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Speaker 1: I ordered some instacart you know, groceries to come to

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Speaker 1: my house later this morning because I got to work

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Speaker 1: out today with Body by Gideon, and I need like

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Speaker 1: bananas and stuff I don't know. I need like, you know,

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Speaker 1: vegetables and on and like sandwich meat, you know, so

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I cannot die in this thing. And

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Speaker 1: they brought me everything I boiled that I saw the receipt.

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Speaker 1: It hasn't arrived yet. They brought me everything except the

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Speaker 1: sandwich meat. So I have bread and cheese, but they

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Speaker 1: decided that they didn't have sand I guess they didn't

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Speaker 1: have the sandwich meat I wanted. Uhuh, and I'd put

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Speaker 1: alternatives in there. They didn't have any sandwich. But I'm like,

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Speaker 1: so you and I appreciate the person who's shopping and

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Speaker 1: thank you for doing it for me. And it's may

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Speaker 1: I pay for the service. I pay annually for the service.

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Speaker 1: It's very convenient, But like you didn't look at that

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Speaker 1: and say, this guy probably needs sandwich meat. Like he's

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Speaker 1: obviously trying to make a sandwich. There's you know, tomatoes

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Speaker 1: and lettuce and cheese and bread and mustard. He ordered

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Speaker 1: all that, So let's make sure that we just don't

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Speaker 1: try real hard on the on the meat.

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Speaker 2: Oh that makes me so mad.

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Speaker 1: And I promise they had something. Don't like the option?

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Speaker 2: Make you send another option?

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Speaker 1: There were there were other options or closest option. It

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Speaker 1: says that in there. But I'm just like, I don't

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Speaker 1: expect you. I get it, like you're doing this all day.

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Speaker 1: You're not analyzing people's you know, but if you go

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Speaker 1: to like the mustard section and you go to the

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Speaker 1: bread section and you go to the cheese section, we're

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Speaker 1: missing something. We're missing something.

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Speaker 2: I have a theory.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they do it on purpose because I

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Speaker 1: have to order again. You have to order again. So

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Speaker 1: now that gives me another task, because you're right, because

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it today. I'm gonna have to

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Speaker 1: wait till I need more stuff. But I'm gonna have

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Speaker 1: to probably do it tomorrow or just get my lazy

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Speaker 1: ass and go buy some sandwich meade because otherwise I

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Speaker 1: got bread and cheese and mustard and that's not a

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Speaker 1: great sandwich. Makes me so mad, but I just I'm

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Speaker 1: just like, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys come on and

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Speaker 1: they say the delis. The deli is open. It is open.

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Speaker 1: I know what, I know where I ordered from. It

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Speaker 1: is open. It's open like all the time. Anyway, I

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Speaker 1: just like, you know it would have been. So now

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Speaker 1: I'm I having bread sandwich, banana sandwich when I get home.

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Speaker 3: On your way out, exactly, it's a very good clue.

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Speaker 1: I forget to go down to the little mini grocery

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Speaker 1: store to get across the street. I forget about that

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Speaker 1: place I can go in there.

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Speaker 3: You're right, thing, Yeah, I mean, it's very frustrating, but

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Speaker 3: sometimes if I forget something, I go back there and.

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Speaker 1: I'm the lazy one who won't go to the grocery store.

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Speaker 1: So it's my fault. But at the same time, like, guys.

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Speaker 4: Now, let's use our HUDs.

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Speaker 1: Like you can very clearly see or I've done it before,

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Speaker 1: where like I'm trying to make out something and like

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Speaker 1: the star of the dishes, the salmon, or the star

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Speaker 1: of the dishes, the whatever, and they bring me everything

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Speaker 1: but that so I have all the spices, what am

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Speaker 1: I supposed to do? Pour those on my tongue and

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Speaker 1: pretend I's like to imagine that there's protein. I'm like you, guys,

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Speaker 1: like we got to use a little ingenuity here, just

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Speaker 1: a little bit, like we got it knas you know,

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Speaker 1: it's my fault, though, I just want to be clear,

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Speaker 1: it's my fault first world problems. It's my fault that

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Speaker 1: I'm going to eat a bread sandwich later. How your

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Speaker 1: significant other's name is saved in your phone speaks volumes

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Speaker 1: about your relationship apparently, so I before I tell you

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Speaker 1: what that means, I'll just go left to right. I

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Speaker 1: would start with myself. I don't have a partner, so

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Speaker 1: I can't I can't answer this. How is Big Tim

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Speaker 1: saved in your phone? Big tim Yes, says it.

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Speaker 2: Really depends on the day. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: You change his name on your phone?

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Speaker 2: Yes, honey. If he makes me upset, that number is

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Speaker 1: Okay, you unsaved the man's number who lives with you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I do.

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Speaker 5: Or I change it to his mother's name and it

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Speaker 5: just says her son.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, so and so.

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Speaker 1: So you will take the time to go into your

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Speaker 1: phone book and change the way someone's written. Yes, The

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Speaker 1: only way I'm changing someone's name in my phone is

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Speaker 1: if either I'm erasing them or if I want to

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Speaker 1: put something in there to identify, not to answer them

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Speaker 1: like no. The problem putting no is that if you

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Speaker 1: no it's calling.

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Speaker 2: Now that's wild. You don't even know who's calling. That's

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Speaker 2: that's extreme.

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Speaker 1: I will delete people's number. I will not. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna take the time to go in the phone. Will

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Speaker 1: could change it to I hate this person?

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Speaker 2: Why change it? Because it's of It makes you feel

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Speaker 5: When that number pops up, it's like, look at this clown,

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Speaker 5: you know, like it says, you know, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Your therapy, I got it. He lives there it's better

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Speaker 1: than change.

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Speaker 5: Like some people go and change their Facebook name, like

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Speaker 5: a lot of my Mary friends. They'll go from like

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Speaker 5: Kaylen Jane Jones to Kaylin Marie because they won't they'll

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Speaker 5: I love watching that.

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Speaker 5: Or some people will change their relationship status or go

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Speaker 5: vent on Facebook face doing all that.

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Speaker 2: I just changed your name in my phone and laugh

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Speaker 2: when you call.

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Speaker 1: It text me the place where people are crying for

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Speaker 1: help constantly. You just have to be able to decode it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Like I know someone who's having a little bit of

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Speaker 1: tough a little bit of difficulty in their relationship, and

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Speaker 1: now one side is all just pictures of that person

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Speaker 1: they're not they're not They're still together. But I'm just

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Speaker 1: I'm noticing the passive aggressiveness of It's like I'm just

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Speaker 1: And it's almost like are you are you inviting people

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Speaker 1: to ask you why which you are? Or when you

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Speaker 1: post on there like I need extra prayers today, It's

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Speaker 1: like now, now, okay, fine, I give you extra prayer,

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Speaker 1: Like what am I praying about you know, and then

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Speaker 1: you I think it just draws people in, people start

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Speaker 1: calling you, texting you. It's attention seeking, you know, It's

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Speaker 1: like what cryptic message are you trying to send through Facebook?

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Speaker 2: So you need to do that.

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Speaker 7: I just I feel like, especially if you've been together

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Speaker 7: for a really long time and you've let people like

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Speaker 7: and you have to be like real, like sure that,

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Speaker 7: like your relationship is like over before you start. Like

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Speaker 7: I posted a Sam Hunt song once that's called break

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Speaker 7: Up in a Small Town, and I just I like

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Speaker 7: this song, and like his brother was like in boxing me,

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Speaker 7: like what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Like, what's wrong?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not breaking up.

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Speaker 7: I've been dating your brother for a decade, so like

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Speaker 7: I'm not bringing up with them on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Cayley, you never posted a meme or a song or

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Speaker 1: anything on social media that was intended to you know,

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Speaker 1: that had a double meaning.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure I have, but I do not in my relationship,

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Speaker 3: Like I would never put that out I would ever

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Speaker 3: think to do that. I would do something more like

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Speaker 1: Well what do you mean, what would you do?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, Like hide all his sock one of

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Speaker 4: his socks or something. I don't know, you know, like

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Speaker 2: Like psychological warfare just between Yeah, I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 3: One of your socks, right, you know, take the toilet

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Speaker 1: You know, what is what is he in your phone?

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Speaker 2: As you're same but there is a photo?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Does that mean something out of that council anyway?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It's just like a little extra effort, you know.

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Speaker 1: I think people have dated have always been in my

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Speaker 1: phone as either either their name or their name in

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Speaker 1: the dating app that I met them. If you type

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Speaker 1: in hinge in my phone, I've got a lot of

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Speaker 1: hinges in there. I got a lot of hinges. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got a lot of shyes to differentiate between you

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Speaker 1: know and so and so that I know from another city. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got a lot of those, or a lot of ass.

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Speaker 1: I got some azies in there, because when I'm in Easy,

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Speaker 1: you know, the Jessica in in the Shy is different

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Speaker 1: from the Jessica when I'm in Raleigh, which is different

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Speaker 1: from the Jessica when I'm in West Palm, which is

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Speaker 4: In why not you got Jessica in every city?

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Speaker 1: Certainly, I certainly do. I got a Jessica everywhere you

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Speaker 4: But he has a black heart next to my name.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what that means. I just asked him,

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Speaker 4: So a black heart black heart?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what is uh? Mike the mechanic thought he's just

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Speaker 6: You go.

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Speaker 7: But I think what he has me saved is better.

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Speaker 1: It's Jason Brown gay like because like he would like

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Speaker 1: to see people and he's supposed to the Jason Brown

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Speaker 1: that he knows that's straight.

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Speaker 7: He knows a straight one, but he would like save people.

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Speaker 7: And then he was like meeting that work customers, but

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Speaker 7: live't think of nothing else.

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Speaker 1: She just gay.

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Speaker 2: After that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Do you have anyone in your phone? And we've talked

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Speaker 1: about this before, but their name and then some kind

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Speaker 1: of identifying feature like I once had Becky big boobs.

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Speaker 1: I did have Becky big boobs. Oh yeah, that was

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Speaker 1: a real that was real because her name was Becky

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Speaker 1: and she indeed had large.

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Speaker 7: I mean, if it makes sense, yeah, if it'll help you,

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Speaker 7: honestly know, it's more just like where like you like

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Speaker 7: where I meet people in mind, no more like physical

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Speaker 7: places versus like okay, dating apps. But I don't think

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Speaker 7: I have any like so and so grinder or anything

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Speaker 7: in my phone.

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Speaker 1: Well I would hope that it's been fourteen years. You

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Speaker 1: should not being grinder any Get off there, Paulina.

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Speaker 8: I'm just boring old Paulina here and I have him

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Speaker 8: saying to her husband. He just says husband. I mean

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Speaker 1: But it's like, I'm not gonna not be friends with

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Speaker 1: that were a thing that you had that you had

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Speaker 1: O zempic that does that, yeah and makes your thing bigger? Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's get You're in a different kind of lab, Kiki,

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Speaker 1: Let's get in the lab.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Let's work on this weight loss that gives you amnesia

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Speaker 4: To know that I am not you post those gym videos.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, this this thing goes on and on, and

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Speaker 1: Marion's girlfriends, thank you. There's hobbies, h girlfriend. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: Where is the end to Monopoly? I've played you win

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Speaker 1: been close to that. A total of nine hundred and

435
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Speaker 1: eighteen people sat down at one hundred and fifty tables

436
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Speaker 1: to play simultaneous games of Monopoly to break a Guinness

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Speaker 1: World Record in Australia. The record attempt was organized by

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Speaker 1: the The Little Legs Foundation, a charity that raises funds and

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Speaker 1: awareness for children with brain cancer, which is a great cause.

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Speaker 1: So why by all means it's good to know your

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Speaker 1: Customer's day? It's National Haiku Poetry Day and National Ellis

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Speaker 1: Island Family History Day. Is talking to someone who's actually

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Speaker 1: willing to admit.

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Speaker 7: No, but Marta and Linda Brown get off, Get off

445
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Speaker 7: the line, Marta and Leywan and never.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Lisa, Yes, your kids a dummy kind of kinda.

447
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Speaker 10: He's looking at me funny right now?

448
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Speaker 1: Oh you're there, Al, he's there for this.

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Speaker 11: I did to school.

450
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Speaker 1: I did say don't do it in front of your kid.

451
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Speaker 1: I did suggest that.

452
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Speaker 12: I told him I should call him.

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Speaker 2: He said, yeah, you should.

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Speaker 1: Now explain to me how old is is this child, Lisa?

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Speaker 13: He's thirteen.

456
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Speaker 1: He's thirteen and he's dumb sort of.

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Speaker 10: He's one of those smart dummy.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean.

459
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Speaker 6: Kids like he's on Honor Roll?

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Speaker 14: Right, No, but listen, this is the same kid who

461
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Speaker 14: thought that the slave days were the eighties.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, so history is not little mixed up his

463
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Speaker 7: thick Okay, I understand, yes, I you know the confusion.

464
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Speaker 7: My my knowledge of geography, history, common sense has ever

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Speaker 7: been there. However, I was on honor Roll, so I'm.

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Speaker 1: No, wow wow, okay, So so maybe not doesn't have

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Speaker 1: all the facts straight.

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Speaker 14: He's up my freshman yearbook picture and thought that everything

469
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Speaker 14: was in black.

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Speaker 6: And white then because it just so happened to have

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Speaker 6: been in black and white.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this year books, you're oftentimes in black and white. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well, I wish him the best with supportive

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Speaker 1: parents like you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I mean, is he the only child?

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Speaker 2: Do you have another hope?

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Speaker 12: He has an older sister?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Do we have more hope for her? Think it's

479
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Speaker 1: as be your fault because there's only one of you

480
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Speaker 1: and two and m.

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Speaker 2: Okay, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Glad you called right there? Hey Ricky, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: how's it going? Hey, Ricky? So this is real talk here.

484
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Speaker 1: You say, you know how many kids you have?

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Speaker 11: I got four all together.

486
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Speaker 1: Now you have four kids, and you can look at

487
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Speaker 1: these kids, and I think it's just very honest. And

488
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Speaker 1: you can look at the kids and you can tell

489
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Speaker 1: which ones are going to succeed in which ones you

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Speaker 1: have questions about. Correct.

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Speaker 11: I got my oldest one. Now, she's really smart, really

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Speaker 11: book smart, not just not not super street smart. Okay,

493
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Speaker 11: you got my firstborn son, he's uh, oh, that's such say,

494
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Speaker 11: he's probably gonna go to trade school.

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Speaker 15: School's not for everybody.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with the money.

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Speaker 11: And then I got his younger brother. He's, uh, that's

498
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Speaker 11: the lazy one. He's a smart one, but he's the

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Speaker 11: lazy one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, if he.

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Speaker 11: Applied himself, he'd be pretty special.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so waste waste youngest potential.

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Speaker 11: My youngest Yeah, my youngest one is only three months.

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Speaker 1: Oh so we don't know. So we don't know yet.

505
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Speaker 1: It's a toss up that one could go either way.

506
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Speaker 1: But schools.

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Speaker 11: School is not for everybody. I mean, I was in

508
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Speaker 11: the same bowl with my siblings. I'm the youngest one,

509
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Speaker 11: and I was lazy, but I was all right and

510
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Speaker 11: then yeah, my middle brother, well, same thing. It's not

511
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Speaker 11: School's not for everybody.

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Speaker 1: Rick's honest, It's honest, Ricky. Thanks, you have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for I thought he was gonna

514
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Speaker 1: tell me my three my three months old is mensa

515
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Speaker 1: or something like. Okay, now come on, how do you

516
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Speaker 1: know he's not very honest? I mean, I'm sure as

517
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Speaker 1: a parent, you can look at your kid, you love

518
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Speaker 1: them more all equally, hopefully except for Lisa, she doesn't.

519
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Speaker 1: But and you can be like, look, I think this

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Speaker 1: one is you know, this one has the potential to

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Speaker 1: be an accountant or a scientist or a doctor, and

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Speaker 1: this one doesn't. No, I gotta be honest as a parent.

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Speaker 1: If I were a parent, I think I would want

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Speaker 1: I mean, you of course want streets smart, and you

525
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Speaker 1: want it all right, yeah, but I would be happy

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Speaker 1: with enough enough intelligence to get you through school, you know,

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Speaker 1: such a we don't have issues. But I think I

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Speaker 1: would want a heavy emphasis on the street smarts. I

529
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Speaker 1: think that's what that would be. I could trade every

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Speaker 1: day because if I had a genius kid that like

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Speaker 1: couldn't put his or her own shirt on or something,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like we have a like

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Speaker 1: that's gonna be challenging. I want my kid to have both, yeah,

534
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Speaker 1: comins ideally smart enough to not be stupid, but also

535
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Speaker 1: enough that I can I can push you out of

536
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Speaker 1: the door and I don't have to worry that. You

537
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Speaker 1: know that you're not gonna get taken advantage of or

538
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Speaker 1: scammed or whatever. Hey, Kaylee Lordon, so this is what

539
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Speaker 1: the this is what Bellatype did, and you tell me

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Speaker 1: this is right, says Kaylee. Adopted her sister and realized

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Speaker 1: she's kind of dumb that Lena is that. Now, tell

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Speaker 1: me tell me more, a little bit more for me,

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Speaker 1: just if you could expound on that a little bit.

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Speaker 10: So I told her it was about a chapter book.

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Speaker 16: But I'm sitting here thinking, I'm like, those are other

546
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Speaker 16: things that added up to geez.

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Speaker 10: I should have recognized the sign.

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Speaker 13: One was one day we were going to Chick fil

549
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Speaker 13: A and she.

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Speaker 10: Was like, how come Chick fil a is an Indian food?

551
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Speaker 10: And I was like, what are you talking about right now?

552
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Speaker 2: And she was like, you know the three dots that

553
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Speaker 2: they put on letters.

554
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Speaker 10: In India, Why isn't it Indian food?

555
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Speaker 15: And it's chicken?

556
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Speaker 13: And I was like, oh, my god, not an Indian

557
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Speaker 13: dot and the letters.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, So we have one number of issues and

559
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Speaker 1: another one right now. So yeah, huh.

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Speaker 10: And she came to me while I was at work

561
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Speaker 10: and brought me a gift and.

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Speaker 13: I was like, oh my gosh, thank you so much.

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Speaker 14: She was like, yeah, happy Veterinarians Day.

564
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Speaker 2: And I'm like, what.

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Speaker 1: Veterans Day? Wow? So we have some history to learn.

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Speaker 2: And we have some okay, yeah, the signs are there.

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Speaker 1: Ye oh boy. All right, Leen, we got a lot

568
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Speaker 1: of issues here, Kaylee, I wish I wish you well

569
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Speaker 1: with that. Okay, thank you? Wow, Okay, we needed a

570
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Speaker 1: little social studies class. Maybe I have no room to

571
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Speaker 1: see maybe that's fine. Yeah, okay, one more. Hey, I

572
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Speaker 1: mean I just love hearing parents talk about how dumb

573
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Speaker 1: there's kids. I have, Bridget Hello, Bridge it high. You

574
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Speaker 1: have a thirteen year old yes, no common.

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Speaker 6: Sense, no common sense whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: Give me an example.

577
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Speaker 2: In school.

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Speaker 6: It's like one of the hardest things for him to

579
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Speaker 6: do is like read and like just just normal common sense, right, Like.

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Speaker 15: It's a thirteen year old boy.

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Speaker 6: But the kid could lay like a hard word floor

582
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Speaker 6: like he's like the rain man.

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Speaker 16: Okay, Okay, makes us like he needs like military.

584
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Speaker 13: But I told him, like, do military like collages and

585
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 13: take whatever comes to you more than like who You'll

586
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Speaker 13: probably be the Army instead of the Marines.

587
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, wow, so we just did. We're going to

588
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 1: insult branches of the military now coming here. You're gonna

589
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 1: get me in trouble here.

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Speaker 2: I love military.

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Speaker 1: You're just saying that.

592
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 10: Okay, family does it.

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00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 15: My family doesn't.

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Speaker 6: But I mean when it comes to him, I'm hoping

595
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Speaker 6: for the Army at least.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no, all right, bridget thank you. Have

597
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Speaker 1: a good day. I'm scared of the stuff it now.

598
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: But I mean, how many people can can our colors

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Speaker 1: insult this morning? I don't neither. I don't. This is

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Speaker 11: Money Show.

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Speaker 1: The woman who has the world's longest female tongue says

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Speaker 1: that people screaming shock when they see it. It measures

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Speaker 1: three point eight inches long. I don't know how many

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Speaker 1: times she's sticking her tongue out, but it's three point

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Speaker 1: eighty inches long from the tip to her lips, so

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Speaker 1: that doesn't include the party inside her mouth.

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Speaker 2: Wait, how long from the tip to the list?

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Speaker 1: Almost four inches three point eight inches, so it's about

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Speaker 1: this far from here to here. It looks like that, which,

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Speaker 1: of course everyone can see. You know when I say

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Speaker 1: it looks like that, because we're on the radio, people

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Speaker 1: screen hit shock when she shows her lengthy organ same

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Speaker 1: same come. The California resident Chanelle Tapper reveals that she

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Speaker 1: enjoys seeing people's reactions. There's a variety of bizarre tricks

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Speaker 1: she can perform with her extravagantly long tongue, raging from

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Speaker 1: flipping cups to removing Jenga blocks and holding up soon

627
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Speaker 1: by curling her tongue around the utensils. Never been left

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Brody, good morning,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. How are you, hey, guys, thanks

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Speaker 1: for having me. Hey, hey, hey, another one does Hey Hey.

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Speaker 1: I don't know where that came from, but you're welcome.

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Speaker 1: What's going on, Brody with this woman Maggie? Tell us

633
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Speaker 1: how you met about any day you've been on and

634
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Speaker 1: then where things are now?

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Speaker 15: Yeah, totally so God, Maggie's great. She's I met her

636
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Speaker 15: on the hinge and we had this amazing first date.

637
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Speaker 15: And you know, my friends always asked me, dude, like,

638
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Speaker 15: was that actually a good date or you just hypened

639
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Speaker 15: it up? No, this was actually a great date. And

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Speaker 15: I know that because she kissed me at the end,

641
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Speaker 15: you know, like we got to the end, like I

642
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Speaker 15: maybe did a slightlying in, but like she went, she

643
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Speaker 15: she covered them those systems there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yay, that's right.

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Speaker 15: But yeah, and I'll say this, dude, like we started

646
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Speaker 15: planning date number two the next day, you know, texting

647
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 15: back and forth, a little flirty. But then out of nowhere,

648
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Speaker 15: she just disappears like she unmatched me. She she I

649
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 15: think she blocked my number, Like.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, So she goes from leaning in to kiss you,

651
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Speaker 1: you know, which I would think would would be really

652
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Speaker 1: would say good things. I would say she had a

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Speaker 1: good time on the date who she's engaging, you know,

654
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: in a kiss with you, except for her then from

655
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: that point to now to block you and you know,

656
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 1: unfollow you and all these other things and unmatch or whatever.

657
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: What happened, right, I mean, what happened between her trying

658
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: to kiss you and then this, I don't know.

659
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: I thought it was a five star review right right?

660
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: Ah, that's confusing. I will admit that's confusing. So nothing

661
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: else happened that was strained on the data or since

662
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: the date. I mean, it's just been pretty much status quo.

663
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: You thought you'd reach out and see her again and

664
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: that was it.

665
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, nothing out of the ordinary.

666
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's call this woman Maggie in just a second.

667
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,239
Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone, Brody. We're gonna ask these

668
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: questions on your behalf of At some point you're welcome

669
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: to jump in, and the hope, as always is that

670
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: we get straighten this out and then set you up

671
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for. Sound good, Yeah,

672
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: that sounds great? Thanks? Hey Brody, Hey, all right, welcome back.

673
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: Let's call Maggie. You guys met on Hinge, the dating app.

674
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:03,959
Speaker 1: You went in a date. You thought the date went

675
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: really well. At the end of the day, you know,

676
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: you kind of leaned in for a kiss and then

677
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: she went in for it and kissed you, which I

678
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:12,719
Speaker 1: mean I would say at the end of a date,

679
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: if a woman does that to me, then I would

680
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: think she was into me, and I would assume that

681
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: I'm going to be seeing her again. You've reached out,

682
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: but you've come to realize that you've been blocked and

683
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: unmatched and unfollowed and all the things, and you're trying

684
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: to figure out what happened between her kissing you and

685
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: being blocked. Okay, all right, let's call Maggie now, good luck.

686
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 10: Hello.

687
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: Hi is this Maggie. Yes, hey, Maggie, good morning. My

688
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the

689
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that

690
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would

691
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can which

692
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: that for just a second?

693
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 15: Yep?

694
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you so much. I know it's kind

695
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: of awkward, but we're calling on behalf of a guy

696
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: who says he matched with you on hinge. His name

697
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: is Brody, and you guys went out recently. Do you

698
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: remember meeting Brody? I do, yes, Okay, so let me

699
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: tell you that he described, you know, his day with

700
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: you as a great time, and he says there was

701
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: chemistry at the end of the date. He even in

702
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: his in his mind. I'm not sure if you would agree,

703
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: but in his mind you kind of he went in

704
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: for a kiss and then you really went for it

705
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:26,959
Speaker 1: like you were into him. Is that does that all

706
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: sound right?

707
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 15: Yeah?

708
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 17: It did.

709
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 2: I did have a good time that night.

710
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. So he says everything was great and you're

711
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: confirming that, except he believes that he's been blocked since

712
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: the date and unfollowed and unmatched and all those things.

713
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: So what happened? If you had a good time on

714
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: the date, then why why have you blocked him? Why

715
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: can't he get a hold of you to schedule another one.

716
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 18: I was just hoping I could just walk away from this,

717
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 18: so I it didn't have anything to do with the date.

718
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 2: That was totally fine. But I saw him.

719
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 18: And this wasn't like on purpose or anything. It was

720
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 18: just chance encounter. And I don't think you saw me,

721
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 18: but I saw him. Okay, I don't know how to

722
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 18: put this because we're on there anyway, leaving like like

723
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 18: an adult toy store.

724
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 2: Got it?

725
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: What were you doing? Can we just ask what were

726
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: you doing?

727
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 14: So?

728
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: Why are you staking out the protein of the adults?

729
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 17: In mind?

730
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: It told me for a second, why were you there?

731
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 18: It's like, okay, so you know how like there are

732
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 18: strip malls and stuff and then you know this, whoever

733
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 18: buy that real estate? You know, I was totally I

734
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 18: was doing something completely different and it just happened to

735
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 18: be next to you when it's a very lam you know, well.

736
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: I wanted to really, I can think of a couple

737
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,800
Speaker 1: that are near other things that I would do or

738
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,879
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to that store, but I was going,

739
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 1: like to eat or something. And then there's the place,

740
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: so I mean, I can think of a few spots

741
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: like that. So okay, So you just it just so

742
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: happened that you were in the vicinity of this man

743
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: Brody and he was walking out of an adult store. Okay,

744
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: well he's an adult.

745
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 19: Yes, And I saw him with like I mean, like

746
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 19: so he bought stuff and he didn't just buy you know,

747
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 19: like one or two things like he had like these massive,

748
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 19: massive bags and it was like two of them, like

749
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 19: one on each arm.

750
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: Wow, quite all at the story.

751
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I didn't know what you're massive, but I'm glad. Yeah,

752
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 4: and I mean like that that's fine, you know, like

753
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 4: I don't I don't know.

754
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 15: What you know?

755
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what? No, don't can't shame here. We

756
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: let our freak flag fly.

757
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 20: You know.

758
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: It's cool exactly. Maybe like maybe this could come in

759
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 1: handy on the second date, you know, since things went

760
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: so well on the first day. Right, Oh, I am

761
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 1: not a second date.

762
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 2: Wonder I need at least three dates, you know what

763
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 2: I mean?

764
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 9: Okay, we could leave stuff package until that, you know

765
00:35:58,840 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 9: or whatever.

766
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: Anyway, I guess I'm not where's the problem here?

767
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 2: So okay.

768
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 18: So that's But then there was a guy with him

769
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 18: that was very very obviously not just his friends, if

770
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 18: that makes sense.

771
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: Oh, they were holding hands or something or have we

772
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: how do we? How do we know.

773
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 2: A little bit more than holding hands?

774
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 1: They just couldn't wait. That's like me when I get

775
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: McDonald's fries, Like you think I'm getting all the way

776
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 1: home with those things. Absolutely not. They're gone, right, right, Okay,

777
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: so so there was more Hell yeah, so there's there's

778
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: nothing left to the imagination, is what you're saying? Whatever

779
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: they were doing in the parking lot would lead you

780
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: to believe that they were more than friends. We're going

781
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: to say that, yes, And I mean, like, that's totally fine.

782
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 18: But it's like, I don't like, you went on a

783
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 18: date with me, you know, So it's like if that's

784
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 18: already a I was like, I don't want to be

785
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 18: involved in like whatever you are thinking about doing, you know, Like.

786
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: So it's possible that his interests are male and female.

787
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm probably at the same time.

788
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: All right, well, you know what, let's get to the

789
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: bottom of this, because I forgot to mention that Brody

790
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: is here and he's been very quiet and very patient. Brody.

791
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 1: What you didn't know, I guess is that you there

792
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: was a chance encounter between the two of you of

793
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 1: which you were unaware, and so she saw what she

794
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: believed to be you in this door and a man

795
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 1: and some other activity. Is that all true?

796
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 11: Yeah, I don't know.

797
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 1: Who that is.

798
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 20: I don't know who. Also, no, it was not you,

799
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 20: I don't I don't, I don't know. I don't know, man, Okay,

800
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 20: well were you now let me ask you this.

801
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: Were you recently an adult retail looking with a man

802
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: and expressing yourself in a way that might indicate that

803
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: you were very obviously more than friends with this man.

804
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 1: Does any of that sound familiar to you?

805
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 20: I don't know.

806
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 15: A lot of just seems like invasion of someone's I

807
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 15: have a No, I don't know. I don't.

808
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I can't recall ever ever, No,

809
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,320
Speaker 1: do you have Brody? Do you have an interest? I

810
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: don't want to pry because it's clear that I don't

811
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: think you want to talk about it. So you're saying

812
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: it wasn't you, or you're saying it could have been you.

813
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: Did anything she say resonate with you at all?

814
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 20: I don't.

815
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 15: I don't know, man, it could have been me.

816
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 2: It could not have been me, like it could have

817
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 2: been like.

818
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: For example, in that particular scenario, it definitely wasn't me.

819
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: You know, you know what I'm saying, Like, like, you know,

820
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: if you were to describe, if you were to describe

821
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: that scenario to me, for example, I could very clearly

822
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: and definitively tell you that that wasn't me. And you're

823
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: not saying that, and I don't. I'm not trying to

824
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: out you. I'm not trying to pressure you. I just

825
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: think Maggie thinks she saw something that indicates more about you,

826
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 1: and I think she wants to know if that's if

827
00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: she saw it correctly.

828
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 15: That this is this is this is too much, this

829
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 15: is Yeah, I'm good, I'm good. Thank you guys for

830
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 15: your work.

831
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 1: I'm good. Thank you by oh who oh oh, all right,

832
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: well that's thanks Brody.

833
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: Uh the right.

834
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 1: Look, I wasn't trying to out anybody, but I think you,

835
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: I do think you have a right to know, Maggie,

836
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: if you know what your partner is into. And maybe

837
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 1: not on a first date, but I think at some

838
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,399
Speaker 1: point he needed to reveal that to you. I think

839
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: it's fair. Yes, if you like both genders or whatever

840
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 1: you're into, I think that's a reasonable thing to inform

841
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: somebody of it, but maybe not on the first date.

842
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 18: But also, like, if you already have something with somebody, like,

843
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 18: don't go on a date with somebody.

844
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: Else that is that is a part of this. I

845
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: hadn't really considered. It's like, well, what is the nature

846
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: of that relationship? Right? Well, that's a good point. It's

847
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: not even so much that he was with another gender

848
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: or his same gender. It's more why, what what's that about?

849
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 1: And you guys obviously were very comfortable with each other.

850
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 2: You're not about to be like a third.

851
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 4: I don't want to be a third.

852
00:39:58,400 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 18: I don't want to do that.

853
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: I think that's fair too, But again, it won't him.

854
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: He didn't think.

855
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: He's not sure.

856
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: He wasn't sure, but he could have been. But it

857
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: probably wasn't, but it probably was. Actually, what are the

858
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 1: odds that you saw that?

859
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 2: I mean, what kind of universal thing was that? That's crazy.

860
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying, though, it's like, okay, well,

861
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: you know, maybe if he had said, yeah, that was

862
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: me and I also like this, and I also see

863
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: this and whatever, maybe if it were there was some

864
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: more transparency, then you would feel more comfortable with this.

865
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,800
Speaker 1: I just didn't want to pressure him because it doesn't

866
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 1: sound like he wants to reveal whatever that was. But

867
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. It's like, whoever that is,

868
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: it seems very comfortable. You don't need me. Yeah, I

869
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: get that, all right, Well he's gone, and and that's

870
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 1: okay because I don't think you didn't want to go

871
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,439
Speaker 1: out with him again anyway. So I hey, I wish

872
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 1: him luck, I wish you the best. Elect to Maggie,

873
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 1: thanks for your time.

874
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

875
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 1: Kiki's going to my hometown this weekend. You're going to Scottsdale, Arizona.

876
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: Do you know where you're aren't you? Is it this weekend?

877
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: Phoenix?

878
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:55,720
Speaker 1: Okay?

879
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 2: Well, same thing, very close to each other, don't all right?

880
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 1: Maybe my word for it since I grew up there,

881
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: But anyway, I love how you're like, You're like, no,

882
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm going to Phoenix, Okay, whatever You're going

883
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: to here? You like, like most cities, it's uh, it's

884
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 1: kind of like, uh, they all kind of blend together,

885
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: you Phoenix, Scottsdale, Masa, Glendale. I can go on and on,

886
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 1: but they just there. It's all kind of like one

887
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: big big thing that separate, kind of like Chicago, kind

888
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: of like a lot of places, it's kind of all

889
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 1: just one big thing. There's not a whole lot of separation.

890
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 1: Like you could drive down one road, if you drove

891
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: down Scottsdale Road, you could go from Fountain basically from

892
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: Fountain Hills Cave Creek all the way to like, I

893
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: don't even know where Tassa Grande, and you wouldn't necessarily

894
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: even though you left one town and went to the other.

895
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 2: Oh and it's fring training going on there too. Yeah,

896
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 2: it is my in laws, all the baseball players and

897
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 2: all the grow girl. Okay, not me, like, look at

898
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 2: my lists? Excuse me?

899
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: Can you can me relax?

900
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 2: I don't know why just did that to her. I

901
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 2: took my tongue and I lift my lips.

902
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: Well, remember going to Phoenix, so you know she won't

903
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: see them, right if it's in one of the neighboring

904
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: city she did, had no idea, So you're going. Do

905
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: you know where you're staying in Phoenie? I don't have

906
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 1: to say exactly, because we have psychos that listen. Some

907
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,320
Speaker 1: psychos that listen, but we have a couple psychos. I

908
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,320
Speaker 1: shouldn't say that of the thirteen, we might have a

909
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 1: psycho that listens. So generally speaking, where are you staying,

910
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: like in a big hotel or any airbnb or what

911
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: are you doing?

912
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: We're doing an airbnb with a pool in the backyard.

913
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:28,280
Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay, And what kind of activities you have planned?

914
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: Because you wrote today that you wanted me to tell

915
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: you where to go when you go to my hometown

916
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: Ish for this trip. But here's the problem. I don't

917
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: know if anyone else is like this who doesn't live

918
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 1: where they grew up. But people ask me all the time,

919
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 1: like because they go to Scottsdale in the spring in

920
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: the wintertime because it's warm there, and hey, what do

921
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: I do? Where do I eat? I have no idea.

922
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, no idea. I haven't lived there in

923
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: well over twenty years full time. And when I go back,

924
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: I hang out with my parents and my friends. I

925
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: don't really even go much further than like my name borhood.

926
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: So I honestly I have no idea where to tell

927
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 1: you to go. But what do you have planned for

928
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: this thing?

929
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 5: So we're doing like a brunch one day, we're doing

930
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 5: a day at some like indoor adult water park, which

931
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,280
Speaker 5: is like a they also have a spot there.

932
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 1: And an indoor is that like hedonism? Water park is

933
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: like every is everyone naked at this thing?

934
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 15: Like?

935
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: What is it an indoor adult water bark? Ope?

936
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 5: So I don't know, but it's like they have cabanas,

937
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 5: they have bar you know, yeah, bring you drinks. It

938
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 5: sounds like a resort, but inside a beach club.

939
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 1: Yeah.

940
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we'll do a day there cause.

941
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: I think water park. I think like a gigantic water

942
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: slide and just naked grown ups, which would be sort

943
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: of a weird thing.

944
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 2: Now why do you hang out?

945
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: Well, you said an adult water park. I mean if

946
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: it's adult. If you have to put the word adult

947
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: in front of water parks, then I feel like we're

948
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 1: specifying that whatever's going on kids shouldn't see.

949
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 5: Because I'm trying to make I'm trying to get you

950
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 5: the like the picture a bunch of women by a

951
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 5: pool with drinks in a cabana with a water slide.

952
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 15: There.

953
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

954
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: Okay, you're going to like, yeah, you're going to a

955
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: day club.

956
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 2: Yes, Sky Island Bungalow.

957
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 9: Oh wait, okay, because in my mind I had like

958
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 9: it's a lazy river there, great wool fledge for grown ups,

959
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 9: you know, like like where you're like naked at the

960
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 9: bottom of the slide and the next guy that comes

961
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 9: down like you guys gotta make out of it.

962
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe this is just my fantasy, but

963
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,399
Speaker 1: you're say, an adult water park and immediately I'm going

964
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: to you know, the kind of place at our friendly

965
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: on Rodgers hangs out where everyone's just walking around naked

966
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: all the time.

967
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 7: No, we won't have on swimsuits, just like kids aren't allowed. Yeah,

968
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 7: because it's a bar. He goes straight to naked like,

969
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 7: we get you.

970
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 4: This looks nice.

971
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: I like my version of it. I like the Kiki's

972
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: going to an adult naked porty water park this weekend.

973
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 15: That's what I like.

974
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 2: But are you on the slide, this huge slide? You

975
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 2: know I'm not.

976
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: All right, so you're doing that? Are you hanging out

977
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: with my mom? Because nothing would surprise me more than

978
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: if you went to Arizona and then you wind up

979
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 1: meeting up with mom of Fred and you know, moving

980
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: in on my inheritance.

981
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 18: I know.

982
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 2: I can't tell you because you will try to fly there. No,

983
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 2: I can't tell you.

984
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 1: Why would I try to think I would try to intervene.

985
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: She could hang out with my mom.

986
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 2: Yes, you would.

987
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: You talk to my mom, probably more than I do.

988
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 2: You would try to get in the middle of our

989
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 2: date and we can't have that.

990
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 1: Don't take my mom to be adult naked Corny website

991
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: water slide wherever you're going.

992
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 2: Oh, she'dn' want to set it up, set it up

993
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:26,399
Speaker 2: with me, so hell.

994
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a regular. That's my name at the door.

995
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: She said, right, oh my god. Have you ever have

996
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 1: you ever found out something like that about your parents?

997
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 1: Have any of you were I'm just curious eight five

998
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: five five three five have you ever found out that,

999
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 1: like your parents, who you believe to be unassuming whatever,

1000
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: you're you're grown up now you're not in the house anymore,

1001
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: and you find out that, like they go on vacation

1002
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: to one of those hedonism places, or they go to

1003
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 1: like a swinger's place, or I'm not even trying to

1004
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: be like, right, well, yeah, there's a place. There's a

1005
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: place in Illinois called the Ciberis, which is a hotel

1006
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: that is exactly what I'm imagining Kiki's going to, except

1007
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 1: hers has water slides, and then again I think this

1008
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: one does too, actually, But essentially it's a hotel where

1009
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: the rooms are but it's set up to go do that.

1010
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: It's set up to go that. That's the purtins like

1011
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: hot tub in the room and like your ears are

1012
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: the ceilings and whatever, like the Ciberis. It's intended for

1013
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: you to go just to grown up stuff. That's that

1014
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: you don't go there, like, that's not the place you

1015
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 1: stay on a road trip when you're on your way

1016
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: to you know, Tuscaloosa or whatever. Like you you don't

1017
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 1: just pull over there, you know, for a nice rest,

1018
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: like you're going there to have an affair, You're going

1019
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: there to do something crazy. It turns out Jason's parents

1020
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: used to hang out there when he was growing up,

1021
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: and they had no idea frequent fires wherever. He had

1022
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,399
Speaker 1: no idea. He had the rewards club card. I feel

1023
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: like your dad, Kalin would be because your parents should divorce,

1024
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: you have your stepdad and then you have your dad.

1025
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: I feel like the way that you describe your dad,

1026
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: he'd be the kind of guy that you would find out,

1027
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: you know, goes on goes to one of these like

1028
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 1: I don't know, has some sort of risque hobby or something.

1029
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 4: Oh, I mean my dad, I can remember my dad

1030
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 4: going to raves. Like my dad is a partier.

1031
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 3: He was rather so yeah, I mean I definitely believe that,

1032
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 3: and he spares no detail, so I do know about it.

1033
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 4: Unfortunately I didn't have to find out from anyone else.

1034
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that this person did I'm pretty sure

1035
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: this person did not mean what they just texted. It

1036
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 1: surprises me to hear that Fred says an adult porn

1037
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: naked water park would be his fantasy, considering how homophobic

1038
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: he is. Oh, but the next sentence is, imagine the nastiness.

1039
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you met germaphobic. Oh my god, because I'm

1040
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 1: very much not homophobic. So again, I would have nothing

1041
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: on the text line, which surprised me these days, except

1042
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: the next line says, can you imagine the nastiness? I mean,

1043
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: I assume you mean. I assume you mean germophobic. Let's

1044
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 1: go with that. Yeah, because I am not the ladder

1045
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: or the former. I am the ladder, so I assume, yeah,

1046
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: And honestly, it is not, in fact my fantasy. And no,

1047
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: I would not go there because of the germs, because

1048
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: imagine if you went to a place where that's all

1049
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 1: that they that's what it's intended to be, and that's

1050
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: all they do there, you know. Then I mean hotels

1051
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: are like that anyway, But if you went to a

1052
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: hotel that's specialized in just being nasty, then yeah, you

1053
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 1: can assume there's DNA everywhere oh ye. So anyway, okay,

1054
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: So I was just curious if anybody knew of any

1055
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 1: sort of like, oh wait we do Oh hold on

1056
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: a second, Lizzie, Hey Lizzy, good morning, Good morning Lizzy.

1057
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: So I was just curious if you since we're talking

1058
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: about where Kiki's going this weekend, which is a quote

1059
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:44,439
Speaker 1: unquote adult water park. I still don't know what that means.

1060
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: But did you have and then Jason's parents went to like,

1061
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: you know, the Freaky Hotel. Did your parents ever did

1062
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,320
Speaker 1: you find out that your parents are into something that

1063
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: you're like? What on earth?

1064
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 12: So my parents are the epitome of old people.

1065
00:48:58,239 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 5: Couple.

1066
00:48:58,800 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 1: There's seventy four.

1067
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 16: They met at the Playboy.

1068
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 12: Club in Chicago. Oh yeah, yeah, and apparently there was

1069
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 12: a hot tot and that's where they met. And then

1070
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:14,359
Speaker 12: they were engaged on their second dage and my dad

1071
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 12: bought a ring to the second date.

1072
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 1: Wow wow wow. So they used to have these things

1073
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: all over the country. My dad, my dad was a

1074
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 1: I guess you got you were like a key member

1075
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: or something, and you got a key and the key

1076
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: got you into these places all over the country. So

1077
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 1: my dad had a membership to one of these like

1078
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: in the seventies, and so you'd go to you know,

1079
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: big cities, and they would have these Playboy clubs, right exactly,

1080
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: And so I guess you'd go there and it was

1081
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: like a bar and a hangout. Wasn't necessarily sillacious, but yeah,

1082
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: so your parents met at the Playboy Club and then

1083
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 1: look at you. How long did it take to for

1084
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,359
Speaker 1: them to make you? Soundly, they didn't waste much time.

1085
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 12: I actually am adopted, so twenty years later they adopted me,

1086
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 12: and now they've been married for forty five years.

1087
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, so romance starts at the Playboy.

1088
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 4: Club obviously, Yeah, we gotta go.

1089
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: I love that, Lizzie. All right, well I'll meet you there,

1090
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 1: have a good day. Well, Keithy'll be there before me.

1091
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: But anyways, I hate the same story, Debbie. I mean,

1092
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 1: that's love, by the way, that's I mean. When I

1093
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: think of like Cinderella stories, I think of just the

1094
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: one she just told Hey, Debbie, hey, hey, good morning.

1095
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 1: Did you meet what did you find out about your

1096
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: parents or people who were important to you later at life?

1097
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: And you were blown away?

1098
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 12: It was it was kind of my daughter finding out

1099
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 12: about me.

1100
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 16: I went to an adults only clothing optional resort with

1101
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 16: a male friend of mine and my daughter was about

1102
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,440
Speaker 16: nineteen twenty, and she had called me while I was

1103
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 16: there and asked me how it was going, and I said.

1104
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 15: It was really nice.

1105
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 2: So they then I slipped up because she.

1106
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 16: Was really into tattoos, and I mentioned that there was

1107
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 16: a guy there, so, yeah, you wouldn't believe it. There's

1108
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:57,319
Speaker 16: this guy here and he's literally got tattoos everywhere he been,

1109
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 16: you know, down.

1110
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 2: There, and she's like, wait a minute, what.

1111
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 9: Place?

1112
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 11: Well you you know, never mind, So.

1113
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. It was a little awkward. Wow, that's

1114
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 1: that guy. Must have been a good friend, a good

1115
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: friend of yours.

1116
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 16: He was a very well, yeah, my friend was a

1117
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 16: very good friend. He got me there by telling me

1118
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 16: when I said I wasn't sure I could go to

1119
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 16: a place to be naked in public, he said, well, it's.

1120
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:28,720
Speaker 2: Not like you're going to be naked in Walmart.

1121
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 1: You know.

1122
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 15: He was right.

1123
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:32,360
Speaker 11: It's different.

1124
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: One It's funny is now, were you guys now when

1125
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:37,400
Speaker 1: you you use the term friend loosely, I mean in

1126
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: this case, I'm assuming or do you were you actually

1127
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: friends with this guy? And he was like, hey, Debbie,

1128
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: what are you doing this weekend? You should go to

1129
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: a naked adult resort together. And then all of a

1130
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 1: sudden you realize, oh, we're more than friends.

1131
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 16: I guess, well, no, we were, you know, kind of

1132
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:53,719
Speaker 16: friends with benefits thing.

1133
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 10: You know, he's my fun friend.

1134
00:51:57,880 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: Everybody needs a fun friend. Yeah the bust of course

1135
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 1: you're married or in a relationship. But anyway, Hey, Debbie,

1136
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: thank you. I have a great day too. One of

1137
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: my favorite parts about doing this show is it doesn't

1138
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 1: matter what we're talking about. I can, for the most

1139
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 1: part's sake, call now and somebody can somebody can tell

1140
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,359
Speaker 1: us something about something, And it turns out we got

1141
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 1: a bunch of freaky people out there listening to us.

1142
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: It makes me wonder how much stuff our parents have

1143
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 1: done that we don't know about that. I'm good unknowing,

1144
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 1: like Paulina. You know, I love Mama Marta deeply, but

1145
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: I can see it. I can see a world where

1146
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: Mama Marta may have gone to a place like this

1147
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: and you never knew about it.

1148
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 2: She still might be you, guys, she tells me all

1149
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 2: the time. I am living my best life right now

1150
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 2: in my fifties. Divorce like doing my thing.

1151
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 8: You know, I got my little granddaughter, Like she's really

1152
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 8: living her best life. And she goes missing on weekends.

1153
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 2: You guys know that. Yeah, I know where she goes sometimes,

1154
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 2: so she just might be get it Marta.

1155
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: Oh Hi, do you think she has a boyfriend she

1156
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: won't tell you about? And if she does, why wouldn't

1157
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 1: she tell you?

1158
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:58,240
Speaker 2: So Marta?

1159
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 8: One thing about Marta that I knew before children, so

1160
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 8: BC before kids or be yeah, before children. She used

1161
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 8: to get it like that, like she had these men

1162
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,080
Speaker 8: running circles around her. That's my aunt literally told me.

1163
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 8: They're like, yeah, she was that girl obviously, so she

1164
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 8: should be. So I feel like she's bringing that back.

1165
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 8: So I don't think she would have a serious relationship

1166
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 8: like a boyfriend, but she probably got a couple guys

1167
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 8: in rotation, a couple of good morning texts.

1168
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: Wow, she got a couple good morning texts.

1169
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:25,320
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be surprised.

1170
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 15: I would.

1171
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get married again. She's a smart woman, like

1172
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:30,280
Speaker 2: she's like, I'm would.

1173
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 1: The Fresh Show is on.

1174
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 2: Have your partners ever used your toothbrush show? No? I

1175
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 2: almost broke up. Yeah I might, just some of you

1176
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 2: does I had?

1177
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: I had a girl to do that. One time we

1178
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: were in a hotel and she wasn't expected to be

1179
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 1: there and she just I see her brushing her teeth

1180
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, did you bring a toothbrush for you?

1181
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,840
Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I the one that was in

1182
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: your thing. And I was like, I realized that we

1183
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 1: were just very close to one another. But I wasn't

1184
00:53:58,880 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: between your teeth.

1185
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 2: Right, you know what I mean?

1186
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 1: Like get the activities that took place were unspeakable moments ago.

1187
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean, that's different than my plaque.

1188
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 7: It really can we just exact We have the same

1189
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 7: like power toothbrush and I have them labeled like one

1190
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 7: has an M, one has a J, so there is

1191
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:21,919
Speaker 7: no room for error.

1192
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 5: Almost broke up in Mexico over this over tooth international border.

1193
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 1: You know, I threw that thing. I threw that toothbrush away,

1194
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 1: went and got another one.

1195
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 5: But he had to go find me another toth brush.

1196
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:35,360
Speaker 5: Like he had to go downstairs and by at the

1197
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 5: little bar, and.

1198
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: He went to the bar.

1199
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 2: Right we were about to break up over that.

1200
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: He went to the bar and got you another toothbrush.

1201
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,920
Speaker 5: Yes, but you guys do like other and that's what

1202
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 5: he said, He's like, come on, but there is a

1203
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 5: difference between what is between my teeth.

1204
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:56,240
Speaker 2: And in my mouth, almost all detailed.

1205
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: Order a fresh show. Okay, all right, the honorable Kiki

1206
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 1: is here, Judge Kicky, but I take it away.

1207
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 5: All right, let's get in the courtroom. The gavel has

1208
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 5: been hit. It says, Hey, Kiki, my name is Margaret.

1209
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 5: I need to know if you think I'm wrong for

1210
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 5: telling my daughter that she's not a doctor and her

1211
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 5: kids should come first. My daughter has been an er

1212
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 5: nurse for ten years. She's a divorced, single mom of two,

1213
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 5: and I feel like she has allowed her career as

1214
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 5: a nurse to ruin her life. Since her husband left

1215
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:31,320
Speaker 5: three years ago. She has completely allowed her kids to

1216
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 5: become door dash kids, meaning there's never a home cooked

1217
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 5: meal on a stove, but instead they're being forced to

1218
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 5: live off of food delivery services because she's always at work.

1219
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 5: I reached my breaking point when she almost missed my

1220
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 5: granddaughter's award ceremony. Luckily, her ex husband made time to

1221
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 5: be there with me, but my daughter, on the other hand,

1222
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 5: came running in late and completely missed my granddaughter's name

1223
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 5: being called. I was furious I told her, you're not

1224
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 5: a damn doctor, You're just a nurse. Stop trying to

1225
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 5: save the world and be there for your family. Well,

1226
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 5: my daughter hasn't spoken to me since, and even stop

1227
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 5: communication between me and my grandkids. I feel bad, but

1228
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 5: I think it was the hard truth that she needed

1229
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:13,919
Speaker 5: to hear. Am I wrong?

1230
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: Well? The just a nurse thing I don't like. So

1231
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 1: let's just fix that. The just a nurse, I mean

1232
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:23,720
Speaker 1: nurses the backbone of all of them. I mean doctors,

1233
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:27,839
Speaker 1: of course, you know, but nurses are out here right

1234
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: right alongside the doctors helping them. In fact, in many ways,

1235
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:33,760
Speaker 1: you know, facilitating a lot of the things that the doctors,

1236
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 1: you know, tell them to do, double checking, that kind

1237
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:38,400
Speaker 1: of thing. So just a nurse thing, I don't know

1238
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 1: about that. The second thing I would ask you, Kiki,

1239
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: Judge Kiki, is are they in a position where she

1240
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: she could work lessons still provide I wonder exactly, because

1241
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 1: that's my question, Like, is she in a position as

1242
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 1: a single mom where she doesn't need to work this

1243
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: much she's choosing to, or is this what it takes

1244
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,240
Speaker 1: in order to support the family.

1245
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 2: I don't know many people who work just to work.

1246
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 5: I don't know many people who would sacrifice time with

1247
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:04,720
Speaker 5: their children just because.

1248
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 2: And Margaret, I love you, but I feel like you

1249
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 2: are wrong.

1250
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 5: Okay, instead of reprimanding your daughter in front of her

1251
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 5: ex husband by the way, and saying you're not a doctor,

1252
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 5: you need to put your kids first, how about you

1253
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 5: give give a little grace, a little understanding, offer a

1254
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 5: little help. If you're tied of your grandkids eating DoorDash

1255
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 5: every day, why don't you cook the my home cooked meal.

1256
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 5: You see your daughter busting her butt to go to work,

1257
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 5: and clearly she needs to work. And now you're praising

1258
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 5: him saying he made time to be there for his daughter.

1259
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:32,479
Speaker 2: He's a parent.

1260
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 5: That's what he's supposed to do. He doesn't get an

1261
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 5: award or a trophy because he made time to be there. Like,

1262
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 5: you have to be understanding on both parts. And until

1263
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 5: you made me, you weren't a single mother, so you

1264
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 5: don't know the struggle that comes along with that. And

1265
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 5: I just feel like in this case, as a mother,

1266
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 5: you should have extended your daughter a little grace. And yes,

1267
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 5: you can have a conversation with her and say, hey,

1268
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 5: we got to find a work of life balance. I

1269
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 5: don't want you sacrificing the time you're with the kids

1270
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 5: help her through that. But to just tell her you're

1271
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 5: not a doctor, you're just a nurse. That is insane

1272
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 5: to me.

1273
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 1: You know, I don't like that angle.

1274
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 2: I wouldn't talk to you either, Miss Margaret, not gonna lie.

1275
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 1: No, I don't like that angle. No, there's a constructive

1276
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 1: way to say, I know that your job is important

1277
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: to you. I know that you're doing important work, but

1278
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: you know you're missing a lot of stuff with your

1279
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: kids and you're gonna regret that, yes, And so you know,

1280
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 1: is there a way to make sure that you you know,

1281
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 1: don't you may not be able to make it do everything.

1282
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 1: And that's also, by the way, why there's you got

1283
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: mom and dad in this situation. So dad can cover sometimes, Yes,

1284
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: Dad can come to some things that mom can't come to.

1285
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: Not everybody can be at everything all the time.

1286
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 2: Can dad cook a meal for the kids during the week?

1287
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 5: And can Dad pick them up and be at their

1288
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 5: activities insteads since he has all this time in the world, Like,

1289
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 5: it's just hard for it's just hard to say, you know,

1290
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 5: you're just this and I don't understand why you're doing that,

1291
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 5: and anybody who knows a nurse, if you've ever dated

1292
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 5: a nurse, if you've ever been raised by a nurse,

1293
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 5: it's not easy for them to just get off the clock.

1294
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 5: It's not a job where you can just go in

1295
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 5: and the next person comes in. It's like okay, bye. No,

1296
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 5: there's checks and balances, the patients that need things, and

1297
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 5: nurses work extremely hard. I don't want to I don't

1298
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 5: want to fight the doctors, but when I go to

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00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 5: the anything medical, I see the nurses more than I

1300
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 5: see the doctors.

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00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: It's different, but you can't discount the work that's being

1302
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: done by nurses because they're not doctors. It's incredibly important

1303
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: to the process.

1304
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 8: Yes, No, And I think what really bicks my heart

1305
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 8: too in the situation is that when you said, you know,

1306
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 8: she ran in laid and saw her daughter, but she

1307
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 8: missed her daughter's name being called at the award ceremony.

1308
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 8: I think what for me broke my heart was that

1309
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 8: that mom already felt so much guilt when she was

1310
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 8: on her way there trying to make it on time.

1311
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:37,439
Speaker 2: And I think mom guilt is so real.

1312
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 8: So I think, you know, Grandma or in this case,

1313
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,479
Speaker 8: her mother, is really just piling onto the mom guilt

1314
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 8: and the frustration that we feel as working moms. In

1315
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 8: my opinion, and I think it's it's messed up, and

1316
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 8: I think this is a situation where yeah, people have

1317
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:50,479
Speaker 8: to step in and help. What do I always say, guys,

1318
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 8: it takes a village and being a single mom, like

1319
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 8: my hats off to you, close off to whatever, everything

1320
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 8: off to you, everything else.

1321
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 1: Because they desire to take it close off single moms.

1322
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:05,320
Speaker 1: That's my job. I lay my body down. I'm here

1323
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,439
Speaker 1: to support all single moms for their plight.

1324
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:08,919
Speaker 2: Say, man, it can't be easy.

1325
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: No eight five three five you guys with the Jerry,

1326
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 1: what do you think? Yeah, I don't know. I uh,

1327
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: I think maybe there's there's some kind of constructive conversation

1328
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: that might that might need to be had here because

1329
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 1: we've talked about this before. You know, growing up, I

1330
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: had a good friend that when I was a little kid,

1331
01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 1: his dad was a doctor, and they used to joke

1332
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: like that the doctor's kid is the least cared for

1333
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: because doctors have this it's like this out outward calling.

1334
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 1: It's like I gotta take care of my patients. Take

1335
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 1: care of my patients. And they come home look at

1336
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: their kid, and he did not love his kid, but

1337
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: it was like, you're fine.

1338
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 9: You know.

1339
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: He'd look at him and it wasn't that he didn't care,

1340
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: but it was just like, you're fine, you know what

1341
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I don't I'm not gonna, I'm not

1342
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 1: gonna come home and you're you're good, like you're not sick. Whatever,

1343
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 1: move on, move along. And I do think there's like

1344
01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: a there's probably a a complex if you want to

1345
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: call it that, or wherever, where whatever, where doctors feel

1346
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: this need to constantly. It's like I don't know how

1347
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 1: you leave that behind, right, you know what I mean?

1348
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: Like I don't know how you do a shift and

1349
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: then just leave and then you're I mean, I feel

1350
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 1: like I would be there all the time trying to

1351
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 1: save everybody, you know, and you can't. I can't do

1352
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: that because I got to go home and now be

1353
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 1: a family guy too, you know, I'm caring for my

1354
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: patients all the time. Then I'm coming. I'm sure it's

1355
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: a very difficult balance and an er nurse, it's NonStop.

1356
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 5: I'm sure, like you see all type of crazy stuff

1357
01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 5: happening all day, and I'm sure it's just not hard

1358
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 5: to get off. And I just I could never see

1359
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 5: myself mom shaming my daughter who is divorced, single trying

1360
01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:43,880
Speaker 5: to make it with two kids like grandma pick up

1361
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:44,479
Speaker 5: some of the slag.

1362
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 1: Well, and you can encourage her to maybe make sure

1363
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: her priorities are in order. Yeah, but I also think

1364
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: that minimizing what she does in an effort to do

1365
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 1: that is not the way to go about it.

1366
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 2: You're just a nurse, no, no no.

1367
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:00,720
Speaker 1: If you want her to reorganize and recon sit her, hey, look,

1368
01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 1: I think you're working a little too much over time

1369
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: and you're missing a little too much stuff. Now, again,

1370
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: the question that we don't know the answer to is

1371
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 1: does she have to work the overtime like that? Is

1372
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: that what is required for her to provide a life

1373
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: for her family? Is the dad not contributing? We don't

1374
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 1: know any of these things, right. Is she choosing to

1375
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: work because she doesn't want to be at home, because

1376
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:20,919
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to be a mom, because she wants

1377
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 1: someone else to handle that, Then there's probably a caring

1378
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: conversation that could be had, you know, to address that.

1379
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 1: Not Yeah, what you do is not that important, Hey, Nina,

1380
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:33,880
Speaker 1: good morning, welcome, good morning. Well you heard the whole

1381
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 1: thing Kiki's court. What do you think.

1382
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 10: It's horrible?

1383
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 13: My daughter is a nurse, she works fifteen hour shifts.

1384
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 17: She tries to pick up.

1385
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 1: She's a single mom.

1386
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 14: She owns her own home, she has to pay the mortgage,

1387
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 14: she has to feed her son, plus her sons has

1388
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 14: special needs.

1389
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 10: So we all help out.

1390
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 16: I cook a meal for her if.

1391
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 13: She doesn't have time, I even cook her lunch that

1392
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 13: she takes it.

1393
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 14: Why can't this grandmother help out right instead of you know,

1394
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 14: putting her down.

1395
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wrong. Well, and unfortunately, you know, most working

1396
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 1: parents can't take a vacation day or take off for

1397
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: every single event exactly, which is why the Paulina's point.

1398
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: You know, that's where you come in, Nina. That's where

1399
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 1: aunts and uncles come in. And that's where you know,

1400
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 1: because again, it takes it takes a village. Sometimes it

1401
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: takes a village.

1402
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 11: It takes a village.

1403
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, your daughter's lucky to have you. Yes, she is rich.

1404
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 14: She is a My grand I drive an hour for

1405
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 14: the other grandkids to take them to school. I get

1406
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 14: up at six in the morning, take them to school

1407
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 14: at six thirty, so I can get up there at

1408
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 14: seven thirty. I feed them breakfast, and then I come

1409
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 14: back and do the same day every Wednesday and every

1410
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 14: other weekend for my grandkids.

1411
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 1: That's at the other side, see it, And I do everything,

1412
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 1: and you're being proactive, Nina, as opposed to this grandmother

1413
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 1: who's you know, again, maybe the message is correct. Maybe

1414
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 1: this woman needs to, you know, kind of reorganize here,

1415
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 1: but to put her down in the process.

1416
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 2: Get meal for the kids she doesn't want them to uber.

1417
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: There's a different way to go about this. Thank you, Nina,

1418
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 1: have a great day you as well, guys. Thank you

1419
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:08,439
Speaker 1: for listening. Tammy, Hi, Tammy, good morning.

1420
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 3: Hi.

1421
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 1: Hey, So you are a you're a CNA. So you're

1422
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: a nurse, right, I'm a nurse's aid. Okay, well all right,

1423
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 1: and so you're in the field, and so you can

1424
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 1: relate to this. What do you think when you hear

1425
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,919
Speaker 1: this story about this, this grandmother putting her own daughter

1426
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: down because she's not spending enough time with her kids

1427
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:28,600
Speaker 1: and because she was late to something because she was working.

1428
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 11: Right, I.

1429
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 10: Felt her pain because I was also a single mom

1430
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 10: and I recently became a CNA, and I see what

1431
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 10: the nurses go through, especially the nurses who have children,

1432
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 10: you know, constantly end up being late to things because

1433
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 10: we can't just leave our positions and not nurses, aids

1434
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 10: or nurses. We can't just leave because we have patients

1435
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,920
Speaker 10: who depend on us. And not only that, we are

1436
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 10: support staff. We're there to support us every body and

1437
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 10: the nurses and Siena and I feel like it's.

1438
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 15: It's so harsh for her to to do that to

1439
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 15: her daughter.

1440
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 10: Yeah, you should try to support her because nurses work

1441
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 10: so hard, like so hard, and they are the backbone

1442
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 10: of any medical facility.

1443
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 1: Right and Debby, if you're taking time off, if you're

1444
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 1: if you're not working at fifteen, that means someone else

1445
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 1: has to work the fifteen who probably already worked one.

1446
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 1: So you know, again, it's not like there's just so

1447
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 1: many people out there that can fill in all the

1448
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:37,439
Speaker 1: time for every practice and game, and which is a shame,

1449
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: but that's that's how she's making a living for her family.

1450
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 10: There is also a very big nursing and just nursing

1451
01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 10: shortage period, Like nurses and cienas are in high demand

1452
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 10: right now because almost any facility you go to is

1453
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 10: going to be understaffed. I really don't know very many

1454
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 10: facilities right now that aren't struggling was staffing, so I

1455
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 10: couldn't see why she's probably running late to things.

1456
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 1: Well, Tammy, thank you, have a great day. Thanks for

1457
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 1: calling you too, Thank you for listening. Jennifer, Hi, good morning, Hi,

1458
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 1: good morning. So Kicky's Court, basically, you've got a mom

1459
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 1: of a woman who's a nurse and a single mother

1460
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 1: criticizing her daughter for not putting her kids first in

1461
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 1: her opinion, which has now resulted in this rift between

1462
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 1: them because Mom's like, hey, you need to do more

1463
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:33,959
Speaker 1: stuff with your kids. And this woman is a nurse

1464
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 1: and I assume she's working, you know, a lot in

1465
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: long hours and we don't know again if it's because

1466
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 1: she has to to provide or because who knows what

1467
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 1: the reason is. But according to the according to mom,

1468
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: her own mother, you're not doing enough. What do you think?

1469
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 7: First?

1470
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 13: I want to say that this one really irks me

1471
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 13: on so many different levels.

1472
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 17: Bring the single mother is so hard.

1473
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 13: And you know, sometimes you have to do what you

1474
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 13: have to do to just be able to support your

1475
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 13: kids and support your family. And trust me, I guarantee

1476
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 13: you there's times where she doesn't want to be at

1477
01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 13: work and she wants to be at home with her

1478
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 13: kids and you know, going to every single function but

1479
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:12,720
Speaker 13: you can't.

1480
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: And mom guilty is real, yeah, girl, and right And.

1481
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 17: The fact that her own mother is making her feel

1482
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 17: worse about just having to support her kids like that

1483
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 17: is not okay. Like, if you see your daughter is struggling,

1484
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 17: do something to help her out instead of making her

1485
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 17: feel worse about having to support her family, and make

1486
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 17: that decision.

1487
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 1: I agree. Thank you, Jennifer, have a great day.

1488
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 13: Thanks you guys, thanks.

1489
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:42,520
Speaker 1: For calling, Thanks for listening to Lissa. Hi, good morning.

1490
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 17: Hi.

1491
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 1: So you were the kid of the mom who was

1492
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,160
Speaker 1: a nurse, so this resonates with you.

1493
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:50,280
Speaker 15: Yes, one of five?

1494
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 1: Okay, all right? And so when you hear this story,

1495
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: what do you think?

1496
01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:57,840
Speaker 6: Oh no, it breaks my heart a little bit, only

1497
01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 6: because the grandmother has black compassion.

1498
01:08:01,760 --> 01:08:03,160
Speaker 2: Was what I'm getting from that.

1499
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 6: Being young and seeing my mom she went to college,

1500
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:11,840
Speaker 6: became an rin full time nurse all by herself, was

1501
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 6: all five of us, and because she didn't really have

1502
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 6: that close knit with her mother, we picked up the

1503
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 6: slack with each other, like we knew how to like

1504
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 6: make something on the soon to cook or whatever.

1505
01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 10: Again, it was five of us, so I understand maybe

1506
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 10: her kids a little younger, but.

1507
01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:29,560
Speaker 6: Like I said to her, mother just lacked a little compassion.

1508
01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 6: I was more understanding of my mother's situation, so I

1509
01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:36,080
Speaker 6: knew she couldn't be there like I understand. You know,

1510
01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 6: it's a little envious for other kids, but it was

1511
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 6: more understanding than anything. And I never resented my mother

1512
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:41,720
Speaker 6: for any of that.

1513
01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 1: Did you ever feel like that to her? It's crazy,

1514
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:47,840
Speaker 1: I'm starting interrupt you, Julissa, but did you ever feel like,

1515
01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 1: just to flip it, that your mom, even though she

1516
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 1: was doing what she had to do. Were you ever

1517
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: jealous of the patient, like it's almost like maybe she

1518
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 1: cares about them more than us, even though you knew

1519
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,639
Speaker 1: that wasn't it. But did you ever feel that way?

1520
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 15: Not at all.

1521
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 6: I mean, they're in the hospital, I'm not, but there

1522
01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:06,599
Speaker 6: was no jument, you know what I mean. They're obviously

1523
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 6: unwell ill can't take care of themselves, whereas I'm fortunate

1524
01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 6: and I have good health. You know a mother who

1525
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 6: when you know, if something wasn't all.

1526
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 10: She did step in to take care of it.

1527
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 6: You know, it's not like we were neglected. And that's

1528
01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 6: so I never felt jealous of the patience of anything.

1529
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 6: I felt sorry for them.

1530
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 1: You know, damn thank you for calling to listen. Have

1531
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 1: a good day, you too, thank you, because I've heard

1532
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 1: that one before too, with like people who are in

1533
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:31,720
Speaker 1: relationships with people in the healthcare field, for example, it's

1534
01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: like they give everything they've got all day and then

1535
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:36,760
Speaker 1: they come home and they go to sleep, and it's like, well,

1536
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:38,640
Speaker 1: wait a minute, hold on, you know what about this

1537
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:40,679
Speaker 1: whole o their life? You got me, you got family, whatever.

1538
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:42,679
Speaker 1: And I think that's why the thing I was saying before,

1539
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,240
Speaker 1: the joke being that doctor's kids are the worst cared for,

1540
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 1: and it's said tongue in cheek, but it's like it's

1541
01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: probably true because you know, all day long, I'm you know,

1542
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 1: I'm diagnosing people and I'm doing surgeries and I'm you know,

1543
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:55,560
Speaker 1: doing whatever. And then I come home and I'm like,

1544
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:58,639
Speaker 1: one more right, and they don't. They don't. They're not loved.

1545
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:00,639
Speaker 1: It's just like I'm not, no, you're fine.

1546
01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:02,640
Speaker 5: Oh, you can just get desensitized to, like, you know,

1547
01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 5: your calm and call when I'm caring real life issues

1548
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 5: at work.

1549
01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 1: So I think it's a real thing. Oh it is.

1550
01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 2: I think keep was a nurse.

1551
01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:09,639
Speaker 1: Okay.

1552
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 5: I used to be like I'm having a migrant She

1553
01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:14,200
Speaker 5: was like, please go lay down somewhere, like I I'll

1554
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 5: please you know, so you do get desensitized. But at

1555
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 5: the end of the day, like I like how ju

1556
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 5: Lisa just said it, she admired her mom's sacrifice for

1557
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:22,839
Speaker 5: her patience.

1558
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:27,280
Speaker 1: The most annoying thing that someone can do in an email,

1559
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:32,200
Speaker 1: I know, Jason, Oh god, I know, Jason. Probably you

1560
01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 1: probably receive and send more emails at times fifty than

1561
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 1: anybody on this show. But eight five five three five

1562
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:43,839
Speaker 1: what comes to mind immediately, because there is one phrase

1563
01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 1: that apparently sets people off more than any other. Now

1564
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 1: for me, there are a few, and I'm guilty of

1565
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,600
Speaker 1: some of them too, and I have the best intentions,

1566
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 1: But the ones that I think I do that probably

1567
01:10:56,960 --> 01:10:59,839
Speaker 1: annoys people is some kind of salutation at the beginning,

1568
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 1: like Hey, I hope you're well or hope everything's good

1569
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:05,400
Speaker 1: or whatever, you know, Like I'm trying to set the mood,

1570
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 1: like hey, I hope you're great. And then here's the

1571
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:08,639
Speaker 1: thing I want you to do that you probably don't

1572
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 1: want to do, or here's the thing I'm asking from

1573
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 1: you that you don't want to that you probably you're

1574
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:14,640
Speaker 1: not gonna want to do. Yeah, And I think that

1575
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:15,360
Speaker 1: annoys people.

1576
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,639
Speaker 7: I've stopped that because I used to think like, oh,

1577
01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:19,680
Speaker 7: I have to like open nights, you know, But now

1578
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 7: I'm like, no, just get right to it because I

1579
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 7: hate when I have to like read through multiple paragraphs.

1580
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 7: But I think, like I hate and I think it's

1581
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 7: like super condescending is when someone puts like the dot

1582
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 7: dot dot after something because I feel like you're eluding,

1583
01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 7: like I'm stupid, Like I feel like you have like

1584
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 7: an attitude if you're like, okay, dot dot dot dot,

1585
01:11:39,280 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 7: Like why why are you hitting the dots.

1586
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 1: So many times? Like I think you are saying that

1587
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 1: like that you're you're the dots are imploying a dramatic pause,

1588
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:52,160
Speaker 1: so it's like what all right? But I need you

1589
01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 1: to know there's like an all right, and then it's

1590
01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 1: silence afterwards.

1591
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,639
Speaker 7: Right like hello, I did see this in an email

1592
01:11:57,760 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 7: that was not directed any but I love it and

1593
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:01,240
Speaker 7: I kind of want to like utilize it. But it's

1594
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:06,200
Speaker 7: said thank you in advance for your comprehension.

1595
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for understanding.

1596
01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, but like no, it was thank you, like in advance,

1597
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 7: like you're going to read this and comprehend it. And

1598
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 7: I'm thinking you in advance because you're going to do it.

1599
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,640
Speaker 7: I'm like, is savage?

1600
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 1: You want to drive me on that note? The one?

1601
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 1: The other one drives me crazy? Is action required? Oh?

1602
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 2: With a little? The little what is the exclamation point?

1603
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 1: Action REQUI oh, so, oh, so your email requires me

1604
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 1: to actually do something. But like all the other emails,

1605
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 1: I get nope, but apparently I don't do anything with you.

1606
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 7: Said right in line, And when I get to you,

1607
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 7: I get you can put whatever you can put exclamation points,

1608
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 7: start it, whatever you.

1609
01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 1: Wanted to do. Action required? Okay? What A lot of

1610
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,000
Speaker 1: emails that people send me throughout the day require me

1611
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 1: to respond or do something? So why is your Why

1612
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:48,520
Speaker 1: does yours have to say action required?

1613
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 9: Right?

1614
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:51,400
Speaker 1: Every one of them does? It's annoying? Action needed?

1615
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 15: Urgent?

1616
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got me going here, you got me going out?

1617
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:57,759
Speaker 1: Just checking in is consider one of the worst phrases

1618
01:12:57,800 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: to put in an email. Isn't that kind of an

1619
01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:03,720
Speaker 1: applied by the fact that I sent the email just

1620
01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:08,519
Speaker 1: or or if I'm circling back, just checking in is like, hey,

1621
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:10,600
Speaker 1: dumb ass, why didn't you read the other email I

1622
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 1: sent you? Why haven't you responded to the other thing

1623
01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 1: I sent you?

1624
01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 8: That's what you're saying, you think, So I like saying

1625
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 8: just following up because sometimes I think people don't read

1626
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 8: or emails as maybe as much as I do. Like

1627
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 8: I'll say, hey, just following up, and sometimes they seem

1628
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 8: appreciative because I'll say, oh, thank you so much, like

1629
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:25,760
Speaker 8: completely forgot to.

1630
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 2: Respond, and I don't think no one's mad at me,

1631
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:28,559
Speaker 2: but now I'm reconcerned.

1632
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:30,880
Speaker 7: Don't follow up with me. That's my biggest fact. I

1633
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:32,760
Speaker 7: read it and if I when I have it, I

1634
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 7: will get it to you. I promise it.

1635
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:34,719
Speaker 2: I'll stop.

1636
01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:39,759
Speaker 4: Oh wow, I wouldn't mind it follow up like, because.

1637
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 8: I'm going to follow up if I get that, and

1638
01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 8: I'll be like, well, thank you so much for reminding me.

1639
01:13:42,960 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 2: But I think I'm just wired that way. I don't

1640
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:46,559
Speaker 2: know where to meet. Doesn't it doesn't bother me because

1641
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 2: I do it to other people.

1642
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would just.

1643
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,599
Speaker 1: Ask the question again. I don't think I would say.

1644
01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 7: Well, I copy and paste, I copy the previous message

1645
01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 7: and just repast it. Like two days later and be like, hello,

1646
01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 7: a little bit. I'm not ultra sensitive you know about

1647
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:03,120
Speaker 7: these kind of things, but like the the like, I don't,

1648
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:04,760
Speaker 7: I don't. I don't read too much into it.

1649
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 1: But it's just following up is kind of like, Hey,

1650
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:10,160
Speaker 1: what it says to me is, hey, remember I sent

1651
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:12,000
Speaker 1: this to you already, and apparently you didn't. You know,

1652
01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:14,000
Speaker 1: I wasn't important enough for you to say anything. So

1653
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:15,720
Speaker 1: here I am again. So I think I would just

1654
01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 1: ask the question again, just be like, hey, still needing answer,

1655
01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:20,680
Speaker 1: I still need an answer on this or whatever. Just

1656
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 1: be very direct. I think just checking in, according to

1657
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 1: one expert, doesn't accomplish the task it seemingly needs to,

1658
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:30,360
Speaker 1: which is to force the issue or expedite the to

1659
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 1: do item other things that people drive them crazy and

1660
01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:37,800
Speaker 1: they're texting. I hope this email finds you well. I

1661
01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 1: feel like I've written something like that before, and I

1662
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:42,840
Speaker 1: mean it. I mean it. It never does. But I'm

1663
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 1: not I'm not gonna I'm not gonna well, neither of mine,

1664
01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:49,120
Speaker 1: which is why I'm homing you're well, I'm not. I'm

1665
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: not well, and I can there's a point in asking

1666
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,200
Speaker 1: me if I am. And most people don't, but I'm

1667
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 1: hoping that you are. Thanks in advance, please advise all

1668
01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:02,879
Speaker 1: the best or best. I don't know why that's annoying,

1669
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:06,840
Speaker 1: best and sincerely, And that's like I'm something nan I

1670
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 1: would write a handwritten letter to my grandfather and who's

1671
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 1: at war or something. Sincerely. I don't know, you know, no, No,

1672
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 1: I guess that thanks in advance. It's like I'm asking

1673
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:19,799
Speaker 1: you to do something. So I'm thanking you now because

1674
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:23,280
Speaker 1: it's an email and I won't necessarily see you to

1675
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 1: follow up to tell you thank you again. So I

1676
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 1: guess I don't know why that one's so bad.

1677
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:30,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks in advance for your comprehension.

1678
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:36,599
Speaker 1: Impatient repetition, per our conversation, confirming a receipt, just checking

1679
01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:39,880
Speaker 1: in any updates on this. Again, I don't know if

1680
01:15:39,920 --> 01:15:43,360
Speaker 1: that's unfair, because again, if you're if you're emailing someone

1681
01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 1: and and you require information from them to complete the

1682
01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:50,400
Speaker 1: task you're supposed to complete, then I guess I don't

1683
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,920
Speaker 1: see a problem with saying hey, I need this. Yeah,

1684
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:55,640
Speaker 1: Like that doesn't hit me as bad as following up

1685
01:15:55,840 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 1: or circling as per my last emails. Don't be below.

1686
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:05,600
Speaker 2: I got something for you below that you can see it.

1687
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 7: That lazy that you can't actually type your question you

1688
01:16:10,120 --> 01:16:12,639
Speaker 7: want to read through a five mile threat?

1689
01:16:12,720 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 15: Why not?

1690
01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 2: But the our conversation is that bad?

1691
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 8: Because I feel like if you have a conversation with

1692
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:19,640
Speaker 8: let's just say your cowork or your boss in person, like,

1693
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 8: wouldn't you want to put up in an email.

1694
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:21,960
Speaker 2: Or recap it?

1695
01:16:22,080 --> 01:16:24,760
Speaker 1: In theory, I could just I could just keep going

1696
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 1: with the subject matter and I don't have to be, hey,

1697
01:16:27,320 --> 01:16:30,000
Speaker 1: dumb ass, remember what we talked about. I could just

1698
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:32,559
Speaker 1: I don't have to say. I could just keep going

1699
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: or or give them what they asked for. If they're

1700
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 1: too dumb to remember the conversation that we had, you know,

1701
01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:39,680
Speaker 1: five minutes ago, then is that really a me?

1702
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:42,719
Speaker 8: I think it's more of just like paper trailing yourself

1703
01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 8: of just being like, hey, we spoke on this day,

1704
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 8: kind of just for your own record.

1705
01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:46,719
Speaker 1: This happened.

1706
01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:48,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is bad.

1707
01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 17: Yeah.

1708
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:50,840
Speaker 2: I don't work in corporate, but that seems like it

1709
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 2: would be.

1710
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:55,760
Speaker 1: People don't like cheery responses Happy Monday Happy. This emojis

1711
01:16:57,000 --> 01:17:01,479
Speaker 1: colored sponts. I don't like when people color. I don't

1712
01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:04,880
Speaker 1: and God bless my mom, but she uses like your

1713
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 1: team font. It's like blue or pink or red, and

1714
01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:11,679
Speaker 1: it's like not standard font. And I love my mom

1715
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,639
Speaker 1: so much, but it's like there is a standard format

1716
01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:17,320
Speaker 1: for writing emails and it's where our eyes are used

1717
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:19,680
Speaker 1: to seeing and it's easy on the eyes. But she

1718
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,559
Speaker 1: uses like a curse up font and like and it's

1719
01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:26,959
Speaker 1: like another color right right, Yeah, she used an HTML.

1720
01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:31,760
Speaker 7: I will bowld something that One thing about me is

1721
01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:32,400
Speaker 7: I will bold.

1722
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 4: Oh I've noticed condition, but you don't want to take it.

1723
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:39,560
Speaker 2: You know you can bold back at me, but we

1724
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Speaker 2: can't follow up today.

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Speaker 1: Let me see here, lack of targeting, Like if you

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Speaker 1: were to say, if you write an email to me

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Speaker 1: that says to whom it may concern, then I automatically

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Speaker 1: know that you don't know who you send the email to.

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Speaker 1: You automatically, this is not an email that was even

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Speaker 1: intended for. You're hoping I'll respond, but you don't know

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Speaker 1: who you sent it to. Can you send it to

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Speaker 1: like a mass list or something? So no, ton no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not, I'm not.

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Speaker 9: I'm not.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And if I'm in the CC line, I'm not answering.

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Speaker 7: So like, don't ask a question that you want to

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Speaker 7: answer for me. Put me in the two line. You

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Speaker 7: know what I'm saying specific Yes, oh.

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Speaker 1: I see, yeah, I guess, I guess yeah yeah, if

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Speaker 1: I if I'm if you're supposed to be included versus

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Speaker 1: just seeing it, then you're in the two line. If

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Speaker 1: you're on the CC line, that's these people are doing

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Speaker 1: it and I need you to make sure that you

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Speaker 1: saw it right, that's right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, people just willy really put people in boxes and

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Speaker 7: it's like no, like there's a reason.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that. And then cap caps. People

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Speaker 1: annoyed by caps. They don't want capital letters on stuff

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Speaker 1: because it does come off like you're yelling at me.

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Speaker 1: So I would argue the same. I would say, how

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Speaker 1: about we don't we don't want the caps. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: the one that gets everybody is just checking in. I'll

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Speaker 1: stop checking in. I don't hate that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, more fread show next, Freds fun.

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Speaker 1: Learn so much? So did you know? Did you know

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Speaker 1: that the Lubonic plague encouraged William Shakespeare to write poetry?

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Speaker 1: And that's why it happened. In an attempt to prevent

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Speaker 1: the plague from spreading back in Shakespeare's time, many public

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Speaker 1: places were shut down until things improved. That's why theaters

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Speaker 1: were closed in January of fifteen ninety three and didn't

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Speaker 1: reopen until the spring of fifteen ninety four. Child's play

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Speaker 1: just a year, Just a year of closures come on.

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Speaker 1: This closure meant that playwrights like William Shakespeare were temporarily

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Speaker 1: out of work, and that's when he spent his time

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01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 1: writing poetry instead of focusing on his famous plays. And

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Speaker 1: it's likely when he began his one hundred and fifty

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Speaker 1: four sonnets? What did we come out of the epidemic?

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Speaker 1: What did we come out of the pandemic with?

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Speaker 2: What for pounds? Trauma, anxiety, drink?

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Speaker 1: I worked on my weed, my weed, I worked on

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Speaker 1: my weed. I worked on my mid section and clearly

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Speaker 1: on on when speaking addiction in words more Fredshell next

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Speaker 1: right here,