1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: Radio Radio Radio Commies, a myth and bullshit radio phonic 2 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: novella radio hosted by Malam. Hello, welcome back to local radio. 3 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: Welcome back, look at Motive. This is brown Girl Our 4 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: and this is Disa and look at the radio is 5 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: a podcast arch having the brilliance and legacies of women 6 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: and firms of color. I'm so, so so excited to 7 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: finally be back, yes recording, we took a little break 8 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: and this is our very first Welcome to season two. 9 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:52,279 Speaker 1: Welcome to season for all of my novelets out there, right, 10 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: we made it host Yes, we made it through season one. 11 00:00:55,800 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: We made it through most important to take us out honestly, 12 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: and even like the beginning of has been a little 13 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: bit rough, I cannot lie right right, there's been some 14 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: stuff going on, but here we are persisting, resisting all 15 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: of those things for us. So we have so many 16 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: exciting things coming for I'm so excited to just like 17 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 1: we had, we planted all of our seeds in seventeen right, 18 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: so now I'm excited to really watch everything grow cultivate. 19 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: We'll started absolutely do like round two of things. This 20 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: for example, we'll get into the topic in a little bit. Um, 21 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean, I'm just really excited for season two. 22 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: It's going to be a fabulous season. It's gonna be 23 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 1: a fabulous year. And this year it's a new year, 24 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: and we have new rules, Alla, Dulia, Yes, like for real, 25 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: for real, Like we made some changes in seen. I know, 26 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: I made a lot of changes in seventeen and I 27 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: cut off things that weren't working for me anymore. And 28 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: I'm starting new things and new patterns and a new mindset, 29 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: and we have new rules, new rules. I'm not put 30 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: up with any bullshit anymore. If I don't want to 31 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: do it, I'm not going to do it. I agree, 32 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: And that's just how I'm deciding to live my life. Yeah, 33 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm just so happy with like 34 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: the stability of my mental health right now, Like I 35 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: just put so much work with my therapist in so 36 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, now when things go wrong, 37 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: like I can handle it, as opposed to before it's 38 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: like you feel like everything's going to crash around you. 39 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: But now I'm like, okay, Like I've made it through 40 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: the toughest year of my life thus far. I know 41 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: that whatever comes my way, I have like the tools 42 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: I need. I have the support system I need. I'm good, 43 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: you know, I love that. Yeah, thank you, I know. 44 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: So here's to you know, to you know, being healthy, 45 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: growing some wealth, growing some wealth, all kinds of wealth. 46 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, I'm excited, you know that cash wealth, 47 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: but also the spiritual wealth, love and the friendship as 48 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: wealthy seventeen taught me that and that is so real. 49 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: We have to prioritize ourselves and our health and our body. 50 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: So those are some of our new rules and our 51 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: new resolutions for the new year. And you know, speaking 52 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: of new things that we're introducing this year, so we're 53 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: introducing some new elements, some new segments to look. Yes, 54 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: we're going to be rolling out some segments throughout the year, 55 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: but today we have our very first one. Yes, and 56 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: you know, usually like when when we work aut Pezza Los, 57 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: either it's just you know, Yosa and I talking, talking, talking, 58 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: shooting the ship, or we have guests here. But now 59 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: we're going to actually implement some new programming to like 60 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: diversify a little bit and keep things fun, keep things different. 61 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: We are keeping things fresh for y'all. Yes, you know, 62 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: we're trying to be as original as possible. So our 63 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: new segment every look. I thought our radio we are 64 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: going to be answering listener questions and the name of 65 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: our new segment isca Act. And I feel like we 66 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: get a lot of the time, but we haven't really 67 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: answered it. And I would say that our listeners would 68 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: like to know. Okay, what is our beauty and skincare routine? Yes? Important, important, 69 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: very important. So do you want to go first? Yes, 70 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: I can go first. Okay, So let me start by 71 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: saying that my mom always always taught us to take 72 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 1: care of our skin, even as little girls. She even 73 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: wanted us like to start with like night cream and 74 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: I cream before we went to bed, so I will 75 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: try to always moisturize. I don't really buy as much 76 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: store bought creams as much anymore, but I do, like 77 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: I have this jar of like raw cocon and oil 78 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 1: that's actually from Trader Joe's that I love and that 79 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 1: I use as a makeup remover. My mom also always 80 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: taught us, like if you have blemishes and things, to 81 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: use like half a lemon and rub that on your face. 82 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: We we would use a lot of like like like 83 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: food based products, basically fruits and vegetables on our skin 84 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: and hair like we would always my mom would have 85 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: us do a hair mask of like avocado and olive oil, 86 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: sometimes of mayonnaise. These. Um, I've done avocado masks before. 87 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: I really like um charcoal masks and the African black 88 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: soap masks. Those are really good too. So yeah, a 89 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: variety of things. But I love olive oils are really 90 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: good for your hair. I love coconut oils for my skin. 91 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: And that's that's what I do. I drink lots of water. 92 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 1: I love water. I drink water all the time. I 93 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: don't really drink soda um to balance out all the 94 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: alcohol that I drink. Right, So I feel the same way. Yeah, 95 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: I would say starting with water is like so important. 96 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: I have this app on my phone. UM, let me 97 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 1: pull it up. What it's called, but it basically allows 98 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: me to track my water intake. It's called I Hydrate 99 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: and my daily goal is eight ounces and I'm really 100 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 1: good about getting my eight ounces in, so I'm running 101 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: to the restroom all the time. But you know, I've 102 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 1: not I've noticed that, like there is a difference in 103 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: my skin. UM. When I was in high school, I 104 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 1: had UM, I had acne. You know, it wasn't too bad. 105 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: I think it was just like general like teenage acne. 106 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: You know, I still get blemishes here and there, um, 107 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: And I think I'm still like self conscious of my 108 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: skin because I had acne. But you have great skin, 109 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. But so I put a lot 110 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: of work into my skin. Um. Same with Mama. Use 111 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: coconut oil as a makeup remover. I use a pond 112 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: the cream cleanser to remove all of my makeup. Um. 113 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: And then also the African Black soap, which Hazel is 114 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: the great great I used the like it has. It's 115 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: rosen fused. I buy it at Target. I don't know 116 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: the name, but it's Witch Hazel. And serums are something 117 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: I'm trying to incorporate before you, so you put it 118 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: on after your tone or pre Moisturizer. I don't have 119 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: one that I like thus far. They're all really expensive, 120 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: so I like do little samples here and there um, 121 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: and then moisturizer I just like rotate out. It really 122 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,799 Speaker 1: depends on the weather. So I have like my winter 123 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: moisturizer my summer moisturizer, so it really depends. Um. But 124 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: I would say, like don't sleep with your makeup bottom, 125 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: which is sometimes you know, we come home from the cloud. 126 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: Sometimes we're guilty of it. I know I'm guilty of it. 127 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: Here and there it happens. I know that when I 128 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: could happen, you know, have me after having a few 129 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: drinks and I don't want to. What's good to have 130 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: is like makeup remover, makeup wipes by your bed, so 131 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: I will just take off my makeup and I'm like, Okay, 132 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: at least I took off my makeup. I didn't watch 133 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: my face, but at least my makeup is off. The 134 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: very least. You gotta do that. I try to do 135 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: that to take your makeup off before you sleep. Um. 136 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: I would also say I struggle with this because I 137 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: go well, this past week, I've been going to the 138 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: gym straight from work. So but don't work out with 139 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: makeup on. You know. I know people do a full 140 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: face furnished I've seen it and like the power to you. 141 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: But I know that my skin connot handle sweat and makeup. 142 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: You want your skin to also be able to breathe. 143 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: You wanted to bring out the makeup are open? Yeah. 144 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: Oh that's the other thing is like I have big 145 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: poor so I'm constantly like Bory poor strips, and I'm like, 146 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: I like to do a lot of I use the 147 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: sat ims, the apricot strap. I know it's harsh on 148 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: a lot of people, but for me, the exfliating is 149 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: so important, exploating every day every day. Yes, I do 150 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: a mask once or twice a week, a sheet mask 151 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: or a clay mask. The Korean sheet masks everything, everything, 152 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: and you can get them for cheat you can. Yeah, 153 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: and Target even has like their own brand where they're 154 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: like two or three dollars for like one sheet mask, 155 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: which I know, like if you're buying a couple, that's 156 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: a lot, but like here and there, like I really 157 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: like to I like to fall asleep with them on, 158 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: especially because they're like serum based, so it's like you're 159 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: putting it is like you're putting a serum on your 160 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 1: face or very soothing. Yes, I love them. Yeah. So 161 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:38,319 Speaker 1: that is our first segment of look As, Look As 162 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: Are we answering just the one question? Are we going 163 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: to answer two questions? Should we do too? We? Should 164 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 1: we do one at the end, We'll do one at 165 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: the end. Yeah, okay, fabulous, fabulous, fabulous. Okay, So like 166 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: we this episode, this gut beat, the low. We're getting 167 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: into locup Pistemology is part two, yes, um, I think 168 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: so look Up Pistemology is part one, like really set 169 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: the framework for local radio, right, So since we're beginning 170 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: a new year, I want it to be the same, 171 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to set a framework for where 172 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: we're at. You know, check In also expand on like 173 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: our very first concept of local pistemologies. So I'm super 174 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: excitedly they were bringing this one back, and that was 175 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: the very first radio ever was loc up Pistemologies. So 176 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: it's just full circle, full circle. I can't believe that 177 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: we're already here, like right, I love that we're able 178 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: to do part two of things now, especially because we 179 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: have so much to say about everything. Y'all know this, 180 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: If anything, we have more to say than than even before. 181 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: I agree. You know that Capitolo is so important because, 182 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: like I said, it shapes it really lays the groundwork 183 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: for local radio. At the same time, because it was 184 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 1: the first episode, I can't really listen to it because 185 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's like kind of cringe worthy to me, 186 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: only because it's like we were brand new, we were learning, 187 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: we didn't really necessarily know about like our sound, our rhythm. Yes, yes, 188 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: and I know we did. I feel like in our 189 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: very first we did a lot of like talk back 190 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: to each other, which is good in a conversation, but 191 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: when you're when you're listening to it as someone else, 192 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: if you're a listener, right, it's it can be a 193 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: little much. Sure. Um, So I really like that, you 194 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: know how much we've grown, how much we've learned. So 195 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 1: I'm really excited that now we can bring this episode 196 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: back and you know, we're well season now, so we 197 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: have a good s Oh my god, what a throwback back. 198 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: That was one of my first Twitter handle. Yes I 199 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: was for years. Yes, I know we have. But for 200 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: those of you maybe like and here's the thing is, 201 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: we have a lot more listeners now versus when we 202 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: recorded the very first look epistemologies, and you know, maybe 203 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: a lot of our new listeners haven't necessarily heard all 204 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: of our all the way through. So just to recap, 205 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: you know, are very first Cupca pistemologies. We talked about 206 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 1: how basically for us we can look at historically, like 207 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: in Latino communities, women survivors, queer folks who have spoken 208 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: up against like abuse or powerful men are so often 209 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: pathologized and called lokas and crazy and dismissed and oh, Noca, 210 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: you know, don't listen to you. We can't listen to her. 211 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: She's always, you know, yelling about something. And we want 212 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: to reclaim that, right. And you know, Mama and I 213 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: both self identify as locas, which is why we created 214 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: a look at our radio, right. And I think you know, 215 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: also in addition to Whatmala said, it's also a loca 216 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: is someone that goes outside of the norm, right in 217 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: many ways. You know, we we moved away from home, 218 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: which is outside of the norm, right. We have you know, 219 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: very well, not very but we have like we're very 220 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: transferent about our dating lives, right, which is not something 221 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: that like a Nina Winna does. Right. We're very real 222 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: in that way. So I think that's you know, that's 223 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: another way that we try to reclaim and embrace the 224 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: term loca, right, and also really looking and revealing, you 225 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: know the fact that historically the women that have been 226 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 1: demonizing called called crazy are actually survivors, are actually survivors 227 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: of abuse and survivors of patriarchal violence and you know, 228 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: rape culture and sexual assault, and we talked about, for example, 229 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: in our first cupola, our first example of the look 230 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: on where epistemology can be formed around is a figure 231 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: such as La Malinche for example, Right that in our culture, 232 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,559 Speaker 1: especially for like Mexicans, Mexican Americans, Chicanos, there's this this 233 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: desire to really talk down about her or she's a trader, 234 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 1: a race trader, when she was really an indigenous woman 235 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: who was sexually assaulted and kidnapped and bought and sold. 236 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I couldn't agree and I echo that sentiment. UM. 237 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: So really like reframing and giving power to these survivor narratives, right, 238 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: that's what we do on in with this podcast on 239 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 1: Look at Radio, UM, and it's what we're going to 240 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: continue to do in the year. And I mean especially 241 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: we you know all we continue to touch upon survivorhood, 242 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: survivor narratives, rape culture, sexual violence, especially with everything that's 243 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 1: been going on the disclosures of sexual harassment Hollywood, the 244 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,959 Speaker 1: movie industry, film and television. We continue to talk about 245 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: all of this stuff and almost every coup the lot. 246 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: But I think today, especially like it's important to kind 247 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: of recap of what's been going on, right, and how 248 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: women are being treated, how survivors are being treated in 249 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: the midst of all of this, you know, yeah, absolutely 250 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: so you know, for part two of local Epistemologies, you know, 251 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: we want to touch on talk about the with the 252 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 1: women who have spoken up against powerful men, right, and 253 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 1: we're stigmatized, we're called crazy. Right. This is not something new. Um. 254 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: We know that this is what survivors are told, survivors 255 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 1: of abuse, of rape, of domestic violence. Um. And there's 256 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: there's also, um I think when you when you do 257 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:00,439 Speaker 1: speak out against violence, there's also a loss that your feeling. Right, 258 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: there's a lots of maybe this narrative you constructed about yourself. Right. 259 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: There's also grief involved in the process, which I don't 260 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: think we talk a lot about, um, grief itself, that 261 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:13,200 Speaker 1: this thing occurred, that it happened, because I think you 262 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: know something that with the victim blaming that goes on 263 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: when a survivor tries to disclose like an assault or abuse, right, 264 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: This victim blaming like assumes that that there's some type 265 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: of wind here for the survivor and speaking out or 266 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: there's something to be gained when they're quite often at 267 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: the time is nothing to be gained, right, and it's 268 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: a horrible thing to be talking about. It's not something 269 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: that's done with like joy. You know, there's joy in 270 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: being able to speak up for oneself and to take 271 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: up your space again and reclaim your agency. There's joy 272 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: in that, right. But I think so many of the 273 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: survivors and a lot of the women in Hollywood right 274 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: who have come out talked about what's been going on, 275 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: they've been keeping that stuff bottled up for years, right, 276 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: you know, while they're in the public eye, we there's 277 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: all the other stuff in the background that none of 278 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: us knew about really right, right, and knowing that if 279 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: they spoke up at the time it would affect their careers, right, 280 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: that their careers would be over, then no one would 281 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 1: want to work with them. So these are things that 282 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: women have carried and outside of Hollywood, women do carry 283 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: this this shame right that their life is going to 284 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: be over. Um, So you know we want to hold 285 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: space for that, Yeah, absolutely, absolutely so. Um, we're going 286 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: to bring in a new example today as well, expanding 287 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: the look up pistemologies and who else is doing it? 288 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: Who else is creating a look up pistemology? Yes, so 289 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: we have an example, actually a South American example, Yes, 290 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: we do. We have two South American examples, um SO. 291 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 1: One a few months ago. Um there is an exhibit 292 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: that opened up at the Museum of Sex in New 293 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 1: York City and it's called Vita Nila. And the photographer 294 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: artist is named Juan and he's an article, an artist, 295 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: a photographer. The photographs trans women in Peru. And what 296 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 1: he does is he makes them, um he photographs them 297 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: as as religious icons as Santa's so Vi. Is about 298 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: highlighting the marginalization that trans women and leave, specifically in 299 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: Lima face. Um how there's very few resources from them. 300 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: How the Catholic Church does everything in its power to 301 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: destroy any type of resources that are available to the 302 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: trans community in Peru. Um so, in specifically in this uh, 303 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: this exhibit, it's about celebrating the beauty in these trans 304 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: women in this trans community is specifically in South American Peru. 305 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: Um So, we wanted to talk about that because it's 306 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: super powerful. Um A. Gorgeous, They're gorgeous. They're gorgeous. You 307 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: have not that, Yes, we will post them. We can 308 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: kind of just talk about some of the photos and 309 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: kind of describe them. Yeah. Absolutely, So one that's really 310 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: beautiful is three women, um that are one one woman 311 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: is like sitting on a throw own and she is 312 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: like adorned with with a veil, and then there are 313 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: two women sitting beneath her that are also wearing crowns, 314 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,880 Speaker 1: also adorned, and they're just really like just striking a pose. 315 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 1: It's like a holy trinity, and they're wearing blue and 316 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: soft blues and whites, and it's very beautiful. Yes, they're 317 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: very ethereal, these photos, very ethereal, very otherworldly, but there's 318 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: this mixture of like chaos that goes on. Like in 319 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 1: this photo that you're showing, there's like a naked mouhe 320 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: sitting in the middle of a room and there's a 321 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: bunch of chairs surrounding her and they're kind of topsy 322 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 1: turvy and on top of each other and pointing in 323 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 1: different directions. Yeah. And I think that it's important to 324 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 1: talk about the trans community specifically when we're talking about locupistemologies, 325 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: is because trans folks are very often called crazy, right, 326 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: They're they're outside of the norm, right segn um, and 327 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:57,720 Speaker 1: they are also you know, the most persecuted, right, Yeah. Absolutely, 328 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 1: And I think, like you know, ends. I think scholars 329 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: and thinkers will talk about this, but there's a piece 330 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: of this where it's like society are treating trans women 331 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 1: as if they are rejecting manhood or masculinity, right, And 332 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 1: so that stigma and that hatred comes out because who 333 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: would choose femininity over masculinity? Who would choose to do 334 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: away with whatever society's perception of your your manhood or 335 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: your masculinity, right, and do away with that and reject it. 336 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: And it's seen as this total like turn, this total 337 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:36,359 Speaker 1: like unexpected turn of events for a patriarchal society. For 338 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: how much society it's not the preferred route, right, No, 339 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: and like only Loca right would do that, right, only 340 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: a crazy person would decide to, you know, flip this 341 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 1: upside down right society. Right. So these antriarchical norms exactly 342 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: because as we know and as we've talked about, and 343 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: I mean, like here in Los Angeles is very true, 344 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: like come unities throughout the area that we now know 345 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: as Latin America, but indigenous communities for for centuries, there 346 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: have been multiple genders, third genders, gender fluidity. I mean, 347 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 1: we can talk about like here in my community and 348 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: people union every year there's a Gagetsa in the Wahacan 349 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 1: community and there's always a contingent of the Muche and 350 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: they have like a mouche queen, they have a court princesses, 351 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,399 Speaker 1: and so like that community is very present, right, and 352 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 1: so the mooche would be considered like a third gender 353 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: or trans women from a specific like Wahacan indigenous communities, 354 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: and so the community has always been here, you know. Absolutely, 355 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: it's about but can we honor and can we recognize 356 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: and actually like give that respect in that space and protection? Yeah. Absolutely, 357 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: And um, so I wanted to just read a quote 358 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 1: from the artist website. Um they're talking about like the 359 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 1: concept of Vitez la Porta and how it dates back 360 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: to Lavitan the concepcion Um, which hung with like a 361 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 1: celebration in Otusko, Peru. So it's the northern part of Peru. 362 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: And um there's like a feast and a festival. So 363 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 1: there's this tale that was born in like the nine 364 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 1: between the nineteen seventies and the nineteen eighties that there 365 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: was a priest that would travel to Peru and he 366 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: would bring a congregation of trans women to really take 367 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:28,120 Speaker 1: care of the feast and the festival. Um. And this 368 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: is like like a like a tale, right they say that, like, oh, 369 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 1: it's hard to find the priests and it's hard to 370 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 1: like tell who it was and like who it dates 371 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 1: back to. But this is like basically a folk tale 372 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 1: in um Peru, right in the northern part of Peru, 373 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 1: that unlike other clergymen, unlike other priests, he actually embraced 374 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: the trans women in the trans community and allowed them 375 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: to be active participants in the congregation, right and trust 376 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: them with an important task, which is to take care 377 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: of the effigy of So that is why this this 378 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 1: exhibit is called um So, I just wanted to honor 379 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,199 Speaker 1: the photographer and the women that are in this this 380 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 1: beautiful exhibit, in this beautiful project. UM. And also you know, 381 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: talk about the trends communities in Latin America. Yeah right, 382 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: I mean there's so much to talk about to um. 383 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: You know here in l A. I know that we 384 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 1: have like a Bombay who do a lot of education 385 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:31,680 Speaker 1: and activism around you know, undocumented trans Latin American women. Um. 386 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 1: And so that's a huge focus especially here in l A. 387 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 1: If we think about like detainment, immigration raids, we think 388 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 1: about the most vulnerable of our undocumented community. It's going 389 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: to be transgender individuals, transgender women who are most likely 390 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: leaving home countries where there's violence exactly. Um. So yeah, 391 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: I'm really happy that we're able to like bring that 392 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 1: survivor narrative here into this space too, into look at 393 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 1: the radio. I think it's time to come up to 394 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 1: our song break nowes or castera belly rostra and and 395 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: and and and and and and and and and and 396 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 1: and and and and and and and and and belly 397 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 1: ra and and and send belly rack and and and 398 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: and belly rack and and and and um um from 399 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 1: from um um from from from um from me of 400 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 1: it and ship and we're back. So coming back. We 401 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,719 Speaker 1: have more to talk about as far as look at 402 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 1: pistemologies and more examples um from South America, look us 403 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: doing it. Yes, Um. I'm sure by now we've talked 404 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:04,479 Speaker 1: about it on this guppy little before. But I'm sure 405 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 1: y'all are familiar with New Nemenos. It's a collective of activists, 406 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: you know, academics, journalists, artists, moheedes um that was born. 407 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,120 Speaker 1: It's a movement that was born in argentthena UM in Anthena, 408 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 1: every thirty hours a woman is murdered for being a woman. Right, 409 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: So gender based violence, um femicides are a very big 410 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: part of Latin America. Right. So this was born out 411 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 1: of you know, Moheed is wanting to say, like V 412 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 1: you know, it's time. Um so, I mean, I think 413 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: this is an ongoing exactly because we did do another 414 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 1: last year. Um last spring, I went to Mexico City, 415 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,239 Speaker 1: and I'm pretty sure I talked about this trip on 416 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 1: one of our past cups, but just to recappen again 417 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 1: for our new listeners because you know, uh, there might 418 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 1: be listeners who are just picking up now or just 419 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,359 Speaker 1: starting with season two or whatever. But I went to 420 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: Mexico City and Niona Mentos became very relevant while I 421 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: was there because two different things happened while I was 422 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,719 Speaker 1: in Mexico City with with two of my girlfriends, my 423 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: co workers. So we went and we wanted to go 424 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: to the Museum of Tolerance because there was an ongoing 425 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,880 Speaker 1: Femini Ceo you know, exhibition that was going on there. 426 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 1: And what was interesting was at the Museum of Tolerance, 427 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,639 Speaker 1: it's a it's a genocide museum in Mexico City in 428 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: the capital, and they had two separate Feminine CEO exhibits 429 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 1: going on at once, on two different floors at this 430 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 1: Holocaust museum, at this genocide museum. So there was one 431 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 1: about Femini CEO in Mexico and another one about Femini 432 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 1: CEO and Guatemala. So already, just in one building you 433 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 1: have two separate feminie cetheos and countries that are very 434 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: close to each other, right, And it's just it was 435 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 1: just it was it made me cry, you know, the 436 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: whole thing. I talked about it on on whatever capitulo 437 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 1: that was. But just so many women, so many women 438 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: of color, so many Latin American women, darned by men 439 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,119 Speaker 1: in our own communities and in our own cultures. And 440 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: those are the men that kill us our our own right, 441 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 1: you know. Um. And a statistic that I remember from 442 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: then a year ago that will always like stick to me. 443 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: There was a statistic that they showed that overt of 444 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 1: like murdered women and girls in Mexico, their bodies are 445 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: left in public places, right, And how feminie cdo is 446 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: such a public thing and such a public action and 447 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 1: instant act of terrorism, right to remind us that we're 448 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 1: not safe and our bodies are not our own, right, 449 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: and that was what that was. There were two and 450 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 1: two acts of violence that occurred in in Argentina. One 451 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 1: of them was a woman was murdered and then just 452 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 1: you know, left on the side of the road, which 453 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,959 Speaker 1: that was one of the catalysts of why NEWMNOS was 454 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,240 Speaker 1: was born and was there was a need for it, right, 455 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 1: And to say, like Neona Menoss is international, right, Every 456 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 1: Latin American country has their own marchamnos, right, Bedu has 457 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 1: a chapter, UM, Brazil has a chapter. Mexico like every 458 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: year there is a march, and it's on the same day, UM, 459 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 1: and it's to talk about femicides, right, right, and while 460 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, but that's And while I was in 461 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: Mexico and we went to this this um genocide museum. 462 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 1: While I was there, a girl, a student was strangled. 463 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: She was murdered by her boyfriend and her body was 464 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 1: left next to the engineering building on the UNAM campus. 465 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 1: And UNAM is the largest university in Mexico. So all 466 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 1: this happened while I was there there, and so inevitably 467 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 1: the neon A Menos hashtags were going off online. There 468 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: were then and I wanted. You're talking about how this 469 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 1: is international, right, it's Latin America. But also like recently 470 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 1: this little girl, the seven year old girl za nap 471 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: On sorry Um of Pakistan who was like kidnapped and 472 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: then she was raped and murdered, right, and her body 473 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: was found and so now in Pakistan, the women over there, right, 474 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 1: they're doing their neon a menhos right, because this is 475 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 1: really everywhere, right. And you know one thing I've seen 476 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: um on Facebook because I follow a lot of feminists 477 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 1: like collective groups of Latin America, and a lot of 478 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,239 Speaker 1: the comments that I read because I love to read 479 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 1: the comments because you can really see where people are at, right, 480 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,719 Speaker 1: like in the comments, and a lot of the comments 481 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 1: are from men saying like, well, men are killed even 482 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 1: more right, The difference is that men aren't killed for 483 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,439 Speaker 1: being men, you know. There of course, there is like 484 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 1: domestic violence that effects men, we know that, right, it's 485 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: a smaller percentage. We're talking about women that are killed 486 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: by their partners, you know, by the men in their lives, 487 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 1: simply for for being women, right, um too because they 488 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: have control over them, because women are not thrown autonomous beings, right, 489 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: because the men are entitled to even their life. Absolutely, 490 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,719 Speaker 1: there's I mean, the phenomenon of femicide is this phenomenon 491 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 1: in which the when women are murdered, when there is 492 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 1: a homicide of a woman, when a woman is murdered, 493 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: the vast, vast, vast majority of the time she is 494 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: killed by a man, just in general, whether that's her 495 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 1: part ner, it's more likely to be. But there is 496 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: a very like intense phenomenon that only really goes in 497 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 1: this one direction. Men kill women in mass It does 498 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,400 Speaker 1: not go the other way. Women do not murder men 499 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 1: in mass When men are murdered, they're likely murdered by 500 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 1: other men. So men murder everybody, right, And I think 501 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: that's so much of the roots of all this violence 502 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 1: as we have to be honest about that and be like, hey, 503 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: there's a problem here, exactly exactly I mean. And I'm 504 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:26,640 Speaker 1: not sure if we talked about this. I know, Mal 505 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:28,680 Speaker 1: and I we've talked about it, you know, just between 506 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: the two of us. But when you see like acts 507 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: of terror, like mass shootings, like more likely than not, 508 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 1: the shooter, who is a man, has also history of 509 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: domestic violence violence against women. Yes, And it's just proven 510 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: almost every single in recent memory. In the past years, 511 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 1: almost every single mass shooter there was some previous history 512 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 1: of violence against women, of partner abuse, of domestic violence, 513 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: almost every single mass shooter. And it's it's scary, and 514 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,719 Speaker 1: it's like, if you want to stop shootings, you need 515 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 1: to listen to women, like you have to, like, really 516 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: it's life and death at this point. Believe women believe 517 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: survivors right so much. Right, So, I mean when women 518 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: are talking about femicides, when women are talking about the intimate, 519 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: intimate partner violence that they're facing, Um, it's right, the 520 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 1: gas lighting. That's where the loca comes in, Right, the 521 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 1: loca I'm going to call her crazy because I never 522 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 1: I never hit her, right, but I was, you know, 523 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: psychologically abusive, but I bet all right, So there's there's 524 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 1: a lot of these this gas lighting that happens. Um. 525 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: So it's really important that we talk about how women 526 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: are called painted as the crazy ones, right when they're 527 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: talking about violence against them and when they're simply pointing 528 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 1: out our own experiences, right, And then that you mentioned, 529 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: you know, like, you know, well if I didn't hit 530 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: her or whatever, And Kelly had come up with the hashtag, right, 531 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 1: which has also gone International, which is about all the 532 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: different types of intimate partner violence and abuse. So check 533 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 1: out that hashtag. Also for in Spanish that dialogue as well. Yeah, absolutely, yeah, 534 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: begging right another great source. So yeah, I mean part 535 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: of this, and we can always go back to this 536 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 1: idea of like survivorhood being criminalized. Right. And there are 537 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 1: feminists and women is who for many years have talked 538 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: about the fact that like women, that we have no 539 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 1: selves to defend, right, that women of color have no 540 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 1: self to defend, especially with regards to like black women 541 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 1: and Native women. So if you don't actually, if I 542 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: don't actually have a body to defend, right, I don't 543 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 1: have rights, then when my act of self defense is 544 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 1: going to be read as outright violence or criminality, right, 545 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: because I don't have anything to defend, right, I have 546 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 1: no autonomy, I have no boundaries. So we must be 547 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 1: crazy to speak up against power. We must be crazy 548 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: because what rights are we? What rights? It's like we're delusional, right, 549 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 1: because we're asking for respect in a place that doesn't 550 00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: even recognize us as fully human. Right, right, So that's 551 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 1: why you just we have to keep being loud. That's 552 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 1: the only option that is the only option really, and 553 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: I mean, especially with all this stuff going on, I 554 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 1: see really a shift happening. I can feel like the 555 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: cishet men are really scared. They're shook, and they should 556 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: be scared. I want them to be scared, to be yeah, 557 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: I know. I mean like just the other day, um, 558 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: like women came forward and we're talking about James Franco 559 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: Yes and the ship that he was doing at acting schools. 560 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: Apparently that he was going to acting schools and trying 561 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: to get the girls, the women, the students, the actresses 562 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 1: to exchange sexual favors for movie parts, for movie roles. 563 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: It's disgusting and it's like all these men, over all 564 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: these years, with control of the money, the studios, the 565 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 1: millions and billions of dollars, the equipment, the means of production. 566 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 1: It's so shitty because I'm sure that if those shitty 567 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: men were not there and like women, fems, queer people, 568 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 1: more people of color had access to all of those 569 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: resources like cinema, the movies, the media that we would 570 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: have now today would be so different. Damn. It's gross 571 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: to me that like rapists have controlled Hollywood for so long, 572 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: like just straight up literally rapists and have controlled all 573 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 1: the money right right, and like Woody Allen is still 574 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 1: like doing the damn thing. Roman Polanski is still out there. 575 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 1: They're all still out there. Harvey Weinstein is still out there. 576 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: I haven't heard of anybody facing criminal charges. You'll hear 577 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 1: here and there. Oh, you know, the police are investigating 578 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 1: at the NYPD are investigating Harvey Weinstein, and now they're 579 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: investigating Steven Seagal. But to what ends investigating? And this 580 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,239 Speaker 1: is what I want everybody to know. In that in 581 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: my field of work and rape crisis work, what I 582 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 1: come to learn is that when the police say they're investigating, 583 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 1: that can mean anything. That can mean, oh, we attempted 584 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 1: to call the suspect three times and couldn't get an interview, 585 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 1: will be attempted to investigate. That's really what it means 586 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,720 Speaker 1: to them sometimes. So when we talk about these powerful 587 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: men who have committed all these acts of sexual violence, 588 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 1: they're being investigated, Well, what then does that really mean? Exactly? 589 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: Exactly mm hmmm. So belief survivors, believe survivors, New year, 590 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: new rules, We're already exhausted. We're already like god, you know, 591 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: keeping a lock, keeping you be your fucking self. Yes, 592 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: keep like pushing the boundaries, always what I say, and 593 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 1: because you never know what will come of back, because 594 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 1: you know, people are always watching. People are always watching, 595 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: people are always watching, and you never know. You just 596 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 1: deciding to be yourself and living your authentic self and 597 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 1: creating what you want to create, people watch and they're 598 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: drawn to its inspires, Connections are made, new opportunities are 599 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:50,280 Speaker 1: possible when you're yourself, you know. Yeah, I agree. Well, 600 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: this has been a cute reentry into like recording and 601 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: coming back in the stew in the studio. First golf 602 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: to beet the love of the year. Yes, we have 603 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 1: Before we wrap up, we have some announcements. Yes, this 604 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 1: has been in the works for since like the summer 605 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 1: maybe summer, and we've been dying to talk about it. 606 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 1: But the plane tickets have been booked officially, contracts have 607 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:21,720 Speaker 1: been signed, so we can finally talk about it. UM. 608 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 1: We will be at the University of Oregon on February one. 609 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 1: In February two, UM, we were invited to speak at 610 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 1: their RASSA conference youth conference. Yes exactly, so we will 611 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 1: be the keynote, We will be the key note. Look, 612 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,399 Speaker 1: I thought I is delivering an effing keynote. Yes, we're 613 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:48,000 Speaker 1: really excited. We will also be hosting a workshop at 614 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,400 Speaker 1: the conference and then the day before we're hosting a 615 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 1: workshop with their Multicultural Center. So if you're in Oregon, 616 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: you know this is at the University of Oregon in Eugene. 617 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,200 Speaker 1: We're super super excited to be there. Yes, I see us, 618 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: um say, hi, so excited. This is going to be 619 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 1: a cute trip. It is because is this our first 620 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,799 Speaker 1: out of state trip. This is our first out of state, 621 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: our first out of states. We're excited. 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