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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, what's going on with you? Harper?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll preface this with I am naturally an an introvert.

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Speaker 2: I have been living with a lot of roommates more recently.

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Speaker 2: I guess I haven't technically lived on my own until

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Speaker 2: very recently. But I have been living in my car

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Speaker 2: for about a month or so now, and I actually

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Speaker 2: really enjoy it. But I'm finding that I'm kind of

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Speaker 2: lonely in the friends that I thought I had are

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Speaker 2: not as friendly as I thought. I guess.

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Speaker 1: This is interesting. Tell me what is it that inspired you?

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Speaker 1: Are you? Is this a financial thing? Or are you

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Speaker 1: living in your car by choice?

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Speaker 2: A little bit of both. I think right now I

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Speaker 2: could technically order to live an apartment, but it's really

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Speaker 2: expensive here right now, and I wouldn't have any any

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Speaker 2: room to save up for anything, or any time to

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Speaker 2: pursue anything that would result in me being like paid more,

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Speaker 2: if that make sense. And I don't want to get

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Speaker 2: stuck in that like spending all my money on apartments

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Speaker 2: until I die kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, tell me what you are liking about it.

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Speaker 2: I love the solitude, I guess partially, I really like

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Speaker 2: the freedom. I just feel like I'm always in my car,

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Speaker 2: and if I want to go anywhere, I can just

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Speaker 2: get in my car and go. It's made me more

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Speaker 2: active since I don't have an apartment to shower in.

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Speaker 2: I got a gym membership and I've actually been going

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Speaker 2: to the gym for the first time in my life,

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Speaker 2: and I'm doing my laundering more regularly. I just went

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Speaker 2: up into the mountains and took some photographs and edited them,

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Speaker 2: just because.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to.

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Speaker 2: And it's always something I've kind of wanted to do

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Speaker 2: but never felt like I had the time too. There's

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Speaker 2: kind of stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: You said that your friends who you said you thought

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Speaker 1: were your friends have been not so much fondly to

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Speaker 1: you latly tell me about that.

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Speaker 3: There's just.

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Speaker 2: Kind of people that I guess, I don't know I've

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Speaker 2: had I've been in Like in high school, you have

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Speaker 2: your friends who you see all the time at school,

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Speaker 2: and you sometimes see outside of school and you guys

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Speaker 2: catch up, and then after high school they just sort

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Speaker 2: of fade away even though you were spending time outside

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Speaker 2: of high school. Now that you don't have to see

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Speaker 2: each other on a regular basis, they just kind of

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Speaker 2: don't They aren't there anymore. And so it's like some

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Speaker 2: of that from old high school friends that are slowly

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Speaker 2: When I switched jobs, then they didn't really talk to

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Speaker 2: me to hang out outside of work, you know. And

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Speaker 2: sometimes I'll offer, I'll, you know, say hey, are you

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Speaker 2: free tonight, and then they say yeah, and I say, okay,

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Speaker 2: let me know when you get off of work or whatever,

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Speaker 2: and then I just don't ever get a response back,

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Speaker 2: and just they're not really putting any effort in to

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Speaker 2: me anymore.

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Speaker 4: I think.

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Speaker 1: I'm curious about something. You seem like you really like

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Speaker 1: being alone.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I like being alone because I am an introvert and

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Speaker 2: my job right now is dealing with a lot of

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Speaker 2: people in food service. But I still feel like I

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Speaker 2: talk to about my day, or like I cut my

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Speaker 2: hand open at work and got seven stitches and I

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Speaker 2: wanted to tell people and I didn't really have people

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Speaker 1: Throughout your life, have you usually had close friends or

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Speaker 1: has it been like this kind of for a while.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've always had at least a couple

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Speaker 2: that I hang out at school. Outside of school, I'd

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Speaker 2: tell them about all of the deep issues of my life.

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Speaker 2: I've never had like a huge your friends, but I

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Speaker 2: never really wanted that, just you know, some people that

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Speaker 1: Do you see yourself living in your car for a

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Speaker 1: long time or do you have plans of eventually getting

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Speaker 2: It kind of depends on financials. I feel like, once

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Speaker 2: I feel financially ready enough that I could get my

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Speaker 2: really liking the car and the life that I'm living.

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Speaker 2: I guess besides, the people think.

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Speaker 1: So you're experiencing, right, And you told me that before

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Speaker 1: this you lived with roommates and that wasn't working out

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Speaker 1: for you very well, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Just kind of, you know, needed roommates. I was living

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Speaker 2: with my parents, then they went to they left and

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Speaker 2: went to Germany when I turned eighteen, and so after

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Speaker 2: that I lived with my boyfriend and his family, and

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Speaker 2: then we broke up, and then it was roommates. And

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Speaker 2: then I actually lived with a friend for a couple

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Speaker 2: of months who said, you know, I took some time

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Speaker 2: and so that kind of fucked me. And after the

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Speaker 2: police was up with the roommates, they all went their

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Speaker 2: And then that friend kind of kicked me out and

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Speaker 2: I don't exactly know why, but she is also very introverted,

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Speaker 2: so I think she might have just been overwhelmed by

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Speaker 2: me being there in general. And then I was in

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Speaker 2: my car.

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Speaker 1: Are you generally happy with where your life is at

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Speaker 1: right now?

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Speaker 2: I I think I'm kind of accepting it, like I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm not unhappy with it, but it's you know, I'm

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Speaker 2: the kind of person that's like, it could always be worse,

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Speaker 2: and it's never like sure, I'm not upset with it.

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Speaker 2: I think it's really interesting and it'll build character and

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Speaker 2: all of that, but you know, I have an image

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Speaker 1: I like the you have a good perspective about it,

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Speaker 1: like the I just I guess the idea that, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, my situation is not my life forever and always.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how old are.

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Speaker 2: You twenty one?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Cool? All right, So I mean your your perspective

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Speaker 1: kind of liking it. And you say it's building character.

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Speaker 1: What kinds of character do you do? You think it's

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Speaker 2: Well, part of it is things that I'm finding out

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Speaker 2: that I can do that I never thought I could.

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Speaker 2: Like I've always been kind of on the chunkier side

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Speaker 2: as a person, but I was never in sports. I

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Speaker 2: And I like back to school, but that was about it.

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Speaker 2: And now I'm actually like going to the gym, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's you know, it's Colorado in the winter. It's getting cold.

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Speaker 2: But I'm figuring it out and I'm having a few

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Speaker 3: Kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: I like that. I like at Harper, you have a

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Speaker 1: you have a good mindset about things. I want to

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Speaker 1: hear you said that it's not how you want to

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Speaker 1: live for now you've accepted it and the good and

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Speaker 1: the bad as to where you are now, but that

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Speaker 1: you have an image in your head of how you

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Speaker 1: want life to be and this is not it. Tell

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Speaker 1: me more about that image.

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Speaker 2: Well, the first sentence I ever said as a kid

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Speaker 2: I think that's very true to my character. I've always

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Speaker 2: been a very like independent, very resilient person, and so

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Speaker 2: I always kind of imagine myself, you know, financially comfortable

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Speaker 2: don't need anybody else. And I find that I'm there,

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Speaker 2: would be. I went to School of Mines for metallurgical

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Speaker 3: Thought like I was going to be a welder.

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Speaker 2: Engineer, like some sort of top not top job cutting,

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Speaker 2: but like something more sophisticated. And now I'm working in

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Speaker 2: the job, but it obviously doesn't doesn't pay very well.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm living in my car, so ideally, in this

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Speaker 1: image of your ideal life, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I think something. I love the idea of metals, which

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Speaker 2: is why I was doing metallurgical engineering, but I also

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Speaker 2: I really love being more hands on. I'm not so

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Speaker 2: much a paperwork kind of person. I mean, I can

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Speaker 2: do calculus like a motherfucker, I'll do that all day,

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Speaker 2: but I want to be more like hands on and

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Speaker 1: Do you see like a practical path in front of

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Speaker 1: you as to how you want to move however, fast

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Speaker 2: I think right now my two main options would be

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Speaker 2: either going back to school minds, and I'm still paying

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 2: The other option would be going to like a vocational

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Speaker 2: school for welding, but I think that would have to

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Speaker 2: don't really see how I can do that, at least

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm working every single day this week, and

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Speaker 2: I love the job, but it doesn't leave room for

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Speaker 1: Do you see a way? I mean, it sounds like

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Speaker 1: there are you kind of know what you want to

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Speaker 1: do and how to get there, but they're like just

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Speaker 1: these these tough financial barriers. I mean, school is fucking expensive,

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Speaker 1: and lots of people are just getting railed by debt.

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Speaker 1: Do you yeah, either with the job you have right

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Speaker 1: to you in terms of other jobs, do you see

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Speaker 1: a path forward for yourself to be able to overcome

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Speaker 5: I think.

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Speaker 2: Another reason I chose to live in my car instead

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Speaker 2: of in an apartment is so that I can.

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Speaker 3: Save up money.

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Speaker 2: And I think if I can save enough where I

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Speaker 2: can feel comfortable doing you know, something part time on

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Speaker 2: the side and school, that's kind of the goal of

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Speaker 2: where I'm working towards just saving up enough.

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Speaker 1: You know, I I admire you, Harper, because you have

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Speaker 1: this vision towards the future that is not free from obstacles.

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Speaker 1: But what I what I admire is that you are

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling Harper, Thank you. That was great.

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Speaker 1: I liked her a lot. Yeah, I kind of said

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Speaker 1: of thatwithstanding, I would not be surprised if Harper, you know,

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Speaker 1: how are you?

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Speaker 6: I am, I'm doing good.

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Speaker 1: How can I help you?

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Speaker 6: My name is Logan. Oh well, I uh, it's it's

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Speaker 6: kind of like, Okay, it's gonna sound funny, but I'm addicted.

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Speaker 6: I'm addicted to like curtains, Like I don't know, I'm

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Speaker 6: just I'm attracted to curtains.

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Speaker 6: Like I don't know what like way. It's just kind

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Speaker 1: You know, it's just like logan, Logan, logan, Yes, what

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Speaker 6: M'm I'm I'm coming to get go for therapy. I'm

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Speaker 1: All right, Okay, you really are attracted to curtains? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: what do you how do you express your attraction to curtains.

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Speaker 6: Uh, well I did well. Instead of using a blanket,

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Speaker 6: I use a curtain as a blanket. I don't really

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Speaker 1: How is it is this? How is this a problem

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 6: What like, it's just people call me weird and stuff.

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Speaker 6: If you didn't like when I expressed my problem in

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Speaker 6: the chat, I just got slandered or it's so uh,

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Speaker 6: I just I just don't know how to. I don't

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Speaker 6: know if you could like give me away, like to

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Speaker 1: Or I can't. I can't. So here's the thing. Look,

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Speaker 1: that I mean, look, dude, if you want to go

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Speaker 1: and curtains all you want. Man, life is short, and

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Speaker 1: you're really not hurting anybody by doing that. So if

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Speaker 1: these curtains is what your friends might think, this is

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Speaker 1: not a compelling reason to me. Logan, I think that

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Speaker 1: you want. Now. If you feel as though the curtain

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Speaker 1: it's a problem. But the way that you describe it

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Speaker 6: No, yeah, totally, I agree with Well, I meant in

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Speaker 6: Well, it's like, yeah, it's like it's relieving, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good, good. What kind of curtains do you like

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Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, you know I thought you were lying, but

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Speaker 1: Now that I think about it, curtains are very soft.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna go home and fuck my curtains.

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Speaker 1: Maybe Logan is onto something. Hello?

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, Hi, who is this miss Allie?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Ali?

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Speaker 5: Well, a lot of the stuff so recently my co

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we well we've been friends for you, you and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So let'sten. So you know, you said to the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they haven't. They keep treating me as a therapist

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Speaker 6: Mm.

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Speaker 1: What a pickle? What a pickle? Okay? So I mean this? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So your co worker passed away. Their significant other, who

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Speaker 5: Yeah. They basically tell me that they drink law and

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, huh. I don't really know how to deal

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Speaker 5: Also my friend, so I don't want to like say,

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Speaker 1: But hm, right, it's difficult because you can't. I mean, well, listen,

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Speaker 5: The thing is that I don't want to say it.

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Speaker 5: And then she's like, you're not supportive, you know, you know,

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00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 5: da da da, And you know she's not being friends

444
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 5: with me because like she's my only like friend in

445
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 5: the workplace, because everyone makes fun of me and my work.

446
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 5: So it's a little rough.

447
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: Everyone makes fun of you at your work. Yeah, okay,

448
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: does that make it a significantly bad place to work?

449
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 5: I wouldn't say. I mean, I'm only there because it

450
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 5: pays well, you know, puts food on the table. House

451
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 5: of the like you know, a house that stuff you

452
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 5: can't like. I can't quit because then I would have

453
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 5: like nothing basically, you know.

454
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, it sounds like you're dealing with a lot

455
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: of issues at work.

456
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know you just deal with it?

457
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you? How do you respond with and

458
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: deal with people making fun of you at work?

459
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 5: A lot of times I just both with it, or

460
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 5: like I just pretended to like, you know, ha ha,

461
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 5: I'm you know, joking, but it's kind of obvious. But

462
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 5: a lot of times I can't like hang over it

463
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 5: because I'm cooking, you know, I'm making food for people,

464
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 5: So it's not like an you know right back.

465
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: Can I ask you this? It just in your life

466
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: as a whole, this issue yeah? Uh, I guess both

467
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: the issues of your co worker sort of let's use

468
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: the phrase trauma dumping on you, uh, and then your

469
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: other coworkers making fun of you, just the general uncomfortable

470
00:30:55,160 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: social vibe of your workplace. How significant of an issue

471
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: is that from the broader perspective of your life as

472
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: a whole.

473
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 5: I mean, it's it's been really tough because I also

474
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 5: have under mantal illness is on top of it so

475
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 5: like a big one is like I have the ID,

476
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 5: which then you know it's in like gang Yelda is

477
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 5: also another thing that I don't like because of my PTSD.

478
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,959
Speaker 1: But you know what is what is the idea?

479
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 5: Uh? It's the social identity disorder?

480
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So like stuff.

481
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 5: Like that, like being made fun of or maybe getting

482
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 5: you know that uld bullying. Sometimes it makes a new

483
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 5: person in my head. It's really hard to explain.

484
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you go to real therapist?

485
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 7: Yeah?

486
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 2: I do.

487
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: What kinds of things does your real therapist tell you

488
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: about this?

489
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 5: They just tell me about like they tell me about

490
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 5: ways to cope with it, like writing down my feelings

491
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 5: and that stuff. But you know, other than that, they

492
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 5: know that my situation is that good and uh I

493
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 5: don't go to college or go to school that stuff.

494
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 5: So they say my job, like my job list is limited,

495
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 5: and where I live, they don't really look for what

496
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 5: I have.

497
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Has any of the stuff that they've been telling

498
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: you been helpful for you?

499
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 5: I mean not really, But I've been trying to find

500
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 5: new hobbies and that stuff to help with it.

501
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: What do you want out of life? Ali?

502
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 5: Well, right now I'm going to go to coding. I'm

503
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 5: trying to get back into the swing of school, trying

504
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 5: to find money, E scramble some money, save up to

505
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 5: go to coding school. And I kind of just want

506
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 5: to you know, I don't have any big dreams, like

507
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 5: you know how people say they want to be like

508
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 5: a superstar or they want to get big. I just

509
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 5: want to live, you know, Yeah, I just want to,

510
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 5: you know, live a good life.

511
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: What is what is living a good life look like

512
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: to you?

513
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 7: House?

514
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 5: Food, maybe a family, nothing big, Just to get by

515
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 5: in life, you know.

516
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:35,959
Speaker 1: Okay. I I try not to give advice, but can

517
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: I give some advice?

518
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 5: Of course?

519
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

520
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,719
Speaker 1: Okay. So you're saying you're trying to get into coding

521
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:47,479
Speaker 1: with the hopes that that it will allow you to

522
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: pursue a better job than you win you have now, Yeah,

523
00:33:53,320 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 1: to whatever degree you can, Ali, I feel like I would.

524
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: I know it probably sucks to get made fun of

525
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: at work, and I know that it sucks to be

526
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: dealing with the trauma of somebody else's dead significant other,

527
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: and that's that's just a fucking lot. But to whatever

528
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: degree you can metaphorically put your head down and just

529
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: with as much single minded focus as you can put

530
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: your energy towards this goal you have of learning the

531
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: coding to get out of the situation. It's you have

532
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: a great it's a great plan. I'm glad that you

533
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 1: have a plan. I don't know how helpful any of

534
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: this of what I'm saying is, but I would ignore

535
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: and just deal with all this stuff, which it sounds

536
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 1: like you're already doing from the way that you're talking

537
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: to me about it. I would just put my head I.

538
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 5: Try to help her.

539
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 4: You know, you're clearly, uh, you know, a sweet, empathetic person,

540
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 4: and so you're compelled to do that.

541
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: But focus as much as you can on this, this

542
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: this goal of doing the coding thing and getting out

543
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: of there, because it doesn't sound like a great place

544
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: for you to be, at least from what you've told us.

545
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I think it's great advice, and I

546
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 5: am going to take that advice in one with it

547
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 5: because I think it's a good advice to take and

548
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 5: I kind of need any advice I can get at

549
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 5: the moment.

550
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: Keep your head up all you sound, I mean, I

551
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 1: don't know, you just have this demeanor that I like. Uh,

552
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: you say you want a simple life, you want to

553
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: be able to eat, you want to have a house,

554
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: you want to have a job where people are not

555
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: making fun of you. I feel confident in your ability

556
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: to achieve those things.

557
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I am.

558
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm starting to learn code on my phone

559
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 5: and on the laptop and you know, and I'm starting

560
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 5: to do things, and I'm starting to get the ball

561
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 5: rolling and I'm thinking about, like this season or next

562
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 5: season to actually roll it in the school since I

563
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 5: finally got enough money too, you know.

564
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 1: Good good. I feel like I feel like it's up

565
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: and up with you.

566
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 5: I hope. So a lot of stuff has been.

567
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: Happening, Allie. Is there anything else you want to say

568
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: to the people of the computer before we go, or

569
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: any aspect of anything that you feel like we did

570
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: not cover.

571
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 5: I would say, chat still just keeping chat. You know,

572
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,919
Speaker 5: you guys are amazing. I love reading you guys' comments,

573
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 5: and I hope that if anything is going on with

574
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 5: Chat that they get the help and always know that

575
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 5: there's someone you could talk to. But make sure you

576
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 5: don't trauma dump on your homies that much because they're

577
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 5: shitting cool. Sorry, adviceful and I'm not allowed too, But no,

578
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 5: you can say whatever.

579
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 1: The hell you want. Man, all right, thank you all,

580
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: have a good night.

581
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 4: To night.

582
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: I liked her, man, She's cool. She just had this

583
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: like very cool That's what I would say. It's very

584
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: cool demeanor about all of this shit. I mean, she

585
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: was going on about like and I don't know. I

586
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 1: never know, Like, dude, I don't I don't know what

587
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: the contrast is between how a person presents themselves on

588
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: the phone to me versus what's really going on. And

589
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: I never will know for sure, but from what I

590
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 1: can gather in our phone call, I mean, she was

591
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:10,280
Speaker 1: going on about, like, you know, everyone in my workplace

592
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: is fucking bullies. Me and I have all these mental

593
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: health issues and I got this going wrong and this

594
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: going around. But she was so like cool about it,

595
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: like it's just I don't know. I was I was

596
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: inspired by like she was mentioning all these problems and again,

597
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what's really going on inside.

598
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what that contrast is. But she was

599
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: cool about it in the sense of she was like, yes,

600
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with this stuff, and I'm I am dealing

601
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 1: with it and it's happening, but it's not destroying me.

602
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: And I still am like, you know, I don't want

603
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: I don't need to be a superstar. I don't need

604
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: to fucking become the next m Steve Jobs coder, entrepreneur person.

605
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: But it'd be nice to have a house and life

606
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 1: and stuff. And uh, I don't know, I appreciated that,

607
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: and uh I I do believe it is on the

608
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 1: up and up for allie. Hello, Hello, Hi, oh my god?

609
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 4: Is this is this?

610
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 1: Is this a gig? Yeah? Who is this?

611
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 6: This is.

612
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 4: J?

613
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: This is who? Now?

614
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:47,399
Speaker 4: All right, yeah, CJ?

615
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: What's up? CJ? What's going on with you?

616
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 4: Uh? Well, yeah, I came to talk to you about

617
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 4: this this little predicament that I'm kind of in. All right,

618
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 4: so much call it my girlfriend, right, she doesn't like

619
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 4: getting receiving head right, Well, the thing is with me,

620
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 4: I love it. You know, it's one of my favorite

621
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 4: things to do. So like, it's kind of a weird

622
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 4: thing going that she really does not prefer it. But

623
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 4: that's the way that gets me going. She always says, no,

624
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 4: I don't like it, and listen, this kind of puts

625
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 4: me down. By'm like, dam you know, I'm trying to

626
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 4: make you feel good. But then you know, she doesn't,

627
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 4: she doesn't like it. So I just I just don't know, all.

628
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: Right, what what do you like about giving giving head?

629
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 4: Oh? The feeling you know, just I don't know, just

630
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 4: the feeling of making the my girlfriend just feel good,

631
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 4: you know, and just having that power over it.

632
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 5: You know.

633
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 4: It's like it's like like when you're ever having sex

634
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 4: and you and you know you're doing good. It's also

635
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 4: the same kind of feeling when you know you're you're

636
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 4: doing a good then all.

637
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: Right, So so you enjoy you enjoy giving pleasure? Yes, yes,

638
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: all right? So I mean are there ways that she

639
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: receives pleasure besides just uh, you know, you giving her head?

640
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:15,359
Speaker 4: Like?

641
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 1: What else could you do to give her pleasure?

642
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 6: Oh?

643
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 4: I do everything. You know she likes to know, the

644
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 4: neck kisses, all that stuff, grabbing up on her. There's

645
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 4: plenty of other different things I could do, right, and

646
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 4: that I do do, like we are, is very good

647
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 4: and stuff like. So's a lot of different things we've

648
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 4: tried and stuff like that. But I just really like

649
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,919
Speaker 4: to do that to her, to go down on her.

650
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 4: Before you get into business, you know, you like to pregame,

651
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 4: you know, you know, little.

652
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: What is she what is what is what? When you've

653
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 1: talked to her about this? What does she enjoy doing

654
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: in bed?

655
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 4: Uh? She she enjoys the floor poor play that we do,

656
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 4: but just not just me going down her. She likes

657
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 4: everything else, you know, the next casey and grabbing up

658
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 4: on her.

659
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 7: You know.

660
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 4: She she's very submissive in that way. So then I

661
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 4: step up and be the more dominant one. And that's

662
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 4: what That's what she likes, and that's what I like.

663
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 4: I like to do.

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Speaker 5: You know.

665
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Speaker 1: M Well, well, ship man, I mean, why don't you

666
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: if you know what she likes? And it sounds like

667
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 1: you guys are very very communicative, communicative with one another,

668
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: why don't you use the results of that communication to

669
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,959
Speaker 1: guide whatever it is that you you do in bed?

670
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

671
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 4: That's true. I do do that sometimes, you know, But

672
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 4: there's also some things that she doesn't like that I'm

673
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 4: angry now. Yeah, so my girlfriend just came in. But

674
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 4: but yeah, it's just I do do a lot of

675
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 4: different things, and I'm trying to get more in to it.

676
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 4: But you know, because she she she does one thing

677
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 4: that I don't like that that she would likes. She

678
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 4: likes to be to get came on. You know, that's

679
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 4: that's what her thing is. But I don't like that,

680
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 4: you know, so we're just trying to figure out different ways.

681
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: Why don't why don't you like? Why don't you like

682
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: coming on your girlfriend? I don't know.

683
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 4: I don't know. Honestly, I feel like it's kind of

684
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 4: like it's not gross or anything to me. I just

685
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 4: not my type of tea, you.

686
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: Know, like, let me talk, Let me talk to her.

687
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 1: Can I talk to her?

688
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 4: Maybe? Maybe I want to talk to you?

689
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Hi, Hello, So your boyfriend is talking all about,

690
00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: you know, communicating with you about sex stuff. I don't

691
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 1: know if you've heard everything he's been talking about.

692
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:08,919
Speaker 3: No, I tuned in a little bit late.

693
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So let me ask you this in bed. What

694
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: would you like to sort of get from your boyfriend

695
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 1: more that that you think he could be doing a

696
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:25,760
Speaker 1: better job of.

697
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 3: Well, I mean our sex life is pretty good, Like

698
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 3: like he said, we like communicate about it and stuff.

699
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 3: It's literally the only issue. It's just him going down

700
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 3: on me. I don't really prefer it. Everything else is good,

701
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 3: like I'd like everything else that we do.

702
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: Well, shit, you know, look, if you don't like it,

703
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: I mean, that's fucking I feel like that's that's that.

704
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: You know, what else is there to really be be

705
00:44:59,080 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 1: said and done?

706
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 7: Know?

707
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I keep telling him, because it's not

708
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:08,839
Speaker 3: like I don't always not let him go down Does

709
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:09,479
Speaker 3: that make sense?

710
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: I don't always not let him. No, that doesn't make sense.

711
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 3: Like he does it sometimes, Like I won't like completely

712
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 3: turn him down from it. You know, if he hits

713
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 3: the right spots, I'll react to it. It's not like

714
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 3: I completely hate it. I just don't prefer it.

715
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 1: M Well, shit, if you don't prefer it, then I

716
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't really know what else there is

717
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: to do here. I wonder what a real sex here?

718
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: This is some points I just hit break. There's some

719
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: calls I just hip brick walls with and I'm like,

720
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: what an actual fucking person who knows about.

721
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:56,479
Speaker 3: Here's the thing I I told him that I would,

722
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 3: I would let him. I would let him go down

723
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 3: on anymore if he would just like nut on you

724
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 3: when I asked him to.

725
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're doing a little bit of sexual barter.

726
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 3: Bartering bartering is exactly.

727
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: Okay. So we're making a trade here, Yes, exactly. Okay,

728
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: I think a trade is fair, like a trade is fair?

729
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 1: Is he what? What's his? Is his? How does he

730
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: feel about a trade?

731
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 4: I mean, there's the trade sounds. Oh, guys, I just don't.

732
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:34,919
Speaker 3: Know, man.

733
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 4: I really don't like coming on her.

734
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, because and she doesn't like when you

735
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: lick her for China and you guys are bartering, you're compromising. Yeah,

736
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: that's a trade. That's what a trade is. I give

737
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 1: somebody twenty dollars for a sandwich. That's one of those

738
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: fucking expensive futus. I don't like giving people twenty dollars,

739
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: but I like sandwiches. Yeah, I guess. I guess it's

740
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: a trade.

741
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:05,760
Speaker 4: True.

742
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 1: How do we so, I'm asking both of you guys,

743
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:15,399
Speaker 1: how do we feel about this trade? Yeah?

744
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 4: I feel like it's just a good middle ground. I

745
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 4: feel like this could have worked, you know, because, uh,

746
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 4: but most of the time I do come on her,

747
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 4: just on her ask you know, you hit it from

748
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 4: the back, but you know, but like whenever hitting it

749
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 4: from like a missionary, you know, from the front.

750
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 6: You know.

751
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 4: I just don't like Solily in that moment it's come.

752
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 4: I don't know if that makes sense. I don't know,

753
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 4: because I just really liked the way it looks.

754
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: What's your name, c J, c J, c J. Your girlfriends.

755
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: I want you to have samanpathy for sake. I want

756
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:50,280
Speaker 1: you to think about your girlfriends, what you think about.

757
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 1: You don't like coming on people, but imagine getting comedne.

758
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: It probably feels nice, you know, come, is you EVERJJJ?

759
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 1: Listen to me? Okay, have you ever jacked off and

760
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: you accidentally came on your thigh or your hand and

761
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: it is like a warm sensation. It's like you're being hot,

762
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 1: Like all the little sperm cells in your jeez, they're

763
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: like hugging you. You know, it's a nice feel. It

764
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 1: feels nice to get comed onne. And so when you

765
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: come on your girlfriends, you're giving her that pleasure of

766
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: the warm sensation of your ejaculate. And that's because that's

767
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: what she desires, that's what she's asking for from you.

768
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 1: And so just have some empathy for that, you know

769
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 1: what I'm saying?

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00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, I got you, I got Yeah.

771
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 5: That makes sense.

772
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,360
Speaker 4: I guess that we thought of it that way. I

773
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 4: don't know. From the very young age, I never like.

774
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: Things.

775
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 4: I don't know, it just kind of grows from a.

776
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: Very young age. You never liked coming on things.

777
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been a Yeah, I started very young. I'm

778
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 4: not proud to say that I started very young.

779
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: Well, CJ, I feel like I've heard enough about you

780
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: and your girlfriend's genitals for this evening. Is there anything

781
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: else that you want to say to the people of

782
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: the computer before we go?

783
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 4: I guess, I guess come on your girlfriend, which he asked.

784
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 1: Okay, this is good. We have a breakthrough here.

785
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I think so.

786
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 4: I think we did. I think I think it might

787
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:36,720
Speaker 4: try it tonight. See what happened.

788
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Speaker 1: Beautiful, beautiful, you guys have a wonderful rest of the evening.

789
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 4: I appreciate you. Thanks for getting me.

790
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:46,240
Speaker 6: Thanks.

791
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: Let's see. I think, Oh, they're gonna have a great time.

792
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 7: Man.

793
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: It does. By the way, I'm not like I've never

794
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: had somebody else come on me. I don't want I

795
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to. But every time I come on myself,

796
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: I like, get it. Every time I accidentally come on

797
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: my own stomach, I'm like, oh, this feels nice. So

798
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say I don't understand. Hello, it is Lyle.

799
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 1: We have reached the end of the phone. Calls of

800
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: this stream, and I would now like to share with

801
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: you an interview that I did with a frenchwoman on

802
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: the beaches of Cancun in real life. I was in

803
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: Cancun on a little post tour vacation when I realized

804
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:41,240
Speaker 1: that I get just really antsy sitting around and doing

805
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: nothing on a beach. I like to get out and

806
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 1: work and do stuff. I know it sounds insane, but

807
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: I set up my Gecko interview station and I did

808
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: a bunch of interviews on the beach there. So if

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00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 1: you like this segment and you want to hear the

810
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: full thing, you can go to YouTube dot com, slash

811
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Speaker 1: lyle forever, or just search being a Gecko in Cancun. Okay,

812
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: let's get into the interview. Thank you for saying I

813
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: think people. I think most people, and you know rightly enough,

814
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 1: most people think I'm like trying to charge the money

815
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 1: for pictures and stuff.

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00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:15,800
Speaker 7: Honestly, I just find it really fun.

817
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: What's what's your name, Katie? Katie? Very nice to meet you.

818
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: What are you doing here on the beach of Plia

819
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: del Carmen vacation.

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00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 7: I guess, okay, I guess like you.

821
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, what What do you do when you're

822
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:28,839
Speaker 1: not vacationing?

823
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 7: I'm working?

824
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: You're working. Do you know? Do you like your job?

825
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 7: I love my job.

826
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 1: What do you do?

827
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 7: I work in hotel?

828
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: You work at hotels?

829
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:36,319
Speaker 7: Yes?

830
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 1: Okay, well so so like weirdly enough, just going on

831
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,479
Speaker 1: vacation and being at a hotel like make you think

832
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 1: about work?

833
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 7: Actually it does, but when you switch it off, it's

834
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 7: so much better.

835
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: Okay, switch it off. Who are you here with anyone?

836
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:52,720
Speaker 7: No? By myself?

837
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: Oh you can by yourself. That's great. Do you do

838
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: you take vacations by yourself A lot?

839
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 7: I do.

840
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: Do you prefer to vacation by yourself and with other people?

841
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 7: I do? Why is that because I don't have to

842
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 7: wait for anyone? You know, in the morning, you wake up, okay,

843
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,319
Speaker 7: I might go back to bed, that's okay. There's no

844
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 7: one next to you say, oh, let's go for breakfast,

845
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 7: or let's go someone do shopping or something. You decide

846
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 7: your own schedule.

847
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Speaker 1: Yep, yep, yep.

848
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Speaker 7: So that's what I love about it.

849
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: I like that too, Yeah. I like I like doing

850
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 1: things by myself all the time. I like going to

851
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: like the aquarium by myself. I can sit and stare

852
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,840
Speaker 1: at one fish for like an hour and there's no

853
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 1: one tapping me being like, we gotta go.

854
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 7: Do you use a that's outfit when you do that?

855
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 1: Sometime it'd be fun to do one of these with

856
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:32,800
Speaker 1: the aquarium.

857
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 7: You should.

858
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 1: So you're on what is your How long are you

859
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: on vacation for?

860
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 7: I've been here for three days already, so I have

861
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 7: five more days.

862
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 1: You're on vacation for eight weeks? No, I mean eight days?

863
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: So I can I ask you? Though? So you're vacationing

864
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,319
Speaker 1: by yourself, and I totally understand. That's how I like

865
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: to do my vacations too. Does it ever get lonely?

866
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 7: Sometime it does? You know, Sometime you're like, okay, because

867
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Speaker 7: if the thing is, it's easier to meet people when

868
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Speaker 7: you're by yourself. Definitely, when you have like you're in

869
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 7: the crowd and everything people are maybe you know, worried

870
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 7: to actually approach true and by yourself, it's so much different.

871
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 7: But sometimes it does get lonely. You're in the restaurant

872
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 7: or something, You're looking at all the people, so you

873
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 7: don't want to disturb them, so you end up being

874
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 7: alone a little bit. Sometimes you might want to do

875
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 7: some activities and you have to pair with someone for

876
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 7: you by yourself. Sometimes it does, but at the end

877
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 7: of the day, the highlight is because I feel like

878
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:32,879
Speaker 7: I've met so many people and other people person.

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00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: So I love it definitely. That's my favorite part of

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00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: traveling alone is it makes it easier to meet other people.

881
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: Weirdly enough, exactly have you been meeting a lot of

882
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: people and you travel so far? Honestly, yes, where you

883
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: meet them like you're on at the clubs and anyone.

884
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 7: Today, I want I meet a French lady. I'm French

885
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 7: and she's so nice. I was just, you know, doing

886
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:55,760
Speaker 7: shopping and I met her. So we connect you on Instagram,

887
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 7: so we'll see how it goes.

888
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 1: Now, that's great, that's great. Where in Fronts are from?

889
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 7: In Friends?

890
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:00,879
Speaker 1: Yeah?

891
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 7: Actually I was raised in Cholet, the small little town

892
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:05,720
Speaker 7: next to Note. Do you know friends?

893
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: I know, I know Paris, and I know Nice, which

894
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,760
Speaker 1: I called nice for a very long time until I

895
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: find out always pronounced nice.

896
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 7: Like the movie movie Bresnie so brusty. Nice is something No,

897
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 7: I've never heard of any movie you watch this? Okay,

898
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 7: well I'll write that Dan, I guess we're recording it.

899
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: Hopefully. I hope this thing is on.

900
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 7: How about you people?

901
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: I said that again?

902
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 7: Have you did you meet a lot of people?

903
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: Let's see, I met one guy just now who's a

904
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: travel blogger. I met you. It's it's very I'm glad

905
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: I met you because I after about ten people are

906
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: hoards of people are walking by and I'm like trying

907
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 1: to get them to talk to me, and they're like

908
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: not looking. And it's funny because earlier today I was

909
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: walking around just as myself around the town and other

910
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: people in costumes. Have you seen them? There's like guys

911
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: run around just a spider man or likeeople who like

912
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 1: are you know, stand outside a restaurants like trying to

913
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: be like, hey come, you know, take a picture or whatever.

914
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: And I do the same thing to them. So I

915
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 1: feel like I'm on the opposite side of what I've

916
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 1: been gave out this morning, you know.

917
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 7: Okay, So my question is you YouTube or you have

918
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 7: an Instagram?

919
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: I have both. I do YouTube and Instagram. Yeah. Do

920
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: you are you of longer of any kind? Do you

921
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 1: document your travels?

922
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 7: I don't.

923
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: Do you Do you have a journal at all?

924
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 7: I have my personal journal, Yes, Okay, it's a written one.

925
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 7: Nobody actually have to read it. It's for myself.

926
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:33,719
Speaker 1: What do you can I ask? What kinds of things

927
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:34,760
Speaker 1: you talk about in the journal?

928
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 7: Anyway? Anything?

929
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 1: Anything?

930
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 7: Anything?

931
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 1: What? What did what did your entry sound like yesterday?

932
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:43,399
Speaker 1: Do you do it every day?

933
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 7: Not every day? Only when I feel like it? Yesterday

934
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 7: I was so tired, so actually look like, Okay, that's

935
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:53,880
Speaker 7: what I did today. And I was talking about the

936
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:57,280
Speaker 7: fact that you know, when you exhausted, it comes from

937
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 7: so many things. So it came from I was about society,

938
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 7: and I was talking about so many things that I once.

939
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: So, okay, you're talking about society. I am you have

940
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 1: thoughts about society that you've been because when you when

941
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: you're traveling alone. I know this from experience, you got

942
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 1: lots of time to just think exactly. Can I hear

943
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 1: like some of your thoughts about society?

944
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 7: No?

945
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough enough myself? Okay, fair enough, fair enough?

946
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: Where are you off to next?

947
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 7: Next? I'll just work a little bit more, try to

948
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 7: see you around. I'm not actually staying in play at

949
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 7: de Camp and I'm actually staying in Tulom, so I

950
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 7: have to take a collective look back to Tuloom soon.

951
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 1: So what kinds of things do you do back home

952
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 1: in France like that when you're not working, when you're

953
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: not vacation, and what do you do with your life?

954
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 7: I'm boring? No, actually, for some people I'm boring, But

955
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 7: for myself, I'm not boring.

956
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:50,320
Speaker 1: I don't think you're boring at all. You're traveling to

957
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: foreign countries alone, You're zooming all around.

958
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:57,399
Speaker 7: Well, what I do I need? I drew some time,

959
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 7: I sing for myself. I go shopping with my friends,

960
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 7: and honestly, I spent actually my time to actually look

961
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 7: read a lot.

962
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: You draw? You said, what kinds of things inspire your art?

963
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 7: People?

964
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: People do you like to draw? People like to do

965
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 1: you draw your family and friends? What do you What

966
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: kind of people do you draw?

967
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 7: Just people that I see around, just people.

968
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: You see around? So have you been doing that at all?

969
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: Like just kind of sitting on the beach and no, No,

970
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm on vacation. Okay, maybe when I go back to

971
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: my room. Okay, I respect that. I was thinking myself.

972
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 1: I was I was about to not do this because

973
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: I was sitting in my hotel room. I was like,

974
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: I'm on vacation.

975
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 7: So do.

976
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: I really need to bust out the gecko soup, But

977
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: every time I do, I'm glad I get to meet someone.

978
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly. So question for you, how long you've been

979
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 7: on vacation.

980
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: For I got here two days ago, two days ago,

981
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: and I leave tomorrow.

982
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 7: That's a sure vacation.

983
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: It's a sure but I honestly, I, uh, well, I've

984
00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 1: been I I do. I do like live shows and stuff.

985
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: And I was on a tour in the US, okay,

986
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: and for about two weeks. And I came straight from

987
00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: that tour to me, heret of this your comedian, I

988
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: do that. I actually do. I do this but on

989
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: stage with people, and so I've been doing that for

990
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:21,920
Speaker 1: two weeks, and I came right here and then I, uh, I.

991
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 7: Got me curious. Now I'm gonna have to go and

992
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 7: actually check you out.

993
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, I'll show you. I'll show you the gram.

994
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 1: But I'm actually like, it was a short trip, but

995
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: it's perfect amount because I'm very ready to go home

996
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 1: actually and do nothing. I haven't been in my apartment

997
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: for two weeks, so it could be on fire right now.

998
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on there. Oh, mushroom's growing,

999
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: mushrooms growing dead mice. Do you do you live alone?

1000
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 1: Are you not worried that, Like I'm always worried that

1001
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: something's gonna happen.

1002
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 7: No, No, I mean I live in Montreal, so oh

1003
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 7: really if something, actually, if my apartment has to catch.

1004
00:58:56,560 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: Fire, I've never been to Montreal before. Is it worth it?

1005
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 6: So?

1006
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 7: Worth it?

1007
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: Okay, it is amazing.

1008
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 7: It's an amazing city, especially during summer with all the festival.

1009
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 7: If you're like you know meaning people, you know the

1010
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 7: old the festival in music? Do you love music?

1011
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: Are you a music festival person?

1012
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 7: I am?

1013
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: Okay, I got that vibe from you. You have this like friendly,

1014
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 1: open vibe to yourself that I see whenever I go

1015
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: to music festivals exactly.

1016
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 7: So music festivals so many of them in Montreal, so

1017
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 7: you don't get bored and it's always alive. So now

1018
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 7: winter is coming soon.

1019
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: And what kind of music do you listen to anything? Anything?

1020
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 7: So this summer, most of it was house because of

1021
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 7: the person I've been spending time with this summer, she

1022
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 7: loves house electro. So we've been going to this kind

1023
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 7: of music festival. But it depends on the mood. I guess.

1024
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what what have you been listening to while

1025
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 1: you've been on vacation. That's classical music? And like do

1026
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 1: like that kind of stuff?

1027
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 4: Well?

1028
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 7: No, mostly, like, yeah, a little bit, but.

1029
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: Not the same piano music. Interesting? Interesting? Is that what

1030
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: you were listen into while you were walking?

1031
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 7: No, I don't have any No, I really don't.

1032
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 1: What do you when you when you relax on the beach?

1033
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: Are you like? Do you listen to music? Do you

1034
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: read a book? Or do you do you sleep? Or

1035
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: do you just stare at the ocean? What do you

1036
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: how do you relax?

1037
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:20,920
Speaker 7: I listened to the ocean? Okay, well, yeah, and I

1038
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 7: read but I don't have my book today so it

1039
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 7: won't work. And yeah, that's it. You just listen to

1040
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 7: the people around you.

1041
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 1: You you eaves drop on folks. No, No, it's boring.

1042
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 7: This it's a you know, like an interesting conversation. No,

1043
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 7: it's boring you.

1044
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: Like you've tried eves dropping on people and you're like,

1045
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 1: I don't care about your you know, the divorce you're

1046
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: going through or the you.

1047
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 7: I don't try, but sometimes it comes up. Okay, I'm

1048
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 7: pretty sure you do that if you ask me. The question.

1049
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 7: It means that you do that.

1050
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, my whole thing is, you know, talking to

1051
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm always curious what's going on with people. I eaves

1052
01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: drop on stuff. I also, I like, you know, I'm

1053
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 1: always trying to pay attention to how other people behave

1054
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 1: and talk because it keys me into like, you know,

1055
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: how should I behave and talk as as I maneuver

1056
01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 1: through the universe. And so maybe I'll listen to other people.

1057
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 1: I'll be like, man, that guy having this conversation that

1058
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 1: writes to me, he's really confident. I should like take

1059
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: notes on what he's you know, saying. So I'll do that. Yeah,

1060
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: now I would like literally pull out a pen and

1061
01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 1: take notes, but like mental notes, I get it.

1062
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 7: You learn from other people exactly exactly. So my question

1063
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 7: is to speak Spanish?

1064
01:01:36,280 --> 01:01:41,439
Speaker 1: Un poquito o poquito? Is that even a word? Piqito?

1065
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: I know, and I know a handful of phrases and

1066
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: enough that I can like walk around, walk around and

1067
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: say a few things, but I can't really have like

1068
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: a conversation. What do you what do you do? You

1069
01:01:56,160 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 1: know any Spanish that fly a key? Okay, I guess

1070
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 1: numbers katiki cat.

1071
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:16,680
Speaker 7: Cat, It's kitty. But in French, okay, if you want,

1072
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 7: and you know French, I'm French.

1073
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: I feel like Spanish and French are like actually kind

1074
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: of similar.

1075
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 7: I guess I've been told that. But you know, with

1076
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 7: the four years trying to learn Spanish, not that much.

1077
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 1: You spent four years trying to learn Spanish really okay,

1078
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 1: you know, trying in about four years of due lingo exactly.

1079
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 7: You said it, Okay, look like the guy you know?

1080
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: Like, are you saying I look like the d lingo bird.

1081
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 1: I've never gotten that before, but that's true. I've gotten

1082
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:49,760
Speaker 1: people say I look like a frog. They said I

1083
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 1: look like, yo, you look like a frog. I'll take that.

1084
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 1: I respect that. I don't I'm not a frog, but

1085
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: people have been you know, I I don't know. I

1086
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: think in Spanish the word gecko is just gecko. But

1087
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: people have been pointing at me and being like, like

1088
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: little kids will be like Poppy's larana, it's larana, I

1089
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 1: mean it's frog, okay, or orlaple, what is it? There's

1090
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 1: a both frogs?

1091
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 7: I mean, is it like it's from a coltoon? I

1092
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 7: don't even know.

1093
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: Like me, I'm just like a gecko, okay, so your

1094
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 1: friends and family, are you keeping in touch with them

1095
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: while you are here on the beach. Are they like

1096
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: not worried about you?

1097
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 7: They're used to it. My dad called me this morning, Okay,

1098
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Speaker 7: do you wish maybe a happy body in advance their

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Speaker 7: birthday tomorrow?

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna do for your birthday?

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm gonna go visit the reoms in Tulum in

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Speaker 7: the morning. In the afternoon, I booked a extcution. I

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Speaker 7: think they're taking me around. I think not too far

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Speaker 7: from here, something like that. And in the evening, I

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Speaker 7: booked a dinner in a restaurant. From what I understand

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Speaker 7: is a U can't start cuisin something like that.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, you're kind of asked you a question that

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Speaker 1: I'm curious about. I love to solo travel. I love

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Speaker 1: going place by myself. I have friends who are women

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Speaker 1: that I tell them about it, and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I wish I could do that, but they're like afraid

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Speaker 1: for their safety. But yet when I'm on the road,

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Speaker 1: I do meet a lot of like solo female travelers,

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, there are people out there doing it.

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Speaker 1: Do you have like anything that you would say or

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Speaker 1: any advice to anyone who is like afraid to go

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Speaker 1: out and travel by themselves, like safety wise, but wants

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Speaker 1: to do it.

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Speaker 7: The thing is a phrase, Well, we only have one life,

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Speaker 7: so if you have to live by your fear, you

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Speaker 7: will never leave. That will be something I would say,

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Speaker 7: because to be honest with you, I was afraid to

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Speaker 7: to come. But every single time I actually good travel,

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Speaker 7: I'm always care what if something happens to me? Is

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Speaker 7: this happens to me? But as long as you actually

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Speaker 7: you know, just do your own research. And actually you

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Speaker 7: need to find the places where you're comfortable with and

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Speaker 7: you don't have to do things that you don't feel

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Speaker 7: comfortable with, so don't force yourself. But at the same time,

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Speaker 7: you need to enjoy life.

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Speaker 1: So m M, do you feel as though you are

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Speaker 1: good at conquering your fears? Me? No, But were you

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Speaker 1: were you afraid to come out of here by yourself?

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Speaker 7: Well you know into here? No play at the campine

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Speaker 7: is different. But tulun Yas because Tulum is in the

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Speaker 7: jungle something like that. And my hotel is actually right

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Speaker 7: in the middle of the jungle.

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Speaker 1: From in the middle of the jungle.

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Speaker 7: If something like that, I guess because around it When

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Speaker 7: I look at the map, there's nothing just besides this,

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Speaker 7: and we're just next to the sea. So beside the sea,

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Speaker 7: the result and the jungle. There's some other result next

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Speaker 7: to it, but there's nothing around. So that's where we sam.

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Speaker 7: But other than that, I mean, now you know, I'm

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Speaker 7: scared of spiders, I'm scared of all these things.

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Speaker 1: So obviously are you Are you ever going to face

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Speaker 1: those fears? Are you ever going to have no choice?

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Speaker 7: At some point? I guess if they come up to me,

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Speaker 7: what am I going to do?

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Speaker 1: I like that? Like what you said, Just say say

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Speaker 1: what you said again. You said, if you live by

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Speaker 1: your fear, you won't live it all. Something like that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So basically, if you have to live by your

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Speaker 7: fail you will never live at all.

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Speaker 1: Tell me, is that something? Is that a philosophy that

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Speaker 1: you kind of had to work your way up towards

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Speaker 1: or was that something you've always had within you?

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Speaker 7: I had to learn it?

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Speaker 1: How do you feel like you learned it? My friends,

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Speaker 1: your friends.

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Speaker 7: The people surrounding, the people I've been meeting. So, I mean,

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Speaker 7: you know, it takes a lot of courage to actually

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Speaker 7: decide to leave. You know, where you were raised, so

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Speaker 7: leave friends was not easy, but I wanted to leave anyway.

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Speaker 7: So I started with London and then I moved after

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Speaker 7: that to Canada, and then from Canada, Okay, now I'm

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Speaker 7: traveling a little bit more around. So you need to

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Speaker 7: start somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Right right. I feel like that's like the people I've

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Speaker 1: talked to who are like afraid of, you know, traveling.

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Speaker 1: It's like, go take a weekend to like another state first.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to start by going to Korea exactly.

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Speaker 1: That you just start in another state and then you

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Speaker 1: kind of work your way up, like you were talking about.

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Speaker 7: So just start with something exactly. Just go somewhere where

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Speaker 7: is going to be something different, and then slowly, by slowly,

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Speaker 7: you will have the confidence to actually go further.

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Speaker 1: And what's your next trip that you're going to take.

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Speaker 7: I really don't know. Well, technically, yes, I have to

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Speaker 7: take a plane back to Montreal, but honestly, I'm hoping

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Speaker 7: that next year I'm going to go to Bali, Bali.

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Speaker 1: I've heard cool things about Bali me too. I've heard

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Speaker 1: that like in all those places like Bali and Vietnam

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Speaker 1: and Thailand, there's like a big solo travel you know,

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Speaker 1: community there.

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Speaker 7: There's a lot of people over there, and surprising there's

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Speaker 7: a lot of French people everywhere. So that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Have you met tell me this. I have been France

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Speaker 1: and it was cool. People talk a lot about how

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Speaker 1: they think that French people can can be assholes. Now

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Speaker 1: you're very nice.

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Speaker 7: Everybody can be assholes.

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Speaker 1: Everybody can be assles. That's why I That's why I

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Speaker 1: think too anytime there's any sort of like generalization of like,

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Speaker 1: you know, well, the people from this part of America,

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Speaker 1: this part of Europe can be this.

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Speaker 7: But I'm like everywhere, I do get the feeding because

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Speaker 7: to benest with you, Paris is another environment. I'm not

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Speaker 7: from Paris, so I love Parisian people. I do love them.

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Speaker 7: But the environment sometimes when you're on outsider, it's different.

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Speaker 7: It's different, but it's the same for big cities, you know,

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Speaker 7: like in London is the same. Some people when they

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Speaker 7: actually you know, British people, they will go to London,

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Speaker 7: but they don't feel comfortable because the vibe is different.

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Speaker 7: But it is the same in big cities, you know.

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Speaker 7: Same thing for people that comes from Calgary, let's say,

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Speaker 7: and they will have to go to Montreal and Montreal

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Speaker 7: is a big city or something like that. You know,

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Speaker 7: it's the same. But at the end of the day,

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Speaker 7: I will say, if you go to Friends, don't stop

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Speaker 7: at Paris. You have to travel around. Okay, try the

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Speaker 7: small cities, my friends. Is such a beautiful country, you know,

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Speaker 7: all the history, all the different places, the culture, and

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Speaker 7: the food. The food. It's all about the food anyway.

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Speaker 1: So yes, what is your name again?

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Speaker 7: Katie?

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Speaker 1: Katie? Thank you for talking to a gat though. I

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Speaker 1: want to say just to anyone who's listening at home,

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Speaker 1: because you know, I've sat here and I have twenty

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Speaker 1: tons of people are walking by. They're not looking at me.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to get I say this every episode. I'm

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Speaker 1: about to give up. I'm like, ah, fuck, nobody's gonna

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Speaker 1: come stop. And then a very friendly person stops by.

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Speaker 1: We have a good conversation. It always goes to show that,

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Speaker 1: you know, stick it out for a little bit longer

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Speaker 1: and something fun and cool will happen. So thank you

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Speaker 1: very much. Is there anything else you want to say

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Speaker 1: to the people of the computer, Well.

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Speaker 7: Geko's nice and thank you so much for talking to

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Speaker 7: me today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for talking to me today. I appreciate it, oh,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. That's awesome. Than you have a good

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Speaker 1: rest of the trip. I'm giving you my gecko blessings

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Speaker 1: for the remaining five days, and I'll see you out

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Speaker 1: there in the universe. Thank you, of course, and goes

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Speaker 1: on the line taking your phone calls every night, never

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Speaker 1: goes to side. He's teaching you Cloud in the mid

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Speaker 1: of your life.

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Speaker 7: An expert