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Speaker 1: I'm traveling Europe and both my travel partners abandoned me.

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Speaker 2: What should I do?

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Speaker 1: And this comes from across the continents, they say, what

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Speaker 1: started as a great, relaxing two week vacation throughout Europe has.

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Speaker 2: Turned into a stressful nightmare.

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Speaker 1: I bought my tickets originally with my two girlfriends, one

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Speaker 1: of which I was very close to and had been

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Speaker 1: for some years. I'll call her Natalie Natalie. The other

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Speaker 1: girl will call her Jenny had plans to separate from

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Speaker 1: us halfway through the trip, and she had tickets to

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Speaker 1: a concert in another country. Me and Natalie had agreed

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Speaker 1: it was best and safest to stay together for the

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Speaker 1: remainder of the trip. We booked hotels together, but they

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Speaker 1: were only in Natalie's name, as I paid her cash.

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Speaker 2: I am now realizing this.

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Speaker 1: Was a huge mistake, but I see you in the

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Speaker 1: comments if you think you know, boob, I was a

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Speaker 1: huge mistake. But the day Jenny left went downhill fast.

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Speaker 1: I became ill and have spent the last few days

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Speaker 1: congested and coughing. Apparently Natalie can't stand the way it

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Speaker 1: sounds a sick person sleeps, so she continuously woke me

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Speaker 1: up to tell me. I was making noise all night

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Speaker 1: the first night we were alone. She's snibbling like, I

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Speaker 1: feel like some of your plugs in.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's worth for both parties. Yeah, because

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Speaker 2: you're getting up to wake the person, which is waking

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Speaker 2: you up a lot, and then you're shaking this person awake,

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Speaker 2: which disrupts their sleep and makes them stay sicker for longer.

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Speaker 1: Think about the long term, long term, learned term. This

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Speaker 1: resulted in no sleep for either of us, an awkward tension.

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Speaker 2: The whole next day.

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Speaker 1: We barely spoke, wouldn't even sit next to each other

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Speaker 1: on the trams, and generally were uncomfortable. Sounds like a

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Speaker 1: great start.

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Speaker 2: To the trip.

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Speaker 1: Natalie insisted I buy medicine so she could sleep better.

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Speaker 1: So I obliged and bought some cough and congestion medicine.

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Speaker 1: I had a weird reaction to it and it made

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Speaker 1: me super dizzy, so I told her I was going

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Speaker 1: back to our hotel to sleep it off. She didn't

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Speaker 1: want to come with me because it was still early evening,

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Speaker 1: but decided to for whatever reason. When we got back,

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Speaker 1: we didn't speak at all, and she made it pretty

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Speaker 1: clear she didn't want to, so resentment is building. She

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Speaker 1: continued to wake me up through the night when I

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Speaker 1: would start dozing off, say things like gross across the continents,

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Speaker 1: stop disgusting, so annoying. She mocked me when I would

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Speaker 1: breathe to heavily. This morning, when I wanted to take

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Speaker 1: tell me I should stay back today and skip the

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Speaker 1: two attractions we bought tickets for. When I told her

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to lose money and suggested we go

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Speaker 1: separate because she's clearly annoyed with me, she said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't really feel like being around your thickness all day.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's maybe the most fair thing she said

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Speaker 2: this whole time. Yeah, I just don't want to get sick,

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Speaker 2: and maybe we like be separate. That's fair, that is fair.

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Speaker 1: But the way she said it, though, ye, the way

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Speaker 1: she said, well, I mean I said it the way

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Speaker 2: I think that's how she meant it.

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Speaker 1: Tensions blew up, and I told her I wanted to

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Speaker 1: be alone today. We've honestly been around each other too

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Speaker 1: much and should take a break well. She agreed and

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Speaker 1: said I should try to get a different hotel when

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Speaker 1: we go to our last destination, and I told her maybe,

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Speaker 1: and she replied telling me please do, and that she

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Speaker 1: even refund me for the last night here if I

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Speaker 1: got out sooner. I guess that's kind of good, though. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: I hate you so much that I would pay you

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Speaker 1: to get out of my life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, better than it costing you.

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Speaker 1: My biggest fear coming on this trip was being alone.

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Speaker 1: But I literally cannot stay with this girl for the

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Speaker 1: remaining four days.

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lepper, someone she looks at as disgusting, disgusting,

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Speaker 1: Natalie told me she could easily tell them it's just

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Speaker 1: her staying at the hotel, so my name would be

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Speaker 1: taken off, which made me so angry that I was shaking.

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Speaker 1: I decided right then and there to not get totally

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Speaker 1: last destination, where I'll be staying starting tomorrow. Natalie is

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Speaker 1: now saying I have ruined the trip and that she's

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Speaker 1: losing money by me staying by myself. I'mleughing, terrified, my

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Speaker 1: ten minutes crying in a foreign burger king bathroom.

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Speaker 2: I'm so desperate to go home.

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Speaker 1: I was looking into buying an earlier fight date, but

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Speaker 1: I can't afford it. My friend is obviously over and

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Speaker 1: the rest of this trip is now going to be

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Speaker 1: spent alone with strangers in a place where I can't

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Speaker 1: speak the language. Help me stay saying, give me some

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Speaker 1: tips on traveling alone. TLDR tensions boiled over during a

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Speaker 1: two week vacation Europe. Last minute change plans leaves me

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Speaker 1: alone to the next four days. Not experienced with this

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Speaker 1: at all, and I'm really really scared, and there is

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Speaker 1: an update. But what do you have to say to

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Speaker 1: this scared girl crying in a burgerging bathroom?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I feel for you. That sucks. Your friends seks,

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Speaker 2: and your immune system sucks, and your immune system sucks

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Speaker 2: on quite quite frankly, like we're just telling the facts here.

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Speaker 2: I think this is one of these situations where you

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Speaker 2: kind of ride out the storm, you get through it, start,

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Speaker 2: honestly start making plans away from the roommate, because I

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Speaker 2: think if you did a solo exploration and all this

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Speaker 2: stuff throughout the day, you would have like these awesome days. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and at least can you can still make this experience great? Absolutely,

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Speaker 2: now if you're too sick to Like I've been too

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Speaker 2: sick to move, too sick to move when I was

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Speaker 2: in Mexico, I got so sick I could not get

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Speaker 2: it that crazy, But get a grip if I dude,

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Speaker 2: I should have told my leg stop it. Yeah, work immune,

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Speaker 2: insist kick in the gear. Yeah, but I think, I mean,

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Speaker 2: you're already going out and about just make solo adventures,

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Speaker 2: make solo adventures, write it out until you can and

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Speaker 2: take her up on her offer of like basically refunding

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Speaker 2: you of staying with yeah at her place, and then

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Speaker 2: maybe take that refund money and go somewhere else. There

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Speaker 2: you go, take the refund money, go somewhere else, enjoy

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Speaker 2: your days.

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Speaker 1: Also, I understand this idea of traveling alone is super scary.

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Speaker 1: Like I've traveled a fair bit and I was pretty work.

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Speaker 1: I traveled Vietnam alone and I was pretty worried. On

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Speaker 1: the outside of that, I was like, Oh, I don't

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Speaker 2: Going to happen. Opie's woman.

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Speaker 1: True, Yeah, Opie's a woman, very different but like also

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Speaker 1: she's in Europe. Europe is like generally pretty safe. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think, yes, yes, a very different experience. But I

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Speaker 1: discovery away from everyone who's possibly judging you for snoring

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Speaker 1: like a goblin during the night. So like, I feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing, I feel like nothing pulls your head out

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Speaker 2: of the dirt and like makes you look at the

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Speaker 2: world around you like a good solo traveling trip, especially

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Speaker 2: to a place like like Europe, are like somewhere that's

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Speaker 2: like fun and exciting and new to explore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean stay safe obviously, of course, you

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Speaker 1: know the safe parts of town, but Europe, most parts

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's definitely, like it's again, it's like it can

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Speaker 2: be very scary, and there are are dangers of course

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Speaker 2: of traveling as a woman. But there's like communities, there's

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Speaker 2: like all kinds, there's all kinds of great things, and

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Speaker 2: like we know, we have lots of women friends who

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Speaker 2: have like explored traveled alone. My girlfriend's traveled all over.

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Speaker 1: Traveled all over the world alone. Yeah, so there is

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Speaker 1: an update. Oh so just boiling over. My traveling partner

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Speaker 1: and I won't be spending our time in Copenhagen together.

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Speaker 1: We've been together for the last week and half and

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Speaker 1: within the last two days things got so bad I

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Speaker 1: bowed out of our hotel, got a refund, and booked

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Speaker 1: a last minute hostel room in Generator, Copenhagen. Any advice,

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Speaker 1: even people in a similar boat as me. I heard

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Speaker 1: there's some festivals going on, but that's all I know,

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Speaker 1: and we have another update the next day. I posted

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Speaker 1: yesterday about how scared I was to be alone in

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Speaker 1: this nice city, but wasn't given much choice as my

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Speaker 1: travel partner and I were simply not getting along. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm here and I've never done anything like this before,

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Speaker 1: so I'm super excited. So many of you pm me

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Speaker 1: I'll be in Generator, Copenhagen.

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Speaker 2: If anyone is wanting to what that's.

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Speaker 3: Not a no, you should not hit up any of

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Speaker 2: No, no, actually I have met up. Me and my

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Speaker 3: From where?

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Speaker 2: From Reddit? What? We found this couple on Reddit and

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Speaker 2: we were like like just like oh, like like meta,

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Speaker 2: like like a wife swap thing. It was just no, no, no, no. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: as I said, I was like, this sounds crazy, but

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Speaker 2: it was literally just like two people that were like,

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Speaker 2: nomadically and they were cool. That's crazy, You're crazy that

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Speaker 2: if read it okay in a public like at a restaurant,

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, like it's a girl. She Voys

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Speaker 2: But it's also copenhair copenhe it was like fair safe.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's like like you know, of the European countries

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Speaker 1: copin like what Denmark? Yeah, Denmark is like one of

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Speaker 1: the safer country.

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Speaker 2: I mean terrible things can happen anywhere. I think you'd

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Speaker 2: just be smart and it's true.

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Speaker 1: Terrible thing is gonna happen, and it's true, it's.

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Speaker 2: True, And I think that I think it's great what

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Speaker 2: OPI doing. And I think she's gonna just be smart

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Speaker 2: and make some lifelong friends.

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Speaker 1: Sounding I don't have anything planned tomorrow pass five PM.

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Speaker 1: Also huge thanks to Matarne eighty seven not sure if

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Speaker 1: you'll even see this for meeting me in enlightensplying for

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Speaker 1: showing me generosity. It got me out of my situation

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Speaker 1: for a day, and for that I couldn't be more grateful.

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Speaker 1: Any who shoot me at PM if anyone's down, I'll

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Speaker 1: be here until Sunday morning. And we do have another

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Speaker 1: date a couple days later. And this is the final update,

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Speaker 1: so let's see. Oh so, shortly after posting the original post,

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Speaker 1: I got quite a few redditors contacting me via PM.

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Speaker 1: I'd been sitting alone in Amsterdam silently freaking out for

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Speaker 2: We love to see it. The power of rereddit, the

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Speaker 2: power of reddit, and the power of travel and self exploration. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: We went Riley through online, Riley slid into our DM.

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Speaker 3: It took like a few years.

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Speaker 2: I'm about to see one right now. Gotcha.

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Speaker 3: I was talking about Sam's comment.

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Speaker 2: this next story? It is am I the ahole for

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Speaker 2: Are you sensing an ic you? Perhaps I don't see

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Speaker 2: what Carla wedding? This is my best friend, after all,

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Speaker 2: op And oh, he's like OPI. He's like, wait, what wedding?

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Speaker 2: I didn't know? Shouldn't I be privy to this knowledge.

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Speaker 2: Mark was also very surprised another friend and puzzled that

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's some kind of weird performance art piece at

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Speaker 2: WHOA That is a conspiracy theory. If I have ever

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Speaker 2: today late maybe it was that would be the greatest

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, she only invited people not close to her

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Speaker 2: Also, she was seeing the same way that people cut up,

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Speaker 2: like the best moments of Gordon Ramsay calling people in

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Speaker 2: the sandwich. What if we had best of conspiracy theories,

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Speaker 2: best of Okay, story times.

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Speaker 1: Pretty good, infinite compilation of infinite contas story times.

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Speaker 3: You react to it.

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Speaker 2: We react to our best story times, and then we

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Speaker 2: react to the reactions, honestly reacting to our like some

441
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Speaker 2: of our first videos. It's the office podcast. Yeah, you

442
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Speaker 2: just talk about and react to the original content, or

443
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Speaker 2: take a break.

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Speaker 3: For a few like take a break for like ten

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Speaker 3: to twenty years, and then come back and react to

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Speaker 3: all year olds. If John could make.

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Speaker 2: It diamon rightway, We're getting back to the story. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I asked my friend Mark not to intervene and

449
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Speaker 2: not to tell Carla anything because it wasn't his business

450
00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,479
Speaker 2: and it was ultimately between Carla and me to figure

451
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Speaker 2: out what was going on. My thought process at the

452
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Speaker 2: moment was, well, I understand that Carla and I are friends,

453
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Speaker 2: but we didn't communicate that often, and she might say

454
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Speaker 2: that she can't invite me for one reason or another,

455
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Speaker 2: or I think she'll tell me and invite me a

456
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Speaker 2: little later. I would have accepted either option calmly, because

457
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:45,840
Speaker 2: it wasn't my wedding, it was Carla's and it was

458
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Speaker 2: for her to decide who she wants to have there

459
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Speaker 2: on her day. A couple of days later, I found

460
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Speaker 2: out that Carla had been sent on a business trip

461
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,399
Speaker 2: to my city and she wanted to see me. I

462
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Speaker 2: agreed and hoped to finally call my mind from the

463
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Speaker 2: worries and find out what was really going on.

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Speaker 1: And it's kind of crazy because they would see each

465
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Speaker 1: other all the time initially, I mean, like and they

466
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Speaker 1: had this like arrangement and stuff where she would visit Ope.

467
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Speaker 2: I mean it wasn't this is traveling from city to city.

468
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Speaker 2: So I imagine once they moved away, it wasn't like

469
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Speaker 2: all the time, but it was regular like I would see.

470
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Speaker 1: It was like the Carla traveled to cop yes, like specifically,

471
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Speaker 1: not like for any other reason, but to Coop exactly.

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Speaker 2: She is a good friend, move and more than once

473
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Speaker 2: like this was like a like hey seea on the

474
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Speaker 2: next one, like maybe every like quarter or two or

475
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Speaker 2: something like that is the vibe that I'm catching. But

476
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Speaker 2: she came to my city in a month and I

477
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Speaker 2: met her at a restaurant. We started chatting and I

478
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Speaker 2: decided to share my joyful news with her and our plans.

479
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 2: She was happy and shared her news. In return, I

480
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Speaker 2: expressed my congratulations and joy for her and asked her

481
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Speaker 2: about the wedding plans, to which she replied, Oh, we

482
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Speaker 2: are doing almost the same as you our wedding in

483
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Speaker 2: July of twenty twenty three. We will only have family

484
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Speaker 2: at the wedding, emphasizing only family. And at that moment

485
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:01,199
Speaker 2: when she said that, my heart I felt heard she

486
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 2: lied to me, and I didn't want to discuss it

487
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,680
Speaker 2: at the moment with her or reveal Mark's involvement because

488
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: she knows. She knows that the friends have been invited,

489
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: acquaintances have been invited, not even forget close friends. Acquaintances

490
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 2: have been invited, but Op has not. That has got hurt.

491
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Speaker 3: That that sucks when whenever you see an acquaintance skin

492
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Speaker 3: invited to something and you're just kind of like waiting.

493
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Speaker 2: Yeah, catch a hint, though, tell me more. It's found

494
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 2: on that we'll.

495
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Speaker 3: Say, like you invited Sophia to something, but not invited me. Right,

496
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Speaker 3: that would invited an acquaintance but not me to a dude.

497
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Speaker 2: That was That was a shot fired. I think the

498
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Speaker 2: comments are about to light on fire and be like

499
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Speaker 2: at Sophia dot dot dot.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm saying you were an acquaintance Sophia, that you

501
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Speaker 3: and Sophia acquaintances.

502
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Speaker 2: Wow, that's a shot to me.

503
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Speaker 3: What's your favorite color? Yep, that's what thought she just said.

504
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 2: I know, I know. I've heard her say it literally once.

505
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 3: Exactly.

506
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Speaker 2: It's either orange. No, it's not orange? Is it? Orange?

507
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Speaker 2: Is not orange?

508
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 3: You going keep going?

509
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 2: That's okay, I want to embarrass myself.

510
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,120
Speaker 3: Okay, it's green and purple?

511
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Speaker 2: Ah craft crap.

512
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So yes, it would hurt if you invited

513
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 3: Sophia to something and not me.

514
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 2: But but we're friends.

515
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Speaker 3: I don't know if you're her friend. Damn, I'm just

516
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 3: saying you don't know her favorite color.

517
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 2: I'm just speaking cross stop just because that is a

518
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 2: inconsequential piece of random trivia.

519
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 3: Gold is your favorite color?

520
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 2: I admittedly forgot your favorite color.

521
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Speaker 3: June fourth is a very special day to you.

522
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Speaker 2: That's impressive. That's impressive. But I would consider you a

523
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Speaker 2: very close friend. Good good.

524
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Speaker 3: I would consider you a very close friend as well,

525
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Speaker 3: like close enough that if I get married one day, dude,

526
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

527
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Speaker 2: I cannot wait. By the way, so vice versa, vice

528
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 2: versa for sure? Right now?

529
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Speaker 3: Stop bye?

530
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Speaker 2: I got you, I got you in the fields.

531
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Speaker 3: Wow wow, So you see how.

532
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 2: Close you thought you could test our friendship? But ha,

533
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 2: that's right. I dry, I.

534
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Speaker 3: Was gonna do this our friendship, but I knew we're

535
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 3: best buds, even though my not know my favorite color

536
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 3: or like my birthday.

537
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: See, but I would I would want you to be

538
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,880
Speaker 2: in my closest group of my of my boy.

539
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 3: And that's how I can relate to the story because

540
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 3: we're really close. And then you invited Sophia and it

541
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 3: coains of yours to something else, and I'd be like, dang,

542
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 3: that really hurts.

543
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 2: Also, what's so great is they only asked this question.

544
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 2: Riley was like doing something on his phone, so I

545
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: just asked him just to mess with him and just

546
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Speaker 2: to keep him on his toes. And then we went

547
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 2: down this crazy rabbit hole which is areat. Yeah.

548
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's literally the only reason why I was

549
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 4: just like, let me mess with them right now, which

550
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Speaker 4: he totally could have been like texting someone on the

551
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Speaker 4: team to like do something, or Sophia downstairs.

552
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Speaker 3: But what I have, Okay, I'll just tell you what

553
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 3: I have. Yeah, notes, Oh my god, how to be

554
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 3: like co host. Oh, I've been taking notes of how

555
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 3: to be like you guys. So that's what I was

556
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 3: writing down, because like, I'll see little things and I'm like,

557
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 3: oh oh, whenever we have personality test.

558
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay for a second, which is maybe kind of

559
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: half of what you're doing, but mostly what you're doing

560
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 2: is finding the traits to have the personality swaps be

561
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 2: like super funny and great.

562
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 3: Exactly.

563
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,479
Speaker 2: For a second, I thought you were like, these guys

564
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 2: are the masters. I need to study their every single move. Wow.

565
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: Not that we deserve that, not that we deserve that,

566
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 2: but that's what I thought you were saying. Also, the

567
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 2: lighting is going a little crazy. Let's just tape. I

568
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 2: think if we just tape the corner of that thing,

569
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 2: then we'll be bolden just so doesn't fluctuate. This feels

570
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: so good though, Oh my god, right, that's pretty good.

571
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 2: That's pretty good. Okay, quick tail, they are OPI has

572
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 2: the best friend Carla. They were super close and then

573
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 2: they both moved away, and initially Carla was flying out

574
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 2: to like cop when they first moved apart, but then

575
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 2: they had lockdowns happening. There was like travel like, you know,

576
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:51,959
Speaker 2: travel issues, travel restrictions. OPI didn't have you know, great finances,

577
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 2: so they didn't end up seeing each other for a while.

578
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 2: Fast forward, they're both kind of like sharing their wedding

579
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 2: planes and OPI literally just found out out that OPI

580
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 2: heard through a mutual friend slash acquaintance that they were

581
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 2: invited to the wedding. But OPI is not invited. So

582
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 2: she's like, whoa, how is she inviting acquaintance and acquaintances

583
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: and inviting me her best friend? But she comes to

584
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 2: dinner let me hear out, and then she lies to

585
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 2: her face and says it's a small family only wedding,

586
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 2: which confirms that she was lying and intentionally didn't invite her.

587
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I'm ready, Now I'm here, I'm here.

588
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 2: Oh we're here, baby, So now, yeah, would.

589
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 3: Suck if you invited so few two wedding and not.

590
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 2: Me exactly, But instead you're going to be in my

591
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 2: groom's congratulations. There we go. You got it, buddy, you

592
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,239
Speaker 2: got it. So I put on my pleasant face and

593
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 2: continued that evening as if nothing had happened. I hate confrontations.

594
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: She didn't want to see me at the wedding and

595
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 2: didn't have the courage to tell me to my face

596
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 2: her longtime friend. After that, she said, come visit me

597
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 2: someday in the summer, both you and your husband bank

598
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 2: Bake Bake. I thanked her for the invitation, and that's

599
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 2: how we parted ways, realizing that she didn't owe me

600
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 2: anything and certainly wasn't obligated to invite me to her wedding.

601
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 2: I accepted this and tried to handle it with dignity,

602
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 2: which I think a smart move. And maybe I thought

603
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 2: I could even come see her in the summer after

604
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 2: her wedding, just to catch up. She means a lot

605
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 2: to me, and I would be happy to see her,

606
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 2: even though it will likely leave a bitter taste in

607
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 2: my mouth for a long time. But April twenty twenty

608
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 2: three came and I married the most wonderful person in

609
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 2: the world.

610
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 3: Oh dude, that was ago this month.

611
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 2: You are exactly correct. Congrats. Maybe celebrating their one year anniversary,

612
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 2: everyone who knew about the wedding congratulated us by calling

613
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: or writing on social media and messengers. Everyone except for

614
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 2: one person, and you guess who that is, Riley Carla Carla,

615
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 2: he is paying attention. I attributed it to her busyness

616
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 2: and workload. But even when our families whom she knows,

617
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 2: on social media and I posted from our photo shoot

618
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 2: with my husband, she still didn't congratulate me. It was

619
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 2: hurtful and unpleasant, but it's her choice, and I didn't

620
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: dwell on it for long, and the day of her

621
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 2: wedding came, I sent her a sweet congratulatory message on

622
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: her long awaited day a week past, and she didn't

623
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 2: even open our conversation. Uh not. Even what's worse being

624
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,439
Speaker 2: left on red or being left on unread? Hmmm? I

625
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 2: think left on unread is better.

626
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 3: I think being left on red is because.

627
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 2: You know for a fact that they saw it, because

628
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 2: there's a shadow of a doubt that they just forgot

629
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 2: to see it or or like forgot to respond or whatever.

630
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 2: But if it's marked as red, for sure.

631
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 3: Because ghosts always leave me on red when people ghost me.

632
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 2: The ghosting joke, Yeah right.

633
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 3: That was such a good Anyways, Honestly, I would rather

634
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 3: be left read.

635
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 2: Oh you would rather be.

636
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 3: Because I reached out and if they didn't respond back,

637
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 3: then I'm like, okay, whatever.

638
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 2: Totally, I would also rather be left on unread one

639
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 2: hundred A week past, and she didn't even open our conversation.

640
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: It was clear that she was using the app but

641
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 2: didn't read my message. I was completely at a loss

642
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 2: as to why the help she was behaving this way,

643
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 2: so I left everything as it was for another week.

644
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: Up to this point, I had attributed her behavior to

645
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 2: being busy and some other crappy excuses, but this was

646
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 2: no longer something I could just brush off as normal behavior.

647
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 2: In the after three weeks, since I congratulated her, I

648
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 2: finally understood that she no longer considers me a friend,

649
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 2: no craps your luck, and doesn't want to communicate with me.

650
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 2: And I did something that I regret. I deleted my

651
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 2: message from the conversation. Since then, we have messaged each

652
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 2: other on birthdays and other holidays, but nothing more. I

653
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 2: don't know what to think about her behavior and why

654
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: she decided to abruptly cut me out, and why she

655
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Speaker 2: chose to lie to me. I also don't know which

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Speaker 2: demon of resentment had possessed me. But I don't like

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00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: my actions either. Despite how she behaved, she deserved congratulations

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Speaker 2: and my best wishes. Thank you for your attention. Sorry

659
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Speaker 2: for the long post. I await your judgment and guess what, Ope,

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Speaker 2: your weight is not long because we are about to.

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Speaker 3: Oh shoot okop submitted.

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00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, whoa, Oh my lord, this is so relevant. Yeah,

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00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: because you watching right now, let's get it. What's what's

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Speaker 2: what's the username? Riley?

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Speaker 3: I got you? I got you?

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Speaker 2: It is disastrous Fox twenty one fifty four disastrous Fox.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, gosh, look she is. They have so

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Speaker 2: many posts on our separate incredible. What an amazing community

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Speaker 2: member by god, all okop all in okop. Disastrous Fox.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for sending this in my goodness. Guys, if

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Speaker 2: you want to submit your own stories, go to our

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Speaker 2: sauce okop. Show the men your story. We now have

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Speaker 2: sixty four hundred members. It is oh, top nine percent

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Speaker 2: in the US. Do you see that? Or what is that?

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00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 2: Top nine percent by what rank? Wow? Top nine percent

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00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 2: by rank, ladies and gentlemen. We are getting there. We

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Speaker 2: are getting there. So come on over.

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Speaker 3: It's a party.

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Speaker 2: People are showing the stories people helping each other.

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Speaker 3: University of Kentucky.

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Speaker 2: Dude, we got to pick one that we want to beat.

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Speaker 2: Who's someone awaker than Jupiter? Dude, Jupiter can suck. It's

683
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Speaker 2: like juice, a rock heater. What's what's like a big one? Like? Uh?

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Speaker 2: Ones that were that are bigger than us, that we

685
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Speaker 2: should that we should come for with something funny. University

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Speaker 2: of Kentucky is funny.

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Speaker 3: Oh million dollars, butt, dude, that's so crazy.

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Speaker 2: Million dollars butt dude.

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Speaker 3: That's yo.

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Speaker 2: Oh dude, we crushed them. We literally obliterate them. We

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Speaker 2: literally yeah, talked about the mike a few minutes ago.

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Speaker 3: Let me see I can get one.

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Speaker 2: Network dads, We're coming for you. Gay dads, dad, dude,

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Speaker 2: No wait, wait, we're not as big as gay dads, though.

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Speaker 3: Bigger than that Riley go back, go back that style design.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, we're bigger.

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Speaker 2: These are who yeah, go up, up, up up up

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Speaker 2: those are We're bigger than all those people.

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Speaker 3: These are people that are bigger than us. About little

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Speaker 3: UK beer, we have to be UK beer. UK beer

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Speaker 3: has seven.

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Speaker 2: You're done. You are literally you're literally toasted.

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Speaker 3: You're literally Wisdom six point seven k members.

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Speaker 2: Dude, Wow, there's not a lot of people's wisdom. Let's

705
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: let's beat them anyways.

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Speaker 3: Guys awese memes. We could beat Austin.

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Speaker 2: We can beat these guys. We can be these jokers. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But go to our subreddit, our b show. Send in

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Speaker 2: your story and Riley, are we they send in the story?

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Speaker 2: Are we doing any other? U? Are they sharing to discord?

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Speaker 2: From them?

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Speaker 3: You can share from discord. They can share the rclesser

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Speaker 3: b show.

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Speaker 2: What do you know the discord name, the channel name

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Speaker 2: our discord, No, the channel inside of our discord reda stories,

716
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 2: great stories, and then take your Reddit story and go

717
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: to hashtag redit stories inside of a discord. But ladies

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00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: and gentlemen, it's okay, it's a good, it's all good.

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Speaker 2: But wow, okay, so disastrous. Fox, thank you so much

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00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: for submitting the story. We are all we love reading

721
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 2: from our own community. That is our absolute favorite. So

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Speaker 2: I think you literally did everything right. Number one, you

723
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 2: were very fair and every time there was an instance

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Speaker 2: of like for example, like oh maybe she intentionally didn't

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Speaker 2: invite me, you were like being very fair to her,

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00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 2: like oh maybe maybe it's an all family thing. Oh

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00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 2: maybe there's like some like reasonable expe maybe she hasn't

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Speaker 2: sent my invitation yet. Right at every step, you gave

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Speaker 2: your friend the benefit of the doubt. And when you

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Speaker 2: and money, you found out that it was the worst

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Speaker 2: case scenario that the you know, the friend didn't win

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Speaker 2: you the wedding, all that stuff. I would say you

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Speaker 2: handled it with grace. My one question, producer Riley Opie,

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Speaker 2: said they did something they're not proud of, which is

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Speaker 2: they deleted the congratulatory message about the wedding. Do we

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Speaker 2: think that that is a a whole move.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it is an a whole move that

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Speaker 3: you removed it, because you constantly reached down and reached

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Speaker 3: out and I could see where that was a big thing, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: for her to go through, like go through a marriage,

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Speaker 3: You get married, yeah, without you being there. And you

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Speaker 3: were being so nice by just like reaching out and

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Speaker 3: messinger and you didn't invite you and you message her.

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Speaker 3: I don't blame you for like taking it away, because

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Speaker 3: you would have support her even more than you did.

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00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 3: But she's legit not taking any type of support you

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Speaker 3: were giving her digitally or like friend wise. I don't

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Speaker 3: blame you fruit taking that away. Like if I was

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Speaker 3: giving you a ton of fruit baskets, brew basket, you

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Speaker 3: have fruit actually, and he's like, oh, he's not taking

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Speaker 3: my fruit basket. I'll just give him my apple. And

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Speaker 3: you did take that apple. I knew you weren't going

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Speaker 3: to eat the apple. I would take it away.

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Speaker 2: I'm debating because like you kind of already sent the message.

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Speaker 3: So like they put it on their front porch, yep,

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Speaker 3: and they didn't take it in. They put they put

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Speaker 3: mel in the front porch and they did not take

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Speaker 3: it in. They put the apple on the front porch.

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Speaker 3: They went by and it was still sitting there.

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Speaker 2: Have you heard of the broom thing leaving the broom

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Speaker 2: on the porch. I think that's leaving the broom on

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Speaker 2: the porch is like hey, please get out of my house.

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Speaker 2: Like if some friends are over and you're like, okay,

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Speaker 2: I want to wind it down, maybe you're overstaying your

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Speaker 2: walk a little bit. Broom on the porch. I've heard

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Speaker 2: that's like an old Southern fuld tip. What if you

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Speaker 2: don't have a porch, then they'll be poor.

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Speaker 3: Do we have a porch?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a little, although the south porch very differently than

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Speaker 2: we have enough we have enough.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we have enough.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, Porch is a sache. Yeah, I think opiate did.

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Speaker 2: I might say you are points zero zeros zers zero

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Speaker 2: zero zero zers zer zero one percent the ahole.

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Speaker 3: He just called you an a whole.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I'm so sorry. I love you, you know disastrous fox.

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Speaker 2: You and me friends, but as a good friend would

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Speaker 2: I'm challenging you and I am telling you that I

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Speaker 2: don't know that that was necessary, and I think it

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Speaker 2: shows that you are still even when a friend chooses

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Speaker 2: not to, you know, be your friend anymore. I'm abandoned

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00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,919
Speaker 2: might be too strong of a word. But if someone

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Speaker 2: decides to leave the friendship and not reciprocate the friendship,

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Speaker 2: take the higher road. You sent a beautiful message. Why

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00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 2: not let it be there? And maybe it is sits

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00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 2: there as a reminder that you care for her, and

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Speaker 2: maybe one day she'll go back to like send happy

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Speaker 2: birthday and she be like, man, here's op sending me

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00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 2: this nice message congratulating me. And I didn't invite her

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00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 2: to my wedding. All these things are wrong. I need

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Speaker 2: to make up for it and apologize her face to

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Speaker 2: face next time I see her, or like FaceTime whatever.

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00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,399
Speaker 2: That's my that's my take. But what do you guys

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00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 2: think me and Riley are split? You guys be the

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00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 2: tie breakers? Is disastrous? Fox, op in this story a

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00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 2: whole or not? Please let us know why. The ladies

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00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 2: and gentlemen Riley, they think it's over it, They think

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00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 2: they think it's a wrap, is it not? Of course not,

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Speaker 2: because we have another story.

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00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 3: We got another one.

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Speaker 2: So take your seatbelts and, unlike Riley, buckle them up

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00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 2: because we're about to get started. All right, let's get

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Speaker 2: into it. So