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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell. Hey, Isaac,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Good morning, Good morning. So tell

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Speaker 1: us what's going on with this woman, Lucy, Like, how

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Speaker 1: did you meet? I want to know about any dates

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Speaker 1: that you've been on, any details you can give us

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Speaker 1: because you think maybe she's ghosting you, So tell us

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Speaker 1: the backstory please, Well.

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Speaker 2: Basically, we met at a bar and I just asked

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Speaker 2: asked her to have some drinks and she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so we were having a great time, you know, I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 3: I thought we were totally vib then, and you know,

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Speaker 3: she was like, you know, she was like you maybe

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Speaker 3: should go back to your place and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So we hung out at my spot for a while.

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Speaker 3: We're just taking it and she was like all of

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Speaker 3: a sudden, it's like I got to be really early

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Speaker 2: So I don't know what went wrong.

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Speaker 3: Like it really was like such a good vibe, Like

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Speaker 1: Go back to my Yeah, so she brought that up.

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Speaker 1: Lucy was like, let's go back to your place, so

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Speaker 1: you're thinking, oh, I'm gonna score, and then you go

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Speaker 3: So like I don't get it, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: Like it's really weird, Like I don't I don't understand.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then for her to say, let's go back

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Speaker 1: you know that old that old diddy. Oh I got

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Speaker 1: to get up early, you know whatever. And then it

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Speaker 1: turns out you're off the next day. But I get

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Speaker 1: up early every day. Guys. It's crazy. No, So it's weird.

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Speaker 1: It's weird for her to leave kind of abruptly, and

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Speaker 1: now you can't get a hold of her. So let's

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Speaker 1: play one song. We'll come back. We'll call this woman Lucy.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions and

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Speaker 1: hopefully we can straighten this out and set you guys

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Speaker 1: up on another day that we pay for. Sound good, Oh,

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Speaker 1: it sounds great.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: You've got to hear what happens next Part two of

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Speaker 1: Waiting by the Phone. After Bruno March's fread show back

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Speaker 1: in two minutes, Bruno Mars the frend Show commercial free

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Speaker 1: for the next forty minutes on the radio on the

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Speaker 1: iHeart app is Well, Isaac, Yeah, welcome back. Let's call Lucy.

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Speaker 1: You guys met you met at a bar, so you

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Speaker 1: actually spoke to this woman in person, which again always

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Speaker 1: to I, face to face whatever. But you had drinks

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Speaker 1: and she left abruptly, and now you can't get a

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Speaker 1: That's right, all right, I'd love to Yeah, let's call

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Speaker 1: her now, Isaac. Good luck, Thank you, Hello Isais Lucy, Yes, Lucy,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 1: Fred's Show, the Morning radio show, and I do have

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Speaker 1: to tell you that we are on the radio right now,

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Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can we chat for just a second on the show,

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Speaker 1: I guess so sure, Thank you very much. We're calling

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Speaker 1: on behalf of a guy who says he met you

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Speaker 1: at a bar recently. His name is Isaac, and you

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Speaker 1: guys went out who had some drinks? Do you remember Isaac.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I remember Isaac.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what's going on? Because he thought he I

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Speaker 4: It wasn't not a good date.

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Speaker 5: It just it just wasn't for me, and I'm just

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Speaker 4: And yeah, you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know if I want to. I want

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Speaker 4: we're all friends here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, And now I would love the opportunity to

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Speaker 5: I guess, Okay, to be completely honest, I actually thought

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Speaker 1: So well you mean that the other way around, right,

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Speaker 1: So he's in a relationship and you thought he was single.

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Speaker 5: No, nor so the night we met, he was actually

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Speaker 4: That he was like in a relationship, and.

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Speaker 5: I just I'm.

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Speaker 4: There was not a woman.

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Speaker 1: Oh so you are looking for men who are in relationships. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I can see maybe why you wouldn't want to share that.

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Speaker 1: So why, okay, we are about to judge you girls.

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Speaker 1: So Lucy, you only date men who have significant others?

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Speaker 1: What's the appeal?

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Speaker 5: I just I feel like everybody has a preference and

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Speaker 4: It was weird. I just wasn't attracted to him anymore?

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Speaker 1: I guess the pace maybe, or which I don't even

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Speaker 1: Is it that you know that you're doing something you

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Speaker 5: I just I like that they're taken essentially, and then

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Speaker 5: I feel like I can be a secret and it's

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Speaker 5: just something that that's just my preference. I feel like,

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Speaker 5: you know, everybody's allowed that, and I think it's just

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Speaker 1: So you'll strike up a conversation with someonear that they

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Speaker 6: You like being Colinslaw. I give yeah, like Colslaw, a

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Speaker 1: I think that's why some people like it though, because

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Speaker 1: I mean, just just don't scare me Lucy like this random.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're out here, you're out here looking for

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Speaker 5: Well married, engage you know, dating all of its kind

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Speaker 5: I got to say, it's very easy, Phossy.

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Speaker 1: What's the endgame in the in the whole? Well, I

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Speaker 1: So that is, of course, until somebody falls in love

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Speaker 6: Right, So you say you find some man that's married,

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Speaker 1: You're like, I'm over. It's done. That's it. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: I definitely don't want that.

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Speaker 1: Want to Hey, Isaac, I forgot to mention that Isaac

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Speaker 1: I thought she had it reversed, like, oh, I thought

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Speaker 1: you actually are being disqualified because you don't have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: So when you get one, Isaac, then call Lucy.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know what to say. That was some

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Speaker 4: crazy I just can't believe that that is what you're thinking.

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Speaker 1: I just completely belonged with so because you can just

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Speaker 5: It happened one time by accident, I did end up

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Speaker 4: I found out he was I was more attracted to him.

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Speaker 5: And then I kind of had to navigate that for

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Speaker 5: I just realized, like I don't know, once I once

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Speaker 1: Like I can't go back interesting kick any final thoughts.

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Speaker 6: Just be careful girl, because you're gonna run into the

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Speaker 6: right wife that's going to take care of whole.

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Speaker 1: Slat does go bad, Yes it does. I mean, if

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be a side dish, I at least

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Speaker 1: want me like magaroni and mass potatoes or something with

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Speaker 1: the gravy. Yeah, yeah, that's what I want to give,

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Speaker 1: all right. So Lucy doesn't that's what she wants and

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Speaker 1: she doesn't care. And Isaac sadly, you, as a single man,

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Speaker 1: are not eligible man. No hope, Oh my god, that

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Speaker 1: I guess I does the boy. Yeah, okay, I mean Lucy,

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Speaker 1: good luck. I guess Isaac good luck to you as well.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say. I don't even

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Speaker 1: know how to wrap this up. I just I've really

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Speaker 1: matter of fact nature, like it's not even like I mean,

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Speaker 1: it just is what it is, Like you're not even

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Speaker 4: Like I mean, it takes two, you know.

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Speaker 5: I feel like if a man is willing to step out,

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Speaker 5: then if that's what he wants to. I mean, it

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Speaker 5: is is a consensual adult relationship, and it's just my preference.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair enough, guys. Good luck to both

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Speaker 1: of you. Okay, yeah, thanks, Maybe a little a little

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Speaker 1: less luck to Lucy. Yeah, everybody else