Speaker 1: All right, So I want to talk about Kim Kardashian.
Speaker 1: I like her with this man that she's with.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: She was either paddle boarding or doing something. She was
Speaker 1: in a wet suit. I don't know where she was.
Speaker 1: I saw a quick video, and there's something about the
Speaker 1: photos and this relationship that feels pure to me for her,
Speaker 1: Like it feels calm and settled and like someone who
Speaker 1: can bring to her something that she doesn't already have.
Speaker 1: I don't know a thing about this man. I just
Speaker 1: know a little bit about her and her trajectory and
Speaker 1: that she's already checked the box of business success, which
Speaker 1: is a big box to check. Like I've been thinking
Speaker 1: about the boxes of life life, how you really there
Speaker 1: are things that you really want to be successful at
Speaker 1: and they don't only have to do with money. But
Speaker 1: one area is, like it could be business, Like you
Speaker 1: want to be successful at business, and if you're striving
Speaker 1: and sort of there but not exactly where you think
Speaker 1: you should be, or it's not totally hitting, or it's
Speaker 1: not like locked, you're going to be preoccupied by it
Speaker 1: in some way, or if you haven't found what you
Speaker 1: want to do with your life, and like for me,
Speaker 1: my business is locked. Like it's thriving. It gets bigger
Speaker 1: every single day. Obviously there are challenging days, there are
Speaker 1: highs lows, there's work to be done. I'm certainly not retired,
Speaker 1: but like it's set, the die has been cast.
Speaker 2: Like I have a successful business.
Speaker 1: It as a foundation, it's a base, and I build
Speaker 1: off of it, and I have a team that helps me.
Speaker 1: So it's like an exhale, Like, Okay, we did that.
Speaker 1: That box is checked. Kim Kardashian has that. Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't know that every single Kardashian and her family has that,
Speaker 1: only because some are younger, and I don't know everyone's goals.
Speaker 1: But I just know that Kim obviously is going to
Speaker 1: keep working and has things she wants to do. But
Speaker 1: like that box has been checked, she has made it.
Speaker 1: And it doesn't mean that just because she's wealthy, Like
Speaker 1: she's gotten to the island and now she's enjoying that
Speaker 1: island and it has it takes many forms, Okay, like myself,
Speaker 1: she hasn't or hadn't gotten there in relationship. She's had
Speaker 1: many relationships, but none have really gone the distance and succeeded.
Speaker 1: She's had children, with one. She's had love, but she
Speaker 1: hasn't had her life person and she's still young. And
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I have a feeling that
Speaker 1: this guy could be that person. And this is another
Speaker 1: bucket where it's like I've used the analogy of climbing
Speaker 1: up to the top of a mountain, like you know
Speaker 1: that you could do it, but you just don't want
Speaker 1: to fall off. You want to get it right, you
Speaker 1: don't want to settle. And she's a rock star. And
Speaker 1: my friend Louis often says to me. He says about
Speaker 1: me like rock stars need rock stars, like meaning, you
Speaker 1: need to find the person that you're not going to settle,
Speaker 1: and it's the person that does enrich you and complete you,
Speaker 1: and you don't analyze, and you don't feel like you're
Speaker 1: driving with no brakes, and you don't feel stressed out,
Speaker 1: and you're not asking people's opinions, and you just know
Speaker 1: it's just calm. And I don't know why there's something
Speaker 1: in those pictures that says that to me about him.
Speaker 1: I know nothing about their relationships, so this is just speculation.
Speaker 1: And I was wrong about Travis and Taylor in the beginning.
Speaker 1: I knew nothing, so I was wrong, And I say
Speaker 1: that there's something about their relationship that is interesting that
Speaker 1: feels a little bit like that. Like forgetting money and
Speaker 1: fame and success, there's some enrichment and some alignment. And
Speaker 1: as I've worked with the core more, I understand alignment more.
Speaker 1: The core is the dating community, and I understand that
Speaker 1: the package of the person that you are supposed to
Speaker 1: be with may outlook the way that you think it's
Speaker 1: going to look. It may appear in a different formation
Speaker 1: or package. And I think that that's what makes life interesting,
Speaker 1: because you don't need to be with a carbon copy
Speaker 1: of yourself, and you need to be with someone who's
Speaker 1: going to enrich your life, compliment the cock between the tiles,
Speaker 1: compliment you in some way where you're living your life
Speaker 1: the same way all the time, and someone comes in
Speaker 1: and either awakens your spirit from your childhood or brings
Speaker 1: you something you never knew, or teaches you something, or
Speaker 1: it makes you laugh or inspires you, or there's something
Speaker 1: that you didn't have in your current relationship cart your
Speaker 1: life cart that they add to your cart.
Speaker 2: So I don't know why I just saw a picture.
Speaker 1: It came I'm like, maybe she's in that era and
Speaker 1: Kanye was part of her business era. Yes, it was
Speaker 1: her having children era and he lived for her. But
Speaker 1: there was part of it, like he elevated her game.
Speaker 1: They were on the cover of Vogue together, they went
Speaker 1: to the Mechal together. He raised her fashion game, he
Speaker 1: inspired her like that was part of her business life.
Speaker 1: Like now there becomes a time when you get to
Speaker 1: have your personal life. So there's something about it that
Speaker 1: I enjoy. Okay, I just went on the trip of
Speaker 1: a lifetime and it's almost hard to describe because it
Speaker 1: was so extraordinary that words will not articulate how amazing
Speaker 1: it was. And I was filming a little bit when
Speaker 1: I was away, and it seems like I was shooting,
Speaker 1: you know, I was taking videos and stuff, But it
Speaker 1: was not the way that I normally do. I wasn't
Speaker 1: like just sitting down and talking the way that I
Speaker 1: normally do because I was so engrossed and moved and
Speaker 1: emotional about the trip that I was on. And I
Speaker 1: was invited to someone's special occasion trip and it was
Speaker 1: with a family, an intimate family, and some very close
Speaker 1: friends that may as well be family. And it was
Speaker 1: in Costa Rica, and I've been to Costa Rica twice before,
Speaker 1: and it's a beautiful place. I've been to many beautiful places.
Speaker 1: This trip was entirely different, and the place was wonderful,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't entirely different because of the place. It
Speaker 1: was entirely different because of the people and the dynamic.
Speaker 1: I went with a group that was largely Canadians, raised
Speaker 1: humbly with incredible stories. We all know I don't like
Speaker 1: a lot of people. I don't want to be with
Speaker 1: a lot of people. I'm an insular, private person that
Speaker 1: like small groups. I have wanted a certain life for
Speaker 1: my daughter to be part of a greater community because
Speaker 1: I have been basically an orphan most of my life.
Speaker 1: And I went on this strip. Wayne was invited, but
Speaker 1: she couldn't come because of tests, and I partially had
Speaker 1: fomo for her that she wasn't there, because she would
Speaker 1: have loved it. But I also had my own experience,
Speaker 1: and I was grateful for that because sometimes when we
Speaker 1: were with our kids, you're worried about what they're doing,
Speaker 1: and it's just a completely different experience, and I think
Speaker 1: it's important for adults to have their own experience. One
Speaker 1: of the people on the ship was a beautiful little girl.
Speaker 1: And I don't always like other people's kids. I often don't,
Speaker 1: and this was like a very special sweet girl. She
Speaker 1: was on my socials like she like literally latched onto
Speaker 1: me and was obsessed with me and clinging to me
Speaker 1: and would not leave my side. And it was like
Speaker 1: I became her best friend. She was four years old.
Speaker 1: It was so cute. But the people who ranged from
Speaker 1: thirties to sixties were so alive. It was I don't
Speaker 1: want to say it was a five star vacation because
Speaker 1: that's irrelevant. The house, the restaurants, the experience was a
Speaker 1: five star experience, but I've had five star experiences at
Speaker 1: the most expensive hotels in the world, and it's been
Speaker 1: you know, you go see something, you swim, you have
Speaker 1: an amazing time, you go to.
Speaker 2: Lunch, you shop, you repeat.
Speaker 1: Like this was from the minute you woke up until
Speaker 1: the minute you went to sleep, some majestic experience from
Speaker 1: these people that, like I said, are from humble means
Speaker 1: and live. They do travel, they make the most of
Speaker 1: it every single day. They like they're not getting surf instructors,
Speaker 1: like they're just taking the surfboard going through like the
Speaker 1: mouth of a river that has like a current that
Speaker 1: can pull you with rocks all over and crocodiles. I
Speaker 1: didn't see the crocodiles, but like to get to like
Speaker 1: this beach and they're just fucking going in and and
Speaker 1: and pray for the best and find the wave like
Speaker 1: or climbing trees like up high high trees and rock
Speaker 1: formations or ATV and you're like, that's a fly off
Speaker 1: the back of an ATV or horseback riding, but like
Speaker 1: everything is just so alive and not like swimming with
Speaker 1: dolphins and SeaWorld like respectfully SeaWorld, Like it just was
Speaker 1: so alive, the most incredible sunsets at like swinging on
Speaker 1: a swing and then you just wake up in.
Speaker 2: The morning to go to the beach.
Speaker 1: But yet you're with someone who's like making you climb
Speaker 1: to the top of a mountain and you're you're in
Speaker 1: chanelle slides like and then you get to the top
Speaker 1: and you could have like slid off there like I
Speaker 1: got you, Like you're not, nothing's gonna happen to you. Mud,
Speaker 1: You're covered head to toe, the inside of your ears
Speaker 1: are black. You ruined every article of clothing, and you're
Speaker 1: so dehydrated from going to the top of this, I
Speaker 1: don't know where the fuck we were. And then like
Speaker 1: there's a natural waterfall into a natural pool of water,
Speaker 1: and this slide, a water slide built into rock, Like
Speaker 1: it's not an actual slide, it's rock that somehow, over
Speaker 1: time has become this physical slide. And I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna slash my body, like but somehow you're just like
Speaker 1: going down it, and people who are six years old,
Speaker 1: you're doing backflips. It was just so alive and so
Speaker 1: real and so genuine and so honest and so fun
Speaker 1: and drank so much wine and just cried laughing and
Speaker 1: just had an amazing experience. And I was able to,
Speaker 1: you know, provide experiences for these people too that were
Speaker 1: not about like it doesn't matter that I have money
Speaker 1: and could do anything, pay for anything, by anything. It's
Speaker 1: just like there was some special experiences that happened on
Speaker 1: the island as a result of me being who I am,
Speaker 1: and that's something that these people would never normally experience.
Speaker 2: And it made me feel great.
Speaker 1: Like someone from this trip, a woman who's in her
Speaker 1: sixties who you know, had never flown first class before,
Speaker 1: Like I was like, you're coming with me at sports
Speaker 1: Illustrated like that weekend, like I'm flying you in and
Speaker 1: you're coming, like and she's like wait what, Like she's
Speaker 1: gonna come to like Sports Illustrated Fashion show Miami, Like
Speaker 1: you know, she was like, I've never been on a
Speaker 1: vacation like this in my entire life. I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: well you're coming, Like just it was. It was just
Speaker 1: such an amazing experience for me. Is what I want
Speaker 1: for my life for my daughter. It woke up the
Speaker 1: child in me that used to be in whales, like
Speaker 1: going to natural water pools that were like so dangerous,
Speaker 1: jumping off a bridge to get into them, that took
Speaker 1: every day from every boy in every classroom that you
Speaker 1: know has always been really adventurous. And recently, someone I
Speaker 1: was talking to I used to date, it was like
Speaker 1: you because there were two guys I was dating and
Speaker 1: I was deciding, like who's right for me. One is
Speaker 1: wor quote unquote lifestyle right for me. One is like
Speaker 1: more adventurous and like alive. And this was in you
Speaker 1: know a while back when I was just like contemplating
Speaker 1: something and the guy that knew me was like, you
Speaker 1: need adventure, Bethany, Like I haven't had enough of it.
Speaker 1: I've had enough stuff a shopping and yes, I've gone
Speaker 1: on experiences, and yes I've done amazing Thingsuse I've been
Speaker 1: sat in like my basement, you know. I've been to beaches,
Speaker 1: on paddle boards, on surfboards and yoga retreat like I've
Speaker 1: done it all. I've been on major boats and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. But like something about this hit different because
Speaker 1: of the group of people that I told you they
Speaker 1: were mostly Canadian, they were just beautiful human beings. And
Speaker 1: I just had a wonderful vacation. And I was also
Speaker 1: like good to come home because it was good to
Speaker 1: come home to just be able to reflect on it
Speaker 1: and to come to my beautiful life here and to
Speaker 1: beach walk here and to be excited for the next thing.
Speaker 1: Like it didn't I could be there for three weeks
Speaker 1: to a month, but like it didn't need to be
Speaker 1: three weeks, two month, Like I'm good. I like I
Speaker 1: leave the party at full till I like to leave
Speaker 1: a party when it's good. I come home and I'm
Speaker 1: happy to be home, like in my fresh, gorgeous bed,
Speaker 1: taking my bath, unpacked every inch of what I own
Speaker 1: to a tee because it's who I am.
Speaker 2: I had to go through the pr that came.
Speaker 1: I had to go, you know, figure out the things
Speaker 1: I get rid of because I have to do that
Speaker 1: every single week. Like it was just like nice to
Speaker 1: come home and to nest, but it really was extraordinary
Speaker 1: and also what a great gift I've been given in
Speaker 1: this life to help people that reach out. Like there
Speaker 1: was a hotel called Sendera and they had this restaurant
Speaker 1: and they reached out like would you come in? And
Speaker 1: it was something I could do for this group. They
Speaker 1: like literally gave us a dinner for ten people. And
Speaker 1: this group was like, wait that happens to you. I'm
Speaker 1: like it does, but like let's share it. And they
Speaker 1: had the most amazing food. It was spectacular food. This place,
Speaker 1: sender or the owner is this beautiful woman.
Speaker 2: They had.
Speaker 1: The lobster pasta was to sob over. I can always
Speaker 1: clock something. I could be driving on a highway and
Speaker 1: see something on the side of a strip, Mom be
Speaker 1: like we have to go there. A font could tell
Speaker 1: me everything about a place a door, like I'm just
Speaker 1: that person. So I saw this taco stand every day,
Speaker 1: pasted it and was like I want to go there.
Speaker 1: I said it to who I was with every day
Speaker 1: I want to go there, and I don't think I
Speaker 1: would have ended up making it. It looked cute, but
Speaker 1: they were gonna have tacos. It just looks something about it.
Speaker 1: And I was on the beach on a very remote
Speaker 1: beach and a woman who was holding a surfboard walked
Speaker 1: up like no one else was on the beach, and
Speaker 1: she said, are you Bethany Frankel. I said yes. She said,
Speaker 1: I have a lesbian taco stand. I go, wait, is
Speaker 1: it that place? Tacoe Tacos e Taco. She's like yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god. Every day she's like, well,
Speaker 1: can you come in? And I had a little bucket
Speaker 1: list for the trip. As I do that, I wanted
Speaker 1: to do a bunch of things and I still didn't
Speaker 1: do a lot of them. And long story short, she
Speaker 1: opens at eleven. I said, that's a touching story.
Speaker 2: I'm leaving town.
Speaker 1: I got you gotta open a nine thirty in the morning,
Speaker 1: I went. I had a Mark gay Rita at her stand.
Speaker 1: I had her fresh tacos. Her follower account went up.
Speaker 1: She was so amazing and like I was able to
Speaker 1: just like help end or give a little excitement to
Speaker 1: a beautiful lesbian woman and her taco stand and it's
Speaker 1: like so fun to do that, Like it's such a
Speaker 1: fun thing to like, Hi, I'm gonna bet to change
Speaker 1: your entire life in business. You know Organica Cafe in
Speaker 1: Costa Rica, like I had amazing. I had very good,
Speaker 1: slightly too salty, but very good chicken salad. They were dying,
Speaker 1: like they like posted about it, like they didn't know
Speaker 1: I was coming in a woman. I have low blood pressure.
Speaker 1: I tend to faint. We've talked about this. I get
Speaker 1: very dehydrated. I fainted in a store like was going down.
Speaker 1: Asked a perfect stranger in a tiny store if I
Speaker 1: could lay on her couch. I think the store is
Speaker 1: called Magic, It's on my story. And she ends up
Speaker 1: giving me water, giving me pineapple. Women who are on
Speaker 1: a yoga retreat there at the Body Tree were coming
Speaker 1: in and like, wait, you're Bethany Frankel. Like I was
Speaker 1: on the floor. One of them gave me her hydrate
Speaker 1: should packet. I literally was taking photos of women sitting
Speaker 1: on the floor. I was consulting their purchases on the
Speaker 1: floor because I couldn't move yet till my you know,
Speaker 1: my person came to get me and it was just
Speaker 1: that woman was amazing, but I also was able to
Speaker 1: put her business on social. It just was incredible. So
Speaker 1: I had a wonderful time. Thank you to you all
Speaker 1: for being such inspiration and for being people that I
Speaker 1: want to share things with and like bring back stories,
Speaker 1: and to the people in my group and to people
Speaker 1: in Nasara, and to myself because my New Year's resolution
Speaker 1: was to be open and I was definitely that. So
Speaker 1: I'm excited