe in North Carolina, but still illegal.

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Speaker 2: So not making any excuses for that. That's what I

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Speaker 2: dirty criminal. Yeah, you are flock them up. We own

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Speaker 2: They're like, oh, I'm don't look into our house if

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Speaker 2: I mean, it is, it is inviting, but it is

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Speaker 2: look at me. Do they have the right right Like

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Speaker 2: it's like there's a window right here. If if you're

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Speaker 1: Definitely, Like on the street, you think, yeah, yeah, if

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Speaker 3: If you're not. It's not public nudity. It's public nudity.

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Speaker 1: Is like the couple is getting hit, right, but the

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Speaker 2: So but but yeah, I guess I guess so, I

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Speaker 1: The person the couple there, they should be straight because

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Speaker 2: That they should be straight just because they're exactly. Wow, God,

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Speaker 2: I can't, I can't.

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Speaker 3: Be should be good to canceled, it should be good.

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Speaker 1: For a few times, John thinks couples who uh near

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Speaker 3: What a specific like, what a specific thing?

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Speaker 1: Civic picktry fry exposed for the first time he was

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Speaker 3: So but yeah, obviously going to be exposed. What are

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, who's the windows? Let us know.

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Speaker 1: I love how they're literally not at all. We we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally forgot they were fucking We keep the

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Speaker 2: This particular day, it didn't occur to me to fully

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Speaker 2: to see it. It was dark around nine thirty PM,

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Speaker 3: Let it rip.

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Speaker 2: I've been smoked out of a bong like since college.

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Speaker 3: I think I might have. It's it's less than five

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Speaker 2: Ever spoke in my life. I'd have a roommate that

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Speaker 2: You did big bar and you always sucking from thy

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Speaker 1: Banging on Billy Bob's bonk Dog Bog Dog with open windows.

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Speaker 3: That's how you do the whole door.

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Speaker 1: But it's not allowed because it's not straight. That's the

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Speaker 3: All back. We got to include some of this.

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Speaker 1: Editor, figure out a way to tie it all.

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Speaker 2: Good, little circle, all right, all right. Suddenly I saw

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Speaker 2: In the mailbox was an unaddressed envelope, and inside were

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Speaker 2: several grainy pictures of me from that night, sitting on

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Speaker 1: But like with AI, and like anyone can make, everything's photoshop.

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Speaker 2: Everything's fake. Yo, it's photoshop. That's easy out yea, you know.

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Speaker 2: There was also a printed note stating that if I

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Speaker 2: in specific outfits I often wear to work.

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Speaker 1: That is so beyond creepy. That's so, it is so disgusting.

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Speaker 2: I thought when I was reading this initially I thought

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Speaker 1: And the fact like just like going back and realizing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so bad. But also I'm like thinking, now,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking it was maybe like maybe like when

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: Like regardless, Ops, some kind of stalker weird stokers set

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Speaker 2: That's I've never had anything like this happened to you.

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Speaker 2: Has anyone ever had a stalker?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, actually give us your stocker stories or if anyone's

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Speaker 2: like photographed you. Yeah, uh weird. Yeah, what what did

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Speaker 2: you do? Like what happened. Yeah, obviously I'm not going

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Speaker 2: to do that, and we'll just go to the police

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Speaker 2: with the printed photos and the note, which also like

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Speaker 2: this guy has blackmail to send more pictures is just

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Speaker 3: That's true. I did not even think about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why would you do that? Like ask for money?

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Speaker 2: At least then I feel like it would be more

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Speaker 2: likely all like give me five hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: That's that's not what this freakin scuzzball wants.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Is there not enough Portron out there?

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Speaker 3: Is there not enough porn? You need more? It's a

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Speaker 3: great Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the twenty four trillion hours of banging isn't enough

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 3: Bro.

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Speaker 2: There is more ferm content than any other content on

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Speaker 2: the internet.

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Speaker 1: It's literally basically that. I was like ninety percent right off. Literally,

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Speaker 1: I'd like, you have to go and find extra.

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Speaker 2: Extra Yeah, dude, like there's no extra credit involved here? No, No, like,

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Speaker 2: are you gonna not extra because of maybe I don't know, maybe.

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean yeah. Oh god.

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Speaker 2: My question is will I get into any kind of

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Speaker 2: I will get all the marijuana and paraphernalia out of

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Speaker 1: Please don't be weird, guys, don't They don't know where

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Speaker 2: That's true. That's true. There you go, Leaker address right now. No,

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Speaker 2: I want it. I don't want it. I want to

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Speaker 3: No, you know, we now know?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but John, before we get into the update,

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Speaker 3: Guy. Yeah, not the a hole I'm saying, not the ahole.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you ever been like stocked or has someone

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Speaker 3: Right, But that's that's more than weed though.

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Speaker 2: That's true, that's true. That's Y's so you're right, that's

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Speaker 3: All right, spill it on me.

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Speaker 2: It's juicy, it's juicy.

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Speaker 3: Serenade me in it.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Let me let me put

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Speaker 2: I had a pretty good idea of who this creeper was,

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Speaker 1: Facebook stocking you probably know the drill.

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Speaker 2: Yikes, what a nerd. He is the son of a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wherever they're like peaking it, it's it's aged terribly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like that's like the classic toxic like fraternity

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Speaker 2: Neighbor B said she actually had some similar peeping Tom

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Speaker 1: This guy is literally like, I'm getta like nauseous thinking

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Speaker 2: Dude, I'm getting turned on. What are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: The same jivalry is dead. This man is one of

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, So like always, it's always a nice

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Chad with his big old donkey cock. Dude, it's just

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Speaker 3: It's hard for these nice guys. The law no statues.

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Speaker 1: You knowed he saw her in a bikini. He put

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Speaker 2: Oh man. Yeah, the martyrs of our day, the modern

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Speaker 2: Then we went home and I went out back to

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Speaker 2: it place dead center in one of our garden beds,

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Speaker 2: It's like one of those like like like now you

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Speaker 2: the Jokers, like joker card. Wheready, like he leaves, like, ah,

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Speaker 3: Dude, it's giving Ted Bundy. I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not here for it. Yeah, yeah, here for it.

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Speaker 2: I am not, but I would now I got to

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Speaker 1: I imagine there's probably some like like a whimsical or

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Speaker 3: It's kind of cute. I guess it's fucking weirdo like

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Speaker 2: Extra this extra thick lawn gnomes. Yeah, oh god, okay.

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Speaker 2: to do? This guy sucks. He's like a double O

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Speaker 2: seven bond villain. But and then so yes, it's like

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Speaker 3: You saw Crypto arena, Yeah, you saw of You don't

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Speaker 2: At this?

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Speaker 1: Nana would say, that boy ain't got the good sense

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 2: So we went in reviewed the security footage, and sure

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Speaker 2: Then last night, around ten thirty we were getting ready

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Speaker 2: flashes of police car lights through the blinds.

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00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 1: So honestly, my stomach drop. We had gotten rid of

441
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 1: everything incriminating, but I was pretty scared. It wasn't the

442
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 1: police at our house anyway, but the neighborhood Watched Coordinator

443
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 1: I'll call her NWC, not to be confused with the nwa.

444
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 3: Yes, what is the stand for?

445
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 2: She hadn't responded to my email because she had been

446
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 2: dealing with a whole other mess all day. Apparently, Neighborhood

447
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 2: Creep tried to pull the same scheme with someone else,

448
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 2: except it was a sixteen year old girl. Oh and

449
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 2: that's like, that's that's jail.

450
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you're doing you're doing jail. You're doing jail,

451
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 1: big boy. You're taking photos of her and some friends

452
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 1: drinking bud light lime in their backyard, as well as

453
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 1: photos of her changing clothes through her bedroom window.

454
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,479
Speaker 2: That's bad. Luckily, she had good sense to tell her parents,

455
00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 2: and they also had security cameras installed in their The

456
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 2: footage they had of him was at night and he

457
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 2: was wearing a hoodie, but he left their yard in

458
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 2: the direction of the house and had the same build

459
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 2: as neighborhood Creep. The girl had seen Creep watching her

460
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 2: and her friends, so she knew it was him, and

461
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 2: I guess other people had complained enough about him that

462
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: there was enough of a paper trail for the police

463
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Speaker 2: to come and arrest him, or at least take him

464
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Speaker 2: in for question.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

466
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 2: I'm not really sure how these things work, but I

467
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 2: did see them take him away in a police car.

468
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 2: Maybe there was other evidence that NWC had I don't know. Anyway,

469
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 2: NWC asked me if I had any footage of him

470
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 2: and recommended i'd turn it over to the police. I said,

471
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 2: we would be talking to our lawyer first, but we

472
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 2: wanted this guy out of the neighborhood, so we would

473
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,719
Speaker 2: be in touch with the police and would follow up

474
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Speaker 2: after we spoke to her this morning. We met with

475
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Speaker 2: her lawyer this morning and gave her all the stuff

476
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 2: we had and told her that this guy had been

477
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 2: taken in last night for the same thing. She was

478
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: very confident that I would not be in any trouble

479
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: whatsoever for the photos, the weed photos, especially given this

480
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 2: guy's now established history of sneaking pictures of women in

481
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 2: these sorts of positions for the purpose of trying so

482
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 2: badly to blackmail them. The police were at Creep's house

483
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 2: again today, putting some stuff in boxes from the house

484
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: in their cars. I do feel bad for his mother.

485
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: She's actually a very nice woman, if a bit door maddie. Anyway,

486
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 2: that's that for now. We'll be keeping all our weed

487
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 2: and accessories at my brother in law's house. For now,

488
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 2: and neither of us will be smoking until this whole

489
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 2: thing is resolved just in case. Thanks for all of

490
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: your advice and tips everyone. I will update again later

491
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 2: if there's anything to update on.

492
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Speaker 3: PS.

493
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 2: The bikini lawn gnome is currently in possession of my

494
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 2: lawyer or the police, but I hope to be able

495
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 2: to recover it after this is all done. I kind

496
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 2: of want to display it in my front yard as

497
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 2: a trophy.

498
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 3: Wow, and that's all wrap my goodness?

499
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what a freaking story. I mean, I want

500
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 2: to know all of your crazy stalker photos or if

501
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 2: anyone has ever taken pictures of you without your consent

502
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 2: or just like on a weirdo creepos. Yeah, I'm sure

503
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: there's plenty that you guys.

504
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,640
Speaker 3: Have experienced, not the actual photos.

505
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 2: Of Yeah, I don't, don't, don't.

506
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 3: I want to done? Got you back? Maybe?

507
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: Yes, please tell us the stories of that happening. But John,

508
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 2: what do you think op should have done in this situation?

509
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 2: Do you think she did anything wrong? Do you think

510
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 2: she did anything like very right? And have you ever

511
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 2: had a creepo stalker situation of your own?

512
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: So I kind of slightly have, And I'll explain in

513
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: a second. But uh yeah, I mean I can't like nothing.

514
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 1: I I don't think I would have done anything differently

515
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: if if not like dive in deeper to see, like

516
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: what what are all the charges we can like slap

517
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: on this guy to get him as much? But also

518
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,360
Speaker 1: it's it. It kind of seems like Opie's like all right,

519
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: it's handled like I don't wait, which is also like.

520
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 2: Who wants to go through like like all.

521
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: That stuff, like you know, She's just like we got him,

522
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: it's good, you know, which hey great, So yeah, I

523
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,679
Speaker 1: don't I don't think. I think I think Opie handled

524
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: it very well. Contacted the lawyer, figured everything out, and

525
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 1: like she she wanted to stop him so he didn't

526
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: do it anymore, which is like that's like the biggest

527
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: thing and she and she succeeded, so that's fantastic.

528
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 3: Yeah I did.

529
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: I was thinking about this as as the story was

530
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 1: going on, So like when I was in like maybe

531
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: tenth grade, I had I'm trying to remember the details,

532
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: like someone called me or something like that, and it

533
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: was kind of like, oh, like this bookcase of this

534
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 1: or whatever, but I'm pretty sure it was bookcase like

535
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 1: like describing a bookcase that I had, like, oh, like,

536
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:37,439
Speaker 1: how's your bookcase? So like I don't know who this was,

537
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: and it was I always trying to be like who

538
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 1: is this?

539
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 3: And I was like, you know, like whatever, So.

540
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm guessing it was probably like a friend of a

541
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 1: friend who was like, oh, let's like let's prank him,

542
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 1: and like because I didn't recognize the voice, but they

543
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:58,239
Speaker 1: obviously like described things successfully. But at the moment I

544
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: was like, what's going on? Is like, is this why

545
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: I have a stoker?

546
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 3: I have a stalker? But like in retrospect, it's like, yeah,

547
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 3: it was probably that was it, Like.

548
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably just hear friends messing around.

549
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 3: Phone call, So yeah, yeah that's my story. Almost maybe stocked.

550
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 3: Almost maybe stock. I don't know. I don't know so.

551
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: Well, you know, you know I've shared this on the

552
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 2: show before, but the roommate from Hell that really stalked

553
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 2: us for a whole year after she left and would

554
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: like show up and like leave gifts at our door

555
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 2: and and like say that she was like getting abducted

556
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 2: by colts and that she needed to be like picked

557
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 2: up from crazy far away in La. Yeah. Absolutely nuts. Yeah,

558
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 2: I hope she's okay. Though, Yeah, I hope she's okay,

559
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: but yeah, she she followed us for a while, and

560
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 2: it was it was we had to like severely cut

561
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 2: her off.

562
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, did you have a training order?

563
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 1: No.

564
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 2: But what she would do is she would anytime we

565
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 2: posted in our stories, she would follow any new people

566
00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 2: in our friend group and then try to hit them

567
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 2: up and hang out with them. And she did that

568
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 2: with like after we had said, hey, we like I've said,

569
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 2: I think I've said this on the show before, but

570
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 2: one of my roommate's sisters was living with us for

571
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks, and we're like, hey, we've had

572
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 2: this stalker the last six months. She's going to try

573
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 2: to contact you when you're in one of our stories.

574
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 2: Please please please do not reach out to her, do

575
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 2: not respond, do not engage, and for the love of God,

576
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 2: don't hang out with her. Right right, right, Well, she

577
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,360
Speaker 2: has posted one of our stories, this girl follows her,

578
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 2: dms her asks her to hang out, and then this girl,

579
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 2: the sister invites her to our apartment, and then we

580
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: had like a few more weeks of the Stockers did

581
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: it was it was so annoying, bro, we told you

582
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 2: not didn't know. We were pretty fist. But like the

583
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 2: thing is, it's a lot less scary being stalked, I

584
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: think by a lady being like three like like dude,

585
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 2: I guess you know. Anyone gets stabbed, but it's there's

586
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 2: definitely at dynamic when it's definitely yeah, it was more

587
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 2: like I can't believe this is happening.

588
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 3: This is so weird.

589
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, exactly, almost flattering, almost flattering where it's like

590
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: like us, like we're cool enough to be stocks. You

591
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: shouldn't you shouldn't have. Really, you really shouldn't have. Please stop, yeah,

592
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 1: literally stop literally.

593
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: But we'd love to know your stalker stories, so if

594
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: you have any, please share them.

595
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 3: And what did you do?

596
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: And you're saying we have been reading some thoughts, stories

597
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: and comments from our beloved public subscribers.

598
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: We love our public subscribers.

599
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 3: Yes we do, and I want to read one right now.

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00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: So this was on the episode talking about periods and

601
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: this comment comes from Megan Goodell. Periods can be unpredictable.

602
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 1: Sometimes this guy was a total jerk. That is facts,

603
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: that is facts. And then we had another one just

604
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: sharing some love. This is from your Ultimate Demise. Great handle.

605
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: I found this channel through TikTok. This is very interesting

606
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: and the stories here are insane. I love it. You

607
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: have a new subscriber. Keep up the good work. This

608
00:29:59,280 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 1: is amazing.

609
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 3: We love you. Hey, this is why we do it.

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00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 3: That's right. Publicly subscribe Jeopard comments below.

611
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 2: We just might read him that we will see.

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00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: Mother in law wants to abduct my terminally ill daughter,

613
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: but I wanted to terminate with me.

614
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 3: Am I the a hole.

615
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 2: I mean it depends like are you are you like

616
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 2: killing your baby when you're with it? Like base of

617
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,479
Speaker 2: the title, it's like, look, he sounds like, yo, yo,

618
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: you don't get to kill my baby. I get to

619
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 2: kill my baby.

620
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 3: Bro.

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00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: This mother in law abductions going on like it's mother

622
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 1: in law is an alien. It's it's it's crazy, dude,

623
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: an alien alien.

624
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, from outer space. It's a great uf.

625
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:41,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

626
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: We need to make a soundboard of our collective noises.

627
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: We got to make this happen. Remember, Marl, I.

628
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 3: Have an almost three year old beautiful girl.

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Speaker 2: She's just a few weeks almost applying to like three

630
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 2: year old beautiful and girl, you have an almost beautiful

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00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 2: three year old girl, almost girl.

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00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: I have a daughter who would be gorgeous. But you know,

633
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: she's just not quite there, so I guess she's kind

634
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: of ugly. It wo'ld be funny, you know, I have

635
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: a girl that would be gorgeous if it wasn't for

636
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: your father, was my jeens alone, it would be fine.

637
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: She my daughter, is just a few weeks shy of

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00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: her third birthday. My baby was out in hospice four

639
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 1: weeks ago after having gone into remission late in May.

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00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 3: That is rough, immensely.

641
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: Harding babies, sad, very.

642
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, the cancer has returned, except now it is crushing

643
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: her optic nerve, which is about eight centimeters long. Multiple

644
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,719
Speaker 1: doctors recommended we make our we make our daughter as

645
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: comfortable as possible as they as they don't believe that

646
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,959
Speaker 1: removing the tumor is a good option. I have so

647
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: much to say in regard I have so much to

648
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: say in regard of her diagnosis, but heartbroken will suffice

649
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: for now.

650
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 2: Dude, I can't, like, that's the only thing you can be.

651
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: And such like you can't you can't even like fathom

652
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: it being outside of the situation.

653
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 3: You can't even like and.

654
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: Where do you like?

655
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, like, how do you spend those last

656
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: months exactly.

657
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 2: It's like it's so.

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00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: Important, but it's like, like what kind of experience or

659
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Speaker 1: is are you trying to give that three year old?

660
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and like yeah, it's.

661
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, massively hard. My husband and I have been making

662
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: tons of memories with her. My husband and I have

663
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: been making tons of memories with her for the past

664
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Speaker 1: few weeks. We've included family in some of these memories,

665
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Speaker 1: but we both feel that we want to spend as

666
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Speaker 1: much time with.

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Speaker 3: Our daughter as possible.

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Speaker 2: Totally makes sense.

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Speaker 1: My mother in law, My mother in law called me

670
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: yesterday to tell me she booked tickets hotel fair to

671
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Speaker 1: book tickets and hotel.

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00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 3: For a trip next month. Oh okay, okay cool.

673
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Speaker 2: So I mean, I guess the mother in law is

674
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 2: like trying to invite everyone and like make it be

675
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 2: like okay, like you're you're the parents of this baby, right,

676
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 2: and so like let's all spend like I want to

677
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 2: see the baby too, let's all spend time together, you know,

678
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 2: before the baby dies. But Samuel, you forget Oh wait,

679
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,719
Speaker 2: this is a story.

680
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 3: This is reddits.

681
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Speaker 1: I thought it sounded fun until she said that she

682
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Speaker 1: was taking our toddler with her just her, my daughter,

683
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: and her husband. She did not invite my husband and I.

684
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 2: What how it makes that make sense? Like your babies

685
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 2: last couple weeks or months and you're gonna like not

686
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 2: invite the parents.

687
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: Why would they agree to that? Why does it make

688
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: any sense? No sense whatsoever. My daughter isn't even three yet,

689
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: she has never stayed overnight anywhere, and mother in law

690
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: wants to take her for an entire week across the country.

691
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Speaker 2: That's one point, dude, that's a good point. Like even

692
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 2: if the daughter was healthy, you probably wouldn't do that.

693
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: You know.

694
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,959
Speaker 2: It's like it's a lot I suggest for a baby,

695
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 2: like like you know, you don't know this person that well,

696
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: like if we're thinking.

697
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 3: That mother's law. But yeah, but like not that not

698
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 3: as well as your your own mother.

699
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like that's you know.

700
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 3: What's the mother in law do? I'm just gonna like flee.

701
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 2: The country and yeah, I dude, I don't know.

702
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: You know, honestly, anything is with the stories we've read,

703
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: anything it'slackable.

704
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Speaker 3: Anything is possible. Now. I took the baby because I

705
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 3: felt like.

706
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 2: It, and I went to Russia to get an emergency surgery.

707
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Speaker 1: But the attaching a third optic nerve bro. The logistical

708
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: like Hulu hoops that these people jump through is us astonishing.

709
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: I suggested that my husband and I both go that way.

710
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: Our daughter is comfortable, and for God's sakes, in the

711
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 1: event that she passes away, she can't be gone for

712
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: a week. Her nurses are here, her care is here. Yeah,

713
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: it doesn't even make sense, dude, It doesn't even make

714
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: sense to do it doesn't. It's it's one thing if

715
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, oh, you know, the baby is healthy,

716
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Speaker 1: we want to go out of town for a weekend

717
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: or whatever, just like you know, have some like husband wifetime,

718
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: Hey come to the house and like watch the baby.

719
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: That's totally fine, But like you taking this this terminally

720
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: ill child away across.

721
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 3: The country, just like, what are you doing?

722
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: No?

723
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: I suggested, what if we all go for a shorter

724
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: amount of time. I came up with various suggestions, all

725
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: of which which is a great idea. That is a

726
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: great compromise, that is a fantastic compromise. All of my

727
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: suggestions turned down. Dude, How how dare you think of

728
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: a good solution? I am I am disgusted.

729
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god, how is how is

730
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 2: this mother in law like that blind to the needs

731
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: of the parents, Like these parents need to spend time

732
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 2: with their kid, the kid needs to spend time with

733
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 2: the parents.

734
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: Like this doesn't make anything you would understand as a mother.

735
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, as a mother, bro, But again, she's a mother

736
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 2: in law, and as we know, all mother in laws

737
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 2: are evil.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I should add that if my daughter was not

739
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: in hospice, I still would not be comfortable with our

740
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: toddler being across the country four a week for a

741
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 1: week alone without that. That's such a good point too, Yes,

742
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: it absolutely is, And I feel like these special circumstances

743
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: weren't an even closer relationship with the daughter and the parents.

744
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 3: Exactly exactly.

745
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 1: My child being in hospice adds another layer of complexity

746
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 1: to this already complex situation.

747
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 2: Exactly real, exactly.

748
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Speaker 1: I told my mother in law that her I told

749
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 1: my mother in law that her decisions that she had

750
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 1: made alone without consulting us was a solid no, okay,

751
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: which you have power to do, as apparent. She called

752
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: me a few names and hung up on me. What

753
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: is this mother in law doing, dude?

754
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 3: Just why?

755
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 2: Why?

756
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 3: Like? What? What?

757
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: What could you possibly. Why, Why on earth would you

758
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: possibly want to do this? She then called my husband

759
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: and called me a few more names and suggested that

760
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: she would fight for her rights before my daughter dies.

761
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: What rights?

762
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 3: What rights do you have? Got?

763
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 2: No rights?

764
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 3: Bro?

765
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: When I when I was putting my hand down, I

766
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 1: slapped myself on the nutsack and that was painful.

767
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 2: Nice John, I'm not going to have any kids.

768
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 3: Yeah about this situation now.

769
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: I am already grieving. My husband said that we should

770
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: acquiesce to his mother's trip to avoid drama. What that's crazy, bro?

771
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 1: What even though he also agrees that our daughter is

772
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: too young for this, but I want to spend time

773
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: with her before her cancer takes her and she's too little,

774
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. I said no for various reasons,

775
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: not just to say no again, like OP does not

776
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: need any more reasons than I am. This terminali old

777
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,919
Speaker 1: baby's mother, and I deserve to spend time. I want

778
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: to know what's going through the mother in law's mind,

779
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: like I I will say, like I don't know if

780
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: it's like the word the phrasing is like you have

781
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: the right to, but like you know, it's good for

782
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: her to probably see the Baby Act.

783
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 3: They don't take it away.

784
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: Don't take it away from the parents, especially like if

785
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: you care about this child, you would obviously be like,

786
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: oh wait, like all of like OP said, all of

787
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: the cares here, like everything is here, Like why.

788
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 2: Would I seems like this is put this situation is

789
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 2: putting the child into more stress and more danger.

790
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 3: Exactly doesn't make any sense.

791
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think this mother in law like it's he's

792
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: just like she's like wants to like selfishly just have

793
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: time alone. And you know you're not the parent, so

794
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 2: like you don't necessarily you're not entitled to that. Mother

795
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 2: in lawnsult canceled. Am I the a hole for refusing

796
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 2: my fiance's request to pay for his brothers and his

797
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 2: wife's ivf using my inheritance?

798
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 1: You know, I think you know the inheritance was given

799
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 1: to OP, and so that fiance entitled correct. Yeah, OP

800
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: owns none of the money that was given to him. Yeah,

801
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: how how dare they think they're entitled to that?

802
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 2: But it transcends OP exactly goes straight to the fiance.

803
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 1: This is the law of Reddit universe. Yes, it's also

804
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: the probably like some some law in like the Middle

805
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: East or something where it's like if you are if

806
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: you are betrothed to someone, instantly all of your property

807
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: becomes theirs. Well, the women get twenty five percent. I

808
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: believe is that is that actually a law? I believe

809
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 1: that's a law, Yes, twenty five percent of of like like.

810
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 3: Uh, how does it work or is it fifty?

811
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: Basically the woman the woman gets less what's Taliban law?

812
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 2: A specific Taliban.

813
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 1: That might be Sharia law, which it's like I think

814
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 1: it's like the woman gets.

815
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 2: Less percent, they are entitled to twenty five percent, like.

816
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: Oh, here we go, here we go. I believe it's uh.

817
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: So like let's say the dad dies away and he

818
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: has like a son and a daughter, the son will

819
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 1: get like seventy five and the daughter will get twenty

820
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 1: five or something like, just like there's an imbalance.

821
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: And in the context of marriage.

822
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 1: I don't remember that, and I honestly could be misremembering everything,

823
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: but I believe in Sharia law there is like situations

824
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: basically where the woman gets less than the man, like

825
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: in the law and audience you might be wondering, how

826
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 1: does John know the workings of the Taliban, And it's

827
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 1: because he is a.

828
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Speaker 2: Member of himself.

829
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Speaker 3: You know.

830
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Speaker 1: I came to them and I'm like, look, guys, I

831
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 1: am such a big fan of your work. I like

832
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: really in Afghanistan. Really yeah, saw what you get it

833
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: did in Afghanistan. Saw what you did?

834
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 3: You know?

835
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 1: Here you know, and you know our our home, our home,

836
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: our home, turf. And I was impressed. I threw my

837
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Speaker 1: resume in and here we are.

838
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,479
Speaker 2: I female, thirty two, have recently inherited money from my mom.

839
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 2: She was the only parent in losing her is beyond

840
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: devastating rough. Yeah, the money can barely be called inheritance

841
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 2: because my mom and her family didn't have much, but

842
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 2: it's better than nothing. My fiance at first said I

843
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 2: deserved it and have a right to do whatever I

844
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 2: wanted with it.

845
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 3: At first.

846
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 2: At first, however, he told his whole family about this

847
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 2: and this you know, recent windfall. And then he's infertile

848
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 2: brother and his wife pull infertile brother.

849
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: And that is infertile brother and his wife pulling them

850
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: aside for a conversation. I love like throwing like infertile brothers,

851
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: such a subs, so well placed, so well played fertile

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00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 1: brother to.

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Speaker 3: My brother whose penis can't can't semonate my wait, what

854
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,879
Speaker 3: is it? Uh? Areas b Yeah?

855
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, my brothers My brother's barren penis that can't plant

856
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: the seed in his wife's womb.

857
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 3: What a geezer, What a geezer.

858
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 2: After that, he started talking about wanting slash needing a

859
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 2: nephew slash niece, basically hinting about his brother's infertility issues.

860
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 2: Then flat out requested that I pay for his brother

861
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 2: and wife's IVF treatment for my inheritance money. It's Herdan's money.

862
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 3: It's not your money, bro dude.

863
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 2: Everyone who's getting IVF asking for other people's money.

864
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 3: We need to start like an IVF show.

865
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 1: Why are you just why don't you just like adopt,

866
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: you know, just adopt to stop spending other people's money.

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00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 3: Adopted kid in foster care? You know.

868
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: I was taken aback initially, but then I declined. He

869
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 2: got mad, saying I was selfish. One, he and I

870
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: are blessed to never have issues with fertility because he

871
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: is such a verrally shoot bullets every single time.

872
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: His solami is just inminating everything.

873
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 2: Insane baby yep, baby, and two, I literally have nothing

874
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: to lose if I give them money. What are you

875
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 2: talking about.

876
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 3: Except all the money from his from his dead mother.

877
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesus, it's easy money that I didn't work for,

878
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: so thus I should be able.

879
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 2: To give it up.

880
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 3: See so easy.

881
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 2: This upset me to the point where I lashed out,

882
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 2: telling him to stop bothering me and guilting me about it.

883
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 2: I denied the request as a final decision, but he

884
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 2: got more and more agitated and went on and went

885
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 2: on a campaign to shame me for treating him as

886
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 2: if he's not my future husband. Therefore he gets to

887
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 2: therefore he gets to say, and therefore he gets to say,

888
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 2: and what to do about my inheritance?

889
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, what is this your money? Concept?

890
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 2: It's our money, you know, you know? Not yet a boyo,

891
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 2: I say, Op, better send that prenup fast, Lock it down,

892
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:05,720
Speaker 2: Lock it down.