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<v Speaker 1>second data date. Body language is very important in the

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<v Speaker 1>dating world. That's why I'm always really good at body language.

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<v Speaker 1>When I go out on a date, I always write

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<v Speaker 1>everything about me that they should know on my body

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<v Speaker 1>and Sharpie and I show up to the date naked

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<v Speaker 1>body language. There's no question about who I am or

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm coming from. They see everything right there out

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<v Speaker 1>in the open. I just picture you naked with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of insecurities scribbled all over yourself. And that's good

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<v Speaker 1>because they get to see everything about me. Yeah. Granted,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't had a date in a long time, and

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<v Speaker 1>the last couple didn't end very well, didn't start very well. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>cops were called anyway, they weren't understanding my body language,

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<v Speaker 1>and that can be a problem. Well, Brett, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone today for a second date up date, got

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<v Speaker 1>some bad advice from a dating blog, I guess, and

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks that his body might have got him in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Brett, how are you? I'm good. How are

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<v Speaker 1>you would your body betrayed you, Brett? Yes, I think so. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I should say that this dating blog betrayed me. I think. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get to what your body did in a second. First,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about the girl you want to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name Jennica? Jennica? And where did you meet Jennica?

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<v Speaker 1>I met her on a dating app, and I've been

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<v Speaker 1>able to go on a lot of first dates from

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<v Speaker 1>the same app. And the problem is, I've had trouble

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<v Speaker 1>getting second dates, even though you know, I'll think a

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<v Speaker 1>first date goes well and then it's like I never

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<v Speaker 1>hear from the person again, which I guess is why

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<v Speaker 1>you're calling us, right, because you're back in that same positionally,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the place to call. Yeah. So I read

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<v Speaker 1>the dating blog that said that it was good to

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<v Speaker 1>try to initiate some sort of physical contact. So you

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<v Speaker 1>tackled her as soon as you saw her? Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I figured football was the way to go.

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<v Speaker 1>M No, you know, but like, how do you do

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<v Speaker 1>that without seeming creepy? So I'm like trying to think,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe I can read her palm or like under

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<v Speaker 1>the table. I think you're tried not to be creepy. Man. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean think about it though, like you know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just meeting someone. Yeah, I mean what other ways are

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<v Speaker 1>there to try to initiate that physical conduct? I know,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe you could do like a high five to

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<v Speaker 1>start and then see where that goes if it lingers

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Yeah, you do the high five and when

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<v Speaker 1>your hand stats, you interlock her fingers and you hold

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<v Speaker 1>her hand there and start into her eyes that you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why you have to touch someone. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the idea behind the blog post was right

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<v Speaker 1>that it's like that way, you know, there's a chemical

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<v Speaker 1>connection and you can like feel that between the two people,

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<v Speaker 1>there's like that spark. I mean, like that makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>to me. It just the problem was that it was

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<v Speaker 1>like in the back of my mind the entire time.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel like I was like twenty percent in

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<v Speaker 1>the date eight per like, how do I touch this

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<v Speaker 1>person without looking or feel the message? All right? That

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<v Speaker 1>can put you in a very tough situation. So how

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<v Speaker 1>did you touch herr? How did you touch her? Sounds

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<v Speaker 1>weird to say, but did you initiate some personal touching? So? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like I was like, you know, let me,

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<v Speaker 1>let me do this. I actually did have to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom. Site, so I got up and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, when I come back, I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>like put my hand on her shoulders and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, like say something charming or something you know. So,

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<v Speaker 1>so can I ask? I'm sorry, can I ask? Real quick?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you guys sitting at a table where you at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar like we were sitting at a table? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can. So I would like, so like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like, I guess, come up behind her and

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, So how did that work for you? Well? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so the first time I chickened out and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then I said I had to go to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>when I didn't really have to again like fifteen minutes later,

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<v Speaker 1>and I decided to just come up behind her and

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<v Speaker 1>I just was like guess who? And yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to grab her shoulders like kind of gently, but

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as as soon as we made contact, she

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<v Speaker 1>like jumped, and so it was not ideal. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you scared her? I guess, yeah, all right, kind of

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<v Speaker 1>on purpose kind of not Yeah, did it seem like

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<v Speaker 1>she got over that or was it weird from that

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<v Speaker 1>point on? Yeah, I mean she like she laughed a little.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like it didn't like derail the day. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought of the day one really well about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she had already like written me off. I'm not sure, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you said guess who, it wasn't like deep

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<v Speaker 1>and inner ear and creepy, right, I guess who? It's

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<v Speaker 1>your day exactly? No, no, no, no, it was nothing

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I was really just trying to be friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did things end? Did you get some physical

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<v Speaker 1>touch there at the end? There was a hug at

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<v Speaker 1>the end, and it would be a nice hug. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like the longest lasting hug, but it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a hug, and it gave me the impression that, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like a second date is definitely in the works. Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, did you talk to her sense? Have

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<v Speaker 1>you texted called? I've tried texting and I have not

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<v Speaker 1>heard anything. Have you tried texting or explaining that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel like you touched her appropriately or enough in

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<v Speaker 1>the first date and you'd like a second chance at that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I have not tried that, although if that's what you

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<v Speaker 1>guys advise, I would probably not do it. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well you're a smart man. All right, well we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, and then call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning. Second Today's second date update

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<v Speaker 1>is proof that you should be very careful when taking

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<v Speaker 1>advice from dating blogs because you never know who's writing them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. For example, I've got three right now, all

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<v Speaker 1>under different aliases. And Brett, who's on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today, got some advice from a

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<v Speaker 1>dating blog on how to connect with somebody physically on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date without coming off like a creep. And

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks he came off like a creep, which is

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<v Speaker 1>interesting because I want to see where he got his

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<v Speaker 1>information from. Brett, was the dating blog that you read

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<v Speaker 1>by somebody named Lady Mariah? I don't think so? Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what could it have been? Lady Beyonce? Definitely not okay,

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<v Speaker 1>last one hot blog? And Mama, no, okay, you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go with Lady Gaga and the last one I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was just a softball. No, that's that's my blog.

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<v Speaker 1>And Mama blog. It's a good one. But yeah, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't one of mine, Brett, so I didn't steer

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<v Speaker 1>you in the wrong direction either way. You think the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that you were really kind of focused on trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get some touching started on your first date might

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<v Speaker 1>be the reason you're not getting a call back from

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<v Speaker 1>what's her name again, Jena Jenica? Okay, we'll give her

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<v Speaker 1>a call right now and see if we can find

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<v Speaker 1>out why. Any last thoughts before we do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I would really just love another date with

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<v Speaker 1>Jenica where you know, I'm not going to be so

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<v Speaker 1>in my head about the touching part. Yeah, I probably

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't tell her that because if you didn't creep her

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<v Speaker 1>out on the date, you probably will after. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking about touching you the whole time. Good point,

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Oh, doll her rnumber right now? See we

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<v Speaker 1>can get on the phone. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Jennica. That's a shame? Hey Jenica, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jew Bill from brook and Jewbil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. What hey, Jenica. Yeah, you're obviously familiar with

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<v Speaker 1>the show. No, No, you're not sounded like you were

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<v Speaker 1>sounded like we were all friends. Yeah, no, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you people are. Okay, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you're just an ec one to please. Anytime you get

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<v Speaker 1>a call from somebody you don't recognize, you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>laughing or like, oh hey you thanks for calling. I

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<v Speaker 1>bet it's genius. That's got to throw telemarketers off. All right, Well, Jennica,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Okay. Anyway, I'm calling you today because we

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show called the Second Date Updates.

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<v Speaker 1>So a dude named Brett emailed in about you. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a few minutes to tell us about your

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<v Speaker 1>date with Brett and maybe why you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>call him back. Um, oh god, this is weird. Um okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't like him. I don't know what his

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<v Speaker 1>deal was. I yeah, I'm just not interested. Is there

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<v Speaker 1>a reason, though? Did you do something strange? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>this is strange. Um, I mean everything about this and

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<v Speaker 1>the date it was a little strange. Was it awkward

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<v Speaker 1>right from the beginning or did he work into awkward

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<v Speaker 1>for you? It wasn't awkward at the beginning, But what

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<v Speaker 1>was weird was that he got out to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom, and he was in there for like ten minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>So that was a little weird. And I kept looking

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<v Speaker 1>over at the bathroom because he you know, when he

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<v Speaker 1>was going to come back. And when he finally came

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<v Speaker 1>out of the bathroom, I noticed that he came out

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<v Speaker 1>of the women's room. Um. Yeah, And so was it

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<v Speaker 1>like one of those restaurants where they're like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be cutesy and they're naming the women's and men's like

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<v Speaker 1>different things. No, No, no, it definitely. It definitely labeled

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<v Speaker 1>men and women. Definitely. Yeah, nothing nothing kitchy, Okay. Did

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<v Speaker 1>he address why he was using the ladies room instead

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<v Speaker 1>of the men's room. No, he didn't say anything, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't say anything. You know, I figured probably was

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<v Speaker 1>an accident. I was going to give him the benefit

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<v Speaker 1>of the doubt. But then like ten minutes later, he

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<v Speaker 1>excused himself to go to the bathroom again, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, so I watched him go to see which

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom he went in, and he like looked around all

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<v Speaker 1>shadily and then went in the women's room again. Who really, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>double women's room visits, So that doesn't mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>an accident. Yeah, and like the fact that he was

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of schedually looking around before he went into

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<v Speaker 1>the women's room made it extra creepy. But is it

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<v Speaker 1>creepy or I mean, like was it a single stall

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<v Speaker 1>or were we talking a multistall bathroom, because if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a single stall, I don't know that it's creepy or

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<v Speaker 1>a multi stall bathroom. Okay, okay, Like I'm shocked that

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<v Speaker 1>nobody walked in on him and caught him in there,

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<v Speaker 1>like either lucky or unfortunate, I don't know, depending on

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<v Speaker 1>what he was going for. Because very good point. We

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him about your date and he didn't mention that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't well, So I was texting my friend about it,

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<v Speaker 1>being like, oh my god, this guy on my date

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<v Speaker 1>was just went in the women's room twice, And while

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<v Speaker 1>I was mid texting her, he had come back and

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<v Speaker 1>he scared me, Like he grabbed me and was like

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<v Speaker 1>it's me Like surprise. Sounds like a fun date to me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know it was he was just giving

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<v Speaker 1>me like serial killer vibes. I don't know, Like, I like,

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<v Speaker 1>who goes in the women's room and then comes out

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<v Speaker 1>and scares her date like that's he did tell us that,

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<v Speaker 1>like you hugged him at the end, though, Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he paid for dinner. I felt like it was

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<v Speaker 1>at least I could do. Yeah. Yeah, and you just

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<v Speaker 1>want to get out of there as quickly as possible,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, yeah, sure, I'll hug you real quick

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'll never talk to you again. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys talk to him, I don't know. I perceived

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<v Speaker 1>the caution because he seems like kind of a creep. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we did talk to him, and also he's listening on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line and wants to talk to you, Jenica.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Jenica, I know it sounds weird, but

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<v Speaker 1>I could totally explain this. Okay, really tell me it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually not a weird thing. I know, you know several

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<v Speaker 1>other people who do this. See, I don't know anybody

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<v Speaker 1>who does that, and there are plenty of males in

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I feel like somebody would have said this

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<v Speaker 1>along the way. I don't know how you know hordes

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<v Speaker 1>of people that do this. Um not to mention, Jenica,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you're a woman. I'm a woman, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>never run into men in our restroom, right, Well, let

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<v Speaker 1>me just be clear. I always make sure to look

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that like there's not anyone in the restroom,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I was looking around, because if there was,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have definitely not used a woman's restroom someone

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<v Speaker 1>from walking in exactly well, I mean if someone would

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<v Speaker 1>have walked in, I would have left immediately. Can really

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<v Speaker 1>things you're going to the bathroom? Why do you do this, Brett?

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<v Speaker 1>Women's restrooms are so much nicer than men's restrooms. They

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<v Speaker 1>they smell better, they are often bigger. There's sometimes there's

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<v Speaker 1>a couch in there. But if you're dude hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>in the women's bathroom couch, that's not good. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not hanging out. I'm just trying to paint you

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of like how nice they are comparison to

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<v Speaker 1>like the hell hole that is the men's room where

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<v Speaker 1>it's like cleaned, you know, twice a year, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>like pea everywhere and they stink. So shouldn't your mission, Tom? No?

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<v Speaker 1>But seriously, like seriously, I really recommend like guys up

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<v Speaker 1>there to tride this out. But if stay away from

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<v Speaker 1>our bathrooms, Brett, And here's the thing, make your mission,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know, banding together with your bros to

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<v Speaker 1>make your own restroom cleaner, you know where. I just

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<v Speaker 1>think he's making this up. I think that I caught

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<v Speaker 1>him doing something weird and he's just making up this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing to make it seem like it's the women

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<v Speaker 1>dress room. No, no, no, no, I'm not making this up.

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<v Speaker 1>This is this. There's something that I do and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it's weird. I bet you know people in

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<v Speaker 1>your life who do this too, And I just there's

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<v Speaker 1>so much shame around it, clearly about using the wrong bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just getting weirder and weirder. Yeah, okay, okay, but Jeremicha, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not some creek who just like hangs out inside

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<v Speaker 1>of women's restrooms. I'm a normal guy who uses them

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<v Speaker 1>on occasion. And that's what I was doing that at evening.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know, I'm sorry you got the wrong impression,

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<v Speaker 1>but I thought we had a really good time and

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<v Speaker 1>really good conversation and and I would love to get

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<v Speaker 1>the chance to see you again. You know, maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>could look past the women's restroom thing. But then you

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<v Speaker 1>came out and scared me, and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is just extra super weird. You know, Okay, I'm can

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<v Speaker 1>explain that too. I can explain that too. Be angry

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<v Speaker 1>at this blog that I read that that told me

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Don't still be glad at me, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>be angry at the internet. Don't you read a blog

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<v Speaker 1>that told you to scare your date? No, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It said that initiating physical contact on the first date

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<v Speaker 1>is a good step. Yeah, but like that naturally, not

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<v Speaker 1>like scaring someone, like we're not twelve a thing, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I know that now, and it's it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>said than done, like to be natural. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to like maybe touch your hands when they were

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<v Speaker 1>on the table, or like maybe like just touch feet

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<v Speaker 1>under the table or something. But but like I would

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<v Speaker 1>worry that that those would be too creepy. So like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not easy to be a guy dating now, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>really difficult, you know, when you're using women's restrooms and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to touch your date in weird ways. This is

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<v Speaker 1>way harder for Jennica. I can guarantee you that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I feel like date two, he's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like sniffing my hair and collecting it, making a hair

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Yeah, that is so unforted. I would totally

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<v Speaker 1>not do that. I mean unless a blob told me that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I would tell that was a joke. That

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<v Speaker 1>was a joke. Yeah, I was just trying to joke

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<v Speaker 1>about the situation, Jennica. I mean, Jennica, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Brett on a second date? We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it. Listen, I don't want to leave

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<v Speaker 1>the second date in a body bag. Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think this is a good idea. My girl Dare is saying,

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<v Speaker 1>no unsafe situation. I'm all set. Yeah, good job Jennica, Brett.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that you didn't get a second date. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you at least learn anything from this? Yeah? I did

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<v Speaker 1>learn something. Next time when I go on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to use the women's restroom at the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant next door non Jewel in the morning.