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Speaker 2: Thank you. Nephew's subject three times in a row. Should

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Speaker 2: I go? Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I was married for six years to a miserable man

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Speaker 1: that had low self esteem, so he cheated on me

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Speaker 1: multiple times, and I stayed with him because I didn't

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Speaker 1: earn enough money to take care of my daughter on

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Speaker 1: my own. Seven years later, and I am in the

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Speaker 1: same situation, or a very similar situation. My partner got

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Speaker 1: divorced the same year I did, and we met at

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Speaker 1: my daughter's school. He's got a daughter that's two years

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Speaker 1: older than mine, and we agreed that we would keep

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Speaker 1: things between us so the kids won't feel some type

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Speaker 1: of way. So the fact that he keeps me hidden

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Speaker 1: is beneficial to him. He has had three different women

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Speaker 1: spend the night at his house lately, and one of

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Speaker 1: the ladies dropped his daughter off at school in his car.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't ask the woman any questions, so I questioned him.

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Speaker 1: He said that woman was an old friend and she

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Speaker 1: was in town for only one night and he wanted

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Speaker 1: to catch up with her, so he invited her to

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Speaker 1: stay with him. Whenever I'm at his house, I snooped

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Speaker 1: to see if there's any signs that a woman has

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Speaker 1: been over there. The two other times he had a

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Speaker 1: woman stay over, he offered up the information. He said

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Speaker 1: he did not think it was a big deal because

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Speaker 1: I should know that I am his number one woman.

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Speaker 1: I want to be the only woman. But I respect

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Speaker 1: the fact that he's not ready to get married. He

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Speaker 1: has entertained three other women, and he's comfortable telling me

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Speaker 1: about it, so I'm sure there have been more than three.

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Speaker 1: There's no way the women are staying at his place

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Speaker 1: and there's no sex. I wonder why he keeps me around.

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Speaker 1: Could he be telling the truth or is it time

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Speaker 1: for me to go? Is it time for you to go? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I think you've stayed way too long. Already. And why

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Speaker 1: did you agree to keep it to yourselves for the kids.

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to be hidden so the kids

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Speaker 1: won't feel some kind of some type of way you said?

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Speaker 1: And what way is that?

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Speaker 2: I mean, what would the kids say about their parents dating?

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Speaker 2: What would they have to say?

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Speaker 1: You were hidden so he could do whatever he wanted

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Speaker 1: to do, like entertain other women. In his case, when

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Speaker 1: he says you're his number one woman, it means you're

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Speaker 1: number one out of the many women he's dating. If

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Speaker 1: he doesn't want to get married and you do, you

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Speaker 1: are wasting your time with this guy. Don't you see

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Speaker 1: that he keeps you around? You ask why does he

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Speaker 1: keep you around? He keeps you around because you won't leave.

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Speaker 1: You won't leave this situation. I mean, this relationship is

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Speaker 1: going nowhere, and as long as you stay, he's gonna

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Speaker 1: keep you around.

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Speaker 2: Simple as that.

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Speaker 4: Steve, Lady, you have no self esteeve, And instead of

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Speaker 4: further knocking you down, let me give you a couple

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Speaker 4: of suggestions.

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Speaker 3: Let me let me.

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Speaker 4: Try to help you out, because this is bad right here.

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Speaker 4: You were married for six years to a miserable man.

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Speaker 4: He had low self esteem. Now this is what you

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Speaker 4: say he had low self esteem, so he cheated on

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Speaker 4: me multiple times, and I stayed with him because I

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Speaker 4: didn't earn enough money to take care of my daughter

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Speaker 4: on my own.

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait a.

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Speaker 4: Minute, that don't sound like he got low self esteem.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like you have low self esteem. I don't

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Speaker 4: think you understand the narrative of your own letter. You

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Speaker 4: have got to change your view of yourself. See, let

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Speaker 4: me help everybody understand something. You can't change nobody but yourself.

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Speaker 4: You cannot change. If people don't want to be changed

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Speaker 4: or are unwilling to, there's nothing you can do. The

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Speaker 4: only person you can change is yourself. So you can

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Speaker 4: say he has low self esteem, that's why he cheated

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Speaker 4: on you.

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Speaker 3: That why.

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Speaker 4: That ain't really the reason why me and cheap because

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Speaker 4: they have low self esteem. That ain't good reason. I

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Speaker 4: don't know where you got that one from. But what

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Speaker 4: the hell is that he cheatd because he got low

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Speaker 4: self esteem? What so he thought he thought so lower himself.

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Speaker 4: He convinced three other women to think that he low

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Speaker 4: enough to sleep with Help me, You see me over

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Speaker 4: here and it misery, Like, come on over here and

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Speaker 4: get in this misery within me. Lady Come on now, now,

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Speaker 4: you didn't want to leave him because you didn't have

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Speaker 4: enough money to take care of your daughter on your own.

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Speaker 3: Seven years later, I'm in the same situation.

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Speaker 4: Are very similar with my partner got divorced, said same

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Speaker 4: time you did, and he met him at your daughter school.

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Speaker 4: He got a daughter two years older than mine. So

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Speaker 4: we agreed that we would keep things between us so

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Speaker 4: the kids won't feel some kind of way. What Wait

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Speaker 4: what y'all both divorced. Y'all still seeing each other, but

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Speaker 4: y'all won't keep it a secret so the kids don't

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Speaker 4: feel some kind of way.

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Speaker 3: I promise you. This was his idea.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this was all his idea, so the kids won't

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Speaker 4: feel some type way. So the fact that he keeps

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Speaker 4: me hidden is beneficial to him. He has had three

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Speaker 4: different women spend the night at this house lately. Wait

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Speaker 4: a minute, lady, what and one of the ladies dropped

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Speaker 4: his daughter off in school in his car. I couldn't

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Speaker 4: ask a woman's a question, so I questioned him. He

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Speaker 4: said that the woman was an old friend. So I

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Speaker 4: questioned him and said that the woman was an old

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Speaker 4: he wanted to catch up with her, so it invited

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Speaker 4: her to the house.

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Speaker 3: How the hell you.

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Speaker 4: Let a woman who you oh and drop your baby

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Speaker 4: off his school?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: Who do that? Hey?

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Speaker 4: Come on, spend the night so we can catch up. Hey,

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Speaker 4: take the baby to school? What lady?

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Speaker 3: What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: And you sit up here talking about he wanted to

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Speaker 4: keep it between us and then he didn't have three

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Speaker 4: different women spend the night at the house lately. But no, no, no,

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Speaker 4: and you know this and you still dealing with him.

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Speaker 4: See remember the letter when you said he has your

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Speaker 4: first husband had low self esteem because he cheated on

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Speaker 4: you three times. So you met another dude with low

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Speaker 4: self esteem and he got three other women.

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Speaker 1: To Hey on, Well, that's part two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters, subject three times in a row?

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Speaker 2: Should I go? We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening.

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Speaker 3: Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Three times in a row? Should I go?

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Speaker 3: Lady? Should I go?

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Speaker 4: The name of this letter should have been gone after

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Speaker 4: the third time, or then the title of this letter

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Speaker 4: should have been, Oh, y'all must think I'm booboo the food.

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Speaker 3: Or something, but not you.

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Speaker 4: Was married six years to a miserable man that had

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Speaker 4: low self fateen so he cheated on you three times.

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Speaker 3: That ain't low self esteem. He pretty full of himself.

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Speaker 4: Seven years later, I'm in the same situation because now

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Speaker 4: the man you're dating right now, he got a.

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Speaker 3: Two year old to go to the same school as y'all.

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Speaker 4: Y'all seeing each other, and y'all have agreed to keep

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Speaker 4: things between us so the kids don't feel some kind

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Speaker 4: of way. What so the fact that he keeps me

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Speaker 4: hitting this beneficial to him. He that had three different

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Speaker 4: women spend the night at his house lady, Oh, so

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Speaker 4: you'd have met another man with low self esteve by you?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, how do you find these all these

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Speaker 4: men with this low self esteeve and that has got

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Speaker 4: all these damn women. What I'm gonna have to go

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Speaker 4: get me some of this damn low self esteem. I'm

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Speaker 4: looking at this way. I'm really too full of myself anyway.

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Speaker 4: And you met one of the ladies who dropped his

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Speaker 4: daughter office school in his car. You could ask woman

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Speaker 4: no questions, you say, so you questioned him.

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Speaker 3: He told you the woman was an old friend.

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Speaker 4: She was in town for one night and he wanted

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Speaker 4: with him.

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Speaker 3: What what.

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Speaker 4: I'd have told y'all about these friends? I keep telling

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Speaker 4: y'all about these male friends. Y'all ay here and Uncle Steve, Okay,

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Speaker 4: here's another one came through and spent the night. Whenever

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Speaker 4: there's any signs that a.

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Speaker 3: Woman has been over there.

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Speaker 4: The two other times he had a woman stay over,

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Speaker 4: he offered up the information. He said he didn't think

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Speaker 4: it was a big deal because I should know that

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Speaker 4: I'm his number one woman. I want to be the

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Speaker 4: only woman I respect that he's not ready to get remarried.

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Speaker 3: What, Katie, what is wrong with you? Do you know

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Speaker 3: what's happening here?

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Speaker 4: This man is feeding you garbage and you keep eating it.

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Speaker 2: Basically, how this taste?

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Speaker 3: This stuff that he's saying to you? How this taste?

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Speaker 3: He gave you.

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Speaker 4: The information that the two other women's over there. You

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Speaker 4: know what he said to you? You ought to be cool.

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Speaker 4: You know, you my number one?

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Speaker 3: And then guess what you said?

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Speaker 4: You gave him a pass by saying, I respect the

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Speaker 4: fact that he's not ready to get remarried. Remarried? What

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Speaker 4: happened to respecting the fact that he respects you? You

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Speaker 4: ever thought of that? You respect the fact that he's

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Speaker 4: not getting married. Stop letting these men have all these

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Speaker 4: passes and these excuses with you?

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Speaker 3: What is wrong with you? Damn?

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Speaker 4: Everybody everybody talked to you something wrong with him, But

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Speaker 4: you make it about you. Your first husband cheated on

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Speaker 4: you three times. He was a miserable man, He had

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Speaker 4: low self esteem to do you dating down at your

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Speaker 4: daughter's school, then told you to keep it a secret. He'

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Speaker 4: done been with three other women, and he told you,

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Speaker 4: He told you one of them was just a friend

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Speaker 3: Other two he told you you ought to be cool.

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Speaker 4: With it because you know you my number boy, Betty,

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Speaker 4: Come on system, get yourself together, think more of yourself,

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Speaker 4: and stop being involved in relationships that are only beneficial

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Speaker 4: to the other person. You are the most beneficial relationship

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Speaker 4: these guys could be in. He can cheat with you

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Speaker 4: because you made a financial decision to stay with your

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Speaker 4: of your daughter. Girl, get over there and get on

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Speaker 4: the struggle bus so you can have some dignity. Now,

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Speaker 4: this other guy feeding you this garbage. You know you

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Speaker 4: number one? What the hell is number one of his

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Speaker 4: eight people?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Number one?

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Speaker 2: Out of how many?

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Speaker 4: What is that? I'm the first one to half his baby?

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Speaker 4: But he got seven more, seven different mamas. What what

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Speaker 4: you think you special? Because you were the first, he'd

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Speaker 4: have done it six more times? What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: Since the Come on now, let me read the rest

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Speaker 4: of this letter. If I could say anything beneficial to

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Speaker 4: this girl. He has entertained three other women and he's

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Speaker 3: So I'm sure that have been more than three of

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Speaker 3: course it is.

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Speaker 4: There's no way the women are staying in his place

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Speaker 4: and there's no sex.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I wonder why he keeps me around. You wonder why

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Speaker 4: he keep you around. You won't know why he keep

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Speaker 4: you around because you easy, you simple. He can tell

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Speaker 4: you anything and you'll accept it. He keep you around

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Speaker 4: because you have low self esteem. Sister, get some dignity

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Speaker 4: about yourself. I'm gonna tell y'all something about men. We

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Speaker 4: treat you the way you treat yourself. Are y'all listening

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Speaker 4: to me? We treat you the way you treat yourself.

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Speaker 4: If you treat yourself respectful, guess what We're gonna treat

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Speaker 4: you with respect?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 4: If you can let me do anything I want to

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Speaker 4: do and still have you, thank you?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong?

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Speaker 2: Post?

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Speaker 1: Your comment can't be any more clear than that. Steve

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Speaker 1: Poser comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 4: I want to say something else too, Shirley. I sacrificed

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Speaker 4: a lot of jokes to try to help you this morning.

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Speaker 4: I will not be doing this tomorrow.

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