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Speaker 1: I mean is that somebody name that's about Christmas in it?

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Speaker 1: Mr Police Navida, stupid. Hey, welcome back to a new

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Speaker 1: episode that we talked back. It is your girl a

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Speaker 1: j ah. You know, there's a big difference between communication

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Speaker 1: each other, fuck communication. We could talk all day long

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Speaker 1: exactly and do you but do you comprehend what the

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Speaker 1: And are you communicating to comprehend? Are you just trying

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Speaker 1: lot too. Yeah. So I just gotta learn to um,

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Speaker 1: get it. I no, I have to also learn to listen.

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Speaker 1: You know, when I was just saying, are you communicating

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Speaker 1: You hear a piece of it, and then you decide

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Speaker 1: Why are you apologizing if you feel like you've got

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Speaker 1: then a couple of weeks him. Now you're back on

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Speaker 1: this is the type of ship I fucking yell about. Dog. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like this sad? Or this sad? Like six inch sad

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Speaker 1: So I guess um she felt like you know, her

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Speaker 1: Why Tory Lanes if this is arch enemy of one

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Speaker 1: I feel like the baby shouldn't even feed into that.

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Speaker 1: That's some slimeballshit. It's some slimeballshit I've been making. Me.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. That's for y'all. Nothing, that's yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's not right. So all men, all I ever wanted

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Speaker 1: what people know, what the funk we'll be talking about

424
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: that dude. There's some things that he says that I

425
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: can I'll be like, all right, but if some of

426
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: it is just like especially when he you know, has

427
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: women on and they are in the opposition of his thoughts,

428
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 1: he cuts him off and hangs up on him, and

429
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: it's just like listen to what they have to say,

430
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: you know, because this whole thing is is this my show?

431
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: This is my show? But you would have a show

432
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: without these women calling, right, So you can't even listen

433
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: to what they said. See that's why I'm sick of

434
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: you fat bitches, and then hang up on them like dang,

435
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: a fat beach. Can't have a perspective. You gotta talk

436
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: to shame. So I mean, if if we are all

437
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: in the trenches, we gotta work together. It's like, how

438
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: do we build wealth if only one person is getting

439
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: into the bag. It's impossible, you know what I'm saying.

440
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: Most Black people in America are not coming from affluent family,

441
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,679
Speaker 1: so we have to be the start of an affluent family.

442
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: That's when most of us, I believe, specifically millennials. Millennials

443
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 1: are doing well. But the most part, like we got

444
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: a lot of students on debt and that's one thing.

445
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,959
Speaker 1: And the children of millennials are like fox school, I'm

446
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: about to figure out how to get this bag. They

447
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 1: on YouTube, they're doing different shops are lip gloss and

448
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 1: now stuff about the young women. So people talk about

449
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: city girls, right, I don't think that city girls. I

450
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: don't think. To me, city girls really don't promote promiscuity.

451
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: They don't. They're basically saying, you can't have ext to me,

452
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 1: access to me if you don't got the bag. So

453
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: imagine like young girls like in the twenties like that probably, um,

454
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,439
Speaker 1: they probably not funking with dudes if they don't have

455
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: no money. If women stop sucking, everybody will get the bag.

456
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: All men will get the bag. They'll have the because

457
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: young men ain't gon have no money right out the gate.

458
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: You don't need money, but at least have a plan.

459
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Young girls go get a car,

460
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: they get their license. These young boys don't even be

461
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: thinking about getting their license. That's not true, man, I

462
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: have twenty year old cousins with no license, and all

463
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 1: my girl cousins got cars and license that they probably

464
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 1: purchased on the purchased the vehicle themselves. So you're not

465
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 1: interested in this type of ship. Y'all even interested in

466
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 1: women at this point? Someone mate, And that's okay too.

467
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: But Kevin Samuels is telling men like, if you want

468
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: a woman, um, if you want to be in control,

469
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: you have to date, you know, a younger woman. But

470
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 1: dating a younger woman also comes with other issues too.

471
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: That you would. You're gonna expect things from her as

472
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: if she's a grown woman on your age. She's not

473
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: gonna be able to deliver on She's still growing herself,

474
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: and she might grow and realize you ain't the nigger

475
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: for her, your old ass. M h. So I feel

476
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: like I'm just I feel like I'm I'm stepping into

477
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 1: a cougar lifestyle. Get me a younger nigga, yo, Not

478
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: like twenty or twenty one, that's too young, but like

479
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: late twenties, late twenties. What are what are late twenties

480
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: men doing with their lives? Well, they dicks are stronger,

481
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: that's for sure. That's all you worry about. It's some dick.

482
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 1: I got money. I got my whole money bringing a

483
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: dick to man hunting. So you're putting the ad in

484
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: the newspaper for a strong back. Yeah, no, I'm joking. Um,

485
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: don't take me serious. I don't. I've only dated two

486
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: men that were older than me in my entire life.

487
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: That's it. They always be younger. I usually have men

488
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: that are like at least two to three years older

489
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: than me. Really, they all just feel it that way.

490
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: I always date younger men. For some reason. Um, I

491
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: just don't feel like not much younger though. I don't

492
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: feel like picking dick up and dropping it off and

493
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: doing bag lunches and ship I like giving him, baby,

494
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: here go this turkey sandwich. I put it on rye

495
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: tomato man that nigger every way with plate with wrapping

496
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: for you. Hey, baby, I made these turkey wings last night.

497
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if you had lunch yet, but I

498
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: was just gonna bring you a plate over if you

499
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: wanted to know. I got that type of time. I don't.

500
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: I only talked to young successful men though, right, you

501
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: gotta have something going on, And I mean sometimes you

502
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: gotta catch men when they're young. Like sometimes when you

503
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: get catch a guy where he's already gotten a bag

504
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: right now, because it just depends on what type of

505
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: lifestyle that guy had before he got the bag. Was

506
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: he able to get bitches before the bag or he

507
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: got to use the bag to get bitches? Which one

508
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: to get women? Now you got the bag, you could

509
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: pick what youever woman you want, right so I would

510
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: think that it was it would be better to be

511
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: with a man on the come up as opposed to

512
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: once he comes up, because women tend to date down.

513
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: Men tend to date up, but then we're shunned for

514
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: dating up. Fuck the head who cares what we're showing for.

515
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: We're showing for pretty much everything that we do. And

516
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: my question to men is always what would you have

517
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: your daughters do? Is is it okay for your daughter

518
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: to burn a bum, ask guy to the house who

519
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: can't do shift for her, and and she's still calling

520
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: you while he's laying in her bed when the rent

521
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: is kind of when she doesn't have all her rent,

522
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: you're stepping in to assist. And it's okay that this

523
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: nigga is laying in the bed with her She needs

524
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: new tires and she calling her daddy. She needs an

525
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: all change breaks and she gotta call her daddy. But

526
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: she's pressing a wide open depending on I know a

527
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: lot of women that depend on their home girls when

528
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: they need help. I have had one of my friends

529
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: owes me money right now and she's married. Well maybe

530
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 1: they ain't got it together. They got it, she just didn't.

531
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: They were going through something she didn't want to go.

532
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: She didn't want to ask him if anything, but she

533
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: don't have any my money back. The problem is, here's

534
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: the problem, with that, you should have access to all

535
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: that money if we're married, did she I'm on your

536
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: account and look before we get married and I got

537
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: an account you don't know about. Yes, put me. Let's

538
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: go to the bank today, baby, so we can get

539
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,479
Speaker 1: this our business situated. Yeah. Yeah, So, I mean it's

540
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: always good to have friends that you can rely on,

541
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: but I try not to do that as much as possible. Yeah,

542
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm not m I I just I'm learning not to

543
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: overextend myself for nobody. So I feel bad for any

544
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: friend because I got a couple of people who owe

545
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: me money that I can't borrow the money from. Well

546
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 1: they oh you, they ain't got it right, So why

547
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: I don't wrote it off of course, But yeah, don't

548
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: bet will you asked me for money, call me and

549
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: say hey, can I have such a such, don't say borrow.

550
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: I hate that if you're not gonna give it back exactly.

551
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: But sometimes people have good intentions and then just don't

552
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: fulfill them. I don't know, but you know, I hate

553
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,959
Speaker 1: to make this conversation about Kevin Sandys, but I mean

554
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: he brought the topic up for this week about men

555
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: doing everything for women, Like I love that I really

556
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: do love it, you know what. I love a man

557
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: that can do everything. I'll never require me to do

558
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: everything for me, just because I'm just very independent and

559
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: I'm just become so used to doing ship for myself

560
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: and I can do it for my fucking self. So

561
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: but if you could bring if you can take care

562
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: of me and bring the ship, like the little frivolous

563
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: ship that I like to the table, that would be great.

564
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: Right now, you ain't gotta let me stop mine. I

565
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: do want you to pay all my bills. One thing

566
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: rich Nigga is they'll they'll start there. They will start

567
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: imposing on your life. If they're doing a lot of

568
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: stuff for you, I might might take you to get

569
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: you know, tempare shoes right now, all of a sudden

570
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: he telling you what to wear with those shoes and

571
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: how to dress for him. So now he's customizing you

572
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,479
Speaker 1: for him because he's financing your entire life. So if

573
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: you want to mainteen independence while in the relationship with

574
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: a man who can, you gotta have your own money.

575
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: You gotta have fuck you money. Mm hmm. I remember

576
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: when I was like twenty three, I was dating this

577
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: like Dominican drug lawder and you always talked about this

578
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: Dominican drug law. It's funny every time you see. That's

579
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:24,840
Speaker 1: what the fun was. And he was paying my rent, right,

580
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: and I mean, he was taking care of me, but

581
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: he was trying to put me in an apartment in

582
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,240
Speaker 1: downtown Atlanta, and I knew that was gonna be way

583
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: outside of what I could afford by myself. So I

584
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: just went to marry it the child and got me

585
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 1: like a little apartment right next to the big chicken

586
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: roswell roade that I could afford. It was still nice too,

587
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 1: but it wasn't because I already knew he was gonna

588
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: try to control me more than he was already controlling

589
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: my life. At that point, I can't And I feel like,

590
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: to me, men who are like that, who can't take

591
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: criticism from a woman, who don't want a woman that

592
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: talks back. It's some men who like aggressive women are assertive.

593
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: I won't even say aggressive because I'm trying to figure

594
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: out why people always associate aggressive with masculinity, because I'm assertive, right,

595
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 1: I'm all all of a sudden being masculine. No, why

596
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: would you want some timid to ask woman that says

597
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: more about the man than it does about the woman

598
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: like you. You are probably a simple or probably like

599
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,760
Speaker 1: a beta male, and so to make yourself feel bigger,

600
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: you get the small woman, right, You get this woman

601
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: who can't think for her fucking self and who just

602
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: let you run circles around her because you can't put

603
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: up with a woman on your level mentally physically, um,

604
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: not physically, sorry, I don't want to be not physically

605
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: but financially sound and financially sound woman because then you

606
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 1: can't control what she's doing. Like that's that's really simping.

607
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: Saying you want to take care of a women and

608
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: women rule the world is not simping. Saying you want

609
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: something timid asked woman, that's something to me? Did you

610
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: whack at the bottom at the end of the day

611
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 1: you at I'm about to start faking like I'm timid

612
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,439
Speaker 1: so I can get me a nigga. That's what being

613
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: submissive is all about. It's about manipulation. That's what I'm

614
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: about to do. I'm like anything. I don't know, baby,

615
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: don't you know whatever you may like, I'm gonna start

616
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: barking and hopping on one foot foot. I'm tired of

617
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: be it out here about myself a little Damn. I

618
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 1: got some friends like that, like they'll transform for a

619
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: nigger like they have. They have mastered the art of

620
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: fucking manipulation. Basically, they put on like the super soft

621
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 1: voice for the men, and you know they I'm a

622
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: gonna start start really nice. I'm about to start doing that.

623
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: My daddy said that, that's why I ain't got nobody,

624
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: because in my mouth, that's what my daddy told me

625
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: on Father's Day. Well, I'm glad your daddy at least

626
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: has some advice for you. My daddy just was like,

627
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: be by yourself, baby, being married to somebody for ever hard.

628
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: That's the honest truth. Though, it's the honest truth that

629
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: I can respect that too, But that nigga told me

630
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: to be alone. So fellas, I'm just gonna tell y'all, right,

631
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: now here you go, motherfucker. God damn, I'm tired. Ship. Listen,

632
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 1: they love telling a black woman they're gonna die alone.

633
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: First of all, if I get the bag, I could

634
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: buy anyone of y'all bitch ass niggas. How about that,

635
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: just like y'all could buy any woman. Once y'all get

636
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: the bag, what die alone, I'll buy your daddy, nigga,

637
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: I don't align with the things that a j is saying.

638
00:37:55,120 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: All I have to say is on one ft and

639
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:07,399
Speaker 1: they got tired. I'll be damning by bark for these niggas. Man,

640
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: I gotta ghost it this weekend. I'm I'm vulnerable. Man.

641
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: The university moved him. Yeah, I mean you know what

642
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: I'm about to call telling the hallway the psychic. Where

643
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: is my basketball player? Right? Where is Serge Ibaka when

644
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: you need him, Serge surgeon Baka. I ready to bark, fee,

645
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm ready to bark for you, but you gotta put

646
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 1: in a really soft ways. Oh my god. But here's

647
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 1: the thing. That ship ain't gonna last with me. I

648
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: just can't. I can't help myself. I gotta talk. Hey,

649
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: Like when the nigga says so crazy ship to you,

650
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 1: it's just start bubbling up inside your body like like

651
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: a thermometer. That fucking ran line just started raising up

652
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: and raising up. Boy, horns come out, and it's even

653
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: come out. And I was talking before I even know

654
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: I'm talking. Man. Real men don't want that ship, man.

655
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,959
Speaker 1: Real men want a good, nice, assertive woman who knows

656
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: what she wants. That's what real men want. I don't

657
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: know what these young guys, these modern modern men are

658
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: talking about. We need to have them all. We're gonna

659
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: let's next episode. Let's bring some guys on and tell

660
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: us what do you want? Like fucking the notebook? What

661
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: do you want? Do you want me to shut the

662
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: funk up? I'm writing down. Shut the funk up? Sometimes

663
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: cook suck thick. Shut the funk up a little bit

664
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: more like, tell me what you want, yeah, because we

665
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: don't know. I can give you four out of the

666
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: five exactly. We don't know what y'all want. And I

667
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,439
Speaker 1: don't think theyn't know what they want either. Men don't

668
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,240
Speaker 1: know what they want because they wake up every day different.

669
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: They think they're simple, but actually men are more complex

670
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: than they actually would like to admit. I don't think

671
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: women are that complex. I'm pretty easy going, I make

672
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: easy to love me. We are super complex, yeah, but

673
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: I guess it's in different in different different ways, in

674
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,479
Speaker 1: a different way. We're just not alike. Men and women

675
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: are not alike. And that's just the bottom line. So

676
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 1: the sooner we realize, hey, we're different. So I don't

677
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: want to be a man, and you could never be

678
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: a woman, whether or not you say you are, you

679
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: know it could just never happen. So we're just different.

680
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: So instead of us talking to circle saying what women

681
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: need to do better and what men need to do better,

682
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: the bottom line is mutual respects people. That's it mutual respect.

683
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: But I just I know I turned crazy on my period,

684
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: crazy earth because people can tell like that I'm on

685
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: my period, and I'll be mad when they can tell

686
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: I'll be saying some old ass and I ship like, no,

687
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: just going off for no reason. They're like, you are

688
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: your period, Like damn, I don't pmss. I feel like

689
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: the men I've been in relationships with period was on

690
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: Hearder than Mind Nigga be like, good morning Todammy. I'm like,

691
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: fuck you mean good morning Nick? You don't ask the

692
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 1: goddamn maniac and you're already a cancer. So yeah, it's

693
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,760
Speaker 1: about to be cancer season. Fry baby, ask cancer season.

694
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: What y'all sending me for my birthday? It's gonna be

695
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 1: an emotional emotion me all your products and I talked

696
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: about it on the show. Yeah, we do need to

697
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: get our our segment. Girl, what you're doing, what you're wearing,

698
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: where you're going segment popping for sure, so we can

699
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: advertise some nice products from the black community and work

700
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: on that. You guys, but send me your ship now

701
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: because my birthday is on the sixth Team out cancer

702
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 1: stand up. I see y'all. Let's all cry together, cry

703
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: you know the thing that get me about you? Like

704
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: you want? Look, Tam Bam will tell me all her

705
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:12,240
Speaker 1: little toxic traits, right, but for one reason, for some reason,

706
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: she just feels like it doesn't correlate into friendship. Who's

707
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: like that? That's how you act? How so you don't

708
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: fucking listen. I told you that. I told you that.

709
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: I told you that already, Ben, you're gonna break up

710
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: with yours. That's one of my traits. Yeah, but that

711
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 1: ship is not just for men. Yeah, that's my relationships.

712
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 1: You would only listened to respond, not to comprehend. I

713
00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: said that in the beginning. Okay, yo, I cannot, I cannot, cannot.

714
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: Somebody please save me. Nope, hold on, before we get

715
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 1: into anything else, let's pay some bills real quick. All right,

716
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: So we do have a dumb bad story for this week, Tam.

717
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: So this dumb bad story comes from April. She actually

718
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: sents us an email. Alright, so it says, Hi, tam

719
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: M and a J. I love the show. You guys

720
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: are always so relatable and very much necessary. Girl, I know, right,

721
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: She's so sweet. Yeah. So this past weekend was Father's Day, right,

722
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: and the guy I'm currently dating advised me on Friday

723
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: that his kid's mom planned dinner for him Sunday. He

724
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 1: wasn't asking permission, he was really just advising me of

725
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: his plans. I understand the importance of children seeing their

726
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: parents have a healthy relationship, but I don't like that ship, honestly,

727
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:59,240
Speaker 1: and I've been in my feelings about it. He called

728
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 1: me late in the evening on Sunday and I didn't answer.

729
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,959
Speaker 1: He's been calling and texting ever since, but I feel

730
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: a way I really don't like him right now? What

731
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:11,760
Speaker 1: should I do? First of all, bitch, don't ghost the nigga,

732
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:17,240
Speaker 1: I gotta ghosted this weekend. Don't gohost because you're yelling

733
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: the damn Mike Food caved out. Sorry, I'm sorry, I

734
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: was triggered. I was triggered. You a little stupid. I

735
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: don't know, Like, communicate how you feel. Don't just ignore

736
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: somebody that you're really dealing with. That part I don't like.

737
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 1: I understand your frustration, but you're going to have to

738
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: determine how you can coexist with the baby mama if

739
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: you're gonna deal with someone with kids. Um, do you

740
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: trust him? That's a question because that's most important. If

741
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: you trust him, then what the fund go? Let him

742
00:44:53,160 --> 00:45:02,760
Speaker 1: have his little salmon? Did it bring his ass home? Right? Um?

743
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: And then maybe y'all can get to a place where

744
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 1: y'all can do it as a group. You know, yeah,

745
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: Because what I was thinking was what happens if the

746
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: two then possibly get married and have a kid? Like,

747
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: is he expecting her to carry on the same little tradition?

748
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 1: Is it supposed to be now me, her and all

749
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: our children? Because she said kids she I'm assuming it's

750
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: more than one because it was floral. So what happens?

751
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: You know? Is it okay for him doing that right

752
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: now because she doesn't have kids with him? What happens

753
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: later on if they continue on a relationship. You have

754
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: to establish all this ship before and determine how you

755
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 1: were going to be a blended family because that's what

756
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: you're gonna be, whether you want to be or not.

757
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: I don't think it's cool for her to not answer

758
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: the phone for him, and if she had an issue,

759
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: whether she should have, Um, she should have pressed him

760
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: about it before Sunday, but she probably didn't, you know,

761
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: feel obviously, I think we need more information from her

762
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: because does she feel she doesn't have a real ground

763
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: to stand on? Or is this somebody you've only been

764
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: with for six months? You know, if it's a year

765
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: long relationship and he read it now his Father's day

766
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: and I'm about to be with my kids and and

767
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 1: the mom, why can't I come? Right? You know, why

768
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: can't I come? Have you met these kids? Right? Got

769
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: a lot of questions, that's a lot of questions. So

770
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 1: because if I were you have kids? Do you have

771
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: a baby daddy? Like we're here right, I think she

772
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 1: would have mentioned if she had kids, because she probably

773
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 1: would have She probably would have seen something exactly. She

774
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 1: probably would have said something like, UM, I don't know,

775
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be with my baby daddy, so it's cool.

776
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she woudn't even have a problem.

777
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,240
Speaker 1: She had her own baby daddy, so I gonna assume

778
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 1: she don't have any kids either. So that ship is

779
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: territory that comes along with dating a man with children.

780
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,479
Speaker 1: So if it's a deal breaker for you to start

781
00:46:56,560 --> 00:47:01,399
Speaker 1: dating men without kids, you know, how would you feel?

782
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: You don't want you to your boyfriend to go have

783
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: dinner with his baby woman and the kids. So here's

784
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: the thing. I have been in a similar situation like

785
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: this on multiple occasions. But it wasn't a father's day,

786
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 1: was the kid's birthday. So now I'm around these children

787
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: and when birthdays come up, you and kids mom are

788
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: having like the birthday parties and I'm not invited. M

789
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: I've been in situation twice. Yeah, I didn't push the

790
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: issue about it, but then you know, my most recent relationship,

791
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: we talked about it later on and he was like, well,

792
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: if you were there, why would I invite you. I

793
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 1: was like, I literally was at your house when y'all

794
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: left to go to the birthday party. I don't know

795
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: what you remember, but that's what I remember. Like, I

796
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: just didn't you know, I'm not going And that's fine,

797
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: especially if you haven't introduced me to your children's the

798
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 1: other parents. I'm fine with that. We ain't there yet.

799
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: My eggs, my eggs um. You know, he would do

800
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 1: stuff with the baby mama and the kids, and I

801
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,800
Speaker 1: didn't feel away because she was ugly, and I was

802
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: gonna beat her up when I saw her, So it's

803
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: probably best that I ain't there. Why the funk was

804
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: you gonna beat her up? Because she kept sucking trying

805
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 1: me like she don't think it's because they were so

806
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: fucking around. No, they wasn't. She was on a whole

807
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 1: another continent. I don't even know how they could suck around.

808
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: I was. We were living in Europe and she was

809
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: in New York, so they can't funk around. I don't

810
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,760
Speaker 1: know how they could. And girl, I see your picture,

811
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,760
Speaker 1: you as ugly as hey. I'll get your little ugly

812
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 1: as no no cause. And the bitch let me not

813
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:46,280
Speaker 1: even play like a get and pregnant and impregnated. She

814
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 1: she had said right, she had said some ship. I

815
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 1: had went through his phone and she had said some

816
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 1: slick shit about me, and he didn't check it in

817
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,240
Speaker 1: the way that I felt like it needed to be checked.

818
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,439
Speaker 1: So I went ahead and called her so I could

819
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: check it. I was polite, I was like, you know,

820
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: since you're talking about me like you know me, I

821
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: just felt like maybe I should go ahead and introduce

822
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: myself probably, And I was like, look, you're not gonna win.

823
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: Look at me, look at you, So give it up. Stop,

824
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: let's just be friends. Don't call my phone anymore, big

825
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:32,359
Speaker 1: so your kids can have pretty siblings. No, the kids

826
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: were actually really cute kids. They were sweet kids. And

827
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: that's the only reason why I didn't beat up their mama,

828
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: because I felt like, if I beat up their mama,

829
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: then they're not gonna like me no more. Well you

830
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: got to what, tam You ain't the best choice, right all? Yeah,

831
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: I almost didn't know. And look, we are working progress

832
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: every day we try to be better. So April, talk

833
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: to you man, I you you know, if you really

834
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: want to be in a relationship with him, have a

835
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:04,760
Speaker 1: conversation with him and let him know how you felt

836
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 1: about it. And I mean, he seems like he called

837
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: to you at the end of the night, but you

838
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 1: were being childish. You ain't answer the phone for him.

839
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 1: If you had had a problem. If you had a

840
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: problem with it, you should have addressed it on in

841
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: front of Friday, Yeah, before he went. But she like

842
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: she said, it sounded like he was just Hey, I'm

843
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Speaker 1: going to dinner with my kids and my baby mama

844
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: on Sunday wasn't the option or an entry point for

845
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Speaker 1: her to object. So still say how you feel. Always,

846
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: always see how you feel. Listen. I can't sleep at

847
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: night unless I um let the mother know how I feel.

848
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Speaker 1: I know. That's why I'm mad at that niggative ghost

849
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Speaker 1: to me this weekend. You can always tell him, should

850
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: text it. No, I ain't saying nothing else. Fuck him, yeah,

851
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Speaker 1: fuck him. If you're listening, fuck you. I ain't like

852
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Speaker 1: you like that, no way. If I'm talking about it,

853
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm hurt. Oh well man, that's because the psychic said

854
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 1: every time I get my feelings hurt, I just go

855
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: back to that psychic episode and I listened to what

856
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 1: he said, It's gonna happen in my life. I'm like,

857
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: I ain't supposed to care about this ship because the

858
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: psychic said, I ain't supposed to be with you anyway. Nigger.

859
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Speaker 1: You a't even one. You ain't neo nigga, You ain't

860
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Speaker 1: surgeon bakah. But what's the girl named angel? April? April? April?

861
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Speaker 1: We're sorry that you was because I know your feelings hurt.

862
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 1: You were sitting there, what you what you eight? You

863
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Speaker 1: probably had you a slice of pizza on Sunday, your

864
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Speaker 1: motherfucking little Pepperdi Pizza with Tears Season with Tears al

865
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Speaker 1: you mean bit, You know she probably already hurt feelings

866
00:51:54,480 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: and you're talking crazy like that. She's gonna be laughing. Yeah,

867
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Speaker 1: we're gonna laugh at our pain if you can't if

868
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,439
Speaker 1: if we're gonna sit here and laugh at my pain, bitch,

869
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Speaker 1: we laughing at George to April. All right, y'all. So

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Speaker 1: if you enjoyed this episode, as always, check us out

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Speaker 1: every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app or wherever

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Speaker 1: also reiterate make sure you guys are checking out black

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Speaker 1: There was a Black Big Black festival and they recorded

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Speaker 1: it and the footage has never been released until now.

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Speaker 1: So it's about to come out. Y'all need to check

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Speaker 1: so beautiful summer soul. It's gonna be on Disney, so

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Speaker 1: y'all look out for that. And the other thing I

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Speaker 1: want to say is, um A J said it last week,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna say it again this week. If y'all know

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Speaker 1: how to use Premiere, if y'all know how to use

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890
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Speaker 1: want to show y'all us a little bit more, and

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Speaker 1: it was. It was kind of fat when we did

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Speaker 1: really idiots. We're not that fat nowhere, and we want

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Speaker 1: y'all to see. Hey, but it's always fun, y'all. Let's

895
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Speaker 1: not forget that, tim It's still funk, y'all. But and

896
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Speaker 1: then and look, and that fat bitch is gonna always

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Speaker 1: be inside me, bitch. It can come out at any time,

898
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Speaker 1: So get dumped. I'm official tam Bam on Instagram. Y'all

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Speaker 1: follow me, y'all want to send me something for my birthday?

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Speaker 1: D m me. I'm accepbling all gifts and cash ups.

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Speaker 1: I know, right, Yeah, I f all of us that

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Speaker 1: we talked Back podcast on Instagram. And this is a

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Speaker 1: I'm wet now, Now you owe money I got I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna cash you after two dollars, two dollars spot Bye y'all, Bye,