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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, If if I

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Speaker 1: But man, it's been a lot of amazing things has

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Speaker 1: as a reminder to everybody of the actual goodness of

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Speaker 1: That's the key. You can never ever give up because

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Speaker 1: But it ain't the route God God for you, though.

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Speaker 1: Oh Tommy, Tommy as your friend as you has not

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Speaker 1: Eddie Murphy is now cringing about the jokes he told

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Speaker 1: in his comedy special Raw. We're gonna talk about that

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Speaker 1: She came in? Mister? Why why? Why? Why? Why don't

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Speaker 1: y'all y'all some boy and it boy, y'all lit us man,

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Speaker 1: y'all just stop paying on people's phone. Man, I'll cut it, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I say, hey, man, look him, bro, big batter need

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Speaker 1: the soup, man, I mean the hole that you hol

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Speaker 1: that shoe shot head? Right man? Hey, let me ask

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Speaker 1: you miss, what is the baddest radio show in the land?

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Speaker 1: Steve Harley Moaning Show? And nah nah it's a classic.

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Speaker 1: I just need to know. It's a class o man.

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Speaker 1: You know what you missed while you were at your

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Speaker 1: golf tournament. What Jay Anthony Brown doing, nephew, Timmy, Oh, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: h oh, he was doing you all right, coming out

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour entertainment news and national news.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening morning show all right, time

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Speaker 1: for entertainment news. Guys, um, let me do this right here.

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Speaker 1: Do you know Tommy, how bad Jay was talking about

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Speaker 1: you yesterday? Yeah? Yeah, we just told you earlier what

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Speaker 1: he was doing. Yeah, boy, he was doing. You said,

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Speaker 1: ha ha, Did I do it? He said, no, what's

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Speaker 1: the matter. Tommy came here? He said, chat, he said, slowly,

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Speaker 1: chat chat. Yeah. He gave Junior a run for his money.

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Speaker 1: Let's just say, okay, okay, okay, Tommy, President, he's going

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Speaker 1: to be impeached president. All right, let's gets you some

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Speaker 1: entertainment news. R Kelly says he wants out of jail.

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Speaker 1: He says he wants out because his health is failing. Guys,

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Speaker 1: Art is back uh in court. He's going back to

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Speaker 1: court for a second try at getting out, pending his

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Speaker 1: various trials, claiming his health has been compromised. Behind bars.

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Speaker 1: Who in there don't won't act though exactly His lawyers

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Speaker 1: just filed a new legal duck obtained by TMZ, in

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Speaker 1: which they outline his various medical issues, including numbness in

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Speaker 1: one of his hands, anxiety, and an untreated hernia. Ours

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Speaker 1: lawyer Steve Greenberg claims that Robert is not receiving adequate

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Speaker 1: medical treatment in jail and calls the conditions of his

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Speaker 1: confinement stifling. Yeah. I believe that. I believe what he's

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Speaker 1: saying is truth. But let me share a couple Okay,

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Speaker 1: go down the list of his symptoms again. Oh, his hand, um,

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Speaker 1: numbness in his hand. I've been to jail in one

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Speaker 1: of his hands. I've been to jail. My hand was

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Speaker 1: no because I was sitting on it all night. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's happened to me? Makes symptom and anxiety? Anxiety? Everybody

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Speaker 1: in jail is got anxiety. Yeah, it's called jail. Everybody

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Speaker 1: everybody in that chili. Yeah, everybody in that guy anxiety

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Speaker 1: and an untreated hernia. What are you gonna do about that? Hell? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: everybody got her. I'm straining my ass off in it

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Speaker 1: because I stayed in there for a weekend. And let

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Speaker 1: me tell you something, I gotta hurn it because I

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Speaker 1: got constipated because I didn't go to the bathroom because

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Speaker 1: it's over there in the corner, and I wasn't pulling

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Speaker 1: my pants down in that corner because I was young.

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Speaker 1: So I had a hernia when I got out and

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Speaker 1: went home. I got my horney at the house. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: trying to go to the bathroom. You constipated. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: get a horney if you really constipated. So and not

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Speaker 1: to say all that and understand where all coming well,

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Speaker 1: and uh, you know, he also you know, he lives

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Speaker 1: with these two girlfriends, but only one of them is

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Speaker 1: allowed to be on his visiting list, and after ninety

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Speaker 1: days he's required to switch. Now, he did confirm to

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Speaker 1: TMZ the woman who is currently on the list is

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Speaker 1: as Reel Clary, so Joscelyn Savage has to wait it

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Speaker 1: out before she can visit him. Just in the car

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Speaker 1: out saying he asked about that, I don't really know

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Speaker 1: nothing about, just like I just found out a couple

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Speaker 1: weeks ago he was in jail. I didn't even know it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna quickly get into the Stacy dash story, Steve

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Speaker 1: before we run out of time. She was arrested for

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Speaker 1: domestic violence in Florida over the weekend, according to TMZ. Again,

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Speaker 1: law enforcement sources say that Stacy allegedly punched and slapped

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Speaker 1: her husband, attorney Jeffrey Marty, and they saw scratches on

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Speaker 1: his left arm. Stacy told a nine one one operator

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Speaker 1: that she had been assaulted by her husband. She claims

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Speaker 1: the husband's fifteen year old daughter got in her face

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Speaker 1: and that started the whole situation. The couple has been

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Speaker 1: out of fifteen year old. All right, Yeah, but she

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Speaker 1: says she was defending herself. Yeah, she was defending that's

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Speaker 1: all of us. Do not us how you know every

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Speaker 1: fight I've been in, I've been defending muscle. All right,

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Speaker 1: let's move on to see it. Let's get to our headlines, gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: mis a hntrel Okay, goodness, this is a trip for

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Speaker 1: the news, everybody. The official impeachment and career began in

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Speaker 1: earnest yesterday on Capitol Hill. The House Intelligence Committee sent

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Speaker 1: a subpoena to President of Trump's personal lawyer, former New

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Speaker 1: York City Mayor Giuliani for documents related to the investigation.

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Speaker 1: And yesterday's action comes after three committee chairs consulted with

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Speaker 1: each other, then sent a letter giving Giuliani until October

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Speaker 1: fifteenth to turn over stuff. Materials which they say are

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Speaker 1: about the quote extent to which President Trump jeopardized national

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Speaker 1: security by pressuring Ukrainian officials to interfere with our twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty election. By the way, the New York Times now

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Speaker 1: reports that Donald Trump asked Australia's Prime Minister Scott Morrison

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Speaker 1: to help discredit the Mueller investigation. It's a Trump's alleged

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Speaker 1: that was about Trump's alleged collusion, if you remember, with

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Speaker 1: to get Australia's Prime minister to kind of discredit that investigation.

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Speaker 1: In Dallas, both sides have rested their cases in the trial.

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Speaker 1: The former female police officer charged with essentially breaking into

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Speaker 1: her upstairs neighbor's apartment and shooting him to death. Amber Geiger,

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Speaker 1: who's white, claimed she was too tired to realize that

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Speaker 1: she'd entered her upstairs a black neighbor's apartment when she

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Speaker 1: murdered him. Her lawyers are insisting that she was standing

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Speaker 1: her own ground. The prosecutors stay, that's ridiculous since it

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Speaker 1: wasn't her apartment, but the judge has allowed that argument

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Speaker 1: to go. It has not been reported whether amber Gager

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Speaker 1: was ever given or breathalyzed the test by the way,

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Speaker 1: by her colleagues that night, but she has since been

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Speaker 1: to avoid dangerous situations. The prosecutors summed up her story

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Speaker 1: by saying Geiger was caught in a lie during her testimony,

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Speaker 1: and the prosecutor says, quote, most of what she said

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Speaker 1: was garbage. Now law in California that mandate said college

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Speaker 1: athletes get paid the bills, called a fair Play to

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Speaker 1: Pay Act. It was signed into law yesterday by Governor

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Speaker 1: Gavin Newsom, who says college plays will now have the

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Speaker 1: right to make money off their names, image and likenesses

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Speaker 1: going to change college sports for the better by having

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Speaker 1: now the interests finally of the athletes on par with

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Speaker 1: the interests of the institution. Sad news Internationally renowned opera

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Speaker 1: singer Jesse Norman has died at age seventy four. Norman

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Speaker 1: was born in the segregated South in September of nineteen

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Speaker 1: forty five and broke several color and other barriers, like

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Speaker 1: becoming the youngest person to ever receive a Kennedy Center honor.

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Speaker 1: She was nominated for fifteen Grammy, she won four, and

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Speaker 1: she was on it with a Lifetime Achieving Award Grammy.

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Speaker 1: In two thousand and six. Jesse Norman was seventy four

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Speaker 1: and finally on the lighter side Today International African diash

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Speaker 1: Amber Geiger's murder trial, Assistant District Attorney Jason Fine said

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Speaker 1: in closing arguments on yesterday that Geiger was an intruder

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Speaker 1: in both of John's home. This case is about accountability

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Speaker 1: for unreasonable decisions. The prosecution told the jury, you sixteen

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Speaker 1: are the voice of the community. This cannot be allowed.

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Speaker 1: It cannot be acceptable. Not here in Dalite. Well the

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Speaker 1: jury sixteen, yeah, yeah, are the voice of the community. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was twelve two. Yeah, But he said

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Speaker 1: six sixteen. That's what he said. Yeah, And that's according

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Speaker 1: to CBS News and anyway. So he said, you sixteen

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Speaker 1: are the voice of the community. This cannot be allowed.

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Speaker 1: It cannot be acceptable. Not here in Dallas, not here

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Speaker 1: in Texas, not anywhere. However, Geiger's attorney, Toby Shook urged

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Speaker 1: jurors not to base their decision on emotion. He says,

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Speaker 1: you can't say I feel so horrible for both of Jean.

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Speaker 1: I am going to make something happen. You can't use

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Speaker 1: jury can consider the castle doctrine during deliberations. Now, the

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Speaker 1: allows a person to use or using force, even deadly force,

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Speaker 1: in the protection of a home, vehicle, or other property,

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Speaker 1: if someone attempts to forcibly enter or remove an individual

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Speaker 1: from the premises. Now, that's not what happened here. The

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Speaker 1: prosecution also reminded jurors that Geiger could see both of

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Speaker 1: Jean after opening his door, and Geiger wore a police

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Speaker 1: uniform belt with tools on it. But she chose to

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Speaker 1: use the most lethal weapon, a gun and shoot him

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Speaker 1: dead in his heart while he got a bowl of

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Speaker 1: ice cream, sitting down with a bowl of ice cream. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's going to get off, thought I'm about that seems

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Speaker 1: to be the sentiment. Yeah, I'm really really concerned about this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've seen acts of racism in this country many times before.

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Speaker 1: I'm really really concerned about this. I mean it's a

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Speaker 1: case to be concerned, you know, to to have concern

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Speaker 1: about even though he says, don't use your emotions, you

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Speaker 1: know what, he just wants them to look at the facts. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what her attorney, Yeah, her attorney. Yet, if we

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Speaker 1: look at the facts, yeah, you walked into manhouse, and

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Speaker 1: it's just not enough to me to say I thought

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Speaker 1: it was my apartment. That's I don't buy that argument.

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Speaker 1: You killed the person for no reason. Yeah, it's no reason.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't committing a crime, he wasn't in the act

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Speaker 1: of anything, he didn't have a weapon. Oh, you killed

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Speaker 1: him for no reason, sitting on a couch eating ice cream.

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Speaker 1: You shot me? All right, all right, we gotta get

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Speaker 1: out of here. If you want to comment on the story,

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Speaker 1: go to Steve Harvey FM on Instagram or Facebook. Now

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Speaker 1: coming up at thirty four after iced Tea is defending

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Speaker 1: his wife for breastfeeding. We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to well and trending parenting news. We'll call

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Speaker 1: this um iced Tea's wife Coco. Steve, you know Coco,

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Speaker 1: We all know Coco. Yes, yeah, unapologetically now takes pride

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Speaker 1: in sharing with the world that she still breastfeeds her

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Speaker 1: almost four year old daughter, Chanel. Coco shared a picture

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Speaker 1: on Instagram that it's a mother calling to fulfill certain

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Speaker 1: responsibilities and that includes nursing. A lot of people have

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Speaker 1: disagreeing opinions about breastfeeding, and almost four year old Iced

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Speaker 1: Tea responded and defended his wife. Take a listen, please

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Speaker 1: problem overload. I make it like the baby only eats breastfeeds.

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Speaker 1: Kid does every once in a while. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. She wants to get close to her mom.

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Speaker 1: That's what they do. I'm saying. She eats food. She chats,

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Speaker 1: said she eats cheese. Iced Tea. Yeah that was Iced

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Speaker 1: Tea defending cocoa breastfeeding her four year old baby. That's

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Speaker 1: what they're for. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what they are.

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Speaker 1: We are, Yeah, that's why we have right now? Is

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Speaker 1: it publicly and a public needs? Well, I mean she

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Speaker 1: put out a picture on Instagram, so she made it

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Speaker 1: on the plane. Yeah, yeah, she was on a private plane.

632
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Speaker 1: But she shared the picture on Instagram. Yeah, she was

633
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Speaker 1: on a private plane. But I didn't do that. You

634
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: can if you put the blanket over you or not,

635
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Speaker 1: a goste got that seat that's facing child, mons natural

636
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:10,959
Speaker 1: thing in the world. Guys. Well no, no, no, here's

637
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: a deal. Yeah no, all jokes aside. I don't care

638
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 1: what a woman do what they child. It ain't your baby.

639
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: You do it the way you want to do it.

640
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 1: And see it. I was in O'Hair this woman was

641
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: breastfeeding her baby and he could walk and talk and

642
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 1: she was breastfeeding her baby out not covered up. I

643
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: saw her entire breath everything. Well did you see that

644
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: All Time magazine? Yeah, I remember that when they had

645
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: that woman and that little boy was standing there he

646
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 1: was like eight. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember that man.

647
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 1: He was just standing there looking at the camera, just

648
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: just knowing. Yeah. I I didn't know how to I mean,

649
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: you didn't know how to feel. You feel something, you

650
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: feel some kind of way about it. You do, but

651
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: we're in the society, we're just not you know, it's

652
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 1: not something that we're doing. Listen, if iced Tea and Coco.

653
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Speaker 1: He was with the other boy when he was four

654
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Speaker 1: huh dollar boy with that short gene was then for

655
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: that was I mean, he wasn't leaning up or nothing.

656
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: They were standing there. He just turned and went in level. Yes. Well,

657
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Speaker 1: let me tell you what. Here's what I think just

658
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: a couple of the ways I think that when you

659
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: you're taking the breastfeeding too for okay, this is just

660
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: a couple of things. If when the baby gets through,

661
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 1: they take a napkin and pat their mouths track, I

662
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: think I think that right there is time for this

663
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: to stop right here. Yeah. If if baby can stand

664
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: that and unbutton your blyth and then button it back

665
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: up when he threw, I think we might be at

666
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: the point where enough is enough. But if the baby

667
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Speaker 1: can turn around and go to hair, y'all look at that,

668
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Speaker 1: I think that that could be a cut off a point,

669
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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. That sense. Yeah, say, man, now,

670
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: if the baby is talking to the husband and you

671
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Speaker 1: hear something like say, man, get your own mama, I

672
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 1: think we might think it's probably time, but it is,

673
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: say man, get your own mama. Do you agree with

674
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 1: iced tea? It is a great way to bond for

675
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 1: mother and baby to have that closeness, and that for

676
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 1: us as men, we really don't know what that is

677
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: because I know, you know, my grandson came out in

678
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 1: the backyard today. I was just talking to me and

679
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna talk less walked off from Yeah, all right,

680
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,720
Speaker 1: look coming up next, nephew in the building. With today's

681
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:16,720
Speaker 1: prying phone call right after this, you're listening show coming

682
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four

683
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, subject I'm

684
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: in too deep with this guy. But right now, nephew,

685
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: right here with today's praying phone call. What you got

686
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: for us? Now? Well bumping Gray huh, bumping grind no

687
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:42,280
Speaker 1: relation to our bumping grund. Hello. Hello, I'm sorry Marcus.

688
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: Uh Marcus, Yeah, this is Hey. Can you hear me?

689
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Pretty good? Yeah? Hey, hey listen,

690
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: uh radio now for a second? Good, Hey, listen. I

691
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 1: live in and I live in an apartment building that

692
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: you just moved into. Uh. I live in twenty one

693
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: A and you live above me in twenty two eight.

694
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: H huh. I actually got your number from the leasing office.

695
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: I told him I wanted to welcome you to the

696
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 1: apartment building, man, but I didn't want to really raise

697
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: no oprowse. But I was really calling about you know.

698
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: You know, first of all, let me go ahead and

699
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: say welcome to the building. Man. I hope that you

700
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: and your your h is that your wife to live

701
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: with you. First of all, thank you, brother, I appreciate it.

702
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: But why would you need to have my number to

703
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:28,399
Speaker 1: do that you just came knocked on my door, man, boy. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

704
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,439
Speaker 1: we'll see whatever. The reason why, I mean, I really

705
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: called it, got the number, was kind of reach out

706
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 1: to you. Man. I don't be wanting to start no

707
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: trouble with nobody and nothing like that. I'd want to

708
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: you know, I want I want my neighbors to be

709
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 1: cool with me, and I want to be cool with

710
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 1: my neighbors. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, so I

711
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: was reaching out man, because you know the noise, man,

712
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: I was. I'm I work at night and I sleep

713
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: during the day, man, but it seems like since you

714
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: guys moved in, man, in the middle of the day,

715
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: it's just you know, I mean, I know what it's

716
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: like to have a hold on hold on, hold on hold.

717
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 1: You're hearing marriages coming from my place in the middle

718
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: of the day, right, I mean, I'm hearing I'm getting

719
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 1: them here and you're making love to you lady. Man.

720
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 1: I mean, h nah, man, nah nah. You know what

721
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: he did. You might be hearing something from a mother

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Speaker 1: another unit, man, if deinly not coming from us because

723
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm at work and my you know, my girl is dead,

724
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: but she on the computer you know what she's looking

725
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: for a gig right now? Hello? Okay, okay, okay, wait

726
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: a minute now, So you live in a fire with

727
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 1: twenty two A right, yeah, okay, see I live in

728
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Speaker 1: twenty one A. Your your bedroom is above my bedroom.

729
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: Hold on, holda. You're trying me that you're hearing norrises

730
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 1: that sound like somebody's making love coming from my cred

731
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 1: at this time of day, and I'm not there, and

732
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: only my wooman is dead. Dude, man, you know I

733
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: get it. I'm not trying to be rude or anything.

734
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: I appreciate you calling and and you know me bright

735
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: and all that can me and here you shake you

736
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: in right, Uh yeah, yeah, you know, I'm man. Look,

737
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: I mean you called me all right, So let's get

738
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: to the frontom of it. One time. You're seeing you

739
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: hearing with what kind of is are you hearing? Exactly?

740
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: Tell me, hey, hey, hey, you know what, man, there's

741
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: probably just a big mistake. I mean, maybe she just

742
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 1: hanging some pictures or something. Broy know, I you know pictures, man,

743
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: we even pictures your I mean, you're calling me like

744
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna black handing bhme after my cred. You're talking

745
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 1: about man. Hey, hey man, listen um Marcus our podcast.

746
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm I'm you know, I'm gonna know. I'm man. You're

747
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 1: telling me I'm man. Let you say. I'm saying, I

748
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: don't know what you are and I'm a man. No,

749
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 1: I'm not hand new understanding. You calling me telling me

750
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: you hearing lasers coming from our cred and shall like somebody.

751
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: And now you're telling me that when we thought it,

752
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: you know, Hey man, all I'm saying is maybe it's

753
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: just a legitimate mistake. I don't think maybe she hanging

754
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: the pictures of moves of burnish or something like that.

755
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: Just man, I keep telling you that, you know, anybody

756
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:15,479
Speaker 1: having this it shouldn't do. Little rooms coming from my bed.

757
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 1: Hey man, I ain't trying to I ain't trying to

758
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: start no trouble man, And you started what you're saying. Man.

759
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,280
Speaker 1: All I was calling about was trying to get a decent,

760
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: decent rest. Man. I work at night. Brother, It's all

761
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Man, I'm not trying to get it.

762
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 1: If you like the Great yard Ship, I don't care it.

763
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: You couldn't be telling me about. I just want to

764
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: you amazing anyone going on like that ain't mean you

765
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: got the right a dress when you love that. Man.

766
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: You live, yes, Man, an apartment twenty one egg and

767
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: your place is a mine. Man. Hold on, man, hold

768
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: on you put it chuck over man, old on what second? Man?

769
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 1: Because you're talking all dude, Hey, man, look, I'm not

770
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to have no trump man, I'm not

771
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: trying the handle from I can't working, man, Jah, I

772
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: just sit the hours a week long. Then like this, Okay, okay,

773
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,479
Speaker 1: though I'm not. All I'm saying is man, I thought

774
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: I thought she was making love to you your woman. Man,

775
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: That's what I thought. That's why I called you to

776
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:20,439
Speaker 1: ask her to keep the noise Downrusting my wife, I ain't.

777
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm here. You go. Trust he's doing with it. Way ain't.

778
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: And that's from the king. No. No, on the hand

779
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: of dude, you're not coming to my apartment and hear nothing. Man.

780
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to do with this. Man. I

781
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: I ain't letting you in my house. Man. If I know,

782
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: man that you got going on the stairs, you gotta

783
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 1: control your woman. Man. It ain't got nothing to do

784
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: with me. I don't even know I know she, I

785
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 1: know you. I know the weining it out for the

786
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 1: last two weeks between twelve and two. I know that

787
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 1: you got you're talking again. Man, I'm coming to your hell.

788
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: You ain't coming to my apartment. Man, I'm not. Ain't man, listen, No,

789
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to do with it. I'm telling

790
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 1: you trouble christ Man. Hey, I got one more things

791
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 1: I need to say you, man, did you listen from

792
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 1: my christ I ain't the hold. I got one more

793
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 1: thing I need to say. All right, all right, you

794
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: better do listen. Better be telling me opening and don't

795
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:30,920
Speaker 1: are you listen? Yeah, I'm listen. This is nephew timing

796
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got prank

797
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 1: by your own boy. Wait a minute, hold, what the

798
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 1: ever twenty one? Ain't there? Step away from twenty one?

799
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: Ain't please? This is not your timing from the Steve

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00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Tell your boy got me to brank you? Man?

801
00:51:51,800 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 1: Oh I damn are you at twenty one eight? I'm

802
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: right outside my part me. Man, I'm hang up man

803
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: me tell me man? How you doing? Brother? Oh? Man? Man?

804
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: Tim mean you you had me going? Man? I was

805
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: coming to man. I'm serious, man, I got one more thing.

806
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: I got ask part. Let you go, man, what is

807
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the land? Man, Man,

808
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Speaker 1: It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show without a doubt, A

809
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Speaker 1: man up away from twenty one eight. Go ahead, Julia

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Speaker 1: if you don't mind, huh it is what give it

811
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Speaker 1: to me? What you're the grand will be playing? I

812
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Speaker 1: do breaking is on a whole other level. Doesn't even

813
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: what you do. This is what I stupid? Right, come on,

814
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 1: I'm the greatest ever dud this. Come on, y'all, I'll

815
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Speaker 1: hear y'all, wear y'all last come on? What was that last? Uh?

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Speaker 1: October nineteenth? I mean why Covie A Center? Wait? Wait

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Speaker 1: wait that's this weekend? Why comic Co? Why comic I'll

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Speaker 1: be this weekend. It's very close Salisbury, Maryland. Why comic

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Speaker 1: CoA Civic Center? And on Junior, why Covie that's a bank?

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Speaker 1: Well I couldn't say the other one. Yeah. Also on

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Speaker 1: October fifth, it is the premier date of Ready to Love,

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Speaker 1: my second season on on ten p m. East to

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Speaker 1: check us out. Tune in twenty singles Looking for Love

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Speaker 1: in the City of Atlanta. I am the host. I

826
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: am the coach, I am the cupid, I am the man.

827
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Speaker 1: So y'all tuning, I'm very serious, I'm very very smart.

828
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 1: You gotta check me out and no stupid at all.

829
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 1: You laugh that shut the room down, right there, all right,

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00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: all right, coming up right after this, Thank you, nephew.

831
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters. Subject i am in too deep with

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00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 1: this guy. We'll get into it right after this. You're

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00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 1: listening to show all right, time now for today's Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letter and listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be

837
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: reading your letter like listen right here, right here, right now,

838
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 1: all right, buglet hold on tight. We got it for

839
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject

840
00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm in too deep with this guy. Dear Stephen Shirley.

841
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 1: I've been seeing a guy for eight months now, and

842
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: our relationship is strictly sexual. When we first met, he

843
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: told me that he has a girlfriend and that he

844
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: lives in another state, that he had no plans to

845
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: break up with her. But she's still, but she can't

846
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 1: fulfill his needs when she's so far away. When we

847
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: first met at a club, and I would run into

848
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: him at local parties, so we were bound to hook

849
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 1: up sooner or later. We have sex often, and it's

850
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: really good sex. I am the one who satisfies his

851
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 1: sexual needs and desires while his girlfriend is away. I

852
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: have a problem, though, when his girlfriend is in town.

853
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: I often run into my guy and his girlfriend in

854
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 1: the club or at parties. I have to see him

855
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: all up on her, dancing seductively and giving her public

856
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: displays of affection right in front of me. It's becoming

857
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: a real problem for me, and I have realized that

858
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm catching feelings for this guy. I have started to

859
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: question myself because his girlfriend is pretty and she's a

860
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 1: great body, but so do I. I am also very

861
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,720
Speaker 1: well educated, and I could easily be any man's prize possession.

862
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 1: I recently turned forty, and I feel like it's time

863
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 1: for me to stop playing gangs and get what I deserve.

864
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I deserve this guy, and I no

865
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 1: longer to desire to be his side chick. I have

866
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 1: been hinting at it, and he tells me that I

867
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,479
Speaker 1: am a great woman and any man would be lucky

868
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:11,800
Speaker 1: to have me. So should I tell him that I

869
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: want to be with him and give him an ultimatum?

870
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: Or do you think he would just discard me and

871
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 1: get another side chick? Yeah, everything you said in your

872
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 1: letter is true, so you already know the answer. I mean,

873
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 1: even before you wrote in Yeah, he'll probably just discard

874
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: you and get someone else, because the girlfriend that he

875
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: has that lives out of town is obviously who he wants.

876
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: But you signed up for this. You signed up for

877
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: this in your second line. This relationship is strictly sexual.

878
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,919
Speaker 1: You said it. You said we were bound to hook

879
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 1: up sooner or later. We were bound to hook up

880
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: sooner or later. Really, I mean you said you have

881
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 1: sex often, it's really good sex. You're the one who

882
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 1: satisfies him. Yeah, you're doing all the work. But he

883
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 1: was honest with you. He told you he had a girlfriend.

884
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: He told you he had no plans to break up

885
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 1: with her. He told you, and you accepted all of this.

886
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. Things changed because guess what,

887
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,320
Speaker 1: we as women aren't built for this. We aren't built

888
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:13,240
Speaker 1: like this. But you already know the answers. You're pretty,

889
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 1: you have a beautiful body, you're very well educated, all

890
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 1: that you could easily be any man's prize possession. You

891
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: recently turned forty. It's time for you to stop playing games. Okay,

892
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: well stop stop. Let this man go on and be

893
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: with this woman that he's had before you, since and

894
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 1: after you, and you go on at forty and get

895
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: your own man. Okay, get your own man. You just

896
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 1: like you caught feelings for him because you were being

897
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 1: so sexual and everything for him, you could catch feelings

898
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: for someone else. Okay, So get yourself together, raise your

899
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: self esteem, and get what you truly deserve. You already

900
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: know this, Steve. This is a letter about a woman

901
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: who's kidding herself. And you know, I read these letters,

902
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 1: and I read them a little bit differently. I just

903
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: don't like when a woman lie. I just don't like that.

904
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: And Sister, I hate to tell you this, but if

905
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 1: you would just stop lying, you could be Okay. I've

906
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: been seeing a guy's faith most now, and our relationship

907
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: is strictly sexual. That's a lie. It's a lie. It's

908
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:23,040
Speaker 1: been stopped being strictly sexual for you quite some time ago.

909
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: That's not true. When we first met He told me

910
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 1: he had a girlfriend that lives in another state and

911
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 1: he had no plans on breaking up with her. He

912
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: told you that, but she can't fulfill his needs when

913
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 1: she's far away. All he said was, I'd be wanting

914
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,479
Speaker 1: to have sex sometimes and she ain't here to get

915
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: to me. But I have no intention of breaking up

916
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 1: with her. Then she tries to backtrack. We first met

917
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: at a club, and I would run into him at

918
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: local parties, so we were bound to hook up sooner

919
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 1: or later. Why what that means I'd ran up into

920
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Wasn't no bound to nothing? No,

921
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 1: you wanted this from several events. You've looked over at him,

922
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: and you made it up in your mind that you

923
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: wanted him. What you mean we was bound to hook

924
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: up sooner later? You know how many times you see

925
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: somebody all the time. Now, many people see somebody at

926
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: work that's cute, but it ain't bound to be a

927
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: hook up. We have sex often, and it's really good sex.

928
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 1: I'm the one who satisfies his sexual needs and desires

929
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: while his girlfriend is away. Excuse me girlfriend, his girlfriend,

930
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: the one he told you that he has no plans

931
00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: of breaking up with I'm the one who satisfies his

932
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: sexual needs and desires when his girlfriends were This one

933
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: gets women into trouble. See, women, you suck your such

934
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 1: nurturius oftentimes think that I can fix it. So, since

935
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: you have this problem with this woman being away so

936
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: long and she can't supply your needs, I'll tell you what.

937
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna supply your needs. I caught you while she

938
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: is away. Now I got a problem though, because when

939
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 1: his girlfriend is in town, I often run into my

940
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 1: guy and his girlfriend in the club or at parties.

941
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 1: This is what kind of small ass town? Is this?

942
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 1: A little bit ass time? I have to see him

943
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 1: all up on her, dancing secretly and giving her public

944
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: displays on affection right in front of me. It's his

945
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 1: girlfrid that he has no intentions of breaking up with.

946
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 1: Why are you forgetting this here? It's supposed to be

947
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 1: in front of you because he ain't having an affair

948
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: with you, he told us to the girl just right here. Yeah,

949
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 1: I told you well. Our first two of Steve's response

950
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 1: coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour, right

951
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right? Come on, Steve, let's

952
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letters, subject I'm in too deep with

953
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 1: this guy. Here's this lady been seeing this guy for

954
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 1: eight months. Lied to us right in the first sentence

955
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: said our relationship is strictly sexual. Nothing after this letter

956
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 1: says it strictly sick. Got a girlfriend living in another state,

957
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,439
Speaker 1: has no plans for breaking up with her. She can't

958
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 1: fulfill his needs when she's so far away. So we

959
01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 1: met at a club and I run up into him

960
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: at local party. So we was bound the hook? Uh

961
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: sooner or later? What? Who makes that damn statement? I

962
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,920
Speaker 1: keep seeing him and Wayne must be a sign from

963
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: the Lord. See everybody in that town though, Yeah, every

964
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: time I go down to this Chick fil a, I

965
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: see the same people down there. Ain't never thought, well

966
01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:04,600
Speaker 1: they in here again, must be moting chicken. I have

967
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 1: a problem, though, When his girlfriend is in town. I

968
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: run into the guy and his girlfriend in the club

969
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 1: at parties. I got to see him all up on

970
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: her dancers, seductively and giving her public displays of affection

971
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 1: right in front of me. That's caused. That's caused. You

972
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 1: knew the rules. You knew the rules from the beginning.

973
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 1: He told you he has no intentions of breaking up

974
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: with her, and when she in town, he ain't in

975
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 1: your face. Because she in town supplying his needs, You

976
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 1: supplying when she ain't there. That's become a real problem

977
01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 1: for me because I have realized that I'm catching feelings

978
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: for this guy. Another lie, another lie, I'm catching feelings

979
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 1: for this guy. No you called them, Yeah, you've ben't

980
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: had him, You've ben't had him. I have started to

981
01:02:57,000 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: question myself because his girlfriend is pretty and she has

982
01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 1: a great body. But so do I. Okay, well, I'm

983
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 1: also very well educated, and I could here's the line, y'all,

984
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm also very well educated, and I could easily be

985
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: any man's prize possession. Well, you know why you're not.

986
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 1: First of all, you are any man's prize possession. You

987
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: are you are, You are his prize other possession. And

988
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 1: you know why you're not the one, the number one

989
01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 1: because you don't act like a number one. See you

990
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:50,480
Speaker 1: act like a number two. See when you act like

991
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 1: a number two, then you gonna be a number two.

992
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: A woman only gets to be number one when she

993
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 1: starts acting and behaving as a number one. As long

994
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: as you behave and act as a number two. So

995
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: shall it be. He told you he had no intentions

996
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: of leaving his girlfrid. You said, cool, you can have

997
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:21,919
Speaker 1: some of this anyway while she it ain't here. Well,

998
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 1: guess what, he still ain't leaving. Honey. Keep bringing other

999
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:30,439
Speaker 1: parties and they dancing all seductively in your face. You're

1000
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:34,040
Speaker 1: number two because you act like number two. The only

1001
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 1: way to be number one is you behave and act

1002
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: like number one? Am I being clear? Ladies? Can I

1003
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: be getting clearer to you? First of all, you're getting

1004
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: what you deserve because you're getting exactly what you wanted.

1005
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: You said we was bounding hook up soon or later.

1006
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: I feel like I deserve this guy, and I no

1007
01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: longer desire to be his side. Check that's true. Those

1008
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 1: are probably real feelings. You have it. You no longer

1009
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 1: desire to be his side chick. But if he don't

1010
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: want you as the number one, what do we have hill? See, Ladies,

1011
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 1: here we go. You can want to want a man

1012
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 1: to be your man, but if he don't want you

1013
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 1: to be his girl, what we got him? We just

1014
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 1: got you wanting something that he told you you couldn't have.

1015
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 1: In the beginning, I have been hinting at it and

1016
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 1: he tells me that I'm a great woman and any

1017
01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: man would be lucky to have me. So should I

1018
01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 1: tell him that I want to be with him and

1019
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: give him an ultimatum? Yes, yes, that's exactly what you

1020
01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: should do. You should because he just said you a

1021
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 1: great woman and any man would be lucky to have you.

1022
01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 1: So should I tell him I want to be with

1023
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 1: him and give him an ultimatum? Yes, you should do

1024
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:03,040
Speaker 1: exactly that. It's time you exactly right, it's time to

1025
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 1: go on and put it out there on the life.

1026
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: You should say this to him so you can find

1027
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: out the truth and what he told. Your answer beginner,

1028
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: it's what he meant in the beginning, and you would

1029
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 1: be good for any man, any man but him. Right,

1030
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 1: he's taken Or do you think he would just discard

1031
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 1: me and get another side check. No, it ain't about

1032
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 1: another side chick. It's about the chick he got. He

1033
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: got you because you signed up for it. All you

1034
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:33,439
Speaker 1: have to do is not signed up for and you'd

1035
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 1: never been the side chick. And then maybe he had

1036
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:38,600
Speaker 1: looked at you and went, wow, she had number one.

1037
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 1: Let me look into this. But since you bit into

1038
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 1: number two, number two, it is safe at second base.

1039
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: You're never make it all right, Steve. Good answer, Steve.

1040
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 1: You can email us guys or instagram us your thoughts

1041
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter. Also check out the Strawberry Letter

1042
01:06:57,880 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 1: podcast on Demanding Wow. Now. Stay tuned because coming up

1043
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 1: at forty six after the hour today kicks off Breast

1044
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:07,800
Speaker 1: Cancer Awareness Month. Of course, it kicks off Domestic Violence

1045
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 1: Awareness Month as well. Carlo is going to be here

1046
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 1: to help heighten the awareness of issues concerning breastcancer among

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Speaker 1: African American women. We'll talk about that right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: so today is October first. Carlo is here to tell

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Speaker 1: us about how you're helping to heighten the awareness of

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Speaker 1: issues of breast cancer among African American women. Carlo, that's right, trailer.

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Speaker 1: You guys know, I am a tireless breast cancer awareness

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Speaker 1: advocates and I want to make sure that I'm constantly

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Speaker 1: involved in raising awareness about the issues of breast cancer

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Speaker 1: in African American women as well as provide information on

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Speaker 1: community resources. There's so much information out there. So this Saturday,

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Speaker 1: I will be in Chicago with our home station B

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Speaker 1: one oh three, Yes, for the third annual Sister Strung

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Speaker 1: Breast Cancer Walk. We will be in Chicago, Shirley and

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Speaker 1: I went last year actually on my birthday shirt. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: and so I will be there again this year this Saturday.

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Speaker 1: And just some serious business listen. Studies show that African

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Speaker 1: American women are more likely to get breast cancer at

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Speaker 1: a younger age and have a death rate from breast

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Speaker 1: cancer higher than Caucasian women of the same age. But

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Speaker 1: awareness of these issues will help the survival rate. And

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Speaker 1: early detection is the key. You hear that all the

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Speaker 1: time about cancer, all cancers. Early detection is the key.

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Speaker 1: So if you are in the Chicago Land area, you

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Speaker 1: can join me this Saturday V one o three at

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Speaker 1: the Salvation Army CROCS Center and you can register at

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Speaker 1: V one oh three dot com. And the key word

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Speaker 1: is struck And I will see you guys Saturday. All right,

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Speaker 1: all right, needed information as always always. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: fun last year though. We had a great time. It

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01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: really was, but I just went home newsneakers, guys, I

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01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:22,800
Speaker 1: was behind m Yeah, we have fun. We really did

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Speaker 1: have a awareness yes, yes, going home, home, home home, Yeah. Yes,

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Speaker 1: in Chicago it was Chili too. Yeah. We have two

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01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 1: seasons winter summer and summer. That's it, and summer less

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Speaker 1: for what a couple of months winter less in nom

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Speaker 1: No in between, just two seas that's this winter summer,

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Speaker 1: that's it. Steve, you lived in Chicago. Yeah, that's what

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01:09:54,960 --> 01:10:00,639
Speaker 1: he wants saying that you come from. But the songs

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01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 1: are so nice. Well, I wasn't up here for the

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01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 1: damn so I was up here. Hale came to town.

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Speaker 1: Yeahd cold, cold cold. It's the only place where they

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01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 1: use hell to describe how cold it. All right, thank you, Carla.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we're gonna

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01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: talk about this new TV series of Academy Award winning

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01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 1: actor Forrest winnakers In. It's called Godfather of Harlem. We're

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01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 1: gonna talk about that at the top of the hour.

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01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:41,000
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening, show man, oh man, there

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Speaker 1: is a new show on Epics E p I X.

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01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 1: If you don't have this, you can get it from

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01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:52,040
Speaker 1: your cable provider. It's called Epics. I had it. I

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01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 1: didn't even know I had it. I was paying for it,

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01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 1: but I never watched anything on it. But now Epics EPI. Yeah,

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01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:06,680
Speaker 1: where is it. It's on your TV. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 1: it comes through your cable company and everything, your cable provider.

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01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 1: But man, Steve, they have a show Forest Whittaker. You

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Speaker 1: probably have been seeing the trailers about it. It's called

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01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 1: Godfather of Harlem. Yeah, show the commercials on other channels

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01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 1: you probably have. Yeah, you probably have. I'm sure they

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Speaker 1: bought packages everywhere. But it's the story of Bumpy Johnson

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Speaker 1: out of New York. He ran Harlem. Uh during the sixties,

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Speaker 1: early sixties and fifties, I guess and man on man

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Speaker 1: Steve Forest Whitaker. You know, he won an Academy Award

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Speaker 1: for playing ed. I mean, so you know he can

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01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: act and who's okay, let me ask you this. Go ahead,

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01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: that boy can ask who. I'll ask you this after

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01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,599
Speaker 1: you tell st okay. But anyway, it's it talks about

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Speaker 1: Bumpy Johnson who ran Harlem. He was the Godfather of Harlem.

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01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 1: And were there drugs involved in things like that? Yes?

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Speaker 1: There were? Uh and uh he made like other groups

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01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: like other Italians and people like that, if they wanted

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Speaker 1: to do business in Harlem, then he had to get

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01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 1: a cut of that. You know, they were running numbers,

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01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 1: they were doing all kinds of stuff back during that time.

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Speaker 1: But also if you were a mother who had problems

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Speaker 1: with her son and you needed, uh, you didn't have

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Speaker 1: anywhere to go. If you were a single parent, you

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Speaker 1: would go to Bumpy and let me tell you something.

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01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 1: Bumby Johnson would go talk to the boy and straighten

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Speaker 1: it out, you know, I mean, yeah, the oh oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't think of his name off the hand, off hand,

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01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 1: but he's doing a great job as well. I mean, Steve,

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Speaker 1: it is so good. I had no idea. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we saw American Gangster of course with Denzel talking about

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Speaker 1: Frank Lucas, but this he came a little after Bumpy Johnson.

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Speaker 1: And I know I heard of Bumpy Johnson because Laurence

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01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 1: Fishburne played him in the movie. But yeah, he's a

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Speaker 1: good one. But the reason that American Gangster was so

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01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: good because you know a lot of people still alive,

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Speaker 1: oh talk about it. Yeah, you know, because Denzel wentn't

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01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 1: talked to Frank Luke when he was getting ready for

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01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,880
Speaker 1: the part. He had done time and gotten out. Yeah,

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01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 1: so it was real, real interesting. But that dog gone

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01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:24,280
Speaker 1: Bumpy don't who I had no idea. I had no

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Speaker 1: idea I mean he truly believe that Forest Whitaker is

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Speaker 1: Bumpy Johnson. And I'm just gonna tell you this. You

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01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 1: haven't seen it yet. I'm gonna tell you this. He

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01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 1: carried a switchblade, that's all, and he lethal with it.

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01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 1: That's all. I'm gonna see. If you have everybody, you

1145
01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: have to check the Forest Whittaker man does nothing that's

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01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,479
Speaker 1: not believable. Thank you. I've never seen him do a

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01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 1: bad anything. Okay, here's the question I had. Let's start

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01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:02,639
Speaker 1: with Tommy the actor on this Top three favorite actors

1149
01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 1: to whoa den Zel Butchino and I won't be ignored?

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01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 1: Dan Glenn Close cloth clean clothes Man, her and the

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Speaker 1: wife clean Man. Okay, I want to hear yours. Top three?

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01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:36,639
Speaker 1: Come on, top three? Ask me, Come on, let's see.

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01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 1: Denzel is my favorite. Yeah, Don Cheeta is number and

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01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 1: then number three is Force Whittaker, and then number four

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Speaker 1: Sam Jackson. Yes, being number five, we'll go, well, we'll

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Speaker 1: come back. Lawrence Fishbur, Lawrence Fishburn, Hello, but I love

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you who else I love too? Though, that

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Speaker 1: dude that played Marluke King. Oh, Jeffrey right, that's right. Oh,

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Speaker 1: he's a base all right. Listen. Coming up, we'll continue

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Speaker 1: this conversation. Coming up, more music, more fun. We'll be

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01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: back at twenty minutes after the hour. Right here on

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show, all right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Before we went to break, you were asking Tommy about

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01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:33,120
Speaker 1: his list of favorite actors. You know, Tommy's list is

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01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:36,680
Speaker 1: more you know what? I agree with him when he

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01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 1: said Alpuccino, I didn't. I didn't like that. Laugh. Glean close,

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01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:47,600
Speaker 1: what say you saw a basic instinct? Right? Damn? My

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01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 1: favorite act was Sharon Stone. That was Sharon Stone. I'm sorry,

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01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 1: fattal attraction, Yes, but that was all that good ass.

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01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 1: I think I was married to that befo so that

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01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:06,960
Speaker 1: I got here, I got somebody could have been that.

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01:16:07,400 --> 01:16:12,719
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that for real. That ain't no Jeffrey

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01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 1: Rights beast. I think he's so underrated. He really. Yeah,

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01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:23,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, man, who's really really a great actor?

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01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 1: Will Smith? Oh yeah, listen to me. But that movie

1176
01:16:31,400 --> 01:16:39,559
Speaker 1: couldn't cushion. Uh huh, this dude right here man in concussion? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Will Smith was it was so unbelievable. Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 1: Here's a new one coming out to Gemini man. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like, I like I like I like al Puccino.

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01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:55,599
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I do like him. But I don't really

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Speaker 1: know nobody's names. So that's why I can't pick on.

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01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:01,679
Speaker 1: I just only picked dudes. I know. When we come back,

1183
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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

1184
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Speaker 1: thirty three after the hour. Right after this you're listening

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01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:12,920
Speaker 1: to all right, let's gets you some entertainment news. R

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01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 1: Kelly says he wants out of jail. He says he

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01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:19,680
Speaker 1: wants out because his health is failing. Guys, Art is

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01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 1: back uh in court. He's going back to court for

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01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:25,799
Speaker 1: a second try at getting out, pending his various trials,

1190
01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 1: claiming his health has been compromised behind bars, who though

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01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 1: exactly His lawyers just filed a new legal duck obtained

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01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 1: by TMZ, in which they outline is various medical issues,

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Speaker 1: including numbness in one of his hands, anxiety, and an

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01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 1: untreated hernia. Ours lawyer Steve Greenberg claims that Robert is

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01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 1: not receiving adequate medical treatment in jail and calls the

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Speaker 1: conditions of his confinement stifling. Yeah, I believe, I believe

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01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:03,120
Speaker 1: what he's saying is true. But let me share a

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Speaker 1: couple of things. Go down the list of his symptoms again.

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Speaker 1: Oh his hand, um, numbness in his hand. I've been

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01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:12,679
Speaker 1: to jail in one of his hands. I've been to jail.

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01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 1: My hand was known because I was sitting on it

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01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 1: all night. Okay, what's happened to me? Symptom and anxiety?

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01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:23,439
Speaker 1: Still anxiety. Everybody in jail is got anxiety. Yeah, it's

1204
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:28,880
Speaker 1: called jail. Everybody everybody in that chilling Yeah, everybody in

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01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 1: that guy to anxiety and an untreated hernia. What are

1206
01:18:33,080 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 1: you gonna do about that? Hell? Yeah, everybody got her.

1207
01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm straining my ass off in it because I stayed

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01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:41,200
Speaker 1: in there for a weekend. And let me tell you something,

1209
01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:43,600
Speaker 1: I gotta hearn it because I got consipated because I

1210
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:45,519
Speaker 1: didn't go to the bathroom because it's over there in

1211
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 1: the corner, and I wasn't putting my pants down in

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01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:50,800
Speaker 1: that corner because I was young. So I had a

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01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:54,599
Speaker 1: hernia when I got out and went home. I got

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01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: my horney at the house. Yeah. Yeah, trying to go

1215
01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:01,400
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, you consipt You're gonna get a hurning

1216
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:05,760
Speaker 1: if you really constipated. So not to say all that

1217
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:10,439
Speaker 1: and understand where all coming from. Well, and h you

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01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:13,680
Speaker 1: know he also you know he lives with these two girlfriends,

1219
01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 1: but only one of them is allowed to be on

1220
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 1: his visiting list, and after ninety days he's required to switch. Now,

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01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:22,920
Speaker 1: he did confirm to TMZ the woman who is currently

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01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:26,520
Speaker 1: on the list is as Reel Clary, So Joscelyn Savage

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01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 1: has to wait it out before she can visit him.

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01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:32,800
Speaker 1: Just in the car out sad. What do you say

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01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 1: he asked about that? While don't really know nothing about

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01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:45,920
Speaker 1: this and like I just found out a couple weeks

1227
01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 1: ago he was in jail. I didn't even know it. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna quickly get into the Stacy dash story, Steve,

1229
01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:53,160
Speaker 1: before we run out of time. She was arrested for

1230
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 1: domestic violence in Florida over the weekend, according to TMZ. Again,

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01:19:57,439 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 1: law enforcement sources say that Stacy allegedly punched and slapped

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01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:05,080
Speaker 1: her husband, attorney Jeffrey Marty, and they saw scratches on

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01:20:05,160 --> 01:20:07,919
Speaker 1: his left arm. Stacy told the nine one one operator

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01:20:07,960 --> 01:20:10,479
Speaker 1: that she had been assaulted by her husband. She claims

1235
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 1: the husband's fifteen year old daughter got in her face

1236
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 1: and that started the whole situation. The couple has been

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01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:23,479
Speaker 1: married for a year. This is Stacy's old ast year old.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up our last break of the day,

1239
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:32,400
Speaker 1: and then Steve will leave us with some closing remarks.

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01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:34,960
Speaker 1: That's coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour

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01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve. Here we

1242
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 1: are our last break of the day on this Tuesday.

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01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 1: It's been a good day. Yeah, really really good. Yeah,

1244
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:51,320
Speaker 1: good day. Uh so time for you now to let

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01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 1: us go home as day. I want to talk to

1246
01:20:54,800 --> 01:21:00,920
Speaker 1: everybody about, oh, your relationship with God. You know what, man,

1247
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:04,040
Speaker 1: listen to me, only real, just as a real dude

1248
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:09,160
Speaker 1: talking to you. It's the most important relationship you can form,

1249
01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:12,760
Speaker 1: because a deal about a relationship with God. Here's the

1250
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:16,559
Speaker 1: truth of the matter. He is the one entity that's

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Speaker 1: for real and forever. Now you may find your soul

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Speaker 1: mate and you all made stay married until you die

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Speaker 1: and death that's cool. Some people think they find them

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01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 1: and something happens and they don't last till they die

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01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:37,439
Speaker 1: of divorces fifty percent high. Most people don't honor the

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Speaker 1: commitments that they say it through or alter to death.

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Speaker 1: Through his part, Richard for poor better sickness and health

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Speaker 1: and all of that. They just don't. God does every

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Speaker 1: single thing he says he's gonna do, he do it.

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Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is this relationship that you can

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Speaker 1: have with God that you don't have to tell anybody

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Speaker 1: else about, will be the most solid relationship you'll ever form.

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Speaker 1: My relationship is God is better than my relationship with

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Speaker 1: my best friend who happens to be my wife. But

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Speaker 1: guess what I can tell God anything, I might as

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Speaker 1: well tell him He already know. The other thing about

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Speaker 1: him is when my wife ain't around, God can help me.

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Speaker 1: Here's another thing. When your best friend or the person

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Speaker 1: you think is the coolest in the world don't have

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Speaker 1: an answer for you, God has an answer. So what

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you is one percent real. This relationship that

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Speaker 1: you form with God, it'll be the most important relationship

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Speaker 1: you can Now here's the deal. You do not have

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Speaker 1: to go to church to have the relationship. You can

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Speaker 1: start the relationship now now as church good, of course

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Speaker 1: it is, especially if you find a good church Bible base.

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Speaker 1: The man up there really love God and can give

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01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:06,360
Speaker 1: you some real leadership from scriptures. They can teach you

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Speaker 1: stuff to help Bible study. They got prayer classes, they

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01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 1: got everything. You know, they got people that can help you.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm not knocking that at all. It's very,

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Speaker 1: very important. But here's the deal. You could start a

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Speaker 1: relationship with God right where you are. And I strongly

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Speaker 1: suggest if you haven't found a church, that you can

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Speaker 1: find God without a church. You can. He's available. God

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Speaker 1: is out here, he's everywhere. He's in everything. He's in nature,

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01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:38,599
Speaker 1: he's in sky, he's in water, he's the creative of everything.

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Speaker 1: His presence is real. But here's what you got to

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Speaker 1: do to form relationship with God. I want you to

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Speaker 1: stop allowing people to tell you what God think. Be

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Speaker 1: aware of this. You know God thinks that you don't.

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01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:58,320
Speaker 1: Nobody know what God think. This is the first sign

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Speaker 1: that you're talking to some who tells you what God think.

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Speaker 1: I can assure you they don't know what He thinks.

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Speaker 1: They don't know who knows what God thinks. Nobody who

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Speaker 1: knows how he works, Nobody who knows exactly what or

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Speaker 1: how he'll do it. Nobody. Because his ways is so

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Speaker 1: far above and far away from ours, it's unexplainable at time.

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Speaker 1: That's why when something happens in your life, that's unexplainable.

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Speaker 1: When something happens in my life that's unexplainable, that's positive.

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Speaker 1: It's always him because he's unexplainable. Stop allowing people to

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Speaker 1: tell you what God think about you, what God think

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01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:45,559
Speaker 1: about your actions, what God think about your ways. Stop

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01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 1: allowing them to tell you what God thinks about your path.

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01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:52,080
Speaker 1: Stop allowing people to tell you what God thinks about

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Speaker 1: your choices, because guess what they don't know. Form a

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Speaker 1: relation and ship with God. He'll walk with you, He'll

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Speaker 1: be available to you. He's share things with you. He'll

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Speaker 1: give you answers. He'll fix it for you. God can

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Speaker 1: do all of this. Man. And look, I'm just telling

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Speaker 1: you as a real dude. I ain't faking the funk

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Speaker 1: with you. I'm just telling you, as a real, imperfect dude,

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Speaker 1: what God can do for you. You need a relationship

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Speaker 1: with God. He is really real. Stop thinking that God

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Speaker 1: has abandoned you. Listen to me. I don't abandon you.

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Speaker 1: If you look at it real close, if you really

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Speaker 1: observe your life, you've turned away from God. If you

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Speaker 1: don't feel God is because you ain't turned on him

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Speaker 1: and called on him, you cannot call on him. And

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Speaker 1: he don't show up. He would love to be that

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01:25:51,600 --> 01:25:54,360
Speaker 1: for you, but if you never call on him. He

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Speaker 1: is a God that gives us the power of choice.

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Speaker 1: If you choose not to call on him, he does

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Speaker 1: not barge in. God is powerful. Now, God could make

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Speaker 1: us do anything, but he created us in his image

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Speaker 1: with the power of choice. And he will not take

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Speaker 1: that choice from you because he said he would give

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Speaker 1: you that. He said he'd give it to you, so

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Speaker 1: that's what he do. So he's given you the power

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Speaker 1: of choice. You can decide to have a relationship with him,

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Speaker 1: or you can decide not to have the relationship with him.

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Speaker 1: I strongly suggest that you form this relationship, Steve, who

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Speaker 1: I do that. Go to a quiet place in your car,

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Speaker 1: in your bathroom, in your backyard, on your porch somewhere,

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Speaker 1: and say God, I need you, I need you, and

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Speaker 1: just keep whispering his name. Say it out loud if

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Speaker 1: you can. He comes right away. He comes right away.

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Speaker 1: And then tell him what you want, tell him what's wrong.

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Speaker 1: Praying hard man, You ain't really got to be on

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Speaker 1: your knees to say a prayer. You could be driving.

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Speaker 1: Form relationship with God. Man, It's really really cool. What

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, and it starts with a simple Hey God,

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Speaker 1: I need you. Starts right there. I'm tired. I can't

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Speaker 1: thank of nothing else. I've done the best I can

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01:27:09,600 --> 01:27:12,400
Speaker 1: and I'm out of answers. I need you come to me.

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Speaker 1: Show me how to get to you. That's all you

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Speaker 1: got to do. It's real simple. Just give it a try.

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks. That's it, drop it, that's great. Hey,

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Speaker 1: that's it. Hey y'all, have a great weekend. Don't forget

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Speaker 1: talk to God. He'd love to hear from you. Bye.

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