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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? It's your girl lex P And it's

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Speaker 3: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine Birthday?

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Speaker 1: Is she my bad? I supposed to say, we're a

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Speaker 1: drunk mind speaks sober thoughts and we ain't got no

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Speaker 1: gifts today. We ain't got no gifts today. It's my birthday.

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Speaker 3: It's it's your birthday. It's your birthday, bad bitch contest

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Speaker 3: you and fire black you and fire Bla you in

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Speaker 1: Birthday are Oh that was a great intro. You know

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Speaker 1: I busted down. You did now you work it down.

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Speaker 1: You didn't play no game, you know what I'm saying. Okay,

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Speaker 1: another another forest season, the.

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Speaker 3: Other tourist season. You see, we got the birthday cupcakes.

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Speaker 3: It's your thirty fourth years on this Earth. And if

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Speaker 3: y'all didn't know, April twenty second is also Earth Day,

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Speaker 3: it is. It is Earth Day every year. April twenty

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Speaker 3: second is Earth Day. So you're thirty four years on

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Speaker 3: this Earth. How are you feeling? You just ended your

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Speaker 3: seventy five hard You've done amazing job. Thank you, thirty

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Speaker 3: five days no liquor, working out, you got a six

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Speaker 3: pack now I do looking good?

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Speaker 1: How you feeling? I feel great? I feel amazing, Like

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Speaker 1: I feel so unstoppable. I feel so empowered. I was

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Speaker 1: just saying this the other day. I just dropped another

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Speaker 1: I was just saying how empowered I feel and unstoppable

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Speaker 1: I feel from doing this challenge. So many people when

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Speaker 1: I posted on Instagram like it was my seventy fifth

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Speaker 1: But I really feel like it's not like a huge

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Speaker 1: it was more of a mental thing, like it was

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Speaker 1: One of my major goals for myself is just to

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Speaker 3: So do you feel like from thirty three to thirty

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Speaker 3: that is what people deem not fun. So you were

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Speaker 1: So that is a feat that not too many people

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Speaker 3: a lot of shit changed for me when I turned thirty. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: So what's something that you used to do your twenties

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Speaker 1: got older, Like I feel like when I got into

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00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 1: like what my like me to late twenties, I started

433
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 1: really trying of getting into makeup. So, like when I

434
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 1: was in my early twenties, I used to be washing

435
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: my face every day, but I used to say, it's

436
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:18,160
Speaker 1: the norm.

437
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 2: No, girl.

438
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: When we was at Dreams, I'm telling you, we used

439
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 1: to literally like, no, that's crazy. I didn't know.

440
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think the life cyeah we lived working

441
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 3: at Dreams, cause, like I said, Dreams was like the

442
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 3: popping strip club.

443
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: If you was not, they're living it you.

444
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 3: It's hard to explain because like it was me, Jazz

445
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 3: my girl here. We literally used to leave the club

446
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 3: six seven o'clock in the morning. We would always go

447
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 3: stay at one of our apartments. Whoever was closest and

448
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 3: whoever wasn't drunk they could drive, And like I said,

449
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 3: by the time I laid my head down, I had

450
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 3: to get back up because.

451
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,879
Speaker 1: I was in school and I had another job. So,

452
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: like I said, I used to have to decide, do.

453
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 3: You want to wash your face and go to work

454
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 3: with no makeup on, or do you want to get

455
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 3: some rest. I'm twenty three years old, I'm going to sleep, bitch.

456
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 3: Like I said, It's not something I'm like, oh yeah,

457
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 3: that's what the bitch, that's what the fuck it was.

458
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 3: And we wasn't living in a time.

459
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: Where you know, cute, but you're so cute without making

460
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: years old.

461
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 3: I didn't know that though, cause twenty three year old

462
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 3: me didn't see that. I didn't see girls showing up

463
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 3: to the club with no makeup on, with little gloss on,

464
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 3: looking cute. We saw that us with the middle Park

465
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 3: bust down with the flashes on. That's what we saw.

466
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 3: So we had to look like that. Because this was

467
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:39,880
Speaker 3: the era of the girls. The bartenders had to start

468
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 3: looking like the dancers.

469
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:45,159
Speaker 1: Y'all didn't lived that era. Y'all got to bartend before

470
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 1: that or after that. You have to be a bad

471
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 1: bitch to bar tend, So I got to compete with

472
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: a bitch you got a spaghetti thone in ass and

473
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: the bartenders is still like that. I think it's worse now.

474
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's worse now, but beginning era that so

475
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 3: it was a lot more pressure. Like I said, nowadays,

476
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 3: if you cut you cute.

477
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 1: Because I used to be going to work no make up. Yeah,

478
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Y'all gonna get this natural phase.

479
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 3: By the time, like when I moved to Atlanta, and

480
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 3: like I was still kind of working in the club.

481
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was, I'm showing up. I can do

482
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,879
Speaker 3: a little lash, yeah, a little. But when I was

483
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 3: twenty three, that was what that was twelve years ago,

484
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 3: twelve thirteen years ago, maybe it was a different time.

485
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 1: It was okay. So for me, I would definitely say

486
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: being out all night and then getting up early, that's

487
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: one that was cute back then. But I just can't

488
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 1: do it now. I'd be so grumpy if I don't

489
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 1: get at least seven hours of sleep, like I need

490
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: at least a good semi. I'd be so grumpy. And

491
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 1: you could tell like I'm not trying to be here,

492
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: which well I take that bag. You can't tell. But

493
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 1: I just know myself and I feel like my temperament

494
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: be a little off when I haven't got enough sleep.

495
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 1: I think I do my best to see it'll be

496
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 1: nice and pleasant, but I need my sleep. I can't

497
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: do it. But when I was younger, I'm talking about

498
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 1: be out till six in the morning, go to the club,

499
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 1: go to the strip club, go to the after hours,

500
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 1: creeping in when the sun coming up, and then gotta

501
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: be at work. At eight o'clock. That's how I used

502
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 1: to be living. I can't do it no more, I

503
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: really cannot. I love to be in my bed, tucked

504
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: in Getting Rid of bed Time story by TMPM. Yeah

505
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 1: I agree. I think being a homebody is okay.

506
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 3: Yeah in your twenties, like people make saying, are you

507
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 3: always gonna be at home?

508
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's peaceful there. I'm safe there in your twenties, though,

509
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: I do, I feel like that's a little you know,

510
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be outside and having fun.

511
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 3: Up about balance, Like I said, if I could go

512
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 3: back to my twenties, I would be just a little

513
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 3: bit more focused. Cause if I was focused in my twenties,

514
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 3: I am now I'll be a millionaire by now.

515
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But there's people who was

516
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: but to to be the devil's advocate. It's people who

517
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: was focused in a twenties and a stool our meanionaires.

518
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: If that makes you feel better, don't it should? Because

519
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: they was real focused, then they still not really doing it.

520
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 3: I mean, it happens, Yeah, I guess. I just feel

521
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 3: like I should have had more balance in my twenties,

522
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: Oh for sure, because if you was out every night.

523
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 1: You definitely I wasn't working, because, mind you, I work

524
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 1: at the club, so you would think on my days off,

525
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 1: I would take a day off because I'm already baby.

526
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 3: No, I'm like, oh I don't work, somebody, I'm going out.

527
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 3: That's why I say I was living a wild life.

528
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 3: But I also think that was our culture too, right

529
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 3: when I was in college. It was all the way

530
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 3: turned up, swag service like all of that stuff that.

531
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 1: Was roside life, all my not making come on. Like

532
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: we were in the in the club cleaning bottles together

533
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: like that, we was leaking. We was wasted. Yeah, white,

534
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm wasted. She wasted. Man. The times now people are

535
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: little type jeans like the white boys. Yes, man. People

536
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: are a little more cognizant on what they're putting in

537
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: their body there in public. Yeah. The new generation is

538
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: more into drugs and other things, not necessarily getting lit

539
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: and turned up like we were, because you know, they

540
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: be into dying what they do. Yeah, oh lord, and

541
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: have mercy. They be doing all the drugs and ship

542
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: all the stuffs and nobody got time to see. We

543
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: we love some good old here the sea. Back in

544
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: my day, a little four loco that's where we was

545
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 1: gonna take it. Maybe maybe even a little molly if

546
00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: you're feeling frisky that night. But I'll be taking these

547
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,239
Speaker 1: too far. Y'all be taking me too yeah, because I'm

548
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: not even gonna lie. I grew up with the white

549
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: boys you did. Yeah, like we used to be drunk.

550
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 3: But like the drug scene, Like, I'm not gonna lie

551
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 3: the coke, yeah, but I'm not gonna lie. I'm not

552
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 3: saying that coke is normal. But coke, that's they used

553
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 3: to do that. And what's that club called in New York?

554
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: What was fifty four? Like that? That's an old school drug. No, yeah,

555
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: coke was like the drug of the seventies, you know

556
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

557
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 3: But y'all the ship that y'all doing now, like it's

558
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 3: a little different. They got some names I ain't never

559
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 3: heard of, and ship like that, y'all have some different types.

560
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: The kids be willing, and they do it in public.

561
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: It used to be at nowadays on stream. Yeah, bitch

562
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: what back in the day, she right, though, they would

563
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: do it in private. The only way people would know

564
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: you come out.

565
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 3: You got a little oh my, no listen, because that

566
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 3: was being like when the when the that girl started

567
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: doing it, it was like, oh my god. So when

568
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 3: we used to be at dreams, like it was like, oh,

569
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 3: let me look out for you type shit, like it

570
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 3: was so.

571
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: Down low because it was like, oh my god. Yes,

572
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: it was like, oh my god. It was. It was

573
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: such a big deal. But nowadays it's like, oh, you

574
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: gotta peel bitch, yeah, because you got And they looked

575
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: me like that too, Oh you gotta pell you what

576
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: you got that thing on you? And they'd be like

577
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 1: they'd be doing it on the open like maybe we

578
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 1: was ladies back ladies. We were late and I'm not

579
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: gonna lie. Personally, I was always too afraid to try coke,

580
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: Like I just was always scared of what it would

581
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: do to me. So I never tried it. But I did,

582
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: you know, I popped a little little molly popped popped up.

583
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm wating. But it was the influence.

584
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 2: It was.

585
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: It was. It wasn't We probably shouldn't have said that

586
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: on the show.

587
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's a life though, but we're living.

588
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 3: But we're teaching y'all that this is not something I'm

589
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 3: not gonna lie to you.

590
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: Did I'm out here now, probably look, yeah I did,

591
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: but I didn't do it no more. But I'm telling

592
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: you every knew the way over there looking shocked. I knew.

593
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: I just wasn't gonna say it because I don't have

594
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,239
Speaker 1: nothing to be a shrap out.

595
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 3: But I say that to say it wasn't like something

596
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 3: I continuously did, because let me tell you, the people

597
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 3: that continuously do it, they not doing this right now.

598
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 3: I got my shit together. I literally I was like,

599
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 3: I'm not like I said to this day. I don't

600
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 3: drink every day. I don't go out every day. I

601
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 3: knew that that environment that I was in because let

602
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 3: me tell you, I took some time off from dreams

603
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 3: and I started I got a regular job, and then

604
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 3: I had to go back. And when I went back,

605
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 3: I said, I cannot do this. This is not where

606
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 3: I want to be. That fun fast lifestyle is something

607
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 3: that was a short period of my life and I'm

608
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 3: glad I lived it, but I knew I don't want.

609
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: To be like y'all.

610
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 3: There was nobody in that club that I was looking

611
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 3: at like, wow, girl, you made it, you did that.

612
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: You ate that. It was nobody. I didn't have nobody

613
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: to look up to. It was like, oh my god,

614
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: you did it. You made it out.

615
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 3: It's a few girls that were working in the strip

616
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 3: club that I see now that are doing well for themselves.

617
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: So when I say few, I'm talking like one or two.

618
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say, because that's all I

619
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: could think. Good were talking about the club. You was it?

620
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 3: Yes, I can literally think of two women that I

621
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 3: that were dancers or bartenders or anything that are doing

622
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 3: well for themselves.

623
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: That's sick. And it was hundreds of them there, and

624
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: they was fine, beautiful girls.

625
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 3: Beautiful that don't matter if you don't got your head

626
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 3: on straight. And that's one thing I can say. I

627
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 3: thank the club for teaching.

628
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: Me what not to do. Oh for sure. I always

629
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: say that too, though, But I think that was always

630
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: a goal that I had for myself, even looking back

631
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: to like when you moved to Atlanta. I remember I

632
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: used to tell you all the time. I used to

633
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: be like, Licks, I'm not gonna be thirty working in

634
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: the club. You did say that. I used to always

635
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: say that. I used to be like, I don't know

636
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: what the fuck I'm gonna do. I don't know what

637
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: I need to figure but I'm gonna figure out something

638
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: because I cannot be thirty years old still working in

639
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: the club. And again, it's not no shade to the

640
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: women who are there who are still working, because sometimes

641
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: you gotta do what you gotta do. People be having situations,

642
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: they be having children. You gotta put food on the

643
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: table for your kids. You have to do what you

644
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: have to do. But for me, it was just something

645
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: that I just knew I didn't want to be a

646
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: part of because it's just so hard to not get

647
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: caught up in it. That's it's all about, with that

648
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: fast money. Like you, before you realize it, it'll be

649
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 1: five six years you don't have been working at the

650
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: same club, and you don't got so used to making

651
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: that fast money. And because you're making it so fast

652
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: and you know you're gonna make it every week, you're

653
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: not investing, you're not saving, you just blowing money fast. Literally.

654
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: I think you just thought I was big, meaning I

655
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: definitely thought I was Larry Hoovery.

656
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 3: You could not tell me, Okay, I'm this is funny.

657
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 3: Now we can laugh at it now. I showed a

658
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 3: weekend y'all All Star Weekend. I think I made like

659
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 3: I don't know, like seven thousand dollars and I'm just like,

660
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 3: and that was in like one night though, and I'm

661
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 3: just thinking, like, I'm on.

662
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: Top of the world. I thought I was unstoppable. I

663
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: had seven thousand dollars in my pocket. I'm like twenty five, bitch,

664
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm thinking, I like it.

665
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 3: This was the weekend Taana Taylor dropped them Adida shoes.

666
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 3: Do y'all remember what she had that gold them golden

667
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 3: black baby. I went to the mall, I had them holes.

668
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 3: I had a friend that worked at her. They had

669
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 3: them on the side for me.

670
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: I passed.

671
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 3: I'm walking past the line, me and Jazz, my friend,

672
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 3: my bartender, and we like, yeah, we dropped like we

673
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 3: really thought we was cool. That's what I'm saying. So

674
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 3: Cau Sierra wasn't there because she was still sleep. I

675
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I got Kiera shoes.

676
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and night and work Taylor drops bitch. We thought

677
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: we was egg Yeah. I thought y'all was holy. But

678
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what a simple time though. Used to be

679
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 1: so excited, y'all. Y'all were so excited about them. Tell

680
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 1: on the tailor shoes. These days, if you ain't pulling

681
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 1: up to the club with your Chanelle sneakers on. You

682
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing, no, not even the Chanell snickers. Because

683
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: did you pull up in the rosewors or not? Did

684
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 1: you pull up in a rosworse? Did you put up

685
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: in a g wes If you did any bitch, if

686
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 1: you pulled up in a shame on you girl. They

687
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: even still make prices. Yeah, yeah, because I oh, I remember,

688
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 1: I used to want a prize so bad. That's what

689
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, A simple time to cool because oh my god,

690
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to PRIs so bad. I was in my

691
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,800
Speaker 1: twenties because I just thought it was so cool. And

692
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: I say all the saying made that song and he

693
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 1: did pre season. I was like, what's wrong? He said

694
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 1: on twenty three years old? And I ain't riding in

695
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: the priest And after that I didn't want one. I

696
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: was like, you got shame not the Prince. But I

697
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: found that to say even if you.

698
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 3: And I'm not trying to talk, we're not trying to

699
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 3: talk down on people who are in the thirties working

700
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 3: in the club.

701
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,760
Speaker 1: I think it's all about but mentality that you should

702
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: you should. The goal should be to get the money

703
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: to invest it or to do something else with it

704
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: so that you're not thirty in the club. It's not

705
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: nothing wrong if you are, but I personally just that's

706
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: not ideal. Being thirty in the club is not a

707
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: life plan. That's not where you should be in my opinion.

708
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: It's okay if you are there, but I feel like,

709
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: if you have been doing this for five six years already,

710
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: you should be at the club. After year five, I

711
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: was gonna say, you're three, you a five, you should

712
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: be at the club. You gotta in the club. It's

713
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: not how it even used to, not at all. The

714
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: niggas is not Big Meets or Larry Hoover, no more

715
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: big Meats.

716
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 3: You got out and he been chilling. He don't even

717
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 3: like how the club scene look.

718
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:01,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it ain't the same. The street dry streets is

719
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: dry people you niggas just But I will say people.

720
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 3: Are trying to figure out how to get the legal

721
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 3: money because we've realized it's no longevity in that.

722
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. I thought for a while,

723
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: I was like, being a bartender, is it you wanted

724
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: a trapper? What I was like, I'm finna find my nigga.

725
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 3: I'm finna be like d bartender, because you gotta realize

726
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 3: that was a time where the Vegas was popping, and

727
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 3: it was like, if you can make it to Vegas

728
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 3: and bartend, it's a career out there. I'm like, they're

729
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 3: clearing six figures a year. I was like, I can

730
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 3: do that because not only am I fine and I

731
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 3: know how to work in the club scene, I can

732
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 3: actually make drinks.

733
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: So even with that, I still had a bigger vision.

734
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,720
Speaker 1: But it's like, girl, get your old ass out the club.

735
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 3: When I moved to Atlanta and I turned thirty, I

736
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 3: said I and they gave me an outfit to where

737
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 3: I said, hey, I'm gonna have to go when they

738
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 3: try to give me the little spandex outfit, I said, hey,

739
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 3: this was my last night work and I said, hey,

740
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 3: you know what, it has been a fun time.

741
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: I said, I can't do this. That was probably my

742
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 1: favorite thing though, But like I feel like you could

743
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: dress up and be cute and like, couldn't nobody judge

744
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: you for it? Because alady I did that.

745
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 3: We did that at Dreams, like we used to wear

746
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 3: I used to be behind the bar, I used to

747
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:16,919
Speaker 3: be in the phone.

748
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 1: Oh I remember you. I used to see you. I

749
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: remember when me and Lex versus became friends. I was like, oh,

750
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 1: I didn't seen you before. I used to see you

751
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: all the time mixed up. I used to be like,

752
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: I guess she didnt used to love she was the

753
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: love cover to the bar. Give her her shrink. No,

754
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: that wasn't until we became friends. I'm talking about once

755
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: all before before. See I don't remember that because I

756
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: used to be like, Okay, I see you your little

757
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: I remember you with the Medda's fool. That's why I

758
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 1: said I remember what the fuck? Oh? I was like, okay,

759
00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: Lex feed I had all the local raw first, all

760
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: the local rappers. I'm not gonna lie to y'all. Dreams

761
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: was really like, that's a that's one. But that's what

762
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's one of the things about getting older

763
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: where it's just like I do feel bad for the

764
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: use they need to experience it in our dreams. Close Baby.

765
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: I got woken up on a random Monday morning.

766
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 3: By my boss and said, get dressed, get every get

767
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 3: the girls together.

768
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: We got something happening, like Baby. We went in there.

769
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: It was Drake and like all like his friends, and

770
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: it was like four or five dancers and just us

771
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: and it was a time bitch, like we couldn't bring

772
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: our phones in. But it's like if I said this,

773
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: they'd be like, you're making that up. No I'm not.

774
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: But if you knew dreams, this is what we used

775
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: to do. I mean, and people have to understand, like

776
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: back in the day, I feel like it was easier

777
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: to be around celebrities because everybody wasn't like recording and

778
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 1: everybody didn't have.

779
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:02,439
Speaker 3: That from time Drake said right here, yeah, Eric Recipeto

780
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,319
Speaker 3: Soo was DJing, yeah, and nobody was.

781
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: Doing none of this because we wasn't worried about that

782
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 1: because that wasn't the thing to do back in because

783
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: I was trying to get us one. That's when I mean,

784
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: we were trying to get us one, but we was

785
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: also working. I was really trying to get our money,

786
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,320
Speaker 1: Like you're not worried about because it is before you

787
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: could get popular from cloud from recording people and some

788
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: in a blog picking it up. Blogs wasn't even looking

789
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: at that type of stuff. Back in the day, they

790
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: was posting real celebrities.

791
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 3: I forgot his name. We used to have him a

792
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 3: name one of my old bays, but that was not.

793
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 3: I met him that night that Drake was at the club.

794
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: Time. What a time. We really used to be having

795
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: a good time. No cameras, everybody was having a good time.

796
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: Everybody was getting lit turned up. You wasn't worried about

797
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 1: trying to get posty and it was just great. Now

798
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: they be taking your phone, they'd be putting what they

799
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: got their little ship that they put your phone. You

800
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: could keep it phone on you, but you gotta have

801
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: it locked. Like, what type of shit is dad? What's

802
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 1: that man name that was on the BMF show? What mean?

803
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 1: Not little me? Not little me? Who was his? The dude?

804
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 1: The Vinci child, Davin She she had a comedy show.

805
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 3: We go to the comedy show. He made everybody lock

806
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,439
Speaker 3: their phones up. And don't get me wrong, the show

807
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 3: was good. But we didn't have to lock our phones

808
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 3: up for that.

809
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: It was straight no. We could have left our phones

810
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: out for that one, big bro. No. So I went

811
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 1: to I went to Dave chappelle comedy show in Houston

812
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: two years ago, and he made everybody lock they phone

813
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: up too. But that's what I was gonna say to me.

814
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: No matter who it is, I understand because it's like

815
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: if you have content, or you have jokes or whatever,

816
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 1: it may be that you don't want to be out

817
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: yet or you want people to actually pay to be

818
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: able to see the show. It makes sense to me

819
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: why people provide that service that they shows because they

820
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: don't want their content getting leaked early.

821
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 3: Well, I think it's more so about people editing content

822
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 3: to make something that they said and twisting their words.

823
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:07,839
Speaker 1: Because I'm not gonna lie. I don't give a fuck.

824
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 3: If you record a poor Mind's I might tell the

825
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,760
Speaker 3: joke again, or I may deliver it in a different

826
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: type of way. We have a different crowd every night,

827
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 3: so we interact with our crowd. Yeah, those two poor

828
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 3: mind shows are the same. But with Dave Chappelle Kevin Hart,

829
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 3: people like that, it's a little different. The only reason

830
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 3: I said about Da Vinci because I think it was

831
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 3: more and so of he gets very wrong with his shows,

832
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 3: So I think it was more so like he don't

833
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 3: want somebody to record something and they try to like

834
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 3: twist it and make it seem like he was trying

835
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 3: to say something that he wasn't.

836
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think he'd be a little bit of both.

837
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: I think sometimes they just want to be able to

838
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: publicize their content the way that they want to, monetized

839
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: it the way that they want to. You can control

840
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 1: the narrative that way, they just gonna be wanted out.

841
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: But I don't see anything wrong with that because we

842
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: live in an era where people are constantly recording everything.

843
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 1: Like you know, if you have a show nine times

844
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: out of teen and he's gonna end up on the

845
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 1: Shade Room or he's not end up on Neighborhood Talk

846
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: on one of those websites before you post anything, because

847
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 1: it's gonna be thousands of people in the crowd that's

848
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: recording something that people didn't have to worry about ten

849
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago. You know, now what a time it was. Really,

850
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 1: I stayed all the time. I got a video. I

851
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: have a photo, not a video. I have a photo

852
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: in my phone of Beyonce. We were at the club together.

853
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 1: We didn't come to get there, but you can say

854
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: y'all did live, y'all. I don't know, y'all was not there.

855
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 1: It was ten years ago. And I was literally like

856
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 1: she was right there and I was right here, and

857
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: I took a photo and I still have it in

858
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: my phone because this is back in the day when

859
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: people was in the club not recording stuff. We was

860
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: at Griffin in New York. It was all star wee

861
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Speaker 1: here in twenty fifteen, and me and my best friend

862
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: Jordan were solid because we was like, is that Beyonce

863
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: and she was? She used to be outside? She did,

864
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: and I could say I was outside too.

865
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 3: I remember the time whch y'all can go out on

866
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 3: the era Like I said, I used to work in

867
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 3: the era where Kim Kardashian used to host clubs.

868
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: This is the old Beaches episode that Gonna be Lady

869
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: the Host all Beyonce crazy.

870
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 3: I was outside when Kim Kardashian was outside because I

871
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 3: remember at one point, like the clubs in Houston was

872
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 3: trying to book her but they couldn't afford it because

873
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 3: she was texting like at that time it was like

874
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 3: a hundred K. But she used to always be at

875
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 3: the clubs in Vegas and that's why we used to

876
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 3: be like, Oh my gosh, imagine bartending a party that

877
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 3: Kim Kardashian is host and you know that chick finna

878
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 3: be crazy. So yeah, we was outside during the time

879
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 3: where the the IT girls was really outside, like we

880
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 3: had the It girls. Lady go Got used to be

881
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 3: performing in the clubs during this time.

882
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: With Lady Got.

883
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 3: No, I've never been in the club with her, but

884
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 3: during this time, Lady Gotta was in the malls, performing

885
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 3: in the clubs, performing.

886
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: Like the gay clubs.

887
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 3: She was there, I know she was outside like I

888
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 3: lived in era. We was at the club when they premiered. Sorry,

889
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 3: I got excited when Fattie Wap and Drake's don't drop.

890
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,879
Speaker 1: All I gotta do is cut my mind to his ship.

891
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 3: They Drake said that ship to DJ Eric and he

892
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:09,720
Speaker 3: premiered that ship at.

893
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: The club like we were at the time. That was

894
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: when you what what else? That what a time to

895
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Speaker 1: be a lot with some limes U.

896
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Speaker 3: They revealed that Drake in Future was coming out with

897
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Speaker 3: a collap album and they played that album.

898
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 1: He was in the club when it happened. It was wild,

899
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Speaker 1: Thank you and that's actually one of my favorite albums ever.

900
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Speaker 1: What is time We Got Live is the massive with

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Speaker 1: the world premiere premiere. We got that with the world premiere.

902
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Speaker 1: Let's take our shade. Oh lord, yeah, you turn up,

903
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: she said she before we take that trying to get

904
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Speaker 1: white girl wasted. This is what I have to say

905
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: about Big Lex p Okay, come on, gonna lie, And

906
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 1: in junior high high school volleyball, I was cold.

907
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 3: My jersey's still up in the gym class clown, been

908
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 3: that girl.

909
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: In college, I.

910
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 3: Did my fucking thing. I had a show on TSU network.

911
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 3: I used to do the radio, and I worked at

912
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 3: the most popping club. Now I got Poor Minds, the

913
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 3: number one podcast in with the girls. I've been that

914
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 3: bitch for a very fucking long time, and it's hard

915
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 3: to be relevant as long as I have been.

916
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 1: So cheers to that. Cheers. That's how I be feeling.

917
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to go down my resume though, because

918
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't. I think that'd be like

919
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: the Earth signing me. You know, I think I'm getting

920
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 1: to a point to where I'm a little googleaboo. Come on,

921
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: big Google, come on, Big Google. Typ what are we

922
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: drinking today? But yeah? Because oh, but I feel like

923
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: I've lived so many different lives, like from high school

924
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: to college, to my early twenties to me moving to

925
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: Atlanta that was a whole another era, and then now

926
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Speaker 1: in my thirties, and I feel like my thirties have

927
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Speaker 1: been some of the most amazing years of my life,

928
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Speaker 1: like so much abundance, so much growth, so many blessings,

929
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,240
Speaker 1: and so much annointing from God. Like I'm just super grateful.

930
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Speaker 1: Got it? Amazing? He really is? Oh yes, soonerful. Well

931
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Speaker 1: we drinking sease? Okay, girl, We're gonna call this one

932
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Speaker 1: thirty glow. I wrote something special for my girl, Drea.

933
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Speaker 1: I did rex please, I want you to. Let's get

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935
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Speaker 1: You need to calm down today, all right, So thirty glow.

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Speaker 1: It's a sparkling celebration of brilliant beauty and boldness. This

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939
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Speaker 1: wanting more. A touch of lemon adds the perfect balance,

941
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Speaker 1: symbolizing her sharp wit and honesty that always cuts through

942
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943
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945
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Speaker 1: and the way she naturally elevates every room she walks into.

946
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Speaker 1: Then we garnish it with a candied lemon and a

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949
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Speaker 1: This is my last part. This is more than a cocktail.

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Speaker 1: It's a toast to Drea's glow, growth and greatness. Cheers

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Speaker 1: to another fabulous here. Oh Tarth size is the one

952
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Speaker 1: I tell I know that's fucking right because it bit

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Speaker 1: you know what infraveces me. I was gonna she felt

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Speaker 1: the spelling bee. It's okay, though, but no, that was

955
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Speaker 1: really so sweet And I love everything that you said.

956
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Speaker 1: I love when people call me weedy because that's how

957
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Speaker 1: I always describe myself, Like that's how I describe my humor.

958
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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm very weedy. Yeah, you are silent sniper? Period?

959
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Speaker 1: Is I like that American sniper? Yeah? I think that

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Speaker 1: that's like a really everything that she said, I feel

961
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Speaker 1: like that really kind of embodies who I am. And

962
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964
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Speaker 1: that really describes me. They feel like it makes you

965
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966
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Speaker 1: I know that somebody who loves me that drinks of

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Speaker 3: Love y'all, y'all, but no I'm saying a testament to

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Speaker 3: what you were saying.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,320
Speaker 3: It's so oh good when people really see you, like

1008
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Speaker 3: they can get past the hooplah and what.

1009
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: Everybody, but they really see you and who you are,

1010
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Speaker 1: Oh for sure. But I think that it's easy to

1011
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: see that about us or whatever you're like. Why, I

1012
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: like it's easy to see that about me. I do

1013
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: like people that are around us on a daily basis.

1014
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't be giving a damn, no disrespects, but I

1015
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: don't be really giving a damn with people who like

1016
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: watch the show who have never met me in real

1017
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: life think about me. It's always about the people that

1018
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: are around me and really feel my energy and can

1019
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,440
Speaker 1: like see my spirit and really get to know me

1020
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: for who I am in my core. I don't think

1021
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: it's hard for people that are around me and get

1022
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 1: to know me to tell who I really am. I

1023
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 1: think that maybe for people on the outside looking in,

1024
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:49,399
Speaker 1: because you're not able to really witness the energy, you're

1025
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: not able to have like conversations with me, you're just

1026
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 1: watching me from a TV screen or whatever. But I

1027
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,919
Speaker 1: don't know. I think it's definitely different and when people

1028
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: are around you that can feel your or if you

1029
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: have like a magnetic energy, they could really No, yeah,

1030
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I was That's what I was saying.

1031
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 3: I was like, I think a lot of times people

1032
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 3: misjudge both of us just from watching, but you're right,

1033
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 3: but they don't know us.

1034
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, the people that are around us can really you know,

1035
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: they can pick up on who we really are, and like,

1036
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 1: since our real personalities, since if we being fake, since

1037
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,880
Speaker 1: it's like we really giving off who we say we are.

1038
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 1: Because I think a lot of the time people try

1039
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: to say that they one way, but when you around people,

1040
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: they can't fake the phone. You're gonna pick up on

1041
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: what's real, you know what I mean. And I think

1042
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 1: a lot of the time people get away with that

1043
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: because it's easy to portray ourselfs a certain way online,

1044
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: but when people are around you, they gonna sensey, you

1045
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: can't fake the phone. So yeah, so now it's time

1046
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: to get into topic number two. Does your relationship with

1047
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: your body change as you get older?

1048
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 3: Ooh, this is interesting. I think it does, and I

1049
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 3: think it also has to. And I'm talking from a

1050
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 3: perspective of thinking of you just being a little girl

1051
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 3: to your body changing to being you know a woman.

1052
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:11,320
Speaker 1: You know, we're in our mid thirties.

1053
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 3: Now, your relationship with your body absolutely has to change.

1054
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 3: You have to change how you view yourself and understand

1055
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:20,280
Speaker 3: that things change.

1056
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 1: You know, I can't eat how I used to eat

1057
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: when I was sixteen.

1058
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 3: But I also have to understand that it's okay to

1059
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 3: have a jelly roll, or it's okay to have textured skin,

1060
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 3: It's okay to have stretch marks, it's okay to have cellulite.

1061
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,720
Speaker 1: I think that in our younger years.

1062
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 3: You know, when you're fifteen, sixteen, baby, body was tight, body.

1063
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Speaker 1: Was smooth, flawless. In my twenty three.

1064
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I could go to sleep with my makeup on

1065
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 3: and wake up and then when I did wash my face,

1066
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 3: skin was still clear.

1067
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Speaker 1: Because I was twenty three. You could, but you shouldn't.

1068
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Speaker 1: I shouldn't.

1069
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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that I should have, but I'm saying,

1070
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 3: thirty five year old, if I would sleeping my makeup today,

1071
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 3: which I haven't done in years, but if I did

1072
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 3: that today, baby, I'm waking up with a pimple.

1073
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:07,439
Speaker 1: I'm waking up my nose bumpy as fuck.

1074
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 3: Right, everything just suggested I can't do that now, So

1075
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 3: I think your relationship with your body, it has to

1076
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 3: change as you age, because if it doesn't, you're gonna

1077
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 3: lose your confidence.

1078
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: I just think aging is such a beautiful thing, and

1079
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,959
Speaker 1: I can't believe that at one point in my life

1080
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: it was something that I really was like so terrified

1081
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: of and ran from. It's really a beautiful thing. Like, Yeah,

1082
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna have those changes, but you have to embrace

1083
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: them because you only get one body, and the thing

1084
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,359
Speaker 1: about your body is you can always make it better.

1085
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,720
Speaker 1: You could put more effort into taking care of yourself,

1086
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: being more healthy, like the foods you consume, what you're

1087
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: actually putting into your body, and then also working out,

1088
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: taking better care of your body physically, taking better care

1089
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: of your mental, your mind, reading books, meditating, just you

1090
00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: have to put pride in value into yourself, because I

1091
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 1: think that's something too. As you get older, you do

1092
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: realize like I'm gonna be me regardless, I'm only gonna

1093
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: ever get to be myself. I'm never gonna be able

1094
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 1: to be anybody else, So I need to put my

1095
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 1: all into making myself a better version of myself. I

1096
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 1: think certain changes with my body that I've noticed as

1097
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 1: I've gotten older, like child dimples, cell you like in

1098
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 1: places that it should not be, stretch marks in places

1099
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: that it should not be. And I used to always stand.

1100
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: When I was younger, I had it moss, and I

1101
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: feel like, but I don't have none. I have one,

1102
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: but it'd be getting bigger. I have one right here,

1103
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: and it was so little when I was I mean,

1104
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:49,360
Speaker 1: it's still kind of little, but I feel like it's bigger.

1105
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 1: I know I saw that too, but it's okay. I'm

1106
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: gonna get it burned off. Don't worry. Why what you mean?

1107
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 1: But why it's not ugly? That's what I'm saying. If

1108
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: it it's bigger, if it continues to grow, it will

1109
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:07,240
Speaker 1: be gone. If it stays this, if it stays decides,

1110
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: it's fine. I don't know. It's just something about it.

1111
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: I don't like this. It's not for me. It's it's

1112
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: beautiful on y'all. It's beautiful on y'all love it, magnifiqu

1113
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:28,399
Speaker 1: on me. No, thank you, she said, y'all that movie

1114
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 1: Death becomes hard and they're like, hey, you know that

1115
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: is arrey. Oh my No, I don't hate getting older.

1116
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 1: I hate this is this contact you said, right, we

1117
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 1: need to do a black version of death becomes hard

1118
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: with me and you.

1119
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 2: Death becomes fan.

1120
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,320
Speaker 1: But I feel like I don't hate getting older, like

1121
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I get fine as fucked, like I

1122
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: just get finer and finer every year. I don't hate it.

1123
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: It's just certain things that come with being older that

1124
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: I just be like, you will get this away from me,

1125
00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: and that's one of them. Thank god. No, I don't now.

1126
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 1: I did find one on my cuci one time, though,

1127
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: but not on my head, on my other on my

1128
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 1: you're not getting enough sex or usually you had a

1129
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 1: maybe that's what it is. Said. Thing is it had

1130
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: a hair. I seen it and I pulled it. I

1131
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: plucked it and I said, I rebuke. But guess what,

1132
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: it didn't grow back. So that was the one time

1133
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: I seen a gray hair. But I don't have any

1134
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: gray hairs in my head. Knock on wood. I feel

1135
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: like I'm a gray late though, to be honest, because

1136
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 1: you know, everything is about genetics, and when I think

1137
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: about my family, like my mom and all her siblings

1138
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: and he started getting gray hairs to like they was

1139
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 1: like an a fifties and sea. So I think I'm

1140
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: a gray late.

1141
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 3: I just feel like the relationship with your body. Like

1142
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 3: I said, I think we need to give ourselves grace

1143
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 3: as women.

1144
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: You know.

1145
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 3: I don't know if y'all are fans of this show

1146
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 3: that comes on HBO is called White Lotus.

1147
00:57:58,640 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan.

1148
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 3: Did you watch this last season? Okay, so White Lotus.

1149
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 3: I love this guy, Walton get Goggins. He's a character

1150
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 3: on White Lotus. He is the older guy with a

1151
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 3: younger girlfriend and he is hilarious. If y'all google his name,

1152
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 3: y'all will know who he is. So anyways, on the show,

1153
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 3: he has like a receding.

1154
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 1: Hairline and a patch and a patch right, And.

1155
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 3: They wrote an article I want to say, maybe in

1156
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 3: Cosmo or someone people magazine that were like, oh, receding

1157
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 3: hairlines are hot now check out Walton Goggins and White Lotus.

1158
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 3: And I'm just like, it's so crazy because they did

1159
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 3: this a couple of years ago with the.

1160
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 1: Dad bod of men who have bellies.

1161
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 3: We will change what the beauty standard is to fit

1162
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 3: what a white man looks like. But when it comes

1163
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 3: to women, white, black, Mexican, whatever, we gotta have a

1164
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 3: twenty three inch away forty inch hips, no cell you

1165
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 3: like no stress, smarks, no wrinkles. We gotta put boat tops,

1166
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 3: we gotta plump up the lips. We gotta make sure

1167
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 3: we got all our edges. Oh my god, you know

1168
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. The beauty stead are never changes for us.

1169
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 1: And speaking of I have a botox appointment tomorrow.

1170
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 3: I need to hit mine up too because mine getting

1171
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 3: a little yeah, I said before the premiere, Yeah, I

1172
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 3: need It's right you, I do need a little reup myself.

1173
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: Don't hit right before that.

1174
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 3: Because you know, because comments, let's stop touching your face.

1175
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 3: I haven't seen Helen in a year and a half, bitch,

1176
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 3: leave me alone.

1177
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: So any time for my reup.

1178
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 3: Be in the comments. Time my legs stop touching your face.

1179
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, I haven't gotten anything done in a year

1180
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 3: and a half.

1181
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: Like literally, probably they just be looking at old episodes.

1182
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, because leave me alone. Because baby face card it

1183
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 3: rare does not decline.

1184
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:53,439
Speaker 1: All right, all right, all.

1185
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 3: Right, but anyways, but again, like I said, your relationship

1186
00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 3: with your body does have to change, because your body

1187
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 3: is going to change.

1188
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 1: It's natural. You gonna gain weight, you gonna lose weight.

1189
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 1: Like it's okay.

1190
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 3: And like I said, the media and social media is

1191
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 3: easier on men than it is on us. Cause, like

1192
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 3: I said, I love him, but who wants to receive

1193
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 3: in hairline?

1194
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 1: Not me? Just go bald. Yeah, his this haircut is crazy,

1195
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 1: and that's get it's like long, it's long. It's receiving.

1196
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: I want to see the photo. But he doesn't really

1197
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 1: wear this in real life? Does he wear it in

1198
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: real life? That's how we look on this picture. It

1199
01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 1: does look like this on this picture, but this is

1200
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:38,439
Speaker 1: how it is on the show.

1201
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 3: And mind you, he's hilarious. He's really fucking funny. Oh wait,

1202
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 3: I need to see the image of him on white lotus.

1203
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 3: I'm trying to show her the white Lotus picture. Okay,

1204
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 3: here it goes. Here's how he looks on white lotus.

1205
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 3: It's way back there and it's a ball spot in

1206
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 3: the bag. But mind you, he's an amazing actor. And

1207
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 3: I feel like the people, we're not here for the

1208
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 3: way you look. We are here for your talent, and

1209
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 3: he is one of them. He was in The Hateful Eight.

1210
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 3: If you are a fan of he was in Django.

1211
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 3: If you are a fan of what's his name, Quinton Tarantino,

1212
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 3: y'all know, I love me some Quentin Tarantino. Quentin loves

1213
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 3: him down, but he's been in a lot of movies.

1214
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 3: He's an A list actor. He's actually really fucking hilarious.

1215
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:26,720
Speaker 3: But I just think it's so funny because since when

1216
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 3: is receiving hairlines attractive? What are we talking about here?

1217
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 3: So yeah, people will change their views on stuff. You

1218
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 3: should change your views on yourself. Be confident. You get

1219
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 3: this body, this is what you're in.

1220
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: So do you feel like confidence in your thirties is

1221
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 1: more about what you look like or how you feel.

1222
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 3: I think it's a mixture of both, because you gotta

1223
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 3: I hate this, it's a little gray area, but you

1224
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 3: gotta look good to feel good, if I'm being honest.

1225
01:01:57,680 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 3: But that's why I agree with you. You think so, Yeah,

1226
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 3: because I got in the gym like I used to.

1227
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 3: I used to be like like I said, I played

1228
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 3: volleyball year round, and till like when I got to college,

1229
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 3: I just started to get into more media stuff, so

1230
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 3: I really stopped going to the gym. I didn't start

1231
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 3: getting back into the gym till like a year ago.

1232
01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 3: Two years I've been in like the gym and like

1233
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 3: I work out and now how I feel about my

1234
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 3: body like, okay, I go to the gym. I know

1235
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 3: what the gym does to my body. I'm like, okay,

1236
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:28,720
Speaker 3: so this is what my body looks like. I'm been

1237
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 3: laid on the table. I done worked out and done dited,

1238
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 3: I done ate everything.

1239
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 1: This is what my body is.

1240
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 3: So it's like you come with that acceptance and I'm like,

1241
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 3: bitchy'all look good though. Yeah I'm thirty five years old

1242
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 3: and I look like this.

1243
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, I look good.

1244
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 3: But it also comes with I do take care of myself.

1245
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 3: I drink a lot of fucking water. I don't drink

1246
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 3: every day. I go to the gym even if I'm

1247
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:53,439
Speaker 3: not lifting weights. Like I said, I kind of fell

1248
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 3: off of the gym, but guess what I was still doing.

1249
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 3: I'm still getting up and I'm moving my ass. And

1250
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 3: that's one thing the girl the girl do. Y'all have

1251
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 3: to realize if you don't get up and move your body,

1252
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 3: don't stop moving.

1253
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 1: I think for me, I have like my mom was beautiful.

1254
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 1: She died at forty eight, but she was gorgeous, Like

1255
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 1: she was the mom that every all my friends would

1256
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 1: be like, damn, my mama. Find type thing. So for

1257
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 1: me I didn't really I had good I feel like

1258
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 1: I had good genes, so I didn't feel like I

1259
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:22,919
Speaker 1: needed to work out all the time. So really last

1260
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 1: year was the first time that I actually started going

1261
01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 1: to the gym and being active. But I could feel

1262
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: my like my hips would be tight, my aunt. I

1263
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: was just very lethargic a lot. And it wasn't until

1264
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 1: I started going consistently that I started to feel more energized.

1265
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: I had just a little bit more get up and

1266
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: go and feeling more focused and like like you said earlier,

1267
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: laser focused on what I wanted to do and what

1268
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 1: I needed to accomplish. So I do think that you

1269
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 1: actually getting active moving your body that not only contributes

1270
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 1: to your fitness goals, but also like your mentality, your

1271
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 1: focus more clear, and it's just I see, I feel

1272
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 1: like a different person than how I was before I

1273
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 1: started going to the gym just last year, in just

1274
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:09,240
Speaker 1: that time, and now I walked by the mirror, like

1275
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: Meg said, I'd be like you, Okay, you's on flap flat,

1276
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 1: ass on flap flat, Okay exactly. You know, I one

1277
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 1: hundred percent feel you. I just did a video on

1278
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 1: my YouTube channel where I was talking about things that

1279
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 1: I feel like you should know when you get into

1280
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: your thirties, for the girls that are still like in

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01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: their twenties and maybe even like early thirties too. But

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Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm so glad that I started

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Speaker 1: my fitness journey, but I wish that it was something

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Speaker 1: that I took more seriously when I was in my twenties,

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Speaker 1: because I think, yeah, when you're in your twenties, you're

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Speaker 1: just like, Ooh, I look good, I'm fine, my metabolism

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Speaker 1: is slow, and I'm always gonna be like these. But

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Speaker 1: then when you get to your thirties, you realize, Okay,

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Speaker 1: he's slowing down, the things ain't in the same place.

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Speaker 1: Gravity is taking place held no, for real. And it

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Speaker 1: was even earlier about the dimples and the freckles. And

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Speaker 1: I feel like every day I wake up, I don't

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01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:05,920
Speaker 1: know about y'all, and every day I wake up, I

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01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 1: feel like I got like a new little freckle or

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01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: something on my bikey. So it's just something that I

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01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 1: wish that I took more seriously when I was in

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01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 1: my twenties because I feel like, not only do you

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Speaker 1: look better and you feel better, but it also really

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Speaker 1: helps your mentals. Yeah, it's well, and I'm glad it's

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Speaker 1: a discipline thing.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad that you said that earlier because you were

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Speaker 3: like people were asking you to post it before and

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Speaker 3: after you were like, it was more a mental thing,

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Speaker 3: and that's when it will.

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Speaker 1: I realized for me, like.

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Speaker 3: I be getting like in my little dark places sometimes

1307
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 3: and I realize a lot of that. Like I was

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Speaker 3: talking to my therapist. She was like, when's the last

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01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 3: time you worked out? Like this was like a conversation

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Speaker 3: that we had in December. I was like, damn, And

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Speaker 3: that's what really motivated me. Like, girl, even if I'm

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Speaker 3: not saying that you got to go to the gym,

1313
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 3: go for a walk, go for a walk, you just

1314
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 3: got to mock you a body past. So even sometimes

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Speaker 3: when I'm satisfying, I don't even feel like going to

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Speaker 3: the gym, I get on my walking. You have to

1317
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:00,959
Speaker 3: move around because I'm telling you, when you stop moving

1318
01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 3: your body, your body gonna stop moving.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I feel like that's the thing. I've made

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01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: it a happy Like to me, it's more of a

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01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 1: lifestyle thing now because you're not gonna always. I think

1322
01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 1: a good word that I can give people is that

1323
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: you're not gonna always have the motivation. But that's where

1324
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 1: your discipline comes in exactly, because you're not gonna want

1325
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: to do stuff every day. Like it's hell of days

1326
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: that I don't feel like working out, like yes even yesterday.

1327
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 1: Yesterday is a prime example. I went and worked out

1328
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 1: at eight thirty at night because all day I was procrastinating.

1329
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:33,919
Speaker 1: But then I was like, Okay, I gotta get this done.

1330
01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 1: That's where your discipline has to come in, cause I

1331
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:37,800
Speaker 1: knew I had to do I knew I had a

1332
01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 1: goal to reach. So you just have to do it

1333
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 1: for yourself, and you have to think about how you

1334
01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: want to look like. I don't know, I like looking fine,

1335
01:06:45,000 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: I like looking like all of that. So I just

1336
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:53,919
Speaker 1: feel like, yeah, it's just it's it's a mental thing,

1337
01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 1: and you have to prioritize your health. You have to

1338
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:01,880
Speaker 1: prioritize your willness that I always be thinking about like

1339
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: them when I was in my twenties, if I would

1340
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 1: have took my fitness journey more seriously, then my body

1341
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 1: would be even more teaching, even more fire right now.

1342
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 1: So it's just like, you know, you have to It's

1343
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 1: something that you have to prioritize. It's about do you

1344
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:19,439
Speaker 1: want to be the same, because we all might live

1345
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:21,440
Speaker 1: to be like seventy or eighty, But what do you

1346
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: want to be doing in your seventies and eighty You

1347
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:24,240
Speaker 1: want to be more? Do you want to be a

1348
01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:26,480
Speaker 1: person that can walk around, that can move around on

1349
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: your own without assistance, or do you want to be

1350
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: somebody that has to have a walker? You want to

1351
01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,440
Speaker 1: be somebody that has to have somebody exporting you everywhere.

1352
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: You have to think about those things, and like I

1353
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 1: think tennis, yeah, And so that's how I think that

1354
01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 1: I try to discipline myself. And so even going back

1355
01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 1: to what you were saying, like when people asked me

1356
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 1: to post a before and after, I am going to

1357
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 1: post my before and afters, But I think I'm more

1358
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:51,760
Speaker 1: so going to post my before and afters from when

1359
01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: I first started my fitness journey in twenty twenty two

1360
01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: to now, because I feel like it's much more of

1361
01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 1: a drastic change from then to now that people could

1362
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:05,000
Speaker 1: see then from January when I did seventy five hards

1363
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:07,440
Speaker 1: now because my body was already tea when I started

1364
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 1: the seventy five hard and we had definitely see my

1365
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:16,800
Speaker 1: abs more. Your abs are definitely fine, thanks fine, they are.

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01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 1: They're definitely way more defined now, and I think that's

1367
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 1: probably the most physical change that you could see. But

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01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 1: I mean as far as like my shape and my

1369
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 1: waist and stuff, I feel like it's the same, but

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01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:30,719
Speaker 1: from twenty twenty two, so now it's a big difference

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01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:33,600
Speaker 1: because I've lost like fifteen sixteen pounds, and.

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Speaker 3: I think for me, even like like I said, at

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01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 3: the beginning of the year, I weighed two hundred pounds

1374
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 3: when we filmed Tribal Queens, I was literally when we left,

1375
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:44,439
Speaker 3: I was two o two That morning, I was like,

1376
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 3: what the fuck. I'm so mad at myself because I

1377
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 3: have to film this shit and I'm big, well not big,

1378
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 3: but I carry my weight a little different because I'm taller.

1379
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:54,040
Speaker 3: And then like right now, like I weighed myself this morning,

1380
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:56,599
Speaker 3: I'm one seventy two right now, So I pretty much

1381
01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 3: lost thirty pounds since from January till now. And I

1382
01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 3: say that because it's not like for me, it's not

1383
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 3: more so like the number and the scale thing of

1384
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 3: feeling fat and feeling small. But I know how I

1385
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 3: feel in my clothes and I know I had to

1386
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 3: get to a point where I'm like, Okay, I feel

1387
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 3: confident in my clothes and I know what I feel like,

1388
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 3: I know what makes me feel good.

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01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:22,320
Speaker 1: It's not for how y'all look at me, because one

1390
01:09:22,360 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 1: thing about it.

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01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 3: I can be one fifty and it'll be people in

1392
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 3: the comments like ooh Lex, what you ooh Lex?

1393
01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 1: You need to do?

1394
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 3: It's not about how y'all view me. It's how I

1395
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 3: view myself and what makes me feel comfortable. So I

1396
01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 3: think that's another thing like me losing this way. It

1397
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 3: wasn't like something I'm just.

1398
01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, y'all, I lost another pound.

1399
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 3: I lost all about cause y'all ain't gonna y'all ain't

1400
01:09:42,560 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 3: gonna do nothing but critique me anyway. So I think

1401
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 3: as we get older, you have to find what's comfortable

1402
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 3: for you. One seventy is comfortable for me. I don't

1403
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 3: give a fuck what.

1404
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 1: Y'all see or what y'all like.

1405
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:56,240
Speaker 3: So we have to change how we view ourselves and

1406
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 3: what's comfortable to us and what makes us feel good

1407
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 3: and how you look in the mirror. Oh City, Oh,

1408
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:08,599
Speaker 3: I'll be delete that hole. Titty came out. One thing

1409
01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 3: about check, she gonna get that times down. Okay, let

1410
01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 3: me say that again. So one thing about me is like,

1411
01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 3: we gonna get it together. So I can look in

1412
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:18,680
Speaker 3: the mirror and I can feel good about myself and

1413
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 3: I can feel like, you.

1414
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,040
Speaker 1: Know what, I like how I look, I like how

1415
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 1: I feel today.

1416
01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 3: So yeah, all in all, I feel like your views

1417
01:10:26,840 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 3: on your body should change as you get older, and

1418
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 3: that's a healthy thing to do.

1419
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 1: And I feel like they should get better because with

1420
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:36,680
Speaker 1: wisdom and age, you care more about your body. Like

1421
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: I feel like I care way more about my body

1422
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:41,599
Speaker 1: than I did when I was in my twiny Thank God,

1423
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:44,680
Speaker 1: thank God that he allowed me to live this long

1424
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 1: so that I can take better care of my body

1425
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 1: because I was not taking care. I was treating my

1426
01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 1: body like whatever. When I was in my twenties. I'm

1427
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: talking about I was eating bullshit every day. I was

1428
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:59,560
Speaker 1: drinking all the time, being drinking all the time, smoking

1429
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:04,360
Speaker 1: that hookah hookah, smoking hookah and weed. Both of them

1430
01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 1: clothes close. I remember that came out. I talked about this.

1431
01:11:10,120 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 1: I was a real buck, love loving. I was out

1432
01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:18,680
Speaker 1: here thugging in these streets. I was smoking black and

1433
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:22,599
Speaker 1: miles the wine flavor. Oh you was a real good yeah,

1434
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 1: because that's my good Yeah, that's my good beach. What

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01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 1: a god be in a week since she could have been.

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01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 1: I love. We didn't to Texas. We didn't too deep

1437
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,439
Speaker 1: in Texas. No, for real, doll, Yeah, I used to

1438
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:43,559
Speaker 1: be doing whatever in my twenties and like God for grow,

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01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:45,200
Speaker 1: Thank God, this is the show.

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Speaker 3: That's why I said, we're not judging anybody what y'all do,

1441
01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 3: but we're just trying to tell y'all what we did

1442
01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 3: so y'all can do better and y'all can.

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01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: Look like us when y'all get y'all thirties, Me lex

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Speaker 1: and time period. What's up, y'all is your girl lex

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01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 1: At Poor Chronicles. So make sure y'all tune in September second.

1491
01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 1: It's going down. Thanks. So, now it's time to get

1492
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:27,559
Speaker 1: into the bab all the b bow about Bobo Bow came.

1493
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 1: So we're going to play a game called Unwrapped or Returning. Okay,

1494
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 1: Birthday six of these ship.

1495
01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:37,160
Speaker 2: Girl.

1496
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:47,519
Speaker 1: You know, girl, you know I'm doing the background. You

1497
01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:49,720
Speaker 1: don't remember that? Oh, I know what you're talking about now.

1498
01:14:49,960 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: I was like at first first, I just thought you

1499
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 1: agree your birthdays on. You know I won't ride out

1500
01:14:56,840 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 1: in Moasy Louisy, you know my I know when he

1501
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 1: was in the studio that day, he was like, good,

1502
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:08,759
Speaker 1: but I know you want to cry? Why now? Remember

1503
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:11,720
Speaker 1: Trice Songs did a remake. Trey Songs used to love

1504
01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 1: remixing people ship. That's why r Kelly, you know us,

1505
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:22,760
Speaker 1: she don't. She loved y'all count is not having a

1506
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 1: Robert Kelly queen because the compilation together. You bring him

1507
01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:31,920
Speaker 1: up every episode every Let me tell y'all what be

1508
01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 1: going on? Nobody every licks?

1509
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 3: R Kelly, Yeah, she loved bringing up was saying that

1510
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:42,720
Speaker 3: Trey Songs used to love remixes. R Kelly didn't want

1511
01:15:42,960 --> 01:15:46,440
Speaker 3: to remix Trap in the Closet, and he made the character.

1512
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: Gay that Trey Songs was right, you love arn't you really?

1513
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 1: We're going to find out which facility, which correctional dog

1514
01:15:56,680 --> 01:16:00,960
Speaker 1: facility or no, she not. She's going to come see

1515
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:06,640
Speaker 1: setting on fire alrighty I do not see you and

1516
01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:12,599
Speaker 1: he was locked up and getting out. Okay, she don't

1517
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:14,439
Speaker 1: want him to get out. I know she don't want

1518
01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:19,040
Speaker 1: him to have access to the other girls. I'll find

1519
01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 1: out where he's at. We don't wintter where he asked,

1520
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:24,920
Speaker 1: though she could be his pen pal. J I like him, Yes,

1521
01:16:25,040 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 1: you do. You bring him up every episode. It was

1522
01:16:27,120 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 1: just because you said something about Trey songs. Trey songs

1523
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 1: and R. Kelly got to do with each other, so

1524
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 1: you pulled it all. That's what he said on the

1525
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:37,640
Speaker 1: track in the Closet remake. Okay, because he saw he

1526
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,240
Speaker 1: got out. But those are fun facts that only you know.

1527
01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:43,640
Speaker 1: Because I really was like he said, remember no, I

1528
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:49,000
Speaker 1: didn't even know Trey songs and music I love are

1529
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:53,000
Speaker 1: you a R Kelly Trey song?

1530
01:16:53,439 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 3: Got out of the closet And on his remax he

1531
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:58,080
Speaker 3: was like when he got off the talk, he was like,

1532
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 3: you pulled that's what he said.

1533
01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:02,840
Speaker 1: And R.

1534
01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 3: Kelly came back when Trapped in the Closet part two

1535
01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 3: and he made that character gay and everybody was like,

1536
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:08,960
Speaker 3: oh he did.

1537
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 1: That because everybody or you take out, because that's what

1538
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 1: media takeout was puffing. Media Takeout taught me how to

1539
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 1: be missing y'all. See I'm showing my age. Y'all don't

1540
01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 1: know about media takeout. I used to wake up. They

1541
01:17:24,360 --> 01:17:26,200
Speaker 1: was like, you know what I'm saying, wake up in

1542
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:28,680
Speaker 1: the morning to get on media takeout is wild. I

1543
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 1: used to wake up and check media takeout in the cold,

1544
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: bitchy m That's why I love lex P is so good.

1545
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:39,599
Speaker 1: The people that were real nosy be I am nosy.

1546
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 1: That's why I love lex P. Like the girls be like,

1547
01:17:42,080 --> 01:17:46,400
Speaker 1: oh my god. First no, cause you'd be saying something.

1548
01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 1: I just would never know unless I watched. I didn't know.

1549
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:52,240
Speaker 1: He was like, what world do I be in because

1550
01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:53,840
Speaker 1: I did not know what was going on? Because, yeah,

1551
01:17:53,880 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 1: I'd be in the trenches morning.

1552
01:17:56,040 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 3: I have to keep the people in the know. We

1553
01:17:58,000 --> 01:17:59,519
Speaker 3: have to know what's going on in the world. And

1554
01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 3: like I said, said, we are not the only people

1555
01:18:02,120 --> 01:18:03,439
Speaker 3: in mess. They being messed too.

1556
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 1: I be on the ass. I'm bringing back I'm restoring

1557
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 1: order in the world. I know.

1558
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:11,240
Speaker 3: Y.

1559
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: I actually reported on him a few weeks ago. Yes,

1560
01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,760
Speaker 1: I did, and you wrote him don't forget that far

1561
01:18:24,400 --> 01:18:31,680
Speaker 1: dreas Kelly, missus Kelly. I don't like him, then why

1562
01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 1: did you report on him because I did not want

1563
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:40,439
Speaker 1: to part and that podcast had with him podcast a

1564
01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:46,080
Speaker 1: pot name Kick Big, where we went on there one times. Yes,

1565
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:53,920
Speaker 1: the PAS squad. You are a dirty bitch, that's what

1566
01:18:54,040 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 1: he called us. He said he was the past squad.

1567
01:18:56,560 --> 01:19:00,879
Speaker 1: I know. So why am I dirty? Because you're stupid?

1568
01:19:01,439 --> 01:19:04,600
Speaker 1: You're dirty, Miss Kelly. Anyway, I reported on R.

1569
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 3: Kelly because a podcast had called into R. Kelly's jail

1570
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 3: cell and he was singing on the phone and I said,

1571
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:12,440
Speaker 3: no residuals.

1572
01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 1: Yes, he was singing residuals.

1573
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 3: And I said it was distasteful, because it is distaste.

1574
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 1: That's how I know that's really young man, because you

1575
01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:25,360
Speaker 1: need a rendition of residuals yourself. Copy me. Why she

1576
01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:27,720
Speaker 1: know who you are? Because you'll be writing each other.

1577
01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 1: You up you. You told him that you were gonna

1578
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:35,040
Speaker 1: do that, and he was like, okay, babe, let's do

1579
01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:39,640
Speaker 1: it against This is wild and I don't appreciate this.

1580
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 1: We're gonna have a chat. No we not. We're having

1581
01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 1: a cheat named miss Kelly. You do you need to

1582
01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:54,080
Speaker 1: do a ninety hard No, it's you need to do tin.

1583
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:56,360
Speaker 1: You ain't even need a team. I'm gonna do too

1584
01:19:56,439 --> 01:20:04,080
Speaker 1: hard today. That's crazy. It's get to the bad. Okay, yo,

1585
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 1: Jesus me Alex gonna play Birthday six edition of Unrapids

1586
01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:15,400
Speaker 1: or Returning, So we're gonna read at least wow, funny

1587
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:19,680
Speaker 1: freaky Birthday six scenarios and gifts. And you have to

1588
01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 1: say if you would Unrapids or if you were returning. Okay, okay,

1589
01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:29,720
Speaker 1: so let's see number one, wake up Head before you

1590
01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:35,679
Speaker 1: even brush your tea parted, We parted, but you shay

1591
01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 1: wait what y'all gonna return up? Wake Up Head? I

1592
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 1: don't want unwrappid.

1593
01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 3: No, I don't want wake up Head. And you ain't

1594
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:46,080
Speaker 3: brush your teeth yet? Why that's sound fat my? That

1595
01:20:46,160 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 3: ain't got ship to the year.

1596
01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:49,640
Speaker 1: I don't. We don't have to talk. You talk to her.

1597
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:50,640
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1598
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:53,719
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm not gonna lie like in the morning,

1599
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 3: like if I know, I'm gonna get freaky.

1600
01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:56,760
Speaker 1: Sometimes I do like to sneak off and do a

1601
01:20:56,800 --> 01:20:58,240
Speaker 1: little quick quick rints.

1602
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:01,680
Speaker 3: You know, I don't brush brush I'll do you know

1603
01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:04,400
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, because sucking dick, that's low. I'm not

1604
01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:07,680
Speaker 3: to wash her anyways, though, you feet I'm not gonna lie,

1605
01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:08,479
Speaker 3: I'm gonna return it.

1606
01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:13,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna okay, okay. A massage

1607
01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 1: with oils that ends in a happy ending, good morning

1608
01:21:17,600 --> 01:21:21,719
Speaker 1: to his brick. Oh, I was thinking about good morning,

1609
01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:26,160
Speaker 1: then his break breakfeast.

1610
01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 3: A massage with oils that ends in a happy ending.

1611
01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:33,760
Speaker 3: I love massages. I think massage is just sexy. I'll

1612
01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 3: unwrap it. I like a little massage, but with my man.

1613
01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 1: Not that like I'm just at a you don't like

1614
01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:45,799
Speaker 1: getting you be getting fabbed. No, at the massage parlor.

1615
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:50,320
Speaker 1: That's where I know. I know, I know who. I

1616
01:21:50,320 --> 01:21:52,560
Speaker 1: already knew who he was gonna say, I don't do that.

1617
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:54,640
Speaker 3: No, but if it's a massage from my man that

1618
01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:56,720
Speaker 3: ends in a happy ending, cool, But not at some

1619
01:21:56,960 --> 01:22:00,680
Speaker 3: random like massage parlor. If it's a massage parlor on

1620
01:22:00,760 --> 01:22:04,080
Speaker 3: the outside, you know what they up to. You know

1621
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 3: what they up to or if they say free massage.

1622
01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: Parlor, I don't know. I feel like, if you like

1623
01:22:09,600 --> 01:22:12,120
Speaker 1: to get happy in and massages, you are a free

1624
01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:17,040
Speaker 1: ass n I g g A you a sixty nine guy?

1625
01:22:17,920 --> 01:22:20,719
Speaker 1: Because what run for your life?

1626
01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:25,720
Speaker 3: Because what Kenner really went in on him, like he

1627
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:29,080
Speaker 3: went a little too hard. It ain't stop, it didn't

1628
01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:29,599
Speaker 3: stop nothing.

1629
01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:32,800
Speaker 1: But why would you do that? That's crazy. I feel

1630
01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:35,639
Speaker 1: like it's behind us now it is. But why would

1631
01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 1: you say that? Because he said what he said? He

1632
01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:44,200
Speaker 1: said what he said? I said words to all right?

1633
01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:47,560
Speaker 1: What's number three? Draft him? Looking the sweet just to

1634
01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:53,080
Speaker 1: bend you over in every corner, unwrappid. I love Hotel six,

1635
01:22:53,439 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 1: me too, because I can leave that ship looking crazy

1636
01:22:56,560 --> 01:23:01,360
Speaker 1: andly m. Somebody had tweeted, ake sure of them on

1637
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 1: next Friday. Remember not on the window. Don't wipe it

1638
01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:10,599
Speaker 1: on the window. It's nuts. Then babies gotta go somewhere,

1639
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:17,679
Speaker 1: not up in here. Hobby is a freaking sixty nine. God,

1640
01:23:17,880 --> 01:23:22,280
Speaker 1: now he be squirting on the window. Oh wow, Hobby

1641
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:24,880
Speaker 1: be cutting. That's why he would always be having new

1642
01:23:24,920 --> 01:23:26,600
Speaker 1: shoes when he come in here and the girls be

1643
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:30,920
Speaker 1: spoiling him, leaving them a little on the window, the

1644
01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:42,080
Speaker 1: little Hobby surprise. I shaved it into the shape of

1645
01:23:42,200 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 1: a three and a four. Shaved what why did you

1646
01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:49,000
Speaker 1: want her to read it? What does that even mean?

1647
01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 1: Shaved legs?

1648
01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:53,760
Speaker 3: And he shaved it into the shape of a three

1649
01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 3: and the four. No, I would run for my life Okay, Dre,

1650
01:23:59,680 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 3: let me ask because water.

1651
01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:04,639
Speaker 1: Hell would you even like to me? That's like serial

1652
01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:07,600
Speaker 1: killer type sheet? Like why would you How did you

1653
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 1: take the time out to shave your pubic hair in

1654
01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 1: a three? Let me ask you this.

1655
01:24:11,439 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 3: Have you ever been one in the two in the

1656
01:24:13,400 --> 01:24:16,040
Speaker 3: three until the fo have you ever been one of

1657
01:24:16,040 --> 01:24:20,160
Speaker 3: the man who had a Brazilian wax? No, how would

1658
01:24:20,200 --> 01:24:21,680
Speaker 3: y'all feel if you was like went down there and

1659
01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:22,639
Speaker 3: there was nothing there?

1660
01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 1: I do like that. I have dealt with like I've

1661
01:24:26,280 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 1: had a man like be here lead That's what I'm saying,

1662
01:24:28,439 --> 01:24:30,919
Speaker 1: not Brazilian. Wh it wasn't a whit, not a Brazilian,

1663
01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:32,840
Speaker 1: but y'all know what I mean. It was like nothing. Yeah,

1664
01:24:32,880 --> 01:24:36,800
Speaker 1: I prefer that you like that the way? Yeah, get

1665
01:24:36,880 --> 01:24:38,800
Speaker 1: them hairs out my way that holds more of the

1666
01:24:38,880 --> 01:24:41,760
Speaker 1: saliva and stuff down there and more older Yeah, get

1667
01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:45,559
Speaker 1: it out of here, okay, and it looks bigger. Oh okay.

1668
01:24:45,880 --> 01:24:48,240
Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I've been with one man and

1669
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 1: it was like I went down there and I was

1670
01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:51,040
Speaker 1: shot because it was no hair down there, and I

1671
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:53,240
Speaker 1: was like, oh wow. I wasn't mad at it, though,

1672
01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:56,200
Speaker 1: I like you, you know, I feel like that's cool.

1673
01:24:56,560 --> 01:25:00,080
Speaker 1: A wax is crazy, but like a little shak, I

1674
01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:01,800
Speaker 1: don't I don't know if he waxed or shaved. I

1675
01:25:01,840 --> 01:25:03,960
Speaker 1: don't know. Yah, it was just smooth. Because when you

1676
01:25:04,000 --> 01:25:07,160
Speaker 1: say Brazilian, I also think are they getting that? Yeah,

1677
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:07,760
Speaker 1: I didn't mean that.

1678
01:25:07,880 --> 01:25:09,720
Speaker 3: I didn't mean Brazilian because I honestly I don't know.

1679
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 3: I didn't see his butthole, Okay, but I did see

1680
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:14,240
Speaker 3: the balls and it was clear. I don't know if

1681
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:17,280
Speaker 3: it was a wax or a shave, but I was like, oh,

1682
01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:19,479
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at it, but it took me by surprise.

1683
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:21,240
Speaker 1: Then if you put the balls in your mouth, you

1684
01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:23,880
Speaker 1: don't get like carrying your teeth or anything, you know

1685
01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 1: what I mean. I'm more willing to do a little

1686
01:25:25,840 --> 01:25:28,680
Speaker 1: bit more. Okay, we're gonna wrap it. We're gonna wrap that. Yeah,

1687
01:25:28,760 --> 01:25:31,640
Speaker 1: A three four on the deep raise, I don't even know.

1688
01:25:32,200 --> 01:25:34,160
Speaker 1: He don't know what that means. She was saying, like

1689
01:25:34,320 --> 01:25:36,960
Speaker 1: if he shaved, oh in the thirty four because you're

1690
01:25:37,080 --> 01:25:41,960
Speaker 1: three four, Yeah, like surprise, it's your birthday. It's indeed shave.

1691
01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:48,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how I understood. Would you say that

1692
01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:53,040
Speaker 1: song just dick? I don't know how we'll feel about that,

1693
01:25:53,160 --> 01:25:58,240
Speaker 1: but like a clean shave, I'm cool with that, you know, Okay, okay,

1694
01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:04,720
Speaker 1: him bringing a friend your birthday, fantasy threesomes, nigga, him

1695
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:08,880
Speaker 1: bringing a friend for your birthday? No me, Yeah no,

1696
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:10,920
Speaker 1: because I don't trust him in his time, I got

1697
01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 1: to bring the friend.

1698
01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:16,240
Speaker 3: I don't like threesomes, so it's gonna be a no

1699
01:26:16,439 --> 01:26:18,719
Speaker 3: for me. Now if it was a little freaking because

1700
01:26:18,720 --> 01:26:19,679
Speaker 3: I know he ain't gonna bring.

1701
01:26:19,600 --> 01:26:24,280
Speaker 1: A nigga because it's two niggas. I would rather three

1702
01:26:24,320 --> 01:26:26,720
Speaker 1: some with two men. And see, that's not what I want.

1703
01:26:27,400 --> 01:26:30,120
Speaker 1: I like the I want this crazy. I want the

1704
01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:36,479
Speaker 1: dick in my mouth exactly exactly you want, y'all three,

1705
01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:39,120
Speaker 1: Someone let me get them common rolling the blunt one

1706
01:26:39,200 --> 01:26:44,679
Speaker 1: cook in the crack. That's too much. I got enough

1707
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:47,679
Speaker 1: holes and I can take it off. And that's wild

1708
01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:51,920
Speaker 1: as hell. But how Hobby said, Yeah, black Cuci do

1709
01:26:52,040 --> 01:27:04,120
Speaker 1: metal r Kelly liked it. That's crazy. But now, yeah,

1710
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:06,840
Speaker 1: if I could bring the girl, yeah, I would be

1711
01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:09,240
Speaker 1: cool with that because I love women like and to

1712
01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:11,080
Speaker 1: be honest, I haven't had a threesome in a really

1713
01:27:11,120 --> 01:27:19,080
Speaker 1: long time, so maybe I might do that for thirty. Oh, I.

1714
01:27:20,720 --> 01:27:25,559
Speaker 3: Don't want to be nowhere near you your birthday, dumb ben.

1715
01:27:25,800 --> 01:27:29,080
Speaker 1: You won't be you won't be notified. Don't worry you

1716
01:27:29,280 --> 01:27:32,720
Speaker 1: know hearybody. You're not gonna know nobody. You don't have

1717
01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:36,639
Speaker 1: to worry at all. You was not gonna know a thing.

1718
01:27:37,600 --> 01:27:42,040
Speaker 1: Don't worry about because you would not know nothing.

1719
01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:46,120
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, Oh I'm gonna skip down to this

1720
01:27:46,240 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 3: one role play where he's the delivery man with a

1721
01:27:50,320 --> 01:27:50,960
Speaker 3: package for you.

1722
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:56,120
Speaker 1: I've actually done this before. I'm an unwrap it. That's fine.

1723
01:27:56,200 --> 01:27:58,400
Speaker 1: I love role play. Roleplay is always fun.

1724
01:27:58,880 --> 01:28:00,880
Speaker 3: I feel like if if you can't role play with

1725
01:28:01,000 --> 01:28:05,040
Speaker 3: your man, y'all missing out on some fun like role play.

1726
01:28:05,160 --> 01:28:06,400
Speaker 1: And it don't even matter. It don't even have to

1727
01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:07,240
Speaker 1: be a delivery man.

1728
01:28:07,760 --> 01:28:10,559
Speaker 3: It could be anything like I had one time when

1729
01:28:10,600 --> 01:28:13,560
Speaker 3: me and my man, like we went and acted like

1730
01:28:13,680 --> 01:28:15,560
Speaker 3: we were just meeting each other at a restaurant, and

1731
01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:15,920
Speaker 3: it was.

1732
01:28:16,040 --> 01:28:18,680
Speaker 1: So much fun. It was like we was acting. It

1733
01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:20,680
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, hey, how you doing it? It

1734
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:24,080
Speaker 1: was a ball and we got fucked up. It was

1735
01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:24,479
Speaker 1: a time.

1736
01:28:24,600 --> 01:28:27,280
Speaker 3: So I think role play should everybody should try role

1737
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 3: play at least once.

1738
01:28:28,280 --> 01:28:30,800
Speaker 1: I think we're all playing. It's cool. I like role playing. Yeah,

1739
01:28:31,280 --> 01:28:35,479
Speaker 1: under rather, I agree, I'm wrap it okay, recorded birthday six,

1740
01:28:35,640 --> 01:28:38,799
Speaker 1: but only you get the footage. I canna do that anyway,

1741
01:28:38,800 --> 01:28:44,599
Speaker 1: because that's how I am. Like. I don't gotta be birthday.

1742
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:47,479
Speaker 1: It ain't got to be the birthday. Okay. I think

1743
01:28:47,520 --> 01:28:49,680
Speaker 1: you should do maybe number nine. I can't see what

1744
01:28:49,760 --> 01:28:56,839
Speaker 1: you on this side. A birthday is stupid. A birthday

1745
01:28:56,920 --> 01:28:59,720
Speaker 1: spank for every year you've been fine cause she know

1746
01:28:59,840 --> 01:29:03,160
Speaker 1: her anti fine And I like the thirty four. I

1747
01:29:03,360 --> 01:29:06,519
Speaker 1: like it. Do y'all like that? You don't like it?

1748
01:29:07,280 --> 01:29:09,479
Speaker 1: My boyfriend, well, my man who's not my man, but

1749
01:29:09,560 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 1: he is my man but not my man. Now we

1750
01:29:11,680 --> 01:29:15,160
Speaker 1: oh my god, we all got me and he always

1751
01:29:15,200 --> 01:29:17,559
Speaker 1: smacks my ass, which I get, like that's a thing

1752
01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:20,240
Speaker 1: for me. But I just because it's roll to you know,

1753
01:29:20,520 --> 01:29:24,599
Speaker 1: and it's heavy. Now I'm but I don't like that. Oh.

1754
01:29:24,680 --> 01:29:28,200
Speaker 3: I just love like I love I'm talking about during sex,

1755
01:29:28,320 --> 01:29:31,280
Speaker 3: during anything like I love smack and I want you

1756
01:29:31,360 --> 01:29:32,320
Speaker 3: to smack it hard.

1757
01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:36,880
Speaker 1: I want it to be hard. I want to hurt.

1758
01:29:37,200 --> 01:29:45,519
Speaker 1: He was talking to me. That's your song. I love.

1759
01:29:46,320 --> 01:29:50,240
Speaker 1: I love getting my ass small, like, so I used

1760
01:29:50,280 --> 01:29:52,040
Speaker 1: to have it. Like we're speaking of role play.

1761
01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:53,960
Speaker 3: I used to have this game like me and my

1762
01:29:54,040 --> 01:29:56,600
Speaker 3: eggs used to play, and like we would be in

1763
01:29:56,680 --> 01:29:58,640
Speaker 3: public and I would do something that he didn't like.

1764
01:29:58,880 --> 01:30:01,680
Speaker 3: He would be like that's one, and I'd be like, oh,

1765
01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:02,519
Speaker 3: I'm in trouble.

1766
01:30:03,080 --> 01:30:04,599
Speaker 1: Or if I would do something, I'd walk off from

1767
01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:06,479
Speaker 1: him and I would come back he'd be like that's two.

1768
01:30:07,320 --> 01:30:10,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm being bad at night. Do you like

1769
01:30:10,160 --> 01:30:14,000
Speaker 1: to be dominated? Oh? I like a little domination. Oh.

1770
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:14,920
Speaker 1: It was so funny.

1771
01:30:14,920 --> 01:30:16,639
Speaker 3: It was like then it got to the points where

1772
01:30:16,640 --> 01:30:19,519
Speaker 3: I would like start purposely cutting up because he'd be like, oh.

1773
01:30:20,439 --> 01:30:21,720
Speaker 3: And then when we would get to the house, he

1774
01:30:21,720 --> 01:30:23,599
Speaker 3: would be like, go upstairs and take your clothes off.

1775
01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, I love a little paddle. Yes, we're not

1776
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:28,679
Speaker 1: a paddle.

1777
01:30:28,760 --> 01:30:30,840
Speaker 3: We aint never did it with the pattle, but I

1778
01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:32,879
Speaker 3: was like okay, yes, Like I had to go upstairs

1779
01:30:32,960 --> 01:30:35,360
Speaker 3: and take my clothes off, and he would be like, yeah,

1780
01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:38,639
Speaker 3: get on the bed. You cut up six times, smile,

1781
01:30:38,680 --> 01:30:40,720
Speaker 3: You're finna get six spankings.

1782
01:30:41,479 --> 01:30:45,040
Speaker 1: Wow a time. I love it. Let me put this down,

1783
01:30:45,120 --> 01:30:50,560
Speaker 1: all right, all me spanky all right, let's move on.

1784
01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:52,719
Speaker 1: So now let's do the item of the week, mus Beauty.

1785
01:30:52,760 --> 01:30:55,879
Speaker 1: What you got for us dre up of course, Musicity

1786
01:30:55,920 --> 01:30:59,919
Speaker 1: Collection dot com. Make sure you get your lip glosses,

1787
01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:05,200
Speaker 1: matt Liquid lipsticks, lip plumpers, lip liners, we have jelly blushes.

1788
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:09,439
Speaker 1: We also have mescerra and liquid eyeliner. Now we're also

1789
01:31:09,560 --> 01:31:11,880
Speaker 1: doing a cell right now, twenty percent off of the

1790
01:31:12,160 --> 01:31:16,439
Speaker 1: entire site for my birthday birthday sale, twenty percent off

1791
01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:20,120
Speaker 1: of the entire site. We also have a birthday edition

1792
01:31:20,680 --> 01:31:23,400
Speaker 1: tab on the site where it's already marked down. But

1793
01:31:23,479 --> 01:31:25,840
Speaker 1: then you also get twenty percent off of the entire site.

1794
01:31:26,320 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 1: No cold, needy, it's my birthday. Make sure y'all shop

1795
01:31:29,520 --> 01:31:33,240
Speaker 1: Music Beauty Collection dot com. And right now I have

1796
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:38,599
Speaker 1: on the chestnut lipliner, I have on the rose lip gloss,

1797
01:31:38,680 --> 01:31:43,479
Speaker 1: and then I also have on the liplumper. Period. Love

1798
01:31:43,560 --> 01:31:45,040
Speaker 1: me some mus beauty down.

1799
01:31:45,120 --> 01:31:46,320
Speaker 3: You want to be a bad bitch, You're not a

1800
01:31:46,360 --> 01:31:48,439
Speaker 3: bad bitch if you ain't got on Music Beauty and

1801
01:31:48,600 --> 01:31:49,240
Speaker 3: that's on God.

1802
01:31:49,479 --> 01:31:51,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and of course I do have on the

1803
01:31:51,760 --> 01:31:54,240
Speaker 1: meskerer in the eyeliner. I can start saying it now

1804
01:31:54,320 --> 01:31:58,519
Speaker 1: because it's on seal lashes. What they used to say

1805
01:31:58,840 --> 01:32:02,760
Speaker 1: lashes on fleet the fuck? Oh my gosh, he used

1806
01:32:02,800 --> 01:32:06,080
Speaker 1: to say on flee the fuck? What does on fleek?

1807
01:32:06,160 --> 01:32:09,439
Speaker 1: The fuck? Meed? What's up? Y'all? As your girl XP

1808
01:32:10,040 --> 01:32:12,400
Speaker 1: and it's Sugarl drain and the call. Y'all know. We

1809
01:32:12,520 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 1: have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week.

1810
01:32:15,400 --> 01:32:17,080
Speaker 3: But do you have a product or something that you

1811
01:32:17,160 --> 01:32:19,360
Speaker 3: want to promote and you want it featured on Poor Minds.

1812
01:32:19,680 --> 01:32:23,360
Speaker 1: Your opportunity is here period. If you have an item

1813
01:32:23,479 --> 01:32:24,960
Speaker 1: or you have a business and you want to get

1814
01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:28,240
Speaker 1: it promoted. We are now having slots available on the

1815
01:32:28,320 --> 01:32:30,639
Speaker 1: Poor Minds episode. So if you would like to get

1816
01:32:30,680 --> 01:32:33,200
Speaker 1: your product featured for Item of the Week, all you

1817
01:32:33,320 --> 01:32:35,720
Speaker 1: need to do is send an email to Item of

1818
01:32:35,760 --> 01:32:39,200
Speaker 1: the Week PM at gmail dot com. That's I T

1819
01:32:39,439 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 1: E M O F T H E W E E

1820
01:32:43,280 --> 01:32:48,040
Speaker 1: K PM at gmail dot com. Send us an email

1821
01:32:48,360 --> 01:32:50,160
Speaker 1: and we'll work it out. We gonna figure it out.

1822
01:32:50,600 --> 01:32:54,200
Speaker 1: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

1823
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:57,599
Speaker 1: you some money. We love to moret A small business

1824
01:32:57,680 --> 01:33:00,599
Speaker 1: man and a black business said that, but I mean

1825
01:33:01,360 --> 01:33:07,840
Speaker 1: anybody on a scrimminade. Any business is welcome now it's

1826
01:33:07,920 --> 01:33:15,799
Speaker 1: time to get into the bop. A abou abo about

1827
01:33:15,960 --> 01:33:20,639
Speaker 1: bo boo. All Right, the bop this week, my bop

1828
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:24,040
Speaker 1: this week. Y'all know I love a good RB song

1829
01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:27,639
Speaker 1: Destin Conrad. If y'all don't know Deston like he used

1830
01:33:27,680 --> 01:33:30,519
Speaker 1: to be like popping like on Vine and the Vine

1831
01:33:30,640 --> 01:33:32,280
Speaker 1: days and stuff, and it's like he just made a

1832
01:33:32,320 --> 01:33:35,200
Speaker 1: complete transition into like an artist and I absolutely love it.

1833
01:33:35,240 --> 01:33:39,080
Speaker 3: He's so amazing. He has a song with uh Tezo Touchdown.

1834
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:41,920
Speaker 3: He's from Beaumont four o nine. Shout out to the

1835
01:33:41,960 --> 01:33:45,479
Speaker 3: four all golden, the Golden Triangle period. Nothing betaw us

1836
01:33:45,640 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 3: come out four o nine. I feel like when you

1837
01:33:48,280 --> 01:33:51,120
Speaker 3: talk about four o nine, you gotta talk about Pempcy,

1838
01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:56,080
Speaker 3: you gotta talk about lex Pe, and you got to

1839
01:33:56,160 --> 01:33:59,120
Speaker 3: talk about bun b is from Houston?

1840
01:34:00,080 --> 01:34:03,920
Speaker 1: He is, yes, from Port Arthur. Is he from Port Arthur? Oh?

1841
01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:06,880
Speaker 1: He is from I think that you are. No, let's

1842
01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:10,320
Speaker 1: look it up because from Houston. But a people used

1843
01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:16,240
Speaker 1: to say bun Bee was from Arthur. No is it

1844
01:34:16,360 --> 01:34:19,280
Speaker 1: Houston Arthur, Texas? Oh? He was born in Port Authur.

1845
01:34:19,400 --> 01:34:22,240
Speaker 1: See that's a damn Shane. No. I got like five

1846
01:34:22,320 --> 01:34:25,200
Speaker 1: people he was he was born in a Houston hospital,

1847
01:34:25,280 --> 01:34:27,600
Speaker 1: but he is from Port arth Okay. So that's what no.

1848
01:34:27,760 --> 01:34:30,040
Speaker 3: I only say that, and that's no disrespect to Bunnee.

1849
01:34:30,080 --> 01:34:32,400
Speaker 3: The only reason I say that is because people always

1850
01:34:32,439 --> 01:34:33,200
Speaker 3: had that argument.

1851
01:34:33,320 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 1: But I guess that's the.

1852
01:34:34,280 --> 01:34:36,880
Speaker 3: Same thing they do with Meg because she was born

1853
01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:39,320
Speaker 3: in San Antonio, but she was raised in Houston. So

1854
01:34:39,439 --> 01:34:41,160
Speaker 3: he was born in Houston, but he was raised in

1855
01:34:41,200 --> 01:34:43,840
Speaker 3: Port Arthur, So he's from Port Arthur.

1856
01:34:44,680 --> 01:34:45,000
Speaker 1: Bun B.

1857
01:34:45,120 --> 01:34:47,800
Speaker 3: Shout out to bun Bee. He is right right right,

1858
01:34:47,840 --> 01:34:49,360
Speaker 3: shout out to bunn We would love to have you

1859
01:34:49,479 --> 01:34:49,960
Speaker 3: come sit.

1860
01:34:49,880 --> 01:34:52,080
Speaker 1: On the couch now. But gotta know where he's from.

1861
01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:54,880
Speaker 1: I know where he's from, damnit. He from right up

1862
01:34:54,960 --> 01:35:02,720
Speaker 1: the street. Like I said, bun Bee, Pipsy and and

1863
01:35:02,840 --> 01:35:06,280
Speaker 1: Tezo touched out, so yeah, he's from Bauma. So uh yeah.

1864
01:35:06,360 --> 01:35:09,400
Speaker 1: So the my bop of the week, Destin Conrad and

1865
01:35:09,479 --> 01:35:10,240
Speaker 1: Tzo touchdown.

1866
01:35:10,280 --> 01:35:12,200
Speaker 3: They have a song called the Last Song. It's a

1867
01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:15,320
Speaker 3: Bob gold streaming. I just like, like I said, I

1868
01:35:15,479 --> 01:35:18,280
Speaker 3: love what R and B is looking like right now.

1869
01:35:18,560 --> 01:35:20,920
Speaker 3: It's just like it's fire, It's on fire. I don't

1870
01:35:20,920 --> 01:35:24,240
Speaker 3: have no complaints like I've been being fed fed fed

1871
01:35:24,320 --> 01:35:25,920
Speaker 3: fed love it right?

1872
01:35:26,080 --> 01:35:29,720
Speaker 1: What you got? So my pop is use me by

1873
01:35:29,800 --> 01:35:34,599
Speaker 1: bow Wow and Chris Brown. I said, oh my god,

1874
01:35:35,200 --> 01:35:37,120
Speaker 1: I love Why are you looking like that? Have you

1875
01:35:37,200 --> 01:35:39,720
Speaker 1: listened to the song? No, that's what I'm saying when

1876
01:35:39,720 --> 01:35:41,879
Speaker 1: you do that. By the way, I didn't do anything

1877
01:35:42,320 --> 01:35:45,920
Speaker 1: looking like what I feel like when you'll be having

1878
01:35:45,960 --> 01:35:48,400
Speaker 1: yo viobs, I could look like that too, because you

1879
01:35:48,520 --> 01:35:51,719
Speaker 1: go bobs. I'd be like, m questionable. But I don't

1880
01:35:51,760 --> 01:35:55,000
Speaker 1: say anything. I just affecting bow Wow to have a

1881
01:35:55,080 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 1: new song. Does he have a new song? But you

1882
01:35:57,160 --> 01:35:59,240
Speaker 1: didn't let me finish what I was saying. You didn't

1883
01:35:59,280 --> 01:36:02,280
Speaker 1: let me let you finish looking shady I was, But

1884
01:36:02,400 --> 01:36:06,680
Speaker 1: I'm issue what I'm saying. So anyway, how you do me? No,

1885
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:08,800
Speaker 1: it's how you do yourself, because you was already looking

1886
01:36:08,840 --> 01:36:11,720
Speaker 1: at it. But the point that I was making is

1887
01:36:11,840 --> 01:36:14,800
Speaker 1: bow Wow and Chris Brown have a song and I

1888
01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:17,679
Speaker 1: really like it. I said, bow Wow, you were talking

1889
01:36:17,720 --> 01:36:20,840
Speaker 1: a little freaky deecky even though you know what's so

1890
01:36:21,040 --> 01:36:25,200
Speaker 1: interesting about child stars. You'd be like, you're really grown now.

1891
01:36:25,800 --> 01:36:27,800
Speaker 1: And I think it's still hard for me to see

1892
01:36:27,840 --> 01:36:31,400
Speaker 1: bow Wows like a grown person because he was a

1893
01:36:31,479 --> 01:36:33,040
Speaker 1: child when he first came out, like he was a

1894
01:36:33,080 --> 01:36:34,799
Speaker 1: child star. But yeah, he was like a real freaky

1895
01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:36,920
Speaker 1: on the song. I'm listen to it and I think

1896
01:36:37,000 --> 01:36:39,280
Speaker 1: it's real cute, Like it kind of gives me vibes

1897
01:36:39,320 --> 01:36:41,840
Speaker 1: when Chris Brown and bow Wow used to collaborate back

1898
01:36:41,880 --> 01:36:45,360
Speaker 1: in the day. I don't like it. That Marion. Yeah,

1899
01:36:45,360 --> 01:36:46,040
Speaker 1: that was a Marion.

1900
01:36:46,320 --> 01:36:49,559
Speaker 3: The only thing that keeps me yep when I'm coming down.

1901
01:36:49,800 --> 01:36:52,200
Speaker 3: I don't know what but you, but I gotta keep money.

1902
01:36:52,680 --> 01:36:54,640
Speaker 1: That was a good song. Oh Chris Brown was on

1903
01:36:54,760 --> 01:36:57,320
Speaker 1: the song though, Yeah he would remix or something. Yeah,

1904
01:36:57,680 --> 01:37:00,880
Speaker 1: probably like mine. Chris Brown was on it, So I

1905
01:37:01,000 --> 01:37:03,439
Speaker 1: feel like it's a great song. Then y'all know. Right now,

1906
01:37:03,560 --> 01:37:06,719
Speaker 1: the Millennium Tour is going on and I'm so sad

1907
01:37:07,040 --> 01:37:09,800
Speaker 1: that I can't go because I wanted to go two times,

1908
01:37:09,840 --> 01:37:12,320
Speaker 1: but we had something to do for work when they

1909
01:37:12,400 --> 01:37:14,479
Speaker 1: had the Atlanta show in the Houston show. So yeah,

1910
01:37:14,560 --> 01:37:16,840
Speaker 1: shout out to the Millennium Tour, shout out to bow Wow.

1911
01:37:17,080 --> 01:37:20,120
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie. I said something about, like, damn,

1912
01:37:20,160 --> 01:37:21,639
Speaker 1: I wish I could make it to the Millennium Tour.

1913
01:37:22,200 --> 01:37:23,760
Speaker 1: One of my homegirls was like, why would you want

1914
01:37:23,760 --> 01:37:26,080
Speaker 1: to go see bow Wow before? Because I know every

1915
01:37:26,120 --> 01:37:28,040
Speaker 1: single song? Why do y'all want to be at concerts

1916
01:37:28,040 --> 01:37:29,880
Speaker 1: where you don't know every single song? Right?

1917
01:37:30,040 --> 01:37:32,000
Speaker 3: If you go to the Millennium tour, you will know

1918
01:37:32,200 --> 01:37:33,719
Speaker 3: every single bow Wow song.

1919
01:37:34,200 --> 01:37:39,759
Speaker 1: He made hit after hit after hit after hit. Let's stop.

1920
01:37:40,760 --> 01:37:43,240
Speaker 3: Don't do him like that. And honestly, he's been killing

1921
01:37:43,320 --> 01:37:46,479
Speaker 3: it the clips. I've been saying a lot of energy.

1922
01:37:46,560 --> 01:37:48,439
Speaker 3: Them needs still work me.

1923
01:37:48,800 --> 01:37:56,599
Speaker 1: Hold you, he loves me. Hold you Brown.

1924
01:37:57,760 --> 01:37:59,280
Speaker 3: You know so I was listening to the other day.

1925
01:37:59,280 --> 01:38:02,880
Speaker 3: I can't lie, though I did listen to Freshness.

1926
01:38:02,560 --> 01:38:04,920
Speaker 1: On Me is in the car. Y ain't right, Ye

1927
01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:07,519
Speaker 1: ain't rye, y ain't bumping like I'm bumping. Yin't saying

1928
01:38:07,680 --> 01:38:09,360
Speaker 1: nothing on me. You ain't fresh as than me?

1929
01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:12,719
Speaker 3: Because he was like, I'm eighteen nigga making moding your dad.

1930
01:38:14,200 --> 01:38:16,639
Speaker 3: Imagine your nigga's talking ship like that and your daddy

1931
01:38:16,680 --> 01:38:17,400
Speaker 3: can't say shit.

1932
01:38:18,439 --> 01:38:20,479
Speaker 1: That's the type of shit I like. I don't like that.

1933
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:22,599
Speaker 1: I don't want no nigga making more than my daddy.

1934
01:38:22,800 --> 01:38:26,479
Speaker 3: But I'm saying personally, but I'm saying he could, he

1935
01:38:26,520 --> 01:38:26,960
Speaker 3: could do that.

1936
01:38:27,600 --> 01:38:32,559
Speaker 1: He was making molding your dad. He was, well, yeah, yeah,

1937
01:38:32,720 --> 01:38:35,120
Speaker 1: because he's making more than my daddy too. Shit, my

1938
01:38:35,200 --> 01:38:37,400
Speaker 1: daddy was dead. I know he was making more of him. Yo,

1939
01:38:37,439 --> 01:38:41,439
Speaker 1: daddy wasn't making it. He wouldn't r ip ip he

1940
01:38:41,600 --> 01:38:44,000
Speaker 1: just killed. Oh my god, why I was about to

1941
01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:47,600
Speaker 1: say that too. That is so crazy. We don't have

1942
01:38:47,640 --> 01:38:50,280
Speaker 1: a mental telepathy. I was saying, our I p just

1943
01:38:50,439 --> 01:38:53,960
Speaker 1: killed the club. It's not funny though. I did not

1944
01:38:54,200 --> 01:39:02,960
Speaker 1: laugh once me neither. Or you're trying to make me laugh.

1945
01:39:03,040 --> 01:39:06,240
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to make you laugh. I'm not doing

1946
01:39:06,320 --> 01:39:22,880
Speaker 1: it because laughing I lied. She's back, y'all. It's sad.

1947
01:39:23,680 --> 01:39:32,840
Speaker 1: It's time with no All right, who the fuck is

1948
01:39:32,920 --> 01:39:36,679
Speaker 1: that me? What's the name? D Dan?

1949
01:39:39,360 --> 01:39:42,720
Speaker 2: And you are no, I'm not ship Leave me out

1950
01:39:42,800 --> 01:39:45,120
Speaker 2: of this licks Kelly.

1951
01:39:50,840 --> 01:39:55,000
Speaker 1: Kelly should That's what we're finna do. All right.

1952
01:39:55,160 --> 01:39:59,320
Speaker 3: Make sure y'all email us for our minds at gmail

1953
01:39:59,400 --> 01:40:02,080
Speaker 3: dot com. If you want your question answer on the

1954
01:40:02,160 --> 01:40:03,760
Speaker 3: show and you are a Patrenon, remember you get to

1955
01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:06,240
Speaker 3: skip the line, so just put in the subject. You

1956
01:40:06,280 --> 01:40:09,200
Speaker 3: know Patrenon, I remember all that good stuff and that's

1957
01:40:09,240 --> 01:40:09,919
Speaker 3: on period.

1958
01:40:10,840 --> 01:40:14,240
Speaker 1: My girl cute? Oh, go ahead, go ahead, ask for

1959
01:40:14,400 --> 01:40:15,120
Speaker 1: minds at Gmail.

1960
01:40:15,240 --> 01:40:17,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I said, thats more minds at gmail dot com.

1961
01:40:17,360 --> 01:40:20,519
Speaker 1: Period. Okay, keep me anonymous. She added a photos to

1962
01:40:20,640 --> 01:40:23,240
Speaker 1: y'all keep me anonymous. I'm twenty three and been dealing

1963
01:40:23,320 --> 01:40:25,439
Speaker 1: with a thirty five year old man for two years.

1964
01:40:25,760 --> 01:40:28,240
Speaker 1: It's been a lot of ups and downs. I think

1965
01:40:28,280 --> 01:40:30,759
Speaker 1: it's a trauma bond at this point. I just started

1966
01:40:30,880 --> 01:40:33,479
Speaker 1: nursing school, so I'm seeing him list and honestly, I'm

1967
01:40:33,520 --> 01:40:37,000
Speaker 1: starting to feel the distance. Yeah, two kids doesn't help

1968
01:40:37,040 --> 01:40:40,479
Speaker 1: with my hair, nails, or weed, and says all his

1969
01:40:40,640 --> 01:40:44,080
Speaker 1: money goes to his VM. He buys groceries, but that

1970
01:40:44,200 --> 01:40:47,000
Speaker 1: feels like bare minimum. I'm not scared to be alone.

1971
01:40:47,120 --> 01:40:50,799
Speaker 1: I actually hate niggas lol, But I'm a people pleaser

1972
01:40:51,080 --> 01:40:54,160
Speaker 1: and hate hurting feelings. I'm scared he might spiral if

1973
01:40:54,240 --> 01:40:56,720
Speaker 1: I leave. How do y'all build the courage to leave

1974
01:40:56,800 --> 01:40:59,600
Speaker 1: someone who isn't a bad person, just not right for you?

1975
01:41:00,080 --> 01:41:02,960
Speaker 1: And she haded help out all. She's cute, Go ahead,

1976
01:41:03,000 --> 01:41:05,160
Speaker 1: give it a device. Oh she is really pretty. She's

1977
01:41:05,200 --> 01:41:05,760
Speaker 1: twenty three.

1978
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:13,439
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that because you don't. When I say

1979
01:41:13,479 --> 01:41:16,240
Speaker 3: you don't look twenty three, It's not like offensively. It's

1980
01:41:16,320 --> 01:41:20,640
Speaker 3: just like they just got att like when I was

1981
01:41:20,680 --> 01:41:21,600
Speaker 3: twenty three, I was.

1982
01:41:21,680 --> 01:41:26,880
Speaker 1: Just they active. They you outside, baby, this looks like

1983
01:41:27,000 --> 01:41:30,519
Speaker 1: a grown woman. Maybe that's why the thirty five year

1984
01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:33,800
Speaker 1: old likes her too. I need you to walk around here.

1985
01:41:33,720 --> 01:41:35,479
Speaker 3: And see this picture, or maybe Drake can hand it

1986
01:41:35,520 --> 01:41:37,800
Speaker 3: to you so you can understand what I'm saying. She's beautiful,

1987
01:41:37,880 --> 01:41:44,360
Speaker 3: but it's like that's not giving twenty three. That's given

1988
01:41:44,479 --> 01:41:50,240
Speaker 3: like thirty, right, and not in a bad way getting.

1989
01:41:50,240 --> 01:41:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's like you look that is very polished, mature.

1990
01:41:55,080 --> 01:42:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm mature. Yeah, sorry, go ahead with your advice. I

1991
01:42:00,680 --> 01:42:03,720
Speaker 1: feel like if it's a trauma bund, if you know

1992
01:42:03,840 --> 01:42:05,479
Speaker 1: it's a trauma bund, then I think you know what

1993
01:42:05,600 --> 01:42:07,280
Speaker 1: to do, Like you need to let it go. Like

1994
01:42:07,400 --> 01:42:10,840
Speaker 1: trauma bonds are not good things. You bonding with somebody

1995
01:42:11,080 --> 01:42:14,760
Speaker 1: over negative, toxic things. It's not something that you need

1996
01:42:14,840 --> 01:42:17,560
Speaker 1: to hold on to. I feel like it's no sustainability

1997
01:42:17,640 --> 01:42:20,320
Speaker 1: in that, it's no longevity in a relationship like that,

1998
01:42:20,720 --> 01:42:22,559
Speaker 1: And I feel like you know what you need to do. Also,

1999
01:42:22,680 --> 01:42:25,360
Speaker 1: you're twenty three and he is thirty five. He's twelve

2000
01:42:25,479 --> 01:42:27,640
Speaker 1: years older than you. A lot of the time. I

2001
01:42:27,800 --> 01:42:30,719
Speaker 1: feel like men who are older they like today women

2002
01:42:30,760 --> 01:42:33,400
Speaker 1: that are significantly younger than them, because they be trying

2003
01:42:33,439 --> 01:42:36,680
Speaker 1: to manipulate you. They know exactly what they trying to do.

2004
01:42:37,400 --> 01:42:40,839
Speaker 1: I think that you need to maybe focus on yourself,

2005
01:42:40,880 --> 01:42:43,640
Speaker 1: explore yourself. He thirty five, he got two kids. He

2006
01:42:43,800 --> 01:42:46,680
Speaker 1: clearly still taking care of his baby mama. It's a

2007
01:42:46,720 --> 01:42:49,439
Speaker 1: lot of baggage there, and from what it sounds like

2008
01:42:49,720 --> 01:42:52,360
Speaker 1: from what you wrote, you don't have any baggage. So

2009
01:42:52,520 --> 01:42:55,599
Speaker 1: you need to focus on you. And at the end

2010
01:42:55,600 --> 01:42:57,080
Speaker 1: of the day, if that man want to be with you,

2011
01:42:57,160 --> 01:42:58,880
Speaker 1: and I'm not saying that you should just write a

2012
01:42:58,960 --> 01:43:02,600
Speaker 1: man off just because he has kids and he's you know,

2013
01:43:02,760 --> 01:43:05,680
Speaker 1: he has like a situation or whatever. But if he

2014
01:43:06,040 --> 01:43:07,640
Speaker 1: wants to be with you and you want to be

2015
01:43:07,720 --> 01:43:10,160
Speaker 1: with him, he's going to find a way to make

2016
01:43:10,240 --> 01:43:13,559
Speaker 1: you feel comfortable, and y'all are gonna find a way

2017
01:43:13,560 --> 01:43:16,880
Speaker 1: to make you work. If he is doing things that

2018
01:43:16,960 --> 01:43:18,720
Speaker 1: you're not okay, weed and then on top of that,

2019
01:43:18,840 --> 01:43:20,519
Speaker 1: you think that he's a trauma bond, I think you

2020
01:43:20,560 --> 01:43:22,559
Speaker 1: should walk away. You twenty three, You don't have nothing

2021
01:43:22,600 --> 01:43:25,160
Speaker 1: to lose. You have nothing but time I agree. Oh

2022
01:43:25,920 --> 01:43:28,719
Speaker 1: I'm not advice. I agree one hundred percent everything you said.

2023
01:43:28,760 --> 01:43:30,599
Speaker 1: I just feel like you're too young.

2024
01:43:30,640 --> 01:43:32,080
Speaker 3: I feel like he's trying to take advantage of you,

2025
01:43:32,240 --> 01:43:33,360
Speaker 3: talking about he don't want to pay for.

2026
01:43:33,360 --> 01:43:35,800
Speaker 1: Your hair and nail that's bear. But he giving all

2027
01:43:35,840 --> 01:43:37,960
Speaker 1: this money to these baby mama But he's not doing.

2028
01:43:37,840 --> 01:43:39,840
Speaker 3: That because he doesn't want to, because he's thinking, I'm

2029
01:43:39,840 --> 01:43:41,439
Speaker 3: a date of twenty three year old. She's not gonna

2030
01:43:41,439 --> 01:43:43,240
Speaker 3: ask me for nothing. That's why he's not doing it.

2031
01:43:43,360 --> 01:43:45,439
Speaker 3: He's thinking that he can manipulate you. But you just seem,

2032
01:43:45,920 --> 01:43:47,559
Speaker 3: you know, a little smarter for him.

2033
01:43:47,600 --> 01:43:49,920
Speaker 1: So girl, move on. He'll be alright. He gonna move

2034
01:43:50,000 --> 01:43:51,120
Speaker 1: on to the next twenty three year old.

2035
01:43:51,120 --> 01:43:52,920
Speaker 3: Because any thirty five year old man dating a twenty

2036
01:43:52,920 --> 01:43:55,880
Speaker 3: three year old, I'm questioning his thought process anyway.

2037
01:43:56,000 --> 01:43:59,280
Speaker 1: Chat a little weird, he a little weird. So okay,

2038
01:43:59,360 --> 01:43:59,960
Speaker 1: where do I eat?

2039
01:44:00,520 --> 01:44:03,040
Speaker 3: I'm thirty at my now ex, the father of my

2040
01:44:03,200 --> 01:44:06,240
Speaker 3: kids is thirty one. We were together for seven years

2041
01:44:06,280 --> 01:44:08,519
Speaker 3: and I finally told him I can't do this anymore.

2042
01:44:08,840 --> 01:44:12,400
Speaker 3: I've been through it all with him, multiple cheating situations,

2043
01:44:12,520 --> 01:44:16,280
Speaker 3: physical fights, emotional abuse. He even slept with another woman

2044
01:44:16,520 --> 01:44:20,040
Speaker 3: in our bed while I was pregnant with our third child,

2045
01:44:20,479 --> 01:44:22,960
Speaker 3: after I took him back for getting me locked up.

2046
01:44:23,439 --> 01:44:27,800
Speaker 1: I know no judgment zone right now. After I had

2047
01:44:27,840 --> 01:44:30,600
Speaker 1: our son, I lost my job and he became the

2048
01:44:30,720 --> 01:44:34,160
Speaker 1: only one working. But he instantly stopped.

2049
01:44:33,840 --> 01:44:36,680
Speaker 3: Helping with the kids like I wasn't still healing and

2050
01:44:36,800 --> 01:44:40,439
Speaker 3: caring for a newborn, a toddler, and a school age child,

2051
01:44:40,920 --> 01:44:44,720
Speaker 3: plus keeping up with the house. He's always angry and miserable,

2052
01:44:44,920 --> 01:44:49,000
Speaker 3: and I finally hit my breaking point after a feed engagement.

2053
01:44:49,280 --> 01:44:51,760
Speaker 3: He sent me on vacations and had our kids with

2054
01:44:51,880 --> 01:44:55,800
Speaker 3: another woman. I broke it off the problem we still

2055
01:44:55,840 --> 01:44:59,240
Speaker 3: lived together and I can't afford the place alone. I

2056
01:44:59,360 --> 01:45:01,200
Speaker 3: know he won't leave me out to dry, but I

2057
01:45:01,320 --> 01:45:04,240
Speaker 3: also know I can't heal until he's gone, and seeing

2058
01:45:04,320 --> 01:45:07,439
Speaker 3: his fat say face every day is driving me crazy.

2059
01:45:07,560 --> 01:45:08,160
Speaker 1: What should I do?

2060
01:45:11,280 --> 01:45:13,360
Speaker 3: You know, it's hard for me to relate to these

2061
01:45:13,400 --> 01:45:15,920
Speaker 3: type of situations because this is a judgment free zone.

2062
01:45:17,560 --> 01:45:21,559
Speaker 3: But it's hard for me to understand because I feel

2063
01:45:21,640 --> 01:45:24,200
Speaker 3: like you on child number three. I don't know how

2064
01:45:24,240 --> 01:45:25,880
Speaker 3: that feels, cause a nigga can't even get.

2065
01:45:25,760 --> 01:45:26,160
Speaker 1: One out of me.

2066
01:45:26,240 --> 01:45:28,600
Speaker 3: After he showed me his true colors. And that's just

2067
01:45:28,680 --> 01:45:33,519
Speaker 3: coming from because you already in there, you three kids deep.

2068
01:45:34,880 --> 01:45:37,639
Speaker 3: You have to lock in and get laser focus. That's

2069
01:45:37,640 --> 01:45:39,080
Speaker 3: the best thing I can tell you. Because we don't

2070
01:45:39,120 --> 01:45:40,799
Speaker 3: have children, We've never been in that situation.

2071
01:45:40,880 --> 01:45:41,519
Speaker 1: Because y'all be.

2072
01:45:41,920 --> 01:45:43,960
Speaker 3: Stop letting these men play in y'all face. I know

2073
01:45:44,040 --> 01:45:46,839
Speaker 3: it's a little late to say that, but when somebody

2074
01:45:46,920 --> 01:45:51,120
Speaker 3: shows you who they are, believe them. Okay, So all

2075
01:45:51,160 --> 01:45:53,160
Speaker 3: I can say for you now, because you're already in

2076
01:45:53,200 --> 01:45:55,840
Speaker 3: the trenches with them, y'all got three kids. It's too late.

2077
01:45:56,200 --> 01:45:57,600
Speaker 3: You gotta deal with this man for the rest of

2078
01:45:57,640 --> 01:46:00,760
Speaker 3: your life. All I can tell you now, get you

2079
01:46:00,840 --> 01:46:04,799
Speaker 3: a job and lock in, save up your money. Hopefully

2080
01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:07,320
Speaker 3: you have some friends and family that can help you out.

2081
01:46:07,800 --> 01:46:10,960
Speaker 3: But you already in there. You asked for advice three

2082
01:46:11,080 --> 01:46:15,600
Speaker 3: kids too late. Baby, The mistake has been made. So

2083
01:46:15,800 --> 01:46:16,720
Speaker 3: sometimes you got you.

2084
01:46:17,000 --> 01:46:18,519
Speaker 1: You made your bed. You gotta lay in it.

2085
01:46:19,280 --> 01:46:22,080
Speaker 3: And I don't mean to say that harshly, but I

2086
01:46:22,280 --> 01:46:25,400
Speaker 3: literally I cannot give you any advice because I don't

2087
01:46:25,720 --> 01:46:28,400
Speaker 3: I don't know that life, and I'm not saying that

2088
01:46:28,560 --> 01:46:33,400
Speaker 3: to be mean, but I just hope that you can

2089
01:46:33,520 --> 01:46:36,479
Speaker 3: understand now that this is your chance to really move

2090
01:46:36,560 --> 01:46:37,240
Speaker 3: on and let him go.

2091
01:46:37,360 --> 01:46:38,240
Speaker 1: He's not gonna change.

2092
01:46:38,400 --> 01:46:40,479
Speaker 3: He's moping around with a sad face because he's trying

2093
01:46:40,520 --> 01:46:42,680
Speaker 3: to manipulate you. So I hope you can see that

2094
01:46:42,760 --> 01:46:46,800
Speaker 3: before there's a number four on the way, you know

2095
01:46:46,800 --> 01:46:50,840
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So I'm praying that you can really

2096
01:46:50,960 --> 01:46:53,360
Speaker 3: lock in and save up your money, get some help

2097
01:46:53,439 --> 01:46:56,720
Speaker 3: from your community to get out of that house. But

2098
01:46:56,920 --> 01:46:59,479
Speaker 3: it's hard because I think of like if I have

2099
01:46:59,560 --> 01:47:01,080
Speaker 3: a friend that has a child, and if she needed

2100
01:47:01,080 --> 01:47:03,040
Speaker 3: to come to Atlanta and stay with me, baby, we good.

2101
01:47:03,120 --> 01:47:04,599
Speaker 3: What you finna do, what we're finna do, what we're

2102
01:47:04,600 --> 01:47:05,240
Speaker 3: finna figure out.

2103
01:47:05,439 --> 01:47:10,920
Speaker 1: But if my friend had three kids, yikes. Yeah.

2104
01:47:12,520 --> 01:47:16,040
Speaker 3: So all I can tell you is I is to

2105
01:47:16,200 --> 01:47:17,840
Speaker 3: lock in and try to do the best that you

2106
01:47:18,000 --> 01:47:20,879
Speaker 3: can to get out of that situation.

2107
01:47:21,040 --> 01:47:22,559
Speaker 1: But the best thing is for.

2108
01:47:22,640 --> 01:47:25,160
Speaker 3: You is to not let him fool you, because he's

2109
01:47:25,200 --> 01:47:30,280
Speaker 3: fooled you a lot. Focus on yourself and trying to

2110
01:47:30,360 --> 01:47:33,559
Speaker 3: get out. Because he's sitting around there and moping. Girl,

2111
01:47:33,640 --> 01:47:37,120
Speaker 3: he's not sad. He said that, he's not manipulating you anymore.

2112
01:47:38,040 --> 01:47:39,680
Speaker 3: All he's trying to do is real you back in.

2113
01:47:40,000 --> 01:47:42,280
Speaker 1: So the best advice I can give you is stop

2114
01:47:42,360 --> 01:47:44,960
Speaker 1: falling for his lies so you can really move on.

2115
01:47:45,479 --> 01:47:47,400
Speaker 3: Because it ain't too late to move on. There's plenty

2116
01:47:47,439 --> 01:47:49,560
Speaker 3: of men out here that will date you, plenty of

2117
01:47:49,640 --> 01:47:52,439
Speaker 3: people you can move on. You can have a life

2118
01:47:52,520 --> 01:47:55,479
Speaker 3: after him. I mean, look at cash Dog. Cash Dog

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Speaker 3: got hu good one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, two kids go hud outside having a ball.

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Speaker 3: So it can happen, but you have to really lock

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Speaker 3: in and focus on I think when cash y'all got

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Speaker 3: in her relations, she locked in.

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Speaker 1: She was working when she met her due. She was

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Speaker 1: talking to KICKI Palmer.

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Speaker 3: She said, Oh, he just walked up to me and

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01:48:13,200 --> 01:48:16,040
Speaker 3: I was outside, I'm hosting a party. So sometimes you

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Speaker 3: just got to lock in, focus on yourself, and that that.

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Speaker 1: Moving on will come to your child. But baby, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, I agree. I think that you just

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Speaker 1: need to focus on yourself. I don't know if you

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Speaker 1: have any close knit family that you can go stay in,

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Speaker 1: go stay with. But I feel like that's a situation

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Speaker 1: where you need to like rely on your family, community

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Speaker 1: and community because you have three kids already, and if

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Speaker 1: you don't want to be with him and you don't

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Speaker 1: want to stay with him, which I completely understand, because

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Speaker 1: that seems like a very toxic, unhealthy situation for you,

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Speaker 1: and especially to be bringing up three children in so

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Speaker 1: I feel like you need to try to see, like

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Speaker 1: what are your resources, and like try to rely on

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01:48:57,360 --> 01:48:59,960
Speaker 1: the people around you, rely on like link said, community,

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Speaker 1: and try to get yourself out of that situation, because

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Speaker 1: I feel like living in that same house with him

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01:49:05,439 --> 01:49:08,559
Speaker 1: and being there with him, you gonna fall back into

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01:49:08,600 --> 01:49:11,120
Speaker 1: the trap. It's inevitable because y'all there, y'all in the

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Speaker 1: same household, you looking at him every day, like you said,

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01:49:13,840 --> 01:49:15,799
Speaker 1: you looking at his sad face, and it be driving

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Speaker 1: you crazy. I feel like you need to try to

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Speaker 1: get yourself as far removed from that situation as you can.

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01:49:21,560 --> 01:49:24,280
Speaker 1: I know that if you don't have enough money to

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Speaker 1: live on your own, which is what you were saying

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01:49:26,560 --> 01:49:28,760
Speaker 1: in a letter, then you need to try to rely

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Speaker 1: on your family so that you can get stack some

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Speaker 1: bread up and make enough money so that you can

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Speaker 1: get a place for you and your kids. But I

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01:49:35,400 --> 01:49:37,280
Speaker 1: don't think you need to see it be in their space,

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01:49:37,439 --> 01:49:40,200
Speaker 1: in that house with him, figure out what you need

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01:49:40,280 --> 01:49:42,120
Speaker 1: to do to get away as far away from him

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Speaker 1: as possible, because I feel like a nigga that will

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Speaker 1: go cheat on you while you're pregnant and get you

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Speaker 1: locked up. He don't give a fuck about nothing. You

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01:49:50,560 --> 01:49:54,840
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about nothing. Stop believing these men. Man,

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01:49:56,360 --> 01:49:59,200
Speaker 1: we gotta be smarter to me, you know, to me,

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01:49:59,280 --> 01:50:01,360
Speaker 1: it's not even so much about tricking you at your womb.

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01:50:01,360 --> 01:50:04,800
Speaker 1: Because cash y'all speaking of her, she need an interview too,

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01:50:05,160 --> 01:50:07,560
Speaker 1: or maybe she was on Live where she was just saying, like,

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Speaker 1: people be like, also, now you stuck with two kids,

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01:50:10,640 --> 01:50:12,320
Speaker 1: and she was like, I'm not stuck with two kids

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Speaker 1: because I wanted my kids.

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Speaker 3: I was taking about heart situation. She was saying, well,

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Speaker 3: I'm will you not letting me get.

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Speaker 1: To my point. Yeah, But what I'm saying is like

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Speaker 1: she was just like yeah, she was like, I wanted

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Speaker 1: my kids and I love my kids. She was like,

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Speaker 1: so I'm happy that I had them. They're not a mistake.

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Speaker 1: It's okay to have kids. But like when the situation

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01:50:32,920 --> 01:50:35,000
Speaker 1: don't work out, no when to move on? And I

2179
01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:37,160
Speaker 1: think the problem is it's not about a nigga tricking you.

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01:50:37,160 --> 01:50:39,240
Speaker 1: Watch your om because some women want to be mothers.

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01:50:39,600 --> 01:50:41,800
Speaker 1: Some women want to have children, and let's be real,

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01:50:41,920 --> 01:50:43,720
Speaker 1: you have a cut off age when it comes to

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Speaker 1: you having a child. So it's okay if you want

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01:50:46,080 --> 01:50:47,400
Speaker 1: to have a child, or you was in love with

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01:50:47,479 --> 01:50:49,360
Speaker 1: these men and it didn't work out, but no, when

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01:50:49,520 --> 01:50:52,800
Speaker 1: to walk away, No, when the time is a It's

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01:50:52,840 --> 01:50:55,479
Speaker 1: okay that y'all had these beautiful years together and y'all

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01:50:55,520 --> 01:50:59,200
Speaker 1: created these beautiful children, but when it's over, it's over,

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01:50:59,320 --> 01:51:01,280
Speaker 1: and you need to know know when to walk away

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01:51:01,320 --> 01:51:04,280
Speaker 1: with grace and dignity, especially for your child and for

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Speaker 1: your children so that you could raise them to be strong,

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Speaker 1: independent people and know to set boundaries themselves. You have

2193
01:51:11,240 --> 01:51:12,920
Speaker 1: to know how to set boundaries first, to set that

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Speaker 1: example for your kids. So you're not girl, That's what

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Speaker 1: I think. Agree, that's what I think. Can I just

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Speaker 1: say something, Sure, y'all are not stuck? Like I know

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01:51:24,240 --> 01:51:26,960
Speaker 1: that that and again Lex said, we can't really relate

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01:51:27,040 --> 01:51:29,880
Speaker 1: because we don't have kids, But like you can start

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01:51:29,960 --> 01:51:34,920
Speaker 1: over at any moment, lock in, focus on yourself, figure

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Speaker 1: out if you need to get a job, whatever you

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Speaker 1: need for you and your kids. That is your priority.

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Speaker 1: Now f thesess for real, for real, you are never

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Speaker 1: stuck there's always a way where there's a will, there's

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01:51:46,280 --> 01:51:47,960
Speaker 1: a way, but there's always a way to get out

2205
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Speaker 1: of your current situation. You just really gotta want that

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Speaker 3: is connected to poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: It's p O.

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Speaker 3: You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the

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Speaker 3: wrong poor Minds page. If you see at poor Minds

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Speaker 3: with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not

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Speaker 3: follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea and the

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Speaker 3: poor Minds page on both so we only have one Instagram,

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Speaker 3: one Twitter, one TikTok.

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Speaker 1: It's p O, you are underscore in my nds, all right,

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Speaker 1: and we got hell a fake Facebook page. The Facebook

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Speaker 1: pages it's our face. The crazy thing is our Facebook

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Speaker 1: page actually have the least amount of file. So if

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Speaker 1: you're on.

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Speaker 3: Facebook one that's ours, y'at the least amount.

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Speaker 1: Of file one that's not us. It's got like two

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Speaker 1: hundred and fifty thousand followers.

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Speaker 3: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

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Speaker 3: caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English, because.

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Speaker 1: Their captures are like bumba claude, should men? Should men

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Speaker 1: pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No? Check answer

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Speaker 1: below block block po Like that's literally what the captions.

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01:54:22,320 --> 01:54:25,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, what that DG is? Bumba claude, Bamba claude.

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01:54:26,720 --> 01:54:30,280
Speaker 1: I think I'm ready been locked up in the house

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01:54:30,360 --> 01:54:34,760
Speaker 1: way too long. It starmed a gay because once again

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Speaker 1: he is out doing wrong and my girls are so

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Speaker 1: real said it's being a minute since I had some.

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Speaker 1: He's been acting up, but he won't be the only

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Speaker 1: one because when he asks wrong that when you put

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Speaker 1: it on, been alone tight? This is how home hold on?

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Speaker 1: Are you back so house? Put your freaking dress? Oh

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Speaker 1: should dress? So push your freaking dress? Oh every woman

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01:55:01,840 --> 01:55:06,800
Speaker 1: got one shout it when it's time at the big

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01:55:08,280 --> 01:55:11,720
Speaker 1: and put your freaking dress. Oh what's your freaking dress?

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01:55:12,120 --> 01:55:16,120
Speaker 1: Oh what's your freaking dress? Song? So now I just

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01:55:16,280 --> 01:55:19,280
Speaker 1: saw me turned out about how the dress was fitting tight.

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01:55:19,480 --> 01:55:24,360
Speaker 1: It was shortened back list seeing my silhouette in the moonlight.

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01:55:24,840 --> 01:55:28,600
Speaker 1: Such an attraction. Oh, you're telling me how my outfice

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01:55:28,720 --> 01:55:33,760
Speaker 1: so nice? No, my man gonna take it off tonight.

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01:55:34,440 --> 01:55:36,760
Speaker 1: Because when he asks wrong, this, when you put it on,

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Speaker 1: being a mom tile, this is your suf some your

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Speaker 1: w down, the empress a lot, your freakum dress. Oh oh,

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Speaker 1: put your freaking dress, the freaking dress, push your freaking comb.

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01:55:52,920 --> 01:56:07,240
Speaker 1: Drink every woman. What's your freaking dress song? Okay, I

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01:56:07,360 --> 01:56:10,280
Speaker 1: was doing your back up. You got your freaking dress on.

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01:56:10,360 --> 01:56:14,840
Speaker 1: This your motherfucking birthday. Hobot that on. It's an invitation

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01:56:15,280 --> 01:56:17,440
Speaker 1: when they play your song, you on up and shaky

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01:56:17,720 --> 01:56:19,840
Speaker 1: work it on out when your man, don't waist it,

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01:56:20,120 --> 01:56:22,280
Speaker 1: spin it all around and take it to the ground.

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01:56:22,360 --> 01:56:25,080
Speaker 1: And when you put it on, it's an invitation. When

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01:56:25,120 --> 01:56:27,640
Speaker 1: they play your song, get on up and shaky work

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01:56:27,680 --> 01:56:29,360
Speaker 1: it out on your man. You don't have to waste

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01:56:29,400 --> 01:56:32,000
Speaker 1: it spinning all around and take it to the ground.

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01:56:32,080 --> 01:56:34,680
Speaker 1: And because when he asks wrong, when you put it

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Speaker 1: up and on on top, this is your song. Hold

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Speaker 1: on your path, trying of impact.

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Speaker 2: Brown dress.

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Speaker 1: Dress song, A freaking dress song. What's your freaking dress?

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01:57:00,960 --> 01:57:04,240
Speaker 1: I hate that's out? I hate the background all of

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Speaker 1: the first Yeah, put your freaking dress on, Dress three

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01:57:09,760 --> 01:57:13,000
Speaker 1: sixty for your birthday. She put that freaking dress on

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01:57:13,160 --> 01:57:16,080
Speaker 1: for her birthday. Always got my freaking dress on. Yeah,

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01:57:16,640 --> 01:57:19,720
Speaker 1: put your freaking dress. Say nothing but another day, nothing

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Speaker 1: but anohing, Always ready,