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Speaker 2: So I was reading this article, Like I said, it's

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Speaker 2: a little more conversation.

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Speaker 3: I'm in New York.

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Speaker 2: I'm not reading all the articles. I don't have all

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Speaker 2: the segments written out for you. But I saw this

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Speaker 2: thing happening all on social media the last I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you've.

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Speaker 2: Seen this too, Careen, you may not have me and

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Speaker 2: BOSSI have been texting about it and stuff. But there

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Speaker 2: was this another black woman therapist, and this time from

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Speaker 3: Yes, from the first one.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I thought, okay, so they talked about a brand

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Speaker 5: new lady because I was like, I was thinking about her.

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Speaker 4: Ain't that's a rain trail? What has happening here? But this,

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Speaker 4: this is a whole nother different lady. Okay.

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Speaker 5: I didn't know all the details, but I was here.

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Speaker 5: You know, I've been looking and I've just been sending

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Speaker 4: About a therapist. I was like, what what's going on?

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Speaker 4: I was like, I thought, we already did this. Y'all

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Speaker 5: So this is a whole different lady. Okay, thank you

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Speaker 4: For updating me. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Hey, doll, you can't be doing this. Like even if

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Speaker 5: People ain't got to know your reasons why behind it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's the empowerment that you get from social

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Speaker 2: you know, you share stuff, they tell you you're right

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Speaker 2: and you're the best and you're the greatest, and it

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Speaker 2: or your reach goes beyond just the people that agree

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Speaker 2: bunch of motherfuckers that you know, maybe you shouldn't. You

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Speaker 2: wouldn't have to fight if it wouldn't have got that big.

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Speaker 2: So right, apparently this therapist said she was no longer

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Speaker 2: you know, because you know, there's of course people who

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Speaker 2: of add put two and two together and said, well

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then you say not, it's it's only men

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think it's becoming a social media thing too,

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Speaker 2: where like it's people you have to back your group

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Speaker 2: because most of the people I've seen that have her

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Speaker 2: But then also like, it's interesting because a lot of

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Speaker 2: professional black women have been against her point and been like,

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Speaker 2: why are you sharing this. I'm not even saying you

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Speaker 2: couldn't private. It's a private black practice. You don't have

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Speaker 2: to treat anyone you don't want to. I just don't

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Speaker 2: see what the point of declaring this was, because you

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Speaker 2: know it's going to lead to people looking at your license,

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Speaker 2: looking at your history, and you know, it was interesting.

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Speaker 3: To see the same people that were like against that chef.

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Speaker 2: Whatever his name was, the dude that was also working

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Speaker 2: in a public facing office as like assistant DA or something,

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Speaker 2: and people were like, we don't know if he's been

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Speaker 2: giving dark skinned black women harsher penalties and other women

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Speaker 2: and stuff in which we don't know, And you have

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Speaker 2: think that's silly, and you can, you know, debate that point.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it is silly at all.

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Speaker 4: That's a very valid point because of your position and

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Speaker 2: The shit he was saying on social media was fucked

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Speaker 2: up and silly. So I mean, you hope, but I wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't vouch for a nigga like that. I'd be like,

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Speaker 2: y'all should look at every last case he did and

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Speaker 2: see if maybe there's a bias there now, like I said,

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Speaker 2: we don't know, but it's valid. And I felt the

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Speaker 2: same way when that woman was a therapist since she

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Speaker 2: was on TikTok and she started talking about black men

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Speaker 2: and stuff, and I'm like, yeah, I mean, you're putting

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Speaker 2: it's not hard to imagine that, you know, this can

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Speaker 2: reach back to your clients. And for what point, really

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Speaker 2: social media cloud like you know, and they're talking about

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Speaker 2: their clients like they're dating them or something like, you know,

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Speaker 2: but it's just very possible. And you can see why

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Speaker 2: her practice decided to get rid of her, because at

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Speaker 2: the end of the day, nobody really wants somebody working

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Speaker 5: It's just that's just facts, right, and it's very unprofessional.

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Speaker 5: And the thing about social media, most things on soci

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Speaker 5: going That's why a lot of people don't use their

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Speaker 5: because they want to be able to say what they

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Speaker 5: follow them back. And what do they do. They pump

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Speaker 5: with your name and your face and say it with

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Speaker 5: your chest and then are shocked when the repercussions and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think if you don't want to do it,

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Speaker 2: or you feel unsafe, or you I don't, I think

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Speaker 2: that's totally valid that you don't want to do it.

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Speaker 3: I think it's.

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Speaker 2: The the expression of that on the social media that's

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Speaker 2: gonna invite all these extra odds and opinions. And so

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Speaker 2: my most cynical part of me thinks, Okay, that first

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Speaker 2: therapist went viral with something similar. This therapist might have

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Speaker 2: just been like for clout or to go viral or whatever,

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Speaker 2: you know, like nobody can make her do anything, so

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Speaker 2: she doesn't have to do this go and but you

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Speaker 2: know you can go on social media and see responding

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Speaker 2: It's already going away on one side of my opinion,

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Speaker 2: Well it's just a lot of this stuff is either

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Speaker 3: You can slip up.

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Speaker 2: It don't take much for somebody to like put something

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Like, I just situating some

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Speaker 4: You in a goddamn face. Is not funny and it's

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Speaker 3: And I think through it.

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Speaker 3: I really don't think so.

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Speaker 2: I just think it opens up the At some point,

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Speaker 3: It's designed for you to go.

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Speaker 2: Virals designed for slatiousness, it's designed for flattening of discussions

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Speaker 2: It's the opposite of privacy, and a therapy session is

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Speaker 2: take this type of client, is it's not. It's no,

439
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 2: it's stigmatizing at this point, it's stigmatizing the whole race

440
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: of people. It's digmatizing the whole gender of people. It's

441
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 2: it's digmatizing their mental health issues.

442
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 3: It's not the therapist for.

443
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 5: Some people's justification on why they don't go when it's

444
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 5: actually something that they actually need.

445
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's also like the therapist showing their own

446
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:21,679
Speaker 2: lack of either ethics or conflict resolution or coping or whatever,

447
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 2: because you're showing you're telling us your thing as a

448
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 2: so you can get a pat on the back for it.

449
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 3: You're not telling because if you were securing this shit, you're.

450
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 2: Not gonna be tweeting with these motherfuckers all day, going

451
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 2: back and forth with each person.

452
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 3: And this is the thing.

453
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 2: I've been there, so I'm thinking I'm speaking from experience.

454
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 2: When you see somebody going back and forth with people, regardless,

455
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 2: it's in them too. They don't like it. And it

456
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 2: took me a long time to see it myself where

457
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 2: I would be like, I'm fine, it's not bothering me. Well,

458
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 2: then why the fuck am I talking to this person

459
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 2: all day? Like? Why am I going back and forth

460
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 2: with this person that I claim doesn't matter, because you

461
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 2: know what I normally doing, somebody doesn't matter.

462
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 3: I just ignore them and keep moving. So so ain't

463
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:01,359
Speaker 3: that the truth?

464
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 2: It's Chris Rock not wanting to say he was a victim,

465
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,479
Speaker 2: but wanting to shit on victims. That's really what it is.

466
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 2: If you are one of these motherfuckers that's out here

467
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 2: fighting over your points every day, yeah it's you two.

468
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 2: Nigga is not one.

469
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 3: It's a wise man argue with foods, you know.

470
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not one side. And then everybody wants to

471
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 5: think that they are above it. There's nobody. Nobody listening

472
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 5: to the sound of my voice is above it. Everybody

473
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 5: could get caught in the loop in the matrix.

474
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 4: You really can.

475
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 5: And until you open your eyes and be like, oh,

476
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 5: I'm part of the problem and tap out, you will

477
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 5: continue to go through a circle. So when happened online,

478
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 5: you'll get out raised, you'll get out there. You stop posting,

479
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 5: you stop arguing, you start having all these confrontations, and

480
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 5: you do it for days, you do it for weeks

481
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 5: on the same thing, until the next thing come up,

482
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 5: and then it's a wash rents repeat, And then you're

483
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 5: wondering why all of a sudden you're stretched out, Why

484
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 5: all of a sudden you angry at the time, while

485
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 5: you're sad, while you're depressed, while you're going through this

486
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 5: range of emotions that you can't that you feel like

487
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 5: you have no control over when you when actually you

488
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 5: have control over the thing.

489
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 4: These your actions.

490
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 5: But a lot of people they don't want to make

491
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 5: or they don't see the connections because that shit online

492
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 5: rolls into your real motherfucking life. Your spouse, your significant other,

493
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 5: your family, your friends, your kids.

494
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 4: Are gonna be like, hey, something wrong with you?

495
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 5: Your personality has changed because I know because the shit

496
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 5: has happened to me. So I'm not speaking to somebody

497
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 5: that has not experienced this shit before. Anybody get caught

498
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 5: up in a loop. And so, like Rocher said, everybody

499
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 5: has their boundaries. I know what my boundaries is, and

500
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 5: my lines are really hard, a lot harder than Rogers.

501
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, you stupid, you own stupid time. Oh

502
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 4: what the fuck? I'm talking to you for our motherfucker.

503
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 5: Tap out, you know, like and y'all have talked to Roger,

504
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 5: and Roger Catna tell me to calm down because words

505
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 5: mean things. So when I read the shit, I'm like,

506
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 5: what an't time what they mean? He has to tell me, Okay,

507
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 5: that's not what they mean. I'm like, okay, because I

508
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 5: see see I'm kind of old school tone. I like

509
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 5: to hear your words I like tones and context and

510
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 5: shit like that matters to me, and a lot of

511
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 5: people will not met they have personalities like me where

512
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 5: they misread shit and misinterpret shit and misread tone and

513
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 5: then go online and act them other fucking food versus

514
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 5: asking somebody what this means.

515
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 4: I can't. I know. I'm not the only one that

516
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 4: has that problem.

517
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 2: I think most people don't assume the best of people

518
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: whenever there's a disagreement or conflict or just another point

519
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 2: of view, I think. But what I'm talking about is

520
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 2: like professionally as well. Doctors and professionals like this, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists,

521
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 2: all this they've shared about patients in the past, but

522
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 2: it's always been in like journals and shit. Like if

523
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 2: they were writing a book where you have to get

524
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 2: certain permissions as to pass a editor, it wasn't you

525
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 2: hop out of the fucking therapy session and you just

526
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,400
Speaker 2: mad about something a client said or did and you're like,

527
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 2: how come, why are men or whatever?

528
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: The fuck?

529
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 3: Like that's different.

530
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 2: And I think where we're blurring the professional and personal

531
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 2: lines because you're on your on social media using your

532
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: fashion for cloud, like part of your authority is that

533
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 2: you have this in your handle is look at me,

534
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 2: I'm a professional, blank you know what I'm saying. And

535
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 2: it's like, well, now, the ethics of that industry kind

536
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 2: of follow you out the door, whether you want it

537
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 2: to or not. Most people who are in your industry,

538
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 2: most people who are professionals, are looking at you, going

539
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 2: we were taught not to do this.

540
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 4: Like right, Like this is against everything.

541
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 2: Like if you want to bitch about your patience. I mean,

542
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 2: if you want to bitch about your patience, you go

543
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 2: have a drink at happy hour and you find another

544
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 2: therapist and you bitch about them, You're not so to

545
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 2: turn the camera And it's not and look any camera

546
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 2: when you got to put on thirty forty minutes an

547
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 2: hour makeup before you can even turn the camera at yourself.

548
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:48,360
Speaker 3: It's a platform. It's not a you know what I mean,

549
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 3: it's not actually like you're talking with a friend in

550
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 3: your house, Like no matter how much you try to

551
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 3: make it feel like I remember I was doing TikTok

552
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 3: videos on.

553
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,959
Speaker 2: On who was a on the coolander? Every morning I

554
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 2: had to think for a second, like wait, what did

555
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 2: I wear two days? Is it too early to wear

556
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 2: this shirt again? Like because I'm just like you, it's

557
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 2: not real. You're not really like it's not real in

558
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 2: that like like I'm just walking down the street talking

559
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 2: to a homie, I'm actually doing a bit of a performance,

560
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 2: and they want to have it both ways as I'm

561
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 2: just a human being that's just out here, like y'all,

562
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 2: I'm setting boundaries and it's like, no, you're performing, you're

563
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: performing boundaries.

564
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 3: You're not setting your setting a boundary is doing what

565
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 3: you did.

566
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 2: Performing a boundary is telling all of us, you know

567
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like you're inviting because because whether you

568
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 2: want to call it that or not, if you're on

569
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 2: social media, you're inviting in conversation.

570
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 4: It's not a mono, whether you want it or not.

571
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: Ain't a monologue. Dog.

572
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: So the implicit thing of sharing it on a sharing

573
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 2: site is that people are gonna share their opinions with you,

574
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 2: and then you get to kind of play the victim

575
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 2: of it. But yeah, I just I thought this article

576
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 2: is just so interesting because I really do wonder if

577
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 2: this is where we're at, is like we've gone past

578
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 2: demystifying therapy to like showing why motherfuckers needed.

579
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 5: Yes, even the therapist, everybody needs therapy. Even the people

580
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 5: that are high professional licenses need a therapist themselves because

581
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 5: the shit that they have to deal with is a lot.

582
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: Also, yeah, so I mean, and of course no, you might.

583
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: I think you could use it to maybe try to

584
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 2: get clientele and stuff. But it seems more like therapists

585
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 2: are on there trying to be like influencers and like

586
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: everybody else, they're not. It doesn't seem like they're really

587
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: on there trying to be like, you know, let me,

588
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 2: let me tell y'all about why therapy is good anymore.

589
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

590
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 2: It seems more like this is how I feel about things,

591
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: this is my brand, this is what separates me from

592
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 2: other therapists. It's not just a like, you know, general

593
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: conversation anymore. It's getting very specific to each person.

594
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

595
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, And also they're the thing is, there are therapists

596
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 5: that will be like, hey, you know what, I have

597
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 5: a client. You know, we sit down, we work through

598
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 5: you know, and now you know, you know, they're doing

599
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 5: much better, blah blah blah blah blah. They are therapists

600
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 5: that are out there that actually talk about it from

601
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 5: that perspective. They are therapists out here doing the word

602
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 5: that they're trying to reach people and things like that,

603
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 5: and you know what, they.

604
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 4: Don't do go viral. That's what happens.

605
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 5: Everybody go okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, But but you

606
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 5: don't see them trending on every fucking social media platform

607
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 5: and shit like that.

608
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 4: You can't run, get you rolling, You.

609
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 2: Can't even really control that. You really can't control who

610
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: goes viral or not, you know. So it's not like

611
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 2: there's people that are trying to go viral that are

612
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 2: probably saying the wilder shit than the shit we've seen.

613
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,719
Speaker 2: And there's people that have gone viral that probably all

614
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 2: say more tame things. I mean, look at how big

615
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: therapy for black girls is. You know, I think, yeah,

616
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 2: they don't. They're not out there saying so relationship and

617
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: like I ain't treating no black men and shit like that.

618
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 3: But they you know, they got a big brand.

619
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 2: So it's you know, like there's really no control over

620
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 2: what catches on and what doesn't. Like you don't know

621
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 2: that when you're saying it. But that's kind of inherent

622
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: to the danger of it is that you don't know.

623
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: So you know, and and let's be frank, if you're

624
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 2: if you're recording, you do.

625
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 3: Want it to go viral. You do want people to

626
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 3: see it.

627
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:24,959
Speaker 2: So being that you don't know what will happen, it

628
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: makes it kind of dangerous because what when something does

629
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 2: take off, the implicit part of the implicit like agreement

630
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: or the implicit intonation inside of us is to be like,

631
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: I would like that to happen again.

632
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 3: I would like that to happen to me.

633
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: And so I'm connecting it, you know, somewhat, you know, haphazardly,

634
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: but I'm connecting this to that other woman when she

635
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 2: said that shit, it blew up. News articles covered her,

636
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 2: even if they were saying she was stupid or bad.

637
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 2: She was her brand blew up. And she's now currently

638
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: still trying to like be on that brand I saw

639
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: her use. And this is as content the other day.

640
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 2: So what I'm saying is like, there must be some

641
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 2: part of you that's like fuck, Maybe that's what I

642
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,719
Speaker 2: gotta say. I'm no longer fucking with me and his clients. Cool, Okay,

643
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 2: this is the one that blew up. Finally, you know

644
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, now everyone's writing the articles about me. Now,

645
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 2: The Washington Post is putting out an article about will

646
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 2: will your therapy session end up on TikTok?

647
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 4: You know, right?

648
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 5: And so, like we were saying before, and we both kind

649
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 5: of touched on it, that the the hand of laws is.

650
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 4: Slow, and you know, the rules and regulations are slow.

651
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 5: But within the next maybe year or two and even

652
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 5: shorter than that depends on how well the therapy people

653
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 5: are like the bosses following this shit, they stop this bullshit.

654
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 4: We gotta new policy. Don't be putting bullshit online. You

655
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 4: will see.

656
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 5: Positive stop this bullshit because we don't want to guess

657
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 5: who get the phone calls, particularly if you work for

658
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 5: a network, we get the.

659
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 4: Motherfucking phone calls and complaints about y'all stop it.

660
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you will see that at some point.

661
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: I just think it's wild, wild West right now. And

662
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: so this this was not something the people that created

663
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: TikTok and Instagram and shit really saw coming, like therapists

664
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 2: using their shit for their brands.

665
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 3: I think, you know, this is why.

666
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 2: The Internet and social media is just so weird, because

667
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 2: it's as big as the framework is as big as

668
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 2: the imagination of the people who make it. But then

669
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 2: the people who come on it and use it have,

670
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: there are many more diverse type of minds.

671
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 3: And whether it's QAnon, whether it's in cells.

672
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 5: Huh, I said, And it could turn to something completely

673
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 5: different than what be intended creator designed it for.

674
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, whether it be QAnon or be in cells, or

675
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 2: be feminist or be fucking Kevin Samuel's ass niggas, it's

676
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 2: always somebody just that wasn't in the room when this

677
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 2: stuff was created, and that you didn't even think about

678
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 2: needing guardrails against or for. And then they're using your

679
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 2: platform and you're building this, constructing this bridge as it's

680
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: as it as you're literally people are walking over it. Yeah,

681
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 2: they in this article, my conversation and pieces on TikTok

682
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 2: are so ambiguous and open that they could be anybody

683
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 2: said this one TikTok therapist who is what was her name.

684
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 3: Something white?

685
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: Uh, Jesse White. So she has like she's she's huge,

686
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 2: she has I want to say, three million. She has

687
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 2: one hundred and seventy thousand followers on TikTok. Summer videos

688
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 2: in viewed more than three million times, and she says,

689
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 2: I've never made a TikTok, made a TikTok based on

690
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 2: or inspired by an actual client session unless its impact

691
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 2: was extremely far reaching, which I don't even know what

692
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 2: that means, Like once that's an arbitrary thing you decided,

693
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 2: you know, or actually no, she didn't say that.

694
00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 3: Licensed doctoral therapists.

695
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 2: Court Tracy said that she has one point eight million

696
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: followers on TikTok, so she's saying, unless his impact was

697
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,879
Speaker 2: extremely far reaching, I wouldn't use it. But what does

698
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 2: that fucking mean? Who decide when? Like, when you're in

699
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 2: my session, are you going, oh wait a minute, hold on,

700
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: say that again. Don't need to freak that down for

701
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 2: my TikTok later?

702
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 4: Like what is what.

703
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,280
Speaker 3: Does that mean? What's far reaching?

704
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 2: And how do you make that decision based on what

705
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying. They also say they sign people to confidentiality

706
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:35,839
Speaker 2: to consent forms and that the information isn't identifiable Boyce, Again,

707
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 2: there's no real standard here. There's no one auditing this

708
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 2: to check, you know. And uh and once again, like

709
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: what im I signing? If I'm in a therapy session

710
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: and you're like, okay, sign this form, sign this form,

711
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna sign it.

712
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm literally signing over for you to

713
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 3: be putting me out on TikTok like that.

714
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 2: You know, I won't say your name, but anyway, just

715
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 2: this big ass nigga was crying in my office the

716
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 2: other day, and it's like, that was me.

717
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 3: I'm the bigger ass nigga.

718
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 4: Right, And and it's also.

719
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 5: Something else where, Uh, you can impact people that actually

720
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 5: are in your sessions, you know, because it's like, well, hey,

721
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 5: I'm out here pouring my heart out, we calming my

722
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 5: history in my background, We're going through all this this

723
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 5: deep dark personal shit.

724
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 4: Well should I tell you this? Should I not tell you?

725
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 5: Some opens So for a lot of people, you can

726
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 5: cause them to regress back into some of their old

727
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 5: habits because they know that shit worked well.

728
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 2: Also, though it could be bad, like the other way

729
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 2: where I'm like, I hope I get my shit to

730
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 2: go viral, you know, I hope she used my session

731
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 2: like it just seemed like a weird thing. But anyway,

732
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: she says, I tweet our snippets of dialogue from the

733
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 2: session because I feel that in the therapy room only

734
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 2: one person benefits, but on social media, everyone can learn

735
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 2: from the conversation. This was from psych therapist and author

736
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 2: Lori Gottlieb hey Man. I paid you for me. I

737
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 2: didn't pay you to feel to heal the world. Okay,

738
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just need I'm gonna need one hundred percent

739
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 2: of it.

740
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,240
Speaker 4: I didn't pay you to use this as an example.

741
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 5: Now, if I choose to come out and tell my

742
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 5: life story and write my book, that's a whole nother

743
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 5: motherfucking thing. Maybe I want to help people do that

744
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 5: and be like.

745
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 2: Well, it's just funny because it's it's like I would

746
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 2: like one hundred percent of the benefits from my sessions.

747
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 2: I paid for one hundred percent of cost. These niggas

748
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 2: getting it for free on TikTok. Well, then you know what.

749
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,800
Speaker 2: I'm quitting therapy. I'm joining your TikTok.

750
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 5: Fuck it, Uh, everybody, I'm paying you hundreds of dollars

751
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 5: a month for.

752
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 2: Then everybody comes into my office knows that as long

753
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 2: as the identity is protected, they might end up in

754
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 2: a book or podcast or social media.

755
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, I don't know everybody.

756
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 4: Everybody don't know that.

757
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 3: No, no, and like god.

758
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: Leaf says that sharing this conversation on social media helps

759
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: her client feel less alone and democratizes therapy. As long

760
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 2: as their clients are signed and signed their informed consent.

761
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,720
Speaker 2: She said, they won't be blindsided finding their conversation on Twitter.

762
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 2: Here's what I have to say about that. Though democratizing

763
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 2: therapy isn't that's not really what's happening. Just because you

764
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 2: hear about therapy, you hear some quote or something some

765
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 2: you know, a two minute TikTok or whatever the fuck,

766
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: it's not a replacement for therapy. It hasn't made you

767
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 2: go to therapy. That doesn't count as therapy because you

768
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 2: just heard something and then.

769
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 4: Say that they do that they hear these phrases naked.

770
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 4: I'm here on no bit. You ain't.

771
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 5: You ain't sitting, Nobody saysion, You ain't talk to nobody.

772
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 5: They ain't ask you the proper questions. But you just

773
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 5: heard a phrase. It is not the same as therapy.

774
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 5: And any professional therapist will will tell you, hey, unless

775
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 5: I see your case, I cannot give you professional advice.

776
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 2: Or there's a reason they say you can't diagnose people

777
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: you haven't like, you know, treated and shit. But but

778
00:37:56,239 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 2: also though it lots the flowery langeuage, listen to, it's

779
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 2: democratizing therapy. I'm saying this so I can help more people. Yeah,

780
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 2: but also it's helping you get one point three million followers,

781
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 2: you know.

782
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 3: Like, also it's helping you sell a book.

783
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 2: Like you can't detach your own personal branding and motivations

784
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 2: for money and shit from this. You're like, it's like,

785
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: I'll give you example. You're not seeing people like this,

786
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 2: like walking to like a Starbucks and just start talking

787
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,399
Speaker 2: to people about therapy, Like.

788
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 3: No, that I'm not getting paid for this.

789
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: It's not you know what I'm saying, Like you, like,

790
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 2: you don't just be like playing basketball, decide the court

791
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 2: and the mofucker just walk in and be like, I

792
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 2: don't even want to play basketball. I'm just here to

793
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 2: democratized therapy. Like no, you're democratizing it in a way

794
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 2: that makes you the president, if you know what I'm

795
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 2: saying of the democracy, So.

796
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 4: Yes, And it doesn't make sense.

797
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 5: And the thing is you're using this ray language to

798
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 5: cover up the fact that you are basic for like this.

799
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 5: And if I was your client, I would immediately stop

800
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 5: going because I'm like, hey, doll, nigga and nigga, you

801
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:04,399
Speaker 5: know what I did.

802
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 4: I signed up to talk to you. I didn't sign

803
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 4: up to talk to the world.

804
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 5: I signed up to sit down and have a private

805
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 5: conversation with you some people to have a private conversation

806
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 5: announced to the whole fucking world.

807
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 4: I did not sign up for that, nor did I

808
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 4: consent to it.

809
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 2: Well, they have consent agreements now, so you may have

810
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 2: signed up and the consented to it. You might not

811
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 2: know or or that's just the cost of doing therapy

812
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 2: with these people.

813
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 3: Like I.

814
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 2: My thing is if I say no, do you just

815
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 2: not take me on as a client, or do I like,

816
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 2: I gotta find another therapist, or do you say, oh,

817
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 2: I won't share your shit with the world. Because I

818
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 2: don't really see that in the article, but I just

819
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 2: see like, oh, yeah, we got these new agreements and

820
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 2: they cover social media now.

821
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, but what if I don't fucking want to?

822
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 5: But they just and not someally funny who knows how

823
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 5: who knows the fine print.

824
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 4: How big it is? Do do you make it crystal clear?

825
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 5: Do you have it in the phrase of the three

826
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 5: thousand other words on top of it? That's the question

827
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 5: I have. Yeah, And like somebody signed that shit and

828
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 5: was like I did not know?

829
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 2: Also, what if I think it's a good idea for

830
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 2: In session one on my first session, but then I

831
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 2: tell you some traumatic shit that happened to me in

832
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: session twelve, and I'm like, actually, I don't want you

833
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 2: talking about that shit, you know.

834
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 3: What I mean.

835
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 2: But I already signed, you know, a year ago, So

836
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 2: I guess you get to tell everybody I was assaulted

837
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 2: or some shit, because I you know, I didn't see

838
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 2: this day coming and that we'd be talking about this.

839
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: But like, even this stuff isn't covering like the therapists

840
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 2: that are out here using their the denial of clients

841
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: for clout too. Like I think that's even different than

842
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: what this article is talking about, where somebody's literally saying

843
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 2: I won't treat black men, and we supposed to applaud

844
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 2: them because they're a black woman, Whereas I'm sure if

845
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 2: that was a white woman saying I don't treat black men,

846
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 2: we'd be like, you racist bitch.

847
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:59,240
Speaker 3: And I don't really think anybody would disagree with that.

848
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:03,760
Speaker 2: You know, But yeah, it's They also said they met

849
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 2: they met in twenty twenty. Early TikTok therapists started gathering

850
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 2: informally in twenty twenty. Once again, none of the shit

851
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 2: really has rules. It's informal, right, They develop broad ethical guidelines.

852
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: Don't offer direct relief in comments or direct messages. Don't

853
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: break confidential reality of any kind. Only provide evidence based

854
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 2: and peer review education unless otherwise stated, and refrain from

855
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 2: giving direct therapeutic advice. There was no rule book, but

856
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 2: we knew our responsibilities. We frequently hold each other accountable

857
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 2: and support over our mission and code of ethics of

858
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:42,439
Speaker 2: each of our respective feels that sounds like something that's good.

859
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,399
Speaker 2: Here's the thing when I see when these motherfuckers go row,

860
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,879
Speaker 2: I don't see the accountability like I don't see them

861
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 2: responding to the accountability like I have seen so many

862
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 2: people tell this woman from this week and that woman

863
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 2: from a long time ago, Hey, this is not the

864
00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 2: best way to handle this. I'm a black woman and

865
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 2: I'm a therapy as well, and I think what you're

866
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 2: doing is kind of destructive and not professional. Ain't on

867
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 2: accountability there, because then you got a bunch of people

868
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 2: on social media that.

869
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 3: Are just there for the fight.

870
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 2: They support, they stand, they do whatever they is, and

871
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 2: they think support is saying to the other therapist, you

872
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 2: will pick me, bitch, you will in sell you know, so, Like,

873
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 2: I don't know that this works in the way. There

874
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 2: needs to be like a governing body that says that

875
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 2: calls balls and strikes on this kind of shit.

876
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 4: Yes, it does. It needs to be a governing body.

877
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 5: It needs to be needs to be somebody that has

878
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 5: had backgrounds and fucking degrees in this shit, know the

879
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 5: laws and what you can and cannot say, and what

880
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 5: you can and cannot do, and that our current on.

881
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 5: When this shit changes, somebody can swoop in and be like,

882
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 5: what you're not gonna do is this.

883
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 4: We have the right to suspend your fucking license. The

884
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 4: fuck is wrong with you?

885
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 5: Don't do this because the thing is, people can go

886
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 5: wrong and do what they want to. Like you say,

887
00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 5: there's no consequences of repercussions. Yeah, people get mad, people

888
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 5: get angry, they might lose clients. But as far as somebody,

889
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 5: somebody actually you know, taking them to a board or

890
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 5: some shit and reviewing and be like, hey, let's cover

891
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 5: what happened. Let's come was said, let's come was dead.

892
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,479
Speaker 5: Let's do some real fucking investigation. Who what we're wearing,

893
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 5: why and how? We don't give funk about what they

894
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 5: said online?

895
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 4: What did you do?

896
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 2: Four nurses at in Atlanta hospital were disciplined, and lay

897
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 2: left their jobs in December amid backlash over TikTok content

898
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 2: about their x regarding new and expected mothers last summer therapists,

899
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 2: she always.

900
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 4: Thought them shits were weird. Go ahead, I'm sorry.

901
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 2: Last summer therapist Shabrie Rawls posted on TikTok that many

902
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 2: viewers start is criticizing the emotional intelligence of black men

903
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 2: after when Viole she said she was fired from her

904
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 2: job face docsing and harassment.

905
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 4: Uh.

906
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 2: This is, by the way, facing docsing and harassment is

907
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 2: what people use to like justify, like, you know, I'm

908
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: the victim here and that makes me right, look at

909
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 2: the people that harassed me, and obviously docsing and harassment

910
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 2: are bad.

911
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 3: Uh. But here's here's the thing.

912
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 2: It also is kind of the why you shouldn't post

913
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 2: it on the wild wild West fucking places, you know

914
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 2: what I mean?

915
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: Like why you? Why does like you?

916
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 2: We know that there's nobody that's gonna stop docxing harassment

917
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 2: because it's really fucking hard, if not impossible, to stop.

918
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 2: So you sharing this is almost at this point, what

919
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 2: fifteen twenty years in the social media, you know, you're

920
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 2: kicking the hornets nest. You knew that, you know, so

921
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 2: now but now it's but now we don't have to

922
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 2: concentrate on anything that you did, because oh no, nobody

923
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,240
Speaker 2: should be docsing and harassing. You keep in mind, of course,

924
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 2: when you're on the side of docsing and harassing, it's fine.

925
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:46,760
Speaker 2: You know, when it's that dude that was a chef,

926
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 2: we weren't having this conversation. It was very much like, yeah,

927
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 2: you can docks and harass him. We don't like him,

928
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 2: you know, right.

929
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 5: And also, like I said, those what you call it

930
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 5: a videos, I've always thought that shit was weird and strange,

931
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 5: and I've been in the hospital for periods of time. Bitch,

932
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 5: you come in with a motherfucking phone. I'm ah, put

933
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 5: that motherfucker away. The fuck is this?

934
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 4: No man? What you not gonna do?

935
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 5: It is fucking TikTok dance and fucking twerk in front

936
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 5: of my ass.

937
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 4: Do your job.

938
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 5: Uh.

939
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 2: Florida therapist Aileen Glan's face widespread condemnation in twenty twenty

940
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: one for a video criticizing clients who had trauma dump

941
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 2: who trauma dump in their first session. She said she

942
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 2: lost clients due to the backlash and deleted her TikTok account.

943
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 2: Amit harassment or line by phoning.

944
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 3: In the mail? Yes, because your name is a fucking

945
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 3: attached to this.

946
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 2: If I'm your client and I come into this therapy

947
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 2: session and I have whatever fucking trauma happened to me,

948
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: this is supposed to be my space. Man, It's supposed

949
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 2: to be your fucking job, dog like this, Like, I

950
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 2: don't think it's crazy to ask somebody like you have

951
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 2: a specific job, the same way I don't want my

952
00:45:55,320 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 2: surgeon like doing the fucking gritty during my fucking you know, therapy, Like,

953
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 2: I don't think it's this is not a crazy ask

954
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: to me to be like yo, maybe social media and

955
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 2: your brand is not as important as this. You know

956
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 2: this is, And especially when you consider one either a

957
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 2: I don't know better if it's my first therapy session, Doug,

958
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 2: or two it's supposed to be the place where I

959
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 2: can't have this, or maybe in my whole life I've

960
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 2: been panned up and I can finally say something in

961
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 2: this room with you, and now I'm looking up and

962
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 2: you're using me for content that's crazy to.

963
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 4: Me, right, yeah, right?

964
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 5: And on top of that, a lot of people have

965
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 5: their in their own mind, their myths and their preconceived

966
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 5: notions of what therapyssession is. So when they walk in

967
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 5: the door, they go, Okay, I've been told I can

968
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,479
Speaker 5: just come here and I can just talk what they're doing.

969
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 5: The thing that you want a lot of clients to

970
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 5: do is just talk, because some clients, you know, don't

971
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 5: always talk. You have to fucking like hitting the rock

972
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 5: to get in the open, you know. And so the

973
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 5: thing is you are the professional, not them. Y'all talk

974
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 5: with them, help process.

975
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,399
Speaker 2: And talking with Bosio a long time ago, she brought

976
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 2: up because she be on TikTok way more than me,

977
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 2: and she had brought up how like certain mental health

978
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 2: conditions were becoming either misdiagnosed, self diagnosed, or people were

979
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 2: embellishing them because it was content driven, like hello, this

980
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:22,439
Speaker 2: is the place to go viral, this is the place

981
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 2: to get likes and shares. So it's emphasizing certain certain

982
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 2: behaviors and stuff that you want to put more weight

983
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 2: on because those are the things that help you succeed there.

984
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 2: So I don't know, man, It's just I think people

985
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:42,359
Speaker 2: need to. People need to. This is bigger than just

986
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 2: what box do you check? I think right now, the

987
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:48,280
Speaker 2: conversation is in what box do you check? Everybody wants

988
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: to defend their box. So if there was a black

989
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 2: man therapist right now saying he don't take black women

990
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 2: clients before whatever reason, I think in this conversation we're

991
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 2: seeing online, not the people who are saying you shouldn't

992
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 2: have shared this. I think those people would stay the same,

993
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 2: and I think they're right. But there's a lot of

994
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 2: the extremes on both sides.

995
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 3: They flipped.

996
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 2: They flip sides because it's not really about this therapist

997
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 2: and it's not really about what she said. It's more

998
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 2: about the eternal struggle and battle of the sexes within

999
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 2: the black community that just people are happy to have

1000
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 2: any fight or any content for. And I'm you know,

1001
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 2: and I think it's just dangerous, and it's just it's

1002
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 2: gonna end.

1003
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 3: Something's gonna happen to somebody. It's just gonna enda.

1004
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 5: I think this does not sound like it is going

1005
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 5: to end. Well, it's gonna be a massive lawsuit. The

1006
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 5: government's gonna step in, like something's gonna happen where it's

1007
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 5: gonna be some serious crackdown because there are a lot

1008
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 5: of therapists that are out there going, y'all, I'm actually

1009
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 5: doing my job. I'm actually doing everything right. Y'all out

1010
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 5: here fucking up the brand. I actually have people to

1011
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 5: actually need help. They're coming to you seeking help, and

1012
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 5: you're actually fucking it up where by the time they

1013
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 5: get to me, I have to work twice as hard

1014
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 5: because y'all out here fucking it doing it for.

1015
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 4: The graand versus doing your goddamn job.

1016
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:09,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying like these

1017
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,439
Speaker 2: people are putting that personal face and business out there

1018
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 2: and you're dealing with clients that may have mental health issues,

1019
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 2: and shit, something is going to happen to somebody because

1020
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 2: it's fucking dangerous. Like number one, the reason therapists weren't

1021
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 2: doing this even before social media is because it's kind

1022
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 2: of fucking dangerous.

1023
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 3: So it's just weird.

1024
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 2: It's weird that we are joining up instead of everybody

1025
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 2: being able to agree on like, yeah, this is a

1026
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 2: little ethically weird. We're doing the like, well, she can't

1027
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 2: feel unsafe?

1028
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 3: What she can't? It's like, no, who the fuck said that?

1029
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 2: No, you can feel unsafe and is not tell the

1030
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 2: world and invite a bunch of unsafe niggas into your

1031
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 2: your mentions and shit too, Like I don't know, I

1032
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:52,359
Speaker 2: don't know.

1033
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 3: People just be unstable.

1034
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 2: Like I said, I've been there before in my own life,

1035
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 2: So I feel like maybe it's you know, something a

1036
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 2: lot of people we'll go through it, we just don't

1037
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 2: talk about.

1038
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 4: That's true.

1039
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 5: And you bringing up a good point when you're dealing

1040
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 5: with people that are coming that are completely unstable, underdiagnosed, misdiagnosed,

1041
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 5: and things like that, people with a wide range.

1042
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 4: Of mental illnesses, and you don't know how people going

1043
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 4: to respond to it.

1044
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 5: You don't know how people are going to react to it,

1045
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 5: even if you're not talking about them, and somebody thinks

1046
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:25,760
Speaker 5: you're talking about them.

1047
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 3: Because the whole and also you're.

1048
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then it's so funny that this all started

1049
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 2: with we want to get on here to destigmatize mental health. Well,

1050
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 2: you know what doesn't destigmatize a literal stigma? You're attaching

1051
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 2: to somebody just because they're black, they're a man, or

1052
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 2: just because like unfortunately with your type of job, you

1053
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 2: can't do that. It's to me, it's as fucked up

1054
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 2: as if there's a doctor out there who's like, you know,

1055
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 2: I do uterine fabroid surgeries, and they just said, you

1056
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,280
Speaker 2: know what, I stopped taking black client black women clients

1057
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 2: because they'd be having too many fireboys. It's like, there's

1058
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 2: a lot of fucking shit in the world that impacts that.

1059
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 2: And for you to come out and say that, whether

1060
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 2: like even if you just had.

1061
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 3: Stopped doing it and didn't tell nobody, it's kind of

1062
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:14,319
Speaker 3: fucked up.

1063
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 2: But at least we wouldn't know. But for you to

1064
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: come out and say that, of course you got smoked.

1065
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 2: Of course you got smoked. And the only way you

1066
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 2: would think that it wasn't worth the smoke is if

1067
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 2: you were a person who thought something is wrong with

1068
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,479
Speaker 2: black women inherently and it's okay to talk about them

1069
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 2: like that because any other demographic you'd be like, you

1070
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 2: shouldn't do that. And I think, and for the record,

1071
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,799
Speaker 2: these last couple have kind of she said men, and

1072
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 2: but earlier she said she doesn't take white clients, which

1073
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: is why by keep saying black men.

1074
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 3: But people keep playing stupid, like why y'all say it's

1075
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 3: only black men.

1076
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:52,280
Speaker 2: But the other thing I would say too, I would

1077
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 2: feel this way if it was just like if it

1078
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: was a black person that came out and said I

1079
00:51:56,719 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 2: don't take white clients. I Robb would be like, why

1080
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 2: the fuck would you say that out loud. I'm not

1081
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 2: saying you couldn't have done it. I just think it's

1082
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 2: stupid that you, like, like, when you get fired over

1083
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 2: this dumb shit, just understand you could have kept this

1084
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 2: one to yourself. And I'm a nigga that talked two

1085
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 2: hours a.

1086
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 4: Day for nobody checking your clientaile.

1087
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 3: Like like, it's just some shit ain't worth it, nigga,

1088
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:24,240
Speaker 3: it just ain't. Just like you.

1089
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 2: You either wanted to fight. You either wanted to fight

1090
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 2: the internet, or you're stupid. There's no in between.

1091
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 4: Where has been around too long for you not to

1092
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 4: notice his hard work.

1093
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 2: Because I refuse to be surprised by what's happening right now,

1094
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,720
Speaker 2: I refuse. I'm just like, yeah, So, either you wanted

1095
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 2: that smoke or you just and but you and you,

1096
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 2: and because you're fighting everybody, it's hard to believe you

1097
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck. So either you wanted that smoke

1098
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 2: or you didn't know the smoke was coming. Either way,

1099
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 2: watch out for the okie do It's everybody all right,

1100
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 2: Let's get to some other news. First, letting Michelle Obama

1101
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 2: broke down following Trump's inauguration. I cried for thirty minutes straight. Yeah,

1102
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 2: I think we knew, you know. I feel like I

1103
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 2: knew without knowing. When I saw her face the inauguration,

1104
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 2: it was all our faces. And when she was handing

1105
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 2: him that fucking holding that cake or whatever, and her

1106
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 2: face just looked like, I I'm just.

1107
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 3: Here, so I don't get fined.

1108
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,959
Speaker 2: But she detailed the experience on The Light podcast, which

1109
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 2: debut Tuesday on Audible. Leaving the White House after eight

1110
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 2: years of intense scrutiny and extreme excellent strides had come

1111
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 2: crashing down on the author as the family took their

1112
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 2: final trip to the presidential plane. On the presidential plane,

1113
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 2: there was also the realization that Trump was taking office.

1114
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 2: She said, when the doors shut, I just cried for

1115
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 2: thirty minutes straight, uncontrollable, sobbing. Because that's how much we

1116
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 2: were holding it together for eight years.

1117
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 4: So I believe that, honey.

1118
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 5: And because because look, if you've been around those sisters,

1119
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 5: you know the way Michelle Obama had that bang. She

1120
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 5: did that ship up elf. She woke up, she smacked

1121
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 5: some grease and she puts that ship back. She was like,

1122
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 5: I'm not spending no fucking money. You gonna get the

1123
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 5: bear minimum. I don't even know what she put on

1124
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 5: makeup that day. She was like, I don't give a fuck.

1125
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 5: Everybody looked at her, going.

1126
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, this this is what it is, So baby,

1127
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 4: you ain't got to tell us. Everybody knows.

1128
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 5: Everybody know because because because we we know how you

1129
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 5: how you keep it clean and flying with your bangs

1130
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 5: and ship. You woke up that day and was like,

1131
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 5: you're gonna get this toil the twist and I'm gonna

1132
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 5: go by my business dog.

1133
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 6: Uh.

1134
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 3: Will Smith embarrassed.

1135
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 4: I woke up ten minutes before she had to go.

1136
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 4: She was like, fuck that and fuck y'all.

1137
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 2: Will Smith embarrassed and her over Chris rock comments and

1138
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: Netflix special allegedly reportedly now, who the fuck could the

1139
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 2: source be other than Will and Jada, Like, how can

1140
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 2: somebody else know that he was?

1141
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 3: You know, like it's I think it's their way of.

1142
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 2: Having a response without having a response because they know

1143
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 2: that if they responded anyway, it's basically round two and

1144
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:11,760
Speaker 2: killing him up to do more shitting for the media

1145
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 2: cycle to continue. Already Will's already been from the oscars

1146
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 2: for ten years. I just don't think people are going

1147
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 2: to uh so, I think they wanted to get their

1148
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 2: side out there without getting their side out there, you know.

1149
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,240
Speaker 2: And so it's Will is embarrassing hurt by what Chris

1150
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 2: said about him and his family as Netflix special. He

1151
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 2: didn't watch it, but he had people tell him what

1152
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 2: Chris said, adding that Will and Jada have seen the

1153
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 2: comments about it. Will apologize to Chris and would like

1154
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 2: Chris to let it go to source. Said Smith for

1155
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 2: Portly Feels Netflix made a distasteful move Aaron Rock Special. Yeah,

1156
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 2: if that's true, then I don't even know what to

1157
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 2: tell you, because if you thought this man wasn't gonna

1158
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 2: get his turn to say some ship back after you

1159
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: fucking slapped him in front of the world, you're yeah,

1160
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 2: then you some type of sociopath, Like I can't even

1161
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 2: like you knew this liqu was coming for at least

1162
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 2: a year like this, like I'm oh ship. The fact

1163
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 2: that it wasn't in my back, can y'all see me? Okay,

1164
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 2: sorry my power cut out for a second. Okay, yeah,

1165
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 2: something with anyway, But just the fact that to me,

1166
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:39,719
Speaker 2: just the fact that Chris didn't host the Oscars, like

1167
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 2: because that was the thing. People thought he was going

1168
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:48,479
Speaker 2: to host the Oscars next year. And I'm just like, bruh,

1169
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 2: this could have been way worse for you because if

1170
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 2: he would have host the Oscars with you not being

1171
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,359
Speaker 2: allowed in the building and him allowed to say whatever

1172
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 2: the fuck he felt, it would have been uglier. They're

1173
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 2: probably the whole fucking thing would have been about this.

1174
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:03,760
Speaker 2: If not, you know, a lots of skits and ship anyway,

1175
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:06,320
Speaker 2: ye still recording.

1176
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 3: I checked, I checked. That was like the first thing

1177
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:09,040
Speaker 3: I checked was.

1178
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 4: Like, okay, I wanted to be sure.

1179
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 2: I was scared to tell on my end it just

1180
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 2: because I accidentally kicked the the whatever this thing is,

1181
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 2: you know where you plug everything in the strip. I

1182
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 2: kicked it a little bit with my foot and I

1183
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 2: just my light came out for a second, and then

1184
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 2: the sound came out for a second, and then it

1185
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 2: all came back. It was less than a second, but

1186
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, did I lose everybody?

1187
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 4: But I seen it because it looked like it just

1188
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 4: went black. Okay, it came back on. I was like,

1189
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 4: wait a minute, what's happening.

1190
00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I try to be careful of that.

1191
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, so, but I think if you're going to

1192
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 2: respond is you know, you just can't do so in

1193
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 2: any official setting, And I don't think I think.

1194
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 3: I think Will and Jada.

1195
00:57:56,680 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 2: Would be misreading the room to want to rehash all

1196
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 2: this shit and be the victims. Now, they might do that,

1197
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 2: but while there's a certain contingent of people that feel

1198
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 2: like they're the victims of this, I would say that

1199
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 2: contingent of people mostly exist only on Twitter, Like the

1200
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:19,479
Speaker 2: vast majority of people in regular ass life and within

1201
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 2: the industry feel like what Will did was completely out

1202
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 2: of pocket and he kind of violated the rule of like, hey,

1203
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 2: when you're in the room at the Oscars, everyone gets

1204
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 2: a jab at him. Sometimes it's unfair, sometimes it's funny

1205
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 2: because it's unfair. Yeah, sometimes it's accidentally whatever.

1206
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 3: But what we don't do is start hitting people.

1207
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 2: You know, you know, if you maybe you got a

1208
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 2: problem with somebody, say something to him later or something.

1209
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 3: But so even he knew he had fucked up.

1210
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 2: So I just don't think that just because of years past,

1211
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 2: they can be like what Chris did to us was wrong.

1212
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 2: People gonna be like, maybe what he did that Jada

1213
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 2: was wrong. Will you hit this man? Just don't get

1214
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 2: over it. Yeah, I just don't think the public sentiment

1215
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 2: is sitting with them like that. But you know, good

1216
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 2: luck to them.

1217
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 3: But I just found that funny to be like a

1218
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 3: sore says he was very hurt. It's like Nigga was

1219
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 3: Will He's very hurt.

1220
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 4: Uh.

1221
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 3: And then lastly, drank Champs.

1222
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 2: Uh Nori said that he never called Chris will Smith

1223
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 2: a bitch, even though, uh, that's what Chris said in

1224
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 2: his stand up.

1225
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 3: So mmm, I.

1226
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 5: Don't know out I mean, because if he said on

1227
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 5: the recording, somebody got it somewhere else.

1228
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 2: But they joked and said nobody called him a bitch.

1229
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 2: And then Joe Budden was the guest and he said

1230
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 2: he didn't call him a bitch.

1231
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 3: Uh, So I don't know.

1232
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 2: Is that maybe they just joking around and nobody did it.

1233
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 2: But also I think, you know, I don't think Chris

1234
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 2: was trying to be the most accurate in that thing.

1235
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 2: I don't think Jada told him specifically. I think he

1236
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 2: just made ship up so that we would be on

1237
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 2: his side when he started shipping on them.

1238
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 3: So let's see what else happening ahead.

1239
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 4: Also, do you want to talk about Friday night?

1240
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 2: Oh ship, I forgot, Yeah, yeah, we can talk about

1241
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 2: Friday night after just beat.

1242
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 3: How is your Friday Night?

1243
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 5: It was good, good, I actually had a really really

1244
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 5: great great time. Me and your mom went to go

1245
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 5: see Janelle James at the Comedy Zone. She did four

1246
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 5: shows here over the weekend. She did two on Friday

1247
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 5: and two on Saturday, and and.

1248
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 3: All of them, all of them sold out.

1249
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 5: By the way, all for of them, they had probably

1250
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 5: had been sold out, and so they know they sold

1251
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 5: out quick. So I went ahead and got my tickets quick,

1252
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 5: and I went on ahead and paid the up charge

1253
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 5: for the gold rank for the gold circle, And apparently

1254
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 5: that's where you get to sit like in the center

1255
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 5: and closer up, uh than everybody else does everybody else

1256
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 5: you kind of get set more on the side and

1257
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 5: in the back of the club.

1258
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 4: You don't get to sit up as close.

1259
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 5: And so.

1260
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 4: We went to go see her and it was a

1261
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 4: lot of fun.

1262
01:01:57,360 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 5: We got there early and it was already people in line,

1263
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 5: and uh we actually because the show was at seven

1264
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 5: shows at seven pm, and so your mama came here

1265
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 5: picked me up early because I was like, look, I

1266
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 5: ain't trying to find nobody's five o'clock traffic.

1267
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 4: Uh. So we she picked me up early. We rode

1268
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 4: over there. We we parked, and also I like what

1269
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:20,880
Speaker 4: they did over there in that uh in the area

1270
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 4: where the comedy zone is. Now.

1271
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 5: You remember how the that park lot used to be

1272
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 5: like gravel and shit over there, They actually paved it

1273
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 5: now where you can actually you text and you can

1274
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 5: pay for your spot through a Texas really really neat.

1275
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 4: And ship like that.

1276
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 5: They got like a fancy, fancy parking deck. Now it's

1277
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 5: like four or five levels. Like, it's really really nice

1278
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 5: over there. I like it a lot because I haven't

1279
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 5: been over there in years. I haven't been over there

1280
01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 5: since pro pre pandemic and so the apparently they've actually

1281
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 5: done a lot of construction over there since then, and

1282
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 5: so it was really really nice. So we got there early.

1283
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 5: We was there like thirty minutes before the doors opened

1284
01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 5: up at six uh and they you know, tell the

1285
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 5: people to be there early. So we we was there

1286
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 5: like at five third and they was already people, you know,

1287
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 5: standing in line. So I don't know how long these

1288
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 5: people have been there. So we had a we had

1289
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 5: a really good time and I'm glad we went early

1290
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 5: and got there early and got seated clothes and stuff

1291
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 5: like that, and they actually feed you in the comedy zone.

1292
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 5: So that's one reason why I was like, let's get

1293
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 5: there early because we can go ahead and we can

1294
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 5: start eating and all that stuff, you know, and start

1295
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 5: drinking before it gets crowded.

1296
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 4: You know, in there.

1297
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 5: And the longer we sat there, it was like all

1298
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 5: of a sudden, you know how all of a sudden

1299
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 5: you feel like somebody slowly.

1300
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 4: Turned up the sound.

1301
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 5: I was like, oh, I got lout in here. And

1302
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 5: then I was like, oh, that's because they power them

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Speaker 5: with people in here. And so we were sitting at

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01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 5: a teddy were sitting at the table top of four

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01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 5: and so it was me and your mama and so

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01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 5: this husband and wife sat with us as a black

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01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 5: couple and they was the sweetest and so your mamas

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01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 5: moved over to sit beside me, so they col sit

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Speaker 5: beside each other.

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Speaker 4: We had a ball. We was laughing and joking and

1311
01:03:57,320 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 4: eating and everything before uh the the show and.

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01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 5: They have uh they have like uh uh the MC

1313
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 5: and then they have like a middle comedian and then

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Speaker 5: they have like Jennel came on last, and uh.

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Speaker 4: Each person was great.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 5: The first lady she was, she was, she was funny,

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01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 5: and the dude in the middle was fucking hilarious. Like

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Speaker 5: like you said, it's one of those things we talk about,

1320
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:29,439
Speaker 5: a comedy thing is you know, I'm here to laugh

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01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 5: and honey, he was making me laugh.

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Speaker 4: We had a really really good time and he was

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01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 4: very interactive with the.

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Speaker 5: Crowd and things like that. He knew how to work

1325
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 5: the crowd and kept their jokes going to stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: And then Janelle came out and it was so much fun.

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Speaker 5: I've never had never seen Janelle live before. This was

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01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 5: my first time seeing alive. She is absolutely gorgeous. She

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01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 5: is a beautiful woman and honey, she had us chuck

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01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,439
Speaker 5: a lucking and laughing and making jokes.

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01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:59,919
Speaker 4: Ain't anybody got that proud? Yes? That was them. Yes.

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01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 2: Well, if you're not listening live or you're not watching

1333
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 2: on YouTube, I just put up Janelle's Instagram and it's

1334
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 2: her with her openers. It looks like out out Sea

1335
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 2: and Terror Brown comedy Jar Brown.

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01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 4: She was the opener. Yeah, I mean not the opener,

1337
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 4: but the opener.

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01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 3: And the MC Yeah. Well no that's dope. Man, I'm

1339
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 3: so glad you had a good time. I'm jealous I

1340
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:27,920
Speaker 3: missed it.

1341
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 2: Uh you know, because I saw when she announced it

1342
01:05:31,800 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 2: tour and I said, first of all, nobody ever comes

1343
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 2: to Charlotte really like.

1344
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 3: Mike Caplan.

1345
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's expensive or what, but they don't.

1346
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 2: Of the comedians who've done our podcast is like Mike Kaplan,

1347
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 2: Roywood Junior, Janelle James, Mike Lawrence, Mike Lawrence as well,

1348
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 2: but very few comedians get to Charlotte like they'll get

1349
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 2: to Raleigh maybe you.

1350
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 3: Know, somewhere in Atlanta, you know, but just so very rare.

1351
01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 2: So to see like Janelle was even and I was excited,

1352
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 2: and I think I was just like, Cary, you gotta

1353
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 2: get tickets to this, or just letting you know that

1354
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 2: you know, you should get tickets to this.

1355
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 4: And then.

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01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I know she's funny because I've seen

1357
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:14,919
Speaker 2: her stand up. She's obviously done our show a bunch

1358
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 2: of times.

1359
01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 5: And yes, yes, I've seen her stand up too, and

1360
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:21,800
Speaker 5: listen to her CDs and thinks that I'm old CDs,

1361
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:24,440
Speaker 5: but you know, her albums and things like that. So

1362
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 5: I was like, oh, we're going to have a good time,

1363
01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 5: and it was a lot of fun just listening to

1364
01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:34,919
Speaker 5: her talk about her experiences and things you know she's

1365
01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 5: been going through her you know, being newly famous and

1366
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 5: things like that. So it was a lot of fun

1367
01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 5: just to be in the room and you could feel

1368
01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 5: the crowd like we were ready to do the show.

1369
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 5: And so when I was just trying to try me

1370
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 5: to do the show, nigga, we old. So the second

1371
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 5: show was like nine for the five, like I need

1372
01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 5: to be hitting home. So I was like, no, we're

1373
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 5: doing the first show.

1374
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 2: It's kind of like Black Church too, where it's like

1375
01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 2: if you go to the early show, at least you

1376
01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 2: know a time getting out because it's like if you

1377
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 2: go to early service, you know they got to get

1378
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:15,560
Speaker 2: the next batch of people with the real money in there,

1379
01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 2: like nine to ten, so it's like, cool, we'll be

1380
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 2: out of here. But if you go to that late service,

1381
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 2: while it might get a little more loose and you

1382
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 2: might get some extra Church, Uh, you don't know when

1383
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 2: you leave it. And I think the same thing with

1384
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 2: comedy or it's like the ten o'clock show. I mean,

1385
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 2: maybe you don't know when you're getting out of that

1386
01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 2: you know.

1387
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 4: Maybe one am.

1388
01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:43,439
Speaker 2: I was like, well, comedy, it can be a little

1389
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 2: more fun because sometimes people get more loose in that

1390
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:49,080
Speaker 2: second show they've been drinking or whatever. But I think

1391
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 2: any show at any time that you get to see

1392
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 2: the janew is gonna be a great time.

1393
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 5: Yes, Yes, and a shout out to a Miss Smart.

1394
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:00,200
Speaker 5: I was looking at the menu because you know they

1395
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 5: had like the menu. Oh, we had some tie Chitty wings.

1396
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 5: It was absolute delicious. And we had some nachos that

1397
01:08:06,680 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 5: was literally good. And I was gonna say shout out

1398
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 5: to miss Martime.

1399
01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 4: We was in DC. Uh. We had did the the

1400
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 4: first live show with Chris and them.

1401
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 5: She had a drink called lemon Drops and so I

1402
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 5: remember that drink because them ships were fucking flames.

1403
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:24,600
Speaker 4: And so they had like this lemon drop martini and

1404
01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:26,640
Speaker 4: I was like, ooh, I remember that.

1405
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 5: I want one, uh and uh two and uh three

1406
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 5: and uh so yeah, Yo, Mama was the designated drive.

1407
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 4: I sual. Mama said, you want to get a drink?

1408
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:37,360
Speaker 4: She was like I had. She was like, I got

1409
01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 4: a job to do.

1410
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 5: I said, oh yeah, I forget. I'll be forgetting. You

1411
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 5: the responsible one. You the responsible one. I ain't, so yes, please,

1412
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 5: I'll take three of these. So I was lit and

1413
01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 5: I had myself a great uh time.

1414
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 4: Uh and I uh, your mama's like, I paid for

1415
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 4: the mails and no, no, no, I paid for the meal.

1416
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 4: So you're gonna look at that credit card bigger, like

1417
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 4: what the fuck was Karen eating and drinking? So I

1418
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 4: paid for the bill because I was like, no, no,

1419
01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 4: you can't be paying for all these drinks. So I

1420
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:14,799
Speaker 4: had a ball.

1421
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:17,920
Speaker 3: Cool you see it on the bill.

1422
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 2: I saw it already as far as it's taken care of.

1423
01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 2: But and then for my Friday, I you know, of

1424
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 2: course did Game Theory had.

1425
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 3: A good time? Show it?

1426
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 5: Well? It was.

1427
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 2: It was a blast, and I had because we started

1428
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 2: so early in the morning on Friday. Compared to our

1429
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 2: normal day which starts around ten at ten am, we

1430
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:49,880
Speaker 2: started like eight am, so I and I didn't really

1431
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 2: get a lot of sleep the night before. I can't

1432
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:55,040
Speaker 2: remember why, but I just didn't sleep that much. So

1433
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 2: I was just like, it's fine, when the show is done,

1434
01:09:57,240 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 2: I'll come home, go to sleep. But I got a

1435
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 2: text from the Risk Lambert, a friend of the show

1436
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 2: and friend of real life, and he was like, hey,

1437
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 2: I'm doing a set at this place tonight. You want

1438
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 2: me to put you on the list and you can

1439
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:15,519
Speaker 2: get in for free and stuff. And I was like,

1440
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 2: you know, at first, I was like, I'm just gonna

1441
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 2: stay in, but then I was like, you know what,

1442
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:23,280
Speaker 2: put me on the list. Maybe I'll change my mind,

1443
01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 2: because who knows what future ride's gonna be thinking. So

1444
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 2: I said, put me on the list, and you know,

1445
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:30,360
Speaker 2: he said, cool, here's an address and blah bah blah,

1446
01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 2: And that's all I knew was the spot was called

1447
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:36,240
Speaker 2: drum Drom, and I knew it was like about a

1448
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 2: forty minute uber from where I was at, and I said, okay, cool.

1449
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:46,720
Speaker 2: So I got back here and oh, I went out

1450
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:50,560
Speaker 2: to eat with my coworkers and we got like some

1451
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:53,920
Speaker 2: career fried chicken and shit. And it's like almost a

1452
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 2: tradition now after a show, we'll go grab a couple

1453
01:10:56,439 --> 01:11:00,120
Speaker 2: of bites and talk about just work and different off

1454
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:00,759
Speaker 2: that's happening.

1455
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 5: And I.

1456
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:06,280
Speaker 4: Know that service, like y'all come in every week.

1457
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 2: And normally it's pretty empty, which is why I like it,

1458
01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 2: you know, But he uh so, anyway we do that,

1459
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:16,559
Speaker 2: I come back here. I basically got like an hour

1460
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 2: and a half two hours to chill, but I could,

1461
01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 2: you know, it was like I was still I tried

1462
01:11:21,040 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 2: to lay down, but I'm still thinking about you know,

1463
01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:25,640
Speaker 2: I got to be back up in a little bit

1464
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:31,879
Speaker 2: and I'm tired of Yeah. So after mostly a restless

1465
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 2: laying down where I didn't sleep, you know, I get up,

1466
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 2: get the uber and I go to the spot and

1467
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 2: it's a place called Drum and it's like downstairs, like

1468
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:44,960
Speaker 2: you go on the street, you walk down some stairs

1469
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 2: and it's got like one of those like you know,

1470
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:52,599
Speaker 2: uh like it's like a cellar type of situation almost.

1471
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:56,720
Speaker 2: But I came in and I just having to come

1472
01:11:56,760 --> 01:12:00,679
Speaker 2: in right as Chris was getting checked in and making

1473
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 2: sure he was on the list. So he took care

1474
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 2: of me and made sure they knew that I was

1475
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:07,679
Speaker 2: with him. He was I'm on the list because apparently

1476
01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 2: this show is so popular. They had sold all the

1477
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 2: seats and it's and it's not a big spot because

1478
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 2: nothing in New York is big compared to you know,

1479
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:20,920
Speaker 2: where we're from. Yeah, so selling all the seats basically,

1480
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 2: you know, it's like almost nowhere from it the ship.

1481
01:12:23,160 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 2: So they let me sit at the bar like the

1482
01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 2: furthest table, furthest chair, which was fine because I could

1483
01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 2: still see the stage mostly and and whatnot. But I

1484
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 2: get there and sit down, I'm like, Chris, why is

1485
01:12:34,880 --> 01:12:40,680
Speaker 2: there a pole on the stage? Don't like, what kind

1486
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:42,160
Speaker 2: of what kind of show you're gonna be doing?

1487
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 5: Bro?

1488
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know if I want to get

1489
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 2: to know you this well, you know. But he was like, yeah,

1490
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 2: it's a pole dancing comedy show. And so between comedians

1491
01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:00,120
Speaker 2: they have like a pole dancer come out and and

1492
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 2: you know, yeah. And so then I got to like

1493
01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,519
Speaker 2: kind of meet the people that run it, you know,

1494
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:08,639
Speaker 2: because they all know Chris, and they were very friendly,

1495
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 2: you know, because Chris is interviewing interviewing, I mean introducing me,

1496
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:15,680
Speaker 2: and he's like, you know, this is.

1497
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 3: My friend Rod.

1498
01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 2: He writes for Game Theory Omarley Jones and some of

1499
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 2: the people heard of it, some people did and all

1500
01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 2: that stuff, you know, and he's like, he has a podcast,

1501
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 2: and you know, everybody's very friendly and stuff. And you know,

1502
01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 2: other than the people that were seating us, seating me

1503
01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:35,439
Speaker 2: specifically not really knowing, like they was very non committal

1504
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 2: on my seat, like that was the that was the

1505
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:39,760
Speaker 2: only thing that stretched me out. Is like first they

1506
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 2: didn't know where to sit me. Then it was like

1507
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 2: hold on, and then like this, the hostess had to

1508
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:46,679
Speaker 2: go get the manager, and the manager was like looking

1509
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 2: at chairs like I.

1510
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:48,720
Speaker 3: Don't know, maybe he'll maybe them.

1511
01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, y'all don't fucking know, like if you

1512
01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 2: sold tickets, y'all don't know. Y'all have a seating chart,

1513
01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 2: like you don't know that there's seats open or not.

1514
01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 2: And so then they gave me the seat at the bar,

1515
01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 2: and at one point they came later and said, now, look,

1516
01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:03,720
Speaker 2: you we may you may have to get this give

1517
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 2: up this seat, and we may have to move you.

1518
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 3: Over in this other area.

1519
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:09,960
Speaker 2: It's like a pretty cramped space where I had to

1520
01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 2: sit with all these people, and I didn't really want

1521
01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:14,880
Speaker 2: to sit there, just because as a bigger person, I

1522
01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 2: don't want to squeeze my ass through everybody. It's like,

1523
01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:19,080
Speaker 2: if I can just sit at the bar in this

1524
01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 2: one chair, I'm fine with this.

1525
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:21,639
Speaker 4: Correct.

1526
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 3: I know y'all think I might not be happy with

1527
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 3: this seat. This is fine.

1528
01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 2: It's away from everybody. I'm just fucking eating, drinking beers

1529
01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:33,400
Speaker 2: and stuff. And so they paid comedians and money, but

1530
01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 2: they also give him drink tickets and Chris, Chris wasn't

1531
01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 2: really gonna drink, so he gave me his drink ticket.

1532
01:14:39,360 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 2: It was like, if you want to get like a

1533
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 2: beer or something. Oh no, no, no, actually no, the

1534
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 2: host gave me a drink ticket, said if you want

1535
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 2: to have a drink or something, it's on nuts.

1536
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 3: I said, oh, thank you. And so.

1537
01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:54,519
Speaker 2: You know, I'm talking with Chris and you know, we're

1538
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 2: just talking about life and stuff. And then the show starts.

1539
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 2: He's the first comedian to go up. It's Miley Cyrus night.

1540
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 3: So all of the yeah, all of the.

1541
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 2: All the pole dancers was getting down to Miley Cyrus

1542
01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 2: and uh and and and then, like I said, the

1543
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:22,280
Speaker 2: stand up with was no music. It was just you

1544
01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:24,719
Speaker 2: do stand up and so you know, it's funny because

1545
01:15:24,720 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 2: it's a little bit awkward, you know. But around the

1546
01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 2: time that, right before Chris went up, Mike Caplan comes

1547
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:35,120
Speaker 2: in and I didn't know Mike Captain was even gonna

1548
01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 2: be there, and so I.

1549
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:40,440
Speaker 3: Was like, Mike, oh my god. Yeah, so we caught

1550
01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 3: up for a little bit.

1551
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:44,720
Speaker 2: You know, it's good to see him, and you know,

1552
01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:49,080
Speaker 2: he when Chris went up, like I think like Chris

1553
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 2: went up, and.

1554
01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:52,840
Speaker 3: Then when he was done and he he did good.

1555
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 2: He's been working out some like darker material, but it's

1556
01:15:57,200 --> 01:16:01,240
Speaker 2: it's just really personal stuff that I think it's gonna

1557
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 2: be like great ship when when he like uh as

1558
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 2: he polishes it and it gets even like more and

1559
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 2: more refined. But he let me see his set that

1560
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 2: he put on YouTube, and it was just so fucking funny.

1561
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:14,360
Speaker 2: I was just like, I can't wait for him to, like,

1562
01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:17,479
Speaker 2: whenever he feels ready to put this stuff out and

1563
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:19,680
Speaker 2: put it all together, it's gonna be great. But so

1564
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 2: he did his set and I was talking to Mike

1565
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 2: when the next pole dasher went up, and then another

1566
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 2: woman went and then it was Mike's turn, so I

1567
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:32,320
Speaker 2: got to talk to him for a while and he

1568
01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:35,640
Speaker 2: was like, you want my drink tickets and I was

1569
01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:39,000
Speaker 2: like sure, Like if you're not gonna use it, it's like, yeah,

1570
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna drink.

1571
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 3: But he had spots to do after this, because like

1572
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 3: that's a comedians dude.

1573
01:16:44,200 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 4: They be on the grind like okay, so he was

1574
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 4: coming then he was gonna go somewhere else.

1575
01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, So he was like and you want my drink tickets,

1576
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:51,519
Speaker 2: you can have them. And at this point I had

1577
01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 2: like a beer because that's what you can do, the

1578
01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 2: drink tickets toward beer or wine. And I had like

1579
01:16:56,280 --> 01:17:01,479
Speaker 2: a cocktail called uh something with poker like poker face

1580
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 2: or something.

1581
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:05,640
Speaker 3: I don't forget what. But so I was drinking that.

1582
01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 2: And let me tell you, these goddamn drinks. I don't

1583
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:10,040
Speaker 2: know if it's the drinks I had at the gin

1584
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 2: or the drinks at this bar. These are the strongest

1585
01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 2: fucking drinks I've ever had in my life.

1586
01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:16,799
Speaker 4: It was like all alcohol.

1587
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:23,640
Speaker 2: I'm well, it worked, everything was fun. Like I was

1588
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 2: a little worried. I was like, am I gonna have

1589
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:27,760
Speaker 2: a fucking hangover or some ship like because I don't

1590
01:17:27,760 --> 01:17:29,720
Speaker 2: even don't get to like I like to get a

1591
01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:33,080
Speaker 2: little nice but not I don't like being out of

1592
01:17:33,120 --> 01:17:36,479
Speaker 2: control drunk or you know, like falling down drunk or

1593
01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:40,600
Speaker 2: some ship. And so I'm but but I didn't know

1594
01:17:40,720 --> 01:17:42,720
Speaker 2: the drink. They was kind of sweet drinks, and I

1595
01:17:42,800 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 2: didn't know the drinks.

1596
01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 4: With that strong. I like them sweet.

1597
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so like the first one hit me and

1598
01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, that that was a little strong.

1599
01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:58,320
Speaker 3: No, I was drinking beer and those drinks and so

1600
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:02,600
Speaker 3: then some water down to now okay, well, oh I

1601
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 3: was right. I'm gonna write this down. So you gotta

1602
01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:06,720
Speaker 3: drink some water to okay.

1603
01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:07,240
Speaker 4: Cool, I didn't know.

1604
01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:11,599
Speaker 3: Okay, old people, you can enjoy your night, drink some water,

1605
01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:15,599
Speaker 3: enjoy any other point that is doctor Karen. So then

1606
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 3: so then uh, Mike goes up and he kills it.

1607
01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:25,799
Speaker 2: And you know, at this point, I've drank like another

1608
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:29,960
Speaker 2: drink and I'm just piling up beer tickets like he

1609
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 2: like he gave me, He gave me some, like Chris

1610
01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 2: gave me some like it was crazy, and so finally

1611
01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 2: ill and I was sitting. And so the thing is,

1612
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,400
Speaker 2: even though in stand up, a lot of people are

1613
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 2: there for the pole dancing, and I don't mean it

1614
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 2: in the way that y'all think, because most of y'all

1615
01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:50,400
Speaker 2: are thinking like, yeah, because they won't see some titties

1616
01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 2: or something. It's not like that they're there to support

1617
01:18:53,120 --> 01:18:55,479
Speaker 2: their friends who are pole dancing. Like literally, some of

1618
01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:57,440
Speaker 2: those people in the crowd are po dancing.

1619
01:18:57,280 --> 01:19:00,040
Speaker 4: Girl pole dancing to night. I'm coming, I'm coming to watch.

1620
01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 2: Your It's a big thing for the pole dancers too,

1621
01:19:02,840 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 2: It's not just the comedy. And so it was cool

1622
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:09,559
Speaker 2: that like you could see who was friends with who,

1623
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:12,120
Speaker 2: because when certain dancers go up, you see like people

1624
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 2: pull out their phones and they tell you, like, hey,

1625
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:19,599
Speaker 2: pull out your phone, record the pole dancers, tag the club,

1626
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:24,200
Speaker 2: tag them, share it on your social media, because I

1627
01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 2: didn't know if it was gonna be like I didn't

1628
01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 2: record the first dancer because I thought there might be

1629
01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:30,639
Speaker 2: some strip club rules here you start pulling out your phone,

1630
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:32,680
Speaker 2: big ass, and it come over and be like, sir,

1631
01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:36,920
Speaker 2: canduct to you over here and so right, So I

1632
01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:39,840
Speaker 2: didn't know the rules to me, pole dancing, stripping. I

1633
01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:42,600
Speaker 2: associate those in my head, but I know they're not

1634
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:45,120
Speaker 2: the exact same, you know, it's like burnt leskin stripping

1635
01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 2: is in the same. But you know, I didn't know

1636
01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:50,439
Speaker 2: how much you could if they even wanted that, you know,

1637
01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:53,080
Speaker 2: and my assumption was no, you know, although I did

1638
01:19:53,200 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 2: try to take pictures of the comedians on stage, because

1639
01:19:55,280 --> 01:19:57,599
Speaker 2: I know that's fine if you it's like I'm sharing

1640
01:19:57,640 --> 01:19:59,639
Speaker 2: a video of their joke. I'm just going, hey, Chris

1641
01:19:59,720 --> 01:20:03,839
Speaker 2: Lamber on stage, here's Mike Kaplan on stage. But everyone

1642
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:08,000
Speaker 2: was so fucking funny. And the sets were tight, like

1643
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 2: it wasn't no like twenty minutes, fifteen thirty minutes, like

1644
01:20:11,320 --> 01:20:17,040
Speaker 2: every set was somewhere between like eight to maybe twelve minutes.

1645
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 2: It seen and they stuck to it like you didn't

1646
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:22,080
Speaker 2: really see a lot of people go over anything. Mike

1647
01:20:22,360 --> 01:20:25,200
Speaker 2: was just a genie own one, you know how he is.

1648
01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:28,360
Speaker 4: It was his mind. I don't even know it if

1649
01:20:28,400 --> 01:20:30,080
Speaker 4: I had that shit to the second.

1650
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:33,240
Speaker 2: There's almost no time to laugh in between his jokes

1651
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:35,639
Speaker 2: because he's just got so many fucking jokes.

1652
01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:37,560
Speaker 4: Boom boom, he coming at you.

1653
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:41,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and like it he had me. My

1654
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 2: sides were splitting. And then the dude in front of

1655
01:20:44,280 --> 01:20:47,600
Speaker 2: me at the bar pulled up the pulled up his

1656
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:52,240
Speaker 2: phone and started recording. Uh, this woman who went like

1657
01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:54,599
Speaker 2: second to last and she did party in the USA,

1658
01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 2: and then she later came out and sat next to him.

1659
01:20:58,120 --> 01:20:59,839
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, that must be like her boyfriend

1660
01:20:59,920 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 2: or something. And that's when I realized, like, oh, some

1661
01:21:02,479 --> 01:21:04,960
Speaker 2: people are just here like the comedy's cool, but they

1662
01:21:05,040 --> 01:21:07,960
Speaker 2: hear the support their pole dance and friends, because I

1663
01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 2: imagine as a pole dancing you don't get that many

1664
01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:14,040
Speaker 2: opportunities to go up, Like it's not like a everyday

1665
01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:16,600
Speaker 2: situation where you get to be featured by yourself on

1666
01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 2: the stage and all that stuff.

1667
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:18,120
Speaker 4: You know.

1668
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:20,439
Speaker 2: I feel like, especially when it comes to like with

1669
01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 2: stripping and shit, a lot of people was like, this

1670
01:21:22,439 --> 01:21:28,200
Speaker 2: ain't stripping boom, you know, so right. But yeah, So

1671
01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 2: then after that show was over, I made sure I

1672
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:33,839
Speaker 2: got some Calamario so I could suck up the alcohol.

1673
01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 2: But I was still pretty tipsy, and Chris was like,

1674
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:39,560
Speaker 2: you want to go get something to eat? So we

1675
01:21:39,680 --> 01:21:43,439
Speaker 2: got went to this pizza place that was really good.

1676
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:48,519
Speaker 2: I want to say, it's like, well Chris tagged it

1677
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:52,760
Speaker 2: in on on Instagram, but I'll find it that way,

1678
01:21:52,880 --> 01:21:57,840
Speaker 2: but he. Uh So we went there and it was

1679
01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:01,519
Speaker 2: kind of crowded as well, but you know, it was

1680
01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:04,960
Speaker 2: a Friday night, so of course it was a bit crowded.

1681
01:22:05,040 --> 01:22:08,400
Speaker 2: But we were later than I think a lot of places. Uh,

1682
01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:11,600
Speaker 2: you know, so it wasn't that bad. Yeah, Emmetts is

1683
01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:15,000
Speaker 2: what it's called. I can show y'all picture this pizza

1684
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 2: that we had. I was I forget what it was called,

1685
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:23,800
Speaker 2: but it was so good. It had like jalapenos on it.

1686
01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:28,479
Speaker 3: It had like like a Mexican pizza we not messing,

1687
01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 3: had pepperoni jlapenos and it had like this sauce on

1688
01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:35,120
Speaker 3: it that was just off the chain.

1689
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:40,680
Speaker 2: Man, and the owner was real cool. He's like, that's

1690
01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:43,519
Speaker 2: the owner right there. He took like a selfie with us.

1691
01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:45,519
Speaker 3: We like talked to him.

1692
01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:48,720
Speaker 2: That woman on the left right there, Da Coda was

1693
01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:54,800
Speaker 2: her name. Like it was funny because like this dude

1694
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:57,400
Speaker 2: came up multiple times of me and Chris when we

1695
01:22:57,479 --> 01:22:59,720
Speaker 2: were being seated and before we sat at the bar,

1696
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:03,320
Speaker 2: just random white man thought the most hilarious thing on

1697
01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 2: the earth is what if me and Chris were gay?

1698
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:08,120
Speaker 3: And he was like, you guys make a cute.

1699
01:23:07,920 --> 01:23:11,799
Speaker 4: Couple, and you know, y'all do look adorable together.

1700
01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:15,240
Speaker 2: I'm half drunk. I'm half drunk, so I'm just like

1701
01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:18,680
Speaker 2: laughing it off. And plus I don't I'm not homophobic

1702
01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:20,720
Speaker 2: like that, so it didn't bother me, Like I wasn't

1703
01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:22,720
Speaker 2: like what you say, man, And I think he was

1704
01:23:22,800 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 2: expecting some type of like, hey man, that's my friend

1705
01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:29,639
Speaker 2: or whatever. And I just kept laughing like a then,

1706
01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 2: but he said the joke like three times. I was like, nigga,

1707
01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 2: we get it. Do you think it's funny.

1708
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:35,960
Speaker 4: And the two day I understood.

1709
01:23:36,400 --> 01:23:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I think because I wasn't offended. He thought

1710
01:23:39,800 --> 01:23:42,040
Speaker 2: I didn't understand the joke. I'm like, no, I get it.

1711
01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:43,799
Speaker 3: You think it's funny that two men.

1712
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:46,400
Speaker 4: Understand the joke. He was like, you're not offended.

1713
01:23:46,520 --> 01:23:50,320
Speaker 2: Of course not be Yeah, it would be hilarious if

1714
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:52,960
Speaker 2: two men would be gay. That was nothing funnier than that.

1715
01:23:54,800 --> 01:23:58,679
Speaker 2: One of the dudes had heard the bartender had actually

1716
01:23:58,800 --> 01:23:59,759
Speaker 2: heard a game theory.

1717
01:24:02,080 --> 01:24:04,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was like, yeah, I'm a big fan. Man,

1718
01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:06,479
Speaker 3: you you work on that show. I was like yeah.

1719
01:24:08,160 --> 01:24:11,760
Speaker 2: And the pizza was called the Hot Poppy, That's what

1720
01:24:11,840 --> 01:24:16,679
Speaker 2: it was called. And man, guys, it was some good pizza.

1721
01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:23,400
Speaker 3: I almost took it home, uh but uh but but

1722
01:24:23,800 --> 01:24:25,880
Speaker 3: I told Chris to take it home, so you know,

1723
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:30,400
Speaker 3: but the Hot Poppy was popping, if you know what

1724
01:24:30,439 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 3: I'm saying. Uh, yeah, yeah, it was. It was fun.

1725
01:24:37,640 --> 01:24:40,880
Speaker 3: Uh And then what was I gonna say?

1726
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 2: It was, oh yeah, pepperoni read onion hallopenos and then

1727
01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:52,400
Speaker 2: Paprika ranch. That's the drizzle that sounds like, let's go

1728
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 2: it was it was flame emojis and so then we

1729
01:24:57,160 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 2: like hung out uh, and just talked and like I said,

1730
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:02,240
Speaker 2: it was cool to see the bartender and like knew

1731
01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:05,040
Speaker 2: about game theory and he loved the show and thought

1732
01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:08,360
Speaker 2: it was fun and was asking questions about it and

1733
01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 2: stuff like he was an actual, like real fan.

1734
01:25:12,360 --> 01:25:14,439
Speaker 3: And then, uh, I forget what happened with.

1735
01:25:16,200 --> 01:25:19,759
Speaker 2: Something happened where like I forget why I started talking

1736
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 2: to the woman next to me. I didn't talk to

1737
01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:23,960
Speaker 2: her a lot, but like she just like sat down

1738
01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:28,760
Speaker 2: to have like dessert or something, and I think they

1739
01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:31,720
Speaker 2: they were introducing all of us to each other, and

1740
01:25:31,800 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 2: I think somebody mistake.

1741
01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:35,560
Speaker 3: First it was me and Chris were covered. Then it

1742
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,560
Speaker 3: was you know, it was just the coder. Did we

1743
01:25:38,680 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 3: know each other? I was like, no, you know, I

1744
01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:42,560
Speaker 3: don't know. Her was like Rod, what's your name? Like

1745
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:43,360
Speaker 3: the coda cool?

1746
01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:47,240
Speaker 2: So then we when we left, I think she had

1747
01:25:47,280 --> 01:25:48,880
Speaker 2: got up to use the bathroom or something, and I

1748
01:25:49,000 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 2: was just like, like, thought it would be funny. I

1749
01:25:51,400 --> 01:25:53,160
Speaker 2: was like, because I was already paying for Chris, I

1750
01:25:53,240 --> 01:25:54,760
Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna pay for the coder too, because

1751
01:25:54,800 --> 01:25:57,080
Speaker 2: she just had like wine in a dessert or something

1752
01:25:58,000 --> 01:26:01,120
Speaker 2: like I didn't tell her, so she you know, hopefully

1753
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:02,439
Speaker 2: she got a nice surprise, but.

1754
01:26:04,360 --> 01:26:06,560
Speaker 3: You know, but it was Yeah, it was just like

1755
01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:08,400
Speaker 3: a fun night out and.

1756
01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:11,840
Speaker 2: You know, talk to Chris about the show and how

1757
01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:14,840
Speaker 2: stuff is going with Game Theory and my stay in

1758
01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 2: New York and all that stuff.

1759
01:26:16,200 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 3: So but yeah, it's just a good time.

1760
01:26:19,040 --> 01:26:22,760
Speaker 2: The pole dancing stuff was just crazy because like, these

1761
01:26:22,840 --> 01:26:26,160
Speaker 2: motherfuckers are super athletic and it's.

1762
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:28,760
Speaker 4: An a lot of core strength to there athletes. That's

1763
01:26:28,840 --> 01:26:29,160
Speaker 4: a lot.

1764
01:26:29,439 --> 01:26:33,720
Speaker 2: It's a very liberal space too, like you know, every

1765
01:26:33,880 --> 01:26:37,160
Speaker 2: like the audience is also dressed like damn pole dancers

1766
01:26:37,200 --> 01:26:40,080
Speaker 2: almost you know, like not not skimpy, but there's a

1767
01:26:40,160 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 2: lot of like you're gonna get this cleavage. You know,

1768
01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna hear some leather pants. You know, it's a

1769
01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:45,360
Speaker 2: lot of freaks up in there.

1770
01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:49,360
Speaker 3: And then it was one more thing to happen.

1771
01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:52,439
Speaker 2: Oh the first pole dancer, and I'm kind of glad

1772
01:26:52,479 --> 01:26:54,720
Speaker 2: I wasn't recording her because she I guess, you know,

1773
01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:56,639
Speaker 2: they probably put you in order.

1774
01:26:56,560 --> 01:26:58,719
Speaker 3: Of like most experienced experience whatever.

1775
01:26:59,320 --> 01:27:02,000
Speaker 2: She kind of lipped at one point on the pole

1776
01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:04,200
Speaker 2: and like dropped to the ground, but then she tried

1777
01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:06,840
Speaker 2: to like play it off like she like it was

1778
01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:07,400
Speaker 2: like boom.

1779
01:27:07,600 --> 01:27:08,280
Speaker 4: It was like poom.

1780
01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:11,439
Speaker 2: Everybody's like oh, and then she was just like whatever.

1781
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:20,120
Speaker 2: Everybody's like okay, you know, yeah bad yeah that. You know,

1782
01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:22,880
Speaker 2: unless she's in her twenties, you know, adrilline to keep

1783
01:27:22,880 --> 01:27:25,040
Speaker 2: you going. You get about thirty or forty, you'll be

1784
01:27:25,120 --> 01:27:27,479
Speaker 2: like ooh girl, you got skedad. And she was the

1785
01:27:27,560 --> 01:27:30,320
Speaker 2: first one to go too, you know, so like nerves

1786
01:27:30,360 --> 01:27:33,040
Speaker 2: and all that stuff, and between pole sets they could

1787
01:27:33,160 --> 01:27:35,680
Speaker 2: have a person that's officially like the pole cleaner, and

1788
01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:38,000
Speaker 2: she like gets on stage and she takes like a

1789
01:27:38,080 --> 01:27:40,760
Speaker 2: solution in a cloth and like goes up and down

1790
01:27:40,840 --> 01:27:43,120
Speaker 2: and really cleans the pole so that the next pole

1791
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 2: dancer has a clean pole to work with.

1792
01:27:45,280 --> 01:27:47,840
Speaker 4: She polled dancing, She polled dancing. Why is she cleaning?

1793
01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:50,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it was like I said, it was a

1794
01:27:50,240 --> 01:27:52,439
Speaker 3: very fun night. I'm glad I went out. You know,

1795
01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:56,240
Speaker 3: I've got out a few times, you know, I know,

1796
01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:59,320
Speaker 3: ray Sonnie was really worried about me not going out

1797
01:27:59,320 --> 01:28:02,479
Speaker 3: and doing stuff, even though you know, to a certain extent,

1798
01:28:02,560 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 3: it's like I it's not as simple as just I

1799
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:09,240
Speaker 3: come home, sit down and don't go out. It's like

1800
01:28:09,439 --> 01:28:12,240
Speaker 3: I have two jobs. Everybody. I don't know if I

1801
01:28:12,320 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 3: can relate this to you enough.

1802
01:28:14,760 --> 01:28:17,599
Speaker 2: The podcast is a job and it means a lot

1803
01:28:17,720 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 2: to me, and I don't want to be in New

1804
01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:23,519
Speaker 2: York not doing the podcast at all. So, you know,

1805
01:28:24,040 --> 01:28:27,640
Speaker 2: while it is a dope thing to go out and

1806
01:28:27,720 --> 01:28:29,680
Speaker 2: I'm glad happy that y'all are happy for me when

1807
01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:35,040
Speaker 2: you see me out, this is also work. So I

1808
01:28:35,360 --> 01:28:38,200
Speaker 2: get off of work and then I come do more work,

1809
01:28:38,400 --> 01:28:41,320
Speaker 2: and then I'm not at that point I'm resting to

1810
01:28:41,360 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 2: go back to work.

1811
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,040
Speaker 3: So I work more than people think. They just think

1812
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:47,679
Speaker 3: that either they think podcasting is they don't they haven't

1813
01:28:47,720 --> 01:28:49,640
Speaker 3: conceived of it as a job yet, or they just

1814
01:28:50,240 --> 01:28:52,679
Speaker 3: because they don't see me at the office in game theory,

1815
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:54,799
Speaker 3: they don't see that as a job. But nigga, I'm.

1816
01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:59,360
Speaker 5: Working, yes, And I think I think like you was tied,

1817
01:28:59,400 --> 01:29:01,360
Speaker 5: I think it us like I think it was one

1818
01:29:01,439 --> 01:29:03,400
Speaker 5: day this week or last week. I think it may

1819
01:29:03,439 --> 01:29:06,080
Speaker 5: have been this week or last week where you had

1820
01:29:06,560 --> 01:29:08,800
Speaker 5: h I think it may have been last week where

1821
01:29:09,360 --> 01:29:12,559
Speaker 5: you had worked all day, got off and went to go.

1822
01:29:12,760 --> 01:29:17,160
Speaker 4: Record the thing with Mike and Bow and them turned around.

1823
01:29:17,920 --> 01:29:18,479
Speaker 4: Did the show?

1824
01:29:18,800 --> 01:29:21,880
Speaker 5: Did the show with me put it up, and then

1825
01:29:22,000 --> 01:29:23,599
Speaker 5: you still had to do some more work on your

1826
01:29:23,680 --> 01:29:24,160
Speaker 5: deep dive.

1827
01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:27,160
Speaker 4: Ye. So it was one of those things where.

1828
01:29:27,160 --> 01:29:31,160
Speaker 2: Like I did, I did Alts that more that night

1829
01:29:31,479 --> 01:29:33,360
Speaker 2: before I went to bed at whatever time in the

1830
01:29:33,439 --> 01:29:35,040
Speaker 2: morning's because I was gonna get up in the morning

1831
01:29:35,080 --> 01:29:37,600
Speaker 2: and write the rest of the deep dive, which is

1832
01:29:37,640 --> 01:29:40,120
Speaker 2: the quickest turnaround on a deep dive we've had yet,

1833
01:29:40,280 --> 01:29:42,439
Speaker 2: which is literally they told me they want to do

1834
01:29:42,520 --> 01:29:46,280
Speaker 2: this last week and I started writing and ship with

1835
01:29:46,400 --> 01:29:50,920
Speaker 2: Sid and collaborating with the news team and all this shit,

1836
01:29:51,040 --> 01:29:53,720
Speaker 2: like it's it's a lot of fucking work, so you know,

1837
01:29:53,880 --> 01:29:55,800
Speaker 2: and it'll get less for me because I think this

1838
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:57,800
Speaker 2: will be my last deep dive for the season and

1839
01:29:57,880 --> 01:29:59,840
Speaker 2: then it's just gonna be Alts and Voice of Over.

1840
01:30:00,240 --> 01:30:03,640
Speaker 2: I can't wait. I can't wait. But but it's a

1841
01:30:03,720 --> 01:30:06,519
Speaker 2: lot of work for this last week and this upcoming week.

1842
01:30:06,800 --> 01:30:09,000
Speaker 2: It's gonna be a bit of a grind. And so

1843
01:30:09,360 --> 01:30:11,160
Speaker 2: I think they don't see that. They think I'm just

1844
01:30:11,360 --> 01:30:13,719
Speaker 2: not hanging out because I'm an introvert, which is fine.

1845
01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:15,840
Speaker 2: I am an introvert and I don't like hanging out

1846
01:30:15,880 --> 01:30:18,519
Speaker 2: with just everybody and anybody, but and I don't like

1847
01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:22,639
Speaker 2: and the way people hang out is just they don't

1848
01:30:22,800 --> 01:30:24,840
Speaker 2: know me, so they don't realize the things they think

1849
01:30:24,880 --> 01:30:27,920
Speaker 2: are attractive aren't. Like They're like, we can go to

1850
01:30:28,040 --> 01:30:30,439
Speaker 2: this club. It's got strippers and loud music. I'm like,

1851
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:31,880
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck about that.

1852
01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 4: So so you don't want to be two feet from

1853
01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:38,479
Speaker 4: somebody here, Hey, hey, can you hear me?

1854
01:30:38,960 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 5: Right?

1855
01:30:39,280 --> 01:30:43,960
Speaker 3: I like some dessert exactly. My voice is not booming

1856
01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:45,000
Speaker 3: enough to do that.

1857
01:30:45,080 --> 01:30:45,320
Speaker 1: Ship.

1858
01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:48,280
Speaker 2: I want to be at a spot where it's chill,

1859
01:30:48,520 --> 01:30:50,760
Speaker 2: where the music aid trying to like drown me into

1860
01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:55,120
Speaker 2: drinking you know where. But but but but I still

1861
01:30:55,200 --> 01:30:55,960
Speaker 2: had a good time.

1862
01:30:56,040 --> 01:30:59,200
Speaker 3: It's just, you know, like I recognize that I can

1863
01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:02,280
Speaker 3: only do the clock is ticking on you when we

1864
01:31:02,360 --> 01:31:04,519
Speaker 3: start doing shit like that. That's all it means, Like

1865
01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:05,439
Speaker 3: don't matter.

1866
01:31:05,600 --> 01:31:07,640
Speaker 2: It don't mean I love you last or anything like

1867
01:31:08,080 --> 01:31:10,200
Speaker 2: hanging out with Box and Ray was so fun and

1868
01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:14,200
Speaker 2: I loved it. But it's a cool, cool spot. It's

1869
01:31:14,240 --> 01:31:17,360
Speaker 2: got hip, happening music, it's kind of loud. I'm feeling

1870
01:31:17,400 --> 01:31:19,599
Speaker 2: like I'm having to like talk louder than I normally am.

1871
01:31:19,720 --> 01:31:21,040
Speaker 2: And by the end of the night, I came back

1872
01:31:21,080 --> 01:31:23,519
Speaker 2: and slept like a baby because I'm like, that was

1873
01:31:23,600 --> 01:31:24,120
Speaker 2: a lot to me.

1874
01:31:24,960 --> 01:31:28,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have maxed your level out. Yeah yeah, and

1875
01:31:28,120 --> 01:31:32,240
Speaker 4: and and and everybody is a different you know.

1876
01:31:32,520 --> 01:31:34,760
Speaker 5: For some people that gives them energy, For some people

1877
01:31:34,880 --> 01:31:37,160
Speaker 5: it doesn't. It's not a bad thing. It doesn't mean

1878
01:31:37,160 --> 01:31:38,200
Speaker 5: anything that's wrong with that.

1879
01:31:39,280 --> 01:31:41,120
Speaker 2: When I went to drunk Black History and Ray was like,

1880
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:43,200
Speaker 2: come with us, we can go to another club, I'm like, Nigga,

1881
01:31:43,240 --> 01:31:43,600
Speaker 2: this was it.

1882
01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:44,920
Speaker 4: That was it.

1883
01:31:45,240 --> 01:31:46,800
Speaker 3: I worked and then I did this thing and I

1884
01:31:46,840 --> 01:31:47,679
Speaker 3: gotta work in the morning.

1885
01:31:47,760 --> 01:31:50,280
Speaker 2: This is all the people that this is all the

1886
01:31:50,320 --> 01:31:53,720
Speaker 2: people that are gonna be involved in this transaction, you know, like.

1887
01:31:54,520 --> 01:31:57,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, you go if I if I continue on tomorrow,

1888
01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:59,840
Speaker 4: ain't happening. Yeah, I love take it to the house.

1889
01:32:00,160 --> 01:32:03,360
Speaker 2: Loved when jess Wood came by the Airbnb. I loved

1890
01:32:03,360 --> 01:32:05,840
Speaker 2: when Ray came out of Airbnb. Like, I loved that

1891
01:32:05,960 --> 01:32:08,160
Speaker 2: because I really could get to talk to them. When

1892
01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:10,479
Speaker 2: the code came out of Airbnb, Like, I know it's

1893
01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:12,760
Speaker 2: not for a lot of people to most lit shit,

1894
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:15,240
Speaker 2: but I'm like, nah, it's it's more fun to get

1895
01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:16,760
Speaker 2: to talk to you and really catch up on your

1896
01:32:16,840 --> 01:32:20,000
Speaker 2: life and not have to order food in between, or

1897
01:32:20,840 --> 01:32:23,559
Speaker 2: you know, or you know, worry about like how loud

1898
01:32:23,600 --> 01:32:27,880
Speaker 2: the song is, or constantly be like distracted by each

1899
01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:31,160
Speaker 2: like thing that's happening in the room. So yeah, it

1900
01:32:31,240 --> 01:32:34,240
Speaker 2: felt it felt really like I've enjoyed these times. I'm

1901
01:32:34,240 --> 01:32:36,639
Speaker 2: not knocking them, like, but but it's just it's also

1902
01:32:36,720 --> 01:32:38,560
Speaker 2: been draining. So when you don't see me out, just

1903
01:32:38,640 --> 01:32:40,719
Speaker 2: know I'm somewhere recharging my fucking batteries.

1904
01:32:41,880 --> 01:32:44,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what it is. It's a it's a read,

1905
01:32:44,600 --> 01:32:46,479
Speaker 4: it's a recharging thing.

1906
01:32:46,680 --> 01:32:50,320
Speaker 5: And and uh, me being an extrovert, I had to

1907
01:32:50,560 --> 01:32:53,400
Speaker 5: understand introverts because I don't understand that because I'm not

1908
01:32:53,520 --> 01:32:54,280
Speaker 5: an introvert.

1909
01:32:54,439 --> 01:32:57,160
Speaker 4: So you know, people actually give me energy. Did my

1910
01:32:57,280 --> 01:32:59,680
Speaker 4: enjury level does not go down? And so you know,

1911
01:32:59,840 --> 01:33:02,000
Speaker 4: for me, I'm going, what do you mean people drain you?

1912
01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:04,320
Speaker 4: And you're like, hey, people drain me. Like I'm like,

1913
01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:06,880
Speaker 4: I don't get it. Then it took me a while

1914
01:33:06,920 --> 01:33:08,639
Speaker 4: to kind of understand that concept.

1915
01:33:08,640 --> 01:33:10,800
Speaker 5: I understood it, and I was like, oh, it just

1916
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:12,559
Speaker 5: means you got to charge it didn't go back out

1917
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:14,639
Speaker 5: what I can go like the end of Jackson Bunny

1918
01:33:14,640 --> 01:33:15,880
Speaker 5: and you're like, no, no, no, we need to break.

1919
01:33:16,200 --> 01:33:18,000
Speaker 4: Let me rest and then I'll be ready to go again.

1920
01:33:18,040 --> 01:33:18,840
Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh okay.

1921
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:22,760
Speaker 2: And then also when I got back in because I

1922
01:33:22,880 --> 01:33:25,760
Speaker 2: have been drinking, I guess because I was, you know,

1923
01:33:25,880 --> 01:33:27,280
Speaker 2: as soon as I got back in, I knew I

1924
01:33:27,400 --> 01:33:29,400
Speaker 2: was just gonna lay down. I just like it was

1925
01:33:30,360 --> 01:33:32,840
Speaker 2: like I just told Chris, you know, Chris drove me back,

1926
01:33:33,200 --> 01:33:34,720
Speaker 2: like it was so nice to him to do that.

1927
01:33:34,800 --> 01:33:39,320
Speaker 2: I thanked him for that, you know, yeah, like I

1928
01:33:39,760 --> 01:33:42,519
Speaker 2: had a great time. I just I really appreciate him.

1929
01:33:42,720 --> 01:33:48,000
Speaker 2: I appreciate Ray, I appreciate Bossy, you know, like it's

1930
01:33:48,080 --> 01:33:51,040
Speaker 2: been so fun that, you know, to go out and stuff,

1931
01:33:52,360 --> 01:33:54,479
Speaker 2: you know, even and I try to And that's the

1932
01:33:54,560 --> 01:33:54,960
Speaker 2: thing I do.

1933
01:33:55,120 --> 01:33:57,240
Speaker 3: Try to make my schedule work. Like if somebody really

1934
01:33:57,320 --> 01:34:00,599
Speaker 3: does ask me to do something, I don't like shoot

1935
01:34:00,680 --> 01:34:01,120
Speaker 3: them down.

1936
01:34:01,040 --> 01:34:02,560
Speaker 2: Just to be like man, fuck you, Like it's I

1937
01:34:02,760 --> 01:34:05,160
Speaker 2: really do, like, Okay, if I can make this work

1938
01:34:05,200 --> 01:34:09,800
Speaker 2: on Wednesday, I'll try, you know. But but but but

1939
01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:12,200
Speaker 2: with all that being said, like it was definitely like,

1940
01:34:12,520 --> 01:34:15,479
Speaker 2: uh a thing where when I got home Friday, I

1941
01:34:15,640 --> 01:34:20,519
Speaker 2: was just so tired. I fell asleep and apparently like

1942
01:34:20,640 --> 01:34:23,439
Speaker 2: I woke up, and I'm not. I have a fan

1943
01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:26,479
Speaker 2: in here that can tell the temperature because I need

1944
01:34:26,560 --> 01:34:28,040
Speaker 2: a fan cause I get I.

1945
01:34:28,120 --> 01:34:31,760
Speaker 3: Need air moving and I need I need to be

1946
01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:34,840
Speaker 3: cool where I'm at. And I know it's New York

1947
01:34:34,880 --> 01:34:37,479
Speaker 3: and it's cold compared to other places, but like I

1948
01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:39,200
Speaker 3: need like a little bit of a breeze, So I'll

1949
01:34:39,240 --> 01:34:42,519
Speaker 3: open crack a window or something. Man, I wake up.

1950
01:34:43,479 --> 01:34:45,800
Speaker 2: I'll look over at that fucking fan, and I swear

1951
01:34:45,840 --> 01:34:49,639
Speaker 2: to god, it says something like fifty degrees forty degrees.

1952
01:34:49,880 --> 01:34:52,599
Speaker 4: I said, what the full that place is freezing.

1953
01:34:52,920 --> 01:34:56,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's got baseball heating, so the air conditioning

1954
01:34:56,120 --> 01:34:57,800
Speaker 2: can't even make it that cold in here. It can

1955
01:34:57,880 --> 01:35:00,400
Speaker 2: make it cold in one spot. If you stay right

1956
01:35:00,479 --> 01:35:00,960
Speaker 2: next to it.

1957
01:35:01,560 --> 01:35:02,120
Speaker 3: It's cold.

1958
01:35:02,520 --> 01:35:06,759
Speaker 2: And that's five feet away, five feet away, it's whatever

1959
01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:07,559
Speaker 2: temperature is.

1960
01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:11,080
Speaker 4: What's happening five feet.

1961
01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:12,960
Speaker 3: Away, it is whatever temperature it is outside.

1962
01:35:14,040 --> 01:35:19,320
Speaker 2: And so I uh walked. I so I'm freezing. I

1963
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:23,400
Speaker 2: look over and I'm like, is it like eight degrees

1964
01:35:23,439 --> 01:35:26,080
Speaker 2: outside again? Because I know that that could make it

1965
01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:28,640
Speaker 2: freezing inside of It's eight degrees outside And I left

1966
01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:30,360
Speaker 2: a window open and I didn't know it was gonna

1967
01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:35,080
Speaker 2: be eight degrees. Obviously, was drunk, so I didn't registered.

1968
01:35:35,120 --> 01:35:36,680
Speaker 2: I didn't look at the weather far I went to bed.

1969
01:35:36,720 --> 01:35:38,680
Speaker 2: I just went to bed. But I looked at the

1970
01:35:39,080 --> 01:35:42,400
Speaker 2: at the little Google clock thing I got, and it

1971
01:35:42,479 --> 01:35:44,720
Speaker 2: was like thirty seven degrees. I'm like, don't main't no

1972
01:35:44,800 --> 01:35:49,360
Speaker 2: fucking sense, And so I closed the window. I closed

1973
01:35:49,360 --> 01:35:53,280
Speaker 2: the other window. I turned on the heat, and I'm

1974
01:35:53,280 --> 01:35:55,280
Speaker 2: sitting in here and I'm freezing. I'm just like, it's

1975
01:35:55,360 --> 01:35:59,280
Speaker 2: still fucking cold. What the fuck is having it?

1976
01:35:59,400 --> 01:35:59,519
Speaker 3: Am?

1977
01:35:59,640 --> 01:36:00,240
Speaker 5: I like?

1978
01:36:01,120 --> 01:36:03,000
Speaker 3: Is this how the COVID stars? You think you got

1979
01:36:03,040 --> 01:36:05,120
Speaker 3: the chills? And I don't know.

1980
01:36:06,800 --> 01:36:07,439
Speaker 4: What's happening.

1981
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:08,000
Speaker 5: Man.

1982
01:36:08,080 --> 01:36:12,200
Speaker 3: I looked up. I left the balcony door open. I

1983
01:36:12,280 --> 01:36:15,760
Speaker 3: don't even remember opening the balcony door. What the fuck

1984
01:36:15,800 --> 01:36:16,479
Speaker 3: could have happened?

1985
01:36:18,720 --> 01:36:22,880
Speaker 4: You're trying to cool all outside, honestly, don't.

1986
01:36:22,960 --> 01:36:25,840
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like maybe when I took my clothes

1987
01:36:25,880 --> 01:36:29,200
Speaker 3: off or something. I don't know. I don't know what happened.

1988
01:36:30,320 --> 01:36:33,120
Speaker 3: But I was in this bitch looking like a dog.

1989
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:36,000
Speaker 4: Hat open sometimes and didn't get shut. Apparently, I was.

1990
01:36:36,000 --> 01:36:38,120
Speaker 2: In this bitch looking like I need to get thawed out,

1991
01:36:38,240 --> 01:36:41,040
Speaker 2: like you gotta throw me in the fridge before your

1992
01:36:41,080 --> 01:36:42,680
Speaker 2: mama get home, throw me in the free in the

1993
01:36:43,040 --> 01:36:46,920
Speaker 2: kitchen sink and so yeah, I faked. Once I closed

1994
01:36:46,920 --> 01:36:49,240
Speaker 2: the door, it immediately the temperature went back up and ship.

1995
01:36:49,280 --> 01:36:51,320
Speaker 3: But man, I was like god, I was drunk. I

1996
01:36:51,360 --> 01:36:51,840
Speaker 3: don't remember.

1997
01:36:53,800 --> 01:36:57,320
Speaker 2: I definitely don't remember that. I remember getting home, I

1998
01:36:57,360 --> 01:36:58,400
Speaker 2: remember talking to Chris.

1999
01:36:59,240 --> 01:37:01,560
Speaker 3: I don't remember if I ate. I think I was

2000
01:37:01,600 --> 01:37:03,120
Speaker 3: just so tired. I just went to sleep.

2001
01:37:03,280 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 2: And but yeah, that was my Friday night. And that's

2002
01:37:06,160 --> 01:37:08,400
Speaker 2: our segment called how is your Friday Night?

2003
01:37:08,479 --> 01:37:08,679
Speaker 1: Guys?

2004
01:37:08,760 --> 01:37:12,880
Speaker 3: Brand new segment, new segment.

2005
01:37:13,600 --> 01:37:16,400
Speaker 4: Let's y'all know that we had a ball and and

2006
01:37:16,479 --> 01:37:18,200
Speaker 4: it ended with us both being lit.

2007
01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:23,519
Speaker 2: Let's wrap this up. Oh go ahead, I'm sorry, go a. Yeah,

2008
01:37:24,720 --> 01:37:27,760
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, uh, go ahead.

2009
01:37:27,640 --> 01:37:29,400
Speaker 4: Go okay.

2010
01:37:29,760 --> 01:37:33,519
Speaker 5: I was gonna say uh uh me and uh, I'm

2011
01:37:33,600 --> 01:37:35,439
Speaker 5: going to the Horness game later on the.

2012
01:37:35,479 --> 01:37:37,560
Speaker 4: Night and I get to go with Laila. I'm excited.

2013
01:37:37,760 --> 01:37:40,080
Speaker 3: I'm excited for you to go to her first time.

2014
01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:42,479
Speaker 3: Make sure y'all take the time going with me. Send

2015
01:37:42,520 --> 01:37:43,120
Speaker 3: me a selfie.

2016
01:37:43,160 --> 01:37:45,040
Speaker 2: I want I want to see y'all enjoy it. I

2017
01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:47,760
Speaker 2: want to see her enjoy the uh you know, the

2018
01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:51,800
Speaker 2: luxuriousness of the other of the box seats and stuff.

2019
01:37:51,840 --> 01:37:53,200
Speaker 3: I feel like that's gonna be dope.

2020
01:37:55,439 --> 01:37:57,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I get the floss in front of my knees,

2021
01:37:57,280 --> 01:37:59,080
Speaker 4: so I'm I'm excited.

2022
01:37:59,280 --> 01:38:02,479
Speaker 5: Uh. But normally, you know, it's hard because a lot

2023
01:38:02,560 --> 01:38:04,519
Speaker 5: of the games are like late. She gotta go to school.

2024
01:38:04,600 --> 01:38:07,080
Speaker 5: She's in high school, so you know, we don't want

2025
01:38:07,160 --> 01:38:08,400
Speaker 5: her to be out. You know, you got to go

2026
01:38:08,439 --> 01:38:10,479
Speaker 5: on to school night in the middle of the week. Yeah,

2027
01:38:10,479 --> 01:38:12,120
Speaker 5: and so I mean, they're not late late, but it

2028
01:38:12,439 --> 01:38:14,160
Speaker 5: put to that bitch just late. When you gotta get

2029
01:38:14,160 --> 01:38:15,559
Speaker 5: about five or six in the morning, that late.

2030
01:38:15,800 --> 01:38:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2031
01:38:16,760 --> 01:38:19,479
Speaker 2: Well, I hope y'all enjoy it. I was gonna do

2032
01:38:19,520 --> 01:38:21,639
Speaker 2: a little guest the race, but I guess we can

2033
01:38:21,720 --> 01:38:27,000
Speaker 2: start wrapping this up. Uh all right, I guess you know,

2034
01:38:27,280 --> 01:38:29,120
Speaker 2: all right, fuck it, let's do some guests the race

2035
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:30,040
Speaker 2: and then we'll wrap it up.

2036
01:38:30,080 --> 01:38:40,599
Speaker 3: Everybody, Yay, it's time to catch the race.

2037
01:38:41,560 --> 01:38:45,920
Speaker 1: It's time to race. It's time to catch the race.

2038
01:38:46,880 --> 01:38:48,599
Speaker 1: It's time to guess the race.

2039
01:38:49,200 --> 01:38:51,360
Speaker 3: All right, guess the race time? You know what it means.

2040
01:38:51,439 --> 01:38:53,479
Speaker 2: We go around the globe, find different articles, guess the

2041
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:56,240
Speaker 2: race of the people involved Karen in the chat room,

2042
01:38:56,320 --> 01:39:00,960
Speaker 2: try to guess who they are, and you know, sometimes

2043
01:39:01,320 --> 01:39:06,240
Speaker 2: they get it wrong. Sometimes they're just racist. I mean,

2044
01:39:06,280 --> 01:39:08,440
Speaker 2: there's really no other way to put it. Guys, sometimes

2045
01:39:09,720 --> 01:39:13,240
Speaker 2: your faves are problematic, and that's what happens in this segment.

2046
01:39:13,640 --> 01:39:16,000
Speaker 2: All right, let's go with the first one. Detroit rapper

2047
01:39:16,120 --> 01:39:18,080
Speaker 2: sent us to four and a half years for tax

2048
01:39:18,200 --> 01:39:18,800
Speaker 2: fraud scheme.

2049
01:39:20,360 --> 01:39:24,200
Speaker 3: A federal judge. A federal judge a sentence a Detroit

2050
01:39:24,280 --> 01:39:26,200
Speaker 3: woman of more than four years in prison for her

2051
01:39:26,280 --> 01:39:29,839
Speaker 3: role in the scheme to defraud the Internal Revenue Service

2052
01:39:30,000 --> 01:39:32,600
Speaker 3: and six states out of twenty eight million dollars in

2053
01:39:32,680 --> 01:39:38,879
Speaker 3: tax returns. What yeah. US Attorney.

2054
01:39:40,280 --> 01:39:43,920
Speaker 2: US Attorney Don Iisen's office announced Friday, the US District

2055
01:39:44,000 --> 01:39:46,759
Speaker 2: Judge Linda Parker sent its forty two year old Samira

2056
01:39:46,920 --> 01:39:49,560
Speaker 2: Morell to four and a half years behind bars in

2057
01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:53,960
Speaker 2: three years on supervised release. A Send's office said Morell

2058
01:39:54,040 --> 01:39:57,200
Speaker 2: pleaded guilty January twenty third to mail fraud, wire fraud,

2059
01:39:57,240 --> 01:40:00,360
Speaker 2: and committed an offense on bond. She was after the

2060
01:40:00,479 --> 01:40:02,280
Speaker 2: Detroit rap group Deuces Wild.

2061
01:40:02,920 --> 01:40:06,200
Speaker 3: According to court records, Morell and accomplices filed one hundred

2062
01:40:06,200 --> 01:40:08,920
Speaker 3: and twenty two false claims for income tax refunds with

2063
01:40:09,000 --> 01:40:09,599
Speaker 3: the RS.

2064
01:40:09,960 --> 01:40:14,320
Speaker 2: They was claiming to everybody kids what They also claimed

2065
01:40:14,360 --> 01:40:18,840
Speaker 2: it in multiple states Minnesota, Georgia, Maryland, Arizona, Connecticut, and Colorado.

2066
01:40:19,880 --> 01:40:22,240
Speaker 4: Goddamn not doing the different allity of calls.

2067
01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:24,720
Speaker 5: You ain't think they they ain't think somebody been just

2068
01:40:24,720 --> 01:40:26,439
Speaker 5: gonna be like, ash, what's happening here?

2069
01:40:26,520 --> 01:40:29,040
Speaker 4: Multiple states out this become a federal crime.

2070
01:40:29,120 --> 01:40:32,719
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, they must have been claiming kids in every state.

2071
01:40:33,520 --> 01:40:39,160
Speaker 2: You know, I got kids, and I got it in

2072
01:40:39,360 --> 01:40:44,559
Speaker 2: different area codes. The claim sought roughly thirteen point seven

2073
01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:47,240
Speaker 2: million dollars from the RS and fourteen point seven million

2074
01:40:47,280 --> 01:40:50,439
Speaker 2: from the states. Neither Morell nor her accomplices were entitled

2075
01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:54,080
Speaker 2: to these refunds, The Department of Justice said on Friday.

2076
01:40:54,360 --> 01:40:57,240
Speaker 2: The false violence were for income tax returns for estates

2077
01:40:57,280 --> 01:40:59,559
Speaker 2: and trust, and claimed that the RS and state tax

2078
01:40:59,600 --> 01:41:01,160
Speaker 2: agency with the held large amounts.

2079
01:41:01,479 --> 01:41:03,080
Speaker 3: The DLJ said in the news elease.

2080
01:41:03,400 --> 01:41:05,800
Speaker 2: Upon investigation the arrest, the state agencies found that they

2081
01:41:05,800 --> 01:41:08,599
Speaker 2: did not withhold any amounts from the trust. The RS

2082
01:41:08,720 --> 01:41:10,880
Speaker 2: and the states paid out eight point five million dollars

2083
01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:13,479
Speaker 2: combined before the claims were discovered to be fraudulent.

2084
01:41:14,880 --> 01:41:16,080
Speaker 4: This happened in the Trump era.

2085
01:41:16,280 --> 01:41:18,080
Speaker 5: I could see some bulletit let that happen because you

2086
01:41:18,120 --> 01:41:19,479
Speaker 5: know why watching shit.

2087
01:41:19,760 --> 01:41:21,800
Speaker 2: Well, when did Trump take office? Because it said twenty

2088
01:41:21,880 --> 01:41:24,280
Speaker 2: fourteen to twenty twenty two, So it sounds like some

2089
01:41:24,439 --> 01:41:28,920
Speaker 2: of this is two of these years is Biden.

2090
01:41:29,240 --> 01:41:32,519
Speaker 3: And then twenty fourteen I think you mean Obama.

2091
01:41:33,120 --> 01:41:37,000
Speaker 2: No, no, no, because twenty twenty was when Biden took office,

2092
01:41:37,920 --> 01:41:40,080
Speaker 2: and they were doing this even in twenty twenty two,

2093
01:41:42,040 --> 01:41:44,360
Speaker 2: so two of those are Biden years, and in twenty

2094
01:41:44,439 --> 01:41:47,880
Speaker 2: fourteen two, So for twenty fourteen to twenty sixteen, that

2095
01:41:47,920 --> 01:41:48,439
Speaker 2: was Obama ya.

2096
01:41:48,479 --> 01:41:50,519
Speaker 3: So they was just gangs. They was gangst it all

2097
01:41:50,520 --> 01:41:52,639
Speaker 3: the time. They didn't care.

2098
01:41:53,880 --> 01:41:56,600
Speaker 4: Throughout three of the president's season, it was like fuck it.

2099
01:41:58,520 --> 01:42:01,559
Speaker 2: So she owes over seven point nine million dollars in restitution,

2100
01:42:01,880 --> 01:42:04,280
Speaker 2: reduced from eight point five million at the federal judge.

2101
01:42:04,760 --> 01:42:07,960
Speaker 2: Government sees money, cars and jewelry from her, dirt from her.

2102
01:42:08,840 --> 01:42:11,679
Speaker 2: Oh they so they said, we did see some money.

2103
01:42:11,720 --> 01:42:13,880
Speaker 2: We're gonna count this towards your restitution. But it was

2104
01:42:13,960 --> 01:42:18,639
Speaker 2: only only it was only six hundred thousand dollars worth

2105
01:42:18,680 --> 01:42:21,479
Speaker 2: of shit. So you still always almost eight million dollars.

2106
01:42:23,960 --> 01:42:25,479
Speaker 2: She had failed to contact everything.

2107
01:42:26,000 --> 01:42:26,720
Speaker 4: You appreciate it.

2108
01:42:27,680 --> 01:42:29,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, they said, you know what, when you bought that,

2109
01:42:31,040 --> 01:42:32,679
Speaker 2: when you bought.

2110
01:42:32,560 --> 01:42:34,479
Speaker 3: That made back, it might have been worth.

2111
01:42:35,800 --> 01:42:39,840
Speaker 2: Seven hundred thousand, but two years later you're not getting

2112
01:42:39,840 --> 01:42:43,840
Speaker 2: all that credit. So she had failed to contact quarter

2113
01:42:43,840 --> 01:42:46,439
Speaker 2: official since July skipped the court here in the late October,

2114
01:42:46,520 --> 01:42:48,240
Speaker 2: during what she was expected to plead guilty the.

2115
01:42:48,240 --> 01:42:52,519
Speaker 3: Wire fraud and the case involved in large in the

2116
01:42:52,600 --> 01:42:55,960
Speaker 3: case involved in large bank accounts, an unsuccessful hip hop career,

2117
01:42:56,040 --> 01:42:58,599
Speaker 3: and millions of dollars that bank rote fancy cars, dorgis

2118
01:42:58,640 --> 01:43:01,599
Speaker 3: or homes. It's crazy how many people want to start

2119
01:43:01,680 --> 01:43:02,000
Speaker 3: being a.

2120
01:43:02,040 --> 01:43:04,559
Speaker 5: Rapper, unsuccessful hip hop career. They were like, because if

2121
01:43:04,600 --> 01:43:06,080
Speaker 5: you were successful, you would have paid us.

2122
01:43:07,840 --> 01:43:10,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, hold on second, I'm anna refresh. I think it

2123
01:43:10,920 --> 01:43:15,519
Speaker 3: was a delay. Sorry, everybody at home. I feel like

2124
01:43:15,640 --> 01:43:16,920
Speaker 3: either we're talking over each other.

2125
01:43:16,880 --> 01:43:22,960
Speaker 4: Or he's like, huh what y'all see what happened that

2126
01:43:23,080 --> 01:43:24,599
Speaker 4: New York Innit was supposed to be better.

2127
01:43:25,120 --> 01:43:27,360
Speaker 3: It might be your internet being slow because you don't

2128
01:43:27,360 --> 01:43:28,519
Speaker 3: want to seem like it's a delay.

2129
01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:28,880
Speaker 5: Not me.

2130
01:43:31,520 --> 01:43:33,599
Speaker 4: I'm fine, I'm talking.

2131
01:43:34,720 --> 01:43:39,679
Speaker 2: Of course, But anyway, the futures drawa folded eighteen months

2132
01:43:39,760 --> 01:43:42,840
Speaker 2: after prosecutors upsell the case, charging Morele and Rapper partner

2133
01:43:42,920 --> 01:43:46,679
Speaker 2: Noel Brown of Romulus were aggravated identity, the false clans

2134
01:43:46,720 --> 01:43:54,040
Speaker 2: and conspiracy. Yeah but yeah, she failed to uh maintain

2135
01:43:54,240 --> 01:43:56,879
Speaker 2: contact with the officers. When the pre trial service officers

2136
01:43:57,400 --> 01:44:00,799
Speaker 2: visited the rappers wig shop in Oak Park, Ark in October,

2137
01:44:01,200 --> 01:44:07,519
Speaker 2: he found that empty. He found an empty storefront. So

2138
01:44:07,680 --> 01:44:09,639
Speaker 2: she was like, I feel like we've covered this before.

2139
01:44:10,920 --> 01:44:12,719
Speaker 2: All these details sound familiar.

2140
01:44:13,560 --> 01:44:16,560
Speaker 4: You know what that wig shops sound familiar. I we

2141
01:44:16,640 --> 01:44:17,519
Speaker 4: got to the wig shop.

2142
01:44:17,640 --> 01:44:18,160
Speaker 3: Free space.

2143
01:44:18,360 --> 01:44:18,720
Speaker 4: I think this.

2144
01:44:18,880 --> 01:44:20,559
Speaker 3: This is black guys. Free space.

2145
01:44:20,880 --> 01:44:23,200
Speaker 4: Okay, that's that's that. That's free space. Okay, we got

2146
01:44:23,240 --> 01:44:23,719
Speaker 4: a free space.

2147
01:44:23,840 --> 01:44:24,840
Speaker 3: Y'all, free space.

2148
01:44:25,120 --> 01:44:26,080
Speaker 4: I take that space.

2149
01:44:26,200 --> 01:44:29,719
Speaker 3: Let's go to the next one. Let's see how about

2150
01:44:30,320 --> 01:44:36,720
Speaker 3: uh A Florida man survives a hurricane by floating on

2151
01:44:36,840 --> 01:44:38,439
Speaker 3: a sofa for two and a half hours.

2152
01:44:39,720 --> 01:44:41,439
Speaker 4: God damn what was that sofa made out of?

2153
01:44:44,400 --> 01:44:47,680
Speaker 3: I kia renaissent or. I don't know, but yeah, his

2154
01:44:47,800 --> 01:44:48,880
Speaker 3: name is David Dean.

2155
01:44:50,080 --> 01:44:53,679
Speaker 2: It was hurricane in he said, I found myself about

2156
01:44:53,720 --> 01:44:56,320
Speaker 2: three or four in the afternoon floating on the sofa

2157
01:44:56,360 --> 01:44:59,679
Speaker 2: with my head just above the ceiling fans eighteen inches

2158
01:44:59,720 --> 01:45:02,680
Speaker 2: below the ceiling. I was gasping for air as a

2159
01:45:02,760 --> 01:45:06,080
Speaker 2: water rose. He planned for the worst an exit route

2160
01:45:06,760 --> 01:45:10,040
Speaker 2: from that point. It was going to be trying to

2161
01:45:10,120 --> 01:45:13,040
Speaker 2: get out the door, hold onto a palm tree or something.

2162
01:45:13,080 --> 01:45:15,240
Speaker 3: The water was very cold. I was shivering. It was

2163
01:45:15,320 --> 01:45:16,080
Speaker 3: pretty horrific.

2164
01:45:16,640 --> 01:45:18,519
Speaker 2: For about two and a half hours, I was bobbing

2165
01:45:18,600 --> 01:45:20,720
Speaker 2: in the water and couldn't touch the bottom, and I

2166
01:45:20,880 --> 01:45:22,559
Speaker 2: was just waiting for the storm to pass.

2167
01:45:25,280 --> 01:45:26,320
Speaker 3: As a storm.

2168
01:45:27,720 --> 01:45:30,920
Speaker 2: Passed, the neighborhood became eerily quiet. This is the home

2169
01:45:30,960 --> 01:45:32,200
Speaker 2: for hundreds of retirees.

2170
01:45:32,240 --> 01:45:32,920
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

2171
01:45:33,680 --> 01:45:38,240
Speaker 2: Okay, now they're just talking about the neighborhood. No fatalities

2172
01:45:38,240 --> 01:45:41,400
Speaker 2: have been confirmed, okay, but doesn't have been confirmed dead

2173
01:45:41,400 --> 01:45:42,920
Speaker 2: across They don't.

2174
01:45:42,720 --> 01:45:45,360
Speaker 3: Say how he got out. He said that the presence

2175
01:45:45,400 --> 01:45:48,080
Speaker 3: of authority here is humbling, and reminded this could have

2176
01:45:48,160 --> 01:45:50,640
Speaker 3: been even worse. I'm hoping they didn't find anybody, but

2177
01:45:51,280 --> 01:45:52,760
Speaker 3: by and large, you'd rather not know.

2178
01:45:53,760 --> 01:45:55,960
Speaker 2: Well, they almost found you. Man tried to ride this

2179
01:45:56,080 --> 01:45:57,719
Speaker 2: thing out. Well, guess the race scared.

2180
01:45:59,520 --> 01:46:05,000
Speaker 4: I'm going when white and I don't know what was that?

2181
01:46:05,840 --> 01:46:07,120
Speaker 4: What was that made out of?

2182
01:46:07,479 --> 01:46:09,760
Speaker 5: And bitch y'all had to take a nap and then

2183
01:46:09,840 --> 01:46:11,719
Speaker 5: wake up a few feet from the silver fan because

2184
01:46:11,720 --> 01:46:12,559
Speaker 5: I'll probably be chop the.

2185
01:46:12,560 --> 01:46:15,920
Speaker 2: Pieces because you know, doesn't the silver fan was probably

2186
01:46:15,960 --> 01:46:17,760
Speaker 2: off care and if there's water flood in the house,

2187
01:46:17,800 --> 01:46:19,040
Speaker 2: there's probably no electricity.

2188
01:46:21,680 --> 01:46:23,920
Speaker 3: So I'm pretty sure he was okay on that front.

2189
01:46:24,439 --> 01:46:26,519
Speaker 3: Uh So, what race did you say?

2190
01:46:27,400 --> 01:46:27,679
Speaker 4: White?

2191
01:46:27,920 --> 01:46:30,679
Speaker 2: All right, chatteram, this is a white man, possible white

2192
01:46:30,760 --> 01:46:34,400
Speaker 2: man white? That good of Kia couch white, white Tom

2193
01:46:34,600 --> 01:46:36,280
Speaker 2: Jerome Hanks, how short?

2194
01:46:36,360 --> 01:46:36,960
Speaker 3: Okay? White?

2195
01:46:37,080 --> 01:46:40,240
Speaker 2: Real wife Homer white, couch potato white. The correct answer

2196
01:46:40,560 --> 01:46:44,720
Speaker 2: is and everyone said the same thing, and everyone got

2197
01:46:44,760 --> 01:46:46,400
Speaker 2: a correct that he was white.

2198
01:47:03,479 --> 01:47:03,639
Speaker 4: Kay.

2199
01:47:03,720 --> 01:47:05,800
Speaker 5: You know the reason how I know he was white

2200
01:47:07,240 --> 01:47:09,559
Speaker 5: because at no point of article did he not say

2201
01:47:09,640 --> 01:47:10,400
Speaker 5: he couldn't swim.

2202
01:47:11,439 --> 01:47:16,080
Speaker 4: Wow, That's why I get paid the big books.

2203
01:47:21,360 --> 01:47:24,439
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the bonus round. We already

2204
01:47:24,479 --> 01:47:26,160
Speaker 2: gave you a free space and we got something to

2205
01:47:26,240 --> 01:47:31,240
Speaker 2: do after this, so let me do bonus round for guests.

2206
01:47:31,280 --> 01:47:41,519
Speaker 1: The race. It's time to guess the race. It's time.

2207
01:47:43,600 --> 01:47:47,479
Speaker 1: It's time to guess the race. It's time to guess

2208
01:47:47,560 --> 01:47:49,400
Speaker 1: the race all right.

2209
01:47:50,479 --> 01:47:54,160
Speaker 2: A nurse OnlyFans is revealed that her employers dismissed her

2210
01:47:54,200 --> 01:47:56,920
Speaker 2: because they felt like she was a distraction to her coworkers.

2211
01:47:57,840 --> 01:48:02,320
Speaker 2: The influencer said on a TikTok video that her employers

2212
01:48:02,560 --> 01:48:05,000
Speaker 2: let her go after learning that her coworkers were viewing

2213
01:48:05,040 --> 01:48:07,840
Speaker 2: her social media accounts while she was at work. The

2214
01:48:07,960 --> 01:48:10,679
Speaker 2: Only Fans performer said in a subsequent video she intends

2215
01:48:10,720 --> 01:48:15,040
Speaker 2: to foul a lawsuit over her termination. She also discussed

2216
01:48:15,040 --> 01:48:17,720
Speaker 2: her decision to continue working as a nurse while simultaneously

2217
01:48:17,760 --> 01:48:20,360
Speaker 2: managing her only Fans page because the income from the

2218
01:48:20,400 --> 01:48:25,160
Speaker 2: adult social media platform varies greatly. I mean, well that

2219
01:48:25,320 --> 01:48:29,559
Speaker 2: part her having an only Fans is not that crazy

2220
01:48:29,640 --> 01:48:32,040
Speaker 2: to me. I do want to know what she does

2221
01:48:32,120 --> 01:48:34,719
Speaker 2: on her TikTok because if she won them TikTok nurses,

2222
01:48:34,760 --> 01:48:35,599
Speaker 2: that's doing the gritty.

2223
01:48:35,640 --> 01:48:37,519
Speaker 3: Why you fucking coding out?

2224
01:48:39,600 --> 01:48:45,360
Speaker 5: Yes see, I hate what's dying on me on the

2225
01:48:45,439 --> 01:48:47,519
Speaker 5: table this.

2226
01:48:48,400 --> 01:48:51,639
Speaker 4: No, you don't deserve this job, right.

2227
01:48:54,720 --> 01:48:55,160
Speaker 3: But yeah.

2228
01:48:55,840 --> 01:48:58,240
Speaker 2: The influencer goes by the name Jay Lenn shared in

2229
01:48:58,320 --> 01:49:00,519
Speaker 2: a TikTok video for her fans that former place of

2230
01:49:00,600 --> 01:49:02,920
Speaker 2: employment was a nursing home where she took care of

2231
01:49:02,960 --> 01:49:05,840
Speaker 2: individuals who required assistance with daily lives. As for her

2232
01:49:05,880 --> 01:49:09,320
Speaker 2: dispensal from her work place of work, she revealed that

2233
01:49:09,479 --> 01:49:12,080
Speaker 2: the nurses often browse her social media only Fans account

2234
01:49:12,080 --> 01:49:14,200
Speaker 2: while she was out attending to residents on the nursing home.

2235
01:49:14,680 --> 01:49:17,360
Speaker 2: Thus made her employers send in one of the female

2236
01:49:17,400 --> 01:49:20,640
Speaker 2: representatives to relieve her of the job. Also want to know, like,

2237
01:49:21,920 --> 01:49:24,639
Speaker 2: what were how did they find out about your only

2238
01:49:24,680 --> 01:49:27,960
Speaker 2: fans and your TikTok, because like if they found out

2239
01:49:28,000 --> 01:49:29,920
Speaker 2: because they were googling you or something, I feel like,

2240
01:49:30,160 --> 01:49:33,000
Speaker 2: you know, that's that's kind of weird and not not weird,

2241
01:49:33,040 --> 01:49:35,760
Speaker 2: but like that's not fair that you got fired for that.

2242
01:49:36,439 --> 01:49:39,280
Speaker 2: If they found out because you was over there doing

2243
01:49:39,360 --> 01:49:43,840
Speaker 2: the busset challenge, Oh you was doing the busset challenge

2244
01:49:43,880 --> 01:49:45,800
Speaker 2: or some shit, then I feel like that's on you.

2245
01:49:45,920 --> 01:49:48,120
Speaker 3: If you was on the clock and they just they

2246
01:49:48,280 --> 01:49:50,240
Speaker 3: know because you made it hard for them not to know.

2247
01:49:51,000 --> 01:49:53,959
Speaker 4: He talking about some Hey babe, there's like, ma'am, ma'am.

2248
01:49:53,880 --> 01:49:57,439
Speaker 2: No, we can't be doing this right exactly like if

2249
01:49:57,479 --> 01:50:01,720
Speaker 2: you and Big Groove was dancing through the lobby of them,

2250
01:50:02,680 --> 01:50:03,800
Speaker 2: we can't have y'all doing this.

2251
01:50:03,960 --> 01:50:06,120
Speaker 3: You over there squeaking and ship with your headphones in

2252
01:50:06,160 --> 01:50:08,880
Speaker 3: your ears. I feel like you got fired for cars.

2253
01:50:10,360 --> 01:50:12,120
Speaker 4: Right in front of right in front of patients. No,

2254
01:50:12,320 --> 01:50:13,200
Speaker 4: you can't do that, She.

2255
01:50:13,320 --> 01:50:16,240
Speaker 2: Said that she can't have that happening every time that

2256
01:50:16,320 --> 01:50:17,800
Speaker 2: I work, So she has to let me go to

2257
01:50:17,920 --> 01:50:19,720
Speaker 2: influence of her kind of adding, the main reason for

2258
01:50:19,800 --> 01:50:20,360
Speaker 2: letting me go is.

2259
01:50:20,360 --> 01:50:22,840
Speaker 3: That they need a job more than I do.

2260
01:50:23,400 --> 01:50:25,920
Speaker 2: Like, they paid me for my site so they all

2261
01:50:26,040 --> 01:50:28,599
Speaker 2: could see and look at the they paid for my site,

2262
01:50:28,720 --> 01:50:31,040
Speaker 2: or only fans so they all can see and look

2263
01:50:31,080 --> 01:50:32,679
Speaker 2: at the nurse station while they're on the clock.

2264
01:50:34,600 --> 01:50:36,400
Speaker 3: Well you shouldn't you be happy to have the money.

2265
01:50:36,760 --> 01:50:39,800
Speaker 2: In the comment section on the club fans and of

2266
01:50:39,880 --> 01:50:43,360
Speaker 2: the influencer slam the actions of the nursing home advising

2267
01:50:43,680 --> 01:50:45,000
Speaker 2: Jaylen suit for damages.

2268
01:50:45,960 --> 01:50:49,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course they're your only fans. Of course they're

2269
01:50:50,000 --> 01:50:50,920
Speaker 3: gonna be on your side.

2270
01:50:51,120 --> 01:50:52,000
Speaker 4: It's in the title.

2271
01:50:52,360 --> 01:50:54,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, they wouldn't be doing that, drib or not. They've

2272
01:50:54,800 --> 01:50:56,679
Speaker 2: been like, listen, they shouldn't have fined.

2273
01:50:56,479 --> 01:50:56,800
Speaker 5: You for that.

2274
01:50:58,640 --> 01:50:59,320
Speaker 4: Can you stick that?

2275
01:50:59,760 --> 01:51:02,160
Speaker 3: Can you stick that stethoscope in your pussy real quick?

2276
01:51:03,640 --> 01:51:05,680
Speaker 3: I mean, but yeah, it's very unprofessional that they got

2277
01:51:05,760 --> 01:51:08,400
Speaker 3: ready on the fan, one fan said, it's one hundred

2278
01:51:08,439 --> 01:51:10,600
Speaker 3: and ten percent of lawsuit, no question asked unless it

2279
01:51:10,600 --> 01:51:14,240
Speaker 3: specifically says something in the code of contact for that employer.

2280
01:51:14,640 --> 01:51:16,880
Speaker 2: Another follower rote, get a lawyer. You can one hundred

2281
01:51:16,880 --> 01:51:18,200
Speaker 2: percent suit for wrong for termination.

2282
01:51:18,280 --> 01:51:18,720
Speaker 4: You will win.

2283
01:51:18,800 --> 01:51:20,120
Speaker 3: It's illegal to fire you for that.

2284
01:51:20,600 --> 01:51:20,720
Speaker 4: Now.

2285
01:51:20,760 --> 01:51:22,840
Speaker 3: What's interesting is that I didn't cover this article when

2286
01:51:22,880 --> 01:51:26,360
Speaker 3: it happened, which is like last year, and all the

2287
01:51:26,479 --> 01:51:29,880
Speaker 3: Instagram posts that were up or down, so I don't

2288
01:51:29,920 --> 01:51:32,040
Speaker 3: know if she deleted on or what.

2289
01:51:33,439 --> 01:51:36,800
Speaker 5: So possibility like, Okay, I don't want the shit to

2290
01:51:36,840 --> 01:51:39,080
Speaker 5: happen again. Let me just go ahead, any race, every

2291
01:51:39,240 --> 01:51:39,880
Speaker 5: every let me.

2292
01:51:39,960 --> 01:51:41,800
Speaker 4: Just screw up everything so I don't have to deal

2293
01:51:41,840 --> 01:51:42,519
Speaker 4: with this. Yeah.

2294
01:51:42,560 --> 01:51:45,879
Speaker 2: I don't even see her TikTok account on here anymore.

2295
01:51:46,040 --> 01:51:49,840
Speaker 2: So it makes you wonder did she win, did she lose?

2296
01:51:50,120 --> 01:51:54,320
Speaker 2: Like what exactly what was happening? Uh, it looks like

2297
01:51:54,400 --> 01:51:56,760
Speaker 2: she go by playgirl Jaylen. I'm trying to see if

2298
01:51:56,800 --> 01:51:58,040
Speaker 2: she's even still.

2299
01:51:59,280 --> 01:52:03,000
Speaker 4: On here. Yeah, she's still on only fans.

2300
01:52:03,960 --> 01:52:06,479
Speaker 3: Uh, so it looks like she still has an account,

2301
01:52:06,479 --> 01:52:08,519
Speaker 3: but she must have took that ship down.

2302
01:52:10,160 --> 01:52:14,320
Speaker 4: So I don't know her not wanting in comes. You

2303
01:52:14,439 --> 01:52:16,960
Speaker 4: know what, it's too inconsistent, it ain't worth it.

2304
01:52:17,439 --> 01:52:19,840
Speaker 5: Yes, she might have just got a whole nother name,

2305
01:52:20,200 --> 01:52:22,040
Speaker 5: like you know, just like fuck it, I just scrap

2306
01:52:22,160 --> 01:52:23,519
Speaker 5: all this ship and that whole other.

2307
01:52:23,640 --> 01:52:23,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2308
01:52:23,840 --> 01:52:26,479
Speaker 2: It actually looks like more people are talking about her

2309
01:52:26,840 --> 01:52:30,000
Speaker 2: than her. And like one of her main videos that

2310
01:52:30,080 --> 01:52:32,479
Speaker 2: you see when you search her name is when You

2311
01:52:32,640 --> 01:52:36,160
Speaker 2: Live a Double Life, And it's her dress. It's her

2312
01:52:36,320 --> 01:52:42,519
Speaker 2: dressed in her clothes for work so and then dressed

2313
01:52:42,520 --> 01:52:46,040
Speaker 2: it to her like stripper outfits. So like it's just

2314
01:52:46,200 --> 01:52:46,800
Speaker 2: one of those one.

2315
01:52:46,840 --> 01:52:50,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, like you can't be in your uniform doll, like, nah,

2316
01:52:50,479 --> 01:52:52,200
Speaker 5: you know you can't. You got you got to be

2317
01:52:52,280 --> 01:52:54,439
Speaker 5: stripper only when you're doing this. You can't have us

2318
01:52:54,520 --> 01:52:57,120
Speaker 5: out here, yeah, with your name tag on.

2319
01:52:57,520 --> 01:52:59,519
Speaker 2: And I don't want to tell you how it spelled Jack, guys,

2320
01:52:59,520 --> 01:53:02,759
Speaker 2: because I was. We're playing guests the race Uh Jesus

2321
01:53:02,960 --> 01:53:08,480
Speaker 2: cheater much but uh guess the race of Jaylen Karen.

2322
01:53:10,080 --> 01:53:12,479
Speaker 3: Nice. Spell It's spell. It's spelled j A E L

2323
01:53:12,640 --> 01:53:13,240
Speaker 3: y N. Guys.

2324
01:53:13,720 --> 01:53:16,640
Speaker 4: Go ahead, car, I'm going jay Len is.

2325
01:53:18,320 --> 01:53:23,760
Speaker 2: White, all right, chat room white? Okay, care is going black.

2326
01:53:23,920 --> 01:53:25,320
Speaker 2: I mean, we do have a lot of r ns

2327
01:53:25,360 --> 01:53:30,880
Speaker 2: in the community. White, black, white, very mixed in the

2328
01:53:30,960 --> 01:53:36,000
Speaker 2: chat room. Yeah yeah, yeah, white as a fetish leather

2329
01:53:36,160 --> 01:53:39,760
Speaker 2: nurse out uniform. Uh, we've come full circle on this

2330
01:53:39,840 --> 01:53:43,600
Speaker 2: episode Asian white like the snow I'm looking at. The

2331
01:53:43,720 --> 01:53:49,560
Speaker 2: correct answer is I believe she is white? I was

2332
01:53:49,600 --> 01:54:02,680
Speaker 2: so Karen, you missed it and of course something you

2333
01:54:02,760 --> 01:54:13,200
Speaker 2: got it right, that's her definite. Yeah, she's white, really

2334
01:54:13,360 --> 01:54:13,840
Speaker 2: like skinned it.

2335
01:54:13,960 --> 01:54:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2336
01:54:14,120 --> 01:54:17,599
Speaker 2: I think she's white me too, you know, but yeah,

2337
01:54:17,680 --> 01:54:19,559
Speaker 2: look at her. This is her video she put up

2338
01:54:20,640 --> 01:54:23,080
Speaker 2: and it's her talking about like when you had to job.

2339
01:54:23,200 --> 01:54:24,759
Speaker 3: This is her in the nursing uniform.

2340
01:54:26,240 --> 01:54:26,840
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.

2341
01:54:26,920 --> 01:54:29,840
Speaker 3: I mean, like I said, I'm not I got I

2342
01:54:29,880 --> 01:54:31,479
Speaker 3: don't want to sound like a fucking prove, but I'm

2343
01:54:31,560 --> 01:54:34,480
Speaker 3: just saying, like there is like we do live in

2344
01:54:34,560 --> 01:54:37,560
Speaker 3: a world. We know everybody's not like down with this, right,

2345
01:54:37,720 --> 01:54:42,120
Speaker 3: Like you know what I'm saying, like where people might.

2346
01:54:42,640 --> 01:54:44,520
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess if this is your calls or whatever,

2347
01:54:44,640 --> 01:54:47,480
Speaker 2: but you are on the cutting edge of the calls.

2348
01:54:47,600 --> 01:54:50,360
Speaker 2: If your whole thing is like listen, I'll be having

2349
01:54:50,400 --> 01:54:51,120
Speaker 2: my titties out.

2350
01:54:51,240 --> 01:54:53,120
Speaker 3: And I don't see why that would be an issue

2351
01:54:53,200 --> 01:54:54,840
Speaker 3: for me as your lawyer or whatever.

2352
01:54:55,080 --> 01:54:59,000
Speaker 2: Like, okay, but the world's not there yet, right, this

2353
01:54:59,120 --> 01:55:03,400
Speaker 2: is crazy video clicked on except for this one is

2354
01:55:03,480 --> 01:55:07,640
Speaker 2: from someone talking about her, you know what I mean,

2355
01:55:08,240 --> 01:55:12,400
Speaker 2: Like it's someone else saying their thoughts on her or something, and.

2356
01:55:12,600 --> 01:55:14,320
Speaker 4: She basically has script herself away.

2357
01:55:15,080 --> 01:55:18,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, because yeah, I don't.

2358
01:55:18,680 --> 01:55:20,880
Speaker 2: I mean, look, I don't feel like she shouldn't be

2359
01:55:20,920 --> 01:55:24,360
Speaker 2: allowed to have a job or any of that stuff.

2360
01:55:24,520 --> 01:55:30,160
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's just apparently whatever's happening is just everybody

2361
01:55:31,240 --> 01:55:33,760
Speaker 2: making her content of their content.

2362
01:55:34,000 --> 01:55:35,560
Speaker 3: Like, I'm what do they talking about?

2363
01:55:35,560 --> 01:55:38,000
Speaker 5: It's officially Fat Guy Season?

2364
01:55:38,400 --> 01:55:40,640
Speaker 4: So you then ask pizza cross ass motherfuckers.

2365
01:55:43,040 --> 01:55:46,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So she had a video saying she's in the

2366
01:55:46,640 --> 01:55:49,800
Speaker 2: Fat Guys and then someone tagged it or something.

2367
01:55:49,920 --> 01:55:52,240
Speaker 3: Man, I don't understand TikTok. I'm just at a coll people.

2368
01:55:52,680 --> 01:55:56,040
Speaker 4: She's definitely white. She she didn't say compet season, so white.

2369
01:55:56,240 --> 01:55:56,440
Speaker 5: Yeah.

2370
01:55:56,800 --> 01:55:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, at least she wasn't trying to do like black

2371
01:55:59,040 --> 01:56:01,560
Speaker 2: people dances, you know, small miracles.

2372
01:56:01,920 --> 01:56:04,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, at least she's honey. She stuck to it.

2373
01:56:04,880 --> 01:56:07,320
Speaker 3: She was like, listen, y'all want to see these and he.

2374
01:56:07,440 --> 01:56:11,120
Speaker 4: Going you give love a bad name. That was she,

2375
01:56:11,320 --> 01:56:12,280
Speaker 4: That was she's stumping to.

2376
01:56:12,520 --> 01:56:14,920
Speaker 3: She definitely wants some sugar poured on her, all right.

2377
01:56:14,960 --> 01:56:19,960
Speaker 4: Just like just like what's some share ownly, that's what she's.

2378
01:56:19,840 --> 01:56:22,160
Speaker 3: Listening for, just like y'all do it, y'all grit. She

2379
01:56:22,400 --> 01:56:24,360
Speaker 3: nasty sons of bitches, all right.

2380
01:56:24,480 --> 01:56:27,840
Speaker 2: Last thing, let's talk about sword ratchetness, so you can

2381
01:56:27,880 --> 01:56:51,280
Speaker 2: get out of here, all right. A man has been

2382
01:56:51,520 --> 01:56:55,560
Speaker 2: sentenced for fatally stabbing his mom and grandmam with a sword.

2383
01:56:57,040 --> 01:56:58,880
Speaker 4: Oh she ain't got a too for one. What is

2384
01:56:58,920 --> 01:56:59,480
Speaker 4: happening here?

2385
01:57:00,120 --> 01:57:00,320
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2386
01:57:02,040 --> 01:57:06,000
Speaker 2: He his name was Kevin Hodges. He will see separate

2387
01:57:06,040 --> 01:57:09,880
Speaker 2: twenty five year sentences Friday for the December twenty six

2388
01:57:11,320 --> 01:57:14,879
Speaker 2: I don't have a picture, but December twenty sixth sixteen.

2389
01:57:15,480 --> 01:57:18,000
Speaker 2: DEA's a fifty six year old Rebecca Hodges and seventy

2390
01:57:18,000 --> 01:57:20,360
Speaker 2: six year old Darthy Bradshaw. But he will serve the

2391
01:57:20,480 --> 01:57:25,080
Speaker 2: terms concurrently. He pleaded guilty to aggravated manslaughter on both counts.

2392
01:57:26,240 --> 01:57:29,120
Speaker 2: They suffered multiple stab wounds. He was found a block

2393
01:57:29,160 --> 01:57:31,200
Speaker 2: away from the home, covered in blood and admitted to

2394
01:57:31,280 --> 01:57:35,360
Speaker 2: being high on PCP at the time. I gotta say

2395
01:57:35,760 --> 01:57:39,880
Speaker 2: PCP got the worst advertising of any drugs. Maybe maybe

2396
01:57:40,040 --> 01:57:43,360
Speaker 2: meth is number one, but PCP, like on his neck,

2397
01:57:43,440 --> 01:57:48,080
Speaker 2: it's right there, on his neck, it's right there because like, man,

2398
01:57:48,360 --> 01:57:52,120
Speaker 2: PCP be having the most like of the of the

2399
01:57:52,240 --> 01:57:54,960
Speaker 2: police reports, the most like, God, damn, I don't ever

2400
01:57:55,000 --> 01:57:58,080
Speaker 2: want to do that, you know, ever, Like, yeah, it

2401
01:57:58,160 --> 01:57:59,919
Speaker 2: made me stab my mama, my grandmama.

2402
01:58:00,000 --> 01:58:03,200
Speaker 3: I thought I was fighting the ninja turtles. You're like, God, damn,

2403
01:58:03,200 --> 01:58:04,560
Speaker 3: who wants to ever get this high?

2404
01:58:05,600 --> 01:58:10,080
Speaker 2: There's no feeling in the world worth this. All right, y'all,

2405
01:58:10,120 --> 01:58:12,840
Speaker 2: that's it, man, thanks for listening. We'll you know, once again,

2406
01:58:12,920 --> 01:58:13,600
Speaker 2: play it my ear.

2407
01:58:13,680 --> 01:58:14,120
Speaker 5: This week.

2408
01:58:14,360 --> 01:58:17,400
Speaker 3: It may be a busy week because I may be

2409
01:58:17,520 --> 01:58:21,080
Speaker 3: working on this deep dive more like, like I said,

2410
01:58:21,120 --> 01:58:23,200
Speaker 3: to turn around on this shit is a lot faster.

2411
01:58:23,880 --> 01:58:27,160
Speaker 2: But it might be a light week. It might be,

2412
01:58:27,440 --> 01:58:29,000
Speaker 2: you know, I hand it off to Zach. He's the

2413
01:58:29,040 --> 01:58:33,400
Speaker 2: head writer. He starts doing his thing and and boom,

2414
01:58:33,560 --> 01:58:38,400
Speaker 2: you know, so we'll see. But you know, your boys

2415
01:58:38,480 --> 01:58:41,560
Speaker 2: out here doing this thing, and you know, and Karen,

2416
01:58:41,640 --> 01:58:43,000
Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy the game.

2417
01:58:43,040 --> 01:58:46,280
Speaker 3: I'll be watching it on TV and look out for

2418
01:58:46,480 --> 01:58:48,760
Speaker 3: y'all behind the paywall on what's the tea.

2419
01:58:49,280 --> 01:58:52,400
Speaker 2: You may see a couple familiar faces over there. All right,

2420
01:58:53,560 --> 01:58:55,560
Speaker 2: that's it until next time.

2421
01:58:56,080 --> 01:58:58,760
Speaker 3: I love you, I love you too.

2422
01:58:59,480 --> 01:58:59,640
Speaker 4: Why