WEBVTT - EP. 23 "It Cost to Be The Boss" 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:05.640 Talk talk talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with 0:00:05.760 --> 0:00:15.320 an opinion. Who talks back? Police Navida? Police Navida? What 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:20.119 I mean is that somebody name that's about Christmas in it? 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:23.120 I feel like that's a nick name, Police Navida. You're 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:27.120 from Mexico. Hey, Police, Hello, Mr Navida, please come heave 0:00:27.120 --> 0:00:30.520 a seat. I want to wish you a married Christmas. Damn, 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:38.760 that's what I mean. Yes, bitch talk about something name felice, 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:48.200 Mr Police Navida, stupid. Hey, welcome back to a new 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:51.120 episode that we talked back. It is your girl a 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:58.080 j ah. You know, there's a big difference between communication 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:01.600 and comprehension because it's like if two people don't understand 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:05.240 each other, fuck communication. We could talk all day long 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:10.920 exactly and do you but do you comprehend what the 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:15.200 funk it is that I am trying to communicate? Right? 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:18.959 And are you communicating to comprehend? Are you just trying 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:21.960 to get your fucking point across? Because that happens a 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:26.480 lot too. Yeah. So I just gotta learn to um, 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.240 I just gotta learn to shut up like you don't 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:34.119 get it. I no, I have to also learn to listen. 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:36.240 You know, when I was just saying, are you communicating 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.480 to get your point across? That's me. I'd be like 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:40.480 waiting on my turn. I don't even listen to what 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:42.240 the funk he's saying. Are just waiting on my turn 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:47.800 to speak. Look my older sister, she like a super 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:52.320 drouper customer service professional dog, and when we would get 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:57.000 into arguments, she'll stop everybody and say, listen, you talk, 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:00.880 and when you're done talking, everybody else has to repeat 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:06.560 what you said before they respond. That's good, exactly, But 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:09.000 imagine trying to do that in the argument because you're 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:11.600 not thinking about what the funk they said. That's the problem. 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:15.080 You're not even you're not even listening to what they said. 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:17.239 You hear a piece of it, and then you decide 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:20.079 what else they're gonna say so you can respond right. 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:24.400 One thing I can't stand is for someone to act 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:28.440 like they understand what you're saying, but then they start 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:33.040 the question off or their response off with But they 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:36.360 get on my fucking nerve because you don't You didn't 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:40.520 hear anything I said. If you have any rebuttal no, 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:44.240 that's not true. It is true. I don't like when 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:47.280 a person I don't like when someone apologized and then 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:50.600 go on after they finished apologize justifying what they did. 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:53.760 Why are you apologizing if you feel like you've got 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:59.160 a justification for your actions exactly, don't apologize today and 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.080 then a couple of weeks him. Now you're back on 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:03.280 the same fucking ship you apologize for a couple of 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:06.640 weeks ago and now justifying it all over again. This 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:10.520 this is the type of ship I fucking yell about. Dog. Yeah, 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:12.839 so y'all this week I'm trying to fucking woo saw. 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:17.760 I didn't have a good weekend for real, And yeah, 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.280 I don't saw an all fucking week dog, how was 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:28.440 your weekend? My nigga ghost to me, is you sure 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:31.800 it's your nigger? He for the streets? Apparently you want 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:35.880 my life to begin with temporary nigger. That's how it 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:43.640 goes down. So he's sad about it? Yeah, how sad? 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:47.600 Like this sad? Or this sad? Like six inch sad 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:51.520 or like two inch sad? Two inch? Two inch? Said? 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:55.000 I wasn't sick over the weekend. I was six and 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:58.160 sad over the weekend. I wasn't here. I'm going there. 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.960 I was here with Mary J. Blige. If you savage 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:07.360 do not listen to Mary J. Blige, you might slit 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.840 your dad wrists. I was about to jump over the balcony. 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:16.600 N he lived in California. He lucky and flights was high. 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:19.719 Pull up and be like, just come outside, I just 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:29.080 want to talk. We're gonna jump you girls. So this 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:35.200 weekend stupid internet news, um shop, what the fund do 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:38.479 you think about La La and Carmela as Anthony? I 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.400 love La La. I feel like everybody like La La 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:45.880 except that nigger. Um. I remember one summer I was 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:49.560 in the club in Miami and La La and Carmelo 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.040 was next to us. It was club bed in Miami, 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:54.800 and they had a section next to us, and it 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.440 was like to their beds, so their bed was right 0:04:57.480 --> 0:04:59.960 next to our bed. And it was La La car 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:04.080 Mellow and Solange was in the bed too with them. 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:06.640 And I had took off my shoes because I couldn't. 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:08.440 I was on the bed, you know, so I couldn't 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.719 get on the bed and my my heels. And we 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.920 got drunk. We were having a good time to promoter, 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:15.640 like put us in this section, and he was feeding 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.760 us liquors. So me and my home girls was faded 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:20.000 and then we were ready to go, and I couldn't 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:22.840 find one of my shoes, so I was looking all 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:27.400 over for my pump, my sandal and Lilon salons. Was like, 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:30.800 what is she not game for fire? What is she doing? Bitch? 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.560 I am not trying to fun Carmelo? Are you whoever 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:38.840 y'all with? Really that's what he was acting. Yeah, Kevin asked, 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:41.320 what is she looking for? I'm not looking for your nigga, 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:50.279 so don't worry about it. I just want my shoes 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:59.800 so I can leave. Girl. People be getting these men 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.720 that they know they can't trust, and you around head 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.680 can't look yourself in the marriage super insecure. Like if 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:07.640 you're gonna get a hole, you don't get a womanizer. 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:11.520 Just learn how to deal with a womanizer. Right. So 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:13.800 when I said all of that to say that that 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:17.280 was like at least ten years ago, if not more so, 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:22.000 she's been probably having you know, insecurities about infidelity with 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:25.960 him for a long as time, So I know she's 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:29.839 probably at a space like you know what, boy, fuck you, 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:33.960 I'm tired. Yeah, I'm tired, So I command her for 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:37.279 moving on with her life. Yeah, but girl, you couldn't 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.760 tell me that they were not already divorced. For some reason, 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:41.479 I thought they'd been divorced, because it just looked like 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:43.080 she was out here living her best life for the 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:46.680 last oh they've been. Yeah, they've been separated. I think 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:49.760 so because her, her and Kim been out here holding 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:54.360 together and I've been here for it. So like, it 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:58.640 came out today that this woman who's um basically accusing 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:02.960 Pamela Anthon need um a fathering a set of twins 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:09.240 of hers. This woman is a Brazilian yoga instructor um apparently, 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:14.000 and she's she'd be um basically extorting niggas. From what 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:17.600 they're saying, she has a track record of extorting different, 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:22.320 you know, celebrities. So what's her name? What's her name? 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:30.080 Her Instagram handle is Brazil Yoga and um, her name 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:40.960 is hold on, Joanne the scammer shut up. Basically, hold on, 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:44.080 let me tell you that's been scam do yoga and 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:51.200 babysit said luised, all at the same studio, probably second 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:54.720 dick in there. They I'm pretty sure they fucked, you know, 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.320 in order for her to well, obviously they had to 0:07:57.360 --> 0:07:59.960 have had sex for her to even be able to 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:04.000 hold that over his head. But you know what we 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:06.520 give it. We're given her a hard time. If he 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:10.080 would have kept his to himself or to his wife, 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:14.120 this wouldn't be a problem at all. But I like, 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:17.440 at this point, do I even expect, expect, especially these 0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:21.520 rich men, to keep them their dicks to themselves for 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:28.880 their whole life. Here's the thing. The people in their 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:32.080 relationships are the people that need to be respecting it. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:36.000 If the people in their relationship aren't respecting it, how 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:39.640 do you expect anybody outside the relationship to respect it? 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:42.920 So you also have to define what respect is in 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:46.559 your relationship too, being loyal to the person that you 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:49.520 you know took an oath too. Yeah, but sometimes loyal 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:53.079 doesn't mean no outside pussy. I don't really have that 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:57.680 unrealistic expectation on my nigga. I really don't or or myself. 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:01.480 I was just about this say that. Listen, I am 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:03.800 a one upper. Play with me if you want to, 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:06.480 We're gonna both be on the same type of time. 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:09.720 It's not gonna be a situation. Um, I'm gonna be 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:12.280 a dumb bitch for two fucking long. Either either I'm 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:14.480 gonna leave you or you're gonna stop playing with me. 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:20.640 Those are options. I just I don't even let's say 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:23.319 I get with someone today and we fall in love 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:25.800 and we get married. I don't have the expectation of 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:27.760 him not having sex with no one for the whole 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:31.720 entirety of our lives outside of me. I just don't 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:35.120 feel like that's a realistic It's not. So then that's 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:37.040 the conversation that you need to be having in the 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:39.880 very beginning of a relationship. It can't be a situation 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.600 where we haven't been together for ten fifteen years and 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:45.319 you can't stop getting outside pussy and now all of 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:48.000 a sudden is a conversation about open relationship. At this point, 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:50.440 I'm gonna do that with a new relationship. I'm not 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.280 even about to try it with you, because now the 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:55.679 trust has been broken a long long time ago. Right, 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.680 You don't even deserve a bit to be cool with 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:59.600 that at this point. You deserve the headache I've been 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.480 giving you about the actual correctly activities you've been doing. 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:05.480 I would prefer to get out that relationship and have 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:09.920 that discussion with a new person, honestly, because I mean 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:13.080 the damage and in the animosity you already have towards 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:17.240 each other, like sometimes that ship cannot be repaired. Right, 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:22.600 So now I'm waking up every morning when Anna, who 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:33.360 are Anna? Anna? Animosity? Ain't that what her name? Yes? Girl, 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:37.319 that was her name? So I am definitely for a 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:41.640 la la um. You know, just being happy if this 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:43.760 is this is gonna make you happy if you haven't 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:47.640 been happy for a long time, and um, I just 0:10:47.720 --> 0:10:50.640 went through. I just feel like, you know, in relationships 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:54.920 now we have traditional expectations, but our our relationships are 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:57.480 no longer traditional, you know, And I think we need 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:02.520 to reevaluate our expectations relationships so we can be happy. 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:07.520 I don't think it's it's a coincidence that are divorced 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:11.480 rates up, in our marriage rates down. We are being 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:13.800 real about what we can provide each other in our 0:11:13.840 --> 0:11:17.920 relationships and what our expectations of each other in our relationships. 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:22.719 And that's why she ain't working, Yeah, because people be 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:26.280 trying to really own own people out here instead of 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:30.360 just experiencing them. You can't own somebody, you don't own people, 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:34.280 and should change. So just just just always needs needs 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:41.040 to be an open line of comprehension, right, Basically, the 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:45.400 communication is an open line of comprehension that I like 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:52.000 that I'm gonna put that on some draws. Stupid, all right, 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:54.680 So now look before we move on to the next segment, 0:11:55.400 --> 0:12:02.240 let's have a word from our sponsors. And look, this 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.600 is the last topic we're gonna talk about from the 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:10.880 fucking internet, Meg the Stallion and the ship that's going 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.240 on with the baby and Tory Lanes. What do you 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:17.800 think about that whole situation? Um, I just want I'm 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.040 ready to find out what the funk really happened with 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:22.400 Meg and Tory Layes, so we could put this ship 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:25.160 in the bed. Okay, I didn't hear it. Did you 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.760 do it or did you do did you do it 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:31.400 or not? Like I didn't hear anything about charges being dropped. 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:34.600 Even now, lawyers if he has a good lawyer, lawyers 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:39.840 are pretty good at de Layne delayed inevitable. But that 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:42.440 does not mean that he's not guilty of shooting her. 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:47.400 So I guess um she felt like you know, her 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:51.199 and the baby have a particular type of rapport because 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:55.560 they do. They have made some hits together. You could 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:58.120 have done a song with anybody in the industry, the baby. 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:02.319 Why Tory Lanes if this is arch enemy of one 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:05.559 of your good friends, or maybe she doesn't consider make 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:08.880 the stallion a friend. Maybe it's business and it ain't personal. 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:15.040 I mean, I've been beating up bitches all last summer, 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:18.120 so I don't know. But look, you don't think that 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:22.360 this is just imagine a narcissist type man, Right, you're 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:24.960 gonna make a song with the nigger that clearly fox 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:29.319 with me. I'm talking about Tory Lanes. Oh yeah, so 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:32.560 that is something like slimeballs ship Tory Lanes is on right. 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:35.520 I feel like the baby shouldn't even feed into that. 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:41.640 That's some slimeballshit. It's some slimeballshit I've been making. Me. 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:44.800 Why wouldn't he want to make a song with the baby? 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:51.000 The baby is popping? You know, hey, fuck that I 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:52.560 would want to make a song with the baby if 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:55.720 I was Tory Lanes. Meg wanted the song with with 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:58.160 the baby for the same reason, Like he's hot right now, 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.440 and the baby wanted a song with Meg because she's 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:04.360 hot as well. Yeah, yeah, he hot with the fucking 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:09.520 police he had in these streets. Man, you can't deny it. 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:15.080 People people listening for him, I think they just want 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:19.240 to know what happens, just want to not like make 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:24.680 the Stallion. That's how I feel. Well. I don't care 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:27.880 are they going to court or what the fuck? Court 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:31.119 takes a long time. Sometimes justice takes a while sometimes 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:35.200 at aeberties. That don't mean it's supposed to be rushed right. 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:39.080 Just because they celebrities, he's supposed to not get a 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:42.480 fair trial. I'm like that party came to her defense 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.680 or whatever this and knows it the type of man 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:48.720 I like like party, like, I need to be comfortable 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:50.800 knowing if I pop off at you, my nigga gonna 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:54.600 beat you up. Yeah, but baby, my shoot party is 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:58.200 we know he would kill her. Now, I don't even 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.640 think it's gonna get that far, you know what I'm saying, 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:04.120 Just like we didn't think it's already gonna play when 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:08.800 it comes to this situation. Tory didn't shot at her. Uh, 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.280 the baby doesn't shot and kill the nigga in the walmart. 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:16.600 So it's already niggas who played and uh party is 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.680 a big god. Okay, both of them alone, niggas that 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:25.720 have to come if they was the square up, it's 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:28.120 not a square up situation. They're gonna pull guns out 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:32.680 on that. Look because Mega starting like sucking five eleven 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:36.680 six ft herself and parties taller that her. So yeah, 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:39.760 like that Nigga is I would love to see Megan 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:47.320 Megan party against the Baby and Tory fist fight. They 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.600 need to go ahead and set up a celebrity box 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:52.880 match and it should just be Party against Tory Lays 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.720 and the Baby. No. I want Mega jump in there too. 0:15:56.200 --> 0:15:58.600 I bet she beat Tory Lays asking the fist fight. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:08.400 You skirt say you're skirts anyway? Do we haven't asked 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:15.160 a black friend? I think we do for this week. 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:20.200 I'm gonna read it for you guys. Hello A J 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.920 and Tam Bam. I have a question for your black 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:26.760 friend's segment. Does black people love their dogs like we 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:30.480 white people do? Do y'all let your dogs sleep with y'all? 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:34.000 Do you kiss your dogs? My dog is my child? 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:41.280 How could you not just love them? Thanks? Becca, Becca, Now, 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:44.440 I'll be honest. So I have small dogs, A small dog, 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:48.160 Like when my dog first comes from the groomer, I 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.040 would let her sleep with me. She hasn't slept with 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:51.920 me in a couple of years though, because she got 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:55.280 like this, her colon hanging out her ass and sometimes 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:56.800 they had like a little blood on it. I see 0:16:56.840 --> 0:17:01.600 in some little bookie out there hanging out the Yeah, 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:03.760 because I gotta make sure I keep her as shaved 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:05.720 dog because it's just I don't know what the funk. 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:08.400 I literally be having to clean the dog ass. She's 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:11.760 an old lady though, so yeah, and I'm definitely I 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:13.680 don't let dogs kiss me in the mouth. My dog 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:18.960 mouth smells like ship. So back up. Some black people, 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:21.080 as you can see, a j is one of them, 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:24.280 let their dogs sleep in the bed with them. And 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:27.359 we do love our animals, we do. I have, I 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.640 have had pets, dogs, and I've let them. I don't 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:32.280 let them sleep with me, and I don't kiss them 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:33.879 in the mouth. I don't play that ship. But I 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:37.119 did love them very very much. But why y'all be 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.600 letting y'all kiss, Why y'all be letting them do that? 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:43.000 I don't understand that part. Yeah, because I remember it 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.680 was a guy who died, He passed away because he 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:47.879 was letting his and there was video online and him 0:17:47.920 --> 0:17:49.920 letting his pit bull lick them all in the mouth, 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:51.840 and then he ended up with some type of flesh 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:57.200 eating back back that took his nose off and ship right, Yeah, man, 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:00.480 you stop doing that, y'all white people. Stop doing that. 0:18:00.600 --> 0:18:04.280 It ain't safe. Listen, you could die. It's nasty. And 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.720 I've seen two dogs on my elevator just now when 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:09.600 I went to start Bucks. One on was looking the 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:12.240 other dog asked in the elevator, and everybody was just 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:17.040 acting like that was okay, that's a freaky ship. And 0:18:17.040 --> 0:18:20.359 then they gonna go home and let them kiss you. Yeah. 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:23.240 Dogs bacteria like people like to say, oh, the dog 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:26.040 mouth is cleaner, No bitch, that is for that dog though, 0:18:26.040 --> 0:18:29.199 that ain't for your human body. Whatever bacteria it is 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:31.879 that keeps their mouth clean. So why would you be 0:18:31.960 --> 0:18:35.520 looking at my dog? Listen? How call the parts are weird? 0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:38.040 I don't even like I don't even like dogs in 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:41.399 the restaurant with me, Like, why is your dog sitting 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:43.919 here looking staring at my piece of chicken on my 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:46.800 plate trying to get a piece? Leave me the funk alone. 0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:49.000 I remember I got like a discount on my meal 0:18:49.240 --> 0:18:52.280 at this restaurant here in Charlotte because they had their 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:54.120 dog on the patty over us, and the dog kept 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:57.000 on coming over my table asking for my chicken. Look, 0:18:57.320 --> 0:19:01.200 I'm like, bro, I was like, yo, get your dog, 0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:06.720 because even if we got a dog at the house, 0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:09.480 like my dog doesn't go in kitchen, no, and no, 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:15.040 she doesn't go in bathrooms like she does. Dead boundaries, right, y'all, 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:17.520 don't have no boundaries for these animals. Like the animals 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:20.760 be training, y'all. Ass. I remember I had when I 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:23.320 was living in Europe. I had this homeboy. I can't 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:25.120 think of his name right now, but he's a white boy. 0:19:25.600 --> 0:19:28.520 And we worked at the bar together and we got 0:19:28.560 --> 0:19:30.240 off early because the bar was slow. He's like, let's 0:19:30.240 --> 0:19:32.320 go smoke some weed. I was like, let's go, so 0:19:32.359 --> 0:19:34.080 we can't. We was kind of drunk too, because we 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:38.040 was stealing shots that night. And we went over there 0:19:38.359 --> 0:19:42.600 and uh, his wife was there. She was drunk already too, 0:19:43.440 --> 0:19:45.720 and they had like some kind of hairy ass dog. 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:48.120 And when I tell you, it was dog hair. All 0:19:48.560 --> 0:19:52.280 the house was covered in dog hair. I was sitting 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:55.879 like I was sitting like just my butt was clenched 0:19:55.960 --> 0:19:58.000 up on the couch because I was like, I'm covered 0:19:58.040 --> 0:20:00.000 in dog care. And then dog kept on coming up 0:20:00.080 --> 0:20:01.760 to me and I didn't want to touch it, and 0:20:01.840 --> 0:20:03.879 he was like, just pat him, just pat him. He 0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:06.280 likes you just pat him, and I was like, I 0:20:06.320 --> 0:20:08.600 don't want to fucking pet him, and he would not 0:20:08.720 --> 0:20:10.959 leave me a law about petting the dog. I end 0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:16.159 up leaving. I don't even want to smoke like you 0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:19.639 with other people dogs. That dog was all up on 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:21.600 me every time I had on black pants. Every time 0:20:21.640 --> 0:20:24.280 he comes closer, I have hair all on my black pants. 0:20:24.320 --> 0:20:25.919 I'm like, man, I'm getting the funk up out of here. 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:31.080 Bro alright, So so Becca, Becca, right, so Becca, We 0:20:31.160 --> 0:20:34.560 just don't. We just don't. It's just not sanitary. And 0:20:34.600 --> 0:20:36.880 you know some people do, though, some black people do, 0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:39.840 but they look at in the bad but in the mouth, 0:20:39.920 --> 0:20:41.960 kissing in the mouth. I don't know, we don't. I 0:20:41.960 --> 0:20:44.120 ain't never met a black person that do that. Yeah, 0:20:45.000 --> 0:20:48.800 So I don't know. That's for y'all. Nothing, that's yeah, 0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:55.320 thank you back up for listening. Appreciate you. Just kiss 0:20:55.359 --> 0:21:02.400 me with your dog. Oh boy. So look, let's get 0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:05.000 into today's topic because we're done talk talk talk talk 0:21:05.040 --> 0:21:08.720 talk about a bunch of ship m hm. So you know, 0:21:08.760 --> 0:21:11.200 a couple of months ago, we were on Brilliant Idiots, 0:21:11.920 --> 0:21:15.919 and some of the comments um on YouTube for that 0:21:15.960 --> 0:21:18.679 particular episode, like it was so many different men that 0:21:18.760 --> 0:21:22.439 just wanted to sick the character of Kevin Samuels on 0:21:22.520 --> 0:21:26.400 us UM And this week looks like Kevin Samuels has 0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:30.639 kinda changed his tone a little bit. Now He's always 0:21:30.760 --> 0:21:35.800 been like, you know, telling men about themselves before he 0:21:35.840 --> 0:21:39.359 started on women. But women are Black women is what 0:21:39.520 --> 0:21:44.199 has made him more lucrative and basically beefed up his 0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:48.120 career because we interact more. We're gonna talk shit, we're 0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:51.520 gonna check you. So now he's like super like souped 0:21:51.600 --> 0:21:56.439 up his platform, you know, m hm, basically fucking with 0:21:56.480 --> 0:21:58.800 black women. So that this week, So this week, Kevin 0:21:58.840 --> 0:22:04.120 Samuels is saying that men should pay for everything if 0:22:04.160 --> 0:22:06.399 they want to be the boss. You can't check a 0:22:06.400 --> 0:22:08.440 bit because you've got nothing check. You've got nothing to 0:22:08.520 --> 0:22:11.240 check with. The only place you dominate is in the bedroom. 0:22:11.960 --> 0:22:15.800 Dominate on the balance sheet, Dominate on your wallet, which 0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:19.200 is your accomplishments. Any woman that you choose to deal 0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:21.919 with her money should be no good with you. If 0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:26.240 you hunt man, you paid everything? Why because it keeps 0:22:26.240 --> 0:22:27.840 her in her feemity when she's with you. I don't 0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:29.439 give a ship, but you don't want to put the 0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:32.480 work in so now when we say something like that, 0:22:33.119 --> 0:22:37.399 it comes off, you know, as if gold Diggs broke 0:22:37.840 --> 0:22:41.000 gold dig and as bitches. So this is why I 0:22:41.080 --> 0:22:43.360 always say, you know what, we don't need to address men. 0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:47.440 Men need to address men. And that's the bottom line. 0:22:47.680 --> 0:22:49.879 Men need to stop trying to address women and women 0:22:49.880 --> 0:22:53.240 need to stop trying to address men because men kind 0:22:53.240 --> 0:22:56.600 of take it better when they see visually see a 0:22:56.680 --> 0:22:59.800 man and what they do for their woman and when 0:22:59.840 --> 0:23:03.600 I'm man talks directly to them. So, what has been 0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:06.520 happened over the past few months, Kevin Samuels has has 0:23:06.560 --> 0:23:12.600 been addressing women, specifically specifically black women. Right, He's been 0:23:12.640 --> 0:23:17.040 addressing us, and so it's empowered bitch ass niggas to 0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:19.959 come for us for some reason. Right, So now that 0:23:20.000 --> 0:23:23.520 he's on a ass because these same men, he wasn't 0:23:23.560 --> 0:23:27.399 talking to the type of man that he even um 0:23:27.440 --> 0:23:31.520 these Okay, so these women wanted high value men, right supposedly, 0:23:31.800 --> 0:23:33.879 which really I don't even think that's the case. We 0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:37.400 just want a man that we could build with essentially, right, 0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:40.560 nobody's saying I just want this millionaire because his claim 0:23:40.640 --> 0:23:43.159 to fame came about what this one woman who just 0:23:43.200 --> 0:23:44.920 says she wanted a man to make the same amount 0:23:44.960 --> 0:23:46.960 of money as she did because she just found it 0:23:47.040 --> 0:23:51.439 harder dating men dating down right, And seems like in 0:23:51.480 --> 0:23:54.800 the black community, black women are the only ones in 0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:59.480 this world that don't practice hypergamy like we're We're just 0:23:59.600 --> 0:24:03.480 not some post the date up period. We're just if 0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:05.640 you got it, you're supposed to get a man down here. 0:24:05.920 --> 0:24:09.720 That's not right. So all men, all I ever wanted 0:24:09.720 --> 0:24:11.720 from a man, I just wanted. I want all men 0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:16.200 to aspire to take care of their family. You don't 0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:18.760 have to be doing it today, but you have to 0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:21.360 be a man with a fucking plan. So even when 0:24:21.400 --> 0:24:24.240