WEBVTT - Just B Rant: Kim K's Forever Man?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So I want to talk about Kim Kardashian.

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<v Speaker 1>I like her with this man that she's with.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She was either paddle boarding or doing something. She was

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<v Speaker 1>in a wet suit. I don't know where she was.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw a quick video, and there's something about the

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<v Speaker 1>photos and this relationship that feels pure to me for her,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it feels calm and settled and like someone who

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<v Speaker 1>can bring to her something that she doesn't already have.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know a thing about this man. I just

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<v Speaker 1>know a little bit about her and her trajectory and

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<v Speaker 1>that she's already checked the box of business success, which

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<v Speaker 1>is a big box to check. Like I've been thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about the boxes of life life, how you really there

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<v Speaker 1>are things that you really want to be successful at

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't only have to do with money. But

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<v Speaker 1>one area is, like it could be business, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be successful at business, and if you're striving

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<v Speaker 1>and sort of there but not exactly where you think

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<v Speaker 1>you should be, or it's not totally hitting, or it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like locked, you're going to be preoccupied by it

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<v Speaker 1>in some way, or if you haven't found what you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do with your life, and like for me,

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<v Speaker 1>my business is locked. Like it's thriving. It gets bigger

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<v Speaker 1>every single day. Obviously there are challenging days, there are

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<v Speaker 1>highs lows, there's work to be done. I'm certainly not retired,

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<v Speaker 1>but like it's set, the die has been cast.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I have a successful business.

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<v Speaker 1>It as a foundation, it's a base, and I build

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<v Speaker 1>off of it, and I have a team that helps me.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like an exhale, Like, Okay, we did that.

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<v Speaker 1>That box is checked. Kim Kardashian has that. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that every single Kardashian and her family has that,

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<v Speaker 1>only because some are younger, and I don't know everyone's goals.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just know that Kim obviously is going to

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<v Speaker 1>keep working and has things she wants to do. But

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<v Speaker 1>like that box has been checked, she has made it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it doesn't mean that just because she's wealthy, Like

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<v Speaker 1>she's gotten to the island and now she's enjoying that

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<v Speaker 1>island and it has it takes many forms, Okay, like myself,

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't or hadn't gotten there in relationship. She's had

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<v Speaker 1>many relationships, but none have really gone the distance and succeeded.

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<v Speaker 1>She's had children, with one. She's had love, but she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't had her life person and she's still young. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, but I have a feeling that

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<v Speaker 1>this guy could be that person. And this is another

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<v Speaker 1>bucket where it's like I've used the analogy of climbing

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<v Speaker 1>up to the top of a mountain, like you know

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<v Speaker 1>that you could do it, but you just don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to fall off. You want to get it right, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to settle. And she's a rock star. And

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Louis often says to me. He says about

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<v Speaker 1>me like rock stars need rock stars, like meaning, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to find the person that you're not going to settle,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's the person that does enrich you and complete you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't analyze, and you don't feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>driving with no brakes, and you don't feel stressed out,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not asking people's opinions, and you just know

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<v Speaker 1>it's just calm. And I don't know why there's something

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<v Speaker 1>in those pictures that says that to me about him.

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<v Speaker 1>I know nothing about their relationships, so this is just speculation.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was wrong about Travis and Taylor in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew nothing, so I was wrong, And I say

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<v Speaker 1>that there's something about their relationship that is interesting that

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<v Speaker 1>feels a little bit like that. Like forgetting money and

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<v Speaker 1>fame and success, there's some enrichment and some alignment. And

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<v Speaker 1>as I've worked with the core more, I understand alignment more.

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<v Speaker 1>The core is the dating community, and I understand that

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<v Speaker 1>the package of the person that you are supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be with may outlook the way that you think it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to look. It may appear in a different formation

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<v Speaker 1>or package. And I think that that's what makes life interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't need to be with a carbon copy

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself, and you need to be with someone who's

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<v Speaker 1>going to enrich your life, compliment the cock between the tiles,

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<v Speaker 1>compliment you in some way where you're living your life

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<v Speaker 1>the same way all the time, and someone comes in

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<v Speaker 1>and either awakens your spirit from your childhood or brings

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<v Speaker 1>you something you never knew, or teaches you something, or

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<v Speaker 1>it makes you laugh or inspires you, or there's something

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't have in your current relationship cart your

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<v Speaker 1>life cart that they add to your cart.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know why I just saw a picture.

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<v Speaker 1>It came I'm like, maybe she's in that era and

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<v Speaker 1>Kanye was part of her business era. Yes, it was

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<v Speaker 1>her having children era and he lived for her. But

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<v Speaker 1>there was part of it, like he elevated her game.

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<v Speaker 1>They were on the cover of Vogue together, they went

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<v Speaker 1>to the Mechal together. He raised her fashion game, he

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<v Speaker 1>inspired her like that was part of her business life.

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<v Speaker 1>Like now there becomes a time when you get to

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<v Speaker 1>have your personal life. So there's something about it that

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy. Okay, I just went on the trip of

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<v Speaker 1>a lifetime and it's almost hard to describe because it

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<v Speaker 1>was so extraordinary that words will not articulate how amazing

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<v Speaker 1>it was. And I was filming a little bit when

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<v Speaker 1>I was away, and it seems like I was shooting,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was taking videos and stuff, But it

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<v Speaker 1>was not the way that I normally do. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like just sitting down and talking the way that I

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<v Speaker 1>normally do because I was so engrossed and moved and

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<v Speaker 1>emotional about the trip that I was on. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was invited to someone's special occasion trip and it was

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<v Speaker 1>with a family, an intimate family, and some very close

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<v Speaker 1>friends that may as well be family. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>in Costa Rica, and I've been to Costa Rica twice before,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a beautiful place. I've been to many beautiful places.

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<v Speaker 1>This trip was entirely different, and the place was wonderful,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't entirely different because of the place. It

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<v Speaker 1>was entirely different because of the people and the dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>I went with a group that was largely Canadians, raised

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<v Speaker 1>humbly with incredible stories. We all know I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people. I don't want to be with

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people. I'm an insular, private person that

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<v Speaker 1>like small groups. I have wanted a certain life for

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter to be part of a greater community because

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<v Speaker 1>I have been basically an orphan most of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I went on this strip. Wayne was invited, but

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<v Speaker 1>she couldn't come because of tests, and I partially had

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<v Speaker 1>fomo for her that she wasn't there, because she would

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<v Speaker 1>have loved it. But I also had my own experience,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was grateful for that because sometimes when we

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<v Speaker 1>were with our kids, you're worried about what they're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just a completely different experience, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's important for adults to have their own experience. One

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<v Speaker 1>of the people on the ship was a beautiful little girl.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't always like other people's kids. I often don't,

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<v Speaker 1>and this was like a very special sweet girl. She

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<v Speaker 1>was on my socials like she like literally latched onto

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<v Speaker 1>me and was obsessed with me and clinging to me

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<v Speaker 1>and would not leave my side. And it was like

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<v Speaker 1>I became her best friend. She was four years old.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so cute. But the people who ranged from

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<v Speaker 1>thirties to sixties were so alive. It was I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say it was a five star vacation because

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<v Speaker 1>that's irrelevant. The house, the restaurants, the experience was a

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<v Speaker 1>five star experience, but I've had five star experiences at

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<v Speaker 1>the most expensive hotels in the world, and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you go see something, you swim, you have

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing time, you go to.

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<v Speaker 2>Lunch, you shop, you repeat.

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<v Speaker 1>Like this was from the minute you woke up until

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<v Speaker 1>the minute you went to sleep, some majestic experience from

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<v Speaker 1>these people that, like I said, are from humble means

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<v Speaker 1>and live. They do travel, they make the most of

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<v Speaker 1>it every single day. They like they're not getting surf instructors,

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<v Speaker 1>like they're just taking the surfboard going through like the

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<v Speaker 1>mouth of a river that has like a current that

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<v Speaker 1>can pull you with rocks all over and crocodiles. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't see the crocodiles, but like to get to like

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<v Speaker 1>this beach and they're just fucking going in and and

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<v Speaker 1>and pray for the best and find the wave like

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<v Speaker 1>or climbing trees like up high high trees and rock

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<v Speaker 1>formations or ATV and you're like, that's a fly off

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<v Speaker 1>the back of an ATV or horseback riding, but like

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<v Speaker 1>everything is just so alive and not like swimming with

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<v Speaker 1>dolphins and SeaWorld like respectfully SeaWorld, Like it just was

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<v Speaker 1>so alive, the most incredible sunsets at like swinging on

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<v Speaker 1>a swing and then you just wake up in.

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<v Speaker 2>The morning to go to the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>But yet you're with someone who's like making you climb

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<v Speaker 1>to the top of a mountain and you're you're in

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<v Speaker 1>chanelle slides like and then you get to the top

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<v Speaker 1>and you could have like slid off there like I

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<v Speaker 1>got you, Like you're not, nothing's gonna happen to you. Mud,

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<v Speaker 1>You're covered head to toe, the inside of your ears

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<v Speaker 1>are black. You ruined every article of clothing, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>so dehydrated from going to the top of this, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where the fuck we were. And then like

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<v Speaker 1>there's a natural waterfall into a natural pool of water,

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<v Speaker 1>and this slide, a water slide built into rock, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not an actual slide, it's rock that somehow, over

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<v Speaker 1>time has become this physical slide. And I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna slash my body, like but somehow you're just like

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<v Speaker 1>going down it, and people who are six years old,

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing backflips. It was just so alive and so

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<v Speaker 1>real and so genuine and so honest and so fun

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<v Speaker 1>and drank so much wine and just cried laughing and

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<v Speaker 1>just had an amazing experience. And I was able to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, provide experiences for these people too that were

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<v Speaker 1>not about like it doesn't matter that I have money

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<v Speaker 1>and could do anything, pay for anything, by anything. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just like there was some special experiences that happened on

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<v Speaker 1>the island as a result of me being who I am,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's something that these people would never normally experience.

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<v Speaker 2>And it made me feel great.

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<v Speaker 1>Like someone from this trip, a woman who's in her

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<v Speaker 1>sixties who you know, had never flown first class before,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was like, you're coming with me at sports

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<v Speaker 1>Illustrated like that weekend, like I'm flying you in and

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<v Speaker 1>you're coming, like and she's like wait what, Like she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come to like Sports Illustrated Fashion show Miami, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she was like, I've never been on a

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<v Speaker 1>vacation like this in my entire life. I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well you're coming, Like just it was. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>such an amazing experience for me. Is what I want

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<v Speaker 1>for my life for my daughter. It woke up the

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<v Speaker 1>child in me that used to be in whales, like

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<v Speaker 1>going to natural water pools that were like so dangerous,

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<v Speaker 1>jumping off a bridge to get into them, that took

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<v Speaker 1>every day from every boy in every classroom that you

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<v Speaker 1>know has always been really adventurous. And recently, someone I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to I used to date, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>you because there were two guys I was dating and

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<v Speaker 1>I was deciding, like who's right for me. One is

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<v Speaker 1>wor quote unquote lifestyle right for me. One is like

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<v Speaker 1>more adventurous and like alive. And this was in you

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<v Speaker 1>know a while back when I was just like contemplating

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<v Speaker 1>something and the guy that knew me was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>need adventure, Bethany, Like I haven't had enough of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had enough stuff a shopping and yes, I've gone

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<v Speaker 1>on experiences, and yes I've done amazing Thingsuse I've been

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<v Speaker 1>sat in like my basement, you know. I've been to beaches,

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<v Speaker 1>on paddle boards, on surfboards and yoga retreat like I've

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<v Speaker 1>done it all. I've been on major boats and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. But like something about this hit different because

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<v Speaker 1>of the group of people that I told you they

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<v Speaker 1>were mostly Canadian, they were just beautiful human beings. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just had a wonderful vacation. And I was also

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<v Speaker 1>like good to come home because it was good to

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<v Speaker 1>come home to just be able to reflect on it

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<v Speaker 1>and to come to my beautiful life here and to

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<v Speaker 1>beach walk here and to be excited for the next thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it didn't I could be there for three weeks

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<v Speaker 1>to a month, but like it didn't need to be

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks, two month, Like I'm good. I like I

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<v Speaker 1>leave the party at full till I like to leave

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<v Speaker 1>a party when it's good. I come home and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>happy to be home, like in my fresh, gorgeous bed,

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<v Speaker 1>taking my bath, unpacked every inch of what I own

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<v Speaker 1>to a tee because it's who I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to go through the pr that came.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go, you know, figure out the things

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<v Speaker 1>I get rid of because I have to do that

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<v Speaker 1>every single week. Like it was just like nice to

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<v Speaker 1>come home and to nest, but it really was extraordinary

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<v Speaker 1>and also what a great gift I've been given in

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<v Speaker 1>this life to help people that reach out. Like there

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<v Speaker 1>was a hotel called Sendera and they had this restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and they reached out like would you come in? And

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<v Speaker 1>it was something I could do for this group. They

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<v Speaker 1>like literally gave us a dinner for ten people. And

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<v Speaker 1>this group was like, wait that happens to you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like it does, but like let's share it. And they

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<v Speaker 1>had the most amazing food. It was spectacular food. This place,

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<v Speaker 1>sender or the owner is this beautiful woman.

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<v Speaker 2>They had.

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<v Speaker 1>The lobster pasta was to sob over. I can always

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<v Speaker 1>clock something. I could be driving on a highway and

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<v Speaker 1>see something on the side of a strip, Mom be

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<v Speaker 1>like we have to go there. A font could tell

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<v Speaker 1>me everything about a place a door, like I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>that person. So I saw this taco stand every day,

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<v Speaker 1>pasted it and was like I want to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>I said it to who I was with every day

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go there, and I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>would have ended up making it. It looked cute, but

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<v Speaker 1>they were gonna have tacos. It just looks something about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was on the beach on a very remote

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<v Speaker 1>beach and a woman who was holding a surfboard walked

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<v Speaker 1>up like no one else was on the beach, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, are you Bethany Frankel. I said yes. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lesbian taco stand. I go, wait, is

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<v Speaker 1>it that place? Tacoe Tacos e Taco. She's like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my god. Every day she's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>can you come in? And I had a little bucket

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<v Speaker 1>list for the trip. As I do that, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do a bunch of things and I still didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot of them. And long story short, she

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<v Speaker 1>opens at eleven. I said, that's a touching story.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm leaving town.

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<v Speaker 1>I got you gotta open a nine thirty in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>I went. I had a Mark gay Rita at her stand.

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<v Speaker 1>I had her fresh tacos. Her follower account went up.

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<v Speaker 1>She was so amazing and like I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>just like help end or give a little excitement to

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful lesbian woman and her taco stand and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like so fun to do that, Like it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>fun thing to like, Hi, I'm gonna bet to change

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<v Speaker 1>your entire life in business. You know Organica Cafe in

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<v Speaker 1>Costa Rica, like I had amazing. I had very good,

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<v Speaker 1>slightly too salty, but very good chicken salad. They were dying,

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<v Speaker 1>like they like posted about it, like they didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>I was coming in a woman. I have low blood pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>I tend to faint. We've talked about this. I get

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<v Speaker 1>very dehydrated. I fainted in a store like was going down.

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<v Speaker 1>Asked a perfect stranger in a tiny store if I

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<v Speaker 1>could lay on her couch. I think the store is

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<v Speaker 1>called Magic, It's on my story. And she ends up

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<v Speaker 1>giving me water, giving me pineapple. Women who are on

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<v Speaker 1>a yoga retreat there at the Body Tree were coming

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<v Speaker 1>in and like, wait, you're Bethany Frankel. Like I was

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<v Speaker 1>on the floor. One of them gave me her hydrate

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<v Speaker 1>should packet. I literally was taking photos of women sitting

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<v Speaker 1>on the floor. I was consulting their purchases on the

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<v Speaker 1>floor because I couldn't move yet till my you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my person came to get me and it was just

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<v Speaker 1>that woman was amazing, but I also was able to

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<v Speaker 1>put her business on social. It just was incredible. So

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<v Speaker 1>I had a wonderful time. Thank you to you all

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<v Speaker 1>for being such inspiration and for being people that I

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<v Speaker 1>want to share things with and like bring back stories,

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<v Speaker 1>and to the people in my group and to people

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<v Speaker 1>in Nasara, and to myself because my New Year's resolution

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<v Speaker 1>was to be open and I was definitely that. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited