Speaker 1: Well, we're having a Gallantine's day in the studio right now.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I kicked all the boys out for this
Speaker 1: one night. I mean I forced Alexis to hang out
Speaker 1: with me and here I'm having so much fun. I
Speaker 1: love when you're honest and and forth.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Huh yeah, welcome to the second date update. We hope
Speaker 1: you're having a great love day, and if you're not,
Speaker 1: we hope this makes you feel better. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: nothing like remembering why single is often better than trying.
Speaker 1: It's true, it's true. Listen to say for yourself or
Speaker 1: give this as a gift, yes, significant other, to show
Speaker 1: it just how normal you are. Yeah, there it is.
Speaker 1: And we've got back to back classics that start right now.
Speaker 3: They say that, hell, hath no fury like a woman scorned.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and we've got one very angry lady on
Speaker 3: the phone right now. I know what you're thinking. No,
Speaker 3: it's not Brooke calling us from the other room. Brooks
Speaker 3: say say hi, just to prove that you're here.
Speaker 1: Hi, it's me. She's happy, all right.
Speaker 3: I usually No, it's one of our listeners who says
Speaker 3: she's furious after her date left her in the most
Speaker 3: embarrassing situation of her life, and now she wants our
Speaker 3: help getting not just answers from the guy, but revenge
Speaker 3: on him.
Speaker 4: We're always down for a little revenge trip. You're going
Speaker 4: You're not going far.
Speaker 3: You're gonna hear what went down in your second date update.
Speaker 5: Right after this broking Jeffrey in the morning second date update.
Speaker 3: We got an email from a listener and I'll just
Speaker 3: read the subject line. It says, there's a scamming coward
Speaker 3: on the dating apps and you need to help me
Speaker 3: expose him. And his name is Scotty. Don't I'm just kidding.
Speaker 3: It's an inside joke on the show right now. So
Speaker 3: we're gonna put that aside with the bottle of peach
Speaker 3: snaps and everything else that's waiting up in his own
Speaker 3: hotel room. Let's focus on our caller here, because she
Speaker 3: did seem pretty heated in her email. Just on the
Speaker 3: subject line alone, you could tell. Let's talk to Lindsay. Lindsey,
Speaker 3: welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hih already coming in hot just with that high. I
Speaker 1: love it, Lindsay, what's going on?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I did, and I want to call him. I want
Speaker 6: to call him.
Speaker 1: Right, Let's take a deep breath.
Speaker 4: We'll get into him. Can we know what's this guy's name?
Speaker 6: His name is Alex, and honestly, don't even call him
Speaker 6: a guy. He's a boy. Wow, Like, Howard, what happened?
Speaker 1: Okay, Lindsay, we're on the radio.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got to watch the language just a little bit.
Speaker 3: But I appreciate the passion that you have.
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 6: Well, we got dinner and it was going great. I
Speaker 6: felt like we were really connecting, having a good time.
Speaker 6: He seems more into me than I was into him.
Speaker 6: And towards the end of the meal, he gets up
Speaker 6: to go to the bathroom and never comes back.
Speaker 1: Oh no, we have taught to people that have done
Speaker 1: this or had it done to them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's really extreme.
Speaker 6: I've heard of this happening online. I never thought this
Speaker 6: would happen to me, and it was humiliating. I felt
Speaker 6: like an idiot.
Speaker 1: Oh God, how long did you sit there? Did you
Speaker 1: get the waiter to like go check on him or what?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Okay, So after like fifteen twenty minutes, I was like,
Speaker 6: maybe we can check the bathroom. Is he okay? I
Speaker 6: actually got worried about him and he wasn't even there.
Speaker 8: He was gone, oh well, yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: I hate to ask. Usually the people who do this
Speaker 1: aren't enjoying the date. Do you think maybe you've done
Speaker 1: this before?
Speaker 4: Strong he did something?
Speaker 1: Yeah, even he usually did it have a really good reason.
Speaker 4: He isn't like you so much.
Speaker 6: He left right Like I said, he seemed more into
Speaker 6: me than I was into him. He was so slurty
Speaker 6: and funny and like, who does this? What kind of
Speaker 6: garbage piece of craft? Humane and leave their dates and
Speaker 6: the date all by yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you have a lot of reason to
Speaker 1: be upset, but I don't know that he is going
Speaker 1: to hear you if we're coming in at that level,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, what do you want
Speaker 1: out of this? You want to call him out?
Speaker 6: And then what I want to know what made him
Speaker 6: do that?
Speaker 4: What's good that we're going to talk and not you
Speaker 4: because it sounds like you're just getting yell.
Speaker 3: This is definitely different because most of the people that
Speaker 3: reach out to us want another date with the person
Speaker 3: that we're about to call. Lindsey, you have no interest whatsoever.
Speaker 6: No, I want you to call him and then I'm
Speaker 6: going to come on the phone and lean him out.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm here for that. I don't know, like
Speaker 1: what if he has a good reason, but.
Speaker 3: There is there is no good reason a man should
Speaker 3: ever do that to a woman.
Speaker 1: We have heard where people have had like bathroom emergencies
Speaker 1: where they can't go back to the table.
Speaker 3: He could have texted her and said something to her
Speaker 3: like exactly have you reached out to him since then
Speaker 3: since that happened.
Speaker 6: Yes, I've texted him a lot. He had plenty of
Speaker 6: opportunities to write me back and let me know if
Speaker 6: something went wrong in the bathroom, which he didn't.
Speaker 3: Well, I'm assuming you called him a bunch of like
Speaker 3: mean names in the text message.
Speaker 6: I mean I started off nice and then he didn't answer,
Speaker 6: so he didn't deserve me being nice. He didn't get that.
Speaker 6: He does not get that.
Speaker 1: What's interesting. I mean, as soon as we tell this
Speaker 1: guy who we're calling for, he's going to hang up
Speaker 1: on us. Why because he knows, he knows how mad
Speaker 1: she is. She's already been texting us.
Speaker 4: Well, he won't know that she's on the line until
Speaker 4: we surprise her with that.
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe he wants to out her. Maybe this
Speaker 1: is his chance, right, if it's something he thinks she did,
Speaker 1: not that I support that.
Speaker 4: Women don't do things wrong in the dating world.
Speaker 6: So the only he's done this, I bet he's done
Speaker 6: this to like a hundred women, so he can't get
Speaker 6: away with it and he has to defend himself or
Speaker 6: say something.
Speaker 3: Oh you think he does this like all the time
Speaker 3: he gets nothing to do.
Speaker 7: I bet he does.
Speaker 4: Okay, because he.
Speaker 6: Was actually so smooth and funny, flurry, I can read
Speaker 6: these guys like a book.
Speaker 3: Okay, so the only reason that you reached out to
Speaker 3: us here is just because the idea of not knowing
Speaker 3: why he left that night is probably just killing you
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 6: If he's gonna humiliate me, I'm gonna humiliate him on
Speaker 6: the radio.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: We're not just doing this for Lindsay today. We're doing
Speaker 3: this for women everywhere who have gotten stood up and
Speaker 3: walked out of in the middle of dinner.
Speaker 4: Let's get them, ladies.
Speaker 1: Come on, I don't even know if he's a scammer.
Speaker 4: We are gonna.
Speaker 3: Dos remerciless when we come back and do the most
Speaker 3: brutal second date part two we've ever done.
Speaker 1: If you're a guy, I would not answer your phone
Speaker 1: in the next five minutes.
Speaker 3: Well, please answer so that we can have something to air,
Speaker 3: but we're gonna do it right after this.
Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.
Speaker 3: This is a little tense because there's a woman listener
Speaker 3: of ours on the phone right now who is out
Speaker 3: for blood.
Speaker 8: Yes, she is, claws are out because in her mind
Speaker 8: and I do kind of agree with her here, there's
Speaker 8: no reason for a guy to get up and leave
Speaker 8: a table at the end of the date, sneak out
Speaker 8: of the restaurant and stick her with the entire bill.
Speaker 1: And that's a day he ate his dinner. It's not
Speaker 1: like he left in the middle and like some emergency.
Speaker 1: But that's what That's a good point, Joe.
Speaker 3: That's what happened to Lindsay, or I mean, at least
Speaker 3: I think she got stuck with the bill.
Speaker 4: What happened with the bill, Lindsay? Did you pay it?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, So that's another thing. He left me to
Speaker 6: cover the bill. The waiter saw me sitting there for
Speaker 6: a half hour and sawhow upset he was, and he
Speaker 6: generously covered my bill, which was so nice.
Speaker 4: Told the manager to take it off. The bill paid for.
Speaker 1: You didn't have to pay.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't have to pay, But the humiliation of
Speaker 6: being left alone there was the worst part of it.
Speaker 1: Okay, Alexis is humiliated just sitting alone at her desk
Speaker 1: sometimes even if I can't and shameful.
Speaker 3: But Brook, I think we need a game plan so
Speaker 3: we all don't jump on Alex and like get angry
Speaker 3: right off the back.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think first of all, we shouldn't accuse
Speaker 1: him of anything. We don't know from his side what happened.
Speaker 4: You liar, You would say that there.
Speaker 1: Could be a reason, even if his reason sucks. You
Speaker 1: want to hear it. That's the whole point of you
Speaker 1: calling in, right, you want to hear it.
Speaker 4: He better be in the hospital when we call him.
Speaker 4: I won't forgive him.
Speaker 1: The only way we're going to hear it is if
Speaker 1: we come in not accusatory.
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, but like we're all on my side.
Speaker 1: Yes, well the girls do not see I mean right now, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't heard the other side of the story yet.
Speaker 3: I don't care what the other side of the story is,
Speaker 3: person But I'm going to dial Alex and we're going
Speaker 3: to be on our best behavior.
Speaker 4: Hopefully he picks up here.
Speaker 1: We go he says, Okay, okay, I make sure.
Speaker 4: I kind of like it. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 4: we're looking to speak with Alex.
Speaker 9: Ut see.
Speaker 4: Hey Alex, hope you're having a good day.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 4: Hello, all right, Alex.
Speaker 1: I'm just laughing at Jeffrey right now.
Speaker 4: Hi, I past Jeffrey. That's me. I'm a radio host
Speaker 4: on the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 9: Hey Alex, wait, what.
Speaker 1: The whole show's here?
Speaker 7: Man?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're on the radio right now.
Speaker 3: We're just hoping to have a nice, calm, pleasant conversation
Speaker 3: with you today about what a date you went on
Speaker 3: recently with one of our listeners.
Speaker 4: Her name is Lindsey. Please don't hang up. Oh my god. Okay, ay,
Speaker 4: yeah you remember Lindsay. Huh yeah.
Speaker 3: So we heard from her that you two went out
Speaker 3: to dinner recently, which.
Speaker 1: She thought was going great. She really was enjoying her
Speaker 1: time with you.
Speaker 3: And then there was the bad part of dinner, which
Speaker 3: happened when you went missing from the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Like, yep, yeah, you're just gonna own that. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna apologize immediately, So.
Speaker 4: You admit that, you admit that happened. You walked out.
Speaker 9: I take full credit for that.
Speaker 1: What creditt that's like a pride thing when you take
Speaker 1: credit or something.
Speaker 9: What do you mean because she probably didn't share with you.
Speaker 9: But I saw her and her little friend before the
Speaker 9: date friend, I don't know her little friend's name, her
Speaker 9: little girlfriends. They were about a block away from the restaurant.
Speaker 9: Her and her friend were involved in something else, so
Speaker 9: they didn't notice me.
Speaker 1: What do you see them do? That's so terrible.
Speaker 9: Her friend is like, seems like she's coaching her for something.
Speaker 9: So Lindsey says to her friend, oh, my uber app
Speaker 9: is not working? Can you pay for me?
Speaker 1: And she like backs her eyes and.
Speaker 9: Her uber app wasn't working, and her friend said, no,
Speaker 9: just say a little more. Believably, she's coaching her.
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly so she would have to pay for an
Speaker 1: uber home.
Speaker 9: She was like, what uber apps not?
Speaker 6: Did you pay for me?
Speaker 9: It was like sociopathic the way she.
Speaker 6: Did it, so you pathic the way I did it.
Speaker 3: We have to let Alex know that that is Lindsay
Speaker 3: on the Lade would.
Speaker 6: Never I'm hearing. What I'm hearing Alex is that you're
Speaker 6: so so Guys aren't supposed to help a girl get
Speaker 6: home safely after.
Speaker 3: The thing is Lindsay, you jumped in too soon, so
Speaker 3: we couldn't get to what Alex was thinking.
Speaker 4: What was going through your mind? Alex?
Speaker 9: I was thinking, And I feel like I have proof
Speaker 9: because I witnessed your friend coaching you in getting me
Speaker 9: to like pay for your uber and you playing this
Speaker 9: like damsel and distress act just to get free stuff
Speaker 9: out of me.
Speaker 1: Do you know what he's talking about, Lindsay, I was.
Speaker 6: I was expecting to be able to get help getting home.
Speaker 6: I just said that, and there's nothing wrong with that,
Speaker 6: and so you were an answer to that with a
Speaker 6: get up and just leave dinner at the end and
Speaker 6: leave me the bill. Like I don't know what an
Speaker 6: immature loser will the help.
Speaker 1: I mean, I want to know, like, if you heard
Speaker 1: it before the date even started, why did you do
Speaker 1: the date?
Speaker 9: Because here's the thing. As soon as I heard her
Speaker 9: planning to do that, I already knew she was going
Speaker 9: to manipulate me.
Speaker 6: So I was like, I'm going to be manipulate you.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, soccer did a guy helps a girl
Speaker 6: get home? You know, usually people do that, but.
Speaker 9: You were practicing over and over again, and you two wine.
Speaker 9: Laughing about it.
Speaker 6: Helps and we think like I was huge, So what
Speaker 6: do you not laugh with your friends? Like Jesus, you
Speaker 6: made this evil plan and response to leave me and
Speaker 6: like an idiot in the middle of the restaurant all alone, like.
Speaker 9: No one, I ordered the most expensive thing on the men.
Speaker 6: Okay, so that's just confirms you are you are just
Speaker 6: a little Oh well, if.
Speaker 3: Anything, you guys are both a little bit of manipulators.
Speaker 9: No no, no, no, no, no no, I only scam the scammer.
Speaker 9: I was ready to have a genuine date with her.
Speaker 6: Shut up, I get hold after a few drinks safely,
Speaker 6: and you decided up on a plan of just I
Speaker 6: don't know, make You just want to make someone feel small.
Speaker 6: You want to make women feel small.
Speaker 9: You are not women, You are one person.
Speaker 6: Oh great, So now I'm not a woman who deserves
Speaker 6: to be not left an abandoned at a restaurant.
Speaker 1: Why can't you afford your own uber? Yeah?
Speaker 9: Fine, you guys are not getting it. She was practicing
Speaker 9: that her uber wasn't working. She can totally afford it.
Speaker 9: She just wants to take the fool out of somebody.
Speaker 6: Okay, so chivalry is dead, thank you?
Speaker 3: Nd it is a little bit sus that you're practicing
Speaker 3: the line to say to like be like, can you
Speaker 3: pay for my broken app own?
Speaker 1: No, it's more than suss. It's like you got caught, girl,
Speaker 1: You got caught scamming him for an uber ride.
Speaker 6: I was not scamming.
Speaker 1: You mean, you're not scamming. You're lying, You're lying to
Speaker 1: get what you need.
Speaker 3: I am just a shamed that Brooke was on Lindsay's
Speaker 3: side this entire time.
Speaker 4: This is what happens.
Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe Brook cannot be part of this anymore.
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, thank you for taking my side.
Speaker 9: I think it first sounds like a genuine individual who
Speaker 9: could totally afford her own over right at home.
Speaker 4: Yeah, clearly, Brooke.
Speaker 3: There's always two sides to every story, and you're on
Speaker 3: the wrong one every time.
Speaker 1: I've never heard anyone in that room say that before
Speaker 1: that there's two sides. I didn't hear that at all,
Speaker 1: so weird.
Speaker 3: Look, I mean, at this point, we're running out of time,
Speaker 3: so I just have to ask, we would I know
Speaker 3: there could be a lot of hot passion there because
Speaker 3: we always offer to send you guys out on another date,
Speaker 3: a date that we would pay for if you're both
Speaker 3: willing to agree to it.
Speaker 8: Just don't know.
Speaker 6: I can find a man who doesn't mind getting me
Speaker 6: home after a few drinks.
Speaker 3: I don't mind getting you home after a few drinks.
Speaker 3: That's why I'm offering to pay.
Speaker 9: I mean, Lindsay, I'm actually kind of down at this point.
Speaker 4: Don't fall for Lindsey. He's luring you in for another track.
Speaker 9: What could I possibly weave this time? Dude?
Speaker 1: And in the end, Alex, I don't know if you
Speaker 1: know this, but she never even paid for the dinner. Yeah, yeah, waiter,
Speaker 1: you know what?
Speaker 9: You know what? That makes me even happier that this
Speaker 9: is all happening on the radio.
Speaker 4: What's happening on the radio.
Speaker 9: That she is getting completely exposed for being the liar
Speaker 9: manipulator that she is.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, this is funny now, Alex, Oh my god, son,
Speaker 6: it around.
Speaker 9: She thinks, Babe.
Speaker 3: I think we've gotten pretty far in understanding what happens.
Speaker 3: We finally reached common ground.
Speaker 1: Thank god, you are such a champion of women. Jetuary.
Speaker 4: That's right, I fixed all the problems.
Speaker 1: I knew you would.
Speaker 5: Reok and Jeffrey in the morning, I.
Speaker 3: Feel like it's pretty clear and maybe This is just
Speaker 3: my observation, but I feel like it's a super rare
Speaker 3: occurrence for Lindsey to be held accountable for anything she's
Speaker 3: ever done wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah it sounds like, yeah, she just bats her eyes
Speaker 1: and says what means I love at.
Speaker 4: The end, how her thing was, Oh, well, chivalry's dead.
Speaker 4: Yeah that's this means like, that's not what.
Speaker 1: This means at all. Wait a minute, I thought you
Speaker 1: two were gonna champion her no matter what happened. Remember
Speaker 1: that tried, but.
Speaker 4: Someone took us. I'm all about hearing people out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the girls in the room had the right sense
Speaker 1: of them.
Speaker 3: What if he wouldn't have seen her practicing her uber
Speaker 3: app lie out on the side of the road.
Speaker 1: Would have paid for her.
Speaker 3: He would have paid for the uber. There would have
Speaker 3: been no drama. They would never have even been on
Speaker 3: the show.
Speaker 1: And they could be two kids deep by this point.
Speaker 3: I think the real lesson is practice your scam lines
Speaker 3: in private, or at least in the women's restroom where
Speaker 3: the men can't here.
Speaker 4: It is.
Speaker 1: Remember that, ladies, thank you for the always again.
Speaker 4: That's right.
Speaker 3: We're ready to be scammed by you. We just don't
Speaker 3: want to know about it. Okay, and text and email
Speaker 3: the show. We'll call that person who's not calling you back.
Speaker 3: Go check out all of our Seconday podcast wherever you
Speaker 3: get yours at Brooke.
Speaker 5: And Jeffrey and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: We all have at least one choice that we made
Speaker 3: in life that we totally regret.
Speaker 4: Regret, Yeah, very regrettable. Let's be honest.
Speaker 3: Alcohol is usually involved tables.
Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing?
Speaker 4: What a coincidence?
Speaker 1: You're right, I think all of mine involved alcohol. Brook
Speaker 1: regret that.
Speaker 3: Though, But have you ever made one tiny decision thinking oh,
Speaker 3: it'll be fine, yeah, only to end up in the
Speaker 3: hospital from it. Oh no, that's what happened to one
Speaker 3: of our listeners right in the middle of his first date.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: He can't believe he was naive enough to make this dumb,
Speaker 3: totally avoidable choice. You're gonna hear it in a special
Speaker 3: Valentines episode of the Second Date Update coming up right
Speaker 3: after this.
Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day can be a dangerous holiday for a single
Speaker 3: person to try and meet someone. You do, you put
Speaker 3: a lot of pressure on yourself for it to work.
Speaker 3: Just look at college aged me and my infamous Valentine's
Speaker 3: Day massacre. It started with a certain hunky frat boy
Speaker 3: inviting two lucky ladies to one party, and ended with
Speaker 3: said frat boy drunk alone in his room, crying and
Speaker 3: kicking a hole in the ceiling above his top bunk
Speaker 3: because he's struck out with both ladies.
Speaker 1: Oh, they can't imagine why they missed out.
Speaker 3: Clearly just saying dating around this particular holiday isn't always
Speaker 3: the best idea, And I'm not really sure how today's
Speaker 3: caller Reese feels about it. Reese, you have a bunch
Speaker 3: of holes in your house somewhere right now.
Speaker 1: You're not lying on a top bunk of a frat girl.
Speaker 4: Back to your friend, Yeah, only.
Speaker 9: Jeff could have two girls in his room in a
Speaker 9: frat house and ruin it like that's accomplished.
Speaker 1: Talent whatever anti game that's him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I go a little, a little harsh, a
Speaker 4: little far, but brought it up just to laugh at it.
Speaker 3: Anyway, Reese, So you went out with a girl pretty
Speaker 3: close to Valentine's Day?
Speaker 4: Were you feeling the pressure?
Speaker 2: Not really, because I wasn't really thinking about it at
Speaker 2: that time. Oh okay, Okay, make sure the background is
Speaker 2: I had gone through a pretty rough breakup few months prior,
Speaker 2: and I was trying to get back.
Speaker 6: In the game.
Speaker 9: I thank you.
Speaker 2: I met Jen her and I matched, and I kind
Speaker 2: of realized after like we sort of clicked and we
Speaker 2: started talking like. I didn't want to wait until after
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day to ask her out.
Speaker 1: Right, because you could totally lose momentum if you wait
Speaker 1: too long. Yes, strike while right.
Speaker 2: So I was eager and kind of realizing at that
Speaker 2: time that it was close to Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well, as you start to book things and
Speaker 1: everything's sold out.
Speaker 2: Exactly, And that's why we decided to do something different
Speaker 2: other than a restaurant, Like, I don't want to make
Speaker 2: it feel weird at a place where there's only couples
Speaker 2: and stuff like that.
Speaker 3: So you invited two girls to one frat party and
Speaker 3: that's when the good stuff happened.
Speaker 8: It's lady, yeah, An, did you call the right show
Speaker 8: for that to.
Speaker 1: Blow up in your face?
Speaker 4: You just took out Jen though, right, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, we're just making fun of Jeffrey for his past. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: not yet.
Speaker 3: I mean a certain frat guy was brave enough to
Speaker 3: invite two at once. But you know, if you're not
Speaker 3: brave enough.
Speaker 4: To do it about a lot, are you accomplished that?
Speaker 9: Bro?
Speaker 4: I get it. Okay, So where did you and Gen go?
Speaker 9: So?
Speaker 2: She actually suggested a bar. They were having like an
Speaker 2: all things pink night.
Speaker 4: What does that mean?
Speaker 2: It's like a Valen Sine's day. Ish, It's like pink clothes,
Speaker 2: pink drinks, pink food.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so we go in.
Speaker 2: And I excuse myself to the restaurant quickly. While I'm
Speaker 2: doing that, she ordered us two pink strawberry dacries.
Speaker 1: Odd.
Speaker 2: Here's where I messed up. Is I'm diabetic. She doesn't
Speaker 2: know I'm diabetic.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I look at the drink and I think to myself,
Speaker 2: I can handle one. You know, my blood sugar is
Speaker 2: probably gonna spike. Okay, I'll get home, I'll take my
Speaker 2: insulin and I'll just monitor the Albokay, you.
Speaker 1: Will follow it up with a cake to wash it down.
Speaker 2: Well, I miscalculated it. Well, I started having an episode,
Speaker 2: so I needed medical attention. And the thing is is
Speaker 2: like there was a moment where I couldn't really talk
Speaker 2: and I wrote on a napkin and I slid it
Speaker 2: to gen and I slid the word hospital.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Oh.
Speaker 3: I hate to keep drawing parallels between this and the
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day masker at the front, but it's just that
Speaker 3: it keeps lighting up.
Speaker 1: You're not diabetic.
Speaker 4: No, I'm saying, there's a bad experience. Girlick, that's that's scared.
Speaker 1: I was so scared on a date with someone you
Speaker 1: don't know what happens. Well, she doesn't even know you're diabetic.
Speaker 1: I'm scared.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she doesn't quite understand what the note means, and
Speaker 2: she references to someone else and the other person goes,
Speaker 2: maybe he's epileptic. You should shove a wallet in his mouth.
Speaker 4: What Oh, so you don't bite your toe?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Oh, this is a fun Valentine's Day party game. Everybody
Speaker 4: take your wallets house, going to go hot tip.
Speaker 1: If you're having a seizure, you usually can't write at
Speaker 1: the same.
Speaker 2: Time managing to scribble diabetic on a napkin, which then
Speaker 2: Jen gets and she's got to drive me to the hospital.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what a first date experience thing.
Speaker 2: They're a little foggy and I kind of come to
Speaker 2: and I realized, like all of a sudden, she's not
Speaker 2: there and I'm surrounded by doctors, and it was a
Speaker 2: very chaotic night.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, did you get a kiss at the end of
Speaker 3: the night.
Speaker 2: The next morning, I send her a text and say, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm good. I'm so sorry about last night, and she
Speaker 2: responds back it was like, hey, just glad you're all right.
Speaker 2: And then that's pretty much it, and I hadn't heard
Speaker 2: anything since.
Speaker 1: No okay, I mean obviously not like your fall out
Speaker 1: of your control, but also really traumatizing for her too.
Speaker 3: You know, think about what she thinks, like, oh, anytime
Speaker 3: he has one drink, he's going to need to go
Speaker 3: to the hospital.
Speaker 4: I don't want to date a guy.
Speaker 1: I think she would have more empathy than that, plenty
Speaker 1: of other things.
Speaker 3: Let me see how empathetic this woman really is when
Speaker 3: we give Jenna call, hopefully she up, and see what
Speaker 3: she asks to say when we do your Valentine's edition
Speaker 3: of Second Date Update right after this hold on Brook
Speaker 3: and Jeffrey.
Speaker 5: In the morning. Second Date Update.
Speaker 3: A Valentine's themed date that ends in the hospital for
Speaker 3: some of us, wouldn't be the worst Valentines that we've
Speaker 3: ever had, Hey.
Speaker 1: Jeff, get over the night in the house.
Speaker 3: It was for our listener Reese, who was a diabetic
Speaker 3: and took a chance drank a pink strawberry dackery during
Speaker 3: his date, thinking that he could handle just one. Fast
Speaker 3: forward to him being driven to the hospital by his
Speaker 3: date Jen, where he had to be treated by doctors.
Speaker 3: It's all kind of a fuzzy experienced him because he
Speaker 3: was going through an episode. But afterwards Jen was gone
Speaker 3: and hasn't responded really to him since the brook. You've
Speaker 3: had worse Valentines recently, right, give him a little bit
Speaker 3: of hope.
Speaker 1: No, Honestly, if this girl isn't calling you back because
Speaker 1: it freaked her out, that is somewhat understandable. But once
Speaker 1: I feel like she talks to you, she's really going
Speaker 1: to understand the situation and just have a lot of
Speaker 1: empathy for you. I can't imagine her not giving you
Speaker 1: another chance.
Speaker 4: How do you feel about that, Reese?
Speaker 2: I feel like if she's got empathy, she would have
Speaker 2: gone out with me already. And I really don't understand.
Speaker 1: She drove me to the hospital.
Speaker 3: She needs to do more than that. My mom drives
Speaker 3: me to the hospital and I don't want from my
Speaker 3: mom what Reese wants from Jen hopefully.
Speaker 9: Who knows?
Speaker 1: Who knows. Maybe it's not the hospital or the diabetes.
Speaker 1: Maybe you had bad breath and you didn't realize that,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: And you're blackout drawing on napkins.
Speaker 1: You were like, show me you know something.
Speaker 3: For Do you want to speculate a hundred more of
Speaker 3: things that could have gone wrong?
Speaker 4: Or should we just call this girl? Don't speculate. I
Speaker 4: like them.
Speaker 9: Please call her.
Speaker 1: Solid.
Speaker 4: Let's dial janieus. If she answers, you just sit tight there.
Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Jen?
Speaker 9: Yes speaking Hey Jen?
Speaker 3: This is a radio show. We're called Broken Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the Morning. How are you doing?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I'm okay.
Speaker 9: How are you guys?
Speaker 1: Thanks for asking Jen? You people aren't that polite? Very well?
Speaker 4: That was kind of an empathetic move there.
Speaker 1: It was, Oh, good point, jes.
Speaker 4: So that's that's good news for you.
Speaker 9: Jen.
Speaker 7: What's what's a radio station calling me?
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll give you five guesses.
Speaker 4: That was unfair.
Speaker 1: He's just gonna tell you right now.
Speaker 4: Ok sure, people take the joy out of it.
Speaker 3: This is called second date Update and we're trying to
Speaker 3: help out one of our listeners that you went out
Speaker 3: on a date with recently named Reese.
Speaker 1: Very memorable night.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, it sounds like that night was crazy.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, great, you got the rundown.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: We spoke to him a little bit just to kind
Speaker 3: of snapshot of what happened that night, and he told
Speaker 3: us that you're not really responding for another date at all,
Speaker 3: and he doesn't really understand why.
Speaker 7: Hmm, well, yeah, I mean I'm not answering him back.
Speaker 9: That's accurate.
Speaker 3: Oh, I see. Do you hate diabetics? Is that what's
Speaker 3: going on? I had a few of those people.
Speaker 7: Answer you no, Oh my gosh, no, it's literally nothing
Speaker 7: to do with that.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 7: I don't hate people who have diabetes. I hate people
Speaker 7: who have girlfriends.
Speaker 1: Wait what did you just say?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 7: I hate people who already have girlfriends.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have a girlfriend. Didn't ask how he would.
Speaker 9: Have come on here.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oait, are you saying? You're saying that
Speaker 1: he's in a relationship? You think?
Speaker 4: Why do you think that?
Speaker 7: Okay, Well, if he gave you the rundown, I'm assuming
Speaker 7: he told you I took him to the hospital, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he was having an episode and you were
Speaker 3: like his savior and.
Speaker 7: He needed Yes, I was his savior. But somebody else
Speaker 7: was his emergency contact. I guess because I'm sitting in
Speaker 7: the reception area and this woman comes in and she's
Speaker 7: asking for Reese. She's saying that she's his emergency contact.
Speaker 7: She's saying that she's his girlfriend. We didn't and they
Speaker 7: took her back there to see him.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that okay, objectively looks really bad. But the
Speaker 3: thing is, obviously we don't know everything about recent his situation.
Speaker 1: Maybe there was another reason, having a different diabetic or
Speaker 1: it's like a avocation where my past boss is really
Speaker 1: my best friend.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's like those things.
Speaker 3: But do you remember when we first talked to me,
Speaker 3: he mentioned that he went through a bad breakup with
Speaker 3: somebody a little while back.
Speaker 4: I forgot. Maybe it's his like ex girlfriend. Who's who's
Speaker 4: listed as his girlfriend? He doesn't changes, But how often
Speaker 4: do you update your emergency contact stuff like that. It's possible, possibly,
Speaker 4: I mean, we don't know.
Speaker 3: The thing is, we could ask Reese right now, because
Speaker 3: he's been on the phone this whole time listening.
Speaker 7: What the heck?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I think that this is something he actually
Speaker 1: needs to hear.
Speaker 4: Okay, it could give us a little bit of clarity. Reese,
Speaker 4: are you there?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hi?
Speaker 9: Jen?
Speaker 1: Hi?
Speaker 9: Reathe so? Uh? I guess I was just wondering, what's
Speaker 9: going on? Why haven't you gotten back with.
Speaker 1: A dude? Why are you not coming in and saying
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, there's a misunderstanding.
Speaker 4: Let me clear it up.
Speaker 2: I mean, do we really have to talk about that?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pretty.
Speaker 3: Important to her, and I think tell all of our
Speaker 3: listeners at this point, are you in a relationship?
Speaker 9: Okay? Look so here like yes, Like, but.
Speaker 1: What you just said you broke up with your axe
Speaker 1: and you were heartbroken and you were finally back in
Speaker 1: a dating pool.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean when you when you do stuff on
Speaker 2: the radio, I mean you might say a lot of stuff.
Speaker 3: What you're trying to make yourself look good?
Speaker 1: You're using us to cheat, Jen. I feel like his
Speaker 1: girlfriend might know though.
Speaker 4: Just say it was your ex girlfriend and we're good.
Speaker 1: You were lying.
Speaker 3: You're just joking again radio, you saying girlfriend, Jen, I'm sorry.
Speaker 7: This is very messy, very sloppy, sloppy work y'all, y'all
Speaker 7: should have vetted him, Like, Okay, Jen, like, yes, I'm
Speaker 7: in a relationship, but I'm not happy and.
Speaker 9: I want to see you what was out there?
Speaker 7: You're so this is like your whole is get dug
Speaker 7: deeper and deeper.
Speaker 2: Man, I'm sorry, I guess so, Jenny, I mean, does
Speaker 2: this ruin our chances?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've kind of created a big mess for yourself.
Speaker 3: So I don't know what it is that you want
Speaker 3: to say to Jen.
Speaker 2: But all right, look, I'm just saying Jen, like I'm
Speaker 2: not happy, and I feel like if you want to have.
Speaker 9: Like an actual Valentine's Day together, like we can do that.
Speaker 9: We can have like a legit breeze.
Speaker 7: You're just a big walking red flag.
Speaker 4: Oh like Valentines you got a.
Speaker 7: Free ambulance ride and let's just chalk it up to that.
Speaker 9: Okay, you got lucky.
Speaker 3: Are you saying that him telling you how sad he
Speaker 3: is doesn't make you want to date him right now?
Speaker 9: It really is.
Speaker 7: It's tugging at my heart strength.
Speaker 1: That was sarcasm, Jeff, Yeah, why why don't you just
Speaker 1: break up with your girlfriend? I don't understand this, don't.
Speaker 9: I don't know that I want to do that either, God,
Speaker 9: you're the worst.
Speaker 7: I you know what, I'm almost regarding taking him to
Speaker 7: the hospital.
Speaker 4: It's a little far.
Speaker 9: Jen.
Speaker 4: Although we understand the sentiment.
Speaker 1: That your girlfriend's gonna hear this or does she know?
Speaker 3: I'm not worried yet, because the thing is, Jen could
Speaker 3: be his new girlfriend if she says yes to this question.
Speaker 3: You have two girls in his room like someone I
Speaker 3: know didn't want to die.
Speaker 4: I'm telling you works for the frank guy in Jeff's room.
Speaker 3: Bottom line, Jen is we would love to pay, not love,
Speaker 3: but we will.
Speaker 4: We'll pay. We'll pay for the second date with Reese and.
Speaker 7: Yeah, come on, And it's like, it's not a no,
Speaker 7: it's a hall no.
Speaker 3: Did not see that coming? Blindsided by that one. Sure,
Speaker 3: at least you have a backup. You can always go
Speaker 3: back to your girlfriend. Is his girlfriend that.
Speaker 4: I don't know? Inviting two girls into the studio alone.
Speaker 5: Jeffrey and morning.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 3: I thought I knew what cheap voice sounded like because
Speaker 3: he he didn't have cheater voice. But I was totally wrong.
Speaker 8: I was, yeah, wow, so like nice.
Speaker 3: But you know what, give him some points, Brook because
Speaker 3: he was honest. At least admitted that he had a
Speaker 3: girlfriend after.
Speaker 4: He got exposed.
Speaker 5: He admitted it though.
Speaker 4: He got there, not to the honesty.
Speaker 1: You think he went home and was honest with his
Speaker 1: girlfriend Suddenly I doubt it, Jeff, he.
Speaker 4: Cares about that.
Speaker 3: He was honest with us, and he was still trying
Speaker 3: to go out with Jem even afterwards. Yeah, it's that
Speaker 3: type of kotspu that if I had back at the
Speaker 3: frat house, things would have turned out so much differently
Speaker 3: that night.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what you're crying? Hey, before you ladies leave him.
Speaker 7: Are you sure?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Consider the Valentin's Day masker could have been the Valentine's
Speaker 3: Day rodeo for me.
Speaker 4: But I don't think so missed opportunity.
Speaker 1: You could still do it. I do not admire to
Speaker 1: be this dude.
Speaker 5: Yeah, please let's get out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll admire somebody else that calls in to get
Speaker 3: a second date update email the show. We'll call that
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