1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: I heart Radio, now number one for podcasting, presents Sunday 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: Night Podcast. Every Sunday, we played one of the most 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: played and most listened to and most share podcasts of 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: the week from a two hundred and fifty thousand podcasts 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: available in the free i heeart radio app. Find your 6 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: next favorite podcast on iHeartRadio. This week is The Breakfast 7 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: Club thirty morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: the God. We are the Breakfast Club. Now if you 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,479 Speaker 1: just join us, we're talking the word bitch, the b word. 10 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: Who are you calling a bitch? Right now? This conversation 11 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: comes from our conversation we had with Academics yesterday where 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: people were upset and believe he referred to Little Wayne's daughter, 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: Regend Carter, little Wayne and uh Toya's daughter, and people 14 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: are upset about it. So we're asking, let's talk about 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: the word bitch. Yeah, I think it's bigger than academics. 16 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: As you started, Yeah, this is this is a this 17 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: is a That word has been a cultural staple for 18 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: a long time. All right, So we're asking, let's start 19 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: with you, what's your what's your doing? Well, I think 20 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: for women, we talk to each other like that in 21 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: a positive way, like six we'd be like bitch, you know, 22 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: and so I feel like that's not going anywhere. You know. 23 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: The problem is that a lot of times, like say 24 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: Missy Elliott, she's a bitch or a train us the 25 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: baddest bitch. But like the reason why I remember when 26 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: Missy Elliott was talking about that song, she was saying, 27 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: that's because a lot of times men try to use 28 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: that word for women who are being authoritative and in 29 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: a position of power, and sometimes you have to quote 30 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: be a bitch, even though you're just doing the same 31 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 1: thing that men do. And so I feel like it's 32 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: used as a put down in some ways. So I 33 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: think it's just a matter of context. Like a lot 34 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: of times women will say that they're taking their power 35 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: back by using a word that has been commonly used 36 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: to try to talk about all women, and you know, 37 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: it has been used that way, So I think for 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: women using it for each other and done nowt him 39 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: and I had a conversation about him using that word 40 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: too much. So we've both agreed that he can only 41 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: use it if he's saying the baddest bitch. And here's 42 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: the thing we all know better in regard to that word. 43 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: We know, Dan well, we shouldn't be using that word 44 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: in any context, but we do. And it's actually a 45 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: staple in hip hop vernacular, have been for years. And 46 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: every eld that we've ever had from see the Lords, 47 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: Tuck Hood and Malcolm X the minute the prior con 48 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: every elder has told us not to use the word 49 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: period in regard to women. But we haven't listened. So 50 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 1: here we are. And it's hilarious to me to watch 51 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:17,679 Speaker 1: people twist themselves and the prench who are trying to 52 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: justify who can use the word and who can't, and 53 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: getting mad at people for using the word that if 54 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: they haven't been using it in reference to women for years. Personally, 55 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: it's not my thing. You know, not saying not saying 56 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: bitch in reference to women is way easier for me 57 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: than you know, not saying nigga in reference to niggas. 58 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone lines. What about your opinion, 59 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: um bige bitch? See here you go. I mean I 60 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: think you once you get to a point where, especially 61 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: when you have daughters and you start to evolve, I don't. 62 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: I don't use that word. I never lift service in Oakland. 63 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: They kept using it during the lift service live and 64 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: we'd be like yo, stopping and then like we just 65 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: use that word all the time. Oakland uses it a lot. 66 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: I mean too short that it's all what's my favorite word? Bh? 67 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: I gonna make it right though now it doesn't make 68 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: it right. I mean, see, I don't. I don't have to. 69 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: I just like you said, I got four daughters, so 70 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I just don't. Um. But 71 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: let's go to the phone lines. But sheelle, good morning. Hey, 72 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: what's your thought on the word bitch and especially men 73 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: using it? Everybody used the word bit, so I don't 74 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: get what's the big So you're not offended by when 75 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: when people used the word bitch, they used it so 76 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: much and took the power out of it. Were you 77 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 1: from old? No, you say they used it so much 78 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: they took the power out of So what people mad about? 79 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: Then that's what she's saying. She said everybody uses it. 80 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: Everybody doesn't bother her, So for her, she believe you 81 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: say that until somebody if my francocle on me a bit, 82 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: Why are we offended by anybody else? You mean to 83 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: tell me if a random scrange to walk up to 84 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: you and say you must be asked, bitch. You ain't 85 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: gonna be mad you've broke ass, bitch. I'm probably gonna lie. Really, 86 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: maybe she must be no defender. I don't believe you. 87 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: I just don't believe you. But if you say so, 88 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: she's unbothered. So you mean to tell me not even 89 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: musty gonna bother. You're not even gonna smell in your 90 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: arms and nothing, because I'm not. I know I'm not 91 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: a musty ass bitch. So most musty ass bitches can't 92 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: smell a hello male off female? Okay, hello, hello, Hey, 93 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: good morning. What's what's your thought on the word bitch? 94 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: You know, my fourteen year old listened to a lot 95 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: of rock music, and I just started listening to your 96 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: sta and a couple of weeks ago to be able 97 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: to embrace it. And I don't know how I feel 98 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: about it when it comes to me compared to my son, 99 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: compared to a man saying it, so, I'm actually I 100 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: don't really know a man saying that, I understand its generalizing, 101 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: a woman saying it, does she really mean bitch? And 102 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 1: then to my son saying I'm really I'm very perplexed. 103 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: About it. It is a conundrum. But I know if 104 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: your son called you to B word, I don't know 105 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: if you'd have a son, I think, I think you'd 106 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: be playing in a funeral or something. You're able to 107 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: use it in conversation, and if it's okay hey to 108 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: use it in conversation. I don't. I don't understand how 109 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: that's possible. I just don't. I don't know. I I'm 110 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: fifty one years old, So I grew up in the 111 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 1: eighties and there's words back then we use it, we 112 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: can't use now. That fact. Now there's the word. Yeah. 113 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: Now there's word coming up that I couldn't use before 114 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: that it's okay to use now. I'm a little confused. 115 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: So the question I mean Caucasian because you said you 116 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: said listening to rap music and you don't really listen. 117 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 1: So are you what are you? Man? What do you? 118 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 1: What do you mean? What I'm saying? What's a white 119 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: So when you listen to pout music town, everything is okay. 120 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: So when you're when you're standing in music, they don't 121 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 1: say bitch. In country songs, they don't say bitch and 122 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: nothing like that. You know, I don't listen to the country. 123 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 1: I listen to rock, so for me, it's every day 124 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: from the seventies and they didn't use words like that, 125 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: at least the songs that I use got you the 126 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 1: word bitch and hole when the N word and you know, 127 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 1: like it's really when you listen to that music, and 128 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 1: I don't mind him listen into it. That's why I'm 129 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: trying to embrace it. N word. Are you talking about 130 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 1: the N word? That's like every rap song, boy, naughty neighbor. 131 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: I can't say it on my life. You know that 132 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: he knows that, But I don't know about the B word. 133 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: I know the rule about the N word, but I 134 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: don't know the rule about the D word. I don't 135 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: know the rule about none of That's what That's what 136 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 1: we try to figure out. When you have a good morning, 137 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 1: Thank you have a great day. All right, this is 138 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: sad A hundred five A five one on five one. 139 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: We're talking about the B word, bitch. When can we 140 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 1: use it? When can we not use it? What's your 141 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: thoughts on it? All right, let's talk about A eight 142 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: hundred and five A five one five one at the 143 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: breakfast club. Go Morning. The free i Heeart radio app 144 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,799 Speaker 1: has over two hundred and fifty thousand podcasts to explore. 145 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: Yes this is the Breakfast Club thirty part of Sunday 146 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: Night podcast on iHeartRadio Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, angelau Ye, 147 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club now for 148 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: you're just joining us. We're talking about the B word. 149 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: This conversation sparked from Academic stopping to do yesterday. People 150 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 1: are upset with him because he used the B word 151 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: when he was kind of not really referring to Regenate Carter, 152 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: and people were hot about it. Yeah, they were saying, 153 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: shouldn't talk to Little Wayne's daughter like that, which actually, 154 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: you know, shoudn't talk to anybody that's still reinforcing patriarchy 155 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: because you know, you're not saying, you know, don't call 156 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: her to B word because you shouldn't call women to 157 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: be word. You're saying, don't call her to B word 158 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: because that's Little Wayne's daughter. So you're still respecting the 159 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: man more in that situation than you are the woman. 160 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five A five one oh 161 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: five one the word bitch? Is it okay to use? One? 162 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: Is it okay to use Let's go to the phone lines. Hello, 163 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: who's this? Yes, good morning? This just kind from Tampa. Day. 164 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: Hey Ken from Tampa, Baker morning, how you feel like 165 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: Wheathery're okay, there's holding out. It's gonna get a little 166 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: worse flitter on, but you know, I'm just scrateful. Scrateful. 167 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: You got your first honors on the show. You got 168 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: your toilet paper and water and all that stuff and 169 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: food can food and okay perfect. What's your opinion on 170 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: the B word? Yea? So basically, in short, I believe 171 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: that the only exception for using the B word is 172 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: when you are threatened or uh in a bad positions 173 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: like domestic bounce or something like that. Wait wait, wait, 174 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: wait wait what do you mean if you if you 175 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: be a threatened? What do you yeah, please explain, like 176 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: you like just a life that's threatened. It's like a 177 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: sense mech don't kill me, bitch, get away from me. 178 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: So that would probably the only exception. Otherwise it's really installing. 179 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: I would never call a woman that. That's just ridiculous. Okay, 180 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: I agree? So what term would you use it? So 181 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: can you explain, like when you see me threatened? Like, 182 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: how would you use it in a sentence? Go. Well, 183 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: let's say someone comes after you with a weapon or 184 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: something like that. Then you could probably say be please 185 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 1: do not approach me wise. No, no, Now you're really 186 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,839 Speaker 1: gonna get it because you called me a bitch. Now 187 00:08:57,880 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: you're really gonna get it. Now, you're really gonna get it. 188 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: To watch your mouth, bitch, Please don't approach me with this. 189 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: That ain't gonna work. You can't be polite and slanderous 190 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: at the same time. All right, bitch, please don't shoot me. 191 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: Don't shoot me, bitch please? What like? What's up? Man? 192 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: What are we doing? Yeah? Yeah, don't be my own 193 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: exception for that rule. Otherwise that's the wrong work to use. Yes, yes, sir, 194 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 1: I understand, Thank you kid. Goodness gracious man. Let me 195 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: just go to one more live. Tellou who's this? Hey, 196 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: it's um Whitney lad on. I actually was calling earlier 197 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: to speak about the academics. Bitch word. I'm the girl 198 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: that the he was ulling the gun out on him 199 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: on the podcast. That's bad. I remember that you said 200 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: you were there, you were reaching in your bag, so 201 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: he felt the threatened, but you said you didn't have 202 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: a gun. Yeah, Well, you know, here's a bitch, here's 203 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: a bit speaking on females that he's speaking on calling 204 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: girls out their name, Like, you can't really expect much 205 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: more from That's just what he is. It's his character. 206 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: So I feel like all the people that you know 207 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: holding him accountable for that, it's like doing the right 208 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 1: thing because we got to start calling you stay on this. 209 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 1: What about other men calling you to be worried man, Well, 210 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 1: it's all about the past. Like, it's all about the 211 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: the set up, the like how you're the intention, the 212 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: intention and pent. Basically, if you're like you you broke bit, 213 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: you had it, you know, whatever it is, you got 214 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: em their tent, and then obviously I'm getting offended. But 215 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: if you're coming at me and he's like, bitch, feel slid, Bitch, 216 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: you'll cidy, Bitch, you'r fun of you here, Bitch, you're stupid. 217 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: It's a context. What about this bitch? You got a 218 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: good in your postable? Huh yeah, bitch, don't kill me 219 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: earlier bit, don't shooper that nice? Well, thank you for 220 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: calling me. Y'all got to invite me up here. Y'all 221 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: seem like so much fun. No, you got guns, we're 222 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: gonna bring you up here to pull up, pull guns 223 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 1: out on nothing. Then you didn't have a gun, right, 224 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: she said she did so when I'm going out over 225 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: and now verbal argument, But did you have a gun 226 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: in your pocketboat? You can't even lie. You can't even lie. 227 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: You should say no. That's why we're not inviting you. No, 228 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: I don't have no goods. Where are you from, man, 229 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: You're from Florida, right from Cleveland, Oh, Cleveland. Have a 230 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: juice bar, y'all let me know wh y'all come in town. 231 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: Let me help y'all avance, let me do some catering. 232 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: Y'all all natural juices. What about security? Security? Security? Anytime? Security? Man? 233 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: I love black people so much. Man. She went from 234 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: pulling a gun on a bit to saying, I got 235 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 1: all natural juices, and y'all we are the most well 236 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 1: rounded people on this planet. You hear me. Can nobody 237 00:11:50,160 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: do it black people too? Oh? My god? Man? Oh 238 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: all the story? I don't know. I forgot what we 239 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: were talking about. Man, I guess you're not for me. 240 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: It's just like this. Why you can't attempt to stand 241 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: on a moral high ground in regards to the B word, 242 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: because clearly in hip hop that moral high ground is shaky, 243 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: not even just in hip hop, and in American culture, 244 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: that moral high ground is shaking. Folks do not keep 245 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: the same energy on who should use it and who shouldn't. 246 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: It's based on a person by person basis, and that's 247 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: not right. If something's wrong, you should be wrong all 248 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: across the board. Thank you, my bit. That didn't even 249 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 1: hit right. No, I ain't even hit when I say. 250 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: When I say bend dover, bage bitch. Put that thing up, mommy, 251 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: make it row. So if you call me bage bitch, 252 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 1: what can I call you high class black bitch? Okay? 253 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: All right? How you like that? You like that? You 254 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: like that? You like that? You like that? You like 255 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: that better? It's the Breakfast Club. Come on my Heart 256 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: Radio for podcast discovery. This is the Breakfast Club. Third 257 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: we go your chance to hear the biggest trending podcast 258 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 1: each week from the Heart Radio Act. I was born 259 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: a donkey. It's the Donkey of the Death Devil Breakfast Club. Yes, 260 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 1: Dunkey Today for Tuesday, September twenty seventh, goes to a 261 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: man whose name has not been released yet because he 262 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 1: has not been charged with anything. But oh, it's just 263 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: a matter of time. Now I'm a chance to six 264 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: twenty nine. We out here dropping a clues bums for 265 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: all the cancers out there. What's happening? One thing about 266 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: us cancers we hold grucious Okay. It is an astrological 267 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: fact that cancers who are ruled by the moon have 268 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: a common problem of holding a grudge against someone for 269 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: a long time. I called it a common problem for 270 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: a reason because it is Okay, we cannot easily forget things. 271 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 1: Cancers are by far one of the most emotional zodiac signs, 272 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 1: where it is very common for US cancers to get 273 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:58,319 Speaker 1: caught up and how we are feeling. Okay, rather than 274 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 1: trying to be logical about it. When we hold a 275 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: grudge against someone, we can do it for years. That's 276 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 1: why therapy is so important. Okay, so we can learn 277 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: to let that hurt go, because if we don't, we 278 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: will end up like this man whose name has not 279 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: been released, but apparently he's been holding a grudge for 280 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: forty eight years now. I don't know his astrological sign, 281 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: but I would bet some money that is can't stand. 282 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: I don't even gamble. Okay. See, there's a woman named 283 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: Linda Terrello She died of canter in twenty seventeen. She 284 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: was sixty six years old. God bless the dad, rest 285 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 1: in peace to her. And she is buried just over 286 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: the state line in Orange Sound in New York. And 287 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: in the nineteen seventies she was briefly married to this man. Now, 288 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell happened in this brief marriage, 289 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: but this man is clearly holding a grudge against this woman. 290 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: A matter of fact, holding a grudge is an understatement. 291 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: We will discuss after we go to News twelve for 292 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: the report. Please, and we begin tonight with the charge 293 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: a man is now facing for continuously urinating on a 294 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: grave in Japan. Let's get right to News twelves Darius 295 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: Rodsias with the d tails on why and Darius, what 296 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 1: have you been learning tonight? The family says that they 297 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: shared the video with police that showed a man urinating 298 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: on the grave here at the Tappen Reform Church cemetery. 299 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: The family says they believe it's the ex husband of 300 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: the woman buried here. Their daughter, Renee Berrigan, told me 301 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: that they started to find bags of feces at the 302 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: grave as early as April. At first, she thought it 303 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: was trash, but then notice that the feces was being 304 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 1: left here regularly, and that's why she decided to put 305 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: up the camera every morning for forty hys. This man 306 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: had been waking up to go see the sunset, and 307 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: on the way to go see the sunset, he urinates 308 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: on the grave of his ex wife, not just peeing 309 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: on the grave, but leaving bags of poop at her 310 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: final resting place. Whoever this person is is absolutely taking 311 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: let that go out of context. Okay, for years, someone 312 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: who's been telling him to let that go. So he 313 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: decided to not just let that go, but it up 314 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: and place it on the grave site of his ex wife. 315 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: Not just letting this go, but it's P two. One 316 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: of the hardest lessons in life is letting go, whether 317 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: it's guilt, anger, love lost, or betrayal. I don't understand 318 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: people who hold on the resentment towards other people, especially 319 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: for nothing. Okay, I wish I would wake up every 320 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: day and have someone else on my mind so much 321 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: that I think about ways to hurt them even in death. 322 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: Do you realize you only hurting yourself. Folks say it 323 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: may hurt to let go, but sometimes it hurts more 324 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: to hold on. This dude is clearly hurting. This is 325 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: one of those times where it's clearly hurting this man 326 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: to hold on. I mean, on a scale of one 327 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: to fifty cent this is petty levels we have never 328 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: seen before. All Right, this dude needs deep psychotherapy and 329 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: his ass beat. We keep acting like violences in an option. 330 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: But if you caught a man peeing on your mother's grave, 331 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: how would you react? How am I supposed to not 332 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: beat your ass when I see you peeing on someone's grave? 333 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: And if the marriage was brief, your grudge can't be 334 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: longer in the marriage lasted, Okay, forty eight years of 335 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: waking up making sure someone resting piss Nah, man, Nah. 336 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the 337 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 1: consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're 338 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind. 339 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: Please believe it, believe it, Please please give this man, 340 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:20,879 Speaker 1: whose name has not been released yet because he's not 341 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 1: been charged with anything, the biggest he had what you're 342 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: looking at me for. I gotta hear both sides. I know, 343 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 1: I know how you gonna hear the other side. I 344 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: know I gotta hear both sides. I mean, you're only 345 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 1: hearing from one side. You don't you don't know what 346 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 1: happened in that relationship. I don't think we don't know 347 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: what she did to him. She's dead. You can't hear herself. 348 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: That doesn't end the beef. She's deceased, well, okay, she's 349 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 1: no longer with us. He's in a whole other dimension, 350 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 1: all right. Just her remains are here, okay. I mean, 351 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 1: I don't care what it is to get up every 352 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: day because of a brief marriage and p on her 353 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: grave for forty eight years and leave doodoo. Come on, man, 354 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna tell me that shit. I don't that 355 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: I don't know the doodoo things a little far. Ain't 356 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: putting doom dudo's too far. And not peeing on the grave, 357 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 1: I mean about to think about the work that goes 358 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: into this forty eight years of bagging up DUDEO Okay, 359 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: I mean it was peeing on grade on the way 360 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 1: to the sunset. And shut up. Man. There's some people's 361 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 1: grave that you know. You gotta let these grudges. It's no, 362 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: you won't, Yes, I will, yes, I will. You gotta 363 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: let these grudges go. Now, this is a hell of 364 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: a This is a hell of a grudge from somebody. 365 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:37,920 Speaker 1: I don't like. There's nobody's grave. You would pee on it. Yo, 366 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: shut up, man, you're wild boy. You hear me, You're 367 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,160 Speaker 1: a wild boy. Man. I don't know what see y'all 368 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: people think that y'all people when y'all got beef, Like 369 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: when Dominicans look at black people people, the person dies, 370 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: the beef is over. I still have beef with you. 371 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 1: I still have that resentment. It ain't I think when 372 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 1: someone's dead, Yeah, right, what if you killed him? You 373 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: think he killed his wife? That's just saying. I say that, 374 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 1: I say, what have you killed them? In? What if 375 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: I I killed him? Then then this came over. That's right? 376 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: You should be do you? You won? Right? On all levels? 377 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: I would think. I think. I just think this is 378 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 1: a ridiculous grudge to hold on to for forty years. 379 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,439 Speaker 1: This is I can't think that nobody who would have 380 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 1: me mad for forty eight years? No, especially if I'm 381 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 1: winning it? Like, well, first of all, what races this person? 382 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: Do you know? He looks Caucasian from the camera, the 383 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 1: camera that set up you look Caucasian, But you know 384 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: everybody looks Caucasian at nighttime on them wildlife cameras, right too, right, 385 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: absolutely do So what's the question what are we asking 386 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 1: people right now? What's the longest you ever held on 387 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: to a grudge? And and and at what point do 388 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,160 Speaker 1: you realize it's unhealthy? Well when if you still hold 389 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:53,439 Speaker 1: it on to the grudge, how do you just you know, 390 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: determine time? Well, that's true too. Are you still holding 391 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: on to a long time grudge? Maybe that's the question. 392 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,199 Speaker 1: Maybe we just start show prepping before the show. But 393 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I just said it. Eighty 394 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 1: five eighty five, one oh five one? How long do 395 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,360 Speaker 1: you hold on to a grudge? Are you still holding? 396 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: Are you still holding on to a long time grug? 397 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm not mad. I got to hear both side. You 398 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: don't know what she did, man, she's damned so she 399 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: can't hear both sides what she did it she still 400 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 1: hurt that man, and that man is releasing on her 401 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: allegedly page age page rage. Let's talk about it. Eight 402 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 1: hundred five five. Here you go, here you go. Let's 403 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: talk about eight hundred and five eighty five, one oh 404 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 1: five one somebody did you dirty. They did your family dirty, 405 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 1: trying to sell it. Then they die. You're supposed to 406 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 1: forget about all that dirt they did to you. Yes, no, well, 407 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 1: only to move on with your life. Let's fee on 408 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: you all day long. Oh my gosh, what Let's be 409 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:54,880 Speaker 1: on you? Who is you? Whoever? It's the Breakfast Local Water, 410 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:59,479 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. The pre I Her Radio appads over 411 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: two hundred fifty thousand podcasts to explode. Yes, this is 412 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club thirty part of Sunday Night podcasts on 413 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: our Heart Radio Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. 414 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Now if 415 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: you're just joining us, we're talking about somebody. Charlemagne gave 416 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,640 Speaker 1: Donkey up the day too. Yeah. This man has been 417 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 1: holding a grudge for forty eight years against his ex wife. 418 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 1: So he wakes up every day and peas on his 419 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: ex wife's graves or his pa, and he leaves bags 420 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 1: of poop. The mother, the kids of the mother set 421 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: up a camera and have have caught him. So he's 422 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 1: been doing it for forty hs. Yeah, and I gotta 423 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 1: hear both sides of the story. I gotta both side 424 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 1: the woman man, I mean you just I mean we 425 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 1: don't know what happened. We don't know what she did 426 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,439 Speaker 1: to him allegedly or how he feels. You hear both sides, 427 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, and you know, and that's what you people 428 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: always have a problem with. First of all, Dominican, no't 429 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 1: me seeing you people. No, Because people think, hey, if 430 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 1: you have beef or you did something to me or 431 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: my family when you die, I just don't get over it. 432 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: It's not like, Okay, you're dad. No, I still feel 433 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: the way. And if I want to drive by your 434 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: grave every day on my way to I have to 435 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,400 Speaker 1: get my my freak pancakes. At sixty five years old 436 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: or seventy years old, I'm gonna peel on your grade. 437 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: First of all, at sixty five years old, you're gonna 438 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 1: be paying on yourself. That's number one. Number two. I 439 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: feel like, um, I personally feel like, you know, you 440 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 1: gotta respect. They have to be some respect for the dead, 441 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,360 Speaker 1: regardless of how you felt about the person in life. 442 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: Forget him, I'm just talking about the death deceased. To 443 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: have to be some respect for deceased. You didn't respect 444 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: me or my family. I talking about the person. I'm 445 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,199 Speaker 1: just talking about the dad in general. Dad is the 446 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: person like if you if you was walking through a 447 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 1: graveyard right now for whatever reason, and you had to pee, 448 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: you wouldn't just go pee on somebody's grade, No, because 449 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: I don't know them. But if there's somebody right off listen. 450 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: Here's the thing about grudges, right, This is why therapy 451 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 1: is so important. Grudges are a part of healing. And 452 00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 1: we know healing is not linear. So someday I may 453 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: think I'm over a grudge, and then some days I 454 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 1: may be triggered correct and I still be like, damn, 455 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm really not over it. So it's the times when 456 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 1: you know, I can see a person here, a person 457 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: you know, our person still tried to do something to me, 458 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: and it don't bother me. That lets me know I'm 459 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 1: over say grudge, you know what I'm saying. But I'm 460 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 1: just not gonna go out of my way to put 461 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,439 Speaker 1: myself in harm with because this dude gonna end up 462 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 1: going to jail. I'm not gonna do something to hurt 463 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: myself still trying to hurt you, even in death. What 464 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: do you think? Um? I mean, there's just certain people 465 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 1: that I don't like. I don't mess it, but I 466 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 1: don't think I would ever actively go out of my 467 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: way to do anything. I just mind my business. But 468 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: what about you? Yeah, we already know depends. I mean, yes, 469 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: if somebody did me dirty, yes, I will pee on 470 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: your grave every day. Shut up time on the scale 471 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: of one to Curtis Jackson, what level of petty thing 472 00:23:53,000 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 1: this is? Off? This charts? I'm just hello, who's this? Hello? 473 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: Oh hey, what's up? Well? What's your name? Bro? Big? 474 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:16,400 Speaker 1: Then a big, big, big, big, envy big, what's big? Okay, Okay, wait, 475 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 1: what's your thoughts? Big man? Be honest? Man. It goes 476 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 1: through far with U with the holding grudges. And I'm 477 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:26,959 Speaker 1: better than I used to be. I used to get 478 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: to the point where I hold a gruge for so 479 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: long and I'll see somebody and I know I'm mad 480 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 1: out of the dopel fool with him, and I get 481 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: even mad because I can't remember why I'm mad. That's 482 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 1: when it's time to let the grudge. Gold King, Like, 483 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 1: what am I mad for? I don't know? Or you 484 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 1: have a grudge in the presid don't even know you 485 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 1: have a grudge. You know why are you madd Hello? 486 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:54,399 Speaker 1: Who's THISTI? Hey, Tomika from Atlanta? Talk to us? How 487 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: long you all the grudges for? She's mad right now, somebody, No, 488 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: it's been a twenty ten. But I'm not really holding 489 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 1: a grudge. It's just that I refused to be friends 490 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: a person who's still trying to this day, and and 491 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 1: my messenger and Mike and on my mentions trying to 492 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: get back into my life. Don't you show me? We 493 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 1: were a group of work friends that turned into like family, 494 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 1: but she was really too fasted and talking about my 495 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,919 Speaker 1: you know, behind my back. And I'm not kind of 496 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 1: person if i'm your friend and say I'm your friend 497 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: behind your back, if i'm your friends to day, i'm 498 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,439 Speaker 1: your friends tomorrow. And she wasn't that. So when you 499 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,399 Speaker 1: show me not for me, you show me who you 500 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: are to believe you. And so I don't need to 501 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: getting friends like that. You know you don't need enemies 502 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 1: who you've got friends like that. So I'm good on 503 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: this end. That's really getting my mess and I'm done. 504 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 1: I'm good. She's still friends with mutual friends and Nate 505 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 1: from what I heard you still to day. Okay, that's real, 506 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Eight on jip five eight five 507 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: one oh five one. We're asking how long do you 508 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: hold a grudge? Now? Charlemagne gave a man dounk a 509 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:57,160 Speaker 1: day who pisces on his ex wife's grave every day 510 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 1: for forty h not just pee, he puts bags of 511 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: poor They do not show uf his dog poop, human poop. 512 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 1: But he puts bags and poop on the grave every 513 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: day too. Eight hundred five eight five one o five one. 514 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: How long you're holding the grudge? It's the Breakfast Club 515 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 1: in the morning I Heart Radio for podcast discovery. This 516 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 1: is the Breakfast Club. Third we go your chance to 517 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,160 Speaker 1: hear the biggest trending podcast each week from the free 518 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:22,640 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio app Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. 519 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club. Now if 520 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: he just joined us, Charlemagne gave don't get a day 521 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: to who this man whose name has not been released 522 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,919 Speaker 1: yet because he has not been charged. But for the 523 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 1: past forty eight years he has been waking up to 524 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: go pe on his ex wife's grave, not just p 525 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 1: but leaving bags of poops. Danfore he is holding a grudge. 526 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: I think we also should be asking how long does 527 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 1: he have to hold his pe like what does that 528 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: ride like in the morning? Like how far away does 529 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: he live from said gravesite? Because according to these what 530 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 1: they're saying is he gets up to go see the 531 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 1: sunset with his now new wife and stops at that 532 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: grave every day and peas on day. So let me 533 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: ask you guys a question. If somebody hurt one of 534 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 1: your family members, you wouldn't want to pee in the 535 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:07,679 Speaker 1: grave every day. No, I don't have time. No I 536 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 1: was not. Actually okay, eight time for everything else. You 537 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 1: make time for shopping. I don't have to make time 538 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: to go pee on some time. Who's that? Yo? Yo yo? 539 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: Just Drey again? I mean, Drey, why are you calling 540 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 1: back here? We already got your opinion, Drake. This is 541 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: the one I should have called for them, Okay, Drake, Okay. 542 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: So the time to kind of intertwines with like daddy 543 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: issues and then that topic like I don't wish death 544 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 1: on him, but man, I'm a I'm a father. I 545 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: got four years. I couldn't imagine not being there. So 546 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 1: so when he get post before me, yeah, I'm gonna 547 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 1: go there. I'm gonna drink Madello and I'm pissed on 548 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 1: his grave and be like, look, but what is he 549 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 1: talking about? Who's great? Would you be being on? I 550 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 1: guess somebody who did something to them? Are your father? 551 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 1: Are you? Okay? Let's tones in a twine with like daddy, 552 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 1: but I don't play. Hey, my brother, Dre dre, dred. 553 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:15,400 Speaker 1: I got one word, three syllables the rue. Oh no, no no, don't. 554 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to the expo too. I'm glad you needed 555 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: to say that. I'm gonna get it on that. But yes, 556 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 1: I feel because no, don't fit, don't fit, don't don't 557 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: don't feel envy. Don't no, don't feel envy. You said 558 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 1: you're coming to the expot. You're coming to the Export 559 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 1: October eighth, to Mental Health Export, my second annual Mental 560 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: Wealth Export. To marry out Markey time Square. It's a 561 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: day of mental health education and healing and you need it. Drake, Drake, 562 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 1: just know that this bathroom is there, so if you 563 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 1: have to go go to the bathroom there. Hello, Hey, 564 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 1: it's m Whitney, ladn. I actually was calling earlier to 565 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 1: seek about the academics. Bitch word. I'm the girl that there. 566 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: He was pulling the done out on him on the podcast. 567 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 1: That's remember that you said you were you were reaching 568 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: in your back, so he felt threatened, but you said 569 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 1: you didn't have a gun. Yeah, well you know, here's 570 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: a bit. Here's a bit speaking on females, and he's 571 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: speaking on calling girls out their name, like you can't 572 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: really expect much more from That's just what he is. 573 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 1: It's his character. So I feel like all the people 574 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: that you know holding him accountable for that, it's like 575 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: doing the right thing, because we gotta start calling you 576 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:28,000 Speaker 1: who are Yeah, if he died, would you pee on 577 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: his grave every day? Okay? So now this was my 578 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: thing about the Gregg. I got to speak foot all 579 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: starts cussing, I gotta speak fool bits ever again, like 580 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: ever again in life. But if he dies and I 581 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: thought a pits on his grave, I was like I'm 582 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: a sleeper that night. So the grave? What about other 583 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: men calling you to b word man? Well, it's all 584 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: about the past, Like, it's all about the the setup, 585 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 1: the like, how you're the intention, the tent. Basically, if 586 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: you're like you you grow bitch, you had it, you know, 587 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: whatever it is you got em intent, then obviously I'm 588 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: gonna attended. But if you're coming at me and he's 589 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: like this feels fly, bitch, siy bitch. Your fun of 590 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 1: you hell, bitch is stupid. It's a context. What about 591 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 1: this bitch? You got a gun in your pocketbole, bitch, 592 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: don't kill me, bitch at night? Thank you for calling 593 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: so silly? Y'all got invite you up here, y'all feel 594 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,640 Speaker 1: like come much fun? No, you got guns? We're gonna 595 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 1: bring you up here to pull up, pull guns out 596 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 1: on nothing. Then you didn't have a gun, right, she 597 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: said she did when I'm gone out over the verbal argument. 598 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: But did you have a gun in your pocketble? You 599 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: can't even lie, You can't even lie. You should say no, 600 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 1: that's all. We're not inviting you. No, I don't have 601 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: no good. Where are you from? Ma'm you're from Florida? 602 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 1: Right from Cleveland? Oh Cleveland, But I live in Florida. 603 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: Oh have a juice, par y'all let me know wheny'all 604 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: coming down, like all natural juices. What about security? Security? Security? Anytime? Security? Man? 605 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 1: I love black people so much. Man. She went from 606 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 1: peeing on somebody grave, pulling a gun on a bit 607 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: to saying I got all natural juices, and y'all we 608 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 1: are the most well rounded people on this planet. You 609 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 1: hear me? Can nobody do it? Black people too? Oh 610 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 1: my god, man, oh lord, story, I don't know. I 611 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: forgot what we were talking about. I our radio Sunday 612 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 1: Night podcast. 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