1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,639 Speaker 1: All right, let me see here. 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 2: Did we ever talk about this the woman who is 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: complaining about the the style of date that was chosen. 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: Did we talk about this? Because I've been on my desktop. 5 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: For like ever. 6 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no he didn't yet. 7 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 2: I've been meaning to get to this. So before we 8 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 2: get to trending stories, guys. 9 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 3: Is interested? 10 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: Girl? I hope? I hope. 11 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: No, thank you so much for coming back. The intro 12 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 2: wasn't compelling enough for you. 13 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 1: So eight. 14 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 2: Three five you can call in Texas, same number. But 15 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,919 Speaker 2: this is from the Shade Room and it's a It's 16 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: a screenshot of some text exchange between a man and 17 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 2: a woman and the dude goes, hey, this is so 18 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 2: and so I guess maybe they had just met on 19 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: a dating app or something or been hooked up or 20 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 2: set up or whatever. And then uh, she says hi, 21 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 2: and he says, I hope you had a good day. 22 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 2: I'm excited for tomorrow. So maybe they've been chanting elsewhere. 23 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 2: But I can pick you up. But if you're not 24 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 2: comfortable with that, we can just meet there. I don't 25 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: know why, but I'm feeling like getting some ice cream 26 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 2: in this hot weather hot emoji. 27 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: Lol. Yeah. So then she responds, sorry if. 28 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: This may come off as rude, but I don't do 29 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 2: ice cream dates. I'm a twenty six year old woman 30 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: and a day like that seems to be the absolute 31 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 2: bare minimum for me. Meeting up would be a waste 32 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: of both of our times since we probably don't have 33 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 2: the same vibe. 34 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: Best wishes. 35 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: My god, it's like the waiting of the phone. The hell? 36 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 2: I mean, can't you day like if you like the 37 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 2: guy enough to agree to go out with him? The dude, 38 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: did you know it's been hot as hell all over 39 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: the place? Guy wants to eat ice cream? All right, Fine, 40 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 2: you don't want to eat ice cream? You want to 41 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 2: go get a drink? Then why don't you just respond 42 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: and say why don't we go someplace to this ice 43 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 2: cream and alcohol or I don't know, I mean, just go, Like, what's. 44 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: The whore is? You're saying? 45 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 2: An ice cream dates the bare minimum? I think a 46 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: drink dates. I've said that, I said this last week 47 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 2: on the waiting. I think a drink date is the 48 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 2: bare minimum. I think that's a lazy date and I'm 49 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 2: guilty of it every time because when I first meets 50 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 2: themone there needs to be alcohol involved. Oh, like I 51 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: need a drink. They probably need a drink. So you 52 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: know that there's that, But how many different ways can 53 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 2: you do that? You just pick different bars. I guess 54 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 2: I'm sometimes too lazy to even pick a different bar. 55 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 2: So but then I know the bars that will keep 56 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 2: my secret secrets. Some more than others, though. You know, 57 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 2: you go in and some people are really really good, 58 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 2: like they in service industry folks. They know what to do. Like, 59 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: I haven't seen you in forever. This is back when 60 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 2: I was really out here. I'd be like, I was 61 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 2: here last night, but then I haven't seen you in forever. Man, 62 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 2: everything good. I'm like, you understand the assignment. Would you 63 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 2: be upset? 64 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 4: Though? 65 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 2: If a guy invited you, any of you guys on 66 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: an ice cream date? Is it that? 67 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 1: Is it too childish? Is it lazy? Is it too cheap? 68 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: Is it? Because I'll be honest, it's just something different. 69 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: You know. 70 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 2: I don't know that I would necessarily do that, but 71 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: it's something different. 72 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 3: I'd be like, where the drinks at? 73 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 5: I don't know. 74 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 3: I don't do coffee dates. I don't do ice cream dates. 75 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 6: I would never say that to him, Like if I 76 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 6: liked him, I would obviously still go, but it's not ideal, like. 77 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 3: I'd rather be during the night. 78 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 6: We have a little liquid courage, especially if it's the 79 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 6: first meeting. 80 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: Now, would you try and would you just automaticly like 81 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 2: this this person obviously did not really want to go 82 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: on this date very. 83 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: Much, right, because that's all it? 84 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 3: Would never say that. 85 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: Would you? 86 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 2: Would you try and steer them in the right direction, 87 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 2: you know, and be like, hey, you know that's cool maybe, 88 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: but I'd love to get a drink though first or whatever, 89 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like or I don't know, man, 90 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: we get something like real food and then maybe we 91 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: go for dessert. I don't know, Like you could if 92 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: you like the person, you could steer them in the 93 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 2: right direction. 94 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 7: But you know, I mean, I've been in it. I 95 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 7: have been out of the dating game for a while. 96 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 7: You know, I am technically single. However, if somebody asked 97 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 7: me to come on an ice cream date, yes, Like 98 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 7: this is why the women I found in a hard 99 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 7: time getting a good man, because they're trying their best 100 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 7: to come up with some creative dates and we're like, no, 101 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 7: it's not too good, it's not good enough. 102 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 5: Like that's so mean. I would go on the ice 103 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 5: cream date. 104 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and you wouldn't You wouldn't see it as 105 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: lazy or. 106 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 7: No, that is a date, Like you know at this point, 107 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,039 Speaker 7: the bars on the floor, a man even suggesting. 108 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,359 Speaker 5: A date in a time place. 109 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 7: You know that that's enough for me at this point, 110 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 7: because you guys tend to just be like, can I 111 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 7: pull up. 112 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 5: Let's chell, let's hang up, let's link up, Like what 113 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 5: is that? 114 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: You know? 115 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 5: It's a link up? 116 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? When I don't know. 117 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 8: Auntie whatever her name is, would say that that is 118 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 8: low efforts and that as a woman, we should be 119 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 8: valuing ourselves of like making sure that the man is 120 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 8: taking us out and wowing us and all these things 121 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 8: that to me are so like nineteen fifties in my opinion, because. 122 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 5: I'm not going to sit through a. 123 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 3: Dinner on a first date. I know that's an unpopular opinion, 124 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 3: but if it's I think a lot of people feel that. 125 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 2: Know that I'm going to blot all the stops on 126 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 2: a first date someone from a dating app or whatever, 127 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 2: because I don't really know you. 128 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 3: I would be creepy out if someone like did too 129 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 3: much too. 130 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 6: I agree, this is like I just am at you 131 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 6: like and I don't care about the ice cream date 132 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 6: because I think it's low effort or it's lazy. 133 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 3: I just would rather have a cocktail, if that's okay 134 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 3: with it. But I wouldn't. Yeah, yeah, I. 135 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: Think I saw. 136 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 9: Yeah. 137 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: I don't think you give the speech about how I'll be. 138 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 2: I'm a forty two year old man and I like 139 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: ice cream. So I mean, if you exact, if anything, 140 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,559 Speaker 2: I would have responded, Oh, so you don't like ice cream, 141 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: well then I don't like you. 142 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: Like, come on, who doesn't know? Who doesn't want to 143 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: eat some ice cream? 144 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 3: Can we eat it forever? 145 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. 146 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 2: I mean, just say something else, be like, I don't know, 147 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 2: can we do something else first? Or can we go 148 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: to one of those You know, there's a lot of 149 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 2: places that have like boozy desserts. I mean, he could 150 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 2: have chosen one, or you could have You could have 151 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 2: steered him and said, oh, you want ice cream, Well 152 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: then we'll go to this place which is doesn't have 153 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 2: ice cream. 154 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: But you'd have to know. I don't know. 155 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 9: I did. 156 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 2: I wasn't that offended by Maybe that's why I'm single, 157 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 2: But I wasn't that offended by this. I was again, 158 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 2: I wasn't offended by any of it, but it's like, 159 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: why you got it right back, like you're schooling somebody. 160 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's why she's single. 161 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: Just be like I don't want to go Yeah, okay, 162 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: someone texted interactive dates only no drink date. 163 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: It's not going to work out between us. I'm sorry. 164 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 2: I hate to break listening and I we can still be friends, 165 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 2: but unfortunately U ice cream and then making out may 166 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: not be the order of operation for your boy. The 167 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 2: reason is happening is because my sister, I guess, has 168 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 2: a wedding. So they're leaving Thursday, coming back on Sunday. 169 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 2: And so my mom, you know, who doesn't live and 170 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: she lives in Arizona and the babies in Dallas. She'll 171 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 2: fly in sometimes when this happens to watch the baby 172 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 2: because she gets like four days uninterrupted and does whatever 173 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: the hell she wants because she's MEMI that's what they 174 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 2: call her, you know, grandma whatever. And so my mom 175 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: has all these plans and my sister is saying no, like, 176 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 2: don't do any of that, Like my sister cannot just 177 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 2: relinquish control. And and I will say, my mom, you know, 178 00:06:55,920 --> 00:07:01,359 Speaker 2: has sort of maybe perhaps larger, more extended idea of 179 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: what the baby's capable of doing than my sister does 180 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 2: on a day to day basis. But for example, my 181 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 2: mom's like, let's go to X y Z. 182 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: Let's go to this. 183 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: Restaurant when we're like this restaurant we always go to. 184 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: It's kind of a nicer restaurant. And my sister's like, 185 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 2: you can't take her there, And my mom's like, what 186 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 2: are you talking about. 187 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 4: I can. 188 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: I'll take her whatever I want. She's like, don't. 189 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 2: You can't take it too she's two and a half. 190 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: You can't take her there. The restaurant's too nice, you 191 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 2: can't take her there. Well, now we know the waitstaff 192 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 2: at this place. So I texted one of the service 193 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 2: to get a reservation, and I said, are you going 194 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 2: to be upset if we come at like five point 195 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: thirty really early with a baby, And they're like no, 196 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: we would love it, Like we would love for you 197 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: to bring her and like whatever. 198 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: And she'll be fine. It's an hour. 199 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: She'll sit there, my mom will give her something to 200 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: do and she'll sit there, and if she's terrible, we'll leave. 201 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: But I'm just wondering. Everything seems to be and I 202 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: mean it's in a most functional way, like we all 203 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 2: get along our families, you know, as messed up as 204 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 2: any family, but you know, in a very loving way. 205 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 2: But is this a normal thing, this power struggle between 206 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 2: like my mom, don't tell her no when it comes 207 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: to the baby, because then she's just gonna do it. 208 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 2: She's just gonna like so my sister going, don't do that. 209 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 2: We're definitely doing it now, Oh my god, because my 210 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 2: mom's thing is like I raised you. 211 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: You don't think I can handle this. 212 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: You know, she's a little older than she was, and 213 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: she's not chasing the baby around like she maybe did 214 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 2: you know my sister or me? But I'm just I'm 215 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 2: amazed at like this sort of this weird tug of 216 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 2: war that happens. 217 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: It doesn't happen with Ashland. 218 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 10: No. 219 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 11: If someone wants the babies at Ashlton, go ahead, like 220 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 11: and you don't care where they do with it. I 221 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 11: mean with of course, right, as long as he's alive 222 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 11: and good when I get back, we're good, Like let 223 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 11: me get my peace, you know what I'm saying. Like 224 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 11: you guys give him all the sugar, Like I don't 225 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 11: care if you give them all the sugar, and I 226 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 11: have to deal with it later as long as he's 227 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 11: occupied with you. 228 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 2: If I were to take Ashland for the night, you 229 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: don't care. I mean within within Oh no, it don't 230 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 2: happen someday. Way, wait, it don't happen some day. He 231 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 2: needs to be a little older, a little bit older? 232 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: What have us? 233 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 3: Also? 234 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 11: There? 235 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: No, I can handle this. I can hand this. 236 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 2: I think I have a child for one night in 237 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 2: the child's potty train can tell me what hurts? 238 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: You know, the rules? You don't think that you would 239 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: let me? Do you trust me with him? Sure? 240 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 3: Would you trust yourself? 241 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 7: Yes? Yeah? 242 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 3: What about when he needs his butt wipes? Because that's always. 243 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: That's why I say a little older. You know, I 244 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: just need him to do his own butt stuff. 245 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 2: You know, it's just but if it came down to it, 246 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 2: I wouldn't just let him run around with his dirty butt. 247 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: I would handle it. You know, I love kids. I 248 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: love Ashlyn. 249 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 2: But it's just like, if I took him, would you 250 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 2: give me a list of rules of what I could 251 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 2: and couldn't do? 252 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: I mean, within reason. 253 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 2: I'm not going to give the kid beer until he's 254 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 2: at least ten, But I mean, like, if I don't know, 255 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 2: I'll get him, feed him ice cream, buy him toys, 256 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 2: spoil him to bring him back. Like, you're not gonna 257 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 2: tell me what I can and can't. You're not going 258 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 2: to tell me if I want to take the kid 259 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 2: to you know, boss bar, you won't have a problem. 260 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: With it taking the boss barn. That's what I'm. 261 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 2: But I'm curious about eight five five five nine one 262 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 2: one three five. I'm curious about it is this. Is 263 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 2: it just my sister and my mom because they're essentially 264 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 2: the same person, or is this a normal thing like you, 265 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 2: I mean, you have tons ofews nephews. Huh can you 266 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 2: do whatever you want with them without hearing about it? 267 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 7: You know I have, it's one set of parents who 268 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 7: completely doesn't care. Like one brother, he doesn't care what 269 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:23,599 Speaker 7: I do. Like I could take his kids to the 270 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 7: moon and he's like cool, long y'all gone. But my 271 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 7: other brother, his kids are like bougie, Like he's like, oh, 272 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 7: they only eat a certain they eat steak and lobster 273 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 7: and they you know, yes, I'm over apparently. 274 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: When I'm when it's my credit card that he's saying 275 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: all this stuff. 276 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 7: So with me, my rule is I don't baby sit 277 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 7: unless your kid can eat hot wings and watch Real Housewives. 278 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 5: That's my like, I'm not the babysitter. 279 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 7: If they don't want to eat hot wings or watch 280 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 7: Real Housewives, We're not. 281 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 5: Gonna have a good time. 282 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: It's like in some of this stuff, isn't it. I 283 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: was talking on my buddy about it. That's what that's. 284 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: What grandma's do. Grandma's do this stuff that they want 285 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 2: to do, and it's just, you know, they usually buy 286 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 2: you crap and feed your stuff you're not supposed to, 287 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 2: and and say stuff maybe they're not supposed to, and 288 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 2: it just it just is what it is, you know, 289 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 2: And so I don't I don't know. I don't think 290 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 2: it would matter if my sister said yes or no. Anyway, 291 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 2: my mom's not going to do it. Hey Mariah, hi right, Oh. 292 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 10: My god, I'm so excited. 293 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Maria, it's Monday and you sound like this. 294 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: I love you. What is your secret? How do you 295 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: have that? I don't have this much energy? 296 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 12: Well normally, so I work at a school. I'm a 297 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 12: school counselor. So I'm off Sokay, I start back. So 298 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 12: I'm excited. 299 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: I'm reaching, Oh, thank god, thank god. Let me tell 300 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 2: you something. July, it's been a little rough for us 301 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 2: around here. 302 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:44,319 Speaker 9: Man. 303 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: You guys go on vacation. You guys think you can 304 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: go on vacations and stuff like that. You think you 305 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 2: can like take a week off, and it just trust me, 306 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 2: we know it's not okay. So I'm sorry that everyone 307 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 2: has to go back to work at school and whatever, 308 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 2: but I'm not because down a, our livelihood depends on 309 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: all of you people waking up early in the morning 310 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 2: and listening to us. None the less, you're siding with 311 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 2: my sister on this. You're saying that my sister should 312 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 2: get some say in what's going on with the kid 313 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 2: when when grandma's watching. 314 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 12: Yeah, so I definitely relate to your sister. And I 315 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 12: know if my mom heard me right now, she'd be like, 316 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 12: oh my gosh, I know she's. 317 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: Just like this. 318 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 12: And it's nothing against the mom. It's our anxiety. 319 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 13: It's that we know how our child is and we 320 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 13: just want them to behave. 321 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 12: And we know that they're like the best at home. 322 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 12: So it's like when they're out and about, we're like, oh, 323 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 12: are they okay? Are they behaving? Did anything happen, like 324 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 12: we go to like the worst case scenarios so to 325 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 12: like calm our anxiety. We're like they're home, they're napping 326 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 12: and they're watching TV. 327 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 9: They're eating like they're Dino knugs. 328 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 12: No, nothing against like your mom taking you know them 329 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 12: to the restaurant. But it's just like it calms our anxiety, 330 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 12: like knowing where they're at, and we just wanted to 331 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 12: make it as easy as possible. 332 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 9: On the mom. 333 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 2: But ultimately, my mom and I are the ones who 334 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 2: are gonna have to deal with this like it probably 335 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 2: freaks out. We're the ones that are gonna have to 336 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 2: pay the bill and get up and walk out and 337 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 2: I will say something else. You know, Amanda's an amazing 338 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 2: mom and she's really you know, hands on in ways 339 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 2: that my mom isn't anymore. But yet at the same time, 340 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 2: Polly does not act up around Mimi. Mimi's got the 341 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 2: look like Polly starts to pull polydrama and my mom 342 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 2: looks at her and she just it's. 343 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: My sister. 344 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 2: Lets Polly get away with stuff that my mom would not, 345 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 2: which is why I don't think this is going to 346 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 2: be a problem. But my sister is like emphatic you 347 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 2: can't do this. You can't do that. You can't And 348 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 2: my mom's like, Okay, if I weren't doing it, now 349 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 2: we're doing it. I was said doing it, and I 350 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 2: don't care what she says, but I hear what you're saying. 351 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 2: So you're saying from a parent, from a parental perspective, 352 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 2: you just want to say, don't do this because I 353 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: don't want my kid to freak out. And then it's 354 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 2: somehow is a bad reflection on me. 355 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 13: Right, And Okay, I know Polly is your sister's only 356 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 13: and so now I have two, but I was like 357 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 13: that with my. 358 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 12: First, and it's like it's hard to cut that cord 359 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 12: with the oldest. 360 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 13: So it's like one of those were like no, no, no, 361 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 13: I want to take them there for the first time too, 362 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 13: So it's kind of like things that you want. 363 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: Oh, that could be part of it, but she didn't 364 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: say that. 365 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 9: No, she's not going to. 366 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 13: I didn't say that either, because it was like kind 367 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 13: of like fomo, like no, I want to take. 368 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 12: Them, but I don't want to tell them that. So 369 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 12: it was just kind of you kind of look like 370 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 12: the crazy mom. 371 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and my sister would know, you know better, than anybody. 372 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: But I also don't. I don't know. 373 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 2: We're not going to listen, so this this may not 374 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 2: go well, but I will will. I guess that's our risk. 375 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 2: Thank you, Mariah. I have a good day. 376 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 12: Thank you. 377 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: Bye. 378 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 12: Guys, love you. 379 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: I love you. To do the other things they say 380 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: they want. 381 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 2: They want me to stay in the house my mom 382 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 2: and my and Polly and and I'm going to stay 383 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 2: at their house for one night because I think Polly 384 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: wants to come in and like wake me up or 385 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 2: whatever she wants to do. But then my sister's like, 386 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: or my mom is like, you can stay in their bed. 387 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 2: I'm not staying in my sister and in her husband's bed. 388 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 2: They do stuff in there, they do stuff in there. 389 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 2: I don't they're making babies in there. I don't to 390 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 2: be in there. My mom can go in there. I'll 391 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 2: sleep in the guest room. But this is a whole thing. 392 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 2: My mom is like, that's ridiculous. I'm like, I don't care. 393 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 2: I don't need to go in there. You go in 394 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 2: the room and you do the thing, and you can 395 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 2: you know, no, I know what happens in there, and 396 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 2: I'm not interested. 397 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: Ali, Hi, Ali, Yeah, good morning. How you doing. 398 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 10: Good? 399 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: How are you good? 400 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 2: So we're basically going to defy everything that my sister 401 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 2: said that my niece is capable of and not capable 402 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 2: of it, and we're going to find out for ourselves. 403 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 2: But we're probably asking for it. I just why is 404 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: she so concerned about what happens when she's gone? 405 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 10: I mean, is she your first time? Ma'm h yeah, 406 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 10: Well that could be part of it, because like I know, 407 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 10: when my baby was little, I was like, I'm like, no, no, 408 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 10: it's okay, I got it, I'll do it. But now 409 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 10: she's five, going at six, and so they'll be like 410 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 10: can I watch Lola. I'll be like, yeah, sure, what. 411 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. 412 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 2: It probably has a lot to do with it, is 413 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 2: like my sister's being conservative and and my mom doesn't care. 414 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 6: So yeah, whenever mom like girls trips with my friends 415 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 6: who are moms, they experience a lot of anxiety being 416 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 6: away from their kids, and I don't know how to 417 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 6: help them, but I think it's just something that comes 418 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 6: with it. 419 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 2: Sometimes you just give them some of your staff from 420 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 2: the dispensary and all's, well, yeah, what's that alley. 421 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 10: I know my sister in law, which she had her baby. 422 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 10: She uh would have the baby like sleep over at 423 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 10: her mom's house to kind of like like they would 424 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 10: just do it once a week, but like to kind 425 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 10: of like break the tie. So she would be like, Okay, 426 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 10: everything will be okay. 427 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 3: And yeah like that, yeah yeah. 428 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 10: But now that everyone's older, now who gets to. 429 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: Take right right, have a good day. Well. 430 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 2: The other thing is like, I'm not going to brag 431 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 2: to my sister if we take Polly into this boogy 432 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 2: restauran and then nothing happens, because like one time, it 433 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 2: is not a fake. My sister has it does every 434 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 2: day like I think, I think two adults can occupy 435 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 2: a young child for an hour, you know whatever. But 436 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not gonna when my sister comes home, 437 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be like, you idiot, she was fine 438 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 2: because that's me doing it one time. She has to 439 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 2: do it every time, you know what I mean. So 440 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 2: I'm my mom will probably rub it in her face. 441 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 2: My mom will be like, she was so good, you 442 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 2: should do this more often. But me, on the other hand, 443 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep my mouth shut for once. Hey Renee, 444 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: Hey it's me, Hey. 445 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: Renee, we got the grand You are a grandma. We 446 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: got the grandma perspective. 447 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 4: Grandma and I have five children, thirteen grandchildren. I just 448 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 4: took my thirteenth grandchild, eight months old to the Wisconsin 449 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 4: States Fair. Was given a schedule, was given rules and regulation. Granted, 450 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 4: she's not going to remember it, but when I take 451 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 4: her when she's eight, nine and ten years old, she's 452 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 4: gonna be able to say, I go to the Wisconsin 453 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 4: States Fair with my grandma every single year since the 454 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 4: year I was born. More than did I give her sugar, 455 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:06,679 Speaker 4: because you know, Vinnie is viv is not allowed sugar. 456 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 4: Oh okay, on and on and I I just you know, 457 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 4: and and when we drop the baby off at home, 458 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 4: they pretty much just say, well, how did it go, 459 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 4: And no one says the word, oh, I. 460 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 2: See, so so you oh I got it. So she 461 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 2: doesn't even know that you did this. 462 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,880 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, sure they do. Oh yeah absolutely. So we're 463 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 4: told not to give her ice cream, We're told she 464 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 4: can't get you know, we're given a list totally organic. 465 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:38,400 Speaker 4: They give her breakfast and you know. 466 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: A joke, Yeah it's a joke. 467 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 2: And so then you do what you got to do 468 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 2: and everything goes fine, and the baby's fine because I 469 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 2: think sometimes my sister, I think we all probably forget 470 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 2: my mom did this twice, like she probably won't kill 471 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:54,640 Speaker 2: the kid. 472 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:58,360 Speaker 4: Right, Well, I did it five times, and they're all healthy, 473 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 4: and they're all very well. They were all very well 474 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 4: taken care of. The only thing I do have to 475 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 4: say is when we got back to the car, I 476 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 4: did have to call my daughter in law to ask 477 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 4: her how to take the stroller down. 478 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's fair. Yeah, okay, all right, well there 479 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 1: we get the grandma perspective. Thank you, Renee. 480 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 10: Absolutely, they have. 481 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:17,439 Speaker 1: A good day. 482 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna take one morning. I want time 483 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 2: for one with Jennifer. Yeah, Jennifer, what's your mom trying 484 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 2: to pull off with your two year old? 485 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 9: So my mom wants to take my two year old 486 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 9: to Disney without me? 487 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: Okay, what's your objection that the kid will freak out? No, 488 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: we took. 489 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 9: Her when she was less than a year old. 490 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 10: But to me, it's like she's going through that Princess 491 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 10: saves right now, and I think that I should be 492 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 10: like one of the first people to say that. 493 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 2: Okay, now, that's one thing now that makes sense to me, 494 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 2: Like if it's a matter of you wanting to experience 495 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 2: that and versus I don't think the kid's capable of it, 496 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,400 Speaker 2: or I'm afraid the it'll freak out, So don't do it. 497 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 8: No, No, not at all. 498 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 13: And and I've told her that before, and she doesn't see, 499 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 13: she doesn't see. 500 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 9: What the issue is. 501 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: You know. 502 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 2: I side with you on that, like you want to 503 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 2: be as a parent, I would want to be the 504 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 2: first time my kids sees disney World or Disneyland or whatever. 505 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 2: I mean, the amazement in their eyes must be worth 506 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 2: at least half away. 507 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 1: You had to pay to get in exactly. Thank you, Jennifer. 508 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: Have a good days. Another thing? What does it cost 509 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: a good Well, grandma knows that kid's so free. Yeah, 510 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 1: he's still on the three. 511 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 2: When it turns three. You can take it all on you. 512 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 2: Why are my buttons net work today? None of my 513 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 2: buttons work today? 514 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 1: All right? 515 00:20:44,400 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 2: Well, good luck to us, all all right? Even listening 516 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 2: to this? All right? 517 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: Word? Yeah? Where are we today? Where are we going? 518 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 14: We are going to Southern Africa, to Botswana. 519 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 1: Jason j We're going to water. Tell us all about it. 520 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 14: Botswana says, So, my girl is she is landlocked and 521 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 14: she is flat. There is no water yeah, is desert. 522 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 14: She is by South Africa, which confused me for a 523 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 14: minute because that's also a country. Also being South Africa. 524 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 14: It is a country Nambia Zimbabwe, which I talked about 525 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 14: in about all the time. Now I know where it 526 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 14: is kind of Zambia. 527 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 3: You guys are always talking about Zimbabwe. 528 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm walking into conversations about Zimbabwe. 529 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 1: It's a long story. 530 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 14: But yeah, but Wana is where we are wa. 531 00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:58,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. 532 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 14: It has the world's shortest border between two countries with Zambia. 533 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:03,919 Speaker 1: So there she is. 534 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 14: Seventy percent of it is the Kalahari Desert, like the 535 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 14: Wisconsin Dell's Hotel, like Botswana as Yeah, there's. 536 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: They have a wave pool though. 537 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, yeah, obviously it's dessert. Yeah there through the desert. Uh, 538 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 14: there's two point three million people and Kaylin. One of 539 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 14: their biggest things is cattle. They have tons of cows 540 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 14: there for what I don't know, but they're there and 541 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 14: you can yeah, okay, you see some rhinos. There's a 542 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 14: rhinos sanctuary Therewana. 543 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, Jason, Welcome, Welcome to Helena. 544 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: Hi Helena, how are you. 545 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 9: I'm fantastic, how are you? 546 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:53,360 Speaker 1: Very well? 547 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 2: So we're going through all these uh all these submissions 548 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 2: for our teacher wish list, the Little Daily Bob our 549 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 2: Little Best what we can to Daly Bob, because we 550 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 2: want to try and clear as many teachers wishless as 551 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: we can to get you guys started for the school year, 552 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 2: because I know that in a lot of places there's 553 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,479 Speaker 2: way more stuff that you guys need to set up 554 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,159 Speaker 2: the classroom and get ready for the students than is 555 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 2: kind of readily available. Right, correct, So you are a 556 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 2: preschool special ed teacher, right, yeah? Ok So tell us 557 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 2: about your class and sort of like day to day 558 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 2: and all that kind of stuff. 559 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 9: Okay, So we are it's called a blended classroom. So 560 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 9: we have twenty students. I'm a half day program and 561 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 9: of course I'm losing my voice right before school starts, 562 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 9: which is very fitting. Oh really, yeah, we're we're a 563 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 9: blended classroom. So there's twenty students in the morning, twenty 564 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 9: students in the PM class. We have six students with 565 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,160 Speaker 9: special needs in both and that can range anywhere from 566 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 9: just being developmental delay to autism to nursing needs. 567 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: All the above. 568 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,959 Speaker 9: Okay, So I have a co teacher and an Assistan 569 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 9: and me and then we see like they we have 570 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,919 Speaker 9: clinicians that come in and out of our costroom, an 571 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 9: occupational therapist, the speech with all of this, a social worker, 572 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 9: you name it, we have it, physical therapists everything. 573 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: Wow. 574 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 9: So I mean this past year was pretty rough just 575 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 9: because with COVID, excuse me, a lot of the kids 576 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 9: missed out on those park district classes and those groups 577 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 9: and all that stuff. So my co teacher, my assistant 578 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 9: and I we at the at like the end of 579 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 9: last year, we're like, we got to do a wish 580 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 9: list because there were so much stuff that we needed. 581 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: So of course you're doing, yeah, what kind of stuff 582 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: do you need? 583 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 9: So a lot of the stuff we were doing is 584 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 9: like fidgets. Like last year, I was able to post 585 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 9: on Facebook to do one of those. It was a 586 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 9: free box, so I was like, hey, I have a 587 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 9: like in our reality, all of these diagnosises just seemed 588 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 9: to be rising. Like usually in our class we have 589 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 9: maybe one or two kids with autism. This year we 590 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,239 Speaker 9: had six. The Luckily I was able to go on 591 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 9: one of those free boxes and say like, hey, I 592 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,359 Speaker 9: have a couple kids in my class who need some 593 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 9: more movements. So I was able to get some like 594 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 9: old rocking chairs, and luckily my my godmother was able 595 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 9: to paint them so they didn't look gross. 596 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: Oh well, but just like little. 597 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 9: Things like that, like fidgets and rocking chairs and visuals 598 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 9: and toys and. 599 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 4: Stuff like that. 600 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:15,880 Speaker 9: And then we also last year had a couple kids 601 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 9: who needed behavior brings, so we would have a lot 602 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 9: of visuals in the hallway and we would do like 603 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 9: little bikes because they needed some like instead of kicking 604 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 9: their friends, we could take them in the hallway and 605 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,800 Speaker 9: they can use the bikes, you know what I mean, 606 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 9: stuff like that to kind of have that pressure on 607 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 9: their body. 608 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:32,199 Speaker 2: That's amazing. And I'm reading about you here, Helena. We 609 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 2: asked the question what's your favorite part about teaching, and 610 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 2: you said, I absolutely love kids. Everyone always says they 611 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:39,639 Speaker 2: want to change the world someday, but I have the 612 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 2: power to start these world changers by giving them their 613 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 2: very first school experience. Some of my students I have 614 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 2: for three years due to their age and special needs, 615 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 2: and watching them grow is life changing. I've made so 616 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 2: many friendships along the way and keep in touch with 617 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,959 Speaker 2: so many families, and that gets me excited for the 618 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 2: next incoming families, which is amazing. I swear people like you, Helena. 619 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 2: It's like you were born to do this. So many teachers, 620 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,199 Speaker 2: it's like this is what you were born to do, 621 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: to nurture people and shape them and and uh and 622 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 2: teach them. And you know the impact that you're making 623 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 2: on these kids. I hope you know they'll remember it 624 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 2: for their whole lives. 625 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, well guess. 626 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 9: What we're gonna know you're gonna be emotional. 627 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 1: I was going for that. 628 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 2: You know, tears are great for ratings, So if you 629 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 2: could just cry, make sure if you are crying that 630 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 2: we can hear it audibly. But Helena, we're gonna we're 631 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 2: gonna hook you up. We're gonna clear your teacher wish list. 632 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 4: Okay, oh my god, took the front door. I'm not alone. 633 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 1: I won't. 634 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,120 Speaker 2: I won't see we tricked you. We're making people think 635 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: that maybe we're gonna do it. Maybe we're not, so 636 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe we'll talk to you and just 637 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,360 Speaker 2: say hi. Maybe we'll talk to you and clear your list. 638 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 2: But you, my friends. 639 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 9: I literally when you guys called, I texted my coaches, 640 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 9: your my assistant. I'm like, oh my god, you guys 641 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 9: but don't get your hopes up. I'm just a finalist. 642 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 9: I'm probably gonna hyper ventally and cry and still get nothing. 643 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 9: Somnilating and crying and getting it. 644 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 1: Well, No, that's good. 645 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 2: All that hyperventilating is going to mean that we're going 646 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: to hook you guys up. And because we're it's just 647 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 2: incredible what you're doing. And I think, you know, when 648 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,679 Speaker 2: we were young, I just kind of assume you go 649 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,919 Speaker 2: to school and all that, and of course your parents 650 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,439 Speaker 2: buy your stuff at you know, school supplies, whatever, but 651 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 2: you just kind of assume it's all there and ready 652 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 2: for you, and it's just sort of appears like that. 653 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,160 Speaker 2: And I think what people don't know, especially when you're young, 654 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 2: is that it's people like you who are are figuring 655 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 2: all of this out. And then when in a lot 656 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 2: of cases, when there's not enough stuff, then you you 657 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 2: kind of have to go into your own pocket right 658 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 2: to make this. 659 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean. 660 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 9: Especially in like all of us we have our own 661 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 9: kids at home right like like for me, right now, 662 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 9: I'm actually sitting in the Lorry's parking lot. 663 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,159 Speaker 4: I wish oh. 664 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 9: We're getting laughed at Larry's right now. And Avery, I 665 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 9: told my daughter, even like you have to be quiet 666 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 9: in the car. 667 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 5: I have to talk. 668 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 4: This is important. 669 00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 10: I got it. 670 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Avery, she can talk all she wants. But 671 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 2: we love Avery, and we love you, and thank you 672 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 2: for being such a great, dedicated teacher. 673 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 9: Thank you so much. 674 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 2: We hope this helps you guys out a little bit, 675 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,360 Speaker 2: and thank you for listening. And have an amazing school year. 676 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 2: And good luck today at Lourie with Avery. 677 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: All right, thank you so much. 678 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 9: Can I give a shout out to my co teacher, 679 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 9: my assistant. 680 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 4: Sure, all right, Burgos and no, we got it. 681 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 1: You got it, got. 682 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 2: It, you did it, and you still have a little 683 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 2: bit of a voice left. So have an amazing to 684 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 2: hang out. We'll make sure we have all your info. 685 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 2: We'll get you this money. 686 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, thank you so much. 687 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 1: You got it. 688 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 2: We'll do it again tomorrow, maybe because I gotta make 689 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 2: you know the suspense right, Yeah, maybe possible. Another possible. 690 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: You've got to wait. Fred's show is on now, hot 691 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: this morning show. 692 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 2: Good morning, everybody. Thank you so much for having us 693 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 2: on the Fred Show. Hi Kaylin, Hello, Jason rat Hi r. Hello, Paulina. 694 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 2: Cheeky's here. 695 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 5: Good money. 696 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 2: Get the blogs. Here in just a second, our audio 697 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 2: journals waiting about the phone. After that, why did somebody 698 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 2: get ghost to the entertainer re for it's coming up 699 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 2: to what's in there? 700 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: Kalin? 701 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 6: Well, the Barbie movie hits a huge milestone. And also 702 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 6: people are naming their babies after names from the movie. 703 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what is getting popular. 704 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they These are the radio 705 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: blogs on the Fred Show. 706 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 2: I like for riuning in our diaries, except we say 707 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 2: them aloud. We call them blogs Rufio and Paulina Rufina Blog. 708 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 1: Rufina Puffio. All right, you guys go, Thank you, dear blog. 709 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 11: So this week is always a special week for Paulie 710 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 11: and I because it is our annual Chicago ducky Derby Battle. Yes, 711 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 11: this is, I do believe, our fifth year racing each 712 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 11: other where we get on a giant inflatable duck and 713 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 11: try to make it across the pool as fast as possible. 714 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 11: Of course, it all benefits the special Olympics Illinois. The 715 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,600 Speaker 11: Chicago ducky Derby going down this Thursday. You could still 716 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 11: adopt the duck for just five dollars at Chicago ducky 717 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 11: Derby dot com. But yeah, I think Paulina she won 718 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 11: to and I've won to. You won the inaugural one 719 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 11: actually in some. 720 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 1: Sort of lagon. 721 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, with my new fresh BBL. 722 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 2: One chance to snap her in that same lake to 723 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 2: No that was on. I thought we put you in 724 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 2: a lake that had actual like wild animals in it. 725 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, animals in there. This one is over by Lincoln 726 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:31,120 Speaker 1: Park Zoo. 727 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 11: But the original plan was we were supposed to be 728 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 11: in the Chicago River, like, hey, let's get on inflatable 729 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 11: ducks go across the river like like they do the 730 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 11: real race, but we'll do it before like a pre 731 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 11: race to the Chicago ducky Derby. And then Jason Brown 732 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 11: got a letter from the coast Guard that shut us down. 733 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: Framed in my house. 734 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 11: I'm kind of glad you because I don't want I 735 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 11: don't kind of want to be in that water. I 736 00:30:55,440 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 11: don't know what's the kayaking kayako at the heart that thing. Right, 737 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 11: So now we're in to save pool on a rooftop 738 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 11: pool and we do our little RASO. It's going to 739 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 11: be on our Instagram live tomorrow at noon one three 740 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 11: five Kiss FM. You can catch us there and yeah, 741 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 11: support the Chicago ducky Derby support the Special Olympics. Illinois 742 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 11: adopted Duck for just five dollars at Chicago ducky Derby 743 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 11: dot com. 744 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 5: You can't wait to see this, Paulin. 745 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 2: And I forgot that you gave your body for the 746 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 2: Special Olympics, having just just gotten a BBL but done. 747 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: But yet you were not. You weren't going to give up. 748 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: I did. 749 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 8: You were going to persevere, man, I persevered me and 750 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 8: my ass. 751 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 2: Shout out to the Albanese Albanese candy people, the Gummy Bears. 752 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 2: They sent us a bunch of stuff and they said 753 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 2: they love the Fred Show and waiting by the phone 754 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,480 Speaker 2: and a Friday throwback dance party. So thank you to 755 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 2: the marketing team over there for hooking us up. And 756 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 2: dear blog, I know many of you were wondering how 757 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 2: I fared at the wedding this week. And I had 758 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 2: to attend a wedding. It was you know, I'm not 759 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 2: captain social believe it or not. People seem surprised by that. 760 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 2: I say I'm an introvert and people are like no way. 761 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 2: I'm like no, yes, way, and it's not uncommon. I 762 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 2: don't think the people have talked for a living that 763 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 2: they don't really want to talk when they're not at work. 764 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:22,959 Speaker 2: But my friend Ben Pontio, he married Naomi aka Natalie. 765 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: What is the name? What is her name? Naomi? Natalie? 766 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: Her middle name is Natalie. Say you know me, I 767 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: just just mixed them up. You know, it's exactly right. 768 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: You said Nicole on Friday or no. 769 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 2: Nicole, that's your middle name, Naomi Nicole. I can't even 770 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:38,959 Speaker 2: I don't even know the fake name I made up. 771 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 2: Her name is Naomi, okay. And it was a beautiful wedding. 772 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 2: And I did attend the ceremony, or I did attend 773 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 2: the ceremony and the reception. 774 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: There was a break. 775 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,959 Speaker 2: There were two different places because the wedding was at 776 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 2: a church and there were not that many people there. 777 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 1: And this is what I was going to bring up. 778 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 2: There were three times as many people at the reception 779 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 2: and there were at the church. And if I had 780 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 2: to sit in a sweltering church for an hour watching 781 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:05,720 Speaker 2: these people get married, yeah, to earn my drink, then 782 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 2: show do the rest of these people. But there were 783 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 2: people showing up from mad and I'm like, who are 784 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 2: all these people? Because the reception was packed and the 785 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 2: ceremony was not and I think that is rude as hell. 786 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 2: I think you gotta go to both. 787 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 1: If you can swing it. Yeah, how can you not 788 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 1: swing it? 789 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 2: You're being invited to a very important day in these 790 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 2: people's lives. If you're important enough to get invited, then 791 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 2: you can swing it. 792 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 11: But like you said, one is early in the daytime. 793 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 11: Some people are working and they can only attend the 794 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 11: on a Saturday at five point thirty. Yes, no, when 795 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 11: you when you send it in by for a wedding, 796 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 11: you're not you're you're rsvping to the reception. 797 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 1: You're not RVP. That is not true. The ceremony. That 798 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: is true. You are expected to be at the ceremony. 799 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: That's the whole point of the day. You are not. 800 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 7: Really, you're not no that you always had to go 801 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 7: to bout. 802 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 1: No, I think it is the people are only rude. 803 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 11: I would be more upset if you did not, if 804 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 11: you only went to the ceremony and did not show 805 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 11: for the reception, Because we are that person is paying 806 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 11: for you to be there. 807 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you're you're you're I 808 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 1: don't get any paying for me. That's not my business. 809 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,839 Speaker 1: You know, it's like saying you're taking up You're taking 810 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 1: up a space like your sister's wedding. 811 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,359 Speaker 11: People don't show up the reception, you're gonna be mad 812 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 11: because you're paying for that plate. 813 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,879 Speaker 1: And if you don't show up, but. 814 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 2: You better have a damn good reason why you can't 815 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 2: go to both. And it's not that I just don't 816 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 2: have time, because you do. I get what you're saying, 817 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 2: but there's a really big gap. 818 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 8: Sometimes the things at like twelve pm and then the 819 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 8: dinner's at six, and I'm like. 820 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,319 Speaker 1: No, it's happened a lot of time. I've never heard 821 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: of a noon wedding and at six o'clock and then 822 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 1: they go do pictures in between all that. Yes, yes, 823 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 1: that's and then that's. 824 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,440 Speaker 11: When the bridesmaids drunk as hell giving a crazy ass speech. 825 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 2: I don't know about six hours, but in this case, 826 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 2: it was an hour and a half in between that. 827 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 2: Occupy your damn self and go to both. A lot 828 00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,839 Speaker 2: of people didn't. I saw a lot of people. I'm 829 00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 2: like you and you, and you, I see you're over here. 830 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 2: You know, you really get into that pasta bar, but 831 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,279 Speaker 2: you you weren't in there sweating your ass off like 832 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 2: I was. 833 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:11,400 Speaker 1: Once people get married, how did you fare with the ladies. Oh, 834 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 1: oh that's a story. Oh you have to bring Brandon. 835 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 1: Ben was there. Ben was witnessed to all put it. 836 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: I left him. I left alone. And that's all for today. No, 837 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. I gotta go.