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Speaker 2: That is a fact.

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Speaker 3: And I cannot think of one moment that was my

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Speaker 2: I had so many favorite moments on this tour. Hilarious,

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Speaker 2: dead Ass. Hey, I'm Kadeen and I'm Devout and we're

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Speaker 2: the Ellis's.

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Speaker 4: You may know us from posting funny videos with our.

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Speaker 3: Voice and reading each other publicly as.

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Speaker 2: A form of therapy. Wait, I make you need therapy

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Speaker 2: most days.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Oh and one more important thing to mention, we're married, Yes.

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Speaker 4: Sir, we are.

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Speaker 1: We created this podcast to open dialogue about some of

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Speaker 2: Things most folks don't want to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Through the lens of a millennial married couple. Dead ass

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Speaker 1: is a term that we say every day. So when

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Speaker 1: we say dead ass, we're actually saying facts one hundred

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Speaker 1: the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

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Speaker 1: We about to take philotof to our whole new level.

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Speaker 3: Dead Ass starts right now.

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Speaker 4: Story time.

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Speaker 1: So first thing I want to do is shout out

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Speaker 2: We love y'all, oh man so much, but this story.

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Speaker 1: It's about our driver, said, because said had the nerve

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Speaker 3: Yes, that was to drive to Philly do a show,

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Speaker 3: stories for days, all right, karaoke time now. When Develle

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Speaker 3: Sorry two thousand and four by Ruben Stutter, and it

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Speaker 3: One chance and make it real clear that I'm sorry

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Speaker 3: The fact that this song came back up and resurfaced

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Speaker 3: we checked this whole thing here with Ruben thunder song,

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Speaker 4: He said, baby, I'm sorry what I'm about to do.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. So let me let you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was it was cool and it was all love.

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Speaker 1: Take care of yourself, said man, real talk man. We

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Speaker 1: because you know you're a workaholic. Orse like, my health

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Speaker 2: That's a fact.

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Speaker 3: Baby, You're nasty always always. But anyway, really back to

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Speaker 3: more favorite moments from our Love Against the World tour.

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Speaker 3: Did you have a favorite stop? We had Dallas first,

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Speaker 2: Like the podcast show you didn't want to be that far.

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Speaker 3: If we ever go back to that venue again, just

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, it's hard for me to say

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Speaker 1: The early shows because the later shows got an opportunity

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Speaker 3: They were practicing. So you're you're absolutely right about that.

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Speaker 4: Though.

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Speaker 3: I think Dallas, for our first stop, was so live amazing.

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Speaker 2: It was a great time there.

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Speaker 4: Every day, show up, show up, and do it.

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00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, my biggest anxiety moment each show was like dancing

447
00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,320
Speaker 3: on a new stage in different shoes.

448
00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:33,919
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I can imagine that.

449
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:34,760
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm.

450
00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,200
Speaker 3: Dancing in heels first of all, like actually dancing dancing.

451
00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,399
Speaker 3: And then all stages are different. So I remember Dallas

452
00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 3: being super slippery and I was dancing in some shoes

453
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 3: and I'm just.

454
00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,840
Speaker 2: Like, oh no, Dallas slippery.

455
00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 3: The stage was slippery, so I was like, man, I'm

456
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 3: gonna have to get my shoes scuffed up.

457
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,600
Speaker 2: Sure, we had to put on some.

458
00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:51,239
Speaker 3: Souls on the bottom of it because I'm like, I'm

459
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,159
Speaker 3: sliding all over the stage. And then we went to

460
00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:57,280
Speaker 3: the Apollo and I was like, I'm sticking to the stage,

461
00:19:58,520 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 3: Like how am I gonna do this?

462
00:19:59,280 --> 00:19:59,560
Speaker 5: Split?

463
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:00,960
Speaker 3: And then and I had to kind of like work

464
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 3: out a way for me to find my way into

465
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 3: the split because of that. So so yeah, we had

466
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:07,640
Speaker 3: a lot of those moments where I felt like, damn,

467
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,320
Speaker 3: Dallas did get the royst version. But all things considered,

468
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,120
Speaker 3: Dallas got a dope as first show.

469
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,679
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Dallas show is a live spot for us.

470
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,680
Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Dallas also one of our largest venues. Yes,

471
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,480
Speaker 1: sixteen hundred people man in that spot and we sold

472
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 1: thirteen and forty nine tickets are.

473
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,880
Speaker 2: Only not sold but still the visor.

474
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,239
Speaker 1: Crazy top part, but it was, it was fire. I

475
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:36,400
Speaker 1: have three like moments to me, okay, that are like

476
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:40,760
Speaker 1: like moments that I feel epitomize what we wanted to accomplish,

477
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do them in the order of three.

478
00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 4: Two, one.

479
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 2: Okay, we may have some overlapping, I'm thinking, but go ahead, we.

480
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 4: May Number three. Number three is the baby announcement.

481
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 1: Oh yes, that was so dude, was so surprised.

482
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,920
Speaker 2: And so happy. Kathy and Jonathan I think their names were.

483
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 4: I can't.

484
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 1: I can't remember the name somebody, but I know his

485
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 1: name was John remember her, Kathy, I remember his name,

486
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 1: And he cried and I remember him grabbing me and

487
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,400
Speaker 1: hugging me and being like he almost picked me.

488
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 7: Up, right, he almost knocked me over too, And to

489
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 7: see the joy on his face to be a father,

490
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,159
Speaker 7: because if you look at social media so much, just

491
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,679
Speaker 7: so much back and forth about men and women in

492
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 7: fifty fifty in this and you hear so many men

493
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,639
Speaker 7: talking about what they're not going to do and women

494
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:29,720
Speaker 7: talking about what they're.

495
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 4: Not going to be. To see a man just stand

496
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 4: in his power and just be like.

497
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,640
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I'm making everything happen so that my wife

498
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: can give me child and she could be comfortable. And

499
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 1: he talked about, you know, her mom retiring and his

500
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: mom retiring and created that experience.

501
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:46,120
Speaker 4: And then when she says she was pregnant.

502
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 3: Right, and it was her saying, man, my husband wants

503
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 3: this so badly, and even though I've had my own

504
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 3: struggles and obstacles with my health, I'm going to do

505
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 3: this for us and our family.

506
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 2: So shout out again to Kathy and Jonathan.

507
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 3: That was a freaking amazing moment, and what a great

508
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:00,080
Speaker 3: surprise for the crowd.

509
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 1: That was That would have to be Apollo number three moments. Now,

510
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm going to put these next two moments at one

511
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 1: A and one B because it really isn't the two Okay.

512
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 1: The reason it is one A and one B. One

513
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 1: B would have to be the kids coming out in Apollow.

514
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 2: That would have been my number one Okay.

515
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: One B is because you saw much I cried hearing

516
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 1: them introduce me. But I started crying before they even

517
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: introduced me. When Jackson got out there, I wasn't out there.

518
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,680
Speaker 1: You weren't out there. All four of the boys had

519
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 1: their mics. So now here's a little story about what

520
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 1: happened backstage. What was supposed to happen in that moment

521
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 1: was Jackson, Cairo, and Kaz were supposed to go out

522
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 1: there together. Jackson said, I said, Jackson, you feel comfortable

523
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 1: introducing me? He said, yeah, what should I say? I said,

524
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 1: We're going to the Apollo. You research what happened at

525
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 1: the Apollo, and then you know, you speak to DJ

526
00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 1: executive and find out how he typically introduces me, and

527
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 1: then you work it out. He said, cool, that's all

528
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. They expect him and he did it. And

529
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 1: so when he made that introduction, it wasn't now no

530
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: one wrote it for him. He went out there and

531
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: he did his research. He found out who performed at

532
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: the Apollo, he found out who there was. He did

533
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 1: ask me though, like where can I find videos of

534
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: certain people?

535
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 4: So when he saw Sammy Davis Junior, that's when he

536
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 4: came up.

537
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 1: With the chebaring mind because he was watching videos, yes,

538
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: And that moment just moved me so much because I

539
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 1: got a chance to watch four little versions of me

540
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 1: do what I wanted to do. But the three came out,

541
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: and the Coda was supposed to stay back with me

542
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 1: me because I thought he would be overwhelmed by the moment.

543
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: And then when we introduced you, the Coda was going

544
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: to come out with you in his sands, and I

545
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 1: think everybody was like, oh my gosh, you came out

546
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: with the baby. We're doing the pre show and the

547
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: Coda sees all of his brothers getting mics and he

548
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 1: jumps out of Mimi's arms and he's like that got that.

549
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 1: And I'm like, what's up? And he was pointing at

550
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:58,439
Speaker 1: the mics. I was like, you want a mic? He

551
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: was like yeah, He's like yeah. So I was just like,

552
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 1: all right, I'll get your mic, like straight, ignoring him right.

553
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: And then the guy back there whose name was Mike

554
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: Shops my boy Mike at the Apollo. He was just like, yo,

555
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: you want me to get little man the mic. I

556
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: don't even have to turn it on. I'm like, he

557
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: ain't gonna want to mic. Once they go out there

558
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: and start cheering, He's probably gonna run back here.

559
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 4: Right the time comes.

560
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 1: For them to go out there, Jackson walks out, getting

561
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 1: ready to walk out with his mic, and Dakota is

562
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: not like walking away. So I said, Jackson, come in,

563
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 1: come in, come in, come in. He said what I said,

564
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: just hold the Colda's hand. Dakota hold his hand, and

565
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: then looked at the mic guy that was pointing, and

566
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: Mike gave him his mic, and he walked out there.

567
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 4: With his brothers.

568
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

569
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 4: And it was just for me.

570
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 1: It was the feeling of a father watching his oldest

571
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: son take care of his youngest son, and the two

572
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: middles just being there for support. And I was like,

573
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: I felt like I'm raising the right type of young men.

574
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 2: Oh man. They're solid as a team, super solid.

575
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 3: It just shows how much Coda cairo Cas look up

576
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 3: to Jackson and how much Jackson looks out for them.

577
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 3: Because I watched backstage as I was doing my look

578
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 3: change and I was kind of waiting for my queue.

579
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 3: So I saw the Coda go on stage with the

580
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 3: brothers and I was like, oh my god, like who

581
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 3: dropped the ball? I thought somebody like messed up and

582
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 3: like sent Coda out there. And then when I got

583
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 3: to the you know, the wings to make my way out,

584
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 3: they were like, no, Coda wanted to go out on

585
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 3: his own.

586
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 1: They showed me to how how safe Jackson makes them

587
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,159
Speaker 1: feel because he's the oldest. So being the oldest and

588
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: you're the oldest, I'm the oldest. We know it was

589
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 1: our responsibility to take care of our siblings. And I

590
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 1: always tell Jackson like, yo, you're the oldest, you got

591
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: to take care of them.

592
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 4: I know how much pressure that is.

593
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: But if you watch Jackson on the stage, he always

594
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: made sure he included all of them. When he did

595
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: a dance, he looked, and he he schooled them in.

596
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: When we did our hug and stuff, he made sure

597
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: that the Coda was party were included. That to me

598
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: was my second and I'm saying second because that's my

599
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: favorite moment.

600
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 4: But that's why I was like one A and one B.

601
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 3: Okay, I hope you're you're one A is not my

602
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 3: moment because you literally are taking on my mind.

603
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 2: I'm annoyed. I know it's not okay, what is it?

604
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 4: My one a was watching you do a split.

605
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: Oh, because I'm no no no, no, no, no no no.

606
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: It wasn't only because I'm nasty, but it's because I've

607
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: watched you work so hard to get it back. But also, Yo,

608
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: if people knew what four kids can do to a

609
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: woman's body, and if they watched you gain weight, lose weight,

610
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 1: gain weight, lose weight, dance, you were stretching and then

611
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: you felt like you pulled the muscle.

612
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 3: And yeah, I was worried about that Atlanta show because

613
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 3: my hip was and the DC show because doing it

614
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 3: two days in a row, we were ambitious doing like

615
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 3: three days, which we had done in the past, but

616
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 3: because we didn't do the actual physicality, it was easier

617
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 3: in the past.

618
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, So for me it was just some It's almost

619
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: about my family, man, you know, And and for me

620
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: everything starts with us and it would be no boys

621
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: if it wasn't for us. So watching you conquer that moment,

622
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: I was just as proud when I watched you walk

623
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: across the stage on Fashion Week in a in a

624
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 1: in a two piece bikini, so I can believe it

625
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 1: with a big as I.

626
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 2: Can't believe that I did that sidebar.

627
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, your ass straight swallowed up freaking leotard. Yea,

628
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm telling you swallowed the leotard up.

629
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 3: Christina in wardrobe and Cherie, we're literally taping leotards to

630
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 3: my ass. I see it, double sided tape everything that

631
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 3: they could do. They at one point had double I

632
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 3: had on double underwear, trying to make sure that the

633
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 3: city and it just got swallowed up.

634
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 4: Y'all.

635
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 2: It is lucky.

636
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

637
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 2: I keep it from my mama.

638
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 4: You do, you do? Definitely. Mimi's definitely stacked. Shout out Jamaica,

639
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 4: Jamaica to the world, you know, But I'm not.

640
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: It was just good to watch my family go out

641
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 1: there and perform, Oh my god, and have fun before

642
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: you were smiling the whole time, and you were cheesing,

643
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: you were confident time in that space. I just those

644
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: are my favorite moments.

645
00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: I love that.

646
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 3: There's definitely some overlap favorite moments for sure. Kathy and

647
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 3: Jonathan that that was a great Dead Ass Chord episode.

648
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 2: It was so good.

649
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 3: Another one of my favorite moments was us, well me saying,

650
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 3: you know, I think we should do a thank you

651
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 3: video to the crew facts and then talking to Joshua

652
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 3: about it, and josh put that video together in like

653
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 3: record time, which I appreciate. Found the song crew love,

654
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, that's perfect, and then watching

655
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 3: the video in that moment on the screen, but then

656
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:33,880
Speaker 3: also looking behind us and seeing our crew like kind

657
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 3: of in the wings, watching it and watching them cry,

658
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 3: and then I started crying. I'm like this, I knew,

659
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 3: I knew it was going to be a moment, but

660
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 3: I really wanted them, like I feel like we've never

661
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 3: found ways to make sure that they understand, Like I

662
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 3: don't think they fully understand how much we love and

663
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 3: appreciate them, like we could not and would not want

664
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 3: to do this without them. Every single one of them

665
00:28:55,960 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: has been handpicked. So just watching their reaction to watching

666
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 3: the video and then calling them up on stage and

667
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 3: kind of having that final bowel moment with them was

668
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 3: a favorite moment of mine. It's funny you mentioned my

669
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 3: split being one of your favorite moments because we never

670
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 3: see each other.

671
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 2: When we do.

672
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 3: Our look changes out of the Divusher and Beyonce or

673
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 3: chaance costumes. I don't see you in your kind of

674
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 3: fashion fit for the show until I.

675
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: Hit the stage, and nor do you see me.

676
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 3: And every single time I look over at you, I

677
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 3: feel like I have to fight back a moment of

678
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 3: tears too, because I'm just like wow, like look at

679
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 3: my husband, like look at my life, look at what

680
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 3: we are creating, look at how God is moving through

681
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 3: us in this moment to be a vessel for people

682
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 3: to take from our experience, our energy, our talks, our crew,

683
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 3: whatever it is, taking away whatever it is that they need.

684
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 3: And that's always Donora's prayer, which is another favorite moment

685
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 3: of mine. We pray as a team before every single show,

686
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 3: and one part that stands out in her prayer every

687
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 3: time is that please Lord, in this moment, let everyone

688
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 3: here in attendance take away whatever it is that they

689
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 3: need in this moment to keep going. And that for

690
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 3: me is like the most important part and it's one

691
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 3: of my most favorite moments. And that's where we connect.

692
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 3: You know, we connect so many dots. We connect the

693
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 3: purpose of the show, you know, how we've arrived at

694
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 3: the run of show.

695
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 2: Then having everybody there.

696
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 3: In the space with us and feeling that energy and

697
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 3: then praying for what we want in that moment, for

698
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 3: our crew and for our audience, and then feeling it

699
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 3: in that moment alongside my husband and then my boys,

700
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 3: Like my boys introducing me on stage is like the

701
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 3: world's greatest mom in Atlanta.

702
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was Jackson And did you hear did you

703
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 4: hear Kyro jump into World?

704
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: Yes?

705
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 3: And I heard all that backstage, and I'm just like, man,

706
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 3: it was just like the compilations of everything that led

707
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 3: me to that moment at the Atlanta show, Like it

708
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 3: was so hard to pick a favorite moment, but it

709
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 3: was just like the run of everything into that moment

710
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 3: and then having Tyler Perry attend the show and just

711
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 3: hearing him speak life into us and talk about the

712
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 3: things that he loves and appreciates about us as individuals

713
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 3: but also a couple.

714
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 2: You know, so many friends and family.

715
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 4: Cats from Zatima came out.

716
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: Cam getting into town for it, Crystal who always supports

717
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: people like people who expects to see certain people they

718
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: know Crystal's going to be their support the way we

719
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: support her. But it's like Trinity came out, give I

720
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: came out, Cam came out, like you said, Tyler came out.

721
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: It was it was amazing, freaking uh Gito flew in

722
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: from La from l A just for the day to

723
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: go check us like that.

724
00:31:56,000 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 3: To Melyn freaking surprise, he brought my favorite chips. He

725
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 3: was like, since I know you've been training and you've

726
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 3: been working hard, you dropped some pounds, here's some chips.

727
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 3: After the show. He and I love the same chip

728
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 3: as a kettleis Jalepeno kettle chips, which we love, both

729
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 3: of us.

730
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: It was that, you know what to now I'm thinking

731
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: about There's so many more moments I could think of,

732
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: like our whole family being backstage at the Apollo signing

733
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: the wall at the Apollo, like.

734
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 4: You love that.

735
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 3: There's like historic moments being like in those those stages,

736
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 3: like all of our family backstage in Atlanta. They get

737
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 3: a little overwhelming in Atlanta because there were so many

738
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 3: people backstage before the show, but it was all love,

739
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 3: like they were there to just like who needs what

740
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 3: and what moment.

741
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: Helping us with the kids.

742
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 3: Like I'm literally putting eye drops in Jackson's eyes, like

743
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 3: right before I hit the stage because I'm like, you

744
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 3: gotta get his medicine.

745
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: A seven thirty, Like you know, it's just it was

746
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 2: just so many things.

747
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: That's the funny part too, because I remember when you

748
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 1: you went to go see Beyonce at in Sweden. Any

749
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: went with Tyler, Yeah, and you in the box and

750
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: jay Z was there in the box and he was

751
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: holding Roomy and he.

752
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 4: Was like, like devows, he's like such a dad.

753
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, He's like, he's just holding Roomy and panthers need

754
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,479
Speaker 1: to be changed and he's holding this one so this

755
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: one can go.

756
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 4: People are going to go back and look at us.

757
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: And when it was like at the Apollo, do you

758
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: remember when Kadeen was changing this one and Dakota needed

759
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: this and then deval and got the Dakota had a

760
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: breakdown in Atlanta because there's too many people and I

761
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: run in there from my just you.

762
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 2: Heard him cry.

763
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm crying and Daddy scooped him out, grabbed them up

764
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: and I was like, give me my son, give me

765
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: my son.

766
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 4: And I took them back and calmed them down.

767
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: But people don't understand we're entertainers, yes, but we're still

768
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: also family people like parents, and.

769
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 2: That's like precedents. I didn't even think about it.

770
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: It's literally like I looked down at the clock from

771
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 3: the makeup chair and I'm like, oh shit, Jackson gets

772
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 3: his his eye drops and then he was getting his

773
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 3: haircut by tip. I'm like, Jack's, what time did you

774
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,719
Speaker 3: get your eye drops last? He said two o'clock.

775
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, we almost twenty minutes behind schedule. So

776
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: I just did that, and you know, it was just

777
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 2: like she did.

778
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 3: You know. My hairstylist was like you just like you

779
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 3: just mom, Like you didn't even think about that, And

780
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 3: she said, but it's crazy to see how like you're

781
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 3: getting ready to perform in front of eighteen hundred.

782
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 2: People and this what you guys thought about.

783
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 3: And I'm like absolutely, Like it was just effortless, Like

784
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: I don't even think about it.

785
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 2: It's like that's just the priority. You know, those are.

786
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 1: The moments, man, Like even even all of our cast

787
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 1: and crew being at the Apollo, that is a historical

788
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: place for great entertainers. We sold it out, not as

789
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: a couple, we sold it out as a team. So

790
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 1: now everyone can say, yo, I was a part of

791
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 1: a team that sold out the Apollo. I was a

792
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: part of the team that sold out Warner Warner is

793
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: one of the last two places. I think Dave Chappelle

794
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: did his. I forgot which tourter is. I'm gonna look

795
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: it up. But these are historical theaters that greats have

796
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 1: sold out.

797
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 4: And on the wall. Because the Warner Theater was the

798
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 4: one hundredth anniversary of the Warner Theater.

799
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,839
Speaker 3: They made us some beautiful T shirts too that said

800
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 3: like Warner Theater, Dead Ass Podcast sold out.

801
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: Of it opened nineteen twenty four, and in twenty twenty four,

802
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: Dead Ass Podcast was one of the first people or

803
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: productions to sell out Warner Theater.

804
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 4: And one hundredth anniversary.

805
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 2: Oh wow, because it's February. That's dope.

806
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: But I mean, like, think about that. We're all a

807
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: part of history. That to me is also a moment

808
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: that I'll never ever forget. You can't take that moment

809
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: away from me.

810
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 3: You know.

811
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 4: My whole family was at the Apollo.

812
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we signed Yo. Signing the wall of the

813
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 1: Apollo was freaking amazing.

814
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 4: It's just there's so.

815
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: Many moments I can't even count down because now that

816
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about, I'm like, shoot, how could that not

817
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,240
Speaker 1: be in my top three?

818
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 3: Right?

819
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 2: How could exactly?

820
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 3: And then just some of a BTS favorite moment of

821
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 3: mine is just like being on the tour bus with

822
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 3: the crew, arriving at hotels together, we stop at the bar,

823
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 3: have a drink. Tiff is always going to buy us

824
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 3: a drink. She's just like, yeah, y'all need this to

825
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 3: kind of, you know, decompress real quick.

826
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: Being late to the airport in Dallas and Janelle getting

827
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: the wheelchair and being like I got us and flying

828
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: through the airport so that we could get to the gate.

829
00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 4: On times we can get to Dallas. Those are times.

830
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 2: That so many laughs like y'all have no idea.

831
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 3: They don't have no idea, so many labs from the

832
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 3: tour bus to traveling together, to squeezing into ubers, to

833
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 3: leaving people bags behind, like it's just crazy.

834
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: Putting most of the team that's from Atlanta on a

835
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 1: private jet to fly most of them, most of them

836
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: had never been on a private jet, and we were

837
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 1: able to provide that for our team for an experience

838
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: like that's just these are moments that that I can't

839
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: even put them in order.

840
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 4: I can't even put them there.

841
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: It felt good to be able to provide that for

842
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 1: everyone the same way Tyler provided it for us and

843
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 1: for many people who don't know. When you see certain things,

844
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: it becomes real for you and you're like, man, that

845
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: black man was able to do that for us. He

846
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: put our whole cast during the quarantine on private jets

847
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: to fly safely from Atlanta from LA to Atlanta.

848
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 4: To do Season two.

849
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 1: And I was like, man, that's dope that he can

850
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: do that and put all of us young kids on

851
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: a private jet. And I said, you know, at some

852
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: point I want to be able to put my family

853
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: and my team on a private jet. And two years ago,

854
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: when we first started working with said I told Sad,

855
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:04,720
Speaker 1: I said, Yo, it's sad.

856
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 4: At some point you're gonna be picking us up.

857
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 2: He reminded me of that. Yeah, he reminded you of that.

858
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: Reminded me that, He said, d you remember you said

859
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,879
Speaker 1: that you I was gonna be picking you up from

860
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: a private jet. He said, I'm headed to Teeterborough to

861
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,439
Speaker 1: pick y'all up. That was only two years ago.

862
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't. I don't have a top.

863
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: Three no more, because those are all moments that when

864
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,479
Speaker 1: you hugged me, When you hugged me getting on the jet,

865
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 1: and then you looked at me and you said, babe,

866
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 1: like like we're doing it.

867
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 4: That's one of my favorite moments.

868
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm doing it with my best friend and then all

869
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: my friends is around me, Like I get to sit

870
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: in the.

871
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 4: Back of the chair with Matt be like, yo, mad,

872
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:39,919
Speaker 4: look at this shit.

873
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 2: It's crazy. Everybody has a little photo moments.

874
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 3: We had a nice meal on the jet and then

875
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 3: our kids are there, Like it's so important for us

876
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 3: for our kids to be when they're with us, especially

877
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 3: on tour, that they feel like they're amongst family, Like

878
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 3: I can leave and be on stage to perform for

879
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 3: all of you, but know that backstage, whether it's Shreija

880
00:37:58,520 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 3: now whoever.

881
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 2: Like they're good.

882
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 3: They were like aunties and uncles. Like it's an extension

883
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 3: of us and that trust that we've built and that

884
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 3: loyalty and that vibe, that energy, that positivity. That love

885
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 3: is something that cannot be duplicated. It cannot be duplicated.

886
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 3: So shout out to our favorite tour moments. Love against

887
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:22,439
Speaker 3: the world, love within our world. It's something that's going

888
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 3: to definitely go down for us in our history books.

889
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 3: Twenty two years together, so much accomplished. This is definitely

890
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 3: a highlight for sure, one of the best tours, actually.

891
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 2: The best tour so far. All Right, y'all, let's go ahead.

892
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 3: And take a quick break and we will be back

893
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:55,240
Speaker 3: with listener letters. Alrighty, listener letter time, we are back

894
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 3: for the last portion of the show.

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00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 2: Do you want to and dive in baby and read first?

896
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,240
Speaker 4: I like to dive in, Hey, Kadeen in devowed.

897
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: This letter is aimed mainly towards Kadean, but would also

898
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 1: love for Davou's input. My husband and I have been

899
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: together for seven years since ages twenty and twenty one,

900
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: married for two years, and recently had a baby. We

901
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 1: are still in the building phase of our relationship to

902
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 1: become financially secure. It's a great thing. We actually like

903
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: each other because, oh child, this is a rough with

904
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 1: all of the sacrificing. Anyway, we've been there before. I'm

905
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: saying me and Kadeen have been waiting before it should

906
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: write that. Anyway, I feel as if I'm doubtful of

907
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: the future, realizing that I can't have it all. I

908
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: know that for my kids I want to be able

909
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: to present for all. I want to be present for

910
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: all of the events, and with my career I can

911
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: do so. But I feel as if I'll be leaving

912
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: so much money on the table, nurses can get a bag.

913
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: I have prayed and worked for the career that I

914
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: have as well as a provider husband. That's one of

915
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: his main aspirations in life. But now as it's getting

916
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 1: closer to becoming reality, I feel like, what about me?

917
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: What about my career? If you feel comfortable enough to answer,

918
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: could you do? Could you do so to the best

919
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,959
Speaker 1: of your ability? Have you ever felt this way? Thank

920
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: you both for the community you have built.

921
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 3: Gotcha so you want? She I'm trying to everything.

922
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: She's working towards being helping her husband be financially secure.

923
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 2: As a nurse, which I guess bags be there.

924
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: And she's like, I want the bag, but she feels

925
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,359
Speaker 1: like she misses out on the family stuff, right, And

926
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: she's like, how does she figure out?

927
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 2: Well, you know, I could definitely relate to that.

928
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 3: That's how I felt when we were back in Brooklyn

929
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 3: and you retired from the NFL.

930
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 2: You want to start your business when it.

931
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 3: Came to the gym and all that, and you had

932
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 3: to be a stay at home dad for a bit

933
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 3: because I had to work to keep the health insurance

934
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 3: going and of course, bringing money to give my portion

935
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 3: towards whatever we needed to sustain in each other. But

936
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 3: the good thing about Deval and I is that we

937
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 3: had a plan. I knew that was a temporary situation

938
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 3: because I expressed to Devou how important it was for

939
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:55,720
Speaker 3: me to want to be there.

940
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 2: For our family.

941
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 3: Say that again, I expressed to Devow how important it

942
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 3: was for me to be present for my family, for

943
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 3: him as a wife, and for my son as a

944
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 3: new mom. So when recently having a baby, I completely

945
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 3: understand how you feel, because that mom guilt is something

946
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 3: that really really lays on heavy when you feel like

947
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 3: you're not present and you're missing those moments. And thankfully

948
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 3: I had Deval, who was a super hands on dad

949
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,399
Speaker 3: who at the time, you had your own struggles feeling like, man,

950
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 3: I don't want my wife to have to do this, No,

951
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 3: that's what I want, That's.

952
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 2: Not what she wanted.

953
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 3: But you also supported me in that you were like,

954
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 3: this is what we need in a temporary moment for

955
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 3: our family. So you did what you were best equipped

956
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 3: to doing that moment, which was take care of our

957
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 3: son while I worked at home. But I knew that

958
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 3: it was temporary, so after discussing with you what I

959
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 3: wanted and where I expected for our lives to go,

960
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 3: because I wanted to be at home more.

961
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 2: That's when you worked towards it.

962
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, the good thing with your baby being young and

963
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 3: deval actually gave me this perspective early on when we

964
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,879
Speaker 3: first had Jackson and when like our chir and casts

965
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 3: came around and they were younger.

966
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: Sometimes you have.

967
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,919
Speaker 3: To sacrifice time at home with the children when they're

968
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 3: younger to be able to build, and to be able

969
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,439
Speaker 3: to stack some money, and to be able to really

970
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 3: go hard in the moments that they may not remember.

971
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 3: So when your baby is one and two and even

972
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 3: three years old, those first three years of life, grind,

973
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,760
Speaker 3: do what you gotta do, take that extra shift, build

974
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 3: because it's going to give you later on the autonomy

975
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 3: over your life and time that you want. So by

976
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 3: putting in that sacrificial portion early when your baby may

977
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 3: not be able to remember it, it's gonna set you

978
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 3: up to be ahead in the long run. And that's

979
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:38,879
Speaker 3: something that you taught me because I felt like, man,

980
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 3: I'm missing everything.

981
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 2: You know.

982
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 3: But the good thing with being a nurse is that

983
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 3: there's flexibility. You can work per dim you can pick

984
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 3: up shifts here and there, because I know you want

985
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 3: to still be a contributor to your family and that's

986
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 3: important to you. So in terms of having it all,

987
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 3: there is a way to have it all. You may

988
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 3: not have it all in that moment, but by making

989
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 3: those little steps and working towards it and having those

990
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 3: conversations with your husband and letting him know how you

991
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 3: feel and the things that you want and desire, and

992
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 3: making a plan, you can eventually get those things that

993
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 3: you want.

994
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 4: I have nothing.

995
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: So I'm going to go ahead and read this second

996
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: question because you literally answered it the exact same way

997
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: I was going to answer it. I was just going

998
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: to tell her that if you feel this way, express

999
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 1: it first to your husband. You to create a plan

1000
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: so that you can eventually move out of that space

1001
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: when the children are old enough to remember.

1002
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 4: Because that's what we did.

1003
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 2: That's literally what we did.

1004
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 4: I have you crush that. Give me some all right?

1005
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 2: Thanks? I read let one since you okay, go for it,

1006
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:31,760
Speaker 2: go for it.

1007
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: And baby, you got it, says trust me, you got it.

1008
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, make a plan with your husband.

1009
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 4: Y'all. Only two years in the.

1010
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 3: Marriage, so yeah, two years in seven years together, you're

1011
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 3: still living twenty Yeah, that sounds like literally de Valinize

1012
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 3: at age twenty seven to twenty eight, just married, trying

1013
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 3: to figure things out. The way you start in your

1014
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 3: twenties is not how you're going to finish later on.

1015
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 3: So good luck to y'all.

1016
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: Talk about babies, I'm talking about I got nothing that

1017
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: was great, awesome?

1018
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 4: What though? This person must be from Detroit, Kadeen and Daval.

1019
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 1: I just want to start by saying, I'm so happy

1020
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 1: I started watching your videos. I've been with you guys

1021
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: since the beginning. Your content is so relatable and I

1022
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: love it. I love your transparency, the knowledge that you

1023
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: both spew on the podcast and zach on sisters then

1024
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: as Atima.

1025
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 5: Love it now.

1026
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm not asking for advice, just some inspiration. I've made

1027
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: major changes in my life, getting myself in the gym

1028
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: and working with a personal trainer four days a week

1029
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: real consistent since December, talking with a therapist, enrolled in

1030
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 1: real estate classes, and trying to advance in my career,

1031
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: just to name a few. But I'm a single mom

1032
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 1: who works two jobs, who loves her kids and never

1033
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,240
Speaker 1: stops with gentle hands in the heart of a fighter.

1034
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 4: That's what's up with.

1035
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: Gentle hands and heart, and I love every single mom

1036
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: never starts with gentle hands in the heart of a fire.

1037
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 4: That's dope. I'm a survivor.

1038
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,959
Speaker 1: Yes, I sang Reba as I typedd. I'm thirty seven

1039
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: from Detroit. I do you for the d with an

1040
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: almost fifteen year old daughter. Trying to date has been awful.

1041
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 1: Guys assume that I'm just so busy, and don't get

1042
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: me wrong, I am at times, but between both jobs, class,

1043
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: my baby, her basketball or volleyball practices, games, and more,

1044
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: I can still find or make time for myself and

1045
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: what I want to do. I have made myself available

1046
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: just to be stood up or ghosted. I'm tired, but

1047
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: I'm really tired of being an amazing, dope, funny ass,

1048
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: funny as fuck, lonely person. I'm ready to throw in

1049
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: the towel and quit. I try not to allow those

1050
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 1: things to break me, but I'm cracking. Any words of

1051
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 1: encouragement to not give up will be welcome with an

1052
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 1: open heart.

1053
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 4: Thank you in advanced stay blessed.

1054
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 3: You know what I love how she started that whole thing.

1055
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 3: She is working on herself.

1056
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 4: That's all she got to keep doing.

1057
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 3: Keep doing that, keep working on yourself. When you are

1058
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 3: the best version of yourself, you will be happier. That's

1059
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 3: the energy that you're going to present to the world,

1060
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 3: and whoever is deserving of receiving you at your best

1061
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 3: will come.

1062
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 2: It's not your time, sis, it's God's time.

1063
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 4: You fucking on one today.

1064
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 2: Once a day you are well, thank you.

1065
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 3: But the sooner you believe wholeheartedly that things that you

1066
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 3: want in this moment are only deferred to a greater moment.

1067
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 3: When you can receive it fully, with a full heart

1068
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 3: and with a completely happy spirit, that's when it's gonna

1069
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 3: happen for you.

1070
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 2: So keep going, don't stop, don't stop.

1071
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 1: If you'd like to be featured as one of our

1072
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: listener let us email us at dead ass Advice at

1073
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:28,919
Speaker 1: gmail dot com.

1074
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 2: I've given all the advice and the team. You know

1075
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, take you to leave it.

1076
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,359
Speaker 3: But it's just how I feel like I and it's

1077
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 3: like I'm talking to myself, like literally when we have

1078
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:40,280
Speaker 3: these questions.

1079
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes there's so many relatable moments.

1080
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 3: In the listener letters because we've either been there, have

1081
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 3: felt that, have experienced that still experience it twenty two

1082
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 3: years and feel it as an individual, feel it as

1083
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 3: a spouse, feel it as a parent, like we relate

1084
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 3: to you guys so much, so much so I feel

1085
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,359
Speaker 3: it because I keep telling myself the same thing.

1086
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 2: And at forty I'm still working on myself.

1087
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: She said that she's thirty seven doing all of this stuff.

1088
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: I've watched this woman here next to me now at

1089
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 1: forty walk into who she is thirty seven year Oldadan,

1090
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: You wouldn't been able to give these answers, But it

1091
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: seems that over the last couple of years, if you

1092
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: continue to work on yourself, but also you've realized that

1093
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,319
Speaker 1: I'm not having any more kids, you've been in tune

1094
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: with yourself.

1095
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 4: Yes, I have nothing to add to that.

1096
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: Like birth control. Yes, of somewhat down time.

1097
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, because these kids will drive you crazy and a

1098
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 4: husband will drive you crazy.

1099
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 2: I'll be driving on crazy in the best way.

1100
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 1: But no, I agree with everything you said. I really

1101
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: have nothing to add like this. In God's time, And

1102
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: if you're looking to be featured as one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners letters, be sure to email us at D A

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Speaker 1: D E A D A S S A D V

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Speaker 1: I C e at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 3: As right, y'all, it's dead ass Advice at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 3: Moment of Truth time, we recap some of our most

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Speaker 3: favorite moments of the Love Against the World Tour. Put

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Speaker 3: your moment of truth, baby.

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Speaker 1: My moment of truth is. I can't wind down the

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Speaker 1: tour to a few moments. I could do a few

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Speaker 1: moments at each stop. I could do a few moments

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Speaker 1: at rehearsal. I can do a few moments with discussion.

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Speaker 1: Josh was just talking to us about how we came

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Speaker 1: up with the idea. He said, de where was your mind?

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Speaker 1: Remember we were on a group text. It was me, you, Matt,

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Speaker 1: Josh Donor, and we were like, what are we going

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Speaker 1: to call this tour?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, I got it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call it the Love Against the World Tour yep,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna do a Love against the World doc.

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Speaker 4: And then it was like boom.

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Speaker 1: The whole team got in motion, and then it was

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Speaker 1: just like boom, Matt, capture content, Boom, Josh, let's go

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Speaker 1: edit content.

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Speaker 4: Let's let I just I don't have a moment of truth.

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Speaker 4: My moments of truths are The.

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Speaker 1: Love Against the World Tour was everything I wanted it

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Speaker 1: to be, and it was because I got through it.

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Speaker 4: My love of my life, my sons, and my best friends.

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Speaker 3: I love that and I can echo the same sentiments.

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Speaker 3: My moment of truth time is that with each stop

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Speaker 3: rounding out in Atlanta amongst family, friends, an amazing crowd

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Speaker 3: almost eight thousand, seven hundred people who attended in all,

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Speaker 3: over eight thousand.

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Speaker 4: Seven hundred people, eighty four hundred.

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Speaker 2: I cannot wholeheartedly say that this may be my last.

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Speaker 5: Now I might be speaking on a high and she

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Speaker 5: ain't need to smoke it.

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Speaker 2: This don't hold me to it.

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Speaker 3: But my hard no for wanting to just really phase

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Speaker 3: out the live show.

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Speaker 2: For us.

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Speaker 3: Seeing people in real time in person. And I say

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Speaker 3: this at every show, like this is y'all's show, this

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Speaker 3: is not me and devout show being in that space

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Speaker 3: and filing you guys as energy and that the gratitude

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Speaker 3: and the love, and it makes me feel like like

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Speaker 3: why stop?

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Speaker 2: Like we are.

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Speaker 3: Literally giving people love within our world that we've created

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Speaker 3: for them.

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Speaker 4: So you know, listening to you right now, you need

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Speaker 4: to do your own thing.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean.

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Speaker 1: You need to have your own Like I could see

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Speaker 1: a day with a day with K where you go

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Speaker 1: out on tour and you speak and it's your perspective,

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Speaker 1: not your perspective tied to me.

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Speaker 4: Just your perspective.

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Speaker 2: A day with let us know what.

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Speaker 4: You'll, let us know what you're thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: If Kay, if K did a day with K and

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Speaker 1: she went and in person, like an intimate in person

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Speaker 1: place where you because hearing you answer these questions for

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Speaker 1: these young women, right, it was insightful and eye opening

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Speaker 1: to me, as your husband, of how your perspective has

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Speaker 1: changed from for sure know you so to me, it's

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Speaker 1: like them, I would I would be interested to see

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Speaker 1: how women would take to hearing you speak on your

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Speaker 1: own without being connected to me.

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Speaker 2: That's I think. I think that would be dope.

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Speaker 1: And listening to you answer these questions, it was like,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I would be doing you a disservice

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Speaker 1: if I answer, if I added anything to it, and

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Speaker 1: hearing you say that you are continuing to do more, right,

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Speaker 1: maybe that's what it is what it looks like. You know,

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Speaker 1: they don't have to be a big venue.

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Speaker 3: I want to do something more because I wanted to

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Speaker 3: be like close to y'all and see everybody and see

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Speaker 3: faces and talk, and.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I think I think, I think that's

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Speaker 4: I think that's I wonder.

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Speaker 2: If we're onto something here. I said he'd be coming

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Speaker 2: up with ideas out of nowhere.

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Speaker 4: I can see things. Literally, you crushed both of these questions.

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Speaker 4: I got up. To be honest, I was like, wow,

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Speaker 4: like that was actually fucking dope, right.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I was just thinking about it if I

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Speaker 3: was in these shoes, because I have been in those shoes.

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Speaker 4: I want to see you do your own thing.

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Speaker 2: Right, Like we said, God's timing.

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Speaker 3: Like I talk about having a daytime talk show, right,

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Speaker 3: Maybe I could have had one in my thirties, But

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Speaker 3: would it have been as impactful because I haven't.

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Speaker 4: You've lived.

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Speaker 3: You got to live a little bit more, you know,

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Speaker 3: And which makes me think a lot of women who

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Speaker 3: do have their own daytime talk shows are a little

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Speaker 3: bit farther into their life.

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Speaker 2: Maybe for these fifties.

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Speaker 4: You know, you've accomplished.

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Speaker 1: Podcaster, you're a New York Times bestselling author, your mother

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Speaker 1: to four boys, you've been a wife to an NFL

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Speaker 1: athlete and actor.

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Speaker 2: Let us know what y'all think, Baby, would you come

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Speaker 2: see me on tour?

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Speaker 4: I know?

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Speaker 2: Now, let's just know that out.

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Speaker 4: Let trouble know.

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Speaker 2: Let trible know what TBD TBD. All right, y'all.

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Speaker 3: If you haven't yet, Patreon is where it's at, y'all.

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Speaker 3: We keep trying to tell you. Shout out to our

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Speaker 3: Patreon gang who came in their yellow who loved on

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Speaker 3: us at the live shows. You can see exclusive dead

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Speaker 3: Ass podcast content there as well as more Ellis Family content.

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Speaker 3: Will be sure to keep that coming to you even

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Speaker 3: once the tour has died down. More all day care

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Speaker 3: content as well will be there, and you can follow

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