1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha and welcome to Stephan 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: Never Told You production of iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 2: And we are back with the highly anticipated episode that 4 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: we have been talking about how long, how long? 5 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 3: Where we watch Sex and the City. 6 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 2: As you know, we do this as our happy hour 7 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: and this time we have a special. Guess I'm I'm 8 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 2: not gonna introduce you yet because I want I'm gonna 9 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 2: make everybody wait just for a second, because go ahead 10 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: and put this in here. This is a happy hour. 11 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 2: So if you are consuming anything or whatever you're doing, 12 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 2: please be responsible as a heads up. Also, if we're 13 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: talking about a product, we are not currently being sponsored 14 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 2: by that product. Things can change. We know things can change. 15 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: We are sponsored by media things, but at this point 16 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: we're not talking about them, right. 17 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 4: But yes, since. 18 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: We have to live, that's what we do. But yees, 19 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 2: So we finally have a participation episode with one of 20 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: our fans. Hi. 21 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 5: I'm so excited to be here. 22 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 4: Yes, we're so excited to have you. 23 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 3: Can you introduce yourself to our listeners? 24 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love to Hi. I'm Lou. 25 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 6: I'm super excited to be here. I got the call 26 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 6: out from Annie and Samantha. I think a year ago 27 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 6: around the Sex and the City episode, and I haven't 28 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 6: seen Sex and the City since college. It's been like 29 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 6: over fifteen years for me since I've seen it. And 30 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 6: I took a BuzzFeed quiz by the producer and I 31 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 6: got Charlotte. 32 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 5: And I was like, oh. 33 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: No, I'm trying to think has anybody gotten Charlotte before? 34 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think a lot of us 35 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: thought we were going to get Charlotte. 36 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you may actually be our first genuine Charlotte. Congratulations. 37 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 2: You just like made history on our show. 38 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 6: I felt like it was because I selected what TV 39 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 6: show would you binge? And I picked the Crown and 40 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 6: I was like, oh no, this is gonna make me Charlotte. 41 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 2: Oh you're so right. I haven't taken the quiz in 42 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 2: a minute, but I do remember thinking because I think 43 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 2: I ended up being it wasn't Miranda because I wanted 44 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 2: to be Miranda, but I ended up being like either Carrie, 45 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: I think Carrie, which I was like, no, I don't, 46 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 2: I don't. I feel like it's the least favorite right now. 47 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to do I. 48 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: Think I got Gary this time, though, did you? But 49 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: Lou and I were discussing this. A lot of the 50 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: questions are based on like their exes. I don't know 51 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: who any of these people are, so I'm just like, yeah, 52 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: that's true, it sounds right. 53 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:53,639 Speaker 4: I don't know. 54 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 2: So did you pick a Charlotte X Lou? I? 55 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 6: I think I did. I think one of the questions 56 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 6: is like, which ex of this character would you pick? 57 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 6: And I didn't remember any of Charlotte Sex's only her her? 58 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 5: Uh wait, spoiler, can you give us fum? 59 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: I just it's fine, she has no. 60 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, okay, we're good. 61 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 2: I love this that everybody has different experiences because it's 62 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: so good to hear the different perspectives. And I'm going 63 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: to get this in a second. But before we start, Annie, 64 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 2: are you sipping on anything for this happy hour? 65 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 4: Am? Well? 66 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: I feel so bad, So Lou, We're so happy to 67 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: have you, longtime listener. 68 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 4: We've been pumping up this listener, Come on and do it. 69 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: Neither Samantha and I are in a great place because 70 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: Samantha's still got teeth problems. I still have to throw problems. 71 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: So I'm drinking a hot toddy, which was the same thing, 72 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: just hot water, lemon lukewarm water, it's not hot cinnamon, ginger, 73 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: A little bit of whiskey. 74 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 4: That's it. 75 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 3: Do you still not have a tea kettle? 76 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 4: Any Why are you so you keep that? 77 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: I gave you mine. 78 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 4: No, you didn't because I said I don't drink tea. 79 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 4: It's useless. And here I am. 80 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: Needing a tea Kettlee. 81 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 4: Like no one I've ever seen. 82 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 5: Are you coffee? 83 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 3: Annie? 84 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 5: And Samantha your tea? 85 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: No? I like both. Annie's actually allergic to. We've figured 86 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 2: out probably all teas. Uh, But I still wanted her 87 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 2: to have a tea kettle just to boil water or whatnot. 88 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 2: And she's like, I don't need this, and she has 89 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 2: a small space. So her good friend Marissa, which I'm 90 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: sure you've heard us talk about, she's the Queen of teas. 91 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 2: I'm pretty pretty convinced because she would carry you around 92 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 2: a tea kettle wherever she goes. 93 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 3: That's fun. If she's gonna spend. 94 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 2: An extending amount of time. We love you, Marissa, and 95 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 2: so I'm trying to give anyone as well, because I like, 96 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 2: your friends come over. They don't need to be carrying 97 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 2: a full on tea kettle. Long story, I. 98 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 6: Just like imagining Mrissa with a tea kettle literally everywhere. 99 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 2: She brought one to my house like she did not know, 100 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 2: but I'm like, no, I okay, it was quite cute. 101 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 2: She's quite She's very prepared. For sure. Are you sitting 102 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 2: on anything, lou Water? Yeah, So me and you are 103 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 2: in this boat together because yes, as Annie has mentioned 104 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 2: and we've talked about before, we are not in the 105 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 2: greatest of shapes health wise or mentally. Apparently I had 106 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 2: a teeth extraction, so I can't drink anything like carbonated 107 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 2: or anything. So straight water, which, as Annie would say, 108 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 2: this is her favorite beverage water, and I'm like, yeah, 109 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 2: it really is nice and refreshing to have. 110 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 5: Doesn't like it. 111 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 2: Everybody's going to be so hydrated, so hydrated. Okay, So 112 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 2: as we do, we are on the season finale of 113 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 2: A season two, which I'm like, oh wow, that happened 114 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 2: a lot quicker than I thought, because I think I 115 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 2: thought there was like twenty five episodes. There's not. Yeah, 116 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: there's only eighteen. So we finally made it. And to 117 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 2: the form I need, Annie, can you give us what 118 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 2: has happened in the past a recap if you will. 119 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 3: Uh? 120 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:22,919 Speaker 1: Well, okay, we started with the breakup, I always say 121 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 1: with big and then they can carry And then they 122 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: got back together mid season, and now he's shown up 123 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: again and he is getting married to a younger woman, 124 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: and this is shaken Carrie to the core. And she's 125 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: also had like relev elevations around like the type of 126 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: men she goes for kind of I date men that 127 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: are not good for me. So that's like her arc 128 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: that's ongoing and I'm sure it is coming to a 129 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 1: head in the season finale. Then we have Miranda who 130 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: got introduced to if You've known anything the show, Steve 131 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: and they were dating for a while and then they 132 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: broke up over kind of like financial things. But now 133 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: he's want of like maybe back in the picture, Charlotte, 134 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: I love again. I love how she's like ostensibly the 135 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: one that's, you know, looking for the one, And maybe 136 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: that's the point. She's gone through a lot of different fellows. 137 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: She's projected her own issues onto other people about what 138 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: relationships should look like. Then Samantha continues to be Samantha 139 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: and date all kinds of people, do all kinds of things, 140 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: and just firm and her personality knowing who she is 141 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: and their friendship remains strong, and there have been several 142 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: episodes where we're like, oh, I'm not I'm glad they're 143 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: still focusing on this friendship aspect. 144 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: Yes, Lou, do you have anything to add to her recap? 145 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 6: I I will be possibly very lost. 146 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 2: Yeah that's fair, that's fair. That's kind of how we 147 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: bring everyone. I feel like, outside of you and Bridget, 148 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: like our producers and our researchers are like, we have 149 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 2: never seen this show. One was not like was literally 150 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: an infant when they were coming out, so they were like, Nope, 151 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: I don't know what you're talking about. So much left 152 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 2: in them though, however, Okay, so I feel like I 153 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: need I guess we should have done this for all 154 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 2: of them, but we should put like these are adult content, 155 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 2: like not necessarily over the top, but we're talking about 156 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 2: sex and we're definitely talking about adult topics. I think 157 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 2: we said it at the beginning of all this series, 158 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 2: but yeah, if you have children, there's a good chance 159 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 2: you want to either put headphones on or wait, because yeah, 160 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: especially this episode. Just so I'm just gonna go ahead 161 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 2: with that as a caveat. Yeah, so we're gonna have, 162 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 2: we're gonna get We're gonna get into some really fun 163 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 2: conversation with the Lou. Welcome to the show. Yeah, I 164 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 2: know this is gonna build. I'm building it up, aren't I. 165 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 2: The title of this episode is X and the City, 166 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 2: so I'm gonna let Annie go first. What do you 167 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 2: think this episode is about? 168 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 4: Exes? I think it's about by. 169 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 2: The way, it's not necessarily cheating, but taking the easy 170 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 2: way out. Lou, just to that fly, dare you? 171 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 6: This is my favorite part when Annie tries to guess 172 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 6: what content of the episode is based on so. 173 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 4: Called me out in front of Lou or treasured listener. Okay, exes. 174 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: So I think BIG's wedding is gonna be involved. I 175 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 1: think Steve's gonna come back into the picture for Miranda. 176 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 4: I don't know. 177 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: About the other two. Yeah, that's it X in the 178 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 1: City all right. 179 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 2: Excellu, do you want to take a shot? 180 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 4: Okay? 181 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 6: I think it's going to be Carrie all over the 182 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 6: city just being reminded of Big left and right and 183 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:16,679 Speaker 6: wallowing in her heartbreak. 184 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 2: Ooh, any she's trying any Hey that Lou. 185 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: When we first contacted you, you asked should I rewatch? 186 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 1: And I said no, unless you really want to so 187 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: this is is gonna be fun. But also, yeah, I 188 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: didn't really take into account that we are gonna you 189 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: don't have to share anything you don't watch. But then 190 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: we do get into some stumpings here. 191 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 2: We don't know. I was like, we are very transparent, 192 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 2: a little too to you. 193 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 6: Why yeah, And I haven't seen this in fifteen years, 194 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 6: but I did watch it and to end at some 195 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 6: point way back when. 196 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 2: Way back when. So you you are kind of letting 197 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 2: me diehard at the beginning. I did rewatch it. Sometimes 198 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: afterwards I will say, I get into late these like 199 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 2: needing to rewatch things and these. This was an easy 200 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: twenty minute episode, but okay, you already, let's jump into this. 201 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 7: Another choice is how to deal with an ex boyfriend. 202 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 7: Some women handle it coolly, calmly, while others. 203 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 2: Like Steve. All right, so Annie, you get a point 204 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: because here comes Steve just as they run away. What 205 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: is your reaction when you run into an X? 206 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: I sort of freeze, And then I'm so frustrated they're 207 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: there that I keep looking at them, like I wish 208 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: I could just forget they're there, and like, you know, 209 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: your attention is drawn to them? 210 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 4: You know, I hate it because you're like, I don't 211 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 4: want to get and see. Yes, exactly what about you? 212 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 6: For me, it's like panic and run, just yes, no 213 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 6: matter what I'm doing. The other day, it happened in 214 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 6: ari I, and I was just like, oh, well, suddenly 215 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 6: I'm done with. 216 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 3: Why did I come in here? Oh I wasn't a saken. 217 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: I gotta go. I meant to go to Cromer. I'll 218 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 2: be back. 219 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 6: Even when the ex is like waving at mess store, 220 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 6: I'm just like, no, don't. 221 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 2: I'm childish enough that if it's not purposeful, or if 222 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 2: it's not something official, I'm going to just ignore you 223 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: and be like by. 224 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,199 Speaker 5: Run like a coward. It's my my co team. 225 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 2: Don't even run away. I walk past you like I 226 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 2: don't know you're there. 227 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:49,719 Speaker 1: Damn worse probably, but it's clear, like, okay, she does 228 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 1: not want anything to me. 229 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 2: We're not talking, but you're not alive. 230 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,079 Speaker 5: I like the boundaries, Samantha. 231 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 2: Very strong, maybe a long ocean. 232 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 7: If you love someone and you break up, where does 233 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 7: the love go? 234 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 2: Where does the love go? That's very philosophical. 235 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 4: I've thought about this too. 236 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: We've talked about this because it is strange when someone 237 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 1: shares so much of your life when someone you have 238 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: so many memories with them, with like what you were saying, Lou, 239 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: when you go around and you're like, oh, I remember 240 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 1: being here or I remember being here, and you think 241 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 1: maybe we have a food together, and then it's gone 242 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: and it's kind of strange. 243 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 4: It's like a strange feeling. 244 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, totally. 245 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 6: I think it depends on the person. It's like sometimes 246 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 6: it transforms and you do still have like a certain 247 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,719 Speaker 6: love for a person, but it's totally different. And then 248 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 6: sometimes it's just like nothing. 249 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 2: Or sometimes you're trying really hard to erase it. You're like, 250 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:52,319 Speaker 2: why does this have to be? I like doing this 251 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 2: before you Now it's ruined. Yeah, I apparently have some 252 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 2: issues with exis well. 253 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: Also I'm thinking about this too, I think because so 254 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: much of our meat is like there's the one true 255 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: love that if you thought that that was what it 256 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: was for a minute, it's at least for me, there's 257 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,079 Speaker 1: a part of me that, even though I don't want 258 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: to be in that relationship, I'm kind of sad that 259 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: they found someone. 260 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 4: Else because that is the one true love maybe or something. 261 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 4: It's it's an odd feeling. 262 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: I've talked about the fact that I've had like three 263 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 2: people that dated and then the person they met after 264 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 2: me they got married to. But I was like, wait, 265 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 2: what is this? Am I a good luck charm for you? 266 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: Or what is happening? Even though I don't want to 267 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: be married? That still felt like I kick in the 268 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 2: pants somehow. 269 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 8: Yeah. 270 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 6: I definitely relate to like wanting the person to find 271 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 6: that dream person for them or whatever, Like that's a 272 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 6: really exciting idea. Like I don't I'm not on the 273 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 6: up and up on what my exes are doing, but. 274 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 5: I like the idea of it. It's like, oh, you 275 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 5: found the perfect person whatever in quotes perfectly. 276 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 2: That's a good reaction. My reaction was a lot more pessimistic. Yeah, okay, 277 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 2: But the other question here is can you be friends 278 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 2: with an ex? 279 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 4: Yes, I can't, Annie eight. 280 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 2: Because you kind of thought of them as a friend 281 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 2: to begin with. 282 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 6: I feel like that's really healthy and evolved when thinking 283 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 6: about it, Annie. 284 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 3: I do not have that kind of help. Again, they 285 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 3: don't exist. 286 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think it depends on the person. 287 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 6: Like, generally speaking, I am not in touch with my exes. 288 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 5: I don't. I don't think they're terrible people or anything, though, 289 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 5: It's just. 290 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 6: Like maybe because we weren't friends first, we just evolved 291 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 6: past that and then we moved on and. 292 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 2: That's growth and I admire that. 293 00:15:57,480 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 5: But also people can make it work. 294 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, not right. 295 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 7: Charlotte came face to face with the memory of her 296 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 7: first her horse, Tatty. Charlotte's relationship with Taddy ended sadly 297 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 7: when he threw her during a teen equestrian competition, causing 298 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 7: her to break her collarbone and lose the blue ribbon. 299 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 2: All right, now we have a horse, love a horse, 300 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 2: love family. Yeah, that was her first love. Charlotte's relationship 301 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 2: here is our hobbies. 302 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: Oh so it's their ex hobby, the horse. She's got 303 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 1: to get back on the horse. You know they were 304 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: talking about that. That's the pun they were thinking about. 305 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 2: It's gonna be in there somewhere if he hasn't already, 306 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: we made missed it. Ali al right, fans and the. 307 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 8: Excuse me, but do I know you I still. 308 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:01,280 Speaker 2: Have a hard time believing people just randomly go up 309 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 2: to people on the street outside of harassing. 310 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 6: I was just about to comment on that, like, is 311 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 6: this a this. 312 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 5: Is just a stranger to her or has yet? Okay? Interesting? 313 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 4: I used to have. 314 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: You know, I've talked about in the podcast before, but 315 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 1: I had two spots. If I went there, I would 316 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: get asked out by a random dude. 317 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 4: I don't know what it was. 318 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: I guess that does maybe I don't see that as 319 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 2: being successful, So in my head, it's not a thing 320 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 2: outside of being harassed. 321 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: It's true, it is true, and there I stopped going 322 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: to one of those places because none of the guys 323 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: were like and it was all dudes. None of the 324 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: guys were made me feel her ass. But eventually it 325 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: started to become a place where it just was like, 326 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:42,479 Speaker 1: I'm uncomfortable here, Like I can't just go and do 327 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 1: this thing without dealing with this. 328 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 7: I'm well, I hadn't planned on the idiot stick. 329 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 5: Figure out she. 330 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 2: Has a title that's pretty cruel without knowing if she 331 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 2: is at all. I D yeah, caller, I D again. 332 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:10,879 Speaker 2: This is the non cell phone era with caller. 333 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:14,400 Speaker 5: I D he this is answering machine. 334 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 335 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 6: I remember getting messages on the answering machine from like 336 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 6: a boy in school, and then my grandma coming home 337 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 6: and playing the message. 338 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 5: Before I could get to it, like, no, don't leave messages, 339 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 5: don't do that. 340 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 8: I'm gonna get bothered by my family. 341 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 2: He knows I'm a boy. 342 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 4: I remember, like my parents would answer and they'd be like, 343 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 4: what are your intentions? 344 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 2: No, I don't know. 345 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 3: Wow. 346 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 2: I remember my brother being really annoying and picking up 347 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:51,439 Speaker 2: the other line while I someone and me having to 348 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 2: yell get off the phones and then then make fun 349 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:55,119 Speaker 2: of me. 350 00:18:55,359 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 7: Yes, I used to make our lunch reservations in BIG's name, 351 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 7: but today I put it in mind because that's what friends. 352 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 2: Do, is okay. Oh so Carrie's attempting to be friends 353 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: with Big. 354 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: Oh, I just even not knowing how it ends, I 355 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: would be like, no, this isn't gonna work. 356 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean she still has feels for Big, right, Like, yeah, 357 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 6: you gotta be honest about where you're at. 358 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. 359 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 2: Agree. 360 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,719 Speaker 1: She does have a way of approaching things that I 361 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: do relate to, which is kind of an annoying way 362 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: of being like very analytical, like, oh, I am the 363 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: new friend, now, therefore this is how I act and. 364 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 4: This is how this will go, which is not necessarily true. 365 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 2: But it's also that neurotic side where you're trying to 366 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 2: prep for all situations so you don't react inappropriately, which 367 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 2: is what I do. I'm like, Okay, if this happens, 368 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 2: this is what I do. It's kind of like, uh, 369 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 2: going on Google Maps to see the parking situation, just 370 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 2: you have to be there to minissarily. 371 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 3: Is that me? 372 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:08,719 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, well that's smart, that's necessary. 373 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you totally. 374 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 6: I feel like there's this weird dynamic and maybe this 375 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 6: is what Carrie and Bigger are doing, where you're like, 376 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 6: I'm going to show you how. 377 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 5: Awesome I'm doing. 378 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 6: Kind of things like have you all ever experienced that 379 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 6: where an X reaches out It's definitely happened to me 380 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 6: and they're like, come and meet me for lunch and 381 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 6: I'm like. 382 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 5: I don't want anything out of this. What are you 383 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 5: trying to get out of it? And then it ends 384 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 5: up being like I just want to show you that I'm. 385 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:35,160 Speaker 3: Doing really great. 386 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 2: Yeah again, Yeah, that's kind I feel like that's what 387 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 2: happens now with social media especially, was like, we'll look 388 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: at how I'm living my life. I'm doing all these trips. 389 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 2: Right after a breakup, you realize, oh, they just broke 390 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: up and they're trying to show they're so okay, right, 391 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 2: kind of hearing the same thing she's trying to be 392 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 2: the bigger person to be like, I want to hear 393 00:20:55,520 --> 00:21:02,199 Speaker 2: about your relationship that mind, I can't take it. You 394 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 2: know what I broke in? 395 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 7: Big I did. I broke them in And now the 396 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 7: idiot's stick figure with those soul gets to write him. 397 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 6: Carrie, I hear this a lot from my girlfriends of 398 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 6: like how she's saying she broke somebody in fixed. 399 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 2: I fixed them. I made him like this and now 400 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 2: you're you're getting the benefits. Well, it's kind of the 401 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 2: whole again. When I talked about, you know, the dudes 402 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 2: that soon after me like dated someone got married, I 403 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,400 Speaker 2: was like, what just happened? Essentially, like they figured out 404 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 2: they don't want. 405 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 6: A man or Carrie would argue that you prepped them 406 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 6: or at. 407 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 2: Least like taught them like how to be in a 408 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 2: relationship without this point or what women don't want, and 409 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 2: then they found a better way or someone who was 410 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 2: accepting of everything, and I'm like, now I'm good. 411 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 6: Or the reality is that probably every relationship, if you 412 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 6: open the hood. 413 00:21:54,960 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 8: So to speak, is flawed. Well, anyways, I want. 414 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 7: To know that I never pick up guys on the 415 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:08,959 Speaker 7: street unless they're very cute. 416 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 2: All right, We're with Sam. So this is kind of 417 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 2: the part where I was like, yeah, it's gonna it's Uh, 418 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 2: that's the thing. 419 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 4: I gotta warn you about something warned me about. Oh 420 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 4: my gosh, well is gonna happen. I'm very well endowed. 421 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 2: Oh so his nickname is mister cocky by the way, 422 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 2: just because of his like, you know, uh attitude and 423 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 2: wanted to. 424 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 4: Be I think he was on the quiz they just 425 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 4: can't handle it. Well, I'm not most women, So in 426 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 4: zip and get over here. 427 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 2: And Sam's always talked about, you know, being all good 428 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 2: for it. 429 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 7: Samantha suddenly understood what made mister Cocky so cocky. 430 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 4: Oh my god. Welcome. 431 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 2: Sorry, Oh it's not the end. 432 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: I want to get my mouth and near it. 433 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 5: I was afraid I get locked off. 434 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god. I wonder historically has that ever happened. 435 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 4: I kind of don't want to think about it, sort 436 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:26,359 Speaker 4: I don't want to know. So thanks for coming off 437 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 4: to dinner. 438 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 5: Well thanks for letting me pay. 439 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 2: Finally, friends do isn't it okay? So we got Steve 440 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 2: and Miranda being friends or are they? 441 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 6: I can't unsee what I've seen When I tried to 442 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 6: watch the reboot and just like that. 443 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 9: Have you seen it, Samantha, Yes, yeah, so Steve was 444 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,199 Speaker 9: the best of the best and then they kind of 445 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,440 Speaker 9: in the movies and the reboot just really destroyed him. 446 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 2: It felt like this character. 447 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 5: Anyway, Yeah, it's pretty rough. 448 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 2: I feel like life changes can happen like that, and 449 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 2: we had talked about that too. Unfortunately, it's just that 450 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 2: it had to happen to one of the better guys 451 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 2: on the show. 452 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 4: Okay, here we go, here we go. 453 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 8: Yeah you mean we're not there yet. 454 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 3: No, Okay, stop whoa boy? 455 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 4: Whoa? 456 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: Whoa? 457 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 4: Can we just be friends? 458 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 7: And just like that, Samantha made her very first male 459 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:43,120 Speaker 7: friends I've had. 460 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: I've heard friends have this conversation too, the Goldilucks penis 461 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: too big, not great. 462 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 2: I mean, there's the whole TikTok conversation that men really 463 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 2: have like misconstrued what women want because of this like 464 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,719 Speaker 2: hetero in order to very like melgaze of what is 465 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,920 Speaker 2: desirable when it comes to uh, if it comes to penises, 466 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 2: and it's like, yeah, it's not it's not as big 467 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 2: as you think. That's not what we want, quote unquote, 468 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 2: and they're like giving measurements of like this is good 469 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 2: this is good as bad, this is real bad. We 470 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: don't please, don't give that. And this is kind of 471 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 2: that conversation Sam thinks that she can have at all, 472 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,679 Speaker 2: and that's what she wants and in reality, like oh no, 473 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 2: just kidding. 474 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's interesting to see this now so many years 475 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 6: on with the lens of like what I now understand 476 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 6: about consent that I didn't understand back then watching it. 477 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 6: And I was really curious how that sex scene was 478 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 6: gonna go with Samantha around consent, because like they were 479 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 6: starting and then she changed her mind, Like that's okay, right, 480 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 6: but like I don't know how y'all, Like in our culture, 481 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 6: I feel like I wasn't raised for changing my mind 482 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:57,440 Speaker 6: to be acceptable. 483 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 2: Yeah right, I mean you're absolutely right. It does kind 484 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 2: of show to that. It's like it's a comedic scene, 485 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 2: but in actuality is important in that conversation, like she 486 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,919 Speaker 2: did want to, and Sam is also strong enough that 487 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 2: she can say that without hesitation. 488 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 1: She knows it and feels confident about it. Yeah, because 489 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 1: a lot of us don't grow up with that message. 490 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and what does it take? And maybe it's something 491 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,119 Speaker 2: to be said that she is more sexually free and 492 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 2: aware of herself, so she's able to also draw her lines. 493 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 7: Someday, very soon, we can all meet for a drink 494 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,879 Speaker 7: and be great friends, you know, like they do in 495 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 7: the movies. 496 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 5: How does this really work? 497 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 2: Though? 498 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,360 Speaker 6: So, like if you're if you're close friends with an 499 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 6: ex and they have a new partner, then another person 500 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,119 Speaker 6: enters the picture and like does their opinion matter? 501 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:54,919 Speaker 3: Like does that? 502 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 5: How does that play in it for you? Annie? 503 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 4: I think? Uh. 504 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: I had an ex who was so like, I'm going 505 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 1: to go hang out with my ex and said, okay, 506 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 1: if not, then it's okay, and I'm thank you for 507 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 1: checking with me. 508 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 4: Oh good. So I've been on that side of it. 509 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: But then on the other side, I've also had an 510 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: ex who was adamant that me and his new partner 511 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: be friends, and I was like, is that baron to Like, 512 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: I mean, we can. I'm happy to try it, but 513 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,360 Speaker 1: we don't have to do anything here. 514 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 4: I'm good. 515 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: But I do think like, yeah, the person should be 516 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 1: involved in that decision or just like made aware. I 517 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: don't think it should be a controlling thing. Yeah, but 518 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 1: I think it should be talked about for sure. 519 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 5: That makes a lot of sense. 520 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 6: Like I'm thinking about beg having his engagement party and 521 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 6: like having lunch with Carrie, and I'm wondering, like, how 522 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 6: is his fiance involved in this? 523 00:27:52,760 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 5: What's approprious? James? 524 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 1: Oh, excuse me? 525 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 3: Mentioned of d X. 526 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, so, James, I don't know what if you remember 527 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 2: Lou in season one she liked the guy who had 528 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 2: too small of a penis? Yeah, James, Oh, whoa who 529 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 2: she really really really liked, but she broke up with him. 530 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 2: She needs to know the she needs to find the 531 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 2: just right Why wasn't it? 532 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 7: No, seriously, I really need to hear you say. 533 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 6: This is so awkward, Like does she really think she's 534 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 6: going to get a good answer, like why wasn't it? 535 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 9: Me? 536 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 3: As well as the fuck once again, He's like left. 537 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: His fiance in the car to go talk to her. 538 00:28:55,960 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 2: A super yeah interesting, Like she's very the the fiance 539 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 2: is very patient and has been very kind in this 540 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 2: entire Oh yeah exchange. 541 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, I definitely want to be standing there talking to 542 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 6: my ex with his fiance watching, like. 543 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 5: I just be like, I gotta get out of here. 544 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 7: Your girls love me. 545 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 2: I don't get it and you never did and you 546 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 2: never did. 547 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: You gotta practice, You're like come back to your lines. 548 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 4: You gotta have it already. She does seem like that 549 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 4: kind of person. 550 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 2: Yes, but I'm very realistic and knowing that I would 551 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 2: have just ran away. 552 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 1: I could have the line like perfect in here, and 553 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: then the moment comes and I'm like, what was it? 554 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:41,040 Speaker 4: What was my name? 555 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 3: You just be like, that's that's the ending for me. 556 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 2: So Annie, we we have now concluded and you have 557 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 2: you did pretty well. I'm actually pretty pretty proud of you. 558 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 3: I'm kind of one one rate. 559 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 2: You get like a definitely an a minus because you 560 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 2: bought me Steve without even knowing that Steve was going 561 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: to be a part of this. So I'm actually kind 562 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 2: of shocked. 563 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 4: I have never felt so proud. 564 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:33,640 Speaker 2: Yeah again, I still say that the title thing to 565 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:35,320 Speaker 2: be fair, that's what you're supposed to be doing. You're 566 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: finally caught on and. 567 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: Don't don't take away from me when I finally learned after. 568 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 3: They're the hit that I give you. 569 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 2: But you finally made it, Loui. You did an amazing 570 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 2: job because you went even deeper, like you went to 571 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 2: the meetings of it all like, oh. 572 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 4: I think I was wrong. 573 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 5: I think I was wrong. 574 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 2: Though, though you you hit the idea about like thinking 575 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 2: on it and going all that, so you were close 576 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 2: to but I will say, like, yeah, I was making 577 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 2: I was gonna make dick jokes. And you are very 578 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 2: very smart and tuitive in this episode, So thank you 579 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 2: for bringing that. 580 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 6: In Either direction would have been fine with me. 581 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 3: I'm sure. 582 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 2: Thank god louis there, thank you for saving us as 583 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 2: I should be because yeah, because there were so many things, 584 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 2: But what did you think on the rewatch of this, Lou? 585 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 5: Oh gosh, it's just like it's such a. 586 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 6: Problematic show, I think on so many levels, but very entertaining, right. 587 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and that is there's so many things that 588 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 2: you have to go back and forth and like the 589 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 2: conversations and relive, but like the one thing that you 590 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 2: were talking about with the consent and and knowing the 591 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 2: sexual boundaries and even like the conversations, it's interesting to 592 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 2: look back on it and seeing what that looks like. 593 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 2: Can you be friends? Is it very heteronormative cis ideals 594 00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 2: about not being able to fit friends with men or 595 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 2: the opposite sex? Yes? And is it very binary? Absolutely? 596 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 2: Obviously for sure. When we were trying to pick out 597 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 2: the episodes that we wanted to do, with a listener. 598 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 2: We were trying to find the least problematic ones. 599 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I could see that for sure, because. 600 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 2: There were some like we can't do that, we can't 601 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 2: do this one. Yeah, definitely not listen. Yeah, because it's 602 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 2: so much. But you did a great job in handling 603 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 2: even the what would seem like minor problems, but it's 604 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 2: still problems. So thank you for that and calling it 605 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 2: out as well seeing the positive, which, yeah, there's something I. 606 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 5: Do well, Yeah, there's some positives there. 607 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 6: I do think that would be an interesting exercise, like 608 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 6: to I'm not gonna do it, I'll be honest, but 609 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 6: to rewatch the whole series and with the lens of 610 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 6: what I know about consent today, right, and see like 611 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 6: where do they get it right? 612 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 5: And where did they get it wrong? 613 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 6: Because probably you're right to what you said earlier Samantha 614 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 6: about the character Samantha getting some things right, because she 615 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 6: is the characterization of the empowered. 616 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 2: Woman, especially when it comes to sex. Right, yeah, right, right, 617 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 2: that's where they some of them get in a little more 618 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 2: old fashioned as they get older. As we saw, I 619 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 2: don't did you did you say you watched? 620 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 9: Uh? 621 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 3: And just like that, Yeah, I did. 622 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 6: How did I make it? How did I make it 623 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 6: all the way to the end? I feel bad for 624 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 6: criticizing it. Another thing I think about what I'm watching 625 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 6: these shows is like how much good work goes into 626 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 6: them from everyone, and like all of the pieces not 627 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 6: necessarily coming together in their right way. 628 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 5: Isn't like one person's bulk. 629 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 6: There's like there's great camera people and all these behind. 630 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 5: The scenes people who make shows work, And I don't know. 631 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 6: That always comes to mind, and I like, I want 632 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 6: to be respectful of that and all the hard work people. 633 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 2: But in right, and that's that's like it that you 634 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 2: do want to credit the good people. Then you see 635 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 2: things like we talk about the individual actor. 636 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 6: And you mean like some of the problematic stuff that's 637 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 6: come out about. 638 00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, right, So like there's so many things that 639 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 2: you could pick it apart, but you don't want to 640 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 2: because there's some good aspects. And then like for us 641 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 2: as podcasters watching to see what they do with this, yeah, 642 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 2: this notion that she's now a podcaster, yeah, which I 643 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 2: think is still funny. 644 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,880 Speaker 4: I finally get to critique the podcaster. 645 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 2: We can do so many and now you've had an 646 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 2: experience of what a podcast kind of looks like because 647 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 2: you don't, that's not what they do. 648 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 6: But yeah, yeah, big big fan of Annie and Samantha podcasters, 649 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 6: not a. 650 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 8: Huge fan of Harry's the podcaster. 651 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:37,760 Speaker 6: I think to see like how I guess their relationships 652 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,439 Speaker 6: evolved because seeing in this episode Brandon and Steve and. 653 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 5: Like, oh, they have such sexual chemistry. 654 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 6: And then you get to the reboot and it's like, 655 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 6: oh my gosh, the kitchen scene. 656 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 3: No, like what. 657 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:54,360 Speaker 5: Like, surely when time and a relationship not all is lost? 658 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:56,760 Speaker 3: Right, what is happening? 659 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 2: Right? Like, that's not always a thing. Well, as we 660 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 2: get to see with Charlotte and Harry, they stay together. 661 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 2: They're still in it for the long haul, supporting each other, 662 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 2: and seemed to be on the same plane, even with 663 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 2: their jumbled up line of the non binary child who 664 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 2: may or may not betrayed and that they're fumbling and 665 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,240 Speaker 2: that could just be the writing in itself, I mean true, 666 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 2: or maybe that's just really real and it just makes 667 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 2: us sad to see it that way. 668 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 5: We just need Charlotte to be better. 669 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, so thank you so much for going with 670 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 2: us on this journey in this episode. I hope you 671 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 2: had fun. 672 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 5: I had so much fun. Oh my gosh, it's amazing. 673 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,959 Speaker 6: Yes, I'm seeing your faces and hearing your voices, which 674 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 6: is wild. 675 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 2: Well, I'm sorry again a BTS moment. I was twenty 676 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 2: to thirty minutes late because my equipment did not want 677 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 2: to function and did not want to participate, and because 678 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,240 Speaker 2: I am not so savvy as all of you pretty 679 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 2: much know, my partner had to sit here for like 680 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 2: a good thirty minutes trying to fix it for me. 681 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 3: So thank you for your fiction. 682 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, of course I got to chat with Annie. It 683 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 6: was dream come true, so much fun. Been listening for 684 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 6: so many years now. I was trying to figure out 685 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 6: how many years, and I don't know, but I love this. 686 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 6: This era in the evolution of Sminty very cool. I 687 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 6: was excited to hear Samantha, and I loved listening to 688 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 6: your story basically where you characterize it as like I 689 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 6: just kept showing up and I got this job. 690 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 3: I love that. I still hold to that. 691 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 5: I hope just keep showing up. However that's working. 692 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 2: And you did yay it manifested that or forced it 693 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 2: on Annie. 694 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 3: These two things. 695 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:45,839 Speaker 5: Very cool. 696 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, thank you, thank you. This has been 697 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 1: it's been delightful for us to. 698 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:51,680 Speaker 4: Have you, Lou. 699 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 1: You're around us the haunts that we haunt. So yees, Atlanta, 700 00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 1: perhaps we can yeah up. 701 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 2: And actually hang out. 702 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:05,439 Speaker 1: We love it, yes, yes, yes, yes, but yeah it's 703 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 1: been it's been so fun. So thank you, thank you, 704 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 1: thank you very much. And we are going to do 705 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 1: this again. Listeners, So if your name wasn't chosen, it 706 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 1: was a random thing. I used my D and D dice. 707 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:16,359 Speaker 1: It was a whole thing. 708 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:23,240 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, uh never fear. We're going to do it again. 709 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:25,479 Speaker 4: But in the meantime, oh my gosh. 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