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Speaker 1: This is what's trending.

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Speaker 2: You guys are like telling me I signed an astray. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: that's so nice. You know this, This makes me feel good,

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 2: The sad part is I need to smoke a cigarette

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Speaker 2: of my own. I just smoked everyone else's say goods.

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Speaker 2: I guess breathing him in all weekend. No, it's it's not.

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Speaker 1: It's not. It's a great Monday morning. It's not.

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Speaker 2: You know, the yelling and screaming thing I normally do

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Speaker 2: on Monday, like the whole fake energy thing not happening today.

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Speaker 2: It's just not. It's fake energy on Monday, and I'm

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Speaker 2: willing to admit it. But I have excellent news. Jason

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Speaker 2: Brown is here, and somehow he's one hundred percent. How

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Speaker 2: are you one hundred percent?

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Speaker 3: This morning? He works way harder than I did. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I maybe I just found one hundred percent. Mentally, I'm

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Speaker 3: not one hundred percent. I'm very tired. But it's okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, the show must go on, and ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 2: it's time. Jason Brown his sports reports.

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Speaker 1: Jason, you went eight and six this week, and your picks.

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Speaker 3: I won eight times? Eight times?

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Speaker 4: I won?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, yeah, yes, sure you lost six times

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Speaker 2: too as well, but eight is.

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Speaker 3: Greater than six.

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Speaker 5: That's corrects.

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Speaker 1: I want.

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Speaker 2: I supposed tonight you could win too, and then that's

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Speaker 2: ten and six.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's two games tonight. Yeah, yes, forgot.

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Speaker 2: You picked the Jets they won. You picked the Giants

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Speaker 2: they won. You picked the Saints they didn't win. You

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Speaker 2: picked the Vikings. You picked the Bucks they both won,

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Speaker 2: or the Broncos rather they won, the Titans, you picked them? No,

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Speaker 2: the Bears no, the Steelers yes, the Dolphins know, the

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Speaker 2: Raiders know, the Rams yes, the Lions yes, yeah, the

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Speaker 2: Cowboys know, and the Chiefs yes. Tonight you have the

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Speaker 2: Jaguars over the Bills, and you have the Angles over

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Speaker 2: the Commanders, and the par sleigh Justin Fields will score

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Speaker 2: his own touchdown.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do that?

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Speaker 3: I saw it actually on the news.

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Speaker 1: My boys three he is yeah real.

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Speaker 3: And y'all we're playing last week. When I was like,

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Speaker 3: why didn't we keep it heavy? You were like, hey, guy,

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Speaker 3: I was saying the truth. We were you guys like

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Speaker 3: skip this, talk about that. But I'm speaking the truth.

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Speaker 3: You guys don't understand what a coaching change will do

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Speaker 3: to a player.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, yeah, blaming the coaches, were

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Speaker 2: blaming the coaches.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he is not hot. He is not as

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Speaker 3: zaddy as I'm over here.

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Speaker 1: He gotta go with.

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Speaker 3: There are so many better looking coaches in football than

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Speaker 3: the one we have.

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Speaker 4: Girl.

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Speaker 2: Come on, okay, we'll score three touchdowns. He did, He

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Speaker 2: scored four. Actually there's another guy and all of a

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Speaker 2: sudden there is a rock star and will take four

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Speaker 2: times through the forks, as you said, and that did

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Speaker 2: not happen. What were your observations. We'll start with the Bears.

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Speaker 2: I suppose your observations about the Bears game. But we

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Speaker 2: don't have a Saddy coach anymore? Not aymore?

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, is he leaving?

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Speaker 1: Wit?

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Speaker 3: But he's still there. You just said should leave. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he was never a Saddy. Now one time I said,

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Speaker 3: from the minute that man started, he freaks me out.

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Speaker 3: I don't like him. Yeah wow, yeah, And I stand

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Speaker 3: on that big business. Get a hot coach, like who'd

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Speaker 3: I see yesterday that was really hot the Carolina coach. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: get that man here. He will get these boys in line. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: with your ginger king over there, his quarterback is I

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Speaker 3: saw him yesterday and he took his helmet off. He

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Speaker 3: had perfect hair. Yeah, I was like, wow, look at

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Speaker 3: this guy. He's a king, right, So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Well, he won a winner. Okay, so the Bears need

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Speaker 2: a hotter coach. Any other thoughts, Caleb, we gotta do something.

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Speaker 2: We gotta get it together. I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 2: Who is like his understudy? Like, who is like next up?

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Speaker 1: That would be Tyson Bagent.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're already moving on from We're done with him.

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Speaker 3: You gotta go back to we gotta figure out to

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Speaker 3: the minor like Bloomington or something like, we need to

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Speaker 3: do a little bit more. Who is this guy Tyson?

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Speaker 2: We're already done. We're already done with Caleb Williams number

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Speaker 2: one draft pick. That's wow. That is That is the

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Speaker 2: take of the day. I think we're just done. We're

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Speaker 2: dealing with the coach with him.

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Speaker 3: He might be able to return maybe, but we gotta

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Speaker 3: get it together.

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Speaker 6: Behind the I agree with already was so hyped trying

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Speaker 6: doesn't have the help?

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, we're so.

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Speaker 5: Ready and thinking about that next nail color.

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Speaker 1: To be on point.

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Speaker 3: Though, Yes, you're right, the old line not be o

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Speaker 3: lining thank you, but our D is fire, our D live. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's what I heard yesterday on the news.

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Speaker 4: The news.

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Speaker 5: I was going to play you know, I have it

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Speaker 5: on the plane.

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Speaker 1: So we're done with him. Any other thoughts, Jason.

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Speaker 2: I can tell this has been very well prepared today

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Speaker 2: and thought I thought of this sportsure board.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, like I said, our D is fire is

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Speaker 3: not happening, and I don't know why Kyro Santo's missed.

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Speaker 3: We got to talk about that too, because we don't

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Speaker 3: miss we don't miss kicks, and he did. So I

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Speaker 3: gotta do some reconnaissance in the locker room this week.

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Speaker 2: So I tell you, guys, I'm sure you'll be very

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Speaker 2: welcome there after this this sports you board fire the coach.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying what y'all thinking. So it's okay.

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Speaker 2: I just got an email for the Bears. They said

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Speaker 2: that your credentials have been revoked. Actually no longer, You're

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Speaker 2: no longer allowed.

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Speaker 1: To visit there anymore. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'll well it was that in the fact

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Speaker 2: that we just sit in the corner and drool of

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Speaker 2: I think it was kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I have tolls for you guys and get

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Speaker 3: him in the corner.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Wilson and Kaitlyn Clark they kept their record breaking seasons

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Speaker 2: by being unanimous picks for w NBA awards of course,

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Speaker 2: Caitlyn for the Rookie of the Year and UH and

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Speaker 2: Asia as the UH the Player of the League Most

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Speaker 2: Valuable Player.

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Speaker 1: Thoughts on that, Jason Brown, we love that. We love Asia.

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Speaker 5: I like her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's great, love them. We don't love Kaitlyn Clark though, No,

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Speaker 3: we like her too. She was like, wasn't she like amazing?

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Speaker 3: She was like, no, trailblazing. We love that she was,

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Speaker 3: in fact a queen amazing. She should play here? She

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Speaker 1: Indiana? Yeah? Yeah, come here? Okay, Wow, I'm inspired.

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Speaker 5: The fire now needs to go. He's on the fever.

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Speaker 3: They can use help to fever fire, sky wind whatever.

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Do you remember?

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Speaker 2: Oh God, are you sure we weren't all at the

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Speaker 2: iran A Music veshol this weekend.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I was trying.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is me trying.

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Speaker 2: What do you think I'm saying the rest of the

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Speaker 2: room seems as disabled as you are this morning, just dysfunctional.

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Speaker 2: All of the features of our morning radio abilities have

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Speaker 2: been disabled for this morning. We need to pay our

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Speaker 2: subscription or something for tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure what's going on. What were you guys

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Speaker 2: doing all weekend that you're that you're loofy too.

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Speaker 7: I was at Starbucks after hours celebrating Pumpkin Spices twenty

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Speaker 7: first birthday with Woo Tang twist.

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Speaker 5: I wish I was kidding.

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Speaker 7: I wasn't, so what yeah exactly, I don't. Honestly, I

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Speaker 7: feel like I finally made it. Going into that Starbucks

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Speaker 7: fall colored sweatsuits, you know, for pumpkin spice one time

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Speaker 7: for the one time and yeah, why not some hip

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Speaker 1: Celebrate white shadow.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, but.

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Speaker 1: You're being serious. You went to an after party at Starbucks.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I am four Pocket Spices twenty first.

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Speaker 1: Birthday, the four level one.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, shout out bi guess in the country.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: The dress code chef's kiss.

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Speaker 7: Oh the dress and so I busted out my early

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Speaker 2: Wow, I should read my email more often. Maybe I

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Speaker 2: got invited to that fire And you know, I didn't

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Speaker 2: with the wo tangs.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you were doing fine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that that's what? All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, then what is the rest of your excuse? She

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Speaker 2: iHeartRadio Music Festival. What the hell is what the rest

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Speaker 2: of you loop? What's your excuse?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 5: I don't have an excuse.

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Speaker 9: I was hosting like the jingle Ball for pastors this.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, no excuse?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wait what does that lineup look like?

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Speaker 1: Shingle ball for pastors? It was? It was fire like.

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Speaker 9: I'm not even gonna how they came out one hit

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Speaker 5: No they didn't. It's a factial for church.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, ahmeny throw Okay, all right, well then what's

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Speaker 6: I was pretty much inside except this is so bad.

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Speaker 6: But I went to a party on Saturday and I

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Speaker 6: didn't have a sitter So do you.

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Speaker 5: Want to know who showed up to a POS party?

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Speaker 5: Miss gig girl. Yes, she showed up and she fell asleep,

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Speaker 5: but she has Mexican. Mexican. She slept through the noise.

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Speaker 5: She was sleeping on me.

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Speaker 6: But we went through a little house party, just like

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Speaker 6: you know, a little birthday house party.

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Speaker 5: Nothing big, You're just a little right, do what you

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Speaker 1: Wow, just bring the kids now, I mean, that's.

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Speaker 5: Where we're at. You know, don't got a babysitter, right,

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Speaker 2: I guess if all your babysitters are at the party,

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Speaker 2: then you don't have a choice.

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Speaker 5: Pretty much.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so that was everyone for the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Then right, let me continue with my trending stories. I

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Speaker 2: was just curious why everybody was so loopy. I thought

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Speaker 2: it would just be Jason and me, but no, it's everybody.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: Star Wars, Anime, Aliens literally right, Halloween.

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Speaker 2: A list of Halloween Okay, Well, sorry about that. Said

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Speaker 2: I did realize we're just listing all of them. It's

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Speaker 2: National Teal Talk Day for Ovarian cancer awareness, National pot

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Speaker 1: So I could use some of that those.

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Speaker 2: Let's see. Well, yeah, exactly, I could use some of that.

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Speaker 2: After the first thirty six minutes of this show. The

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Speaker 1: It's the Front Show. It's Kiki's courting all right.

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Speaker 2: So all rise, the Honorable Kikhalik is here. Just Kiki,

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Speaker 9: It away, all right, let's get in the courtroom. The

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Speaker 9: gabble has been hit, it says HEIKIKEI. My name is Maria.

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Speaker 9: I'm sending you this because I've hit a rough patch

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Kiki, that really hurt me. What should I do?

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Speaker 7: I feel her, and I considered taking a bachelorette with

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Speaker 5: Come on now, so I feel her as you should.

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Speaker 1: Yeah what do you think I mean?

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Speaker 9: Well, first off, girl, you gotta go on your trip.

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Speaker 9: Go on your trip. I don't care who comes along.

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Speaker 9: Go on your trip because as a single, childless person

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Speaker 9: So it works both ways. And I think as a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Tiki that I do agree with that.

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Speaker 2: As a guy who is always the single guy and

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Speaker 9: It's not It's not the same. But why do we

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Speaker 9: Okay it's looking rough. I may never have a baby,

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Speaker 9: Like in my family, my brothers have given grandchildren. I

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Speaker 9: Yeah, never compare to given the family grandchildren, you know,

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Speaker 9: but it's not fair to make me compare to that,

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Speaker 9: it's just you celebrate my wins.

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Speaker 5: I celebrate your leaving a toxic relationship as hard as hell.

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Speaker 5: That is a win. That is a milestone.

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Speaker 5: To celebrate your milestones.

444
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Speaker 6: If when Caylen buys her house or condo, whatever you

445
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Speaker 6: end up buying, I'm going to celebrate that for you.

446
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Speaker 5: You'll be ninety seven, I'll be eightyl I'll be eighty

447
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 5: five years old. That's okay. And my friend Tatia, I

448
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 5: hold the podcast with her.

449
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,679
Speaker 6: She has no kids, she's childless, and she's not married,

450
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 6: but she's getting herror PhD.

451
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Speaker 5: Come on, yes, she has a masking with you.

452
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Speaker 1: Guys. You're talking about a house. You're talking about a PhD.

453
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Speaker 2: You're talking about a wedding and a child, right, not

454
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Speaker 2: talking about I just got dumped. Let's go on vacation

455
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:43,199
Speaker 2: for a week, because that's not that's not necessarily feasible.

456
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Speaker 2: I mean, trust me, even if even if I were

457
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Speaker 2: getting let's say we're getting married next weekend or in

458
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 2: two weeks, right, and I said, guys, I'm getting married,

459
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 2: it would be a huge ask of all of you

460
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Speaker 2: and most people in my life to figure out how

461
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Speaker 2: to get there in two weeks.

462
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Speaker 1: You know.

463
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Speaker 2: Then that's what we're talking about on a breakup trip,

464
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 2: we're talking about. I don't even think it's the fact

465
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Speaker 2: that they don't want to support her. I think it's

466
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,400
Speaker 2: the fact that single people, and I'm one of them,

467
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,439
Speaker 2: have to understand and it's frustrating that it takes a

468
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Speaker 2: little more effort to get stuff done in a relationship

469
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Speaker 2: when there's another person involved, and there's kids and all

470
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Speaker 2: the rest of it. So like you guys are citing

471
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Speaker 2: graduations and all these big milestones that we have months

472
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Speaker 2: of advance for advanced notice of, and that are like

473
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Speaker 2: conventionally bigger deals. But I don't think she can just

474
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Speaker 2: disown all of her friends or thinks she's not getting

475
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Speaker 2: a fair deal because they won't drop everything to go

476
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Speaker 2: on a vacation that maybe they can't afford, that they

477
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Speaker 2: can't justify that they can't get coverage for. I mean,

478
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Speaker 2: I mean, when's the last time you tried to plan

479
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Speaker 2: a vaci Look at this role, I say, yeah, you know,

480
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 2: we've got married people, We've got people in relationships, we

481
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Speaker 2: have people with kids, We have people with, you know,

482
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Speaker 2: various work schedules and obligations. It takes it takes weeks

483
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Speaker 2: and weeks and weeks to get everyone together at one

484
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Speaker 2: time because everyone's got different sequal on. So, like, it

485
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Speaker 2: better be a big deal if you're asking me to

486
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Speaker 2: get a babysitter for my kids for a week.

487
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Speaker 5: So if you plan it in advance, is it okay

488
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Speaker 5: to celebrate?

489
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's better. Okay, yeah, that's better. But

490
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Speaker 2: that's but I don't think that. That doesn't sound like

491
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 2: that's what's going on. It sounds like she's like, I

492
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: broke up with somebody. Now I have no obligations. I

493
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: want to pick up and go somewhere. Look that's me, right,

494
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,640
Speaker 2: that's my life. If I want to go to Bermuda tomorrow,

495
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Speaker 2: I can do. I don't have to ask anybody. But

496
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Speaker 2: I can't get mad at my friends if they all

497
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Speaker 2: can't drop everything and go with me.

498
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Speaker 5: That's true.

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Speaker 2: And you also can't compare it to my kid's birth.

500
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Speaker 2: Oh god, it's bro.

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Speaker 9: I may never give birth, so like, let me have

502
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Speaker 9: a win, celebrate me bro birth.

503
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Speaker 7: Single and bachelorettes are not necessary, by the way, So

504
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Speaker 7: like we can't compare that to a childbirth A bachelorette

505
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,439
Speaker 7: is like, we could do without it, we just do

506
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Speaker 7: it because we love you.

507
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Speaker 5: So that's not something that you have to do either.

508
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Speaker 2: Fair Well, I'm curious eight five five, five nine one

509
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 2: three five whether you're the single person like like Camlin

510
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 2: has been for a long time. She's a boyfriend now.

511
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Speaker 2: But and I am. I mean, I do feel like

512
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: I get left out of a lot of the family

513
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: oriented stuff in my friends' lives because I'm the only

514
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 2: one who, you know, isn't married and doesn't have kids.

515
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Speaker 2: And when I what I ask about it, they say, well, dude,

516
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't think you'd want to come to that, you know.

517
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 2: And it's like, well, I don't really want to come

518
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 2: to that, but if that's the only way that I

519
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 2: get to see all of you at once, because that's

520
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Speaker 2: how you're all getting together, is you know, one of

521
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: your kid's birthday parties or whatever, well then I'm going

522
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Speaker 2: to go. But like I guess, I can't expect people

523
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 2: who have multiple lives they're responsible for and multiple lives

524
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Speaker 2: they have to work around to be as flexible with

525
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Speaker 2: things as I can be. And trust me, it's frustrating.

526
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Speaker 2: And I do think that sometimes, you know, people in

527
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Speaker 2: relationships have to stretch a little bit more than they're

528
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Speaker 2: willing to. But I can't expect them to do it

529
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Speaker 2: at the drop of a hat. I don't think that's realistic.

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Speaker 9: Well that's true, And somebody texts and say, what if

531
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Speaker 9: she has a breakup every two years, and now that's

532
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Speaker 9: a good point to trip every time.

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Speaker 6: You leave a know, of course that's sound a toxic though,

534
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Speaker 6: and I want her for leaving.

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Speaker 8: Well.

536
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Speaker 2: I also think, like I do think that there are

537
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Speaker 2: times where you have to stand up in your relationship

538
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 2: and say, hey, this is important to Fred, or this

539
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: is important to somebody, and I gotta do it. But like,

540
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 2: at the same time, imagine going home and trying to

541
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Speaker 2: justify to your husband or wife, Hey, sorry, I gotta

542
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 2: go to kankun next week because well Fred got dumped.

543
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Like, to me, that's a big deal. To me,

544
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 2: it makes perfect sense. But honestly, try and slide that

545
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Speaker 2: one through the board of directors because it's probably not

546
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 2: going to happen. I mean, realistically, it's not going to

547
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Speaker 2: Just wait, let me get this straight. You want me

548
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Speaker 2: to watch the kids for a week. You want to

549
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Speaker 2: take a week off vacation. You're not gonna go to

550
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Speaker 2: work for a week so that you can go do it. Unfortunately,

551
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Speaker 2: even if it does mean something to me, I don't

552
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Speaker 2: know how flexible a lot of people are going to

553
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Speaker 2: be for something like that, especially if they're not invited.

554
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Speaker 5: I don't know.

555
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Speaker 7: My best friend has two little girls and she's in

556
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Speaker 7: Singapore right now, simply because one of our friends is

557
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Speaker 7: working there for a month and her husband's with the kids.

558
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Speaker 7: That they lay out their calendar at the beginning of

559
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Speaker 7: each year and say, guys weekend, girls weekend.

560
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Speaker 5: We can tag team this. I don't know.

561
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Speaker 7: If you're a good friend, you'll be there if it

562
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 7: means something to someone, if you can.

563
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Speaker 1: That's what I think.

564
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Speaker 2: Well, I guess I'm just I try and be sympathetic

565
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Speaker 2: to the fact that my life is a little bit

566
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 2: easier to manage in some ways. Uh then his others,

567
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Speaker 2: and I try not to be disappointed when my friends

568
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 2: can't necessarily match the energy. But I also hear on

569
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: the other side, hey, what if I never get married?

570
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Speaker 1: What you know? I want?

571
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 2: I want something all about me. But I think the

572
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: key is maybe just planning it, but hey, Melissa, Hi, Hi,

573
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Speaker 2: Hey Melissa, good morning. What do you want to say?

574
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 2: And Kiki's cord.

575
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Speaker 8: My thing is, what if what if you go on

576
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 8: the trip?

577
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Speaker 4: What if you do whatever you have to do to

578
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 4: make it and go on the trip and then they

579
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 4: get back together?

580
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 5: Oh wow, it is toxic you right, which you're trying

581
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 5: to have a nice trip?

582
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just are you married, Melissa?

583
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 4: I am?

584
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: How easy would it be for you?

585
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 2: And it may be really easy, but how easy would

586
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 2: it be for you to just go to your husband

587
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 2: and go, hey, look, so once and I are going

588
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 2: on a vacation basically, and you're not invited, and we're

589
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: going here pretty soon because we're celebrating a breakup.

590
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 1: You know, would that go over? Okay?

591
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 4: Oh no, definitely not. Definitely a lot of planning to

592
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 4: go behind.

593
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 5: Especially they have a daughter, so we gotta.

594
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 4: Tack that drop off.

595
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 2: It's just a lot, and I recognize it. It's a lot. Melissa,

596
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 2: Thank you, have a good day. Thank you.

597
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

598
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 2: Let me see here, Mary Jay him, Mary Jay, good morning,

599
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 2: good morning, my.

600
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Speaker 4: Hand grad Hey, Peki hikay. I kind of think that

601
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 4: girlfriends need to find some more friends.

602
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: Okay she's single.

603
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 4: She's not really, you know, they're kind of like laughing

604
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 4: at her. Oh she's you know, she's just you know,

605
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,679
Speaker 4: she's no kids, no husband. Or just get some single friends.

606
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 4: Don't be you know, sad, and just get single friends,

607
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 4: because hey, we're living it up anyway.

608
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: Okay, we're not.

609
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 4: We're not committed to anything, which is good and bad. Okay,

610
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 4: just get some single friends. Don't worry about it. Like

611
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 4: you said, can you keep going the truth? I went

612
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 4: this year for my birthday. I did everything alone this year.

613
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 4: Oh no, I mean they just hope. You know, it's okay,

614
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 4: you know, it's not that bad. Just find some single

615
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 4: friends half of us?

616
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 1: Thank you? Mary Jay?

617
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 5: All right, I'm Mary Jay.

618
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,880
Speaker 1: We'll go like, yeah, you call me. I'm always down

619
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Speaker 1: to go.

620
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Speaker 2: I just I recognize that it's just part of the

621
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: deal that my friends aren't that flexible.

622
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Speaker 10: But you know that's like as a married person with kids,

623
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 10: like do you invite those friends out? Like you know

624
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 10: what I'm saying, That's what I feel like I miss out.

625
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: On a lot.

626
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 10: Is like, yeah, I have friends that don't even contact

627
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 10: me anymore because they know I'm married with kids. So

628
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 10: so they know I don't have time, but there's never

629
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Speaker 10: an invite anymore. I just see it on social media, like, oh,

630
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 10: they just did this and I didn't get an invite

631
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 10: for it, you.

632
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Speaker 5: Know, And that doesn't feel good, No, it does, not know.

633
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 6: And also too, I feel like just because you have

634
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 6: kids and you're married or whatever, like I know a

635
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 6: lot of single people who are twenty times busier than me,

636
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 6: you know what I mean. I'm like, dang, going either

637
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 6: to can't cool? Like I try and bite them off

638
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 6: for dinner. It takes three months, yes, and they're not

639
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 6: even no kids?

640
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Speaker 1: Nothing right, geeh.

641
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Speaker 2: I find that I do a lot of stuff by

642
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 2: myself because I'm tired of waiting for other people to

643
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 2: do it with me, or because it doesn't work, or

644
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: because whatever.

645
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: I mean.

646
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 2: But you're right, I guess I don't call my married

647
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: friends that often because I don't plan. And I know

648
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: that about myself, Like if I know, if I want

649
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 2: to make a plan for three weeks from now, then

650
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 2: I'll call them and it'll probably happen. But I don't

651
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 2: really do that. I don't I'm thinking about this weekend now,

652
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And I don't know or

653
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 2: maybe Friday. I'm like, I want to go do this

654
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: if I call my married friends for the most part

655
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 2: and go, what are you doing right now? Like they

656
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: can't just drop everything and come hang out with me

657
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 2: the way that they used to. And I've just had

658
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 2: to accept that it's just the way that it is.

659
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: You never know unless you ask, that's a that's my keys.

660
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 2: It's like you just assume he's busy.

661
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Speaker 10: The answer might always be, Hey, I can't because I'm busy,

662
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Speaker 10: But it doesn't hurt to ask that.

663
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Speaker 5: That gets tiring, right.

664
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Speaker 2: Exactly exactly the same way that the same way that

665
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Speaker 2: I understand why people don't ask me to do stuff

666
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 2: a lot of times because I say no, is the

667
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: same reason I don't call a lot of them a

668
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 2: lot of times because they say no and so and

669
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 2: so I'm with you, Kalin, like it's it's like, how

670
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: many times do I have to how many times?

671
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Speaker 1: Why?

672
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 2: I know you're the busier one, so you probably need

673
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Speaker 2: to tell me the next time you can hang out.

674
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Speaker 10: But that conversation could also lead to some something planned

675
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 10: in the future. You know what I'm saying, not just

676
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 10: the spontaneous hey, I gotta I'm for you this weekend.

677
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 10: Like if that friend says, no, I got you know,

678
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 10: soccer practice with the kids. But hey, next week and

679
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 10: I'm free, that conversation could happen where you guys could

680
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 10: actually hang.

681
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: Out in the future.

682
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's assuming I'm gonna plan, which I'm not cal

683
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Speaker 2: What did you want to say me?

684
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

685
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 7: Oh sorry, I thought I don't know if you're going

686
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 7: to call her? That was what I was saying that.

687
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 7: It just gets really tiring. I stop asking those people

688
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 7: that's saying all the time, just because and then if

689
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 7: you want to go you can reciprocate. I mean, like,

690
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 7: you know, you can hit me up too. But after

691
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 7: I get like a few no's, I'm like, I'm tired

692
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 7: of you know. Yeah.

693
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're a fellow superson and you get over it,

694
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: do you think?

695
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: And I think I do too. Yeah.

696
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm overlooked a lot because I'm single, and what

697
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 8: I find myself doing is showing up to so much

698
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 8: stuff for my friends. They have things, like you say,

699
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 8: at all of those events, and I have nothing. So

700
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 8: when I do have something, I expect you to be there,

701
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 8: no matter how small it may be to you. Yes,

702
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 8: because I know you guys mentioned like what if you

703
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 8: break up again in two years, what if they get divorced,

704
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 8: I'd have made time to come to that wedding period.

705
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 8: So it's just all and even with my birthday because

706
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 8: I'm a Christmas baby, you know, I hear, oh I

707
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 8: got the kids and the kids gifts.

708
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 4: It's like, that doesn't matter.

709
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 8: I came to your son a birthday. You have to

710
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 8: show up for your friends no matter what. That's their Mouthstone.

711
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: Yep, I agree.

712
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,239
Speaker 2: I think a trip, a last minute trip, was kind

713
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 2: of what it sounded like Kiki was describing. I think

714
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: that's a different kind of ask than than coming to

715
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 2: my birthday party that you know is happening every year,

716
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

717
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: Like, I think that's that's nobody.

718
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: If you've got to go to everybody else's birthday party

719
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: and they're not coming to yours, that's messed up. But

720
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 2: if you're not going to go on my little you know,

721
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 2: uh whatever, break up fast this weekend.

722
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 5: It's a big moment. What I allow myself doing.

723
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 8: Look what I tell myself doing something forget make myself

724
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 8: feel better about all this is I teak in truth.

725
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 8: What I go to I don't go to everything anymore,

726
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 8: and that makes me feel okay, So I don't go

727
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 8: to every little thing that they have. I don't go.

728
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 2: Alright, you are no. I think that's and I tend

729
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 2: to be the same way. Have a great day.

730
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 8: Thank you, guy.

731
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 9: I love you.

732
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 2: I love you too, love you too. All right, Well,

733
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 2: there you have it problem. I mean, I I do

734
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 2: think your relationship has a been unconventional though, because I

735
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: kind of think you just tell tim what you're gonna do,

736
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 2: and that's what happened. I don't think that's necessarily how

737
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: everybody's is. And then once you have kids, you can't

738
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 2: really do that. And here here, I'm a guy. I'm

739
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 2: a guy with no kids, and I'm and it's frustrating,

740
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: but I have to respect it because it's true.

741
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's all about being a good friend.

742
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 9: Are you a good friend or not, whether I have

743
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 9: kids or not, whether I got a dog or not

744
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 9: a cat. Like, if I need you to support me

745
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 9: and you have the opportunity to support me, just return

746
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 9: the energy because I've supported you through everything and whether

747
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 9: how like you said, no matter how small it is

748
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 9: to you, it's big to me. And I don't ask

749
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 9: for a lot, so can you just make the sacrifice

750
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 9: to support me.

751
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 5: I'm already out here single, right.

752
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 9: I mean?

753
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 7: And then we got gender reveals, which like you gotta

754
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 7: be excited either way, no matter the gender.

755
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 5: You know that's not necessary either, But I'm going to

756
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 5: that a new thing, Baby show. We're having a party.

757
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, a crap, I think three of your

758
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 2: whatever parties equal one of my single fest in can't country.

759
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: Let's go right now more.

760
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 3: Fred Show, next, Fred's fun fact, Fred.

761
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: Learn so much. I will say this.

762
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 2: I've been thinking about Keiki's court during the break, and

763
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 2: I will make one statement as a single guy, just

764
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: because I'm single does not mean that I should be

765
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: expected to be at everything slash be available to do

766
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 2: everything that everybody who's in a relationship or has a

767
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 2: kid doesn't want to do. I have found this over

768
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 2: the years at work. It's oh, I can't do that.

769
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 2: I have a kid, but Fred doesn't. And it's like

770
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: every single time it's well, I have a kid, I

771
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 2: can't do it, but Fred does, or but Fred can.

772
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 2: Because it's like now hold on a minute, you know,

773
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 2: like I get it, there are gonna be a lot

774
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 2: of things that you can't do because you need more time,

775
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 2: or because you know your family comes first or whatever.

776
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 2: But if you're a single person driving to work right now,

777
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 2: or an unmarried or or a childless person, you know it.

778
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 2: It's been like, well, well, so and so can cover

779
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 2: it because you know whatever. But when you do every

780
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: single time, it's like no, no, no, no no.

781
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: You chose to have a kid, all right.

782
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 2: And I understand that, like I need to show some

783
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: grace as somebody who has a little more flexibility, but

784
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 2: not every single time. And the other thing is if

785
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 2: you're gonna have a you know, bar mitzvah and a

786
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 2: brisk and uh, hopefully.

787
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: Not at the same day, and uh, you.

788
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 2: Know birthday parties for everything and and and this religious

789
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 2: ceremony and this celebration and the kid lost its first too,

790
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 2: and then the thing and whatever. You can't expect everyone

791
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: to come to everything either. Like if you're gonna have

792
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 2: a party for every single milestone, that's wonderful, but somewhat

793
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,720
Speaker 2: eventually someone's not gonna be able to come to everything,

794
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 2: and you can't take that personally.

795
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 9: I agree that more we just happen to tell each

796
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:01,320
Speaker 9: other grace. Single people, married people just have a brace

797
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 9: for your friends.

798
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 6: And it sounds like nobody's really winning here either, not

799
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 6: that it was a competition, but it's just like it

800
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 6: seems like both both parties have their own issues of

801
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:09,879
Speaker 6: you know you can make it, you don't.

802
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 5: You just do the best you can.

803
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: Yeah.

804
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 5: Period.

805
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 7: I mean it's like when you're not a smoker and smokers,

806
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 7: you know what, you're working your bar shift or whatever,

807
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 7: and smokers get all these breaks because they go out

808
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 7: back and have a cigarette.

809
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 5: You know, is a good point, Thank you.

810
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: I never thought what if I just want to go

811
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 2: in the parking lines, can alone right cigarette.

812
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 10: Using exactly cosmic gas or whatever?

813
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: How do you know? How do you know if your

814
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 1: kid is doing cosmic gas? Look in the.

815
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 7: Trash they're high.

816
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah you know it's it's it's parenting tips like

817
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 2: that right here on the Fresh Show. Here's your fun fact.

818
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:50,240
Speaker 2: Did you know that, except for the tiny muscles around

819
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 2: hair follicles, you actually have no muscles in your fingers?

820
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,280
Speaker 2: The muscles that control your fingers are in your palm

821
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,760
Speaker 2: and forearm like your fingers.

822
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: No muscles. Wow? Did you know that?

823
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 5: No idea?

824
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll go take a smoke break and think about

825
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 2: it

826
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 1: More fresh show next